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#168 I've Made A Dumb Parenting Mistake · Two Doting Dads with Matty J & Ash

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  Speaker 1: Don't let me forget. The chicken pie needs five more
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  Speaker 1: minutes to remind me. Someone reminds me five minutes. The
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  Speaker 1: chicken pie needs to come out of the oven. Also,
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  Speaker 1: it's a really shit chicken pine. I'm so annoyed because
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  Speaker 1: I set it up and I filmed it for stories.
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  Speaker 2: It's funny though. Everyone had a good time, did we?
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  Speaker 2: Did we? It smells good, it smells delicious. I'll tell
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  Speaker 2: you what. I'll remind you when it burns five minutes.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, going.
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  Speaker 1: Back to two gutting dads.
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  Speaker 2: I'm Mattie Jay and I'm an.
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  Speaker 1: This is a podcast all about parenting. It is the good,
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  Speaker 1: it is the bad and the chicken pie. And if
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  Speaker 1: you come for chicken pie, welcome five minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Remind us. In five minutes, the chicken pie will be ready.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to forget. I know I'm going to get
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  Speaker 1: to this episode. The chicken pie.
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  Speaker 2: It's not for me.
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  Speaker 1: Chicken pie is for Laura because I was very dumb
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  Speaker 1: and you and me we're going to the snowy do
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  Speaker 1: you and I are driving to the snow this afternoon?
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  Speaker 2: Can't wait?
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  Speaker 1: I told Laura very last minute that I was going
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  Speaker 1: on a Tuesday. She thought I was going Wednesday, which
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  Speaker 1: was the original plan. Was the plan, so and so
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  Speaker 1: then I was last night. I was like, hey, here's
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  Speaker 1: a chicken pie. She does love a chicken pie.
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  Speaker 2: Ye, it was actually like from last week. It was
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  Speaker 2: very lovely. So I do. And people really want the
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  Speaker 2: recipe before we start housekeeping bam with the recipe.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not giving it away. No, no, I'm holding onto that.
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  Speaker 2: And started cooking book.
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  Speaker 1: I think we are No, it's I will put in
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  Speaker 1: the show notes. Do we want to give away the
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  Speaker 1: chicken pie? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Will I put in the Facebook. I'll put in the Facebook.
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  Speaker 1: They very good.
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  Speaker 2: Give it to the community. Whatever, Just give it to
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  Speaker 2: the whatever.
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  Speaker 1: If you got to tell Laura that we're going tonight.
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  Speaker 1: So then man, just the logistics of it all ash
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  Speaker 1: try and she's like, well, who's getting the kids?
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, fuck, I completely understand. I've got
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  Speaker 2: a message.
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  Speaker 1: This is from Jimmy. Jimmy wrote into us and he
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  Speaker 1: has something that relates to a segment we haven't run
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  Speaker 1: in a while called Petty Couple. Love that Okay, so
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  Speaker 1: Jimmy says, and this is from Instagram. You can contact
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  Speaker 1: us through Instagram we love it, we replied every message.
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  Speaker 2: Do we so?
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  Speaker 1: Jimmy says, I've just got your episode about being petty
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  Speaker 1: with your partner after an argument. Once we got over
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  Speaker 1: it talking about him and his partner, I'll boil the
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  Speaker 1: kettle with not enough water in it for a full
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  Speaker 1: coffee or tea for both me and my wife. I'll
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  Speaker 1: start doing jobs around the house to make it look
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  Speaker 1: like I'm an amazing person that I ask my wife
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  Speaker 1: if she wants a brew, the answer will be yes.
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  Speaker 1: Then tell her the kettle is just boiled. Then when
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  Speaker 1: she makes it, she would give me the full one
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  Speaker 1: because I've been such a good husband, and she gets
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  Speaker 1: a three quarter full cup and I've contrived it all
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  Speaker 1: either petty or an evil genius.
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  Speaker 2: That's borderline evil genius. Because still love the pod. Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: That's great, that's great. And I am cooking up something.
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  Speaker 2: I am cooking something about hetty couples and just in
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  Speaker 2: maybe next week I'll have it ready gone. I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to There was a tea in case April hears this,
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  Speaker 2: now she's she's gonna be like, what the fuck is it?
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  Speaker 2: Just to wait, chicken pie is not ready. Just to reminder,
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  Speaker 2: it's part of this housekeeping that we now have at
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  Speaker 2: the front of the episode. We are doing a live show, Matthew,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you remember what.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I actually did get the dates wrong, the days wrong.
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  Speaker 1: What well, I just I knew it was in the fourth,
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  Speaker 1: but I've booked in other things around the fourth as well.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway, could be the fourth of then at any time.
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  Speaker 1: It's next Thursday.
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  Speaker 2: No, sorry, this Thursday. This is tomorrow. This, this is tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: I'm confused.
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  Speaker 1: The reason why I'm confused because people that know we record.
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  Speaker 2: This, they do. You've already told them.
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  Speaker 1: I know this new listeners.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, cool, So just say what Matt's referring to, is
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  Speaker 2: we record this a week before it's released. Yes, that's how.
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  Speaker 1: Today's a Wednesday. Upon release tomorrow Thursday the fourth.
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  Speaker 2: So Thursday week from now we will be having well,
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  Speaker 2: it's fucking tomorrow. Tomorrow from now we will be having
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  Speaker 2: a lot having We'll be doing a live show. Just
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  Speaker 2: as rolling your eyes and checking your head at me.
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  Speaker 2: We are doing a live show at the Apple Store.
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  Speaker 2: What on George Street. Yeah, it's on the corner. It's
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  Speaker 2: a lovely building. It's free. It is free. Link in
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  Speaker 2: the show notes register please.
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  Speaker 1: Well how much is it free? It is free?
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  Speaker 2: It is free. What will we talk about?
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  Speaker 1: Well, you can help with that, you can help with out,
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  Speaker 1: you can last minute, last minute editions. We want your
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  Speaker 1: pair rants, we want your parenting lights. Submit them to us. However,
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  Speaker 1: you like social media.
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  Speaker 2: And it is a free show, so we won't be
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  Speaker 2: giving up that much what we're trying to sell.
