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Yoreh De’ah 247:2-248:6. Tzedakah: Greatness and Reward of Charity; Who Must Give and Who Cannot Give · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  Good morning. We're continuing with Hillcrest,
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  Sidaka, Resh memzain sif bet again.
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  This Simon, is basically an intro of maser.
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  OK, bet, let's continue. La olam anadam meh ani
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  minatzdaka the lodovarah velohezik mitgagel al yada.
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  A person does not become poor by giving Sidaka and nothing bad or
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  harm will come to him. Right then we kind of saw that
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  with the Vinat nude Russia last time.
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  Shinamar, where is our pasak from?
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  Ishayel vahaya masahat staka Shalom that by giving sidaka it
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  only leads to Shalom and not not difficulty, not damage, no
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  suffering should come from it. OK let's go to cifbet agimmel
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  call amirahim al hanim kadosh baruhu merahim Allah anyone who
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  has rahamim on anime are you giving him sidaka?
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  And Hashem will have rahamim on you.
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  Hagah veete na Adam alibo shuma vakish kosha parnasseto miya
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  kadosh baruhu. And a person should always have
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  kavana that he should get his pernasa from a kadosh baruhu,
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  right? Not from himself, not from
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  someone, not from other people. It should come from a
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  karashbarhu who cameo shuhum evake shakadoshbaraku who ishma
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  shavato. Just like a person.
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  We want a karashbaraku to listen to us, right To you, for your
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  feelers that he should help you with your panasa kahu ishma
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  Shabbat anim. So to we right you, the person,
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  we should listen. We want Hashem to listen to us.
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  We should listen to the anim gam Yiten alibo kyu gal gala,
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  Khoser, baolam and Upright. This will be mentioned from
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  Venatunu as well. That the world is round and
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  things. Not only is our physical globe
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  this right, the earth, the planet round, but also life and
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  things come around right? The way we behave to others.
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  Eventually things come back to us.
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  Mida kanagan mida and so a person must realize the sofa
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  Adam Shiyavahu or Ben Bernoulli de MI dazzo.
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  It can happen that right now we are rich, but cause for Shalom
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  it can happen to us. We lose our job, we lose things
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  come up, expenses go up and we cause for Shalom or our children
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  can lead to becoming our grandchildren, can become poor
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  and then it's the same. But call on maracchi mala kheri,
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  maracchi Allah, Anyone who has rahchamim on others sham will
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  have rahchamim on him and his children.
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  OK, right? Do it for yourself and do it for
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  your kids. It's OK to have a little bit of
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  an ulterior motive. Maybe not ideal, but if needed
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  then OK, dial it. Hats daha Doha ET Tak 0 Takashot
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  and Sidaka. By giving Sidaka, it does push
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  away evil decrees, harsh decrees against us.
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  If we deserve to get punished in the sham bazed in Shamala, this
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  is OK. Now we're going to it's time to
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  get punished. So Sidaka can save you from it.
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  It can also save you Ulbira of Tatsilmimovit.
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  And even in a time of famine and a person is supposed to perish
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  in the famine by giving Sidaka, it can save your life.
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  The shots just points out that that can save you and other ways
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  of saving your life, not only through through droughts.
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  I mean, OK, obvious. I think Kemal Shiira let's
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  sarfit as it happened with its sarfit.
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  What's the story in Malakhim Aleph?
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  It's in Parekh Yudzion. So Eliyahu took the key of rain.
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  There's going to be no rain anymore, which of course, if
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  there's no rain in Israel, it's going to lead to A to droughts
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  and famine. So there was no rain.
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  So at first the Karishvargko says, you know, drink, you know,
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  from wellsprings or rivers, whatever Wadi is.
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  But then he says go travel to this Isha al Mana, a poor woman
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  was a widow and who lived in Sarfat.
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  That's what, hence the word sarvid.
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  And also according to the Midrash, this was Pricketer
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  Ebeliezer that this is the mother of Yona and the child in
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  the story upcoming is Yona. So what's the story?
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  So he gets there, God says, go to her and ask her for some food
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  and water and that's how you're going to get it.
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  And so she, he goes to her and she when he asks her for food
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  and water, she says, listen, I barely have enough food for
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  myself, handful of flour in the jug, a little bit of oil, all
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  right. And I, and then after that
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  we're, I'm going to, I'm gathering a couple sticks or
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  twigs to make a fire to bake ourselves a little loaf of
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  bread. We're going to eat it and then
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  we are going to die. We're going to perish.
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  We have no more food, no more money and that's it.
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  So he says don't worry. Thank you.
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  So don't worry, just take this, make some bread, give me your
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  first loaf of bread and then you will have plenty more.
