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- 0:00Speaker 1: Imagine for a moment you're living in a quiet, idyllic town,
- 0:04Speaker 1: you know, surrounded by perfect neighbors, tiring pine trees, just
- 0:09Speaker 1: living the good life.
- 0:10Speaker 2: Right, the classic American retirement dream.
- 0:12Speaker 1: Exactly. And statistically speaking, the most dangerous place for a
- 0:17Speaker 1: 72-year-old retired Little League umpire in that town isn't a
- 0:20Speaker 1: dark alley, and it's not some highway in a storm.
- 0:23Speaker 2: No, it's definitely not.
- 0:24Speaker 1: The most dangerous place, at least in the tiny town
- 0:27Speaker 1: of Plasterville, California... turned out to be his own bed.
- 0:31Speaker 1: Because while he was sleeping, his 70-year-old wife, who the
- 0:34Speaker 1: community literally called Grandma Kai, walked into the room, aimed
- 0:39Speaker 1: a 12-gauge double-barreled shotgun at his head, and pulled the trigger.
- 0:43Speaker 2: It's, well, it's the ultimate collision of expectation versus reality.
- 0:46Speaker 2: You know, when we consume stories about violent, calculated crimes,
- 0:50Speaker 2: our brains naturally try to map those actions onto a
- 0:53Speaker 2: specific type of offender.
- 0:54Speaker 1: Right, like we expect a hardened criminal or a I
- 0:57Speaker 1: don't know, a volatile young person.
- 0:59Speaker 2: Exactly. A career sociopath. A grandmother baking cookies in a
- 1:04Speaker 2: mountain town simply does not compute.
- 1:06Speaker 1: And that failure to compute is exactly why we are
- 1:10Speaker 1: opening up today's source material. Because we're diving into a
- 1:13Speaker 1: stack of transcripts, police reports, and trial notes detailing this
- 1:17Speaker 1: shocking murder of Bob Harris by his wife, Colleen Harris.
- 1:22Speaker 2: It's a massive amount of documentation.
- 1:24Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is. And the mission for us today
- 1:26Speaker 1: isn't just to you know, gawk at grisly crime scene photos.
- 1:29Speaker 1: We want to dissect this true crime source and completely
- 1:33Speaker 1: shatter the illusion of the sweet little lady. We are
- 1:36Speaker 1: looking at how a picture-perfect retirement turned into one of
- 1:40Speaker 1: the most cold-blooded crimes in Plasterville's history.
- 1:42Speaker 2: And crucially, what it teaches us about the masks that
- 1:44Speaker 2: people wear.
- 1:45Speaker 1: Right. The dark intersections of ego, fatal empathy, and, well,
- 1:50Speaker 1: a 30-year-old secret. Okay, let's unpack this.
- 1:52Speaker 2: So to even begin to understand the mechanics of this crime...
- 1:56Speaker 2: We really have to establish the baseline. We have to
- 1:58Speaker 2: look at the psychological fortress this couple built around themselves
- 2:01Speaker 2: in that town.
- 2:02Speaker 1: Yeah, they had been married for over two decades. Right.
- 2:05Speaker 2: They were a blended family, deep into their golden years.
- 2:08Speaker 2: By all external metrics provided in the source material, they
- 2:12Speaker 2: were the absolute pinnacle of community stability.
- 2:15Speaker 1: And Bob, in particular, seemed to carry a ton of
- 2:17Speaker 1: social weight. Like, the source notes he was a retired
- 2:20Speaker 1: forestry service worker. So immediately you get this rugged, dependable,
- 2:25Speaker 1: steward of the land kind of vibe.
- 2:26Speaker 2: Very grounded.
- 2:27Speaker 1: Exactly. But he was also a volunteer sheriff's deputy and
- 2:31Speaker 1: most notably an umpire for the Little League World Series.
- 2:35Speaker 1: And I kind of want to pause on that detail
- 2:36Speaker 1: because umpiring for Little League, it isn't just a hobby.
- 2:40Speaker 2: No, it's a highly specific social role. Right. What's fascinating
- 2:44Speaker 2: here is the sheer power of cognitive dissonance within a
- 2:47Speaker 2: closed community. Think about the psychological profile required to be
- 2:51Speaker 2: a successful umpire.