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  Speaker 1: Joke, I'm kidding, it's going to be great, but I
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  Speaker 1: do like how to manage their expectations.
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  Speaker 2: You got it?
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  Speaker 1: Just a gaze, Ash and I will be together in person,
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  Speaker 1: in the flesh.
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  Speaker 2: What are you gonna wear? See you are not. I
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  Speaker 2: was going to say, maybe this blue shirt that I'm
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  Speaker 2: wearing right now, very sky blue. You're going to be
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  Speaker 2: like the blue sky at night. Put that on T shirt.
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  Speaker 2: Moving on.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you may have seen Ash. You may have seen
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  Speaker 1: on my social media. I have been dealing with some
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  Speaker 1: issues at home.
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  Speaker 2: Before you get into that, because it's quite meaty and
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  Speaker 2: I just got something really quick to run by that
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  Speaker 2: I should have put in housekeeping. Well, we're still in housekeeping,
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  Speaker 2: so god, oh, it's come to my attention. I'll let
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  Speaker 2: you know when we're out of housekeeping. Thank god, finally
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  Speaker 2: I can relax. You might already know this, but I
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  Speaker 2: didn't know this, and I was baffled by this. And
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  Speaker 2: this is the opening song to bluie h. Do you
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  Speaker 2: understand what's happening in that opening song, in the sequence
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  Speaker 2: of the picture or the song, the whole thing.
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  Speaker 1: I can't really remember the intro, mum, because they're dancing
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  Speaker 1: in the blue background.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but what do you What game do you think
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  Speaker 2: they're playing?
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  Speaker 1: Are they playing a game?
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  Speaker 2: They're just dancing musical statues? Did you not know that?
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  Speaker 2: I thought you would know that for sure. So Mom,
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  Speaker 2: frozen statue? Dad whatever, blah blah blah blah blah. What Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Do you know who told me that? A six year old?
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  Speaker 1: Who are you hanging out with my son? Mally?
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even know that. How does he had a ask?
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  Speaker 2: You know that? Though they talk at school? Apparently there's
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  Speaker 2: all the rage on the playground. It's circulating the school.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone's baffled. It's true. How I have.
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  Speaker 1: I thought I saw someone outside. It was just the
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  Speaker 1: washing line. That is Wow, I love, I love. There's
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  Speaker 1: so many little nuggets and Bluey.
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  Speaker 2: There's interesting facts. Yeah, yeah, the guy who plays the
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  Speaker 2: voice of Dad has like emerged and started to do
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  Speaker 2: like like behind the scenes stuff really interesting. But has
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  Speaker 2: he gone rogue? I know, he's just like there's so
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  Speaker 2: many questions about the show, and it's obviously the most
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  Speaker 2: stream show in the world, which is astraying, which is
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  Speaker 2: a fucking hats off to ever created that.
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  Speaker 1: Can I just can I tell you one fact as
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  Speaker 1: well that will blow your mind about BLA love this
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  Speaker 1: apparently and it's about dogs. And don't quote me on
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  Speaker 1: this because I read it somewhere a long time ago
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  Speaker 1: and I'm kind of just trying to recall the facts.
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  Speaker 1: But apparently ABC, who commissioned the show, well, do we
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  Speaker 1: want the worldwide rights? Nah, we don't want that. We'll
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  Speaker 1: have the rights for Australia. And then BBC got the
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  Speaker 1: rights for merch and for like global streaming, so now
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  Speaker 1: they're worth billions of dollars.
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  Speaker 2: It's crazy, ABC, What were you doing? Ah? They're they're
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  Speaker 2: like a government funded or whatever. They have no idea
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  Speaker 2: what they're doing over there. But it is like like
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  Speaker 2: at the moment that the blue Converse are out, it's
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  Speaker 2: bluey lego, the blue the is lit.
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  Speaker 1: They I'm all about it, anything bluey on it. It
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  Speaker 1: could be like bluie broccoln and they'd be.
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  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I know, I love it crazy. Anyway, that
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  Speaker 2: was my little factot. I thought you. I thought you
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  Speaker 2: would know because you know much more than me. Thank you. Well, yeah, anyway,
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  Speaker 2: back to the wall. Sorry, do I check the pie now?
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  Speaker 1: Check the pile?
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  Speaker 2: Later, check the pie?
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  Speaker 1: Do you want the pie out now? With later? You're
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  Speaker 1: call You're call.
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  Speaker 2: Up to you. Oh, I would just I would definitely
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  Speaker 2: get it out.
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  Speaker 1: I only give it to more minutes after housekeeping.
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  Speaker 2: All right, after housekeeping, keating, there will be pie.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, we are still in housekeeping. You may have seen
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  Speaker 1: on social media that I had an incident at my house.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the other week on Friday. It was very
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  Speaker 1: windy after what I think the meteorologists are calling the
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  Speaker 1: most amount of rain in like the history of Australia.
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  Speaker 2: In a certain period just ever, ever, just ever.
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  Speaker 1: They're like, that's so much rain.
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  Speaker 2: So they gathered one of every animal and it was
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  Speaker 2: nearly that time.
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  Speaker 1: Marley and Laula were going, when is it going to
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  Speaker 1: stop raining? And I was like, I don't know, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm over it.
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  Speaker 2: I heard that we got a month in two day,
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  Speaker 2: a month's worth. But they always say that, and I
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  Speaker 2: feel like they just throw that fact out there to
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  Speaker 2: be like to keep small talk going.
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  Speaker 1: No one's calling that shit out, yeah, because.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone's around the water cooler and they're go, did you
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  Speaker 2: hear that we just had a month's worth of rain
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  Speaker 2: in two days?
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  Speaker 1: Do you know what people are gonna be saying? Now?
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  Speaker 1: They were like, did you know that bluey at the
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  Speaker 1: intro they're actually playing?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was rattled when I foun out blue It
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  Speaker 2: was a girl dog.
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  Speaker 1: Me too anyway.
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  Speaker 2: Much So I'm a home. I'm relaxing and I was
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  Speaker 2: working hard.
