Latest / Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald / The Modeling Pyramid: Predatory Agencies, Cindy Crawford, and St. Bart’s Secrets
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- 0:49Speaker 1: Juicy Scoop.
- 0:51Speaker 3: Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop. I'm so excited about
- 0:54Speaker 3: today's show. We have a real juicy, best-selling author of
- 0:58Speaker 3: the kind of books that we absolutely love. Welcome, Michael Gross.
- 1:03Speaker 4: To Juicy Scoop.
- 1:04Speaker 5: Hi, Heather. Great to be with you.
- 1:07Speaker 3: I'm very excited for your next book, the book that's
- 1:10Speaker 3: out now, because everybody always either wants to go to St.
- 1:15Speaker 3: Bart's or has been or wonders it or remembers reading
- 1:18Speaker 3: about it in tabloids and all the stars and billionaires
- 1:22Speaker 3: that have gone there, which is the title of your
- 1:24Speaker 3: new book, Treasured Island, the Story of St. Bart's, and
- 1:27Speaker 3: it's Barbarians, Billionaires, and Beauties. What a great subtitle.
- 1:33Speaker 4: Thank you.
- 1:34Speaker 3: So before we get into that book, though, I have
- 1:37Speaker 3: this other bestselling, New York Times bestselling book of yours, Model,
- 1:43Speaker 3: which is all about just the ruthless business of the
- 1:48Speaker 3: top modeling agencies in New York and Europe, What years
- 1:52Speaker 3: was that book kind of chronicling?
- 1:57Speaker 1: Well, the book came out 31 years ago. But it
- 2:01Speaker 1: covers the business from its invention in the 1920s straight
- 2:06Speaker 1: through in the copy that you're holding, it goes through 1994.
- 2:10Speaker 1: So through the height of the supermodels. Then there have
- 2:15Speaker 1: been a series of updates. And so the current version
- 2:19Speaker 1: that you can buy on Amazon, goes through 2011 and
- 2:23Speaker 1: actually has the name Jeffrey Epstein.
- 2:26Speaker 3: So you cover some of that. I know there's been
- 2:28Speaker 3: so many legit models that also got sucked into that
- 2:33Speaker 3: world unknowingly.
- 2:37Speaker 4: So does it cover some of that?
- 2:39Speaker 1: You know, Cindy Crawford told me that when she first
- 2:42Speaker 1: went to Milan, which was a hotbed of sleazy guys
- 2:46Speaker 1: trying to dive into the pants of models, both to
- 2:48Speaker 1: get their money and to get other things, Um, she
- 2:53Speaker 1: was never harassed and she said that she always thought
- 2:56Speaker 1: that it was because some girls just had that thing
- 3:00Speaker 1: where it said this one don't touch.
- 3:02Speaker 5: She's worth too much money.
- 3:05Speaker 1: So yes, uh, you know, lots of models right now,
- 3:09Speaker 1: just the other day, Carrie Otis, who was a pretty
- 3:11Speaker 1: top model in the mid nineties filed a new lawsuit
- 3:16Speaker 1: against the guy who used to run elite models in Paris.
- 3:19Speaker 1: and it was on behalf of, she's trying to do
- 3:23Speaker 1: a class action suit because the statute of limitations has
- 3:26Speaker 1: run out on this guy. His name is Gérald Marie,
- 3:29Speaker 1: and he's one of the main characters in the book model.
- 3:32Speaker 3: Well, the reason I have the book is because, I
- 3:35Speaker 3: don't know how many years ago it was, maybe like
- 3:37Speaker 3: 10 years ago, my agent called me and was like,
- 3:42Speaker 3: this guy wants to meet you to maybe collaborate I
- 3:46Speaker 3: don't know if they had the rights to your book
- 3:48Speaker 3: or to try to do like a television series. And
- 3:52Speaker 3: so reading it and I just gave, it didn't really
- 3:55Speaker 3: go past more than just like a meeting. I don't
- 3:58Speaker 3: know what happened with it, but I was like, oh
- 4:00Speaker 3: my God, this would make such a great television show.
- 4:04Speaker 3: And being that it would be like, you know, that
- 4:07Speaker 3: time of 80s, 90s and like what it was like,
- 4:11Speaker 3: he wanted to do a show kind of about the
- 4:14Speaker 3: main character modeling people that were a couple that then
- 4:18Speaker 3: both ran their agencies. And how many times did that
- 4:23Speaker 3: come about, being the author, that people wanted to try
- 4:25Speaker 3: to make your book a series?
- 4:28Speaker 1: Well, model, so there's a process called optioning, and that's
- 4:32Speaker 1: where a producer or a star takes an option. They
- 4:35Speaker 1: give you a little bit of money to take the
- 4:37Speaker 1: book off the market, and then they try to put
- 4:39Speaker 1: it together and make it into a movie or a
- 4:41Speaker 1: TV show. Model has been optioned. five or six times.
- 4:45Speaker 1: It went to script twice. Once it was the next
- 4:50Speaker 1: thing that ABC was going to do as its movie
- 4:52Speaker 1: of the week, and there was a regime change at ABC,
- 4:56Speaker 1: and it died a sad.
- 4:57Speaker 5: And horrible death.
- 4:59Speaker 1: And then there was another one quite recently that almost
- 5:03Speaker 1: made it, but finally just didn't make it. So we're
- 5:06Speaker 1: still waiting for Model the Movie.
- 5:09Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like it's going to happen. I
- 5:11Speaker 3: feel like this appearance on.
- 5:12Speaker 4: Juicy Scoop is going to be the tipping point. No,
- 5:16Speaker 4: I really do think it could be great.
- 5:18Speaker 3: And I think there's such a yearning for that nostalgia,
- 5:24Speaker 3: that period of time, especially with younger viewers that are like, oh,
- 5:31Speaker 3: what was life like before cell phones and social media?
- 5:35Speaker 3: And there were real models and it wasn't just Instagram
- 5:38Speaker 3: and influencers, and they want to jump back and escape
- 5:42Speaker 3: to that era. So I think it would make a
- 5:46Speaker 3: great series.
- 5:48Speaker 1: And the heart of the book is really that moment
- 5:50Speaker 1: in the 70s and 80s when models emerged as real
- 5:55Speaker 1: celebrities instead of just niche celebrities. And that's precisely the
- 5:59Speaker 1: movie that really ought to be made. People have tried
- 6:02Speaker 1: and bad ones have been made, but no one's ever
- 6:04Speaker 1: done one that got close to the truth.
- 6:07Speaker 4: What exactly is the truth?
- 6:08Speaker 3: Because I guess someone that, you know, is maybe their
- 6:12Speaker 3: age or a little bit younger, you know, of course,
- 6:15Speaker 3: everybody wanted to be a real model when I was
- 6:18Speaker 3: in my all-girl Catholic high school. And there was like
- 6:21Speaker 3: the cheesy, what.
- 6:24Speaker 4: Was the guy's name?
- 6:26Speaker 3: He had like a modeling school. It's like escaping me
- 6:29Speaker 3: right now.
- 6:31Speaker 5: Johnny Casablancas.
- 6:32Speaker 1: Yes.
- 6:33Speaker 4: That was one of them. I think there was another one,
- 6:35Speaker 4: but that was one.
- 6:37Speaker 3: And you could take a course and the first course
- 6:40Speaker 3: is like etiquette. And then the next course is like
- 6:43Speaker 3: actually putting outfits together. Then the third course is like
- 6:47Speaker 3: having a little fashion show. And then the fourth course
- 6:50Speaker 3: is expensive because you're actually going to get real headshots
- 6:54Speaker 3: done with a professional photographer. And you've got to take
- 6:57Speaker 3: the loop and pick out your thing. And so many
- 7:01Speaker 3: girls were doing it thinking, oh, maybe I could be
- 7:04Speaker 3: a model. And even like So many models were in
- 7:07Speaker 3: music videos and stuff. So that was just like, oh,
- 7:10Speaker 3: let me put on some black nylons and a tiny
- 7:13Speaker 3: black dress and just a red lip and slick back
- 7:15Speaker 3: my hair and look real chic. But back then it
- 7:19Speaker 3: was so about you had to be tall enough. And
- 7:22Speaker 3: if any girl tried to say she wanted to be
- 7:24Speaker 3: a model and she was under, you know, five, eight
- 7:27Speaker 3: and a half, everyone would be like, good luck, loser.
- 7:30Speaker 3: Like you're never going to make it. Like it's, it
- 7:32Speaker 3: was such a different, time than today. When you look
- 7:37Speaker 3: at like modeling and fashion and what drives someone being
- 7:42Speaker 3: on the cover of a magazine, what is your point
- 7:46Speaker 3: of view or perspective?
- 7:48Speaker 1: Well, you know, what the book is really about is
- 7:51Speaker 1: think about modeling as a pyramid and everything that you're
- 7:54Speaker 1: just talking about is the very bottom of the pyramid
- 7:57Speaker 1: where there's someone who's a checkout working behind the checkout
- 7:59Speaker 1: counter at Walmart in the middle of Iowa and wants
- 8:03Speaker 1: to be a model. then as you ascend up the
- 8:06Speaker 1: pyramid to the very top, that's the dirty part of
- 8:11Speaker 1: the business because there's a terrible elimination contest that goes on.
- 8:16Speaker 1: And I always said that only a very few models
- 8:21Speaker 1: can dance on the head of the pin of the industry.
- 8:24Speaker 1: And obviously they're the stars. And by the way, as
- 8:27Speaker 1: far as height goes, Kate Moss can say, hey, take
- 8:30Speaker 1: that because she changed that. It's very, very difficult to
- 8:37Speaker 1: get to the top of that pyramid. And a lot
- 8:41Speaker 1: of horrible things can happen on the way up. And
- 8:44Speaker 1: the business is structured in such a way that the
- 8:47Speaker 1: predators are living at the bottom. And at the top,
- 8:51Speaker 1: there are girls like Cindy Crawford who just were untouchables
- 8:56Speaker 1: and still are.
- 8:57Speaker 5: And that continues to this day.
