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24:30 Yoreh De’ah 228:7-12. Vows: Hataras Nedarim: Who Is Permitted To Undo Vows · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  All right, we are good morning. We are in sune rage.
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  Jose Meshakas sorry about the oahas of Ataras and Darin Zion
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  Sif Zion Mishnis Kharid the Ikerha Neder.
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  I'm going to get into more properly about Kharotta and and
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  Pesa again. Kharotta is that he regrets that
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  he ever made this nether, which in cane we'll go ahead and be
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  mad here and be mad and and and that's going to be mad to the
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  nether because it because it's saying that that his original
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  his original letter was battols and letter battols will see
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  different Simmons letter battols is not another.
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  So that's basically what he's saying is that he made it
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  Battols right. I guess the idea of another is
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  the person has clear as clear Yusuf Das not all, but he should
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  have when he says another, it's something that has to be with
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  clear. You should ask that he
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  understands all the ramifications, everything going
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  on and and Karata means he didn't do any and he says so he
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  says enter Pesa, right, We'll see what a peso is.
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  A peso is it's something something somewhat new occurred
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  or not whatever. And now he wants to try to and
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  say to him, if had you none, this would have happened.
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  Would you have made the nether? Meaning they they create like a
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  it's a slightly different type of again, it's sort, I guess
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  it's sort of a Caroto. It's sort of it's sort of, you
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  know, acurate, but it's slightly different thing.
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  You don't need a Pesach means that the crime say if had you
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  thought about this, would you have made the nether so but
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  Harrata doesn't He says oh wow, I really regret it right Ella,
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  did you want this neither going there any hobbits boy right.
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  I mean, I really regret that I made this neither and they say
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  Miu Miu Sarakshi's Hari Baker another, but it has to be his
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  Karata has to be the the the actual in the the fact he made
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  another at all. He he it's it's it's he wishes
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  he never made it. You know now now, now, now I
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  have Karata, but Alta who hold it's an astronaut door.
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  Lohavi Karata, up until now he was happy with another, you
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  know. So another me Carl.
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  It has to be that he's a good another me Carl.
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  For example, the guy is noted from going to his in laws,
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  right? And I'm not going to my in laws,
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  right? Yeah, I'll suddenly come around
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  pays off. You know it's going to be really
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  hard to make pays off this year and you know so now he's a scary
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  what you know until now he was enjoying himself.
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  You know whatever you know what for Pesach he'd be happy to do
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  it. You know to do that.
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  That's not called Karato. These are another should be scar
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  at me. Cara Ellen came to Borrillo shy
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  roads to be that he feels that his it was it was they say
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  hindsight's 2020, but here it actually works that that he
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  really wishes he never made it. Shimloka and Aya Tara Tara, who
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  but is genetically, you know, person has to be he has to be
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  very honest with himself. And if he's not honest with
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  himself, then he's going to be stuck, you know, stuck with
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  another. And if he thinks if he and and
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  if he like, you know, if he if he just says it, he looks like a
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  magic formula or something, he's still going to be that means
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  he's still going to be over another.
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  He made him. He's hard, but he has he has a
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  karate that he made it again, like he said until now.
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  That was great, right. You know, he he didn't have to
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  go see his in laws. Ah, you know, you know that that
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  was great. So Slovakish la Pesa.
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  Then we have to ask him a Pesa whatever Alo El haisi odea
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  dovers that La La Isa neither they say.
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  Had you known about this, then you would have been not had it
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  wouldn't have been no there and inside another net Carmi Caro,
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  if you don't know. So let's say my case, I will say
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  that's in my case of of Pesach regarding his in laws with
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  Pesach, had you thought about it properly that that you you
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  wouldn't have to make Pesach yourself, would you?
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  Would you have made the nether right?
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  Somebody says would. You have made the Nether in the
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  way that you did. Because he could have said, you
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  know, other than Pesach, right? But that's never the point,
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  right? Right.
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  Right. But.
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  He said yeah, I knew that right. That's that's that's right.
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  That's just so we'll we'll see a bunch of examples of suffering.
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  Eli is right the Kate said who a Pesach.
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  So what's you know that he made another against eating something
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  about Harvey and then and his friends are pressuring him to
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  show love. Go go to we want like Adam.
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  He made another against against whiskey right and they're
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  telling what you need to have a shot.
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  Hi guys without a shot come on, go go out, go, go, you know go
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  get out the had you known they're going to pressure you so
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  much and you were just pushing embarrassed to be around them.
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  No, you said no you there William McCain right.
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  They find a pest up saying that had you known you that your
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  friends would have, you know, pressured you so much and you
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  would. You're embarrassed then, you
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  know, then would you not mean that?
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  Yeah. So you know.
