Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / Birthday Benny
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with her radio. Wow, Ashley and I are back together.
- 0:07Speaker 1: This is this feels right, It feels good. I'm pumped
- 0:11Speaker 1: to be across the country from you. But it's been
- 0:13Speaker 1: a long time since we sat on this podcast together.
- 0:17Speaker 1: I feel like I could really make this work. This
- 0:20Speaker 1: recording at home, you guys, let us know we sound
- 0:22Speaker 1: pretty good, right well, it's if we you know, we
- 0:26Speaker 1: have moments, especially when I was on the road, where
- 0:29Speaker 1: you know, we have technical difficulties. But if we can
- 0:31Speaker 1: do this from a distance, I'll be honest. Actually, I
- 0:34Speaker 1: don't want to do it because I've missing you guys
- 0:36Speaker 1: so much. Ben, You're so sweet. Happy freaking birthday you guys.
- 0:42Speaker 1: Ben is recording this on his birthday. I would say, like,
- 0:46Speaker 1: I mean, recording on your birthday. But the thing is,
- 0:50Speaker 1: it's probably it's probably pretty cool that he has plans
- 0:54Speaker 1: for his birthday. You know what it is, it's a
- 0:57Speaker 1: big deal. I mean, people, I'm getting out of memes
- 1:00Speaker 1: right now, uh saying oh the March and April birthdays,
- 1:04Speaker 1: you're gonna feel forgotten. And quite honestly, I feel pretty
- 1:07Speaker 1: pumped about it because there's one thing that's been taken
- 1:10Speaker 1: out of the possibilities because of my birthday being during
- 1:14Speaker 1: the quarantine is that nobody has a surprise birthday planned
- 1:17Speaker 1: for me. And that is a fantastic thing because I
- 1:20Speaker 1: I it stresses me out with the idea that I
- 1:22Speaker 1: could rock into a room and everybody cheers. Does that
- 1:26Speaker 1: really stress you out? Like why you're such a because
- 1:30Speaker 1: the people person. I think it's the idea that like
- 1:34Speaker 1: I think any time I have to be on or
- 1:37Speaker 1: like feel like I have to, you're prepared for it.
- 1:40Speaker 1: That's because like that's our introvert extrovert thing where we
- 1:42Speaker 1: appear to be extroverts, but like in our head we
- 1:46Speaker 1: kind of need to prepare for going into a heavy
- 1:49Speaker 1: social situation exactly. And so if I'm prepared for I'm good.
- 1:53Speaker 1: If I am not, then it would stress me out.
- 1:56Speaker 1: And so now tonight, h Jessica is here with my
- 2:00Speaker 1: family in Indiana. We're gonna have Marguerite of pizza, kale, salad,
- 2:03Speaker 1: and wine, which is my favorite meal, and then we're
- 2:07Speaker 1: gonna have I think strawberry rubar pie of a feeling
- 2:09Speaker 1: that's on the docket, and then we're gonna end the night. Uh,
- 2:13Speaker 1: with a Christopher Robin movie. We're gonna watch Christopher rob
- 2:17Speaker 1: in the movie to celebrate my childhood and how much
- 2:20Speaker 1: I love Pooh. Yeah, we we talked about Christoper Robert
- 2:25Speaker 1: before we got in the air. But but Ben loves Pooh.
- 2:29Speaker 1: And you've never seen that movie where apparently Ewan McGregor
- 2:33Speaker 1: goes and lives his life without Pooh as an adult,
- 2:37Speaker 1: without wanting the Pooh the bear. Just just to be
- 2:40Speaker 1: clear that you and mcgreggor, you're still able to pooh.
- 2:44Speaker 1: He just doesn't have a bear. Um, good one, right, Uh,
- 2:49Speaker 1: we've watched so many good movies, you know, so far,
- 2:51Speaker 1: I think, Ashley. To help out our listeners, let's give
- 2:53Speaker 1: our top three things we've watched, uh since the quarantine
- 2:57Speaker 1: has started. For me, it's black Pants there, it's little
- 3:01Speaker 1: fires everywhere, and I finished the final season is Shameless.
- 3:06Speaker 1: So those are the three things that I've watched during
- 3:09Speaker 1: this that I've really enjoyed. Yeah, you know, Okay, Well,
- 3:11Speaker 1: our big, big argument in this house is that Jared's
- 3:15Speaker 1: not a show watcher. Jared has only watched one show
- 3:19Speaker 1: in his entire life, and it well, I mean as
- 3:21Speaker 1: far as like um what they called episodic, so like
- 3:25Speaker 1: you have to like watch one, two, three, four five,
- 3:27Speaker 1: you know, a real building storyline. Because of course he
- 3:29Speaker 1: watched The Practical Jokers. He'll watch, Um, he's watching f
- 3:33Speaker 1: Is for Family, the cartoon. Um, but he won't watch
- 3:36Speaker 1: like a long story. He gets bored, he says, checks
- 3:39Speaker 1: out by episode three, which makes him a really sucky
- 3:43Speaker 1: Quarantine partner. Um, so we haven't watched any shows he did.
- 3:53Speaker 1: Um introduce the Zodiac, the movie Zodiac that came out
- 3:58Speaker 1: in two thousand seven to my parents, into and I
- 4:00Speaker 1: last night. So that was a really good movie that
- 4:02Speaker 1: I honestly had never even heard of when it was
- 4:05Speaker 1: out in theaters. And um, Robert Johnny Jr. Mark Ruffalo,
- 4:12Speaker 1: it's good. So you guys, you can add Zodiac to
- 4:15Speaker 1: your list. My mom suggested that I watch Legends of
- 4:18Speaker 1: the Fall, which is a Brad Pitt movie. And you, girls,
- 4:25Speaker 1: if this movie is a love letter to Brad Pitt's face,
- 4:29Speaker 1: there's this movie sucks, okay, but the cinematography around Brad
- 4:34Speaker 1: Pitt's appearance, that's what's all about. Like you can tell
- 4:37Speaker 1: the director was like, I'm gonna tell you like a
- 4:39Speaker 1: really script and just make a visual masterpiece of Brad
- 4:45Speaker 1: Pitt's face. Alkay. Moving on the other one we watched,
- 4:49Speaker 1: which is like a little bit more universal, is The
- 4:51Speaker 1: Rainmaker with Matt Damon nineteen And afterwards Jared was like,
- 4:57Speaker 1: I want to be a lawyer, and I was like, baby,
- 4:59Speaker 1: go law school. Let's go to law school. Yeah, you know,
- 5:05Speaker 1: here's a cool part. And listeners, we gotta hear from you.
- 5:09Speaker 1: We're let's say, just like week two of the quarantine
- 5:12Speaker 1: for all of us, give or take a few days
- 5:15Speaker 1: either way. Uh, it's you know, it doesn't feel like
- 5:18Speaker 1: it's ending anytime very soon, and so we need some
- 5:21Speaker 1: suggestions on how to stay entertained during the quarantine. Uh
- 5:24Speaker 1: So write us at been An Ashley at Iheartmatia dot com,
- 5:27Speaker 1: or please hashtag us on Twitter or Instagram at the
- 5:31Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast. We want to read and learn from
- 5:34Speaker 1: you all, So please write us about what are your
- 5:37Speaker 1: things that you're doing during the quarantine to entertain yourselves?
- 5:42Speaker 1: You know, Ashley, quite honestly, Um, I know there's been
- 5:46Speaker 1: a lot of opinions turn around on what this quarantine
- 5:49Speaker 1: has meant for everybody, and I think for most people, uh,
- 5:54Speaker 1: you know, it's been a good time to kind of
- 5:56Speaker 1: go back and spend with family. M Um, I think, hey,
- 6:01Speaker 1: are you so happy to be with your parents? And
- 6:03Speaker 1: just because I'm really glad we chose to do it
- 6:05Speaker 1: with our parents, I am, I am I. I've been
- 6:10Speaker 1: so lucky to be able to be quarantined the way
- 6:12Speaker 1: we are. You know, we my parents live in a
- 6:14Speaker 1: small town Indiana. There's a woods right by their house
- 6:17Speaker 1: that we can get out and move in. Um, just
- 6:19Speaker 1: because here we've been, you know, watching movies at night
- 6:23Speaker 1: and exercising during the day outside and then coming back
- 6:26Speaker 1: into the evening and having good dinners. The truth is,
- 6:30Speaker 1: and you know, this is my birthday, so I get
- 6:31Speaker 1: one second to be preachy here. Um. On the half
- 6:35Speaker 1: of Almost Famous podcast and Ashley and I, the truth is,
- 6:38Speaker 1: there's a lot of people out there really hurting. Um.
- 6:41Speaker 1: I said it last week on the podcast. But you know,
- 6:44Speaker 1: I'm involved in three restaurants to coffee shops, and I
- 6:47Speaker 1: was on tour when this was announced and the tour
- 6:51Speaker 1: shut down and all of the crew had to go
- 6:53Speaker 1: back to New York pretty much in l a, so
- 6:56Speaker 1: very expensive cities without any jobs. Uh. The restaurants that
- 7:01Speaker 1: I'm a part of we had to close down most
- 7:03Speaker 1: of them and consolidate down to one building to do
- 7:06Speaker 1: take out and delivery in Denver, which lets a lot
- 7:09Speaker 1: of people unable to work. Uh. So now we're feeding
- 7:12Speaker 1: about three people a day who have worked at our restaurants.
