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Almost Famous In Depth: Hannah Godwin and Dylan Barbour · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is Benn and Ashley I almost Famous in Depth. Well, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: because of everything going on in the world, as Ashley
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  Speaker 1: and I have promised, we're gonna try to put as
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  Speaker 1: many podcast episodes out there into the podcast world as possible,
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  Speaker 1: and today we're coming out with another almost famous podcast.
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  Speaker 1: This time it's an in depth with Hannah and Dylan
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  Speaker 1: from The Bachelor, Bachelor and then also Bachelor in Paradise. Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: you've been excited about this one. You've been doing a
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  Speaker 1: lot of research. What do you expect out of this interview? Well,
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  Speaker 1: Dylan doesn't hold back. In fact, I think Dylan likes
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  Speaker 1: to be a little sassy. Dylan likes to make a
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  Speaker 1: headline here or there, so I'm hoping we get that
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  Speaker 1: version of him and Hannah isn't trying to make him
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  Speaker 1: go in some sort of PC direction. I think today's
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  Speaker 1: uh podcast maybe won't be as who knows. I don't wanna,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to assume, but I my assumption my
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  Speaker 1: guests would be it's not going to be as emotional
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  Speaker 1: as some in depth podcast in the past, but it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna it's gonna be hilarious. I know that you've done
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  Speaker 1: your research to try to get the the t as
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  Speaker 1: the kids are saying out of Hannah and Dylan, and
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  Speaker 1: I am excited to speak to two people who have
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  Speaker 1: made me laugh many times. I know them well. You
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  Speaker 1: know them well, Hey, almost famous family, you know them
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  Speaker 1: well as well. Let's bring Hannah and Dylan onto the
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  Speaker 1: first in depth episode of this new season in Our Lives.
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  Speaker 1: It's Hannah and Dylan. So, Hannah and Dylan, welcome to
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  Speaker 1: the Almost Famous in Depth podcast. Hey, thanks, thanks for
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  Speaker 1: having us. By the way, congratulations, yeah, congratulations From one
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  Speaker 1: man to another. It's a good life, isn't it. It's
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  Speaker 1: the best. Yeah. I feel a new sense of like
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  Speaker 1: joy and yees and comfort. Do you feel that way? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I told Hannah there's like there's like five things you
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  Speaker 1: want to check off in your life, and one of
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  Speaker 1: them is like not having not not having to worry
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  Speaker 1: about like finding like that like relationship half of your
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  Speaker 1: life proportion. And once you find it, just like it
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  Speaker 1: opens up so much more. Thanks for you. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, I I was, I was like, I
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  Speaker 1: have so much more space to think about productive things
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  Speaker 1: in my head now that I don't have to worry
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  Speaker 1: about finding something exactly you're like you can focus more
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  Speaker 1: on like work friends. Like it's the best. I became
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  Speaker 1: so work oriented as soon as Jared and I gotten gaged. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and it's interesting because I proposed to just obviously this week,
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  Speaker 1: and um, it wasn't supposed to go down the way
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  Speaker 1: it did, and I was worried that this self isolation
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  Speaker 1: time would kind of take away from the proposal. But
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  Speaker 1: we talked about on the last episode of Almost Famous,
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  Speaker 1: and the greatest part is now, like typically we're both traveling,
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  Speaker 1: we're moving about just like you guys are, and just
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  Speaker 1: like Ashley is, and just like a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: are that listening to this podcast. Now we're stuck to
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  Speaker 1: just like enjoy each other. And we had a date
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  Speaker 1: night last night and Jess looked over at me and
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  Speaker 1: she said, like, what's great about this experiences We've never
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  Speaker 1: spent this much time without distraction. Like I've always known
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  Speaker 1: I've loved you, but now I know, like more than
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  Speaker 1: ever that this is gonna work. And like I appreciate
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  Speaker 1: that because we've had so much time to hang out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there's always like a constant list of things to do,
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  Speaker 1: and right now, during this whole self isolation time, it's
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  Speaker 1: like you don't have any fomo, you don't have any trips,
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  Speaker 1: like you're just kind of focused on the moment. And
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  Speaker 1: since so it is. Hey, if you guys hear background
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  Speaker 1: noise with Dylan and Hannah or Ashley or myself, we
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  Speaker 1: are all in separate places, except Dylan and Hannah are
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  Speaker 1: kind of like sitting on top of each other right now.
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  Speaker 1: And then Ashley and I are separate places in homes,
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  Speaker 1: and so please for give us. We don't have a
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  Speaker 1: studio right now, we don't have our own quiet spaces.
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  Speaker 1: We are coming to you live from the comfort of
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  Speaker 1: our own Skype, So please give us a little grace.
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  Speaker 1: If you hear some pounding and begging in the background, Ben,
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  Speaker 1: how do you look so cool with the background blur?
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  Speaker 1: I was going to ask you that he upgraded? He
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  Speaker 1: is it windows? Yeah, going on this Skype? Yeah, you're right.
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  Speaker 1: So if anybody's out there wondering, I'm we're on Skype
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  Speaker 1: right now, and I guess there's a setting that kind
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  Speaker 1: of blurs your background and makes you like stand out.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like a cartoon character right now. Yeah. So, Hannah, Dylan,
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  Speaker 1: you are beloved by batch O Nation, and I want
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  Speaker 1: to tell you a little bit about what the in
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  Speaker 1: depth podcast is. So a couple of times a year,
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  Speaker 1: we pick some of bat our nation's favorite couples or
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  Speaker 1: people and we invite them into our kind of world
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  Speaker 1: at the almost famous universe to just sit down with
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  Speaker 1: the two of you and focus on your stories. We
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  Speaker 1: really just want to hear who you are as people.
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  Speaker 1: This is a time to to not just dive into
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  Speaker 1: the show. This is not a time uh to just
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  Speaker 1: explore what happened in Paradise or during the Bachelor Bachelor.
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  Speaker 1: This is a time for us to get to know
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  Speaker 1: you better, uh, you as a couple better, uh to
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  Speaker 1: see where this goes at the end. We usually have
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  Speaker 1: no clue uh where the podcast is gonna take us,
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  Speaker 1: but it's always exciting and it's always an interesting journey. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: The two of you obviously met in Bachelor in Paradise,
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  Speaker 1: That's how people know you today. And you come to us,
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  Speaker 1: uh not only because you are loved by Bachelination, but
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  Speaker 1: because I met you all uh at a Bachelor Live
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  Speaker 1: on stage event and Dylan, in his typical fashion, looked
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  Speaker 1: at me and says, why haven't we come on your
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  Speaker 1: podcast yet? And I said, that's a great question. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: mostly because we didn't know if you would have us,
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  Speaker 1: and so we're happy, uh that you two are sitting
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  Speaker 1: with us today during this time of self isolation. So
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  Speaker 1: thank you for having us. I'm gonna get started at
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  Speaker 1: the very beginning. Uh, you guys just kind of a ball.
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  Speaker 1: You take it as you want. Growing up bringing you
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  Speaker 1: to the place where you became a part of Bachelor Nation.
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  Speaker 1: Tell us who you were, if you could give us
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  Speaker 1: a summary of your childhood, how you ended up on
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  Speaker 1: the show, what you were like in high school, and
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  Speaker 1: why you both were still single looking for love. Well,
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  Speaker 1: when this show came to you, you were on first,
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  Speaker 1: so you should go first. Well all right, so UM,
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  Speaker 1: let's see I who was I? Okay, I think I
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  Speaker 1: would definitely consider myself being like pretty shy in middle
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  Speaker 1: school high school, and I had like my close knit
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  Speaker 1: group of friends. I didn't go on, um a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of dates or anything. I had one relationship in high school. UM,
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  Speaker 1: and we were together for five years, which like in
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  Speaker 1: high school is kind crazy. UM. It was like towards
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  Speaker 1: the end of um, like a sophomore year or something,
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  Speaker 1: or junior year we started dating. But before that like
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  Speaker 1: I had never um gone to dances with people. I
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  Speaker 1: always went with my friends and like, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: like I was not the super cool girl ever. And yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I was cool with it though. I was like whatever,
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  Speaker 1: like I'm just me and my friends and I'm like
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  Speaker 1: the goofy one whatever. And then I went to college. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: I guess I was still the same, like still had
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  Speaker 1: my core group of girlfriends and everything, and um, one
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  Speaker 1: summer I did an internship in l A. And it
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  Speaker 1: like changed my life and my perspective on things. I'm
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  Speaker 1: from Alabama, so I was always just kind of like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'd only seen like the South really and
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  Speaker 1: not done a bunch of traveling. And so I went
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  Speaker 1: to l A. And I was like, whoa, Like there's
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  Speaker 1: a lot going on out here. I like the energy
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  Speaker 1: and um everything like that, and that kind of was
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  Speaker 1: like a game change djer for me, and um, it
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  Speaker 1: kind of opened new perspectives on my relationship, which I
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  Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I can't be with somebody
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  Speaker 1: that I'm not fully committed with. Like I was the
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  Speaker 1: guy my you know, my my five year long relationship.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was a good relationship, but it was
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  Speaker 1: never great, like he was a great person. I just
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  Speaker 1: don't think we're super compatible. Um, so I ended things
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  Speaker 1: and or we ended things, and um then I was
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  Speaker 1: like single and do my own thing. And I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I want to get back out to l A like
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  Speaker 1: Albie was great and all, but you know, I want
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  Speaker 1: to like just have like a more challenging something in
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  Speaker 1: my life. And um, yeah I was single for a
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  Speaker 1: while but on some dates all that stuff. And then somehow,
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  Speaker 1: um the show kind of crossed my path and I
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  Speaker 1: thought there was literally no way and how I would
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  Speaker 1: like a lot of us, Like I was like, there's
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  Speaker 1: zero percent chance I would get on this, like this
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  Speaker 1: is it is almost commic pool, just because I was like,
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  Speaker 1: this isn't a real life thing, like this doesn't actually
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  Speaker 1: happen to people. I was that person like I've never
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  Speaker 1: really won something in like a contest before, Like I've
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  Speaker 1: never had my name drawn. So he's signing up for
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  Speaker 1: something like this. I was like, there, you know, there's
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  Speaker 1: no way I'll get on whatever. Just it was more
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  Speaker 1: of like let's just do it and if it bites
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  Speaker 1: happens and if not, like I'm still single, so adventure
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  Speaker 1: or whatever, and yeah, I got casted for the show,
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  Speaker 1: and it was just insane. I was like focusing more
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  Speaker 1: on myself, relationship, what I wanted, who I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: be with, and then all the things that come along
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  Speaker 1: with the show, which is like just uh, you know everything,
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  Speaker 1: Like my life went from like a forty and crazy
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  Speaker 1: to like a hundred and ten in craziness. So how
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  Speaker 1: long were you in l A before the show? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Where was fine with that? Yeah? Well who signed you
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  Speaker 1: up for the show? Did you sign up yourself? So? Um,
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  Speaker 1: my best friend Dina and I we She was like,
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  Speaker 1: she's my best friend in the world, and she was like, Hannah,
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  Speaker 1: you have to do the show. And I kept putting
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  Speaker 1: it off because I was like I by sending questions
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  Speaker 1: or something like I don't know making a video. I
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  Speaker 1: was like that just seems like a lot of effort,
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  Speaker 1: Like I don't get it in any ways, so whatever.
