Latest / Success Story with Scott Clary / Tommy Mello - $1 Billion Company Founder (A1 Garage Doors) | Why Control Keeps You Small
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- 0:00I was washing dishes under the table for $4 an hour.
- 0:03I moved to Arizona when I was 16.
- 0:05I found a really good guy.
- 0:06He understood a little bit about finance and just a hard worker.
- 0:09That was when I found an integrator and the business started to fly.
- 0:11What starts as a small service business can become a legacy.
- 0:15If you chase mastery instead of shortcuts,
- 0:17Tommy Mello began with a garage door company buried in $50,000 of debt and no road map.
- 0:23The garage door industry is one of the hardest industries.
- 0:24It's a low ticket average.
- 0:25If you look at the most billionaires, they're not happy people.
- 0:28I'd say 80% of them.
- 0:29Because they became obsessed and they're obsessed with the wrong things.
- 0:32You got to be able to like reflect and think,
- 0:34what are the main goals here?
- 0:35What do I want my life to look like?
- 0:36But you got to have purpose.
- 0:37You never want to lose purpose.
- 0:39He worked around the clock, learned every hard lesson in the book
- 0:42and transformed that business into a $200 million home service empire
- 0:46with hundreds of employees across multiple states.
- 0:49Tommy doesn't just teach growth, he's lived it.
- 0:51You need to love yourself first.
- 0:52And if you don't love yourself, there's no point in doing anything.
- 0:55You'll never show up for anything you care about.
- 0:57If you don't start to find that in your piece and think you deserve more.
- 0:59Time management is the best skill.
- 1:01Focus on time management.
- 1:04Focus on how to be more efficient with your time.
- 1:06And learning how to delegate, you got to ask more questions.
- 1:09Be more curious.
- 1:10We willing to do the work.
- 1:11No matter how good your success is, be curious.
- 1:13Go learn more.
- 1:24Tommy, welcome to Miami.
- 1:26Thanks for coming down.
- 1:27It's human here.
- 1:28It's a little bit more human than Arizona.
- 1:31I want people to know where you came from.
- 1:34Because you have a really interesting origin story.
- 1:37And interesting in the way that I think that when somebody looks like you know,
- 1:42at you and all you've built, they can make the assumption
- 1:45that you had a leg up or a help in hand or something that got you off the ground
- 1:50when you were young.
- 1:51Now I know your story.
- 1:52I know that you didn't come from.
- 1:54I'm thinking about a leg up ring.
- 1:55A leg up, right?
- 1:56I know that you didn't come from, you didn't come from a family of entrepreneurs.
- 2:01You didn't come from somebody who gave you a hand there.
- 2:03You didn't come from like a dad who got you into the family business, anything like that.
- 2:07You had like a pretty, a rags to riches to a degree.
- 2:11Yeah.
- 2:12So talk to me about, talk to me about your family, talk to me about where you came from
- 2:15and talk to me about sort of how that shaped who you are.
- 2:19Well, my grandpa worked at General Motors in return to 1974.
- 2:2512 kids and you know, they were all raised in a small house in Royal Oak.
- 2:30My mom grew up in Detroit, very small house, five kids.
- 2:35Grandpa left my grandma, she knocked on doors, figured out a way to make it work.
- 2:40My parents got a divorce when I was seven and my dad went through his trials, still
- 2:45didn't be my best man in my wedding, amazing dad.
- 2:48Time had to be super competitive, no second place, we don't get a word through that.
- 2:52But, you know, mom worked three jobs.
- 2:55We went to church, they'd help us out with Thanksgiving and Christmas.
- 2:58And I learned if I wanted to do anything, I had a shovel snow in my lawns back then.
- 3:03It's hard work.
- 3:04And then when you turn 12, I was washing dishes under the table for $4 an hour.
- 3:10But I was happy to do it.
- 3:11I walked straight to the Brookies Clubhouse from middle school.
- 3:15And, you know, I moved to Arizona when I was 16.
- 3:19I wanted to be close to my dad, you know, puberty, my buddies in Michigan.
- 3:23That time I got a job as a busboy and I was a lifeguard.
- 3:27And then I started up, Lance gave me a business, got that at the 30,000 a month.
- 3:32That's the first step in entrepreneurship.
- 3:34It was hard because I'm allergic to grass.
- 3:37And what I used to go do is water conservation analysis and tell them how much water they could save
- 3:41because we're in the desert.
- 3:42And then my roommate, we were paying $700 total for rent and tempi,
- 3:48where ASU is.
- 3:49And he's like, can you paint crossroads for me?
- 3:52I got this great job managing the scratch for a company.
- 3:54I was like, what does it pay?
- 3:55And at this point, I'm bartending.
- 3:57I still got the landscaping company.
- 3:59I'm serving tables and going to school.
- 4:01But I still have time.
- 4:02I'm more alcoholic.
- 4:03So I was like, he's like a hundred bucks a door.
- 4:05You got to pay for the paint.
- 4:07So I was taking home about 80 bucks of that.
- 4:10And I got paint ten doors a day.
- 4:11I went through the yellow book called Every Single Company.
- 4:13I could became their number one painter.
- 4:15And as I'm meeting all these guys, this is 2005 and 2006.
- 4:18I'm like, how much are you making a year?
- 4:19They're like six figures.
- 4:21And I was like, man, I gotta look into this.
- 4:23My other roommate said, we should start a garage door business.
- 4:25I knew how to do an EIN.
- 4:27I knew how to get in the yellow book.
- 4:29I knew how to get an LLC.
- 4:30I understood how to pay taxes, just general stuff.
- 4:33But didn't really know the full grasp of business.
- 4:37So we made ends meet, but it was still a struggle.
- 4:40In 2010, I was like, look, there's a lot of debt on this business.
- 4:43Either you could take the business or I'll take it.
- 4:47But it was a going, okay?
- 4:49It was okay.
- 4:50I mean, we were paying our bills.
- 4:53Any cash job we took.
- 4:54It's over seven years so I could say that.
- 4:57We split amongst each other.
- 4:59But it was the bills kept adding up more than we were making.
- 5:03And so he said, listen, you could take the business,
- 5:06but you got to take the debt.
- 5:07Anything that comes later is yours.
- 5:10I said, fine.
- 5:11And I called my mom.
- 5:12I was like, hey, mom, I need somebody I can trust out here.
- 5:15So my mom and stepdad sold their home in Michigan came.
- 5:18And I'm three years into the business had about five good employees,
- 5:22but I was still running the majority of jobs.
- 5:24I was doing the recruiting, the training, the marketing.
- 5:26I didn't like doing payroll and I didn't like the phones.
- 5:29Actually, the phones became super annoying to me.
- 5:32Even though I knew it was a money job calling,
- 5:34I mean, I took, you know, I would book 15 calls a day,
- 5:37while on a ladder at the customer's house.
- 5:40So at this point, just you were always, I don't know,
- 5:44you were just okay with hard work.
- 5:46You were always okay with hard work.
- 5:47And it's so interesting because it seems like hard work got you to a certain point,
- 5:51but then at some point held you back too.
- 5:54Yeah, I always say the hustler had to die for the leader to be born.
- 5:58So at this point, you're doing every job in the business, more or less.
- 6:01Yeah, listen, I was a janitor.
- 6:03There was people stealing toilet paper at the time.
- 6:05Like I was like, Mom, what happened to all the toilet paper?
- 6:08We found a guy who was taking all of our toilet paper,
- 6:11but they were taking everything.
- 6:12They were stealing parts, stealing tools.
- 6:15You know, at this point, I didn't own the trucks.
- 6:17So they come up, they had to provide their own trucks.
- 6:20And I mean, it was, it was tough, man.
- 6:22I walked in.
- 6:24This is a couple of years in when my mom started there.
- 6:26So like 2012, by the way, when she moved out,
- 6:28I said, I'm going to get a master's degree.
- 6:30So I started an executive master's degree at U of A.
- 6:32So that 18 months, which I was doing a lot.
- 6:36And in 2014, and there's so many other stories,
- 6:39but 2014, I found a really good guy.
- 6:42He had taken a pile from the airlines.
- 6:45He was a mutual friend.
- 6:46He understood a little bit about finance and just a hard worker.
- 6:49And I said, listen, if you come in and you could be the bad cop,
- 6:52I'll take care of the marketing, I'll do the training,
- 6:54all grow the business.
- 6:55I need somebody that understands how to set up the CRM,
- 6:58basically work on the back end office,
- 7:00deal with the lawyers and different things we need with the CPAs.
- 7:03Like, dude, no problem.
- 7:04And that was Adam Cronenberg, amazing guy.
- 7:08That was when I found an integrator and the business started to fly.
- 7:112017, I started a podcast on the right CRM and met the right advisor.
- 7:17And that was like a triple, like that was a home run.
- 7:20Because the advisor taught me about system,
- 7:23standard operating procedures, checklist, how to build manuals.
- 7:26So I've repeated, I built a repeatable system.
- 7:30And then the podcast, I could get anybody I wanted in the home service industry,
- 7:33because it was early in podcasts.
- 7:34So they were like, yeah, I'll come on your podcast.
- 7:36Like I'd get a $20,000 an hour person for an hour for free.
- 7:39It just, it was my show.
- 7:41So I was like, teach me, teach me, teach me.
- 7:44And I take notes and every 40 podcasts I've done, I'd hired somebody.
- 7:48Still to this day, every 40, that's just the average for me.