- 8:59Speaker 3: And with someone like a Cindy Crawford, I also feel
- 9:02Speaker 3: like her... Her story was one, just like anybody that
- 9:08Speaker 3: unfortunately is more susceptible to be a victim, oftentimes is
- 9:14Speaker 3: someone that doesn't have that family support, maybe didn't have the,
- 9:19Speaker 3: you know, the strong kind of confidence in the home
- 9:22Speaker 3: coming up. And the predator seeks those more vulnerable souls out.
- 9:28Speaker 3: And they have a talent for it. And then there's
- 9:32Speaker 3: certain people that were, like she said, in the same room,
- 9:35Speaker 3: also talented, but just, I think she was just very
- 9:39Speaker 3: lucky in that she came from this nice family. She,
- 9:43Speaker 3: you know, had gone to some schooling and had pursued
- 9:46Speaker 3: it and just, and again, went kind of up the ranks. Yeah,
- 9:49Speaker 3: she skyrocketed, but she, it wasn't so plucked out and just...
- 9:56Speaker 3: you know, no support, no mom, nothing. She had all that.
- 9:59Speaker 3: And so I think that that's really interesting of like,
- 10:04Speaker 3: and how difficult it must've been like for a mom
- 10:07Speaker 3: to let their like 15 year old daughter go to
- 10:11Speaker 3: Italy or Japan. But then you're looking at all these
- 10:14Speaker 3: super successful other models and you're like, well, if I
- 10:16Speaker 3: don't let my daughter go, then she could miss out
- 10:20Speaker 3: on this time just like a professional sports player. Like
- 10:25Speaker 3: you have that small window to make it. And if
- 10:29Speaker 3: you don't make it by 22, good luck.
- 10:33Speaker 1: In the summer of, I think it was 1988 or 1989,
- 10:37Speaker 1: two 15, 16-year-old girls arrived in Paris. One was Stephanie Seymour,
- 10:42Speaker 1: who came without her mother, and the other was Christy Turlington,
- 10:45Speaker 1: who came with her mother. Christy Turlington was taken by
- 10:49Speaker 1: the Ford agency, which was run on a kind of
- 10:52Speaker 1: maternal basis. And Stephanie Seymour signed with Elite, which was
- 10:56Speaker 1: Johnny Casablancas' agency, which was run on a kind of
- 11:00Speaker 1: predatory basis. And Christy Turlington ended up happily married with
- 11:05Speaker 1: a college degree, kids, runs a charity, is still a
- 11:09Speaker 1: working model. And Stephanie Seymour ended up with Absol Rose
- 11:12Speaker 1: and then Warren Beatty and then God knows who else.
- 11:16Speaker 1: And married to a guy who'd been in jail and
- 11:20Speaker 1: is rarely heard from anymore. So I think that what
- 11:22Speaker 1: you're saying holds true. You know, it's not just heredity.
- 11:26Speaker 1: It's not what you're born with, although that's important. It's
- 11:29Speaker 1: not just environment, which is whether you come from a
- 11:31Speaker 1: good family or not, because lots of top models have
- 11:34Speaker 1: come from messed up families. But it's also what you
- 11:37Speaker 1: have inside and your strength of character and your desire
- 11:41Speaker 1: to succeed, which are two different things that are sometimes
- 11:44Speaker 1: in opposition and sometimes work together.
- 11:46Speaker 5: And those are the ones who, the ones.
- 11:48Speaker 1: Where it all works together, heredity, environment, and everything that's
- 11:52Speaker 1: inside are the ones who become huge moneymakers and famous models.
- 11:58Speaker 1: And they're the ones who end up on St. Bart's
- 11:59Speaker 1: shooting the St. Bart's, shooting the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue.
- 12:03Speaker 6: Yes.
- 12:04Speaker 3: So let's talk about that because, you know, Sports Illustrated
- 12:07Speaker 3: has been in the news this year With the fashion
- 12:11Speaker 3: show in the last few years, they've really expanded from
- 12:15Speaker 3: what we knew it as, as just the top models
- 12:18Speaker 3: got it, who was going to get the cover. and
- 12:21Speaker 3: then you'd watch the whole filming of the shoot where
- 12:23Speaker 3: they'd go to a specific place like St.
- 12:26Speaker 4: Bart's and do the whole thing.
- 12:28Speaker 3: And we got to see how it worked, how they
- 12:31Speaker 3: pose them, who the different photographers were. And it was
- 12:36Speaker 3: really entertaining to kind of watch as a young girl
- 12:39Speaker 3: that just, you know, had just loved seeing beautiful places
- 12:43Speaker 3: with beautiful women in it. How cutthroat was that to
- 12:49Speaker 3: try to make the Sports Illustrated back then between St.
- 12:53Speaker 3: Bart's and modeling and all of it?
- 12:55Speaker 1: Well, I don't really think it was cutthroat at all.
- 12:58Speaker 1: It was a wonderful woman named Julie Campbell who ran
- 13:00Speaker 1: the Sports Illustrated issues. And at that time, there was
- 13:04Speaker 1: one photographer. His name was Walter Hughes Jr. And he
- 13:06Speaker 1: was a lovely man who I actually knew when I
- 13:09Speaker 1: was like five, six years old because he had started
- 13:11Speaker 1: out as a sports photographer.
- 13:13Speaker 5: And my father was a sports columnist.
- 13:15Speaker 1: But, you know, I think with Sports Illustrated, you have
- 13:18Speaker 1: the exact same fundamental question as you have with St.
- 13:22Speaker 5: Bart's, the island. Now, how can an island and a
- 13:25Speaker 5: sports magazine be alike?
- 13:27Speaker 1: Well, because they're both in a way brands and they
- 13:30Speaker 1: both have to figure out ways to negotiate the path
- 13:32Speaker 1: into the future.
- 13:34Speaker 5: And St.
- 13:34Speaker 1: Bart's started out as a rock in the ocean that
- 13:37Speaker 1: nobody loved and became the destination, the place to go.
- 13:42Speaker 1: where Sports Illustrated would go to shoot its swimsuit issue
- 13:46Speaker 1: because it was, in 1989, the year Sports Illustrated went there,
- 13:50Speaker 1: the hottest.
- 13:51Speaker 5: Island in the world.
- 13:52Speaker 1: And then it only got hotter, just like Sports Illustrated did,
- 13:56Speaker 1: for years and years and years. But now the magazine
- 13:59Speaker 1: business is in decline and Sports Illustrated is in trouble,
- 14:02Speaker 1: like all magazines are in trouble. And I was a
- 14:04Speaker 1: magazine writer for decades, so I certainly, I lived through this.
- 14:08Speaker 6: St.
- 14:08Speaker 1: Bart's, in the same way, has become so popular that
- 14:12Speaker 1: success has become its enemy. Will success kill Sports Illustrated?
- 14:17Speaker 1: Will success kill St.
- 14:18Speaker 5: Barts?
- 14:19Speaker 1: And the underlying issue in my new book, Treasured Island,
- 14:23Speaker 1: is how does an island like that survive, not just survive,
- 14:28Speaker 1: but continue to succeed and continue to be the sort
- 14:32Speaker 1: of product it is at its peak? How do you
- 14:35Speaker 1: maintain that? And it's a very difficult balancing act.
- 14:39Speaker 3: So let's talk a little bit about your background as
- 14:44Speaker 3: a writer and then also your interest in putting you
- 14:48Speaker 3: in this place where you could write with such great
- 14:52Speaker 3: knowledge of these kind of people, whether they're supermodels or
- 14:57Speaker 3: billionaires or both.
- 15:00Speaker 4: Tell us a little bit about that.
- 15:02Speaker 1: As I said, my father was a sports writer. He
- 15:04Speaker 1: worked for the New York Post. back in the old
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- 16:47Speaker 1: And so I grew up in Yankee Stadium and Shea
- 16:50Speaker 1: Stadium and Madison Square Garden.
- 16:53Speaker 5: My father covered the Knicks, go Knicks.
- 16:55Speaker 1: And, you know, I have a Knicks championship ring back
- 16:58Speaker 1: in my jewelry box from 1970 when the Knicks won
- 17:01Speaker 1: the championship for the second to last time, although maybe
- 17:04Speaker 1: they'll win again this year. And the thing was that
- 17:08Speaker 1: when I was growing up, sports was something to be
- 17:13Speaker 1: obsessed with. But for people my age, rock and roll
- 17:16Speaker 1: was something even more to.
- 17:18Speaker 5: Be obsessed with. And so I was obsessed with rock
- 17:20Speaker 5: and roll.
- 17:20Speaker 1: And I started writing for rock magazines and newspapers about
- 17:24Speaker 1: rock stars. And for 10 years I did that.
- 17:27Speaker 5: I went on the road. I traveled with bands. I
- 17:29Speaker 5: wrote about bands. And one of the things that you.
- 17:32Speaker 1: Noticed was that fashion models gravitated to rock stars. And
- 17:39Speaker 1: rock stars gravitated to fashion. And so I started getting
- 17:43Speaker 1: interested in the world of fashion. And after about 10
- 17:47Speaker 1: years of rock and roll, I'd had enough.
- 17:49Speaker 5: I needed a change. And I started writing about fashion photography.
- 17:54Speaker 1: And it was partly Cherche La Femme. I liked pretty girls.
- 17:58Speaker 1: I liked pretty women. Curiously, I almost immediately got married
- 18:03Speaker 1: to a fashion designer. But I had then a 10-year
- 18:07Speaker 1: run of covering the fashion world, going to Milan, going
- 18:09Speaker 1: to Paris, going to London, going to the shows in
- 18:12Speaker 1: New York, sitting in the front row at shows. And
- 18:15Speaker 1: who did you sit next to if you were in
- 18:16Speaker 1: the front rows of shows? The wife of the billionaire,
- 18:20Speaker 1: the princess this, the countess that. And so you also
- 18:24Speaker 1: become fascinated with the people who are sitting around you
- 18:27Speaker 1: and who you have access to. And so I slowly
- 18:30Speaker 1: evolved into writing about rich people, celebrated people, not movie stars,
- 18:35Speaker 1: because I'd already had my 10-year run of writing about stars,
- 18:38Speaker 1: and it was getting a little tired for me. But...
