Latest / On Deathcare / Bad Juju, Better Practices, the Battle for Terramation and More
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- 0:05SPEAKER_00: Hi, I am Tony Russo from On Death Care and this is The Rest.
- 0:10SPEAKER_00: Funeral service news for the week ending Friday, May 1st.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: Rabbit, rabbit, rabbit.
- 0:15SPEAKER_00: 2026.
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- 1:21the things that are
- 1:21SPEAKER_00: going on in death care and some of the ways to think about it.
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: it's been a busy week for both earned media and paid media,
- 1:29SPEAKER_00: and we're going to look at all of that.
- 1:30SPEAKER_00: And of course, some news is better than others.
- 1:34SPEAKER_00: So enough of that chatter.
- 1:36SPEAKER_00: Let's get right into it.
- 1:38This first of two stories out of Detroit is something that I
- 1:41really want to talk
- 1:42SPEAKER_00: about more than just read to you,
- 1:44but I do want to read directly from like a shortened version of
- 1:49it to give you a
- 1:49SPEAKER_00: sense of the
- 1:52SPEAKER_00: The really big swing and a miss.
- 1:53SPEAKER_00: And I think the funeral director did well with her response.
- 1:57SPEAKER_00: The owner did well with her response.
- 1:59SPEAKER_00: So let's just start with the headline.
- 2:01SPEAKER_00: Detroit Husband Stunned by Funeral Homes Wrong Ashes Voicemail.
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: A local man,
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: Curtis Robinson,
- 2:09says he was left shaken after a funeral home co-owner was
- 2:12caught on a mic-type...
- 2:16SPEAKER_00: suggesting that she would give him the wrong cremated remains.
- 2:20SPEAKER_00: Robinson,
- 2:21SPEAKER_00: whose wife died April 12th,
- 2:22requested a small portion of her ashes despite a rift with
- 2:27other family members and
- 2:30SPEAKER_00: a voicemail intended to schedule paperwork.
- 2:33SPEAKER_00: Sherita Butler,
- 2:34SPEAKER_00: the co-owner of Butler Funeral Home,
- 2:36SPEAKER_00: was heard telling an employee,
- 2:38SPEAKER_00: I'm just going to give him somebody else's ashes if he continued to ask.
- 2:42SPEAKER_00: And now, and following that, there's all sorts of he did this and
- 2:46they did that and the other thing so first of all gentle
- 2:51reminder make sure you
- 2:52hang up the phone all the way before you say anything that
- 2:58might be less than
- 2:59SPEAKER_00: positive about a family member but
- 3:04SPEAKER_00: Robinson, who's
- 3:21SPEAKER_00: estranged,
- 3:22SPEAKER_00: separated wife died April 12th,
- 3:25requested a small portion of her ashes despite absolutely being
- 3:32told to stay away
- 3:33SPEAKER_00: from the funeral home by the sons of the decedent.
- 3:37SPEAKER_00: Now,
- 3:38he in the story makes a big deal about what a nice guy he is
- 3:41because they hadn't
- 3:43SPEAKER_00: officially gotten divorced yet,
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: so he could have taken over everything.
- 3:47SPEAKER_00: But he was nice enough to let
- 3:48This woman's sons be in charge of the funeral,
- 3:52and he just wanted some of the cremated remains.
- 3:56SPEAKER_00: I guess as a keepsake,
- 4:00SPEAKER_00: I feel like he was the one that got left in this situation,
- 4:04SPEAKER_00: and I'm not deciding who's in the right or who's in the wrong anyway,
- 4:08SPEAKER_00: but it was unfortunate the way the story was reported because...
- 4:13SPEAKER_00: Tony Russo Tonyrus
- 4:40But the state says,
- 4:41I gotta get the husband to sign off on all these things.
- 4:44And so then he begins to hold his signature,
- 4:47hold the process hostage by demanding things that
- 4:51I guess he's entitled to but that clearly no one wants him to
- 4:57have and I feel
- 4:58SPEAKER_00: really really empathetic toward Ms.