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  Speaker 1: But one day we had some mimosas and some drinks
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  Speaker 1: and then we recorded some questions and it then and
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  Speaker 1: the rest of history. I remember the first night of
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  Speaker 1: the show, I was like I was telling the producers.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I know, I'm like probably going home
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  Speaker 1: like whatever, and they're just like like they were like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, they can't give you any clues or anything.
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  Speaker 1: They were just like, well, you know, you never know,
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  Speaker 1: Like I think you'll be fine, but who knows. And
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  Speaker 1: I remember when I got the first impression Rose. That
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  Speaker 1: was a moment where I was like, like, I wrote
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  Speaker 1: it down to my journal, it's very like a heavy
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  Speaker 1: description on it. I was like, this is the moment
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  Speaker 1: when I was like, okay, like craziness is probably gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: And then after the show was just insane but really fun.
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  Speaker 1: And then went to Paradise because I was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I if there's something in a sense therapeutic
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  Speaker 1: about going on the show, about learning about yourself and
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  Speaker 1: really focusing on love, especially with the crazy world. After
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  Speaker 1: the The Bachelor, I was like, how am I supposed
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  Speaker 1: to date or whatever? And you know, it happens whatever,
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  Speaker 1: But you know, I was like, Paradise, this seems like
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  Speaker 1: pretty cool, like another new adventure. I learned a lot
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  Speaker 1: about myself the first show, so why not? And um again,
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't like thinking of it super seriously. I was
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  Speaker 1: just like, well, who knows. And then I met Dylan
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  Speaker 1: and then now we're quarantined together in San Diego. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I want to go back for a second. What was
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  Speaker 1: your internship in when you were out in l A
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  Speaker 1: during college? Um I worked at show Mr Mumu. It's
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  Speaker 1: a clothing company and there's so much fun to work
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  Speaker 1: with and uh, yeah, it's awesome. So Hannah, I I
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  Speaker 1: gotta ask you, though you can't. It's I think there's
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  Speaker 1: a level here where I hear you didn't expect to
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  Speaker 1: get on the show, and fans here you didn't expect
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  Speaker 1: to get on the show, but you come on the show,
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  Speaker 1: and I think you like have a larger than life
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  Speaker 1: personality and a larger in lifelike character that you become
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  Speaker 1: and people are huge fans of you. Has it really
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  Speaker 1: at what point in time did you realize that moving
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  Speaker 1: to l A from Alabama, seeing the bright lights of
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  Speaker 1: l A, then getting put on this show, Like, at
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  Speaker 1: what point did you realize that your life was changing
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  Speaker 1: in pretty large ways from your small town of Indian Alabama.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm from Indiana and I remember showing up to
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  Speaker 1: the mansion for the first time, walking out and going
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  Speaker 1: this is unlike anything I've ever seen before. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know how to handle it. I think every moment along
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  Speaker 1: even even taking the flight out to l A for
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  Speaker 1: the like casting and everything. The whole time I was
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  Speaker 1: just like in disbelief. But that's how I am. Like,
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  Speaker 1: I tend to overly take things in and take in
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  Speaker 1: moments just so I can really wrap my head around it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't I don't know why I'm like that, um,
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  Speaker 1: but every single moment I was just like documenting like
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  Speaker 1: how insane it was. And I don't know. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like still to this day though, I as much as
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  Speaker 1: I've grasped my head around all of these different things
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  Speaker 1: we've experienced, I still haven't grasped my head around like that.
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  Speaker 1: People might think, oh, I'm Hannah Gee, Like that doesn't
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  Speaker 1: make any sense and it never will, which I don't
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  Speaker 1: want it to. I'm like, the moment that makes sense,
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  Speaker 1: that's when I got to like stop doing all this
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  Speaker 1: stuff because I'm just like hanging out doing me um.
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  Speaker 1: And I tell Dylan all the time, I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't it wild. Like we just have these conversations about
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  Speaker 1: just how insane all of this is, and I never
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  Speaker 1: want that to seem normal because I know it's not,
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  Speaker 1: and it in a sense it's a it's a scary
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  Speaker 1: position to be in that we're all in, but it's
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  Speaker 1: also a really cool one too. It's like something we'll
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  Speaker 1: all tell our grandkids, all of us. It's uh. I've
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  Speaker 1: always said this, Hannah, and I think it's one of
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  Speaker 1: the best like things in my mind is that one
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  Speaker 1: day I'll be talking to my grandkids. I'll be sitting
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  Speaker 1: in a rocking chair in my front porch and they'll
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  Speaker 1: be like, tell me, because I do the same thing
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  Speaker 1: with my grandpa. My grandpa, and I'm always intrigued at
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  Speaker 1: the stories he has to tell and how different life
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  Speaker 1: was for him when he was in his twenties and
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  Speaker 1: thirties and teens. And I wonder what it's going to
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  Speaker 1: be like to have to explain what we did to
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  Speaker 1: those kids, and how shocking it's going to be that
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  Speaker 1: one like at one point in their life their grandparents
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  Speaker 1: were on a television show like I think that. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think it's ever gonna be like able to be processed,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm so excited for that moment. Yeah, it's really neat.
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  Speaker 1: And I think the people that go through this and
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  Speaker 1: they think it's all totally completely normal and not a
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  Speaker 1: big deal and they think that they're like ohed this
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  Speaker 1: or something. That's the ones where I'm like they're lost
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  Speaker 1: like that, you know, it's just like it is crazy,
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  Speaker 1: it's wild, and it's cool that we at least we
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  Speaker 1: like every day. We just try to find like the
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  Speaker 1: normal like side of it, which I think we do
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  Speaker 1: fairly well. We're pretty normal and which shows so we're
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  Speaker 1: pretty normal. Yeah. Well, before we passed over your doing
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  Speaker 1: uh handle, one of the parts that kind of get
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  Speaker 1: overlooked in your life oftentimes now because of the show
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  Speaker 1: is your uh success and your time spent in pageants. Now,
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  Speaker 1: that was something that we kind of glossed over that
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  Speaker 1: I didn't hear about when you're explaining your upbringing. So
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if you consider that a big part
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  Speaker 1: of your life or not, or if you still do.
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  Speaker 1: But I I assumed that the pageants is what brought
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  Speaker 1: you to l A and so obviously we've heard it
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  Speaker 1: that it wasn't, So just clear that up a little bit. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: there are definitely a lot of moments that I missed,
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  Speaker 1: But if I named all the things that got me
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  Speaker 1: kind of led me, I feel like this would be
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  Speaker 1: a too long of a podcast, but um, I definitely
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  Speaker 1: did some modeling things, which was introduced to me that
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  Speaker 1: was insane. UM, got some cool like marketing opportunities, and
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  Speaker 1: then within that, I was like, let's since I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: somebody who did pageants when I was really young, Um,
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  Speaker 1: some of the paget directors are like, yeah, why don't
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  Speaker 1: you get this a shot? And I was like, well why,
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  Speaker 1: like you know, another adventure pushed myself out of my
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  Speaker 1: comfort zone and um, and so I did that. I
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  Speaker 1: did three pageants and I think I got h and
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  Speaker 1: those I got third runner up, third runner up in.
