Latest / Chatting with The Experts with Paula Okonneh / How to Get Media Exposure
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- 0:00Hello and welcome to another episode of Chatting With Experts, where I speak with
- 0:05amazing and phenomenal women from Africa, from the Caribbean, and in the diaspora.
- 0:11Today's topic is How to Get Out There and Get Known.
- 0:16In other words, how to get media coverage and stand out online to get clients
- 0:24My guest is a powerhouse publicist, podcaster, and publisher of Speakers
- 0:30Magazine, where she transforms emerging and best-selling authors, experts,
- 0:37and entrepreneurs into standout stars.
- 0:42She's the genius behind the scenes positioning, packaging, and promoting
- 0:48top speakers, authors, brands, and subject matter experts because
- 0:56she is the CEO of pamperrypr.com.
- 1:03And with that, I want to m- welcome Pam Perry to Chatting With Experts.
- 1:11Welcome, welcome.
- 1:13Yeah.
- 1:13Thank you so much.
- 1:14Thank you so much.
- 1:15How are you?
- 1:16I am amazing.
- 1:17Couldn't be better.
- 1:18How are you?
- 1:18Good.
- 1:19Good.
- 1:20Excellent.
- 1:20Excellent.
- 1:21Thank you so much for having me.
- 1:24Absolutely.
- 1:25I know I left out pieces of your bio because everybody who I invite to the show
- 1:29has such an impressive bio, and yours-
- 1:30They can Google it, Paula.
- 1:32They can Google it.
- 1:32It's like, it's not important.
- 1:34Let's get into this conversation.
- 1:35Like, they can just, like, it doesn't even matter, like, who I am.
- 1:38It's like, "What is she gonna tell me?"
- 1:40Well, I know you're a powerhouse podcaster, like me, and well,
- 1:44when I say podcaster like me, I'm not a powerhouse podcaster.
- 1:47You are.
- 1:48But, you're here to talk about PR.
- 1:50I've been doing it a long time.
- 1:50Yes.
- 1:50We are here to talk about PR.
- 1:53Let's talk about that, Pam.
- 1:56Yeah, so public relations in terms of media coverage,
- 1:58it's a whole gamut of things.
- 2:00PR is really one spoke in the wheel for marketing.
- 2:03So before people can even buy from you, they have to be aware of
- 2:07you, so that's where PR comes in.
- 2:09All right.
- 2:10I always hear about, you know, people talk about, well, they mix up sometimes
- 2:14media and branding and public relation.
- 2:18Break that down please because, you know, it's so confusing now where
- 2:21we have so much out there to choose from, but I know there's more to what
- 2:28you're doing than what people think.
- 2:32they all fit together, so yes, it is true that PR, media, public relations
- 2:37can be a lot of different things.
- 2:39It could be crisis communications.
- 2:41It could be public relations in terms of what it is a person is doing on
- 2:47stage, what is your PR positioning.
- 2:50And then also, you can't really get PR or media coverage unless you have a brand.
- 2:56So when I say you have a brand, you have a platform, you have
- 2:59what people think about you.
- 3:00So if you were to pitch, say, Oprah, and they'll say, "Well, what is their
- 3:04hook? What is their angle? What is their brand?" They're gonna Google
- 3:07you, and basically that Google is your North Star about how you stand,
- 3:12how the media's gonna look at you.
- 3:13Because Google doesn't lie,
- 3:14right?
- 3:15So they wanna see what it is that you have, that other assets, whether it's
- 3:19your speaker reels, your podcast, whether you've been featured in
- 3:23online magazines like Madame Noire, or you've been in Essence Magazine,
- 3:27or if you've been in Time Magazine.
- 3:29They want to see the digital footprint that you have, and that all kind
- 3:34of blends together your brand.
- 3:38Once you have a brand, it's easy then to pitch you to the media
- 3:41because they don't ever wanna bring anybody brand new to their platform.
- 3:45They want some kind of cache in your name, some kind of little
- 3:48bit of notoriety in your name.
- 3:50So that's really where that is.
- 3:52And then marketing is the whole thing, like, well, why do you want to have PR?
- 3:56Because you want to either sell a book, get people to an event,
- 4:01subscribe to something, get them in some kind of action.
- 4:05And so I always say it goes with the whole AIDA, Awareness,
- 4:09Interest, Desire and Action.