- 5:02Butler who is stuck in the middle between somebody that she's
- 5:06trying to serve and
- 5:07someone that she's kind of being forced to serve and it's
- 5:11unfair that she got she
- 5:14got this bad and this guy's talking about suing her and things
- 5:17like that I don't
- 5:19SPEAKER_00: think
- 5:20Hopefully it won't go any farther So gentle reminder Make sure
- 5:24you hang up the
- 5:24phone Before you say what's on your mind If what's on your mind
- 5:28is not something
- 5:29you would say Over the phone But the other thing is You're not
- 5:34alone The next time
- 5:36SPEAKER_00: somebody makes you want to say No,
- 5:38I'm just going to take the body And go throw it in the ocean
- 5:41Remember poor Sherita
- 5:42SPEAKER_00: Butler And look around first
- 5:46SPEAKER_00: And more from Detroit,
- 5:47SPEAKER_00: the former Perry Funeral Home,
- 5:50which was infamous for a 2018 scandal involving the discovery
- 5:52of improperly stored
- 5:53SPEAKER_00: infant remains,
- 5:54SPEAKER_00: is being transformed now.
- 6:14SPEAKER_00: According to this into a place of healing by our friend,
- 6:18SPEAKER_00: uh,
- 6:19SPEAKER_00: my friend,
- 6:19SPEAKER_00: not really my friend,
- 6:20SPEAKER_00: but Patty Lynch of Lynch and Sons Funeral Directors.
- 6:24SPEAKER_00: I,
- 6:24SPEAKER_00: um,
- 6:25SPEAKER_00: I interviewed Patty last year,
- 6:27SPEAKER_00: I think,
- 6:28SPEAKER_00: because,
- 6:29SPEAKER_00: um,
- 6:29SPEAKER_00: if you're not familiar with him,
- 6:30he's going around Detroit buying old houses and buying old
- 6:34institutions and
- 6:36SPEAKER_00: rehabbing them.
- 6:37SPEAKER_00: Um, he bought this, uh, donut girl, um,
- 6:42Donut Girl Shop and now has turned it into a small regional
- 6:44chain he bought a
- 6:46schvitz for like a bath house he bought a convent and turned it
- 6:51into an art project
- 6:53and now he is buying the well the family is the family Lynch
- 6:57and Sons he's got
- 6:58brothers his father is still with us and they're actually
- 7:02buying the funeral home
- 7:03that his father started at way back when his father started as
- 7:08a funeral director
- 7:09SPEAKER_00: unfortunately
- 7:11SPEAKER_00: They've got to deal with this,
- 7:13SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 7:14SPEAKER_00: bad juju of all of these unprocessed infant remains from,
- 7:20SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 7:20SPEAKER_00: the scandal.
- 7:21SPEAKER_00: The remains are gone.
- 7:23SPEAKER_00: But the scandal, the scandal's there.
- 7:25SPEAKER_00: And I think...
- 7:26There are two things that are making this a very special
- 7:29project in my mind.
- 7:31The first is they're going to have mortuary students there on
- 7:35site during the renovation.
- 7:37SPEAKER_00: So,
- 7:38SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 7:38SPEAKER_00: again,
- 7:39SPEAKER_00: nothing better than,
- 7:40SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 7:41SPEAKER_00: fresh,
- 7:42SPEAKER_00: enthusiastic people to scare away the bad juju.
- 7:46SPEAKER_00: But the other thing is that at this particular funeral home,
- 7:49SPEAKER_00: they will not charge for infant and child funerals,
- 7:53SPEAKER_00: which is,
- 7:54SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 7:55Super Cool And It's A Way Of Acknowledging That You Know
- 7:59Nothing Bad Is Going To
- 8:01Happen To Anybody's Remains At This New Location And Again It's
- 8:08A Bold Move But
- 8:09It's A Bold Move From A Guy Who Has Spent The Last Let's Say
- 8:13Decade You Know
- 8:15Earning Community Credibility And Trust And As You Know That Is
- 8:20Critical If The
- 8:21SPEAKER_00: Community Trusts You You Can Take A
- 8:25An awful awful thing And make it into something nice So best of
- 8:29luck to him
- 8:29Hopefully I would like to Do some stories on this On the
- 8:33students And we've reached
- 8:34out And maybe we'll get something done Over the summer As
- 8:37they're living there And
- 8:39doing whatever cool things They're doing there But for now
- 8:41There's a link to the
- 8:42SPEAKER_00: story In the show notes
- 8:46This is not the right time to take your eyes off the ball if
- 8:51you're a funeral
- 8:53SPEAKER_00: director in Colorado.
- 8:55The Evergreen Funeral Home in Colorado has been placed on
- 8:58one-year probation
- 9:00following an inspection by the Colorado Department of
- 9:03Regulatory Agencies.
