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Yoreh De’ah 211:1-4. Vows: Stipulating, Annulling, Kol Nidrei · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK. Hey, good morning.
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  We're continuing. Simon.
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  Raish Yud. Aleph Belkhos.
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  Nadarim. OK Aleph.
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  Omer. Nader.
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  Shiny Rod Selidor Loya. Hey, Nader Venadar.
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  So a person says I'm about to make Anader, but I don't want it
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  to be another. I'm just saying it for fun.
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  And then he says it's Nader. But he said right before it's I
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  don't want it to be called. It's just I'm playing around.
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  So then ain't no Nether. It's not a Nether because you
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  made it tonight. At the same time that what
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  you're about to say is Buttle has no, no, it's void null and
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  void has no validity. So then it's not we're going to
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  see and see if Beth where. That's why I'm pointing out
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  here. You're saying at the same time
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  on this Nether, it's not going to be Hull.
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  So it's clear it's not Hull. See if Beth is going to be a
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  little bit time delay, it's going to be a little bit
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  different. OK, Ahmed varim ammorim.
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  Now, when do we say that if you make a tanaya against your own
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  Nader that it's not going to be called Shahodzi tehila biswatab
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  because you verbally said the Nader and you're verbally saying
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  you have to verbally say that The Tonight that it's not going
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  to that's Bata Lamar shaloh yehey Nader, you have to say
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  those words or any similar meaning of words.
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  And the language of this is not going to be another avau IM
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  khashaf ka bilibo. But if it's only in your mind,
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  you thought that it's not going to be a nether and but you only,
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  you verbally said the nether out loud and only in your heart and
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  your mind did you think that it's not another.
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  So then we apply that. If everyone agrees, we apply the
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  principle Havi Dvarim should believe the Anam Nvatlim and
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  Neder Shahozi Biswatov, because Dvarim should believe Anam
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  Dvarim. The fact that you had in mind
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  that this is a joke, it doesn't help that you're making a tanai
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  on it. And it doesn't help that's the
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  Makloka we mentioned yesterday that applies here or not how it
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  applies exactly, but it's it's a little bit different because
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  here you're the tanai is like a separate phrase.
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  It's a separate step on to the the nether.
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  So that that's that's the Philip.
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  OK, so now what is the yeesh Omrim, the Afilu Omar Kane
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  bilakhash havi kadvarim shibbolei.
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  So what happens if you are whispering here?
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  He says the words bilakash. So the definition of this word
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  is actually debated. The let's put it like this.
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  If you say it too quietly, we're going to find out what that
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  might be. If you say it too quietly, then
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  it's this this Yesh omring opinion says it has the same den
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  of it's in your heart and it cannot work to be Mavato the
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  nether. You have to say it.
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  You have to say it's so loud enough.
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  OK, now what is that? So according to the the the Taz
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  and the Bach, he quotes his father-in-law.
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  So they old it has to in order. It's as long as you can hear it,
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  even if nobody else in the room can hear.
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  It's a really, really soft whisper, but your ears can hear
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  it. It's similar to it's Fila and
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  Kriya Chima, then your Yosei and that works.
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  That's called the dbore and that works to be at tonight.
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  And that's that's right. That's just as long as you need
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  if you know you're the air is coming out of your mouth and you
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  you can't even hear what your own saying.
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  So then that's everyone agrees it's for sure the Lahash and
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  according to the siege Omrien it's not good enough.
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  OK, the Shah and the Arashochhan hold that it needs to be
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  bikoram. It can iron sham for the
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  reasons, but basically they hold it has to be loud enough.
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  You made a declaration of a net there.
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  So your declaration has to be a normal declaration of a tonight.
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  Can't be, you know, has to be it's not that it has to be
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  exactly on the same level, but it has to be substantial enough.
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  And how loud? So the Shah says Koh Rahm and
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  Araka Sholkhan says it's obviously his opinion, but he
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  says the Shah agrees that he means like normal speech.
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  That just means you don't have to get on a loudspeaker scream.
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  It just means normal speaking. That's that's enough.
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  That's enough. OK, Hugga, now I'm going to read
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  it here because it's here. But really, as the shock points
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  out, then you will see yourself. This really belongs more to
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  sieve bet. I'm not sure if, assuming it was
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  originally put here, it's probably like an intro.
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  Pay attention to this then you'll have better appreciation
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  when you reach the next sieve. Hagar the Roma says Vahad.
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  I mean I'm Cole Nidre below Yoma Kipurim.
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  Now we all familiar with Cole Nidre, right?
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  We all say Cole nidre. I'm Kipur night and in it we say
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  that we're doing Kilohatarisundarim for the from
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  now to the next year. So can you can you just get up
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  and put public and say Cole Nidre or ataris make a tanai on
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  all future tonight. So what a Moda, right Haviki,
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  Ilihit Nubahedya. It's as if you're everyone's
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  getting up together and we're all making it very clear that
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  any future nadarium are not going to be called.
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  And so that's what it that's what Kolnidri does.