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  Speaker 1: Then my last one, I got first runner up in
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  Speaker 1: Miss Congeniality, which I still stay think getting Miss Congeniality,
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  Speaker 1: which is like in pageant terms like where all the
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  Speaker 1: contestants like vote like who is like the friendliest? And
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  Speaker 1: I got that and I was like, Okay, this is
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  Speaker 1: pretty cool. And I did compete against Hannah Brown my
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  Speaker 1: final year, neither of us one that year though, and
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  Speaker 1: then moved to l A because I was like, you
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  Speaker 1: know what, I'm just gonna get out and be done
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  Speaker 1: with this whole Paget thing. It did teach me a lot. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I was just ready to like kind of determine my
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  Speaker 1: own destiny instead of like a few judges kind of
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  Speaker 1: doing it. So I was like, let me just get
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  Speaker 1: out and see how it goes. And um. Then the
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: next year I went to go watch the pageant and
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: the audience and handa around one, which in my head
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: I was like with the momo people when we watched,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: and for her, I was like, she's gonna win. She
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: seems so sweet that like she did it last year
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my gosh, like I totally
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: forgot because there's so many people to do it. Yeah. Well, uh, Hannah,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: I would tell you this. You and Hannah Brown are
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: two gifts from Alabama that has brought us a lot
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: of laughter, a lot of joy. Um, some would say tears.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: We've cried with you, We've laughed with you, and we've
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: also cried with your man sitting that's next to you
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: right now. Dylan. Um, Dylan, you are one of a kind. Uh. I.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: I remember the very first time I met Dylan, Uh,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: was that bachelor in Paradise and Wells Adams came up
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: to me. Wells is always just a great um friend
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: and big supporter, and he was down there and we
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: were at a wedding and he came up and he says, Hey, Ben,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I have somebody um pushing you as my favorite person
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: to come from the franchise. And I was like, who's
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: that has to be a girl? No, it's Dylan. He
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: goes this, Dylan guy is the nicest guy. He's funny.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: You guys would get along great. Um. And so Dylan,
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I'm pumped to have you on the podcast. I want
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: to hear though a little just an overview of who
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: you were coming up to the show, just so our
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: audience gets to know you outside of this crazy world.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: And then I know Ashley is going to dive into
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: who you became and who and what has happened during
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: your time on The Bachelor and Bachelorrett, But tell us
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: a little bit about what makes you you? Yeah, I
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: M I don't know. I feel like I had a
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: pretty typical upbringing. Like I grew up in Orange County,
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: went to school from like sixth grade to twelfth grade,
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: went to the same school, have like the same ten
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: best friends that I grew up with, like since I
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: was like twelve years old. Um, I had a girlfriend
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: pretty much a majority of college and then after graduating,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: moved out to San Francisco, worked at Morgan Stanley. UM
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: kind of was like similar to hand I was like
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: single for a while, and then my dad got diagnosed
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: with cancer. So I ended up kind of just like
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: reevaluating what was important in my life and just like
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: what Like I was sitting at my desk, I was
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: like what am I doing? UM, and my boss saying
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: like they were very supportive, but there was one day
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: where he's like, I can't give you time off for
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: Christmas if you're gonna go home giving And I was like,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: this is the dumbest conversation I've ever So then I
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: just got up and told him I was leaving and
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: quit and moved to San Diego like a week later.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: UM and my cousin and I had been going back
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: and forth at the same time about this idea we
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: had about you know, being able to work out, give
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: back UM and like redeemed personal things to like treat yourself,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: and so that's when we end up starting our company. UM.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: So the way that works is every day you work out,
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: you can donate a meal to charity, and each time
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: you donate, you get points and you can like support
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: local businesses and get like free drink saftizers. After doing
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: all that, I was in a relationship for like eight
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: or nine months and it was like not the healthiest
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: at all. It was actually very unhealthy. Um. Definitely pretty
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: bad breakup. Um. And then like a month or two
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: prior to that, my dad passed away. So I had
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: like a lot of things going on, and my mom
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: was like, why don't we go on vacation, Like, let's
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: just head out. And so in November we went to
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: the Maldives and I was like all right, I needed this.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: This was great. Uh. And then I got a message
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: on Instagram and I opened it and it was from
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: Lindsay Lyles and she was like, hey, mccasting producer for
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor in the Bacherette. I'd love to talk to
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: you about me on the show. Um. And I was
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: just like, I like laughed, and then I just deleted it.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: I was like no. And then I went out and
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: just like hung out with my mom on the beach
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: and after a few days, like you never believe, who
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: messaged me like on Instagram to try out for a show.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: And she was like who And I told her She's
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: like why not, Like it's it's She had like such
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: a funny line. She's like, it's nice to be invited
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: to the dance, even though you're probably not gonna go.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: And I was like thanks mom, thanks mom, um, and
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: so yeah, so then I was like all right, I
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: messaed her back. I was like, okay, I'm interested. We
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: FaceTime a few times and I did the whole weekend
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: in l a um and I just kept saying like, yeah,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: I don't think I'm gonna get it. It's kind of
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: similar to hand. I was like, yeah, I'm probably not
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: gonna get it, but it was fun, like it was
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: such a cool experience and uh. And then Natalie Chapty
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: called me in the shower, like while I was in
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: the shower, and I answered it while in the shower
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day and she was like hey, like we're
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: gonna You're gonna need to be here in like three weeks.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: And that's when I was like, holy this is and
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: so then and then since then, like we finished filming,
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: I was off the show for like three weeks and
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: then went straight to Paradise and My Hannah. So it's
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: kind of in like a whirlwind since then. You just
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: reminded me that today is the six year anniversary that
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I got the phone call from Casting that they were
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: interested in talking to me. It was on April Fool's
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Day and I had submitted my application nine months earlier.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's hilarious. That's so crazy. Wow that
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: this is a weird, really weird day, because like this
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: is like kind of like the day that it symbolizes
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: like everything changed. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, And so it was
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: like it was it was crazy for me. I remember
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: like getting out of the shower and looking at my
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: cousin and then just being like holy like and then yeah,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: about engaged. The craziest the craziest one was the night
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: the first episode of Paradise, Sara. That was like the
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: wildest moment for me. We can like talk about it
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: more later, but it's, uh, it's good to get to
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: that point. So I'm gonna pause you there. We now
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: know the high level details of what brought you and
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: Hannah to be who we are who we know today. Uh, Dylan,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: A couple of things I want to just kind of
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: clarify with you is, uh is what is the status
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: of kind of everything with work, with family? Uh? Now, um,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: can you just kind of catch us up for our
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: listeners who maybe don't know you well and who want
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: to kind of get filled into the details of everything
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: you spoke about. Can you just share with us? Yeah, no,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: no, no no, so I Um, I started the company with
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: my cousin a little over two years ago now, so
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: this I just went back to what I was doing
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: after the show. Nothing really changed me. It was kind
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: of just like going back to normal life. Um, So
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: still doing that full time. We've got we're growing pretty quickly.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: So we've got like five full time people now, which
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: is exciting for us. Um, My family is doing well.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: My brother moved down. We hired him actually, so he
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: works for us too. He's down here in San Diego.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: My mom's thinking about selling your house and moving to
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: San Diego. So, um, it's been good. It's been a blast.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean I have nothing with positive things
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: to say about the entire experience. So now all of
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: you are in San Diego. You are an entrepreneur. Your
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: business is thriving. Uh, I don't want to miss it, Dylan,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: And so where can people find uh your business? Just
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: before we kind of dive in with Ashley here, how
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: can people locate you and how can they kind of
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: follow that with that journey. Yeah, they, Um, it's an app.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: You can download it right now. Um, it's kind of
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: specific to San Diego at the at the moment, but
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: it's called Visor v I z er Um. But yeah,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: so we're we're opening it nationally hopefully in a few months. Here.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: We're working with World Central, Kitchen Um and Revolution Foods.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: But yeah, you can follow us on instagram Svisor app
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: via z r a pp. It's in my bio two
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: so but our website spies wrapt dot com. It's all
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: pretty pretty good. Yeah, well, thank you for sharing. I'm
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: sure we're gonna get into more details as we go. Hey,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: but let's take a break before I bring it over
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: to Ashley. I want to just take one break here
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: from our sponsors and we'll come back with Hannah and
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: Dylan during this in depth podcast with the almost famous podcast. So, Hannah,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: it sounds like you were a fan of the show
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: and Dylan, did you ever watch the show before being
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: on it? No, I've never seen it, um, like not once.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: So I had absolutely no idea what I was getting to.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I know, when they told me that I was going
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: on I like watched highlight tapes and then I watched
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: the first episode of Colton season and I picked, uh,
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Hannah or Cassie to win. Actually, so that was pretty funny.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: That is funny. Okay, So you watched the first episode
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: of Colton season because you wanted to see who was
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: going to be possibly your bachelorette. Yeah. Yeah, and I
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: wanted to see like what it was like because I
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: still had really no idea getting what. I saw a
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: lot of Chad Johnson highlights, um, okay, just like on YouTube. Yeah,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: and then I think there was like Top ten moments
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: and I like watch that and I was like, Okay,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: I kind of get it now. So how did you
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: feel when Hannah Brown was announced as the Bachelor and
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: not Hannah Gee, I was. I was pretty excited. I mean,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I had a few people that I was that I
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: was hoping it would be, um, Hannah Brown obviously being
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: one of them. But I just think when I got there,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: we didn't really have like any like connection really unfortunately,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Like both tried very hard, but it just like kind
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: of wasn't there. You were kind of like the Tanner
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: of your season where it seems like a great option,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: but the Bachelor, right, and you didn't have the most chemistry,
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: and then you became a big bachelor in Paradise star.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say a star, but okay, but like no,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, it was fun. I had I had
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: a great time, and I remember I left. I was
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: just like, that was an awesome experience. It was kind
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: of meant to be. I remember saying in um our
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: last conversation. I was like how. I was like, how
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: am I supposed to introduce you to my mom? If?
