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Jess Hilarious on Breakfast Club drama, Remy & Papoose split, dealing with postpartum, the Netflix move, and co-parenting · The Real Report with Tony Yayo and Uncle Murda

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  Speaker 1: You ever think about going into acting because you mad funny?
• 0:02
  Speaker 2: Hell yeah, y I'll be acting to your already. Yo're
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  Speaker 2: right now, like yo yo, y'all not long. I have
• 0:14
  Speaker 2: been auditioning for this. I've been our audition for the
• 0:18
  Speaker 2: first Power I audition to be Ghosts.
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  Speaker 1: I can't I know that ghost.
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  Speaker 3: Even he didn't get stab.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah it's the talking New York tony yo in line
• 0:54
  Speaker 4: from Baltimore. We have one of the greatest of all time.
• 0:58
  Speaker 4: Just the mess just allowed make some noise. Whoa building?
• 1:05
  Speaker 4: Where's the best place to get food in Baltimore? You know?
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  Speaker 3: Hellok?
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  Speaker 1: Man.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm gonna start with Watershed because Watershed.
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  Speaker 2: Is uh it used to be like down there with
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  Speaker 2: Cross Street Market was that, but like water Watershed is
• 1:18
  Speaker 2: like you can get crabs, you can get seafood, you
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  Speaker 2: get buffalo, and you can get everything from there.
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  Speaker 5: That's like one stop shop. And I want to go home,
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  Speaker 5: get a good drink. And that's where I met my
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  Speaker 5: husband at. So I'm like, okay, that's what's.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but Watershed is where you can go.
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  Speaker 2: You can also go to Mos Moses. Downtown's here, but
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  Speaker 2: that's only if you're looking for like seafood, anywhere else.
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  Speaker 5: Just go to somewhere else for that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you think about the mail, the cleaning up,
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  Speaker 1: that's my guy.
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  Speaker 3: Hell yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Like crime, the crime rade drop hell.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Brandon Scott funniest.
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  Speaker 5: You know this, People don't really be believing that he is.
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  Speaker 2: A real like that's a real guy, like from the hood,
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  Speaker 2: born and raised, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: That's why the crime rateers down because he can relate.
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  Speaker 3: He can relate.
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  Speaker 2: That's the thing that people always want, the prim and
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  Speaker 2: proper mayors who ain't never been through ship. It ain't
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  Speaker 2: never the stand up in front of a whole city
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  Speaker 2: of people and telling them what they can do for you.
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  Speaker 5: You don't know we you know.
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  Speaker 3: What I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: You got yeah, yes, you never woke up and couldn't
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  Speaker 2: eat before, like you never you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: So like he's definitely he got a story to you,
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  Speaker 2: got a crazy story.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm proud of our man Baltimore.
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  Speaker 1: Definitely.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Brandon Scott doing a damn thing.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, he obviously know what he's doing because you
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  Speaker 4: know the crime rate. Baltimore is a tough place to
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  Speaker 4: live certain parts. You know, it's rough, they got real
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  Speaker 4: rich parts and bulim Yeah I know that too. What's
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  Speaker 4: the rich parts again? I forgot the name.
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  Speaker 2: Man, it's a couple of rich parts. You got Columbia
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  Speaker 2: you gotta run new mills, all that shit on the outskirts.
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  Speaker 5: And then you got with all the Ravens players be
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  Speaker 5: down at like like downtown and ship with the doctors
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  Speaker 5: and all of them live at Fell's Point Canton. Uh. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: that's that's it. Ain't too many like like full like
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  Speaker 5: four places. You know what I'm saying, like full place.
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  Speaker 4: Well shout to the many of the crime ratings going down.
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  Speaker 4: You're doing a good job job. You definitely relate to kids.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Baltimore is a great Yeah, that's my nigga.
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  Speaker 3: That's right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you putting me. I'm gonna check them out.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Yoll He got some ship a couple.
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  Speaker 4: Because Baltimore ain't no artist really come out out of
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  Speaker 4: there for a while.
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  Speaker 3: He he's been going hard for a while.
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  Speaker 5: But you know, we got the Marios and.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah that's it, she said.
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  Speaker 3: We just had on Marrio was beeping with Jack Queeze
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  Speaker 3: the single.
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  Speaker 5: Mario, Yeah, the singer Mario from from Baltimore.
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  Speaker 3: You get here.
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  Speaker 5: When when a nigga get mad.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, he gottle attitude.
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  Speaker 7: And man, you think the niggas can't stay Niggas can't
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  Speaker 7: they can't sign.
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  Speaker 3: I mean they can sing.
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  Speaker 2: The only nigga versus and told niggas, may I sound
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  Speaker 2: crazy like on the mic, I'm like, damn maga.
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  Speaker 3: He got that Baltimore And I didn't even know.
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  Speaker 4: That jokes come from the Baltimore streets because it's definitely
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  Speaker 4: one tough cookie.
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  Speaker 3: You not, Yeah, when did you realize you was funny? Man?
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  Speaker 2: I got all of that ship from my father's side,
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  Speaker 2: my father, my grandmother, That ship from.
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  Speaker 5: That that side, dang't wrap you tight.
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  Speaker 2: So everything humorous and that they laugh when they shouldn't laugh.
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  Speaker 2: They make jokes about shit they shouldn't make jokes about
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  Speaker 2: All that shit come from my father's side. And then
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  Speaker 2: also just growing up in Baltimore, I got real thick skin.
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  Speaker 5: Just man.
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  Speaker 2: I grew up around my brother and he and his
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  Speaker 2: friends was fucking roasting me since a child, all the
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  Speaker 2: way up until I was roasting the ass back, you
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean. So me growing up and then
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  Speaker 2: having a whole bunch of homeboys. I had a few
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  Speaker 2: homegirls in there, but grew up around like a lot
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  Speaker 2: of the boys. Even in school, I would hang around
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  Speaker 2: the guys. I was like a tom girl, so like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I would hang around him to I realized
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  Speaker 2: they want fuck, and it's like, nope, I'm gonna come back,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, because I ain't want I
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  Speaker 2: ain't want to fuck nobody.
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  Speaker 5: I just you know, just wanted to be cool.
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  Speaker 3: I was.
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  Speaker 2: I found myself being real cool with the guys. So
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  Speaker 2: that's how I ended up with thick skin, being able
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  Speaker 2: to roall niggas.
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  Speaker 4: Where the marketing come from? Because it was a point
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  Speaker 4: where was he doing the COVID. I think it was
• 5:11
  Speaker 4: doing the COVID. He was getting crazy on Instagram.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's uh. I don't know, yo, just standing out. Honestly,
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  Speaker 2: I knew everybody was shut down during COVID.
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  Speaker 5: Wasn't nowhere to go.
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  Speaker 2: Niggas couldn't have fun be outside. I mean people still were,
• 5:26
  Speaker 2: but you know, for the most part, you had to
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  Speaker 2: be locked down, especially if you had kids. Everybody kids
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  Speaker 2: was home doing virtual school and shit, you know, doing
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  Speaker 2: school virtually. So I was like, shit, I'm about to
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  Speaker 2: everybody home, ain't got nothing to watch because it was
• 5:39
  Speaker 2: the writer strike. Then actors and sets got shut down,
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  Speaker 2: shows got stopped, and movies. I was like, shit, I'm
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  Speaker 2: about to get nigga something to watch.
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  Speaker 5: And that's just how I did it.
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  Speaker 3: I was like it.
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  Speaker 2: I created like four or five series. I started this
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  Speaker 2: series called Justify, It's.
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  Speaker 5: Just me on the road, and then I did House
• 6:02
  Speaker 5: of Jewels where I played like five girls and then
• 6:04
  Speaker 5: played the dude. That was funny.
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  Speaker 2: Then I did Ebeni Zena where it's two bitches with
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  Speaker 2: the same baby father going at it and shit, and
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  Speaker 2: then like two other series. I was, man, it was
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  Speaker 2: I was real creative with nothing to do.
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  Speaker 5: But be creative.
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  Speaker 6: So yeah, facts how they felt going from that though
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  Speaker 6: to Power one oh five point one and then knowing
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  Speaker 6: you had to replace Angelae Heat and all the whole
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  Speaker 6: breakfast club drive in there because a lot of people
• 6:33
  Speaker 6: was confused a lot of people when angel Ye left,
• 6:36
  Speaker 6: people didn't know what was the next step.
