Latest / Burning Brightly / 96. What Too Many Women Get Wrong About Money with Guest Carolyn Blosil
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- 0:00Bonnie: if
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- 0:00Bonnie: predominantly
- 0:01Bonnie: to
- 0:01Bonnie: stay
- 0:01Bonnie: at
- 0:01Bonnie: home
- 0:01Bonnie: moms,
- 0:02Bonnie: a
- 0:02Bonnie: lot
- 0:03Bonnie: of
- 0:03Bonnie: us,
- 0:03Bonnie: we
- 0:03Bonnie: might
- 0:03Bonnie: personally
- 0:04Bonnie: know
- 0:04Bonnie: that
- 0:04Bonnie: we're
- 0:04Bonnie: valuable
- 0:05Bonnie: to
- 0:05Bonnie: our
- 0:05Bonnie: family,
- 0:05Bonnie: but
- 0:05Bonnie: might
- 0:05Bonnie: still
- 0:06Bonnie: struggle
- 0:06Bonnie: with
- 0:06Bonnie: the
- 0:06Bonnie: idea
- 0:06Bonnie: of
- 0:07Bonnie: our
- 0:07Bonnie: value
- 0:07Bonnie: in
- 0:07Bonnie: society
- 0:08Bonnie: how
- 0:08Bonnie: often
- 0:08Bonnie: do
- 0:08Bonnie: you
- 0:09Bonnie: go
- 0:09Bonnie: to
- 0:09Bonnie: a
- 0:09Bonnie: dinner
- 0:09Bonnie: party
- 0:10Bonnie: or
- 0:10Bonnie: an
- 0:11Bonnie: event
- 0:11Bonnie: for
- 0:11Bonnie: your
- 0:11Bonnie: husband's
- 0:12Bonnie: work
- 0:12Bonnie: and
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- 0:13Bonnie: you
- 0:13Bonnie: what
- 0:13Bonnie: you
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- 0:13Bonnie: These
- 0:14Bonnie: are
- 0:14Bonnie: some
- 0:14Bonnie: really
- 0:14Bonnie: deep
- 0:15Bonnie: seated,
- 0:15Bonnie: concerns
- 0:16Bonnie: and
- 0:16Bonnie: worthiness
- 0:16Bonnie: issues
- 0:17Bonnie: we
- 0:17Bonnie: might
- 0:17Bonnie: have
- 0:17Bonnie: to
- 0:17Bonnie: work
- 0:18Bonnie: through
- 0:18Bonnie: before
- 0:18Bonnie: we
- 0:18Bonnie: even
- 0:19Bonnie: willing
- 0:19Bonnie: to
- 0:19Bonnie: take
- 0:19Bonnie: a
- 0:19Bonnie: look
- 0:19Bonnie: at
- 0:19Bonnie: our
- 0:19Bonnie: money.
- 0:20This
- 0:20is
- 0:20Burning
- 0:21Brightly,
- 0:21a
- 0:21podcast
- 0:22for
- 0:22Christian
- 0:22moms
- 0:23who
- 0:23are
- 0:23feeling
- 0:23called
- 0:24to
- 0:24build
- 0:24a
- 0:24business
- 0:24and
- 0:24share
- 0:25their
- 0:25light
- 0:25with
- 0:25the
- 0:25world.
- 0:26I'm
- 0:26Bonnie
- 0:27Wisco,
- 0:27a
- 0:27life
- 0:27coach,
- 0:28mom
- 0:28and
- 0:28entrepreneur,
- 0:29and
- 0:29I'm
- 0:29honored
- 0:30to
- 0:30be
- 0:30your
- 0:30guide
- 0:30as
- 0:30you
- 0:30face
- 0:31this
- 0:31business
- 0:31building
- 0:31adventure
- 0:32full
- 0:32of
- 0:32highs,
- 0:33lows,
- 0:33and
- 0:33everything
- 0:34in
- 0:34between.
- 0:35This
- 0:35is
- 0:35where
- 0:35we
- 0:35help
- 0:36each
- 0:36other
- 0:36find
- 0:36the
- 0:36courage
- 0:37to
- 0:37shine.
- 0:39Bonnie: Hello
- 0:39Bonnie: friends.
- 0:40Bonnie: Welcome
- 0:40Bonnie: back
- 0:40Bonnie: to
- 0:40Bonnie: the
- 0:40Bonnie: podcast.
- 0:41Bonnie: I
- 0:41Bonnie: have
- 0:41Bonnie: a
- 0:41Bonnie: guest
- 0:41Bonnie: today
- 0:42Bonnie: and
- 0:42Bonnie: guest
- 0:42Bonnie: episodes
- 0:43Bonnie: are
- 0:43Bonnie: my
- 0:43Bonnie: favorite
- 0:43Bonnie: because
- 0:44Bonnie: I
- 0:44Bonnie: get
- 0:44Bonnie: to
- 0:44Bonnie: talk
- 0:44Bonnie: to
- 0:44Bonnie: somebody
- 0:45Bonnie: and
- 0:45Bonnie: not
- 0:45Bonnie: just
- 0:45Bonnie: talk
- 0:45Bonnie: into
- 0:45Bonnie: a
- 0:46Bonnie: microphone.
- 0:46Bonnie: So,
- 0:46Bonnie: welcome
- 0:46Bonnie: Carolyn.
- 0:47Bonnie: Happy
- 0:47Bonnie: to
- 0:47Bonnie: have
- 0:47Bonnie: you.
- 0:48Carolyn Blosil: Great
- 0:48Carolyn Blosil: to
- 0:49Carolyn Blosil: be
- 0:49Carolyn Blosil: here,
- 0:49Carolyn Blosil: Bonnie,
- 0:49Carolyn Blosil: and
- 0:49Bonnie: Here,
- 0:50Bonnie: Bonnie,
- 0:50Bonnie: thanks
- 0:50Bonnie: for
- 0:50Bonnie: inviting
- 0:51Bonnie: me
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- 0:51Bonnie: here
- 0:51Bonnie: Yes,
- 0:52Bonnie: yes.
- 0:52Bonnie: I'm
- 0:52Bonnie: super
- 0:52Bonnie: excited
- 0:53Bonnie: about
- 0:53Bonnie: our
- 0:53Bonnie: conversation.
- 0:54Bonnie: So,
- 0:54Bonnie: Carolyn,
- 0:54Bonnie: tell
- 0:54Bonnie: us
- 0:54Bonnie: a
- 0:55Bonnie: little
- 0:55Bonnie: bit
- 0:55Bonnie: about
- 0:55Bonnie: you,
- 0:55Bonnie: who
- 0:55Bonnie: you
- 0:56Bonnie: are,
- 0:56Bonnie: where
- 0:56Bonnie: you're
- 0:56Bonnie: from,
- 0:57Bonnie: your
- 0:57Bonnie: family,
- 0:57Bonnie: and
- 0:58Bonnie: what
- 0:58Bonnie: you
- 0:58Bonnie: do
- 0:59Carolyn Blosil: Well,
- 1:00Carolyn Blosil: uh,
- 1:00Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 1:00Carolyn Blosil: I
- 1:00Carolyn Blosil: mean,
- 1:01Carolyn Blosil: starting
- 1:01Carolyn Blosil: at
- 1:01Carolyn Blosil: the
- 1:01Bonnie: starting
- 1:01Bonnie: at
- 1:02Bonnie: the
- 1:02Bonnie: beginning.
- 1:02Bonnie: I
- 1:02Bonnie: grew
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- 1:02Bonnie: in
- 1:02Bonnie: Iowa
- 1:03Bonnie: and
- 1:04Carolyn Blosil: with
- 1:04Carolyn Blosil: a
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- 1:05Bonnie: family
- 1:05Bonnie: that,
- 1:06Carolyn Blosil: there
- 1:06Carolyn Blosil: were
- 1:06Carolyn Blosil: three
- 1:06Carolyn Blosil: things
- 1:06Carolyn Blosil: we
- 1:06Carolyn Blosil: never
- 1:07Carolyn Blosil: talked
- 1:07Carolyn Blosil: about
- 1:07Carolyn Blosil: in
- 1:08Carolyn Blosil: our
- 1:08Carolyn Blosil: family.
- 1:08Carolyn Blosil: It
- 1:08Carolyn Blosil: was
- 1:08Carolyn Blosil: kind
- 1:08Carolyn Blosil: of
- 1:08Carolyn Blosil: taboo.
- 1:10Carolyn Blosil: wasn't
- 1:10Carolyn Blosil: spoken
- 1:10Carolyn Blosil: out
- 1:11Carolyn Blosil: loud,
- 1:11Carolyn Blosil: but
- 1:11Carolyn Blosil: we
- 1:11Carolyn Blosil: could
- 1:11Carolyn Blosil: never
- 1:11Carolyn Blosil: talk
- 1:12Carolyn Blosil: about
- 1:12Carolyn Blosil: money,
- 1:13Carolyn Blosil: we
- 1:13Carolyn Blosil: could
- 1:13Carolyn Blosil: never
- 1:13Carolyn Blosil: talk
- 1:13Carolyn Blosil: about
- 1:14Bonnie: Talk
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- 1:15Carolyn Blosil: talk
- 1:16Bonnie: talk
- 1:16Bonnie: about
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- 1:17Carolyn Blosil: we're
- 1:17Carolyn Blosil: all
- 1:18Bonnie: we're
- 1:18Bonnie: all
- 1:19Carolyn Blosil: religious
- 1:19Carolyn Blosil: family.
- 1:20Carolyn Blosil: Uh,
- 1:20Carolyn Blosil: and
- 1:21Carolyn Blosil: it
- 1:21Carolyn Blosil: really
- 1:21Carolyn Blosil: wasn't
- 1:22Carolyn Blosil: until
- 1:22Carolyn Blosil: later
- 1:22Carolyn Blosil: in
- 1:22Bonnie: later
- 1:23Bonnie: in
- 1:23Bonnie: life
- 1:23Bonnie: as,
- 1:23Bonnie: uh,
- 1:24Carolyn Blosil: of
- 1:24Carolyn Blosil: my
- 1:24Bonnie: one
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- 1:24Bonnie: my
- 1:24Bonnie: sons
- 1:25Bonnie: when
- 1:25Bonnie: he
- 1:26Bonnie: was
- 1:26Bonnie: in
- 1:26Bonnie: high
- 1:26Bonnie: school,
- 1:27Bonnie: just
- 1:27Bonnie: out
- 1:28Bonnie: of
- 1:28Bonnie: the
- 1:28Bonnie: blue
- 1:28Bonnie: say
- 1:28Bonnie: to
- 1:28Bonnie: me,
- 1:29Carolyn Blosil: am
- 1:29Bonnie: I
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- 1:30Bonnie: not
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- 1:30Bonnie: to
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- 1:31Carolyn Blosil: And
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- 1:33Bonnie: in
- 1:33Bonnie: time,
- 1:33Bonnie: I
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- 1:34Bonnie: because
- 1:35Bonnie: I
- 1:35Bonnie: come
- 1:35Bonnie: from
- 1:35Bonnie: a
- 1:35Bonnie: highly
- 1:36Bonnie: educated
- 1:36Bonnie: family.
- 1:37Bonnie: My
- 1:37Bonnie: husband
- 1:37Bonnie: and
- 1:37Bonnie: I
- 1:38Bonnie: both
- 1:38Bonnie: graduated
- 1:39Bonnie: from
- 1:39Bonnie: college
- 1:39Bonnie: and,
- 1:40Bonnie: uh,
- 1:40Carolyn Blosil: assumed
- 1:41Carolyn Blosil: my
- 1:41Carolyn Blosil: kids
- 1:42Bonnie: my
- 1:42Bonnie: kids
- 1:42Bonnie: would
- 1:42Bonnie: follow
- 1:43Bonnie: in
- 1:43Bonnie: the
- 1:43Bonnie: same
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- 1:44Bonnie: Uh,
- 1:45Carolyn Blosil: then
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- 1:52Bonnie: and
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- 1:53Bonnie: I,
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- 1:55Bonnie: where
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- 1:56Bonnie: we
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- 1:56Bonnie: be
- 1:56Bonnie: financially
- 1:57Bonnie: at
- 1:57Bonnie: that
- 1:57Bonnie: point
- 1:58Bonnie: in
- 1:58Bonnie: our
- 1:58Bonnie: lives.
- 1:58Bonnie: And,
- 1:59Bonnie: uh,
- 1:59Bonnie: so
- 2:00Bonnie: I
- 2:00Bonnie: decided
- 2:00Bonnie: with
- 2:01Bonnie: eight
- 2:01Bonnie: kids
- 2:01Carolyn Blosil: really
- 2:02Bonnie: and
- 2:02Bonnie: really
- 2:02Bonnie: not
- 2:03Bonnie: having
- 2:03Bonnie: taught
- 2:04Bonnie: them
- 2:04Bonnie: much
- 2:04Bonnie: about
- 2:05Bonnie: managing
- 2:05Bonnie: money,
- 2:06Bonnie: investing
- 2:06Bonnie: any
- 2:07Bonnie: of
- 2:07Bonnie: those
- 2:07Bonnie: things,
- 2:07Bonnie: because
- 2:08Carolyn Blosil: hadn't.
- 2:08Bonnie: I
- 2:08Bonnie: hadn't.
- 2:09Carolyn Blosil: mean,
- 2:09Carolyn Blosil: I
- 2:09Carolyn Blosil: had
- 2:09Bonnie: I
- 2:10Bonnie: mean,
- 2:10Bonnie: I
- 2:10Bonnie: had
- 2:10Bonnie: taken
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- 2:11Bonnie: the
- 2:11Bonnie: way
- 2:12Bonnie: and
- 2:12Bonnie: I
- 2:12Bonnie: wouldn't
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- 2:12Bonnie: myself
- 2:13Bonnie: ignorant,
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- 2:13Bonnie: as
- 2:14Bonnie: far
- 2:14Bonnie: as
- 2:14Bonnie: really
- 2:14Bonnie: making
- 2:15Bonnie: a
- 2:15Bonnie: priority
- 2:15Bonnie: in
- 2:16Bonnie: my
- 2:16Bonnie: financial
- 2:16Bonnie: education,
- 2:17Carolyn Blosil: hadn't
- 2:18Carolyn Blosil: been
- 2:18Bonnie: hadn't
- 2:18Bonnie: been
- 2:18Bonnie: the
- 2:18Bonnie: case.
- 2:19Bonnie: 'cause
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- 2:19Bonnie: been
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- 2:20Bonnie: busy
- 2:20Bonnie: just
- 2:21Bonnie: raising
- 2:21Bonnie: our
- 2:21Bonnie: kids
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- 2:22Bonnie: thinking
- 2:23Bonnie: that
- 2:23Bonnie: plan
- 2:24Bonnie: of
- 2:24Bonnie: hope
- 2:24Bonnie: would
- 2:25Bonnie: work.
- 2:26Carolyn Blosil: for,
- 2:26Carolyn Blosil: for
- 2:26Carolyn Blosil: retirement
- 2:27Carolyn Blosil: planning,
- 2:28Carolyn Blosil: and
- 2:28Carolyn Blosil: then
- 2:28Bonnie: planning,
- 2:28Bonnie: and
- 2:28Bonnie: then
- 2:28Bonnie: realizing.
