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Billy the Kidd in the Morning: A Guy Calls Out Parents For Being Way To Soft on Kids .. Wait til' You Hear Why! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: D FW. It's time to welcome.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome, mean you'll need the care The Kid July the
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  Speaker 2: Kill You Leave The Kid in the Morning, starring the
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  Speaker 2: One and Only Kandae Lopez and producer Pooh. Really a
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  Speaker 2: Kid in the Morning, Life and Lowgolf, Really a Kid
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  Speaker 2: in the Morning.
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  Speaker 3: Monday by day, Monday, and it's a holiday Monday. So
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  Speaker 3: Happy MLKA Day. It's Yes, Nix's one o two point
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  Speaker 3: nine Billy the Kid. Candace Lopez is here, Producer Pooh
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  Speaker 3: is here.
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  Speaker 1: What's up?
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  Speaker 4: Hey, I'm happy to be here today, guys, because you
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  Speaker 4: will note, yes, my Christmas tree has been down.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, my Christmas decorations have been down for all. But
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  Speaker 5: you know what was not down?
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  Speaker 1: Your spirits?
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  Speaker 5: Now that too, but Christmas cards.
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  Speaker 4: I finally put away my Christmas cards, and I realized, like,
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  Speaker 4: I love getting Christmas cards so much. That's where I'm
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  Speaker 4: at my life, where they just make me so happy.
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  Speaker 4: To see your little family all dress up together in
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  Speaker 4: the field.
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  Speaker 3: You know how I know you're fully grown up and domesticated. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: because you actually put your Christmas cards up.
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  Speaker 1: Where do you put them up? What do you mean
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  Speaker 1: you put them up?
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  Speaker 6: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: No, I put them away I should say they were
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  Speaker 4: up Where.
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  Speaker 1: Do you put them? Where do you put them up?
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  Speaker 5: I just put them. Oh, I put them in a
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  Speaker 5: zip hoc bag. And I'm saving them.
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  Speaker 1: I know. But Kennis, where are you putting them?
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  Speaker 5: See you in the living room?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god? Oh, we like around on top of
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  Speaker 1: the fireplaces stuff, kind.
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  Speaker 4: Of like we have three big windows in our living
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  Speaker 4: room right at the fireplace, the couch kind of right
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  Speaker 4: behind the couch, and.
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  Speaker 5: They were just kind of there. And I just love
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  Speaker 5: seeing all the.
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  Speaker 4: Kids and you know, yeah, it just made me so
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  Speaker 4: happy this year to get.
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  Speaker 1: All the Christmas and then you actually save them.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I save them.
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  Speaker 1: Oh boy.
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  Speaker 5: Well.
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  Speaker 4: We went over to Eric's ant's house over the holidays, right,
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  Speaker 4: and she had cards from like ten years ago and
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  Speaker 4: you could see all the kids when they were.
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  Speaker 5: Little, and it was so cute. And I just thought,
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to organize my Christmas cards this year. That
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  Speaker 5: way next year I can pull them out and be like.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, are you really going to do that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: I probably will.
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  Speaker 1: I've dreaming of a real white Christmas.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I can be like, oh.
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  Speaker 3: No, it is very cute. It's just funny to me
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  Speaker 3: because we're just on different planets. Yeah, if I get
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  Speaker 3: If I get a Christmas card, get a Christmas card
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  Speaker 3: from somebody, I don't get it till after Christmas because
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  Speaker 3: I don't check my mail. I'm like, oh, they sent
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  Speaker 3: me Christmas card. Who are these kids? That's my first thought. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: they're grown by the time he checks them.
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  Speaker 1: I get.
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  Speaker 3: I got a Christmas card from someone and I had
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  Speaker 3: no idea who was, pictures of their kids everything. Someone
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  Speaker 3: from California. Oh, I have no idea who it is.
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  Speaker 3: And it was addressed to me. I hope your son's
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  Speaker 3: doing well. I'm like, appreciate it. Who are you? It
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  Speaker 3: was so weird. I just had no idea. Someone named Mark,
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  Speaker 3: But merry Christmas Mark.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it did.
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  Speaker 3: Time to take your christ mister cards and lights down.
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  Speaker 3: But people in my neighborhood till I'm up. But it
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  Speaker 3: doesn't bother me anymore. I'm past that. I don't care
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  Speaker 3: if it's you know, what is it? January nineteenth, obviously
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  Speaker 3: MLK Day. Keep it all up if you want, if
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  Speaker 3: it makes you happy, keep it up all year.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care. Producer PreO is here. What's up Bill? Y'all?
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  Speaker 7: Y'all want to know the place to really people watch
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  Speaker 7: if you're bored. On a Sunday, the Apple eye Store
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  Speaker 7: in the Gallery call Galleria Mall.
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  Speaker 1: I was there yesterday. Ample Eye Store, the Apple Store. Sorry,
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  Speaker 1: what's an Apple Eyestore'm sorry?
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  Speaker 7: The Apple you know? The Apple store in Garria. I
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  Speaker 7: was there yesterday. I watched couples getting to fights like this.
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  Speaker 7: One girl was trying to get into her boyfriend's phone
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  Speaker 7: and he wasn't there and she was like, well, it's
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  Speaker 7: on my account, and the tech was like, I'm sorry, he.
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  Speaker 1: Needs to be here.
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  Speaker 7: He has to give you the past code. It was
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  Speaker 7: so much fun because my son was I was trying
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  Speaker 7: to get his phone fixed and he was walking around
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  Speaker 7: the all with Gallerria.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's wrong with the phone? Oh, Paul lost it.
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  Speaker 7: He forgot his pass code and then it kept glitching
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  Speaker 7: all pooh stuff because you don't have to go into
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  Speaker 7: a store.
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  Speaker 1: Only Poo does this kind of stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Was like so old school where he wants to show
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  Speaker 3: up at the Apple Store to fix something that you
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  Speaker 3: don't even have to go in.
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  Speaker 1: I got a suryon. I got that. I paid it
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  Speaker 1: in the ten dollars a month. I went into the store.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, Yeah, I got a sure password.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, he forgot.
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  Speaker 1: Who's a Surion, that's the issue.
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  Speaker 7: No, sur No, it's a Shurion the insurance. Come yeah,
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  Speaker 7: if you have T mobile, you have a Surion.
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  Speaker 1: It's an insurance.
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  Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah.
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  Speaker 7: But ten dollars a month. You pay ten dollars a month?
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  Speaker 7: What is it your phone? What to do in the password?
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  Speaker 1: He forgot?
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  Speaker 7: He forgot it for digit pass code and he couldn't
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  Speaker 7: get in his phone. So I took it in there
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  Speaker 7: and they had to go jail break it or whatever
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  Speaker 7: to get in it. And the screen was cracked and
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  Speaker 7: I got that replaced as well.
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  Speaker 5: Wow, that's really need to get the screen.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you take that to like a you know,
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  Speaker 1: a little mom and pop. No, if you have I tried.
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  Speaker 1: I tried to that.
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  Speaker 7: I tried to do that and it ended up glitching
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  Speaker 7: later on. You're glittering, Yeah, So I was like, let
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  Speaker 7: me just take it to the store.