- 4:11That's something I've learnt in college.
- 4:13Awareness, meaning like getting people aware of you, then getting
- 4:17them interested in you, then desiring what it is that you want them to
- 4:21do, and then finally taking action.
- 4:23So that's the AIDA method.
- 4:25It's an old, you know, I just remember that from way, from steps from way back.
- 4:29But the hardest thing today is getting awareness, getting people
- 4:33to give you their attention.
- 4:35Even with all what we have?
- 4:37I mean, now, this is not like 30 years ago.
- 4:39Noisy.
- 4:39Mm-hmm.
- 4:40It's very noisy now.
- 4:41We have too many things, too many choices.
- 4:43It's very noisy.
- 4:45Before, it was like, okay, we have, like, TV stations, ABC, CBS
- 4:50and NBC, and then televisions went off, I think probably at midnight.
- 4:54Mm-hmm.
- 4:54Right now we have, it's 24 hours.
- 4:56It's seven and we got streaming, we got Plus television.
- 4:59We have Tubi, we have YouTube.
- 5:01We have so many options.
- 5:03We have Roku, Apple TV, Amazon Fire.
- 5:06And so people really can watch what they wanna watch when they wanna watch it.
- 5:10So I'd just like to just thank anyone who's watching right now
- 5:14because time is a very big commodity.
- 5:16It's the most expensive thing.
- 5:18And so I just appreciate people who do give their time really watching
- 5:22something, because there's a million other choices, a million other things
- 5:26that they could be watching on their phone, on their tablet, on their laptop.
- 5:30So it is the number one thing, getting attention.
- 5:33That's why TikTok took off so fast, because it was very big
- 5:38on getting people's attention.
- 5:41Yes.
- 5:41So how do you transform, you know, like someone that's doing.
- 5:44One of the things that you, I noticed is that you transform emergent.
- 5:48So if someone's emergent, they should come to you as a author…
- 5:52yeah
- 5:52as an expert.
- 5:53Yeah.
- 5:53When I say to you- Not really.
- 5:56Yeah, not really.
- 5:56I don't do PR.
- 5:57Like, I don't do publicity for people who are emerging.
- 5:59Okay.
- 5:59I help people get to the point where they are going to need a publicist.
- 6:03Gotcha.
- 6:04So a lot of times people say, "Oh, well if I just get a publicist, it will he-…"
- 6:08Well, a publicist then has to help you with maybe your website, helping
- 6:11you with your photos, helping you get together your offers.
- 6:16All of those things that lead up to, like, okay, a publicist.
- 6:19Like, I'm working with a, someone who has done marketing, not marketing,
- 6:24but someone who has done work with Jill Scott and Issa Rae and Will
- 6:28Smith, and that sort of thing.
- 6:29She already has a brand.
- 6:30So basically I can call a TV and radio station and say,
- 6:33"Hey, let's book her." Okay?
- 6:35She has a brand already.
- 6:36She has a name.
- 6:36She's been out there.
- 6:38Versus someone who's just starting, it's hard to really sell them in
- 6:43because they're just starting.
- 6:44Mm-hmm.
- 6:44But in order to be sold in, you have certain things that you need, steps that
- 6:49you need to get ready, set, go and speak.
- 6:52So I tell people, I said, "In order to get ready, one of the things you gotta get
- 6:55your mindset right. You gotta understand what it is you're going to do, what is
- 6:58your offering, all that kind of thing." Set phase, getting the assets together.
- 7:04Professional headshots, even if you're gonna be doing Zoom.
- 7:07Professional camera, getting your lighting together, all those things.
- 7:11speaker reel, speaker, media kit, press release.
- 7:14That's the set phase.
- 7:15And then go, how to pitch.
- 7:17Who do you pitch to?
- 7:18What do you say?
- 7:18What are some of the things?
- 7:19And then speaking on stages, what that's involved, how to really pull that
- 7:24together because then that's a whole nother thing that people have to do.
- 7:27So, there's two sectors of people.
- 7:28People who need to work with a publicist but they need to get ready, so I
- 7:32have, like, a program for that, and then those that are really ready, and
- 7:35then I work with them getting them booked into the main places where
- 7:39they need to be, whether it's Oprah Essence or online publication, whether
- 7:44it's The Root, those kind of things.