- 7:16Speaker 1: Um it is, but it's you know, it's not sustainable forever.
- 7:21Speaker 1: And then our coffee shops, one of our coffee shops
- 7:23Speaker 1: is no longer uh operative at all. Um all of
- 7:27Speaker 1: our hourly employees are now uh not working. And so
- 7:32Speaker 1: I say all of this to just say one thing
- 7:34Speaker 1: on my birthday because I feel like I get the
- 7:36Speaker 1: right to do it. Is do something to help people
- 7:39Speaker 1: that are hurting right now. Uh. You know, it doesn't
- 7:41Speaker 1: have to be in close contact. If it's financial eight,
- 7:43Speaker 1: if it's a nice text, a phone call, if it's
- 7:45Speaker 1: going and picking up groceries, if it's uh shoveling somebody
- 7:49Speaker 1: snow that's gone in their driveway, whatever it is. Uh,
- 7:52Speaker 1: during this time of quarantine, as great as maybe it's
- 7:54Speaker 1: been for you and your family, there's somebody out there
- 7:56Speaker 1: that's really really hurting. Uh. And this is really really scary.
- 8:00Speaker 1: And so on behalf of Ashley Night and the Almost
- 8:03Speaker 1: his podcast listeners, look around you do something. This is
- 8:07Speaker 1: our time to stand up and show some love. And
- 8:09Speaker 1: it's I mean, I can think of no better opportunity
- 8:12Speaker 1: than now, uh to stand up and be a light
- 8:14Speaker 1: in a really dark situation. Or hey, here's the other side.
- 8:18Speaker 1: If you're hurting and you're lacking something and you feel
- 8:21Speaker 1: like an outsider and alone and financially you're you're hurting,
- 8:24Speaker 1: except the gifts of the people coming towards you, UM,
- 8:28Speaker 1: ask for help. There are people that that should be
- 8:30Speaker 1: out there, uh searching, and you should be the ones
- 8:33Speaker 1: asking because we're all in this together, no shame and
- 8:36Speaker 1: asking for help. So hey, we were wishing, we're wishing
- 8:39Speaker 1: you the best, okay, ben Um tell them about your
- 8:42Speaker 1: T shirts and your sweatshirts. Jared and I just bought
- 8:44Speaker 1: two sweatshirts. That's a well, you know, I've had an
- 8:47Speaker 1: incredible so over the last two months, I've been working
- 8:50Speaker 1: with a team to launch a new apparel company called
- 8:53Speaker 1: My Fan Threads. And the whole idea of that is
- 8:55Speaker 1: that we can get some friends together to make T
- 8:58Speaker 1: shirts and sell them and it's going to be a
- 9:00Speaker 1: great little side uh hustle for a lot of people.
- 9:03Speaker 1: But as we're getting read launched this, we decided that
- 9:06Speaker 1: obviously now is at the time of watching the company,
- 9:08Speaker 1: and so instead we we kind of shifted gears and
- 9:11Speaker 1: we created a T shirt called Hope Still Wins. And
- 9:15Speaker 1: so we've been starting We sold these T shirts starting
- 9:17Speaker 1: two days ago. I've asked my friends like Ashley and Jared,
- 9:21Speaker 1: a lot of people from Bachelor Nation to kind of
- 9:24Speaker 1: help support and design and promote UH, and so everybody has,
- 9:29Speaker 1: which has been the most incredible thing for me is
- 9:31Speaker 1: to see how supportive my friends are UM, because it's
- 9:35Speaker 1: like the cool and mean it really is the coolest
- 9:37Speaker 1: thing ever is when you ask for help and people respond.
- 9:40Speaker 1: And so like actually said they went out and but
- 9:42Speaker 1: a shirt. All the profits from this shirt, these sweatshirts
- 9:45Speaker 1: are going to go to organizations and two people that
- 9:48Speaker 1: have been directly hurt by the virus and by the
- 9:51Speaker 1: quarantine and by the shutdowns. So far did day, We've
- 9:54Speaker 1: sold over ten thousand dollars with the T shirts, which
- 9:57Speaker 1: will equate to well over five thousand dollars in donations. Uma,
- 10:03Speaker 1: can you repeat that? Yeah, So we're ten thousand dollars.
- 10:06Speaker 1: We sold ten thousand dollars with a T shirts, which
- 10:09Speaker 1: we quate over five thousand dollars in donations because obviously
- 10:12Speaker 1: the T shirts cost something, so that's our profit and
- 10:14Speaker 1: that's two days. But I was gonna say, holy, holy
- 10:18Speaker 1: freaking holy, that's amazing. Yes, it's so cool, my god.
- 10:24Speaker 1: That is just like, that's just the power of social media.
- 10:26Speaker 1: It is. It's just the power of social media and
- 10:28Speaker 1: people caring. And so like what we thought is, hey,
- 10:31Speaker 1: let's try to create a really cool design that people
- 10:33Speaker 1: will want and then we'll sell them. Uh, And people
- 10:37Speaker 1: have caught on and then they've been sharing the hashtag
- 10:39Speaker 1: hope Still Wins, and these stories are being created everywhere,
- 10:43Speaker 1: which is for me. Um, it's just really cool to see,
- 10:46Speaker 1: you know, our almost famous family, the Bachelor Nation family,
- 10:50Speaker 1: my family, my friends, uh go out of their way
- 10:53Speaker 1: to promote something that's going to give back. And so yeah,
- 10:55Speaker 1: if you're interested, go to my fan threads uh dot
- 10:59Speaker 1: com and purchase hopestill One's T shirt and uh, we
- 11:03Speaker 1: are donating as much as possible to feed, to house,
- 11:07Speaker 1: to support, to subsidize people that are really hurting right now. Amazing. Well, Ben,
- 11:14Speaker 1: we have a special birthday guest on the line for you.
- 11:18Speaker 1: But before that special guest comes on the line, and
- 11:21Speaker 1: I know he won't disappoint, we gotta take a break.
- 11:31Speaker 1: Al right, Ben, I've got a special birthday surprise. You
- 11:35Speaker 1: weren't here the last time he was here, but now
- 11:38Speaker 1: you are. Special birthday surprise announced yourself. Please, Happy birthday,
- 11:44Speaker 1: A little brother day. Who is this? Oh? Keep using
- 11:49Speaker 1: your voice? Sometst traumatic birthday ever? Oh my gosh. Hello, Hello,
- 11:56Speaker 1: how are you doing, buddy? Happy birthday? Man? Thanks for
- 12:03Speaker 1: calling in. Man, this is uh, this is very special.
- 12:06Speaker 1: Anytime I can hear your voice. Um, well, my butt
- 12:09Speaker 1: pockers up a little bit, but then I get really happy. Also,
- 12:13Speaker 1: usually bad things are to come, but not. Chris Harrison
- 12:18Speaker 1: is on the line, you guys. He is the star
- 12:21Speaker 1: of a new talk show. It airs every night at
- 12:23Speaker 1: six thirty Pacific on Instagram live with his girlfriend Lauren Zima. Chris,
- 12:29Speaker 1: what are you calling that talk show in which you're
- 12:31Speaker 1: having these really big bachelor stars on. It started out
- 12:35Speaker 1: as a fireside chat and then uh, because the entire
- 12:38Speaker 1: reason was to get everybody to stay home and join us,
- 12:41Speaker 1: we now call it group date because it is the
- 12:43Speaker 1: world's largest group date. Every night. That's so cool. How
- 12:46Speaker 1: many viewers are you getting on that thing? Um, seventy
- 12:50Speaker 1: eight thousand a night? Holy, that is amazing. You've had
- 12:57Speaker 1: Culton on, Caitlin and Jason on. Yeah, and then um,
- 13:01Speaker 1: and then we have a very special maybe birthday addition tonight.
- 13:05Speaker 1: Uh want to ruin it, but he but he is
- 13:07Speaker 1: celebrating a birthday. Uh gives it away. And um, ash you,
- 13:14Speaker 1: you and Jaredy're gonna join us coming up. So yeah,
- 13:18Speaker 1: and then and then we're gonna kind of branch off.
- 13:21Speaker 1: We have some other other celebrity guests are gonna be
- 13:23Speaker 1: joining us. But yeah, it's kind of turned into six
- 13:26Speaker 1: every night, specific time, cocktail hour, grab a grab a
- 13:30Speaker 1: glass and uh, thank forget about your worries for a minute.
- 13:34Speaker 1: How's your relationship going during this quarantine? I feel like
- 13:37Speaker 1: everybody hasn't has kind of like had a relaxing time
- 13:40Speaker 1: this first week, but everybody keeps predicting that it's going
- 13:43Speaker 1: to get worse and worse every week and we're gonna
- 13:46Speaker 1: go stir crazy. How are you and Lauren doing? Just
- 13:49Speaker 1: enjoying the wine right now? Very good? Um, but yeah,
- 13:55Speaker 1: you know, as I think I made the analogy to Colton.
- 13:58Speaker 1: This really is the Bachelor for the rest of the world.
- 14:02Speaker 1: This is what it's like. And you guys can speak
- 14:04Speaker 1: to this. Where you are really and intensely into these relationships.