- 7:50Every four, sometimes it's every 20, sometimes it's every 60.
- 7:53So the CRM works great.
- 7:56And I started just diving into marketing.
- 7:59I wouldn't visited every $100 million Hatt Shop
- 8:01that there is in the United States at the time.
- 8:04And they let me in with open arms.
- 8:05And they were like, dude, we've heard about you.
- 8:07We've heard about the podcast.
- 8:08I wrote a book called the Home Service Millionaire.
- 8:12And then a few more key hires in 2020.
- 8:15And you know, 2022, we did a partial exit.
- 8:19I sold half the business well over 500 million.
- 8:24And there's 100 million slotted out for 24 people at A1.
- 8:28That earned it.
- 8:28And like I think people need to understand,
- 8:30like the level that you're playing at now.
- 8:32You pay 24 people, $100 million.
- 8:35Yeah, well, look, at the end of the day,
- 8:37now the companies worth over $2 billion.
- 8:39And I feel like we're still in the fetal stages.
- 8:43Like, now that I understand the rules of the game,
- 8:45I understand arbitrage, how multiples work, how EBITDA works.
- 8:49It's like a huge amount of leverage, yeah.
- 8:51The garage industry is one of the hardest industries.
- 8:54The reason why it's a low-ticket average.
- 8:56It's not like an HHEC unit, you're selling for 15 grand,
- 8:58a roof, you're selling for 30 grand, a hot water heater,
- 9:00seven grand.
- 9:02And people are like, yeah, well, you go to home,
- 9:03deep bowl and buy a cheaper than that.
- 9:04But that's what they charge to come to your house
- 9:05the same day and fix a leak.
- 9:07You know, I got a buddy in Ohio that does really bad leaks
- 9:11with like under your concrete.
- 9:14I mean, he charged in 40, 50 grand a pop.
- 9:16My average ticket is 1200.
- 9:19So I run 25,000 jobs a month.
- 9:22I mean, we've got a, we've got 1,050 employees.
- 9:27So, and the crazy thing is we're this month,
- 9:31we got 54 brand new technicians.
- 9:34And I don't see us slowing down.
- 9:35So we'll probably go to 60 to 70.
- 9:38Next year, I'd like to hit 100 a month by probably Q4.
- 9:41100 brand new guys coming on, learning the trade,
- 9:44getting a brand new van, getting the tools,
- 9:46and having the work for them to be able to support them.
- 9:49So what now, now you have built a business that is bigger
- 9:53than most people will ever build.
- 9:54Not many people build a two point.
- 9:56What was it? 2.4?
- 9:57It's 2.2 billion.
- 9:58So right now, we're at, you know,
- 10:00the multiples are really high in our industry
- 10:01because it's demand-driven.
- 10:03COVID doesn't slow it down.
- 10:04Nothing really slows down.
- 10:05But the point is give yourself a little bit of credit
- 10:07regardless of the multiples.
- 10:08But I will say that the teamwork makes the dream work.
- 10:12And, you know, I've got a lot of ideas.
- 10:14I'm very patient now.
- 10:15I'm disciplined, but my team is everything.
- 10:18Like, I can't take near the credit of what they do.
- 10:21They run the business.
- 10:22I'm here in Miami with you.
- 10:23I'm more of the thought leader,
- 10:25and I'm really close to my technicians and installers.
- 10:28Like, 17 years into the business, 17 million dollars.
- 10:30Like, you need some systems to get there.
- 10:33You can't just build that through just sheer hard work.
- 10:36So what is he looking at that you as a young entrepreneur
- 10:40at the time think is system?
- 10:41Like, you're saying, like, you know,
- 10:43you don't have security on the warehouse
- 10:46and people can steal your stuff.
- 10:47But what is the difference between a system
- 10:50that gets you to 17 to 20 million
- 10:52versus a system that gets you to 500 million over one billion?
- 10:56Like, there's different systems for every level.
- 10:58And you thought, because I know you thought you had some at the time.
- 11:01Yeah, so here's the deal.
- 11:03I'd worked 24, 7 on holidays.
- 11:05I was putting out fires constantly.
- 11:07And I was like, the problem is when you get to that level
- 11:10of that kind of revenue with really crappy systems,
- 11:14it's always a dog fight.
- 11:16It's always you walk in and there's always bad news.
- 11:19And there's a guy that's driving down a suspended license,
- 11:22a truck flipped over.
- 11:24The police are here because, you know, the drug test,
- 11:26we didn't get the drug tested and we hired a guy.
- 11:29Three months in the drug test came back.
- 11:31There's a foul and we hired.
- 11:32We didn't have, we didn't document things properly.
- 11:36And either there's no system in place,
- 11:37the wrong system or the system's not being followed.
- 11:40And I think it was all three of those things.
- 11:42And, you know, looking back,
- 11:46it was really, really stressful.
- 11:48You know, we're going to do well,
- 11:49well north of 300 million this year of revenue,
- 11:52really, really healthy bottom line.
- 11:54And I feel no stress.
- 11:56And it's who, not how?
- 11:58We've got the right team.
- 11:59We got six people on an FPNA financial planning
- 12:01and an analytics.
- 12:02We've got seven trainers.
- 12:04We've got just, we've got a whole fleet department.
- 12:07We know someone's speeding or goes to get on their cell phone.
- 12:11Like every single week, I get a notification of the drivers
- 12:14that got flagged.
- 12:15And a small speeding and stuff that I don't,
- 12:18like they get a warning.
- 12:19But if it comes to me,
- 12:21I'm reaching out to each and every one of them in a mass text
- 12:23and I need you guys to cool it or you're suspended for three days.
- 12:26And all that stuff comes to me because they really,
- 12:29I've worked hard to create a bond between my team,
- 12:32especially the guys out in the field.
- 12:33We have a relationship where I'm going to give my all,
- 12:36you got to give your all.
- 12:37And if you're not, this isn't the right company.
- 12:39Go work for a competitor.
- 12:40But it's interesting because you're talking about how,
- 12:43at 300 million top line, you still feel less stress
- 12:46than what you knew were like on the, on the common way, less stress.
- 12:49So you've obviously delegated the time.
- 12:50And I know, like I think you said, you will,
- 12:52what did you say it's, I love this quote.
- 12:54It was something along the lines of,
- 12:58you will never out delegate me.
- 13:00Like you will never out delegate me,
- 13:02which is a great quote, right?
- 13:03But the point, the point I want to make is,
- 13:06there's still some things that you find super valuable
- 13:09to be involved in yourself.
- 13:12So when somebody is speeding, it's going to you.
- 13:16And you're having that communication,
- 13:17the conversation with the person,
- 13:18because you built that rapport.
- 13:19So how do you figure out which stuff in the business
- 13:22you should delegate versus which stuff
- 13:24is still important for you to take on?
- 13:26So you got to ask yourself,
- 13:28and every single thing, could this be delegated?
- 13:31Could I delegate, if I said, Scott,
- 13:33you know how much I appreciate you and your family,
- 13:35what you do for this business?
- 13:36Could I have my executive assistant actually call you up
- 13:38and say that?
- 13:39So culture is really, really the big thing.
- 13:41The next thing is I'm fascinated and the love
- 13:43and very curious about marketing,
- 13:45especially in the day of large language models,
- 13:48like chat, GBT, and I go on and on about that.
- 13:51Search engine optimization, social media,
- 13:54TV radio billboards like,
- 13:57I still get involved with most of the marketing.
- 14:00I'm not knee-deep in it,
- 14:02but I'm very, very, that's the number one thing
- 14:04I focus on after culture.
- 14:07And I want to recognize birthdays and anniversaries
- 14:09and great days if you set a record.
- 14:10I'm not there to call you out.
- 14:13I'm there to call you up.
- 14:14So a lot of times I'll reach out to somebody
- 14:15and say, hey dude, is everything okay?
- 14:17You know, I just noticed you're slipping.
- 14:19You haven't been shown up to meetings on time.
- 14:22I'm looking at your first arrivals,
- 14:23your first jobs not been great.
- 14:25I'm not going in there going.
- 14:27I'm going to put you on a performance improvement plan.
- 14:28I'm going to say you are right.
- 14:30When you look at culture,
- 14:31I think that you are an incredible example
- 14:33of building a good culture because I've met the guys
- 14:35on your team and I've met the people you work with
- 14:36and they're incredible people.
- 14:38But you go above and beyond.
- 14:40So I'm going to say this one more time
- 14:42because I don't think this is something
- 14:43that a lot of companies do.
- 14:44You give $100 million to 24 employees
- 14:46when you had that first exit.
- 14:49That's like above and beyond culture.
- 14:51So what are you achieving with that?
- 14:52Like, why did you make that decision?
- 14:54Because you didn't have to.
- 14:55Nobody forced you to.
- 14:56I don't think the private equity firm
- 14:57that came in required you to do it.
- 14:59There's something that you did
- 15:00out of like the goodness of your heart.
- 15:01That's a significant amount of money for anybody.
- 15:04Well, this ownership mentality changes everything.
- 15:06It's called equity and set of programs.
- 15:08If you think about it,
- 15:09every public-traded company has stock options
- 15:11for their leadership team.
- 15:12Sometimes they do eSOP where it goes all the way down.
- 15:16I don't like an eSOP
- 15:17because everybody gets equity
- 15:18but the greatest people work
- 15:19and the hardest don't get enough.
- 15:20Explaining that just so people understand.