- 2:52Speaker 1: You're dealing with, well, kids, but mostly screaming parents.
- 2:55Speaker 2: Exactly. Highly emotional children and highly volatile defensive parents. You
- 3:00Speaker 2: have to possess this immense amount of patience, an unwavering
- 3:03Speaker 2: sense of fairness, and the emotional regulation to just be
- 3:06Speaker 2: screened at without losing your composure.
- 3:08Speaker 1: You're literally the community's chosen arbiter of the rules.
- 3:12Speaker 2: Right. So you have Bob, the ultimate protector and rule follower,
- 3:15Speaker 2: and then you have Colleen... who the source emphasizes was
- 3:18Speaker 2: nicknamed Grandma Key.
- 3:20Speaker 1: It's such a warm, soft, non-threatening picture, like a Norman
- 3:24Speaker 1: Rockwell painting.
- 3:26Speaker 2: It really is.
- 3:27Speaker 1: But I struggle with this concept. Like, how does a
- 3:29Speaker 1: community look at a couple like this and completely miss
- 3:33Speaker 1: the rot happening inside the house? Is it just willful ignorance?
- 3:36Speaker 2: Well, in places like Plasterville, social currency is everything. When
- 3:41Speaker 2: a couple adopts these deeply ingrained positive community roles... they
- 3:45Speaker 2: construct a halo effect. The brains of their neighbors literally
- 3:50Speaker 2: resist processing negative information about them.
- 3:52Speaker 1: So they just filter out the red flags.
- 3:54Speaker 2: Unconsciously, yes. The idea of Grandma Key being dangerous is
- 3:58Speaker 2: just too disruptive to their worldview, so they rewrite her
- 4:01Speaker 2: behavior to fit a safe narrative.
- 4:03Speaker 1: I see what you're saying, but I have to push
- 4:05Speaker 1: back a little on the age factor here. It's not
- 4:07Speaker 1: just that they were nice people, it's that they were
- 4:09Speaker 1: in their 70s.
- 4:10Speaker 2: That's a huge factor.
- 4:12Speaker 1: Right, because when you hear about domestic homicide... You picture,
- 4:15Speaker 1: I don't know, a young couple with a fiery, toxic dynamic.
- 4:18Speaker 1: There's this assumption that by the time you hit your
- 4:20Speaker 1: golden years, that kind of intense, violent passion just sort
- 4:24Speaker 1: of evaporates. We assume elderly people are emotionally declawed.
- 4:29Speaker 2: And that is a fundamental societal blind spot. We tend
- 4:32Speaker 2: to view the elderly as desexualized and devoid of intense,
- 4:36Speaker 2: destructive emotional drives. You know, like raging jealousy or violently
- 4:41Speaker 2: bruised egos.
- 4:42Speaker 1: Just age out of it.
- 4:43Speaker 2: Exactly. We confuse the deterioration of physical energy with the
- 4:47Speaker 2: deterioration of psychological intensity. But the human ego does not retire.
- 4:51Speaker 2: The need for control, the fear of abandonment, those emotional
- 4:54Speaker 2: drivers don't evaporate simply because you qualify for a senior discount.
- 4:58Speaker 1: Wow, that's a chilling way to put it.
- 5:00Speaker 2: And in some cases, as physical autonomy wanes, the psychological
- 5:04Speaker 2: need for control over one's immediate environment and partner can
- 5:07Speaker 2: actually become more concentrated. It becomes vastly more dangerous.
- 5:11Speaker 1: And according to the source material, that need for control
- 5:13Speaker 1: was being severely threatened. Because beneath this perfect Plasterville surface,
- 5:18Speaker 1: the marriage was fracturing.
- 5:19Speaker 2: Deeply fracturing. Yeah.
- 5:21Speaker 1: Bob's son, Andy, went on record saying he noticed deep
- 5:24Speaker 1: trouble brewing. Bob was incredibly unhappy. And the tension had
- 5:30Speaker 1: reached such a boiling point that Bob decided he needed
- 5:33Speaker 1: a massive amount of space. So he goes on a
- 5:35Speaker 1: work trip.
- 5:35Speaker 2: To Mongolia, of all places.
- 5:37Speaker 1: Right. Geographically and culturally, you cannot get much further from Plasterville,
- 5:41Speaker 1: California than Mongolia.
