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The Worst, Strangest & "Everything in Between" Parents I've Ever Seen On TikTok · Papa Gut

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What's going on guys? I'm back again with another
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TikTok compilation. I really enjoyed doing this last
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time. I've been enjoying these in
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general and you guys really like the last one actually more than
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I thought you would, which was awesome.
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I really appreciate you guys watching.
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So hey, I figured we'd do a different theme this time.
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You know, I'm going to be a dad soon.
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So I figured, hey, the best, worst, strangest and everything
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in between type of parents that I've seen on TikTok.
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I'll give you a quick rundown of a couple of them.
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The first one is a real banger where a mother just shames her
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kid over wanting French fries. It was actually kind of sad.
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There's another one about a mom talk about what she'd do if her
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boyfriend engaged with her daughter's contents.
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It's a guy who's lazy and doesn't want to change diapers.
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A couple of grandparents are thrown in there who are
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complaining about the baby showers being for, you know,
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both boys and girls and not understanding boundaries.
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One girl's a mom at 13, that's crazy, but she seems like she's
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trying her best and frankly, there's a lot more like another
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guy who or a woman that names her kids dogs names and then a
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guy who doesn't want his kids hanging out with poor people.
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So yeah, let's just get into the video.
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Hope you guys enjoy. My daughter sit here cry.
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Why are you recording your daughter crying?
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Let her cry bro. What the?
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Because she cannot have French fries.
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Irritating me by me to keep doing that on purpose.
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Movie Why we Damn, I feel like first of all, valid to cry about
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French fries. I've been getting broccoli
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instead of French fries because I mean, do I have to explain to
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myself? Look at me, I'm so handsome, I'm
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fat as fucking dog and I'm trying to eat my fiber so that
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my gut health is healthier, so I have better poops and I don't
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get rectal cancer. Also, heartburn sucks and you
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can get everything turns out to cancer.
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You know, I got to work on my heartburn and my anyway, that's
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like weird information that I'm giving you right now.
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I'm getting a little I'm exhausted.
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Anyway, valid that she's upset about the fries.
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I steal my mom's fries like I did today when we went to the
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diner. But then on the other hand, too,
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like, why do we have to record like these moments for these for
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these kids and put them on the Internet?
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It's one thing to record it and keep it as a little bit of a
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bullying thing, a little bit of bullying of your kid, I think
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could be OK. But you seem like the type of
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person that constantly puts it online.
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And so this kids like, Oh my God, I can't.
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I'm not even safe around my own my own mom.
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Like think about being a kid nowadays.
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When I was young, I was an awkward little weirdo freak, you
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know, and not that I've changed very much, but imagine cameras
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existed in this way back then. I'd be mortified.
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All my worst moments, you know, I can imagine my mom coming into
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the bathroom when I was pooping and I used to just pee when I
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was pooping, but like I couldn't pee into the toilet because I
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got, you know, the fat kid big nuts.
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So I would just lay a towel down and just piss.
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That's insane. That's disgusting.
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So you know what I mean. Like imagine that all your
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cringe moments were captured by your own mom.
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You can't, your mom can't be your fucking OP.
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I just feel like this is, I feel terrible for this young girl.
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In the restaurant, she's crying because she's not allowed to get
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you look. Like you're crying.
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What the hell is this on your face?
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Mascara is running. Get French fries when I always
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allow her to get soda. Oh, OK.
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Tell me this is not crazy. She's not supposed to have soda.
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I said no first fries because you do this every day.
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We're not doing this no more and she is pissed off.
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Then she's saying she don't want anything in here.
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She wants to eat when she get home.
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I don't blame her. I don't blame her.
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Dude, you're kind of, you're kind of a mean mom, bro.
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And we at the Daggone restaurant, she's showing her
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ass today. Dude, you, dude, you are such a
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you know what? I'm 36.
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My mom used to beat me and she was, my mom actually was a good
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mom. This is worse than that.
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It was acceptable back then. She did stop when the therapist
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said, hey, tone it down a little bit.
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She interpreted that as Tony sopranoing it down.
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So she started hitting me more, actually.
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Anyway, everything aside, this is like just, I don't know.
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I don't know if I'd call this abusive.
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I'd say this is bad parenting. I hope you're not a bad parent
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overall. But I mean, this is, yeah, this
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is a bigger tantrum than the child.
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Just 'cause she's crying and like visibly upset and you're
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talking calm doesn't mean you're not having a tantrum.
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Just 'cause you have a calm tone and a condescending tone doesn't
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mean that you're not being stupid.
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Mom's being stupid. It's a bad mom behavior.
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Even me at 200 lbs when I was 11 years old.
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Ten years old in the 6th grade. I didn't even cry.
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What the what do you what the fuck?
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OK, now we get into a new element where your kids, I think
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you think your kids overweight. Whatever, that's fine.
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Here's the thing. I don't know if you know this,
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you guys know that there's a such thing as a diet soda.
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I don't know, like, I'm OK. I, I think it's OK to want to
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watch your kids wait to help them choose healthier options.
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I would say maybe don't go out to a restaurant, whatever.
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I'd say maybe get like an extra plate of vegetables and start
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with that. I would say don't drink your,
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your calories, whatever. But I think that the biggest,
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the least healthy part of this video is that you're recording
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your daughter being upset about something in a way that is
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unnecessary. Like you're not doing it for
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your safety. Your kids not like a 16 year old
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boy with very serious autism or something and like hitting the
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fuck out of you. You have a daughter that's like
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hungry for French fries and and a regular soda and you're
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recording the Internet. And this is the thing too.
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This is, this is like a next level of bullying because this
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is like, this is the type of thing where like parents brag.
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I'm bragging about, I'm going to say being shitty to their kids.
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Hey, look at how good I am. I'm being super restrictive.
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Look at that. She's crying because she's
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upset. Bro, listen, people cry over
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dumb shit. You don't always have to
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publicly get shamed for being a little silly sometimes.
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You know, you're just, you're just giving her, you're just, I
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mean, frankly, you're just giving her like a level of
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anxiety that a lot of people aren't going to understand.
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You're putting like her, her worst moments online, Like she's
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just having a little bit of a temper tantrum.
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But now she has to feel the embarrassment of people thinking
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that she's being stupid and inappropriate.
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It's like, damn, this is really fucked up.
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This is like really shitty of you.
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My mother said, oh, you can't eat just.
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I said OK, I was happy just to eat a cheeseburger from
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McDonald's because we never could have it.
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Why? And when she said, no, you can't
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have it today, I said, OK, I'll just eat the leftovers at the
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table. And I was good.
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Now I got to deal with this. I don't understand what the fuck
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you're talking about. This is too much.
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We agree on that, of course. The next video here is some kind
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of thirst trap. I would have kept it trapped,
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frankly. All right.
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There's another video where she says she doesn't think she has
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diabetes. I don't OK.
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So let's talk about the questions I've been asked
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lately, and the main one is is what would I do if I found out
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my boyfriend was viewing my daughter's site?
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I'm just kidding, you know, I don't know how to talk to you.
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What the kind of question is that, bro?
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What the fuck? I mean, listen, I think that any
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woman needs to be Listen. Men are physically very capable,
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you know, we always talk about that.
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Men are better than sports. They get paid more.
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Bah, Bah, Bah, Bah, Bah. So what that means to you is one
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thing. What it means to me is women
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need to step up their fucking game.
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That means that you have to have a disproportionate response
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anytime a man fucks around too much.
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And so you got to kick his ass. You guys got to sleep.
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You're probably cooking this food.
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Be creative. So I think a healthy amount of
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fear that a man has of a woman is very good and productive.
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And so like he should, he should be if terrified, he should be
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terrified. That's insane But OK let's
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continue. I I'm wondering if mom does it
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too. I'm just asking for a friend,
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but let's continue. So if you don't know me, my name
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is Don. My daughter is Blue.
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She does red, blue and she's got a pretty good.
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What? I guess this is her page.
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Let's go look at. I mean, she's nice looking.
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I'm going to keep it real with you, dude.
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I'm a grown man. If you have, I mean, I'm not
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going to. I wouldn't do.
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I don't care. I'm just saying like, shit, you
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know what I'm saying, dude. You know what I mean?
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You know what I'm saying, dude. I'm like, you know, there's
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nothing wrong with a what's wrong with a mature woman.
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But OK, let's continue. Coming on here so daughter sight
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OF account yeah. So there's non negotiables for
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me. The non negotiables are that you
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don't cheat on me and that you don't view my daughter and that
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in life you. Those are fair.
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Don't view bare. Boundaries.
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Other than anything but my daughter, those are non
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negotiables for me. Fair enough.
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I like. That I do not move my life in
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fear. I don't track my boyfriend's
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location. I don't look at his social
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media, I don't go through his phone.
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OK, that's fair enough. You know what?
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I respect that. I respect a lot of trust here.
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A lot of trust. Ever.
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I don't even ask him where he's been.
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We we keep in contact, so we kind of know.
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See, for me, it's not possessive enough.
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I need a woman that's a little obsessed with me.
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My wife, she wants to know where I've been.
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And we ask the other where? Where are you going?
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Anytime one of us looks at the phone.
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What are you looking at? You know, and it's not even like
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a scared thing. It's like, I want to see, you
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know what I mean? Like, let's have a nice time.
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What are you looking at? You know, what are you looking
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at? When I when I ask my wife that,
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you're just usually looking at, you know, big girls on Twitter.
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Anyway, that was a weird thing to share.
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You got let's move on. Where?
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We are all day, just groups, we're always chatting.
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Yeah, of course. Me too, yes.
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I don't live in a bubble and don't think that nothing's ever
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gonna happen, but I don't live in fear of losing him.
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Well, I meant OK. I would hope that your daughter
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would say something if he was looking at her.
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And that's not in a cocky way. My happiness is within myself.