- 15:22It's a way to set up a C-Corp
- 15:24and ask for if they'll set up an eSOP.
- 15:26But what I do is an equity incentive program
- 15:29where it goes all the way down to the technicians now.
- 15:32So if they hit pinnacle,
- 15:33which means their KPIs are dialed
- 15:35in their whole scorecard,
- 15:36not just sales numbers,
- 15:38but they don't get any recalls.
- 15:39They get five star reviews.
- 15:40They drive right all the major things.
- 15:43They get earned their first.
- 15:44They are 200,000 and 75,000 dollars after that.
- 15:47So if you're there for four years,
- 15:50you're going to make 425 grand
- 15:52at a transaction.
- 15:53Now that's at a technician level,
- 15:55installer level.
- 15:56There's a lot that I tried it.
- 15:57Make sure it's fair for everybody.
- 16:00It's kind of like social security, though.
- 16:01Once you give it, you can't take it back.
- 16:03And no one's ever really happy with it.
- 16:05Because literally at the end of the day,
- 16:06if you do the math, I own 48% of the business.
- 16:09It's a healthy chunk of money.
- 16:10So I got to figure out how to be fair
- 16:12and make sure everybody feels like.
- 16:13But I want to keep them motivated to go to the next round.
- 16:16And because I still got an obligation to the investors,
- 16:19because by the way,
- 16:19the private equity company,
- 16:21they work with teachers,
- 16:23pensions and firemen and police officers.
- 16:25And they've got their life savings in there.
- 16:28So I got to be obligated to them as well.
- 16:31And the best thing is do the right thing
- 16:33for your internal clients,
- 16:34which are, you know, the employees,
- 16:35which I call them my co-workers.
- 16:37And do the right thing for the homeowners,
- 16:39and you'll win every time and everyone wins.
- 16:42A lot of businesses don't do this, though.
- 16:44I don't think I see many people handing out $100 million in.
- 16:47Every private equity does what's called profit units.
- 16:50But they're kind of forced to do that,
- 16:51because that keeps your attention.
- 16:54But for me, it was like,
- 16:56I could have been lonely at the top of the mountain,
- 16:58kept all the money.
- 16:59There would be a lot of anger and just resentment.
- 17:05And they work so hard.
- 17:07I mean, certain people probably got too much.
- 17:09Certain probably people didn't get enough.
- 17:10Some people probably didn't get anything.
- 17:12Because the business wasn't small.
- 17:14I mean, it was 400 people back then.
- 17:15So I like meritocracy a lot more than tenure.
- 17:18No one got it because of tenure.
- 17:20I just don't believe in till based on what they were able to do.
- 17:22I've got a lot of loyalty with tenure.
- 17:24You've worked with me.
- 17:25You stood by my side.
- 17:26Don't get me wrong.
- 17:27But that doesn't mean you should just you get paid.
- 17:30Plus you get a bonus.
- 17:32Like this is above and beyond,
- 17:34because people have the ownership mentality.
- 17:36And now everybody sprinting towards the same goal,
- 17:39the North Star.
- 17:40I tell me something though,
- 17:42when you give it that kind of money,
- 17:44and you are not out of the business,
- 17:45just so people understand,
- 17:46like you are still in the business.
- 17:47Yeah, I'm so the CEO.
- 17:48You sold the minority piece, correct?
- 17:50Technically, they're the boss.
- 17:52I could get fired.
- 17:53It would be very hard to fire me.
- 17:55But they can't take away my equity.
- 17:56But when it's not founder based of a company like mine,
- 17:59it tends to kind of fall apart.
- 18:01And my point was,
- 18:02when you give those kinds of those kinds of dollars away,
- 18:07do you retain that talent?
- 18:08Like the best of the best.
- 18:09When I don't know what the, you know,
- 18:11do 100 million divided by 24,
- 18:12it's probably not even like.
- 18:14No, it wasn't even.
- 18:15No, the first, the top five people,
- 18:16are they staying with you,
- 18:17or are you over incentivizing them to retire?
- 18:20Well, I'll tell you this,
- 18:21there's different seasons of the business.
- 18:24And the people at 50 million are different,
- 18:28at 200 million are different at 500 million.
- 18:31Now, I don't think I'm the smartest guy by any means,
- 18:34but I've learned how to delegate.
- 18:35I've learned how to be the face of the company.
- 18:37And I've learned how to negotiate like crazy.
- 18:40And I've learned how to keep the morale up.
- 18:42So as the founder,
- 18:44I want to be the dumbest guy when I enter the room.
- 18:47Like I've, if the right CEO came across my path,
- 18:51it'd be very hard because they'd have to understand
- 18:52the culture.
- 18:53So I might be like a co CEO or chairman of the board,
- 18:57but I'm not going to give up because
- 18:59I still haven't fulfilled my promise.
- 19:01I need everybody that's stuck by me to win big.
- 19:03And what does that mean?
- 19:04Everybody's got different goals.
- 19:05We got a full-time dream manager.
- 19:07I really like to know what everybody's dream is.
- 19:09And we're building this software understanding.
- 19:12Some people's dream, unfortunately, are too small.
- 19:14And some people's dreams are like,
- 19:17they're bigger than mine.
- 19:18And maybe they just, but when anybody says a dream,
- 19:21what would you do if you want $10 million?
- 19:24What does that even mean?
- 19:25I don't want to hear about the money.
- 19:26I want to hear about what you want to do for your family,
- 19:28what you want to do for your kids,
- 19:30what experiences you want to have.
- 19:32Like I want to know everything,
- 19:33but not a monetary number.
- 19:35We could back into that number.
- 19:37But what is it that you really want?
- 19:38Some people like, dude, I want to do what you did.
- 19:40I'm like, okay, so what does that mean?
- 19:42They're like, well, I want to get to at least 100 million.
- 19:44What would you do with that kind of money?
- 19:45Well, I haven't thought about that,
- 19:46but I know it's possible.
- 19:47Would you have kids?
- 19:48Yeah, I've got kids.
- 19:50Well, you don't want that because there's no way
- 19:52I could have raised a family and been around my wife
- 19:55and made her happy if I was doing that kind of stuff.
- 19:57Like literally I was working crazy, crazy hours
- 20:01and on holidays and on weekends
- 20:02and skipping, like I broke up with so many girls
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- 20:07if I'm going to hang out with you,
- 20:08I'll just ride with you in the truck.
- 20:09I can't, those were our dates at the time.
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- 22:57These are a whole bunch of different ideas here,
- 22:58but if somebody does want to be an entrepreneur,
- 23:00and wants to build anything the size of what you've built,
- 23:02like I think a season of their life has to be unbalanced.
- 23:05I think that's pretty normal.
- 23:06I don't think I know a single person
- 23:08who I've had on this podcast or myself
- 23:10included and I never built anything as big as what you've built,
- 23:12where even like a, even a much smaller version of that
- 23:16for a couple of years, your life is chaos.
- 23:18And you have to be obsessed with what you're building.
- 23:21But you have to know when to shut off.
- 23:22You have to know like, okay,
- 23:23so now I've gotten into a certain point.
- 23:25That's when you outdelegate everyone.
- 23:26That's when you hand off stuff.
- 23:28Yeah, look at the end of the day working.
- 23:30If you look at the most billionaires,
- 23:31they're not happy people.
- 23:33Most, I'd say 80% of them,
- 23:35because they became obsessed
- 23:37and they're obsessed with the wrong things.
- 23:38So you gotta be able to like reflect
- 23:41and think, what are, what are the main goals here?
- 23:44What do I want my life to look like?
- 23:45But you gotta have purpose.
- 23:46You never want to lose purpose.
- 23:47Especially as a man, like you want to be a provider,
- 23:49you want to go do stuff, you want to use your brain.
- 23:52Like easily I could fade into the sunset and golf every day
- 23:54and Hawaii and then all of a sudden they just become a lush.
- 23:57So I still want to maintain purpose, just focus purpose.
- 24:01And I don't need 12 other days.
- 24:02I could do six hour days of focus.
- 24:05And I'm still exploring things and podcasting a lot.
- 24:07I'm learning new ideas.
- 24:08But I bring so many ideas now.
- 24:10We're not ready for all my ideas yet.
- 24:12But the company will grow into a company
- 24:14that's ready for everything I got to give.
- 24:16Because listen, we're just doing grozers now.
- 24:1820, you know, there's certain months
- 24:19we were on 25,000 jobs.
- 24:22Well, what if the person said this on a thing
- 24:23about putting a pool table in here?
- 24:24Will you do the floors and put it in a mini split?
- 24:26Keep it nice and cool in here in the summer,
- 24:28warm in the winter?
- 24:29All of a sudden that ticket for 3000
- 24:31turns into 20,000.
- 24:33And there's so much opportunities.
- 24:35We've maintained a lot of discipline and focus.
- 24:38And so I release certain things at the right time.
- 24:41And I think our team did get that from Jeff Bezos.
- 24:43There's a Jeff Bezos story about this as well.
- 24:45Jeff Bezos, the best story in the world.
- 24:48And do you know the story about the too many ideas?
- 24:51Well, yeah, he had a partner that basically came in early
- 24:54and advisor and said, hey, Jeff,
- 24:56you'll bankrupt us if you go to the whiteboard again.
- 24:58You will literally one hour in the whiteboard
- 25:00will bankrupt this company.
- 25:01And he said, well, what do you suppose I do?
- 25:03He goes, I want you to keep your ideas.