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  Speaker 1: You relaxing, and I hear this almighty crash and the
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  Speaker 1: brick wall that divides our backyard and the neighbor's backyard.
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  Speaker 1: Ronda of the General. The General spoken about her a
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  Speaker 1: few times. Sometimes she loves me, sometimes she hates me.
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  Speaker 2: She's like a lighthouse.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, always there, She's always at the front, swiveling.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I love Ronda.
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  Speaker 1: I love Rnda.
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  Speaker 2: She does love a swivel bad hip. Get hear a squeaking.
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  Speaker 1: No family, never married, she's by herself.
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  Speaker 2: But you gave me an interesting fact that she was a.
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  Speaker 1: I think she won Miss Bondai in nineteen seventy.
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  Speaker 2: Rhonda love her.
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  Speaker 1: She's very elderly, she must be pushing eighty odd and
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  Speaker 1: no family, no friends really, she never leaves the house.
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  Speaker 2: Was once a.
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  Speaker 1: Fortnight to go get grocery. She has a government assisted
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  Speaker 1: carer that comes over, takes her, does a groceries, comes back.
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  Speaker 1: Apart from that, she's locked indoors watching TV.
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  Speaker 2: Also, the people that do those jobs, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Like the patient's on.
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  Speaker 1: It pretty easy? Oh is it draft at the shops? Sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I'm joke. I was a joke.
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  Speaker 2: Can you leave that in that sort of person? He
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  Speaker 2: really is?
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, go on anyway. So the wall comes down and
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  Speaker 1: it makes a bloody big noise. It's a big brick wall.
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  Speaker 1: We're talking like a ton of bricks.
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  Speaker 2: The social worker tipped it over into your house, didn't
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  Speaker 2: there They found out what you really think about them?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, to go to Ronda's backyard, I can just step
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  Speaker 1: over the bread. I noticed that, and I go, Ronda,
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: you've did you hear that? And she's like what And
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  Speaker 1: she's just watching Wheel of Fortune.
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  Speaker 2: On really loud obviously, and she's like, what do you mean?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, the brick walls come down, and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: did it come.
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  Speaker 2: Have a look.
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  Speaker 1: And she's gone oh, And I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Going, oh, like this is going to cause money. Don't worry.
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  Speaker 1: I'll sort this out.
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  Speaker 2: And you're a good guy for doing that, because I
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't have done that, or I would have said you
• 12:12
  Speaker 2: better fucking fix your fence. But you know how you
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: called the counsel on me about my front port. I'm
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: going to call the counselor.
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  Speaker 1: I was fixing a leak in the roof, and whilst
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  Speaker 1: that leak was being fixed, she called. I'm pretty sure
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  Speaker 1: she called the counsel on me and they thought I
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  Speaker 1: was doing unapproved work, so they came and didn't inspect
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  Speaker 1: on the house, which is just a whole other ordeal.
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  Speaker 2: Wonders, very much like never let them know your next move.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's like she knew that brick wall fellow,
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  Speaker 2: She's like, oh did it yes, And then she's like, oh, Matthew,
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  Speaker 2: thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: Let me just call the counsel She didn't call me
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  Speaker 1: a sweetheart, and then she called the counselor.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you never let it.
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  Speaker 1: I think, just for reference, I think we're out of housekeeping.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, okay, keep going, just roll it.
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  Speaker 1: People were like, is this still a housekeeper?
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: I don't want to confuse them.
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  Speaker 1: You're right, it was very meaty. You were on the
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  Speaker 1: money there, You're me.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to see it in a while because it's
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  Speaker 2: quite a substantial wall. Yes, so we're not talking a
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  Speaker 2: little wall.
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  Speaker 1: So anyway, I'm talking through how we're going to fix
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  Speaker 1: this wall. At the same time, ash, I hear another crash, fuck,
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  Speaker 1: a huge crash, a big bang, and there's this like
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  Speaker 1: broken fiberglass in my backyard now, and I'm like, what
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: the hell is this? Her skylight cover her house is
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: so old, it is like the bolts are so rusted.
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: It's it's flown up off her roof because it's very windy,
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  Speaker 1: which is remind people that it's blown over a big
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  Speaker 1: brick wall. The sun roof cover is smashed into my backyard.
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  Speaker 1: And I go into her house and into her living room.
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  Speaker 1: She has a one meter by one meter gap in
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  Speaker 1: the ceiling. Now straight through I.
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: Look through there where a skylight's.
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  Speaker 1: Raining into her living room and oh my god, I'm like, Rondie,
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  Speaker 1: You've just your skylight cover's gone. And she goes, is.
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  Speaker 2: It She's got you wrapped around of her finger.
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  Speaker 1: Bro I'm like, can you call anyone? And she's like,
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: who would I call?
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: I'm an elderly woman. How we going to call? No family?
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: Never been married? Who she got Maddie Day.
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  Speaker 1: So I luckily, because Rufe was being fixed, I said
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: to the boys, can you fix room? Just temporary, and
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  Speaker 1: I'll speak to a couple of supplies who can fix
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: the skylight because we're talking straight through.
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  Speaker 2: And it's been one of the rainiest fucking years ever
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  Speaker 2: and it's set to continue.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: Months rain and hole on. There we go, apparently anyway,
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  Speaker 1: So we sort out a couple of supplies, we get
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: it booked in fixed on Tuesday. Don't worry, Ronda, You're good.
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: I've spent the afternoon helping her out. Also got a
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: temporary cover on the skylight as well. No problem at all.
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  Speaker 1: Just what I do?
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  Speaker 2: You're really you are really forming into a dad.
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  Speaker 1: So then on Monday I go, hey, Ronda, just letting
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  Speaker 1: you know the boys are going to fix your skylight
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  Speaker 1: are coming tomorrow, and she goes, what do you mean,
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, And I'm like, the skylight, what are
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: you talking about? The skylight.
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  Speaker 2: That's that flew off, you know, that fucking hole in
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  Speaker 2: the middle of your house.
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  Speaker 1: And she goes, oh, no, I called the insurance and
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: they're going to come and fix it. I said, well,
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: you've already said yes to this other guy that I
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  Speaker 1: called for you, and she's like, nah, I don't want it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.
