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150 // This #1 limiting belief is stopping you from having the future you want (and how to clear it) · Abundant + Aligned

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Abundant and Aligned podcast, where we welcome women who are ready to live the life of their dreams.
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  Speaker 2: Hi everyone and welcome back to the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so excited to be sitting down for another episode with you all.
• 0:48
  Speaker 2: I hope you're all having an amazing week.
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  Speaker 2: It has been an incredible week in my world.
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  Speaker 2: If you got a ticket to Recalibrate, you would know that on Tuesday night we had a free event with over 260 women registered and it was an absolute vibe.
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  Speaker 2: I love doing those events.
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  Speaker 2: I love connecting with you all, being in a room with you all chatting about your goals, helping you achieve your goals, and it is a whole vibe.
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  Speaker 2: So that was on Tuesday night.
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  Speaker 2: If you didn't get a ticket for Recalibrate, you have until Sunday to get the replay.
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  Speaker 2: Just a quick FYI, we also drew the winners today of the giveaway.
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  Speaker 2: So two women won a $500 gift voucher into the Academy.
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  Speaker 2: So congratulations to both of you, very excited and very happy that I can give away those vouchers to you.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of the Academy, by the time you guys are listening to this, it is officially open for enrollment and this is the final opening for 2024.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to spend too much time on the Academy in this episode because I have a lot to cover, but if you want to learn from me, grow with me for four months inside my signature program.
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  Speaker 2: Then the Academy is officially open.
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  Speaker 2: It's linked in the show notes below.
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  Speaker 2: I will be doing a separate episode with the ins and outs of the Academy, so if you plan on joining me, just hit play on that episode once that is available for you guys.
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  Speaker 2: But, like I said, I have a lot to cover today because this episode is I guess it's kind of inspired by everything we spoke about within Recalibrate and also knowing that if you joined me in Recalibrate, it's very likely that you have this fire in your belly to go after the life that you want, whether it is to have an incredible amount of wealth, have a high standard of living, have luxury, have choice, have time, freedom whatever that is for you, I'm so sure that you're feeling more inspired than ever to make it happen.
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  Speaker 2: So what I wanted to do today is kind of follow on from that and chat about one limiting belief that has been or will stop you from having that future that you want and I'm so sure, without actually even knowing what the future is that you want and what your goals are.
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  Speaker 2: You have experienced this because you haven't got the future that you want right.
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  Speaker 2: You're still in this reality, you're still experiencing lack, struggle, slowness, still feeling stuck in a life that you know isn't the life that you want.
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  Speaker 2: Every day you wake up wanting more, but you don't yet have that more.
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  Speaker 2: And the reason for that is because of this one limiting belief that is still wedged in your mind that keeps you still and keeps you here in this reality.
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  Speaker 2: That does involve an element of struggle, of hardship, of, as I said, not having all of the things that you want.
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  Speaker 2: Of course we know and, as I said, if you were on the call on Tuesday night, we know that any life is possible.
• 3:45
  Speaker 2: We know that by now, especially if you are a regular listener and you're here every single week, you know any life is possible, you can have it all, be it all, do it all, and any timeline is possible.
• 3:54
  Speaker 2: So again, why, if it is possible, why do we not have the life that we want?
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  Speaker 2: Why do we still not have that future, despite being so clear on what that dream future is?
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  Speaker 2: Again, this one limiting belief is keeping you still.
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  Speaker 2: Are you ready for it?
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  Speaker 2: The limiting belief is this you keep believing that the dream future won't work out.
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  Speaker 2: You keep focusing on the worst case scenario.
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  Speaker 2: So when you think about that dream future again, whether it's the wealth, the time, freedom, the success, the business, the standard of living, whatever it may be, when you think about that future, you keep focusing.
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  Speaker 2: Whether consciously or subconsciously, you keep focusing on the worst case scenario.
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  Speaker 2: When you think about that future, what if I fail?
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  Speaker 2: What if it doesn't work out?
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  Speaker 2: What if they judge me?
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  Speaker 2: What if I don't like it?
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  Speaker 2: What if shit hits the fan?
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  Speaker 2: And it was the worst move I have ever made you keep focusing on that and naturally we don't want to create a worst case scenario.
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  Speaker 2: And I mean logically.
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  Speaker 2: We know that if we know shit's going to hit the fan, we're not going to do the things to avoid that from happening.
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  Speaker 2: But here's the thing just as much as that worst case scenario exists because it does it could happen.