- 5:44Speaker 2: That choice of location is highly indicative of his mental state.
- 5:47Speaker 2: He wasn't just taking a weekend fishing trip to the
- 5:49Speaker 2: next county. He was putting an ocean and a continent
- 5:52Speaker 2: between himself and his wife, seeking absolute detachment.
- 5:56Speaker 1: But while he was seeking detachment, he ended up finding
- 5:58Speaker 1: something else entirely. During this time in Mongolia, Bob fell
- 6:02Speaker 1: in love with a much younger woman.
- 6:04Speaker 2: And this is the catalyst.
- 6:05Speaker 1: This is exactly where the story shifts from a sad,
- 6:08Speaker 1: deteriorating marriage into a highly active, volatile timeline. Because Colleen
- 6:13Speaker 1: discovers this affair. But the way she discovers it is
- 6:16Speaker 1: what we need to zoom in on.
- 6:17Speaker 2: She didn't just find a stray receipt or something.
- 6:19Speaker 1: No, not at all. During her interrogation, she freely admitted
- 6:23Speaker 1: to the police that she hacked into Bob's computer, found
- 6:26Speaker 1: his love notes to the woman in Mongolia, and used
- 6:29Speaker 1: that information to confront him. And wait, the source material
- 6:33Speaker 1: includes her exact quote. She told the police, and I'm
- 6:36Speaker 1: quoting here, it took me four hours, but I got
- 6:38Speaker 1: into his computer.
- 6:39Speaker 2: That specific time frame, the four hours, is the key
- 6:43Speaker 2: that unlocks her true psychological state.
- 6:45Speaker 1: Yeah, I want you listening to really visualize this process.
- 6:49Speaker 1: Four hours is an eternity in digital time. I mean,
- 6:52Speaker 1: I get locked out of my email, I try three passwords,
- 6:55Speaker 1: get frustrated after 45 seconds, and just hit the forgot
- 6:58Speaker 1: password link.
- 6:59Speaker 2: We all do.
- 7:00Speaker 1: We are talking about 240 minutes. Of a 70-year-old woman
- 7:04Speaker 1: sitting in front of a glowing screen, methodically guessing combinations, birthdays, anniversaries,
- 7:10Speaker 1: names of pets.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Hitting dead end after dead end. Right?
- 7:13Speaker 1: Getting error messages and refusing to stop. That completely annihilates
- 7:17Speaker 1: the helpless, sweet old lady trope. That is not the
- 7:20Speaker 1: behavior of a passive, fragile grandmother. That's a sustained brute
- 7:25Speaker 1: force attack driven by obsessive determination.
- 7:28Speaker 2: You are identifying the exact difference between a sudden crime
- 7:31Speaker 2: of passion and a methodical crime of control.
- 7:34Speaker 1: Say more about that.
- 7:35Speaker 2: Well, a true crime of passion implies a sudden, uncontrollable
- 7:39Speaker 2: loss of emotional regulation. You know, a snap. What you
- 7:43Speaker 2: just described, four hours of relentless digital probing, requires focus, stamina,
- 7:49Speaker 2: and a highly active analytical mind.
- 7:51Speaker 1: Right. She was entirely lucid.
- 7:53Speaker 2: Exactly. And this connects directly to the working theory presented
- 7:56Speaker 2: by the district attorney on the case, Joe Alexander. The
- 7:59Speaker 2: source mentions that investigators found Colleen's personal journals where she
- 8:02Speaker 2: had written entries like, I am so devastated inside. I
- 8:05Speaker 2: loved Bob more than life itself.
- 8:07Speaker 1: Painting yourself as the heartbroken victim.
- 8:09Speaker 2: But Alexander dismissed it entirely. He referred to it as
- 8:13Speaker 2: a dear diary act. He argued that Colleen wasn't driven
- 8:17Speaker 2: by a sense of heartbreak or betrayal, but by a
- 8:20Speaker 2: profound toxic sense of ego. His quote from the source
- 8:25Speaker 2: is incredibly blunt. He said, if she wasn't going to
- 8:28Speaker 2: have Bob, no one was going to have Bob.