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  Speaker 1: So then I'm calling Tim and going, Tim, don't worry
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  Speaker 1: about it, and he goes, I've already ordered the skylight.
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  Speaker 2: Oh ah, god painful. She's definitely like, don't let Matt
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: know my next move. Like, I just got to string
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: this guy along. And again, you're good guy for hanging around.
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  Speaker 2: I would have been like, good luck with that. Left. Ah,
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  Speaker 2: that's a different between you and me.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway. So this morning, this morning, I was letting the
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: boys in to fix the skylight and far out, man,
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: I'm laughing about it, but I.
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  Speaker 2: Did see them up there, so they fixed it.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: They fixed it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, because the insurance was going to take that'll
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: take fucking forever, thank you, thank you. That's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of older people get scammed
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  Speaker 2: by insurance.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: Oh for sure.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: It's just such an easy, easy target. Yeah, because you
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: like you know, we're an insurance company. You can rely
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: on us.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: We're here to help you.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: Who mentioned it, it was like insurance is essentially gambling. Yes,
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: that's what it is, for sure, which is fucking crazy.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: Especially if an eighty year old woman woman rings up
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: and goes, hey, there's a fucking hole in my house.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: Can you fix it? They're like yeah, we'll get there
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: like six to eight months, right, Yeah, So I think
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: you did the right thing by forcing her on her.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: Otherwise I didn't force anything upon her. What are you
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: talking about? It came out wrong, I saw. And my
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: suggestion was that because she doesn't remember much, you should
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: fence off her. You should fence off the back of
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: her house and just common deer that her backyard is
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: now your back doesn't use it.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: She's got a bad hip.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And then she could be like was that like that,
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: and you're like, I don't know.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because it was absolutely.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: And then you got your You're essentially just turning it
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: back on her.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: Very incriminating that we're speaking about this on the podcast.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: I can't actually doesn't listen, but everyone else does. She's
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: pretty dead.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: So anyway, So that was man.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: And the fence you're going to replace the fence with
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: what you're.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: Gonna like this treated hardwood pine hardwood.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: What treated treated pine more economic through hardwoods. It just
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: felt right.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: It Technically all woods pretty hard, but that hardwood is
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: pretty expensive. If it's rough, rough sword, your kids are
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: going to get splinters. But with the treated pine anyway
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: we go into it.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: So it has been a stressful weekend. We've been dealing
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: with all of that as well. With all that rain,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: our roof also started leaking a game whereabouts this time
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: through to the bathroom again through the light.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, And so water is a tricky one.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: About they say once it finds a way in, You're.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: Well said the T shirt. You know what they say
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: about water once it's in, it's wet.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: On the weekend, dude, Laura and I were just stressed
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: out of our eyeballs.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, you called me on Sunday and you definitely
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: I don't know, you just had like a little a
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: bit more speed in your voice because it's like a
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: lot obviously I've seen what's happened on social media, but
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: you were just even just the little things I could
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: tell that you're a bit like there's way more on
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: your mind than just this conversation.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: And Laura and I just, you know, as stressed as
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: we are, we're very tense with each other. We ended
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: up having a bit of an argument. She also is
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: like eight months pregnant, and she's also eight months, which
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: I sometimes forget. But we were at Yochi and I
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: don't remember saying this, but she said, let's go. I'm
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: feeling pretty like off now, and I said yep, And
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: I didn't get up and go immediately, and she said,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: my back's were really hurting, and I said, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: but I was on my phone doing something working okay,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: and I still remained seated. Was she seated, she was standing,
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: and so she was getting annoyed that I wasn't listening
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: to her, and so then I was like, why is
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Laura so annoyed to me? So that I was kind
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: of like a bit stoppy with her.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Just classic miscommunication, a classic like the other things are
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: the reason why you're both stroppy.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: But then we had a bit of a bit of
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: a stoush about what just about, like we'll just we're
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: both just stressed, just like what said it off? No,
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: she said, can you get a bag out of the car,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: and I didn't reply to that, and then it just
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: kicked off.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: I love these small things that just kick off into
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: like something massive that's nothing.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: And so we didn't end up resolving the fight until
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: the next morning, and I had to resolve the fight,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: which I would normally do anyway, but we had a
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: surprise lunch booked, which was actually not a lunch for
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: me and her, like Laura, it was a surprise baby shower.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Oh is that what that was?
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, unless you was right. So then we had to
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: make up that morning. And you know, when you make
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: up and you both apologize, you both accept apologies. It's
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: not real, but it hasn't you like, you are kind
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: of fine, but you still you can't just snap and
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: go we love each other.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: The time hasn't passed for you to go forget that
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: you love this person more than you're fighting this person. Yeah,
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: I get it.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: So whenever you have a fight you both apologize, you
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: still need like a couple of residual hours to just
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: like get it out of your system.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you look happy on your stories.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: So then I was like, well, we've got to get
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: dressed now and go to this lunch and they were
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: like driving in the car, like not really saying much
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: to each other. Meanwhile, there's like twenty of their friends
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: at the restaurant hiding that Layd doesn't know about.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Oh that's great. That's all of eight month pregnant woman.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: Once a fight with a husband, and then a surprise party.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I'm surprised the baby didn't pop out on the restaurant.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: So then we were like surprise, and then Laura was like,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I actually really wanted to have it just with you
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: because we've had this fire were anyway.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Then I was like, Sue, so did you make up
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: or not? Yeah? You know we already we.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Already mar we seed to be the residual two hours,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Like you need mandated time to get over an argument,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: To wear the point where either you or your partner
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: are like, it's gotten so far past the point that
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I need to say something now. Because I've tried to
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: be staunch and let and and just have the ships
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: with April and then continue to have the ships. But
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: then eventually I'm like, funk, I need something. I need
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: something that only she can help me.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Whar's my jacket?
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: She's like, I don't know, find it yourself. Look, I'm
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: sorry that I said that. Now, where's my jacket? I'm
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: not over it yet. So you know, like it's fucking awkward,
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: isn't it.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: It's like when you're hungry and you're like, or do
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: you want to get lunch?