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  Speaker 2: Everything could fail.
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  Speaker 2: You may not like it, everyone could laugh at you, maybe no one will buy your product.
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  Speaker 2: That does exist.
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  Speaker 2: That worst case scenario is a potential.
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  Speaker 2: But guess what is also a potential?
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  Speaker 2: That you get your best case scenario.
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  Speaker 2: You succeed more than you ever have.
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  Speaker 2: You make more money than you ever have.
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  Speaker 2: Everything works out.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone loves your brand, your impact, your message.
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  Speaker 2: You moved to that city and it was the best thing you've ever done.
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  Speaker 2: Best case scenario plays out for you.
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  Speaker 2: That narrative, that best case scenario, exists just as much as the worst case scenario, and which scenario plays out depends on you and which one you're focusing on.
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  Speaker 2: And, as I said, I'm very confident.
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  Speaker 2: Without knowing the future that you want, without knowing what your goals are, I'm very confident.
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  Speaker 2: The reason you don't have that life yet is because you keep being held back by the worst case scenario.
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  Speaker 2: Your brain will naturally do that because your brain actually doesn't want you to change your life.
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  Speaker 2: Your brain doesn't want you to upgrade who you are as a woman.
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  Speaker 2: It wants you to stay right here in your familiar and for many women your familiar may be financial struggle, burnout, stress, going to a job that doesn't light you up, slowness in business, refunds by clients, rejections at the point of sale, refunds by clients, rejections at the point of sale, shitty dates with shitty guys.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever that is is you're familiar, and so your brain or your subconscious mind doesn't know that that's bad or that's negative or that consciously you don't want that.
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  Speaker 2: It just knows it as you're familiar, and so your brain wants you to stay right here, in this present reality.
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  Speaker 2: If you stay right here, it also means that your life is predictable.
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  Speaker 2: We know what your tomorrow will look like if you don't make any changes.
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  Speaker 2: We know what next month will look like.
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  Speaker 2: We know what next year will look like.
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  Speaker 2: Therefore, your life is predictable and that's amazing to your brain or your subconscious.
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  Speaker 2: Because it's predictable, it's actually easier to stay exactly where you are.
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  Speaker 2: It's actually easier to continue to struggle with money if that's all you know.
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  Speaker 2: It's easier for your business to continue to take years and years and years to take off if that's all that has been the case for you.
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  Speaker 2: It's easier to date those shit men, if that's all you know.
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  Speaker 2: It's easier to keep doing what you've always done because it's predictable and it's your familiar.
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  Speaker 2: But that does not mean that has to be what's next for you.
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  Speaker 2: Just because it's familiar here, comfortable here, doesn't mean you have to stay here.
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  Speaker 2: It also doesn't mean that, just because change will feel uncomfortable and unfamiliar, that you're going to get your worst case scenario and the amount of conversations I get into with my clients and students inside the academy whereby they tell me their goal and then they immediately go to their worst case scenario I haven't launched that product because no one will buy it.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't started that business because people would judge me.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't been consistent on social media because no one cares what I have to share.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't done all of these things because of the worst case scenario.
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  Speaker 2: And I always say to them and I catch them out every single time I'm like what about the other narrative where you get everything you want?
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  Speaker 2: You have everything you want, it's easy, it's flowy, it's effortless.
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  Speaker 2: Life is literally a dream come true.
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  Speaker 2: Like what about that narrative?
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  Speaker 2: And they're like oh yeah, I haven't even thought about that.
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  Speaker 2: And of course you haven't.
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  Speaker 2: As I said, your brain, your subconscious, it's wired to keep you safe.
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  Speaker 2: Change is unfamiliar and it wants your life to be predictable.
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  Speaker 2: So, of course, if you were to start making all of this money, your subconscious mind is like we're not used to that.
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  Speaker 2: If you are in a happy relationship, your subconscious mind is not used to that.
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  Speaker 2: If that's not your normal, if you are in heaps of momentum in your business and clients are just coming out of nowhere but that hasn't been your normal your subconscious is like this is unfamiliar.
• 9:31
  Speaker 2: We can't predict tomorrow, we can't predict next month, we can't predict next year, but there still is another scenario and you need to lock in and choose your best case scenario.
• 9:41
  Speaker 2: So I do have some call to action for you all to help you remove this limiting belief that's stopping you from having the future that you want.