- 25:05Keep them in a file, ruthlessly prioritize,
- 25:08give them to us when we're ready.
- 25:09And I played that to my team.
- 25:10I played that on stage like that is me.
- 25:13And he's like, why don't you build a company
- 25:15over the years that's ready for all your ideas?
- 25:18And so yeah, I just took his and put my own little.
- 25:21Everything I do is I call it R&D, rip off and duplicate.
- 25:23I love it.
- 25:24There's no really authentic ideas here.
- 25:26What do you think?
- 25:28Because I know like when you were very young,
- 25:31you were hearing your parents fight about money.
- 25:33Oh, yeah.
- 25:34And you never wanted that ever in your life.
- 25:36And I'm assuming I don't want to put words in your mouth.
- 25:38I'm assuming that's why you worked hard.
- 25:40That's why you hustled.
- 25:41That's why you sort of built your own thing.
- 25:43I'm going to make sure that money's never a problem
- 25:45in my life with my family, whatever.
- 25:50You have more money than you need at this point in your life.
- 25:53I mean, you can make the argument that you can keep going
- 25:56and keep buying fancy new things.
- 25:57But I think you're doing pretty well.
- 26:00What drives you now?
- 26:02Well, you know, the weird thing is
- 26:04when you start out at an age here in your parents,
- 26:06I used to stand on the toilet because the bathroom
- 26:10was next to their bedroom.
- 26:11So I could hear through the drywall.
- 26:13I used to stand on the toilet and hear them argue.
- 26:16And just this brokeness, it was like, we don't have money.
- 26:20And my dad was very generous and took a shopping.
- 26:22It was spent at fast and he was making it.
- 26:25And I guess I still sometimes feel like I could lose it.
- 26:28And I don't really know why?
- 26:31Because I've seen so many people in my life.
- 26:33They made money then they lost it.
- 26:35And I'm not doing stupid stuff.
- 26:37I'm not a gambler.
- 26:38I'm not a drug user.
- 26:38I just, I don't go down those things.
- 26:40And, you know, I've got a fiance so I'm set there.
- 26:43This idea of success and working out
- 26:45or like even faith, well, like sometimes it's just continued
- 26:50like how much better could you get?
- 26:52Like I've never arrived at anything.
- 26:54So now it's like, how, because I gave up,
- 26:58I didn't go to church every Sunday.
- 26:59I didn't hang out with friends.
- 27:01I didn't see my family enough.
- 27:03I didn't focus on my fitness.
- 27:05You know, I didn't have a lot of fun.
- 27:07So now I'm trying to catch up for those years.
- 27:09You know, I really want to do a lot of stuff for a lot of people.
- 27:12But one thing I don't want to do is just pass out fun tickets
- 27:14to people I want to invest in their dreams.
- 27:16Especially the close people in my life,
- 27:18my cousins and my family like, look,
- 27:20look, if you're past 70, I'm going to help you out.
- 27:22You don't have to work anymore.
- 27:24But if you're my age 40 or younger,
- 27:27like let's invest in your ideas.
- 27:28I'll help you along the way.
- 27:29I've learned a lot in the process.
- 27:31And I'll tell you something stupid.
- 27:33I'm going to ask you a million questions.
- 27:34I don't need to tell you anything.
- 27:35I can ask you questions.
- 27:36You'll come to your own conclusion
- 27:37based on the questions I ask you.
- 27:39But you think that, because you mentioned,
- 27:40you mentioned telling that like, you know,
- 27:42most billionaires are not happy, which I agree with.
- 27:44But I think that they get too much to worry about
- 27:46more money, more problems.
- 27:47But they also, I think they've lost
- 27:48like that original purpose.
- 27:50I think there is definitely have.
- 27:52There's a man's search for meaning that you lose your purpose.
- 27:55You just, but the other thing is is like,
- 27:57now you think about it a billionaire.
- 27:59You start questioning, now this hasn't happened with me.
- 28:01You start questioning people that want to hang out.
- 28:03You start questioning family members
- 28:05and start showing up.
- 28:07She'd start breaking.
- 28:08Like now you got four houses.
- 28:10There's a problem with the roof.
- 28:11The hot water heater went out.
- 28:12You're for art.
- 28:13Yeah, well, you were on the money wise, the same far.
- 28:17And this is a fun podcast.
- 28:18He breaks down how you spend money.
- 28:20And I don't think, I mean, like I've listened
- 28:23to a couple of these episodes and people
- 28:25with massive amounts of wealth.
- 28:26Like they talk about their maintenance costs.
- 28:29On their homes, right?
- 28:30And it's just an insane amount.
- 28:32It's an insane amount.
- 28:33So it's like, it truly is more money, more problem.
- 28:35So it never ends.
- 28:36You know, if you do it for the right reasons, like, look,
- 28:40my cousin, his wife, they just had an anniversary
- 28:42Ryan and Cheryl.
- 28:44Their Fran Katie Klein was in town.
- 28:46We went and saw Rob Schneider perform.
- 28:49Like if you got the ability to do great things and enjoy,
- 28:53like I didn't get the house to say, look at my house.
- 28:55I got it because I have family there.
- 28:57I've got the family office.
- 28:58They all stay there.
- 28:59You always invite people.
- 29:00You got me over there.
- 29:01Listen, I'm always going to have, like that's,
- 29:03it's a bonding spot and I want to just have fun.
- 29:06And I want to do cool things.
- 29:07So like, ultimately, I think a lot of people are like,
- 29:10look what I have.
- 29:10And they compare, like, keep up with the Joneses.
- 29:13And that's never going to create happiness.
- 29:15And I'll tell you, there's a lot of people
- 29:17that buy a massive house.
- 29:19Even they downsize.
- 29:20And some people don't even like to own.
- 29:22They're like some of the most wealthy people in the world.
- 29:24Like I don't, I don't need that liability.
- 29:27Because it turns in, it's not a liability.
- 29:29Hopefully it goes up in value.
- 29:30The real estate does well.
- 29:31But shoot breaks.
- 29:33And ultimately, it could be a liability,
- 29:35especially like, you don't need much more than two.
- 29:38Just you get nice Airbnb's.
- 29:40Flying private's super cool.
- 29:42But you got to have internet.
- 29:43You got to have Elon Hockey up.
- 29:45Starlink?
- 29:46If you don't have Starlink, it's not, it's not near as fun.
- 29:49Like I'd rather go first class than private
- 29:52if I can't have the internet.
- 29:53The reaction that I've heard from many people
- 29:56that have sold for nine figures, like high eight figures.
- 30:00It's like this immediate fear that you're going to screw it up.
- 30:03You're going to screw up some, and it's like, it's stupid.
- 30:06Because if you just invested it in a very conservative portfolio.
- 30:095% of $200 million, you're going to be just fine, right?
- 30:14You're making $10 million a year.
- 30:15You're stressed out for some reason.
- 30:17You're going to screw this up or that you can't do it.
- 30:20I don't know if this is a universal experience.
- 30:21I'm sure some people have an ego and they think
- 30:22they're God's gift to business and that they're never
- 30:25going to screw anything up.
- 30:26But a lot of the self-aware people that I know
- 30:29that don't have a huge ego, very humble, successful people,
- 30:32like for a moment, you're worried about all the things
- 30:35you mentioned.
- 30:36Am I going to screw this up?
- 30:37I don't have to figure out how to invest just because I'm
- 30:39a good operator.
- 30:40I mean, I'm a good investor.
- 30:41I don't have to audit everybody who comes into my world
- 30:44because are they liking me for me?
- 30:46Are they going to take advantage of me?
- 30:48So all these rich people problems, of course, for sure.
- 30:53But I think that anybody who's on this journey,
- 30:57at some point, if you stay in this game long enough,
- 30:59you'll find a way to make more money
- 31:01than you even thought possible.
- 31:02Like in all seriousness, again, it's like time in the game.
- 31:05If you stay in the game, you will make more money
- 31:07than most W2s ever will earn.
- 31:09Listen, I'm two decades into this and I've already
- 31:12had success, so I'm like a guarantee now.
- 31:15But most businesses fail.
- 31:17If it was easy, everybody would do it.
- 31:18You give a piece of your soul away.
- 31:20For a temporary time, sometimes a temporary time
- 31:22is two years, sometimes it's 10.
- 31:24But there's a lot of problems.
- 31:26There's a lot of people that turn their back on you.
- 31:29A lot of backstabbing.
- 31:30There's a lot of people that aren't loyal.
- 31:33And by the way, loyalty goes both ways.
- 31:35There's a lot of owners that don't do shit
- 31:36when they sell for anybody in their company.
- 31:38And they say, this is my and this is my family's.
- 31:40We took all the risk and that's not.
- 31:42So it goes both ways.
- 31:43By the way, there's more shitty owners
- 31:45than there are shitty employees probably.
- 31:47I was alluding to that when I was talking about
- 31:48the $100 million being paid out.
- 31:51I've been part of exits.
- 31:52And I've seen a lot of friends exit.
- 31:54They don't all pay out their employees.
- 31:56Most don't.
- 31:57Oh, look, if you do, there's still somebody
- 32:00that thinks they got screwed.
- 32:01And you know, I just wish it was,
- 32:03I mean, my CFO calls me Santa Claus.
- 32:05But literally, after this, everyone's
- 32:08going to go figure out how to install garage doors.
- 32:10They're going to, look, I'll tell you this.
- 32:12My buddy that I'm meeting tomorrow in Naples,
- 32:15he's got a garage door company.