- 7:46Depending on their platform of what is how to match them to the
- 7:50media that makes sense for them.
- 7:52And that's where a lot of people don't have clarity, so then they have to
- 7:56go and, like, let's work with where you're going because if you don't
- 7:59have clarity, then I can't book you.
- 8:01So the publicist doesn't say, "Well, what do you do?
- 8:04Let me, let's figure this out for you." The publicist wants to
- 8:07just pitch you and get you on.
- 8:09Where someone else who doesn't have that clarity, they have
- 8:11a whole lot of work to do.
- 8:14That's kinda like a fallacy.
- 8:15People like, "Oh, I just need a publicist to work that out." It's
- 8:18like, I don't have a magic wand to really do all that for you, okay?
- 8:22It's just like I try to help you, but the magic is not in the magic wand.
- 8:27It's really, like, getting clarity first, the foundational things.
- 8:31Got you.
- 8:32So listening to you, so you would work adjacent with someone who could, l- like
- 8:37a coach, for example, who would help that person get clarity with where they
- 8:42wanna go, and then once they have that clarity, then you can work with them.
- 8:46Yeah, once they have the clarity and the assets.
- 8:48And the assets, of course.
- 8:50Mm.
- 8:50Okay.
- 8:51All right, got you.
- 8:52And then you-
- 8:52They need assets
- 8:54All right.
- 8:54Do you… So question for you.
- 8:57So do you do things like, well, maybe not, 'cause I was gonna say,
- 9:00like, personality, you know, the personality testing and so on.
- 9:04That's not you because-
- 9:06No
- 9:07mm, mm, mm, mm.
- 9:07Yeah.
- 9:08At a certain point in time they come already ready, and they're-
- 9:10Okay … an expert already.
- 9:12They just need packaging.
- 9:13Uh-huh.
- 9:14So the packaging and the promotion is what a publicist would do, help you with.
- 9:18So a lot of times publicists will work with stylists, because sometimes
- 9:22people need an entire brand.
- 9:24So it's not like, "Oh, I'm gonna run out and do a photo shoot." Okay, well,
- 9:28I put together, I have in my Ready, Set, Go a brand photo shoot planner, because
- 9:32a photographer can only take pictures based on what you come up with and what
- 9:38you say you wanna use these photos for.
- 9:40So photo shoot planner will talk about poses and the kind of props that you
- 9:45may need, the kind of colors that go with your brand, maybe a background,
- 9:50maybe behind-the-scenes photos of you, maybe in action at work, on the stage.
- 9:55So it's all-inclusive.
- 9:56So when you're doing a photo shoot, it's not just like, oh, just get a photographer
- 10:00out there, but that's part of the PR of it because we need those photos.
- 10:04You're gonna spend two or three hours with the photographer.
- 10:06We're going to need those photos.
- 10:07You're gonna need your makeup, your hair, your styling, all of the things,
- 10:11the props, whether you have a magic wand or you have a prop of a microphone
- 10:16if you're gonna be a podcaster.
- 10:17You know, that kind of thing.
- 10:18So props that I tell you that you need to bring.
- 10:20That's what the whole holistic thing about a publicist that can work with
- 10:25you, because you have that clarity.
- 10:27So then it's like, okay, these are the things that we need, but the foundation
- 10:31of it is just getting in that ready phase.
- 10:32And also, too, when someone starts getting a lot of PR, they can expect some things
- 10:38to change, how people see them, and then also how they see themselves as well.
- 10:45That's important 'cause they're two different angles.
- 10:50How people see them and how they see themselves-
- 10:53Mm-hmm
- 10:54… you know?
- 10:56Yeah, if someone sees themselves, say I may book them on a Times Square.
- 11:01The, uh, a billboard.
- 11:02A billboard.
- 11:03Mm-hmm.
- 11:03And they go and they see themselves.
- 11:05It's a different way where other people are seeing them, but also it translates,
- 11:09like, how they see themselves now.
- 11:11wow.
- 11:12Yeah, I have arrived.
- 11:15I really am what I say I am.
- 11:17so those are the kind of things when I put people in… I remember I had one
- 11:20client that I had on a billboard in, you know, in Detroit, in a big, large
- 11:25billboard, and she was just flabbergasted.