- 9:05SPEAKER_00: And during that inspection,
- 9:07SPEAKER_00: which was initiated by an anonymous tip,
- 9:11SPEAKER_00: a whistleblower-type thing,
- 9:13SPEAKER_00: they discovered that the
- 9:15SPEAKER_00: Funeral Home was storing more remains than was allowed,
- 9:18SPEAKER_00: with refrigeration temperatures higher than the 39 degree limit.
- 9:24And they also had some paperwork irregularities and
- 9:27inconsistent record keeping.
- 9:31SPEAKER_00: Not a great look.
- 9:32SPEAKER_00: And what's really interesting here is there are...
- 9:38comments there there are lots of quotes in the stories from
- 9:41people who were
- 9:42involved with the um return to nature scandal um a couple of
- 9:49well whatever two
- 9:51years ago at this point and they're like you know a suspension
- 9:54isn't enough you
- 9:55know you need to drag them out and shoot them well that's not
- 9:57precisely what they
- 9:57SPEAKER_00: say but that's that's the tone of it and it can't be that surprising um
- 10:03SPEAKER_00: But there is this weird balance.
- 10:06SPEAKER_00: I mean, you know, I'm not the...
- 10:08SPEAKER_00: If you're a regular listener,
- 10:09you know that I'm not the guy who's going to say don't
- 10:12overcheck these funeral
- 10:15SPEAKER_00: homes.
- 10:16But there's probably some place between immediate closure and,
- 10:21you know,
- 10:22one-year probation.
- 10:23One-year probation probably should include,
- 10:25and maybe it does,
- 10:27some more inspections and
- 10:30SPEAKER_00: More important, how do you get there?
- 10:32I had a really interesting conversation with a funeral director
- 10:36who has been
- 10:37SPEAKER_00: important in his own state.
- 10:40And I'm going to do the story next week,
- 10:41and I don't want to give too much about it away.
- 10:43But he talked about,
- 10:45as the president of his state regulatory commission,
- 10:50mentoring.
- 10:51And they would go in and they would say,
- 10:54OK,
- 10:54how are we going to help you get back together?
- 10:57SPEAKER_00: And I don't know if that's
- 10:59SPEAKER_00: Tony Russo Tonyrus
- 11:20SPEAKER_00: If it's bad management, it can be fixed.
- 11:23SPEAKER_00: And if it's bad luck,
- 11:24someone should check to make sure because no one wants to find
- 11:28out in a year that
- 11:29SPEAKER_00: not only have things not gotten better,
- 11:31SPEAKER_00: but they have gotten worse.
- 11:33SPEAKER_00: And that's what the consumer advocates are worried about.
- 11:36SPEAKER_00: And again, I'm not going to call anybody out or blame them in a
- 11:40In Colorado anyway there's a link to the story in the show
- 11:42notes and I would love
- 11:44to get your take on it because I'm going to be doing a lot
- 11:47about regulations over
- 11:48the coming weeks and months probably coming months who am I
- 11:52kidding weeks but we're
- 11:53going to be taking a bigger look at regulation as all of these
- 11:58you know questions
- 12:00SPEAKER_00: kind of coalesce around what kind of funeral industry is going to
- 12:07SPEAKER_00: be around in another 20 years.
- 12:10SPEAKER_00: Like what is it going to look like?
- 12:12And there are conversations that are going to be important to
- 12:16answer that question
- 12:17SPEAKER_00: that are going on now.
- 12:18SPEAKER_00: And that's why I think it's important to talk about it.
- 12:20SPEAKER_00: So anyway, love to have your take on it.
- 12:22SPEAKER_00: Link to this story in the show notes.
- 12:27SPEAKER_00: We're going to make this kind of a twofer story.
- 12:30SPEAKER_00: There are two stories here.
- 12:31SPEAKER_00: Both links are in the show notes.
- 12:32SPEAKER_00: I'll say that now so I don't have to say it later.
- 12:35SPEAKER_00: About the two NOR stories from the week because they're related.
- 12:40SPEAKER_00: And I want to talk about, as I said, why I want to talk about it.
- 12:44So the first one is that the Sumner Peck Ranch has been renamed
- 12:49Running River Ranch.
- 12:50SPEAKER_00: That is following the public outcry over the Houston
- 12:54SPEAKER_00: of composted human remains on the property.
- 12:57SPEAKER_00: We've been talking about this for weeks.
- 12:59This is the San Joaquin River Parkway and Conservation Trust
- 13:03and Earth Funeral.
- 13:05And Earth Funeral,
- 13:06I've said lots of times,
- 13:08just really dropped the ball on this in a big way.