- 18:43Speaker 1: the people who were richer than the stars, maybe less famous,
- 18:49Speaker 1: but more important in many ways. And I had a
- 18:51Speaker 1: good tenure run at New York, first at the New
- 18:54Speaker 1: York Times and then at New York Magazine, writing about
- 18:56Speaker 1: all of that.
- 18:57Speaker 5: During that time, I started writing for travel magazines.
- 19:00Speaker 1: And what I wrote about were the places where rich
- 19:02Speaker 1: and famous people went.
- 19:04Speaker 5: And that was how I first encountered St. Barts.
- 19:06Speaker 1: I started going there myself in about 1989 or 1990.
- 19:11Speaker 1: And it became my go-to destination for my vacations. And
- 19:16Speaker 1: I didn't go Christmas week when all the billionaires were
- 19:19Speaker 1: there because I wanted a week off, not another week on.
- 19:23Speaker 1: I didn't want to go to the beach and see
- 19:25Speaker 1: Calvin Klein coming out of the surf. I wanted to
- 19:28Speaker 1: go to the beach and be left alone. So I
- 19:31Speaker 1: did that for 10 years. And then as the magazine
- 19:34Speaker 1: business started to decline after 1995 or so, I started
- 19:39Speaker 1: writing books.
- 19:40Speaker 5: I wrote Models.
- 19:41Speaker 1: And then from there, I segued into writing books that
- 19:44Speaker 1: were social histories that looked at the relationship between rich
- 19:48Speaker 1: people and real estate and what their choices in real
- 19:51Speaker 1: estate told you about the upper classes and about the
- 19:54Speaker 1: world we live in. So I wrote a book about
- 19:56Speaker 1: a apartment building in New York called 740 Park that
- 20:00Speaker 1: was very old school New York wealth and how the
- 20:04Speaker 1: old school New York wealth evolved. Then I wrote a
- 20:07Speaker 1: book about Los Angeles called Unreal Estate that was about
- 20:09Speaker 1: how Beverly Hills, Bel Air, Holmby Hills evolved over 50,
- 20:14Speaker 1: 75 years. Then I wrote a book about a condo
- 20:17Speaker 1: building in New York and the book was called House
- 20:20Speaker 1: of Outrageous Fortune and it was about 15 Central Park West,
- 20:23Speaker 1: which was full of all of the international oligarchs and
- 20:27Speaker 1: hedge funders and private equity people, the kind of people
- 20:31Speaker 1: who have no relationship with the world in which they live.
- 20:34Speaker 1: They helicopter in, helicopter out, have private security, live in
- 20:37Speaker 1: a bubble, sort of the Jeff Bezos's of the world.
- 20:41Speaker 1: And then I was looking for a next book and
- 20:43Speaker 1: I thought, well, where does Jeff Bezos go on vacation?
- 20:46Speaker 5: To the same place that I've gone for almost 40 years, St. Barts.
- 20:50Speaker 4: Okay, a couple of questions. It's fascinating.
- 20:53Speaker 3: When you're writing about these people and you're sitting in
- 20:56Speaker 3: the front row of the fashion and the And that's
- 21:01Speaker 3: really interesting that they, of course, the billionaire's wife is
- 21:04Speaker 3: going to be invited because she's the top customer and
- 21:06Speaker 3: she's going to wear these clothes.
- 21:08Speaker 4: And she's way more.
- 21:10Speaker 3: Important to the fashion brand than some chick that's going to,
- 21:15Speaker 3: you know, hope to get the outfit for free and
- 21:17Speaker 3: wear it on the red carpet, you know? When you're
- 21:20Speaker 3: meeting these people, did you try to ingratiate yourself? So
- 21:23Speaker 3: they're like, oh, Michael, come on our yacht with us.
- 21:27Speaker 4: Let's hang out.
- 21:28Speaker 3: How did that work? Because you were like writing about them.
- 21:31Speaker 3: Did they want you to write about them? Did they
- 21:33Speaker 3: did it make you nervous? Did it make them nervous
- 21:36Speaker 3: that that you were, in fact, you know, a writer?
- 21:39Speaker 1: Well, you know, when I was covering rock and roll
- 21:42Speaker 1: and I was in my 20s, I kind of had
- 21:44Speaker 1: this fantasy that I would be their friend and you're
- 21:46Speaker 1: not their friend.
- 21:47Speaker 5: They live in a different world than you.
- 21:49Speaker 1: And I pretty quickly came to understand that there was
- 21:52Speaker 1: a there was a divide that I could ride in
- 21:54Speaker 1: the limousine, but it wasn't my limousine. And I vowed
- 21:59Speaker 1: that I was not going to become the kind of
- 22:01Speaker 1: person who did whatever it took to get invited into
- 22:04Speaker 1: somebody else's limousine. So when I started writing about fashion,
- 22:08Speaker 1: I didn't do that kind of work. I wrote about
- 22:11Speaker 1: the real story. I wrote about how things ticked, what
- 22:14Speaker 1: really made a fashion brand. And, you know, there were
- 22:17Speaker 1: times when that really annoyed people. Calvin Klein canceled $ 5
- 22:21Speaker 1: million in advertising in New York Magazine because of a
- 22:23Speaker 1: story I wrote about him. Christian Lacroix banned me from his...
- 22:28Speaker 1: What did you write that he didn't like? Well, it
- 22:30Speaker 1: was a 9,000-word profile. So there was a lot that
- 22:34Speaker 1: he didn't like in there. And, you know, the funny
- 22:36Speaker 1: thing is I never said he was gay. But there
- 22:40Speaker 1: was a picture on the cover of him and his wife, Kelly.
- 22:43Speaker 1: And maybe there.
- 22:44Speaker 5: Was a subtle message underneath all of that.
- 22:48Speaker 1: But... I wrote about Christian Lacroix and I simply said
- 22:51Speaker 1: that his second collection wasn't very good and I was
- 22:54Speaker 1: banned from his fashion shows. So, you know, you discover
- 22:57Speaker 1: that a lot of these people have very thin skin.
- 23:01Speaker 1: And what they count on is that there are so-called
- 23:04Speaker 1: journalists out there who think of their job as ingratiation,
- 23:08Speaker 1: who are lapdogs. And I kind of decided to position
- 23:12Speaker 1: myself opposite that and become a terrier. If you put
- 23:16Speaker 1: a bone in my mouth of a story, I wasn't
- 23:17Speaker 1: going to let it go. And it wasn't a great
- 23:21Speaker 1: way to make friends. And in fact, I did make friends.
- 23:23Speaker 1: I made friends with lots of the people in the
- 23:25Speaker 1: worlds that I covered. But the way that I kind
- 23:28Speaker 1: of sum them up is they're people who got the junk.
- 23:31Speaker 1: They understood that it was all a game and it
- 23:34Speaker 1: was a game with journalists and that there was this
- 23:37Speaker 1: continuum between terriers and lapdogs and that you could work
- 23:42Speaker 1: with somebody. And sometimes you had to bite the hand
- 23:45Speaker 1: that feeds you. And as a great, great editor once said,
- 23:49Speaker 1: And if you do that, they'll feed you some more.
- 23:52Speaker 1: And it really is true. And, you know, I found
- 23:55Speaker 1: that if I didn't want, care about being invited, I
- 24:01Speaker 1: would be invited. And when I wasn't invited, I could
- 24:05Speaker 1: just get the story anyway. So that was how I,
- 24:07Speaker 1: that was how I handled it.
- 24:09Speaker 3: In writing about them, whether it was in the newspapers, magazines,
- 24:13Speaker 3: or in your books, did did sometimes did you say
- 24:17Speaker 3: who they were and other times kind of, you know,
- 24:20Speaker 3: make it that someone could figure it out, but you
- 24:22Speaker 3: don't say their actual name. How do you work that
- 24:25Speaker 3: as far as not getting, you know, someone coming after
- 24:29Speaker 3: you for defamation or whatever?
- 24:31Speaker 1: Well, I've been threatened and, you know, lawyers don't scare me. Um,
- 24:36Speaker 1: and I've been threatened by some pretty scary people. So, um, But,
- 24:40Speaker 1: you know, I did write a gossip column once for
- 24:41Speaker 1: about four months.
- 24:42Speaker 5: I hated it. I hated myself.
- 24:44Speaker 1: I hated waking up in the morning and looking in
- 24:46Speaker 1: the mirror. I hated what I was doing. And I
- 24:48Speaker 1: did write blind items. You know, guess who this is?
- 24:52Speaker 1: And I hated doing that. No, what I do is
- 24:55Speaker 1: I write real stories about real people and I use
- 24:58Speaker 1: real names. And, you know, that might be why some
- 25:02Speaker 1: people didn't get the joke.
- 25:05Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 25:07Speaker 1: But that allowed me to write books that connected with
- 25:13Speaker 1: the audience. I don't write for the people I write about.
- 25:17Speaker 1: I write for the people who read my books. And
- 25:20Speaker 1: what's great is that by the time I started writing
- 25:23Speaker 1: these books about real estate, and I've done four now
- 25:25Speaker 1: with the St. Bart's book, people respected what I did
- 25:28Speaker 1: and they understood that I was putting their accomplishments into perspective.
- 25:34Speaker 1: And if that meant describing them as the saying goes,
- 25:37Speaker 1: warts and all, it still was a way of saying,
- 25:41Speaker 1: look at how important this person is. Look at how
- 25:43Speaker 1: successful this person is. And so by the time I
- 25:46Speaker 1: got to the later books and especially Treasured Island, there
- 25:50Speaker 1: were people who were thanking me for writing it because
- 25:52Speaker 1: they realized that if somebody like me who asked the
- 25:55Speaker 1: right questions didn't write that book, then the story of
- 25:59Speaker 1: the island was going to vanish and die with the.
- 26:02Speaker 5: People who created it. the St.
