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408 Testimonio de la infidelidad de José Ordóñez a Yasmith. · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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Podcast number four hundred and eight. This is the sixth part of the marriage
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testimony of those who speak to them, Joseph Ordonez and his wife, Jasmith.
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Our testimony specifically focuses on telling the other marriages that, as they go
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through the rupture product of infidelities on my part. One day, Christ came
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into our marriage and made it completely new. In fact, Jasmith, starting
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this podcast, makes a brief description of what she feels in unfaithfulness, of
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what biblically infidelity is. And there maybe men and women can identify that terrible
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pain the good news. God can heal all that bitterness and can make all
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things new. It is the penultimate of podcasts that talk about our marriage testimony
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and serves us as before in our fourth virtual workshop for marriages. Remember that
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very well. From the 19th of August to the 23rd we will be working
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in a workshop that teaches lessons. He' ll teach you how to have
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a proper marriage. It will teach you to lay the foundations precisely to avoid
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those painful episodes of infidelity. But we' ll also talk about how to
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heal her and we' ll also talk about economics and sexuality and the extended
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family and what to do when I have a stepchild, I' ve married
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a second time, how I do to rule my stepdaughter, my stepdaughter.
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What should be done about the new models of marriages where her children, my
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children, our children cohabit. Anyway, I' ve been working tirelessly adding
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new lessons to these workshops that have helped hundreds of marriages around the world.
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On 19th August, from seven o' clock in the evening time of Colombia,
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we will start the different lessons and then, in the third hour,
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we will enter our counseling rooms and there I will be providing answers to the
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different problems of the families attending. Go right now to José Ordoñez Cristiano com
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click on the image of the fourth marriage workshop and separate your quota because they
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are limited. But besides, there I will find all the topics that we
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are going to deal with. Well, for now, take it easy,
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because this is the sixth part of Joseph and Yasmith Ordoñez' s marriage testimony
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Welcome. Infidelity breaks, breaks hearts, breaks life, breaks marriage, breaks
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the relationship, breaks dreams, breaks the future, breaks absolutely everything. Infidelity
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is very painful. I' d say traumatic, because it' s lost
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to identity. There are many unanswered questions. Because I thought I knew him,
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I thought he was that person I thought he was and then we walked
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supremely overwhelmed. Because infidelity breaks absolutely everything. And it is that when we
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see why people are unfaithful, why people do have a nice home or because
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if they have been married for so many years, or it may not be
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the perfect home, but they are still there and they are always in search
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of pleasure, of having all the satisfied desires and they are always that search
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no matter what. It' s a huge problem these days. We see
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him everywhere, in many homes, in many marriages, in the Church,
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in the same church, with people who know the word of God, but
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they don' t care. And this is because in the heart are evil
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thoughts. It says the word of God. It is in the heart that
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evil thoughts nest. It is in the heart that all evil desires are wrong.
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But those who believe they have the right to fulfill that evil desire are
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those who cross the line. They' re the ones who don' t
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care, they don' t care about everything that comes forward. He simply
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abrogated the right to do so, the right to fulfill my need, my
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desire no matter what, and that breaks. It wasn' t easy for
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me to forgive him. I couldn' t because I didn' t believe
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in him. It was supremely difficult. He tried over and over again to
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approach me in a thousand ways, tried to get me to forgive him,
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but I couldn' t do it. I couldn' t do it because
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I had lost something very big called trust. Maybe you can forgive, but
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it' s very hard to trust again. Forgiveness is one of the hardest
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things to do. That is why God loves people who have a willing heart,
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because those who forgive have a willing heart. And it' s an
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act of nobility, but it' s also a supernatural act, because people
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don' t want to do it. Nobody wants to forgive our feelings and
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emotions They yell at us not to do it, not to do it.
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But forgiveness is a decision. Just the fact that I want to do it.