- 32:16He's very successful.
- 32:18He exited a massive HVAC company.
- 32:21He goes, dude, I cannot stand garage doors.
- 32:23He goes, it's not even in this hemisphere.
- 32:25He goes, the minute my non-compete
- 32:26something going back to HVAC.
- 32:27I've never met anybody that went into the garage
- 32:29or has been like, this is it.
- 32:31It's just 20 years.
- 32:32If you do anything for 20 years,
- 32:35you're more than likely to be successful
- 32:36if you make it through the hard times,
- 32:37which is hard to make payroll.
- 32:39And just the times when you don't want to go
- 32:41and you have to go when it's like a nightmare.
- 32:43And you're just like, dude, can anymore.
- 32:45I remember, we bought this new building
- 32:46and the bank gave me a bridge alone waiting
- 32:49for the, I was going to get a loan from,
- 32:54what is that called?
- 32:56Like a small business association loan, SBA.
- 32:59Yeah.
- 33:00And for some reason I got turned down
- 33:01and they're like, well, this bridge loan,
- 33:03you didn't get the SBA.
- 33:06How are we going to work this out?
- 33:07I go, well, I'm in the building.
- 33:11I can make payments.
- 33:13I kind of got a leverage here.
- 33:14I didn't tell them that, but I'm like,
- 33:16and my COO at the time, the Adam guy was talking about
- 33:19goes, what are we going to do?
- 33:21And I remember me and Adam went to my neighbor's house
- 33:24and we were all really good friends,
- 33:25still good rate friends.
- 33:27And Tim's, Tim's my neighbor's grabs us a beer
- 33:31and he's like, so how's business going and Adam goes?
- 33:34He shakes his head, he's like, it's bad.
- 33:37And like, that's winter and I'll sunken.
- 33:39My stomach just went hollow.
- 33:41Like I didn't ever say it out loud.
- 33:42Like I knew what was going on
- 33:44and it was hard, man.
- 33:45I was like, holy shit.
- 33:48Like I'm taking out equity lines to pay stuff
- 33:51and I try to guarantee I'm assuming too.
- 33:53What's that?
- 33:54They're personally guaranteed.
- 33:54Oh, everything, everything was personally guaranteed.
- 33:57I mean, I put it all on the line.
- 33:58I rolled the dice way too many times.
- 34:00I doubled down.
- 34:01I just pushed it back in.
- 34:03And you know, but put me in a tight spot.
- 34:06That's when I do my best.
- 34:08Like I got this switch that I'm like, all right.
- 34:11And that's when I turn into the bad cop
- 34:13and I get rid of people downsize, I close markets.
- 34:16I do whatever I have to do because survival of a fittest
- 34:19and I know how to survive.
- 34:20I've done it too many times.
- 34:21But that's not a position you want to put yourself in
- 34:23or a position you'll ever be in again.
- 34:25But that's the fight or flight
- 34:26that very few people have.
- 34:27But I think that, again, speaking to entrepreneurs,
- 34:31I think at any point, every entrepreneur ever
- 34:34has gone through a period of that.
- 34:35It's not that, it's not that they're all going to double down
- 34:41and take super high risk.
- 34:43Like sometimes you can take relatively low risk
- 34:46and things work out and you find product market fit
- 34:48and you scale a little bit slower or whatever.
- 34:50But I think that at some point there's going to be like
- 34:52a moment in every entrepreneur's life
- 34:53that is exactly like what you're describing
- 34:55where you just get this feeling and you're like shit.
- 34:57What do we do now?
- 34:58And I truly do believe that your ability to succeed
- 35:01is based on how you react in those moments.
- 35:04Because I was talking to this guy.
- 35:06He has a publicly traded holding company.
- 35:09So he has a whole show.
- 35:12Yeah, a shell and he buys companies
- 35:13and he's like, I thought there was going to be a good idea.
- 35:15He's like, Scott, every single day I get more anxiety
- 35:19than most people would ever deal with in their lifetime.
- 35:21And I allow myself five minutes to be angry or stressed
- 35:26or whatever and then it's just like,
- 35:28I got to shut that feeling off and go back to work.
- 35:31And there's levels of stress.
- 35:35It's first of all because he has a shell company
- 35:38and there's investors that he has to deal with
- 35:41when the stock goes down, whatever investors aren't too happy.
- 35:44Obviously, all his portfolio companies,
- 35:45if they work well or not,
- 35:46one of his portfolio companies was a crypto company.
- 35:48So some of his bank accounts were getting locked out
- 35:51and frozen.
- 35:51One of his other portfolio companies
- 35:53was creating components for the Iron Dome in Israel.
- 35:56So he was getting death threats right after October 7th.
- 35:59So he's like, it's not just business stress.
- 36:03That's more to it.
- 36:04He's like, we had to install metal detectors,
- 36:06arm guards at the front door of our office
- 36:08because people were saying they're going to come kill me.
- 36:10So this is extreme examples, obviously.
- 36:13But the point is you just learn to either deal with it
- 36:19or you just can't play this game.
- 36:20I've even thought about like, love him or hate him.
- 36:24Like the amount of stress that Trump deals with,
- 36:27I think he is immune to feeling stressed anymore.
- 36:30I mean, most people don't get indicted
- 36:32and then jump on stage the next day
- 36:34and give this little talk when you're running
- 36:36for president of the US.
- 36:39I don't know what was going through his mind,
- 36:41but that dude is a soldier.
- 36:42And he's, this is the difference
- 36:46like between a lottery winner and where I'm at
- 36:48is I was bred through life's challenges
- 36:52to be able to understand compound interest money
- 36:54and to be able to say, look,
- 36:56everything I've for the most part,
- 36:58like mostly everything is appreciating.
- 37:01It's going up in value.
- 37:03And like I don't go out and like even the boat I'm building,
- 37:06you're building a boat?
- 37:07Yeah, it's called a standcraft.
- 37:08It's an all wooden boat.
- 37:09It's like you're building a boat.
- 37:10Yeah, it's in court of lane.
- 37:13But like that boat is an art piece that'll go up in value.
- 37:16I was going to tell you, you know,
- 37:20Jim Carrey once said, I hope everybody gets filthy rich
- 37:24and becomes famous.
- 37:25Then they'll understand that's not the answer.
- 37:28And you know, there's certain people,
- 37:32my brother-in-law worked at GE,
- 37:33now he's the CEO of the family office
- 37:35and he would go to India.
- 37:37And he'd tell me stories about these little kids
- 37:39that were basically homeless,
- 37:40but they'd be in a car and the eight of them
- 37:43and a tiny car and just yawning out singing.
- 37:46And you got to understand like he really need to sit down
- 37:49with yourself in a quiet dark place.
- 37:52And just really think about what gets you going?
- 37:54What is those happy moments where you feel like amazing?
- 38:00And a lot of people that work with say,
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- 40:46If that's anybody who takes this on,
- 40:48you demand a people that I've interviewed
- 40:51that have said like, I didn't pay tax for several years
- 40:55because I needed that capital to go back into the business.
- 40:56Like just like dumb shit like that.
- 40:58Like I mean, these are normal stories.
- 41:00But for most people, this is like,
- 41:02what do you mean is what I got to do?
- 41:03Well, I just got to figure it out.
- 41:05Yeah, you know, taxes I remember getting my CPAs
- 41:07like dude, you have 300,000.
- 41:08I'm like, I don't even have that in my bank account.
- 41:10Well, let me look at those tax forms.
- 41:13He's like, no, but you made this.
- 41:14I'm like, there's not money in the account.
- 41:16How did I make it?
- 41:17He's like, well, you bought all those new trucks
- 41:19and you got a warehouse full of inventory.
- 41:21You can't write off inventory.
- 41:22Here's what I figured out if you're doing cash
- 41:24to kind of which most people should be doing a cruel.
- 41:26What I would do is call all my vendors in December
- 41:29that I'm doing marketing with, all the mailers,
- 41:31every single company and say, could I prepay you for six months?
- 41:35And I could prepay them, get a better fee.
- 41:38So I negotiated down 30% because you're paying them up for it.
- 41:41And then I'd pay it and I'd get that written out
- 41:44but you can't do that with inventory.
- 41:46You could do that with marketing.
- 41:48And so there was some cool stuff I was able to do.
- 41:50Now with when you do a cruel, that's why banks.
- 41:52But you learn this shit by going through the fire.
- 41:54I went through the fires, man.
- 41:56I was like, dude, I'm going through the fires.
- 41:57Yeah, they don't teach you this in school.
- 41:59No, no, no, none of this stuff.
- 42:00I got, I got an MBA.
- 42:01I didn't know any of this stuff.
- 42:03I was taking apart annual reports for Home Depot
- 42:05doing useless stuff that didn't deliver.
- 42:09I learned how to network.
- 42:10I learned how to public speak.
- 42:11And I hung out with the right guys in my MBA.
- 42:13And I learned about search engine optimization
- 42:15and editing videos and like,
- 42:17yelp and what yelp meant.
- 42:18And a little bit of psychology.
- 42:19But overall, when I do it again, probably.
- 42:23But I don't know if I'd, here's what I'm nervous about, AI.
- 42:28I mean, I'm cautiously optimistic,
- 42:29but the world's about to change.
- 42:31Like, combine the telephone with Alexander Graham Bell.
- 42:35Combined, so the telephone, the industrial revolution,
- 42:38which was able to feed and farm everything.