• 9:52
  Speaker 2: But I just want to remind you that life doesn't have to be a gamble.
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  Speaker 2: Enrolling in the academy, for example, could be the best four months of your life or not, but you get to choose that Starting that business could be one of your most successful parts of your life or not.
• 10:11
  Speaker 2: But you get to decide that your financial reality could shift in a matter of weeks or months or not, but you decide that it's not like you're flipping a coin and just hoping for something, wishing for something and getting the other thing.
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  Speaker 2: You literally get to choose in every given moment what scenario plays out for you.
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  Speaker 2: And on the call for Recalibrate, I gave them the analogy that I'm going to share with you guys when it comes to the creation of your life and the circumstances that you keep attracting, and the situations you're finding yourself in and those reoccurring patterns when it comes to that.
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  Speaker 2: The situations you're finding yourself in and those reoccurring patterns when it comes to that.
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  Speaker 2: I want you to imagine that it is like a magnet to lead.
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  Speaker 2: So we remember in science class when they got us to hover a magnet over lead and it would pick the lead up from the desk.
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  Speaker 2: It didn't matter where the lead was, as long as you hovered the magnet over the lead, it would pick the lead up.
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  Speaker 2: Life is exactly the same.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter where you're focusing, you will pick it up.
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  Speaker 2: And so imagine that we have two piles of lead.
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  Speaker 2: One pile of lead is financial struggle, hardship, not loving life and just going through the motions.
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  Speaker 2: That's one pile of lead.
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  Speaker 2: The other pile of lead is wealth, success, abundance, freedom.
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  Speaker 2: Both piles of lead are sitting on the desk and available to you.
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  Speaker 2: You get to hover the magnet over whatever lead pile you choose and whatever one you choose you will pick up.
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  Speaker 2: So many women are hovering over the financial struggle lead pile, the hardship lead pile, the I don't love my life, but I'm just going through the motions anyway lead pile.
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  Speaker 2: Meanwhile, the other pile is still sitting there and available financial abundance, time, freedom, success, an easier life, peace, happiness, literally loving every single area of your life.
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  Speaker 2: That pile is sitting there but we're not getting it because we're not hovering the magnet over that pile.
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: Imagine this you're making five figures per month, your business is on fire, you live in that big, dreamy home, you drive that luxury car, you have a profound confidence in yourself that allows you to go after and get what you want every single time.
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: I know you can do that because in just over one year, I went from being an unfulfilled lawyer craving more freedom to the owner of a six-figure business that allows me to completely control my time, travel whenever I want and decide how much I get paid.
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: I literally manifested the life I once dreamt about, and that's how I know you can too.
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: So you may be thinking this is going to take a lot of hard work and a long time, but I actually don't put my success down to just that.
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: Knowing how to reprogram my subconscious mind was the key to it all, and when I experienced my first quantum leap, I just knew that more women just like you, had to know how to do this so that they could live their dream life too.
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: So I created the Academy, which is my four month life transformation program for the woman ready for more, and at the time you're listening to this, it is officially open for enrollment.
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  Speaker 2: You have until the 14th of July to get in, secure your spot in what will be the final round for 2024.
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  Speaker 2: So if you want to make sure this year is everything you want it to be, then the Academy is the place to be.
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  Speaker 2: Go and grab your spot, because I'm so excited to meet you, learn with you, grow with you and get you to where you want to be over the next four months, and make sure you message me as soon as you're in so that I can have a champagne to celebrate.
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  Speaker 2: So this episode today is getting you to move your magnet over to the other lead pile.
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  Speaker 2: Start choosing your best case scenario, start expecting your best case scenario and guess what will happen.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: You'll start creating your best case scenario when you think back in your life, in the moments where you got your worst case scenario.
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: So when you think back to when a business did fail, or that client did want that, that refund, or you did date that douchebag of a guy, or you didn't get that job, or you lost that money, whatever, when you think back to those moments, just before those moments manifested, you likely had a fear that that was about to happen and therefore, it did.
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: Nothing we create in life is a coincidence.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: It's literally feedback to thoughts and feelings and fears and hopes and dreams that we had just before the creation of the thing.
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: So knowing that we can choose something different.
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: But it will require you to expect something different.
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: It will require you to expect success, growth, abundance, it working out for you.
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: And again, like coming back to the academy, like enrollment is open right now and I know a lot of women go.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: I won't do it because what if I don't put the work in and I don't get what I want to get out of this?
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: What if I invest all of this money and I don't make it back?