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  Speaker 1: Like, we didn't know what they was going to do next,
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  Speaker 1: and you from Baltimore.
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  Speaker 2: Doing radio right, I ain't know what the fuck was
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  Speaker 2: next to neither When I woke up and I saw
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  Speaker 2: the ship cause it came out of nowhere.
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  Speaker 5: To be honest with you, I ain't gonna hold you.
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  Speaker 5: I wasn't even really tuning in to.
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  Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club to see the last like two years
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  Speaker 2: before she left, because I know she went on Samer
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  Speaker 2: Hall and she was saying, like you know it was
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  Speaker 2: it was already boiling down to her leaving and shit
• 7:02
  Speaker 2: like she wasn't happy or whatever. So I really wasn't
• 7:04
  Speaker 2: even tuning in like that. I would catch it every
• 7:06
  Speaker 2: now and then and then. But when I woke up
• 7:09
  Speaker 2: and saw the headline Angela Yee leaving Breakfast Club get
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  Speaker 2: her own show, and I love what she going with
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  Speaker 2: her own ship, I was like, I hit Charlamagne, like yo,
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  Speaker 2: I need to be on Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what, Yeah, I.
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  Speaker 2: Said, I don't know what the fuck going on, but
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  Speaker 2: that's the that's a radio Hall of Fame show.
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  Speaker 3: It as I go, I ain't even hold you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just a person who liked to do ship, who
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  Speaker 2: never did it before, like should all right, I've always
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  Speaker 2: been paying attention to Charlomagne. I always say Charlmagne was
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  Speaker 2: a comedian in his previous life. We're gonna be one
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  Speaker 2: and that in his afterlife. Like I always thought he
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  Speaker 2: was funny. Envy was always like he always been the
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  Speaker 2: radio got me, he always got he got the voice
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  Speaker 2: for radio, voice for DJ and but yeah, like he
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  Speaker 2: just is radio. When I think about radio, I think
• 7:54
  Speaker 2: about DJ Mvy and then and I'm like, shit, they.
• 7:57
  Speaker 5: Need another female up the motherfucker.
• 7:58
  Speaker 2: But they need somebody that's gonna be able to stand
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  Speaker 2: up to them, that that's gonna disagree with the niggas
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  Speaker 2: when they ain't right, that's still gonna keep it funny, fresh, funky,
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  Speaker 2: all that give them the real And.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, shout, I from Baltimore a whole better, you know.
• 8:12
  Speaker 2: And so Charlotte hit me back like all right, cool,
• 8:14
  Speaker 2: We're gonna be guest co hosting for the next few months. Hey,
• 8:17
  Speaker 2: you know that she was gonna turn into a year.
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  Speaker 2: I said, all right, cool. I started coming up there
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  Speaker 2: next thing, you know, I got that ship.
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  Speaker 1: So definitely, Lauren, definitely, I feel.
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  Speaker 2: Like most definitely I appreciate it. Yeah, she the journalist
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  Speaker 2: part of it, That's what I am not.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not about to.
• 8:35
  Speaker 5: Be on the phone calling niggas lawyers.
• 8:37
  Speaker 2: Hey, what happened in the in the latest show. I'm like, nah,
• 8:41
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to trial with niggas. I'm not doing
• 8:43
  Speaker 2: none of that. But like she got that TMC background,
• 8:45
  Speaker 2: that's what the show needed.
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  Speaker 5: You know, she produced as well. She delivers the ship. Well,
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  Speaker 5: she's gonna give you every every detail there is to give,
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  Speaker 5: and I'm just gonna be there making fun of everything.
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  Speaker 5: We need that.
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  Speaker 6: Even though you believe I wanted to make fun of y'all,
• 9:03
  Speaker 6: I wanted to make fun of y'all beefing on the
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  Speaker 6: wrap up so bad.
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  Speaker 3: But then y'all got cool so quick.
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  Speaker 7: I was like, damn, you could have said got cool
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  Speaker 7: so fast.
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  Speaker 6: It was like it was drama and then before you
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  Speaker 6: know it, y'all worked it out. You know, I was
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  Speaker 6: still I was like, hold, I said, oh, this is
• 9:21
  Speaker 6: gonna go on.
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  Speaker 3: I was man for somebody to get clipped. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: be cool.
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  Speaker 6: I think one of y'all. I thought one of y'all
• 9:26
  Speaker 6: was gonna get fired. I said, somebody going to somebody's going.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, what do you think that.
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  Speaker 6: You feel like they both couldn't exist at the moment.
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  Speaker 6: It was cool for a minute, but you thought they
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  Speaker 6: both couldn't exist.
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  Speaker 3: That's the thing is.
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  Speaker 1: See.
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  Speaker 2: The crazy thing about it is I knew that we
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: could both exist, but I just thought Breakfast Club. And
• 9:45
  Speaker 2: since we known it, it's been three people facts. So
• 9:48
  Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, it's even me or herd.
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  Speaker 3: And I thought your attitude was making like that's a
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  Speaker 3: whole up, not just ain't with this. Ship is not
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  Speaker 3: with it?
• 9:59
  Speaker 5: Y'all want to say, Lauren, you got you know what
• 10:01
  Speaker 5: I'm saying, I don't know, And then you know, it
• 10:05
  Speaker 5: just ended up unraveling in it being you know, she
• 10:09
  Speaker 5: she's gonna make the job, everybody's job easier. She's seen
• 10:12
  Speaker 5: your news producer, she is. I'm like, oh, Ship, why
• 10:15
  Speaker 5: niggas ain't saying you know what I'm saying, man that
• 10:17
  Speaker 5: this girl shouldn't even be mad at her.
• 10:19
  Speaker 2: I really should be mad at y'all, boy v all them.
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  Speaker 3: You know you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: But no, I don't regret doing it the way I
• 10:29
  Speaker 2: did it, you know now like a big ass family.
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  Speaker 6: You know, people, that was real ship, Like you needed
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  Speaker 6: to see that.
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: All you all the time on the road.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I.
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: Met y'all and saw y'all in person. I said, oh no,
• 10:46
  Speaker 2: breakfast cluse. They make us look like best friends all
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  Speaker 2: the time, too, crazy fucking cousins like like, I don't
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  Speaker 2: even know how you mean.
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  Speaker 4: Murders the klind of guy that he's cool when it's
• 11:01
  Speaker 4: just you and him, and when other people.
• 11:02
  Speaker 3: Get around, he started getting champagne.
• 11:11
  Speaker 4: You get the champagne. We don't drink that ship, drink
• 11:16
  Speaker 4: the champagne. But I don't know the way, I said, like,
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  Speaker 4: boss me.
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  Speaker 3: Around like you jeff Jeffrey.
• 11:22
  Speaker 4: And I work for this nigga, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: So when it's me and him, be cool. But when
• 11:28
  Speaker 4: other people get around, you know it's Brooklyn. He gotta perform,
• 11:31
  Speaker 4: you know what.
• 11:32
  Speaker 3: Cut it out, man, Cut it out? Man?
• 11:34
  Speaker 4: So what was life before comedy and success and everything
• 11:37
  Speaker 4: like that?
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: Because I know you had a baby at nineteen, man,
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  Speaker 1: I did.
• 11:41
  Speaker 2: I got pregnant with my son and night was outside. Oh,
• 11:44
  Speaker 2: nigga was outside.
• 11:47
  Speaker 5: Nigga, I'm not playing. I was going to raise the
• 11:49
  Speaker 5: church told me everything. The more you tell a kid
• 11:53
  Speaker 5: don't do it, don't do it, don't do it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, my own girl said she, I want to see
• 11:58
  Speaker 2: what that's like. You know they smoking weed?
• 12:01
  Speaker 5: Now, you know what I mean? Like shit I want
• 12:03
  Speaker 5: to see.
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: So hopped off the porch right on some dick, I'm
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: telling you. Like my first boy friend with my baby father,
• 12:10
  Speaker 2: I thought he was going it was going to be,
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  Speaker 2: you know, to to death do us part, and it
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: ended up to death.
• 12:15
  Speaker 3: Do we parent?
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: Because yeah, I ain't gonna marry this nigga, but yeah
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: we got we got a kid that we gotta raise,
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: and we gotta put everything to the side that we
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: feeling were hurting each other and ship and this shit
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: is really only hurting our son, you know, and the
• 12:29
  Speaker 2: way we raised him and ship. So I got pregnant
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  Speaker 2: at nineteen first official boyfriend, and then had my son
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: at twenty.