- 26:04Speaker 1: Barts that we have today. And that it was really
- 26:07Speaker 1: important that that story be told. And you can only
- 26:09Speaker 1: do that if you're willing to tell the truth.
- 26:12Speaker 4: So I happened to St. Barts once.
- 26:16Speaker 3: I took the scary, you know, the little scary jumper
- 26:19Speaker 3: plane that everyone talks about.
- 26:21Speaker 4: I was very lucky.
- 26:22Speaker 3: My husband and I were guests on our friend's yacht
- 26:25Speaker 3: that was docked there. We never took the big yacht out,
- 26:28Speaker 3: but we stayed on the big the big yacht that
- 26:31Speaker 3: had a staff. And then we would take the very
- 26:34Speaker 3: nice Tinder out to snorkel and went to dinner and
- 26:38Speaker 3: danced on the tables and went out at night and,
- 26:42Speaker 3: and walked around the fancy shops and the more charming
- 26:45Speaker 3: shops and took.
- 26:47Speaker 4: The Moki around and all of that.
- 26:49Speaker 3: And we didn't go at the high tide time, like
- 26:52Speaker 3: the Christmas time we went around Easter. So it was
- 26:56Speaker 3: still very nice weather, but some days like rained and, um,
- 27:00Speaker 3: And it was interesting then, which was about three or
- 27:04Speaker 3: four years ago, where, yeah, three years ago, where we
- 27:08Speaker 3: were talking about, you know, they made sure that like
- 27:13Speaker 3: there wasn't a place for any kind of big boat
- 27:17Speaker 3: to come in so that, you know, or it's very
- 27:21Speaker 3: restricted of like how big or what level of hotel
- 27:24Speaker 3: and stuff would be there because they didn't want it
- 27:26Speaker 3: to be accessible to everybody. They really wanted to keep
- 27:31Speaker 3: it at a level that you had to be pretty
- 27:33Speaker 3: darn rich to stay there, get there, go to restaurants there,
- 27:38Speaker 3: find a hotel room.
- 27:40Speaker 4: Is that correct?
- 27:42Speaker 5: Well, yeah.
- 27:43Speaker 1: I mean, but you're talking about two different things. The
- 27:45Speaker 1: harbor only accommodates a certain length of boat. So when
- 27:49Speaker 1: David Geffen comes, he has to park his boat outside
- 27:51Speaker 1: the harbor because it just can't get in. And even
- 27:54Speaker 1: though there are slips for super yachts in the marina there,
- 27:57Speaker 1: There's not room for the really, really, really big boats.
- 28:00Speaker 1: So Roman Abramovich, Paul Allen, David Geffen, they have to
- 28:05Speaker 1: tender in from outside the harbor. So that's one limitation,
- 28:09Speaker 1: but that's a natural limitation. That harbor has been, the
- 28:12Speaker 1: reason why St. Barts is St. Barts is because of
- 28:15Speaker 1: that harbor. It was a free port going back to
- 28:18Speaker 1: the 17th century. In the 16th century, pirates operated out
- 28:22Speaker 1: of that harbor. The original name was the Caranage. And
- 28:25Speaker 1: Caranage is where boats are repaired. So that's a physical
- 28:30Speaker 1: fact of St. Barts, and it was a huge advantage
- 28:32Speaker 1: that it had that harbor. As the island began to develop,
- 28:36Speaker 1: there was a very conscious decision made that hotels would
- 28:40Speaker 1: be limited, that they would, originally, they had to be
- 28:45Speaker 1: 12 rooms or fewer, nothing larger. And so what they
- 28:49Speaker 1: did was, very consciously, they created an island where There's
- 28:54Speaker 1: an intimate scale. There are no concrete box hotels. There
- 28:57Speaker 1: are no beaches full of hotel, hotel, hotel, hotel, with
- 29:02Speaker 1: people selling garbage on the beach. And all of those
- 29:06Speaker 1: things contributed to the island that you visited three or
- 29:09Speaker 1: four years ago, which is very different from the island
- 29:13Speaker 1: that I visited 35 years ago, because it's the same
- 29:16Speaker 1: French island. It's got the same style of life. It's
- 29:19Speaker 1: got the same savoir-faire. It's got the same croissant, the same,
- 29:24Speaker 1: you know, duck confit. But back then, there were no
- 29:28Speaker 1: palace hotels. There were no glass and marble villas. The
- 29:33Speaker 1: villas were made of mahogany antique. The hotels were small, intimate,
- 29:37Speaker 1: and charming. They were very luxurious even then. but it
- 29:41Speaker 1: was all on a much smaller scale. Everything was also
- 29:44Speaker 1: far less expensive then, even though it was probably the
- 29:48Speaker 1: most expensive island in the Caribbean. There was a hotel
- 29:52Speaker 1: called Tijuana where the owner would rather keep the rooms
- 29:56Speaker 1: empty and have no one staying there than rent to
- 29:58Speaker 1: the wrong kind of people. They were consciously trying to,
- 30:02Speaker 1: and I hate this word, curate the kind of people
- 30:07Speaker 1: who came to the island to ensure that it kept
- 30:10Speaker 1: this very lofty luxury image. And over the years, more
- 30:15Speaker 1: investment came and the DNA of the island didn't change,
- 30:21Speaker 1: but the outward expression of it did. And so now
- 30:24Speaker 1: there are palace hotels and they're kind of snooty and
- 30:27Speaker 1: there are stores that really very few people would shop in. And,
- 30:33Speaker 1: you know, a lot of those billionaires, they expect to
- 30:35Speaker 1: get the clothes for free because they're billionaires. So they
- 30:38Speaker 1: don't even shop. I mean, I know one billionaire guy
- 30:40Speaker 1: who has a gigantic yacht who I, he told me
- 30:44Speaker 1: he was going to St. Barts and I offered to
- 30:46Speaker 1: recommend some restaurants. And he said, why would I want
- 30:50Speaker 1: a list of restaurants? And I said, because St. Barts
- 30:53Speaker 1: is famous for its food. And he said, I have
- 30:55Speaker 1: a shop on my boat. My chef is better than theirs.
- 30:58Speaker 1: So there's that kind of billionaire attitude of you bring
- 31:01Speaker 1: it with you. And what's interesting is that these people
- 31:04Speaker 1: tend to come Christmas week when they can rub shoulders
- 31:08Speaker 1: and butt chests with.
- 31:09Speaker 5: Others of their ilk.
- 31:11Speaker 1: And they're all engaged in this gigantic who's is bigger.
- 31:15Speaker 1: And I'm talking about their wallets and their boats, not
- 31:18Speaker 1: anything else, not their short stubby fingers. And, um, um,
- 31:24Speaker 1: So there's that society in St.
- 31:27Speaker 6: Bart's.
- 31:27Speaker 1: And then there's the society that you encountered going Easter week.
- 31:30Speaker 5: I was there just the week before Easter this year.
- 31:34Speaker 5: It's quieter.
- 31:34Speaker 1: There's still David Geffen's yacht was still there. The richest
- 31:37Speaker 1: man in Israel's yacht was still there. But there wasn't
- 31:41Speaker 1: this constant game of I'm more important than you are
- 31:46Speaker 1: going on. And you can also, the great thing about St.
- 31:49Speaker 1: Bart's is it depends on the St. Bart's you want
- 31:52Speaker 1: to see. Because the people who go to the dance
- 31:55Speaker 1: on table restaurants, they're getting drunk at three o'clock in
- 31:58Speaker 1: the morning. They're not getting up at 7 a.m. and
- 32:01Speaker 1: they're not on the beach at 9 a.m. and they
- 32:03Speaker 1: don't know which beaches are great for swimming. They probably
- 32:05Speaker 1: don't swim. They probably sink from the weight of their wallet.
- 32:11Speaker 5: So, and they go to.
- 32:12Speaker 1: Their restaurants, but there are other restaurants that the people
- 32:15Speaker 1: who love the old style St. Barts go to. So
- 32:18Speaker 1: there's this, it's like a multi-layer cake. And you can
- 32:22Speaker 1: choose your layer. And then you can, if you want,
- 32:25Speaker 1: go visit the top layer and have some caviar and
- 32:28Speaker 1: have some foie gras, dance on a table, and then
- 32:31Speaker 1: go back to the real St.
- 32:32Speaker 5: Barts the next day.
- 32:34Speaker 3: And so now, how do you see it today? Like,
- 32:39Speaker 3: is it too many influencers, so many places, whether it's
- 32:44Speaker 3: a restaurant that has a great frozen yogurt in New
- 32:48Speaker 3: York City to... a bagel place to an actual vacation
- 32:52Speaker 3: spot where influencers would go and film it and make
- 32:57Speaker 3: people aware.
- 32:57Speaker 4: And now it's like, I got to go there. I
- 32:59Speaker 4: don't care how much it costs.
- 33:00Speaker 3: I just got to go there once, get these photos.
- 33:04Speaker 3: And it's really, isn't the, the vibe that it was in.
- 33:09Speaker 4: Of yesteryear.
- 33:10Speaker 5: Do you find that?
- 33:13Speaker 1: Yes, there are, you know, I have, I have an
- 33:15Speaker 1: Instagram account and, And when I started promoting my book,
- 33:19Speaker 1: one of the things that I put up on there
- 33:21Speaker 1: was a picture of eight influencers on the beach at
- 33:25Speaker 1: a beach called Anse de Galette in St. Barts at
- 33:28Speaker 1: a day club called Shalona. And they were all primping
- 33:31Speaker 1: and posing in their little metallic bikinis and with their
- 33:35Speaker 1: selfie sticks. And I did put up a post making
- 33:39Speaker 1: fun of the influencers. And the great thing is that
- 33:41Speaker 1: while they're looking at themselves and at each other, all
- 33:45Speaker 1: you have to do is turn your head. And you
- 33:47Speaker 1: can look out at sea and see what St. Bart's
- 33:49Speaker 1: is really about. As opposed to, look, I'm here. You know,
- 33:53Speaker 1: I have never cared about the frozen yogurt place that
- 33:57Speaker 1: people line up for. That whole culture, you know, I
- 34:01Speaker 1: spent 10 years covering that culture for the New York Times.