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  Speaker 1: Did you get a software update while you were in.
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  Speaker 8: I phone?
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  Speaker 4: Did the Apple update over the weekend? I absolutely hate it. Yes,
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  Speaker 4: I hate the bubbles.
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  Speaker 5: I don't like I need to get and go back
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  Speaker 5: to that.
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  Speaker 3: Why why am I so mad about it? I just
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  Speaker 3: thought it was me because I'm grumpy. No, but I'm like, why,
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  Speaker 3: I don't want liquid bubbles.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want everything bouncing around on my screen?
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  Speaker 1: Just up.
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  Speaker 4: I don't need a transition when I'm trying to flip
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  Speaker 4: from email to tag.
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  Speaker 1: You transitioning?
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  Speaker 5: No, you don't like you know what do you do
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  Speaker 5: a videos like? You can pick a transition.
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  Speaker 1: And whatever you do?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, oh my god, I.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like it either, So I Sureian hooked you up. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I got everything fixed tens a month. Bro.
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  Speaker 5: It sounds good.
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  Speaker 1: She cool, She does sound cool. It's not a girl,
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  Speaker 1: It's just how do I get to the gallery? Tough
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  Speaker 1: stories on the Tents with Billy the Kid in the
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  Speaker 1: morning only.
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  Speaker 5: On the New Mix one O two point.
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  Speaker 1: Nine, right and early on a holiday, on a Monday.
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  Speaker 1: We're here though, we're here, Canna slow pas Now, we
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  Speaker 1: are here. We are thriving. What's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Well, it's cold outside, guys. We do have a cold
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  Speaker 5: front moving through this morning.
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  Speaker 4: We'll get back up to the mid fifties for a
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  Speaker 4: high today, then back below freezing tonight.
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  Speaker 5: You know what happened to us yesterday?
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  Speaker 4: Well, we looked outside and realized that the sprinklers were
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  Speaker 4: still on at my house, so everything froze.
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  Speaker 5: There was ice on the sidewalk.
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  Speaker 4: Into ran out to like feel the grass and like
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  Speaker 4: it is underwear basically just to.
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  Speaker 5: See if it was icy.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah, we're gonna have rain chances by Wednesday, then
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  Speaker 4: another cold front for the weekend. I'll give us a
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  Speaker 4: potential for wintry weather by Saturday.
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  Speaker 3: I saw that like ninety chance of rain and it's
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  Speaker 3: getting down to like twenty one yea, so everything is gonna.
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  Speaker 4: Freeze, yes, freezing rain, sleep, most likely snow is possible
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  Speaker 4: along the Red River. It's thirty five degrees right now though,
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  Speaker 4: So just to heads up.
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  Speaker 1: Do you see it snow in Florida?
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  Speaker 3: No, it snowed the other day, like two days ago
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  Speaker 3: or what in destin Florida.
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  Speaker 5: No kidding.
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  Speaker 3: It was snow on the beach and I'm like, this
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  Speaker 3: has to be from last year. And then I googled
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  Speaker 3: it and I'm like, no, it's snowed. It didn't last long,
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  Speaker 3: but it's snowed. It's stuck to the ground for a minute.
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  Speaker 1: That's amazing, melting quickly. But I'm like, we haven't had snow,
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  Speaker 1: but Florida's.
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  Speaker 5: Getting snow right.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what's going on this weekend, you know
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  Speaker 4: where it's Monday, but we're looking forward to the weekend, guys,
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  Speaker 4: we'll see I thirty has been reopened this morning after
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  Speaker 4: being shut down for construction. So this is part of
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  Speaker 4: course of the I thirty Canyon project, that big project
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  Speaker 4: to prepare it for how Dallas is growing, and of
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  Speaker 4: course modernized that roadway. But the videos over the weekend
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  Speaker 4: of that Caesar Chavaz Bridge coming down, there's no way.
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  Speaker 5: I thought, there's no way this is going to be
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  Speaker 5: reopened by five am Monday, and it is.
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  Speaker 1: People were betting on it.
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  Speaker 3: It was called viral all over the country because they
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  Speaker 3: were like, this highway is going to be open on
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  Speaker 3: Monday morning, and I'm like, there is no way. So
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  Speaker 3: the fact that it's open, I don't know what construction
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  Speaker 3: crew did this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely there's a more closures expected as soon as just
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  Speaker 4: a few weeks from now. They haven't announced exactly when,
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  Speaker 4: but this is just the beginning of this project that
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  Speaker 4: isn't even supposed to be done until twenty thirty.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't even know what they're doing. They tore
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  Speaker 3: down a bridge, but I'm like, well, what's happening though?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I wish they would share the plan with us, because
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  Speaker 4: I wish they would have told us, you know, on Friday, Hey,
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  Speaker 4: we're taking this bridge down. He just said this is closed.
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  Speaker 4: These things will be affected. But I'm like, I want the.
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  Speaker 5: Details, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: An entire bridge.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that was crazy.
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  Speaker 1: It looked like a war zone and it's just clean today.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, normal business cars are riven through there, just like normal.
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  Speaker 1: Amazing.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, So just a heads up, guys.
• 8:36
  Speaker 4: There are more rumors flying about the Kelly Clarkson Show
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  Speaker 4: this morning. A source is saying that the show will
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  Speaker 4: end after this season. I guess this show is pretty
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  Speaker 4: expensive to produce, but this has kind of been a
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  Speaker 4: rumor since Kelly took that break to take care of
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  Speaker 4: her kids after their father passed last year. I know
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  Speaker 4: there were people saying, you know, ho to Cotby could
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  Speaker 4: be someone that would take over that show after she
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  Speaker 4: suddenly left a Today.
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  Speaker 5: Show last year.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah, it's always, you know, interesting to see how
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  Speaker 4: these things will play out. But I feel like Kelly's
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  Speaker 4: She's had a great show, a great run on that
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  Speaker 4: with NBC, so I feel like, if she were to
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  Speaker 4: be done, I think she would be fulfilled in that.
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  Speaker 4: But she's such a you know, family, you know person,
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  Speaker 4: and such a good mom that taking time away from
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  Speaker 4: her kids is rough on her.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's smart.
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  Speaker 3: You know, their family is going through to focus on
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  Speaker 3: the kids and you gotta do what you gotta do.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I just don't see her long term in New York
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  Speaker 4: City with her kids and her dogs.
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  Speaker 5: And you know she's from Burlison.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's like, why can't they just film it here?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly, you know, I mean what technology you can do
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  Speaker 1: with your iPhone? Kelly, Yeah, our studios.
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  Speaker 5: Just go to the Apple Ie store at the gallery.
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  Speaker 1: To the Apple Eye store and talk to a surion
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  Speaker 1: the show.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, go to the studio in the galleria, do great
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  Speaker 4: do with AI Yeah GBT.
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  Speaker 1: No, Actually, Kelly, you don't even need to be there.
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  Speaker 1: We'll just take you and just have you do a show.