• 12:37
  Speaker 6: So I just cleared that up. My first official Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I was young. It was my first thing, you know.
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  Speaker 3: That's right, that's right, that's right.
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  Speaker 5: And then yeah, life from from there. I was a
• 12:51
  Speaker 5: parent real early. I couldn't go outside and be in
• 12:54
  Speaker 5: a club, pop and perk slapping bitches no more. I
• 12:56
  Speaker 5: couldn't do all of that, you know.
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: I had to be home and ship it like raising
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: a kid, you know, and that helped shape who I
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: am today and how I approached how I approached my
• 13:10
  Speaker 2: my mid twenties and my thirties now that I mean
• 13:13
  Speaker 2: I'm thirty four. Yeah, Like being a mom is really
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  Speaker 2: shaped me in the best ways.
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  Speaker 3: Fact. Fact, that's great.
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  Speaker 1: You got another kids.
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  Speaker 3: Yep, I dad.
• 13:21
  Speaker 5: Just two years ago, I let a nigga shot up
• 13:23
  Speaker 5: the club. Later the club twelve year y'all.
• 13:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know both y'all. The niggas wasn't nigga, you
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  Speaker 3: know what I mean?
• 13:33
  Speaker 5: Like, you know, the guys been guying, and I look,
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  Speaker 5: I'm not one of them. Business.
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  Speaker 2: It's just like, y'all get me pregnant like I want to,
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  Speaker 2: Like I was never one of them because I already
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: know what that come with I was. I was true
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: testament to my son getting here at twenty years old,
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: and I already know I was stuck with with with everything,
• 13:52
  Speaker 2: you know, So it's like, oh, all right, I ain't
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: trying to do that no more.
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  Speaker 3: So. When I got.
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  Speaker 2: Everything out that I was supposed to get out, I
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: met my husband and then boom, he told me what
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: he wanted.
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  Speaker 5: I told him what the funk I wanted. Wasn't taking nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Less, and we aligned and we are each other's companions.
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  Speaker 2: Like it's the best best person I ever met.
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  Speaker 3: In my life.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, man, baby girl and my baby boys.
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: So I know you and your husband like you.
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: About to have more kids.
• 14:25
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I definitely want to give them two more for sure.
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: I gave him his first and yeah, and and he
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: loves my son like he is his father, So I
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: love that.
• 14:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and my baby relationship.
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: With him on showing you're talking about how y'all?
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, me and my son father like best friends, y'all.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: We were cool as ship, like that's that's.
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: My dog in the book talking about that.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, man, so soft do we parent?
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: Is the name of the book. It's a cold parents
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: and memoir and it basically I wrote this ship because
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: it's a lot of it's a bad, bad stigma put
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: on black families, y'all, like families period, but especially black.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: They feel like when we don't make it as a couple,
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: we can't do ship. We gotta hate each other, We
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: can't even come together effectively to raise our kid. Like,
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: I don't know why they think like that about us,
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: you know, because that's not that's not always the case.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: They don't.
• 15:16
  Speaker 6: Even females do make it hard though, to break up.
• 15:19
  Speaker 6: Some females make it hard and then they use the
• 15:22
  Speaker 6: baby is like.
• 15:28
  Speaker 4: Doing ship, So it goes both ways. But I know
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: that stigma you're talking about because I had an argument
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: with a cab driver and he said, where the fuck
• 15:37
  Speaker 4: is your father? I'm like, my father was still alive
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: at that time.
• 15:39
  Speaker 5: Wow.
• 15:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah, So people look at it like in the black home,
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: like where the is the father?
• 15:45
  Speaker 5: The niggas straight you're talking about the me and me
• 15:47
  Speaker 5: have to.
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: Go to you said some.
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: I fucking I don't even want to people that I said.
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: But the first thing he said to me was like,
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: where's your father?
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: Crazy?
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: You know, come on, bro, being a black man, and yeah,
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: see you with your kids at the bus stop.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: It's amazing to them. Yeah, like it's an amazing thing.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: Now kids, kids about that?
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, stigma man.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I'm like, now it's time to kill that ship.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: Like it's some it's some real, real, beautiful, genuine black
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: love without parents being together like that happens. You know,
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: It's got a lot of examples, but we hoigh like
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: the opposite, you know, because that that goes further, that
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: gets all the virality.
• 16:31
  Speaker 5: And all of that.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: But like, no, there's some real, real strong, beautiful Black
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: families that are not together.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: You know, and that's what you're breaking down in the book.
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, most definitely that dope.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: And I love all my baby father kids just like
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: they mine too.
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: The kids. This is a book my kids wrote, The
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: Merry Christmas Row.
• 16:56
  Speaker 6: Yeah it's on Amazon and all that now is available
• 16:59
  Speaker 6: and all that Christmas boy.
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you ain't be telling me the promoted for I'm
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: gonna give you a couple of yes.
• 17:10
  Speaker 6: Of course you came, man, And it's available on Amazon
• 17:13
  Speaker 6: and all that and Nobles, all that good stuff.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: So we love the kids. We love the kids. We
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: love the kids.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: So so so when your book are you talking about
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: some red flags or green flags and relationship you're.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: Sucking right now. That's why you're not my nigga. I
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: realized when I had like yo, all right, first of all,
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: came with a lot of.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: Did you see anything that you could have did better?
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: As well? Like you seem okay, you know.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: What I talk about?
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: That what was.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Talking about like how women will weaponize like the baby
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: or weaponized like her motherhood to like to to funk with.
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: The dad's relationship with the kid.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: I did that. I did all that.
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: I was look at that my son wasn't his just.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yo, and I regretted it. I regretted it as
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: soon as I said it.
• 18:06
  Speaker 5: I said, man, I ain't supposed to be doing this ship.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: That's crazy, but I did got crazy.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Man, what this nigga bought a bitch to my son's
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: first birthday party? I walked up in there like he
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: This was around the time love and hip hop was out.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: This nigga walked down like he was Stevie J shuret.
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: He was justling.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna make sure he mean me because I
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: could fight, so I would have been justing.
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: But like that's fucked up, Like.
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: I was looking like wow, but I already knew where
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: it came from. I told him that this wasn't his kid.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: You're not supposed to do no ship, of course, you know,
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: you just you're not supposed to ring that bell. Once
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: you do it, it's hard to gain that trust back,
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean? But if it wasn't for
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: my son looking smack dab just like his father. He
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: didn't look like me at all until he got older.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: But he looked like, did you'll go get the blood
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: work and all that? After you said all that ship? Nah?
• 18:48
  Speaker 5: I thought he? I thought that's what he was gonna do,
• 18:50
  Speaker 5: and I was willing to do it.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: Because because I wasn't copy.
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: He was like, nah, I ain't gonna he said.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: He believed it for a second, but then he got
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: the looking at the pictures like, you know, just throw
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: me off, you know, but he still wanted to get
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: that payback and bought that little greasy headway and bitch
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: to my ship.
• 19:12
  Speaker 7: I ain't mad at him. I ain't even mad at him.
• 19:14
  Speaker 7: I ain't mad he had to have you with. That
• 19:16
  Speaker 7: was some found ship you did. That probably was the
• 19:19
  Speaker 7: only thing he could have did really make you as
• 19:21
  Speaker 7: mad as you had.
• 19:22
  Speaker 5: That's right.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you.
• 19:24
  Speaker 5: Girls got about that.
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: But after she said something, Yeah, but after you say something,
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: but the baby now pulling up with a business like this,
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: But that's super spiiteful. Gonn tell you why it is?
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: You know how just is? You know she's not playing.
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: She's from Baltimore. You know everybody's tough. Ain't nobody showing
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: Baltimore too is playing to I get that she was
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: gonna flip crazy. I knew you crazy. I want the
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: drama at the man, Come on, this is my family.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: The church ran you know, the church family really gonna
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: go and talk, and they talking about we're gonna take
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: it to the altar. Now, y'all gonna tell everybody else.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: That's what they mean when they say were gonna take
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: it to the auto. I mean, hey, just telling everybody'd
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: been and I'm.
• 20:09
  Speaker 5: Like, you did this in front of my pastor yeah.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: Both, you know what I'm saying.
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: I was.