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That's a good question, Jade. I didn't even think about that.
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Why are you promoting her content right now?
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Is this a big content promotion for her OF That's strange.
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All right. It has nothing to do with my
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boyfriend. He brings extra happiness into
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my life. That's.
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Beautiful, I love that. But.
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I am a whole person, with or without him.
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I love that, I love that. I love the confidence.
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I like this. I like her expression so far.
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I thought this was going to be a train wreck.
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So when you feel that way about yourself, you don't fear being
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alone, you don't fear losing the person you're with.
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You know, no matter what happens in life, you're going to be OK.
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Yeah, I like. That.
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You could tell she had a pretty nasty divorce only because she's
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she's talking like my mother-in-law talks.
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You know what I mean? Love my mother-in-law, love her.
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I love her to that. But you know, obviously there's
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a little bit of cope speak, but I, I love this.
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I do. I like the expression from her.
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I like that, you know, there's a little belly button peeking out.
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There's nothing wrong with that. I like the trashy tattoo.
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That's not an insult, by the way.
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I'm trying to get my wife to get a fucking trashy tattoo.
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I kind of like, I like a little bit of trashy women.
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I mean, I'm a little fucking. I'm a dog, you know?
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But yeah, OK, cool. To me is not just about a
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significant other. Yeah, love to me is about all
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the love in my life. That's beautiful.
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Like a big piece of pie. I.
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Love pie I love pie got my doctor says I can't have it, but
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my. Kids.
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I've got my boyfriend, I've got my dogs, I've got friends.
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They all get slices of me everywhere, but as far as my
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love life goes, and if I ever found this out, it's a non
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negotiable it would be simple. We wouldn't be together.
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There's not going to be any kicking and screaming.
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I would just move on and know that that chapter is over and a
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new chapter is going to open. See, that's my problem I have is
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I you know, I guess that's mature, but like if you find out
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your boyfriend's, you know, blasting it to your daughter's
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OFI feel like you got to you got to go fucking nuclear on this
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guy. You got to show him you have to.
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He has to think that there's a real fear.
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He has to believe that the fear of God if he ever crossed you.
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You know, I feel like that's how I feel.
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Would it be sad? Of course I do trust in him.
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But I am. I'm not unaware of what goes on
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in this world. You.
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Guys, it's OK to trust, but you can't trust too much, you know?
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So this is what it's. Called boundaries.
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I'm going to tell you, if you walk your life in fear, if
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you're tracking and you're stalking and you're looking
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through your partner's social media, you need to look at
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yourself. There, a little fear is OK.
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And by the way, a little bit of jealousy is kind of sexy.
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You know, if it's it's a possessiveness to me is sexy.
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You know, I like that my wife, you know what I mean?
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Like I, I want my wife to be possessive a little bit.
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It feels nice, you know, it feels nice and maybe not like
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for you guys be like, yeah, I not even not too much.
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I want it a lot. I want a legitimate fear from my
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wife. My wife is like obsessed with me
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and I love that about her and I love her for it.
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And it makes me like almost a little scared, but in like such
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a good way. You know what I mean?
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I have a toxic relationship with my wife in both directions.
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I don't care, but I like it. I like a little bit of talk, a
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little bit. It's like it's possessiveness.
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It's like you know that they love you.
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I don't give a fuck. I don't care if I'm a little
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toxic. That's some real shit, man.
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I don't care. I I can respect where she's
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coming from, but I just, no, it's not for me.
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I want to feel wanted, you know? Because I never worry about any
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of that shit. I love me and the rest of it
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will all fall where it's supposed to be.
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So just think about that. Don't live in fear, love to all.
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Sounds good. Thank you girlfriend.
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Can we normalize not shaming fathers who don't change
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diapers? Dude I think you should
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normalize along your fucking audio and like the bass on your
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thing. Also cringe.
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Why? Why wouldn't you want to have
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dads change diapers? Change your kids diaper, Be a
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man. Especially the ones who work all
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day and have stay at home moms. That's how you sound to be
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bitch. Listen, I can appreciate a guy
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who goes to work and then they take care of their family.
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I get it. Financially that's great.
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I can also appreciate somebody who stays home and takes care of
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kids. If you're like, I don't
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understand why people don't value this.
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If you've decided to get into a dynamic where your wife is going
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to be a say at all parent and you're going to pay for
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everything, you need to understand that that is a job.
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And especially when the kids are young, it's a 24/7 job and when
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you get home, guess what? You're helping.
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That's a fact. Obviously, if you're really
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tired and you're working a very physically demanding job or
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whatever you can make. Obviously relationships can
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manage these things themselves, but like you get off of work and
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change your kids diaper, OK? Also changing a diaper is a
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man's job. Poop cleaning poop, that's a
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man's job. Let's be fucking real.
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If we're going to keep it into this, I mean, if you're going to
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play, if you're going to play roles, if you're going to play
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gender roles, poop is a man's job.
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Poopoo and peepee are man's jobs.
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So that's what you should be doing now.
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Frankly, I love the belief system that Big Diaper has
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groomed us into thinking that we need to teach our kids to shit
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themselves. And then he somehow do not shit
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themselves. After a few years when when my
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daughter is born, pretty soon, we're going to get started very
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quickly on estimating her poo poo and pee pee habits.
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We're going to keep her in a diaper.
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But like, let's say we noticed that 10 minutes after she eats,
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she starts going poops. Guess what?
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We're going to hold her over a little baby toilet for a couple
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minutes. If she goes, she goes.
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If she doesn't, she doesn't. If she poops in the diaper,
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that's fine. And we're going to keep trying
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to estimate, right? We're going to try to make it so
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that we don't really need diapers.
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That's what I think. But notice I said wee, wee, wee,
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wee. That's pee, right?
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We're going to do that together now.
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My wife's not a stay at home wife or she might we might have
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that conversation. We'll gather when we get there.
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She also works. But if she didn't work and she
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stayed home and took care of the kid, of course I'm going to take
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care of some stuff as well because being a parent is like a
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24/7 job, right? And it's OK to help out your
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spouse. That's totally fine.
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It's OK you come home for a long day at work.
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She's this one with the baby, you know, she's you gotta, you
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have to constantly be watching that kid.
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And you know, when you pick your wife like you're the whole, the
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whole thing is like, oh, I picked a woman that'll be a good
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mother, which means that you trust her to instill the values
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that you want instilled into that kid.
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Why wouldn't you get home and help somebody?
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That's like a unique thing. You know how hard it is to find
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somebody that's exactly perfect, that'll exactly raise your kid
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the way you want them to and maintain your boundaries even
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when you're not there and respect what you say, you think
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and then you feel, But then you're going to come home and
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you're not going to help take care of the diapers and like,
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oh, let me change the diaper. I can change the diaper or I can
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switch over the laundry or I can do something to remove some of
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that load. You know, this is somebody
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especially like when like, let's just go through the pattern of
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it. I've been looking into these
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things a lot. I'm trying to get ready for
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what's going on. You know, your, your, your
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wife's going to birth a baby in some capacity, maybe AC section.
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That's what we're going to do. It's less painful and we have a
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good Doctor Who I believe is going to make sure that my wife
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is good, right? Like there's, I believe 8 layers
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that they have to, well, 7 layers.
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They cut through the 8 layers as a baby and they've only taught
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to sew 3 layers back up, which is fucked up.
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Make sure your doctor sews all 7 back up, which our doctor's
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going to do. But either way, regardless, now
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you're on your, your, your, your, your wife is
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incapacitated, whether they get AC section or not, right?
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Maybe comes out they've just went through body trauma.
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Guess who's stepping up, Dad, You postpartum depression.
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I would say 80% the man's fault. Your wife's going to be going
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through a lot of emotional labor just trying to readjust her
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body. If you're not there to pick up
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the pieces, she's going to spiral.
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That's your fault, bitch. So you take care of that kid.
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That's why you need to be home for a month.
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That's why everybody should have universal be home with the baby.
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I think of that. She had a month.
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I think that a mom, she had four months, frankly.
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But you know, that's not maybe a month before and three months
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after. That's a different conversation,
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but then you're going to be the one like you, if you're pumping,
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you should be the one getting up and breastfeeding or
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breastfeeding and helping, giving your baby milk or getting
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the baby, bringing it to mommy so that she can breastfeed.
18:25
If that's what she wants to do. You should be doing a ton of
18:27
that fucking labor, dude. She just carried your
18:29
immortality for nine months, pussy.
18:31
What the fuck are you talking about?
18:33
You guys talk about this like it's an isolated incident.
18:35
And then after mom starts to recover and she takes on more
18:37
responsibility and now she's stay at home mom, which means
18:39
she has to cook and she has to clean, she has to take care of
18:41
these kids. She has to make sure that that
18:42
kid doesn't fucking die while you're let's exhausting.
18:45
So now this is she's home and she can get a nice little bit of
18:48
rest and you're not going to let her get some sleep.
18:50
You're not going to take some of the load off, Let her sit down,
18:53
give her a rest. It's it's it's just such an
18:56
immature thing to say. I would say that changing a
19:00
diaper is one of like the the the one of like the borderlines
19:04
of what you can do at the very least.
19:06
Hey, can you change the diaper a little bit?
19:07
Can you get up during the night with me?
19:09
Share the I just. I don't get it And it's always
19:12
some asshole with a fucking backwards hat on.
19:14
What are you doing? You know you look like a douche
19:17
bag. Knock it off like he changed his
19:19
thing. Family girl, that diaper
19:21
changer. It looks like he got bullied.
19:23
It looks like he got bullied into changing his mind about it.
19:27
Wow. Well, you know what Internet you
19:28
guys did a good thing. God bless you.
19:29
Well. Someone could have told me.
19:32
Told you what? When did baby showers change?
19:35
I don't know. I'm having a baby shower with my
19:37
wife soon and it's going to be a boy and girl one.