- 13:11And the San Joaquin River Parkway and Conservation Trust didn't
- 13:16do a great job either.
- 13:19SPEAKER_00: And so just real quick, what happened was they were
- 13:23SPEAKER_00: Tony Russo
- 13:36SPEAKER_00: Now,
- 13:36SPEAKER_00: when they lost their minds,
- 13:37SPEAKER_00: instead of explaining to them as if they were grown-ups,
- 13:40SPEAKER_00: that,
- 13:41SPEAKER_00: well,
- 13:41SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 13:41SPEAKER_00: this is A,
- 13:42SPEAKER_00: not illegal,
- 13:44SPEAKER_00: and B,
- 13:45SPEAKER_00: not a problem,
- 13:45SPEAKER_00: because C,
- 13:47SPEAKER_00: there's nothing wrong with this soil,
- 13:53SPEAKER_00: both the Running River Ranch and Earth Funeral said,
- 13:55SPEAKER_00: we're sorry,
- 13:56SPEAKER_00: we'll never do it again.
- 13:57And that made them look like they were doing something wrong
- 14:01when they weren't.
- 14:02SPEAKER_00: And then it just makes human composting,
- 14:07SPEAKER_00: which is under siege for some reason,
- 14:13SPEAKER_00: harder for everyone else.
- 14:15And,
- 14:16you know,
- 14:16Aquamation is like this to a similar extent,
- 14:19but I think Aquamation has the...
- 14:24SPEAKER_00: has the advantage of not having composting in its title.
- 14:29SPEAKER_00: I've been trying to go with teramation,
- 14:31SPEAKER_00: but I feel like you have to mention that it is natural organic reduction.
- 14:37SPEAKER_00: But the human composting, I don't have a problem with the word.
- 14:43SPEAKER_00: I have a problem with people who are too dumb.
- 14:45SPEAKER_00: It's like
- 14:48SPEAKER_00: I once had a professor say, it's like handing a four-year-old a rifle.
- 14:55You can't just give complex information to little tiny minds
- 14:59because they don't
- 15:00SPEAKER_00: know what to do with it except to try to burn it to the ground.
- 15:03SPEAKER_00: So that was the one story.
- 15:06SPEAKER_00: So this is a battle lost in California,
- 15:10SPEAKER_00: which is,
- 15:10SPEAKER_00: again,
- 15:11SPEAKER_00: unfortunate because it's an opportunity for education to
- 15:17And along those same lines and the other story is New Hampshire
- 15:22rejected the live
- 15:23free and die free human composting bill which I was like
- 15:29putting asterisk on you
- 15:31know it was like live free or die asterisk you know and after
- 15:35you're dead you have
- 15:36SPEAKER_00: to do what we tell you.
- 15:38This is It was a close vote They'll probably have it again
- 15:42Eventually it will pass
- 15:43But I wanted to bring up the words of Senator Darrell Abbess
- 15:50Who is from Salem Not
- 15:52SPEAKER_00: the Salem where they burned witches This is the more conservative Salem
- 15:57SPEAKER_00: He said,
- 15:58I don't believe that we should be treating human remains in an
- 16:01overtly utilitarian
- 16:04SPEAKER_00: way.
- 16:05And so utilitarian and human dignity are the two things that
- 16:12are constantly brought
- 16:14SPEAKER_00: up by the people who,
- 16:17SPEAKER_00: for no good reason,
- 16:18SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 16:19SPEAKER_00: If we were trying to pass a law,
- 16:21if anyone was trying to pass a law saying that we were going to
- 16:23ban everything
- 16:24except human composting and everyone would have to be
- 16:27terramated as part of their
- 16:29SPEAKER_00: final disposition,
- 16:30SPEAKER_00: I could see people getting crazy,
- 16:32SPEAKER_00: crazy weird uptight about it,
- 16:34SPEAKER_00: but that's not the case.
- 16:35These are people who are just for no good reason or for
- 16:41religious reasons,
- 16:42SPEAKER_00: but we'll get to that in the next story.
- 16:45SPEAKER_00: Saying that they don't like other people doing it.
- 16:47SPEAKER_00: And,
- 16:48SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 16:48it gets exhausting after a while having to behave in a way that
- 16:54other people find
- 16:55SPEAKER_00: comfortable.
- 16:57SPEAKER_00: If I'm not a member of your religion,
- 16:58I don't know why you would feel like you have to hold me
- 17:02accountable for it.
- 17:04SPEAKER_00: And this is the problem, the main problem.