- 14:10Speaker 1: You cannot get away from each other. You're on top
- 14:12Speaker 1: of each other. This is this is magnifying all the
- 14:16Speaker 1: good and all the bad of all relationships everywhere. We're
- 14:19Speaker 1: gonna have I think a lot of babies, but maybe
- 14:21Speaker 1: also a lot of breakups after this whole thing that's done.
- 14:26Speaker 1: It's fantastic. Hey, Chris, uh real quick? Uh. You by
- 14:31Speaker 1: many are viewed as the relationship expert, not just a
- 14:35Speaker 1: relationship expert, but the relationship expert in all seriousness. As
- 14:39Speaker 1: couples that are married, dating, uh, just starting to hang out,
- 14:43Speaker 1: are hanging out and being together so much so often
- 14:46Speaker 1: right now, do you have any advice for how they
- 14:48Speaker 1: just keep it healthy and happy and at some level
- 14:52Speaker 1: not annoying. I think you've got to be like you know,
- 14:57Speaker 1: we're I think we all got used to be being
- 15:00Speaker 1: able to get away. Uh. And I've talked to friends
- 15:03Speaker 1: of mine. Obviously we have kids. Now you know there
- 15:06Speaker 1: is no getting away. There is no going away to
- 15:09Speaker 1: the office, kids, going to school. Um, as much as
- 15:12Speaker 1: we love our kids, it's a nice break when they
- 15:14Speaker 1: go to school, and it's a nice break for our
- 15:15Speaker 1: kids too, like your kids mentally need that, And so
- 15:18Speaker 1: I think it's still important to try and find ways
- 15:21Speaker 1: to separate a little bit, find your own space, um,
- 15:25Speaker 1: you know, go up into your room or go whatever,
- 15:28Speaker 1: and then come back and have that family time. And
- 15:30Speaker 1: obviously you're not going to miss each other like you
- 15:32Speaker 1: would for eight hours when you're off to work or
- 15:35Speaker 1: off to school, but at least you still got to
- 15:37Speaker 1: find that personal time and your own personal space mentally
- 15:40Speaker 1: and emotionally to kind of deal with some of this stuff, um,
- 15:43Speaker 1: and then be creative, you know, try and still have
- 15:45Speaker 1: date nights, try and have game nights, Try and make
- 15:49Speaker 1: things interesting and different where you're not just methodically plowing
- 15:53Speaker 1: through this. That's really good advice. UM, Chris, you said
- 15:58Speaker 1: this week, I think I don't want to your chats
- 16:01Speaker 1: that you think that Claire Carawley's bachelorette men are most
- 16:04Speaker 1: likely to be partially recast after coronavirus. Do you why?
- 16:09Speaker 1: Why do you think? Why do you think that this
- 16:11Speaker 1: is happening. I'm glad you brought that up because uh,
- 16:15Speaker 1: someone took a bizarre quote and then started making crazy
- 16:18Speaker 1: headlines like Chris Harrison confirms Claire's season is being recast,
- 16:22Speaker 1: and I'm like, wow, that's not at all what I said. Um,
- 16:26Speaker 1: shockingly they got that wrong. But no, all I think was, um,
- 16:31Speaker 1: you know, the chances that all of these men, you know,
- 16:37Speaker 1: many guys were using. The chances that all of these
- 16:40Speaker 1: guys are going to be able to take off a
- 16:42Speaker 1: b single, be probably be healthy. See the opportunity with
- 16:47Speaker 1: their jobs now to take another six to eight ten
- 16:50Speaker 1: weeks off that are probably you know, the chances that
- 16:54Speaker 1: are probably zero. I mean, it's just the scentages are
- 16:57Speaker 1: some of these guys aren't going to be available to
- 16:59Speaker 1: do this, and we're gonna have to probably readjust and
- 17:02Speaker 1: recast some of these guys. And that's just the you know,
- 17:06Speaker 1: that's just me using my common sense. That's not anything
- 17:08Speaker 1: that's groundbreaking or shattering news. It's just that's the world
- 17:12Speaker 1: we're going to live in. I mean, what is this
- 17:14Speaker 1: world going to look like when we get back to
- 17:16Speaker 1: production and a lot of us, you know, my job
- 17:19Speaker 1: is to get back to the batchelor. But for some
- 17:21Speaker 1: of these other guys, they've got to get back to
- 17:23Speaker 1: making the money and creating a career. So you know,
- 17:27Speaker 1: we'll see the uh and Chris and I know this
- 17:30Speaker 1: is probably throwing something out there. I just I think
- 17:32Speaker 1: it's always good to give updates. Has there been any
- 17:35Speaker 1: talking about a return time for anything or is it
- 17:39Speaker 1: just feel like everything is just completely on hold and
- 17:41Speaker 1: there's zero chance or zero even conversations about when when
- 17:45Speaker 1: things will start picking back up. Yeah. I mean, you know,
- 17:49Speaker 1: we're watching the news, conferences and everything as much as anybody,
- 17:52Speaker 1: and and we're not you know, we can't even leave
- 17:54Speaker 1: our homes much less think about production, and so we
- 17:58Speaker 1: are far from you trying to get you know, a
- 18:02Speaker 1: hundred to two people in a room to shoot a show.
- 18:05Speaker 1: As you guys know, it's not just the you know,
- 18:08Speaker 1: one woman Claire in twenty guys. I mean, there's massive
- 18:13Speaker 1: amounts of production and so that's hundreds of people that
- 18:15Speaker 1: would have to be intimately close together. And for that
- 18:19Speaker 1: to happen, things are going to have to get, you know,
- 18:21Speaker 1: a lot better before we could pull pull off something
- 18:24Speaker 1: like that we are talking about. I don't know if
- 18:26Speaker 1: you guys have seen Mike Flye has been tweeting, Um,
- 18:29Speaker 1: just listen to your heart is over. We are talking
- 18:31Speaker 1: about doing something for vatchelor Nation along the lines of, uh,
- 18:36Speaker 1: you know, maybe vatchlor Nation picks uh their favorite episode.
- 18:40Speaker 1: We kind of break it down. We could shoot this
- 18:42Speaker 1: either live or with the Skeleton crew and we tape it.
- 18:46Speaker 1: But some sort of Bachelor Nation type show, all star
- 18:50Speaker 1: reunion show. Um, I think a lot of us are
- 18:53Speaker 1: concerned that Claire just get the shaft and like, you
- 18:56Speaker 1: guys just gonna skip over the Bachelorette season. Is that
- 18:59Speaker 1: is that possible? No, no weight, Um, the Bachelorette's our baby.
- 19:07Speaker 1: You know that's I mean, honestly, the Bachelor and the
- 19:08Speaker 1: Bachelorette are our baby that we consider those you know,
- 19:12Speaker 1: that's the tent pole of this franchise. That's what it
- 19:14Speaker 1: was built on. And um, and for so many reasons,
- 19:18Speaker 1: you know, we don't want to skip over it. Um,
- 19:20Speaker 1: but we can't. I mean, it's it's important to us,
- 19:22Speaker 1: and so no, it's it's not gonna be one of
- 19:24Speaker 1: those things where we just top back in and um.
- 19:27Speaker 1: And again, i mean I'm talking as if I know
- 19:30Speaker 1: how any of this is going to turn out with
- 19:32Speaker 1: this virus. But you know, if things go the way
- 19:36Speaker 1: it's gone around the world, this is a tidal wave
- 19:38Speaker 1: that will eventually blow through and this too shall pass
- 19:41Speaker 1: and yeah, we'll get we will get back to it.
- 19:43Speaker 1: And um, you know, first and foremost on top of
- 19:45Speaker 1: the priority list is Claire and the Bachelorette. Well, I, uh, well,
- 19:51Speaker 1: a little bit about my life right now, Chris, because
- 19:53Speaker 1: I want to talk about me. My golf swing has
- 19:55Speaker 1: never looked better than it has in the backyard of
- 19:57Speaker 1: my house without a golf ball and a drive in
- 20:00Speaker 1: my hand. I hope you're doing the same thing. Um,
- 20:03Speaker 1: there's been a lot of swings in the office. Uh yeah,
- 20:06Speaker 1: the problem is uh and and you're about to lose
- 20:09Speaker 1: half your viewers right now. But what happen is you're
- 20:12Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna start making some swings. You're gonna get
- 20:14Speaker 1: a swing side. Go man, this is late, and you're
- 20:16Speaker 1: gonna practice it. You're gonna take it out on the course.
- 20:18Speaker 1: It's going to be a disaster and within five minutes
- 20:20Speaker 1: you will have forgotten all of that. But right now,
- 20:23Speaker 1: in my mind it feels good. Also, uh, a little
- 20:28Speaker 1: bit about you then, Uh, you're up to a lot
- 20:30Speaker 1: right now, not only right before this whole thing hit.
- 20:33Speaker 1: You just uh launched a great partnership with Seagram's. Uh
- 20:36Speaker 1: you're obviously uh wants this kind of picks back up again.