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  Yeah. They show me.
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  So who's even shown him, though in his car?
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  And some say that you have to you have to continue and say to
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  him and do you and do you regret making another meaning?
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  You add in Karata. You combine Karata with with a
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  pet with Pesa. We'll discuss this in more in a
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  minute. But Philo Pasa, she may goof
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  another Javi Pat. Even if you make a pesso from
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  the actual letter itself of a pesso, it's not outside
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  influences. You're going shaheed.
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  You're plonium in the cost of he ain't no plonium.
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  Can't have an optimist thing. Then Yasid Darba in Yasid Darba
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  plonium if he goes ahead and you know, if he you know if he goes
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  ahead and he puts his you know he puts his trash can on my
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  property again, forget it. He's not going to any on the
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  from from anything right, So the other other of us.
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  So and then the guy did it places him though.
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  Eli, you see a Deshar. Had you known that he really had
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  you really thought that he would have he wouldn't have listened
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  to you LO Haiti there. You know, he was like he feels
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  bad, like, you know, he said it. He's like trying to put, you
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  know, push it, you know, push the guy and the guy, the guy,
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  the guy went ahead and he you know, and he went and did it and
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  the guy now and now he's like, you know, whatever, it didn't
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  work. So he's like even the Ukraine
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  would you have gone ahead and you and we know there had you
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  known that he would have actually would have actually
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  gone through with it, but listened to you.
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  I'm a Kane. That's also OK.
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  The HP shaman's with sham Pessa, Karata and some say you need
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  both Pessa and Karata. And this is this is what was the
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  point of the before says it the point the point being that
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  right. Some say you need a Pesach and a
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  car Alto that once you make a Pesach, you also have to ask him
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  if he's miscarriage and the opposite way as well, meaning
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  the real he's saying that the Verma understands the Muhammad
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  that the the Harota has to be made in Derek of a Pesach.
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  It's not enough anymore for us to set for a guy to go and say I
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  really regret it. It has to be with the the the
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  hokum has to lead lead him and say, had you known that you
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  wouldn't in my case, you know, I had you known you wouldn't.
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  You don't have to make it make pay, make you know or not, not
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  that case. Let's say you know, he made it.
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  He made a nether against the whatever against eating carrots.
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  Right, so, so had you known that they would make such a nice
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  carrot cake, would you have gone?
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  You know, you guys just carry because you know, carrots are
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  healthy, right, The stuff to make it.
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  Had you know the carrots are healthy, would you have gone
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  ahead and make the nether has to be set up in a in a Torres of
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  Pesa Cara. Oh, you know, you, you, you'll,
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  you don't shit this Cara. So it's a little bit different.
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  He'd say, how'd you know you would have regretted making this
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  nether? Would you have made the nether
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  my love Azmatirin and this is the Mitig and this is the this
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  is how how this is how we do it nowadays that any time someone
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  comes out Tara Sundarin, the the person has to say, you know, the
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  guy says I really regret making this nether as we had you known
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  you would have regretted it. That's be done there there at
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  the Pesach. It's it's because it because
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  you're not even fired the nether the since you're not even fired
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  the nether. So it doesn't need as very as as
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  specific of a it's a general Atar, right, called Nidra is
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  also Atar. So darn right.
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  And we don't you know what I'm saying that yeah, it just says
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  you're you're everyone's motor. So you know, so it's it's it's
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  not like it's it's a little bit different.
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  This is where you have a specific tether.
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  You shouldn't in person has a specific nether.
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  He shouldn't, you know, and he wants a Hatar.
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  He shouldn't rely on Hatar Sadarn so much on the air.
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  Fresh shadow press harem in a circle Pesa for Karata.
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  If there's a harem that doesn't need any Pesa Karata, that they
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  could just say the amount of the hair and that's it.
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  No Karen needs 3 or 10. I don't remember.
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  We got to help us, Karen. Come on in.
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  Later. In the right, Right?
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  No. No.
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  Karen needs the least an hour for three or ten.
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  I don't know. Awful.
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  Funny, right? OK, Test.
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  Place them low. They can make a piss off for a
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  person in his own covered he's going to another liguariciosis,
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  though he made an editor divorces wife.
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  Please could know iliadata Shalomochar you I mean Mara
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  Ploni ligariciosis, though I people would start talking
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  what's wrong with this guy? Why did he why why was he why
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  did he divorce his wife right. OK planning to divorce.
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  I guess everyone knew what another shaman's Allah shame rah
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  right. The only reason why that he
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  divorced her is because you know, it must be that you know
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  that she was she was cheating on him and that's why I didn't say
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  plaguing. And then then they're going to
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  the people are because she just gets to be on Zain.
