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Three Shots of Tequila Please feat. Marvin Abbey · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
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  Speaker 3: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you niggas and
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  Speaker 3: these hoes. That's how I'm feeling this week, all right?
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  Speaker 3: And everybody else in between. This is your co-host, AJ Holiday.
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  Speaker 4: What's up, Tim? Hey, girl.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, y'all. It's me, Tim Bam. I love y'all. What's
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  Speaker 2: up in this week?
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  Speaker 4: She's a resin.
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  Speaker 2: I know I feel better. I know I sound better
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  Speaker 2: than last week.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't feel that much better, but I
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  Speaker 1: sound a little better than last week.
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  Speaker 2: How was your weekend, friend? It was cool.
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  Speaker 4: It was a taste of Latin. The Latin taste.
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  Speaker 3: Of Charleston this past weekend, and I was over Latin
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  Speaker 3: people this weekend. Somebody took my parking spot at the
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  Speaker 3: flea market.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Karen.
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  Speaker 3: Bitch, when I tell you I could get out and
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  Speaker 3: stab their fucking tires, I mean that.
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  Speaker 4: Have you ever swung in and taken somebody's parking space?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, it was kind of like y'all were playing chicken
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  Speaker 1: for the parking space.
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  Speaker 2: We were not playing chicken.
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  Speaker 4: It was clearly my parking space.
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  Speaker 3: And they swung in from a different direction and took
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  Speaker 3: it and then looked at me as they got out
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  Speaker 3: the car. And I said, y'all think that's right? What
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  Speaker 3: your bitch ass? I was yelling out the window all crazy.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And what'd they say? Nothing.
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  Speaker 4: They just walked off.
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  Speaker 2: And look. They was like, I won, bitch.
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  Speaker 5: Move on.
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  Speaker 3: And look, I said, you know what? I ain't spending
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  Speaker 3: no money with these Hispanics today. I got the fuck
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  Speaker 3: up out that parking lot. Now, you can't be mad
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  Speaker 3: at all.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody gonna get it. I wouldn't let nobody in.
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't let nobody in, like, trying to get into
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  Speaker 3: the parking spot. I wouldn't, like, I mean, trying to
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  Speaker 3: get out the parking lot. I wouldn't let nobody, like,
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  Speaker 3: get in. I wasn't courteous to anybody going forward.
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  Speaker 2: That was some real Karen behavior, AJ. What did I
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  Speaker 2: do this weekend?
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  Speaker 1: I just laid in bed all weekend trying to recover.
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  Speaker 1: I'm still trying to recover you guys. So I didn't
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  Speaker 1: do shit, but watch some TV, which brings me to
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  Speaker 1: stupid internet news. I don't know if y'all tuned in,
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  Speaker 1: but Amazon Prime has a new series called Swarm that
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  Speaker 1: came out and it has damson edris and chloe bailey
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  Speaker 1: in it and it's created by donald glover also known
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  Speaker 1: as childish gambino and janine neighbors and it is a
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  Speaker 1: psychological thriller which is right on point with donald glover
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  Speaker 1: because he's always making something that's it's giving jordan peele
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  Speaker 1: it's giving m night shamalan kind of vibes where it's
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  Speaker 1: like y'all watch atlanta i'm sure y'all watch atlanta so
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  Speaker 1: it's always like this is weird this is disturbing But
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  Speaker 1: everybody was tuned in this weekend. And what really made
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  Speaker 1: me tune in is because the internet was going crazy
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  Speaker 1: saying Damson and Khloe was on there fucking.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, well, let me go see this.
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  Speaker 4: I can't fuck.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to go watch somebody else. And baby, Khloe had,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it.
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  Speaker 1: Wasn't really like that, like that. Like I thought I
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  Speaker 1: was going to see some juices flying and all kinds
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  Speaker 1: of stuff.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't giving all that. Some soft porn, some soft
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  Speaker 2: hard porn. Yeah, that's what I was thinking. From an
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  Speaker 2: Amazon series.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: They was going so crazy for it, but it was
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  Speaker 1: just some back shots. Damson, give me some back shots.
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  Speaker 4: Chloe can't wait to put that ass on TV.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. It look good, though. She's throwing it back. The
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  Speaker 2: arch was pretty good, now.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, Chloe, I see you, girl. Pop
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  Speaker 1: that pussy for a real Damson.
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  Speaker 3: Damson is a good-ass actor. How they get him to
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  Speaker 3: act like a little down south nigga like that?
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  Speaker 2: Like, right.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, he's a good British. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: He's a great actor, man.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder what, how he really fuck. He probably be like,
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  Speaker 2: this pussy is brilliant. Reminds me of some crumpets. I like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm fucking the shit out of you in it.
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  Speaker 5: In it.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, like Chloe said, Damson made her feel comfortable. She says,
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  Speaker 3: I was very scared because I haven't had that many partners.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not like that. That's sexual and open, she explained.
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  Speaker 3: Damson made it really comfortable. You know, there were limited
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  Speaker 3: people on set. It was a closed set. We were
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  Speaker 3: laughing in between. We literally had a bouncy ball in
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  Speaker 3: between us. I have to give a lot of kudos
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  Speaker 3: to him. As a woman, feel comfortable being literally raw naked.
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  Speaker 4: I thought it was a fake ass. So apparently, I mean,
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  Speaker 4: not a fake one.
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  Speaker 3: I thought it was like a stand-in.
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  Speaker 4: But it was actually her ass and his body.
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  Speaker 2: So where was the ball at?
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  Speaker 1: I didn't see no ball. Because I didn't see no
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  Speaker 1: room for no bouncy ball.
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  Speaker 2: That looked like some real fucking... The bouncy ball was
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  Speaker 2: there to act. That's what the bouncy ball was.
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  Speaker 4: That looked like some real good fucking.
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  Speaker 3: What I want to know is, Chloe, was your pussy
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  Speaker 3: getting wet?
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  Speaker 2: Because my pussy would have been leaking right down the bed.
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  Speaker 2: Acting or no acting.
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  Speaker 1: You can't be bouncing up against this pussy like that
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  Speaker 1: and nothing happens.
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  Speaker 3: Dancing would have had to file a damn sexual harassment
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  Speaker 3: lawsuit on your ass.
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  Speaker 2: Hell yeah.
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  Speaker 4: My bad, dancing.
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  Speaker 2: This pussy juicy.
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  Speaker 5: It has a mind of its own.
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  Speaker 3: My pussy thought she said.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Look, speaking of sex and not having had a lot
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  Speaker 3: of sex, Larsa Pimpin.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, excuse me.
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  Speaker 4: Larsa Pimpin. You said it right.
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  Speaker 2: Larsa Pipin.
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  Speaker 4: Larsa Pimpin.
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  Speaker 3: Larsa Pimpin actually said that her and her ex-husband. This
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  Speaker 3: is on the Real Housewives of Miami podcast. I think
• 6:02
  Speaker 3: this was the reunion, right? So she says her and
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  Speaker 3: Scottie Pippen would have sex four times a night, leaving
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  Speaker 3: her without a day off. She said, I was married
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  Speaker 3: for 23 years. I've always had sex four times a night.
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  Speaker 3: The 48-year-old said on Thursday, March 16th, during the reality
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  Speaker 3: show's reunion special, I had sex four times a night.
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  Speaker 4: Every night, I never had a day off for 23 years.
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  Speaker 2: But here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: This is why she's still fucking these young ass niggas
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  Speaker 1: because they say 10,000 times of doing anything makes you
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  Speaker 1: an expert, right?
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  Speaker 2: That shit hitting.
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  Speaker 1: If you was fucking that many times a day for
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  Speaker 1: 23 years, you are an expert fucker, right?
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  Speaker 4: She literally a motherfucker, okay?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she.
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  Speaker 5: Is.
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  Speaker 4: That's a lot of sex. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Just recently I've been having conversations with women who are in,
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  Speaker 3: these are friends who are in, you know, committed relationships.
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  Speaker 4: One of them actually married and they don't be.
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  Speaker 3: Getting enough dick. So here's Scottie Pippen. He just dicking
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  Speaker 3: his wife down four days a week. Excuse me, four
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  Speaker 3: times a night.
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  Speaker 2: So that's what?
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  Speaker 4: Four times seven, 28, 28 times a week.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, this bitch is out here that can't get it twice.
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  Speaker 2: God damn, Scottie Pippen got a new bitch. Let's see
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  Speaker 2: what Scottie Pippen talking about.
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  Speaker 4: That dick might not be dicking like that no more.
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  Speaker 2: What do you think? Yeah, probably not.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: But who, I don't want to fuck four times a day.
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  Speaker 2: But you know what? Maybe if I didn't have to.
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  Speaker 4: Go to work.
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  Speaker 2: That is the job.
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  Speaker 4: That's the job.
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  Speaker 2: That is the job.
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  Speaker 4: That's a kept woman. I'm pretty sure she never had
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  Speaker 4: to work or take care of kids.
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  Speaker 5: Ever.
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  Speaker 4: She just is. On duty.
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  Speaker 2: Still don't.
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  Speaker 3: Smashing all day long shit. Is that the life you
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  Speaker 3: want to live? That ain't no soft life, man. That's
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  Speaker 3: a lot of wear and tear.
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  Speaker 4: I'll take it. That's a lot of wear and tear
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  Speaker 4: on that coochie. 28 times a week, Tam.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, work doing hair all day and then sitting at
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  Speaker 1: this motherfucking microphone with you is a lot of work, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: This is wear and tear on my knees and my
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  Speaker 2: vocal cords.
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  Speaker 3: Look but it's gonna be look you know them 28
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  Speaker 3: times some head involved back of that throat be tear
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  Speaker 3: up let's be clear four.
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  Speaker 1: Times a night it got they got to be 10
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  Speaker 1: minute sessions each that's a lot of some of them
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  Speaker 1: not that long I think I could do.
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  Speaker 3: It that's a lot of sex I don't know maybe
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  Speaker 3: she can maybe she can get some give some pointers
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  Speaker 3: she might could write a book on that.
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  Speaker 2: Right like 10,000 times of anything make.
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  Speaker 1: You an expert yeah she needs to write a book
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  Speaker 1: Larsa Pipeman, write us a book.
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  Speaker 3: Like, if she done been with Future, Future look just
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  Speaker 3: like Scottie Pippen to me.
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  Speaker 4: What do you think?
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  Speaker 2: I can see the resemblance in the nose area. Like
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  Speaker 2: the flat face with the nose area. That look like
• 9:02
  Speaker 2: his big brother, for sure. So she got a tight...
• 9:04
  Speaker 2: His dad.
• 9:05
  Speaker 3: And she's with Marcus Jordan now. Michael Jordan's son. And
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  Speaker 3: she said she'd actually change her last name to Jordan.
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  Speaker 2: Duh, bitch.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 4: Of course you would.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely. So I wonder how her kids feel about that.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: She's 48 years old. Is that coochie still hitting at 48?
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  Speaker 2: Must be. Write a book.
• 9:30
  Speaker 4: Write a book, Larsa.
• 9:32
  Speaker 2: Right. We need you, girl. Let's figure out how to.
• 9:35
  Speaker 4: Get these young niggas forever. I don't want them.
• 9:37
  Speaker 3: Don't nobody feel like picking dick up and dropping dick
• 9:40
  Speaker 3: off for the rest of their life with these young
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  Speaker 3: niggas and pack a bag lunches?
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  Speaker 5: I do.
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  Speaker 4: Know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: I do. I can't wait to do it. Buy these
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: niggas an Xbox 62. Mama got you some, baby.
• 9:52
  Speaker 4: Up at the school with a new pair of Jordans
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  Speaker 4: and shit.
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  Speaker 2: Forks of Jordans ain't going to be wearing Larson's, bitch.
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  Speaker 3: Stupid for some real stupid internet news uh this young
• 10:05
  Speaker 3: lady took to twitter her name is claire skin cutie
• 10:09
  Speaker 3: uh amoniology underscore is her twitter handle and she said
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  Speaker 3: that uh My waiter at a restaurant I ate at
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  Speaker 3: asked me to leave him a Google review.
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  Speaker 2: So I did.
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  Speaker 4: And now his BM is in my DMs.
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  Speaker 2: Swipe to the left.
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  Speaker 4: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: So her Google review says the food was amazing, all caps.
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  Speaker 3: And the service was even better. Our waiter, Meek, provided
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  Speaker 3: exceptional service. And we will be returning because of him,
• 10:39
  Speaker 3: exclamation point. The BM did not like that Google review, okay?