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: As I got past all of that crazy.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: Honestly, me and Rome really didn't like reconcile the right
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: way as becoming a team until Ash was like three,
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: And it took like two years for me and Ash
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: to get I mean, you know, Ash was two. It
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: only took two years to me and Rome to get
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: on the right page. And I honestly gave him a
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: lot of grace. I gotta give myself a lot of
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: grace too, because for me to be that young, I
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: was twenty two, you know what I mean, I was
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: I still should have been crashing out, you know what
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: I mean by definition of what a twenty two years? Yeah,
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: but my baby father came with a lot of trauma.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: He lost his mom at ten. Not only did he
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: lose it, he didn't want to founder dead so like
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: nobody ever got him, No no counselor no therapy, No
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: family stepped up and was like I'm gonna make sure
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: you're good or whatever, you know, So he just grew up.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: That love stopped abruptly, you know what I mean, because
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: now we had to uproot his life from being the
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: only kid the center of attention. He was his mother's love,
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: like to now being in a household with all boys,
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like he had brothers, He
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: went to live with his dad, a stepmom. Father wasn't
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: really there like that, and you know, then he started
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: self as he got older, he started self medicating on women,
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: so like, shit got real crazy.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: When he met me, he was.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Already still trying to process how to navigate the grief
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: and shit, I don't know what the fuck going on,
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: and he was playing basketball and shit and all of that,
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: but it was still like it was a void that
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: was never filled.
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: So I thought it was me, but it was bigger
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: than me. He was looking for his.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Mom and the love that stopped so abruptly at ten,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: and no girl could give him that because that's a
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: different type of love, you know. So once I started
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: to understand that it was bigger than me and how
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: to change my mindset.
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: And it's like, I need to be this nigga friend, like.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Because he don't really have nobody that's like really trying
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: to help him cope, you know. And I started doing that.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: And I what made me do that was when I
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: actually left a nigga alone. I had left Rome and
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: started dating this other guy who was great not only
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: for me, but for my son.
• 22:18
  Speaker 5: I wanted to get.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: Rome came back, told me everything I wanted to hear.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: I left the dude started fucking with him. Twenty four
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: hours later, I found out Rome got a baby on
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: the way by somebody else who he was in another
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: relationship with.
• 22:31
  Speaker 5: That's when I was like, you know what, Yo, I
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: ain't doing the shit. I ain't.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna care was a red.
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: Flat because you left the good guy for the back
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: for the absolutely.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: But I called myself doing the right thing cause I'm like, yo,
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: I could leave you, or I could cheat on you
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: with my baby father, you know what I mean? And
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: I and I kept telling myself that, but I'm like, nah,
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: I already knew. It wasn't even me giving Rome another
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: chance to be a family. It was giving him another
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: chance to be my boyfriend, because we could have been
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: a family without this nigga being my boyfriend.
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: We could have raised our son together.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: Still, you know, I was still just holding on to
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: that hope of being with him and just you know,
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: because my man, I thought I was gonna marry and
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: we was gonna have more kids and blah blah blah.
• 23:14
  Speaker 5: But it was we was young.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: And then also like Rome had the Rome still still
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: fighting that tragic moment you know, of him losing his
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: mom and shit. So you know, it's a lot of work.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: You think that's a red flag when when a man
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: doesn't get therapy, But.
• 23:28
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Absolutely because they a lot of them are walking around
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: like nothing is wrong with them.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: They don't even know.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Sometimes they don't even realize that ship is wrong with them.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Like even the men that have been in a jigger
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: for a long time, niggas be still institutionalized and don't
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: even realize it.
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: Like that, that's a real thing.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: Like you know, when you have so many losses back,
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: whether you in the streets and you losing homeboy at
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: the homeboy or whatever whatever, like that shit plays on
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: your mind like.
• 23:59
  Speaker 5: For real, and I always people always be like, yo,
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: everything in life is not about power universe. But no,
• 24:06
  Speaker 5: when you think about it, though, you see how I'm
• 24:08
  Speaker 5: Raisin Kane to Uncle Lee was going through all of
• 24:10
  Speaker 5: that shit, the niggas killing, killing, killing, that's just started
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: haunting them.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: And you know what I'm saying, that's real shit.
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we have like a story that we're watching it
• 24:18
  Speaker 5: so it's dramatized as TV, but like that's real life.
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: Niggas be about that, but even in their mind it
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: still haunts them. All these bodies they catching and then also.
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: All the people that they lose.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: So like people don't even be realizing, like there's a
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: lot of shit that they got to work through. And
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: sitting in a therapy session once a week for three
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: or four years or for the rest of your life
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: ain't ain't a bad thing. It's gonna make you confront
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: shit that you didn't even know what's there, and it
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: can go back all the way to your childhood. It'll
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: start making you question your parents. You will start having
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: conversation with them, why am I like this?
• 24:52
  Speaker 5: What the fuck happened? What did you?
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: So therapy is very important, real shit.
• 24:58
  Speaker 6: You know it's crazy, my boy, wizy, he be saying that,
• 25:00
  Speaker 6: like your mark, I think we need therapy. I think
• 25:03
  Speaker 6: we need to go see a therapist.
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: All that, and it ain't. I remember of.
• 25:06
  Speaker 6: Them kids that lost his moms when I was thirteen
• 25:09
  Speaker 6: years old, no father and all that, So I know
• 25:12
  Speaker 6: exactly what you're saying, like and you still think about
• 25:14
  Speaker 6: things to this day, and you know, I man, i'd
• 25:17
  Speaker 6: be like, my kids.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Won't never get there meet my mom like that.
• 25:20
  Speaker 6: I'd be like, yo, dang, that's what you think about
• 25:23
  Speaker 6: that a lot. You know what I'm saying, And people
• 25:24
  Speaker 6: don't even ever know that, but it'd be like that,
• 25:27
  Speaker 6: it might.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: Be good for you. I was blessed to have my
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: mother and my father. My mom still my pops passed
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: away in eighty so oh wow.
• 25:33
  Speaker 5: We lived a full life.
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: But still at the same time, like when they divorced,
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, that led to my criminal
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: life because my father.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: That's crazy, you say that for real.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: So it's like when the father's not in the home. Yeah,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I felt like.
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: It gave me more leeway to do more shit because
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: my pops used to chase me off the block, but
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: he wasn't there to chase me off the block. And
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: my mom's was always working. She was a nurse, so
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: she worked a night shift, and that's what caused.
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: Me to like he is able to had a lot
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: of freedom. You're like, should I could do what I want?
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: That's why it's so important that book you put out
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: about parents. Talk more about it.
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: Please, yeah, no, for real that and see even.
• 26:09
  Speaker 6: Yourself like what he just said though, like how when
• 26:11
  Speaker 6: his parents was together he was kind of good. Then
• 26:14
  Speaker 6: when they separated and led to the street life. How
• 26:17
  Speaker 6: do how do you think people avoid that? Because that's
• 26:21
  Speaker 6: that's shit that happens today, and it's real.
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: Hard to avoid if mom is working all day a
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: nurse every night, every night in my prove out the
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: house that was my leeway. They didn't want me to
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: be in loss. They didn't want that from me.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: See that's the thing, though, you know, like you it's
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: all about your mindset and what you want to grow
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: up and be.
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: Because so for instance, like we had.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Like all right, fu, all that FU.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: For other examples, what made you want to chase the
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: streets though your mom was a nurse. Your dad didn't
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: even show you that kind of life.
• 26:57
  Speaker 5: What made you do it? Was it something you saw?
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: I mean it was everybody in the neighborhood.
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: Okay, boy was a doctor in the neighborhood, you know
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying, or lawyer everything.
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: You got your freedom and then they do it nobody.
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: I'm outside the one three four and God Brewer, I'm
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: going to win six hold and everybody, you know, they
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: buying sneakers, they buying clothes.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: My moms could do the best she can do for me, but.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: They didn't get it, you know. And you had to
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: wait three four checks and see your mother, you know,
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: do that. But then you got she got bills to pay,
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: so you can go and get it yourself. Now you
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: also do got.
• 27:32
  Speaker 5: Your your people, take your same household, right and your
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: dad leaves.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: You could have been the kid that's like shit, I'm
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: gonna just study, study my mom and head fucking I'm
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: gonna burn my head in these books and could have
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: went to college and been a fucking engineer or ben a.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It's just how you're wired.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: It's just like what you see is just these motherfuckers,
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: the introverted motherfuckers. That's not outside.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean, you don't even want to
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: be around people.