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  You know, it used to be the the the we're getting hit and hit
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  with Gerrish in in Evanescer. We have there's a few different
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  cheetahs, but Uncle Ponen, even even though we don't have
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  doesn't have to be Richard says he needs Eris Dova that she has
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  to be. She was actually Mazana.
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  But Uncle Ponen, we don't ask him that way, but still I
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  Gerrish in, you know, up until you know, recent times was a
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  very was a very rare thing and and there wasn't when was not
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  very common. So if something to do is a big
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  thing, So they say, well, no one would divorce his wife unless
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  there's something really serious, though she Omrillo Ilia
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  does a shot That's arc Lafour a lot to Suba, right.
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  If you ever go to you know, the Suba differing opinions and how
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  much the Suba is, you know, Sparsvardy and you know it's the
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  whole thing. You know, they announced really
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  Suva. They announced $1,000,000.
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  They announced crazy, crazy tons of money 50.
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  You know 100,000. They they put it.
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  It's AI mean it's a minute to put in like a very high amount.
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  So you know, so they don't. The divorce isn't so easy.
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  Ashkenazi Mark Suba. I think the general the general
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  thing is, I don't know a few $1000.
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  I don't know whatever. Although according to the grun,
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  the way the consternation is a grun, it could be more like
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  sixty $70,000. But I don't think I don't think
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  that the the but what they didn't mark me down that and
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  often they say that the Cuba nowadays comes out of the
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  general deals with the, you know, back and forth, you get
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  this, I get this and whatever. So the generally the it's not
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  separate payments specifically. It's generally like they they
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  they just say it's included. It's a Hashmund in the in the in
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  the things Akhopani having known that you'd have to pay a such a
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  high tsuba lawyer. You said no either over Kane and
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  you thought you you really serious and you said, you know,
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  and you said $200,000 on the on the tsuba.
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  And if you had known that they were really serious, would you
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  have made the letter? He says no, so that would be OK.
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  You odd another Shlo, the hash of Caleb Le Cabrero.
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  He made it nether not to lend his friends his his stuff to to
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  his friend, right. His roommate takes everything
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  and ruins it. Forget it, nether Oshollo.
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  I'm not I'm not talking to this guy.
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  They say they say had you had you thought about the fact that
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  you'd be over on Los Secom or on Los Cisna, you have another and
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  that would that would work about any placement.
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  Phonemacom Lima. You know, I used your dish.
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  I used to make up a we don't say that.
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  Had you known you're you're you're being the the vaza shame
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  Shamayim is as if you're being you're being you're being you're
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  you're like you're you're you're putting coach Barcos, the monos
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  in into your hands to a certain degree, and that's and then
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  press doesn't follow that. So it's Vasa.
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  It cheapens shame Hashem and cheapens you know, people you
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  know you know people treat their a treat coach barcode like that,
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  whatever it is so we but we're not placed in the photo Marco
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  what no, not so sure. I'm not so sure about that.
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  So the solution? Is to break.
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  The no, it was already done. Oh yes, he didn't break the
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  nether. So he didn't break the nether.
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  He didn't break it yet. But he, he has to, he has to
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  uphold it. There's nothing to do.
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  They find a different pesa or they find a different PESA.
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  We can't use a Pesa saying when they obey that you you, you
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  know, Oshio Merlo, you know, I used the Odesh and they either
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  Rabbi and they are Malcolm. Had you known that the nether He
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  had another and he opened up the Gomer in the dark and he saw all
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  the terrible things and says about someone makes a nether.
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  So had you known that that that's rabbi and they are
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  Malcolm Lamar. There's no one the the problem
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  over here. It's not a real PESA.
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  Why is it in a real passage? A House of lawyer?
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  Should I am Nabish Wilcock, Right.
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  No one's going to ever say that. What do you mean?
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  How'd you know Coach Brock was be upset?
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  Yeah. You admit that every.
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  Yeah, of course I don't. Who's going to say that?
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  All right, So then it's not a real pass off because the
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  problem is that it's. Yeah, every night is gone
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  because you can't No, because it's and you know, Nandar, like
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  Mara says, you ruin you ruin all those that way.
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  Yeah, a feeling you know, Ms. He and the problem with the states
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  it is that he's not really they you know they say, well, had you
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  known you that you're going to be involved like when you made
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  another no one's going to say yes, So it's not Ms. insertion
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  and that and that come with Tom's there AIM police cream the
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  Hahidi adapted the police team pink ping Kaska the match
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  machine. They open up his they open up
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  they open the notebook up and they start being adopted with
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  him. Although had you know that would
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  have happened with all the Hahid.
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  They call a neither Roy the doc row the Harev no Bahid.
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  They call him a time of Corbin on Obama.
