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'Puffer- Fishing' Is the Latest Dating Trend · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: Puffer fishing is the new thing when it comes to
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  Speaker 1: dating trends.
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  Speaker 2: Are you a puffer fish? Are you guilty of it?
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  Speaker 1: Basically, it's when someone starts to lash out or pull
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  Speaker 1: away the second they feel vulnerability.
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  Speaker 2: I think I have done this before, Like.
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  Speaker 1: You're in until you're starting to feel something, then you back,
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  Speaker 1: you puff yourself up, back out because for whatever reason,
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to share that vulnerability. The problem is
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  Speaker 1: the problem, and I think Neat you were reading about this.
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  Speaker 1: The problem is when you are with a puffer fish,
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  Speaker 1: you kind of want to react to the puffing of
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  Speaker 1: the fish, the puffering, but you're not supposed to.
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  Speaker 2: You kind of gotta let them puffer fish out. Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: They come back in and.
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  Speaker 1: Share that vulnerability with you, and the wall comes down right.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. You don't want to come at them and
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  Speaker 3: be like are you mad at me? Like that type
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  Speaker 3: of vibe, that energy is not going to work with
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  Speaker 3: a puffer fish.
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  Speaker 2: You'll let him do it.
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  Speaker 1: Now. I think we've all sort of puffer fished a
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  Speaker 1: little bit. I mean, I'm afraid it's just like why
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to have you know, I was nervous
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  Speaker 1: about having a dog I was nervous for having a
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  Speaker 1: dog because the vulnerability.
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  Speaker 2: They love, and then the lifespan.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to I don't want to see the
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  Speaker 1: lifespan ever end. And I think with relationships sometimes it's
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  Speaker 1: that way. You don't want to give yourself because if
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  Speaker 1: it's never worked out in the past forever, you know
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  Speaker 1: that it's gonna end, and that hurts until.
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  Speaker 2: You puffer fish out. Yeah, we see it.
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  Speaker 1: You can't see it on radio, but you can see
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  Speaker 1: it online on air
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  Speaker 2: With Ryan Seacrest,