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She Busted Her Military Husband Cheating With an Influencer! · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  She said her husband's been cheating on her with an
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  influencer. My.
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  Husband's been cheating on me with the influencer, so let's
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  talk about it. How did I find out?
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  Originally he would come for leave so you can have time with
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  his kids and whatnot. Well the day before he left he
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  decided to tell me that he had cheated and he said it was a one
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  night thing. OK, He said he wanted to work it
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  out, give me some time. Eventually when he went back to
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  Japan, he stopped texting me. He stopped calling and me
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  thinking that oh he cheated, he wants to work on it.
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  Maybe I want to work on it too. We have a family together,
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  Whatever month goes by, I'm not going to rot them out.
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  But he is having a full on relationship with this girl.
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  Oh Lord of Mercy military spouse.
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  So I ain't doing no research on this y'all.
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  He's in the military. That's why she said he went to
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  he. He told her he was cheating a
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  day before he got deployed or before he went back to Japan.
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  I don't know why they just put it into her head.
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  Maybe because he's feeling guilty, but it's just weird to
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  even say it out loud. I want to work on it though.
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  Do you? Do you?
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  And he had told me she knows he's married and with kids.
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  People don't care. So I think I'm going to make a
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  series of how divorce happens separation, all that stuff
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  military like how does that work whatnot him overseas me here
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  because. Don't you get in trouble for
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  cheating in the military? Isn't it especially if you're
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  married? Can't you lose rank or something
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  like that? Other affairs in the military
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  were a big no no. Because you will.
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  I think they can discharge you. I think you can get honorably or
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  dishonorably discharged for cheating and lose your military
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  benefits if you get exposed for it.
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  If she exposes for him for that right, isn't it what happens I.
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  Don't know if any of y'all are going through it or y'all are
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  just choose muscles and want to know about it.
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  Choose muscles I just. Found out on Tuesday it is now
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  Saturday, Mother's Day weekend. Next week is our three-year
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  wedding anniversary. Anyways, let's do an outfit of
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  the day. This is from TJ Maxx.
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  This is the first day I'd done my hair and did my lashes and
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  got jewelry on again. She's been depressed.
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  She's laughing and stuff like that, but you can tell that that
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  her that's a traumatic experience.
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  They found out your partner that you love and have kids with a
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  half a family with is cheating on you with some Instagram,
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  TikTok, whatever influencer that knows that he's married.
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  People like that. Like yeah, I feel like and and
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  she knows that he's married. Some people do not care.
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  Some people lack dignity, like they lack honor.
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  They lack morality. Like they don't care if the
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  other person is married. They only care if they want
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  them. I don't have a ring on anymore.
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  This dress is from Walmart. It came with a set.
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  I don't really like the set complete.
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  My daughter is from me. Obviously I don't have my shoes
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  on yet, but I have to get all the kids ready and I am a mom of
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  three. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter
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  and I have two five month old babies and he's been having this
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  relationship for months. OK.
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  We'll talk to you later, so bye. This is our page right here
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  y'all it's what's her name Dre Carano Corona Corona.
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  Dre Corona, that's horrible y'all.
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  I really hate that she had to go through this stuff like this
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  because people are evil and you know that her partner doesn't
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  care because he's got his influence all right.
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  This is another video he says cheated on.
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  Hi and welcome to my series of life after being cheated on.
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  I'm not going to report him as of right now if he loses his
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  job. As of right now, I'm still a
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  stay at home mom that affects the kids financially and I want
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  what's best for the kids. Obviously.
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  You guys remember when I was like depresso?
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  Yeah, I was depressed because I found out my husband cheated and
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  then now I just found out he was cheating.
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  So like the first two weeks I went through it by myself, I
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  didn't really cry a whole lot because I didn't have anybody.
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  You could tell. I did tell my homeboy he knew
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  he. You told the Internet too.
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  You told us we're here with you too.
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  You keep telling you to have nobody to tell.
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  You told us. Are we not friends now?
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  But also again, that's why I said earlier that he could lose
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  his benefits. He could lose his his thing like
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  that. So that's probably why he felt
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  comfortable enough to tell her that he was cheating because he
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  knew that he had her financially trapped.