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  And so it was she decides. So she baked the bread, she gave
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  him the first loaf and then she ate was from what was leftover.
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  And this left remaining flour and oil never ended.
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  It just kept on going and going to feed her until there will be
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  rain. And so they were saved that way.
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  But then a year later, her son stopped, basically passes away,
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  stops breathing, and she comes to him and says look what
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  happened. And so he brings him up to the
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  attic and he brings him back to life.
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  That's the second key, right? We don't get 3 the Max, even
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  though the greatest of prophets can't get more than two out of
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  three. But he brings thee, he brings,
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  he brings the sun back to life. And so we see, or Bishopman
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  points out that Sedaka can even 'cause he has some mating.
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  That's how great it is. Anyway, so that's, that's the
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  story in a nutshell. Of course there's more see there
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  right. And that was Yonah.
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  OK, according to the Khazal. Let's go on Haggah.
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  He may I share it. Giving Sedaka makes 1 wealthy,
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  at least wealthy enough to to live.
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  It doesn't mean you're going to be a millionaire, but it means
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  you will have enough to live. OK, you'll be rich that way.
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  As the Shah references to Shabbos kufu tet.
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  There's also Tinus daftat where it says aser Taser, aser bishvil
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  shetit Asher aser. It's a play on word the double
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  or aser sin shin to Osher or you're going to be able to give
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  lots of meissers. That's the aser Taser.
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  And then if you're giving lots of meissers, that means you
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  have. You're welcome.
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  OK, Vasur, the Gomara continues over there in Tinus and the
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  asura nasota koreshbarahu Ki imbeddevar ZE.
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  You're not. It's user to test the Kurdish
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  barfu. It's a pasa convarium.
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  You're not allowed to test the Kurdish barfu except when it
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  comes to Mysa, right? It's in Malachi gimmel yud Uber
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  hanuni na Bezos. It says you could test with
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  this. Basically, I'll just read a
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  couple words from there. Hashem says, you know, iftak
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  lahem at a robot, Hashemayim varicotti lahem braha at Billy
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  Die, that you're going to have plenty.
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  You're going to say it's enough, it's enough.
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  Standard understanding is that you're not going to lose.
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  Hashem guarantees us you can test them on this one thing.
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  You can give sedaka and you're not going to lose because of it.
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  You're not going to starve because of it, and you're going
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  to have enough of a parnasa to keep going.
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  At least I think think it's understood at least to the same
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  level that you are now. Doesn't mean you're going to
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  doesn't mean you give Meister now and you tell the Kurdish bar
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  who now you give me Meister and now I'm going to get a new house
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  and a vacation home and this and that means you're going to have
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  a continued parnasa and at least enough to be to say die that you
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  you have with what to live. So we're talking about mysir
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  vyesh omrim dafka venetinat mysir mutterlena.
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  So the Koreshbar who al valo bishardstaka.
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  So it is a mahlokas if it applies to al al sedaka or only
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  mysir, because the pasak in Malaki is only talking about
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  mysir. It's not clear exactly which at
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  least. So some say it only refers to to
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  vua produce. That's the one thing you ought
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  to test the Kurdish baraku. Others point out that it means
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  many say it includes. The shala says it's only by
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  mysir tavua. Some the Pasakov Asir Taisir
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  includes Mysir Bhima and Yarak Ashokan and some others point
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  out, no, it refers to and al Sedaka.
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  OK, any kind of Sedaka. So that's a the Marshall as
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  well, that it's all Sedaka. Irwiner just pointed out
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  interesting stories. Someone he gives his what he
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  expects Meister to be this upcoming year, I guess perhaps
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  by the previous year. And he gives his Meister in
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  advance the beginning of the year for the what he's
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  expecting, let's say 100,000 shekel, whatever the story is.
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  And he's never made less than 1,000,000 shekel.
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  He always got back his his his money that he gave for Sedaka
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  even in advance. So perhaps that's OK, right.
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  Some point out that's really it's Sedaka has all point out
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  that really it's Sedaka for the anime is not really your money.
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  It's a Karishbarak whose money that he's lending to you and it
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  belongs to the anime. And really he's just giving it
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  to you. And if he sees that you give,
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  you know it's what's in your piccata and you're the deposit,
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  you're in possession and you give it.
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  So then a, a Kaddish Barkal will feel comfortable to keep giving
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  to you as well. Just a couple real quick things
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  Berkayosa points out from Michelade Sedaka Tatsil Mimavis
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  and he says that this is a mitzvah that doesn't burn out
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  like other mitzvahs. It lasts much longer to help you
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  the the ariza writes that when it's person gives Sedaka it
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  lights up. That mitzvah lights up for him
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  and helps him the whole week by giving Sedaka 1 moment.