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God gives us the opportunity to want to do so, to power and
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to achieve it. The biggest work in restoration has to do it. The
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person who failed, the one who made the affront is the one who has
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to work the most. And I thank God that that happened, because it
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' s not just that I did everything here. Not God' s grace
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and mercy reached us, but it gave us the opportunity for a new hope,
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that that hope is in him, that hope is in Christ, the
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hope of a true transformation, of genuine repentance. And those who fail must
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genuinely repent. If there is no genuine repentance, he will not make a
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cycle that will continue and his life and family will pass so many years and
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continue in the same year. A thousand nine hundred and ninety- seven.
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José Ordonez goes that way for the five or six world records. He'
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s got a joke show that makes him laugh. However, when lights and
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cameras go out, you have to go face your reality. When the fans
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are gone, when the autographs are gone, you close the door to your
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house, your room, wherever you are and there you are waiting for the
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reality of what you are doing. My reality was this I hated what my
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father did to me. I saw my sisters depressed for many years because they
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were abandoned by a man when they were eight years old, Thirteen years old,
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you know what that means The hero of their lives went away to never
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come back. I saw my mom cry for what my dad was doing.
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I witnessed how my mother had to work a whole night stuck to a knitting
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machine to go out and answer for the children a man had left. I
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saw how a family is destroyed, how foolish in life and how stupid in
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life it is for you to be the victim of the bad behavior of adults,
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so that you become the victim of your own children. Same thing my
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dad did when I was 16. I did it to my daughter when I
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was seven years old and to my one- and- a- half-
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year- old son. You can say what was the worst version of the
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ordoñez. My grandfather, who had five different wives, my father, who
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had five different wives and with those five he had a son in each marriage,
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which was the worst version. It wasn' t them the worst version
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was me, because my grandfather didn' t have the power I had.
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My grandfather was not famous, my father did not have the money that I
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had, and I was there ninety- seven years, entrusted in money,
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in fame. You think someone came up to me to tell me, hey,
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you' re living badly. Not everyone applauded me. I thought what
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I had was what covets all people, because the person without Christ will run
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after the money, behind the success behind the fortune, I have bad news
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for you. If you believe if this is your line of thought, I
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have bad news for you when you set up the company you work so hard
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for, you will realize that it will not give you happiness, when you
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sleep with the strange woman that you so long for and desire, you will
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realize the death that this implies. When you run after the man who doesn
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' t belong to you and play the future of your son, of your
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sons, of your daughters, of your marriage, you' re going to
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realize here you' re only going to find death, because that' s
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what God' s word says. Death awaits the unbelievers. That' s
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the bad news. The good ones are the following. If you were to
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return your way, if you believed that God could restore any marriage. You
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' d be in the right line of faith. You would honor him who
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went up to the stake of Calvary and gave his life for you, for
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me and for our children, for our marriage. He said consummate. It
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' s you know what consummate means. It' s your sin It doesn
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' t take me by surprise. I know what you' ve done.
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I know what nests inside your mind and heart. I know the course you
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copied from your dad and grandfather. I know what nests every time you look
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at a woman with a desire to covet them. I know what has nested
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in your heart when you look at a man to desire him. I know
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what you' ve done so far, maybe your wife, your husband doesn
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' t know the product is the children who come from that kind of relationship.
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I know the good news if you just regret it, if you confess
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my name, if you receive me in your heart, if you give me
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a chance, I will rescue your marriage and the best news. Your marriage
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will never be the same again. I have excellent news for you on the
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day Jesus is the center of your marriage. Your marriage will be better than
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before. Better than always. In the following podcast we will be concluding this,
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that you have a small sample of our marriage experience. Finally, don
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' t forget. Fourth workshop for marriages from the 19th to the 23rd of
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August we will broadcast it through Zoom, so anywhere on the planet where you
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are you can participate in our virtual workshop. Remember that you can find all
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the information in José Ordoñez Cristiano. Eat for now I wish you a nice
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day and always have the wisdom of being able to cultivate a marriage that never
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goes through the painful experience of infidelity that God blesses you