• 10:45
  Speaker 3: She found this woman on Instagram, okay? And DMed her
• 10:50
  Speaker 3: and said, don't know who you are, but since you
• 10:54
  Speaker 3: think flirting with my baby father while he's at work
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  Speaker 3: is cute, you can have his whole ass.
• 11:01
  Speaker 4: Imagine that.
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  Speaker 2: Tayshia clearly has been through it with this nigga.
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  Speaker 1: You know you been through it with a nigga when
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  Speaker 1: you going to Yelp reviews.
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  Speaker 2: To fucking find his bitches.
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  Speaker 3: And you know Tayshia don't give a fuck because in
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  Speaker 3: the back of her aviator is a toilet.
• 11:17
  Speaker 4: You know she don't give a fuck. She pulling up.
• 11:20
  Speaker 4: She give a fuck about her.
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  Speaker 2: Picture for social media.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Imagine that.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, Tayshia was like, first of all, that
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  Speaker 1: food is not even that motherfucking good at that restaurant
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  Speaker 1: he work at.
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  Speaker 2: Look at that hard ass cornbread.
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: That probably ain't good but Imani was just doing her
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: due diligence and being nice I had a nigga like
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: that though my ex one of my exes he did
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: not like me being nice to nobody but him nothing
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  Speaker 1: if we was going through a drive through window and
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: I smiled at the nigga in the drive through window
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  Speaker 1: he'd be like what.
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: The fuck you smiling about why you smiling at that
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: nigga I was like he just passed me my french
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  Speaker 2: fries like relax Crazy. So people be nuts about their
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: significant other.
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  Speaker 3: I always had a problem with my ex because I
• 12:12
  Speaker 3: call people babe. And it's not that I'm really calling
• 12:15
  Speaker 3: them baby or babe. It could be a young person,
• 12:18
  Speaker 3: an old person, a woman, a man. Like if I'm
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  Speaker 3: like getting service from someone, I want to be as
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  Speaker 3: pleasant as possible for them not to fuck my shit up.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, OK, thank you, babe. And I think
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  Speaker 3: I probably inherited that from my mom, maybe. Girl, that
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  Speaker 3: nigga did not like me calling other people babes.
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  Speaker 4: And one time.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like that either.
• 12:35
  Speaker 4: Cause y'all maniacs.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Call this bitch babe.
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  Speaker 4: It's not conscious. I'm not consciously aware that I'm saying
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  Speaker 4: this thing.
• 12:43
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 12:43
  Speaker 3: But he was because he just, I don't know. So
• 12:46
  Speaker 3: one time we were out and he called somebody babe,
• 12:50
  Speaker 3: like consciously called somebody babe.
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: That is different.
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  Speaker 4: Or am I tripping?
• 12:57
  Speaker 5: You tripping?
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm not tripping.
• 13:01
  Speaker 4: Don't like, because.
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: He was trying to show you, did you not care
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: if he called people babe?
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  Speaker 3: The only reason I cared is because he consciously did
• 13:10
  Speaker 3: it to try and make some type of point.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't, I'm not consciously aware.
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  Speaker 3: You know, he had to point it out to me
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  Speaker 3: and I, you know, I really tried consciously to stop
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  Speaker 3: calling people babe.
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: Because it bothered him. Anybody else I would never have
• 13:25
  Speaker 3: this discussion with.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't like that either.
• 13:29
  Speaker 4: Don't be calling them bitches.
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: It's one thing to smile because you're being polite, but
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: it's another thing to be calling this a grown woman babe.
• 13:37
  Speaker 4: Y'all some maniacs.
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: I slap the shit out of everybody in this world.
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: I take my forearm and knock all this shit on
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  Speaker 2: the table. Don't call this hoe baby. You know that's
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: my favorite bitch.
• 13:44
  Speaker 4: I can't knock.
• 13:45
  Speaker 5: Wait!
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: I can't wait.
• 13:48
  Speaker 3: I did it a little bit one time to an ex.
• 13:51
  Speaker 3: I knocked all his shit off of his dresser. Even
• 13:54
  Speaker 3: like a whole cup of water.
• 13:56
  Speaker 4: Like with it. But restaurant, I'm going to flip the
• 14:00
  Speaker 4: table over. I'm going to clear it.
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: You excited to have You excited to have a reason
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  Speaker 1: to do that?
• 14:06
  Speaker 2: Yes. That is toxic as fuck.
• 14:08
  Speaker 4: And I might kick sweep the nigga afterwards.
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: Please run after that because you're going to jail.
• 14:16
  Speaker 4: All right, y'all. Listen, April 22nd.
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: Okay, we got the live, the first, very first Black
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: Effect Podcast Festival in Atlanta, Georgia, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Get your tickets today.
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• 14:41
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• 14:42
  Speaker 4: Do not delay. It's going to be nice.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to be on stage for the first time, y'all.
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited, man.
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: She's going to be crazy. I ain't going to eat
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: no more carbs until then.
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: So when y'all see a bitch out there looking like
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: at least five pounds smaller, y'all.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: Better clap for a bitch because I'm hungry.
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: I was thinking about going on a coke diet.
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you want to join me or not,
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: but I heard coke get you together.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: I ain't doing that. You're going to be in the hospital.
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: Shit, I'm going to be on stage like, woo! Having
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: a good old time.
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: I'm going to get some Narcan for your ass, just
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: in case. Look, just in case I end up with
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: a bad batch, ain't it?
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: Right y'all pull up on us y'all everybody gonna be
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: there 85 south headlining the whole shit uh.
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah just hilarious and charlamagne the guy.
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: Hosting yes it's gonna be a good time it's.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: Gonna be so much fun y'all we um speaking of
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: damson and fucking in a british accent we got a
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: guest on today he is one of the hosts of
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Three Shots of Tequila, which is a very popular UK podcast,
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: and we got him on today talking shit with us.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: So we'll be right back. Y'all tune in.
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: Hey, y'all.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: We're back, and we got a special guest on from
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: across the pond, my friend Marvin Abbey from Three Shots
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: of Tequila podcast.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: Welcome, my boy.
• 16:05
  Speaker 5: What's happening?
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: How you doing?
• 16:07
  Speaker 5: I'm good, man. Thanks for having me.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad you came. I didn't think he was
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: coming for real.
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: No, no.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: He better show up.
• 16:13
  Speaker 5: Definitely, I better show up.
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: What you doing in New York? What you got going
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: on the side? I know you ain't just down here
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: doing We Talk Back.
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: I was going to say holiday, but you don't call
• 16:22
  Speaker 5: it vacay.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: Vacation.
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: Why do they call it holiday?
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: Why do you call it vacay?
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: It's a vacation.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: A holiday is like a day that everybody celebrates.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: A vacation is personal. Specific to you.
• 16:35
  Speaker 5: Holiday, that's what we say. Or if you're working, annual leave.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, so what is... All right. I work for myself, so.
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: All right, so what do you call Boxing Day? Is
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: that a holiday, or is that... What is that?
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: Yes, a public holiday.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: So you have a personal holiday and a public holiday.
• 16:56
  Speaker 5: No, but it's a public holiday. It's everyone's off. You
• 16:58
  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying? Yeah. Whereas a holiday is just
• 17:01
  Speaker 5: for you.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: That's what a holiday is, when everybody off.
• 17:03
  Speaker 5: No, no, no. A public holiday is everyone. A holiday
• 17:07
  Speaker 5: is just for you.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, whatever.
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: That's that British bullshit.
• 17:11
  Speaker 5: Do you know what I find crazy? That Americans tell
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: English people that you don't use English properly. Do you
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: know how crazy that is?
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 17:19
  Speaker 5: Because it's English.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, I get what you're saying there, but that
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: makes a lot of sense.
• 17:25
  Speaker 5: It does not. And you change everything. And what you
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: use is like, for example, that trash can.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: The bin.
• 17:34
  Speaker 5: The bin. Can I go to the bathroom? It's the toilet.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Say it again.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: The toilet.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: The bathroom.
• 17:43
  Speaker 5: See what I'm saying? See?
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: But there's more in the bathroom besides the toilet. You know,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I could be going to use the bathroom and not
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: be going to use the toilet.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: You do realize that.
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: I'm going to the toilet.
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: But the main reason, the main thing in there is
• 17:58
  Speaker 5: the toilet.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: Right, but that's not the only thing you use in there.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: So it's a room with a bath, a toilet, a sink.
• 18:04
  Speaker 5: There's no bath in there. exactly see something there's no
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: bathroom there's still a bathroom that's what i'm.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Saying this is how we're starting to show up yeah
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: we're talking about britain all right let's get into it
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: tell us about three shots of tequila how did that
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: get started um.
• 18:21
  Speaker 5: So that was just a podcast uh with two of
• 18:23
  Speaker 5: my guys in the uk um we started out six
• 18:27
  Speaker 5: years ago april that'll be seven years this year um
• 18:32
  Speaker 5: When we started it, there wasn't really a podcast scene
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: in the UK for like black people or people from
• 18:37
  Speaker 5: our culture. There were a few people doing it, but
• 18:39
  Speaker 5: it wasn't like exposed. It wasn't big. Most people were
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: trying to do like YouTube, rap, you know, like the
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: usual paths. And then we were all doing different things.
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: I was doing radio. My guy Keith was doing radio.
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: Taze was doing a few other things as well. And
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: then we just had the idea to come together and
• 18:59
  Speaker 5: make a podcast.
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: And we literally had no promo, no nothing. We were like,
• 19:05
  Speaker 5: you know what, let's just bring it out on Friday.
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: And then we just brought it out. And then I
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: think we got something crazy like 7K in 24 hours.
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: With no promo or nothing.
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but you were on the radio already, right?
• 19:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but the radio finished like three, four months before that.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah. So people are asking me, what else
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: am I going to do? I'm like, I'm not too sure.
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: And then we got like within, I don't know, like
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: a month, We were out on like a million plays.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: That's wild.
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: That's crazy.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: Y'all doing exactly what you're supposed to be doing.
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: And it just spiraled out of control. Not out of control,
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: but it just went. And then we kind of kicked
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: open the door for podcasts in the UK. That like
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: people were like, oh. Because a lot of the time
• 19:46
  Speaker 5: with podcasts, people spoke in a... PC way. There was
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: no swearing. There was no unfiltered stories. It was just
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: PC where we were like one of the first to
• 19:58
  Speaker 5: come out and just.
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: The American way.
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: Talk how you talk. How guys are talking like a
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: group chat.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 20:05
  Speaker 5: That's what it was like. And women loved it because
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: they were like, We want to hear what guys are
• 20:09
  Speaker 5: really saying. We don't want to, what we think.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: The watered down version.
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah, so, and it just went from there. And then
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: years later, we got signed exclusive to Spotify. And then
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: we've done so many sold out shows. Have you heard
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: of Royal Albert Hall before? No. Oh, it's like a massive, iconic,
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: it's like the Queen's building in the UK. It's like
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: a stadium.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Y'all sold that out?
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: We sold that out.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: Damn, that's dope.
• 20:31
  Speaker 5: And Hammersmith Apollo. We've done all different things.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: How'd y'all come up with the name Three Shots of Tequila?
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: I think that was my guy, Keith. No, Taser likes tequila.
• 20:41
  Speaker 5: And we didn't want a podcast that was named, we
• 20:45
  Speaker 5: don't want the name to be too obvious. We didn't
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: want it to be like, you look at the podcast
• 20:49
  Speaker 5: and you know it's Free Black Boys.
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: So anyone listening or reading it would be like, Free
• 20:53
  Speaker 5: Shot Tequila, what's that? So you're kind of forced to
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: listen to it to find out what it's about.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, shit.
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: When you talk back, you automatically know that's black women.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Right, talking shit.
• 21:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah. But the thing is, you might say we talk back.
• 21:04
  Speaker 5: You might be like radio because for some reason.
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: I don't know. Right, right. Like talk back radio.
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: Right. So do you know what I'm saying? It's a
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: play on if you know, you know if you don't. Right.
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: Whereas if it was just like boys in the hood,
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: you're like, yeah, they're black boys. Right. Or something like
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: too cliche.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: Okay, that's fair.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: That's fair.
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: So, okay.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: Tell me about a time that you were drunk on tequila,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: like your crazy tequila story.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: You got to have one.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: You can't be from three shots of tequila without a
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: crazy tequila story.
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: Do you know a crazy tequila story? I've been drunk before.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, well tell a drunk story then.