19:40
We're both with all the boys and girls are going to go together.
19:42
It's going to be a lot of fun. We're going to play cool games.
19:44
We're putting together prize baskets.
19:46
I'm putting together a pretty cool, pretty cool gaming basket
19:50
for a diaper, diaper raffle and other games that we play.
19:52
You know, it's going to have like a cool like gaming
19:54
controller that you can hook up to your phone to make it like a
19:56
Game Boy and stuff. It's going to be fucking bad
19:58
ass. I'm excited.
19:59
It's going to be fun. I'm a generation X ex mom.
20:03
And I. Was trying to.
20:04
Like a big wrestling fan, huh? Plan.
20:06
A baby shower for my daughter. Nice.
20:08
Like when did this switch happen and no one told me?
20:11
Like you could have held my. Ask me to explain what the
20:14
fucking switch is. OK, stop baiting Anna.
20:16
Told me OK first of all, did you know baby showers are now couple
20:20
showers? Yeah, that makes sense to me.
20:24
Back in the day, it would just be like the husband would get
20:26
would be there with a couple guys and just get really drunk
20:28
and be in like useless. But now, yeah, guys, get
20:31
involved. Get involved with your baby.
20:33
It's your baby too. Get your fucking ass to the baby
20:35
shower, set everything up, do everything for your wife, hang
20:39
out, have a good time, meet the family, have a good thing.
20:42
You know what I mean? Like, yeah, that makes sense.
20:43
If you don't want to do it like that, I think that's fine too.
20:45
I think this is like a Hispanic thing where it's like a, it's a
20:48
double gender neutral shower. I don't know if that makes
20:50
sense, you guys, you know what I'm saying?
20:51
I heard that's a Hispanic thing, but I like it.
20:54
I think it's cool. I'm excited, man, you know?
20:56
Right. A lot of times and.
20:59
It's also a thing I think in the back in the day, like I guess
21:01
mom used to throw the the shower for the daughter.
21:03
I think that was like a custom. Now it's kind of pre planned.
21:07
You might you. My mom was saying that like, oh,
21:08
you're not supposed to plan your own thing, but you want to know
21:10
what, ma'am? Like my wife's a control freak.
21:13
That's why we work really well together.
21:15
So we're planning it. I was like, what?
21:17
We're inviting boys. Since when do boys come to baby
21:20
showers now? I thought maybe like the dad
21:23
sometimes came, but when we grew up, you.
21:25
Gotta stop saying the word common came the way you are,
21:26
it's pissing me off. Never a man at a baby shower,
21:30
but like now it's like a couple thing.
21:32
It's more like a party than it is a baby shower.
21:36
Yeah, same thing. OK, you're really selling old
21:39
school baby showers. Yeah, it's like a party now
21:42
instead of a fucking what? Is it a burden?
21:44
What is it a burden back then? Isn't it always a party?
21:46
Isn't it supposed to be a celebration of life?
21:51
Oh my God, it's, it's like a party now instead of some
21:53
fucking terrible burden placed upon a woman who's already
21:56
fucking seven months pregnant and hormonal as shit.
22:01
That was like a fun event. I'm going to throw up all over
22:04
myself, OK? So then we're going over the
22:06
food and I'm thinking like little finger sandwiches and
22:12
decorated cookies. Now we're.
22:14
Going to have some crazy food. We're going to have sausage and
22:16
Peppers, eggplant parm, chicken franchise.
22:18
And the other option was Thai chicken, like a Thai chili
22:20
chicken woo. It's going to be some, I think
22:23
it's going to be some Alfredo pasta.
22:27
We got some cake for dessert. We're going to get cake pops woo
22:31
and free cake. My mom's making that.
22:34
Whatever. See.
22:35
It'll probably taste good, yeah. And girly and like tea party in
22:39
my mind. And she's.
22:40
Like, Oh yeah, we'll get to now. We're going to have a beer
22:42
package up here and we were thought about a liquor package,
22:44
but it's going to be one in the afternoon.
22:45
And I'm like, you know, we're going to have an after party at
22:47
my mother in law's house Anyway we can.
22:48
We can start getting liquored up over there.
22:51
Everybody by my wife, she can't drink.
22:54
I feel bad for her, but feel worse for me because I get
22:56
fucking, I get a little, I get a little crazy when I get drunk.
23:02
I always want to get go down on that shit.
23:04
My wife's just not going to be in the same vibe, which is
23:07
understandable. It's totally understandable.
23:09
But Rachel, last time we both got really drunk together and
23:13
fucking went crazy is conception, so whatever.
23:19
Rice and the beans and we'll she had Daddy cook tacos out on the
23:23
grill. She Hispanic dude.
23:25
I thought she was like a fucking southerner.
23:26
I thought she was from Pennsylvania.
23:28
She seems like she would work for Miller's in fucking
23:30
Pennsylvania or something. I'm so goddamn confused.
23:33
Is she Hispanic? She just marry a Hispanic guy.
23:37
Her name is Jeanette. All right, whatever man, God
23:40
bless you and. I'm just picturing my husband
23:43
and like sweating down his back at the grill.
23:46
Oh. She's horny.
23:47
Like at our parties, she's like for this baby shower, I.
23:51
Like the appreciation for your husband?
23:53
I I literally felt like I was broken hearted.
23:55
I'm like, what, 'cause you wait all your life as a mom to have
24:00
the baby shower for your daughter, right, I guess.
24:03
And yeah, it's not like this at all.
24:06
It's couples. It's like regular food.
24:09
There's gonna be alcohol. I'm like, this is not a baby
24:13
shower. But things have changed.
24:16
I better get on board, apparently.
24:18
But I. Think so too.
24:19
You know what it this is a cute video.
24:21
It sounds like she's she's just kind of complaining that things
24:23
aren't the way they used to be. But she's going to change for
24:27
her daughter, and I think that's beautiful.
24:29
Listen, I understand Pennsylvania's not Southern.
24:31
OK, Shut up. But you under, if you go to
24:32
Pennsylvania, you get it's a bunch of fucking Amish people.
24:35
You know what the hell I'm talking you you know what?
24:37
You guys know what I'm talking about?
24:38
Southern's a is a state of mind. It's not a direction.
24:42
What the hell? Did you guys know this?
24:44
Why didn't anybody tell me that the generation X your.
24:47
Daughter told you. Baby showers are not the same at
24:51
all. They are like over the top and
24:54
very, very different. That's crazy, she put.
24:57
That's an interesting placement for the fucking text.
25:00
You know what? She trying to hide something.
25:01
Amazing girl. Terrible stuff.
25:03
But you know what? God bless this woman.
25:05
She's just a little, she's just a little behind on the times.
25:08
Strict rules my Asian parents have for me at 17 years old, no.
25:12
No driving I heard. What the hell is this guy?
25:22
Make me uncomfortable. Straight.
25:28
Strict parenting. That's the word you use?
25:33
He sounds like an old sensei or something.
25:34
Man, what the hell are you doing here?
25:36
What's with the vocal fry? Describe us.
25:38
Oh, this is Daddy. All right, man, this is Dad.
25:43
Let's see what he has to say before we finish her video.
25:47
You were basically given everything as a child.
25:50
Oh yes, by three years old you had more toys than even certain
25:54
toy stores. Wow, there's some must be some
25:57
fuck ass toy stores. I mean like getting your kid a
25:59
bunch of material stuff isn't necessarily like amazing.
26:03
I don't know by 8 you. Already.
26:07
Had a cell phone. We're talking about material
26:10
goods here. I feel like there's other
26:12
things. By 10, you had the latest iPhone
26:15
in the market. That's probably not good.
26:18
I mean like that's I feel like keep keep iPhones away from kids
26:21
till they're like 16 but OK. By 12 you had a laptop, iPhone,
26:27
iPad, Apple Watch, Airpod Max, Airpod Pro.
26:32
He was really trying to invest into the Dragon Warrior here,
26:34
huh? Every gadget that you wanted,
26:38
There was never a time we said no.
26:41
That doesn't sound really good. You got to set boundaries to
26:45
their kids and you have to you also have to set boundaries for
26:48
your like let your kids set boundaries with you, right to go
26:51
on sleepovers. Hangouts.
26:54
Parties. What?
26:56
When did we ever say no? That doesn't.
26:58
I don't know if you don't understand.
26:59
This doesn't sound good. This doesn't sound like great.
27:01
We bought you a bunch of stuff and let you do whatever you
27:03
want. Oh, I guess the idea is he's
27:05
trying to say that we weren't strict.
27:07
I don't know. You're a little sussy here.
27:09
We even bought you a. Car.
27:12
Before you even had a drivers license.
27:14
That just sounds like bad business man, but okay, we're
27:17
strict. I I didn't.
27:21
Know you were a comedian too? And well, I guess he wanted to
27:24
be a doctor. Listen, let's see if she's being
27:27
unreasonable strict. Rules my Asian parents have for
27:30
me at 17 years old. First, they have to be able to
27:32
look through my phone whenever they want.
27:35
Sometimes my parents literally take my phone, go through my
27:37
snap, my text messages, my photos, see it.
27:41
I don't know how I feel about that.
27:43
I understand being an overprotective parent, but at
27:45
the same time you kind of have to let your kid have agency over
27:47
themselves. So like maybe you do that when
27:49
they're, oh, I mean, you really shouldn't be getting up a
27:51
smartphone until they're like 16.
27:52
But I think he said like he got our smartphone at 10.
27:54
So like, I guess maybe I would go through my kids phone at 10 a
27:57
little bit, but I don't know, in general it makes me a little
28:00
uncomfortable because you kind of have to let your kids learn
28:03
and do stupid shit and think they got to fail a little bit.
28:06
They got to fail safely at things.
28:08
So like, oh, they're they on their phone looking at weird
28:11
shit or something. I don't know.