- 11:29Driving down the street one day and seeing herself on that billboard.
- 11:32She's like, "Oh my God, that's me." And, you know, I see it in people
- 11:35anyway for them, but now for them to see them themselves is really
- 11:39transformational for me, seeing, having them see themselves like that.
- 11:42Or even just the cover of a magazine.
- 11:44You know, sometimes people say, "Oh, you know, I see, you know, the
- 11:47cover of the magazine, you know."
- 11:49Melody, she was also on Times Square.
- 11:51She saw herself on the Times Square as well.
- 11:54And, it just translated how she saw herself.
- 11:57Now, she was a business person, she was a coach.
- 11:59But now seeing herself more like that, celebrity CEO is really kind of funny to
- 12:05see people see themselves now as that.
- 12:07I was like, "Yeah, that's what you are now."
- 12:11So another person or another, professional you'll probably have to have in your
- 12:15toolkit would be like a, this may sound out of, may sound out of the world,
- 12:21out of this world, is like a therapist.
- 12:23Someone to now tell them, "Okay, now you're at this point. This is how
- 12:26you now, you need to walk in that."
- 12:29Because you may see yourself like, okay, this is the point you wanna
- 12:32get to, but you know, it's like when you get there now, it's how
- 12:34to now walk in that limelight,
- 12:37It is.
- 12:37That's a big, big part of it.
- 12:39I will tell people I'm a publicist not a therapist, but you may need
- 12:42a therapist after working with a publicist because there are some
- 12:44things, the mental things that go on.
- 12:46And, one of the things is that there's a saying that says, " Oh, don't believe,
- 12:51you're believing your own hype." Because they say publicists hype you up.
- 12:55we are.
- 12:55We're supposed to put your best foot forward.
- 12:57Uh, we put out the hype, all those things.
- 13:00But at the end of the day, we're still the same people.
- 13:03We're regular people.
- 13:04But the publicist puts out the hype for you.
- 13:07You don't live in the hype.
- 13:08The hype is just what we do.
- 13:10You don't live in the hype, so don't believe the hype.
- 13:12You're not gonna be in the hype state all the time.
- 13:15You're not always gonna be on the billboard all the time.
- 13:17You're not always gonna be on the cover of the magazine all the time.
- 13:20So I always tell people, I said, "Do not take this literally. It is
- 13:25just what we do, and that is just for that moment, because you're only
- 13:30as good as the next PR outlet hit." So yeah, you could be great today.
- 13:36Don't live in that, because people forget it tomorrow.
- 13:40Yeah, that's why people have to do PR all the time, because it's one media hit to
- 13:43the next.
- 13:45That's reality.
- 13:46That's the world.
- 13:47It's the I-N-G, and it's marketing.
- 13:49It's I-N-G.
- 13:50It's not just like, "Oh, I marketed once." Okay, well we gotta keep doing it.
- 13:54McDonald's does marketing all the time.
- 13:56Ford Motor Company markets all the time.
- 13:58Even though we know those brands, it's something we have to do all the time.
- 14:01And so you have to find a new twist, new angle, new way of getting
- 14:07refreshed in front of an audience that is like, "Oh yeah, I heard about
- 14:10them." Okay, well, no, this is new.
- 14:12This is different.
- 14:15Now that brings me to a question about Speakers Magazine.
- 14:19That's how I got to know about you.
- 14:22Tell me more about that.
- 14:23So I started it because, a lot of the magazines would not feature my clients.
- 14:28So I said, okay, instead of waiting to ask, be asked to the
- 14:31table, create our own table, and that's what Speakers Magazine was.
- 14:34So I basically put together a magazine where Les Brown's been on the cover,
- 14:40Kim Coles, those kind of people, and then people in between that you haven't
- 14:44heard of that are really amazing speakers, but they have to hold events.
- 14:47They hold signature events, and those are the people that are on the cover.
- 14:51People who are on the cover have signature events, and the magazine
- 14:54is circulated at their events.
- 14:55Given to people at their events.
- 14:57In between are other speakers that are, go along with that theme.
- 15:01If it's leadership, then people who speak on leadership are in that magazine.
- 15:05If it's about wealth building, then people who talk about
- 15:08wealth are in that magazine.
- 15:09September is our magazine for self-improvement, self-improvement month,
- 15:14so people who are therapists or people who help other people improve their
- 15:18lives, that's the theme of that magazine.