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: It's just like I don't know.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Yes, I'm starving.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we starving for hours smoking. Oh, very good. I
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: hate it when you guys fight, though, so don't fight,
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: thank you. Okay, so we're all good. Now everyone's good. Yeah,
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: we're good. I mean I'm still you're barely stupid stresses.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: I'm all right, I'm going to be I'm going to
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: be okay.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: And I told you that if there's anything you need,
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: don't ask me, No, you can ask me. I'll try
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: and help you out as much as possible.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: But we said last week that if you say that
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: you're an asshole, you have to you can't just you can't.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: You have to come in person.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Excuse me, a wedding person keeping your man?
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: When are you going to rock up?
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: And I can help you out? What else? What do
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: you need? What do you want? What can I help
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: you with? Do you know what I'll do? I'll build
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: the fence for you. That'd be funny, can you well,
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: I'm on a lifestyle TV show, now I could do anything.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Was that a little clue to the TV show you
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: stole from me?
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Sorry, a little job. Now, last week we did
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: talk about and we did have a winge about which
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: everyone does this time of the year, which is book week,
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: book Day. Who fucking knows. But I did mention last
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: week that Oscars is a week later? Did you say
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: Marley's was a week later?
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Marles is tomorrow?
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Tomorrow? Missing?
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Because I'm going to snow with you.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest, You're not missing much because I
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: had to go to the Oscars one yesterday. So Oscar,
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: last year when there's who me? Yes, because we had
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: we released a book two days in the question three
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: times available now b W dot com? Do you on
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Amazon dot com? I don't think it's still available whatever,
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: No it is? Is it still Can you buy it?
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: Are you sure?
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know?
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: Buy it right now?
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, go and buy it. If it turns up then
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: it's still available. Anyway, So Oscar wanted again to go
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: as me, which I'll honored, absolutely honored. And you see
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: someone of the Facebook group wanted to go as Oscar.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Did you see that? Yes, passing the bat and down.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: But last year we I sort of drew some on him,
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: just like here and there just so. But this year
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: we went a little bit, a little bit all out,
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: which Abe was a little bit pissy about because we
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: went to the shops to buy a couple of tatoos
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: and I ended up spending thirty dollars on fake ttatoes,
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: which really stickly great investment, is ridiculous. They rub off
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: immediately and it doesn't last long with a kid because
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: they're like, oh wonder.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: It's almost that's almost fifty bucks.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much. It's technically you're out it right this economy.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: You've just dropped fifty bucks on it cost of living.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: People are just like, what are you spending fifty bucks
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: on temporary tattoos for him? Like much business? Anyway. I
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: Abe was a bit pissy about that, but I was like,
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: I'm We're going to do it. I like to do things.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Do you think she's annoyed that it just wasn't She
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: didn't get like a look.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: In from Macy. I'm sure Macy will want to go
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: as Bump, will she? Hope? Probably not because I had
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: that she wanted tattoos too, pepper pick ones actually, But
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: I just did a little bit more of an effort
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: this time with Oscar because I thought it's primary school.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Why didn't I do it so that parents would think
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: it's a not inappropriate? Parents to think it's like, oh,
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: that's kind of a little bit inappropriate. So I took
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: a photo please of Oscar dressed as me.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is epic?
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: So is that real?
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: Like are these are these?
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: Like? Did you? Oh my god, I stick to that
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: boy right?
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, these are unbel Did you draw a mustache?
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Oh it actually looks so sick.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: And I was like, I was around you. I'm so proud,
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, maybe some parents would be like, oh,
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: it's a bit inappropriate. Do you know what I said? Yeah,
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: do you want to say to those parents, get out
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: of yourself.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: The placement's great.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I was like, let me put mom on his
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: chest and he had dad on his knuckles or daddy
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: on his knuckles. Oh my god, so good.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: It's like the sleeve.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: So for those who it's I have all those tempory tatooes.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: The fifty dollars worth of tempory tatooes. I put them
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: all over my child's body pretty much in similar in
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: similar places to where I have them. It took ages.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Have you noticed on the hands he's got little webs
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: as well. Yeah, that's very good. That's great. Well done
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: to you. Thank you. Lots of tigers and lots of dragons.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: I am a good dad.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Someone someone did an article, I think it was a
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: kid spot where they were like, let's be honest, book
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: week is just unpaid labor for mums and our dads,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't know. It was just
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: the fact that I'm like oblivious to how we pairent
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: in our household, but I'm getting involved in book week.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I did all of that, and then I had
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: this tattoo massy up as well. Can I play Yeah,
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: that's just the parade, and can I just say sorry, okay,
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: oh my god, the two racks, that's his buddy, that's
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: his buddy. But anyway, he took our book to school,
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: he did the parade, and I just want to say
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: the parade is fucking boring. Alright, let's be honest, Like
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: they just walk around. Good for the Kids's their thing.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: But I reckon. Seventy percent of the kids don't want
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: to do it either. I never did that. Did you
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: do that when.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: You have no recollection either book parade at all? Nah?
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: No, Because there was a couple of kids there that
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: were just in regular uniform, which is fine if.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: They still walk in the parade. Yeah, in regular uniform.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: I don't shame them.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: Sorry, No, I was just inquisitive. I was just making sure.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: We were talking about it, and I said.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: I said, look, were their parents there?
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know all the kids be
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: weird to.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Go watch your child in the book parade and like
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: acknowledge that you did nothing exactly hurry.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: So obviously their parents weren't there. We're not here to
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: judge matth are you? And that here comes Timmy, he's
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: got no parents. Fuck anyway, some say his dad went
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: out for milk. No. I felt a bit sorry for
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: that kid, and whenever the other some of the other parents, bitch.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: I separated myself from that, felt like I acknowledged those
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: kids like that. It was it was completely within the group, because.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: I was like, how else you meant to well.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: Some you know, you see some parents, Yeah, you see
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: some parents that are kind of like.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Like they would like the cheer would stop when Timmy
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: goes by. Is that what you're saying?
