Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 1 | Ex-NFL star Brandon Marshall under scrutiny for punishing son
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- 0:01Speaker 1: So uh, if you've been watching I know you have skip.
- 0:04Speaker 1: Have you been watching the World Cup? Of course? He no,
- 0:07Speaker 1: I haven't this a little bit. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah,
- 0:11Speaker 1: it's not my thing. But one thing that is apparent.
- 0:14Speaker 2: The European nations are having a ball in America. They
- 0:18Speaker 2: discovered route, ranch dress dressing and Golden Corral, and they
- 0:22Speaker 2: gonna the one thing they do, they gonna learn how
- 0:26Speaker 2: to if they when they leave here they cholestero are
- 0:28Speaker 2: level gonna be high as hell.
- 0:29Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they I'll go back.
- 0:32Speaker 2: To Europe with type two diabetes and high cholesterol and gut.
- 0:38Speaker 2: Do you see that they're trying to snake. They're trying
- 0:40Speaker 2: to sneak back like vats of ranch dressing.
- 0:44Speaker 1: Oh yeah, see that. The one thing we're gonna give
- 0:48Speaker 1: people is a show.
- 0:49Speaker 2: But now we can feed you bad food and we
- 0:53Speaker 2: can pretend like we love democracy, that we can do
- 0:55Speaker 2: that better than anybody.
- 0:56Speaker 1: That's what.
- 0:58Speaker 3: I did see an article where they we're trying to
- 1:00Speaker 3: I guess someone was saying that Norway shift their own
- 1:02Speaker 3: food in with their own chefs to the US because
- 1:05Speaker 3: of all of the ingredients that we allow in our
- 1:07Speaker 3: foods here versus what they allowed.
- 1:09Speaker 1: They were like they shifted, like like wild caught salmon,
- 1:14Speaker 1: and like, Okay, do you know what's so sad to me?
- 1:18Speaker 2: Everybody who's playing in the World Cup has healthcare for
- 1:22Speaker 2: their citizens except us, everybody, everybody.
- 1:26Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:26Speaker 2: It's it's when you go around the rest of the
- 1:28Speaker 2: world you realize, like how the idea of us is
- 1:32Speaker 2: so different than the reality of us. Like if you
- 1:34Speaker 2: go to airports in any other almost any other country,
- 1:37Speaker 2: look how modern they are.
- 1:39Speaker 1: Yeah, and and think about America.
- 1:41Speaker 2: You can't build anything here unless a rich unless the
- 1:45Speaker 2: white dude gets the lowest bid.
- 1:48Speaker 1: Well used to used to you just yea, yeah.
- 1:54Speaker 3: It's the other thing I thought so interesting as well,
- 1:56Speaker 3: is you know, most countries have a lot of concern
- 1:59Speaker 3: and care when it comes to what their.
- 2:02Speaker 1: Citizens are eating, right whereas here not so much.
- 2:05Speaker 3: They'll put anything in it to make it just taste better,
- 2:07Speaker 3: to make you want to buy it, whether they color
- 2:09Speaker 3: the food or add extra ingredience. Later later we find
- 2:12Speaker 3: out cause of some kind of cancer. Where's other places
- 2:15Speaker 3: they're like, nah, we can.
- 2:16Speaker 1: They now want to give you health care for the
- 2:18Speaker 1: stuff you get from food. It's crazy.
- 2:20Speaker 2: Happy birthday to of course it's Black Music Month and
- 2:23Speaker 2: Pride Month and missing We just cram everything in June,
- 2:27Speaker 2: trying to get our slate clean before July.
- 2:29Speaker 1: I guess.
- 2:29Speaker 2: Happy birthday to Dale Curry, Happy birthday the La La Anthony,
- 2:32Speaker 2: Happy birth to the Ricky Gervaise, Happy birth to Sonya
- 2:35Speaker 2: Soda amr So to my Ar, Happy birthday to Carly Simon,
- 2:39Speaker 2: Happy birth to to Jimmy Walker, Happy birth to the
- 2:42Speaker 2: Willis Reid, and happy birthday the Keen Holiday Tyler Hudson
- 2:45Speaker 2: on Matt Locke, possumously, happy birth during the Whams, George
- 2:48Speaker 2: Michaels right there, that's happy birtha to Anthony.