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  Speaker 4: Right, but real quick, guys, don't forget Tonight is the
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  Speaker 4: College Football National Championship at Indiana versus Miami and Miami
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  Speaker 4: kick off at six thirty pm on ESPN. I'm Kandaslopez.
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  Speaker 4: Those are your Texas top story are.
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  Speaker 1: You ready for realer fake news? Who won last time? Candace? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: candas one want to ask, I give you three headlines.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta tell me which one is the fake story.
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  Speaker 3: It's just a fun way to talk about some ridiculous
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  Speaker 3: stuff in the news, which it gets more ridiculous by
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  Speaker 3: the day. I feel like headline number one, Progresso's soup
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  Speaker 3: flavored hard candies is set to hit store shelves.
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  Speaker 4: Huh.
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  Speaker 3: Progresso's soup flavored hard candies set to hit store shelves.
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  Speaker 1: Coming on?
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  Speaker 3: All right, that's headline number one. Headline number two woman
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  Speaker 3: forced by judge to apologize to her cheating husband. A
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  Speaker 3: woman was forced by a judge to apologize to her
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  Speaker 3: cheating husband.
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  Speaker 1: I think he would have to apologize. Yeah. Headline number three.
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  Speaker 3: Texas Buffet gives you a discount based on your weight.
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  Speaker 3: Let's go Texas Buffet. What gives you a discount based
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  Speaker 3: on your weight?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I don't know what that means.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't either.
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  Speaker 1: The smaller you are, the less.
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  Speaker 5: You pay, Oh, because you'll eat less.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's what they think.
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  Speaker 5: Huh.
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  Speaker 3: If it's even a real story, you never know, all right,
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  Speaker 3: three headlines you gotta tell me which one is the
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  Speaker 3: fake story? Candice Lopez, you want to go first or
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  Speaker 3: bright and early on a Monday? Would you like to
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  Speaker 3: pass it to Pooh?
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  Speaker 4: I think I'll go first, So lock me in for
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  Speaker 4: that last story, the buffet story.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you don't think that's right?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I don't think so.
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  Speaker 1: I've heard a restaurant's doing something similar before, though you have. Yeah, huh,
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  Speaker 1: I think so. I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Lock me in for that's a little sus locked in.
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  Speaker 3: Locked in our producer, Pooh, which one do you think
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  Speaker 3: is the fake story?
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  Speaker 1: Lock me in for that first story? Soup flavor candy
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  Speaker 1: soup flavored hard candies. Yeah, you don't think it's a
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  Speaker 1: real thing.
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  Speaker 4: No, I don't think you can see that like a
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  Speaker 4: chicken little soup maznge type situation.
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  Speaker 1: Let's lock that in. Your boy is a candy kind
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  Speaker 1: of sewer. I don't think so. Yeah, you can't get anything.
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  Speaker 3: Past you when it comes to candy, right, But they
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  Speaker 3: did because Candys, you're the winner.
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  Speaker 1: Congratulations.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, there's no Texas buffet that I know that. It
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  Speaker 3: gives you a discount based on your weight. There is
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  Speaker 3: a restaurant though, and I know where's at.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's.
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  Speaker 3: Overseas, somewhere where the thinner you are, the less you pay.
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  Speaker 5: Well, was that the one where you had to squeeze through?
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  Speaker 1: Remember that? Yeah? So you could. But see that's a
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  Speaker 1: dumb way. To me.
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  Speaker 3: It's dumb because I the smallest people I know are
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  Speaker 3: the biggest eaters, you.
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  Speaker 5: Know what I mean, there's not a good judge.
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  Speaker 3: There's like a lot of small people I know they
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  Speaker 3: can put it down.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, and you're like, where's this food going? You know?
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, but I couldn't fit through any of those poles,
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  Speaker 3: So it doesn't matter. I don't think so at least.
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  Speaker 3: So some of the stuff is so they're so small.
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  Speaker 5: I mean I couldn't through.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah you would, No, you'd be eaten for free. You're
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  Speaker 1: so tiny, all right.
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  Speaker 3: The real stories Progresso soup flavored hard candies set to
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  Speaker 3: hit store shelves. Matter of fact, they're returning because they
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  Speaker 3: were already out once and they sold out within an hour.
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  Speaker 1: Really, yes, this is a real thing, which to.
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  Speaker 3: Me is just so bizarre. I don't know, I would
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  Speaker 3: never want to try this called soup drops. They're releasing
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  Speaker 3: two new hard candy flavors. Guess what the flavors are
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  Speaker 3: that they're releasing. Who doesn't want a tomato basil candy?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Wow, they're releasing that hard candy. And they're also releasing
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: beef pot roast.
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  Speaker 7: Eh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, who doesn't want to suck on a beef pot
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  Speaker 1: roast lozenge?
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  Speaker 6: Right?
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  Speaker 5: Beef breath on.
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: Yummy?
• 13:51
  Speaker 3: That's coming out alongside with the returning chicken noodle version.
• 13:55
  Speaker 3: The soup flavored candies first launch last January sold out
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: within an hour, and now they're coming back.
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: They're gonna hit stores I think soon, at Walmart and online.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: For two dollars and ninety seven cents, you get a
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: little bundle that includes a can of Chicken Little Soup
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: and a variety pack of all three flavors. Okay, so
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: you can just suck on some beef pot roast h.
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: Yummy yum, yes, nasty?
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: Okay? What about this?
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: One woman becomes online sensation after being forced by a
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: judge to apologize to her cheating husband. I mean, how
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: bad are things when you get cheated on and then
• 14:29
  Speaker 3: you have to apologize?
• 14:30
  Speaker 5: What is she apologizing for?
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: So?
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: A Chinese woman was ordered by a court to publicly
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: apologize to her cheating husband as she became a social
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: media celebrity.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: I guess what happened is this woman? I don't know.
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: She discovered that her husband had been having an affair
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: with a coworker for five years.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: After she exposed the affair.
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: Online with names and evidence, she called everyone out. He
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: and his mistress sued her for defamation and won.
• 14:57
  Speaker 5: Wow.
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: The judge ordered her to post apology videos for fifteen
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: straight days, saying I'm sorry and I shouldn't have done this,
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: But she turned the punishment into payback by including records
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: of her husband's purchases for the mistress, claims of domestic violence,
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: and other embarrassing details. Her videos have gone viral, and
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: now she is a phenomenon in China and getting tons
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: of attentionally attention, and the attention reportedly caused her both
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: her ex husband and her mistress to be suspended from
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: their jobs.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: And now there's more.
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: Legal action being taken on her, and I miss the
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: system is not fair over there, So I'm actually worried
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: for her. Yeah that who knows what's gonna happen. Can
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: you imagine getting cheated on for five years? You call
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: this guy out.
• 15:45
  Speaker 5: He deserves to be called out.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: You're gonna cheat like that, Yeah, and then you get in.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: Trouble and then you gotta you gotta apologize, right, Throw
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: me in jail, conn.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: Not doing it, that's all.
• 16:00
  Speaker 5: You'll feel better.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the dirty Little Secret and here we go.
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: It is mixed one o two point nine Bible at
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  Speaker 3: a kid. Candice low Paz is your producer.
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  Speaker 1: Who is here?