- 2:30Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 2:30Carolyn Blosil: that
- 2:31Bonnie: that
- 2:31Bonnie: wasn't
- 2:31Bonnie: it
- 2:31Bonnie: at
- 2:32Bonnie: all.
- 2:32Bonnie: And
- 2:32Bonnie: I
- 2:32Bonnie: needed
- 2:33Bonnie: to
- 2:33Bonnie: really
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- 2:33Bonnie: in
- 2:34Bonnie: a
- 2:34Bonnie: position
- 2:34Bonnie: of
- 2:34Bonnie: understanding
- 2:35Bonnie: money
- 2:35Bonnie: so
- 2:36Bonnie: that
- 2:36Bonnie: I
- 2:36Bonnie: could
- 2:36Bonnie: have
- 2:36Bonnie: conversations
- 2:37Bonnie: with
- 2:37Bonnie: my
- 2:38Bonnie: kids
- 2:38Bonnie: comfortably.
- 2:40Bonnie: Yeah,
- 2:40Bonnie: I,
- 2:40Bonnie: I
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- 2:40Bonnie: that,
- 2:41Bonnie: hope
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- 2:42Bonnie: We're
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- 2:46Bonnie: point
- 2:46Bonnie: because
- 2:46Bonnie: as
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- 2:48Bonnie: we
- 2:48Bonnie: hopefully
- 2:49Bonnie: are
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- 2:49Bonnie: and
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- 2:59Bonnie: And
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- 2:59Bonnie: the
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- 3:00Bonnie: trying
- 3:00Bonnie: to
- 3:00Bonnie: teach
- 3:00Bonnie: our
- 3:00Bonnie: kids
- 3:01Bonnie: important
- 3:02Bonnie: life
- 3:02Bonnie: skills
- 3:02Bonnie: that
- 3:02Bonnie: we
- 3:02Bonnie: may
- 3:02Bonnie: or
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- 3:03Bonnie: not
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- 3:03Bonnie: So
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- 3:04Bonnie: that
- 3:04Bonnie: you
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- 3:04Bonnie: that
- 3:04Bonnie: up.
- 3:06Carolyn Blosil: Yes.
- 3:06Carolyn Blosil: Because
- 3:06Carolyn Blosil: I
- 3:07Carolyn Blosil: had
- 3:07Carolyn Blosil: taken
- 3:07Carolyn Blosil: a
- 3:08Carolyn Blosil: financial
- 3:08Carolyn Blosil: classes
- 3:09Carolyn Blosil: in
- 3:09Carolyn Blosil: college
- 3:10Carolyn Blosil: and
- 3:10Carolyn Blosil: I
- 3:11Bonnie: I
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- 3:12Bonnie: uh,
- 3:12Bonnie: encouraging.
- 3:13Carolyn Blosil: and
- 3:13Carolyn Blosil: my,
- 3:14Carolyn Blosil: my,
- 3:14Carolyn Blosil: brothers
- 3:14Carolyn Blosil: to
- 3:15Carolyn Blosil: be
- 3:15Carolyn Blosil: in
- 3:15Bonnie: Be
- 3:15Bonnie: in
- 3:15Bonnie: this
- 3:16Carolyn Blosil: community
- 3:17Carolyn Blosil: and
- 3:17Carolyn Blosil: our
- 3:17Bonnie: in
- 3:17Bonnie: our
- 3:17Bonnie: local
- 3:18Bonnie: community
- 3:18Bonnie: with
- 3:18Bonnie: back
- 3:18Bonnie: when
- 3:18Bonnie: I
- 3:19Bonnie: was
- 3:19Bonnie: in
- 3:19Bonnie: high
- 3:19Bonnie: school,
- 3:20Bonnie: um,
- 3:20Bonnie: I
- 3:20Bonnie: remember
- 3:21Bonnie: really
- 3:21Bonnie: learning
- 3:22Bonnie: about
- 3:22Bonnie: how
- 3:22Bonnie: to
- 3:23Bonnie: buy
- 3:23Bonnie: your
- 3:23Bonnie: first
- 3:23Bonnie: home
- 3:24Bonnie: and
- 3:24Bonnie: all
- 3:24Bonnie: those
- 3:24Bonnie: things.
- 3:25Bonnie: But
- 3:25Bonnie: exactly
- 3:25Bonnie: to
- 3:25Bonnie: your
- 3:25Bonnie: point,
- 3:26Bonnie: once
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- 3:26Bonnie: kids
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- 3:27Bonnie: coming,
- 3:27Bonnie: you
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- 3:28Bonnie: in,
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- 3:29Carolyn Blosil: just,
- 3:29Carolyn Blosil: just
- 3:30Bonnie: just
- 3:30Bonnie: in
- 3:31Bonnie: survival
- 3:31Bonnie: mode
- 3:32Bonnie: and.
- 3:32Carolyn Blosil: and
- 3:32Carolyn Blosil: I
- 3:33Carolyn Blosil: used
- 3:33Bonnie: And
- 3:33Bonnie: I
- 3:33Bonnie: used
- 3:33Bonnie: to
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- 3:34Bonnie: people
- 3:34Bonnie: I
- 3:34Bonnie: really
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- 3:34Bonnie: had
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- 3:35Bonnie: for
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- 3:36Bonnie: article
- 3:36Bonnie: because
- 3:37Bonnie: I
- 3:37Bonnie: would
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- 3:38Bonnie: asleep
- 3:38Bonnie: if
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- 3:38Bonnie: was
- 3:39Bonnie: anything
- 3:39Carolyn Blosil: more
- 3:40Bonnie: more
- 3:40Bonnie: in
- 3:40Bonnie: depth,
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- 3:42Bonnie: something
- 3:42Bonnie: at
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- 3:44Bonnie: something
- 3:45Bonnie: like
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- 3:45Bonnie: And
- 3:45Bonnie: then
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- 11:50Bonnie: but
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- 11:51Bonnie: it
- 11:51Bonnie: brings
- 11:51Bonnie: up
- 11:51Bonnie: a
- 11:51Bonnie: lot
- 11:52Bonnie: of
- 11:52Bonnie: interesting
- 11:52Bonnie: things
- 11:52Bonnie: for
- 11:53Bonnie: us
- 11:53Bonnie: that,
- 11:53Bonnie: that
- 11:53Bonnie: might
- 11:54Bonnie: struggle
- 11:54Bonnie: with
- 11:54Bonnie: those
- 11:54Bonnie: thoughts.
- 11:55Carolyn Blosil: because
- 11:55Carolyn Blosil: I
- 11:55Carolyn Blosil: remember
- 11:55Carolyn Blosil: some
- 11:56Carolyn Blosil: years
- 11:56Carolyn Blosil: ago
- 11:56Carolyn Blosil: doing
- 11:57Carolyn Blosil: this,,
- 11:57Carolyn Blosil: like
- 11:57Carolyn Blosil: relationship
- 11:58Carolyn Blosil: thing
- 11:59Carolyn Blosil: and
- 11:59Bonnie: and
- 12:00Bonnie: there
- 12:00Bonnie: was
- 12:00Bonnie: a
- 12:00Bonnie: scenario,
- 12:01Bonnie: the
- 12:01Bonnie: boats
- 12:01Bonnie: sinking.
- 12:02Bonnie: There's
- 12:02Bonnie: like
- 12:03Bonnie: the
- 12:03Bonnie: Titanic
- 12:03Bonnie: and
- 12:04Bonnie: there's
- 12:04Bonnie: only,
- 12:04Bonnie: uh,
- 12:05Bonnie: enough
- 12:05Bonnie: life
- 12:05Bonnie: vests
- 12:06Bonnie: and,
- 12:06Bonnie: and
- 12:06Bonnie: boats
- 12:07Bonnie: to
- 12:07Bonnie: take
- 12:07Bonnie: this.
- 12:08Bonnie: Many
- 12:08Bonnie: people
- 12:09Carolyn Blosil: this
- 12:09Bonnie: this
- 12:10Bonnie: group
- 12:10Bonnie: here,
- 12:10Bonnie: which
- 12:11Bonnie: one
- 12:11Bonnie: of
- 12:11Bonnie: you
- 12:11Bonnie: are,
- 12:12Bonnie: are
- 12:12Bonnie: worthy
- 12:12Bonnie: enough
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- 12:13Bonnie: be
- 12:14Bonnie: in
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- 12:14Bonnie: that
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- 12:16Bonnie: boat.
- 12:16Carolyn Blosil: and.
- 12:17Bonnie: And,
- 12:17Carolyn Blosil: I
- 12:17Bonnie: and
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- 12:18Bonnie: as
- 12:18Bonnie: women
- 12:18Bonnie: we
- 12:19Bonnie: would
- 12:19Bonnie: give
- 12:19Bonnie: all
- 12:19Bonnie: the
- 12:19Bonnie: life
- 12:20Carolyn Blosil: out
- 12:20Carolyn Blosil: and
- 12:21Bonnie: and
- 12:21Bonnie: put
- 12:21Bonnie: everyone
- 12:22Bonnie: else
- 12:22Bonnie: in
- 12:22Bonnie: the
- 12:22Bonnie: boat
- 12:22Bonnie: except
- 12:23Bonnie: for
- 12:23Bonnie: us.
- 12:24Bonnie: And
- 12:25Bonnie: we
- 12:25Bonnie: really
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- 12:26Bonnie: our
- 12:27Bonnie: value
- 12:28Bonnie: to
- 12:28Bonnie: everyone
- 12:29Bonnie: in
- 12:29Bonnie: our
- 12:29Bonnie: lives.
- 12:30Bonnie: So
- 12:30Bonnie: that's
- 12:30Bonnie: where
- 12:31Bonnie: I,
- 12:32Bonnie: I
- 12:32Bonnie: remember
- 12:32Bonnie: I
- 12:33Bonnie: used
- 12:33Bonnie: to
- 12:33Bonnie: always
- 12:33Bonnie: think,
- 12:33Bonnie: well,
- 12:34Carolyn Blosil: husband
- 12:34Bonnie: husband
- 12:34Bonnie: needs
- 12:35Bonnie: to
- 12:35Bonnie: have
- 12:35Bonnie: a
- 12:35Bonnie: job
- 12:35Bonnie: so
- 12:35Bonnie: that
- 12:36Bonnie: we
- 12:36Bonnie: have
- 12:36Bonnie: health
- 12:36Bonnie: insurance.
- 12:37Bonnie: And
- 12:37Bonnie: so
- 12:37Bonnie: that,
- 12:37Bonnie: you
- 12:38Bonnie: know,
- 12:38Bonnie: all
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- 12:38Bonnie: things
- 12:38Bonnie: could,
- 12:39Bonnie: but
- 12:39Bonnie: I
- 12:39Bonnie: never
- 12:39Bonnie: had,
- 12:40Bonnie: I,
- 12:40Bonnie: for
- 12:40Bonnie: the
- 12:40Bonnie: long
- 12:41Bonnie: time,
- 12:41Bonnie: didn't
- 12:41Bonnie: have
- 12:41Bonnie: life
- 12:41Bonnie: insurance.
- 12:42Bonnie: I
- 12:43Bonnie: dunno
- 12:43Bonnie: who
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- 12:43Bonnie: was,
- 12:44Carolyn Blosil: what
- 12:44Carolyn Blosil: I
- 12:44Bonnie: what
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- 12:45Bonnie: if
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- 12:46Bonnie: died,
- 12:46Carolyn Blosil: would
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- 12:46Carolyn Blosil: just
- 12:47Carolyn Blosil: so
- 12:47Bonnie: who
- 12:47Bonnie: was
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- 12:48Bonnie: take
- 12:48Bonnie: care
- 12:48Bonnie: of
- 12:48Bonnie: those
- 12:48Bonnie: eight
- 12:49Bonnie: kids
- 12:49Bonnie: if
- 12:49Bonnie: you
- 12:49Bonnie: were
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- 12:51Carolyn Blosil: Even
- 12:51Carolyn Blosil: cook.
- 12:51Carolyn Blosil: I'm
- 12:51Carolyn Blosil: like,
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- 12:54Carolyn Blosil: and,
- 12:55Carolyn Blosil: you
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- 12:56Carolyn Blosil: but,
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- 12:58Bonnie: shift
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- 12:59Bonnie: first
- 12:59Bonnie: of
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- 13:00Bonnie: that
- 13:00Bonnie: I
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- 13:01Bonnie: in
- 13:01Bonnie: my
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- 13:02Bonnie: I
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- 13:03Bonnie: money
- 13:04Bonnie: in
- 13:04Bonnie: my
- 13:05Bonnie: learning,
- 13:05Carolyn Blosil: which
- 13:06Bonnie: which
- 13:06Bonnie: we
- 13:06Bonnie: also
- 13:07Bonnie: don't
- 13:07Bonnie: necessarily
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- 13:09Bonnie: a
- 13:09Bonnie: priority
- 13:10Bonnie: as
- 13:10Bonnie: well.
- 13:11Carolyn Blosil: oh
- 13:11Carolyn Blosil: my
- 13:11Carolyn Blosil: goodness,
- 13:12Bonnie: My
- 13:12Bonnie: goodness.
- 13:12Bonnie: What
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- 13:13Bonnie: also
- 13:13Bonnie: setting
- 13:14Bonnie: an
- 13:14Bonnie: example
- 13:14Bonnie: for
- 13:14Bonnie: our
- 13:15Bonnie: daughters.
- 13:16Carolyn Blosil: Like
- 13:16Carolyn Blosil: if
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- 13:16Carolyn Blosil: not
- 13:16Carolyn Blosil: prioritized,
- 13:17Carolyn Blosil: showing
- 13:18Carolyn Blosil: up
- 13:18Bonnie: up
- 13:18Bonnie: in
- 13:19Bonnie: a
- 13:19Bonnie: relationship
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- 13:20Bonnie: as
- 13:20Bonnie: a
- 13:20Bonnie: priority
- 13:21Bonnie: and
- 13:22Bonnie: we're,
- 13:22Bonnie: um,
- 13:23Bonnie: advocating
- 13:24Bonnie: for
- 13:24Bonnie: ourselves
- 13:25Bonnie: then,
- 13:26Carolyn Blosil: what
- 13:26Carolyn Blosil: are
- 13:26Bonnie: what
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- 13:27Bonnie: daughters
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- 13:28Bonnie: Right?
- 13:29Carolyn Blosil: And
- 13:29Bonnie: Absolutely.
- 13:30Bonnie: And
- 13:30Bonnie: also
- 13:30Carolyn Blosil: sons
- 13:31Carolyn Blosil: learning
- 13:31Carolyn Blosil: about
- 13:32Carolyn Blosil: what
- 13:32Carolyn Blosil: to
- 13:32Bonnie: what
- 13:33Carolyn Blosil: in
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- 13:33Bonnie: in
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- 13:33Bonnie: spouse.
- 13:35Carolyn Blosil: As
- 13:35Bonnie: As
- 13:36Bonnie: well
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- 13:36Bonnie: wouldn't
- 13:37Bonnie: you
- 13:37Bonnie: want
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- 13:38Bonnie: your
- 13:38Bonnie: sons
- 13:39Bonnie: or
- 13:39Bonnie: your
- 13:39Bonnie: daughters
- 13:39Bonnie: choosing
- 13:40Bonnie: someone
- 13:40Bonnie: where
- 13:40Bonnie: they
- 13:40Bonnie: can
- 13:40Bonnie: have
- 13:41Bonnie: healthy
- 13:41Bonnie: conversations
- 13:42Bonnie: around
- 13:43Bonnie: money.