• 27:56
  Speaker 6: But then you got some people that andvaccuated with that,
• 27:59
  Speaker 6: You're like, oh man, niggas I was out.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I want that, man, I want that.
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: I feel I feel like people like Baltimore, for instance,
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: I feel like people turn into what the environment is.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: You understand.
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, not everybody, but already all of us sold drugs
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: and one of my men's worked at the post office,
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: like one out of five, but everybody, it's really the environment.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: You win when you take people out of the environment.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: I think you got to spend a chance at becoming something.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Definitely.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: I agree with that too, though, did I agree with that?
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: You feel like if you had a chance to read
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: redo your childhood, would you have done anything different or
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: would you do this ship over?
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: Of course again, I would definitely did a lot of
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: things different because my parents were chasing me off the block.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: They knew what the trouble was, and then I end
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: up getting in trouble.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 28:43
  Speaker 6: Yeah, for me, for some reason, I don't regret nothing
• 28:46
  Speaker 6: like how I grew up. I love it all. I
• 28:48
  Speaker 6: think it's just it makes you who you are. It's
• 28:50
  Speaker 6: just it was what you're supposed to go through.
• 28:53
  Speaker 5: What about your dad?
• 28:54
  Speaker 6: I don't know that, Nigga, he wasn't there, you know,
• 28:59
  Speaker 6: and so.
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: You don't even know if he's alive at all.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: Real ship, Like, I don't know if he's alive or not.
• 29:03
  Speaker 5: And you never thought about like trying to.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: I thought about that like that, you know what's crazy?
• 29:08
  Speaker 6: I thought about like I never know, right, you never
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: know what he was going through because I used to
• 29:13
  Speaker 6: talk so crazy about like.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: Even through the music. Right. But then and I got
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: as I got a little older, and I.
• 29:19
  Speaker 6: Just realized how parent didn't go and what people go
• 29:22
  Speaker 6: through in life, how hard should be.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, I don't know what he was going.
• 29:26
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know. I just don't know. For him
• 29:28
  Speaker 6: not to be here, I don't know.
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 29:31
  Speaker 6: Maybe my mom's God blessed was crazy and pushed his
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what it was. You know what I'm saying.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: You never got to expect for sure we might have
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: Maybe he.
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• 29:50
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• 29:54
  Speaker 6: That that nigga knows Okay that nigga, don't play with me,
• 30:00
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• 30:04
  Speaker 4: My whole life crazy. He's a kid to to, you know, man.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: But all of this ship is coming in the book.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: That's this is why I wrote it, Yo.
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  Speaker 5: It's not just.
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  Speaker 2: conversations and difficult conversations and ship like that is me
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  Speaker 4: just do what.
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  Speaker 1: Goes on your mind, like when you up there.
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  Speaker 5: Yo, who is here? Like where I'm at? What they
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  Speaker 5: like to hear?
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  Speaker 8: You know, he don't say that, man, don't stop your bag,
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  Speaker 3: All the most.
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  Speaker 2: Boring ship to make fun of. That's what you do.
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  Speaker 2: anything you just start going in and then you just
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  Speaker 2: have you You have ship that you that you right,
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  Speaker 2: that can appeal to anybody, age, race, whatever, you are,
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  Speaker 2: a man, woman, other whatever the fuck?
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  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: Like you just you can appeal to everybody. But like
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: I don't know, just be looking around for like who.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: I don't roast people, but I.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Like the fun with people. I like to ask people shit,
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: you know, I don't. I'm not the roasting person. If
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: you come and sit on the front.
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: Row, I ain't trying to roast you. You paid most
• 33:18
  Speaker 5: of the time. Motherfuckers don't be trying to. You know,
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: the people who sit on the front road, they be
• 33:22
  Speaker 5: thinking they look good.
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: Let them think they look good.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like that embarrass you at my show,
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Now, if you ask me to,
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do that, you know what I mean. But
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: if like, nah, I don't be doing it. I will
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: ask people questions, Like since I got the book out,
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: a lot of my crowd work now is about cole
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: parenting and baby falls and baby mothers and.
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: Shy being that bitch rolling.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: I'll be triggering some people to old motherfuckers be like, man,
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: that that bitch showed me my son wasn't me, mune bitch.
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: I'm like, shit, I did that too, chapter three. You
• 33:50
  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, Like, you know, I'll be plugging
• 33:53
  Speaker 5: the book and they're doing comedy at the same time.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: But so basically, yeah, that don't play with me, toy.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: It's basically it hits off of everything. You know, this
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: government playing with us.
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: Uh bebe father might be playing with your mother, might
• 34:05
  Speaker 5: be playing with you.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: You might be even playing with yourself and don't even realize,
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.
• 34:11
  Speaker 6: So, yeah, you know something I wanted to ask you,
• 34:13
  Speaker 6: what's that we're kind of happy about? But I've seen
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: y'all had to discuss a few times because y'all not on.
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: YouTube no more. We were happy.
• 34:22
  Speaker 6: We don't mind people that used to go watch y'all
• 34:24
  Speaker 6: on YouTube. Come come, come to the rail reports. Come,
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: come to the rail report.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: The value. We're not mad, Come to the rail report. Right,
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: come to the rail report. Right?
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: You do it?
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: How do how do that? Like?
• 34:36
  Speaker 6: What's the whole thing with that? Like you had a
• 34:39
  Speaker 6: real strong YouTube presence. People was mad at y'all. Now
• 34:42
  Speaker 6: we can't see the Breakfast Club on YouTube? They on Netflix?
• 34:45
  Speaker 6: What's that whole thing like?
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: So when it first happened, just like anything that, you
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: got to get used to. Your motherfucker's be screaming and
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: somthing and making noise and I'm not.
• 34:54
  Speaker 5: Going to get Netflix and all of that.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: You know, all of that ship, you know what I mean.
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: But niggas didn't realize, Oh damn, I already got. That
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: they gotta do is just watch, you know what I mean.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: At first, it was like, and I get it, the
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: YouTube family, They like, Yo, y'all been building this shit
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: over fucking fifteen years.
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: What the fuck you mean?
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: We not, y'all not gonna be on YouTube no more.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: We still post clips, but not the full episode and
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: not the.
• 35:20
  Speaker 5: Full interviews and ship.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: You can still go there to see like, you know,
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: highlights of the show, but you gotta come to Netflix
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: and see the exclusivity, you know what I'm saying, to
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: get like the whole episode and the whole interview and shit.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: And I mean shit, Yo, did you ever think of
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: radio being on the biggest, like the number one streaming
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: platform ever?
• 35:39
  Speaker 5: This is a radio show because radio first, definitely the podcast,
• 35:45
  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: Then we a fucking show, you know a lot, but
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: it's live on Netflix.
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: I think that's a big fucking deal. I couldn't even
• 35:52
  Speaker 5: see the vision At first.
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: I was like, man, fuck that you didn't. You felt like,
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: I'm like, man.
• 35:57
  Speaker 5: Niggas need to be able to interact with us, No,
• 35:58
  Speaker 5: we got to be able to engage.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: He's like that the biggest part of radio is being
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: able to engage with the host in real time. I'm like, no, y'all,
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: there's some bullshit right here. But after a while, I'm like,
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: they were on Netflix, you know what I'm saying. And
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: then then yeah, and then when they added the live component,
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: now you can really.
• 36:17
  Speaker 5: Watch us like you listening to what's in the radio,
• 36:20
  Speaker 5: you know, you know, in the car on the way
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: driving the school or whatever. You know.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: It's like, damn, this is Nobody could have ever told
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: anyone that was doing radio back in the day that
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: this is where it.
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: Would be, you know. And so I'm excited to be
• 36:35
  Speaker 5: a part of that. I'm happy as fuck to you know,
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: to be a part of that ship.
• 36:38
  Speaker 6: But you're miss engaging with the fans a little bit
• 36:40
  Speaker 6: on the YouTube. Definitely, you think Netflix could work on
• 36:43
  Speaker 6: something like that as far as engagement.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: Are working on something like that.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: I don't even know what they're working on, to be
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: honest with you, Yo, Charlemagne will know all that shit,
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. But Yo, I think they
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: are the reason why I think they are is because,
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: like think about what Netflix just was two years ago.
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: We wasn't getting sports, we.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Wasn't getting NFL Box and matches and ship and even
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: have reality shows on that, like now they got games
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: on that motherfucker competition.
• 37:13
  Speaker 6: Kids there playing golf games now and about that, Yes,
• 37:17
  Speaker 6: they got games.