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Like we don't know anything about each other? And then
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I went and then I went home. Hannah, you were
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: a fan? Oh yeah, yeah, when did you start watching? Um?
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: I definitely watched Ben's season. Who's Who's before you? Before
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Ben season would have been a well well Chris souls
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: Is Bachelor's season and Caitlin's Caitlyn's Bachelor season. Yes, in
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: both of them. Do you know before that? I don't
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: know the order of me. It was around it's around
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: before that, like wam Pablo and Andy? Oh yeah, no,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: I watched Andy season. Um it was one of those
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: things like like the Monday like eat Chinese food with
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: my mom. It was just like one of like the
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: special like fun memory things, and then whenever I was
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: on it, she was like freaking out and lose her mind.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: It was like the sweetest thing ever. That was the
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: same thing with me and my mom. We would always
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: get delivery on Monday nights and watch The Bachelorette. So
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: my mom like it was just the highlight of her
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: life suiting me on the show, and it was a
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: joke that we always had. Um, how was your dad
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: about it, Hannah? My dad never watched the show before. Like,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: I don't think he realized the extent of how just
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: big thing it is for people. Was excited like for
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: me to just like go explore and you know, maybe
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: find something really great. Like he the most simple, simple
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: dude ever, So he was just like supportive and awesome
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: about it. I don't think he realized how big it was.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: And I took him to uh. I mean, he knew
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: the show was big and everything, but I took him
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: to a like a country concert because he loves country music.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: And instead of all these people going up to like
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: the country singers, these people were like lined up and
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: he was there with me, and I think like we
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: got on the car that I he was like whoa,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: it's actually crazy. I was like, yeah, you know, I
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: forgot to kind of say that, like it is kind
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: of wild, but it was with a show. There was
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: something There is something crazy about country concerts and Bachelor fans.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: So in between New Seasons and going to be on Paradise,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: there was a lot of m d M NG texting
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: even seeing each other in real life. As we know
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: that Blake came to see you down in Alabama, did
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: you and Dylan ever exchange any d ms? Because seeing
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: how Dylan was so taken by you that, you know,
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: immediately in Paradise, I would think that Dylan, you would
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: have reached out to Hannah. I don't know, oh you
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: it Dylan totally slid him ideas, which whatever. So here's
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: the thing now for the future, everybody's like this is
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: a giant no no obviously, and at the time everybody's
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: like like whatever, But then it's like, well, we're a
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: bunch of single people and like it's not really anything deep.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Is it just like friendly? How it's like Bachelor Nation
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: kind of weird stuff, And then um, yeah, apparently it's
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: a giant no no for any future people going on Paradise.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: Don't recommend just don't reply, and yeah, if you don't reply,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: do you think you're kind of screwing yourself over for
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: finding a partner in paradise at this point? What do
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: you mean if I don't reply? Yeah, Like it feels
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: like almost everybody goes in almost coupled up or like
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: knowing who they're going to ask on their first date.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I think people have ideas just because they've seen the show,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: or now with social media out there, they like see
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: kind of who the person is, or if they're like
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: a bad not a good person or whatever, and or
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: if they just simply think they're cute. Um. But you know,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: I think I looked at it way too simply in
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: the sense of just like you know, like, yeah, I
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: want to find some and there's no It was all
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: very just like you know, I'm not sure what's going
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: to happen and whatever, like very just like friendly comvos.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: But um, obviously, when they hone in on it on
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: a show that's only two hours you know, an episode, Um,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: then it looks like there was some master plan or something,
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: when truly it was just very he had a master
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: plan apparently, But there's nothing to be ashamed of. With
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: d m NG before the show. I think that you
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: guys are not together. I think we should celebrate that
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: and say that's wild, that's crazy, that's hilarious. But I
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: don't see I personally don't see any reason what either
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: of you did by messaging beforehand or whatever is wrong. Well,
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: we we did see each other beforehand. Oh you did
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: see each other beforehand. There was a group of people. Yeah,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: so you didn't go on a solo date, but you
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: went on like a group date. These were we were
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: in the same area as a few different people, and
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: I thought Dylan was just um. I think I was
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: just like, you know, playing it cool to like. It
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: wasn't like we're like, oh hey or anything weird. It
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: was just like And then after that, apparently he deemed me.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Where was this meeting? App can we hear where was
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: this group meeting? At? Was this? This was a group meeting?
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: We have to elaborate. So here's the thing about a podcast,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: is uh, like, everybody's gonna love you too. They already do,
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: but we have to make sense of how this all
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: came to be. You're you're in love. People are going
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: to be mad at you for being in love, Like
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: that's a good thing, that's a positive thing. So elaborate.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Where did you meet? How did it go down? Dylan?
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: You then slipped into the d M. You waited until paradise.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: We saw the turmoil and paradise leading up to this
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: moment that actually will ask you about. But where was
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: this meeting? It was we met in l A and
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: grabbed some drinks, some people. I gave her my I
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: gave her my sweatshirt. Smooth move. It was like my
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: favorite sweatshirt. It's actually like it was. It was like
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: the most thing I've ever spent money on my entire life.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: So like it was, well, it was just kind of cold,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: but it was like kind of weird, like it wasn't smooth.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: He was like, I was like, oh, it's kind of cold,
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: and it was. It was not a long ordeal like
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: the whole time. And I was like, it's kind of cold.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: He was like, well, do you want my sweatshirt? I'm
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: kind of hot and I was like uh. And then
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: in my head I was like, well, maybe he's like
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: trying to be nice. And I was like yeah, sure whatever,
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: and then I was like and then as soon as
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: we all said goodbye, yeah, nice sweashirt, which I didn't know,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: and he was like, you could just keep the sweatshirt
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: if you want, and I was like, uh no, it's okay,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: Like here you go. Thank you though, Like no, I
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: was like, notice, seriously, you could just keep it. It's all.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: It's all good. I was like, I didn't know what
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: I was doing was adorable. That is so cute. Can
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: you tell us where this happened and what other bachelor
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: lumps are present? Uh? I can't say the bachelor lums. No,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: it was. It was in l A. It was at
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: a hotel, like the restaurant bar, super casual. Okay, alright,
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: there's definitely creepy stuff. There's there's like you're making this
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: sound a lot bit bit of a bigger it sounds creepy.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: There's no creepy stuff. What do you mean You can't
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: talk about the bachelor lums that were there because we
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: don't want to put there. We don't want them to
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: be like, let me get in trouble. Fair enough, Well
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: they're fine, fair enough, They're definitely fine. It wasn't anything weird.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: It was like a very like front of friend then
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: in front of a friend, and we all just hung
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: and then it was a fourth person meeting. We talked,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: we talked about insider trading, and so that's why I
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: don't really want to get into it. Okay, alright, alright,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: I'll respect you and move on to actual Paradise. But
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: even since Paradise was so far away, you know, like
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: six months, it's been over six months since it was
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: done airing, I'm wondering if you now can tell us
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: what happened between you and Blake and that triangle of
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: love and like Tatia's involvement, anything that we didn't see
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: on TV that possibly would you know, make a lot
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: of sentence to us. Uh. I mean we didn't talk
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: like the the entire month we were there. That what
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: do you mean? I don't know, I'm I don't like, Yeah,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: is there is there stuff that happened in Paradise that
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: was crucial to your love story that we didn't get
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: to see. Well, I mean you didn't get to see
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: the time we hung out. Yeah, I think I think
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: the entire time basically I was trying not to get
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: in everybody's business, and I was talking to a producer
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: about like, you know, I feel like a little played
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Like basically, here's what's happened, and like, you know, I
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: but I don't feel like I should involve myself, like
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: just trying to be like what's the best way to
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: approach this whatever? And I was like, so who should
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: I like tell first, Like what should I do? And
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: then wow, that was while I had said that, they
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: somehow twisted it into somebody figuring out somehow without me
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: saying it. I'm not sure exactly how it happened. And
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: then people came up to me and we're like confronting me,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: like what the heck? And I was like, wait, this
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: is kind of in the works of me trying to
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: figure out a way to say this, but then it
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: looked like I was just being secretive and sketchy. So
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: basically in the interview rooms, I was like, well, here's
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: what's happening, blah blah blah, and I'm trying to figure
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: out ways to like tell people about it. And then
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden it was out there, and then
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: it was like why wouldn't you tell me? And I
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: was like, basically like dude, like I'm trying to figure out,
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: like what is the best time, Like what's the deal
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: with the situation. I don't know it was. I think
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: it was very confusing. Even watching I was trying to
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: follow that narrative. Um, I don't know. I feel like
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: you have to ask questions. Yeah, which questions do you
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: guys have? Like what did it seem like from you
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: guys perspective? Ashley is a a Bachelor in Paradise expert.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: I will tell you that she is really good at
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: understanding Bachelor Paradise because I've never been there and her
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: insight always helps me. From my perspective, it's this, this
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: is how I took it, and then I can throw
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: it to Ashley's Hannah, you were a hot commodity. People
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: wanted to get to know you. They were interested in
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: you in Paradise. Uh, people were intrigued by who you were.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: We knew that going in. We had even talked to
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: you about it. We said, oh, watch out for Paradise, Hannah.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: This is gonna get wild for you. Um. Dylan was
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: kind of like, uh, the sneaky pick, Like he was
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: the underdog that came in. At the end. We're like, oh,
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: this Dylan does super good looking, really funny, really nice guy.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I think he stands a chance, Like I think he
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: might win the girl here, And I think what I
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: felt like was it got so much so quickly for you, Hannah,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: that it felt overwhelming. Almost even watching as a friend
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: and a supporter was like, oh my gosh, there's no
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: right decision she can make here because everything is coming
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: down on her at once and there was no right