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  When we call Makam, you're going to see see if bet you're going
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  to see why it's it's questionable how well it works
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  when we call Makam. So we do call Nidre to make it
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  tonight and it does work right. And when you make it tonight,
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  now it does work for the for the whole next year with the caveat.
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  So therefore, when we call Malcolm Los Samchinan Alze
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  Lahatyar, we don't rely on call Nidre la maisa beloche a La La
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  without doing going to Arab for Tara Sundarium Ki Inlet
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  Sorakado. If you abs you know, if it's
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  great need you weren't able to do a tires and die and later on
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  then you can rely on Cole Nidre, but not not lehrat Khila.
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  OK, but OK, so let's see why me, Shahita Navi Ammar Kola Nadarin
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  Shahadur Ozman ploni a person makes it tonight.
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  He's about to make a nether before and he makes it tonight.
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  Well, it's actually it's way before he says any nedra that
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  I'm going to make in the until a particular time, let's say a
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  year from now, you battalion, it's going to be I'm telling you
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  right now this it's battal has no validity and I'm just telling
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  you right now. This is my thoughts for the
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  whole year. Vin Nadar, Battal Hazman and you
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  may and then this person goes ahead.
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  He makes his Modar tonight, like you said, and then he does make
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  a Ned there within this time period.
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  Let's say our examples, a year imozocher it's naobishata neder,
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  Nedro kayyam shaharay mevatal Tanaobishashi noder.
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  So in this year he does, he goes ahead and makes it tonight.
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  He makes the neder, he makes the neder.
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  So let's say he remembers when he makes the neder a month from
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  now, then that he made it tonight.
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  UVA calls us, he goes ahead and he makes the nether.
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  So he remembers his tonight and he makes the nether without
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  saying again, a new tonight at the same time.
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  So then the Allah is he's a mvatel because he remembers his
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  nether as tonight and he still went ahead and made the nether.
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  That's like he is undoing his tonight of he made it tonight to
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  mvatal the nether, but now he's doing his mvatal his own
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  tonight. He is removing his own bittles
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  and therefore he's left standing with his nether.
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  And so therefore it's binding 100%.
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  Risha Shinoda, all of you said The Tonight the same time,
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  because if you're if you're doing it exactly the same time,
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  then there's no I understand what you're asking.
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  This is how it works. I can't tell you it's 100% has
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  to be that this is how it's been concluded.
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  If it's at the same time, it, it shows that you want it tonight.
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  And so therefore when you do it at the same time, you want your
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  tonight to be called. So it works if you come later, a
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  day later, a month later or whatever the time period is.
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  And you're not saying that tonight at the same time then it
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  demonstrates that you don't care about your tonight.
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  You want to undo it, right? If you say anything tonight at
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  the same time and you want to undo your own tonight, and you
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  wouldn't have said it or you would say I'm undoing you cancel
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  your own tonight at the same time.
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  You know when it's done later. You don't need to mention your
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  own tonight. You already mean Eno Zocher
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  Litano, Misha Taneder at tonight Kaya if he doesn't remember
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  about his tonight, right? You made Cole Nidre and you
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  later on, a month later, you made a Neder and you forgot
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  about the whole concept of Colney Dre.
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  That OK, So whatever your personal case is, you made your
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  tonight and now you you, you forgot about it.
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  So since you didn't remember it, we're saying when you made your
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  net there, you didn't actively undo your tonight 'cause there
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  has to be, you have to be actively in movato.
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  So if it's, if you remember it, so we're soon, we're saying
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  making the Ned there is actively being mivato.
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  If you can't remember about it, you can't be mivato.
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  Tanai kayam. So then the Tanai stands the
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  Neder Batal and since the Tanai was against the Ned there, so
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  the Neder never takes place. The Aish Omri, the Shena tanai
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  moye levatel haneder Ala Inca is karenu toche dibor laneder.
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  So this yeh almering basically is a problem for Arco Nidre and
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  it says like this Tanai never makes a it's a major hiccup and
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  it there's two ways to understand this yeh almering.
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  We'll see the OK Prashad Shahanara is like this.
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  If the only time a tonight will work later.
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  The only way a tonight works is if you say The Tonight talk to
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  the dibor. You can't make it tonight for a
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  month from now. The Tonight only works to move
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  out to the nether. If it's like if a if you wake up
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  later, it doesn't work and right has to be talk to the dibor The
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  Tonight to the nether, the Omar Bilibo SU Somerhal tonight.
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  And you have in mind that you're relying on the nether the Yeesh
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  Lahush Ladibraham and one should be Mahmar according to this
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  opinion. The the taz as well.
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  I think I'm trying to think, yeah, it seems like the Shah
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  agrees with the Shah on earth, the the taz.
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  And so the Maharit and the Maharishah, they say that no,
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  no, it doesn't have to be takade dibor to the to The Tonight to
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  the Ned there. It could be days apart.
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  But when you remember The Tonight, then you have to
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  remember then it has to be takade dibor that you Somerhal
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  tonight that you wanted tonight to be Makayam.