- 17:07with Terramation around the country and eventually it'll pass
- 17:11and I don't see this
- 17:13taking the world by storm but it is worth saying that it took a
- 17:17hundred years for
- 17:18the Catholic Church to approve cremation and you know that
- 17:24approval was based on
- 17:25the fact that people had stopped listening to them and started
- 17:28getting cremated
- 17:29anyway and I feel like you know Terramation's on the same path
- 17:34you know they you
- 17:35SPEAKER_00: know
- 17:36SPEAKER_00: That's why we call them ashes, right?
- 17:37We call them ashes so that it reinforces the lack of dignity
- 17:41that cremation does to
- 17:43SPEAKER_00: a human body.
- 17:44So,
- 17:44all right,
- 17:44that's a lost cause now because everyone's getting cremated and
- 17:47everyone says no.
- 17:48SPEAKER_00: As a matter of fact, it's a really beautiful way to treat a human body.
- 17:53SPEAKER_00: It's an important way for some people.
- 17:56SPEAKER_00: And I feel like that's where a terremation will be.
- 17:59SPEAKER_00: I mean, hopefully it doesn't take 100 years.
- 18:01SPEAKER_00: 100 years seems like a long time to have to convince,
- 18:04SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 18:05SPEAKER_00: 12 people to just be grownups and not do it themselves.
- 18:09SPEAKER_00: And that'll be enough.
- 18:10SPEAKER_00: But yeah, so that's where we stand on those.
- 18:13And that's the end of my human composting slash termation
- 18:17reporting for this week.
- 18:19SPEAKER_00: But I am going to get into cremation a little bit.
- 18:23SPEAKER_00: Generally when I report on community fighting against cremation,
- 18:30SPEAKER_00: I always try to bring up the fact that it is a religious practice.
- 18:35SPEAKER_00: It's not just an economic thing.
- 18:38As I mentioned in the last story about the kind of slanderous
- 18:42way cremation used to
- 18:43be treated before people just started ignoring people who were
- 18:48slanderous about it.
- 18:51SPEAKER_00: That kind of attitude is still kind of pervasive,
- 18:56SPEAKER_00: but it's also a religious right for some people,
- 19:00SPEAKER_00: and it's a religious practice for some people.
- 19:02Actually,
- 19:03I'm going to say it's a religious practice for most people,
- 19:07and by most people I mean
- 19:10SPEAKER_00: All of East Asia and South Asia,
- 19:12SPEAKER_00: much of East Asia and South Asia demands cremation,
- 19:16SPEAKER_00: which makes it the thing.
- 19:17SPEAKER_00: If there are religions, the Hindus and Sikhs and other religions,
- 19:33Non-Christian Religions Kind of Demand That That Is Their
- 19:40Method Of Disposition And
- 19:42SPEAKER_00: In Lexington,
- 19:43Massachusetts There Has Been A Problem With Trying To Get A
- 19:48Public Crematory At The
- 19:50Westview Cemetery Because No One Will Allow Cremation Because
- 19:56It's Bad Or Whatever
- 19:57SPEAKER_00: They Say About Cremation
- 19:59And These People Are Like This Is Our Religion You Know And
- 20:02They Added The Cultural
- 20:05Equity To The Argument Which Is Something That Hasn'T Really
- 20:10Been Done Very Much
- 20:11Before You Know People Talk About You Know Cremations Going To
- 20:1460% Cremations Going
- 20:16SPEAKER_00: To 80% Cremations More Affordable Cremations What People Want But
- 20:21People don't often enough say cremation is what this certain
- 20:25demographic needs to
- 20:27SPEAKER_00: have as part of their religious ritual.
- 20:32And that is a significant and harder to say no to angle than
- 20:37just,
- 20:38well,
- 20:38it's legal.
- 20:39SPEAKER_00: It's legal.
- 20:40SPEAKER_00: Unfortunately,
- 20:41it's legal is not an argument that you can make if you want to
- 20:44put up a crematory
- 20:45SPEAKER_00: because,
- 20:46SPEAKER_00: as I've mentioned a thousand times,
- 20:48SPEAKER_00: they don't care about your rights.
- 20:49Once old Alan down the block starts screaming about he's going
- 20:54to choke to death,
- 20:55SPEAKER_00: they don't care about your rights and they don't care about the law.
- 20:58SPEAKER_00: They just don't want to get yelled at by grouchy old men like myself.
- 21:03SPEAKER_00: But once you add the cultural component, all of a sudden...