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: And your secrets at eight three three seven eight seven
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  Speaker 3: one o two nine. I don't care what the secret is.
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: Could be a big secret, little secret, a lot of drama,
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: no drama, funny whatever.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: Just bring it on. If you got one, you let
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: us know and you do. What's up?
• 16:21
  Speaker 6: Well, it's it's silly, but it's kind of awful. I
• 16:26
  Speaker 6: ghosted someone and.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: Uh, you know it's not in me. I don't do that.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: I'm not a ghoster, but I'm so.
• 16:33
  Speaker 6: Bad at it. I didn't even like I kind of
• 16:35
  Speaker 6: older polite lines that I've been busy. So that wasn't
• 16:38
  Speaker 6: a complete.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: Ghost Okay, So it's like a semi go. That's the
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: way to start. That's like your I don't know what
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: would you call. It's your foreplay to ghosting, you say,
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: I've just been really busy, and then.
• 16:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, he's laying the groundwork.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: And then it's yeah, the wow is that a weird tumbleweed?
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: Tumble weed? No answer, no reply left? Uh, you know, unread.
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: Left the chat, left the chat.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: So who is this girl? What's it like? Did you
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: guys go out? How many times you go out? What's
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: the deal?
• 17:09
  Speaker 6: We just went out, just one time. And her shirt
• 17:12
  Speaker 6: it's the reason why I go through her.
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: Shirt hopefully she had a shirt on.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: She had a shirt? Was it a low clap top?
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: What was going on? No?
• 17:22
  Speaker 6: I mean it was what was on the shirt? It
• 17:24
  Speaker 6: shirt was fine, But okay, I just want to give
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: me your opinion on this, all right, Okay, So she
• 17:30
  Speaker 6: wearing We went to a super casual date or just
• 17:32
  Speaker 6: hanging out doing mini golf, nothing too crazy.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: And she shows up.
• 17:36
  Speaker 6: She has a shirt on it and it says in
• 17:38
  Speaker 6: big letters, so it's our first date marriage material.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Right in front of like on her chest.
• 17:45
  Speaker 6: Who I swear my brain right?
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: My brain short. I was like, oh boy, that made
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: me fa what's wrong with that? You know what?
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: What's wrong with that?
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: Mature on the first date? Like I'm like all right,
• 17:59
  Speaker 6: Well it seems a little bit desperate. Maybe try to
• 18:02
  Speaker 6: ignore it, and I did. Every time, you know, she
• 18:05
  Speaker 6: leaned over, looked up on me, or you know, went
• 18:07
  Speaker 6: to put they were just screaming at me.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: Married me? Really, world's best off?
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: Are you?
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: That's interesting to me because I I would see that
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: shirt and I would just be like, oh, whatever that means.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: I don't you know, like I don't know, I don't think.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I'd think that much into it
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: where I don't know on a first date though.
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: That might be weird if she has like a sense
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: of humor and it's just like a joke thing like maybe,
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: but if the rest of her like personality is very like.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: This or something like that, Canis would say this and
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: I'm surprised you didn't candas, what's wrong with one to
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: get married?
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: Eventually?
• 18:39
  Speaker 7: Well?
• 18:39
  Speaker 5: Nothing, Okay, that's great.
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: I mean that's always the end goal, right with being
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: a relationship for a lot of people don't so I'm right.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: But it's just like kind of Chris, Yeah, don't come
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: on the first date face.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was of things to wear, like why it
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: took cash?
• 18:55
  Speaker 6: It's been a funny, it had been a funny shirt
• 18:57
  Speaker 6: like on the three hundredth date, you know, because.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, so you were turned off by that
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: and thought it was a little weird.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Turned off. I was scared to death. That's hysterical.
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: A red flag. You might as well just wear a
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: red flag, you know.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: Let me ask you this though, if if she was
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: it doesn't seem like you guys clicked if you were
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: to if she was really really attractive, I don't know
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: what she looked like, but if you were really physically
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: attracted to her and things clicked, would that short have
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: bothered you? Or was that like just okay, nothing else
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: is clicking and I can't look past this, and okay,
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: that's it marriage material, that's enough.
• 19:34
  Speaker 6: Well, you know what it was was that, yeah, we
• 19:37
  Speaker 6: didn't really click. But also what it felt like to
• 19:40
  Speaker 6: me was that I was waiting for her to make
• 19:42
  Speaker 6: a joke about it. You know, she never did, and
• 19:44
  Speaker 6: she did seem to be like a little little too
• 19:47
  Speaker 6: clinging to little too leg and she just felt she
• 19:50
  Speaker 6: added to it, you know, she added to it being
• 19:52
  Speaker 6: weird as.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: We've been along, and she has no idea that there,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: she has no idea that this marriage material shirt has
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: cost her a future relationship indeed, and she has gotten.
• 20:04
  Speaker 6: Ghost she wears it everyone I don't know.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: Okay, this is a good secret though, but it also
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: leads me to go, I want to hear from people
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: to go, what are the small little things that have
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: made you stop talking to a guy?
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Because this is a small thing. We all can agree
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: this is a small thing.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and the grand scheme it is.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: But people have their little quirks that they just get
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: weirded out by.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: Right, like this is I could see this happening on
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: one of those dating reality shows like that, but not in.
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: Real life, like right, like, wasn't it You can't have
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: seen you like stop dating a guy because he chewed
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: loud or some or was it somebody else?
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: Uh, I'm not chewed loud.
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: It was more about his just like messy apartment. Oh,
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: it was just like, yeah, this cannot be how you live,
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: which is every guy, I feel like at least clean
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: it up before I come over.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's true, that's fair. All right.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Well so maybe we'll ask people what's the littlest,
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: tiniest thing that you've ghosted someone for h and we'll
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: find out and thank you.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: For kicking this topic off.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: We appreciate your secret, and now every woman knows it's
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: going to date you.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: You better put a shirt out. Just put a white
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: hayned shirt on and move on. That's right.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: It's Top Stories on the Tents with Billy the Kid
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: in the Morning only.
• 21:14
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• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Candice Lowpaz, what up?
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: Well, this is the reason why you got to check
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: in with your bank. App Here there, guys. A nineteen
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: year old McDonald's employee was arrested for charging customers at
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: double This happened in Springtown, So he was allegedly targeting
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: customers who paid with credit or debit cards at this
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: McDonald's location, So he would basically process their payments and
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: then use a personal device to tap their card again
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: for another ten to twenty dollars you know, to go
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: straight to his account. Oh yes, I guess he was
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: able to make almost seven hundred dollars doing this before
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: he was arrested. He's currently in custody at the Parker
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: County Jail.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: Just happened in Springtown, in Springtown, Well, Springtown, I.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Know, not the McDonald's Springtown.
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: So you're swiping me?
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: Then, you're tapping me and then I'm driving off with
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: my food, Like, no big deal.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Ten for me, ten for you.
• 22:06
  Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: Some customers have already gotten their money back, but they're
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: saying to contact the Springtown Police Department if.