- 20:39Speaker 1: You're gonna be heavy into I don't know, the thousands
- 20:42Speaker 1: shows that you all are producing and putting on. And
- 20:45Speaker 1: then also I noticed on social media that you've been
- 20:47Speaker 1: partnering during this virus with a few charitable organizations to
- 20:52Speaker 1: try to get back to those who are hurting. Do
- 20:54Speaker 1: you mind just speaking to those real quick before we
- 20:56Speaker 1: say good bout to you? Yeah? First, I mean first
- 21:00Speaker 1: and foremost. Yeah, part of this thing that uh, Lauren
- 21:02Speaker 1: and I have been doing because we're all stuck at home,
- 21:05Speaker 1: and and one was just seeing you know, as they're
- 21:08Speaker 1: calling him, the Corona idiots, Um, the people that are
- 21:11Speaker 1: still you know, going on spring break and hitting the
- 21:13Speaker 1: beaches and and I'm not talking about those of you
- 21:16Speaker 1: going on walks and you know, going for a jog
- 21:18Speaker 1: and you know, keeping your your distance from people, but
- 21:21Speaker 1: those that were like you know, going and playing basketball,
- 21:24Speaker 1: and so I just really horrible ideas. So we thought,
- 21:27Speaker 1: let's create this you know, live thing to keep everybody home. Um.
- 21:31Speaker 1: But then what what good could we do? So we
- 21:33Speaker 1: decided to. You know, I think you guys are probably
- 21:36Speaker 1: on cameo as well, just like we are, where you
- 21:38Speaker 1: can buy a video from us. I also have a
- 21:40Speaker 1: website plus Harrison Official dot com where you can order
- 21:43Speaker 1: videos and all of those proceeds that Lauren and I
- 21:46Speaker 1: are getting, um, you know, last week and for the
- 21:49Speaker 1: foreseeable future, we're going to donate. And we did a
- 21:52Speaker 1: couple of local charities Manor House, UM food Share out
- 21:58Speaker 1: of the Canejo Valley or in Ventura County. Direct Relief
- 22:02Speaker 1: is another one that I love. And Direct Relief is
- 22:04Speaker 1: license to do business and and give air, give aid
- 22:07Speaker 1: in all fifty states. UM, so great charities and we've
- 22:10Speaker 1: raised thousands of dollars already, so we're going to continue
- 22:12Speaker 1: to do it. And it's been awesome. And as for
- 22:16Speaker 1: my secrets, Escape Steal with Tropical Rose sets the drink
- 22:19Speaker 1: and I know you guys have tasted it good. I'm
- 22:23Speaker 1: not just saying this because you're on the line. Holy moly, Chris,
- 22:25Speaker 1: it's so good. And we launched it and it's been
- 22:28Speaker 1: great and the reception has been awesome, and we're in
- 22:30Speaker 1: Walmarts and Total Wines and Smart and Finals and a
- 22:33Speaker 1: bunch of other stores around the country, and um, some
- 22:36Speaker 1: of it's been delayed because of the virus. But you know,
- 22:38Speaker 1: when it gets to spring and summer and we're all
- 22:40Speaker 1: out of our houses, will probably kind of relaunch it
- 22:43Speaker 1: again and do it all over again. But it's been
- 22:45Speaker 1: it's been really good. It's been taken really well, and
- 22:47Speaker 1: everybody who's tasted it kind of like Ashley, really loves it.
- 22:51Speaker 1: That's awesome. Well, hey, Chris, do me a favorite as
- 22:55Speaker 1: a friend, take a bit during this time to rest, relax, recoup.
- 22:59Speaker 1: Thanks for looking out for everybody else in the process
- 23:02Speaker 1: with you and Lauren, you know, donating a time and
- 23:05Speaker 1: your efforts to to those who are hurting. But also
- 23:08Speaker 1: thanks for coming on the podcast. I look forward to
- 23:10Speaker 1: uh speaking you guys. I think this evening. So hey,
- 23:13Speaker 1: thanks man, thanks for coming on, and thanks for the
- 23:15Speaker 1: birthday wishes by Chris. Thank you so much. Well, I
- 23:17Speaker 1: truly love you've been. You're an amazing man and all
- 23:21Speaker 1: the things that you guys the listeners think and hear
- 23:24Speaker 1: about him, it is tenfold that and Ashley can back
- 23:26Speaker 1: me up on that. But always a pleasure to celebrate
- 23:30Speaker 1: you and I look forward to when we can actually
- 23:31Speaker 1: give each other a big hug. Yeah, that's right, buddy. Hey,
- 23:34Speaker 1: we'll talk thanks man, Okay, yes, Ben. Before we get
- 23:44Speaker 1: a special guest on, I do want to talk about
- 23:46Speaker 1: a couple more Bachelor hot topics. Of course, we lightly
- 23:50Speaker 1: brush on the fact that Colton Underwood has as a
- 23:53Speaker 1: positive for Corona. Came out about it a couple of
- 23:55Speaker 1: days ago. A lot of people UM asked me about
- 23:59Speaker 1: like the fact that I was with him. It'll be
- 24:03Speaker 1: I was with him two weeks calm ones day and
- 24:07Speaker 1: Jared and I have shown no symptoms. UM, fourteen days
- 24:11Speaker 1: is about the max amount of time that you'd end
- 24:15Speaker 1: up showing symptoms from being exposed to it. So I'd
- 24:18Speaker 1: say we're okay on catching it from Colton, you know.
- 24:22Speaker 1: I I just want to comment on that too, because
- 24:24Speaker 1: that was an interesting scenario because Colton announced it on Instagram,
- 24:28Speaker 1: and at that time, I was in the process of
- 24:30Speaker 1: kind of advocating for uh, somebody that I know, an
- 24:34Speaker 1: employee of mine, who I think had the virus, and
- 24:37Speaker 1: we're trying to get attested because there was a lot
- 24:39Speaker 1: of unknowns about the virus and if you could treat
- 24:41Speaker 1: it or not at the time, and so I was
- 24:43Speaker 1: frustrated because I was unable to find her and get
- 24:46Speaker 1: her a test, and she was unable to find herself
- 24:48Speaker 1: a test. So I comment on on Colton's Instagram. I said, hey,
- 24:52Speaker 1: how did you get a test? Do you have do
- 24:54Speaker 1: you have any advice? And it kind of blew up,
- 24:57Speaker 1: I'd say in my face, and his people got really
- 24:59Speaker 1: rude towards him. Him, Uh, saying, hey, you know, just
- 25:02Speaker 1: because you're famous, I don't think that's not at all
- 25:04Speaker 1: what I meant. I don't think that's an all true
- 25:06Speaker 1: for him. Uh, if you're sick and you have symptoms, Uh,
- 25:10Speaker 1: nobody's saying don't get a test. It's if you're if
- 25:13Speaker 1: you don't have symptoms, please don't get a test. That's
- 25:16Speaker 1: kind of thing. Yeah, a lot of people are bringing
- 25:19Speaker 1: that up to us. They're like, well, you and Jeremy
- 25:20Speaker 1: to get tested. My dad's a doctor. I asked him. Immediately.
- 25:24Speaker 1: He was like, no, no, that's don't You're not doing that.
- 25:28Speaker 1: So I just want to make it clear, Uh, we
- 25:30Speaker 1: we wish the best report, and I personally wished the
- 25:32Speaker 1: best report. And I was really intrigued and interested and
- 25:34Speaker 1: also frustrated with this system at that point because I
- 25:37Speaker 1: had somebody had a fever for four straight days that
- 25:40Speaker 1: I care about and I was then able to find
- 25:41Speaker 1: her any help. So how's she doing now? Uh, first
- 25:45Speaker 1: day to this today where she had a temperature below
- 25:47Speaker 1: a hundred and five days? Okay, so who knows what
- 25:51Speaker 1: she has? Still no test available, but she's getting better.
- 25:54Speaker 1: So sorry. Actually, on the the next topic, Okay, So,
- 25:57Speaker 1: Kelly Flannagan says Nick Vile didn't disappoint amongst dating rumors.
- 26:03Speaker 1: This is from Cosmopolitan. The two of them met at
- 26:07Speaker 1: Chris Harrison's Seagram's launch, and of course Nick didn't lose
- 26:13Speaker 1: the opportunity to post a picture of him and Kelly together, saying, well,
- 26:18Speaker 1: she's not dating Peter and it looks like now Kelly
- 26:25Speaker 1: is saying two words during Okay, So basically she got
- 26:30Speaker 1: on Instagram Live and somebody asked her about Nick, and
- 26:34Speaker 1: then she said two words didn't disappoint. Oh boy, playing
- 26:40Speaker 1: it up. We all know they're playing it up. I mean,
- 26:44Speaker 1: it's just here, here's the one thing. During this time
- 26:47Speaker 1: I know they probably aren't seeing each other. Um, you know,
- 26:51Speaker 1: Nick is Nick and he you know he's a single
- 26:55Speaker 1: and she's single, and they if they're dating, great, but
- 26:58Speaker 1: this is definitely being played up. And why not. They're
- 27:01Speaker 1: keeping us talking about it, and look at us now
- 27:03Speaker 1: we're talking about it. Yeah. And I think she got
- 27:06Speaker 1: those two words because Nick said on his podcast she's
- 27:10Speaker 1: a nice person. She didn't disappoint in person. I thought
- 27:14Speaker 1: she'd be cool in person. Everyone likes to think that
- 27:17Speaker 1: there's always something going on, and there's not. You know,
- 27:21Speaker 1: who knows. I mean, I'm sure they exchanged numbers. I
- 27:24Speaker 1: can say that. Yeah, good, I mean, hey, why not.