- 42:41Combined the handheld cell phone,
- 42:43which is a computer in your pocket.
- 42:45Combine all those things.
- 42:46Dwarfs, what AI is going to do.
- 42:48All of them put together times 10.
- 42:49Still dwarfs, what's about to happen?
- 42:51Yeah, I know, I know.
- 42:53But so tell me why?
- 42:54Because a lot of, you know, white collar,
- 42:56knowledge workers, for sure, they're going to be in trouble.
- 42:59Why does service based?
- 43:00Like, what are you scared about?
- 43:02Well, my whole marketing is, like, look,
- 43:04what we dominate on everything we do.
- 43:08And it's like, here's the deal.
- 43:10If you were going to be number one in the 90s or the early 2000s,
- 43:15all you had to have is the triple truck in the yellow book.
- 43:17You were guaranteed.
- 43:18If you were the first one in with the double page,
- 43:20then they did a triple truck with this.
- 43:21Can I say something to you?
- 43:22I know that you named it A1.
- 43:24Yeah, if you wanted to rank.
- 43:25It's like, like, anything of a medical A1.
- 43:27OG SEO.
- 43:29Yeah.
- 43:30Anything of a medical A1 pops up.
- 43:31The only thing that beats triple A,
- 43:34A1 comes before triple A.
- 43:35The only thing that beats A1 is 1A.
- 43:38And 1A doesn't really mean anything.
- 43:39A1's like A1 from day one, dude, I'm top notch.
- 43:42So, like, this whole world's about to change.
- 43:46And I'm ready for it, and I've got enough network
- 43:49that we're on the cutting edge of everything.
- 43:50We're looking at everything right now.
- 43:52We're learning, I don't care, Reddit,
- 43:54I don't care what we're doing.
- 43:55We're going all in on everything,
- 43:56thumb, tech, and Angie.
- 43:57And now it's like, this was our marketing.
- 44:00We knew how to do it.
- 44:01Now it's opening back up to all these things.
- 44:03And anybody that says they know how to beat the system,
- 44:06in my last for 60 days, but you gotta have an omniproach.
- 44:09You gotta be AB testing.
- 44:10You gotta be looking out.
- 44:11And am I worried?
- 44:13Not really.
- 44:14But am I like, wait a minute.
- 44:15Bill Gates just came out and said,
- 44:16in five or six years, you're not going to need to work.
- 44:19Robots are coming on next year,
- 44:20a $20 trillion market cap that Elon Musk,
- 44:23and now there's 10 other ones.
- 44:24I was with one of the founders of Bessimer,
- 44:27one of the largest investment in software companies
- 44:29on the planet, venture capitalists.
- 44:32He said, there's 10 companies working on Fusion.
- 44:35We're betting on one of them.
- 44:37Fusion is the answer to all of energy problems in the world.
- 44:42Which is great.
- 44:43Getting away from oil and everything else.
- 44:44Windmills are shit, solar shit.
- 44:47I mean, it's just all, everything.
- 44:48But this is like the next three years.
- 44:50He said in the next two, there'll be a solution.
- 44:53And then I was with the old CEO of Google
- 44:56at a Goldman Sachs event.
- 44:57He goes, look, Silicon Valley and San Francisco,
- 45:00we believe in the next three years,
- 45:01there's going to be things that happen
- 45:03that change everything.
- 45:05The way humans interact and do everything.
- 45:08And he didn't allude to what it was.
- 45:10But I'm like, hmm, hmm.
- 45:12Because I would love to live in a utopia
- 45:15where we could just, but I'm trained to like purpose,
- 45:18purposeful stuff.
- 45:20Like I want to do fun things that like, I win.
- 45:24And some of that's business, some of that sports,
- 45:27some of that's just working out.
- 45:29But like, I can't imagine a world
- 45:32where there's just like, well, what are you going to do today?
- 45:33Well, whatever we want.
- 45:34I mean, I have days like that.
- 45:35I have a lot of vacations and fun stuff.
- 45:39Like for the rest of your life, you lose purpose.
- 45:41You lose, but I want to point something out too.
- 45:42Like you are a service-based business.
- 45:45We're not going anywhere anytime soon.
- 45:47No, but I think that I think that most people
- 45:49in like service industries or like legacy industries
- 45:53or whatever you want to call them,
- 45:54I don't think that they're paying half as much attention
- 45:56as they should.
- 45:57Like I think that the average SaaS startup
- 45:59is paying attention to AI, is paying attention probably
- 46:02to if you have an issue for like shipping logistics
- 46:05and you're an early stage startup, you're wondering,
- 46:06okay, how do we incorporate our solution
- 46:08into like a robotic workforce, for example,
- 46:11and not do we deploy that like, I know there's a company figure
- 46:14and the CEO's bread adcock.
- 46:16And I think right now, if I'm not mistaken,
- 46:19I think it's BMW, they already have robots
- 46:20that are replacing people.
- 46:22It's basically factories.
- 46:23Robotics, 500,000 jobs.
- 46:25Amazon, yeah, warehouses.
- 46:26So all these forward-looking companies are researching this.
- 46:30But there are so many industries
- 46:32that are going to get screwed.
- 46:35So here's the predation of everybody.
- 46:37And by the way, I don't know what my team thinks.
- 46:40I think some of them know what I'm doing.
- 46:42But I'm out being curious and asking questions
- 46:44that go on in the right doors and meeting the right people.
- 46:47And I'm a forward thinker.
- 46:49And I'm not thinking next year,
- 46:50I'm thinking five, 10 years down the road.
- 46:52Like I taught I miss vehicles.
- 46:53What does that do for garage doors?
- 46:54Like I'm thinking about a lot of things.
- 46:56And the big are going to get massive.
- 47:01The early winners will start eating everybody's market share
- 47:05just gobbling up businesses.
- 47:07There will be way more losers than winners.
- 47:09And the winners are going to win massively.
- 47:12So if you're not paying attention, this is your wake up call.
- 47:15And you better be a forward thinker.
- 47:16You better be curious.
- 47:17You better be asking questions.
- 47:18You better be paying attention.
- 47:19You better be reading.
- 47:20You better be showing up to the right conferences.
- 47:21You better listen to podcasts.
- 47:23Every single thing you could do because it's the people
- 47:26that just put their head down and say,
- 47:27I'm going to go to work.
- 47:28They're missing out.
- 47:29And don't get me wrong, I enjoy focus.
- 47:31But you got to be exploratory.
- 47:32You got to be learning new things every day.
- 47:34Okay, so then people and I'm making an assumption
- 47:36people in service industry are not as forward thinking.
- 47:38When you talk to your peers,
- 47:39are they all looking into AI?
- 47:41Or are you?
- 47:42Well, I surround myself with only a select few
- 47:45that we can talk.
- 47:46Okay, but no, when I'm talking, these aren't even,
- 47:49you know, there's a couple companies that might be.
- 47:51They're in a stage.
- 47:52Most people I know that they're like having so many issues
- 47:56and so many big goals and they're falling short.
- 47:58The weather's not right and all these things.
- 48:00I will say that the business that runs solely on systems
- 48:04and our CSRs have scripts and we got script compliance.
- 48:09And we've got exact script compliance in the field
- 48:11where we've got tools that listen to the conversation.
- 48:13And like, we know if you drive wrong,
- 48:16we know exactly where it went to,
- 48:19when it shows up where it's at,
- 48:20like the pizza being cooked in the oven that shows you,
- 48:22we know all those things.
- 48:23So I'm so forward looking because I don't have the fires anymore.
- 48:27Like we don't get distractions like we used to get,
- 48:30but somebody's getting a phone call saying,
- 48:32all hell just broke loose.
- 48:33We don't get those calls anymore.
- 48:34You don't, you have the time.
- 48:36We have the time and I would say,
- 48:37look, I won't say that for everybody in my team.
- 48:39My COL works very hard in a lot of meetings.
- 48:42And that's one thing he knows he's got to do
- 48:43is start being shorter meetings.
- 48:45Instead of an hour meeting, make it 10 minutes.
- 48:47Yeah, he's got to take a page from your playbook
- 48:50and fire himself from some of the things he's probably doing.
- 48:53But yeah, I think that that's it.
- 48:55Like if you, if you,
- 48:56because you can build a business and be a firefighter
- 48:58for a significant part of the,
- 49:01the journey when you're building that business,
- 49:02but then when an opportunity comes up,
- 49:04you don't have the mental bandwidth to go figure it out.
- 49:07And then there's going to be some startup
- 49:08that does have the time and the energy
- 49:10and the mental bandwidth to go figure out
- 49:11that's going to take your shit.
- 49:13Well, how do you hire people smarter than you?
- 49:16And I would say most of the people,
- 49:18they're very, very smart on my team, the C suite.
- 49:21And they do a pretty good job.
- 49:22But one wrong hire that you put the trust
- 49:24and two could set you back six months.
- 49:25I mean, it was very hard to get my CFO,
- 49:27my CO and my CFO share an EA.
- 49:30I couldn't get him to hire an EA for years.
- 49:32And I'm like, guys, how are you still looking at your email?
- 49:35Why?
- 49:35People have such an issue delegating,
- 49:37even at that level, like you're, you're a CFO,
- 49:40a COO of, you know, like a, a billion dollar company.
- 49:44I mean, at that point, you should be having an EA.
- 49:47Well, the deal is is like, off your table.
- 49:49What are they going to do?