- 8:30Speaker 1: OK, let's break that down because I think a lot
- 8:32Speaker 1: of people blur those lines. When we hear about spousal
- 8:35Speaker 1: homicide triggered by an affair, the default assumption is always
- 8:39Speaker 1: a crime of betrayal.
- 8:40Speaker 2: Right. Someone gets their heart broken, they lash out.
- 8:42Speaker 1: Exactly. But a crime of ego feels distinctly different. Walk
- 8:46Speaker 1: me through the actual mechanics of that distinction because, well,
- 8:49Speaker 1: on a police report, a dead husband looks the same
- 8:51Speaker 1: either way.
- 8:52Speaker 2: The outcome is identical, yes, but the internal machinery driving
- 8:56Speaker 2: it is fundamentally different. A crime of betrayal is rooted
- 8:59Speaker 2: in a sudden, overwhelming emotional flood. The perpetrator's self-worth is
- 9:04Speaker 2: tied to the partner, and when that bond breaks, they
- 9:06Speaker 2: lash out from disorganized pain.
- 9:08Speaker 1: It's chaotic.
- 9:09Speaker 2: Highly chaotic. A crime of ego, however, is rooted entirely
- 9:14Speaker 2: in ownership and control. The emotional driver isn't sadness. It's
- 9:18Speaker 2: a furious indignation at the loss of control and the
- 9:21Speaker 2: insult to their supreme self-importance.
- 9:23Speaker 1: So the partner isn't even a person making a choice.
- 9:26Speaker 2: No, they are viewed as an asset, a possession being stolen.
- 9:30Speaker 2: The rage comes from the thought, you belong to me
- 9:32Speaker 2: and you do not have the authorization to leave.
- 9:34Speaker 1: Wow. And the source material backs up that control theory immediately.
- 9:39Speaker 1: Because look at her behavior after the four-hour hack. She
- 9:42Speaker 1: doesn't dissolve into tears on the floor or call her
- 9:45Speaker 1: friends to cry. she immediately asserts logistical control over Bob's life.
- 9:49Speaker 2: It's a very calculated next step.
- 9:51Speaker 1: Yeah, the source says she was so angry that she
- 9:53Speaker 1: physically packed up all of Bob's belongings and moved them
- 9:56Speaker 1: out of their shared home and into his remote cabin
- 9:58Speaker 1: in Lake Tahoe. timing it right before he got back
- 10:01Speaker 1: from Mongolia.
- 10:02Speaker 2: That is a massive assertion of dominance. By packing his
- 10:05Speaker 2: bags and unilaterally relocating his possessions, she is dictating the
- 10:09Speaker 2: geographical and logistical terms of their separation.
- 10:13Speaker 1: She's completely controlling the environment.
- 10:15Speaker 2: It's a physical manifestation of her saying, you don't get
- 10:17Speaker 2: to come back to this house and negotiate. I have
- 10:19Speaker 2: already rearranged reality. You live over there now.
- 10:23Speaker 1: And Bob actually confirms this dynamic. The source outlines a
- 10:27Speaker 1: phone call Bob makes to his son, Andy, a few
- 10:30Speaker 1: days after he gets back. Bob says he and Colleen
- 10:33Speaker 1: are having severe marital problems. He confirms he is now
- 10:36Speaker 1: living full time in the Tahoe cabin while she remains
- 10:39Speaker 1: in Plasterville. And he says they are going to try
- 10:41Speaker 1: to work on their issues.
- 10:42Speaker 2: He was trying to manage the situation?
- 10:44Speaker 1: Yeah, he specifically tells his son not to worry, that
- 10:47Speaker 1: he thought everything would eventually work out. And honestly, reading
- 10:51Speaker 1: this part of the transcript makes me want to scream
- 10:54Speaker 1: at the page. Because the separation was successful. Bob was
- 10:57Speaker 1: out of the house.
- 10:58Speaker 2: The distance was established.
- 10:59Speaker 1: Exactly. The volatile element had been removed from the pressure cooker.
- 11:03Speaker 1: But then a totally random medical issue drags him right
- 11:06Speaker 1: back into the blast radius.
- 11:08Speaker 2: It is a devastating twist of fate. Life intervenes. Colleen
- 11:11Speaker 2: requires hip surgery. And suddenly, the protective geographical boundary that
- 11:15Speaker 2: Tahoe provided is completely obliterated.