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's not like a crazy story. So one
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: time I was in Barcelona. We had a booking in Barcelona.
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: Funny enough, there were some Americans there as well. There
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: was a club and the shots that they gave were
• 21:52
  Speaker 5: like this big. Massive. So we've got to the bar,
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: we're like, yo, let's get shots for everyone. Not everyone,
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: but there's about maybe us and four or five girls.
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: We're like, yeah, let's get a shot for everyone. Three
• 22:05
  Speaker 5: shots each. So when the guy poured these shots here,
• 22:08
  Speaker 5: I'm looking, I'm like, what is that, three in one?
• 22:11
  Speaker 5: He's got nine, and that's one each. They were like this.
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: Shame.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: And you took it?
• 22:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah, so I took it, obviously, because I ain't no,
• 22:17
  Speaker 5: I'll keep showing this.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: You ain't no bitch.
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: Oh, yeah. Yeah. I ain't no bitch. So I took
• 22:23
  Speaker 5: the shots, bang, bang, bang. And I'm like, yeah, I'm cool.
• 22:26
  Speaker 5: I'm all right. Like, this is nothing. Anyway, I've got
• 22:29
  Speaker 5: in the cab and then my friends pulled up next
• 22:31
  Speaker 5: to me and he's going, yo, you drunk? I'm like, no, nothing.
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: As soon as he said that, I don't know what
• 22:37
  Speaker 5: it was. I was just like, it's like I'm going
• 22:40
  Speaker 5: to throw up. I had to put my head out
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: of the cab. When I got back to the hotel,
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: I couldn't walk. Like, people had to help me. Like,
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: my legs were gone. As in, like, I was getting dragged.
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: Two girls were holding me. My other guy was holding me.
• 22:51
  Speaker 5: I don't know what happened, but that split second, my
• 22:54
  Speaker 5: legs went. I don't drink like that normally.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: No, that was just a vacation drink.
• 22:58
  Speaker 5: Nah, nah, nah.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: AJ, you got a crazy tequila story?
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: Not tequila, but there's a reason I don't drink vodka anymore.
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: What? I got in the bathtub fully clothed.
• 23:09
  Speaker 5: With your boots on?
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: Nah, but everything on.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: Your shoes and everything?
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: Everything in the bathtub.
• 23:13
  Speaker 5: Mario Winans. Is that Mario Winans?
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: What is it?
• 23:17
  Speaker 5: Mario Winans, that video. I don't want to know. He
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: was fully caught in the bathtub.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: I don't want to know.
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: I might have been on some type of shit like that.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: But the two times I've had to get escorted or
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: helped out the club, it was on Tequila.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: No, it was Vodka.
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: So I don't fuck with Vodka.
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: I was speaking to someone else and they were saying
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: different alcohol makes them feel different.
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Vodka makes me sick.
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: I think someone said Henny makes them want to fight
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: certain alcohol makes you more horny, certain vodka makes you,
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: or alcohol makes you want to fart.
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: It's all scary.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: All you can make me want to fart.
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: You don't know what it's going to do to you.
• 23:59
  Speaker 5: Serious?
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think.
• 24:01
  Speaker 5: So there's no Henny or.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: No, I don't have that going on.
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: It's weed for me, but.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: I have a crazy tequila story.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: Yes, I only smoke if I want to have sex.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: If I'm in, like, I know it's about to.
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: Happen, I'll smoke.
• 24:12
  Speaker 5: Oh, because it makes your pleasure go up.
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 24:14
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: It's way more enhanced.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Liquor, I'm like feeling shooken up.
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: No.
• 24:18
  Speaker 5: No.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: No.
• 24:24
  Speaker 5: No, I do not. No, that's for real.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: No, I do not.
• 24:29
  Speaker 5: No, that's for real.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I have a crazy tequila story from, all right, I'm
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: telling my age, but I remember when Usher was talking
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: about Patron in the song. Patron just came out. And
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Usher was talking about Patrons and all the songs. I
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: was like, I got to try Patron. I went out,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: tried Patron, and got so fucking drunk. I will never drink.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: That shit again.
• 24:49
  Speaker 5: Patron's strong.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: It is poison.
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's strong.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: So I was in the car leaving the club with
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: one of my homegirls, right? And I threw up out
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: the window. And it went back in the car on
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: her in the backseat.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: And we had the fist fight once the car stopped
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: because we got to square up. Why? Because I threw
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: up on her. But it was an accident. It was
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: an accident.
• 25:11
  Speaker 5: You ain't going to fight for that.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: No.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I guess she was one of them drunks that get
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: mad and want to fight.
• 25:16
  Speaker 5: I'll be pissed off though.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: When she was drunk.
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: She beat my ass. I was so wasted. I couldn't
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: even fight, you know.
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: I was like, stop.
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: And were you friends after that? Yeah, we still friends
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: to this day. If you beat me up when I'm drunk,
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: I can't talk to you again.
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: But she was drunk too, so she couldn't control it.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she was drunk.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: We went to like, we fought and then we still
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: went to Waffle House and they made me sit in
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: the car. They would not let me get out of
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: the car and they didn't give me no food. They
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: were so mad at me that night. And I was like,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: please give me some. I was like, can I have some?
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: She's like, it's grits. I was like, please give me some.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: She's like, I don't have an extra fork.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: I was like, put it in my hand. She slapped
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: grits in my hand and it was like all over
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: my face. I will never drink Patron again.
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: I only found out what grits was the other day. What?
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: I didn't know what grits was. I thought it was
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: pork or some shit.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Grits?
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: We probably shouldn't be eating grits. Grits make me feel
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: extra swollen.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: I love grits.
• 26:07
  Speaker 5: Me too.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Have you tried it yet?
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: It's like porridge, right?
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah. It's like porridge.
• 26:11
  Speaker 5: Like oats. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because I saw it. Because
• 26:13
  Speaker 5: I went to somewhere yesterday and they were like grits.
• 26:16
  Speaker 5: I said, what is that? And then she showed me.
• 26:17
  Speaker 5: It was like oats or something.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: But porridge is more like oatmeal to me. And grits
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: is not. Yeah, like cream of wheat. Grits is something different.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: People do make it like that with sugar and butter,
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: but y'all weird if you eat.
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: It that way. Yeah.
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: We don't eat grits.
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: You gotta have some grits before you leave.
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: Do you eat bacon?
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: You don't eat pork?
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: No, I do eat pork.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, you got to have some grits with some eggs
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: and bacon, a little toast with some jelly.
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: What's jelly? Not in New York. Who got good grits
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: in New York?
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Huh?
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: Wasn't nobody, right?
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: What's jelly?
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: Like jam.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Jam.
• 26:47
  Speaker 5: Jam.
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: This is too much.
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: Listen, listen. These are great. Jelly.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, some great.
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: Some great jam. Jelly's a sweet one.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: All of it's sweet.
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: No, there's one... Do you know what it is? I
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: can't even describe it.
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: Jelly, jam, preservatives.
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: No, there's jelly. We have jelly and we have jam.
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: Jam is like what you put on toast or bread.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the same thing.
• 27:11
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but then jelly is something else that you... I
• 27:13
  Speaker 5: can't remember how they make it. I'm trying to think of.
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: That shit got a bunch of.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: First of all, y'all food in England is.
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: Huh?
• 27:22
  Speaker 5: Food? It's what?
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: It's pretty gross.
• 27:24
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: No, y'all used to eat this shit.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Like, first of all, it'd be a little egg in
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: a cup that's half cooked, and they'd crack the egg
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: and dip bread.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: In the egg.
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: Do you know what it is? Americans do this thing here. Listen.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: What the fuck is that?
• 27:37
  Speaker 5: We're black.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: Like, that's gravy.
• 27:39
  Speaker 5: We're black in the UK. We don't eat that. That's
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: why people eat that.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, I see what you mean.
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: They call that soldiers.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: That's some wild ass shit.
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: So you cut bread, you know, like a slice of
• 27:48
  Speaker 5: bread into four. And then you crack the egg and
• 27:51
  Speaker 5: then you dip in the bread into the yolk.
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: Oh, my God.
• 27:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's garbage. But I don't eat that.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Then there was some other shit. I think it was
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: called like marmalade.
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: Marmalade.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: And it was like some meat jelly.
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: Marmalade is jam, but it's orange jam.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: No, no, not no orange jam.
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: This is meat.
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's orange jam.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, that's not what I'm talking about.
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: Marmalade.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about. That's meat jelly. And that
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: is fucking disgusting.
• 28:19
  Speaker 5: Marmite is disgusting. Marmite is disgusting.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's some British shit.
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: But Marmite is, I think they've either got the tagline
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: is you either love it or you hate it. So
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: you hate it, I hate it.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: It's like, imagine liver pudding. You know what liver pudding is?
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: I was just about to say liver pudding. I love
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: liver pudding. But I love liver pudding with some grits.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: You gotta try it.
• 28:39
  Speaker 5: Nah, definitely not.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: That's some old people shit.
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: It's like jam.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: That's some old people eating.
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: In a jar.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: In a jar. Meat in a jar, bitch.
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: Get somebody else to do it.
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: It's not technically meat, but.
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: It's a meat paste.
• 28:54
  Speaker 5: I don't know what it is. I don't know what
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: it is. It's not meat, though. It's disgusting. I know that. Yeah, man.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: Listen, I learned how to cook living in England.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: So I lived there three years. I lived in Suffolk.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: So I was in the country.
• 29:10
  Speaker 5: I know, but that's what I'm saying.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: No one.
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: Do you know what it's about the UK? It's like
• 29:14
  Speaker 5: once you come outside of London, that's it. Like there's
• 29:18
  Speaker 5: no one, it's not the same. Like you've got cities
• 29:21
  Speaker 5: like Birmingham, Manchester, Nottingham, maybe like Leeds-ish, that like you
• 29:29
  Speaker 5: might have black people. But then after that, we're like 2%
• 29:34
  Speaker 5: or 3% of the population in the UK. So UK
• 29:37
  Speaker 5: is like 65 million people. There's maybe about 2 million
• 29:41
  Speaker 5: black people there.
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: Are you African?
• 29:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Nigerian.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: I feel like every black person in Europe is African.
• 29:47
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: So that's why there's always like the argument with black
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: Americans because we can't say, you don't know what tribe
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: if we even came from Africa.
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? That's always the thing.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: But in Europe, the black people there know exactly.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: Where they came from.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 30:02
  Speaker 5: I mean, I think in terms of the UK, we've
• 30:04
  Speaker 5: got a lot of Nigerians, Ghanaians, and then a sprinkle
• 30:09
  Speaker 5: of like other nationalities. Whereas within Europe, you've got that
• 30:13
  Speaker 5: more like French Africans, Cameroonians, Ivory Coast. You've got that
• 30:19
  Speaker 5: kind of mix in Europe. And obviously you've got Nigerians
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: and Ghanaians as well. But in the UK, there's a
• 30:24
  Speaker 5: lot of West Indians. To be fair, they kind of
• 30:26
  Speaker 5: got their first... Hmm, interesting. Like the Windrush generation. Have
• 30:31
  Speaker 5: you heard of Windrush?
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: No, tell me about it.
• 30:33
  Speaker 5: So Windrush is like the first boat that came over
• 30:36
  Speaker 5: to the UK from the West Indies. So after World
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: War II, a lot of the UK were like, we
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: want nurses, engineers, all these people from the West Indies.
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: Was this like the early 1900s?
• 30:50
  Speaker 5: No, no, this is like 1950, 1960. Oh, damn. Windrush, yeah,
• 30:53
  Speaker 5: it's not that far away. And a lot of West Indians...
• 30:57
  Speaker 5: came over and then they were like helping with the NHS,
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: like nurses, engineers, builders. So that wave of West Indian
• 31:08
  Speaker 5: came into the UK. Obviously there were Africans as well,
• 31:11
  Speaker 5: but it was mainly West Indians. And then that's why
• 31:15
  Speaker 5: there was an issue with racism within the UK in
• 31:19
  Speaker 5: the early 80s, because they weren't used to black people
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: being in their schools. So they saw black people as
• 31:25
  Speaker 5: adults in the 50s but they weren't used to like
• 31:29
  Speaker 5: me being five years old in a nursery in the
• 31:34
  Speaker 5: same class as yours so then there was issues with
• 31:37
  Speaker 5: that and the police and there were so many riots.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: Sounds familiar.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: So i spent a lot of time in london like
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: every weekend we would you know go into the city
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: like and hang out And I felt like dating.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: All right. At first I was like, oh, they sound
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: so smart. They say everything's brilliant over there. Brilliant, brilliant.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, these niggas sound so smart.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: I'm going to get me a real smart ass nigga.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: But really, it's just this ancient niggas with an accent.