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: Kids is playing golf.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: And the biggest concept, the biggest component of media has
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: been now podcast is like the add that then, Yo,
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: it ain't nothing except poor that's not on Netflix.
• 37:34
  Speaker 5: And that's yet because you might have an X rayed.
• 37:36
  Speaker 5: Netflix got a little extra for like yo, these niggas
• 37:41
  Speaker 5: got every.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: Exactly, they got everything because the point that they want
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: you to do that. The whole point of a Netflix
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: is they want people to be on that bitch twenty four.
• 37:52
  Speaker 5: They don't want that's.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: How that's how they get their bread up. That's like
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like they want you to
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: stay on.
• 37:57
  Speaker 5: It every every day, all day.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: You have to be watching the show. You just let
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: the ship run and then it said are you still watching?
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: They want that engagement and it'll stay up there until
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: you wake back up and be like, oh, yeah, I'm
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: still watching or no.
• 38:10
  Speaker 5: They want to know how long you watch the show
• 38:13
  Speaker 5: before you let it run.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: They want to know, like they're paying attention to all
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: of that ship. Look at the rest of these these
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: streaming platforms, better get it together. But I'm gonna always
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: love and respect YouTube. It ain't gonna ever be nothing
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: like you.
• 38:24
  Speaker 5: I don't give what Netflix do. It will never be
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: anything like you always say.
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: The solution is this, Yeah, if I was the sign
• 38:31
  Speaker 4: of Netflix, still give me one episode on YouTube.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, in one episode.
• 38:36
  Speaker 6: On you always say that, he said that, and lot
• 38:38
  Speaker 6: like I want to work that kind of ye, but.
• 38:41
  Speaker 5: Anything can be negotiated. You do that ship, you do.
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: That, you have something like that, mister Beasts, you know
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: you have You'll have one show on you, He'll have
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: some of his show like on YouTube, and then you
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: have like an episode on Amazon.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: So it's possible.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: Got you think about going into acting because you many
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: Hell yeah.
• 39:02
  Speaker 5: Y I'll be acting and ship to you did some
• 39:04
  Speaker 5: ship already, yo.
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: If we're gonna right now, you know this.
• 39:08
  Speaker 5: Nigga like yo, yo, y'all not long.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: I've been auditioning for this nigga. I've been auditioned for
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: the first power. I auditioned to be ghosts.
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: I can't I know that, get I know that you
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: don't even know this.
• 39:30
  Speaker 6: Was that they killed Uncle marb to, you know, I
• 39:33
  Speaker 6: text the nigga Fifth like we had to go to
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: sys hallerburry and wedding in the end the page he
• 39:38
  Speaker 6: got married. I text Fifth like, yo, the day before you,
• 39:40
  Speaker 6: I don't even know if I want to go, man,
• 39:42
  Speaker 6: after seeing what you did the Uncle Mab nigga.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: I ain't really feeling like I'm like, talk lady Uncle Mab.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: Seen him two days before.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: It was it was just I was with him, was.
• 40:00
  Speaker 5: Laying the stars man, and was sitting there and knowing
• 40:03
  Speaker 5: like I'm about to die.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna put the video out man.
• 40:09
  Speaker 5: Then they showed like four different angles of a nigga.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: Don't you ain't lying? You ain't lying about that. You
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: only showed from this way, this way, this way. I'm like,
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: and I don't really like and you know what that
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: ship made me?
• 40:32
  Speaker 5: Do you know?
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: That ship made me go back and watch the original
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: Power because I'm like, yo, no, he got to mention
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: his uncle a niggame dead. He got in and I
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: was like, no Rock, no Rock gonna die. But then
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: I'm like, nah, when when, if you think about it,
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: you go back to power and Ship. When Kane first
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: got out of jail, ship he came popped up on
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: Saint Patrick Shi and he was like, yeah, I just
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: got finished sing my Mom's I'm like, so Rock was
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: living or he was lying. Cantan be lying any fucking way.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: So it's just like, I just I just got you
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: invested with.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: This last episode coming, you know what I mean.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, I don't know. It got to add
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: up and then the real Uncle Mom is still alive.
• 41:08
  Speaker 5: I think like that should.
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: Be going to be alive too. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah,
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: I was hurt when Lou got killed.
• 41:14
  Speaker 6: I ain't gonna hold you, but I wasn't too mad
• 41:16
  Speaker 6: that can because that was a mistake, but that it was,
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: but it was a mistake.
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: He was about to kill ship saying it wasn't a
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: person talking.
• 41:29
  Speaker 5: About he's just a kid.
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: He's just a kid.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: A kid keeps dropping bodies this nigga, he's not a kid.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: He's trying to kill you mom, He's not a kid.
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: Like what the need? Just so mad? Just a lot
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: of money, man, ask your question, what's up?
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: Just the other day Remy was that and Martina show Martina.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: On the.
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: Sad nigga ain't getting had for nothing? You can want
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: on the table whatever, nigga, you get nothing. How do
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: you feel when a man wants the money from you?
• 42:04
  Speaker 4: Because're getting a lot of money. Now, I say, say
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: your baby daddy Room over you like speaking negative ship,
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: I said, I got say Room wanted some breadth from you? Like,
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: how do you feel about when a man.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: Get after the don't work out and that he wants
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: the money? How do you deal with that?
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: Like do you sign a prenup?
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: Well, he got his own company and ship like that.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: My husband came with his own ship, you know what
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: I mean? Like that nigga came like, look, I know
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: who you are.
• 42:40
  Speaker 5: I get it.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: I get I really get.
• 42:44
  Speaker 5: To you know what I'm saying that.
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: So I love that. But nah, Rome needs something wrong wrong?
• 42:49
  Speaker 5: Got it?
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you like it's certain motherfuckers. I'll
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: be like no, but Rome, really, my my nigga, Rome,
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: don't ask for ship like just because he know I
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: got it. Come to me if he fucked up, I'll
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: be the last person he asked too. It ain't never
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: my baby mother got it at first ship.
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: It was like that for a minute, but he.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: Was doing it at the wrong time because that's when
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: I was only on wilding out niggas, wasn't really getting
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: paid ship, and.
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: People be thinking what you got more than what you
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: actually got.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: I'm getting a thousand in an episode. What the fuck
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: you think I can do that? I'm still rasy for nothing, man.
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: At first is the opportunity you gotta take. You gotta
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: take what you get, right.
• 43:28
  Speaker 5: That's when I first started out, and then my ship.
• 43:30
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. I can't say what it
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: was because I was wilding out.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: Like that, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: But when we first started it was it was that,
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean? But yeah, nah, no, man, listen,
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: I get with Remy. You're saying, you know, when you've
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: been like taking care of a nigga, you know what
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: I mean for this long, this long lyrics to man,
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: he said that you know what I'm saying, but said
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: he you know what I'm saying. So and and we
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: know Rim gets busy.
• 44:05
  Speaker 5: You know, it's crazy to this nigga.
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: This nigga will go in like we.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: Know that, you know, you know, asutely so and and
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: and what's like and been like that.
• 44:21
  Speaker 5: You know. So My my question is who writing ship now?
• 44:24
  Speaker 5: If he was writing it all this stuff, who writing
• 44:25
  Speaker 5: her ship now still.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: Giving like, don't ever sound like she took a day off.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, but I.
• 44:35
  Speaker 5: Totally do get it. But whatever works for for for you,
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, Like, whatever works for you,
• 44:42
  Speaker 5: do that. But I ain't into that. I've been relationships
• 44:45
  Speaker 5: where I've been taking care of niggas for real, and
• 44:49
  Speaker 5: that ship.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Hurts them because you got the book about to.
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: Say shipmas, I'm like a beautiful daughter.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: Don't drink, but I get nothing for.
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: You dropping off my fans to my show.
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: Talking something wrong. Yeah.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: See, the thing is the thing about it is talking
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: to the remen Pat, you to mind the business that,
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, to be honest, Yeah, because
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: she doesn't even seem like she want to talk to Pat.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: It don't seem like Pat want to talk to her.
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: It seemed like the one that's that always want to
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: talk is you know what I'm saying, that's the one
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: that always.
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: Want to talk.