- 2:51Speaker 1: Bourdain and that birthday to the kenby Mtumble.
- 2:54Speaker 2: Those are all possumous. We've got a great show lined
- 2:56Speaker 2: up for you. It is the deal you can show.
- 3:02Speaker 1: Das Man. Telly's good. Well.
- 3:05Speaker 3: This whole division on the internet regarding what is appropriate
- 3:09Speaker 3: punishment has been sparked because of former Chicago Bears wide
- 3:14Speaker 3: receiver Brandon Marshall.
- 3:15Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys saw this or not.
- 3:17Speaker 3: But apparently he was punishing his eleven year old son
- 3:19Speaker 3: by making him run at two o'clock in the morning,
- 3:23Speaker 3: and he was falling beside him in his car and
- 3:25Speaker 3: the kid was crying, and he was like, the only
- 3:27Speaker 3: thing wrong this is the fact that he was running
- 3:29Speaker 3: too slow. And he was like, listen, this is how
- 3:31Speaker 3: this is tough love. Whether you believe it or not,
- 3:33Speaker 3: you know, this is how I raised my sign. So
- 3:34Speaker 3: a lot of people were like, you know, you shouldn't
- 3:36Speaker 3: do that. You know, it's too hard on this kid.
- 3:38Speaker 3: And he was like, if you mess up at two am,
- 3:41Speaker 3: that's what time you get. That's what time you get
- 3:42Speaker 3: your punishment.
- 3:43Speaker 1: I don't see anything wrong with it all. Yeah, I mean,
- 3:46Speaker 1: it's his kid, I guess, you know.
- 3:48Speaker 2: I mean, but here's the thing, everybody, when I watched
- 3:51Speaker 2: that Michael Jackson documentary, you could have had the barge's
- 3:55Speaker 2: daddy instead of Joe Jackson.
- 3:57Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 3:59Speaker 2: Even now, I look at the kid, Jalen Bronson, they
- 4:02Speaker 2: think his father was hot on him.
- 4:04Speaker 1: He did something no one's ever done before.
- 4:06Speaker 2: Ye, So I think, you know, you look at people
- 4:08Speaker 2: Serena's dad, they think they thought they were hard. So
- 4:11Speaker 2: if you want to be great, or if you want
- 4:12Speaker 2: to have a not even just be great, but be
- 4:14Speaker 2: a positive, I guarantee you that a lot of those
- 4:16Speaker 2: people who you know, have misgivings about what's happening now
- 4:19Speaker 2: when they get it later on, some of those.
- 4:21Speaker 1: Asked me, we got we deserved and we we're glad
- 4:23Speaker 1: we got him for sure.
- 4:24Speaker 3: I mean the fact that he said this is my son,
- 4:26Speaker 3: not my friend. Discipline and correction is good, even at
- 4:29Speaker 3: two in the morning. I was like, Okay, I tell
- 4:32Speaker 3: you what's not good. Another conversation that was struck up
- 4:36Speaker 3: on social media because of a video that's actually old,
- 4:38Speaker 3: but it's resurfaced and it caused people to question whether
- 4:41Speaker 3: or not you know, if a woman puts her hands
- 4:43Speaker 3: on a man, does he have the right to hit
- 4:45Speaker 3: her back. Now, this video again was like a year old,
- 4:49Speaker 3: but it was at a game. It looked like a
- 4:50Speaker 3: Steelers game and a white woman was sitting with her
- 4:53Speaker 3: her dude, and you know she was she was having
- 4:56Speaker 3: a verbal altercation with a black eye and the black
- 4:59Speaker 3: guy literally said, don't you touch me?
- 5:01Speaker 1: And what did she do? She's laughed it.
- 5:03Speaker 3: Now, he tried his you could see he was trying
- 5:05Speaker 3: to hold back, but then her dude stood up and
- 5:08Speaker 3: then he just went.