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: place to turn. That's how I took. So I think
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: what Ben is saying is how long did the Blake
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: drama last? And was there more of a conclusion to
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: it than we saw on air? Um, all of that
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: drama was probably a total three days? Oh wow. Yeah,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: so it seems like it was over a bunch of
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: different episodes, but I think total like that dramatic part
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: was honestly two to three days where I was just
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: like really stressed out because I was like, jeez, like,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: I feel like I could do zero right in this part.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Or maybe I just like suck as a person. I'm
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: not really sure, but all I know is that it's
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: not a good situation, and I just was like trying
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: to figure out ways to make it, uh like make
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: more sense to everybody or I don't know, it was
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: just really stressful. And then meanwhile, I didn't know that
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: people were saying really bad things and interviews about me,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: or not bad things, I mean just things that I
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: had never heard about myself before. And so I was
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: just going around like it wasn't a giant deal. It
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: was just more like yeah, like you know, I'm trying
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: to figure it out and then um, yeah, And I
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: didn't know about the whole like how like Kalen and
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: Blake had a bunch of drama at the same time,
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: very confusing, Like we knew about the stagecoach thing, but
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: from what I had heard before the show, because I
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: was like, that's kind of shady, I'm not sure like whatever,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: like just trying to like not really go in depth
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: about it. But he he literally was like, yeah, we
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: squashed it or you know whatever, and then it came out.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: So I was like confused. I was like, wait, was
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: he lying or was it worse? And then all those
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: crazy texts came out. It was just a big jumble
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: of crazy drama, and I was like, Okay, how can
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: I remove myself from like this type of drama? Like
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: I it was just kind of like going in trying to,
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: you know, figure out if I was going to like
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: keep somebody or date somebody and I somehow superly overly
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: got involved in a ton of drop. So now we
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: go to present day. Who do you dread running into
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: at Bachelor Nation events? Uh? A lot of people, I
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: would say, probably, if we're gonna be honest, Yeah, let's
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: just be honest. Yeah, a lot of people, but like,
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: no one we're going to name. Well, I mean, who
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: do you think? I think that you guys probably don't
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: want to run into Blake or Tasia. Uh. I don't
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: really have an issue with I don't like, do you
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: have an issue with I don't really have an issue
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: with that. We're cool now. I mean it's you know,
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: it's awkward. But like again, from like from what I
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: was perceived as on the show, I feel like Tayshaw
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: also could have been perceived to something else. So I'm
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: trying to take that into account, and I'm like, you
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: know what, I like, I don't really hold grudges. If
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: if we're all just confused and exhausted and not even
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: sure what any truth is at some point on the show,
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: then I need to give them a break. Um. So
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: I mean we're cool now, Okay, that's awesome. Um, you guys,
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: also you have like a group of friends from these
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: past two seasons of the Bachelor and Bachelorette that like,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: there's so many breakups and so much tension between so
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: many of them. How was your engagement party when you
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: had Hannah Brown with Jed and with Peter at the
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: same place. Uh, it was super fun. I don't think
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: anybody really interacted with each other, but it was actually
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: very peaceful. Um, there was so much going on and
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: people got there at different times and things like that. Um, Honestly,
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: I was so focused on having fun, and I think
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: everybody in a sense kind of had their group of people.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: So I don't think any weird paths were crossed, luckily,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: because that could have gone super downhill. But it was
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: really fun. I had so many friends from Alabama out there,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: del had friends from all over, so we were having
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: just as much funt, you know, fun with them as
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: we were with like our bachelor friends and stuff. So luckily,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: it was very peaceful. So you're good friends with Hannah
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: And did you help her get on the show? I
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: don't think she needed any help getting on that show
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: at all, but um, I definitely I had one of
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: the producers reach out when we took a picture together
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: or story or something, um last year and he was like,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: whoa is she single? Like you know? And I was like, hey,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know whatever, and um, she was in a
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: relationship and then they ended up breaking up. And when
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: I got back from Paradise, she was like, Hey, it's
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: kind of random, but remember when you asked me or
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I told her something when the producer asked me. I
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: was like, I was like, hey, I know you're in
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: a relationship. How funny like this, you know, producer from
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor asked about you. And she's like, oh, that's
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: funny whatever. And then um, after Paradise, she had like
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: after my Paradise, um, they had ended things and she
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: was like I kind of want to look into it.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe maybe not. And I was like
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: why not, Like just like see how it goes you
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: f it's your thing whatever, And um, I don't think
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: I helped her, but you know, she definitely put a
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: good word in. I definitely put in a good word.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: But you know, I think she definitely would have gotten
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: on the show regardless of me. I think you're probably right.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: So when she insinuates on after the final rose that
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Peter reached out to Hannah Brown during their engagement, and
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: you being friends with Hannah Ann and Peter and Hannah Brown,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: gotta know what you know about this not a whole lot. Yeah,
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really know. That was definitely news
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: to me, And I think it's also like at the
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: end of the day, between the three of them, I
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: guess it's like anybody's friends, like just because they're on
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: TV and so many people are invested in it, it's
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: like like my normal like my normal friends who haven't
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: been on the show back in Albetma or something, if
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: they had something weird going on, Like I don't, I
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: feel like it's totally my place to like hop in
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: or try to like get a bunch of clues. I
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: didn't even know that, um, Hannah and like had been
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: engaged or anything, so it was very hush, like I
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: just told her. I was like, I'm here to support
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: you in whatever ways, like you know, and I respected
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: it because you can't just be like proud for information,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Like there's more to a friendship than trying to like
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: figure out what happened on the show. So I was like,
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: I have your back, you know, just like let me
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: know if you are struggling with anything, or if you
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: just want to chat like as a friend and not
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: talk about bachelor stuff. So, um, that's kind of the
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: role that I played in it. And um, whenever some
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: spoilers came out, I just kind of reached out and
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, hey, like, you know, I'm here whatever,
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: and let's chat after So well, hey, we're all about
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: your nation. This has been one of the wildest seasons
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: I can remember. I kind of forgot Hannah that you
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: were so closely connected to Hannah An. I figured you
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: would know. You would have known that she was engaged,
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: but it's probably glad. It's probably good that you didn't,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: because the last few weeks would have been so confusing
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: because you go from being engaged to being broken up
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: to then seeing Peter. Um, I'm still in Chicago with Kelly.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Here is We've got breaking news as of today. Um, Dylan, Hannah.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: Actually let's take a break. We'll come back. Uh, and
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: I want to speak to the two of you about
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: who you are, where you're going, and what the future
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: looks like for the two of you as a couple
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: of We're back with Dylan and Hannah. G Uh. Hannah
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember this, but actually and
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: I talked about it often. You go down in the
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Hall of Fame as one of our favorite guests to
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: ever be on the podcast. Actually, do you remember when
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: we first head handed on right after her season got done. Yes,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: we are both in awe. Really yeah, we were both like,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I mean, we both were just taken back by uh,
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: how first off, how funny you were, uh, and how
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: kind of creative you were in your responses, and just
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: how easy you were to talk to. And then I
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: meet Dylan. Uh, Dylan, don't where You're sitting there and going, oh,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: it's always about Hannah, It's not Dylan. It's also about you.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: I meet Dylan a couple of times now, uh, and
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: you exude the same joy. I want to tell you this,
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: if anybody's out there listening to and I'm a big
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: fan of Hannah and Dylan. I've got to be around
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: them as a couple a few times, and and there's
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: this this infectious um I'm not gonna put words in
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: your mouth, but what I get out of being seeing
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: you tune relationship is there's just this deep, true friendship.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Do you mind speaking to that because I think when
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: people see you, they see you giggling, they see you
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: hanging on each other, they see you kissing. It like
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: sometimes like inappropriate moments, which is great when you see
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: it for a couple that's in love, but you also
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: have a friendship. Can you can you tell our listeners
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: what that friendship between who view is like? First of all,
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: thank you so much for saying that. That really means
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: a lot. Thank you. I thought you didn't like me
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: at first. All right, I can be I don't want
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: to play this game. You know I've liked you. You
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: know that that I enjoy your presence. They me a
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: little bit more. Jeez, all right, tell us about your friendship. Um,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know. We just like have the exact same
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: sense of humor. And I feel like from the moment
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: we met each other, we were like okay, like I
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: like hanging out with this person. And it's the way
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: we communicate. And we say this all the time, like
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: if we're just like chilling, you know, when you're just
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: like talking about whatever, like I we both always say
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: it back and forth. But I feel like Dylan is
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: like family, like the way that you talk about or
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: the way I talked about like my mom, my, dad,
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: my very best friend in the whole world. Like that's
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: the how I feel about Dill and I don't know,
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: it's really cool. It's a very safe space. Like anything
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I say, I'm like, you know what, like he I
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: can say anything around you, and we're so dumb when
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: we're alone. Yeah, we're just like whatever it comes to mind,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: we just say it and there's no holding back. And
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: then also just like you know, being a person there
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: besides you know, humor aside, really just when something's bothering
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: either of us. Um, I don't feel like I've never
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: felt once ever judged about feeling whatever way that I feel,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: even if it's possibly not rational or what. But it's
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: just like me feeling like the truest, truest form of me,
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: especially after you know, going through something so crazy like this,
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: nobody really gets a true sense of who any of
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: us are. I mean, they have a general idea, but
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: not truly. And um, it's pretty cool that Dylan like
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: knows who I am and I feel like he would.