• 45:36
  Speaker 5: Yo. She don't never know how to just be like, look, yo,
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: I ain't here to talk about that. I don't get
• 45:41
  Speaker 5: you know what I mean.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: That's that's what I want her to do though, to
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: be honest, like, yeah, I just I really do want
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: her to get to a point where she could be like,
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: look all that the rest we're gonna move in silence with.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: I ain't got time to be nobody click bait. I
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: don't want nobody to keep asking me how long I'm
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: gonna be with this woman's husband.
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: I don't want it.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: I ain't got time for that ship. Listen, listen, listen.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: I'm happy I'm with my guy. What y'all see is
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: what y'all get that boom. Don't even keep bringing up Renny, like,
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: don't don't like, don't bring her up. You know what
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, Just don't do it, you know, because he
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: telling you what he telling you. You know what I'm saying.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying this a lie. I'm just saying. Niggas
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: is always on your head because not because you ranting
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: and raving about bed with pet, but you always allow
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: whoever's interviewing you get you to trick you out your
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: your spot to always bring this lady up, Like, don't.
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: Bring her up before the interview. You can say, listen,
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: just don't you know.
• 46:45
  Speaker 5: What I'm saying.
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: Just don't you know what I'm saying.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: I know, sure what you can fight, but just still
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: like all that shit don't matter, you know what I'm saying.
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, and I do believe that shoots you know what
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: I'm saying, And that's different, you know what I mean.
• 47:03
  Speaker 5: But but just still the shooters outside of that, like
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: like yo, just it's all right, just like tunnel vision. Right,
• 47:11
  Speaker 5: you're fighting amazing, you know what I'm saying.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: Your career, you in love with a man that loves you,
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: that got your back boom. Let's keep pumping that, pushing that.
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: Don't bring up the other side at all, you know
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
• 47:24
  Speaker 6: They're going to ask them questions trying to go yeah, yeah,
• 47:27
  Speaker 6: you always let them do that.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: How do you balance everything?
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: Because we just started this podcast and I got this
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: food show, a complex shelter, the look, and like just
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: running around with fifty doing shows.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: I'm tired of. Fuck, how do you balance that? Because
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: you're a mom. I'm not a mother. I know being
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: a mother the.
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: Mothers out there single or my brother and the good father.
• 47:51
  Speaker 4: I know my father, but a mother is always ahead
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: of a fun.
• 47:53
  Speaker 5: I appreciate.
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: Everything.
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: How you get waking up in the morning. The breakfast
• 48:03
  Speaker 4: club is like six in the morning.
• 48:04
  Speaker 5: You gotta yaes, I gotta wake up at three, I
• 48:06
  Speaker 5: gotta do makeup, I gotta you know, the baby, and
• 48:09
  Speaker 5: I got man.
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: Listen, I'll be lying to you if I told you, yo,
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: this is how I'm balancing it. So I do this,
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: and I take a couple of this, and then I
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: do Nigga, I'm still trying. I'm just as tired as you, yo.
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: I don't know how you know, like I don't even
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: know the last time I actually really got to have
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: a full twenty four hours to my fucking self, like
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: to be honest with you, because I'm still gotta think
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: about it Monday through Friday and waking up three forty
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: five make up, trying to find someone because now now
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: I gotta be seen. So I got to make sure
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: I'm coming with outfits. I gotta make sure my makeup
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: is cool, the wigs is on tight, and shit, you
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: know what I'm.
• 48:42
  Speaker 5: Saying, buttoned up and all that.
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: I'm ship in the back making sure it's all good,
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: you know, And then you got breakfast Club from six
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: to however the fuck is we can have three four interviews.
• 48:52
  Speaker 5: That we've been until twelve o'clock. Then I go home.
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: I write comedy or I write skits and shit because
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: I got to keep up with the Internet presence, you
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Because that's how.
• 48:59
  Speaker 5: I got here.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: You know, I would never, never just let that do
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: in the little way. Of course, I still got shows
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Friday and Saturday. I had to cut Sundays, which cut
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: a lot of my bread on the road, you know
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: what I mean, Because I did.
• 49:11
  Speaker 5: I would do Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: Baby, But but I can't do it because I got
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: Breakfast Cleve. Now that we live on Netflix, it requires
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: me to have to be in the studio. I mean,
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: if I absolutely have to be virtual, I can, but
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: for the most part not, Yeah, because.
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: It works when the chemistry.
• 49:30
  Speaker 5: Is there, you know, one on one, you know, with
• 49:33
  Speaker 5: all four of us and ship.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: So like, gotta do that, yo, And then I'm a mom,
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: Then I'm a wife, you know what I mean. I'm
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: very family oriented. I missed my parents. Sometimes I just
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: want to go home. I almost so, YO.
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: Can be too busy for your husband?
• 49:47
  Speaker 5: No, no, no, he.
• 49:50
  Speaker 8: Ain't too Okay, that's right, that's right.
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: That's right, absolutely, man.
• 49:59
  Speaker 5: But the lor then I got the little kids, you
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: know what I mean, my little girl. She she's about
• 50:04
  Speaker 5: to be too. She's like, where are you going?
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: Like, I'm like, I got a.
• 50:08
  Speaker 6: Two year old right now. He is uh, it's really
• 50:13
  Speaker 6: terrible early for this this morning. And you think I'm planing.
• 50:18
  Speaker 6: I took a video on my phone last night one
• 50:20
  Speaker 6: in the morning. He's dressed up as Spider Man and
• 50:23
  Speaker 6: making me watch Spider Man, not playing, making me.
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: Watch Spider Man dressed up. This is what we're doing
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: that stop him out. That's my baby. Oh my god.
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: About that magic question, No.
• 50:48
  Speaker 5: I did not a natural push the ast side of that.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: No, I know. You know.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: One thing about the door is I had apidor with
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: my with my son, and I could assued the fucking
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: hospital because I was so young.
• 51:05
  Speaker 5: Yo, I was young. I was twenty. I was just
• 51:07
  Speaker 5: I was like, yo, kill the paint, like I just
• 51:08
  Speaker 5: need something for this pain.
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: And shit.
• 51:10
  Speaker 5: They're like, all right, cool. They had a student coming here.
• 51:14
  Speaker 5: She did this shit. Doctor was watching her. But she
• 51:16
  Speaker 5: was so fucking scared. She was shaking, like she was
• 51:20
  Speaker 5: like like right here, right here, and I.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: Feel I'm like all right, yeah, she don't know what
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: she's doing. But as long as the doctor back there,
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: I'm good. I'm like, yo, hurry the fuck up.
• 51:28
  Speaker 5: This shit hurts. So she just went in. She had
• 51:32
  Speaker 5: to restick me. She went in the wrong way.
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: That's a long ass sneeze that they got to put
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: in your back so it can hit your spine, infuse
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: the medicine, and then you instantly feel a relief.
• 51:42
  Speaker 5: You know, you go numb. You feel the pressure, but
• 51:44
  Speaker 5: you go numb.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: Yo.
• 51:45
  Speaker 5: They had to stick me like two or three times.
• 51:47
  Speaker 5: The doctor ended up saying.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: Yo, move, I just do it.
• 51:50
  Speaker 5: I could assued them.
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: Didn't even know until I was like, yo, one wrong move.
• 51:58
  Speaker 5: You are done, you know what I mean. So I'm like,
• 52:00
  Speaker 5: y'all could have sued them, but I was like, you
• 52:01
  Speaker 5: know what, fuck all that.
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: So I vowed to never do the fucking upper door again.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: I don't give how many kids, I don't care how
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: big the baby is.
• 52:10
  Speaker 5: If it split me, man, show me up. Just give
• 52:12
  Speaker 5: me a blunt.
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: I'll be gilt.
• 52:14
  Speaker 5: Like you know what I'm saying.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: I can't do that ship, you know. But that's why
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: I never did that. But yeah, I did the door
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: with my daughter slid our ass out look at that
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: period and breastfed all of that ship. Out of everything,
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: the breastfeeding was the hardest.
• 52:27
  Speaker 5: That shit hurt. Man.
• 52:28
  Speaker 6: I them alive when I got kids. So I know
• 52:30
  Speaker 6: they don't really like that, y'all. Don't the females really
• 52:33
  Speaker 6: kind of hate Oh my god?
• 52:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah, because they trying to bite the scene, like come on,
• 52:39
  Speaker 5: because one nipple might not be you know, the flow
• 52:42
  Speaker 5: ain't as good as the other one is. So they
• 52:43
  Speaker 5: want this.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: You want this one so much that ship hurts. So
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: it's like, no, you're gonna find some milk in this one.