- 13:43Carolyn Blosil: where,
- 13:44Carolyn Blosil: where
- 13:44Bonnie: where
- 13:45Bonnie: they
- 13:45Bonnie: would
- 13:45Bonnie: both
- 13:45Bonnie: value
- 13:46Carolyn Blosil: what
- 13:47Bonnie: what
- 13:47Bonnie: they're
- 13:47Bonnie: bringing
- 13:48Bonnie: into
- 13:48Bonnie: the
- 13:48Bonnie: relationship.
- 13:49Carolyn Blosil: as
- 13:50Carolyn Blosil: far
- 13:50Bonnie: far
- 13:50Bonnie: as
- 13:51Bonnie: even
- 13:51Bonnie: if,
- 13:52Bonnie: if
- 13:52Bonnie: one
- 13:52Bonnie: of
- 13:52Bonnie: them
- 13:53Bonnie: isn't
- 13:53Bonnie: working,
- 13:54Carolyn Blosil: other
- 13:54Bonnie: the
- 13:54Bonnie: other
- 13:54Bonnie: one
- 13:55Bonnie: be
- 13:55Bonnie: bringing,
- 13:56Bonnie: um.
- 13:56Carolyn Blosil: uh,
- 13:57Bonnie: Uh,
- 13:57Bonnie: knowledge
- 13:58Bonnie: to
- 13:58Bonnie: the
- 13:58Bonnie: relationship
- 13:59Bonnie: on
- 13:59Bonnie: how
- 13:59Bonnie: money
- 14:00Bonnie: works.
- 14:00Bonnie: Yeah.
- 14:01Bonnie: Because
- 14:01Bonnie: you
- 14:01Bonnie: can't
- 14:02Bonnie: just
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- 14:02Bonnie: that
- 14:02Bonnie: your
- 14:03Bonnie: spouse
- 14:03Bonnie: is
- 14:03Bonnie: gonna
- 14:03Bonnie: be
- 14:04Bonnie: well
- 14:04Bonnie: financially
- 14:05Bonnie: educated,
- 14:06Carolyn Blosil: if
- 14:06Carolyn Blosil: you're
- 14:06Bonnie: if
- 14:06Bonnie: you're
- 14:07Bonnie: not,
- 14:08Bonnie: they
- 14:08Bonnie: probably
- 14:08Bonnie: have
- 14:08Bonnie: the
- 14:09Bonnie: same
- 14:09Bonnie: age
- 14:09Bonnie: education
- 14:10Bonnie: that
- 14:10Bonnie: you
- 14:10Bonnie: have.
- 14:11Carolyn Blosil: And,
- 14:11Carolyn Blosil: um,
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- 14:12Carolyn Blosil: that
- 14:12Carolyn Blosil: makes
- 14:13Carolyn Blosil: it
- 14:13Bonnie: That
- 14:13Bonnie: makes
- 14:13Bonnie: it
- 14:13Bonnie: for
- 14:13Bonnie: a
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- 14:15Bonnie: situation.
- 14:16Bonnie: Yeah,
- 14:16Bonnie: absolutely.
- 14:17Bonnie: You
- 14:17Bonnie: know
- 14:17Bonnie: what's
- 14:17Bonnie: interesting
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- 14:18Bonnie: friend
- 14:18Bonnie: who
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- 14:20Bonnie: and
- 14:20Bonnie: she
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- 14:21Bonnie: common
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- 14:22Bonnie: from
- 14:22Bonnie: her
- 14:22Bonnie: male
- 14:22Bonnie: clients
- 14:23Bonnie: is
- 14:23Bonnie: that
- 14:23Bonnie: they
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- 14:23Bonnie: their
- 14:23Bonnie: wives
- 14:24Bonnie: were
- 14:24Bonnie: more
- 14:25Bonnie: involved
- 14:25Bonnie: in
- 14:25Bonnie: the
- 14:26Bonnie: financial
- 14:26Bonnie: decisions.
- 14:27Carolyn Blosil: Yeah,
- 14:28Bonnie: that's
- 14:28Bonnie: fascinating
- 14:28Carolyn Blosil: that
- 14:28Carolyn Blosil: too,
- 14:29Carolyn Blosil: where
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- 14:30Carolyn Blosil: say,
- 14:30Carolyn Blosil: oh,
- 14:30Carolyn Blosil: my
- 14:31Carolyn Blosil: WI
- 14:31Carolyn Blosil: Wife
- 14:31Carolyn Blosil: just
- 14:31Carolyn Blosil: doesn't
- 14:32Carolyn Blosil: want
- 14:32Carolyn Blosil: anything
- 14:32Carolyn Blosil: to
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- 14:33Carolyn Blosil: with
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- 14:33Carolyn Blosil: I
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- 14:34Carolyn Blosil: part
- 14:34Carolyn Blosil: of
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- 14:34Carolyn Blosil: is
- 14:35Bonnie: is
- 14:35Bonnie: we're
- 14:35Bonnie: so
- 14:35Bonnie: overwhelmed.
- 14:36Carolyn Blosil: taking
- 14:36Carolyn Blosil: care
- 14:37Carolyn Blosil: of
- 14:37Carolyn Blosil: the
- 14:37Carolyn Blosil: necessities
- 14:38Carolyn Blosil: of
- 14:38Carolyn Blosil: like
- 14:38Carolyn Blosil: life
- 14:38Carolyn Blosil: with
- 14:39Carolyn Blosil: our
- 14:39Carolyn Blosil: kids,
- 14:40Carolyn Blosil: and
- 14:40Carolyn Blosil: maybe
- 14:40Carolyn Blosil: they
- 14:40Carolyn Blosil: weren't
- 14:41Carolyn Blosil: even.
- 14:42Carolyn Blosil: Good
- 14:42Carolyn Blosil: at
- 14:42Carolyn Blosil: math
- 14:43Carolyn Blosil: in
- 14:43Carolyn Blosil: school,
- 14:43Carolyn Blosil: and
- 14:43Carolyn Blosil: they
- 14:44Carolyn Blosil: feel
- 14:44Bonnie: They
- 14:44Carolyn Blosil: if
- 14:44Carolyn Blosil: they're
- 14:44Carolyn Blosil: gonna
- 14:45Carolyn Blosil: get
- 14:45Carolyn Blosil: involved
- 14:45Carolyn Blosil: in
- 14:45Carolyn Blosil: money,
- 14:46Bonnie: in
- 14:46Bonnie: money,
- 14:46Bonnie: it's
- 14:46Bonnie: gonna
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- 14:48Bonnie: and
- 14:48Carolyn Blosil: don't
- 14:48Bonnie: they
- 14:48Bonnie: don't
- 14:48Bonnie: wanna
- 14:49Bonnie: look
- 14:49Bonnie: stupid.
- 14:50Bonnie: Right.
- 14:50Bonnie: I,
- 14:51Bonnie: I
- 14:51Bonnie: don't
- 14:51Bonnie: wanna,
- 14:51Carolyn Blosil: oftentimes
- 14:52Carolyn Blosil: the
- 14:52Carolyn Blosil: people
- 14:53Bonnie: the
- 14:53Bonnie: people
- 14:53Bonnie: in
- 14:53Bonnie: the
- 14:53Bonnie: financial
- 14:54Bonnie: industry
- 14:54Bonnie: are
- 14:55Bonnie: bent.
- 14:55Carolyn Blosil: that
- 14:55Carolyn Blosil: were
- 14:55Carolyn Blosil: having
- 14:56Bonnie: They
- 14:56Bonnie: are
- 14:56Bonnie: having
- 14:56Bonnie: to
- 14:57Bonnie: go
- 14:57Bonnie: to
- 14:57Bonnie: some
- 14:58Bonnie: fancy
- 14:58Bonnie: office
- 14:59Bonnie: and
- 15:00Bonnie: show
- 15:00Bonnie: up
- 15:00Bonnie: and
- 15:01Bonnie: not
- 15:01Bonnie: even
- 15:01Bonnie: know
- 15:01Bonnie: the
- 15:01Bonnie: questions
- 15:02Bonnie: to
- 15:02Bonnie: ask
- 15:03Bonnie: or,
- 15:03Carolyn Blosil: Or
- 15:04Bonnie: or
- 15:04Bonnie: even
- 15:04Bonnie: just
- 15:05Bonnie: question
- 15:05Bonnie: our
- 15:06Bonnie: husbands.
- 15:06Bonnie: 'cause
- 15:06Bonnie: we,
- 15:07Bonnie: then
- 15:07Bonnie: they'll
- 15:07Bonnie: think
- 15:08Bonnie: that.
- 15:08Carolyn Blosil: not
- 15:08Bonnie: We're
- 15:08Bonnie: not
- 15:09Bonnie: trusting
- 15:09Bonnie: them.
- 15:10Bonnie: We're
- 15:10Bonnie: asking
- 15:10Bonnie: them
- 15:10Bonnie: about,
- 15:11Bonnie: so
- 15:11Bonnie: how
- 15:11Bonnie: much
- 15:11Bonnie: money
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- 15:11Bonnie: you
- 15:11Bonnie: really
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- 15:12Bonnie: saved?
- 15:12Bonnie: Do
- 15:12Bonnie: you
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- 15:13Bonnie: what
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- 15:13Bonnie: to
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- 15:14Carolyn Blosil: in
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- 15:16Bonnie: years?
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- 15:19Bonnie: in
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- 15:20Bonnie: there
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- 15:23Bonnie: someone
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- 15:24Bonnie: teach
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- 15:25Bonnie: feel
- 15:26Bonnie: stupid
- 15:26Bonnie: as
- 15:26Bonnie: well,
- 15:27Bonnie: of
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- 15:29Bonnie: Right,
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- 15:29Bonnie: sure.
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- 15:31Bonnie: for
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- 15:33Bonnie: fact
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- 15:34Bonnie: little
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- 15:37Bonnie: this
- 15:37Bonnie: road
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- 15:39Bonnie: good
- 15:39Bonnie: place
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- 15:40Bonnie: your
- 15:40Bonnie: spouse
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- 15:41Bonnie: communicating
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- 15:42Bonnie: it's
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- 15:42Bonnie: worthwhile
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- 15:44Bonnie: right?
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- 15:45Bonnie: little
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- 15:45Bonnie: and
- 15:45Bonnie: energy,
- 15:46Bonnie: but
- 15:46Bonnie: it's
- 15:46Bonnie: worthwhile
- 15:47Carolyn Blosil: Well,
- 15:47Carolyn Blosil: and
- 15:47Carolyn Blosil: I
- 15:48Carolyn Blosil: would
- 15:48Carolyn Blosil: just
- 15:48Carolyn Blosil: say
- 15:48Carolyn Blosil: that
- 15:49Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 15:49Carolyn Blosil: once
- 15:50Carolyn Blosil: you
- 15:50Carolyn Blosil: get
- 15:50Carolyn Blosil: started
- 15:51Carolyn Blosil: and
- 15:51Bonnie: and
- 15:51Carolyn Blosil: start
- 15:52Bonnie: start
- 15:52Bonnie: learning.
- 15:52Carolyn Blosil: if
- 15:53Carolyn Blosil: the,
- 15:53Carolyn Blosil: the
- 15:53Carolyn Blosil: other
- 15:53Bonnie: The
- 15:54Bonnie: other
- 15:54Bonnie: spouse
- 15:54Bonnie: doesn't
- 15:55Bonnie: wanna
- 15:55Bonnie: learn
- 15:55Bonnie: anything
- 15:56Bonnie: more
- 15:56Bonnie: about
- 15:56Bonnie: it.
- 15:57Carolyn Blosil: you'll
- 15:57Carolyn Blosil: see
- 15:58Bonnie: see
- 15:58Bonnie: that
- 15:58Bonnie: your
- 15:58Bonnie: lives
- 15:59Bonnie: start
- 15:59Bonnie: shifting.
- 16:00Carolyn Blosil: Because
- 16:00Bonnie: Because
- 16:01Bonnie: of
- 16:01Bonnie: the
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- 16:01Bonnie: you're
- 16:02Bonnie: making.
- 16:02Bonnie: Like
- 16:02Bonnie: don't
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- 16:03Bonnie: for
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- 16:04Bonnie: the
- 16:04Bonnie: first
- 16:04Bonnie: move.
- 16:05Bonnie: You
- 16:05Bonnie: just
- 16:06Bonnie: determine,
- 16:06Bonnie: I,
- 16:06Bonnie: I
- 16:07Bonnie: started
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- 16:08Bonnie: to
- 16:08Bonnie: the
- 16:08Bonnie: library
- 16:09Carolyn Blosil: just
- 16:09Bonnie: and
- 16:09Bonnie: just
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- 16:09Bonnie: of
- 16:10Bonnie: perusing
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- 16:11Bonnie: uh,
- 16:12Bonnie: book
- 16:12Bonnie: section
- 16:13Bonnie: and
- 16:13Bonnie: just
- 16:14Bonnie: thinking,
- 16:14Bonnie: okay,
- 16:14Bonnie: what
- 16:14Bonnie: this
- 16:15Bonnie: one
- 16:15Bonnie: looks
- 16:15Bonnie: kind
- 16:16Bonnie: of
- 16:16Bonnie: interesting,
- 16:16Bonnie: this,
- 16:17Bonnie: and
- 16:17Carolyn Blosil: started
- 16:18Bonnie: started
- 16:18Bonnie: there.
- 16:19Bonnie: And
- 16:19Bonnie: then
- 16:19Bonnie: I
- 16:19Bonnie: looked
- 16:20Bonnie: for
- 16:20Bonnie: opportunities
- 16:20Bonnie: in
- 16:20Bonnie: my
- 16:21Bonnie: community
- 16:21Bonnie: that
- 16:21Bonnie: offered
- 16:22Bonnie: any
- 16:22Bonnie: kind
- 16:22Bonnie: of
- 16:22Bonnie: financial
- 16:23Bonnie: classes
- 16:23Bonnie: because.
- 16:24Carolyn Blosil: seriously,
- 16:25Carolyn Blosil: I
- 16:25Carolyn Blosil: just
- 16:25Bonnie: I
- 16:26Bonnie: just
- 16:26Bonnie: wanted
- 16:26Bonnie: myself
- 16:27Bonnie: to,
- 16:27Bonnie: to
- 16:27Bonnie: know,
- 16:28Bonnie: I
- 16:28Bonnie: finally
- 16:28Bonnie: wanted
- 16:28Bonnie: to
- 16:28Bonnie: know
- 16:29Bonnie: for
- 16:29Bonnie: myself,
- 16:30Bonnie: and
- 16:30Bonnie: I
- 16:30Bonnie: wanted
- 16:30Bonnie: to
- 16:30Bonnie: know
- 16:31Bonnie: if
- 16:31Bonnie: there
- 16:31Bonnie: was
- 16:31Bonnie: something
- 16:31Bonnie: I
- 16:32Bonnie: personally
- 16:33Carolyn Blosil: do.
- 16:33Bonnie: could
- 16:33Bonnie: do
- 16:34Bonnie: to
- 16:34Bonnie: to
- 16:34Bonnie: shift
- 16:35Bonnie: our
- 16:35Bonnie: situation.