- 49:50I got to look at the email and respond,
- 49:51how they're going to respond for me.
- 49:53Like they're not going to know how to book the tickets.
- 49:54I don't like to sit in the aisle.
- 49:55I like to sit in the window.
- 49:56That does not mean, but everybody has,
- 49:58it only takes five minutes to book a flight
- 50:00and book a hotel in other five minutes.
- 50:02It only takes me about an hour to check
- 50:03all my emails and respond to them.
- 50:05And like, what are they going to do?
- 50:06Like, how do they know?
- 50:07So it takes three months to train,
- 50:09and that's to get somebody barely up to speed.
- 50:12So you're like, and then you're putting all this trust,
- 50:14what if they fail?
- 50:15What if they make a mistake?
- 50:16How would they know how I think?
- 50:17And so there's a lot of things that they go,
- 50:19man, if I delegated this,
- 50:21what if it doesn't get wrong, done right?
- 50:23And most people, like you should race
- 50:25towards people failing.
- 50:26Like if your EA screws up,
- 50:27that's a lesson learned that's never going to happen again
- 50:29if you hired right.
- 50:30And then what's, what system did you create?
- 50:33What, how do you make sure that no other plane gets booked?
- 50:38If I got, why do I have three layovers?
- 50:41Never do that again, then it'll never happen again.
- 50:43And then you never have to do it again.
- 50:44So it's very tough to go through the pain.
- 50:48And then the worst is you get somebody that's dialed
- 50:50and everything's perfect now.
- 50:52And then something happens.
- 50:53They quit, their husband's got to move whatever it is.
- 50:55And then you just lose all trust.
- 50:57And I've been through that and I'm like,
- 50:59are you better off delegating and trusting and failing?
- 51:02Or better off just continuing to run the road on your own?
- 51:06And it's so much better to put trust in people
- 51:08and you get screwed over a little bit.
- 51:10Things happen wrong, but it's all learning experience.
- 51:14Race towards failure.
- 51:15I like that.
- 51:16How do you find the A players?
- 51:18Well, usually at our size A players find us.
- 51:22I mean, I'm very fortunate.
- 51:23But in the early days, listen, you got to find the right person.
- 51:25It's very hard to do really great interviews.
- 51:28And you got to check who they work for, why they leave.
- 51:30You got to ask the right questions.
- 51:32And then here's the best news.
- 51:34I learned this from Kevin O'Leary.
- 51:35And I've done this.
- 51:36I did it before he even set it.
- 51:38So I knew I was on to something.
- 51:40But if you get a really important person,
- 51:42say, listen, we're going to try this out for 90 days.
- 51:44I want to make sure you love me.
- 51:45I'm a hard person to work for.
- 51:47And that would get along good.
- 51:48And I'll pay you more as a 1099 contractor
- 51:51than I will as a W-2.
- 51:52When you come on, you'll get all the benefits.
- 51:54But here's my expectations of you.
- 51:56It's a few pages.
- 51:58It's pretty clear.
- 51:59I want to know what your expectations are of me,
- 52:01how to really lead you in the right way
- 52:03and make sure we get along great.
- 52:04And if we both love each other at the end great,
- 52:06but let's just agree right now, if something doesn't go right,
- 52:08it's no big deal.
- 52:09I'll still tell people how amazing you are.
- 52:11Maybe we just don't click.
- 52:13So you get that trial.
- 52:15And you try it before you buy it for both parties.
- 52:18Last thing I want to go into,
- 52:19because you've built, again, massive business,
- 52:24but there were points in your journey
- 52:25like where you let your health go.
- 52:27You mentioned before where some relationships didn't work out.
- 52:30I know now it's just like a broad topic,
- 52:33but now you're a little bit closer to God
- 52:34than I think you wear certain parts in your journey as well.
- 52:36So the point is I don't like when people build
- 52:39and then they let their physical health,
- 52:42mental health, relationships, spiritual,
- 52:44all that go to shit.
- 52:45I think that that's, I think that I don't think it's necessary,
- 52:49but I know it happens to a lot of people.
- 52:51I truly do believe that there's ways to at least maintain.
- 52:55I don't think they're always going to be like killing it
- 52:56and every single bucket simultaneously,
- 52:58but I mean, argue with me or not,
- 53:01but if you agree,
- 53:03then what would you do differently
- 53:06while you were on the come-up
- 53:07so that you don't let all those other things
- 53:09sort of go by the wayside?
- 53:10Yeah, so there's 168 hours in a week.
- 53:13If you spend 60, let's just say you spend 70 working
- 53:16and 50 sleeping.
- 53:18You still got, still got 50 hours left.
- 53:21Every single person listen to this podcast,
- 53:24focus on time management,
- 53:27focus on setting your alarm clock versus your bedtime alarm
- 53:32versus your alarm clock.
- 53:33Focus on how to be more efficient with your time.
- 53:36You know, there's certain things you could do
- 53:37that you think take an hour,
- 53:38but you could get it down to five minutes.
- 53:40Continuous improvement on your schedule
- 53:43and learning how to delegate, don't dump.
- 53:45Delegate means here's what needs to be done.
- 53:47Here's why it needs to be done.
- 53:49Here's when it needs to get done by,
- 53:50here's the resource you have available.
- 53:51Here's what you get if you get it done.
- 53:52Here's the time we're going to meet up to discuss
- 53:54if it's getting done so you don't procrastinate.
- 53:56And if you delegate and document delegation correctly
- 53:59and it's not easy to do,
- 54:00these are new habits that you've got to learn.
- 54:02Everything comes easier
- 54:04and I've just got this memory, I don't forget.
- 54:06Like if I want to get something done,
- 54:07I'll wake up in the middle of the night
- 54:08and be like, did we get that done?
- 54:10And people know that about me.
- 54:11They're like, dude, how do you remember all this stuff?
- 54:12I'm like, look, I sent you this email
- 54:16and I don't send emails anymore.
- 54:17But if anything, you communicate with me through text,
- 54:20that's about it.
- 54:21I mean, maybe a Facebook message is there in there
- 54:23but I'm at the point now where,
- 54:25if I could delegate text messaging, I would.
- 54:27There would be like, you'd have my number,
- 54:29I'd probably have 150, 200 people.
- 54:31Because it's literally like, I get more text messages about,
- 54:34hey, what do you think about this?
- 54:35And I'm like, it's all about delegation.
- 54:37Well, have you read my book?
- 54:39Have you listened to my podcast?
- 54:42People like, if you were me, what would you do?
- 54:43I was like, go learn, study.
- 54:45Go find somebody that's in your industry.
- 54:47That's, because when you become successful,
- 54:50you want to, you want to pay it forward.
- 54:51You're like, most people are like,
- 54:53but you don't want to do it for the dumb people
- 54:55that ask dumb questions that don't listen,
- 54:57that tell you how good they're going to be
- 54:58and how amazing.
- 54:59And I'm going to be just like, and I'm like,
- 55:01dude, you come in and humble.
- 55:02Like, I used to walk in there with a notepad
- 55:04into these big shops.
- 55:05I'd smile, I'd be respectful, I'd buy everybody lunch,
- 55:08and I'd learn, I'd go hang out,
- 55:10watch them take inventory, watch some train,
- 55:12and they were like, yeah, you really enjoy this stuff.
- 55:14And I'm like, listen, I'm not going to let you down.
- 55:15I'm not going to call you again until I do what you don't
- 55:18me to do.
- 55:19I'm going to first implement what you did
- 55:21before I call you back.
- 55:22And they just respected that.
- 55:24Everybody, all my mentors were like, you're the real deal.
- 55:27That's how you track the people that are actually
- 55:28in the right direction.
- 55:29Yeah, you don't disrespect their time.
- 55:30You act, you're just super curious.
- 55:33You're not bragging about yourself.
- 55:34You're not telling them all your dreams.
- 55:36You're asking really good questions.
- 55:37And when they ask you a question, you could respond.
- 55:40But so many people, they want to talk about themselves
- 55:41for three hours.
- 55:43And they never, they sit down with a guru.
- 55:45They never got to get the questions answered.
- 55:48And if you were me, what would you do?
- 55:49Well, you don't have any year numbers.
- 55:51You don't have any business plan.
- 55:53You don't have any KPIs.
- 55:54You don't have a CRM set up.
- 55:56I don't even know, what's the tenure
- 55:58of your average employee?
- 55:59Like, what are your goals?
- 56:01When they come in and they want you to just,
- 56:02and everybody thinks there's a silver bullet
- 56:04and there are no silver bullets, dude.
- 56:06There are not.
- 56:07You hire right, you take care of people.
- 56:09Those are not silver bullets,
- 56:10because you're going to make a mistake in that process.
- 56:13But at the end of the day, if you do want to track the people
- 56:15that are going to change your life, like show up with respect.
- 56:18You got to define, look, you met Gina, right?
- 56:21And I don't think you probably did this,
- 56:22but you probably were thinking, like, what,
- 56:24what do I want in a woman?
- 56:25You probably went through other relationships
- 56:27and you know what you didn't want.
- 56:28You know, if you really thought about it,
- 56:30you wrote down a list.
- 56:31You would read this list out loud,
- 56:33and be like, man, I got to become a better version
- 56:34of myself to even a server girl like this.
- 56:37And so when I want to attract the right people
- 56:39into the business, I wrote down 30 things
- 56:41I would need to become, to even be worthy to even attract them.
- 56:44Like a great communicator have the best benefits.