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, poor Timmy.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I was like, I got a t Rex
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: and Timmy walks by.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: They're like, some people were talking ship. Okay, well there
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: we go. That's what we want. I was trying to
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: dance around it, but I was like, and I was.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Like, I would hate why is Ash crying?
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: I would hate it if someone was talking ship about me.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: So I, for once in my life didn't get involved
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: with the talking shit about people because I think it's
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: very fun. Because I was more on the I was
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: more on the kids level.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: Wow, I'm this level of personal growth is really amazing.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: I know when when we got to the car and
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Averyone was like, oh, you know, so it's sad like
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: Timmy seeing Timmy like that. But again, we don't and
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: I said to it, we don't know the circumstance, okay,
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: And how would you like it if Timmy's bum and
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: dad were in their car talking shit about you?
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: It's an interesting shout with the teacher like do you
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: let do you let the kids who aren't dressed up
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: go in the parade because you don't want to like
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: not ostracize them.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's of like you want to. It's all about inclusivity. Yeah.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: I think there's a very mature way that you've handled
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: the situation, and you should be.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: I didn't get involved.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because you love laughing at other people.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: That's one of my favorite things. That's what you're good at.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Finally, also on book Week, someone message and said the
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: reason why daycare doesn't have a designated book day within
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: book week is because all the kids go on different days, right,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: so they have to try and allow every day of
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: that week to be a potential book day, dress up
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: day so kids don't miss out.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: So it's all weak.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: So they say, like, you can pick one day. But
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: whether the parents just get so carried away with it
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: all that they end up doing.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: It's always that parent that they send their kid in
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: something different every day because it's like guilty, but we
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: Macey's day care. No bookweight day, no bookweek, nothing, full stop,
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: which I think is a great initiative, just fucking flagg
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: the whole thing.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: It's great that you're you're now having that response because
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: you didn't get to dress up. Wow, and you missed out.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: Wow. Okay, well, my therapist is going to love this anyway.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: Book whek, he's over, thank goodness. But the paraders boring.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, so I won't miss out on anything, I don't think.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: So I've done something so stupid, you think at this stage,
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: you know, I've been a parent now for six years.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: I would have learned a thing or two about how
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: to parent.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: And you have a dad podcast to Powell, don't pal me, okay, Bud.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: And you know, sometimes Ash, when there's an opportunity to
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: take a little shortcut, you will take that shortcut, even
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: though you realize that before you get to the finish line,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: it's going to make the journey harder.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: Oh, there's rippercussions to every shortcut. Put that on a
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: T shirt. I am on with those things you just had.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: You just had your medication delivery.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: One my secret.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: I decided to allow Lola to have a nap on Sunday.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: You goose and after forty five minutes, forty five minutes,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: I allowed the nap to continue, Oh my god, for
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: how long?
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: An and a half? Shit fucking hell, take an hour
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: and a half nap for like a nearly five year
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: old is pretty much a night sleep so full times.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: You literally she's got two days ahead of an hour.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: We had dinner and I was going, well, it's time
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: that we have a bath, and she was like, what
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: for we get ready for bed and she was like.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: Don't need that. You were like, wear this kid out, Hey, Lola,
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: have you heard of peloton? Yeah? No, So what in
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: the right of the middle of the day or was
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: it like.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was it was smack banging. Why was she
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: so tired because she had soccer, I had socker and
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I think she just she's been getting up really early
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: at the moment for some.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: Reason, probablycause she keeps snapping them.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: So then we got time to read the stories, put
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: them down to bed. Marley out like a light.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's always one of them because at back your
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: chair room too. One goes and the other's just talking
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: to themselves.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: Kaula is just there like white eye, going wow, I'm
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: not tired.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Who's got the bag?
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: And I said, he's gonna lay down, close your eyes,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: try and fall asleep.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Eight o'clock.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: She goes, I just I'm not tired, and I said,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: keep on trying. She lay down with me.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: I said, nope.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Nine o'clock. She's like there playing with their dolls, reading books,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: coloring in.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: I was like, all out ten o'clock, shut up. She's
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: still there, like nothing yet feel nothing. I feel nothing.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, please the love of God,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: go to sleep, and she's like, wish I could.
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: Oh God, what time ten thirty? She went to bed
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: a tenth thirty, so she fell asleep, or she tried
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: to start sleeping at ten thirty.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: I think she was trying for a long time, but
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: finally ten thirty I pot my head in and she
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: she was gone. And I was like, and then when
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: I had to wake up at seven in the morning
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: to get ready for daycare, was wrecked.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Ah, poor thing, it's all your fault. But that and
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: a half, that's great. It was so good to miss it.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: I felt freaking remember how much I used to nap?
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: Not anymore, but we've all forgotten. I was thinking about
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: that last night. I was like, trying to sleep changed
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: and because Macy's not napping it it was like my favorite.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: And we bonded so much because we would nap together
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: and we'd big cuddle and shit together. We nap ship
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: we're in cycle. But now there's no naps, and I'm sad.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: You're Macy drifting apart, drifting apart.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: Also, my caffeine intake's going through the roof because I can't. Like,
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: I never used to be able to nap until I
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: had kids and I taught myself how to nap. God,
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: that makes me feel proud. And then now there's no
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: more naps and I'm upset about it, but I do
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: Macy does full sleep in the car. Well, oh shit, anyway,
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: that's time. We'll see time. Macy does fall sleep in
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: the car, but only for like five minutes, and that
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: ruins us. I don't care. Thanks, that ruins us. She's
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: up to like eight quarter past eight.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Oh god, he's going on again.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Shut this guy up. All right, let's go into a segment.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Let's let's let's let's go into questions.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, let's go question Okay, curveball, I like it. I
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: like what you're doing with it.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: Let's give pear rants a little rest. Okay, we's gonna
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: rest it. We're going to give it a nap.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: Love it.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: Thank you Aaron half, thank you aon half week. Let's
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: go into listening questions if we may.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: Yes, I'll get the first question. And just a warning
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: to the parents out there, if you're driving the car
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: and the kids here listening, or if you're home, we're
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: on YouTube, because we're on YouTube now, m we are
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: going to be talking about the Easter Bunny right now specifically,
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: So just is that a warning.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: We will be talking about the Easter Bunny and how
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: much we love the Easter Bunny.