- 16:36Carolyn Blosil: and,
- 16:37Carolyn Blosil: and
- 16:37Carolyn Blosil: it
- 16:37Bonnie: it
- 16:37Bonnie: didn't
- 16:38Bonnie: really
- 16:38Bonnie: require
- 16:38Bonnie: my
- 16:39Bonnie: husband
- 16:39Bonnie: to
- 16:39Bonnie: tell
- 16:39Bonnie: me
- 16:40Bonnie: what
- 16:40Bonnie: to
- 16:40Bonnie: do
- 16:40Bonnie: or
- 16:40Bonnie: where
- 16:41Bonnie: to
- 16:41Bonnie: go
- 16:41Bonnie: or
- 16:41Bonnie: whatever.
- 16:42Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 16:42Carolyn Blosil: I
- 16:43Bonnie: I,
- 16:43Bonnie: I
- 16:43Bonnie: needed
- 16:43Bonnie: to
- 16:44Bonnie: make
- 16:44Bonnie: that
- 16:44Bonnie: initiative
- 16:45Bonnie: myself
- 16:46Bonnie: and
- 16:46Carolyn Blosil: on
- 16:46Carolyn Blosil: my
- 16:47Bonnie: on
- 16:47Bonnie: my
- 16:47Bonnie: own
- 16:47Bonnie: journey.
- 16:48Bonnie: Yeah,
- 16:48Bonnie: I
- 16:48Bonnie: love
- 16:48Bonnie: that.
- 16:49Bonnie: I
- 16:49Bonnie: love
- 16:49Bonnie: that.
- 16:50Bonnie: And
- 16:50Bonnie: when
- 16:50Bonnie: it
- 16:50Bonnie: does
- 16:50Bonnie: come
- 16:50Bonnie: time
- 16:51Bonnie: to
- 16:51Bonnie: sit
- 16:51Bonnie: down
- 16:51Bonnie: and
- 16:52Bonnie: talk
- 16:52Bonnie: with
- 16:52Bonnie: your
- 16:52Bonnie: spouse,
- 16:52Bonnie: if
- 16:52Bonnie: this
- 16:53Bonnie: is
- 16:53Bonnie: not
- 16:53Bonnie: something
- 16:53Bonnie: you're
- 16:53Bonnie: regularly
- 16:54Bonnie: doing,
- 16:54Bonnie: one
- 16:54Bonnie: thought
- 16:55Bonnie: I
- 16:55Bonnie: had
- 16:55Bonnie: was
- 16:55Bonnie: that.
- 16:56Bonnie: If
- 16:56Bonnie: you
- 16:57Bonnie: are
- 16:57Bonnie: nervous
- 16:57Bonnie: about
- 16:57Bonnie: it
- 16:58Bonnie: seeming
- 16:58Bonnie: like
- 16:58Bonnie: an
- 16:59Bonnie: attack
- 16:59Bonnie: or
- 16:59Bonnie: something
- 16:59Bonnie: like,
- 17:00Bonnie: like
- 17:00Bonnie: a,
- 17:01Bonnie: you
- 17:01Bonnie: know,
- 17:01Bonnie: I,
- 17:01Bonnie: I
- 17:01Bonnie: don't,
- 17:02Bonnie: I
- 17:02Bonnie: no
- 17:02Bonnie: longer
- 17:02Bonnie: trust
- 17:02Bonnie: you.
- 17:02Bonnie: I
- 17:02Bonnie: need
- 17:03Bonnie: to
- 17:03Bonnie: know
- 17:03Bonnie: everything
- 17:03Bonnie: about
- 17:04Bonnie: it.
- 17:04Bonnie: Instead,
- 17:05Bonnie: you
- 17:05Bonnie: can
- 17:05Bonnie: communicate
- 17:06Bonnie: that
- 17:06Bonnie: this
- 17:07Bonnie: is
- 17:07Bonnie: where
- 17:07Bonnie: you're
- 17:07Bonnie: going
- 17:07Bonnie: to
- 17:07Bonnie: build
- 17:08Bonnie: your
- 17:08Bonnie: future
- 17:08Bonnie: together,
- 17:09Bonnie: right?
- 17:09Bonnie: We
- 17:09Bonnie: constantly
- 17:10Bonnie: make
- 17:10Bonnie: plans
- 17:10Bonnie: for
- 17:10Bonnie: the
- 17:10Bonnie: future
- 17:11Bonnie: together
- 17:11Bonnie: with
- 17:11Bonnie: our
- 17:11Bonnie: spouses.
- 17:12Bonnie: Like,
- 17:12Bonnie: what's
- 17:12Bonnie: gonna
- 17:12Bonnie: happen
- 17:12Bonnie: when
- 17:13Bonnie: our
- 17:13Bonnie: kids
- 17:13Bonnie: leave?
- 17:13Bonnie: What's
- 17:13Bonnie: gonna
- 17:13Bonnie: happen
- 17:14Bonnie: when
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- 17:14Bonnie: and
- 17:14Bonnie: what
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- 17:15Bonnie: gonna
- 17:15Bonnie: do
- 17:15Bonnie: next
- 17:15Bonnie: Friday?
- 17:16Bonnie: Right.
- 17:16Carolyn Blosil: Mm-hmm.
- 17:17Bonnie: money
- 17:17Bonnie: is
- 17:17Bonnie: very
- 17:18Bonnie: much
- 17:18Bonnie: involved
- 17:18Bonnie: in
- 17:18Bonnie: our
- 17:19Bonnie: future,
- 17:19Bonnie: and
- 17:19Bonnie: so
- 17:19Bonnie: we
- 17:19Bonnie: need
- 17:20Bonnie: to
- 17:20Bonnie: start
- 17:20Bonnie: bringing
- 17:20Bonnie: that
- 17:20Bonnie: into
- 17:20Bonnie: conversations
- 17:21Bonnie: as
- 17:21Bonnie: well.
- 17:21Bonnie: We
- 17:21Bonnie: can
- 17:21Bonnie: say,
- 17:22Bonnie: Hey,
- 17:22Bonnie: let's
- 17:22Bonnie: talk
- 17:23Bonnie: about
- 17:23Bonnie: what
- 17:23Bonnie: it
- 17:23Bonnie: looks
- 17:23Bonnie: like
- 17:24Bonnie: for
- 17:24Bonnie: retirement.
- 17:24Bonnie: What
- 17:24Bonnie: are
- 17:24Bonnie: you
- 17:25Bonnie: thinking?
- 17:25Bonnie: What,
- 17:25Bonnie: how
- 17:26Bonnie: much
- 17:26Bonnie: do
- 17:26Bonnie: you
- 17:26Bonnie: think
- 17:26Bonnie: we
- 17:26Bonnie: need
- 17:26Bonnie: to
- 17:26Bonnie: have
- 17:26Bonnie: saved
- 17:27Bonnie: and
- 17:27Bonnie: is
- 17:28Bonnie: there
- 17:28Bonnie: any
- 17:28Bonnie: way
- 17:28Bonnie: I
- 17:28Bonnie: can
- 17:28Bonnie: help
- 17:28Bonnie: with
- 17:28Bonnie: that
- 17:28Bonnie: and
- 17:29Bonnie: show
- 17:29Bonnie: me
- 17:29Bonnie: where
- 17:29Bonnie: it's
- 17:29Bonnie: invested?
- 17:30Bonnie: Right?
- 17:30Bonnie: Just
- 17:30Bonnie: showing,
- 17:31Bonnie: curiosity,
- 17:32Bonnie: I
- 17:32Bonnie: think
- 17:32Bonnie: goes
- 17:33Bonnie: a
- 17:33Bonnie: long
- 17:33Bonnie: way.
- 17:34Carolyn Blosil: Yeah.
- 17:35Carolyn Blosil: And
- 17:35Carolyn Blosil: it
- 17:35Carolyn Blosil: could
- 17:35Carolyn Blosil: just
- 17:36Carolyn Blosil: be
- 17:36Carolyn Blosil: about,
- 17:36Carolyn Blosil: I
- 17:36Carolyn Blosil: just,
- 17:37Carolyn Blosil: I'm
- 17:37Carolyn Blosil: realizing
- 17:37Carolyn Blosil: I'd
- 17:38Carolyn Blosil: really
- 17:38Carolyn Blosil: like
- 17:38Carolyn Blosil: to
- 17:38Carolyn Blosil: understand
- 17:39Carolyn Blosil: that
- 17:39Carolyn Blosil: better
- 17:39Carolyn Blosil: and,
- 17:40Carolyn Blosil: and
- 17:40Carolyn Blosil: think
- 17:40Carolyn Blosil: about
- 17:41Carolyn Blosil: whatever
- 17:41Carolyn Blosil: age
- 17:42Carolyn Blosil: your
- 17:42Carolyn Blosil: kids
- 17:43Bonnie: are.
- 17:43Carolyn Blosil: you
- 17:43Carolyn Blosil: need
- 17:44Carolyn Blosil: to
- 17:44Carolyn Blosil: be
- 17:44Bonnie: To
- 17:44Bonnie: be
- 17:44Bonnie: starting
- 17:45Bonnie: to
- 17:45Bonnie: teach
- 17:45Bonnie: them
- 17:45Bonnie: the
- 17:46Bonnie: same
- 17:46Bonnie: thing.
- 17:47Carolyn Blosil: the
- 17:47Bonnie: The
- 17:47Bonnie: things
- 17:47Bonnie: that
- 17:48Bonnie: you're
- 17:48Bonnie: learning
- 17:48Bonnie: and
- 17:48Bonnie: share
- 17:49Bonnie: them.
- 17:49Bonnie: And
- 17:49Bonnie: I,
- 17:49Carolyn Blosil: um,
- 17:50Bonnie: uh,
- 17:50Bonnie: as,
- 17:50Bonnie: uh,
- 17:51Bonnie: in
- 17:51Bonnie: Utah,
- 17:52Bonnie: we,
- 17:52Bonnie: there's
- 17:52Bonnie: a
- 17:53Bonnie: coalition
- 17:53Bonnie: to
- 17:53Bonnie: just
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- 17:54Bonnie: advance
- 17:55Bonnie: the
- 17:55Carolyn Blosil: Status
- 17:56Carolyn Blosil: of
- 17:56Bonnie: of
- 17:56Bonnie: women
- 17:57Bonnie: in
- 17:57Bonnie: Utah
- 17:57Bonnie: generally.
- 17:58Bonnie: It
- 17:58Bonnie: could
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- 17:58Bonnie: be
- 17:58Bonnie: in
- 17:59Bonnie: education
- 17:59Bonnie: and
- 17:59Bonnie: family
- 18:00Bonnie: relations,
- 18:00Bonnie: it
- 18:01Bonnie: could
- 18:01Bonnie: be
- 18:01Bonnie: with
- 18:01Bonnie: money,
- 18:02Bonnie: it
- 18:02Bonnie: could
- 18:02Bonnie: be
- 18:02Bonnie: a
- 18:02Bonnie: job,
- 18:03Bonnie: uh,
- 18:03Bonnie: equity
- 18:04Bonnie: and
- 18:04Bonnie: income
- 18:05Carolyn Blosil: kind
- 18:05Bonnie: and
- 18:05Bonnie: those
- 18:05Bonnie: kind
- 18:05Bonnie: of
- 18:06Bonnie: things.
- 18:06Bonnie: And
- 18:06Bonnie: we
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- 18:06Bonnie: where
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- 18:06Bonnie: we
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- 18:08Carolyn Blosil: money
- 18:08Bonnie: money
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- 18:09Bonnie: And
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- 18:11Bonnie: the
- 18:11Bonnie: conclusion
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- 18:12Bonnie: it
- 18:13Bonnie: more
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- 18:15Carolyn Blosil: a
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- 18:15Bonnie: starting
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- 18:16Bonnie: for
- 18:17Bonnie: any
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- 18:18Bonnie: consideration.
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- 18:20Carolyn Blosil: And
- 18:20Bonnie: and
- 18:21Bonnie: I
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- 18:22Bonnie: just
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- 18:23Bonnie: to
- 18:23Bonnie: what
- 18:23Bonnie: those
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- 18:24Bonnie: look
- 18:24Bonnie: like,
- 18:25Bonnie: uh,
- 18:25Bonnie: with,
- 18:26Bonnie: with
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- 18:26Bonnie: kids
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- 18:27Bonnie: of,
- 18:27Bonnie: uh,
- 18:27Bonnie: your
- 18:28Bonnie: conversations
- 18:28Bonnie: being
- 18:29Bonnie: around,
- 18:29Bonnie: we
- 18:29Bonnie: don't
- 18:30Bonnie: have
- 18:30Bonnie: money.
- 18:30Bonnie: We
- 18:30Bonnie: can't
- 18:31Bonnie: afford
- 18:31Bonnie: that.
- 18:31Bonnie: You
- 18:31Bonnie: gotta
- 18:32Bonnie: go
- 18:32Bonnie: out
- 18:32Bonnie: and
- 18:32Bonnie: get
- 18:32Bonnie: the
- 18:32Bonnie: job
- 18:33Bonnie: if
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- 18:33Bonnie: wanna
- 18:33Bonnie: do
- 18:33Bonnie: that
- 18:34Bonnie: activity
- 18:34Bonnie: or
- 18:34Carolyn Blosil: thing.
- 18:35Carolyn Blosil: What's
- 18:36Bonnie: What's
- 18:36Bonnie: that?
- 18:36Bonnie: How
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- 18:37Bonnie: we
- 18:37Bonnie: cultivate
- 18:38Bonnie: a
- 18:38Bonnie: better.
- 18:39Carolyn Blosil: How
- 18:39Carolyn Blosil: can
- 18:39Bonnie: How
- 18:40Bonnie: can
- 18:40Bonnie: we
- 18:40Bonnie: cultivate
- 18:40Bonnie: better
- 18:40Bonnie: conversations
- 18:42Bonnie: just
- 18:42Bonnie: around
- 18:43Carolyn Blosil: money
- 18:43Carolyn Blosil: in
- 18:44Bonnie: in
- 18:44Bonnie: general,
- 18:45Bonnie: whether
- 18:45Bonnie: you
- 18:45Bonnie: have
- 18:45Bonnie: a
- 18:46Bonnie: 4-year-old,
- 18:47Carolyn Blosil: uh,
- 18:47Bonnie: uh,
- 18:47Bonnie: or
- 18:48Bonnie: you
- 18:48Bonnie: have
- 18:49Bonnie: a
- 18:49Bonnie: college,
- 18:50Bonnie: college
- 18:51Bonnie: student.
- 18:52Bonnie: Yeah.
- 18:53Bonnie: Or
- 18:53Bonnie: even
- 18:53Bonnie: older
- 18:53Bonnie: than
- 18:54Bonnie: that.
- 18:54Bonnie: Yeah.
- 18:54Bonnie: That's
- 18:55Bonnie: so
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- 18:55Bonnie: And
- 18:55Bonnie: this
- 18:56Bonnie: is
- 18:56Bonnie: something
- 18:56Bonnie: that
- 18:56Bonnie: could
- 18:57Bonnie: be
- 18:57Bonnie: a
- 18:57Bonnie: really
- 18:57Bonnie: great
- 18:57Bonnie: partnership
- 18:58Bonnie: with
- 18:58Bonnie: your
- 18:58Bonnie: spouse
- 18:58Bonnie: as
- 18:58Bonnie: well,
- 18:58Bonnie: right?