- 27:26Speaker 1: We always love a good bachelor romance, and we love
- 27:29Speaker 1: that for Nick. He's a good friend. I've never met Kelly,
- 27:32Speaker 1: but he likes a lawyer type. Yeah. The day the
- 27:36Speaker 1: day Nick calls us and says he's got a girlfriend
- 27:40Speaker 1: that he's like serious with is the day I absolutely
- 27:43Speaker 1: celebrate my pants off the same. Oh my god, that'll
- 27:47Speaker 1: be amazing. All right, next topic, Peter Weber is moving
- 27:51Speaker 1: out of his parents house and Barbed seems okay with it.
- 27:55Speaker 1: I have to interject here and say Ben and I
- 27:58Speaker 1: texted about that weird talk that Peter put up with
- 28:01Speaker 1: him dancing like the salt Cell of his mom. I'm like, holy,
- 28:05Speaker 1: this family. Here's the thing. I don't get this headline. Actually,
- 28:12Speaker 1: what is it gonna be? Peter Webbers moving out of
- 28:14Speaker 1: his parents house and his mom's not okay with it? Like,
- 28:16Speaker 1: of course she's gonna be okay with it. The dude
- 28:18Speaker 1: thirty years old almost like, hey, great that they support
- 28:22Speaker 1: him this long, But she's gotta be okay with him
- 28:24Speaker 1: moving out. If not, we have a whole new conversation
- 28:26Speaker 1: to have that's even otter than anything else, Like, yes,
- 28:30Speaker 1: he's moving out. We're excited for Peter. It's gonna be
- 28:33Speaker 1: great for Peter. I love my family so much. Um,
- 28:37Speaker 1: you love your family so much. But there's been nothing
- 28:40Speaker 1: healthier for me in my life than moving away from
- 28:44Speaker 1: them to build my own life, to understand myself a
- 28:47Speaker 1: little bit more. Am not have them weighing in on
- 28:50Speaker 1: every small decision that I'm making because I'm able to
- 28:53Speaker 1: learn and fall and fail and get back up again
- 28:57Speaker 1: and do it myself and take it myself. Jared and
- 29:00Speaker 1: I went on a walk yesterday and he was like,
- 29:03Speaker 1: I miss our l a place. I was like, wow, babe, Like,
- 29:06Speaker 1: that's the first time you've ever said that. He missed
- 29:07Speaker 1: anything about l A and he's like, well, I love
- 29:10Speaker 1: being here. I'm glad that we're with our family during
- 29:13Speaker 1: all this, for sure, but it does make me appreciate
- 29:16Speaker 1: the little decisions that we make on a day to
- 29:18Speaker 1: day basis, even if it's just like what we're going
- 29:20Speaker 1: to have for dinner that we discussed just the two
- 29:23Speaker 1: of us, and it doesn't have to be like a
- 29:24Speaker 1: big thing. And like when your mom buys groceries, like
- 29:28Speaker 1: she's you know, she's the one in charge, like she's
- 29:30Speaker 1: really like the parent here, and I have to tell
- 29:32Speaker 1: her what I want. It's like I just kind of
- 29:34Speaker 1: want to buy groceries on my own. It's like the
- 29:36Speaker 1: little things. Well, Sinela Taco, who is a dancer on
- 29:40Speaker 1: The Bachelor Live on Stage, one of my good friends
- 29:43Speaker 1: now and I love her dearly. I feel like she's
- 29:44Speaker 1: my sister. After the Life tour, she texts me on
- 29:47Speaker 1: the day and I said, hey, how are you holding up?
- 29:48Speaker 1: She's like, I'm holding up like a teenager all over again.
- 29:50Speaker 1: And my parents basement, eating their food there, snacks, ling
- 29:53Speaker 1: on their couch watching TV with them at night. It's
- 29:55Speaker 1: it's teenage life all over. It really is like last night,
- 29:58Speaker 1: I was like, Mom, are my fish sticks ready? Like,
- 30:01Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding you. Fish sticks fan fantastic. But
- 30:07Speaker 1: to get back to the headline, basically, Peter says yes,
- 30:12Speaker 1: and then Barb says, yeah, we're gonna be empty nesters.
- 30:15Speaker 1: I don't know if that means that the brother is
- 30:17Speaker 1: also going to move out, but Peter says that he's
- 30:20Speaker 1: either going to hit up n y C Or l
- 30:23Speaker 1: A in the next uh for about a year. Oh yeah,
- 30:29Speaker 1: he's gonna be there here, he says, Oh, well, don't
- 30:31Speaker 1: we think that he'll be in l A. Yeah, I
- 30:33Speaker 1: would imagine. I imagine Peter goes to l A, which
- 30:37Speaker 1: makes sense. It's close to his hometown thirty minutes away.
- 30:43Speaker 1: Really moving, I mean I'm not saying that. Of course,
- 30:45Speaker 1: it's moving out of your parents house. Heck yeah, it's
- 30:48Speaker 1: moving out of your parents house. It's l A is
- 30:52Speaker 1: a big city. I know this from my experience out there. Oh,
- 30:55Speaker 1: l A still overwhelms me. So like for me to
- 30:58Speaker 1: travel from one side of the city to another is
- 31:00Speaker 1: like a completely different world. So I say, anybody that
- 31:03Speaker 1: even moved from like Santa Monica to Burbank, if you
- 31:06Speaker 1: grew up in Santa Monica. You moved to Burbank like
- 31:08Speaker 1: that is a move to get your wings. I really
- 31:11Speaker 1: think so okay, because I think of him living in
- 31:14Speaker 1: l A. The fact that he lives in Westlake Village
- 31:16Speaker 1: makes you feel like he does live in l A.
- 31:18Speaker 1: But I guess that's because I'm not a native. Yeah,
- 31:21Speaker 1: that's just my thought. Good for Peter m this is
- 31:23Speaker 1: the right move and let's uh we'll fall along with
- 31:27Speaker 1: his journey. I have a feeling Peter will not be
- 31:28Speaker 1: moving back home anytime soon. We should also make a
- 31:32Speaker 1: note that the Weber family says that they have been
- 31:35Speaker 1: closer than ever in quarantine. And lastly, how could we
- 31:40Speaker 1: have a Bachelor Hot Topics segment without talking about Hannah
- 31:43Speaker 1: Brown and Tyler Cameron all their TikTok videos, all the Instagrams?
- 31:50Speaker 1: Then are they still together in Florida right now? Do
- 31:54Speaker 1: we know? I mean, as of yesterday, it sure seemed
- 31:57Speaker 1: like it. And just so I know a little context here,
- 32:02Speaker 1: they've yet to uh communicate that they're dating or hooking
- 32:05Speaker 1: up or like hanging out at all? Right, this is
- 32:06Speaker 1: like a friendly hangout, supposedly supposedly a friendly hang out,
- 32:09Speaker 1: but there's like no addressing the topic of whether they're
- 32:13Speaker 1: dating or not are hooking up? I mean, are you
- 32:15Speaker 1: are we being serious? We think that they're quarantined together
- 32:17Speaker 1: with six people in a household and they're not hooking up.
- 32:21Speaker 1: I would be shocked. I mean, if they're friends, they're friends.
- 32:26Speaker 1: I don't know the context. I don't think they've even
- 32:28Speaker 1: like when then they've been asked a question of hey,
- 32:31Speaker 1: are they dating or not? I don't think they said
- 32:32Speaker 1: they're not. So like if I was if I had
- 32:34Speaker 1: an X come back and stay with me in my
- 32:37Speaker 1: house for a week, and the idea when somebody asking me,
- 32:41Speaker 1: you guys dating, and I would just say, we're not
- 32:43Speaker 1: not dating. That hence to hey, they're hanging out, they're
- 32:46Speaker 1: trying to get to know each other. Here's the part
- 32:48Speaker 1: to me that's crazy. They've been very about this, very quickly,
- 32:53Speaker 1: and I am shocked at how public they've been and
- 32:57Speaker 1: how okay they are with being this public. For me,
- 33:01Speaker 1: most of the time when we see two people start
- 33:03Speaker 1: dating and hanging out, they try to keep it a
- 33:04Speaker 1: little private. But I mean, this is going up on Instagram.
- 33:08Speaker 1: I mean I feel like the world's following along. They've
- 33:10Speaker 1: been doing skits together, they've been working out together. If
- 33:14Speaker 1: they aren't dating, well they've thrown us off for a loop. Well,
- 33:18Speaker 1: Jared brought the topic yesterday when people were asking this,
- 33:21Speaker 1: asking us about this on our Instagram Live. They were like,
- 33:26Speaker 1: are they dating? And then Jared is like, you can
- 33:29Speaker 1: be hooking up without dating, But like, I'm like, how
- 33:32Speaker 1: old are you? What do you think? I was like,
- 33:35Speaker 1: I mean their dating. If you're quarantined together and you're
- 33:38Speaker 1: hooking up, you're dating. Yeah. I don't know, Like the
- 33:41Speaker 1: I don't know the fine line between either. I've always
- 33:43Speaker 1: been confused with the dating things. Like I remember last
- 33:46Speaker 1: year at this time, you taught me what shipping means.
- 33:48Speaker 1: Like I'm always away behind times when it comes to
- 33:51Speaker 1: who what's dating mean? What's hanging out mean? What's I
- 33:55Speaker 1: just don't get that stuff. All I know is this,
- 33:58Speaker 1: if you're publicly, like, if you're publicizing the fact that
- 34:02Speaker 1: you're hanging out with somebody that you're into romantically at
- 34:06Speaker 1: any level, in my mind, my associate that with daty
- 34:10Speaker 1: right now, does that mean you have to be exclusive? No,
- 34:12Speaker 1: there's there's that whole right now they're exclusive for right now.