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: You think you were impacted.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: But gosh, I know it's so hard. That's something you
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: wouldn't even get flagged for either. No, no, it doesn't
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: look like fraud. It just looks like some weird like
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: this guy. He's a big back and he forgot something.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: He went back through the drive through and ordered the
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: same thing.
• 22:27
  Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, it's no big deal.
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: But then it's probably showing up like as his like
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: Venmo or whatever. His square situation is not even showing
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: up as McDonald's.
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: So you'd be like, well, where did.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: That happen at?
• 22:37
  Speaker 5: What does that charge?
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so check your bank app here and there guys.
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: This new study by the Not says wedding parties are
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: now an average of twenty percent smaller than they were
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: just five years ago.
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: Of course, thanks to the economy.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: This report says you'll likely see wedding parties of eight
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: with four people on each side. That's down from ten
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: in the wedding party. Yeah, ten people like five on
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: her side, five on his side or whatever.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Too much.
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a lot.
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: That's a lot of people taking five bessies to get dressed.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Weddings are a lot, like do we have to do those? Yeah,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: we have to do weddings.
• 23:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we have to do weddings.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: And we just you eloped?
• 23:17
  Speaker 5: I did?
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well can't we just all lope?
• 23:19
  Speaker 5: Everybody can elope? Yeah, but I like to get.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: Invited to weddings.
• 23:22
  Speaker 5: I love wedding.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: Don't invite me to your to your wedding. Don't invite Candice,
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: don't invite me.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be at mine. Both of y'all gonna be
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: at mine.
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: If I ever get married, I'm gonna be early.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: You're not getting married. We're too old for all that.
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: No, No you're not.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah we are. We love love, Yeah, to get married.
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: Can you imagine what a day?
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: What a day? For real?
• 23:44
  Speaker 5: What what a burger?
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: Because that's where it's happening.
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: Oh my god. It's costing a lot though for these weddings.
• 23:52
  Speaker 5: They're saying, you know, what a.
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: Commitment that usually you know, it would be a couple
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: of days back in the day. Is now morphed into
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: like eighteen months of destination retreat retreats, eight hundred dollars gowns,
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: and you know, unpaid part time jobs for these wedding
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: party people to monitor group chats and venmo's and all that.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: You want to go in debt when you're starting your
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: life together because of a wedding.
• 24:14
  Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's not smart.
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: Wait, don't don't do it. Yeah, what's the benefit of
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: get married again? Like I'm gonna get married again? Poo,
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: We're not getting married?
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Were not?
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: You might never say never?
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: You have my best man and we just yeah, let's
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: do it.
• 24:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah, one one on each side.
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: You get one in this Billy and then whoever your
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: wife is gets one.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Question can and this is you're gonna be my best woman?
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: See you can't do that up in your wedding all day?
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Pooh canas? Is it rude to decline a best man
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: of vis.
• 24:44
  Speaker 5: Absolutely? Yes, just being billy up there next day.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: I can't wait do it a live broadcast. Please call
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: as you ruin your life. I do love love.
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: You do all right.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: Damon says Netflix is changing how they make movies to
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: cater to everyone that's so distracted by their phones, So,
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: he says, they are aware of how many of us
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: just have our phones as soon as we pick out
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: a movie, and so they are going to adapt. He says,
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: Netflix is basically like, hey, can we get a big
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: action scene in the first five minutes so people stay
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: tuned in, and you know, it wouldn't be terrible if
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: you just reiterated the plot three or four times in
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: the dialogue because people are on their phones.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is how life starts to impact art.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, because listen. I mean, that's not an
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: awful idea because I'm guilty of it.
• 25:36
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: No, me too.
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: That's why I can't get into any shows if they
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: don't get me in the first episode. Yeah, maybe even
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: the first ten to fifteen minutes of a show or movie.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: I'm out.
• 25:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: Back when Eric and I actually had time to sit
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: and watch Netflix shows, we would have the ten minute
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: role where would be like, okay, we give it ten minutes.
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: If we're both in, we'll keep watching. If we're not,
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: we'll move on to something else.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Good shows don't even get going until like, you know,
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: episode two, three or whatever, or in the movies, it's
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: not until twenty thirty minutes.
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: In Yeah, I mean you could give it. Yeah, a
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: ton of good ones, you know. Matt says it's really
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: going to infringe on how they tell stories, which is
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: true and I don't like.
• 26:12
  Speaker 5: But that's what the rewind is for. If I missed
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: the plot or I missed.
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: You know, an action scene, well I'll rewind and watch
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: it again.
• 26:18
  Speaker 5: Not have you told me the thing.
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: Again and make all these movie makers have to change
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: how they.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Do there are.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: I think that's why I started hate and watching movies,
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: especially with someone, because I had a girlfriend once who
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: would rewind everything I missed that.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Can we let's watch that again?
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, this three hour movie is
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: gonna turn a six hour experience.
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, what's worse her being on her phone and
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: then asking you, wait, what happened?
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah that's yeah, you're right, but that's what he's saying.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah.
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: I mean.
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: Matt Damon and Ben Affleck they just made a movie
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: for Netflix called The Rips, so I guess that's why
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: they're talking about this.
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: But I love Matt and Ben because.
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: It takes me back to the nineties, which was like
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: my first AOL searches was Matt Damon and Ben Affleck.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: You remember you your first AOL search?
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah, well there was.
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: I wasn't into that much until n scene came out,
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: so it was like Armageddon was out, like it was
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: a whole vibe.
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: I can't believe you're Yeah, I didn't have internet in
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: the nineties.
• 27:10
  Speaker 5: You didn't know you in AOL. You get the CD, no, bro,
• 27:14
  Speaker 5: get your free forty eight hours?
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Did you just brow me?
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: Yes?
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Wow, it's Monday, chill dial up?
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• 27:24
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  Speaker 1: It's down for Candace Court. It gets settled here with
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• 27:38
  Speaker 3: to on the forties every hour all day. We got cash.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: You're shot at one thousand dollars or grand just like that,
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: all right, Candas, Judge Candas, I apologize.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Are you ready?
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: All good working on a holiday.
• 27:50
  Speaker 5: Good for you, yeah, thank you?
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the jury is you too, so make sure you listen.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: You can always chime in with your opinion if you
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: got a problem at Candace on Air. At Candas on Air,
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: that's a good one.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: Are you ready?
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: She wrote in she said, my husband travels a lot
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: for work and is gone for days at a time
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: about half of the year.
• 28:05
  Speaker 5: Ooh oh, that's hard.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: That sounds tough.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: While collecting our end of year financials, I found a
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: credit card charge from last month for a very expensive dinner.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: When I asked him about it, he admitted he went
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: out to dinner with a woman from work, but insists
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: it was just a meal and nothing inappropriate happened.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: I was distraught and wanted to understand why. He says
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with our relationship, but he can explain
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: why he chose to have dinner with another woman. He
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: couldn't explain.
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: He can't explain why he chose to have dinner with
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: another woman or why he never mentioned it to me.
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: I want to believe him, but even if nothing physical happened,
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I'll ever see our relationship the
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: same way again. I'm starting I'm starting to want to
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: reach out to this woman because I feel like there's
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: no conclusion. I just can't get myself to believe him
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: and just move on or should I I don't know
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: how to handle this situation. Okay, this is a tough
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: one because, well, it looks like, did he hide something,
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: he didn't talk about it, he omitted it, He omitted it?