- 34:05Speaker 1: And it was a job and I got paid for it.
- 34:07Speaker 1: And the notion that this is what our society has
- 34:13Speaker 1: become is.
- 34:16Speaker 5: Fascinating one.
- 34:17Speaker 1: And the one thing that I am willing to guarantee
- 34:21Speaker 1: is that the culture will move on. This too is
- 34:23Speaker 1: reaching the saturation point. And at some point, people are
- 34:27Speaker 1: going to start looking out to sea instead of at
- 34:30Speaker 1: themselves in their cell phones.
- 34:32Speaker 3: I mean, even my own life with social media, you know,
- 34:37Speaker 3: it is such a great tool to for someone like me,
- 34:40Speaker 3: who's a comedian, who is responsible for getting her own opportunities,
- 34:45Speaker 3: own ads, own jobs, all that stuff.
- 34:47Speaker 4: It's extremely valuable.
- 34:49Speaker 3: But I have looked back on vacations in the recent
- 34:55Speaker 3: years and been like, I was too, there's like an
- 35:00Speaker 3: anxiety where you're like, I got to take these photos.
- 35:03Speaker 3: I've got to take this content because it's so beautiful.
- 35:06Speaker 4: I got to get it.
- 35:08Speaker 3: Then I was like, okay, I got to get it.
- 35:10Speaker 3: But then I won't post it till I'm home or,
- 35:14Speaker 3: you know, in my room or whatever so that I
- 35:17Speaker 3: can enjoy the experience. Now I'm going on a trip
- 35:21Speaker 3: next week to these Bahama Islands. And I'm so excited
- 35:25Speaker 3: because I love, I do love swimming in the ocean. I,
- 35:28Speaker 3: you know, but now I'm in a place where I'm like,
- 35:32Speaker 3: I'm going to bring one carry on.
- 35:34Speaker 4: That's it. I want to just enjoy it. I'm fine
- 35:38Speaker 4: taking it.
- 35:39Speaker 3: I'm not bringing bags and shoes that match because that
- 35:42Speaker 3: takes up a lot of room. I'm ready to just
- 35:44Speaker 3: really experience the beauty and have the fun. And I
- 35:47Speaker 3: don't care to have to show it off. Now, you know,
- 35:51Speaker 3: someone would be like, really Heather, you just came to
- 35:53Speaker 3: that now, like at your age. But I do think
- 35:55Speaker 3: that eventually people do get to that place where it's like,
- 35:59Speaker 3: it feels like work. You know, I went on this
- 36:02Speaker 3: one vacation and it I didn't want people to know
- 36:06Speaker 3: I was there because we had planned it and it was,
- 36:10Speaker 3: there was bad things happening in the world.
- 36:12Speaker 4: So I didn't want to look clueless posting this great time,
- 36:17Speaker 4: you know?
- 36:18Speaker 3: So we took photos and I, and I never posted it,
- 36:21Speaker 3: but it was like, it wasn't a great vacation because
- 36:24Speaker 3: I was stressed about the things going on in the world,
- 36:26Speaker 3: but it made it so nice just to be like,
- 36:29Speaker 3: oh my God, you know, take maybe one, One morning
- 36:33Speaker 3: photo and one when you're cute to go out to dinner.
- 36:36Speaker 3: And like, that's it. Like to be filming it all
- 36:39Speaker 3: around and stuff. It's you do get to a place
- 36:41Speaker 3: where you're like, I'm not living in this moment. And
- 36:44Speaker 3: I don't now even remember it.
- 36:46Speaker 1: You know, one of the one of my great St.
- 36:48Speaker 1: Barts memories is the second or third year I went.
- 36:52Speaker 1: And as I was in St. Barts, the Gulf War,
- 36:56Speaker 1: George Bush and Saddam Hussein broke out. And you couldn't
- 37:01Speaker 1: get a newspaper at St.
- 37:02Speaker 5: Barts then.
- 37:03Speaker 1: You could get a day and a half old New
- 37:05Speaker 1: York Times at four o'clock in the afternoon the next
- 37:08Speaker 1: day if they happened to pick up the papers in
- 37:10Speaker 1: Puerto Rico and fly them in. There was no television.
- 37:15Speaker 1: There were no telephones. And I am so serious about this.
- 37:18Speaker 1: There was a boutique that was called Sorry No Telephone.
- 37:22Speaker 1: And I still have some Sorry No Telephone t-shirts. And
- 37:25Speaker 1: at the time, you know, you didn't realize what an
- 37:28Speaker 1: amazing thing it was to be in a place that
- 37:31Speaker 1: was cut off from the world. So now the Gulf
- 37:33Speaker 1: War breaks out and the only television reception we had
- 37:36Speaker 1: in the house that we were renting was reverse image snow.
- 37:42Speaker 1: So it was all static and you could just about
- 37:45Speaker 1: hear that very horrible things were going on in Iran,
- 37:50Speaker 1: in Iraq.
- 37:52Speaker 5: And I thought, how lucky are we? Turn it off.
- 37:56Speaker 1: And, you know, it sounds like you've got the right idea,
- 37:58Speaker 1: but I'm going to pose a challenge to you. Leave
- 38:01Speaker 1: your phone at home.
- 38:03Speaker 4: Well, that I don't think I can do because unfortunately.
- 38:06Speaker 5: Get an old fashioned flip phone.
- 38:09Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to try to, I've been getting better,
- 38:12Speaker 3: but you know, again, with my business, I have to post,
- 38:17Speaker 3: you know, this is going to be dropping while I'm
- 38:19Speaker 3: on vacation. So it's like, I have to post about it,
- 38:23Speaker 3: you know, and I can have Drake work with me
- 38:27Speaker 3: so that I, I'm getting to a place where I'm like,
- 38:29Speaker 3: I don't want to, I definitely don't want to be
- 38:31Speaker 3: doing too much.
- 38:32Speaker 4: But yes, you do kind of have to do that.
- 38:34Speaker 4: But yeah, it's great.
- 38:36Speaker 3: When somebody, I've interviewed people that have done, young kids
- 38:39Speaker 3: that have done reality shows where they take their phones
- 38:43Speaker 3: and they said, you know, the first day it was weird,
- 38:45Speaker 3: but after that, we loved it. We loved every second
- 38:48Speaker 3: of it. Nobody else had their phone. We, that's why
- 38:52Speaker 3: we were able to make friends or even maybe, you know,
- 38:56Speaker 3: get romantic or whatever, because we weren't looking at the phones.
- 38:59Speaker 3: It's just such a, And I do feel like there's
- 39:03Speaker 3: gonna be a pendulum swing and it's already starting where
- 39:05Speaker 3: people are really making events and things like that where
- 39:11Speaker 3: you drop the phone or you hire a photographer and
- 39:14Speaker 3: that's the photos and you don't need to worry about
- 39:16Speaker 3: getting them.
- 39:17Speaker 4: And it really makes such a difference, you know?
- 39:21Speaker 1: You know, and I realize that it's both ironic and
- 39:24Speaker 1: perhaps a little hypocritical that I'm here, now here comes
- 39:28Speaker 1: the advertisement, talking about my book, Treasured Island, the story
- 39:32Speaker 1: of St. Barts, out on June 16th in bookstores everywhere,
- 39:35Speaker 1: while talking about an island where there were once no
- 39:39Speaker 1: telephones and no television and no newspapers and how much
- 39:42Speaker 1: I loved it.
- 39:44Speaker 5: But the fact is the world can accommodate both of
- 39:46Speaker 5: those things. You can be.
- 39:50Speaker 1: Both the person who does your job and takes pictures
- 39:53Speaker 1: and posts on social media and also someone who can
- 39:56Speaker 1: just throw the switch and.
- 39:58Speaker 5: Turn it off for a few days. And it's a
- 40:01Speaker 5: place like St.
- 40:02Speaker 1: Bart's where the world is in your face. You go
- 40:05Speaker 1: down to Gustavia Harbor and what you are looking at
- 40:08Speaker 1: is wealth inequality without question. That's what you're seeing. You
- 40:13Speaker 1: are seeing the epitome of inequality. You're seeing, if you
- 40:18Speaker 1: look hard enough, how this all happened, how luxury became
- 40:22Speaker 1: this thing, how social media, the fuel of ambition and
- 40:26Speaker 1: avarice and jealousy and envy that drives social media. And
- 40:30Speaker 1: yet you're also in this stunningly beautiful place where you
- 40:34Speaker 1: can just turn it off and relax. And, you know,
- 40:37Speaker 1: there it's just being able to keep two thoughts in
- 40:40Speaker 1: your head at the same time. So it's not hypocrisy
- 40:44Speaker 1: and it's not irony.
- 40:45Speaker 5: It's just the way the world works now.
- 40:48Speaker 1: And, you know, we have to take pleasure where we
- 40:50Speaker 1: can find it, even in troubled times.
- 40:52Speaker 4: In being in St.
- 40:55Speaker 3: Barts and things, I'm imagining you encountered like a lot
- 41:00Speaker 3: of maybe, you know, infidelity or social climbers or gold
- 41:07Speaker 3: diggers or gigolos or wife swapping scandal.
- 41:13Speaker 4: Can you share any of that?
- 41:16Speaker 1: Well, you know, a lot of what goes on in St.
- 41:20Speaker 1: Barts stays in St. Barts because there is an entire
- 41:24Speaker 1: ecosystem of people who are paid very well to protect
- 41:29Speaker 1: the privacy of the people who go there. So the,
- 41:32Speaker 1: you know, the concierges, which are both hotel concierges, but
- 41:36Speaker 1: also concierges for the people.
- 41:38Speaker 5: Who rent villas.
- 41:40Speaker 1: You know, they might tell me the story about the
- 41:43Speaker 1: maid who walked in one day and one of the
- 41:46Speaker 1: guys in the house was snorting cocaine off the bare
- 41:49Speaker 1: bottom of one of the women in the house. Or
- 41:52Speaker 1: the clothes were all over the place and who knows
- 41:54Speaker 1: who was in what bedroom.