- 34:18Speaker 1: I have a feeling that they're having a blast um.
- 34:22Speaker 1: You know again, a few weeks ago we talked about
- 34:25Speaker 1: this and then all this comes in wake of Tyler, Cameron,
- 34:28Speaker 1: and his brother and the family losing their mom. It is,
- 34:32Speaker 1: there's two sides of this. One it's really great to
- 34:34Speaker 1: see them being able to laugh and celebrate and be
- 34:38Speaker 1: joy filled. The second is this does feel like at
- 34:42Speaker 1: least a drastic switch mentally, uh, you know, for him
- 34:46Speaker 1: now to be pursuing Hannah. But here's the cool part
- 34:48Speaker 1: that I read as I was trying to look into
- 34:51Speaker 1: this is how quick you know why she came back
- 34:52Speaker 1: into his life, actually came back in during the process
- 34:57Speaker 1: of losing his mom to support Tyler. Um, which would
- 35:01Speaker 1: make sense on why you know she's around for this
- 35:03Speaker 1: quarantine because I have a feeling that got a lot
- 35:05Speaker 1: closer during that and so maybe this is a really
- 35:08Speaker 1: good partnership of mutual support, uh, and that through this
- 35:12Speaker 1: time Hannah has been a rock to bring joy to
- 35:14Speaker 1: Tyler's life. And if that's the case, is that not
- 35:16Speaker 1: what you want in a romantic relationship. So Hey, from
- 35:19Speaker 1: the almost famous podcast Ash and I just want to say,
- 35:21Speaker 1: Tyler and Hannah keep us updated. Uh not too much
- 35:24Speaker 1: because my Instagram feed is just like when I look
- 35:26Speaker 1: at the search page now, which is videos of the
- 35:28Speaker 1: two of you. Congratulations on at least finding somebody hang
- 35:33Speaker 1: out with. Oh, and just to go back to what
- 35:34Speaker 1: Chris Harrison said earlier, I mean, if they have any
- 35:39Speaker 1: doubt on whether or not, like this is gonna be
- 35:41Speaker 1: a long haul thing, this is going to be a fling,
- 35:43Speaker 1: well they will. They will know at the end of
- 35:45Speaker 1: this quarantine, you will know. Uh, and the worst comes
- 35:50Speaker 1: the worst. They had a really good time. I mean,
- 35:52Speaker 1: we can already any other hot topics. Actually nope, that's it,
- 35:55Speaker 1: but right now we have to take a break before
- 35:57Speaker 1: getting your other birthday guests on the line and we're back.
- 36:08Speaker 1: Is our birthday guess on the line? Hello? Oh, Hi,
- 36:13Speaker 1: who is this? I'm watching Ben's expression as you just
- 36:22Speaker 1: like are popping in on another room. Hi, honey, he's
- 36:28Speaker 1: literally go oh, I can see her. She's in the
- 36:34Speaker 1: other room. Literally, how's my girl doing good? How's the
- 36:38Speaker 1: social distancing for the past thirty minutes? I know we've
- 36:43Speaker 1: been together for most of the week. Now the part
- 36:46Speaker 1: through windows to the here's a cool part. Actually, I
- 36:51Speaker 1: have a little advice for anybody listening um on how
- 36:55Speaker 1: you can keep a romantic relationship thriving. One is Jessica
- 36:59Speaker 1: and I both spent at least an hour and a
- 37:01Speaker 1: half of our day exercising separately. And so we've we've
- 37:06Speaker 1: done our own thing. We've taken walks outside, we've done
- 37:10Speaker 1: our own like ad exercises inside separately, and then we
- 37:13Speaker 1: come back together afterwards to just do a puzzle or
- 37:17Speaker 1: to hang out or whatever the rest after it looks
- 37:19Speaker 1: like but I'm not kidding. We have spent uh the
- 37:24Speaker 1: last week with with my parents and just in the
- 37:28Speaker 1: same house and our cat Diamond, and it has been
- 37:31Speaker 1: really special, don't you think, hun, Yeah, it's been really
- 37:36Speaker 1: fun and super relaxing. Actually, we I feel like our
- 37:39Speaker 1: relationship is so different because we never get nice where
- 37:42Speaker 1: we just get to watch the movie and now we've
- 37:44Speaker 1: had seven in a row. Yeah, and you guys have
- 37:47Speaker 1: never lived together, so that's like a little practice in
- 37:50Speaker 1: that anything you've learned about each other that you wouldn't
- 37:55Speaker 1: have known had you not had this week to live together.
- 37:59Speaker 1: You know. One of the things I've learned is I've
- 38:01Speaker 1: always known that Jessica's family is very important to her
- 38:05Speaker 1: and I've also known that my family is very important
- 38:07Speaker 1: to her. But what are the cool parts about spending
- 38:11Speaker 1: the week together my parents house so far is just
- 38:13Speaker 1: how intrigued and curious and interested she is and just
- 38:16Speaker 1: getting to spend time with everybody. And so it's been
- 38:19Speaker 1: really cool to see her uh love on my family,
- 38:22Speaker 1: love on me, support me, help out where she can. Uh.
- 38:27Speaker 1: And I don't think we would have experienced that unless
- 38:29Speaker 1: we had a unique scenario where we're gonna be stuck
- 38:32Speaker 1: inside together for seven days. Jess, what do you think? Yeah, Um,
- 38:40Speaker 1: I think for me it's been uh kind of being around.
- 38:45Speaker 1: Been in a really hard week too for him as
- 38:48Speaker 1: a leader, and um, I mean he's doing how he
- 38:51Speaker 1: handles himself under stress. I've never been with him in
- 38:55Speaker 1: something in a situation where it would be like, genuinely
- 39:00Speaker 1: it could be. I mean, it is disastrous, and he's
- 39:02Speaker 1: just handled himself so gracefully, and he's loved others so well,
- 39:06Speaker 1: and he never once complains about his situation. But it's
- 39:09Speaker 1: super willing to give to others. And if something I
- 39:12Speaker 1: always knew about him, but seeing it in such an
- 39:14Speaker 1: intense time, it's been really cool too. That's so awesome. Yeah,
- 39:18Speaker 1: that's such an important quality to see in the person
- 39:20Speaker 1: that that you, you know, wonder if you're gonna spend
- 39:24Speaker 1: forever with. It's good to see them under pressure. It
- 39:30Speaker 1: has been, you know, for both of us. And I
- 39:33Speaker 1: think that's what we were talking about earlier, Ashley, is
- 39:36Speaker 1: everybody's hurting in their own ways right now, and some
- 39:39Speaker 1: worse than others, and some have different difficulties and we
- 39:42Speaker 1: can't compare each other's own pains, but this is, this
- 39:47Speaker 1: is really bringing to the surface that all of us
- 39:49Speaker 1: need each other. And it's been really awesome to have uh,
- 39:53Speaker 1: my sweet sweet girlfriend there beside me as we do
- 39:57Speaker 1: manage through these situations. So hey, seven days with Jess
- 40:00Speaker 1: in the house and I am more in love than
- 40:03Speaker 1: ever like you goods, you're so key. Yeah, alright, we'll
- 40:15Speaker 1: do a check up on Ben and just in a month. Alright,
- 40:20Speaker 1: that'll be that'll be an interesting dichotomy maybe. Alright, well, Jess,
- 40:24Speaker 1: thanks for joining us. We have our final surprise birthday
- 40:27Speaker 1: guest for Ben on the line. Special Guests. I'm gonna
- 40:31Speaker 1: have you just say the word hi, Ben, the words
- 40:35Speaker 1: high Ben, and I want to see if he can
- 40:36Speaker 1: tell who it is just based on the words hey Ben,
- 40:41Speaker 1: oh boy, that's a tough one. I don't know if
- 40:45Speaker 1: I can get it. I think this. I think I'm
- 40:48Speaker 1: gonna have to have a little more okay, so say
- 40:50Speaker 1: hi Ben and Ashley, I hey Ben and Ashley, I
- 40:55Speaker 1: oh man. And Sean Booth is a man that as
- 41:00Speaker 1: soon as he says Ashley, I really it just it
- 41:04Speaker 1: stings deep. I love it. A little upset you didn't
- 41:08Speaker 1: get it on the first one, but I'll let it plot.
- 41:11Speaker 1: Oh man, I will hey that that just that. The
- 41:15Speaker 1: voice that you have, Sean, at one point in your life,
- 41:18Speaker 1: literally melted a nation. Um. I wish I could say
- 41:22Speaker 1: the same thing about myself. How are you doing, buddy,
- 41:25Speaker 1: I'm doing good. I was actually just on Instagram. I
- 41:28Speaker 1: saw yourself. You're still looking good at thirty one. You
- 41:31Speaker 1: still got a full out of the hair and you
- 41:33Speaker 1: got that gorgeous smile. So you're doing all right. Well,
- 41:36Speaker 1: here's the funny part. Um. Back when I first met you,
- 41:40Speaker 1: I think I was like twenty five or twenty four,
- 41:42Speaker 1: and I had already started to like have a receding hairline.