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: What if?
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: Worst case scenario, I'm like but what if you invest and you literally make back that investment in your first week?
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: What if you do the four months with me and you come out the other end in a completely different place, exactly where you want to be?
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: What if your business takes off?
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: What if you make more money than you ever have?
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: What if you moved to that city and it was the best move?
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: What if you launch that business and it takes off?
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: What if you date that guy and he's incredible?
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: What if the best case scenario happens.
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: We choose that, we expect that and we get that.
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: So here's your call to action to remove this limiting belief and ensure that the scenario that plays out for you in whatever area whether it's business, whether it's financially, whether it's within your relationships, whether it's at work, whether it's investing in the academy this is how you're going to ensure that you get your best case scenario.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: You've got to journal on what that is.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: So what area do you want to change?
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: Pick that.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: And then I want you to script if you could have it all, if that could work out exactly how you wanted it to, if it could be the most successful part of your life, how would that look?
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: And journal on that.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: This is a key component to getting something and it is firstly asking for it and, as I said, a lot of us, mostly subconsciously, keep choosing the worst case scenario.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: And then we get the worst case scenario and then we're like, oh see, told you, life is so hard and I'm not good at this and I'm not worthy of this and blah, blah, blah.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: But I'm like you're literally choosing that.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: So this journal prompt is going to get you to choose your best case scenario and script about if you could have it all.
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: What would that look like If it all worked out?
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: What would that look like If it was successful, if it did have all this momentum?
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: What exactly would that look like?
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Journal on your best case scenario.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: Once you have that, what you're going to do from there.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: Step number two show up expecting that to happen and stop living in fear.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Stop living in the what if it doesn't work out, and be excited that it will Think like it's going to happen.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Feel excited that it's going to happen.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Take action, expecting it to happen.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: So start the business.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: Change your energy when showing up within your business.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: Walk into that pay rise, meeting tomorrow different.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Join the academy, do things with the expectation that it will work out, and I promise it will work out.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: Your best case scenario is available to you just as much as the worst case is, and whatever one plays out for you depends on which one you choose to focus on.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Inside the academy, we rewire your brain so that this exercise isn't so conscious.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: So, once you do your, once you journal on your best case scenario, you'll get up tomorrow and you'll consciously think, feel and act differently.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: But it will be.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: It will.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: It will require that conscious effort, but after four months inside the Academy with you, it will no longer be forced.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Instead, choosing your best case scenario and getting your best case scenario will be your default way of living.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: There are people out there right now making so much money.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: There are people out there right now traveling the world first class, staying in incredible accommodation by the water.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: There are people out there right now in relationships with the most the water.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: There are people out there right now in relationships with the most incredible people.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: There are people out there right now loving their business, loving their career, loving all aspects of their life, and they have it all.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: They are on the exact same planet that you are on.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: They have the exact same opportunities as you do, but it's just about starting to tap into it by choosing that and expecting that.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: So I'm going to leave it there A lot to think about.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: Go away and do that call to action journaling, showing up, expecting and, as always, keep your head up to the changes that happen.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: They happen very quick, especially again, if you're joining me in the academy once you've upgraded neurologically in terms of the way that your brain is hardwired, the neural pathways in your brain.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Once you change that, you change yourself energetically, so that energy, energetic field around your body is different by default.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: Things actually change pretty quickly.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: I've seen it multiple times in my own life.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Every single student in the academy comes out a different person.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: There's testimonials on the podcast, on my Instagram, like everywhere Manifesting dream homes, dream apartments, dream cars, 3xing their income, starting businesses and getting clients straight away within their first six months, meeting people who align with who they're here to be.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: These results are happening every single day and I'm so excited for you to start experiencing them.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: So enjoy the exercises in this episode.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: As always, let me know how you go with this.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Let me know if this was a good episode over on Instagram.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: I love hearing back from you guys.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: And then, of course, if you want to join me inside the Academy and take this work well beyond a 20 minute podcast episode, then make sure you are enrolled in this final opening for the Academy for 2024.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: And let's get you to where you want to be in the next four months.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: And I just want you to know so much is possible in four months.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: Like again, I see it all the time.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: I've done it so many times in my own life.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: It's just about rewiring yourself and showing up differently, expecting something different, and it will come your way.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: So I'm so excited to see some of you in the Academy.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: Let me know what you thought about this episode, otherwise I'll talk to you in the next one.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: Bye, guys.