- 41:56Speaker 5: But they're going to protect their clients.
- 41:58Speaker 1: So, and, you know, really, there's something kind of banal
- 42:03Speaker 1: about all of that. But at the same time, there,
- 42:06Speaker 1: you know, this is an island where hedonism has reigned
- 42:09Speaker 1: for decades. And there was a point when all of
- 42:13Speaker 1: that was very, very public. So there's a whole section
- 42:17Speaker 1: in the middle of the book about the era from
- 42:20Speaker 1: the 70s to the 80s when St. Bart's was overrun
- 42:24Speaker 1: with drug smugglers, models, fashion photographers, and rock stars. And
- 42:30Speaker 1: that was one of the things that, you know, there
- 42:33Speaker 1: were a whole series of waves of people going there
- 42:36Speaker 1: that put St.
- 42:37Speaker 5: Bart's on the map.
- 42:38Speaker 1: First, there were multi-multi-millionaires like David Rockefeller and Edmund de Rothschild. So,
- 42:43Speaker 1: you know, you had the American and the French uber-rich guys.
- 42:48Speaker 1: Then you had the kind of Connecticut pioneers, Republicans who
- 42:52Speaker 1: liked to sail, who built houses. One of those houses
- 42:56Speaker 1: that was built by a fellow who was later the
- 43:00Speaker 1: mayor of Wilmington, Delaware, became the den of iniquity the
- 43:06Speaker 1: most raucous, louche hotel club on the island.
- 43:09Speaker 5: It was called Auteur de Rocher.
- 43:11Speaker 1: It was ostensibly owned by Jimmy Buffett, although Buffett was
- 43:15Speaker 1: really just a front man.
- 43:16Speaker 5: He owned about 2%, 3%.
- 43:19Speaker 1: But Buffett described it as the scene of some of
- 43:21Speaker 1: the worst behavior I have ever seen. And he was
- 43:25Speaker 1: a rock star, so you know that he's seen a
- 43:27Speaker 1: lot of bad behavior in his life. And so there's
- 43:31Speaker 1: a very long section of Treasured Island in which things
- 43:35Speaker 1: that went on there are described, and a lot of
- 43:38Speaker 1: it is not fit for a family podcast.
- 43:41Speaker 4: No, this is not a family podcast.
- 43:46Speaker 5: Well, good.
- 43:47Speaker 1: There's the bartender who had sex with so many girls
- 43:50Speaker 1: in the bathroom that they ripped the sink off the
- 43:52Speaker 1: wall three times. He had a reputation for going down
- 43:57Speaker 1: on women for an hour and a half at a time,
- 43:59Speaker 1: so they would hand him from one to the next.
- 44:02Speaker 1: Girls left their boyfriends to be with this guy. drug
- 44:05Speaker 1: dealers traded girls. You know, they would be having sex
- 44:10Speaker 1: on the pool table while snorting cocaine from somebody handing
- 44:13Speaker 1: it in through the window into the nightclub.
- 44:16Speaker 5: It was wild.
- 44:17Speaker 1: And when I asked one of these drug smugglers whether
- 44:21Speaker 1: a night like that was the worst thing he ever saw,
- 44:23Speaker 1: he kind of paused for a second and he went, uh, no.
- 44:28Speaker 3: Now, in all this research, was it never darker than that?
- 44:33Speaker 3: Like this wasn't never Epstein Island type stuff? Or was
- 44:38Speaker 3: there some of that where girls would come that maybe
- 44:40Speaker 3: were not 18 years old, but were in the modeling
- 44:43Speaker 3: world and looked older? They themselves were trying to get
- 44:47Speaker 3: on the yacht. We always hear everybody's like, oh, I
- 44:50Speaker 3: want to go on a yacht. I want to be
- 44:52Speaker 3: a yacht girl. I want to find friends who have
- 44:54Speaker 3: you know, girls that could bring me on a yacht.
- 44:56Speaker 3: And then people are like, be careful when you get
- 44:58Speaker 3: on that yacht. You know, they're not just, they're not
- 45:02Speaker 3: looking to find out about what your, you know, high
- 45:05Speaker 3: school career was like before you got on this yacht.
- 45:07Speaker 3: They don't give a shit about that.
- 45:09Speaker 7: Between the late 1990s and the 2010s, there was a
- 45:16Speaker 7: period when almost every Me Too perpetrator on earth was
- 45:20Speaker 7: going to St.
- 45:21Speaker 5: Barts.
- 45:21Speaker 1: Usually, again, during Christmas week, Easy to avoid. You just
- 45:25Speaker 1: don't go during Christmas week. But Harvey Weinstein was there.
- 45:28Speaker 1: Puff Daddy was there. Russell Simmons was there. There's a
- 45:32Speaker 1: PR woman in New York who's kind of been disgraced
- 45:35Speaker 1: by her association with Jeffrey Epstein. And just out of curiosity,
- 45:39Speaker 1: this was long after I'd written the book, but the
- 45:41Speaker 1: Epstein files came out and I plugged St.
- 45:44Speaker 5: Bart's into the Epstein files.
- 45:46Speaker 1: And she was constantly trying to get him to go
- 45:49Speaker 1: from the Virgin Islands to St.
- 45:51Speaker 5: Bart's.
- 45:51Speaker 1: And interestingly, he was like, Well, you know, what do
- 45:54Speaker 1: I need that for? I've got my own island and
- 45:56Speaker 1: I have my own girls. So I guess Jeffrey Epstein probably,
- 45:59Speaker 1: you know, only went there a few times, but all
- 46:02Speaker 1: of the rest of them were there. So there's an
- 46:04Speaker 1: entire roster of the cancel who are on the scene
- 46:09Speaker 1: on St.
- 46:09Speaker 5: Bart's list. So did bad things go on there? I'm
- 46:13Speaker 5: sure they did.
- 46:14Speaker 1: I'm frankly more interested in financial skullduggery, in real estate skullduggery,
- 46:22Speaker 1: in the machinations of uber-rich people trying to impose their
- 46:29Speaker 1: vision on an island that will tolerate them and take
- 46:33Speaker 1: their money, but really doesn't want them running things. And
- 46:36Speaker 1: so those kind of larger societal forces are what I
- 46:41Speaker 1: pay more attention to.
- 46:43Speaker 3: You know what I wonder about is like, sometimes when
- 46:46Speaker 3: I think about like a St. Bar, it's like, let's
- 46:47Speaker 3: just say I wanted to go and plan with my friends.
- 46:51Speaker 3: I mean, I'm, I'm a little bit famous, but not much.
- 46:56Speaker 3: I always panic, like how on a busy time, how
- 46:59Speaker 3: am I ever going to get a reservation anywhere? Like,
- 47:03Speaker 3: how does it work out that all these people, because
- 47:06Speaker 3: each person's more powerful than the next that can say, no,
- 47:09Speaker 3: I want an eight o'clock table, whatever. I want a
- 47:13Speaker 3: two o'clock table on the beach at this place. the
- 47:16Speaker 3: big round table near the guy playing the trumpet. Like,
- 47:20Speaker 3: how does it always work out that everybody seems to
- 47:23Speaker 3: get their spot?
- 47:26Speaker 1: Well, first of all, you don't have to compete with
- 47:28Speaker 1: me because I would never go to those places.
- 47:30Speaker 4: Okay.
- 47:31Speaker 1: But, you know, first of all, where do you live?
- 47:35Speaker 1: Where do you work at?
- 47:36Speaker 4: I live, I'm in just outside of LA.
- 47:39Speaker 6: Okay.
- 47:41Speaker 1: It's just like it used to be to get a
- 47:43Speaker 1: table at Morton's or at Craig's or whatever the place
- 47:45Speaker 1: right now is.
- 47:46Speaker 5: If you're somebody, you'll get a table.
- 47:49Speaker 1: If you know somebody, you'll get a table. If all
- 47:52Speaker 1: else fails, money talks. The better thing to do is
- 47:56Speaker 1: plan ahead. You know, I hate this, but I know
- 47:59Speaker 1: now that there are certain places on St. Bart's where
- 48:02Speaker 1: I have to call a week or two in advance
- 48:04Speaker 1: and email and make reservations and plan ahead.
- 48:08Speaker 4: I was much.
- 48:09Speaker 5: I remember.
- 48:10Speaker 1: Years and years ago, I wrote a cover story for
- 48:14Speaker 1: a travel magazine about the island of Capri off of
- 48:17Speaker 1: the Italian coast. And when I went to Capri, it
- 48:21Speaker 1: was in a slow moment. It had been a very
- 48:23Speaker 1: famous place in the 50s and 60s, and it had
- 48:25Speaker 1: kind of fallen off the map of rich people. And
- 48:29Speaker 1: I wrote a cover story about it, and I'm not
- 48:32Speaker 1: giving myself full credit for this, but it started to
- 48:34Speaker 1: come back until it became the place again. full of
- 48:37Speaker 1: yachts and rich people and Jeff Bezos and blah, blah, blah. But,
- 48:41Speaker 1: you know, we would wake up in the morning on Capri,
- 48:43Speaker 1: walk down to the concierge desk and say, which way
- 48:46Speaker 1: is the wind blowing today? And that was how we
- 48:49Speaker 1: knew whether we wanted to go to Luigi, which was
- 48:52Speaker 1: on one side of a mountain, or Scalinatella, which was
- 48:55Speaker 1: on the other side of the mountain. Which way was
- 48:56Speaker 1: the wind blowing? Where was the water going to be nicer?
- 48:59Speaker 1: You know, unfortunately, unless you go places that are not
- 49:02Speaker 1: yet discovered, you can't do that anymore. You have to
- 49:05Speaker 1: either plan ahead Be immensely wealthy. Be somebody or know somebody.
- 49:12Speaker 1: And that's just, again, the way the world works. Or
- 49:15Speaker 1: be very lucky and walk in just when somebody really
- 49:18Speaker 1: rich who had that big table on the beach cancels.