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: Yes, and where he came from. So like wink wink,
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: I let's gaslight the kids from Gillian. How do you
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: respond when your child asks whether the Easter Bunny is
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: or isn't real?
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: Hi, I did it in a way which I now
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: know is the wrong way according to Laura.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: Okay, well that's one person, just the mother of your children.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: So Marthy goes to ask Emily pregnant.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: And I never disagree. Go on, when your wife is
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: eight months pregnant, they can say the sky is purple
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: and you go, yep, yep.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: I did have to remind you of that a few times.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: So Marley goes to and after school care. Yep, they
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: go with old kids. She came home and she goes
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: someone said the Easter Bunny is not a thing, And
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: I said.
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: Well, that is not true at all. What's his name?
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: I'll find him who gives all the chocolate? And she goes, apparently,
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: you do the parents get the chocolate? And she's I
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: was sweating at this point, and she goes, well, who
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: does all the instructions? We have those little arrows sometimes
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: like it's over here, and I go, I, you know
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: I have to help the Easter Bunny.
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah I met him.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: You know he's so busy.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: You can't.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: You can't deliver the chocolate and do the directions as well.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: So why do the directions? We like help each other out.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: We've got a system going.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: To be fair. He got sick of breaking and entering,
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: so now he's just knocking. Yeah, he just leaves on
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: the front. I'll help hide them. And she goes, so,
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: hang on, you what you are telling me that the
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: Easter Bunny is one hundred percent real? I said, yeah,
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: absolutely it is. So who else keives the chocolate?
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: If it's it's not me, it has to be someone
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: it's the Easter Bunny. And she goes, you, pinky, promise
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: me and anyone who doesn't know Marley, who's.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: My eldest daughter. She is six.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: Now we have a system in place that if we
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: pinky promise each other like this, like.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: This, do you suck on your thumbs or not? What?
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: That's the game me and my friends play.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: So for example, if she's watching TV and I say,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: you got one minute left once your alarm goes off,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: you have to brush your teeth, you promise me, and
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: she goes, yeah, we got pinky promise and she can't
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: break it.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: I love that because it's also like a bit of bonding.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: It's like a little it's little little thing.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so you can never break your pinky promise.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: She's got your bent over a barrel and so.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Easter bunny question. She goes, do you pinky promise that
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: you're not lying to me? You pinky promise that it's true?
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: And I go yep, and Laura. I look over at
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Laura and be like, don't worry, babe, I got this.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: And she's like, what are you doing? You idiot? Oh
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: this is gonna Oh so what do you do? Do you?
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: What do you do in that situation? You've got to
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: stand by it now so much longer, because there's a
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: time when it's just it's it's time for that not
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: to be real. You know what, I mean, oh for sure,
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: hundred percent. And but she also knew what she was doing.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: She just bent you over a barrel here, clever and
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: look at the moment, I think you're in the clear
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: for now. But when it comes to breaking the pinky promise,
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: I think what will happen is you'll remember the pinky
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: promise and you'll feel bad about it. She won't and
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: she won't make you feel bad about Laura said, I'll
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: remind you.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Laura said, Look, you can believe whatever you want to believe,
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: and if you believe the bund your abbit to be true,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: it is true, which I find confusing.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: What does that mean? That's rubbish?
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah? What's that about?
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: Made me say it? It's so Yeah, I haven't well.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: Because now you know, we start with the Easter Bunny,
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: who is no disrespect to the characters in like the
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: calendar calendar of events, but like two two very Easter
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Bunny bottom of the Ladda. They're like non critical, okay,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Santa Claus, top of the food chain.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the guy that breaks into your house once a year.
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: It's so confusing.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but once you you know, once you start not
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: believing in the Easter Bunny, they're all unravels magic.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: They don't, they don't know. What's what else do you
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: fucking line about?
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's healthy, Harold real, of course he is fucking
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: bottom of the rung. I heard he smokes, so don't
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: listen to anything.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: He said, it's a hand to Hannah, and she said
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: she'd love a shout out to shout out to Hannah.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: But we're confused whether it's hand or Hannah Han Hi hand,
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: no hand hand them hand that I am silent.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: My fiancee and I were both twenty five and childless,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: have listened to the pod since it's been nice.
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: Since day one.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Yes, weird childless, but you're both hilarious.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: And that's it. My job is done here.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: That's all that she says.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's all you're talking about.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: Anyways, we're getting married next year gradually, and both very
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: keen for children. However, my partner is keen to be
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: a young dad and wanting to reproduce asap, whereas I
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: am keen to drag it out for as long as possible.
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: Say reproduce. Come on, what this is a real formal
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: way to put that, isn't it? For me?
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: For reference? I have no issues with your.
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: Your mature I am not very mature.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: For twenty five. I take it you will not using
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: the word reproduce a twenty five ash.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: I can't even spell it, still can't spell.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: It, whereas I'm keen to drag it out for as
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: long as possible, wanting to enjoy my twenties and early
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: thirties in brackets aka drinking.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Now I'm listening.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my question, my que is my cue.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: My queue is the language on this person. You are
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: way more, you're ready.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: Would you have changed when you had children? Or how
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: did you decide when you wanted them? Did Abril and
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Laura think more about it than you? As it can
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: be more of a sacrifice as women, fertility is obviously
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: the elephant in the room. A big question mark as
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: we haven't gone down that path yet, but I would
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: love your opinion, especially when both of us are very
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: clucky but unsure.
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: Very good question, Han, I appreciate that.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: What just sorry, I'm adapting to the situation.
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: A good question, A good question.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: I appreciate that.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: When I was a young twenty five year old Chap
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: ten years ago, Oh gosh, thanks for reminding me.
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: Thirteenth for me, A big guy, Yeah, split it out,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: middle aged, How you were, how old we had kids?