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: Motherfucker.
• 52:49
  Speaker 5: I don't care, you know, But I did that. I
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: pushed through that ship. I did that. I was doing
• 52:53
  Speaker 5: that at breakfast when I post started impression absolutely work.
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: How do you how do you balance that?
• 53:01
  Speaker 4: All the women thatt I just had a baby out there,
• 53:05
  Speaker 4: the women they want to know, like, let's talk about
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: all the things. You got a book coming, you got
• 53:13
  Speaker 4: the book on tour and you are one of the
• 53:17
  Speaker 4: biggest shows in the world, and how do you deal
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: with postpartum in work and keeping everything balanced?
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: On Instagram?
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: But you stressed, I don't know my shows, That's how
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: I promote everything. You know, everything goes back to you know,
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: the social platform and ship. But y'all, honestly, I'm out
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: of it now. But I think I started feeling like
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: myself when my daughter.
• 53:46
  Speaker 5: Was like like.
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: Like last last Christmas. I will say, so she was.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: She was one like one in one in three months,
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: and that's when.
• 53:57
  Speaker 5: I got back, yo. But you don't even really you know.
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: I can't speak for anybody else, but I didn't know
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: that I was depressed, like from postpartum until I came
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: out of it. Like I just wasn't feeling funny. I
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: didn't I didn't want to eat, I couldn't do ship.
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: I was like, yo, I ain't even wanna go on
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: the road. I was like, yo, I'm going to be
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: replaced at work. They replaced me with this other girl
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: ship and then I.
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: Was like, man, get this show too.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: I just like, YO, I don't know what the fuck
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: is happening right now. I don't feel funny. I don't
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: feel like I can go in front YO. What that
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: first show I never forget. I went to New Brunswick,
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: New Jersey to Stress Factory and New Brunswick my first
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: show coming off of.
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: Having my baby.
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: I think my daughter was like I bought her there
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: with me because I had the breastfeed in between you
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: shows and ship Yo, hell yeah.
• 54:55
  Speaker 6: Man, yeah, I'm.
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: Nigga. I was resting up. Damn my tities burning and Ship.
• 55:05
  Speaker 5: I'm like, yo, like you know what I mean?
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: And I was still emotional, so I cried after the show.
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, y'all really came out for me. Thank you.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: Everybody like Nigga, you just hilarious.
• 55:16
  Speaker 5: What the fuck you mean?
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, like you, that's what post postpartum depression
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: does to you.
• 55:20
  Speaker 5: It makes you forget who you are. It makes you forget.
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: Your greatness, all the greatness that you got. Like I
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: wasn't creative. I wasn't I felt like I wasn't ship y'all.
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: I didn't feel pretty. And no matter how many times
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: my husband was like, nah, you're beautiful, you still the
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: loving my life, Like what the you mean? You just
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: gave me my first daughter, And I still was like
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: I can't get shipped, right, I don't know. I sucking radio.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: I can't do ship. You see, they bought the other
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: girl up there to get you know what I'm saying.
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: It was just a lot, and then when I came back,
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: it was still even hard, like getting back into the
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: rhythm and ship, and I was just like all right, yeah, this,
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: I don't know what's happening. And then so it was
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: I had writer's block for a while I was on stage.
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: I just had to like come off the top of
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: the head on anything because I couldn't even write. I
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: was at a standstill with everything. Stagnation was for real,
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: like my middle name, like a year. And then I
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: started getting it back, started getting.
• 56:15
  Speaker 5: My ship right. I was like, all right, cool, cool, but.
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: You know what, I started deep diving into my Bible praying.
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: Ladies need their heads to know how to.
• 56:28
  Speaker 5: Yes, like to be honest.
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I don't care Like I was like that
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: that's honest, like honest to God truth.
• 56:38
  Speaker 5: I was like, all right, cool.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: I started praying, and at first when I was in it,
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: I didn't even feel like I was praying right.
• 56:44
  Speaker 5: I'm like, yo, I keep messing up on this prayer.
• 56:46
  Speaker 5: And it's just like I was like, Yo, you don't
• 56:48
  Speaker 5: need a script, like, Yo, what's wrong with you? Like
• 56:51
  Speaker 5: just just talk to him.
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: And after like after whow after my daughter turned one
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: and all of that ship.
• 56:57
  Speaker 5: I was like, look, look, I don't know what's happening. Then,
• 57:00
  Speaker 5: you know what I mean, like, please like help me.
• 57:02
  Speaker 5: And I started reading my Bible when I just started praying.
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: Ask my husband getting pretty funny helped me pray out
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: of this, like help me pray myself out of this.
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: I can't, you know. And that's what happened. I just
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: really really just leanked on my faith.
• 57:14
  Speaker 5: You're like then, and I was, yeah, time all the time. God,
• 57:21
  Speaker 5: it's good.
• 57:22
  Speaker 4: So you're gonna be at the hard Rock November fourteenth, Come.
• 57:26
  Speaker 5: On in the building, man, festival y'all need to be.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: And when the tour actually kicks off.
• 57:32
  Speaker 5: Man, So the tour kicked off.
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: You've been doing.
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: Be busy, ba, I got to catch a showy And
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: the book is out now.
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: Now Amazon, Bards and Nobles and find your books wherever.
• 57:48
  Speaker 5: Y'all is out now. So after we parents, make sure
• 57:51
  Speaker 5: you get that get.
• 57:52
  Speaker 6: That book, and make sure y'all catches on the Breakfast
• 57:55
  Speaker 6: Club on Netflix all all YouTube.
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: The Report Car book and she definitely can help you
• 58:03
  Speaker 4: co parents and give women and men some good advice and.
• 58:06
  Speaker 6: Make sure you get the kids kids to the kids.
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: Merry Christmas.
• 58:15
  Speaker 6: You know kids love dinosaurs, so it's a Christmas story
• 58:18
  Speaker 6: about dinosaurs.
• 58:20
  Speaker 3: Ship real quick, this need to be in there too.
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: What's that I heard you say something the other day
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: I did not like to talk to murder my uncle
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: and fucking yeah you're my uncle too. At the same time, you,
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: I know what in the back and forth with with
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: bleaking all that dumb ship right you said?
• 58:40
  Speaker 5: Man, listen, I go back on the block if I
• 58:43
  Speaker 5: know the.
• 58:43
  Speaker 3: Fuck you want.
• 58:45
  Speaker 5: You got so many business endeavors, and you have.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: Such when I look when I say the trap, right, yeah,
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: the trap.
• 58:54
  Speaker 4: You could be doing Uber deliveries, you could be a
• 58:57
  Speaker 4: lyft driving, you could be whatever.
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: You You wouldn't be none of that just because.
• 59:01
  Speaker 4: I mean the trap, don't mean just you was talking. No, No,
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: I didn't list start saying that plumping packs. I didn't
• 59:12
  Speaker 4: never say that. I never said that. I never said
• 59:16
  Speaker 4: exactly what I'm saying is everything is a job. I
• 59:20
  Speaker 4: respect the door man, the dude on the uber bikes
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: out here in the city. I respect everything. Everything is
• 59:26
  Speaker 4: a grind. I would have had an I don't mind
• 59:28
  Speaker 4: having a nine to five.
• 59:29
  Speaker 5: No, no, no, you didn't say nine to five.
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: I should have said that, I'm going back to the track.
• 59:36
  Speaker 6: The trap five is the trap to however you look at.
• 59:41
  Speaker 3: But when we still we say the trap, nigga, we
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: mean we know, we mean, we know what we mean.
• 59:48
  Speaker 7: You got that.
• 59:51
  Speaker 3: Yo, your face guard.
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: You way too to be on somebody's fucking trap, Like Nigga,
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: you're gonna have this show that this showed, that show show, like.
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: I say, the breakfast stuff talking about it like I'm
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 3: so mad. I wasn't mad. I wasn't that man. I
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 3: was at a little I was one. I was drinking
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 3: a little.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 6: Bit and that's just and I off God niggas hand
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 6: like Yo, Nigga said John, niggas gonna be in the
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 6: stuff Like Nigga, Ni can't talk crazy about me when
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 6: I got more money than.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: You, like you're talking about it.
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  Speaker 2: I like what you said where you was like and
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: I'm a little tipsy so you already knew that she was.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean. It is. It's all good,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 3: no problem, Yes, the real.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 4: Coming to the show. Thank you'll like, share, subscribe, Just
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: whoa
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, whoa