28:13
I remember when I was like 12, I looked, I accidentally found
28:16
what 2 girls 1 cup was. They scarred me for life.
28:21
You know, it's, it's, but in one of those ways where it's like a
28:26
pleasure to like a pain to pleasure thing.
28:29
No, but I don't know, man. I, I feel uncomfortable with
28:31
like too much surveillance on their kids.
28:32
You know what I mean? They're, they're pure people.
28:33
You gotta teach them to be people, but OK.
28:35
Anything kind of weird, they'll always ask me about it.
28:38
There's nothing I can do. I can't put up a fight.
28:40
They always say like, oh, it's the phone that they pay for,
28:43
They have the right to look through it.
28:44
And if I yeah. Yeah, it's a little
28:45
uncomfortable. She's 17 now.
28:47
They. Ever change my phone password?
28:48
They get so mad. Sorry that I just want some
28:51
privacy so they always have to know what my password is.
28:54
Secondly, they have to know who I'm hanging out with at all
28:57
times. They've had to have met.
28:58
This one might be like more reasonable, although you're 17,
29:01
but I don't think this one super unreasonable.
29:03
The phone thing is a little more unreasonable.
29:05
My friends, they have to know where they live, like how
29:08
they're doing in school, what school they're going to my
29:11
parents. It was a little strict, but I
29:13
feel like this one's kind of OK to have.
29:14
Gotten super strict about this one because they think like
29:17
certain people are bad influences on me just because
29:19
they're not academic or they go to parties or like because they
29:23
hang out with certain people I don't even know.
29:25
Well, I mean, that could be valid though, if like they're
29:27
hanging out with fucking drug dealers.
29:29
I mean, yeah, that's kind of valid.
29:30
I feel like that one is more maybe I, I don't know, maybe
29:33
they're too strict on who you can hang out with.
29:35
Maybe they're too like classist. I don't know if that makes sense
29:40
that one could be an issue. That one's kind of open to
29:42
interpretation. I don't really fault the parent
29:43
for wanting to know who their kids are hanging out with,
29:48
right? Especially nowadays with like
29:49
everything online, everybody's getting so riled up, which kind
29:51
of like, the irony is that your parents are probably sitting on
29:53
social media thinking like the worst things in the world are
29:55
happening, you know, so but then they got you the cell phone and
30:00
that, that, that that gives you the same level of like fucking
30:03
fear and frustration, right? I.
30:04
Recently got banned from seeing like a lot of my friends because
30:08
of what they saw in my text messages like oh you can't see
30:11
her anymore next is that I'm not.
30:13
What did they see? I don't know.
30:16
That's The thing is like, I need to know the behavior to see if
30:18
it's too strict. I don't think they should really
30:19
be going through your phone at your age, but you know.
30:22
Not allowed to have any tattoos or piercings besides like my
30:25
ears. Tattoos.
30:26
Well, you're. 17 so I think that's fine.
30:28
I don't really give a shit about that one.
30:30
Those are like an absolute no. Even when I'm 21 and like doing
30:33
my own shit they're like. Oh, well, yeah, that's a little
30:36
too strict. But once you're out of the
30:37
house, although it's hard to move out of the house now you're
30:39
going to be into your in your house till you're fucking 30
30:41
years old. So it kind of gives parents too
30:43
much agency over yourself or you want to live in my house is my
30:45
rules, which I is generally fair, but it's so hard to buy a
30:48
house. Like people were buying houses
30:50
for like the equivalent of $100,000 in today's dollars, you
30:53
know, back in the day. And they're like, why don't you
30:54
go live somewhere and it costs like a fucking $500,000 for a
30:58
God damn house. So like.
31:00
You can't get a job if you have a tattoo or any face piercing,
31:02
so that's not allowed for me. The one that I absolutely hate
31:06
is that I am not allowed to FaceTime people be 50.
31:09
That's fucking ridiculous. Why Teen?
31:11
Minutes into a really good debris with my friend over
31:14
FaceTime, my mom will literally barge into my room and tell me
31:16
to get off the phone. Like I don't understand this one
31:19
at all. Yeah, I don't either.
31:21
I'd kind of like an explanation. I don't get it.
31:22
Oh. Anxious every single time my
31:24
friends call me because it's like my mom is gonna come in
31:26
here at any moment and tell me to stop.
31:28
Or she might be eavesdropping, like.
31:30
Maybe they still have a cell phone plan that only has so much
31:32
data like. Right outside my door or
31:35
something like that. Last one is that I have a really
31:37
early curfew. It's like 1030 PMI always try to
31:40
stretch. I don't know.
31:41
Is that bad at 17? I don't know.
31:45
I feel like a curfew at 17 is like I feel like by 15 or 16
31:51
probably you get rid of the curfews.
31:52
My logic is, you know, teach your kid to stay up too late and
31:57
then have to get their fucking ass out of bed in the morning to
31:59
go to school. Oh, I stay up till 4:00 in the
32:01
morning. You got to get up at for school
32:03
at six. Guess what?
32:03
You're getting up and you fucking you wake them up and
32:06
then they'll start to learn. Like, hey, you probably should
32:08
get better at time management. It's better to learn that when
32:10
you're 17 years old and you can handle two hours of sleep rather
32:13
than like learn that at like fucking 30 years old, you know,
32:17
So I just want I, I just think it's like, I mean, I get the
32:20
sentiment, but this is the problem with being too strict
32:21
and controlling because it doesn't, these don't sound
32:23
necessarily horrible. It's more of like how it was
32:25
implemented, whether it's horrible.
32:27
This is one of those things where it's like, you know, I
32:29
don't know if the parents are teaching enough like agency over
32:33
their own kid. If you do everything for your
32:35
kid and you become like their their guide too much and you
32:38
don't let them make it their own mistakes like productively and
32:41
safely, then they're just going to end up being fucking useless
32:43
when they get older, you know? Shit and I always get yelled at
32:47
every single time. Maybe it's like 11/11/30 I get
32:51
slimed out and my mom doesn't sleep the.
32:53
Hell does slimed out me until. I come home and she's literally
32:56
blowing up my phone and like it's.
32:58
One of the problems I'm having with her thing is that she's
33:00
like, my parents are super strict and then she just does
33:02
the things that her parents say not to do and she doesn't seem
33:04
to get like really meaningfully punished.
33:06
So it's like they sound strict, but they don't really sound like
33:09
abusive. And I'm not saying that she
33:11
claimed that. I just feel like this is like
33:13
kind of, but she's being kind of silly.
33:14
I think it just sounds like she wants to have like a social
33:17
media following, you know what I mean?
33:19
So. Bad.
33:20
Let me know if you can relate to any of these.
33:21
I hope I'm not alone because I have literally been dying.
33:24
No. Literally my mom used to hit me
33:26
with a phone. So I don't know, a different
33:29
time, a different place. You're.
33:31
Naming adults, not babies. Don't.
33:33
Oh. Yeah, this is the person that
33:34
wanted to name her young boy girls names and then I think
33:37
named the young boy Wrigley, somebody said, which is insane
33:40
actually, but OK. Just think about them being a
33:44
baby. You need to think about them
33:45
being an adult. Respectfully, in 20 years their
33:48
Co workers are going to be Willow, Banksy, Arlo and Posey.
33:52
So it'll be normal and I can do whatever I want.
33:54
So let's get into baby boy names I love.
33:57
Wow, very pregnant. God bless.
34:00
It won't. Be using.
34:01
I have two other children. Their names are Goldie and Oak
34:03
and. I hate those names.
34:04
So Goldie and Oak, those are dogs names.
34:06
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, but I don't know, like I just named
34:14
you might as well name your kid like a slur at a certain point.
34:17
Like what? What are you doing?
34:18
That's their full name. That's on a nickname I like to
34:20
full send with a nickname. E vibe.
34:22
The name I've loved the longest and really thought I was going
34:24
to use for a long time was Thatcher.
34:26
I think. I think Thatcher's OK the.
34:28
Alcoholic dad from Grey's Anatomy though.
34:31
All right, maybe you're manifesting negative energy.
34:33
If you're going to name your kid Oak or Goldie, you definitely
34:35
believe in like crystals and star signs.
34:37
So negative energy there girlfriend, but OK.
34:39
And for it's just too many letters for me now I have
34:43
several just like 4 letter snappy names that I really love
34:46
like wit pen. Penn and Teller.
34:50
Kip. OK.
34:52
Are these from like? Aren't these from like the bear
34:54
or something? All any of these I would be
34:56
happy with. I was really thinking hard about
34:59
Chip well. Not Dale at a certain point.
35:01
Chip Dale. What else?
35:02
Wow, I know that's the nickname for a junior and he wouldn't be
35:04
a junior, but Chip the teacup from beauty and.
35:09
The Beast. Fuck, dude.
35:10
I don't. Holy shit, dude.
35:12
I don't know why I didn't expect this woman to be a fucking
35:14
Disney adult, to be honest with you.
35:16
Holy shit, I I don't know what then?
35:18
Your kid Ratatouille. Maybe your kid fucking
35:21
Ratatouille at a certain point. Ratatouille, kid.
35:24
Fuck it. What?
35:24
It's a ratatouille brother, you know.
35:27
To a boy, he looks so much like my other son.
35:29
I also love Chaplin. It's a similar vibe.
35:31
And then I have a few Rs I. Get what is a Chaplin?
35:34
Chaplin is a a religious leader. Great pick I guess.
35:38
OK. Riggs, Rigby.
35:42
What's what's the other one OK. Now I can't really do a surname
35:46
for a first name though because our last name is so last name me
35:49
and it's Edwards. So I feel like any first name
35:52
that ends in S, it just doesn't float.
35:54
Rick's Edwards is. What kind of a name of Jesus?
35:58
Like what? I don't even know that many
36:00
names would end in an S. Dude, come on.