- 5:09Speaker 1: To town on both of them. Everybody gets it everybody
- 5:11Speaker 1: had a little bit of that. He slapped the gun
- 5:13Speaker 1: with the wind out there, he went to work. Okay,
- 5:18Speaker 1: talking about seven.
- 5:22Speaker 3: Obviously, I don't condone violence, certainly not on women. But
- 5:25Speaker 3: I also believe keep your hands to yourself period.
- 5:30Speaker 1: I don't just don't do it.
- 5:32Speaker 2: Is impossible to be raised a certain way and see
- 5:34Speaker 2: something like that and not have a twins in your heart.
- 5:36Speaker 1: But that that that brought need duck lessons. Yeah.
- 5:40Speaker 3: Well, she did slap him hard, and he said, don't
- 5:43Speaker 3: touch me, and he she put her hands on him first,
- 5:45Speaker 3: and you could see he was trying to restrain himself.
- 5:48Speaker 3: And then when her dude jumped up, he was like, okay,
- 5:50Speaker 3: everybody getting this smoke.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Purson turned pink blue purple, and they call us color.
- 5:57Speaker 4: I think I think it's her dude's fault, because why
- 5:59Speaker 4: are you letting your woman argue with another man.
- 6:01Speaker 1: I don't care he was sitting there. No, we ain't
- 6:04Speaker 1: having that.
- 6:06Speaker 2: But I've seen a lot of women calls people ass
- 6:08Speaker 2: whippings true.
- 6:10Speaker 1: And finally trendy.
- 6:11Speaker 3: I want to send some prayers out to the people
- 6:13Speaker 3: in Venezuela. Those two back to back magnitude seven point
- 6:17Speaker 3: two earthquakes thirty seconds apart, and they say that they
- 6:20Speaker 3: expect the depth toll to likely exceed ten thousand.
- 6:23Speaker 1: So right now, no water, no power, no food, nothing.
- 6:26Speaker 1: Isn't that the country that we took over, that's the rescue,
- 6:29Speaker 1: then right now we're not gonna do that, no bore.
- 6:32Speaker 2: That's what happens when you take over a country, you
- 6:33Speaker 2: gotta you're responsible for him.
- 6:35Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what's true.
- 6:36Speaker 2: And it also happened in Japan in California too, and
- 6:40Speaker 2: you know they were thinking about just to be mean
- 6:41Speaker 2: and punts California. They were talking about taking the censures
- 6:44Speaker 2: out that the monitor tsunamis. That's how petty is. He
- 6:47Speaker 2: could die because of that. Man, I don't know who
- 6:49Speaker 2: y'all got leading y'all, but it's crazy.
- 6:51Speaker 3: Chill out from the summer and listen to the d
- 6:54Speaker 3: L Hugli showed. So.
- 6:56Speaker 2: I was struck by a conversation that I watched top
- 7:00Speaker 2: to catch on Instagram. It was between Eddie Cloud Junior,
- 7:04Speaker 2: the noted Princeton professor, and Stephanie Rule, and Eddie Cloud
- 7:09Speaker 2: said that he did not love America or words to
- 7:12Speaker 2: the fact that he didn't love America and he never has.
- 7:15Speaker 2: And that struck me because I think, if we're being honest,
- 7:18Speaker 2: every black person in this country has had an occasion
- 7:20Speaker 2: to wonder how they feel about this country and how
- 7:23Speaker 2: it feels about them. And if you're being honest, you
- 7:26Speaker 2: sometimes wonder. We were talking from a very early age.
- 7:30Speaker 2: We all had to say the Pledge of Allegiance, we
- 7:32Speaker 2: all had to, you know, celebrate Fourth of July. We
- 7:35Speaker 2: all told ourselves to these stories. But the older you get,
- 7:39Speaker 2: the older the more you start to understand that things
- 7:41Speaker 2: may not be as they appear. I would guarantee you
- 7:45Speaker 2: that if you put every single black person of a
- 7:47Speaker 2: certain age in excuse me, and a lot of detective tests,
- 7:51Speaker 2: and they were asked honestly how they feel about this country,
- 7:54Speaker 2: it would be ambiguity as best. Now I know for
- 7:57Speaker 2: sure I love this country. Now I cannot tell you.