- 18:58Bonnie: Like,
- 18:59Bonnie: hey,
- 18:59Bonnie: at
- 18:59Bonnie: dinner
- 19:00Bonnie: I
- 19:00Bonnie: would
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- 19:00Bonnie: to
- 19:00Bonnie: sit
- 19:00Bonnie: down
- 19:01Bonnie: and
- 19:01Bonnie: talk
- 19:01Bonnie: to
- 19:01Bonnie: the
- 19:01Bonnie: kids
- 19:01Bonnie: about
- 19:02Bonnie: the
- 19:02Bonnie: basic
- 19:02Bonnie: things
- 19:02Bonnie: that
- 19:03Bonnie: they
- 19:03Bonnie: should
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- 19:03Bonnie: for.
- 19:04Bonnie: Or
- 19:04Bonnie: I'm
- 19:05Bonnie: sure
- 19:05Bonnie: you
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- 19:05Bonnie: conversations
- 19:06Bonnie: about
- 19:06Bonnie: tithing
- 19:06Bonnie: or
- 19:06Bonnie: about,
- 19:07Bonnie: um,
- 19:08Bonnie: you
- 19:08Bonnie: really
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- 19:09Bonnie: a
- 19:09Bonnie: toy.
- 19:09Bonnie: What's
- 19:09Bonnie: that
- 19:10Bonnie: gonna
- 19:10Bonnie: look
- 19:10Bonnie: like?
- 19:10Bonnie: Right?
- 19:10Bonnie: It's,
- 19:10Bonnie: are
- 19:11Bonnie: you
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- 19:11Bonnie: for,
- 19:11Bonnie: or
- 19:11Bonnie: a
- 19:12Bonnie: car
- 19:12Bonnie: or
- 19:12Bonnie: whatever,
- 19:12Bonnie: depending
- 19:12Bonnie: on
- 19:13Bonnie: how
- 19:13Bonnie: old
- 19:13Bonnie: they
- 19:13Bonnie: are.
- 19:13Bonnie: But
- 19:14Bonnie: I
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- 19:14Bonnie: a
- 19:14Bonnie: kind
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- 19:15Bonnie: cool
- 19:15Bonnie: experience
- 19:15Bonnie: about
- 19:16Bonnie: this
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- 19:16Bonnie: couple
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- 19:17Bonnie: year
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- 19:17Bonnie: a
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- 19:18Bonnie: I
- 19:18Bonnie: really
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- 19:19Bonnie: fun
- 19:19Bonnie: to
- 19:19Bonnie: take
- 19:19Bonnie: our
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- 19:20Bonnie: a
- 19:20Bonnie: cruise,
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- 19:21Bonnie: significant
- 19:21Bonnie: financial
- 19:22Bonnie: investment
- 19:22Bonnie: with
- 19:22Bonnie: our
- 19:22Bonnie: nine
- 19:23Bonnie: children,
- 19:23Bonnie: right?
- 19:24Bonnie: And
- 19:24Bonnie: so
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- 19:25Bonnie: research
- 19:26Bonnie: and
- 19:26Bonnie: we
- 19:27Bonnie: sat
- 19:27Bonnie: down
- 19:27Bonnie: with
- 19:27Bonnie: the
- 19:27Bonnie: kids,
- 19:27Bonnie: and
- 19:28Bonnie: I
- 19:28Bonnie: think
- 19:28Bonnie: sometimes
- 19:28Bonnie: we
- 19:28Bonnie: have
- 19:28Bonnie: these
- 19:29Bonnie: fears
- 19:29Bonnie: over
- 19:29Bonnie: like,
- 19:30Bonnie: what's
- 19:30Bonnie: okay
- 19:30Bonnie: to
- 19:31Bonnie: tell
- 19:31Bonnie: our
- 19:31Bonnie: kids?
- 19:31Bonnie: You
- 19:31Bonnie: can
- 19:31Bonnie: tell
- 19:32Bonnie: them
- 19:32Bonnie: how
- 19:32Bonnie: much
- 19:32Bonnie: you
- 19:32Bonnie: make.
- 19:33Bonnie: You
- 19:33Bonnie: can
- 19:33Bonnie: tell
- 19:33Bonnie: them
- 19:34Bonnie: how
- 19:34Bonnie: much
- 19:34Bonnie: life
- 19:35Bonnie: costs,
- 19:35Bonnie: how
- 19:35Bonnie: much
- 19:36Bonnie: the
- 19:36Bonnie: mortgage
- 19:36Bonnie: is.
- 19:36Bonnie: It's
- 19:36Bonnie: important
- 19:37Bonnie: that
- 19:37Bonnie: they
- 19:37Bonnie: have
- 19:37Bonnie: some
- 19:38Bonnie: of
- 19:38Bonnie: these
- 19:38Bonnie: numbers
- 19:38Bonnie: in
- 19:38Bonnie: their
- 19:38Bonnie: head.
- 19:38Bonnie: So
- 19:39Bonnie: we
- 19:39Bonnie: talked
- 19:39Bonnie: about
- 19:39Bonnie: that,
- 19:40Bonnie: and
- 19:40Bonnie: then
- 19:40Bonnie: we
- 19:40Bonnie: said.
- 19:40Bonnie: This
- 19:40Bonnie: is
- 19:41Bonnie: how
- 19:41Bonnie: much
- 19:41Bonnie: we
- 19:41Bonnie: can
- 19:41Bonnie: afford
- 19:41Bonnie: to
- 19:41Bonnie: save
- 19:42Bonnie: per
- 19:42Bonnie: month.
- 19:43Bonnie: What
- 19:43Bonnie: do
- 19:43Bonnie: you
- 19:43Bonnie: guys
- 19:43Bonnie: think?
- 19:44Bonnie: If
- 19:44Bonnie: we
- 19:44Bonnie: cut
- 19:44Bonnie: back
- 19:44Bonnie: on
- 19:44Bonnie: some
- 19:45Bonnie: of
- 19:45Bonnie: our
- 19:45Bonnie: spending,
- 19:45Bonnie: we
- 19:45Bonnie: could
- 19:45Bonnie: save
- 19:45Bonnie: more
- 19:46Bonnie: and
- 19:46Bonnie: get
- 19:46Bonnie: there
- 19:46Bonnie: quicker,
- 19:47Bonnie: right?
- 19:47Bonnie: We
- 19:47Bonnie: had
- 19:47Bonnie: this
- 19:47Bonnie: great
- 19:47Bonnie: conversation
- 19:48Bonnie: and
- 19:49Bonnie: we
- 19:49Bonnie: even
- 19:49Bonnie: printed
- 19:49Bonnie: out
- 19:50Bonnie: a
- 19:50Bonnie: chart
- 19:50Bonnie: that
- 19:50Bonnie: we
- 19:50Bonnie: hung
- 19:51Bonnie: on
- 19:51Bonnie: the
- 19:51Bonnie: wall
- 19:51Bonnie: where
- 19:52Bonnie: they
- 19:52Bonnie: got
- 19:52Bonnie: to
- 19:52Bonnie: fill
- 19:52Bonnie: in
- 19:52Bonnie: circles
- 19:53Bonnie: when
- 19:53Bonnie: we
- 19:53Bonnie: saved
- 19:53Bonnie: another
- 19:54Bonnie: a
- 19:54Bonnie: hundred
- 19:54Bonnie: dollars,
- 19:55Bonnie: and
- 19:55Bonnie: it
- 19:55Bonnie: was
- 19:55Bonnie: such
- 19:56Bonnie: a
- 19:56Bonnie: great
- 19:56Bonnie: learning
- 19:56Bonnie: experience
- 19:57Bonnie: for
- 19:57Bonnie: them
- 19:57Bonnie: and
- 19:57Bonnie: also
- 19:57Bonnie: for
- 19:58Bonnie: me
- 19:58Bonnie: to
- 19:58Bonnie: see
- 19:58Bonnie: how
- 19:58Bonnie: motivated
- 19:59Bonnie: they
- 19:59Bonnie: were
- 19:59Bonnie: to
- 19:59Bonnie: skip
- 19:59Bonnie: Chick-fil-A
- 20:00Bonnie: one
- 20:00Bonnie: day
- 20:01Bonnie: because
- 20:01Bonnie: they
- 20:01Bonnie: wanted
- 20:01Bonnie: to
- 20:01Bonnie: put
- 20:02Bonnie: another
- 20:02Bonnie: a
- 20:02Bonnie: hundred
- 20:02Bonnie: dollars
- 20:02Bonnie: on
- 20:03Bonnie: the
- 20:03Bonnie: savings
- 20:03Bonnie: chart.
- 20:03Bonnie: So
- 20:03Bonnie: anyway,
- 20:04Bonnie: just
- 20:04Bonnie: getting
- 20:04Bonnie: them
- 20:04Bonnie: involved
- 20:05Bonnie: in
- 20:05Bonnie: any
- 20:05Bonnie: little
- 20:05Bonnie: way
- 20:05Bonnie: can
- 20:05Bonnie: be
- 20:06Bonnie: so
- 20:06Bonnie: powerful.
- 20:07Carolyn Blosil: Absolutely.
- 20:08Carolyn Blosil: I've
- 20:08Carolyn Blosil: also,
- 20:08Carolyn Blosil: uh,
- 20:08Carolyn Blosil: read
- 20:09Carolyn Blosil: recently
- 20:09Carolyn Blosil: where,
- 20:10Carolyn Blosil: going
- 20:10Carolyn Blosil: on
- 20:10Carolyn Blosil: a
- 20:10Carolyn Blosil: trip,
- 20:11Carolyn Blosil: it's
- 20:12Carolyn Blosil: not
- 20:12Carolyn Blosil: just
- 20:12Carolyn Blosil: about
- 20:12Carolyn Blosil: the
- 20:13Carolyn Blosil: trip
- 20:13Carolyn Blosil: itself,
- 20:13Carolyn Blosil: it's
- 20:14Bonnie: It's
- 20:14Bonnie: all
- 20:14Bonnie: the
- 20:15Bonnie: preparation
- 20:15Bonnie: leading
- 20:16Bonnie: up
- 20:16Bonnie: to
- 20:16Bonnie: it
- 20:16Bonnie: that
- 20:17Bonnie: is
- 20:17Carolyn Blosil: for
- 20:18Carolyn Blosil: people
- 20:18Bonnie: anticipation.
- 20:19Bonnie: Yeah.
- 20:19Bonnie: So.
- 20:20Carolyn Blosil: and
- 20:20Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 20:20Carolyn Blosil: I
- 20:20Carolyn Blosil: just
- 20:21Carolyn Blosil: think
- 20:21Carolyn Blosil: the
- 20:21Carolyn Blosil: more,
- 20:22Carolyn Blosil: more
- 20:22Carolyn Blosil: experiences
- 20:23Carolyn Blosil: we
- 20:23Carolyn Blosil: have
- 20:24Carolyn Blosil: regarding
- 20:24Carolyn Blosil: money,
- 20:25Carolyn Blosil: it
- 20:25Carolyn Blosil: will
- 20:26Carolyn Blosil: establish
- 20:26Carolyn Blosil: both
- 20:27Carolyn Blosil: positive,
- 20:28Carolyn Blosil: a
- 20:28Bonnie: A
- 20:28Bonnie: positive
- 20:29Bonnie: relationship
- 20:30Bonnie: towards
- 20:30Bonnie: money
- 20:31Bonnie: versus,
- 20:31Carolyn Blosil: mean,
- 20:32Bonnie: I
- 20:32Bonnie: mean,
- 20:32Bonnie: my,
- 20:32Carolyn Blosil: I
- 20:33Bonnie: I
- 20:33Bonnie: just
- 20:33Bonnie: grew
- 20:34Bonnie: up,
- 20:34Bonnie: I
- 20:34Bonnie: know
- 20:34Bonnie: my
- 20:34Bonnie: kids
- 20:34Bonnie: grew
- 20:35Bonnie: up,
- 20:35Bonnie: uh,
- 20:35Carolyn Blosil: just
- 20:36Bonnie: just
- 20:36Bonnie: thinking
- 20:36Bonnie: that
- 20:37Bonnie: we
- 20:37Bonnie: were
- 20:37Bonnie: the
- 20:37Bonnie: poorest
- 20:38Bonnie: family
- 20:38Bonnie: in
- 20:38Bonnie: the
- 20:38Bonnie: neighborhood,
- 20:39Carolyn Blosil: we
- 20:39Bonnie: we
- 20:40Bonnie: weren't,
- 20:40Bonnie: but
- 20:40Bonnie: it
- 20:40Bonnie: was
- 20:41Bonnie: the
- 20:41Bonnie: words
- 20:41Bonnie: I
- 20:42Bonnie: used
- 20:42Carolyn Blosil: that
- 20:43Bonnie: that
- 20:43Bonnie: I
- 20:43Bonnie: felt
- 20:43Bonnie: so
- 20:44Bonnie: overwhelmed
- 20:44Bonnie: when
- 20:44Bonnie: you
- 20:45Bonnie: have
- 20:45Bonnie: eight
- 20:45Bonnie: kids
- 20:45Bonnie: or
- 20:45Bonnie: somebody
- 20:46Bonnie: wanting
- 20:46Bonnie: something,
- 20:46Bonnie: every
- 20:47Bonnie: single.
- 20:47Carolyn Blosil: and
- 20:48Carolyn Blosil: the
- 20:48Bonnie: And
- 20:48Bonnie: the
- 20:48Bonnie: minute
- 20:49Bonnie: you
- 20:49Bonnie: leave
- 20:49Bonnie: the
- 20:49Bonnie: house,
- 20:50Bonnie: they're
- 20:50Bonnie: wanting
- 20:50Bonnie: to
- 20:50Bonnie: go
- 20:50Bonnie: with
- 20:51Bonnie: you
- 20:51Bonnie: to
- 20:51Bonnie: the
- 20:51Bonnie: grocery
- 20:51Bonnie: store
- 20:51Bonnie: so
- 20:52Bonnie: they
- 20:52Bonnie: can
- 20:52Bonnie: buy
- 20:52Bonnie: all
- 20:52Bonnie: the
- 20:52Bonnie: things
- 20:52Bonnie: you
- 20:52Bonnie: don't
- 20:53Bonnie: want
- 20:53Carolyn Blosil: or
- 20:54Bonnie: work.
- 20:54Carolyn Blosil: Right.
- 20:54Bonnie: Right?
- 20:55Carolyn Blosil: It's
- 20:55Carolyn Blosil: just,
- 20:56Carolyn Blosil: there
- 20:56Carolyn Blosil: are
- 20:56Bonnie: there's
- 20:56Bonnie: so,
- 20:57Bonnie: so
- 20:57Bonnie: many
- 20:57Bonnie: demands
- 20:58Bonnie: that
- 20:58Carolyn Blosil: The
- 20:59Bonnie: the
- 20:59Bonnie: way
- 20:59Bonnie: we
- 20:59Bonnie: can
- 21:00Bonnie: unintentionally
- 21:01Bonnie: talk
- 21:01Bonnie: about
- 21:01Bonnie: money
- 21:02Bonnie: or
- 21:03Bonnie: energy
- 21:03Bonnie: we
- 21:03Bonnie: can
- 21:03Bonnie: put
- 21:04Bonnie: behind
- 21:04Bonnie: it,
- 21:04Carolyn Blosil: it
- 21:05Carolyn Blosil: will
- 21:05Bonnie: it
- 21:05Bonnie: will
- 21:05Bonnie: start
- 21:06Bonnie: shifting
- 21:06Bonnie: as
- 21:06Bonnie: you
- 21:07Bonnie: choose
- 21:07Bonnie: to
- 21:07Bonnie: really
- 21:08Bonnie: understand
- 21:08Bonnie: even
- 21:09Bonnie: your
- 21:09Bonnie: own
- 21:09Bonnie: spending
- 21:10Bonnie: behaviors,
- 21:10Bonnie: your
- 21:10Bonnie: your
- 21:11Bonnie: own
- 21:12Bonnie: behaviors,
- 21:12Bonnie: that
- 21:13Carolyn Blosil: energy,
- 21:14Carolyn Blosil: um,
- 21:15Bonnie: Attitudes
- 21:16Carolyn Blosil: so
- 21:16Bonnie: so
- 21:17Bonnie: many
- 21:17Bonnie: things.