36:01
Also, why do you think your last name?
36:02
That seems weird. Oh, whatever.
36:03
Not gonna work. Her name is Claire.
36:05
This is what it's. Look at that.
36:06
You can see the top right. Her name is Claire.
36:08
My name is fucking Claire. You your name is normal.
36:09
Hey, my name is Claire. Oh, that's a normal person name.
36:12
Oh, here's my here's my daughter.
36:14
You know, box lunch. I don't know.
36:17
Stitch. Lilo.
36:18
Lilo Edwards. Hey, Chip.
36:20
Hey, here's here's my here's my my kid.
36:22
You know, I I don't understand. Neighbor boy.
36:25
Tiana Prison. The Frog is one of the best
36:28
Disney movies I've ever seen to be honest with you.
36:31
What are we doing at this point? What the fuck?
36:33
Graham is like the male equivalent of Margot to media.
36:36
Those are OK. Do go with Graham.
36:37
Oh, there's a boy. Go with Graham.
36:38
Go with Graham. That's OK.
36:39
I. Always hold it in my heart.
36:41
Every time somebody uses Graham, I'm like, go for it.
36:43
That's such a good, solid name. Like it's so.
36:45
Good. It's just.
36:46
Become a little more common than what I want to use.
36:49
Dude, this is this. You're not.
36:50
You're not making a World of Warcraft fucking character.
36:53
I want it to be. I want it to be really unique.
36:57
You, this is not a video game. You have kids.
36:59
Like I understand the idea. We're having a daughter.
37:03
We named her something that is we're not going to, I'm not
37:05
going to say what it is. We've already named her.
37:10
It's not crazy. It's a little different and I
37:13
think it fits what she will be. But it's not like it's not a
37:21
Disney name. You know, it's not like palm
37:25
tree. Maybe you could fucking palm
37:27
tree. I mean these palm tree Edwards
37:29
great. You know, it it you you're
37:31
coming up with these weird name Graham sounds great.
37:33
It sounds a little preppy too. So it's like right up your
37:36
alley. But I love Graham forever.
37:37
If I didn't have a Goldie, I would totally use old Sterling
37:40
if you didn't have a. Sterling is the best name that
37:42
she chose so far. That's what a Graham an.
37:44
Oak Cedar would be really hot on my list.
37:46
Cedar trees? Come on dude, just name your
37:49
kids SAP. They're going to make fun of
37:50
your kid and call them ASAP. What?
37:52
ASAP? You know what I mean?
37:52
So that's going to make a comeback.
37:54
So cute. I also really like Haze HAZE as.
37:57
Soon as you get Waze, you know the app that helps you fucking
38:01
the GPS app? Waze.
38:02
I don't even might get Waze. Or just name them Blaze after
38:05
the chips. Name your kid Gaze and then
38:08
maybe they'll be cool. I don't know.
38:09
But I feel like it was kind of taken by the HAYESS and it's
38:13
like more of a country vibe than I feel like Fitzhart family now.
38:17
This last one I would love to gatekeep but I've made my peace
38:20
with not using it for a couple weeks.
38:23
I was like telling people reading.
38:26
All right, get out of here. Get out of here.
38:33
Stop it. I think you're trolling at this
38:34
point. I love that name.
38:37
It's like unique but cool and I I just love it.
38:42
I. Reading.
38:43
I don't know. Just kind of get.
38:44
I feel like once you enter the atmosphere of her horrible
38:47
names, you start to go, OK, maybe that one's not so bad, you
38:50
know? At least it's not toenails, you
38:51
know? Down with Red as a nickname if
38:54
he comes out with red hair, I'm using reading.
38:56
The name that we landed on actually will end up being
38:58
probably the most common out of all three of my children, but I.
39:01
Use Graham please. I really love it.
39:03
Got name border. The names for wall paint.
39:06
True. What the fuck we're.
39:07
Done some stuff and it looks so good.
39:09
That's the list so far. You have to tell me if you had a
39:11
boy in the last year and you name them something cool.
39:14
Please tell me you're naming adult.
39:16
Jesus Christ. All right, good luck to our
39:17
kids. I don't let my kids hang out
39:19
with kids from and broke families.
39:21
Wow. Based.
39:22
Why? What the hell, dude?
39:28
Why? I mean, I feel like that's I've
39:31
here's my thing. I'll feel, oh, it's all fake
39:33
stuff. Helping insurance agents and
39:34
financial advisors. Oh, another grift.
39:37
Listen, here's my hot take. It's OK to keep your kids away
39:39
from the poors. Just don't brag about it.
39:42
Have a little fucking decorum, guys.
39:43
You know what I'm saying? You don't see me bragging about
39:45
how I don't like fucking Pickles.
39:47
I don't, to be honest with you, they're not very good.
39:51
But you know, I'm not bragging about it.
39:53
And it's not because they're broke.
39:54
It's because I know that they must have limiting beliefs and I
39:58
don't want that. What does that mean?
40:00
Limiting beliefs? But I don't understand what that
40:01
means. Why would they have limiting
40:02
beliefs? That's down to my kids.
40:04
The problem is why would they get passed down?
40:06
You're adults, you pass down. They would be more of a side
40:09
pass. But I don't understand what is a
40:10
limiting belief mean? Can you explain is if I let my
40:12
kids hang out with people that have limiting beliefs?
40:15
Where you have your kids going in a fucking helicopter.
40:16
That's insane. Teach your kids to be
40:17
reasonable. Oh yeah I'm going to teach my
40:19
kids to don't hang out with the poors, see them as less than and
40:22
fly helicopters. Hopefully they tax all of your
40:24
wealth at like 90% when you die. Make them start from square one.
40:29
Fuck you specifically. Your kids are fun.
40:31
It will pass all that on to my kids.
40:33
Which is exactly. What I don't want, and that is
40:35
why I never tell my kids we can't afford it, that.
40:39
What It's impossible You. Shouldn't go after that, it's.
40:43
Because if they get any limiting, well, if your kid
40:45
wants something, you don't have to say we can't afford it.
40:47
You'd be like, oh, I'm not going to get that for you.
40:48
You don't need that. You know, you could say other
40:50
words. What limited what?
40:51
It sounds like you're going to teach them to be entitled.
40:53
He believes as kids, as they grow older, they will never
40:56
chase after that big dream. And this is a why would they?
40:58
If they're rich, you've set them up for life.
41:01
Why would they ever chase? They're not hungry for anything.
41:03
They have everything handed to them.
41:05
Why would they chase anything? The poor kids going to chase
41:07
harder. The only thing that separates
41:08
the poor kids from the rich kids is the skin color.
41:11
No, I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding.
41:13
The only thing that separates them is this idea of what they
41:15
feel like they can or cannot achieve.
41:17
If you're put in a situation and you're told if you work fucking
41:20
15 hours a day, you can make $1,000,000 and it's realistic
41:24
people are more likely to work 15 hours a day.
41:26
But if you're in a scenario where like this is your life
41:28
forever, are you going to put in a whole lot of effort?
41:29
No, probably not. That's what it is.
41:32
Your kids. The only difference is that your
41:33
kids have this idea that if they work harder, they'll get more
41:36
because that's where they are. They're rich.
41:37
You have connections. It's not just about the money,
41:39
it's about the connections that you have, the educational
41:40
connections. Otherwise, what the hell are you
41:42
talking about? Exactly what a broke family can
41:44
pass on to my kids. I don't.
41:46
That's what I do sound like to me, a big fart idiot.
41:49
Hey. Miss, no offense, we're all
41:50
trying to get a card back here. Get out of the way.
41:53
We're all waiting. Oh, OK.
41:58
You think that she paid that guy to do that, right?
42:02
Because she had to put the camera up so that she could
42:03
buckle her kid in the seat. I wonder what she was trying to
42:06
do. Like was she trying to bait that
42:08
type of attention? Because I mean, it really makes
42:10
absolutely no sense that you would go set up a car, a camera
42:13
that doesn't really show your kid.
42:14
So like, I can't imagine you're doing kids content.
42:17
Maybe she was trying to do vlogging content and she really
42:20
needed the shot of her putting her kid in the car in front of
42:23
an airport or something. I don't really even know what
42:25
this is. It looks like a bank or an
42:26
airport or something. Is that what she was trying to
42:28
do? Like, what is that about, man?
42:31
I mean, I have to listen. I understand things are changing
42:35
if people want to be content creators, but like, you can't be
42:37
a massive inconvenience to your kid.
42:40
That seems like unreasonable as fuck.
42:42
And that's what she does, right? And like she's like, she's like,
42:46
oh, look, I've done, I do kids content with my kids.
42:49
And it's probably like the only thing that did well on her page.
42:52
So now she's incentivized to do more of this shit.
43:02
Yeah, OK, well, I'm sure good for you.
43:05
Watch. Your.
43:08
Mouth. Is this what she did this for
43:09
with this video? Who's?
43:11
Going. This is the This is why you were
43:16
inconveniencing people at like the airport or whatever.
43:20
Oh, it's a dealership. Oh, what is this?
43:23
Let's do. This.
43:25
For these. Babies, thank you.
43:31
And she set the whole camera up for this too?
43:33
Dude, that's kind of obnoxious. But I guess they're not really
43:36
moving. So there's so many cuts in it, I
43:42
think I'm going to throw up. Like stop.
43:43
Oh my God, you'd have so many cuts in there.
43:53
It's not even. There's no point to even have
43:54
the fucking video in the 1st place.
43:56
What the hell? Oh, now I get it.
44:05
She's spending her fucking time doing this.
44:14
Is she transferring into a different car?
44:16
I'm not understanding what's happening, Jose.
44:25
Thank you. So much all right.
44:33
Yeah, I'm sweating. Bye.
44:36
I have what just happened. What did I miss?
44:38
Did she just trade her child as like a Pokémon thing?