- 49:22Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I wonder, like, are there ever groups
- 49:25Speaker 3: of very attractive girls that go there in the hopes
- 49:32Speaker 3: of having a great time, going to villas, going to parties,
- 49:35Speaker 3: getting on yachts? But it seems to me like most
- 49:39Speaker 3: people that go, it's men that bring a girlfriend with
- 49:44Speaker 3: them or bring a wife or a mistress or whatever.
- 49:47Speaker 4: It's not like going.
- 49:49Speaker 3: To Vegas and meeting a group of guys playing poker
- 49:53Speaker 3: at the steakhouse or whatever.
- 49:54Speaker 4: Have you found that?
- 49:57Speaker 1: One will see groups of incredibly beautiful women in incredibly
- 50:02Speaker 1: skimpy clothing wearing sitting in highly visible places on St. Barts,
- 50:07Speaker 1: and some of them are even amateurs. But yes, that happens.
- 50:13Speaker 1: It's going to happen anywhere where a lot of money congregates.
- 50:20Speaker 1: It's part of the scene. But I think that you
- 50:22Speaker 1: are right. Most people who are going to St. Barts
- 50:24Speaker 1: will bring a date.
- 50:26Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 50:27Speaker 3: And then what do you feel about people bringing kids?
- 50:30Speaker 3: Has that always been a factor where they bring the
- 50:32Speaker 3: kids and the nannies, or was there a time when
- 50:35Speaker 3: it was like you saw very little children on vacation there?
- 50:39Speaker 1: Well, remember I told you about that hotel where the
- 50:42Speaker 1: hotel owner would leave it empty in order to appear exclusive?
- 50:46Speaker 1: He once sent Madonna away when she showed up with
- 50:49Speaker 1: a baby and a nanny because he didn't want the
- 50:51Speaker 1: baby and the nanny there.
- 50:54Speaker 5: But most places on St. Barts, you see children all
- 50:58Speaker 5: the time. It's also, it's a family island. It's an island.
- 51:01Speaker 1: Where there is an entire society that lives there. There's
- 51:05Speaker 1: that beach I mentioned with the Instagrammers called Shelby John Stigallette.
- 51:11Speaker 1: There's an elementary school right next door to that beach.
- 51:13Speaker 1: There are children all over the island. There are children-friendly hotels.
- 51:17Speaker 1: There are children-friendly beaches. It's a very sophisticated place. And
- 51:24Speaker 1: so well-behaved children do not stand out. And especially on
- 51:30Speaker 1: the weekends when the islanders have the day off and
- 51:33Speaker 1: they're going to the beach, you see kids all over
- 51:36Speaker 1: the place. It's really kind of sweet.
- 51:38Speaker 4: Yes.
- 51:40Speaker 3: It also says, you know, right now locals are dealing
- 51:45Speaker 3: with insane overdevelopment, ecological threats, hospitality groups are taking over.
- 51:52Speaker 4: So where does that leave it now?
- 51:56Speaker 1: Well, it's an ongoing battle right at this moment. A
- 51:59Speaker 1: few years ago, there was an election where development-friendly candidates
- 52:04Speaker 1: were running against development-unfriendly candidates. And the slate that was
- 52:10Speaker 1: elected was kind of right up the middle. So there's
- 52:13Speaker 1: an acute consciousness of the fact that St. Barts could
- 52:16Speaker 1: become the victim of its own success. And there's a
- 52:19Speaker 1: very careful process going on, which includes a lot of
- 52:23Speaker 1: political battles between You know, the St. Barts equivalent of
- 52:28Speaker 1: the left and the right, although they're not left or
- 52:29Speaker 1: right on St. Barts, they're pro-development or they're pro-preservation. And
- 52:38Speaker 1: I think that what's going to happen is they're going
- 52:40Speaker 1: to find a balance. But at the moment, it's a
- 52:43Speaker 1: political argument. It's a tug of war. And so when
- 52:47Speaker 1: you go there, there are lots of construction trucks. There's
- 52:50Speaker 1: lots of construction companies. But the process of issuing permits
- 52:55Speaker 1: to allow new construction has slowed way down. So what's
- 53:00Speaker 1: happening now is all the permits that are outstanding, those
- 53:02Speaker 1: places are being built. But for instance, you're no longer
- 53:06Speaker 1: allowed to build a villa just to rent it. If
- 53:10Speaker 1: you're a family and you're building a villa for your
- 53:12Speaker 1: family to live in, no problem. 60% of the island
- 53:16Speaker 1: has been declared green. It will never be built on.
- 53:19Speaker 1: And boy, does that frustrate some people who own land.
- 53:22Speaker 1: let me tell you. So it's a process and it's ongoing.
- 53:26Speaker 1: And again, that's the underlying narrative of my book is
- 53:31Speaker 1: the story of progress, profit, preservation, all of these things,
- 53:38Speaker 1: you know, greed.
- 53:40Speaker 5: It all is in this stew of St.
- 53:43Speaker 1: Bart's and it's just makes it the most fascinating eight
- 53:47Speaker 1: square miles in the world to me.
- 53:49Speaker 3: Question about building a house, you're building a villa for
- 53:53Speaker 3: your family, for yourself. Is it one of those things
- 53:57Speaker 3: where you can only rent it out to one person
- 54:01Speaker 3: a year or you cannot rent it out to anybody?
- 54:05Speaker 4: You have to be there with your guests.
- 54:07Speaker 1: Well, now there's an effort being made to stop the
- 54:12Speaker 1: construction of purely rental housing. There's also a huge shortage
- 54:17Speaker 1: of housing for staff. So you have these five-star hotels
- 54:20Speaker 1: where their staff can't find any place to sleep, which
- 54:23Speaker 1: is a huge issue on the island. And again, this
- 54:26Speaker 1: is all stuff that is in the process.
- 54:28Speaker 5: Of being worked out.
- 54:31Speaker 1: Most people on the island, they thought that beachfront property
- 54:35Speaker 1: was kind of yucky because beachfront property made you subject
- 54:38Speaker 1: to hurricanes and bad weather. Beachfront had mosquitoes. Beachfront wasn't
- 54:43Speaker 1: considered good property. They lived back from the beach and
- 54:45Speaker 1: up from the beach. And then they saw these people
- 54:48Speaker 1: coming to go to the beach. And so they built
- 54:51Speaker 1: houses on their properties on the beach that they rented.
- 54:54Speaker 1: And the joke was that they would move out and
- 54:56Speaker 1: sleep in the backyard in a hammock back in the 80s. But,
- 55:00Speaker 1: you know, nowadays, I mean, I rent a little tiny
- 55:03Speaker 1: house from a family that has a compound where mom
- 55:08Speaker 1: lives in one house, daughter and husband live in a
- 55:11Speaker 1: second house, and my wife and I rent the third house.
- 55:15Speaker 1: That's very frequent. There are people who have houses that
- 55:18Speaker 1: they use once a week and they once a month,
- 55:21Speaker 1: once a year, excuse me, and they rented out the
- 55:23Speaker 1: rest of the time. There are a million rental agents.
- 55:26Speaker 1: There used to be one. It used to be a duo.
- 55:28Speaker 1: There used to be two. It was a duopoly.
- 55:31Speaker 5: And it was a.
- 55:31Speaker 1: Much more civilized society when that duopoly was in charge.
- 55:38Speaker 5: Nowadays, it's a real estate free for all.
- 55:40Speaker 1: And so you have, you know, There's a house around
- 55:43Speaker 1: the corner from the one I rent that is, I think, $ 80, 000
- 55:47Speaker 1: a week during high season. But if you want it
- 55:50Speaker 1: for Christmas, you have to take it for two weeks
- 55:53Speaker 1: at $ 250, 000 a week.
- 55:55Speaker 4: Wow.
- 55:56Speaker 3: Now, has anybody or, you know, been such a drunk
- 56:01Speaker 3: asshole something that you get like banned from the restaurant
- 56:05Speaker 3: or banned from the island or anything like that, even
- 56:08Speaker 3: though you're super wealthy?
- 56:10Speaker 5: Funny you should mention that.
- 56:12Speaker 1: That same restaurant, hotel, where Madonna was turned away, which,
- 56:17Speaker 1: by the way, was famous in the 1980s for having
- 56:19Speaker 1: the world's most expensive lentil salad. He once threw Puff
- 56:24Speaker 1: Daddy out for being too rambunctious. And that exact same weekend,
- 56:29Speaker 1: Puff Daddy's yacht rental company took the yacht he had
- 56:33Speaker 1: rented away from him because he was trashing the yacht.
- 56:36Speaker 1: So the answer to your question is yes, it at
- 56:38Speaker 1: least happened to Puff Daddy.
- 56:41Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he had a good sense of judgment,
- 56:47Speaker 3: this guy, as far as that goes, and seeing that
- 56:49Speaker 3: this was not going to get better or this wasn't
- 56:51Speaker 3: a one-time incident.
- 56:54Speaker 5: But to show you how tolerant St.
- 56:55Speaker 1: Bart's is, that guy, the guy who threw Madonna out
- 56:58Speaker 1: and threw Puffy out, that guy has been in jail,
- 57:02Speaker 1: has sold his hotel to two different people, has been
- 57:06Speaker 1: engaged in all kinds of contractual skullduggery. and is still
- 57:11Speaker 1: a very beloved person on the island.
- 57:13Speaker 5: So St. Barts is tolerant of bad behavior, but only
- 57:16Speaker 5: up to a point.
- 57:18Speaker 4: So you live most of the time in the city,
- 57:21Speaker 4: in New York City?
- 57:22Speaker 5: I live right near the UN in Manhattan, yes.
- 57:26Speaker 4: And so how often then do you go to St. Barts?
- 57:31Speaker 1: Used to be once a year, lately twice a year.
- 57:34Speaker 1: My wife and I travel all the time. We're back
- 57:37Speaker 1: and forth to Europe all the time. We go all over.
- 57:41Speaker 5: But St.
- 57:41Speaker 1: Bart's is an every year thing. I've reserved the house
- 57:46Speaker 1: that I rent on St. Bart's through 2028. So I'm
- 57:48Speaker 1: a true believer.