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  It's a subtlety. Let's but let's go on.
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  It's OK, Let's let's go on Gilmour heatonet al Qatar
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  tovarim sheh nidro batal behemoth.
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  Any idea on my heat now? You made it tonight that on your
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  future Nadaram is going to be batal.
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  It shouldn't be hauled, but not on everything you you like.
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  You put it a caveat you carved out from any from your future
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  potential net there and tonight that it won't be hauled on
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  certain items e-mail Akhilat Basar like on eating meat.
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  If I make a net there against eating meat, I'm telling you
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  right now, I'll make it's it's I don't want to I want to be able
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  to eat meat and it's not going to be called or you love wine
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  and you want to just make sure if you make a net there, it's
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  not going to include wine. So you do something like that.
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  But when you make the net there, you don't remember what the
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  Tanai was, but you remember that there was that there was a
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  tonight. See, this is a little bit
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  different. We're building up different
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  cases each time here. You remember that there's a
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  tonight, but you don't remember what The Tonight was on.
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  So I'm Omar Bish Atta Neder Aldat Rishona Nino der Shima
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  skarmashit nati Shekhar tonight if when you make the tanai, when
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  you make the Ned there, you make the Ned there.
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  Let's say a month, a week later from your tonight and you don't
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  remember what is if you'd right, we said if you totally don't
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  remember of The Tonight, so then it then The Tonight works.
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  But and if you remember of The Tonight, then it's like
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  movotolite. But here you don't know what The
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  Tonight was. So you have to say Aldas
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  Rishono. What since you were a member of
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  The Tonight, if you're going to make a net, a net there of right
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  now, it'll be movotolite. But unless you specifically say
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  no, no, I'm keeping to whatever my tonight was.
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  So then as long as you say I'll das whatever my tonight was and
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  then you're not you're saying you're not undoing it because
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  here you know that there was a tonight.
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  So the fact that you go ahead and make a net there even when
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  you know there was a tonight. That's why it's it's it's
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  different than the previous Allah.
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  So anyway, so now that you you just have to mention that
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  whatever my previous Kavanaugh was, whatever my previous
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  tonight was. So then that should be call.
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  And but it's and the nether is for everything like The Tonight
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  works for what it works for and the nether works for everything
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  else. And I'm gonna and once I and as
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  soon as I remember, all right, look it up.
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  I don't maybe I have it written down and then you look it up and
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  then you'll follow what your tonight says.
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  So that that works The Tonight Kayam.
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  So then The Tonight Kayam, the Neder Bata.
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  So then The Tonight is well, if the Tanai was on the was that
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  matched your Ned there, so then the Tanai works and the Neder's
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  bottle, obviously, if it doesn't match, so then you didn't make a
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  Tanai. And then like if you make the
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  like, if you make a Tanai on Fu on Basar and now you make your
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  Ned there on Basar, so then the Tanai works and there's no Ned
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  there. Obviously, if you made the Tanai
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  on Basar and you made your Ned there on Yain, nothing to do
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  with each other. So both will remain standing the
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  Lo Amar aldas Rishona. But if you don't mention and my
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  Aldas rishona on my previous das knowledge or statement of the
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  Tanai and you know there are Tanai batal, the neder kayam.
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  So then it makes no difference that Tanai is going to
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  automatically be Batal because you knew of a Tanai and you made
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  a neder. So that's going to cancel any
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  Tanai and whatever the nether it was made for, it's going to be
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  kayam. OK, let's do one more Dalit
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  ain't Variam William Ella be Shivua or Neder, but we're
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  talking about it goes applies to a shivua and a neder Shanishba
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  venadar la Atsma. When you make a a normal a
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  normal shivua and a normal neder for himself.
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  Basically every case that we kind of mentioned until now, a
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  regular shuwat be doing a regular neder on a Heifetz.
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  Those are things that these everything we learn now applies
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  of all that tonight works. When does it tonight not work?
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  So the shock just points out or about just to point out when it
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  says because of the word shivua, He says if you do a shivua by
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  holding an item, so then it might not work.
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  But Hercule, for example, Conidre might not work Daf gets
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  filled in recipotary. OK, OK, we'll get there at some
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  point. I believe now it's fine back to
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  the shalkhonara Avalmisha. He should be O calvero O dearo.
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  So what happens if your friend is saying the the obviously, if
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  a friend makes a Ned there on his object against you, so
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  you're tonight is doesn't mean anything because it's his Ned
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  there. But even if OK, it depends on
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  the actual case is what it boils down to.
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  But basically, if he's making a net there for you, you're
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  relying on his does. You can't also make tonight
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  Hadiro. Sorry, he's making another for
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  you, exhausting his stuff against you.
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  Anytime, any case, whenever kind of assure that it's dependent
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  upon the dos of your friend, the other person, then your nether
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  is not going to work against it because you're relying on his on
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  his dot. He's the one who's wording it.
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  Obviously, if you say I'm main, but with The Tonight, probably
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  that tonight will work. Not 100% clear.