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: He did it was someone from work. When he was confronted,
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: did he tell the truth?
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Yes? Should you have to wait till you're confronted about it?
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: No?
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: Or there's another side of this. Should he have to
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: mention everyone he goes to dinner with on a work trip?
• 29:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah? He should.
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: Don't you guys talk every night when you're on a
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: work trip. And first of all, let's back it up
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: for a second. Wouldn't work pay for this dinner if
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: it's with a woman from work on a work trip.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Possibly. I don't know his work situation, but does that
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: even matter?
• 29:43
  Speaker 6: Well?
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, why?
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: I mean, if work's paying for it, then it's like, well, whatever,
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: what's our max budget for dore if we go out
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: on work trip? Well, yeah, but if we can spend
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: seventy five dollars per person?
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: To me, you're worried about the money. I'm worried about
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: the fact he went out with somebody.
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: What Yeah, but that's my thing.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: This is why it feels like such a you know,
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: he's hiding something because he spent our money on a
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: woman from work.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: But if it was hiding to me, I'm not justifying
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: what he did because I at the end of the day,
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: I don't think you you should definitely tell your partner.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: I think yeah, you should that you're having dinner with someone.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: Especially I'm sorry, but it does matter if it's the
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: opposite sex.
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like we regroup every night if either of us
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: is on a work trip, we talk every night and
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: be like, well, what'd you do, what did you where'd
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: you go?
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: Who were you with?
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: Like, just because we just want to know what were
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: you doing, what was your work trip?
• 30:33
  Speaker 5: Like?
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: And we we have an interesting job. So there's some
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: situations that I've been over the years where like this
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: is kind of strange. Yeah, but if I was ever
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: with someone, I will tell them, Like, this might sound weird,
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: but here's the situation, right, So it doesn't feel weird
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: if you find out after the fact, right.
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: If you're with someone, Yeah, you definitely do. If you're married,
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: you definitely do.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Especially if you're married. And my thing is, if it's
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: an expensive dinner, like why is it so expensive?
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, you guys either went to a really fancy
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: place which feels like a date.
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: Vibe, or you just went all out on alcohol.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: That's exactly what I was thinking, Like, if you're going
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: on expensive date, first of all, if it's a work thing,
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: I would absolutely probably downplay it so it wouldn't feel
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: so daateish.
• 31:20
  Speaker 7: She's gonna trip either way. If you went to Texas roadhouse,
• 31:24
  Speaker 7: it didn't matter. Well, maybe she went with another woman.
• 31:26
  Speaker 5: Yeah, she don't tell me.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gonna trip anyway. Yeah. But that's the thing.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you say what you did, even if you
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: don't talk every day, right, be like, oh, how's a
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: work trip?
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 31:35
  Speaker 6: Cool?
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Or maybe I'm maybe I'm insecure, but I expect to know.
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah I do too. I don't know if you're spending
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: our money, you know what I mean? She said, Okay,
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: when you're worried, it's our money.
• 31:48
  Speaker 7: What if the wife knows the woman and you know,
• 31:50
  Speaker 7: but she doesn't Okay, Well.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: To try to reach out to this woman, Well, what
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: do you mean even if they know each other? Why
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: then that makes it more bizarre that you wouldn't say
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: anything like I went to dinner with Janelle the other night.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I just I'm rooting for the guy.
• 32:07
  Speaker 7: I'm hoping he didn't do anything shady, but well, it's
• 32:10
  Speaker 7: already shady.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: If you're a meeting part of the story, to me,
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: you're not being real, Like.
• 32:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah, what's your phrase that you say?
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I always say, if you're deleting.
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: Your cheating, you just deleted this from the conversation.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Did delete it? Yeah?
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: He did deleted So no, okay, so we know that.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: Now she's wondering how does she handle this?
• 32:31
  Speaker 6: Right?
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: Does she reach out to I mean, it's so cringe
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: that she's going to work out reach out to a
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: coworker of his.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: No, don't do that.
• 32:39
  Speaker 5: I don't think you can.
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: But he has to be prepared for her now to
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: have to look at every charge because her troper, her
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: trust is broken, and question every outing, every work trip,
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: and he's got to be better at communicating.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying, from a guy's standpoint, there's only one
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: reason to me why you would take someone on a fancy,
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: expensive dinner date, and that's because as you're trying to
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: impress them exactly that's or and why is it expensive
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: It's like Canna said, it's expensive because you're ordering nice
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: stuff and usually there's alcohol.
• 33:08
  Speaker 4: Involved, right, which is unnecessary with the coworker when we're
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: married and you're not telling me and you're spending our
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: money on it.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I agree with you, canis I agree.
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: I think she has a right to be upset and
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: her trust is broken. He's going to have to work
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: on communication one hundred percent from now on.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Does she blow it off and just move forward?
• 33:25
  Speaker 5: I mean that's a tough question.
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: I think that's all she can do at this point,
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: you know, is just believe him.
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: They're married.
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: She just has to have better eyes and ears on
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: what he's doing.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: He ain't done nothing wrong up until this point.
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: She got to can't prove anything.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Take it. Take him for his word.
• 33:40
  Speaker 4: But unless he wants her trust to be in the
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: place that it is, he's got to be better.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: Take him for his word, even though his famous Yeah,
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: even though his word didn't even right.
• 33:52
  Speaker 5: You just have a word about it.
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: This is the kind of shady stuff Pooh would do. Yeah,
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: well you know what he used to do that He
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: would never take her old and expensive dinner, there's no way,
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: never mind.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: And paid for it. No, No, that's okay. It doesn't
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: matter what we think, can Slopez. The verdict is in.
• 34:09
  Speaker 5: I think you know where I'm going with this.
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: This guy is guilty of being a swiping Steve.
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: You're just out here swiping your car for coworkers, Like.
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: You can't swipe on a fancy dinner with a coworker
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: and not tell your wife.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: Who knows what else he's swiping.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: Nike's one on two point nine and good morning, it's
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: bail like a kid, Candicelow Pants producer Poo. We were
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: talking about this earlier because this guy called in with
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: the dirty little secret and he basically broke it off
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: with this girl and ghosted her because she had a
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: marriage material shure, that's what it said, marriage material. I'm like,
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: that's kind of a little reason to just gohot someone.
• 34:49
  Speaker 5: It is, But.
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: If she was cringe and then the shirt was craned,
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: just just you know, I'm surprised.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: I thought you'd be sticking up for her Cann's I'm
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: gonna be honest, Yeah, I thought, you know, because it's
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: just like she's.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: Just a shirt.
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: Sound like she had a sense of humor about it.
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: It sounded like she was serious.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: I was like, what was your deal breaker?
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: What was your small deal breaker where you were like Nope,
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: can't do it.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Now, Nieck's on the phone, Nick, what's up? I like
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: that name? Is that short for anything? Is it short
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: for unique?
• 35:13
  Speaker 9: Yep?
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: Nice?