- 8:00Speaker 2: I can't quantify that for you. That's the first time
- 8:02Speaker 2: in a very long time I've had an occasion to
- 8:04Speaker 2: think like that.
- 8:05Speaker 1: I can't tell you why that is.
- 8:08Speaker 2: I know, for instance, I am not certain that my
- 8:10Speaker 2: mother ever loved me, but I am certain that I
- 8:12Speaker 2: love her. And if you can have inner dynamics like that,
- 8:15Speaker 2: if you can have a relationship. We know people that
- 8:16Speaker 2: aren't speaking to their families. We know people that felt
- 8:20Speaker 2: a certain way about the way they were raised, or
- 8:22Speaker 2: they felt that there certain members got deferential treatment. We
- 8:26Speaker 2: know the people that have had an occasion to question
- 8:29Speaker 2: their faith when something happens. But why is it that
- 8:32Speaker 2: people think that your question of your dynamic and your
- 8:34Speaker 2: relationship with your.
- 8:35Speaker 1: Country is beyond circumspicion. I don't think that's true.
- 8:39Speaker 2: I think that if you are a reasonable person, you
- 8:41Speaker 2: would wonder what is your place in this country and
- 8:44Speaker 2: how this country specifically feels about you.
- 8:47Speaker 1: Do you love this country? Is that required?
- 8:49Speaker 2: Because there's nothing about me or anybody else having to
- 8:52Speaker 2: love this country in the Constitution. Now I can say
- 8:55Speaker 2: I do. But I can also say that I've had questions.
- 8:59Speaker 2: What is love? What is love of country? The love
- 9:02Speaker 2: in the Bible, Whether love is patient, love is kind.
- 9:05Speaker 2: Love is not envious or boastful, or arrogant or rude.
- 9:09Speaker 2: It does not insist on its own way. It is
- 9:11Speaker 2: not i irritable or resimpfle. It does not rejoice and wrongdoing,
- 9:15Speaker 2: but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes
- 9:18Speaker 2: all things, hopes all things endures, all things love never ends. Honestly,
- 9:26Speaker 2: can you say that that has been our dynamic in America?
- 9:30Speaker 1: Can you honestly.
- 9:31Speaker 2: See with Corinthia's thirteen fourth Wade says, and go, yeah,
- 9:35Speaker 2: I can see our country feeling this way about us?
- 9:38Speaker 1: Can you say that honestly?
- 9:40Speaker 2: If you took the actual things that have happened that
- 9:43Speaker 2: black people continue to and you put it in the
- 9:46Speaker 2: context of a relationship, and you were telling somebody, yeah,
- 9:49Speaker 2: but they love me, but they really loved me, and
- 9:51Speaker 2: you were talking to a support group, they would tell
- 9:54Speaker 2: you that.
- 9:55Speaker 1: You're in an abused relationship.
- 9:58Speaker 2: I know for sure that I love this country, but
- 10:02Speaker 2: I don't know nor what have I ever known, And
- 10:05Speaker 2: I think a great many people won't how this country
- 10:07Speaker 2: feels about me, the idea, the way that the Corinthias
- 10:12Speaker 2: describes love, the love of persons, the way that it
- 10:16Speaker 2: describes it. Can you honestly say this country feels that
- 10:19Speaker 2: way about you. That's a little note from the ged section.
- 10:22Speaker 1: It's the ship, She's jazz, It's the Jazzy report.
- 10:29Speaker 2: I'm the d L.
- 10:30Speaker 1: Hughley.
- 10:32Speaker 3: The Supreme Court said the Trump administration can turn away
- 10:34Speaker 3: migrants seeking asylum along the US Mexico border by physically
- 10:38Speaker 3: preventing them from crossing into the US as they seek
- 10:41Speaker 3: protection from persecution. Under that so called turnback policy, the
- 10:45Speaker 3: government had stopped asylum seekers from setting foot on US
- 10:47Speaker 3: soil or federal law would have entitled them to try
- 10:50Speaker 3: to claim asylum and receive protection.