44:43
Did she trade her kid? It's like a this I guess this is
44:46
the dad and he does content as well.
44:48
I really don't know what the fuck just happened my.
44:50
Husband and I got into a huge fight last night over the.
44:54
Wow over something huge, huh? Silliest thing ever.
44:57
I made a TikTok post asking like if school lunch notes were
45:00
silly, if kids hated them, if they loved them, whatever.
45:03
Randomly my 6 year old was like he's going to bed.
45:05
He said mom can you keep writing me notes?
45:08
Can you make me a note for tomorrow because I really love
45:10
it and it makes me so happy. Well, that's sweet.
45:12
And I was like, why is she saying he's an engineer husband?
45:14
Is she like humble bragging? I.
45:16
Didn't even see my video or know that I even made it, but yeah,
45:18
of course I'm going to. So anyway, I told my husband
45:21
about it. He's like, well, I'm going to
45:22
write him a note. OK.
45:23
OK. So he wrote him a note earlier
45:25
this week and then he wrote him a note yesterday.
45:27
Well, when I was writing my note, I looked over and I saw
45:30
his note said and I was like, OK.
45:34
What did his notes say that was so bad?
45:36
We're still kind of like a little bit fine about it.
45:38
And background info. My husband's an engineer.
45:41
OK, so like what? The fuck does that matter?
45:43
His. Brain is just very engineery.
45:45
So if you understand him, the why are you offended by the
45:47
note? OK.
45:49
So anyway, here's mine. I hope you're sailing through
45:51
the day with like a little cube. Cool, love it.
45:54
OK. Whatever got you.
45:57
Can you read it? I hope you're having an awesome
45:59
day at school. Love dad all.
46:01
Right, What's the problem here? Then he says it's a cube.
46:05
He drew a cube. I said, why did you draw a cube?
46:09
And then why did you write it's a cube?
46:11
He said, 'cause that's cool. He's.
46:13
All right, I don't understand, but it's cool man.
46:15
He's. Going to think it's so cool that
46:16
there's a cube on his paper and I was like.
46:19
Maybe he's a young kid and he thinks that like the
46:21
three-dimensional space is cool that you like write it on a
46:24
piece of paper. I don't understand the logic.
46:25
Who cares? Why is his Internet worthy?
46:26
Sure, but like the it's a cube thing.
46:29
Yeah, You know, he takes us to a teacher 'cause he can't read to
46:33
read to read what it says. And so you know the teacher is
46:36
going to say, well it. Makes sense if he can't read
46:38
what it says because he's so young.
46:39
The it's a cube thing Makes more sense.
46:40
He'll think it's cute or cool because he's so young he can't
46:43
read. So he's young and he's impressed
46:44
by simple things. Becca, I hope you have an
46:46
awesome day at school. Love Dad.
46:48
It's a cube. Yeah, I could see it has all
46:51
like the little proportions on it, it's.
46:54
A it's a cube. What I was like, can you like
46:56
make it like into like a a cool character or?
46:59
It sounds like she's really trying to be relatable here,
47:01
like. Right.
47:02
Like this is how you make a cube or, you know, I don't know, just
47:06
like it's a cube. And that that really sent us
47:09
into a big old fight. Why?
47:11
What is wrong with you? That is how we ended our night
47:15
last night fighting about a Dang school note.
47:17
I know I probably hurt his feelings.
47:20
I don't understand what else was going on in your life that made
47:23
you feel like you had to fight over this note.
47:24
That's my real question because you know, sometimes people will
47:27
fight over dumb shit but like it's because they have greater
47:31
fights going on. Like is he not eating pussy or
47:33
something? Like what's the fucking problem
47:34
here? That's probably an inappropriate
47:37
comment to make, but it is what it is.
47:39
By saying that and like making his note feel like it wasn't
47:41
good and it is a good note. It's a great note, just it's a
47:45
cube is the I don't know. Either way, we worked it out.
47:51
I would be crazy if he didn't but.
47:54
I still was giggling and I have yet to ask my son how he liked
47:59
his cube that his dad made him. I'm going to ask him later.
48:04
Got it. So anyway, this is your sign to
48:07
write your kids school notes for their lunch boxes.
48:11
I guess she thought that was like super relatable or
48:13
something. I'm not relating to it but OK
48:16
because. They love them.
48:17
I get it some some people do be having different trains of
48:21
thought. Thanks girl.
48:22
OK. Does Grandma need baby clearance
48:25
now? Yes.
48:26
When did meeting the new baby get this complicated?
48:28
I don't know when people learn about boundaries.
48:31
Because this is what I'm hearing from all my friends that are so
48:34
excited to be new grandmas. One of my friends literally just
48:38
flew from Cali. Well, you're probably not a new
48:40
grandma. You're probably an old grandma.
48:42
Jenica's grandmas are typically old.
48:44
To Boston and there are all these things that have to happen
48:48
before that grandma is allowed to be near that baby.
48:50
Starting with, have you have the Tdap shot?
48:53
Yeah, I already asked the doctor because we're having a baby what
48:57
shots I'm going to make our parents get.
48:59
Yeah. Have you had the flu shot when
49:01
you get off the plane? You may need to even quarantine
49:04
for a few days if. Yes, that makes perfect sense to
49:06
me. The plane's got a bunch of
49:08
smelly people on it. I would know.
49:09
I'd take the plane. I'm the smelly person.
49:11
That's a joke. This makes perfect sense.
49:13
Most very reasonable boundary. Not you definitely have to
49:16
change your clothes yes and then when you I.
49:19
Mean you should be. Who doesn't?
49:20
You know, I changed my clothes once I before I lay in bed.
49:23
It's gross. You know what I mean?
49:24
Like, what are you doing on my day?
49:25
Clothes on outside clothes, work clothes.
49:27
Yucky. Finally, make it to your next
49:29
checkpoint. You have to call the family and
49:31
make sure that mom and baby are ready physically and mentally
49:34
for you to be there. Do not just show up.
49:37
Wow, I feel like you're saying this with an energy that that
49:40
sounds unreasonable, super reasonable.
49:43
Somebody just had it. You under probably understand
49:45
that you had a kid before. You're not always ready for
49:47
everybody. And I understand people are
49:49
excited to see the baby, but like at the end of the day, if
49:51
mom is not feeling it because she had a tough birth or
49:53
whatever, mom's not feeling it. You know, if you're, if you're
49:59
not somebody that worked your way up in somebody's life to be
50:02
like a primary, like at the hospital, you have to wait.
50:08
That's what it boils down to. And if you're not in that role
50:10
or position, I mean, that's your fault for that relationship
50:13
dynamic, you know? Yeah.
50:17
But yeah, there's a lot of rules.
50:18
It makes perfect sense. Mom's tired, baby might be
50:20
tired. Who knows baby better than mom
50:22
and dad, right? And then when you show up and
50:25
you cannot wait to pick up this little baby, yeah, you can't
50:29
kiss the baby. Do not kiss the baby or there's
50:31
going to be like nuclear family fights going on.
50:34
Absolutely 1000% germs. My wife and I are still working
50:38
out what our what our protocols are going to be, but we don't
50:42
think and no kisses on the lips for sure from grandma's or
50:46
grandpa's. But you know, they're dead so
50:48
well, one of them is my wife's dad.
50:51
Rest in peace. And then mine isn't,
50:52
unfortunately, but you know, he's not going to be kissing the
50:55
baby anyway. He tried to kiss my mom like
50:59
five years ago. He sent her, he poked her on
51:01
Facebook. They haven't talked in 30 years.
51:03
Incredible. Anyway, we're getting off topic.
51:06
Yeah, but anyway, we're going to set strong boundaries.
51:07
And even if the boundary isn't like super huge, if you can't
51:11
adhere to the boundary, then I don't want you around my kid.
51:14
Right. Like there's a bunch of
51:15
different things that we want to do, like no kisses, no hitting
51:17
for sure. Definitely no hitting We're
51:20
going to start potty training our kid as soon as possible.
51:22
So we're when they're when they're born, we're going to try
51:24
to predict their their poopy time like, oh, we just fed them.
51:26
They usually shit 5 minutes later.
51:28
Whatever. We're going to hold them over a
51:30
little baby potty for 5 minutes and if they don't go to the
51:32
bathroom, then whatever. You know, if we're going to try
51:33
to start implementing that by like the first few, you know,
51:36
few months, because, you know, I don't want to teach our baby to
51:38
shit their pants and then have to unteach the baby shitting
51:42
their pants. You know what I mean?
51:43
It makes no fucking sense. Big diaper trying to take
51:46
advantage of you. So still going to use diapers,
51:49
but you know, slowly get there. But yeah, that's what the the
51:53
boundary's about. And whatever you do, do not take
51:56
a picture and post that baby online.
51:57
I mean. Super reasonable.
52:00
That's the it's the parents responsibility and they get to
52:03
choose when and if the baby goes online.
52:05
Like, I think it's fine that you want to put your kids on social
52:07
media, especially if it's like a private little family account.
52:09
But like, it's their, they get to do that.
52:12
They are the ones that get to that, to do that, yeah.
52:14
The amount of rules going into the new parent playbook are very
52:19
mind boggling to Gen. Xers like myself.
52:22
Why the fuck is it mind boggling?
52:23
You know what makes it mind boggling is that like a lot of
52:26
old people struggle with boundaries.
52:28
I've said this like 100 times before, but old people struggle
52:30
with boundaries. You just teach them to unshoot
52:32
their prints. True.
52:35
And that's what it is. They think boundaries are rude.
52:38
It's the same thing as like, you're in a store and like an
52:40
old person walks up and like, oh, you have such a cute baby.
52:42
And if you're like, please don't touch my baby, they get offended
52:44
because it's like, oh, that's a boundary you're setting.
52:46
You know, it's like, what the hell?