• 32:05
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying? Ancient niggas with accents.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: That's what I kept meeting.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: So let's let's talk about dating in the UK versus
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: dating in the States.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Like because are you single?
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm single. I feel like it's a hard one
• 32:20
  Speaker 5: because I won't know about dating in the U.S. because
• 32:23
  Speaker 5: I'm a foreigner coming to the U.S. So girls are
• 32:25
  Speaker 5: always going to see me as like, oh, I love
• 32:27
  Speaker 5: your accent. Oh, you're from Britain.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: I don't fall for that shit.
• 32:32
  Speaker 5: So I'm going to get away with stuff that someone
• 32:36
  Speaker 5: who lives here wouldn't. Right. You know what I'm saying?
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: That if you go to the U.K. and you meet a.
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: Not if you tell them you're African. If you're African,
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: it's requirements.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 32:45
  Speaker 5: Privacy, though. And vice versa, if an American girl goes
• 32:48
  Speaker 5: to the UK, a guy might be like, you're American,
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: and that's it. Do you know what I'm saying?
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 32:54
  Speaker 5: But I prefer... Do you know what? You're not going
• 32:57
  Speaker 5: to get killed.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: Go ahead, say it.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: African women?
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: No, I prefer American women to UK women.
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: Oh, shit.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: Why so?
• 33:03
  Speaker 5: I just feel like there's less bullshit. Ooh.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: In what way?
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: Right, so let us know what the European women, black.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: Women come with.
• 33:09
  Speaker 5: No, no, do you know what it is? I just
• 33:11
  Speaker 5: feel like, in terms of the UK, we're very conservative.
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
• 33:15
  Speaker 5: Mm-hmm. So it's kind of like there's this whole, I've
• 33:19
  Speaker 5: got to be seen to be doing the right thing.
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: And you know, like women get judged.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: For being promiscuous.
• 33:27
  Speaker 5: Or doing certain things. So in the UK, I feel
• 33:29
  Speaker 5: like girls.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: Are aware of that. It's harder to get pussy in
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: the UK is what you're saying.
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: It's not so hard to get pussy, but it's just
• 33:33
  Speaker 5: more games being played for the pussy, if that makes sense.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: So you're saying American women are easy?
• 33:39
  Speaker 5: No, I'm saying if American women like it.
• 33:40
  Speaker 4: Y'all head of shit? That's what I heard.
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: You wildin'. No, I'm saying if an American woman likes you,
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: she likes you. If she doesn't, whereby? See what I'm saying?
• 33:52
  Speaker 5: Whereas in the UK, a girl might like you and
• 33:53
  Speaker 5: it's just like, I would have never known.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: But that's the same how we feel.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: I think I feel like that about men in America. Like,
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: you got to pretend like you don't like them.
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: Even though you like them, you have to pretend like
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: you don't because for whatever reason, men don't like you simultaneously.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: They just love a challenge. A chase and a challenge.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: If you make it too easy, yeah, it's a problem.
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: The men can like you and then not tell you.
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying? I hear that, but when
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: women say, I always use this analogy, it's like a lion.
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: If a lion's chasing a gazelle, he's going to chase
• 34:26
  Speaker 5: the gazelle if he believes he can catch the gazelle.
• 34:28
  Speaker 5: If the gazelle's a mile away, the lion's going to
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: stop and then just choke. So I feel like some women,
• 34:32
  Speaker 5: when they say, oh, I've got to make it difficult
• 34:35
  Speaker 5: or guys don't like a girl that's easy, I hear that.
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: But at least let him think he can get there.
• 34:41
  Speaker 5: But some women do this thing where they don't even
• 34:44
  Speaker 5: do that. So the guy's like.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: I love the analogy that you use, because that's what
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: y'all niggas like to do. Come run up on a
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: bitch and eat her up to death. You know, and
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: go on about your business.
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: Literally and figuratively. Like, how you do all that and
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: you don't like me? Like, you eat my ass. You
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: don't like me? I'm confused.
• 35:06
  Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I can't speak for those fellows, but... Y'all.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: Eating ass in the UK? That's a big thing in
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: the States right now.
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: You used to be eating ass since the 80s, though.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: Say that again?
• 35:17
  Speaker 5: No, you guys in the US.
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: Oh, y'all just started eating ass?
• 35:20
  Speaker 5: Not started, but we don't mind saying it now. Whereas
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: back in the day, like, you guys here are.
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: Because it's the West Indies.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: They brought that bullshit like hiding that they eat the
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: pum pum when they actually.
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: Yeah, them men don't play around still. Fire for that.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but if people find out, but they definitely do it.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: I've had a couple.
• 35:37
  Speaker 5: A lady said something to me the other day. She
• 35:42
  Speaker 5: was saying that if a guy leaves with that, He
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: must have a small dick or he's not good in
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: the bedroom.
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: I'm scared if you lead with that. If a dude
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: used that as a pickup line, I feel like you
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: got an STD.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: What? I want to eat your ass?
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: That's wild to come out the gate saying I want
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: to eat your ass.
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: Automatically STD.
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: I want to eat your pussy. Out the blocks.
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: Automatic.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: I don't like that. I don't like that. They'll come
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: at me like that.
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: Hotel room in Vegas. That's the fuck I think.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: House in Vermont.
• 36:12
  Speaker 4: House in Virginia. Automatic.
• 36:14
  Speaker 5: So what would you rather? A guy with a great head,
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: but garbage in the bedroom.
• 36:20
  Speaker 4: No, I'm not a lesbian. I need you to be
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: able to follow up with dick.
• 36:23
  Speaker 5: Mandingo, but not good down with his mouth.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: I feel like you can teach him how to eat
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: your coochie, right?
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: No, but imagine this canary you can't teach.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Why we can't teach?
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: Then we get a new man.
• 36:33
  Speaker 5: No, you can't teach him.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: What's wrong with him? He's stupid. I don't like fucking
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: no stupid nigga.
• 36:39
  Speaker 5: You gotta choose.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: If I have to choose. I think I want better
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: dick than head.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: If I had to choose.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: If I had to choose.
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: Darn it.
• 36:49
  Speaker 5: I said, golly, golly gosh.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: What about, all right, the.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Same question for you, but the opposite with a woman, obviously.
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: Sally ho. No, it'd be the same for me in
• 36:59
  Speaker 5: terms of like, yeah. But I've got, some of my
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: britches are like, they'd rather have head than the neck.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Do you feel like all pussy is the same?
• 37:07
  Speaker 5: No, impossible.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: How?
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: A little dick nigga said that.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: Because niggas say, all coochie, sorry ladies, all pussy is
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: the same.
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: That's a man who has not had pussy.
• 37:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you're not good pussy.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you can tell, like there's different, Is there a
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: difference in the actual pussy or is it the feelings
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: that you have for the person that makes it feel different?
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Or is it really a difference in vaginas?
• 37:28
  Speaker 5: I think it's the full package, though. Because sometimes if
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: a girl has a body that you desire, then the
• 37:33
  Speaker 5: moment you're in there, everything's like.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: It's a mind thing, I think.
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: It's a whole new world. What's that? What Disney film?
• 37:40
  Speaker 5: What film is that?
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: A whole new world. It's a whole new world.
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: That's Mermaid.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: Little Mermaid, isn't it?
• 37:46
  Speaker 5: Oh, Little Mermaid. Yeah, it's a little mermaid in there.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: You're in there.
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: That mermaid pussy.
• 37:51
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: You got mermaid pussy, you got giraffe pussy, like tall pussy.
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: All these different pussies.
• 37:58
  Speaker 5: I like tall girls as well, to be fair.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: Tall girls?
• 38:00
  Speaker 5: I like tall girls. But funny enough, smaller girls can
• 38:02
  Speaker 5: take it more. It sounds crazy still, yeah.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: Interesting.
• 38:07
  Speaker 5: I don't think that's a real thing.
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: I thought that skinny girls could take it. I can't,
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: for real.
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: You ain't about to be tearing my shit up.
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: Ranting, loosing it.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: First of all, I don't know why niggas think, I
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: hope you're not like this, think that if a woman
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: is screaming that she's in pleasure.
• 38:21
  Speaker 5: But it depends on the woman, though, because some women
• 38:22
  Speaker 5: like that. I feel like you have to know who
• 38:25
  Speaker 5: you're dealing with in the bedroom. Because some women like
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: it rough and they want to get pounded. Other women,
• 38:30
  Speaker 5: they don't want it rough.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess you were.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: But when the man is used to somebody who wants
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: it rough and then you come over here, I'm like,
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: I'm really, for real, like, stop, relax. Okay, calm down.
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: That doesn't feel good. They keep going.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: You said what?
• 38:44
  Speaker 5: I said TikTok.
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: TikTok, what?
• 38:48
  Speaker 5: No, take time.
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: There's a language barrier going on.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Take time. He said take your time.
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: Oh, okay.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: TikTok.
• 38:54
  Speaker 5: My voice is a little bit raspier because I had
• 38:56
  Speaker 5: like a sore throat a couple days ago.
• 38:58
  Speaker 4: What you been doing?
• 38:59
  Speaker 5: Nah, some girl in the.
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: Some girl what?
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: You just got finished talking about eating booty, now.
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: You're so hurt.
• 39:05
  Speaker 5: See, see, see. That's a coincidence.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: On vacation. On holiday.
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: Holiday poom poom.
• 39:12
  Speaker 5: Holiday punani.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: All right, so I was looking at your Instagram and
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: I saw that you are modeling for Daniel Duprier.
• 39:23
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Duprier, yeah.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: Duprier. How'd you get into that?
• 39:27
  Speaker 5: He's my guy, so he was just like, you know what,
• 39:29
  Speaker 5: you've got to follow him. I like your style. I
• 39:31
  Speaker 5: think it would be good of you to model some
• 39:34
  Speaker 5: of my bags. And I was like, I can't really
• 39:38
  Speaker 5: be bothered. I don't really want to do it. But
• 39:39
  Speaker 5: then I thought, 2023, let me start doing a bit more.
• 39:42
  Speaker 5: So I just thought, let me get into that bag.
• 39:43
  Speaker 5: So I'm trying to do a bit of modeling. I'm
• 39:46
  Speaker 5: trying to do voiceover work.
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: I would love to do that.
• 39:49
  Speaker 5: Worse over work. Yeah, yeah. Worse over work. For free shots,
• 39:55
  Speaker 5: I do all the videos, I edit it, the audio,
• 39:58
  Speaker 5: the visuals. So I'm going to get into that now,
• 40:01
  Speaker 5: like doing it for other people's podcasts and stuff like that.
• 40:05
  Speaker 5: So this year, I just want to try and do
• 40:06
  Speaker 5: as many things as possible because during lockdown, I had
• 40:09
  Speaker 5: maybe like three, four streams of income.
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
• 40:12
  Speaker 5: And like three or four, no, about two or three
• 40:14
  Speaker 5: got hit. And I only had one. And I was like, shit.
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: So that's when I started to think, you know what?
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: You can't rely too much on one or two. Because
• 40:26
  Speaker 5: you never know what tomorrow holds. Do you know what
• 40:28
  Speaker 5: I mean? So I'm just trying to do as much
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: as I can now. And also save money, but also
• 40:34
  Speaker 5: enjoy my money. So like every month now I'm going
• 40:37
  Speaker 5: on holiday. So I went to Dubai. What month are
• 40:41
  Speaker 5: we in now? February.
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: This is February, yeah.
• 40:43
  Speaker 5: Okay, cool. So I went to Dubai twice last month. Twice?
• 40:45
  Speaker 5: And then I'm in New York. I'm going to go
• 40:50
  Speaker 5: to Atlanta after this. Then next month, I'll either chill
• 40:54
  Speaker 5: or go Ghana. Then April again, maybe Dubai. Then I'm
• 40:56
  Speaker 5: going to start doing like that.
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: Listen, so I met him on Instagram like a couple
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: years ago, right? And I just don't even remember exactly
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: how we started. Because this was before we even started podcasting.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: And he was in Dubai, and I was in his DMs, like,
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: when you taking me?
• 41:18
  Speaker 5: I thought you was a catfish.
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: You thought I was a catfish?