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: Okay, now I can already tell you've ghost to people
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: for minimal things. You don't put up with anything, and
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: that's good. Hey whatever, So why did you stop talking
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: to a guy? Oh?
• 35:25
  Speaker 9: Well, it was just because he looked like his parents,
• 35:28
  Speaker 9: like both of them.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: I mean wait, he looked like.
• 35:35
  Speaker 9: His parents, yes, like legitimately not just having the best accids,
• 35:40
  Speaker 9: he literally looked like them. But it was weird I
• 35:43
  Speaker 9: should not.
• 35:44
  Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: So you just didn't like it. So that's weird because like,
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: my son looks like me. I mean we look like
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: our parents, don't we or no.
• 35:53
  Speaker 9: That, but like you're a guy, you look just like
• 35:57
  Speaker 9: your mom, and now I only see your mom and
• 36:00
  Speaker 9: I just can't.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's fun.
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I've seen families like that before where it
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: looks like they're just twins.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, did he look older? Like you know what I mean?
• 36:11
  Speaker 10: Some time?
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Was he giving you like weird energy because of that.
• 36:15
  Speaker 9: Yeah, it was also kind of like a MoMA's boy,
• 36:18
  Speaker 9: a mama's boy who looked like his mom.
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a friend who looks like his mom,
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: and it's weird to me. Like I see him and
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I met his mom, and I'm like, why
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: you look like you look like your mom.
• 36:29
  Speaker 9: It's still even weird because it's like, not only do
• 36:32
  Speaker 9: you look like her. You know how people say their dogs,
• 36:34
  Speaker 9: but to look like their owners dog? Yes, you know?
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're right, you know what, Nick, I get it. Now,
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: I'm on your side. I'm glad you go to that guy.
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: How dare him?
• 36:47
  Speaker 9: I mean, he couldn't help it. Hopefully someone else like
• 36:49
  Speaker 9: him and his mom.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Hey, thank you, you have a good Monday. Bye. Oh
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: that's funny. Okay, Now Sarah, Sarah and Den? What's up? Sarah?
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: How are you?
• 37:00
  Speaker 10: I'm doing good?
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: How are y'all doing good?
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: You stop talking to a guy? Why what do you do?
• 37:05
  Speaker 7: Well?
• 37:06
  Speaker 10: For one, I kind of got tricked into going on
• 37:09
  Speaker 10: a date with him in the first place, and so
• 37:11
  Speaker 10: he takes me on this first date, and the first
• 37:14
  Speaker 10: place he takes me is the church he wants to
• 37:16
  Speaker 10: get married in.
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: Oh no, he took you to the church he took
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: first of all, he took you to church on a
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: first date. Not only that, he framed it as, this
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: is the church I want to get married at.
• 37:27
  Speaker 8: Well, and it was like a Friday night, so it
• 37:30
  Speaker 8: wasn't even open. But I'm not one hundred percent for
• 37:33
  Speaker 8: it was like a functional church at all. I mean
• 37:38
  Speaker 8: and stop, but it totally looks like an abandoned building.
• 37:41
  Speaker 10: And I was truly frightened.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: And he just sat there and was like, well, this
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: is where I want to get married. Amen.
• 37:50
  Speaker 9: Oh my god, how did you know his voice?
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 37:54
  Speaker 6: Here I am.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: It's me weird.
• 37:58
  Speaker 5: That's weird.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: I don't like it. So did you go?
• 38:00
  Speaker 8: It's super creepy.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Did he take you to eat or anything?
• 38:04
  Speaker 8: I don't remember going to eat. He took me to
• 38:05
  Speaker 8: a haunted house next, so it was very interesting.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: What terrifying day, We're gonna go to church and then
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: we're gonna go to all haunted house.
• 38:16
  Speaker 5: Let you go to the hounted house first.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Well that didn't get him a second date, Sarah.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: I'm glad you escaped that alive.
• 38:23
  Speaker 8: Oh yes, yes, me too. I catapulted out of his
• 38:26
  Speaker 8: car after and never spoke to him again.
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: What's scarier the haunted house or the place where I'm
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: gonna This is where we're getting married on the first day.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: Wow, oh yeah, I was just like what No, And
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: then we're going to Applebee's.
• 38:43
  Speaker 5: Oh that's a hot tage.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: Let us know what you think.
• 38:45
  Speaker 5: Here's today's hot.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: Tape on Mix one on two point nine. We got
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: the mixed money machine up and running. So you want
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: a thousand dollars a shout to win that coming out
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: next week. Do it on the forties every hour all day,
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: so hook that up. It's bailing the kid. Candice Lopez
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: is here, producer who is here? We're all parents. This
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: guy's going viral because he posted a list of the
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: chores he had to do when.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: He was eight years old and call the all parents
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: nowadays soft.
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: You are soft, he said, And then he posted this
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: and it's gone viral because I mean, to me, it's
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: a little bit crazy, but you'd be the judge.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: He said.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: When he was eight, his daily chores before school or
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: make your bed okay, eat breakfast, final homework check and
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: then he had to leave the house on time.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Okay. That was his daily chores before school.
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: After school, he had to change clothes, do all his homework,
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: check in prior to seven pm, dinner, be inside the
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: house prior to nine pm, leave no dishes in the sink,
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: empty the trash, shower, and be in bed by ten
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: my gosh at eight years old. Wow, And people are like, oh,
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: come on, what eight year old is doing that?
• 39:57
  Speaker 5: And a ten pm bedtime?
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: That was late, longer bedtime than I did.
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: I know that is late, but that that was also
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: back in the day, like we went home and we
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: went outside and we did not come back in.
• 40:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah, no, that's true.
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: But when does this kid get to be a kid?
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: You don't have to you don't have time for that.
• 40:13
  Speaker 7: Cannis it does prior to seven pm, he said, Prior
• 40:16
  Speaker 7: to seven pm he gets to go play.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, you don't think that's too much. Okay,
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: first of what, let's go me too much?
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: Daily chores before school, make your bed okay, fine, sure,
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: reasonable eat breakfast is not a chore.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: No, you gotta do it. Final homework check that should
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: have been done the night before, for sure. No, an
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: eight year old, to me.
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: Does not have the mindset to be able to leave
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: the house on time, right, that's just me, and I
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: know my son's fourteen. He's still well, he's good about
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: it now, but at eight year old, eight years old,
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't have expected him to figure it all out
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: and be out of the house on time.
• 40:47
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: No, I try to help end Zoe my son learn
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: time management.
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: I'll tell him we have thirty minutes.
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: So let's think about how long it's going to take
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: us to do this stuff, so then we can be
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: their time management like you have to learn to at
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: some point. I agree, And a lot of people are
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: so bad at it.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: I agree with you.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: Now, let's think about this. The after school portion of
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: the chores. Are these unreasonable? Change clothes, no whatever, getting
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: your play clothes?
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: I guess.
• 41:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: Do all your homework reasonable? At eight? Did we have homework?
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: I don't remember having homework at eight? Yeah I did.
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: I don't remember that, But I know that my son
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: is seven and he has like homework.
• 41:24
  Speaker 5: It's not usually like mandatory.