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: It sounds so weird, but like he would know the
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: exact same soul of me at like five years old
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: versus now. It's just like the truest ras purest form
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: of me. It's so like gushy and annoying, but I
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: don't know how it's to explain it. It's like pretty cool.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: I think it's a fantastic explanation. Yeah, it's interesting. I mean,
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: do you think because you both are very funny people
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: and uh and Ashley, I'm gonna ask the same question
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: to you. But you know, we all have our experiences
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: on this show, and we all and again, the in
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: Depth podcast is not just to go back to the
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: show all the time, but it is such a critical
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: part of our lives and it's what brought you two together,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: and it's brought brought my co host and her husband together.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Do you think humor has helped helped you heal? Because
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: I imagine and and from my experience, there's damage caused
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: by um the emotions and the pains of the show,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: and then when you end up in a relationship and
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: now you know, I am engaged to Jessica, Like, there's
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: moments that the show is still aff our relationship and
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: we have to figure out ways to heal as a
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: couple from them. So for you, actually, I know you
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: had your pains obviously going through Batchel and Paradise, Hannah
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: and Dylan. We just recently have watched kind of the
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: struggles to get to the point you are. Has he
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: has humor helped definitely, Yeah, positivity, humor, trying to not
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: take it as so heavy, because I mean, it's a lot,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: and it's a part that not a lot of people
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: talk about. But knowing that you know something is added
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: in a certain way, or you just mess up, like
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: as simple it's just like or something doesn't go the
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: way that every single person in the world wants it to,
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: which that's not real life. It is on TV, but
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: not in real life. And it's just really heavy knowing
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: that millions of people are like slandering you or slandering
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: like you know, who you love so much and so deeply,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: and so it's really nice to be around somebody who
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: can kind of make light of it, make it not
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: feel so heavy. It's like whenever you're in a bad
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: mood and you watch a comedy show or a funny
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: comedy on TV, you're like, Okay, it's not that deep.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: Like that's a phrase that we'll just kind of like
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: guide you to feeling like it's not so heavy because
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: it does feel heavy when you know, even if you
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: turn it off or don't read it, you're like, wow,
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: people are thinking about that me right now, about or
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: those things about me right now, and that's hard. So Ashley,
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: what about for you and Jared? Like, how do you
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: heal after a batch? I mean, batchelorm Paradise brings on
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: its own drama, in its own weird circumstances. How did
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: you heal as a couple to get to the place
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: you know obviously you are well. I think it was
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: probably just because we were friends throughout that. I think
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: we always talked about if we were a couple, if
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: we left Bachelor in Paradise as a couple, that we
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: would have some real big up and downs. And we
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: think it worked out perfectly the way it was where
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: we didn't have to be in a relationship like a
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend or amantic relationship and we had to deal
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: with those hurdles. Did you guys coming off The Bachelor
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: in Paradise have any arguments about what was being aired
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: when like August and September came around. Were you like
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: blissful in July and then August and September you had
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: some fights while watching it? Back. I don't think we
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: had any fights, Like I knew pretty much, like we
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: just talked to the entire time in Paradise, so I
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: knew everything. So nothing was really a surprise to me. Um.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: And I didn't really watch like a ton in the
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: beginning because I was like, it's just pointless because I'm
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: gonna get mad and then like it'll end up hurting
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: our relationship versus being like more productive about it and
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: online Dylan is kind of like you know, Petty or whatever,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: it's like, okay, whatever, But but in in our relationship
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: he's very good at like really just take king out
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: all of the drunken focussing, focusing on like the rational
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: answer or the most supportive answer. Um. And that's what
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: we both kind of tried to do. And especially during Paradise,
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: like you know, you're watching and it hurts or whatever,
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: and then you see like the world is also saying
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: all these different things about you and stuff and things
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: that are so special to you, like and yeah, I
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: feel like we were pretty good about like communicating through it,
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: which something in some circumstances it's impossible to communicate about.
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: It's just like a weird like you know, whatever, but
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: in our space, it was you know, I think we're
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: pretty understanding about everything and like just making sure each
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: other we're good and holding on and getting through it. So, Uh, Dylan,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: I want to say, I want to switch gears for
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: one second, and I will go I want to go
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: back to the very beginning of this podcast and uh
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: and just allow you a platform to to speak because
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: I know and Ashley no knows that you two are
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: just your couple that is so much bigger than the
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: show now right, You're a couple that is forming this
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: this love and this partnership that will last a lot
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: longer in the show over will Um and then Dylan, Uh,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: you know you it's it's impossible for me to just
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: gloss over, which was my original intention, but it's impossible
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: for us to gloss over your story without wondering, like
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: what it's like to now sit here and all the
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: changes that have happened to you, good and bad in
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: the last ten years, bringing you to the manure today.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: Kind of if if you could just sit in that
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: for a little bit and just look back at even
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: the last like eight years of your life and how
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: much life has changed for you, Like what what words
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: do you have to wrap around that? Is? It? Is? It?
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: Can you even explain it? I think I, Um, I
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: take a lot of pictures and videos and I rewatched
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: them a lot, and I've got like they span back
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: like seven years essentially, and so Hannah can attest to it.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll just like sit on my phone and watch
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: old videos, um and like I have like voicemails and
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: my dad I'll listen to and like looking at pictures
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: like being back in high school. And and then I
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: take screenshots of stuff like when the show was airing
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: that I thought was just like like holy crap, Like
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: I'm trending on Twitter, like I took a screenshot of that,
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: like like stuff like that, and I just try to
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: appreciate it and and just like be like okay, and
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: and I my big thing is like appreciating that but
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: also living in the moment at the same time and
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: being like this is what I have today, Like how
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: can I take advantage of it? And I feel like
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: I was able to do that in a lot more
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: ways of my life first instead of like being on
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: the show, like whether that's like starting our app or
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: meeting Hannah and just being like, you know, what, I'm
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: gonna completely go for it and and I don't know,
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: it's it's definitely weird. It's very surreal. My mom and
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: I talked about it a lot. We're just like how
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: I always say like, wow, my dad would have thought,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: this is the funniest shiit of all time time that
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: these people are like taking pictures or like writing like
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: blogs or getting all up enough getting there. I don't
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: want to say when I tweet something like um, and
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: I just think it's so funny because I'm still these
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: quite literally the same exact person. And I think that's
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: something that's like the highest compliment that I think my
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: friends have given me since all of this started, because
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: I was always afraid of that. But uh no, it's
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: I'm just very like appreciative of it and and just
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: thankful for sure. Well go ahead, you go ahead. You
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: know it's a it could be a loaded question, um,
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: but twofold. So one is Dylan, how does your mom?
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: And Hannah, I would love for you to answer this
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: if you could, But how does Dylan's mom respond to you?
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: Because you're obviously a gift to their life? And then Dylan,
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: how does your mom respond to all of this? The
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: good and the bad at in all the funniness and
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: then finally as a couple and Ashley after this, I'll
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: let you kind of take it away as a couple. Then,
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: as we sit in the midst of uh self isolation
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: and Dylan, I think if anybody could speak to being
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: appreciative for the moments that we have, it could it's you.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: I want to I want to personally, um, as somebody
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: that does like you, has always liked you since the
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: moment I've met you, liked you. Um, I want to
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: hear your advice on how can we as a people
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: right now be appreciative for the things that we've lost
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: in the season that we're in, for the things that
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: we're gaining, and just the moments that we still have
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: in isolation. So okay, first question was, Hannah, how has
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: Dylan's mom responded to you? Dylan, how is your mom
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: responded to the whole thing? And then Dylan and Hannah,
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: if you have stuffed at him too, is how do
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: you find and and how do you just gain appreciation
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: for everything that's changing right now in our world? Um,
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: So something a lot of people don't know. His mom
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: and brother were actually flown to Mexico during Paradise and
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: I met them, um, and it wasn't aired. Um, so
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: I was very nervous to me um, Dylan's mom just
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: because he was like, she's a very strong woman, like
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: she's you know, protective over me, she loves me a
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: lot whatever. Um. But luckily our conversations flowed supernaturally, and
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: I was like, trust me, I get it, Like this
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: is a little taboo of a situation. But Dylan and
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: his heart and who he is and what he stands
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: for rocks and it's really compatible with me and you
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: know all this stuff. And um, as soon as the
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: show was over too, I luda Wisconsin to their lake
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: house and um, we really got to just hang out
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: a ton. And I love Cassandra Barbara. I think she's amazing,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: great human and um, really funny. She's hilarious. She's the
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: most selfless, caring person I think, I know, next to Hannah,
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: like the two of them. Um, yeah, that was funny.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: Like a side note for that story is Hannah. Hannah
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: left and then I like sat on the couch in
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: Mexico in Paradise and I put it was the day
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: before proposals, like put my feet up on the couch
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: and my brother was like, are you gonna get engaged?