- 11:18Speaker 1: But wait, explain the logic here. She just found out
- 11:21Speaker 1: he has a young girlfriend in Mongolia. She spent hours
- 11:24Speaker 1: hacking his computer. She was angry enough to literally evict
- 11:28Speaker 1: him and move all his earthly possessions to a cabin.
- 11:31Speaker 2: Right.
- 11:32Speaker 1: Why on earth would Bob leave the safety of Tahoe
- 11:34Speaker 1: and move back in with the woman who just threw
- 11:36Speaker 1: him out?
- 11:37Speaker 2: Because of the single most dangerous weapon a manipulator can
- 11:40Speaker 2: wield against a good person.
- 11:43Speaker 1: Obligation. Obligation.
- 11:44Speaker 2: The source notes Bob felt an overwhelming sense of duty.
- 11:47Speaker 2: Remember who we established Bob to be? He is the
- 11:50Speaker 2: Little League umpire, the volunteer sheriff's deputy, a man whose
- 11:53Speaker 2: core identity is built around being a protector and a caretaker.
- 11:57Speaker 1: So when she has surgery, she becomes physically vulnerable.
- 12:00Speaker 2: Exactly. She needs someone to help her walk, to manage
- 12:03Speaker 2: her medications, to maintain the house. If we connect this
- 12:06Speaker 2: to the bigger picture, it's a perfect example of how
- 12:08Speaker 2: manipulators weaponize empathy.
- 12:11Speaker 1: Bob's inherent goodness becomes his fatal flaw. He looks at
- 12:14Speaker 1: the situation and thinks, you know, our marriage is falling apart.
- 12:18Speaker 1: She's furious with me, but she is physically helpless right now.
- 12:21Speaker 1: I cannot abandon an injured woman.
- 12:23Speaker 2: It is an incredibly noble instinct. It speaks volumes about
- 12:27Speaker 2: his character.
- 12:27Speaker 1: But it placed him directly into a psychological trap. Because
- 12:31Speaker 1: while her physical vulnerability, the healing hip, was medically real,
- 12:34Speaker 1: the way she utilized that vulnerability was pure emotional leverage.
- 12:39Speaker 2: Manipulators possess an incredible radar for conscientious people. They know
- 12:43Speaker 2: a person bound by a strong internal moral code can
- 12:47Speaker 2: be easily controlled by invoking their sense of duty.
- 12:50Speaker 1: And the source makes it explicitly clear. Colleen did not
- 12:53Speaker 1: view this recovery period merely as a time to heal
- 12:56Speaker 1: her hip.
- 12:57Speaker 2: No, she viewed it as a closing window of opportunity
- 13:00Speaker 2: to win him back, to reestablish total control over him
- 13:03Speaker 2: before he could return to the woman in Mongolia.
- 13:05Speaker 1: Imagine the claustrophobia of that living situation. You have Colleen
- 13:10Speaker 1: physically dependent on him, but psychologically calculating every move, constantly maneuvering.
- 13:14Speaker 2: And Bob, physically healthy, fully capable of leaving, but emotionally
- 13:18Speaker 2: chained to the house by his own conscience.
- 13:20Speaker 1: But as the weeks go by, hips heal. The physical
- 13:23Speaker 1: dependency she is using as an anchor is slowly evaporating,
- 13:27Speaker 1: and it becomes apparent to her that the tactic isn't working.
- 13:30Speaker 2: Bob is still planning to leave.
- 13:31Speaker 1: Right. He is still planning to return to Tahoe, and
- 13:34Speaker 1: eventually perhaps to the new woman. The trap she set
- 13:37Speaker 1: with her recovery is springing open and the prey is
- 13:40Speaker 1: about to walk out the front door.
- 13:42Speaker 2: And that impending loss of control is the ultimate trigger.
- 13:45Speaker 2: In a crime of ego, the realization that you have
- 13:48Speaker 2: definitively lost, that your manipulation has failed, is the most
- 13:52Speaker 2: dangerous moment.
- 13:53Speaker 1: Which brings us to the specific event that prosecutors say
- 13:57Speaker 1: ignited the powder keg. It wasn't a screaming match. It
- 14:00Speaker 1: was a phone call. Earlier that evening, Colleen overheard Bob
- 14:04Speaker 1: talking on the phone with a new girlfriend in Mongolia.