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: Don't give these kids homework at eight. I'm sorry, I'm
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: against homework at eight.
• 41:30
  Speaker 5: Well, I am too. I agree. I think it's stupid
• 41:32
  Speaker 5: little their babies. Still, Yeah, the.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: Trip and I had like at least a worksheet or
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: something to do when I was like I was in
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: the nineteen twenties, though I was different.
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: Sheet, But what I mean, yeah, what I think schools
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: and I respect our teachers for sure, incredibly.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: You do have no idea. I have incredible respect for
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: our teachers. Yeah, but it's already hard to keep an
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: eight year old in a classroom for that long with
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: one little recess, and so like send them home to
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: just sit there and then inside. I'd rather my kid
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: go out and.
• 42:04
  Speaker 4: Play, yeah for sure, I mean, and do work while
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: we're at school.
• 42:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and then chill.
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: So do all homework, check in prior to seven pm. Dinner,
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: be inside the house prior to nine pm. My kid's
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: not gonna be out at eight just roaming the streets.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: That's in today's world. And have no dishes, So the
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: family does the dinner, eats dinner, and then this eight
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: year old has to clean up all the dishes.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Wow, say that like it's a lot every night. Every night.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: That's not a lot.
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: I can see like starting to be like, Okay, your
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: turn to unload the dishwasher or load the dishwasher, take care.
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: Of your own dishes. Yeah, and everybody takes care of
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: their own and put them in the dish wr We're.
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: Just working on Enzo bringing his dishes around to the sink.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: I'm still working on that with Pooh Wow.
• 42:48
  Speaker 7: Just bring the dishes to the sink, rinse them off,
• 42:51
  Speaker 7: wash them or whatever, then load the dishwasher.
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: That's why I wasn't tall enough to unload your dish washer.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: I was eight. Yeah, but I would load up the dishes.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: This kid, at eight has to do all that for
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: the whole family every night. What's for the whole family?
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: I had a family of four. That's a lot. That's
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: not that whole lot of dishes.
• 43:09
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we got it's a lot.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: It is a lot.
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: Then he had also he had chores like this is
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: this is where it's really crazy to me. So he
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: had weekly chores specific to certain things they had going on.
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: So on Saturdays or Sundays, he had to do the laundry,
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: including washing, drind folding, and putting away the clothes. And
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: all his school clothes must be ironed.
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: No, I swear to you, an eight year old's ironing
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: all the clothes.
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: And I guess I'm a soft parent. My eight year old,
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: he's not gonna do laundry. No, an iron.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: I did laundry. Here we got an iron iron.
• 43:49
  Speaker 7: Now look at that. I don't iron, but I did
• 43:52
  Speaker 7: the laundry. I had to separate all the clothes. I'm
• 43:55
  Speaker 7: telling you, no.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: You didn't.
• 43:57
  Speaker 7: Yes, my mom didn't play. At ten years old, I
• 43:59
  Speaker 7: learned to wash my own clothes. My mom was like
• 44:02
  Speaker 7: at ten years old, I had a full time chow.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:04
  Speaker 7: I had to separate the clothes, you know, like my towels, darts, lights, whatever.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: And then at ten years old, I learned to do
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: my own laundry. This is unreasonable. That is not you think.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: This is you think so.
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: You think you're a soft parent unless you have chores
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: like this for an eight year old.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying that a soft parent you have to
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: have structure. Y'all are being sold. What do your kids do?
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: What do you mean my house? Yeah?
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: Two of them that are, you know, still young enough.
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: The other one Christian, he's doing his thing. He's always
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: very successful.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: Great. Yeah, but what about the other young kids? What
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: do they do? They call me the drill sergeant because
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: I tell them what do they do? Every day? You
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: have a list of chores. I want to know them
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: well when they come over to my house. They have
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: to do the dishes, they have to clean up their mess.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: That's pretty much it. Because I have a I have
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: an apartment.
• 44:53
  Speaker 7: Soft I having an apartment, But you're calling us soft.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: That's normal. Well you just said it's normal. No, but
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: you do your dishes and clean a bapt yourself.
• 45:00
  Speaker 7: But I tell their mom she needs to she needs
• 45:03
  Speaker 7: to tell them to do the exact same things I
• 45:05
  Speaker 7: do at her house.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: And she listens to you.
• 45:08
  Speaker 7: Well, we're coparing pretty good, man, So I will say that.
• 45:12
  Speaker 7: But she has a hard time to keep maintaining the
• 45:15
  Speaker 7: structure that I do because they're like, oh, that's.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: Mom, So what do you expect her to have them
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: do every day? Chores?
• 45:21
  Speaker 7: Clean up her house. It's her house. You were supposed
• 45:24
  Speaker 7: to clean up her house. I used to get in
• 45:26
  Speaker 7: trouble if I didn't have the dishes done mama. I
• 45:28
  Speaker 7: remember one time my mom said have my dishes done,
• 45:31
  Speaker 7: and I left and went with my friends to play
• 45:33
  Speaker 7: football at the field right down the street.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: My mom rolled up in.
• 45:36
  Speaker 7: A robe in rollers, just drove up on the football field.
• 45:39
  Speaker 7: Everybody was like, who mama is at? And I was like, oh,
• 45:42
  Speaker 7: she got out. She was like so my dishes can't
• 45:44
  Speaker 7: get done and I was like, oh and I had
• 45:47
  Speaker 7: oh yeah yeah, and I got clowned the rest of
• 45:49
  Speaker 7: that school year.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's what I like that. Now I wouldn't either.
• 45:55
  Speaker 7: Why sometimes you got to act the fool to let
• 45:57
  Speaker 7: them know you mean business.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: I know, y'all, Candace, I know you soft aanzo oh.
• 46:02
  Speaker 5: Yeah she is, I am.
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: But but he gets his stuff done, and you know,
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: he has consequences if there's not. But he we don't
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: have a whole task that's like we just got that
• 46:11
  Speaker 4: Skylight calendar.
• 46:12
  Speaker 5: It's like the.
• 46:12
  Speaker 4: Digital calendar you see online, and you can put everybody's
• 46:15
  Speaker 4: like things on the calendar. You can make a task
• 46:19
  Speaker 4: list where they can go tap it off and then
• 46:20
  Speaker 4: it you know, it's crazy, but his tasks are like
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: not chores. It's like remember to brush your teeth, remember
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: to put your toys away on Sundays, clean your playroom.
• 46:31
  Speaker 8: You know.
• 46:31
  Speaker 5: So that's like his thing, and I think that's age appropriate.
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: I think I think that's completely reasonable.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Toys. What happens if he doesn't pick up the toys
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: or whatever, Well.
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: That's usually where Eric steps in. Because my husband's a
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: little more strength than I am but okay, yeah, but
• 46:47
  Speaker 4: he's on.
• 46:48
  Speaker 5: Top of everything, you know, so it gets done.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: I guess we're just soft parents. Candas. Yeah, old poo
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: over here who had to walk uphill.
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: Both ways to carry all his books with a brown
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: paper bag book cover. When I went to school, I
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: had to build the school before I went into it.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: That's just what we did. Whatever,