- 56:47Make sure that I'm doing open book management
- 56:49that everyone knows where we're at.
- 56:50And I'm communicating all the time,
- 56:52showing them the plan, caring about their dreams
- 56:53just as much as my own.
- 56:55Like I wrote down all these things,
- 56:56and it's not perfect.
- 56:57I would say I'm a work in progress, I always will be.
- 56:59But I'm always shooting for the next level
- 57:02to become a better leader for them.
- 57:04And I will say it goes both ways, though.
- 57:06I wanted to tell you quickly, Gina Whitman.
- 57:10I know I'm going back to something here.
- 57:11Gina Whitman sold his company EOS.
- 57:13It's probably one of the best management philosophies
- 57:15in the world, like the rocks
- 57:17and the way you have meetings and take off a month.
- 57:19And a lot of people sell their business
- 57:21and they feel this empty void of just pure emptiness.
- 57:25They make a lot of money.
- 57:26They're sitting on, there's gold bars everywhere.
- 57:29They got more than enough money to do whatever they want
- 57:31for anybody in their family.
- 57:33And yet there's this massive void of just nothingness,
- 57:37of just a loss of purpose, a loss of their identity.
- 57:41Their work has become their identity.
- 57:43And it happens with everybody.
- 57:45And all of a sudden you sell and you've got all this money.
- 57:48And he wrote the book Shine.
- 57:50And he came up with 40 alternatives of what you do.
- 57:52Sometimes it's Ioska trip, sometimes it's deep,
- 57:55you know, see a shrink.
- 57:57But whatever it is, like for me,
- 57:59I didn't lose my identity, become still a CEO.
- 58:01And I built other meaning in other things.
- 58:03I can invest in other businesses,
- 58:05but still my rock is still I won.
- 58:07And it always will be because that's my like,
- 58:10that's what changed everything.
- 58:11That's what changed a lot of people's life.
- 58:12But it changed my life, it changed my family's life.
- 58:14Listen, we added, with through browsers,
- 58:16we added the generational curse.
- 58:18That was literally a cord around my neck, my family.
- 58:25The generational curse, we sniped that modify.
- 58:28But I think that actually that answer is like,
- 58:30in a roundabout way, I actually think that answer is like,
- 58:32my question, because yes, your identity can be your business,
- 58:35but it can't be like your worth either.
- 58:38So like your identity can be your business, it's good.
- 58:41It's important.
- 58:42Like it got rid of this generational curse.
- 58:44But at the same time, it wasn't like the,
- 58:47you don't define yourself only.
- 58:49Like Tommy is not just a one.
- 58:53But I think that a lot of people just become their business,
- 58:54only their business.
- 58:56And that's why they lose purpose when they sell exit, whatever.
- 59:00Like even if you sold an exit, listen,
- 59:02I don't think that you would lose purpose.
- 59:04I mean, look at the end of the day, I want to use my brain.
- 59:08And I don't want to do it through cross repusals.
- 59:10No, I understand that.
- 59:11So how do you use your brain?
- 59:13And I've invested in a lot of things
- 59:14that I get to use my brain, but I've built so much chemistry
- 59:17in my business.
- 59:18And it took years and years and years and years.
- 59:20I know every single, the leaders I know so well.
- 59:25And I don't need to communicate.
- 59:27Like sometimes I can look at somebody,
- 59:28we automatically know what's going to happen.
- 59:30And that takes years in the crumb lottery that comes with that.
- 59:33But I will say, you know, I have a mentor, his name's Cameron Herald.
- 59:36And he goes, look, you know what I hate the most
- 59:38is when people say, what do you like to do?
- 59:41Oh, I like, you know, I love to work.
- 59:42Like I really built the job I love.
- 59:44I love to go into work and he goes, dude, what about your BS?
- 59:48He was, what'd you like to do when you were 13?
- 59:50He said, what were you fascinated with?
- 59:52Did you like to hunt?
- 59:52Did you like to collect baseball cards?
- 59:54Did you like to go to movies?
- 59:55Did you like to go bowling?
- 59:56What kind of leagues were you in?
- 59:57Like find out what you love outside of what you consider working.
- 1:00:00And I was like, we were having a podcast and he goes,
- 1:00:05what do you like to do?
- 1:00:06And I was like, well, no, I'm not going to tell you like to work.
- 1:00:09Do you think that it's important to have hobbies outside of what you do?
- 1:00:13Look, I think you're more balanced and you think you're balanced.
- 1:00:17The way you come across, when you talk to me,
- 1:00:20you don't sound like you're balanced at all.
- 1:00:21But I know you.
- 1:00:22And I actually think you're very balanced, which is interesting to me,
- 1:00:25because I know people that are more obsessed
- 1:00:27that don't have good relationships, that don't have good health,
- 1:00:30that don't have anything else in their life.
- 1:00:32And I actually think you have all of that.
- 1:00:34But that's what I see outside looking in.
- 1:00:35Like I see somebody who's built a nine-figure valuation business.
- 1:00:39You say that you can't do anything but work
- 1:00:42because you have to use your mind.
- 1:00:44But I think you are selling yourself short.
- 1:00:47And I think that most people would look at you
- 1:00:49and say you have incredible balance for what you built.
- 1:00:52That's my interpretation.
- 1:00:53Well, look, I will say that it's gotten better every year.
- 1:00:57And I build, I'll tell you, I got a whole file on my phone
- 1:01:00of when I turned 45, I'm 42, you might say, why 45?
- 1:01:03Well, I still got an obligation here for the next few years.
- 1:01:07But it's not going to change when I turn 49 and 364 days.
- 1:01:13It's got to be a plan.
- 1:01:15And this includes everything from meditation, daily journaling.
- 1:01:18It includes what my work life, like you got to manifest it.
- 1:01:22This is my biggest, if you could learn anything from this podcast,
- 1:01:25everything that I do is by design.
- 1:01:27It's setting a big goal.
- 1:01:29It's writing it down.
- 1:01:30And what needs to happen?
- 1:01:32You don't wake up one day and it's all there.
- 1:01:33You don't go, man, I'm at 6% body fat.
- 1:01:35First, you got to get to 15, and you got to get to 12,
- 1:01:37then you got to get to 10.
- 1:01:38And there's got to be disciplines
- 1:01:40within their macro scouting, you get the right protein.
- 1:01:42You got to have the right cardio.
- 1:01:44You got to have the right doctor to make sure your glands
- 1:01:46are, you know, the testosterone levels and everything else.
- 1:01:49So like, that's everything.
- 1:01:50If you want to be a strong Christian,
- 1:01:52you don't just wake up one day.
- 1:01:53I'd be like, man, my face is amazing.
- 1:01:54You got to go to church and you got to spend time with the Lord
- 1:01:56and you got to pray and you got to get involved with the community.
- 1:01:59So like, everything I'm doing is by design.
- 1:02:03And you wonder why, like Jeff Bezos,
- 1:02:04does it work 60 hours a week?
- 1:02:07He doesn't.
- 1:02:09Elon Musk does, but he's got five freaking companies.
- 1:02:13He spent, he goes into each one for five hours every other week.
- 1:02:17Finds the problem, solves them, stays out of people's hair.
- 1:02:19I want people to connect with you.
- 1:02:21Where do people go to get your podcast,
- 1:02:23connect you on social, where do you want to send them?
- 1:02:25TommyMello.com has all my handles.
- 1:02:27The podcast is home service millionaire.
- 1:02:29If you like home service, if not the mellow millionaire,
- 1:02:32you were on that amazing guest.
- 1:02:34You know, you're, you've got a massive following
- 1:02:37and you're just a good guy.
- 1:02:38So if you could only pass on one lesson to your kids,
- 1:02:41the most important lesson that's changed your life,
- 1:02:43what would that lesson be in life?
- 1:02:44Yeah, so on my casket, I want two things.
- 1:02:46Number one, best dad in the world,
- 1:02:48which is nothing to do with your question.
- 1:02:50And I don't have kids yet.
- 1:02:51But number two, the most curious man.
- 1:02:54And my favorite three letters that I teach everybody
- 1:02:56in my training is ASK.
- 1:02:58Ask, go for no, you got to ask more questions.
- 1:03:02Be more curious, be willing to do the work.
- 1:03:04So I think no matter how good your success is,
- 1:03:07be curious, like go learn more.
- 1:03:09Use your brain, don't let it just die.
- 1:03:13Success leaves clues.
- 1:03:14So make sure you're getting, look,
- 1:03:18there's a couple of things when you're asking,
- 1:03:20hang out with people you got a common future
- 1:03:22instead of a common past.
- 1:03:24And manifest what that future is going to be.
- 1:03:26Get into the right rooms with the people.
- 1:03:28If you really wanted to be a percent body fat,
- 1:03:30you'd probably, I would see who your top five friends
- 1:03:32you hang out with.
- 1:03:33And you guys are eating very, very clean.
- 1:03:36And if you're wanting to be like really close
- 1:03:38and you say you're religious,
- 1:03:40show me your five friends.
- 1:03:41If you want to be a drug addict and go to the strict club,
- 1:03:43look at your friends, you will become who you hang out with.
- 1:03:46So when you're curious, be curious to the right people.
- 1:03:50That's what I tell my kids is listen,
- 1:03:52get in the right circles, ask great questions,
- 1:03:54and never feel like you're there.
- 1:03:56Never feel like the day you feel like you've arrived
- 1:03:59is the day you could throw me in the casket.