- 41:45Speaker 1: And at that point in time, if you have told
- 41:46Speaker 1: me a thirty one you would have had a full
- 41:49Speaker 1: head of hair. I'd have said, there's no way, like
- 41:51Speaker 1: this is going down fast for me and so I
- 41:53Speaker 1: have to find a wife quick. Well here's the great news.
- 41:56Speaker 1: At one, my hairline has only gotten that. I am
- 42:00Speaker 1: thriving right now. The rule right like, if you make
- 42:06Speaker 1: it past thirty with your hair, you have it for
- 42:08Speaker 1: the rest of your life. Is like an unwritten rule. Yes,
- 42:12Speaker 1: in my eyes, it is. It is. You know, there's
- 42:15Speaker 1: days Sean, Uh still to this day. I guess. Um.
- 42:19Speaker 1: I just was on Instagram the other day and I
- 42:20Speaker 1: saw a picture of you in the shower and uh,
- 42:23Speaker 1: you had your hair. I'll sleep back and uh and uh,
- 42:27Speaker 1: you know I still get hair and v from you.
- 42:29Speaker 1: I still get in. I've envied you, uh in a
- 42:32Speaker 1: lot of ways for a while, especially when it comes
- 42:35Speaker 1: to your ability to cuddle with the cutest golden retriever
- 42:38Speaker 1: there is on the face of the earth. How is
- 42:40Speaker 1: being quarantined uh with your your favorite dog right now?
- 42:46Speaker 1: Oh man, that's all I was saying yesterday. It's like
- 42:48Speaker 1: the best thing. It's like a huge win for all
- 42:50Speaker 1: the dogs around the world. Um. Yeah, I'm spending as
- 42:54Speaker 1: much time as I can with him now. It's not
- 42:56Speaker 1: really different than any other day, but it just seems
- 42:58Speaker 1: a little extra special now. So he's enjoying the quarantine.
- 43:01Speaker 1: I'm trying to I hope you guys are as well.
- 43:04Speaker 1: You guys staying healthy out there? What. Yeah, we're doing
- 43:06Speaker 1: pretty good, enjoying TV, couple and family time. The the
- 43:12Speaker 1: interesting thing is for all you listeners out there, Uh,
- 43:15Speaker 1: we just talked to my girlfriend Jessica, and she is
- 43:18Speaker 1: a committed member of uh UM Sean's gym in uh Nashville,
- 43:25Speaker 1: and so Jessica has been leading myself and my family
- 43:28Speaker 1: through workouts during the day just to keep us healthy
- 43:30Speaker 1: and happy. Sean, what's the status of boot camp right
- 43:34Speaker 1: now with the shutdown? And how are you, I mean,
- 43:37Speaker 1: how is how are you doing personally knowing that this
- 43:39Speaker 1: gym that you've put a lot of work and effort
- 43:41Speaker 1: into is now just kind of quiet. Yeah, Well, first off,
- 43:46Speaker 1: we do miss jess she's definitely uh committed in memory
- 43:49Speaker 1: ABC and I also might add I'm pretty sure she
- 43:52Speaker 1: is the fastest person at the gym, so I want
- 43:56Speaker 1: to try and take her on in a fifty yard dash.
- 43:59Speaker 1: And then secondly, and is shut down unfortunately, but we
- 44:04Speaker 1: are still keeping everything going with online classes, so we've
- 44:08Speaker 1: been filming that the last couple of days and just
- 44:10Speaker 1: trying to give our members as much as we can.
- 44:13Speaker 1: But you know, at the end of the day, there's
- 44:15Speaker 1: a lot more important things here. So it's fine. We're
- 44:18Speaker 1: gonna find a way to make it work. And obviously
- 44:20Speaker 1: we just hope that every day is healthy and then
- 44:22Speaker 1: it'll all get back to normal sooner rather than later, hopefully. Sean,
- 44:27Speaker 1: are you quarantined with anyone other than the Pucci Nope,
- 44:30Speaker 1: that's it me and tuch Ah. Well, I kind of
- 44:35Speaker 1: am curious. How is it being quarantined solo? Well, um,
- 44:40Speaker 1: I mean it's like being every other day basically. Obviously,
- 44:44Speaker 1: I put a lot of time in my work and
- 44:46Speaker 1: then um, you know, I still have been coming to
- 44:49Speaker 1: the gym here with our trainers to finish these classes.
- 44:53Speaker 1: I know we can't be spending too much time with
- 44:55Speaker 1: each other, but um yeah, I mean that's all I
- 44:58Speaker 1: really need right now up, So it's no different and uh,
- 45:02Speaker 1: just making the best of it. We've been asking most
- 45:05Speaker 1: of our guests, Sean, what they're doing to stay occupied,
- 45:08Speaker 1: so outside of work and outside of the cuddle time
- 45:11Speaker 1: with Tuck. What are you doing personally to stay engaged, entertained,
- 45:15Speaker 1: insane during the quarantine. Yeah, I've been trying to watch
- 45:21Speaker 1: a little more Netflix. I haven't been watching too much
- 45:24Speaker 1: TV lately, so I started a couple of shows which
- 45:27Speaker 1: I've been enjoying, um doing. I think it's also like
- 45:30Speaker 1: the best time to get some stuff done around the house.
- 45:32Speaker 1: I have bought a house a few months ago, so
- 45:35Speaker 1: now that I finally had this time where I'm forced
- 45:37Speaker 1: to stay home, just fixing up things, um, doing some
- 45:41Speaker 1: online shopping which is gonna get a little dangerous here
- 45:43Speaker 1: pretty soon. Um So just doing like the of things
- 45:47Speaker 1: that I needed to get done now. I heard a
- 45:49Speaker 1: couple of days ago that there's a lot of people
- 45:51Speaker 1: still going out to the bars in Nashville. Have you
- 45:54Speaker 1: driven around at all seeing that die down? Hopefully? Yeah,
- 46:00Speaker 1: So that was like super annoying. Obviously, there was a
- 46:06Speaker 1: few nights last week actually most of last week where
- 46:09Speaker 1: the bars were still packed. And then that's where we
- 46:13Speaker 1: started getting real trick for us, because we're like, because
- 46:15Speaker 1: we were still open um and we're starting to see
- 46:18Speaker 1: a lot of our members and people going out to
- 46:22Speaker 1: all these bars they're posting about it, and then that's
- 46:26Speaker 1: where we're like, all right, we can't do this anymore.
- 46:28Speaker 1: And now as of late they just had the mandated shutdown,
- 46:34Speaker 1: um as of yesterday. So what happened to There was
- 46:37Speaker 1: a lot of bars here down in Broadway, and there
- 46:41Speaker 1: was one owner that kind of owns a whole bunch
- 46:43Speaker 1: of them, and he wasn't shutting down. So everybody's like,
- 46:46Speaker 1: well they're not shutting down. I'm still going. So I'm
- 46:49Speaker 1: glad that they finally had to force them shutdown. Yeah,
- 46:52Speaker 1: I just uh, I mean, the world is always interested
- 46:55Speaker 1: in you, and you've built a very successful business there
- 46:57Speaker 1: in Nashville that I've gotten to ce and be a
- 46:59Speaker 1: part of. Uh. You obviously, uh, and you and I
- 47:03Speaker 1: both have to talk about this all the time. You
- 47:05Speaker 1: you were out of a public uh breakup in your relationships,
- 47:09Speaker 1: your love relationships, I let I guess have been quiet
- 47:12Speaker 1: since then, which is understandable. But I'd say your life,
- 47:16Speaker 1: if anything, has not been kind of secretive. How has
- 47:19Speaker 1: it been now navigating life? Um with this kind of
- 47:22Speaker 1: new uh, I guess, uh season of singleness, UH, with
- 47:28Speaker 1: your business being the focus, how are you doing personally?
- 47:33Speaker 1: Because really last time the almost Famous People heard from
- 47:35Speaker 1: you was during our In Depth, which I think was
- 47:38Speaker 1: an incredible episode where we got to hear your heart
- 47:40Speaker 1: and who you were a lot better. But we need
- 47:43Speaker 1: a little update. How are you doing? Yeah, I'm doing great,
- 47:48Speaker 1: and it's to get a little flashback for the last
- 47:50Speaker 1: time talking. And I would actually thinking about that the
- 47:53Speaker 1: other day, like I really feel like that podcast when
- 47:56Speaker 1: I talked to you guys like a therapy session that
- 47:59Speaker 1: I needed, and like it was great and miserable and
- 48:04Speaker 1: sad and all these emotions that I went through, and
- 48:06Speaker 1: like ever since then, I was like, all right, cool,
- 48:08Speaker 1: it's like I'm I can move on now. And uh
- 48:10Speaker 1: so I'm appreciative of you guys, let me on and
- 48:13Speaker 1: kind of talk about that. And then since then, man,
- 48:15Speaker 1: things have calmed down a lot, which is great. You know,
- 48:17Speaker 1: things are really normal for me. I live with normal
- 48:19Speaker 1: life here in Nashville. UM. I love obviously being around
- 48:23Speaker 1: my Kim and and that has brought in a ton
- 48:26Speaker 1: of great friends, um in my life and we have
- 48:29Speaker 1: this made the community. So I mean it's it's pretty
- 48:33Speaker 1: normal right now, which is good. And I'm just working
- 48:36Speaker 1: hard and doing a little bit of traveling. I told
- 48:38Speaker 1: myself I wanted to slow down and travel the last
- 48:40Speaker 1: few months, um and just kind of focus on other
- 48:44Speaker 1: things because, as you guys know, it feels like, you know,
- 48:46Speaker 1: once you go on that show and you start doing
- 48:49Speaker 1: all these events and you guys are still doing this,
- 48:51Speaker 1: you're on the road every week, and it starts to
- 48:53Speaker 1: kind of it started to wear me down a little bit.