- 21:17Bonnie: Just
- 21:17Carolyn Blosil: like
- 21:18Carolyn Blosil: for
- 21:18Bonnie: like
- 21:19Bonnie: for
- 21:19Bonnie: example,
- 21:19Bonnie: um,
- 21:20Carolyn Blosil: When
- 21:20Carolyn Blosil: I
- 21:21Bonnie: when
- 21:21Bonnie: I
- 21:21Bonnie: first
- 21:21Bonnie: met
- 21:21Bonnie: my
- 21:22Bonnie: husband,
- 21:22Carolyn Blosil: from
- 21:23Bonnie: from
- 21:23Bonnie: San
- 21:23Bonnie: Francisco,
- 21:24Bonnie: his
- 21:25Bonnie: parents
- 21:25Bonnie: drove
- 21:25Bonnie: a
- 21:25Bonnie: Porsche
- 21:26Bonnie: and
- 21:26Bonnie: a
- 21:26Bonnie: BMW.
- 21:27Bonnie: We
- 21:27Bonnie: had
- 21:27Bonnie: one
- 21:28Bonnie: family
- 21:28Bonnie: car
- 21:29Bonnie: and
- 21:29Bonnie: it
- 21:29Bonnie: was
- 21:29Bonnie: a
- 21:29Bonnie: very
- 21:30Bonnie: basic
- 21:30Bonnie: family
- 21:30Bonnie: car.
- 21:31Bonnie: And
- 21:31Bonnie: then
- 21:31Bonnie: we
- 21:31Bonnie: came
- 21:32Bonnie: together
- 21:32Bonnie: and.
- 21:33Carolyn Blosil: we
- 21:33Bonnie: We
- 21:33Bonnie: had
- 21:33Bonnie: very
- 21:34Bonnie: different
- 21:34Bonnie: ideas
- 21:35Bonnie: on
- 21:35Bonnie: how
- 21:36Bonnie: to
- 21:36Bonnie: spend
- 21:36Bonnie: money
- 21:36Bonnie: or
- 21:37Carolyn Blosil: What's
- 21:37Bonnie: what's
- 21:38Bonnie: possible.
- 21:38Bonnie: And
- 21:38Bonnie: in
- 21:38Bonnie: my
- 21:39Bonnie: mind,
- 21:39Bonnie: I
- 21:40Bonnie: already
- 21:40Bonnie: discounted
- 21:41Bonnie: so
- 21:41Bonnie: many
- 21:41Bonnie: things
- 21:41Bonnie: as
- 21:42Bonnie: not
- 21:42Bonnie: being
- 21:42Bonnie: possible
- 21:42Bonnie: because
- 21:43Bonnie: I,
- 21:43Bonnie: I
- 21:43Bonnie: believed
- 21:44Bonnie: I
- 21:44Bonnie: just
- 21:44Bonnie: didn't
- 21:44Bonnie: have
- 21:44Bonnie: the
- 21:44Bonnie: money.
- 21:45Bonnie: And
- 21:45Bonnie: then
- 21:45Bonnie: he
- 21:45Bonnie: looked
- 21:45Bonnie: at
- 21:45Bonnie: me
- 21:45Bonnie: and
- 21:46Bonnie: he
- 21:46Bonnie: goes,
- 21:46Bonnie: well,
- 21:46Carolyn Blosil: just
- 21:46Bonnie: you
- 21:47Bonnie: just
- 21:47Bonnie: have
- 21:47Bonnie: to
- 21:47Bonnie: find
- 21:47Bonnie: out
- 21:47Bonnie: how
- 21:47Bonnie: much
- 21:48Bonnie: it
- 21:48Bonnie: costs,
- 21:48Bonnie: and
- 21:48Bonnie: then
- 21:49Bonnie: you
- 21:49Bonnie: have
- 21:49Bonnie: to
- 21:49Bonnie: figure
- 21:49Bonnie: out
- 21:49Bonnie: how
- 21:50Bonnie: you're
- 21:50Bonnie: going
- 21:50Bonnie: to
- 21:50Bonnie: gather
- 21:50Bonnie: like
- 21:51Bonnie: you
- 21:51Bonnie: did
- 21:51Bonnie: for
- 21:51Bonnie: your
- 21:51Bonnie: trip.
- 21:51Carolyn Blosil: and
- 21:52Bonnie: Figure
- 21:52Bonnie: out
- 21:53Carolyn Blosil: it's
- 21:53Bonnie: what
- 21:53Bonnie: it's
- 21:53Bonnie: gonna
- 21:54Bonnie: take
- 21:54Bonnie: to
- 21:54Bonnie: make
- 21:54Bonnie: that
- 21:55Bonnie: dream
- 21:55Bonnie: a
- 21:55Bonnie: reality.
- 21:56Carolyn Blosil: But
- 21:56Carolyn Blosil: that
- 21:56Bonnie: But
- 21:56Bonnie: that
- 21:57Bonnie: was
- 21:57Bonnie: never
- 21:58Carolyn Blosil: how
- 21:58Bonnie: how
- 21:58Bonnie: I
- 21:59Bonnie: approached
- 21:59Bonnie: things
- 21:59Bonnie: growing
- 22:00Bonnie: up.
- 22:00Bonnie: I
- 22:00Bonnie: mean.
- 22:01Carolyn Blosil: It,
- 22:01Carolyn Blosil: it
- 22:01Bonnie: It,
- 22:02Bonnie: it
- 22:02Bonnie: just
- 22:02Bonnie: wasn't
- 22:02Bonnie: that
- 22:03Bonnie: way.
- 22:03Bonnie: So
- 22:03Bonnie: that's
- 22:03Bonnie: where
- 22:04Carolyn Blosil: earlier
- 22:04Bonnie: earlier
- 22:05Bonnie: we
- 22:05Bonnie: start
- 22:05Bonnie: with
- 22:05Bonnie: our
- 22:06Bonnie: kids.
- 22:06Carolyn Blosil: say
- 22:07Bonnie: say
- 22:07Bonnie: even
- 22:07Bonnie: in
- 22:08Bonnie: the,
- 22:08Bonnie: with
- 22:08Bonnie: the
- 22:08Bonnie: Kool-Aid
- 22:09Bonnie: stand,
- 22:09Carolyn Blosil: as
- 22:10Carolyn Blosil: they,
- 22:10Bonnie: as
- 22:10Bonnie: they
- 22:10Bonnie: have
- 22:11Bonnie: the
- 22:11Bonnie: Kool-Aid
- 22:11Bonnie: stand,
- 22:11Bonnie: then
- 22:11Bonnie: you
- 22:12Bonnie: have
- 22:12Bonnie: the
- 22:12Bonnie: conversation,
- 22:13Bonnie: okay,
- 22:13Bonnie: we're
- 22:13Bonnie: gonna
- 22:13Bonnie: save
- 22:13Bonnie: some
- 22:14Bonnie: for
- 22:14Bonnie: the
- 22:14Bonnie: next
- 22:14Bonnie: Kool-Aid
- 22:15Bonnie: stand.
- 22:15Carolyn Blosil: going
- 22:16Bonnie: We're
- 22:16Bonnie: going
- 22:16Bonnie: to,
- 22:16Bonnie: uh,
- 22:17Carolyn Blosil: some
- 22:17Bonnie: some
- 22:17Bonnie: that
- 22:17Bonnie: we,
- 22:18Bonnie: uh,
- 22:18Bonnie: use
- 22:19Bonnie: for,
- 22:20Bonnie: for
- 22:20Bonnie: giving,
- 22:21Carolyn Blosil: whether
- 22:21Bonnie: whether
- 22:21Bonnie: it's
- 22:22Bonnie: at
- 22:22Bonnie: church
- 22:22Bonnie: or,
- 22:23Bonnie: or,
- 22:23Bonnie: uh,
- 22:24Carolyn Blosil: a
- 22:24Bonnie: for
- 22:25Bonnie: a
- 22:25Bonnie: purpose.
- 22:25Carolyn Blosil: save
- 22:26Bonnie: save
- 22:26Bonnie: some
- 22:26Bonnie: for
- 22:26Bonnie: ourselves
- 22:27Bonnie: for
- 22:27Bonnie: the
- 22:27Bonnie: future.
- 22:28Bonnie: I
- 22:28Bonnie: mean,
- 22:28Bonnie: it's
- 22:28Bonnie: just.
- 22:29Carolyn Blosil: You
- 22:29Bonnie: You
- 22:30Bonnie: can't
- 22:30Bonnie: start
- 22:30Bonnie: too
- 22:30Bonnie: early
- 22:31Bonnie: making
- 22:31Bonnie: saving
- 22:32Bonnie: and
- 22:32Bonnie: why
- 22:33Bonnie: you're
- 22:33Bonnie: saving
- 22:33Carolyn Blosil: a
- 22:34Bonnie: a
- 22:34Bonnie: real
- 22:35Bonnie: definite,
- 22:36Carolyn Blosil: priority.
- 22:37Bonnie: Yeah,
- 22:37Bonnie: agreed.
- 22:38Bonnie: Agreed.
- 22:39Bonnie: And
- 22:39Bonnie: the
- 22:39Bonnie: fact
- 22:40Bonnie: of
- 22:40Bonnie: the
- 22:40Bonnie: matter
- 22:40Bonnie: is
- 22:40Bonnie: like,
- 22:41Bonnie: there
- 22:41Bonnie: really
- 22:41Bonnie: is
- 22:41Bonnie: no
- 22:41Bonnie: right
- 22:42Bonnie: way
- 22:42Bonnie: to
- 22:42Bonnie: do
- 22:42Bonnie: this,
- 22:42Bonnie: right?
- 22:43Bonnie: We
- 22:43Bonnie: just
- 22:43Bonnie: start,
- 22:44Bonnie: we
- 22:44Bonnie: just
- 22:45Bonnie: start
- 22:45Bonnie: somewhere.
- 22:45Bonnie: So
- 22:45Bonnie: we've,
- 22:46Bonnie: so
- 22:46Bonnie: we've
- 22:46Bonnie: talked
- 22:46Bonnie: about
- 22:47Bonnie: having
- 22:47Bonnie: conversations
- 22:47Bonnie: with
- 22:47Bonnie: our
- 22:48Bonnie: spouse.
- 22:48Bonnie: We've
- 22:48Bonnie: talked
- 22:48Bonnie: about
- 22:48Bonnie: having
- 22:48Bonnie: conversations
- 22:49Bonnie: with
- 22:49Bonnie: our
- 22:49Bonnie: kids
- 22:49Bonnie: and
- 22:49Bonnie: educating
- 22:50Bonnie: ourselves.
- 22:51Bonnie: Where
- 22:51Bonnie: else
- 22:52Bonnie: do
- 22:52Bonnie: you
- 22:52Bonnie: see
- 22:53Bonnie: women?
- 22:54Bonnie: Lacking
- 22:54Bonnie: or
- 22:54Bonnie: what
- 22:55Bonnie: other
- 22:55Bonnie: steps
- 22:55Bonnie: can
- 22:55Bonnie: we
- 22:55Bonnie: take
- 22:56Bonnie: towards
- 22:56Bonnie: making
- 22:56Bonnie: progress
- 22:57Bonnie: towards
- 22:57Bonnie: a
- 22:57Bonnie: more
- 22:58Bonnie: solvent
- 22:58Bonnie: financial
- 22:58Bonnie: future,
- 22:59Bonnie: a
- 22:59Bonnie: more
- 22:59Bonnie: educated
- 22:59Bonnie: one,
- 23:01Carolyn Blosil: Well,
- 23:01Carolyn Blosil: it,
- 23:01Carolyn Blosil: you
- 23:01Carolyn Blosil: really
- 23:02Carolyn Blosil: have
- 23:02Carolyn Blosil: to
- 23:02Carolyn Blosil: figure
- 23:02Carolyn Blosil: out
- 23:03Bonnie: figure
- 23:03Bonnie: out
- 23:03Bonnie: what
- 23:03Bonnie: investing
- 23:04Bonnie: looks
- 23:04Bonnie: like.
- 23:05Bonnie: What
- 23:05Bonnie: is
- 23:05Bonnie: that?
- 23:06Carolyn Blosil: and
- 23:06Carolyn Blosil: the
- 23:06Bonnie: And
- 23:06Bonnie: the
- 23:06Bonnie: other
- 23:07Bonnie: thing
- 23:07Bonnie: is
- 23:07Carolyn Blosil: I
- 23:07Bonnie: I
- 23:08Bonnie: said,
- 23:08Bonnie: how
- 23:08Bonnie: many
- 23:09Bonnie: times
- 23:10Carolyn Blosil: when
- 23:10Carolyn Blosil: we're
- 23:10Bonnie: when
- 23:10Bonnie: we're
- 23:10Bonnie: gonna
- 23:11Bonnie: go
- 23:11Bonnie: somewhere
- 23:11Bonnie: where
- 23:12Bonnie: we
- 23:12Bonnie: have
- 23:12Bonnie: to
- 23:12Bonnie: send
- 23:12Bonnie: a
- 23:12Bonnie: four,
- 23:13Bonnie: can
- 23:13Bonnie: we
- 23:13Bonnie: get
- 23:14Bonnie: out
- 23:14Bonnie: our
- 23:14Bonnie: GPS
- 23:15Bonnie: to
- 23:15Bonnie: see
- 23:15Bonnie: how
- 23:15Bonnie: to
- 23:15Bonnie: get
- 23:15Bonnie: there?
- 23:16Carolyn Blosil: Right.
- 23:16Carolyn Blosil: we
- 23:17Bonnie: We
- 23:17Bonnie: wouldn't
- 23:17Bonnie: just
- 23:17Bonnie: get
- 23:18Bonnie: in
- 23:18Bonnie: the
- 23:18Bonnie: car
- 23:18Bonnie: and
- 23:18Bonnie: hope
- 23:18Bonnie: we
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- 27:14Bonnie: then
- 27:14Bonnie: it'll
- 27:15Bonnie: spit
- 27:15Bonnie: out,
- 27:16Bonnie: here's
- 27:16Bonnie: approximately
- 27:17Bonnie: at
- 27:17Bonnie: the
- 27:18Bonnie: time
- 27:18Bonnie: you
- 27:18Bonnie: decide
- 27:18Bonnie: to
- 27:19Bonnie: retire.
- 27:19Bonnie: Let's
- 27:19Bonnie: say
- 27:19Bonnie: it's
- 27:19Bonnie: 67.