• 41:22
  Speaker 5: No, no, because at first, when you, sometimes, like, you
• 41:26
  Speaker 5: might get, like, someone follow you, and a pretty woman
• 41:29
  Speaker 5: follows you, and you look, and she's following 9,000, 5,000
• 41:32
  Speaker 5: people and got two followers. You're like, oh, whatever. So
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: when I looked at your thing, I was thinking it
• 41:35
  Speaker 5: was the same thing. Then I looked at your reel,
• 41:37
  Speaker 5: and I was like, oh, shit, don't care you.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: I wasn't following on 9,000 people.
• 41:41
  Speaker 5: No, no, I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about
• 41:43
  Speaker 5: the other accounts.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 41:44
  Speaker 5: You know, those, like, kind of, and then those accounts
• 41:46
  Speaker 5: will start to message you about webcam and all this.
• 41:50
  Speaker 5: So I wasn't sure what it was. Then when I
• 41:52
  Speaker 5: saw your account, I.
• 41:53
  Speaker 4: Was like, oh. Bing bong. Good, good, good.
• 42:00
  Speaker 5: Bing bong.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: So, all right, back to the pandemic and the streams
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: of income. I was this close to making the OnlyFans.
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: Because, yeah. All right.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: So I have a hair salon. That was my main
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: bread and butter. And they shut all that shit down.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: You know, like they closed us down. So we didn't
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: have no money. I didn't have literally almost no money
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: coming in. Except for like I got like a little beep, beep, beep.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: But other than that, I didn't have shit coming in.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: So I was going to make me an OnlyFans, but then.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: I didn't want to fuck. Like, I don't want to.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: I'm not a porn star or someone who would want
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: to fuck on camera.
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: But there's a lot of things people do on OnlyFans.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: So that's what I was trying to come up with.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: Like something. We went on 85 South and I told
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: my idea and they didn't like it. All right. So
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: this was fucking.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: But it was like fucking with a mask on.
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: So not like a. Give it a second.
• 42:51
  Speaker 5: I'll do that.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: Listen, listen. Sorry. Think about all your favorite movies with
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: black sex scenes in it. and putting the mask on of.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: The character and reenacting the scene from the movie.
• 43:02
  Speaker 5: What, paper mask?
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: It could be a little paper mask.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know those masks.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: That people have for the birthday party and it'll be
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: like a paper.
• 43:10
  Speaker 5: Mask that's weird? You wildin'. You buckin', son.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: Angela Bassett on What's Love Got to.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: Do With It?
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: When the eyes cut out and it's just all like this. Nah, nah, nah.
• 43:20
  Speaker 5: That is not gonna work. That was my idea.
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: I thought it was brilliant.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she told me, girl, that was smart. You should
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 43:29
  Speaker 5: To be honest, it'll be funny, though, because if you're
• 43:31
  Speaker 5: watching people fucking and then you're just laughing at the
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: same time, it's that comedic, but it's turning you on
• 43:36
  Speaker 5: at the same time.
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: You might get sued for that shit, though, using them
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: people's face, right?
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: But would you do it with your only fans? I
• 43:41
  Speaker 5: know people that do feet. They just put their feet
• 43:45
  Speaker 5: on there and they get.
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: Loads of money.
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: I thought about doing like so. Then I thought about that, too.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: And then I was going to do something that was
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: just going to set black people back 100,000 years.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: I was going to do I was going to do
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: slavery feed porn.
• 44:00
  Speaker 5: Slavery feet porn. What?
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: What does that look like? This is what I did, y'all.
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: This is so fucking hot, y'all.
• 44:08
  Speaker 5: Slavery feet porn.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: Okay, this is what it looks like.
• 44:11
  Speaker 5: What does that even look like? I don't know where
• 44:12
  Speaker 5: to begin.
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: You know what it look like. So this is like
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: you're picking up rocks and throwing them. That's what the
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: fucking look like.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: No, this is my idea. With your feet.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: But all right, because I love black people, I would
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: never do this.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: But this is my idea. Somebody, if you don't care,
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: maybe you can go do it. I was going to...
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: be barefoot, running outside, right? Yo.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: I was going to run in the house and, like,
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: jack a white fake dick with my feet.
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: With the dirty feet. Like, the fastest dick with the
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: dirty outside slave feet.
• 44:43
  Speaker 5: No? I didn't see the angle coming, though. I thought
• 44:46
  Speaker 5: you were going to step on someone's face or something. Like,
• 44:48
  Speaker 5: go in the house and step on someone's first. That
• 44:50
  Speaker 5: would be nice, too, though. Yeah.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Like a dominatrix.
• 44:52
  Speaker 4: Some people be into that type of shit.
• 44:53
  Speaker 5: Are you into that dominatrix kind of stuff?
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: No, no, no.
• 44:56
  Speaker 5: Oh, so you like to be dominated?
• 44:59
  Speaker 4: I like a hybrid. I like to be like, you know,
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: and then I like to.
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: Can you have a hybrid in the bedroom, though? Because,
• 45:05
  Speaker 5: ultimately speaking, you ain't grabbing my neck.
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: No, I'd definitely be choking niggas out. Yeah, see, that's crazy. Why?
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: What? Nah, man.
• 45:16
  Speaker 4: If you've never had it done, you would enjoy it.
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: Nah, nah, nah.
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: So you don't like getting slapped or nothing like that?
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: Slapped? I'm not smacking a dude, but.
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: I'm definitely choking your ass. The session is over. What? Pound. Biting?
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: You don't like to get bit?
• 45:32
  Speaker 5: No, I don't mind that.
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: A little nibble.
• 45:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah, a little nibble. A little kiss.
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: You like a nipple suck?
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: Oh, we're going there.
• 45:37
  Speaker 5: I don't mind that. I don't mind that.
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: I like it. I think most men like it. They
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: just don't know yet.
• 45:41
  Speaker 5: A girl told me to slap her once. It was
• 45:44
  Speaker 5: a bit weird, though. It was kind of like, hmm.
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: Did you do it?
• 45:47
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I slapped her, though.
• 45:49
  Speaker 4: You slapped her hard?
• 45:51
  Speaker 5: No, the thing is, because she was riding me. So,
• 45:57
  Speaker 5: and then she was like, slap me. So you know
• 46:00
  Speaker 5: sometimes in sex when you're like involved in sex sometimes
• 46:02
  Speaker 5: you can't, I don't know, it happens. It affects your
• 46:04
  Speaker 5: hearing sometimes. You can't hear clearly. So I'm in the
• 46:14
  Speaker 5: zone now and she's like, slap me. But I'm not
• 46:17
  Speaker 5: hearing shit. So I'm like, what? She's going to slap me.
• 46:21
  Speaker 5: So I've slapped her, yeah, eventually. Then she goes, Harder,
• 46:26
  Speaker 5: slap me, you little pussy. Slap me. Yeah, I know.
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: She started calling you a little bitch.
• 46:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, I know.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: So you slapped the shit out of her?
• 46:32
  Speaker 5: I didn't slap the shit out of her, but I
• 46:33
  Speaker 5: slapped her harder.
• 46:34
  Speaker 4: You should have knocked her off.
• 46:38
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: Knocked her fine at home. Did you talk to her
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: after that?
• 46:44
  Speaker 5: No, it's fine. With me, I think in the bedroom,
• 46:46
  Speaker 5: anything that happens in the bedroom is cool.
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: How long did y'all keep.
• 46:49
  Speaker 5: The relationship going after that?
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: Nah, nah, nah.
• 46:51
  Speaker 5: You can't finger my bummer.
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: Did you know that? Where is the erogenous zone for
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: men inside?
• 46:57
  Speaker 5: I hear that. Especially for men.
• 47:00
  Speaker 4: I don't believe that.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 47:02
  Speaker 4: I think that if you mess around in there, there's
• 47:04
  Speaker 4: a button in there.
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: You might confuse the anatomy of a man by hitting it.
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: What?
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: I don't think you're supposed to be up in there.
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: I've been up in there now, but I.
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: Don't think you're supposed to. I've been up in there.
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: I've been in that ass.
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: Not because the population of AJ would disagree with you.
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's been buttholes and dicks for a very
• 47:24
  Speaker 4: long time. When did that come up? When did somebody.
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: Discover that that was a male erogenous zone?
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: When did they discover that? That shit probably happened in
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: the 70s.
• 47:36
  Speaker 5: She looking at me like, I don't know. Ask Google.
• 47:41
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: I'm about to Google it. I feel like there's nothing
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: a woman and a man can do together that would
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: be deemed gay.
• 47:51
  Speaker 5: That's what you believe.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I feel that way. So if I stuck my finger
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: in your butt later, it's not gay.
• 47:57
  Speaker 5: You're giving me a heads up. You're like, if I
• 48:03
  Speaker 5: stick my finger in your butt later, you're going to
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: like it.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: No, I'm just messing with you. I'm messing with you.
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: But I'm just saying. Do you feel that way?
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: Do you feel like there's anything a woman and a
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: man can do together that would be like, oh, that's gay?
• 48:15
  Speaker 5: Do you know what it is for me? As I've
• 48:17
  Speaker 5: got older, I believe... there's nothing a man and woman
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: can do in their bedroom for them that's off limits.
• 48:24
  Speaker 5: Because I don't comment on other people's bedroom etiquette. For
• 48:28
  Speaker 5: me personally, ain't no one putting their finger or anything
• 48:32
  Speaker 5: in my bum.
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: It might help your prostate though. You don't have to
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: go to the doctor.
• 48:37
  Speaker 5: I use the toilet. I put a stool under my legs.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Oh, you got a, what do they call it?
• 48:41
  Speaker 5: I just use a shoebox.
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: That's really how you're supposed to use the bathroom.
• 48:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've researched it. So my prostate should
• 48:48
  Speaker 5: be cool.
• 48:49
  Speaker 4: What is that called?
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: It's something hot or something for your feet to go up.
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: Because we don't use the bathroom right.
• 48:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you're supposed to squat down.
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: Because Asians, they squat on the toilet. Well, they have
• 49:00
  Speaker 4: those toilets in the floor. You ever been to China?
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: Oh, Ukraine too.
• 49:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they have like a porcelain toilet in the floor.
• 49:07
  Speaker 5: So you literally squat over it. What you call Asians
• 49:10
  Speaker 5: and we call Asians is different.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: What do you mean?
• 49:13
  Speaker 5: Because Asians to us is like Indian, Pakistani, Bengali.
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: That is in Asia.
• 49:18
  Speaker 5: I know that, but we don't call Chinese. We will
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: call someone Chinese or Japanese or Korean. We won't call them... Asian.
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: Although they are Asian, if you say Asian in the UK,
• 49:29
  Speaker 5: you automatically think Indian, Pakistani.
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: Y'all are just backwards. Okay, let's be clear. Because what.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: Well, what part of Asia were you talking about where
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: you saw them?
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: So I went to Hong Kong and Guangzhou. And they
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: had the... Well.
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: Hong Kong have toilets, like regular U.S. American toilets. But
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: they also have like the potty thing in the floor.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: But it was mostly in the mainland.
• 49:53
  Speaker 5: That's how you're supposed to use a toilet. As in,
• 49:56
  Speaker 5: your bum's supposed to be here. Is that when you're
• 49:58
  Speaker 5: squatting with weights, how your bum's supposed to be? Was
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: it called bum to grass or whatever they call it?
• 50:03
  Speaker 5: That's how you're supposed to shit.
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: I know, so I wonder why they made the toilets
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: the way they did.
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: Because America is backwards with a lot of things, yeah.
• 50:10
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: That's weird.
• 50:12
  Speaker 5: But you're freaky, though. You know what I mean? You're
• 50:16
  Speaker 5: definitely freaky.
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: Americans?
• 50:18
  Speaker 5: No, you are.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: Me?
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: You. In particular.
• 50:22
  Speaker 4: How so?
• 50:23
  Speaker 5: Clutch is pearl. No, you said there's nothing a man
• 50:26
  Speaker 5: and a woman can do in a bedroom that you
• 50:29
  Speaker 5: deem it to be gay. I'm not saying that is
• 50:31
  Speaker 5: why you're freaky, but that means in your head... Can
• 50:35
  Speaker 5: anything goes?
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: No, that's not what that means. I didn't say anything goes.
• 50:38
  Speaker 5: No? No. Okay, cool.
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because that may not be her standard, but, you know.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, I just feel like people.
• 50:43
  Speaker 5: That's a good co-host, though. She backed you straight away.
• 50:47
  Speaker 5: She's like, no, that don't mean that. Exactly.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: Right, I ain't no freak.