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: Twenty nine? I was And I was never that person
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: who was like so sure they wanted kids, or so
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: unsure they wanted kids. I was always through this cycle
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: where it was like I would love to have a kid.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Then it would be like, oh no, I like my
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: life as it is, or like I'm not ready. There
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: was always these mixed feelings. April was definitely much more
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: sure of herself and when to do it. She's a planner, right,
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm like very sporadic, what's what makes us work?
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: So she was very much this way. She wanted kids.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: I was unsure. So we compromised and had kids. That
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: is beautiful, thank you. That is I'm not unhappy about it.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: But I was also like I don't want to have
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: I don't want to have kids, and it become my
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: whole personality. And now I have a parenting.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: Podcast all of your person God damn.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: Anyway.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, well, okay, the question question question, The.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: Question is with that? My quick answer to that was, yeah,
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: April had the plan and I went with the plan.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, but but would you in hindsight, would you have
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: changed earlier.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: Later, No, it stuck to the No. I think mid
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: to late twenties, great to thirty like these days, I
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: mean with science. Sorry, I don't want to upset anyone.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, go on to that one.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: Somewhere between twenty five and thirty. I think, where are
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: you going about science?
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: What's that about?
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: Just modern technology? Man? Oh my god. I think twenty
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: nine for us was the right time, and I think
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: it's going to be who for them when it feels right,
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: then that's the right time.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: Well said, how old was I? I'm thirty eight now
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I was Jesus, Yeah, I we didn't really talk about
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: having kids. It was a very welcome surprise, was it?
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: I didn't know that was it? Was it now from Lon? Then? Okay?
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: Was that a surprise?
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Because Laura had taken some medication. I'm pretty sure
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: this is what happened. That the medication hadn't it meant
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: that the pill wasn't working and so then, but she
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: wasn't informed that.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: She tricked you, bro, She tricked you into it, and so.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: It was a surprise.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: We weren't trying.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, we both knew that we
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: really wanted to have kids, and I was like humped
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: for kids. But I do think when I look at
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: people who were in their twenties having kids, for me,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: I'm like, man, the twenties for me was about making
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: you know, having no responsibility, doing whatever the hell I wanted,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: being able to travel, you know, and just having the freedom, oh,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: the freedom to do whatever the hell I wanted. Like
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: some of the holidays at Laura and I took together
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: without kids amazing, epic, Like, so glad we did that
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: because it becomes a lot more difficult with kids. But
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: at the same time, I think I did underestimate just
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: how fun life can still be with kids in the mix.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: I was just gonna say that it's a different type
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: of fun, like I would say during the twenty in
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: twenties and April and I traveled and do all these
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: things together, But it was at the time that was
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: the fun. Yes, that makes sense. And then, to be
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: completely honest with you, since having kids and being in
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: my thirties, I've had the most fun I've ever had.
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: And it's not just it's not just you know, like
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: I have adult money now and can do things, and
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: I have a career and what we do is fun
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: and I get to travel and do all that sort
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: of stuff. But also then I get to come home
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: and yes, you know, every now and then you gotta
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: yell at your fucking kids because they're painful sometimes, but
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: you have a different type of fun because you sort
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: of get on their level a little bit, right, and
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: you do that shit, or you get to take like,
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: for example, the first time I took Oscar to a
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: manly game, and you're like, I used to go to
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: manly games with my mates and get pierced and have fun.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: It's different. Now I get to see the look on
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: Oscar's face when Oli Kawachi walks over and signs his football,
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: and it's like, holy shit, dude, I'm having so much fun.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: It's different.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: You're doing the same things that you used to do,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: but you're seeing them at a whole new perspective. Now
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: that you're a parent does make life harder, goes without sure,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: but let's not like we're not going to sugarcoat and
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: parenting is hand. I'm just warning you managing your expectations
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: being a parent. You will be more exhausted, more stressed,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: more anxious than ever before. But at the same time
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: you will get more fulfillment more love than you ever
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: knew possible.
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a really good example. Right. I just gave
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: your example. I'll give one more real quick? How many?
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: Just what real quick? Is? Better? Be quick? Okay? So
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: it's bedtime for the kids, right, and then we're going
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: to let the dog out. And the dog goes out
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: to we on the bush and on the grass, and
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: I'm standing there with Oscar, who's out of the I
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: should laugh, out of the shower, ready for bed. And
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: we're both standing there and I look down at him
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: and he goes, I wear on the grass too, And
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: I was like at a boy and just that moments
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: like in the Little Mate, and he's just like, yeah, okay,
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: over there to it. I'm like, fucking, it's a different joy,
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: right that you're not you. You wouldn't have got in
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: like your twenties, so never had that moment. So I
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: would say to this person, you do you and when
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: it feels right, and when it when it feels right,
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: it'll be the right.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: He's already said that.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: Fuck ray God, how dare I care about the listener? Man?
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: I hope that answers your question.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: Probably like what the drivel? It's like, there's no way.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: Hannah is still listening at this point, but she has.
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: Gone ago in Billy Matters and the Guards Life. We
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: are all dumber from listening to that.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sure if anyone made it pass that you compied
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: chat within the first five minutes, it'd be a miracle.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Just put that enlightening piano music behind it to be fine.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: But we should get the opinions of Laura and April.
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: We should, we will do.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: We'll put that in next week's episode, so don't worry.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: So Hannah is going to get the double shout out
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  Speaker 2: is like, fuck, make it out, wing will put me
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  Speaker 2: out of my misery. Just have a couple of kids
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  Speaker 2: What's taken you so long? I know fully what the
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  Speaker 1: Oh the cats out there. Sorry, sorry, sorry, I'm trying
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  Speaker 2: At the end of this everything, I'm fucking definitely not
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  Speaker 2: every fifteen minutes, so we'll see you there later. Oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, Yes, what was that you?
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  Speaker 1: I thought she would sit there and listen to us.
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  Speaker 1: She's there watching fucking movies.
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  Speaker 2: Are you for real? What? Oh god, I don't believe
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: that bull said? Is is it a YouTube video show?
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: Your screamed? She's watching pawn Two.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: Doting Dads podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout
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  Speaker 1: Australia and the connections to land, see and community.
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  Speaker 2: We pay our respects to their elders past and present,
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  Speaker 2: the people's today.