- 14:07Speaker 2: Think about the devastating insult to her ego in that moment.
- 14:10Speaker 2: She has orchestrated this entire scenario. She has him captive
- 14:13Speaker 2: in her home, playing the vulnerable wife, and he is
- 14:16Speaker 2: utilizing that time to nurture a relationship with her replacement.
- 14:19Speaker 1: It shattered the illusion entirely. So she waits, and I
- 14:23Speaker 1: really want to emphasize that detail. She waits until he's asleep.
- 14:26Speaker 1: She doesn't confront him while he's on the phone. She
- 14:29Speaker 1: doesn't throw a plate at him in a fit of rage.
- 14:31Speaker 2: She bides her time.
- 14:33Speaker 1: She waits hours until he's unconscious, entirely defenseless. She walks
- 14:37Speaker 1: into the bedroom, points a 12-gauge double-barreled shotgun at his head,
- 14:41Speaker 1: and fires. Now, I am not a firearms expert, but
- 14:44Speaker 1: a 12-gauge shotgun is not a subtle weapon.
- 14:47Speaker 2: It is arguably one of the most devastating weapons available
- 14:51Speaker 2: at close range. The mechanics of a shotgun blast are catastrophic.
- 14:55Speaker 2: At the distance she fired from, within the confines of
- 14:58Speaker 2: a bedroom... it causes massive instantaneous trauma.
- 15:02Speaker 1: And operating it takes effort, right?
- 15:03Speaker 2: Absolutely. Operating a shotgun requires deliberate physical actions. It is heavy.
- 15:09Speaker 2: You have to retrieve it. You have to ensure it
- 15:11Speaker 2: is loaded. You have to physically raise it, aim it,
- 15:14Speaker 2: and pull a heavy trigger. It requires a sequence of
- 15:16Speaker 2: intentional physical steps.
- 15:18Speaker 1: Which makes the story she tells the police during her
- 15:20Speaker 1: interrogation absolutely mind-boggling. When they ask her what happened, she
- 15:24Speaker 1: doesn't invoke self-defense. She doesn't say they struggled over the gun.
- 15:27Speaker 2: No, she goes a completely different route.
- 15:29Speaker 1: She claims she was in a, quote, real, quiet, brave fog.
- 15:34Speaker 1: She miraculously claims she had absolutely no memory of retrieving
- 15:38Speaker 1: the gun, aiming it, or pulling the trigger. And here's
- 15:41Speaker 1: the detail that made my jaw drop. She tells the
- 15:44Speaker 1: detectives that when she saw the aftermath, she thought Bob
- 15:47Speaker 1: was simply having a nosebleed.
- 15:48Speaker 2: A nosebleed.
- 15:49Speaker 1: A nosebleed. Here's where it gets really interesting, because I
- 15:52Speaker 1: need to try to understand the logic of this defense.
- 15:55Speaker 1: On its face, it is insulting to human intelligence. If
- 15:58Speaker 1: I'm standing next to an exploding building and the shockwave
- 16:01Speaker 1: knocks me over, I cannot look a police officer in
- 16:03Speaker 1: the eye and say, gee, I thought a balloon popped.
- 16:05Speaker 2: The sensory experience is impossible to ignore.
- 16:07Speaker 1: Exactly. The sensory experience of a 12-gauge shotgun going off
- 16:11Speaker 1: in an enclosed room is deafening. The concussive force alone
- 16:15Speaker 1: is jarring. The physical reality of the crime scene would
- 16:18Speaker 1: be horrific.
- 16:19Speaker 2: Fun mistake.
- 16:20Speaker 1: The audacity required to sit in an interrogation room and
- 16:23Speaker 1: claim you confused a point-blank shotgun blast to the head
- 16:26Speaker 1: with a bloody nose. I mean, how does a defense
- 16:29Speaker 1: attorney even begin to articulate that in a courtroom with
- 16:33Speaker 1: a straight face? What is the actual legal mechanic they're
- 16:36Speaker 1: trying to exploit here?
- 16:37Speaker 2: To understand the nosebleed claim, you really have to look
- 16:40Speaker 2: past the absurdity of the statement itself and look at
- 16:43Speaker 2: the legal framework of culpability. They are attempting to attack
- 16:46Speaker 2: the concept of mens rea.