• 50:54
  Speaker 5: What they say that every woman's a freak, you just
• 50:57
  Speaker 5: got to unlock it. The right guys got to unlock it. Right,
• 50:59
  Speaker 5: the right person.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: No but i mean everybody has their line you're not
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: doing like i'm not into that booty and shit i'm
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: not into that that's wild to.
• 51:10
  Speaker 5: Me eating booty or entering the booty eating.
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: Or either or i'm not with none of that.
• 51:15
  Speaker 5: You know you eating booty.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: Neither one oh serious no i don't like that oh.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: That's where your shit come from i don't understand i
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: don't really want to kiss you after that.
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, why do you want to lick that? I'm
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: confused as to why that's a thing now.
• 51:29
  Speaker 5: That's where doo-doo comes from.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: It's the act of it.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: It doesn't really feel good, though. Just the act of
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: doing it, it doesn't really, like, feel good, though. It's
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: kind of uncomfortable.
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: It's like, I feel like I got to fart. It's
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: a wet fart. He's doing it to me. It's an
• 51:48
  Speaker 4: uncomfortable feeling because I'm afraid now.
• 51:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: That might have a little slither.
• 51:54
  Speaker 5: That's weird. There's guys in London that they actually, like,
• 51:56
  Speaker 5: we have conversations, they're like, bro, like, the feeling is.
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: Oh, they like to get their bum ate.
• 52:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah, they love it. I'm like, I don't get it.
• 52:03
  Speaker 5: They're like, they're saying their legs are shaking. Girls that
• 52:06
  Speaker 5: eat their bum, their legs are shaking.
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: They probably be on their stomach, dog. I'm just going
• 52:10
  Speaker 4: to tell your friends be on their stomach.
• 52:12
  Speaker 5: I bet some of them are on all fours as well. Right.
• 52:15
  Speaker 5: Looking back at it, you know what I'm saying?
• 52:17
  Speaker 4: Ass fat.
• 52:18
  Speaker 5: LAUGHTER I'm like a man's man. Anything that makes me
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: feel vulnerable, I'm not comfortable with it.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: Oh, really?
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: Just physically or are you comfortable being vulnerable emotionally?
• 52:36
  Speaker 5: It depends on what circumstance.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: How so? What do you mean?
• 52:40
  Speaker 5: If it's a funeral or something, then I'm comfortable to cry.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: Only death.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: What about with a woman exposing yourself emotionally to a woman?
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: Or to your friends?
• 52:53
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it depends on the woman and I
• 52:56
  Speaker 5: think it depends on the friend. Because the problem with
• 52:59
  Speaker 5: society nowadays is someone could use it against you at
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: a later date. So you need to be very sure
• 53:04
  Speaker 5: that this person that you're telling something to is like,
• 53:08
  Speaker 5: they're cool. Whereas if it's just someone that I'm cool
• 53:11
  Speaker 5: with and I've just met and we're kicking it to
• 53:15
  Speaker 5: unleash some inner secret or something, then we fall out
• 53:19
  Speaker 5: and out of the blue. Yeah, this is, nah. So
• 53:22
  Speaker 5: for me, I'm just very selective.
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he be laying on his stomach.
• 53:24
  Speaker 5: Right, getting his butt ate. His legs be shaking. He
• 53:27
  Speaker 5: was crying when I ate and he's like, nah.
• 53:29
  Speaker 4: Nah. Do you know.
• 53:32
  Speaker 5: What I'm saying? So, and a lot of time with vulnerability,
• 53:37
  Speaker 5: people want you to be vulnerable for them, not you.
• 53:39
  Speaker 5: Do you get it? Okay. So that's what I feel like.
• 53:44
  Speaker 5: A lot of the time it's like, oh, he was
• 53:46
  Speaker 5: vulnerable for me, I must be special, not the fact that, oh,
• 53:48
  Speaker 5: he was vulnerable and I heard something that was important.
• 53:51
  Speaker 5: So that's why I feel like a lot of people
• 53:53
  Speaker 5: are not in it for the right reasons as well sometimes.
• 53:56
  Speaker 4: Interesting.
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: I always ask male guests this, so do you think
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: it's women you can't be vulnerable with, that men can't
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: be vulnerable with, or is it your homeboys you can't
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: be vulnerable with? Why men collectively seem to have a
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: problem with being vulnerable because they're always afraid somebody's going
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: to use their vulnerability against them in the midst of
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: an argument.
• 54:15
  Speaker 5: I feel like men feel like that with women, but
• 54:18
  Speaker 5: I feel like with their guys, guys are not going
• 54:19
  Speaker 5: to use it against you.
• 54:21
  Speaker 4: Yes, they do. They'd be like, nigga, they'd be laughing
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: at y'all. No, but I.
• 54:27
  Speaker 5: Think it depends on what it is. For example, maybe
• 54:29
  Speaker 5: if you're like, as you're getting older as guys as well,
• 54:32
  Speaker 5: like maybe when you're younger, you might joke about certain things.
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: But if a guy comes to me now and says
• 54:37
  Speaker 5: to me, yo, I'm feeling a little bit depressed or
• 54:41
  Speaker 5: I feel like my life's a little bit, I can't
• 54:44
  Speaker 5: control what's going on. Like, I can't make fun of
• 54:47
  Speaker 5: that because... It's serious. It's serious, do you know what
• 54:50
  Speaker 5: I'm saying? So it's for me to be like, oh,
• 54:51
  Speaker 5: what's going on? But I feel like with guys, we're
• 54:54
  Speaker 5: very logical, so... Interesting. The reason we don't talk is
• 54:59
  Speaker 5: because it's not exactly a solution to our problem, if
• 55:03
  Speaker 5: that makes sense. So if I'm in debt of, like, £ 25, 000,
• 55:05
  Speaker 5: what's the point of me telling you?
• 55:09
  Speaker 4: Right, you can't help me.
• 55:10
  Speaker 5: It's not going to solve my debt. Whereas I think
• 55:12
  Speaker 5: women are a bit different, whereas sometimes you vent into
• 55:15
  Speaker 5: your homegirl or a friend makes you feel better. Whereas
• 55:19
  Speaker 5: with a guy, it's like, if I'm venting, I'm just
• 55:21
  Speaker 5: telling one more person my problem, which is stressful anyway.
• 55:25
  Speaker 5: Let me just deal with it.
• 55:26
  Speaker 4: No.
• 55:26
  Speaker 5: That's what I feel like guys feel sometimes. You might
• 55:28
  Speaker 5: tell that person, and.
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: They might have a way that can help you to
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: relax that day.
• 55:32
  Speaker 5: I'm just using that as an example. Sometimes I feel
• 55:34
  Speaker 5: like guys see it as very logical, as in like,
• 55:37
  Speaker 5: you can't help me with what it is, so I'm
• 55:39
  Speaker 5: just not going to say nothing.
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: Or assume you can't help me.
• 55:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah, or assume, yeah, yeah.
• 55:43
  Speaker 4: Or y'all, I mean... stop trying to do everything by yourself.
• 55:47
  Speaker 4: That's what I would like to tell black men. You
• 55:48
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying?
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: Like you might need somebody else, even just to talk
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: you through it, maybe help you work it out in
• 55:54
  Speaker 3: your own mind, but to bottle things in and then
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: blame it on women.
• 55:59
  Speaker 4: That you don't have anybody to talk to.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: I ain't got no peace.
• 56:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah, no.
• 56:02
  Speaker 5: I don't really blame women.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: Yes, they do.
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: I see it online all the time. Like, no, I
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: don't see this in my real life, right? But, well, no,
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: I have seen it in my real life. I've been
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: in a relationship with somebody and they tell you something, right?
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: And then they kind of want you to use.
• 56:17
  Speaker 4: That to justify their bad behavior. Like, I told you
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: what I've been through. I told you, you know, how
• 56:22
  Speaker 4: I'm feeling. But that still does not negate, like, how
• 56:26
  Speaker 4: you treat me.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: I can't stop fucking these bitches because my mama wasn't
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: home when I was a kid.
• 56:31
  Speaker 4: Like, I'm supposed to use that shit to.
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: Justify why you fucking up with me?
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: No.
• 56:35
  Speaker 5: No, but I feel like everyone has to heal, though.
• 56:37
  Speaker 5: So I feel like men do it, women do it.
• 56:41
  Speaker 5: But the bottom line is you shouldn't be dating if
• 56:42
  Speaker 5: you haven't healed yet.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: True.
• 56:44
  Speaker 5: That's the bottom line. So you can't be with someone.
• 56:46
  Speaker 4: I want a happy man. My next man has to
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: be happy.
• 56:49
  Speaker 5: Or just understanding enough to be like, if I'm not happy,
• 56:52
  Speaker 5: it's nothing to do with you. Right. And I can't
• 56:54
  Speaker 5: use it as an excuse for you. So this is
• 56:57
  Speaker 5: how I am, but it's not going to affect us,
• 57:00
  Speaker 5: but I'm going to try and improve it.
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: But it will affect us, ultimately.
• 57:04
  Speaker 5: But ultimately, everyone comes with baggage into a relationship anyway.
• 57:07
  Speaker 5: The older you get, the more you've experienced, the more...
• 57:11
  Speaker 5: For example, I'm single, so I know my next relationship.
• 57:14
  Speaker 5: I'm very, like, used to my own space, used to
• 57:18
  Speaker 5: not answering to no one. Do you know what I'm saying?
• 57:21
  Speaker 5: So now I know if I get with someone, it's
• 57:22
  Speaker 5: going to be... I can't go holiday tomorrow without.
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: Telling no one.
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: Or it could be somebody you really want to do
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: holiday with.
• 57:30
  Speaker 4: Like, it don't matter. Like, we doing this together because
• 57:33
  Speaker 4: this is, she's my fun.
• 57:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we could do. Or, but if she works and
• 57:36
  Speaker 5: she can't, she have times maybe not as flexible as mine.
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: I have a question with that. Can you date a
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: woman who doesn't work? Like, can you, what's the grocery
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: store out there?
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: Can you date a woman that's working in Tesco's or
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: do you need a woman that's like making, earning.
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: A good living for herself?
• 57:53
  Speaker 5: No, I feel like it doesn't really matter. I don't
• 57:56
  Speaker 5: think men go out of women for that. Some men might,
• 58:00
  Speaker 5: but they're leeches. But most men don't go out of
• 58:03
  Speaker 5: women for what they can provide.
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: Financially.
• 58:05
  Speaker 5: Financially.
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: I feel like lately here in the States, I hear
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: men who want women who make money.
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: Do you feel like that?
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: Well, they say they don't care about what a woman makes, right?
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: On one end of the spectrum, you have.
• 58:19
  Speaker 4: Them, we don't care what you make. We don't care
• 58:20
  Speaker 4: about your degrees, this and the third.
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: But you in the rarest child support over here. So
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: you want a woman who can help you. A lot
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: of men are looking for help, but they act like,
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: you know, it doesn't matter if a woman has money
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: or not.
• 58:35
  Speaker 5: No, I think with men, for example, it's not the
• 58:37
  Speaker 5: first thing we look for. So if I meet a woman,
• 58:39
  Speaker 5: like I could be in a grocery store tomorrow and
• 58:41
  Speaker 5: see a woman and be like, oh my God, she's beautiful.
• 58:43
  Speaker 5: Speak to her, hear off, we date. It's not a problem.
• 58:47
  Speaker 5: Or I could go to a party, a networking party,
• 58:51
  Speaker 5: celebrity party, meet someone there. She's rich. We hear off.
• 58:54
  Speaker 5: It doesn't really matter as such. I think with men,
• 58:58
  Speaker 5: the focus is not the money. But I think as
• 59:01
  Speaker 5: maybe you ascend and you become like richer or more
• 59:06
  Speaker 5: successful you maybe have to check your your dating pool
• 59:10
  Speaker 5: a bit more.
• 59:11
  Speaker 4: Right in terms of all right because somebody has to
• 59:13
  Speaker 4: have something to lose.
• 59:14
  Speaker 5: Too yeah yeah if you're starting to lose two or
• 59:16
  Speaker 5: like our money together we can just be a super
• 59:19
  Speaker 5: couple power couple do you know i mean so it
• 59:21
  Speaker 5: works both ways but i don't think it's that for
• 59:24
  Speaker 5: a woman for example like that's more paramount to you
• 59:28
  Speaker 5: a guy that is stable and can provide, right? Whereas guys,
• 59:32
  Speaker 5: we're used to providing anyway. So we want other boxes ticked.