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  You can't report me because your life would change and you would
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  be hurting the kids. If you report me, you going to
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  hurt the kids. I'm telling y'all ass, but I,
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  I'm, I'm, I'm gonna get a planning order, get my money
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  right. And then I'm telling on your ass
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  and you, Nope, you can go. That was a joke.
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  I wasn't joking like documenting like what it's like what I'm
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  going through everything like feelings, emotions, how it is.
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  Try to get a job again after being a stay at home mom for
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  almost three years is my first Mother's Day as a single mom.
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  It's not my first Mother's Day without him because he was
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  always on deployment. It's just the emotional of like
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  I'm by myself and I know I'm not alone because I have a huge
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  support system which I have like low key and foster syndrome
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  because I don't believe that all y'all like follow me and like
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  like me, you know? But that's beside the point.
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  Anyways, I've gone through every single moment.
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  Then I just said that. I just said we hear what you do.
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  I have gone through grief because I'm like I'm.
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  I'm grieving over somebody that I'm losing in my life.
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  Sadness, depression, anger, pissed off resentment, like
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  literally just all of the emotion I don't want to eat.
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  The last month I have lost a whole bunch of weight and I've
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  even lost my little belong belong because I'm losing so
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  much weight and it's it's noticeable.
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  Bert goes make bodybuilders this again, traumatic experience.
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  You don't want to eat your body. It's, it's, it's trauma.
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  Just like people who cheat don't care like because it's a
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  traumatic experience. You're putting your partner or
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  whoever through trauma and you don't care as long as you're
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  getting pleased by somebody else.
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  Obviously it's from the stress. I'm not going to tell you guys
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  everything that goes on in the process because some of those
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  things do need to be between me and him and everyone's like,
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  don't worry me how you're going to find somebody.
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  I know I can find somebody. Thing is that I didn't want to
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  find somebody. I wanted him.
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  The reason why I married him. I know I.
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  Oh, what did somebody say? Let's finally.
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  Oh my God, let's go finally. I've been waiting.
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  Oh, so people are waiting in the wings?
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  Can find happy Mother's Day. Happy mother hi and welcome to
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  my series of see it's from the strategy hosting duty to him.
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  I can find somebody. The thing is that I didn't want
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  to find somebody. I wanted him.
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  The reason why I married him. I wanted to spend the rest of my
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  life with him. Yep.
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  And the reality of that is not going to happen.
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  I hope you guys join me along for the ride.
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  It's going to be so fun and happy.
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  OK, bye. Yeah, she's got a good
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  personality though. She's quirky.
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  You know, she definitely finds somebody else quickly.
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  But this is the thing about her finding somebody else, her
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  partner, not her, her ex-husband or whatever.
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  He's not going to like that. Like people like this, they can
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  cheat and do what they want to do, but as soon as you try to
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  move on, they'll tell you that they don't want anybody else to
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  run their kids. Like as soon as you try to move
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  on, they'll tell you straight up, I'm not trying, you can't.
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  I don't want anybody else around my kids.
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  Girl, I'm in Japan. Let me know.
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  She's trying to get them she said.
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  But if you report him, won't you get money for the kids anyway?
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  Also, this process is easy to take your time.
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  That's what I was. Like I said there is different
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  stuff like I would look into it. Now he'll get in trouble and get
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  kicked out or demoted or take a significant pay cut.
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  It sucks, but she's doing the best thing right now.
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  Yeah, she doing the right thing right now.
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  You you're not with the rule my life and just get away with it.
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  I'm very spiteful. Y'all know I have.
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  I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality
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  disorder. If you find it in my other
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  platform, that's all I'll talk about.
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  I'm spiteful. I will blow my shit up just to
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  her. I will blow my life up just to
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  get back at you. I'm not telling her to do that,
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  but I absolutely would. You're not going to get away
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  with this. You think you're going to have a
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  successful military career and spoil somebody else?
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  Hell no. You're going to get kicked out,
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  buddy. You're out of here, buddy.
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  I'm praying to what They. Yeah.
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  How did they find out? Did he just tell you?
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  Yeah. Got to go watch the other other
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  thing right there. I'll talk about everything
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  about. She's beautiful.
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  Yeah. She has a good personality.
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  Like what I said, like people like that cheat on good people.
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  They deserve rocks. Rocks and a socks.
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  Rock and a sock. Anyway, I'll check out our page.
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