- 10:53Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 10:55Speaker 2: You know, it's funny because once this war is really over,
- 10:57Speaker 2: which I don't know that it will be, because I
- 10:59Speaker 2: think that Iran has to pretend like it lost in America,
- 11:03Speaker 2: got to pretend like it won, and nobody's gonna play
- 11:05Speaker 2: their parts. As soon as we do get back to that,
- 11:07Speaker 2: we'll still get back to the overhanded, the heavy handedness
- 11:10Speaker 2: of height we still have to.
- 11:14Speaker 1: We might the war might be the least of our problem. Yeah,
- 11:18Speaker 1: I think so well.
- 11:20Speaker 3: Researchers have developed a small adhesive health monitor that people
- 11:23Speaker 3: can wear discreetly on their arms so that can facilitate
- 11:27Speaker 3: the diagnosis of diabetes, heart disease, and kidney failure. The
- 11:31Speaker 3: monitors filled with tiny pathways that collect sweat and measure
- 11:34Speaker 3: the levels of three key markers. They say that there's
- 11:37Speaker 3: already a device that people wear, but it requires an
- 11:39Speaker 3: incision to go under the skin.
- 11:41Speaker 1: This will go on top of the skin, an incision
- 11:44Speaker 1: on top of the skin.
- 11:45Speaker 3: No, no, this is like a sticker, like a band
- 11:47Speaker 3: aid that you would wear. So there's already something that
- 11:50Speaker 3: people have, but.
- 11:52Speaker 1: It goes under the skin. Thank you for that.
- 12:00Speaker 2: So this is interesting. A woman to ask your baby
- 12:03Speaker 2: daddy for money to buy the kids to clothes. He
- 12:06Speaker 2: bought the clothes instead of giving her the money, and
- 12:07Speaker 2: she got mad.
- 12:09Speaker 1: Listen to this, what a money ain't Chris? What money
- 12:12Speaker 1: got the clothes? You should my son needed. I say
- 12:14Speaker 1: give me the money and I go get what you mean?
- 12:16Speaker 4: No, that that's not how I worked. Should not slen
- 12:18Speaker 4: the clothes. So I bought my slank clothes. I'm not
- 12:20Speaker 4: getting you no cash to spend on whatever you're gonna
- 12:22Speaker 4: spend it on. I bought my slank clothes.
- 12:23Speaker 1: Are you serious?
- 12:24Speaker 3: Right now?
- 12:24Speaker 1: I'm being seriously.
- 12:25Speaker 4: I went to got my son and stuff that he
- 12:27Speaker 4: needed to school, and he go to clothes where he's
- 12:28Speaker 4: gonna figure to night.
- 12:31Speaker 2: Now, if you're asking for money for clothes and he
- 12:35Speaker 2: gets the clothes, and the objective of your your.
- 12:37Speaker 1: Lessis objection was accomplished.
- 12:39Speaker 2: Right, you say I want some money for clothes, baby,
- 12:46Speaker 2: and you gotta worry. I'll go get the clothes. You
- 12:48Speaker 2: get mad, then that must mean that you were trying
- 12:51Speaker 2: to do something different than you stuff.
- 12:52Speaker 3: I'm not gonna totally agree with you, because I do
- 12:54Speaker 3: have a slight pushback.
- 12:56Speaker 2: Okay, all right, a slight hush back. I'll tell you what.
- 13:00Speaker 2: What I will say is you got the very thing
- 13:03Speaker 2: you asked for.
- 13:03Speaker 1: No again, I have a slight pushboke, I'll tell you more. Okay,
- 13:07Speaker 1: all right, we'll go.
- 13:08Speaker 2: We're gonna hear her stupid ads say they're coming up,
- 13:10Speaker 2: but coming out.
- 13:12Speaker 1: Call the tease. You're a man.
- 13:15Speaker 2: If you want to hear this boot, if you want
- 13:21Speaker 2: to hear jazzmin just you make excuse for this trifling
- 13:25Speaker 2: ass bride.
- 13:25Speaker 1: You stay right on.
- 13:27Speaker 2: So a woman listening to she asked. She said she
- 13:29Speaker 2: asked the baby dad for some money to buy some
- 13:31Speaker 2: kids clothes. He bought the clothes instead of giving the money.