• 59:35
  Speaker 3: But some guys aren't used to providing. Their mom's provided
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: for them. You know what I'm saying? So they're kind
• 59:40
  Speaker 3: of looking for big mama and their girlfriend and wife.
• 59:43
  Speaker 5: Could you date that? Hell no.
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Well, it depends on how much money I got, honestly.
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: If I was like super rich, I had me like
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: a couple.
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: Niggas all from different.
• 59:52
  Speaker 4: Walks of life.
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna.
• 59:55
  Speaker 5: Lie.
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: Just building them up.
• 59:58
  Speaker 5: Could you be of... Could you be with one of
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 5: these boys?
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: I have been with one and I didn't like it.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 4: I don't like niggas with mamas. I prefer men with mamas.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 4: No mamas. Dead mamas. Absent mamas. No sisters either. I'm serious.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: Unless your mom or your sister is in a committed, healthy,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 3: good relationship, I'm not fucking with you.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 4: Because I'm not competing with your mama and your sister.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: Because now here I come and you're doing things for
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 3: me and your sister talking shit because her baby daddy
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: ain't doing nothing for her since before the baby was born.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 4: Like, I don't feel like dealing with that type of shit.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: And, you know, mamas, mamas be all right, but it's
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: them damn sisters, man.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: For real. I've been loving my boyfriend's moms.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: I be, like, getting the moms to love me, like,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: and try to get them on my side more than
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: they some of them.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 4: See, that's manipulation, right?
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 5: That's what people say, though.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: He can't ever get.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 5: Rid of me. That's how they say in the club
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 5: as well. Like, you got to speak to the ugly friend. Yeah.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 5: So if you're in a club, if I see you
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 5: in a club and you've got like an ugly friend
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 5: next to you, that's the person that I need to
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 5: make sure is cool. And then so we can be cool.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's manipulation.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 5: That tends to be the bodyguard.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: So you got to talk to the ugly friend.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 5: No, not talk to the ugly friend, but make sure
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 5: she's cool.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 4: You want to acknowledge her.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah. So like, I'm not just going to talk to
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 5: you and then not her. What's going on? Do you
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 5: want a drink?
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: Because the other friend always like, come on, girl.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 5: Let's go.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 5: She's always the bodyguard. I'm ready to go. Who was outside?
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 5: He was waiting. Oh, relax, man.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: Come on in, man.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 5: Listen, that girl there. That girl there. Everyone knows her. Like,
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 5: everyone knows her. Like, it's just annoying. It's so serious.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 4: She probably got the best pussy out the bunch. Ain't
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: nobody touching it. She ain't nobody. She just marinating over there.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 5: Unkept.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: Poor, ugly friend with the best pussy.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 4: You said it's unkept?
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 5: Unkept putty. I've noticed those girls there. They're like, they're
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 5: always the bodyguard. They don't get it. But is it
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 5: an attention thing? As in, like, if you go out
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 5: and you don't get attention, does it make you feel
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: a particular way?
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 4: I think that's what it is. They kind of get
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 4: antsy and mad, maybe.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: Everybody wants to be desired i get.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 5: That but then but then don't take it out on
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 5: your home girl just got the guy that she wants
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 5: or she's talking to right that's what i'm saying as
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: in if for example i'm bothering you and she can
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 5: see you don't want to be near me or you
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: can see she's like then come in and say right
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 5: you're the cabs here or save your girlfriend or whatever
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 5: well how you know that ain't the case Because the
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 5: girl's saying, yeah, we'll be a second.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 4: Oh, okay.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 5: See what I'm saying?
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: She'll be like, that's just my ugly friend.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 4: We can't say.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 5: That, girl. Exactly. You don't have to say that.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: I don't feel like I have an ugly friend.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 5: Oh, I knew you were going to say that. All
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 5: my girls are beautiful.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 4: Yep.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 5: Oh, my God.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: I can't think of not one ugly friend I got.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 5: All right, so you go say that.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 4: The ugly ones ain't there no more.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 5: Oh, so all your homegirls are beautiful, yeah?
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: I think all my friends are.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 3: Beautiful and then sometimes it's like how the person is
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 3: like you know they may not be like super i
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 3: don't feel like i'm super duper extra fine you know
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 3: what i'm saying but there are some people who are
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: aesthetically challenged but they have a very good personality dress
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 3: nice they like super bad bitches still it's the aura
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 3: swagged out energy the swag.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 4: So it's not really aesthetics.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: I guess for women.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 4: Men are way more shallow than women.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 5: I don't think it's a shallow thing, you know, because
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 5: I just feel like we just want different things. So
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 5: I don't think it's a shallow thing. I don't know.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: It's shallow.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because you got a man, he could be like
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 3: a three and he thinks he deserves a ten.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 4: Like, nigga, know your holler level.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 5: But then women do the same thing. A woman will
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 5: be a three and say, I want a guy that's 6'4.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 5: What a man. I want a guy who does this
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 5: and that. And you're like, okay, let's see how. The
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 5: bottom line is this. In life, everyone can want what
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 5: they want.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 5: But the proof is in the pudding. Like, what's realistic?
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 5: Let's see what you get. So you can want what
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 5: you want. Either be realistic or you can have a
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 5: cat when you're 40. Yeah.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: Meow.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 4: That bitch is happy with them cats. Okay? That's what
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: I'm saying. Let's be clear.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: Would you date a stripper? Seriously?
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 5: Would I date a stripper? Stripper. Why you say it
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 5: like that, though?
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 4: Why you say it like that?
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 5: No, but for some reason, whenever... Americans imitate the UK accent.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 5: You proper like exaggerate. Can I get a water?
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 4: Water?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: A potty?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 5: We don't say that.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: That's what y'all sound like.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 5: No. I don't feel like a date stripper. No? No.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 5: I don't feel like a date stripper.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 5: When you say date, what do you mean date?
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: Like that's your girlfriend.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 5: Oh, no.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 4: Your mama don't have to know.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 5: My mama collapse.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: Your mom would collapse?
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 5: Yeah. It's Chippa.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 4: It's Chippa.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Obama collapsed.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 4: Did you get money, mama?
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah. Obama didn't feel okay about that. It's Chippa on
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 5: the pole. Yeah, Obama collapsed, but I'm telling you, listen.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: Did you hear mom? Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: If you could create your ultimate woman, what would she
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: be like?
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 5: Do you know, I'm not good with names, you know?
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 4: Oh, so who's the person? What they played on?
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: You said you're not good with names, so you're thinking
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: about someone in particular?
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 5: No, no. When you said I was just going to
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 5: think about putting people together, but I can't think of names.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 5: I just like shapely black women. That's my bag. I
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 5: used to love dark-skinned women when I was younger, but
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 5: now I'm not as picky, but still Like microplexion.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: So just physical. So you don't have to have no brain.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 5: Oh, no, I thought you meant looks-wise.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 2: No, I mean like everything.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 5: Oh, okay, okay, okay. No, no, no, definitely.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: She a bad bitch that got rocks in her head.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 5: Well, then we got to kick rocks. No, no, I
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 5: like an intelligent woman. I like an articulate woman. God-fearing. Um...
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 5: What else? I like a woman who has humor. Because
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 5: I crack joke a lot. I'll make a lot of jokes.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 5: You know what banter is? Do you use banter here?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: Banter, like back and forth?
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 4: What are you talking about? Banter, you said?
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, banter is like comedy. But I didn't know if
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 5: you use it here.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 4: Oh, the word?
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: Not really. We don't, well, I mean, we know what
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: it means.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 5: So if you say someone's funny, you say humor, someone humorous.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 4: Right. Okay, cool.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 5: Someone humorous, um, Someone who can cook. Someone who can dress.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 5: Can't lie, man. I can't be worrying about that shit.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, scared every time I come outside because you don't
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: know what she got.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 4: I love my baby, but man.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 5: One time I went on a date with a girl
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 5: and I'd only seen her at parties. So, you know
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 5: when you're at a party, you just wear like, just
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 5: a party dress.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 5: We call it body conflict. So, that's Not easy, but
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 5: if you've got a body, you put it on, showtime, innit?
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 5: So I've gone to pick her up, not thinking of anything.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 5: As she's walked out of the house, I've looked. I'm like,
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 5: what in the... What's she had on? Mother of God.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: What did she have on?
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 5: She's wearing a turtleneck jumper, yeah? Like a thick one.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 5: She had like a leather jacket on, yeah?
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: A jumper, or when you say a jumper, because I
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: think of a one-piece outfit.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 5: When you say jumper. Oh, no, like a turtleneck.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 2: A sweater.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 5: Sweater, yeah, but like a thick one. With a leather
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 5: jacket on, yeah. This is summer, by the way.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 4: Oh, she didn't have no clothes.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 5: Then she had these jeans on, and at the bottom
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 5: of the jeans, she had like roses embroidered into, you know,
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 5: like the seam. And they were like kind of like flared. Oh,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 5: my God. Then she had like these kind of like...
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 5: dull kind of ballerina shoes on oh my god not
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 5: the little flat johns yes the flat johns as she's
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 5: moving to the car i'm looking thinking oh my god
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 5: what year was this this was ah this is my
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 5: might have been like 2012 or something.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 4: Like that still not that long ago for you to
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 4: be dressed.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 5: Like that 2012 2011 And we were going to the cinema.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 5: And we got there early. So we went into Nando's.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 5: And I'm like, the area that the cinema is in,
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 5: I know a lot of people in this area. So
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 5: I'm like, I can't be seen, man. I can't be seen.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 5: So I went into the Nando's.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 4: That ass was fat though, wasn't it?
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 5: No, it was fat still. So I got into the Nando's.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 5: I said to her, listen, just take that seat in
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 5: the corner and I'll just go and order. And that
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 5: was it. So we were in the corner in Nando's.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 5: And I didn't leave until the film started. Damn, it
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: was that bad. It was bad, it was bad.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: That's something you can.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 4: Fix, though.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 5: It is, but then it depends. If she's stubborn and
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 5: she lacks.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 4: Her style, there's nothing you can do.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 5: That's a fact. Do you think.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 5: Americans can dress better in the UK or the UK
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 5: can dress better than Americans?
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 4: I think the men in Europe dress better.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: I think they dress better in the UK, but I
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: think their hair don't be as on point as ours
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: in the States. Like, niggas in the UK do not
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: get a line up. all the time like y'all shit
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: y'all have hair growing all the way down the side
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: of your neck before you go get that shit lined
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: back up like what.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 5: Is going on I think your beauty is here in
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 5: terms of the beauty like the hair salons the wigs
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 5: and that yeah like your your head with that like
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 5: you can see because there's so much money here so
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 5: you're on top of your game whereas the UK we're
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 5: like a little bit behind girls are getting the wigs
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 5: and the lace fronts and all that stuff now for
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 5: a while But yous are front runners in that. If
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 5: it was the Olympics, yous ought to be getting a
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 5: gold medal for that.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 4: I agree.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: But when it comes to fashion, I will say, like,
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 2: it depends.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 5: All right.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 2: It depends.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: Because in London, I mean, they were like, but you
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: go out to Suffolk and they got their embroidered pants.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 5: That bitch was from Suffolk. No, I hear that. I
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 5: hear that.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 2: That girl he was with, she was from Suffolk.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah. But in terms of London, I feel like we
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 5: were one of the leaders in terms of dressing in
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 5: terms of, like, fashion. But it's one of the capitals,
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 5: isn't it? Right. Even New York, people, not everyone, but
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 5: you can see elements of, like, different cultures and styles
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 5: here as well. Where you're from is where? Charlottesville?
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: No, I live in Charlotte, North Carolina. I'm from Columbia,
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: South Carolina, though.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 5: How'd they dress there?
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 4: I feel like Columbia women be pretty, and they dress nice.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: It could be like yeah absolutely beautiful women right country
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: thick girls but it's a crap shoot yeah sometimes they
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: real fly sometimes they i mean just like anywhere else.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 3: I'm from charleston south carolina okay yeah it's like a
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 3: kind of same thing.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: It's the country though so it's the south but i'm saying.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 5: That i've never southern i'm not country.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: You're southern i'm country i'm okay with that i wear
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: that with pride it's not.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 4: A country is like a state of mind Like, we're
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 4: just further down the map.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 3: Like, there are a lot of people in New York
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 3: City that are country as fuck, but because they're further
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 3: up geographically on a map, they don't consider themselves country,
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 3: and they country as hell.