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  Most mitzvahs they just last for a day the but this lasts for a
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  week. OK, let's go to Simon Reshma
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  mahat MI hayebao Mira OI la kabla.
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  OK, so who gives Sidaka to call allaf call Adam hayeblitain
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  Sidaka afilo ani Amit pranasminat Sidaka hayeblitain
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  mimashitnullo. Everybody has to give Sidaka.
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  I think we're going to see it later on.
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  There's the OR we touched upon it already.
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  There's a mitzvah, I say of giving Sidaka and there's emits
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  and there's also a lotas. Now, even if a person is gets
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  money for Sedaka, he still has to give.
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  Even if that's his he doesn't, he does not making a living
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  right now. He still has to give a minimal
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  amount if you will get to but they point out or the shock
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  points out only, you only have to give.
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  If you can't, you have enough to put food on your table if you're
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  starving yourself and you're actively looking for right now.
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  So then there's no Kiev to give if you don't even have mamish
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  enough for yourself. OK, again, it's a broad topic.
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  How what's what's minimum to be getting by OK with life expenses
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  these days Can't look complicated.
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  Umicha notain pachot mima Shiraoui and one who gives less
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  than he should give. So then Charlie Lolitaine Basin
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  Kofinoto so Basin can force him to give.
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  They can look at your tax return and say you must give a certain
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  amount and this is what it is. Umakin Otto makat mardut
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  achiiten mashamduliten. And they give him lashes and
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  they beat him until he gives the minimum that they say he must
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  give the Urdu lenakhasov befanov.
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  And you even are allowed to go into his pocketbook, go into his
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  property and take money in front of him.
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  Shock points out, really, you should, you should do it in
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  front of him. But if you can, if he's
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  available and so he knows, but if he's not there and there's no
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  way to do it in front of him, you still go and take against
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  his will, even if he doesn't know about it.
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  And that's the way the Shah understands the Rama, the
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  berate, the holy, OK, the local Emmanuel masha uila litaine.
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  And you take whatever he should give.
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  OK, speak back. Mash Guinea mala sedaka afilo
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  beera Shabbos. You can even take property from
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  someone on era Shabbos in order to in order to to collect an
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  order to to give to the onion. OK, Gilmore, you told me ain't
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  postkin alaim Sidaka afilo le pidion shuim.
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  Now it's a young orphans. They have a a pitur.
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  That's an exception. Ain't postkin Ala you don't take
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  Sidaka from them. Even for pidion shuim.
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  I feel yeshlam maman harbor. Even if they do have a lot of
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  assets, a lot of money. Ella in Kane postkin Alaim cover
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  Kaddeshi 8 Selehem Shem. The only time you take Sedaka
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  from Yitomi young orphans is if it's for their own benefit.
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  All right, the Bayes and whatever has to decide because
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  you don't want you want them, It'll be it'll make them more
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  honorable people know they have some money, they're nice,
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  they're philanthropist, so they're helpful.
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  So it's for their sake. So then right, whatever whatever
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  amount is appropriate then that they deem so, then that's OK.
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  Haga vedafka sidaka sheyen la kitzva that's only for Sidaka
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  that has no set amount. Oshiyesh la kitzva al nirsaya
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  tomim Viejo inahantim adshi yigdulo.
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  So this is ayn la kitzva. They don't have an exact amount.
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  So therefore you don't, it's more important not to give when
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  there is no set amount because then they're going to end up
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  giving too much when you have a set amount.
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  Let's keep reading. Oh, Sheshala Keepsva on Nixa.
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  You told me we are holding the Hampton Atcha.
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  You do and if, But if there is a set amount and you could wait,
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  then that's better. Could go on.
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  Sheshalam Tavo, Let's say you have produce, but it's tavo, the
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  aenon Sri Khalil Aksha and they don't have to eat it right now.
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  Screen. You can save it in the
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  storehouses, Aval aksha, but if you have to eat from it now, so
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  then you do Meister and truma for them.
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  The huadin beatsdaka. So too, when it comes, it's
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  sadaka. You'll be right.
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  You'll be taking off my sarani. So then you have to give it
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  right? So then you have to The Who I
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  didn't beat Staka Sheshla Kitzva or there's a set amount.
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  They, they have a set amount that they're allowed to go on
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  Shahiulaham one second who I didn't meet Staka Sheshla kitzva
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  Kagan, Shahiulaham Krovim anime vayalaham kitzva Miya vihim
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  koshana Vishana. There's an amount that the
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  father before they passed away, they said to the Atomium they
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  can get a certain amount every year from the inheritance.