52:48
But no, boundaries are very important.
52:49
And respecting boundaries is important that you're mature
52:52
enough to be able to handle a boundary even from your own kid
52:54
that's having a kid on the way that they want to orchestrate
52:57
life. So like, yeah, these are
53:00
meaningful boundaries. And frankly, I would go a step
53:03
further to say that like older people don't, don't on average,
53:06
don't care about their kids as much as you're going to care
53:08
about your kid. I think this is something people
53:10
should really keep in mind and acknowledge.
53:11
And, and my, my, my proof for that is do you guys remember the
53:13
commercials? It's 10:00 PM.
53:16
Do you know where your children are?
53:18
Think about how fucking crazy it is to have to have a commercial
53:21
asking you where your child is at 10:00 at night.
53:24
Because back in the day you would just have your, you would
53:26
send your kids out of the house like dogs and you just have them
53:29
come back to the house. You have like 8 kids and send
53:31
them all out. And hopefully four of them would
53:32
fucking grow up to be an adult, you know?
53:35
So, you know, there's a huge shift.
53:38
And so newer parents are going to be more careful and they're
53:41
going to look at the data more and information and they're
53:42
going to be more hesitant about diseases and viruses and
53:46
sicknesses and illnesses and this and that.
53:50
Yeah, you got to keep that in mind, you know, So you know, a
53:54
lot of different things to keep in mind.
53:57
Who's she a coach for though? She's a parenting coach for who?
54:00
Grandparents, What is? Telling these young parents that
54:03
grandma needs so much clearance to be near the baby.
54:05
And do we think? Logic that.
54:07
This is smart parenting or yes? Or has everyone lost their damn
54:10
minds? No, I think it's very smart
54:13
parenting, so. The idea that you think that
54:15
everyone that you're going to put around your table of life
54:18
should share your thoughts and feelings and opinions on
54:21
everything is the dumbest thing I've ever fucking heard.
54:25
Yeah, yes and no. I mean, generally the people
54:27
that are in my life, they're going to have the majority of
54:29
the same opinions. You know, like we're going to
54:32
try to believe in like good that we like baloney and we're all
54:35
white now. It depends on how extreme it is.
54:38
It's like, for instance, you know, we have disagreements on,
54:41
you know, how much salt to put on food or you know what, what
54:45
degree is, is, you know, the death penalty acceptable or
54:49
something. I don't know.
54:50
That's fine. Like if we now if, if somebody
54:52
is like, hey, I think rape's OK, I'm not going to have them at my
54:55
table. But I mean, it depends on what
54:57
the what's the topic what? Kind of a fucktard doesn't
55:00
fucking call their mom because she voted for somebody that they
55:03
didn't fucking like. Oh well that guy you're probably
55:05
talking about Trump. He's a rapist.
55:06
So if you cut your family off for voting for Trump, that's
55:09
100% valid. Like I'm sorry but no other
55:12
candidate has ever been like that before.
55:14
He's a rapist and probably raped kids on Epstein's island.
55:18
So like, I don't like, it's a, it's just, it's like this.
55:21
It's just like I'm cool virtue signal.
55:23
It's like, oh guys, I'm not really worked up over fucking
55:25
raped and and horrible and like the country's destroyed.
55:27
I'm not really up. I'm not worked up over that.
55:29
It's not a big deal to me. Look at me, guys.
55:32
No, OK, Like you're trying to just be cool because it's like,
55:36
well, I don't care. I'm really crass.
55:37
But like, you're obviously you just sit in the middle of
55:39
fucking insane and like somewhat crazy.
55:42
I mean really, let's be real, like the left is just like
55:44
whatever and the right is like a literally insane praising
55:46
pedophilia and rape. So I don't know what the fuck
55:47
we're talking about here. This woman's obviously a dumb
55:50
moron and she obviously like is fine with sexual assault so.
55:54
Are you out of your mind? That woman wiped your ass.
55:56
That woman fucking took care of you when you were fucking sick.
55:58
That. OK, and now she's a bitch.
56:00
I don't even want to tell you. Woman, no matter what she
56:02
believes, took care of you and gave you life and because she
56:05
doesn't agree with you on all the stupid things that your
56:08
fucked up brain thinks and all of the fucking group think and
56:11
all of the shit that you believe.
56:12
You guys are literally locked into group.
56:13
You guarantee that this person's like a fucking MAGA cum guzzling
56:16
bitch. Like I don't know what else to
56:17
tell you. This is definitely true.
56:19
Because she doesn't fucking fall in line with that.
56:21
You're going to cut her off if you're not adult enough to set
56:25
boundaries so that people don't maybe talk.
56:28
That is a boundary. Hey, if you voted for a rapist,
56:31
I'm not going to let you around my kids.
56:33
That makes perfect sense. Somebody with the general
56:35
sentiment, even all the rape stuff aside, somebody that like
56:38
walks into the locker rooms to girls locker rooms and like
56:41
looks at them at like whatever the vent it is, the pageants,
56:44
because he owns the place, so he could do that.
56:47
That's not somebody I want around my kid.
56:49
Why would you want to either teach young men that that's
56:50
acceptable behavior or teach young women that that's
56:52
acceptable behavior to happen to them?
56:55
That doesn't make any sense to me.
56:57
Also you look fucking stupid with a backwards hat on.
56:59
About things that you don't want them to, right?
57:01
Because I understand there's always that weird fucking uncle
57:03
who's like a real big Trump supporter or a real big fucking
57:06
whoever. The last.
57:06
Yeah, rape supporter. Democrat.
57:08
Well, I don't even fucking know. There's.
57:09
Nobody as bad as Trump is ever, like, ever that this Trump is.
57:13
Sorry, but this doesn't exist. I don't.
57:14
Even know who these fucking politicians are Because.
57:16
Because. You're a fucking stupid idiot.
57:18
This is what I'm talking about. Centrism is like a literal brain
57:20
cancer. These fucking people, they need
57:22
to be sedated. Hey guys, you know what's the
57:24
person on the left? Hey, you know what's like a good
57:26
left wing representation? The storm Mamdani.
57:28
He wants to do healthcare. What's a good right wing
57:30
representation? Trump.
57:31
He wants to. He literally goes to war with
57:34
Iran to distract from fucking Epstein files.
57:38
But what are you talking about? He's just cutting services for
57:41
old people and sick people. He's he's destroying health care
57:45
in general like people who have mad outbreaks of constantly
57:47
outbreaks of like measles and all these other different
57:49
parasites and shit because he wants to rollback shit so that
57:52
he can help big businesses so they don't have to invest as
57:56
much money into quality control. Like what are you talking about?
57:59
Like if you got you're he literally tried to insurrect the
58:01
government because political not being political is being
58:04
political. If you're not political, you're
58:06
a moron. Like, hey guys, I don't really
58:08
care about this literal threat to society.
58:10
OK, cool. Got it.
58:11
Great. I.
58:12
Think it's a fucking game and a joke and I think it's all
58:14
bullshit, but if you don't fucking like who that is or who
58:17
somebody voted for, then just say you know what?
58:19
If we could just not talk about politics at Thanksgiving, that'd
58:22
be great. Why now?
58:23
You have to talk about politics. Once I'm drunk, I'm fucking talk
58:24
about politics. It doesn't matter.
58:26
I get fucking a couple beers it. Well, a couple Cran vodka's in
58:29
and we're talking about Israel. Baby can't.
58:31
You be adult enough to have that conversation instead of blah
58:33
blah blah blah blah blah. No, you obviously you're a
58:37
terrible fucking parent in general.
58:38
I just withdrew my kids from public school.
58:40
Whoa, what happened? OK.
58:42
So I just withdrew my kids from school, from public school.
58:46
I didn't think that this is gonna go this way, that I was
58:48
gonna be crying. I'm not crying because I am sad
58:52
that I. Where you just withdrew your
58:54
kids? Where?
58:55
Why are you in the car? Where are they well to?
58:57
Them I'm crying because I feel a little bit overwhelmed, scared,
59:00
definitely. I hope that I'm doing the right
59:02
decision for them well. Why you pulling them out and I
59:04
hope. That I don't let them down.
59:07
So they're officially withdrawn from public school.
59:09
And as a homeschool beginner mom, I really hope and pray I
59:13
can do this. OK, but why did you do that all?
59:15
Right, so I'm more calm. I feel much better.
59:18
Maybe you just shouldn't have post.
59:20
Sorry you started crying and you posted the crying part after you
59:22
calmed yourself down. I feel like you should avoid
59:24
crying on the Internet, but okay so.
59:25
There's any mommies out there that have any ideas or any
59:30
suggestions or any advice that you wanna give a first time home
59:34
school mommy, please let me know.
59:36
What is her motivation for homeschooling?
59:38
Well, she's got a thing. It's a it's a content thing.
59:40
What is this? I never thought that the video
59:42
of me going to go withdraw my kids from public school was
59:45
going to go viral and much the less receive all that hate come.
59:48
Much the less means. That I receive.
59:50
Much the. Less I obviously also received
59:52
beautiful comments and encouragement which I'm so
59:55
grateful for. I'm actually she's.
59:56
Trying to be a stay at home mom content career.
59:58
I don't think she has fucking kids to.
1:00:00
Answer some questions. There's a lot of Mamas had
1:00:01
questions about why I'm homeschooling.
1:00:03
So the reason Mama then why I'm homeschooling is because my son
1:00:06
has had health issues all his life since he was born.
1:00:08
My son is actually going to go to 3rd grade, he's 8 years old
1:00:11
and I have a daughter going into kinder.
1:00:13
So since my kid I always had health issues.
1:00:15
He would only eat twice a day and since he does play baseball,
1:00:18
it was really taking a toll on him and we honestly.