- 48:55Speaker 1: So it's nice to actually set up shop, get a house, um,
- 49:00Speaker 1: to get a home for want to feel like a home,
- 49:02Speaker 1: and just kind of, you know, taking it day by day.
- 49:04Speaker 1: But then it's awesome before you leave. I wanted to
- 49:09Speaker 1: tell you guys about this game that we've been playing.
- 49:13Speaker 1: It's you could do. You could do multiple takes on it,
- 49:16Speaker 1: but it's um, which Bachelor's star would you want to
- 49:21Speaker 1: be quarantined? Quarantined with? Which Bachelor's star would you want
- 49:25Speaker 1: would would be able to pick you up at a
- 49:27Speaker 1: bar most easily? So this is how you can do it.
- 49:30Speaker 1: You go who would you rather be quarantined with? Ashley
- 49:33Speaker 1: or Ben? And then you go Ben, who would you
- 49:35Speaker 1: rather be quarantined with? Ben? Or Sean? And then you
- 49:38Speaker 1: go and then you decide from there and then like,
- 49:40Speaker 1: let's just pretend Ben wins. Again, let's pretend Sean wins. Okay,
- 49:43Speaker 1: So who would you rather be quarantined with Sean or Colton? Well,
- 49:47Speaker 1: you definitely don't want to be quartu cult right now,
- 49:50Speaker 1: bad example, Shan, Sean or Mike Johnson. Okay, And then
- 49:58Speaker 1: like you keep going until that person just keeps winding
- 50:02Speaker 1: over and over again, and it's like who. Then you
- 50:05Speaker 1: think about this is for the girls out there or
- 50:08Speaker 1: the gay guys. If you're sitting at a bar and
- 50:11Speaker 1: you have Sean and Ben next to you, who's gonna
- 50:13Speaker 1: pick you up at the bar easier? And then you
- 50:16Speaker 1: you take it from there. Then you added another layer.
- 50:18Speaker 1: It's so much fun. Yeah, it's like Mary after Killed
- 50:25Speaker 1: back in the day in like middle school. Yeah kind of.
- 50:30Speaker 1: I guess I'm just starting to get I've had to
- 50:33Speaker 1: like get off social media for the last few days
- 50:35Speaker 1: because I mean, I know people are bored, but it's
- 50:38Speaker 1: really starting to show on Instagram, and I mean, some
- 50:41Speaker 1: of these challenges are fun and then some of them
- 50:43Speaker 1: are just getting ridiculous, where it's like, all right, you're
- 50:46Speaker 1: gonna squat your dog and you've got to eat fourteen
- 50:51Speaker 1: bowls of cereal in two minutes back when people go
- 50:55Speaker 1: it's outrageous. I've done some weird stuff in my living
- 50:59Speaker 1: room show on. I've done tin push ups. I've done
- 51:01Speaker 1: fifteen sit ups, which he knows a lot for me,
- 51:03Speaker 1: and it's gotten hard the whole time. Hey, Sean, before
- 51:06Speaker 1: we go, I gotta tell you one last story. UM,
- 51:08Speaker 1: I think you'll appreciate it. Uh. Yesterday I went on
- 51:12Speaker 1: a run and Jessica and I've left my house at
- 51:14Speaker 1: the same time. By the time we met, we hit
- 51:16Speaker 1: the two mile mark. I had a buddy that I
- 51:19Speaker 1: saw while I was running and I yelled at him.
- 51:20Speaker 1: I was like, hey, have you seen Jessica And she said, yeah,
- 51:22Speaker 1: she's about a half mile ahead of you. Um up
- 51:25Speaker 1: in front. So here's the point of the story. My girlfriend,
- 51:29Speaker 1: as you said, is the fastest person I've ever met.
- 51:32Speaker 1: She has not slowed down. And Uh, it's really fun
- 51:35Speaker 1: to have a girlfriend who just blows you away and
- 51:38Speaker 1: so everybody can laugh at you while you're running. Uh. Sean,
- 51:41Speaker 1: we love you, we appreciate you. Thank you for coming
- 51:44Speaker 1: back on the almost famous podcast. Uh, and please um
- 51:48Speaker 1: keep us informed when booth Camp comes back up so
- 51:50Speaker 1: we can tell our listeners if they're in Nashville to
- 51:52Speaker 1: stop in and say, hey, all right, thank you guys,
- 51:55Speaker 1: Happy birthday. Man. I love you guys, and we'll talk
- 51:57Speaker 1: to you soon. What a special episode. Those are some
- 52:03Speaker 1: amazing people that were that work, came on board. Thank
- 52:07Speaker 1: you guys for for setting that up. Thank you to
- 52:09Speaker 1: to my girlfriend, to the man himself, Chris Harrison and
- 52:14Speaker 1: too just one of the coolest people I've ever met,
- 52:16Speaker 1: Sean Booth for coming on and wishing me happy birthday.
- 52:20Speaker 1: That means a lot. But I'm glad that you enjoyed
- 52:24Speaker 1: the Ashley h thank you. Thank you for the support
- 52:29Speaker 1: for the Hope Still Wins campaign. Thank you for just
- 52:31Speaker 1: being a good friend. Thank you for being an incredible
- 52:34Speaker 1: co host. I've said it before, but you know, during
- 52:37Speaker 1: this time, I was supposed to be on tour for
- 52:39Speaker 1: The Bachelor Live on Stage and I had a co
- 52:41Speaker 1: host there, Becca kou Friend, and it was incredible. But
- 52:44Speaker 1: there was not a day goes by that I don't
- 52:46Speaker 1: think somebody asked me, uh, just about having a co
- 52:49Speaker 1: host with you. And it's been an incredible ride and
- 52:52Speaker 1: we're not stopping anytime soon. In fact, Ashley, Um, I
- 52:56Speaker 1: have a feeling that we have years and years left
- 52:58Speaker 1: in front of us doing the Almost Famous Poe cast.
- 53:00Speaker 1: I have a feeling about that too. Well. Thank you, Ben.
- 53:03Speaker 1: You know that I feel the exact same way about you.
- 53:05Speaker 1: You war but Luscious, Teddy Bear the Hey. If that's
- 53:10Speaker 1: all we've got for today, I would like to end
- 53:13Speaker 1: this with just a shout out to Almost Famous family. Uh,
- 53:16Speaker 1: we know that you're hurting right now, that we know
- 53:18Speaker 1: that there's a lot of isolation, Ashley and I will
- 53:20Speaker 1: continue to produce podcasts to try to entertain To speak
- 53:23Speaker 1: with you and about you. Please email us at but
- 53:25Speaker 1: In Ashley at I heart media dot com or hashtag
- 53:28Speaker 1: the Almost Famous podcast. Uh, just tell us what you
- 53:31Speaker 1: think of the podcast, how you're feeling, anything you're doing
- 53:34Speaker 1: to entertain yourself. I know that you feel like they
- 53:37Speaker 1: don't get read. They do a lot of times we respond,
- 53:40Speaker 1: and if we don't respond, somebody will. But we we
- 53:44Speaker 1: want to try during this time of quarantine and isolation
- 53:47Speaker 1: UM to let you know that you're not alone. We
- 53:50Speaker 1: also want you to know that if you're hurting at
- 53:52Speaker 1: any level emotionally, spiritually, financially, UM, to please accept help,
- 53:58Speaker 1: reach out for help, there is no sham and getting help. Uh,
- 54:01Speaker 1: you matter, we need you, we love you, uh and
- 54:06Speaker 1: the world needs you and loves you. So please accept
- 54:09Speaker 1: and reach out for help. And then finally, if you're
- 54:11Speaker 1: somebody that's in a very privileged situation right now, Um,
- 54:14Speaker 1: if you're somebody that's sitting in a place that is
- 54:17Speaker 1: still experiencing pain, but it's more of a discomfort than
- 54:21Speaker 1: it is a whole life switch. Uh, look outward, not inward.
- 54:25Speaker 1: Look to help others. Do that for me on my birthday,
- 54:27Speaker 1: and do that for Ashley just because this is the
- 54:29Speaker 1: person she is. Um, look out we'd not in word
- 54:32Speaker 1: to support those who are hurting as well. Um. This
- 54:35Speaker 1: is how we're gonna get through this thing as a
- 54:37Speaker 1: family and as a group of listeners. That's all my
- 54:39Speaker 1: preaching that I'll do for this podcast. I just want
- 54:41Speaker 1: you guys to know I appreciate you and I love you,
- 54:44Speaker 1: and I want you all to know how much you
- 54:45Speaker 1: matter to Ashley and myself. I love you. Ben, You're
- 54:48Speaker 1: so wonderful. All right, guys, until next week, I've been
- 54:52Speaker 1: Ashley and I've been Ben. Thanks guys. Follow the Ben
- 54:57Speaker 1: and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on I Our radio,
- 55:00Speaker 1: or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.