- 27:20Bonnie: Here's
- 27:21Bonnie: what
- 27:21Bonnie: that
- 27:21Bonnie: income
- 27:22Bonnie: is
- 27:22Bonnie: going
- 27:22Bonnie: to
- 27:22Bonnie: provide.
- 27:23Carolyn Blosil: Here's
- 27:23Carolyn Blosil: the
- 27:24Bonnie: Here's
- 27:24Bonnie: the
- 27:24Bonnie: income
- 27:24Bonnie: you'll
- 27:24Bonnie: be
- 27:25Bonnie: having.
- 27:25Bonnie: Because
- 27:25Bonnie: for
- 27:26Bonnie: the
- 27:26Bonnie: most
- 27:26Bonnie: part,
- 27:26Bonnie: we're
- 27:26Bonnie: focused
- 27:27Bonnie: on
- 27:27Bonnie: just
- 27:28Bonnie: saving
- 27:28Bonnie: money.
- 27:29Carolyn Blosil: And
- 27:29Carolyn Blosil: we're
- 27:29Bonnie: We're
- 27:30Bonnie: not
- 27:30Bonnie: really
- 27:30Bonnie: focused
- 27:31Bonnie: on
- 27:31Bonnie: what
- 27:31Bonnie: our
- 27:31Bonnie: destination
- 27:32Bonnie: is.
- 27:33Bonnie: Again,
- 27:33Bonnie: that
- 27:33Bonnie: roadmap,
- 27:34Carolyn Blosil: we
- 27:34Carolyn Blosil: know
- 27:34Bonnie: we
- 27:34Bonnie: know
- 27:35Bonnie: where
- 27:35Bonnie: we
- 27:35Bonnie: start
- 27:35Bonnie: and
- 27:35Bonnie: we
- 27:35Bonnie: kind
- 27:36Bonnie: of
- 27:36Bonnie: maybe
- 27:36Bonnie: know
- 27:36Bonnie: where
- 27:36Bonnie: we're,
- 27:37Bonnie: we're
- 27:37Bonnie: headed,
- 27:38Bonnie: but
- 27:38Carolyn Blosil: don't
- 27:39Bonnie: don't
- 27:39Bonnie: know
- 27:39Bonnie: exactly
- 27:40Bonnie: where
- 27:40Bonnie: we're
- 27:40Bonnie: headed.
- 27:41Bonnie: Right?
- 27:41Bonnie: Most
- 27:41Bonnie: of
- 27:42Bonnie: the
- 27:42Bonnie: time
- 27:42Carolyn Blosil: just
- 27:42Bonnie: we
- 27:43Bonnie: just
- 27:43Bonnie: have
- 27:43Bonnie: a
- 27:43Bonnie: kind
- 27:43Bonnie: of.
- 27:44Carolyn Blosil: general
- 27:44Bonnie: idea.
- 27:45Bonnie: Um,
- 27:46Bonnie: so
- 27:46Bonnie: I,
- 27:46Bonnie: I
- 27:46Bonnie: would
- 27:46Bonnie: start
- 27:47Bonnie: there.
- 27:47Bonnie: It
- 27:47Bonnie: is
- 27:48Bonnie: just
- 27:48Bonnie: evaluating
- 27:49Bonnie: where
- 27:49Bonnie: you
- 27:49Bonnie: are
- 27:49Bonnie: currently.
- 27:50Bonnie: If
- 27:50Bonnie: you
- 27:50Bonnie: haven't
- 27:50Bonnie: started
- 27:51Bonnie: anything,
- 27:51Carolyn Blosil: love
- 27:51Bonnie: I'd
- 27:52Bonnie: love
- 27:52Bonnie: to
- 27:52Bonnie: have
- 27:52Bonnie: a
- 27:52Bonnie: conversation
- 27:53Bonnie: with
- 27:53Bonnie: you
- 27:54Bonnie: about
- 27:55Bonnie: what
- 27:55Bonnie: are
- 27:55Bonnie: some,
- 27:56Bonnie: like
- 27:56Bonnie: with
- 27:56Bonnie: this
- 27:56Bonnie: life
- 27:57Bonnie: insurance.
- 27:57Bonnie: It's
- 27:57Bonnie: just
- 27:57Bonnie: not
- 27:58Bonnie: where
- 27:58Bonnie: people
- 27:58Bonnie: generally
- 27:59Bonnie: think
- 27:59Bonnie: of
- 27:59Bonnie: starting
- 28:00Bonnie: with
- 28:00Bonnie: saving.
- 28:01Bonnie: but
- 28:01Bonnie: again,
- 28:02Bonnie: I
- 28:02Bonnie: would
- 28:02Bonnie: say
- 28:02Bonnie: too
- 28:02Bonnie: that
- 28:03Bonnie: emergency
- 28:03Bonnie: fund
- 28:04Bonnie: a
- 28:04Bonnie: police,
- 28:04Bonnie: Dave
- 28:05Bonnie: Ramsey
- 28:05Bonnie: would
- 28:05Bonnie: say,
- 28:05Bonnie: get
- 28:06Bonnie: that
- 28:06Bonnie: a
- 28:06Bonnie: thousand
- 28:06Bonnie: dollars
- 28:07Bonnie: saved.
- 28:07Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 28:08Carolyn Blosil: here's
- 28:08Carolyn Blosil: one
- 28:08Bonnie: One
- 28:09Bonnie: other
- 28:09Bonnie: tip.
- 28:09Carolyn Blosil: Oftentimes
- 28:10Carolyn Blosil: because
- 28:11Bonnie: because
- 28:11Bonnie: they
- 28:11Bonnie: listen
- 28:11Bonnie: to
- 28:11Bonnie: Dave
- 28:12Bonnie: Ramsey,
- 28:12Bonnie: and
- 28:12Bonnie: I've
- 28:12Bonnie: been
- 28:12Bonnie: a
- 28:13Carolyn Blosil: Dave
- 28:13Bonnie: Dave
- 28:13Bonnie: Ramsey
- 28:14Bonnie: listener
- 28:14Bonnie: at
- 28:15Bonnie: at
- 28:15Bonnie: times
- 28:15Bonnie: as
- 28:16Bonnie: well.
- 28:16Carolyn Blosil: really
- 28:16Bonnie: really
- 28:17Bonnie: focuses
- 28:17Bonnie: on
- 28:18Bonnie: getting
- 28:18Bonnie: out
- 28:18Bonnie: of
- 28:18Bonnie: debt,
- 28:19Carolyn Blosil: But
- 28:19Bonnie: but
- 28:20Bonnie: it
- 28:20Bonnie: could
- 28:20Bonnie: take
- 28:20Bonnie: you
- 28:21Bonnie: five
- 28:22Bonnie: years
- 28:22Bonnie: to
- 28:22Bonnie: get
- 28:22Bonnie: out
- 28:22Bonnie: of
- 28:23Bonnie: debt
- 28:23Bonnie: and
- 28:23Bonnie: he
- 28:23Bonnie: would've
- 28:23Bonnie: saved
- 28:24Bonnie: nothing
- 28:24Bonnie: for
- 28:24Bonnie: your
- 28:24Bonnie: future.
- 28:26Carolyn Blosil: I
- 28:26Carolyn Blosil: could.
- 28:26Bonnie: Like
- 28:26Bonnie: getting
- 28:27Bonnie: out
- 28:27Bonnie: of
- 28:27Bonnie: debt
- 28:27Bonnie: is
- 28:27Bonnie: important,
- 28:28Bonnie: but
- 28:28Bonnie: not
- 28:28Bonnie: at
- 28:28Bonnie: the
- 28:28Bonnie: expense
- 28:29Carolyn Blosil: paying
- 28:30Bonnie: yourself
- 28:31Bonnie: first.
- 28:32Carolyn Blosil: And
- 28:32Carolyn Blosil: that's
- 28:33Carolyn Blosil: really
- 28:33Bonnie: really
- 28:33Bonnie: what
- 28:34Bonnie: I
- 28:34Bonnie: would
- 28:34Bonnie: say
- 28:34Bonnie: is,
- 28:35Bonnie: is
- 28:35Bonnie: the
- 28:35Bonnie: most
- 28:35Bonnie: important
- 28:35Bonnie: thing
- 28:36Bonnie: is
- 28:36Bonnie: just
- 28:36Bonnie: start
- 28:36Bonnie: paying
- 28:36Bonnie: yourself
- 28:37Bonnie: first.
- 28:37Bonnie: And
- 28:38Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 28:38Carolyn Blosil: ideally,
- 28:39Carolyn Blosil: you'd
- 28:39Bonnie: you'd
- 28:39Bonnie: wanna
- 28:40Bonnie: pay
- 28:40Bonnie: at
- 28:40Bonnie: least
- 28:40Bonnie: 10%
- 28:41Bonnie: of
- 28:41Bonnie: your
- 28:41Bonnie: income
- 28:42Bonnie: to
- 28:42Bonnie: yourself,
- 28:43Carolyn Blosil: your
- 28:43Bonnie: your
- 28:43Bonnie: future.
- 28:44Carolyn Blosil: but
- 28:44Bonnie: but
- 28:45Carolyn Blosil: you
- 28:46Carolyn Blosil: know,
- 28:46Carolyn Blosil: even
- 28:46Carolyn Blosil: if
- 28:46Carolyn Blosil: it's
- 28:46Bonnie: you
- 28:47Bonnie: know,
- 28:47Bonnie: even
- 28:47Bonnie: if
- 28:47Bonnie: it's
- 28:47Bonnie: $50,
- 28:48Bonnie: you
- 28:48Bonnie: just
- 28:48Bonnie: gotta
- 28:49Bonnie: start
- 28:49Bonnie: somewhere
- 28:50Bonnie: with
- 28:50Bonnie: stock
- 28:50Carolyn Blosil: making
- 28:51Bonnie: and
- 28:51Bonnie: making
- 28:51Bonnie: that
- 28:52Bonnie: priority
- 28:52Bonnie: no
- 28:52Bonnie: matter
- 28:53Bonnie: what.
- 28:53Carolyn Blosil: But
- 28:53Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 28:54Carolyn Blosil: I'd
- 28:54Carolyn Blosil: love
- 28:54Carolyn Blosil: to
- 28:54Carolyn Blosil: have
- 28:54Carolyn Blosil: a
- 28:54Carolyn Blosil: conversation
- 28:55Carolyn Blosil: with,
- 28:55Carolyn Blosil: with
- 28:55Carolyn Blosil: your
- 28:56Carolyn Blosil: listeners.
- 28:56Carolyn Blosil: And,
- 28:57Carolyn Blosil: also,
- 28:59Carolyn Blosil: just
- 28:59Carolyn Blosil: start
- 28:59Carolyn Blosil: at
- 28:59Carolyn Blosil: the
- 28:59Carolyn Blosil: library.
- 29:00Carolyn Blosil: There's,
- 29:00Carolyn Blosil: there
- 29:00Carolyn Blosil: are
- 29:01Carolyn Blosil: a
- 29:01Carolyn Blosil: lot
- 29:01Carolyn Blosil: of
- 29:01Carolyn Blosil: great
- 29:01Carolyn Blosil: books.
- 29:01Carolyn Blosil: I
- 29:02Carolyn Blosil: don't
- 29:02Carolyn Blosil: have
- 29:02Carolyn Blosil: like
- 29:02Carolyn Blosil: one
- 29:04Carolyn Blosil: person
- 29:05Carolyn Blosil: that
- 29:05Carolyn Blosil: I
- 29:05Carolyn Blosil: listen
- 29:05Carolyn Blosil: to.
- 29:06Carolyn Blosil: I
- 29:06Carolyn Blosil: really
- 29:06Carolyn Blosil: like
- 29:07Carolyn Blosil: the
- 29:07Carolyn Blosil: book.
- 29:07Carolyn Blosil: everyone
- 29:08Carolyn Blosil: ends
- 29:08Carolyn Blosil: up
- 29:08Carolyn Blosil: poor
- 29:09Carolyn Blosil: and
- 29:09Carolyn Blosil: why
- 29:10Carolyn Blosil: current
- 29:10Carolyn Blosil: retirement
- 29:10Carolyn Blosil: planning
- 29:11Carolyn Blosil: is
- 29:11Carolyn Blosil: not
- 29:11Carolyn Blosil: working
- 29:12Carolyn Blosil: and
- 29:12Carolyn Blosil: it's
- 29:12Carolyn Blosil: by
- 29:12Carolyn Blosil: Curtis
- 29:13Carolyn Blosil: Ray.
- 29:14Carolyn Blosil: I
- 29:14Carolyn Blosil: met
- 29:15Carolyn Blosil: him
- 29:15Carolyn Blosil: back
- 29:15Carolyn Blosil: in
- 29:15Carolyn Blosil: 2019
- 29:17Carolyn Blosil: and
- 29:17Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 29:17Bonnie: and
- 29:17Bonnie: I,
- 29:17Bonnie: it
- 29:18Bonnie: just
- 29:18Bonnie: helped
- 29:18Bonnie: me
- 29:18Bonnie: say,
- 29:19Bonnie: oh,
- 29:19Bonnie: that's
- 29:19Carolyn Blosil: why
- 29:20Bonnie: everyone
- 29:21Bonnie: is
- 29:21Bonnie: like
- 29:21Bonnie: out
- 29:21Bonnie: here
- 29:22Bonnie: in
- 29:22Bonnie: the
- 29:22Bonnie: world
- 29:22Bonnie: struggling.
- 29:24Carolyn Blosil: It
- 29:25Bonnie: It
- 29:25Bonnie: kind
- 29:25Bonnie: of
- 29:25Bonnie: just,
- 29:26Bonnie: it's
- 29:26Bonnie: a
- 29:26Bonnie: very
- 29:26Bonnie: easy
- 29:27Bonnie: to
- 29:27Bonnie: read
- 29:27Bonnie: book.
- 29:27Bonnie: Maybe
- 29:28Bonnie: takes
- 29:28Bonnie: you
- 29:28Bonnie: two
- 29:28Bonnie: hours.
- 29:29Bonnie: You
- 29:29Bonnie: can
- 29:29Bonnie: get
- 29:29Bonnie: on
- 29:29Bonnie: Amazon,
- 29:30Bonnie: everyone
- 29:31Bonnie: ends
- 29:31Bonnie: up
- 29:31Bonnie: poor.
- 29:32Carolyn Blosil: Start
- 29:33Carolyn Blosil: there
- 29:33Bonnie: there
- 29:33Bonnie: with
- 29:34Bonnie: that.
- 29:34Bonnie: And
- 29:35Bonnie: then,
- 29:35Bonnie: uh,
- 29:36Carolyn Blosil: yeah,
- 29:36Carolyn Blosil: just
- 29:36Bonnie: yeah,
- 29:36Bonnie: just
- 29:37Bonnie: figure
- 29:37Bonnie: out
- 29:37Bonnie: where
- 29:37Bonnie: you
- 29:37Bonnie: currently
- 29:38Bonnie: are.
- 29:38Bonnie: Figure
- 29:39Bonnie: out
- 29:39Bonnie: if
- 29:39Bonnie: you
- 29:39Bonnie: have
- 29:39Bonnie: debt.
- 29:40Bonnie: Do
- 29:40Bonnie: credit
- 29:40Bonnie: cards.
- 29:40Bonnie: Find
- 29:41Bonnie: out
- 29:41Bonnie: exactly
- 29:41Bonnie: where
- 29:41Bonnie: you
- 29:42Bonnie: are
- 29:42Bonnie: with
- 29:42Bonnie: that.
