
The Achievement Trap: Performance vs. Personhood
Achievement looks like a gift until it becomes the thing our kids use to prove they matter. We name the achievement trap and lay out a simple way to anchor identity in something that can’t be taken away.
• identity crises that hit when grades, awards, or starting spots disappear
• horizontal worth built on approval and why it feels like a roller coaster
• how parents accidentally teach conditional love through pressure and reactions
• achievement turning into an idol and why it’s so sneaky
• vertical worth rooted in creation and redemption
• Jesus’ invitation to rest and why performance…
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