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: And I was worry about it. Guys, don't worry about it,
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: like it's not gonna happen. And they leave and I
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: lean over to Todd and I was like, oh, yeah,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: we're doing it. Speaking of moments like that and the
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: sense of humor that you apparently inherited from your mom,
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: like you are such a funny, silly, sarcastic like shit stir.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: But on the show on Paradise, you came across as
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: this love sick puppy and we only saw one to
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: mention of you. Um, I'm still love sick puppy. That's
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: so cute. That's so cute. I think like with that,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: I was definitely I. I didn't really do anything the
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: first week, Like the first week I didn't drink alcohol.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: I was like hundred cents over. I would wake up,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: go eat breakfast and be like, Okay, I gotta get
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: to know this Hannah girl. And then kind of after
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: that I started being a little more mischievous, and then
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: I've just obviously continued being like like my my mom
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: is is very good at being like, you know, Dylan,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: maybe you should like shouldn't up said that, or you know,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: like maybe you should say something like that, that kind
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: of stuff. And I think that's why she's like she's
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: just the best. She helps me, like in terms of
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: responding to all of this, Like she keeps me grounded
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: for sure, if I get too worked up about something
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: or I like take something too lightly. Um, she's always
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: good at playing Devil's advocate. Like it's not just I
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: think it's an echo chamber wind or whatever it is. Um,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: we're like she disagrees with everything I say, like ent
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: the time, she actually contradicts it, which I think is good.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: But she's also like understanding, and how's my back no
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: matter what, Like if stuff gets like I don't really
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: get any like hate like that much, but like when
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: it does, I feel like it's just like some people
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: can be like really fucked up. Um. And so she's
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: always good at at getting my back when it comes
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: to that kind of stuff. So, but she also just
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: like takes it in. I think my family didn't really
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: get exposed to it until maybe we were at the
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: We're at this like polo match and people just kept
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: coming up to Hannah and I and that's when my
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: mom was like, I think really understood how big of
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: a deal it was gonna be. Um. And then like
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: when Kennell Jenner like posted us on her story, I
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: think that she was like, wait, people actually watched the show.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: I was like, yes, mom watched this show. UM. So No,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: she she's been. She's done really well. I know she
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: kind of like me where she'll call people out on
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: social media, which I'm like, Mom, I he maybe you
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing that. Um. But no, she she's been. Absolutely,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: she's just been like the best. She's my rock. So yeah,
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: very appreciative. I uh, you know, Dylan, I'm not shocked
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: that you, you know, the as Ashley said, You've always
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: been funny. You do stir the pot, which in like
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: a healthy good way. I'm saying that in like a
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: healthy funny way. Uh. And to tell your brother and mom, hey,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to engage and then lean over to
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: one of the producers just really does feel like you Dylan. Um.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: I know that was a great answer about you know,
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: handing your relationship with Dylan's mom, which is really cool
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: to see. I wish they would have showed that in Paradise.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: I think it would have added a depth to your relationship.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: But uh, maybe it wasn't needed. But Dylan again, I
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: come back and Hannah, please add in where you can
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: and where you want. Um, during this time of craziness, Uh,
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: how do we find appreciation? How do we enjoy these moments? Yeah,
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: I think you're never like won'll probably never have an
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: experience like this again, hopefully for the rest of our
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: lives where everybody is just like quarantined to their house,
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: you can't leave, you don't have pretty much any distractions. Um.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: And so at least we've been trying to like I
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: try to talk to my mom every day, talk to
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: my brother every day. UM, like texted my friends because
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: I've never I've been playing a lot of video games,
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: but that's like that's like with my my friends that
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: I never get to see or like I never get
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: to talk to, which is like kind of been. It's
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: been really really nice to like reconnect with everybody. Um.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: And then just I think one thing, like my cousin
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: and I were talking about, which I thought, like for
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: a business perspective, it's always good, but personally, I think
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: it's even better as we're focusing on like what can
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: we work on now that when this all gets hopefully
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: back to normal or like relatively back to normal, that
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: will be better for it. And so I think that's
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: just like kind of what we're figuring out, whether we
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: want to learn something new, UM, that's like Hana and
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: I were talking about, like learning a language or something
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: like that, UM, and just something like that. So like
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: finding the silver lining and everything is is something that
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: we're just trying to focus on. And then like what
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: you said earlier, UM, it's very rare like that we
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: can all spend this time without having to travel and
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: everything like that, just simply together and to have those
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: moments of quietness or boredom, and that's really rare and
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: all of our lives in everybody's life. And then on
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: the other side of that, it's just like trying to
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: find a way to kind of use these platforms to
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: ah to possibly make a difference through all of it.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: I was talking to somebody this morning actually about you
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: know what I can kind of do um to either
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: bring awareness or to make change in somebody's life, because
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: a lot of people are laid off right now, a
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: lot of people don't have jobs, a lot of people
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: have families and that's huge. I mean as much as
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: as much, you know, as much as it sucks to
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, I'm bored hanging out at the house,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: Like what am I gonna do for thirty more days?
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: It's like there's people that are actually struggling with it
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: wiser having you know, with the kids not having meals
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: at schools and things like that. Like that stuff is
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: pretty wild, And I know a lot of people are
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: starting to like hop on the bandwagon. I'm trying to
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: make a difference, But I know we're in the early
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: stages of talking about like trying to figure out things
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: that we can actually do too. You know what the
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: two of your earth spot on. And I know, uh,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: I know that the two of you come from a
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: place right now. Where As we were prepping for this podcast,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: I was like, I wonder what kind of ridiculousness these
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: two have gotten into as they've locked in their houses.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: I can imagine it's a lot of cuddling, a lot
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: of kissing, uh, and not like your makeout kissing, like
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: they do do this thing where like they put their
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: arms around each other and they just like nuzzle. I
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: would say, at least I've seen the nuzzling and they
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: laugh a lot. I know there's a lot of joy
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: in that house. But thank you for sharing that, because
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: I think it's been the message that I've heard that
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: stuck the whole time is, Uh, we all have something
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: to do in this moment, and we can do something. Uh, team,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: let's take one more break. When we come back, Ashley
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: is gonna just wrap up and fire some questions and
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: some topics at you. Uh. We'll be back with Hannah
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: and Dylan on the Almost Famous In Depth podcast. I
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: know that you guys said last month, but you are
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: not in the wedding planning phase right now. You don't
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: have a date, you don't have a time. Does that
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: still stand? We're moving closer to it. I think now
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: it's kind of like made an interesting time because we're
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: like we're stuck in the house. We're like sending locations
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: to each other back and forth. Um, but a lot
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: of weddings are getting pushed out, so it's like we
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: have no idea how much longer it's just gonna go
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: because everybody already has those locations signed. So like we're
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: not really sure what it looks like, but we're like
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: we're starting it for time off has definitely made it
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: like a topic that can come up, you know what
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: I mean, It's like, oh, what should we talk about
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: right now? And it's like, well, that would be fun,
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: but we're also not like again super rushing. Also, we're
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: looking at oh houses, we've been looking at houses for
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: fun out here, so we could possibly move in together
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: at some point, but we're not sure when. But it's
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: like kind of fun to like look and get an
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: idea of what the just is. So, Hannah, you moving
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: to San Diego right Maybe? I don't know, though he
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: looks like he's celebrated. He's won this debate in the roof. Yes. Um,
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: even though you're not planning the wedding right now, what
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: do you see the wedding to look like? Is there
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: a theme? Is there an amount of people that you
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: think is ideal? Yeah? I think having carnival games is
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  Speaker 1: really important and elephants. Now, I think I think it's
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  Speaker 1: going to be We learned from the engagement party, like
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  Speaker 1: we tried to keep it really small and it still
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  Speaker 1: ended up being what felt like a hundred people, So
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  Speaker 1: I think the wedding is going to be like at
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  Speaker 1: least like three to five hundred people because it's just
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  Speaker 1: like there's there's how how many are you? That's serious? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think we'll have at least three hundred people. So
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: we had a max capacity so that the max was Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think we'll have at least during My parents had
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  Speaker 1: like like three four d people at their wedding. Holy Moley,
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be black. I don't know. We gotta we gotta,
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  Speaker 1: maybe we can. I'm not excluding anyone like that are
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  Speaker 1: my friends. I feel like some of my friends didn't
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  Speaker 1: get to make it, which is like sucked. But I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't think about we had all those people.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't invite my aunts, my uncle's, my cousins. I
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: didn't invite any of those people like they would come
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  Speaker 1: to the weather. We'll probably do like a one to
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  Speaker 1: two hundred. What do you see it looking like? Is
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: it gonna be modern? Is it gonna be boho? What's
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  Speaker 1: your dress gonna look like? Hannah? I want to blow
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: Dylan's socks off the water? I want to know is
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: that what is that the phrase blow the socks off
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  Speaker 1: the water? I think it's just blow your socks off? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what water? Like? So you did good though, you did good.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't always talk it off and I wanted to
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: have no clue. Um, I don't even know what I
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: like honestly, Like I feel like I always have such
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  Speaker 1: a specific idea, but I've like dressed up so much
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  Speaker 1: that I kind of want to just like put one
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  Speaker 1: on and be like, oh, like I love this. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, I don't. I don't want to be too
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  Speaker 1: picky because I know myself and if I have one
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  Speaker 1: image in my head and I don't like get that,
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: then nothing's to be good enough. So okay, so you
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: don't want to date dream about it too much. I
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: went through to be greenery, some sort of greenery and
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: and somebody of water. Do you foresee any bachelor people
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  Speaker 1: being in your bridal parties? Is that like like the
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: bachelor party in Baschador at party like that, or being
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: like a groomsman being a groomsman or yeah, bridesmaid? Uh
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  Speaker 1: maybe I have ten spots already spoken for essentially from
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: like the guys that I grew up with, So like
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: if Hannah could come up with like fifteen bridesmaids, then yeah,
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: but other than that probably not. Okay, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I think it's just going to depend on how
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  Speaker 1: many like spots we have, because I have so many
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: like O G friends and then like relatives friends. So
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: we'll see, do we foresee Hannah be and Tyler being
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: dates to this? Wady? Um? I don't know. I don't
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: know what why? Why do you say that? What's happening
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: with them? I don't know. It seems like they're spending
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: a lot of time in quarantine together? Oh they are
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: where in Alabama? No? I think it's Florida. Tyler lives
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: in Florida. Alright, alright, alright, moving on. Are you guys
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  Speaker 1: ready for rapid fire? Yes? Fire away? Please? Who makes
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: coffee in the morning? Y? Forehand? D he brings it
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: to me in bed? I don't drink. Who's a better cook? Depends?