- 21:10Grumpy old Alan isn't just saying you know it's bad he's saying
- 21:15my neighbors are
- 21:16SPEAKER_00: bad for wanting to follow their religion when they
- 21:22SPEAKER_00: Tony Russo Tonyrus
- 21:51SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 21:51SPEAKER_00: again,
- 21:51remember if you are a cremator and you are worried about trying
- 21:57to get a new
- 21:59SPEAKER_00: crematory approved or any of those things,
- 22:02remember that the religious aspect is a significant and real
- 22:07aspect of modern flame
- 22:11SPEAKER_00: cremation.
- 22:12SPEAKER_00: All right, link to that in the show notes.
- 22:16This week I want to just do a quick shout out to our friends at
- 22:19Starmark who
- 22:21SPEAKER_00: donated more than 100 urns to the final salute for their event this week.
- 22:29SPEAKER_00: I've reported on The Final Salute before.
- 22:31SPEAKER_00: If you're not familiar with it,
- 22:33SPEAKER_00: it's a nonprofit that was started by Linnea Strovers,
- 22:37SPEAKER_00: who may be known to some of you as an NFDA trainer.
- 22:42SPEAKER_00: But she's also a funeral director and a member of her community.
- 22:46SPEAKER_00: And in Des Moines,
- 22:47SPEAKER_00: where she works,
- 22:50she has started this program where they have a ceremony for all
- 22:54of the unclaimed
- 22:55SPEAKER_00: people.
- 22:56Veterans Remains and they have members of the community stand
- 23:00in as family members
- 23:01for these people and each of them you know does something they
- 23:06they sign the um
- 23:08they they signed kind of the vessels and things like that but
- 23:11anyway uh i i spoke
- 23:13with her briefly when i heard that they had gotten this
- 23:15donation and it's just a
- 23:17nice story frankly and she called starmark and said hey listen
- 23:21you know i'm with
- 23:21SPEAKER_00: this non-profit and
- 23:23SPEAKER_00: You know, could we get a break?
- 23:25SPEAKER_00: We're going to need more than 100 urns.
- 23:27SPEAKER_00: And they're like, yeah, you can get a break.
- 23:29SPEAKER_00: How about we just donate them?
- 23:30SPEAKER_00: And it's just, you know, a nice way to step up.
- 23:33SPEAKER_00: No one asked for anything and it was just given kind of freely.
- 23:37SPEAKER_00: And I thought,
- 23:38SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 23:38it would be cool to shout them out They've always been good
- 23:42folks over there at
- 23:42Starmark So it's not like it's a shock But it's something worth
- 23:46mentioning So
- 23:46SPEAKER_00: anyway,
- 23:47there's a link to the Final Salute Facebook page in this story
- 23:52Or in lieu of a,
- 23:53SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 23:54news story link And it's got lots of great There are so many
- 23:58great photos of this
- 23:59event You'd do well to check it out So I'll put that link in
- 24:03the show notes
- 24:05SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry,
- 24:05SPEAKER_00: this is a post-credit recording,
- 24:07SPEAKER_00: so you'll see,
- 24:08I think the microphone is in a different place if you're
- 24:10watching on the video.
- 24:11SPEAKER_00: If you're listening,
- 24:12then you don't know anything's different except that I pointed
- 24:14out something's
- 24:15SPEAKER_00: different.
- 24:16SPEAKER_00: I am recording this on Wednesday, April 29th.
- 24:18SPEAKER_00: I've moved my recording day for lots of reasons,
- 24:22but I used to like to try to finish it on Thursday night for
- 24:24Friday morning.
- 24:26This week we have SCI and Matthews reporting on Thursday and
- 24:30Friday morning.
- 24:33respectively that is not included in this video for those
- 24:37reasons instead please
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- 24:41pitch in a second
- 24:42in the closing and I will have the full story for all of those
- 24:47available to you by
- 24:48the time you hear this the SCI story will be out and the
- 24:52Matthews story will
- 24:53SPEAKER_00: probably be out Friday afternoon so all right now back to the show
- 24:58SPEAKER_00: That will do us for this time.
- 25:01SPEAKER_00: The rest has been an On Death Care production.
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- 25:18I got a really interesting call like while I was recording this
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- 25:22I'm a little unclaimed remains heavy this week so we'll save
- 25:31that one for next week
- 25:32plus the legislation has it 100% passed but anyway this is so
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- 26:26I'm already as tense
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- 26:31thank you so much for
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- 26:40SPEAKER_00: Outro