- 13:33Speaker 1: Let's hear it, what a money ain't Chris money got
- 13:36Speaker 1: the clothes? You should my son needed? Who's wrong the
- 13:41Speaker 1: man of the woman?
- 13:42Speaker 2: He gave her what she said she wanted, right, which
- 13:44Speaker 2: is the the goal was to get the kids school clothes.
- 13:46Speaker 1: She got it.
- 13:48Speaker 2: We're gonna go to a social media platform especially Okay,
- 13:51Speaker 2: what are they saying? So we have Laverne from Los Angeles,
- 13:54Speaker 2: and Laverne says she just trifling.
- 13:56Speaker 1: She trifling? Yeah, so jas is going to defend her.
- 13:59Speaker 5: So Ja, Well, I don't know all of the details
- 14:03Speaker 5: regarding this particular situation, but from my experience dealing with
- 14:08Speaker 5: men and shopping and kids, I would not necessarily trust
- 14:12Speaker 5: that he would buy the right thing or the right size.
- 14:16Speaker 3: With us.
- 14:17Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying.
- 14:18Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm buying school clothes for a kid.
- 14:22Speaker 3: I want to buy the school clothes because I know
- 14:24Speaker 3: what size they wear. I know I'm going to make
- 14:26Speaker 3: smart decisions as to do I buy clothes that fit
- 14:29Speaker 3: or a little bit bigger so they can grow into them.
- 14:31Speaker 3: I think there's a different way that men and women's shop.
- 14:34Speaker 3: I would say I would be on her side at
- 14:40Speaker 3: school chef, Well, what about your daddy do he school
- 14:42Speaker 3: shop for?
- 14:43Speaker 1: Well, then you wouldn't know favorites. I had it, but
- 14:45Speaker 1: I know that I school shop with my kids. Well,
- 14:48Speaker 1: but you're.
- 14:50Speaker 3: But you are a different kind of dude. You shop
- 14:54Speaker 3: all the time and shopping those men, don't. I hate
- 14:58Speaker 3: when you try to put my business out there to
- 14:59Speaker 3: make to make me look small.
- 15:01Speaker 1: It's true that that was. That was edifying your point
- 15:04Speaker 1: that you you.
- 15:08Speaker 3: He does, he shops all the time, he would be
- 15:10Speaker 3: good at shopping or not.
- 15:13Speaker 2: They just he got for what she she asked. She
- 15:18Speaker 2: got what she asked for, which leads me to believe
- 15:20Speaker 2: and she was angry about it. She didn't talk about
- 15:23Speaker 2: they didn't fit or whatever. She obviously wanted something different
- 15:28Speaker 2: than she asked, and she pretends to ask. Could have
- 15:31Speaker 2: wanted something different, could have Well, he got it already.
- 15:35Speaker 1: Yeah, but we don't know if it's fit. We don't
- 15:37Speaker 1: know if it was the right stuff. We don't know.
- 15:40Speaker 1: Her argument when she was fussing at it, get it,
- 15:42Speaker 1: y'all gonna think up. But I'm telling you how to change.
- 15:53Speaker 3: Now.
- 15:54Speaker 1: Yeah, that that is automatic the argument that you are
- 15:58Speaker 1: making right now.
- 15:58Speaker 3: She did.
- 15:59Speaker 1: I'm not making it an argument.
- 16:01Speaker 3: I am saying, if it were me, I would prefer
- 16:06Speaker 3: the man give me the money to buy the clothes,
- 16:08Speaker 3: because I know I'm going to buy the right thing.
- 16:10Speaker 3: But I don't necessarily trust the guy to buy the
- 16:13Speaker 3: right thing.
- 16:13Speaker 1: I don't do it.
- 16:14Speaker 3: I watched the guy lick at tampon the other day
- 16:17Speaker 3: because he thought it was lime flavored, because you know
- 16:19Speaker 3: what I mean, Guys are just sometimes what guys like.
- 16:24Speaker 3: Yeah I saw that. Yeah it was on Instagram. The
- 16:30Speaker 3: guy went, you know you, girl, give us a call.