- 57:50Speaker 4: And what's the time of year that you say you
- 57:52Speaker 4: like to go?
- 57:55Speaker 1: Any time from October to early December. So around Thanksgiving
- 58:01Speaker 1: is really nice. Then we used to go from Chinese
- 58:06Speaker 1: New Year, which is the end of January, anytime right
- 58:10Speaker 1: up to Easter, which is very nice. I try to
- 58:13Speaker 1: go during slack times of year when the island is
- 58:16Speaker 1: a little less crowded and a little less high pressure.
- 58:19Speaker 3: And so when is kind of not the ideal time
- 58:22Speaker 3: to go weather-wise?
- 58:24Speaker 1: Well, you know, you don't want to go, you probably
- 58:27Speaker 1: don't want to go in September and October because there
- 58:30Speaker 1: are these.
- 58:30Speaker 5: Little things called hurricanes.
- 58:32Speaker 1: And, you know, there's a treasured island tells the story
- 58:35Speaker 1: of a number of these hurricanes that basically devastated the island.
- 58:39Speaker 1: And then the island is very quickly rebuilt. And in
- 58:42Speaker 1: certain instances, those hurricanes have been moments of reset for
- 58:46Speaker 1: the island when the culture changes a little bit. Like
- 58:49Speaker 1: Hurricane Irma in 2019 was a moment when people began
- 58:53Speaker 1: to take stock of overdevelopment for the first time. So
- 58:57Speaker 1: probably September, October, not ideal times to go. Um, The
- 59:03Speaker 1: European crowd tends to go on in August, which is
- 59:08Speaker 1: European vacation season. and they don't want to go to
- 59:11Speaker 1: Saint-Tropez because it's overcrowded. So they come to St. Barts
- 59:15Speaker 1: because it's underutilized at that time of the year. And,
- 59:18Speaker 1: you know, you had said about the weather. Well, in August,
- 59:20Speaker 1: I went once in August and at three o'clock every
- 59:23Speaker 1: single afternoon, like clockwork, there would be a torrential rainstorm
- 59:27Speaker 1: and it would last for 15 minutes. And then the
- 59:30Speaker 1: sun would come out again. That's not too bad. No.
- 59:35Speaker 3: What about like the Real Housewives of New York and
- 59:38Speaker 3: places like those reality shows that come to the island
- 59:43Speaker 3: and film? Are they restrictive of that kind of thing now?
- 59:47Speaker 3: Or did they do it once and regret it?
- 59:49Speaker 1: Well, you know, Keeping Up with the Kardashians, that's their
- 59:54Speaker 1: television show.
- 59:55Speaker 6: Yes.
- 59:56Speaker 5: Keeping Up with the Kardashians did an episode.
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: And they spent a week there filming and they rented
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: a villa that had once been a hotel restaurant that
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: was famous for its transvestite cabaret shows. So it was
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: kind of appropriate that, you know, trashy people in high
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: heels would film their show there and people on the
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: island laugh at it. You know, nobody cares. If you're
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: decently behaved, no one minds. I don't know if there
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: are rules about bringing a camera crew to the island.
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: You don't see that very often. You see a fashion
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: shoot far more often than that.
- 1:00:37Speaker 5: But, you know, do.
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: Reality TV people go there?
- 1:00:40Speaker 5: Yeah, sure.
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: But so do people who actually accomplish things in their
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: lives and writers and artists and musicians and politicians and billionaires.
- 1:00:53Speaker 4: Speaking of real housewives is something I covered.
- 1:00:55Speaker 3: I know that's not like your forte or anything, but
- 1:00:58Speaker 3: they always want to get someone that is the billionaire's wife,
- 1:01:03Speaker 3: the rich wife that's led this very, very fabulous life.
- 1:01:08Speaker 3: But she's not an actress and she's not famous in
- 1:01:10Speaker 3: her own right. But sometimes those women want very badly
- 1:01:16Speaker 3: to be famous because it's the one thing they really
- 1:01:18Speaker 3: can't buy. And then other times they're very hard to
- 1:01:22Speaker 3: get because the husband or whatever is like, hell to
- 1:01:25Speaker 3: the no, we're not going to have our lives exposed
- 1:01:27Speaker 3: and be a target for someone trying to fish into
- 1:01:30Speaker 3: our financials.
- 1:01:32Speaker 4: But in you dealing with these wealthy wives of.
- 1:01:36Speaker 3: Have you ever found that they do desire to have
- 1:01:40Speaker 3: a higher profile than what is allowed of them as
- 1:01:44Speaker 3: being the wife of?
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: In my experience and to my knowledge, which is limited
- 1:01:50Speaker 1: because it's not a world I cover, the kind of
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: people that you're describing are second tier in whatever world
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: they're in. If they're rich guys' wives, then they're second
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: tier rich guys. And they might even be second tier wives.
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: They're people who haven't actually gotten to the top. And
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: they are looking for something. They're still looking for something better.
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: And there's a level of desperation there that lots of
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: people are willing to take advantage of. And, you know,
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: I'm far more interested in accomplishment. I'm far more interested,
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: whether it's business accomplishment or creative accomplishment. Those are the
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: people who do things are the people who interest me.
- 1:02:40Speaker 5: So on St.
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: Bart's, I'm actually far more interested in the people who
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: built hotels, who created restaurants, who built important houses and
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: attracted other influential, important, accomplished people to the island than
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: I am to the people who come in the third
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: wave where they're like looking around going, I don't see
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: any Rockefellers.
- 1:03:06Speaker 5: So it's not, I don't think St.
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: Barts is an island that would reject someone like that,
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: but neither would they be an important person on the
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: island or to the island.
- 1:03:21Speaker 2: Right.
- 1:03:22Speaker 3: And one thing I've kind of, I was surprised that
- 1:03:25Speaker 3: I discovered this because I didn't grow up in the
- 1:03:28Speaker 3: world of this kind of wealth or even close, is
- 1:03:32Speaker 3: that billionaires kind of are attracted to other billionaires' wives,
- 1:03:40Speaker 3: whether they're divorced or whatever, that these women, you know,
- 1:03:45Speaker 3: you sometimes think, yes, some rich guys go for the youngest,
- 1:03:47Speaker 3: hottest thing for their third or fourth wife. But oftentimes
- 1:03:51Speaker 3: they go for the woman that knows how to live
- 1:03:54Speaker 3: this life already. And if it's sort of a competitive
- 1:03:59Speaker 3: thing that they would get some guy that was sort
- 1:04:02Speaker 3: of in their league or maybe even a little above
- 1:04:05Speaker 3: their league, their ex-wife.
- 1:04:07Speaker 4: Have you seen that at all, that dynamic?
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: Yeah, but again, it's only interesting in terms of sort
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: of the life of the French aristocracy in the 19th century.
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: It's not in any way about good energy, creativity, accomplishment.
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: All they are, you know, the wife who knows how
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: to do things is really no different from the fashion
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: model with the bodacious body. It's just another possession for
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: the kind of person who would do that. The kind
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: of man who would do that is simply looking for
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: a better car, you know, a Lambo with a bigger engine,
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: a house with a second swimming pool.
- 1:04:57Speaker 5: It's banal. It's not a higher expression of human existence.
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:05:04Speaker 3: It's so interesting that there's those kind of wealthy people,
- 1:05:07Speaker 3: like you said, looking for the next thing. They want
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: to have the best thing. They want to have the
- 1:05:12Speaker 3: flashiest item or car. And then there's people that are
- 1:05:17Speaker 3: just rich and relaxed because of it. And it's a
- 1:05:24Speaker 3: peaceful life. It's a generous life. It's a fun life.
- 1:05:28Speaker 3: It's a creative life. And You know, I've experienced both. Like,
- 1:05:33Speaker 3: it's so interesting, you know, and because it seems like,
- 1:05:37Speaker 3: you know, it's such a stratosphere of money that you
- 1:05:41Speaker 3: cannot relate to. It's really interesting to see how certain
- 1:05:44Speaker 3: people navigate that life, protect themselves, but are also still
- 1:05:48Speaker 3: open to new friendships and things.
- 1:05:51Speaker 5: Well, and, you know, on St.
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: Bart's, that expression is more often through the bigger boat,
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: the bigger party. the bigger house, the bigger piece of land.
- 1:06:03Speaker 1: It's not so much, you know, the girl, the arm
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: candy that you're walking around with. I'm sure those guys
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: have great looking women on their arms, but it's, again,
- 1:06:15Speaker 1: it might be important Christmas week, but the rest of
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: the year, St. Bart's is really, the heart of St.
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: Bart's is not about the money. The money is simply
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: a means to a higher end in that context.
- 1:06:34Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 1:06:35Speaker 3: Well, this was so interesting. I know everyone's going to
- 1:06:38Speaker 3: love the book. It is called Treasured Island. Comes out
- 1:06:43Speaker 3: June 16th. Thank you, Michael Gross. Check out his other books.
- 1:06:50Speaker 3: You listed them and they all sound so juicy and interesting,
- 1:06:54Speaker 3: which is why I'm glad you're on Juicy Scoop. And
- 1:06:57Speaker 3: a world that, you know, it's fun to crawl inside
- 1:07:00Speaker 3: and really get to learn about and know about and
- 1:07:04Speaker 3: just kind of escape. And I'm really grateful for you
- 1:07:07Speaker 3: being so open and what a life you've led.
- 1:07:10Speaker 4: Thank you for coming on.
- 1:07:12Speaker 5: Thank you.
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: And people can find out all about those books at
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: my website, which is simply mgross.com. And Treasured Island comes
- 1:07:19Speaker 1: out on June 16th and I hope people enjoy it.
- 1:07:22Speaker 4: Thank you so much. This is great.
- 1:07:25Speaker 2: They think you're done for the day, but they don't
- 1:07:28Speaker 2: know about the drawer. The drawer. Just the one square
- 1:07:33Speaker 2: before bed. Or two, you know.
- 1:07:38Speaker 5: Nobody's watching.
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: You deserve a treat.
- 1:07:44Speaker 2: With eight flavours to choose from, you can choose the
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