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  Any of these, any of these things we had the answer is no,
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  because we're going to say yeah. You know, no one's going to no
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  one's going to, no one's going to say, you know, say, say, say
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  yeah. So there's no real regret over
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  here. There's no, no.
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  So that's The thing is the peso has to come.
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  It's it's peso is not, is not her out.
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  It's a different it's a different header.
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  No, they, they, but it's it's it's it's how the Tarsus are in
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  his work. He he may say he may give them a
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  Pesak. That's what says the issue, but
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  that's it. He'll sit down.
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  They can't think of 1. He has to think of one.
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  If he comes up with a Pesach and they say, OK, had you known
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  that? Whatever.
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  And he answers, yes, it's that just the structure.
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  That's just the structure. He could think of a Pesach, but
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  but he can suggest it, you know, about Uncle Bunny and he has to
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  be that they, that they, that, that, that they that's not just
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  place to impair lately either. It's it's a different, I think,
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  I think it's a different thing. It's not, it's not even if he,
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  if he says that they have to just, they have to speak it out,
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  especially the way we're Mahmir that the, that the Hamata by
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  itself, really Hamata doesn't work, you know, but it works.
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  But we're Mahmir that you need it needs to be done also there
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  because it's like 2 and like we're doing like two different
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  Hotaras to tackle the issue good Olive and place them before the
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  e-mail. We're not play it.
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  They known that this guy made another people would say, why,
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  how'd you raise your kid like that?
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  They can come in a darn. You know, your kids are just you
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  know, promise this promise that promise that a person wouldn't
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  say you know, I I don't care again nowadays, you know, it's
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  maybe people would I don't know in the high time.
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  I ain't police Rabbi, you know stop and you know to Rabba the
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  police can love a drone should be in a little of the vima.
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  However, there is a pass off between things with him as his
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  parents. So you only meet they, you know,
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  he, he, he said. You know.
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  He you know they're not touching my stuff.
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  I don't want to see them right. Supposed to know easily your
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  daughter shot the five of his own say him.
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  Had you known that you know they're old now and you and you
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  have to support them. That always says Hayes, but
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  whatever. Maybe Tom Stucco.
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  I'm not really sure. LO Haisa is a night a night
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  there. I'm not giving him something not
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  with your money. That's unstopper relieve that.
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  I'm just following the question up in the air.
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  We'll have to do it back to what we do when we get to give it up.
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  A Uncle Ponen Pesa only can be something which is normal
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  consequence or normal occurrence.
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  We don't play it, but we don't do a pass on something which is,
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  you know, very odd. You know, you know, Marconi
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  shiny Nana leploni, shiny Niknas leploni.
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  I'm not going to be Nana or going to his house, but not so,
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  so plenty Tomahawk. He became the tomahawk, the Rev
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  of the city. I don't know all these things.
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  Shako Trichimlo also buy his das of his classes.
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  So he rented the shoe out. No, it did happen.
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  It did happen, and because of his right, He knew the guy.
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  He knew the guy bull run, right, the guy real gas, but he turned
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  around the Chuva and the Shiva whatever, right, So you wouldn't
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  have thought then, like how could he be right?
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  And then and that time, you know, there was completely Ms.
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  He was such a thing that the you know, the guy would turn would
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  would turn around. Never thought of that.
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  Then that's that's not the you can't say a piss off like that.
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  The same Misa Los Srika Misa is not natural Srika of our Neos
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  Srika right. There's a person has the Tesco
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  sky and even a person sick. It's not normal for the person
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  not regular for people do die, but it's not regular for a
• 22:47
  person you know to die to die. And so therefore, if we're not
• 22:54
  Josef with Misa of our Neos Shia and the guy lost his money.
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  That's where Shia right guys, and now he needs Taco so can
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  happen right. This is the these these you know
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  I don't know pun intended, I assume in the room, but I'll go
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  Bonnie. All right, that's the had you
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  known the woman became pregnant. It's it's a normal occurrence.
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  And this is Sif is what's called Nilad in the guards, whether you
• 23:24
  can possess A Nilad or not. And we and that's we say no, it
• 23:28
  has to be something. No, it has to be something which
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  is which he something that would have occurred to him when he
• 23:36
  made the nether. He just didn't think about it.
• 23:39
  So had you thought about this, you know, this, this thing, you
• 23:42
  even know I wouldn't have made that.
• 23:43
  I just didn't think about it, right.
• 23:45
  So fine, that's OK, the nether. But there's something which is,
• 23:48
  you know, the, you know, suddenly the, the guy who won
• 23:51
  the lottery and now he's a big veer and whatever, you know,
• 23:56
  anyone needs to ask him for money.
• 23:57
  And I, you know, that's something he would have, he
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  would have thought about.