- 15:20On the cover is Mike Quinn.
- 15:21He has a book launch coming out.
- 15:23He does events.
- 15:24Those are the kind of things.
- 15:26August is a magazine that's gonna be at Martha's Vineyard.
- 15:30those are the people at the Martha's Vineyard African American
- 15:33Film Festival, so people who are interested in that field.
- 15:36But it's so many.
- 15:37I've been doing it 10 years.
- 15:39It's so many amazing speakers, and they're on the website
- 15:43speakersmagazine.com.
- 15:45They're in the physical issue.
- 15:47You know, whether they're in the physical issue or they are, in the issue,
- 15:53what I call, like, the online issue.
- 15:55The online issue online, not the website, but the online issue have
- 15:59speakers' reels embedded into there.
- 16:02Because so many times people say, "Well, I don't know how to find a speaker."
- 16:05Well, here's Speakers Magazine.
- 16:07Go online, watch their speaker reel, and you can book people here.
- 16:11Inside the magazine is, like, who they are, what they do, what are
- 16:14their speaking topics, and then their reels are there, so you can hear it.
- 16:18A reel is, like, two minutes and 30 seconds.
- 16:20So Speakers Magazine's run into 10 years.
- 16:23The last four years we've done Speak Sell Shine to help people
- 16:26get their speaker reels together, their photos and all of that.
- 16:29So yeah, I'm excited about this because this is where so many people…
- 16:34Laticia Nicole speaks every week now.
- 16:36She's speaking every week.
- 16:38She's been on the cover three times.
- 16:39She holds events and that sort of thing.
- 16:41She has books.
- 16:43but it's a way where the general media may not have picked her up.
- 16:49So we, we pick it up.
- 16:51Senita's another one.
- 16:52She's in the Washington DC area, but she has a wonderful story, and she
- 16:58speaks, and she's speaking, I think at the Urban League is where she's
- 17:01speaking at their national conference.
- 17:02And she just has been doing really, really well.
- 17:05But again, the traditional media would not pick up those kind of things.
- 17:11Yolanda, another one.
- 17:13She launched her book and launched an event.
- 17:16Again, this kind of like helped set her on the map of where she's going.
- 17:21People who were in here were speakers, other speakers
- 17:23that were at her conference.
- 17:25So she had a conference, and then within this were other people
- 17:29who were at her conference.
- 17:30So that was really the whole point of it, and I made it
- 17:33this size because I miss Jet.
- 17:36If anybody remember Jet, it was Ebony Magazine, and then there
- 17:39was Jet, and Jet was like the small size of pocketbook size.
- 17:41Yeah, the magazine.
- 17:41Mm-hmm.
- 17:41And that was the size I wanted to make it.
- 17:44Easy to carry, easy to consume.
- 17:47Okay.
- 17:47All right.
- 17:48Woo.
- 17:49All right.
- 17:49Thanks for explaining what that was, what that's about.
- 17:52I saw your face light up, and so I knew I had to bring that up.
- 17:56Uh, yeah.
- 17:57I have a ton of them over here.
- 17:59I have a ton of them.
- 18:01This lady here is doing so well.
- 18:02She's in the DMV area, and she has a YouTube channel, oh my God, Wyevetra,
- 18:07and just really started speaking.
- 18:09As soon as she was on the cover, she started speaking at
- 18:11a group called, women's ministry groups and women in government.
- 18:15She started speaking, and she's just on fire.
- 18:17She just needed exposure.
- 18:19That's really what it is.
- 18:20I wanted people to just get out there and get known.
- 18:23That's really the whole point.
- 18:24They were already good.
- 18:25They just needed to be on other platforms.
- 18:28On other platforms.
- 18:30And that's part of what you do.
- 18:31You say you work hard to get your clients.
- 18:36Help your client's brand and get paid like a superstar.
- 18:40Yeah.
- 18:40And that's what you do.
- 18:41You get them-
- 18:42Yes
- 18:42… get exposed, get exposure, get paid, which is important, and so
- 18:47that they can continue to do what they're passionate and good at doing.
- 18:52Mm-hmm.
- 18:53And, you know, get other people out there aware.
- 18:56'Cause as you said, AIDA, awareness, desiring-
- 18:59Interest.