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 4: So to me, like, I'm Southern. I'm not country. Country
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 4: is like.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: I'm country. I'm a country girl.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 5: Powerful country is.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 4: No, you.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: I don't view it like that. Country doesn't mean ignorant
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: to me.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 5: Powerful country is just, like, how you speak, and in
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 5: terms of the way you grew up, in terms of
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 5: maybe you weren't in a... In a city, you're like,
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 5: there's more land, there's more space.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, running outside barefoot, catching lightning bugs, making mud pies
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: as a kid, riding a huffy bike.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 5: Mud pie?
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: Mud pies.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 5: There's not mud in it though, right?
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: No, it's a mud pie, nigga. You outside with water
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: and dirt and mud.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 5: Oh, you don't eat that though, right? No. Listen. What?
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: Clay?
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 4: I used to eat the clay dirt, the orange clay dirt. Why?
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 5: Why?
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 3: Because it has a lot of nutrients in it.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: I've never done that, but I've seen a lot of
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: people do that in South Carolina. They actually eat the clay.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 4: What we at on time?
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: Don't do that because y'all was eating that Marmite shit.
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 5: No, I didn't eat Marmite.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 2: But that's a UK thing, though.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 5: I think it's a European.
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you, it's some cookies out there that
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: I thought they was regular cookies.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 5: Nice.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 2: They like laxative cookies.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 5: I'm serious.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: Digestives or something like that?
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 5: No, they're not, man. That's it. We do the whip. No, man.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 5: You had something else to eat because digestion is a friend.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 5: You have it with tea.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: It's a cookie, but y'all call it a biscuit.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 5: No, no, it's a biscuit. It's not a cookie.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: It's a cookie.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 5: No, man. A cookie is like thicker. A cookie is
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 5: the one that's thick and it's like rigid and it's
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 5: got like pieces of chocolate. It's a cookie.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 2: It ain't got chocolate chips in it.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 4: A biscuit is made with yeast over here. And bread
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 4: and flour.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 5: A biscuit is just like smooth. Like just, you know
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying?
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 2: It's a cookie, my nigga.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 5: It's a cookie.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 4: So what do y'all call a biscuit? Y'all don't call
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 4: anything a biscuit.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 2: They ain't got no biscuits.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 5: No, a biscuit is a scone. Oh, like the little triangle?
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 5: It's a scone.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 2: No, not a little triangle. Yeah, scones. The triangle.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 5: No, no, a scone is like what a biscuit is.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 5: If you go to Popeye's and get a biscuit.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 3: We call scones, it's like those little triangle blueberry scones. Yeah,
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 3: but that's from Starbucks. That's what we call scones.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: And it's always sweet.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 5: No, no, a scone is what your biscuit. It's similar to,
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 5: but your biscuit, our scone is a bit thicker, a
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 5: bit more dense. But that's what I'm saying. These are
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 5: things that black people don't eat in the U.K., Like,
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 5: we know about it, but, like.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 4: What black people eat in the UK?
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 5: So, for example... African food, right? Yes, I'm Nigerian, so, like,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 5: I eat Nigerian food. So, I'll be eating jollof rice, ebba,
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 5: pounded yam... Tegucigalpa. Yeah, yeah. Then West Indian people will have, like,
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 5: rice and peas.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 4: Jerk chicken.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 5: Jerk chicken, curry, mutton, like... So, in terms of the UK,
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 5: we might have, like, fish and chips.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: That's the best thing there.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 4: Hold on, Tam. Let's pay some bills.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 5: Boy, there's no real easy way to say this, but... Look,
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 5: you're a simp.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: So, Art, we have a segment on our show called
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: Dumb Bitch Story or Simp Series.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: And you have to share a time where you got
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: played by the opposite sex. Can you think of a time?
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: And don't tell us no high school shit.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 5: No, no, I got played... When was it? I'm not
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 5: going to do dates, but I must have been in...
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 5: I was in Dubai. So, I'm in Dubai chilling with
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 5: my homeboy... We're in the club, partying, whatever, whatever. Then
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 5: this girl keeps looking at me. So I'm like, but
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 5: I have not said nothing. I'm like, cool. Then the
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 5: party finishes, my brethren comes up to me and he's like, oh,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 5: my ex is here. So I'm like, cool. So I'm like,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 5: who that girl keeps watching me? He's going, oh, that's
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 5: my ex's friend. I said, serious? Okay, cool. Anyway, she
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 5: comes up to me, she starts talking to me, we
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 5: talk to each other, whatever. I'm driving in Dubai, so
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 5: And my apartment was like, I've got like a jacuzzi,
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 5: sofa bed, then another bed, whatever. So we get back
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 5: to the apartment now and she's like, I want to
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 5: get in the jacuzzi. I want to jump in the jacuzzi.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 5: So I start the jacuzzi. She jumps in. Naked? Nah, nah,
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 5: she didn't jump in naked. So I jump in as well.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 5: Then my friend and his ex, they didn't jump in.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 5: They were supposed to, but I think because they're, trying
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 5: to speak about the past and whatever. So they're doing
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 5: their own thing. So anytime I'm in the jacuzzi with
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 5: her and everyone turns their back, she's feeling me up,
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 5: she's rubbing me, whatever. The moment they come back, she stops.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, what's going on? But I'm thinking, kinky game. Okay,
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 5: no problem. Let's play this game. Anyway, cut long story short,
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 5: I go to my bedroom to dry off whatever. She
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 5: comes in after me. One thing leads to another. We
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 5: start to have sex. She's like, I'm going to come.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 5: I'm going to come. She's making noise. The moment she came,
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 5: she was like, she got up. So I'm thinking she's
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 5: going to change position or like, let's do doggy now, whatever.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 5: She walked out. Sweats are good.
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 4: She sounds like a nigga to me. She walked out.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 4: She's like, thank you.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 5: She walked out. And you know what? It was mad.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 5: She walked out and it was like she didn't know me.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: I swear to God, yeah.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 4: Did you pay for it?
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 5: I'm like, what? So in my head, I'm like, nah,
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 5: this shit ain't just happened. So I'm sitting there.
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 4: Dig hard as a rock.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 5: And I'm like, nah, nah, nah, nah. I'm like, I'm dumbfounded.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 5: That's how we be, shit. So my bedroom was like here.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 5: There's a door into the living room, kitchen, whatever. So
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 5: I've walked out, and then she's just there chilling, like,
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 5: just by the wall, ready to go, like. So my
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 5: guy's like, oh, yeah, I'm just going to drop him
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 5: back to... I'm going to drop Mark, the ex, and
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 5: I'm going to drop him back. So I'm looking at
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 5: her like, wait. Like, bitch, you're crazy. Like, are you mad?
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 5: I swear to you, I'm still, like, in, like, a
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 5: towel and shit. You know Eddie Murphy in Boomerang? I'm like,
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 5: I've got, like, the sheets.
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 4: How long was the session?
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 5: It was, like, maybe... I don't know, about 10 minutes,
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 5: 15 minutes. You know what I'm saying?
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 4: That bitch came and came to her senses and got the.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 5: Fucking button there. And she left. And as soon as
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 5: she left, I'm following me on the gram as well.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 4: Oh, damn it.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 5: Everything.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm going to be honest with you.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 5: It was crazy.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 4: I'm about to be honest with you. I'm about to
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 4: be honest with you.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 4: That dick might not have been dicking.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 5: Nah, nah, nah. It was dicking still.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 4: The dick was not dicking.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 5: Well, she came.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: Nah, it was dicking.
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 5: Or maybe she fake came. Nah, it was dicking still.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 5: It was dicking. I could tell. Because I just personally
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 5: feel like She knew people I knew.
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 4: Oh, she didn't want nobody to know. She was trying
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 4: to hurry up.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 2: She was trying to hide it.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 5: And I didn't think she wanted anyone to know because, remember,
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 5: even her friend in the room didn't know what was
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 5: going on. So she was very like.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 4: So she was trying to fuck you right quick.
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 5: She was trying to fuck me quick. Because even when
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 5: I told my guy.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 2: Where this bitch at?
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 4: I want to talk to her.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 5: I was like, yo, bro, you know what happened? Even
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 5: my guy was like, nah. I'm going, bro, I'm telling you.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 4: He was vulnerable with him.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 5: She fucked me and she left. She's gone... She fucked me.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 4: That's the first I've ever heard a.
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: Man say that.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 5: He was like, nah, she couldn't have. I said, bro,
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 5: I'm being serious. He come, bro, I swear to you.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 5: She didn't say nothing.
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 2: In the car.
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 5: Nothing.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 4: Like, no, that didn't happen.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 5: In my head, I was thinking, nah, maybe I didn't fuck.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 5: Maybe I just imagined the whole thing. But I was thinking. Yeah.
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 5: I just tried it to the game. I just thought,
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 5: you know what? The game's the game. It is what
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 5: it is.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: Did you ever see her after that?
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 5: I've never seen her since.
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 2: Oh, goodness.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 4: How was the pussy? Was it good?
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 5: Do you know what? I'm not going to lie to you.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 5: I can't remember.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 3: Maybe that shit did happen.
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 5: I thought it was ghost pussy. No, because I was so.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 2: Was she even there?
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 4: Maybe that shit really did happen, my boy.
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 5: Ghost pussy, though.
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 2: Dog drugs.
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 5: No, no. Do you know what it is? I feel
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 5: like because what happened afterwards consumed my whole mind, I
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 5: forgot the whole session, didn't it? So, because I'm like,
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 5: that's like me, like, having sex with you today, and
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 5: then the moment I'm not, I'm like, bang, I leave.
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 4: That has happened.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 5: Oh, serious?
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, not like just leave.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 5: But the session is over. And the guy just doesn't
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 5: speak to you again.
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, hell no.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 4: No, hell no.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 5: But in your mind, you're thinking, what?
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 2: Especially, I had to be in the same room.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 4: She must have a boyfriend, maybe.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 5: Maybe.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 3: She may just want some whole shit for the night
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 3: in Dubai.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 5: But the thing is, you know me, yeah? You can
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 5: tell me that. I'm cool.
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 5: Like, I'm not saying I promote it, but What happens
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 5: in Dubai stays in Dubai. But I feel like maybe
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 5: a lot of guys maybe speak and talk. So maybe
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 5: in their mind, she's like, I'm not charting it. So
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 5: if me and you know, it's my word against yours.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 4: But you didn't lose any money, right?
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 5: No, I didn't.
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you didn't really get played. It's cool.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 5: I mean, technically, I got used to it.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 4: You feel like you got used?
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 5: I did get used. I did get used.
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 2: You got used for his body.
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 5: I got used, yeah.
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 4: How does that make you feel now today?
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 2: Made for a good story.
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 5: Made for a good story. Yo.
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 2: Because if a woman told this story, we'd be like,
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 2: that nigga.
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 5: Yes. Exactly. He ain't shit. You right.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 4: That bitch ain't shit.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: Look into the camera and tell him if he listening
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  Speaker 2: and he ain't shit. You ain't shit, bitch.
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  Speaker 5: You raggedy bitch, you. What film is that again? Wait,
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 5: check this out. Yes, yes. Does it just come down here?
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  Speaker 5: You raggedy bitch.
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  Speaker 4: He came fast and she put his ass out, right?
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  Speaker 5: No, that's too far. And he's wearing the leather jacket.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, the leather.
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  Speaker 2: Leather vest.
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  Speaker 5: With no top underneath. You raggedy bitch.
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  Speaker 4: That's the name of this episode. You raggedy bitch.
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 5: She knows who she is though, anyway. You raggedy bitch.
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  Speaker 4: Shout out to her.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Tell everybody where they can find you, plug anything that
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 2: you're doing. Yeah, do all of that.
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  Speaker 5: Just follow me on Instagram, Marvin Abbey. Follow me on TikTok,
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 5: Marvin Abbey. Um, Twitter, same thing. And that's it really. Um, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: This is your co-host AJ Holiday. Y'all follow me on
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 4: the Grams. Kick it, Tam.
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 2: Y'all, it's official Tam Bam. I love y'all so much.
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 2: Thank y'all for tuning in. Thank you for coming, Marvy.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, no problem, man.
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  Speaker 5: We appreciate you. This was fun. Thanks for having me.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: And we're going to see you in London. We're coming
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  Speaker 2: for real.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, come to London. I'll look after you, though. I
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 5: got you. LV and this bitch.
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 4: All right, y'all.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: We love y'all. Peace now.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 4: Never hold your peace, bitch.
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 3: Bye, y'all.