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  The so then if there's a set amount, you're not going to go
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  overboard. And the we're talking about the
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  Anaheim local rock zone. They could only get from here.
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  Oh, Yaksur al patachim or they're going to end up going
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  from door to door. So then Via Genalia told me
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  about the trouble. I'm not to say I'm a Kitsville
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  Krovin. So then you're allowed to give
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  to the Krovin to their relatives because otherwise they're going
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  to end up going from door to door and it will be be Zion for
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  them. We'll just say that it's a
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  little bit complicated exactly which cases you give and don't
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  give. And between the acronium too
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  LAMISA, let's go on. Let's go on to Dalit.
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  Gabait Sidaka, a macabre Mehra Nashim Umayavadim omatinakat
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  Ella Davar Muat and Gabait Sidaka.
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  Right, right. The one who collects is
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  responsible to collect. He only takes from women and
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  slaves and children a small amount because we assume that
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  that they're allowed to give that money.
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  Avalo Davar Gadol Shekhez Katol Gazul oh ganu bishal akhirin
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  because if it's going to be a big amount, we're assuming that
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  their husband doesn't give it to them to give and it's probably
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  stolen merchandise, stolen cash that they have the kamahuda
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  varmuat. What is a small amount that we
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  assume it's honestly their money and their husbands allow it to
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  go out as sedaka hakolafi usher, abalim Vaniotam.
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  Really there's no there's no number that we can give you.
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  It's really just based on common sense.
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  What we assess based on who we're talking about, based on
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  the people, what the money they have, based on the times, the
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  Hani mele bastama and that's a stama just normal case of all
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  Imabal Mokha afilu koshua asura Kabul mehem.
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  But that's but if that's if the husband doesn't say anything, if
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  the husband says something, even on a small amount, it's usser to
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  take because you're not allowed to.
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  And if there's a knas ever on a on a on a woman, the shock
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  points out the husband is responsible to pay for it
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  because all the money, the active money is in his
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  jurisdiction. So it affects for Sidaka and it
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  affects he also has to give pay on a knas.
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  OK, hey, IMA isha iskira Muhammad libeno.
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  What happens if a mother wants to hire a tutor or rebbe for his
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  child? Emyada habaal vishatak vada
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  inihal le bamasha asta. So the husband knows about it.
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  So then of course the husband wants this to happen and he
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  keeps, if he keeps quiet, that means he's right.
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  He acquiesces. He wants the tutors and so
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  therefore he's happy and it's and it's, it's valid and.
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  But nikhali vimashi asta aval in Mika the altar in the masea
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  Klum. If right so then the husband
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  then the tutor has to get paid and keeps the money.
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  But if he is Mocha, he he, he says right away when he finds
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  out that he's not happy about this tutor or paying this Rebbe.
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  So then we say again, how it applies Lamisa all the time.
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  It's a little question. It's not 100% simple, but the
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  general rule is we since he is Mocha as soon as he's Mocha,
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  even afterwards, then she wasn't allowed to and he's not.
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  And the tutor is not allowed to force payment because it wasn't
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  in her jurisdiction. It's up to the educator to
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  verify if you're going to go to a woman and make a deal with
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  woman on getting paid. He is responsible, you know, we
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  know what's, you know, best practice and in the eyes of
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  Hashem. But technically he can't force,
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  can't force them to, can't force the parents to pay if he didn't
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  get permission from the husband. I'm not sure if it applies 100%
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  today. It's a very good more of a hush
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  and mishbat question, but maybe we'll get some clarity before
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  then. Haggah, what happens if the
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  woman's making the money? OK, it's a question.
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  I'm not sure. Haggah.
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  Rafili iim nose of an antenna toka bite You call limkhot BA.
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  So even if they're still in the house making the negotiation
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  while they're in the house, he lets her make the negotiation.
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  He, you know, even though he gives her permission to make
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  deals or higher, until it's a done deal, he can still open up
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  his mouth. Just because you gave permission
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  doesn't mean you can't take back your permission.
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  But obviously, once they make a deal and he teaches so then it's
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  it's too late. Once he gave the permission.
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  OK. But you're right, he can always
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  take back. In other words, you make a deal.
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  They can always change their mind.
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  But according to whatever is appropriate.
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  Vav benchoch lights Aviv Evid ochel imrabo son or an evid eats
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  numb no Tain prusala ani O live no shall O havo the enochoche
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  mission gesel shikha nagu balibati just like an owner or
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  if you're a guest, you're allowed to give what you expect
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  the that your host to give. So then it's it's it's not a
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  problem to give you, you expect. We assume that the Balibati
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  doesn't mind if you share a piece, a slice of bread or a
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  pizza or something from your table.
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  So you're allowed to give something.