- 19:00… and action.
- 19:01Yes, yeah.
- 19:02Is a lot of things that you need.
- 19:02They have to have awareness, then they have to be interested, then
- 19:05they have to desire it, and then they have to take the action.
- 19:07So it's AIDA.
- 19:08It- it's definitely- A-
- 19:09A-I-D, I missed the I. Yeah.
- 19:11Okay.
- 19:11yeah.
- 19:11That is so, so key.
- 19:13Every touchpoint of your brand is something where people are looking
- 19:17at and, lack of better word, judging.
- 19:20Mm-hmm.
- 19:20And, it's can be something as simple as your Zoom camera, something as
- 19:25simple as your voicemail message.
- 19:27Sometimes you'll just say, "Well, you know, I didn't set up my
- 19:29voicemail message." Well, no, leave that voicemail message when
- 19:32people call if they don't get you.
- 19:34Make it exciting.
- 19:35Make it so that they know a little bit more about you.
- 19:39Drive people to your website.
- 19:41You know, "Hey, I'm not here right now, but go to pamperrypr.com. You can download
- 19:45my free ABC, da da da. And then in the next, 24, 48 hours I'll get back to you."
- 19:52I love that.
- 19:53But at this point in time, at least they know what they can do in the meantime.
- 19:58I love that, and that's a simple thing to do.
- 20:01Yeah.
- 20:01Everybody has voicemail.
- 20:03Everybody's got… For now, right?
- 20:05Yeah.
- 20:05At least for now.
- 20:06yeah.
- 20:07Yeah.
- 20:08Ooh, I could talk with you forever, but I'm looking at the time.
- 20:11So for those who have joined us, and those who are listening later
- 20:14on or viewing this on YouTube, how can they get in touch with you?
- 20:18pamperrypr.com.
- 20:20That is where they'll find all the things.
- 20:23Everything.
- 20:24And I even have it at the bottom of my screen here on the Zoom.
- 20:27I always tell people, too, that's a little trick.
- 20:29I said, "You know, sometimes you can just put in your name, but sometimes
- 20:32put in your website," because people are staring at these little boxes
- 20:34and they're just staring and staring.
- 20:36Stare, let them stare, and then let them have them go somewhere and do something.
- 20:40Okay.
- 20:41So pamperrypr.com is right there on there.
- 20:43It's a branding touchpoint.
- 20:44And then once you're… Obviously, if they go to the website, the website
- 20:47is good, it'll convert, meaning that, people will take an action there.
- 20:52You know, whether they connect with you or they download something
- 20:54free or they buy, you know?
- 20:56Love it.
- 20:57And I always tell people, I said, "Have a buy button on your website."
- 20:59That's kinda like the point.
- 21:01Love it.
- 21:01I need to change mine.
- 21:02I just have my name, so.
- 21:05Note to self.
- 21:06And for those of you who are listening online or those who've joined us,
- 21:10if you'd like to be a guest on my show just like pamperrypr.com, and
- 21:17that's how I found her actually.
- 21:18I was on LinkedIn and I saw her, and I was like pamperrypr.com.
- 21:23Pr.com.
- 21:23Mm-hmm.
- 21:24Yeah, reached out to her and I asked her, and she said, "Yep." So if
- 21:28you'd like to be a guest on my show without me having to go to LinkedIn,
- 21:32reach out to me on my website which is chattingwiththeexperts.com.
- 21:36I'm also on LinkedIn, and my business page there is Chatting With the Experts.
- 21:41On Instagram you can find me, and my handle is @chat_experts_podcast.
- 21:49I am also on Facebook, which is chattingwiththeexperts.com, and on YouTube
- 21:57please subscribe to our channel, which is chattingwiththeexperts.com, and there
- 22:02you'll be able to listen to this interview if you missed it, that is if you're not
- 22:06in the audience, and all of the other phenomenal women who have shared their
- 22:12expertise just like she did with you.
- 22:14And now for those of you who are in the audience, join us and ask her all the
- 22:20questions that I have not remembered to ask her or totally skipped my mind.
- 22:26Thank you, Pam, for being a guest on Chatting With the Experts.
- 22:29Thank you so much.
- 22:30Thank you.
- 22:30Thank you so much, Paula, really appreciate it.
- 22:33Absolutely.