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: Hannah is really good at breakfast. I'm really good at dinner.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: But she did make chicken crock box tacos the other
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: night that was also really good. Favorite thing to postmates?
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: Um takaya. I love takaya. Oh I love the guy takaya?
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: Or um? True food? Okay, I don't know. True food?
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: Is that a San Diego thing? Now? It's like West
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: Coast Arizona. I think they might have one in d C.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: They're pretty good. What are your love languages? Physical touch,
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: words and information? I'm words and what is the other one?
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: I can't think? Acts of service? Yeah, acts of service?
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: What are you? I'm the exact samist as Dylan. He yeah, yes, yes,
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I need you to initiate the touch with me.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: Do you want? I was like, it doesn't count if
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: I initiate the touch with you or just stand there
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: and I'll just like hug on to you. I know,
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: I like pet him like an animal all day. I've
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: been doing. I do this to Hannah, like rub her
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: head to fall, like so she falls asleep. Anytime I
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: need to fall asleep. I mean, I don't know how.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: We always talk about it. He'll rub my hair until
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: I fall asleep, and then you think it's okay and
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: then I can go to sleep. And I'm not even
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: like rub my hair. He just does every night and
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: it's the best in the world. I love getting petteds
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: That is super adorable. Yeah. I give so much physical
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: touch to Jared. I'm like, I touched his beard, I
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: touch his bag. It's like everything everything. What are what
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: are what are Jared's Jared's is definitely active acts of service,
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: which she hasn't learned until like lately, Um, I think
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: that I give him all love, like which is so
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: completely couldn't even figure out what I did. And then
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: like he started thinking about like he was like, well,
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: why don't you take the dog out more? And why
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: don't you do the dishes? Why are you leaving the
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: dishes in the sink? And then I was like, oh,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: this man is an act this guy. Yeah, So, speaking
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: of those pet peeves, what are yours about each other? Um,
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: I don't have any. She's perfect faith answer. Come on,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: it's not it's not a I feel like a pet
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: peeve hasn't connotation, but like, yeah, yeah, what's like an annoyance?
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: What really pisces you off? No? When Hannah has so
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: much going on that if I like add one thing,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: then the wheels fall off. Sometimes, like last night, I
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna go pick up the food. Would
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: you mind picking a movie that we could watch? And
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: then I get back and I was like, what movie
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: were you watching? She's like, well, I haven't picked yet.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: But I showered, I cleaned up, I did the dishes,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: and I folded the laundry, and which is all very good,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: Which is all very good. I just have a very
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: I have a very busy itinerary, if at not always
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: the right time. Like as soon as I do something,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I should mark mark off all of
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: these other things first, and then I don't get to
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: what I'm doing. Sometimes. But but we watched Insidious is terrifying.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: And my biggest pet peeve is probably, um, yeah, what's
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: your biggest pet peeve? Um? Oh? That you? Okay, here's
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: one that you always want me to bird with you.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: But birding scares me. Birding seems very scary. And he's
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: always he has one. I have one. So it's like
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: he's like, let's hop on the bird and go here,
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, let's just drive together, the two
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: of you on the same bird. We do it all
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: the time. Freak me out. I don't really enjoy it
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: a lot. Excuse me. What's the last gift you gave
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: to each other? Um? What? Uh? What is the last
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: gift I gave you? Like a wrapped gift for like yeah,
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: sort of, or a surprise a treat. I don't know
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: what did you surprise me with? Well? I just ordered
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: you a circle mirror on Amazon. That's true. Yesterday in
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: the circle mirror for the house, and it was going
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: to be a surprise, but then I ended up just
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: telling him that I got it. Um more acts like
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: Hannah was like I don't have tools to hang up pictures,
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: so that I just like would order tools to a house. Yeah.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: I told him like this one candle. I was like,
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: it smells like like my house to me right when
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: I got to l A and I was like, yes, candles.
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: He literally he was like okay, well, and then the
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: next day he was like look outside and he got me.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: He completely stopped you with those candles. And I literally
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: started bawling crying because I was like, oh my gosh,
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: like so scared about being in l A and everything,
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: but he just like sweet things like right when it
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: right when I need it. That is so so cute.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: What is the last show you guys Bringe watched? Do
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: you guys guys think it's asked crazy? I mean, I'm
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: not done with that. It's all two episodes left. Do
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: you think it was just as good as everybody's making
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: it seem? Well? I mean, so you're only what I mean,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: your foe end the ending is the ending. Like the
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: last two episodes I think are pretty good. Okay, cool
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: because that's what I've got her husband to a tiger
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: like that. That was the episode that got me the
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: most so far. Yeah, that one that definitely happened. I
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: can't wait untill they make them. Hopefully they make a movie.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: Well you know that they opened the investigation. Oh I
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: stoked about that. I hope they're filming. They have to
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: film that. They filmed, they filmed it. They didn't touch
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: on this. I wish they did. The guy filmed the
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: documentary for five years. All that stuff went over the
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: course of like five years. I'm pretty sure, like all
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: of the thing because Joe Exotic was not in jail
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: when he first started filming exactly. That's what I'm saying. Like,
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: and are they say it like the very beginning, He's
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: like four years there something like that, And I was like,
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: you should have talked about that more like this is insane.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: My last question for you. I normally wouldn't ask a
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: couple because I usually the girl would be a given here.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: But I know that Dylan loves his suits, So who
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: has more closet space? Where? I mean, who like takes
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: up more closet space, Like who needs a bigger closet
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: When you guys get a house together, I mean it's yeah,
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: I mean he for a guy, I think it definitely
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: has a lot of clothes, But mine is it's it's
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: indicated to your clothes. Hannah, do you have a whole
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: room dedicated to your clothes? I need to Yeah, you
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: need a glamorom like me. It's oh wait, I want
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: to see pictures of your glam room. I'll send you
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: some video after some Yeah, okay, I've got to figure
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: that out. And I'm also trying to like declutter, so
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: I'm always trying to get rid of them and like
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: donate all of my clothes. I did eight bags the
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: other day and my clothes still packed. But yeah, I've
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: got to hook up for you in that case too.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: All Right, Well, you guys, thank you so much for
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: participating in a Rabid Fire. This was another really great
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: in depth podcast. As we've mentioned before, we met Hannah Ashley.
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know how long ago, a year so a
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: year ago, and she was in the Hall of Fame
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: of guests. People loved her than Dylan has brought joy
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: and laster to our lives. Since then, they've joined us
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: during a crazy week UM and share their hearts with us. Ashley,
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: you're awesome. You're awesome. UM. I hope you're continuing to
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: thrive in the midst of some chaos. We heard some
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: dogs barking earlier. Say hi to the pups for us. UM. Yeah,
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: I know. Hey, uh team. We'll be back next week
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: with another episode of the Almost Famous podcast. With that
• 1:20:06
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