1:00:23
What I don't understand was he eating twice a day because of
1:00:26
the disability he. Just had to sit down and talk
1:00:29
about what was best for him and if I'm completely honest, my
1:00:32
wouldn't. You just start with pulling him
1:00:34
out of baseball, I guess. Son was actually the one that
1:00:36
told me he wanted to get homeschooled.
1:00:38
We made that well. No shit because is your son's
1:00:40
going to be like oh homeschool sounds so much better, easier
1:00:42
and lazier than actual school. Toys.
1:00:44
And I did. Also, much the less is is making
1:00:46
it difficult for me to think that I don't know if I trust you
1:00:50
to homeschool. My research before obviously
1:00:52
pulling them out and before going into anything, I wanted to
1:00:55
make sure that this is the best fit for us.
1:00:57
So if you want to start homeschooling the first thing
1:00:59
you got to do is research the laws in your state since I live
1:01:02
in Texas all I had to do was go withdraw them from their public
1:01:05
school letting them know that I was going to homeschool.
1:01:07
So if you're a first time homeschool mommy or just a mom
1:01:10
that would like to follow our journey, I would love to have
1:01:11
you here if. Kids are cooked, man.
1:01:14
Jesus Christ, she says. She's a stay at home mom of
1:01:16
three now. Are you a baseball mom anymore?
1:01:18
Wait, oh, is the kid going to still go to baseball practice?
1:01:22
I don't know dude. This is just like weird shit.
1:01:26
This is just like weird shit that people want to be I.
1:01:28
I don't really understand the motivation behind wanting to do
1:01:30
a bunch of stay at home schooling now.
1:01:31
I I really just think people are just completely brain fucked.
1:01:33
I got pregnant at 13, had my baby at 14.
1:01:35
Here's my reasons why you would not.
1:01:37
That's crazy. I want.
1:01:38
To have a baby as a teenager. Part 2.
1:01:40
You want to know what's interesting I Part 1, I don't
1:01:44
even need this. I don't even I don't even need
1:01:46
the to to know why that's horrible.
1:01:48
It's got to be fucking insane on your body.
1:01:50
And that means that some kind of assaults probably happened, and
1:01:54
that's bad. First thing is being financially
1:01:57
stable as a. Yeah, no kidding.
1:01:59
Teenager is so freaking hard. It's probably my biggest
1:02:03
struggle. It has a Teen Mom.
1:02:06
I've tried getting on WIC and I'm on WIC but they don't cover
1:02:10
the formula that he takes so there's not really a point of
1:02:13
being on it. That sucks.
1:02:15
That's kind of ridiculous that they don't cover formula.
1:02:18
What the fuck is that? Jesus Christ.
1:02:22
He's. I couldn't find Part 1 but we're
1:02:25
doing Part 2 because I couldn't find Part 1.
1:02:26
Shut up like. Eating baby food, I guess it
1:02:29
takes a big toll on their mental health, especially as somebody
1:02:34
who's a single Teen Mom. Well, yeah, you're a fucking
1:02:38
baby with a baby, you know, like, what the hell.
1:02:40
I don't have all the help in the world and I know they, even teen
1:02:44
moms that have the dad in the picture still don't have all the
1:02:49
help that they need. Third thing is, is you're going
1:02:52
to be responsible for somebody for 18 years and literally the
1:02:56
rest of your life. They would say 18 years maybe
1:02:59
back in the day. I mean, a kid is harder now than
1:03:02
it's ever been. Like just specifically with
1:03:04
what's expected of you. Like, obviously back in the day,
1:03:06
things were harder, but having kids was easier.
1:03:08
You have like 8 and then like 4 of them would die and, like, OK,
1:03:12
free manual labor. But nowadays, you're expected to
1:03:15
know where your kids are. It's 10:00 PM.
1:03:17
You know, you'll reheard. Those commercials exist for a
1:03:19
reason because parents used to be neglectful of their children,
1:03:22
but now you're supposed to be, like, really active and present
1:03:24
with your kid. And it's like a lot more work.
1:03:27
So this is fucking tough. Even when your kid is 18.
1:03:31
They're still, oh, yeah. The point that I was making,
1:03:32
though, Excuse me? You said you're going to be
1:03:34
raising your kid. So they're like, for a while.
1:03:36
I mean, if things are as tough in the future as they are now,
1:03:38
you're going to be with your kid.
1:03:39
It's 30. I mean, people are still living
1:03:41
at home at 30. It's fucking tough out there.
1:03:42
Responsible. For them, it makes school
1:03:45
incredibly hard. I.
1:03:47
Bet. It makes going out with people
1:03:49
or going anywhere extremely hard, especially if your baby is
1:03:53
being very fussy that day and you've already planned to go to
1:03:57
the store or go out to get lunch with somebody.
1:04:00
The hope that this person has like their mom and dad with them
1:04:02
at the very least to help them. Like share some of the fucking
1:04:05
load here. It makes it extremely hard.
1:04:09
The amount of hate the teen moms get is insane and if you're not
1:04:15
used to getting hate and you let it affect you, it can affect you
1:04:20
terribly. Yeah, I get that people are
1:04:22
probably very judgmental of her in public, and they're just
1:04:25
like, what the fuck, you know, which is inappropriate.
1:04:28
Doctors will look at you very differently.
1:04:31
Anyways, I hope that this D influences the people that say
1:04:33
that they want to be a mom and their teenager.
1:04:36
I didn't know that there was a group of people that want to do
1:04:38
that. I think this is maybe better for
1:04:40
conservatives that are going to force their kids to not get an
1:04:43
abortion if it's an option, if you wanted to use it, you know
1:04:45
what I mean? Or, you know, I think that's
1:04:47
more of what it is. Of course I love my baby, but at
1:04:51
the same time. Is a cat or baby?
1:04:55
It's extremely hard. I wouldn't change it for the
1:04:58
world and I'm very excited to raise him and everything.
1:05:04
But again, it's extremely hard and financial and friends in
1:05:09
school and all that. It just makes everything 10
1:05:14
times harder so. Yeah, I bet.
1:05:18
I used to think man men were shit because they were raised
1:05:20
like shit. True men do like eating shit.
1:05:24
Whatever she said. I am starting.
1:05:25
To believe, as the parent of a little boy, that they all start
1:05:28
out like shit and they have to be raised out of it.
1:05:31
Yeah, that's kind of like how Catholicism thinks that
1:05:33
everyone's born with sin, and then you got to get drowned for
1:05:35
a little bit, and if you survive the drowning, you become a you
1:05:38
become a mortal until a girl eats an apple and you lose it.
1:05:41
Am I right? I feel like what the fuck are
1:05:44
you talking about? What?
1:05:46
My 6 year old son Oh my God a. 6 year old so just definitely not
1:05:50
a person. Yeah let's be real like 6 year
1:05:51
olds are dumb as hell. God bless, but OK.
1:05:54
He's been, he's been on one lately.
1:05:56
He's been having a really hard time with a lot of stuff.
1:05:58
Probably young boys are. Listen, I was super fucking
1:06:01
hyper and I think one of the things that we don't talk about
1:06:03
for young men, and this is one of the reasons why I think women
1:06:05
do better in school, is that like school is not really
1:06:08
designed for young men. I mean, realistically speaking,
1:06:11
a class size of let's say 30. And I know that your kids young,
1:06:14
but like you get introduced into this.
1:06:15
It is the fundamental concept I think is helpful.
1:06:18
A class size of 30, we're expected to sit there and be
1:06:20
super like calm for an entire day of school is not something
1:06:23
that a young boy can necessarily do.
1:06:24
It's a toughy. Young girls are nice and polite
1:06:27
and they're kind and they sit down and they shut the fuck up,
1:06:30
you know? But the young boys are hyper and
1:06:32
they need to get that energy out.
1:06:33
But going to school in the morning and not getting that
1:06:35
energy out, it's just difficult for a young man to focus, a
1:06:38
young man to focus. So I mean, sure, like they're
1:06:41
rambunctious, but deal with it. Fine, whatever.
1:06:46
Today I looked at him and I was like what is going on?
1:06:48
What is going on? What's the problem?
1:06:50
This boy leans back and goes. I'm just so sad that Granny T
1:06:55
died. That's my grandma.
1:06:56
That's so sad for him. He.
1:06:58
Kicked his sister in the face. Damn.
1:07:01
And then blamed it on being sad that my grandma died.
1:07:04
Did you? Hit him, got to kick him in the
1:07:06
face, you know? Two months ago.
1:07:09
Well. Sounds like he's acting out.
1:07:14
Ice. Do you have a do you have a is
1:07:16
the father in the house? I mean, I'm not trying to be a
1:07:17
fucking asshole. Are you a single mom?
1:07:20
Dude? The top video is talking about
1:07:22
how their kid is special needs. What the fuck?
1:07:25
Wait, did did she just fucking did she just this is this is
1:07:31
insane. There's.
1:07:31
Not much that chaps my ass more than getting on this app and
1:07:33
seeing a parent post something about genuinely the reality of
1:07:36
raising a special needs child, especially when they don't have
1:07:39
any help. Especially as a primary parent.
1:07:41
There's always at least one person in the comments saying
1:07:43
like how dare you call raising your special needs child
1:07:46
challenging. Come over, there's not.
1:07:51
She said come over so it's her kid and she's the primary parent
1:07:54
which means she doesn't have a dad.
1:07:57
Sorry dude, something's something's crazy going on.
1:08:02
It sounds like you are complaining that boys are just
1:08:05
inherently evil and then talking about how your boy has a is a
1:08:08
special needs child. Doesn't that sound kind of
1:08:11
fucked up? This sounds like a little some
1:08:14
kind of a boys over here. I don't know, just saying.
1:08:16
Well, it's not a single mom. That husband took a gummy and
1:08:18
put him in charge of movie night.
1:08:20
Seems irresponsible with the six year old special needs kid, but
1:08:23
this woman's a little strange. I don't know.