- 29:42Bonnie: What,
- 29:43Carolyn Blosil: the
- 29:43Bonnie: what's
- 29:43Bonnie: the
- 29:43Bonnie: interest
- 29:44Bonnie: rate
- 29:44Bonnie: on
- 29:44Bonnie: these?
- 29:45Bonnie: What's
- 29:45Bonnie: your
- 29:45Bonnie: lowest
- 29:46Bonnie: of
- 29:46Bonnie: balance
- 29:46Bonnie: versus
- 29:47Bonnie: highest
- 29:47Bonnie: balance?
- 29:48Bonnie: And
- 29:48Carolyn Blosil: do
- 29:48Carolyn Blosil: the
- 29:49Bonnie: do
- 29:49Bonnie: the
- 29:49Bonnie: snow
- 29:49Bonnie: dead
- 29:49Bonnie: snowball.
- 29:50Carolyn Blosil: I
- 29:51Bonnie: I
- 29:51Bonnie: wouldn't
- 29:51Bonnie: say,
- 29:52Bonnie: well,
- 29:52Bonnie: I
- 29:52Bonnie: gotta
- 29:52Bonnie: get
- 29:52Bonnie: out
- 29:52Bonnie: of
- 29:53Bonnie: debt
- 29:53Bonnie: first,
- 29:53Bonnie: or
- 29:53Bonnie: I've
- 29:53Bonnie: gotta
- 29:54Bonnie: get
- 29:54Bonnie: a
- 29:54Bonnie: better
- 29:54Bonnie: job
- 29:54Bonnie: first,
- 29:55Bonnie: or
- 29:56Carolyn Blosil: give
- 29:56Bonnie: give
- 29:56Bonnie: yourself
- 29:57Bonnie: these
- 29:57Bonnie: criteria.
- 29:58Carolyn Blosil: not
- 29:58Bonnie: not
- 29:59Bonnie: paying
- 29:59Bonnie: yourself
- 29:59Bonnie: first
- 30:00Carolyn Blosil: Because
- 30:00Carolyn Blosil: it
- 30:00Carolyn Blosil: just
- 30:01Bonnie: just
- 30:01Bonnie: pushes
- 30:02Carolyn Blosil: your
- 30:02Carolyn Blosil: possibility
- 30:03Bonnie: for.
- 30:04Carolyn Blosil: the
- 30:04Carolyn Blosil: future
- 30:04Carolyn Blosil: down
- 30:04Carolyn Blosil: the
- 30:04Carolyn Blosil: road.
- 30:05Bonnie: Yeah.
- 30:06Bonnie: Yeah.
- 30:06Bonnie: I
- 30:06Bonnie: love
- 30:06Bonnie: what
- 30:06Bonnie: you're
- 30:07Bonnie: saying.
- 30:07Bonnie: And
- 30:07Bonnie: here's
- 30:08Bonnie: what
- 30:08Bonnie: I've
- 30:08Bonnie: noticed
- 30:08Bonnie: too,
- 30:08Bonnie: is
- 30:08Bonnie: when
- 30:09Bonnie: it
- 30:09Bonnie: comes
- 30:09Bonnie: to
- 30:09Bonnie: education,
- 30:10Bonnie: in
- 30:10Bonnie: any
- 30:10Bonnie: realm
- 30:10Bonnie: of
- 30:10Bonnie: life,
- 30:11Bonnie: you're
- 30:11Bonnie: gonna
- 30:11Bonnie: find
- 30:12Bonnie: voices
- 30:12Bonnie: that
- 30:12Bonnie: resonate
- 30:13Bonnie: with
- 30:13Bonnie: you
- 30:13Bonnie: more
- 30:13Bonnie: than
- 30:13Bonnie: others,
- 30:14Bonnie: right?
- 30:14Bonnie: So
- 30:14Bonnie: as
- 30:15Bonnie: you
- 30:15Bonnie: start
- 30:15Bonnie: listening,
- 30:15Bonnie: may,
- 30:16Bonnie: maybe
- 30:16Bonnie: you
- 30:16Bonnie: even
- 30:16Bonnie: just
- 30:16Bonnie: play
- 30:17Bonnie: around
- 30:17Bonnie: on
- 30:17Bonnie: the
- 30:17Bonnie: internet,
- 30:17Bonnie: like
- 30:17Bonnie: go
- 30:18Bonnie: find
- 30:18Bonnie: a
- 30:18Bonnie: few
- 30:19Bonnie: experts
- 30:19Bonnie: and
- 30:20Bonnie: listen
- 30:20Bonnie: to
- 30:20Bonnie: what
- 30:20Bonnie: they
- 30:21Bonnie: have
- 30:21Bonnie: to
- 30:21Bonnie: say.
- 30:21Bonnie: See
- 30:21Bonnie: which
- 30:22Bonnie: ones
- 30:22Bonnie: resonate
- 30:22Bonnie: with
- 30:22Bonnie: you,
- 30:22Bonnie: and
- 30:23Bonnie: go
- 30:23Bonnie: more
- 30:23Bonnie: towards
- 30:23Bonnie: them,
- 30:24Bonnie: if
- 30:24Bonnie: at
- 30:24Bonnie: all
- 30:24Bonnie: possible.
- 30:25Bonnie: Find
- 30:25Bonnie: some
- 30:25Bonnie: female
- 30:26Bonnie: voices,
- 30:26Bonnie: right?
- 30:27Bonnie: So
- 30:27Bonnie: I
- 30:27Bonnie: love
- 30:27Bonnie: what
- 30:27Bonnie: Carolyn's
- 30:27Bonnie: saying.
- 30:28Bonnie: We'll,
- 30:28Bonnie: I'll
- 30:28Bonnie: include
- 30:28Bonnie: the
- 30:29Bonnie: link
- 30:29Bonnie: to
- 30:29Bonnie: schedule
- 30:29Bonnie: a
- 30:29Bonnie: call
- 30:30Bonnie: with
- 30:30Bonnie: Carolyn,
- 30:30Bonnie: if
- 30:30Bonnie: that's
- 30:30Bonnie: okay
- 30:30Bonnie: with
- 30:31Bonnie: you
- 30:31Bonnie: in
- 30:31Bonnie: the
- 30:31Bonnie: show
- 30:31Bonnie: notes.
- 30:31Bonnie: Carolyn.
- 30:32Bonnie: Yeah.
- 30:32Bonnie: And
- 30:33Bonnie: then,
- 30:33Bonnie: another
- 30:33Bonnie: place
- 30:33Bonnie: that
- 30:34Bonnie: I
- 30:34Bonnie: love
- 30:34Bonnie: looking
- 30:35Bonnie: at
- 30:35Bonnie: is
- 30:35Bonnie: the
- 30:35Bonnie: Dow
- 30:36Bonnie: Janes
- 30:36Bonnie: Group.
- 30:37Bonnie: They
- 30:37Bonnie: are
- 30:37Bonnie: phenomenal
- 30:38Bonnie: in
- 30:38Bonnie: teaching
- 30:38Bonnie: women
- 30:39Bonnie: specifically
- 30:39Bonnie: about
- 30:39Bonnie: how
- 30:40Bonnie: to
- 30:40Bonnie: manage
- 30:40Bonnie: their
- 30:40Bonnie: money.
- 30:41Bonnie: they
- 30:41Bonnie: have
- 30:41Bonnie: a
- 30:41Bonnie: great
- 30:41Bonnie: course
- 30:42Bonnie: as
- 30:42Bonnie: well,
- 30:42Bonnie: so
- 30:42Bonnie: just
- 30:43Bonnie: taking
- 30:43Bonnie: more
- 30:43Bonnie: ownership
- 30:44Bonnie: over
- 30:45Bonnie: your
- 30:45Bonnie: money
- 30:45Bonnie: and
- 30:46Bonnie: not
- 30:46Bonnie: being
- 30:47Bonnie: embarrassed
- 30:47Bonnie: or
- 30:48Bonnie: ashamed
- 30:48Bonnie: about
- 30:48Bonnie: what
- 30:49Bonnie: you
- 30:49Bonnie: don't
- 30:49Bonnie: know.
- 30:49Bonnie: Nobody
- 30:49Bonnie: knows
- 30:50Bonnie: anything
- 30:50Bonnie: until
- 30:50Bonnie: they
- 30:50Bonnie: do,
- 30:51Bonnie: and
- 30:51Bonnie: we've
- 30:51Bonnie: gotta
- 30:51Bonnie: get
- 30:51Bonnie: started
- 30:52Bonnie: sooner
- 30:52Bonnie: or
- 30:52Bonnie: later.
- 30:53Carolyn Blosil: Yeah,
- 30:53Bonnie: Yeah.
- 30:54Carolyn Blosil: gonna
- 30:54Carolyn Blosil: say
- 30:54Carolyn Blosil: honestly,
- 30:55Carolyn Blosil: Bonnie,
- 30:56Carolyn Blosil: that's
- 30:56Carolyn Blosil: exactly
- 30:56Carolyn Blosil: what
- 30:56Carolyn Blosil: I
- 30:56Carolyn Blosil: did.
- 30:57Carolyn Blosil: I,
- 30:57Carolyn Blosil: if
- 30:57Carolyn Blosil: I
- 30:57Carolyn Blosil: knew
- 30:57Carolyn Blosil: someone
- 30:58Carolyn Blosil: that
- 30:58Carolyn Blosil: was
- 30:58Carolyn Blosil: in
- 30:58Carolyn Blosil: banking,
- 30:58Carolyn Blosil: I
- 30:59Carolyn Blosil: said,
- 30:59Bonnie: I
- 30:59Bonnie: said,
- 30:59Bonnie: can
- 30:59Bonnie: we
- 31:00Bonnie: make
- 31:00Bonnie: an
- 31:00Bonnie: appointment?
- 31:00Bonnie: I
- 31:01Bonnie: just
- 31:01Bonnie: wanna
- 31:01Bonnie: come
- 31:01Bonnie: and
- 31:01Bonnie: talk
- 31:01Bonnie: to
- 31:02Bonnie: you
- 31:02Bonnie: and
- 31:02Bonnie: kind
- 31:02Bonnie: of
- 31:02Bonnie: tell
- 31:02Bonnie: me
- 31:03Bonnie: how
- 31:03Bonnie: you
- 31:03Bonnie: got
- 31:03Bonnie: started
- 31:04Bonnie: in
- 31:04Bonnie: that
- 31:04Bonnie: industry.
- 31:04Bonnie: And
- 31:05Carolyn Blosil: just
- 31:05Bonnie: I'm
- 31:05Bonnie: here
- 31:05Bonnie: to
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- 32:46Bonnie: month
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- 32:52Carolyn Blosil: Yes.
- 32:53Carolyn Blosil: Yes.
- 32:53Carolyn Blosil: because
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- 32:56Bonnie: that.
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- 32:57Carolyn Blosil: never
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- 32:59Carolyn Blosil: And
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- 33:04Bonnie: day
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- 33:07Bonnie: neighbor.
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- 33:08Bonnie: it's
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- 33:24Bonnie: Eve.
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- 33:28Bonnie: man
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- 33:32Bonnie: And
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- 33:39Bonnie: I
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- 33:39Carolyn Blosil: his
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- 33:54Bonnie: kids
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- 33:58Bonnie: time
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- 34:16Bonnie: Right.
- 34:17Bonnie: And
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- 34:20Bonnie: for
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- 34:26Bonnie: future
- 34:27Bonnie: years.
- 34:27Bonnie: So
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- 34:31Bonnie: questions.
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- 34:35Bonnie: really
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- 34:36Bonnie: questions.
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- 34:48Bonnie: that.
- 34:48Bonnie: Carolyn,
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- 34:49Bonnie: awesome
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- 38:36Bonnie: with
- 38:36Bonnie: Carolyn,
- 38:37Bonnie: who's
- 38:37Bonnie: very,
- 38:37Bonnie: very
- 38:38Bonnie: kind
- 38:38Bonnie: and
- 38:38Bonnie: non-judgmental
- 38:39Bonnie: first.
- 38:40Carolyn Blosil: Exactly,
- 38:41Carolyn Blosil: because,
- 38:41Carolyn Blosil: uh,
- 38:42Carolyn Blosil: like
- 38:42Carolyn Blosil: I
- 38:42Carolyn Blosil: said,
- 38:43Carolyn Blosil: I
- 38:43Carolyn Blosil: mean
- 38:43Carolyn Blosil: it
- 38:43Bonnie: It
- 38:43Bonnie: affects
- 38:44Bonnie: everything
- 38:44Bonnie: about
- 38:45Bonnie: our
- 38:45Bonnie: lives
- 38:45Bonnie: and
- 38:46Bonnie: our,
- 38:46Bonnie: our
- 38:46Bonnie: finances
- 38:47Bonnie: and,
- 38:47Carolyn Blosil: Where
- 38:48Bonnie: where
- 38:48Carolyn Blosil: is
- 38:49Bonnie: we're,
- 38:49Bonnie: it's
- 38:49Bonnie: just
- 38:49Carolyn Blosil: we
- 38:50Bonnie: we
- 38:50Bonnie: haven't
- 38:50Bonnie: known
- 38:51Bonnie: differently
- 38:52Bonnie: how
- 38:52Bonnie: to
- 38:52Bonnie: manage
- 38:53Bonnie: things.
- 38:53Bonnie: Mm-hmm.
- 38:54Carolyn Blosil: and
- 38:54Bonnie: And
- 38:55Bonnie: so
- 38:55Bonnie: it
- 38:55Bonnie: now
- 38:56Bonnie: it's
- 38:56Bonnie: time
- 38:56Bonnie: like
- 38:57Bonnie: get
- 38:57Bonnie: a
- 38:57Bonnie: plan
- 38:57Bonnie: in
- 38:57Bonnie: place,
- 38:58Bonnie: a
- 38:58Bonnie: new
- 38:58Bonnie: year,
- 38:58Carolyn Blosil: just
- 38:59Bonnie: just
- 38:59Bonnie: happy
- 38:59Bonnie: to
- 38:59Bonnie: have
- 39:00Bonnie: those.
- 39:01Bonnie: Awesome.
- 39:01Bonnie: Well
- 39:01Bonnie: thank
- 39:01Bonnie: you
- 39:02Bonnie: so
- 39:02Bonnie: much
- 39:02Bonnie: for
- 39:02Bonnie: offering
- 39:02Bonnie: that,
- 39:02Bonnie: Carolyn.
- 39:03Bonnie: If
- 39:03Bonnie: you
- 39:03Bonnie: wanna
- 39:03Bonnie: check
- 39:03Bonnie: her
- 39:03Bonnie: out,
- 39:04Bonnie: check
- 39:04Bonnie: out
- 39:04Bonnie: her
- 39:04Bonnie: link
- 39:04Bonnie: and
- 39:05Bonnie: phone
- 39:05Bonnie: number
- 39:05Bonnie: in
- 39:05Bonnie: the
- 39:05Bonnie: show
- 39:06Bonnie: notes
- 39:06Bonnie: and
- 39:06Bonnie: thanks
- 39:06Bonnie: so
- 39:07Bonnie: much
- 39:07Bonnie: for
- 39:07Bonnie: coming.
- 39:07Bonnie: Appreciate
- 39:07Bonnie: you.
- 39:08Carolyn Blosil: thanks.