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How to Manage a Boss Who Thinks You Are a Threat
Lucas and Luna tackle a tricky workplace dynamic: what do you do when your boss perceives you as a competitor rather than an ally? They break down the telltale signs — being left out of key decisions, having your contributions downplayed, and feeling a chill in one-on-ones. Lucas shares a real example from a former colleague at a mid-sized tech firm who navigated this by deliberately amplifying her boss's ideas in meetings, using a technique called 'strategic deference.' Luna pushes back on whether that's just playing politics, and they explore the line between managing up…
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