- 16:48Speaker 1: OK, I hear mens rea on legal dramas all the time,
- 16:51Speaker 1: but break it down for me. How does claiming a
- 16:53Speaker 1: fog negate it? If she's holding the gun and the
- 16:56Speaker 1: gun went off, isn't she guilty regardless?
- 16:59Speaker 2: Not necessarily in the eyes of the law. In the
- 17:01Speaker 2: American legal system, to convict someone of a severe crime
- 17:04Speaker 2: like first-degree murder, the prosecution typically has to prove two
- 17:08Speaker 2: distinct elements beyond a reasonable doubt. First, the actus reus,
- 17:12Speaker 2: which is the guilty act.
- 17:13Speaker 1: The physical pulling of the trigger.
- 17:14Speaker 2: Exactly. And she doesn't deny she was in the room
- 17:16Speaker 2: holding the gun, so the act is somewhat conceded. But
- 17:19Speaker 2: the second element is the mens re, the guilty mind.
- 17:23Speaker 2: The prosecution must prove that she had the conscious intent,
- 17:27Speaker 2: the premeditation, and the cognitive awareness to commit the murder.
- 17:31Speaker 1: So the defense is saying, yes, her physical body held
- 17:34Speaker 1: the gun, but her consciousness wasn't in the driver's seat.
- 17:37Speaker 2: Precisely. By claiming she was in a real, quiet, brave fog,
- 17:42Speaker 2: a disassociative or fugue state, the defense is arguing that
- 17:46Speaker 2: her conscious mind was entirely absent. If she had no
- 17:49Speaker 2: cognitive awareness of what she was doing, she couldn't possibly
- 17:52Speaker 2: have formed the intent to kill him.
- 17:54Speaker 1: It's a way to bypass premeditation.
- 17:55Speaker 2: Exactly. If a jury believes she truly thought it was
- 17:58Speaker 2: a nosebleed, they might believe she was profoundly detached from reality,
- 18:02Speaker 2: which legally short-circuits the requirement for premeditation. It's a desperate strategy,
- 18:07Speaker 2: but in cases where the physical evidence of the act
- 18:09Speaker 2: is insurmountable, attacking the mental state is often the only
- 18:12Speaker 2: card the defense has left to play.
- 18:14Speaker 1: Okay, I understand the legal theory, but logically... It falls
- 18:18Speaker 1: apart almost instantly. Because if I experience a genuine psychological break,
- 18:23Speaker 1: a true fugue state where I am so disconnected from
- 18:26Speaker 1: reality that I mistake a gunshot for a medical issue,
- 18:30Speaker 1: my behavior after the event should reflect that massive cognitive malfunction.
- 18:35Speaker 2: It should be chaotic. Right.
- 18:36Speaker 1: I should be wandering the streets in my pajamas or catatonic. Yeah.
- 18:40Speaker 1: I certainly wouldn't be capable of organizing a highly complex,
- 18:43Speaker 1: multi-phase logistical operation.
- 18:45Speaker 2: And that is precisely the fatal flaw in her defense.
- 18:48Speaker 2: True amnesic episodes or profound disassociative states are incredibly disorganized.
- 18:54Speaker 2: The individual is confused, frightened, and completely incapable of sequential planning.
- 18:58Speaker 1: Which brings us to the massive gaping hole in Colleen's narrative.
- 19:02Speaker 1: The timeline between the murder and the police arriving.
- 19:05Speaker 2: The nine-hour gap.
- 19:06Speaker 1: Yes. The source material outlines this nine-hour gap. Bob is
- 19:09Speaker 1: shot in the late evening or early hours in the morning.
- 19:12Speaker 1: But one call reporting his death doesn't happen for at
- 19:15Speaker 1: least nine hours.
- 19:16Speaker 2: A huge window of time.
- 19:17Speaker 1: The victim is lying dead in his bed, and his wife,
- 19:20Speaker 1: who claims to be in a confused fog, is totally
- 19:23Speaker 1: unaccounted for. What on earth is she doing for nine hours?
- 19:27Speaker 2: Well, she's certainly not paralyzed by shock. According to cell
- 19:31Speaker 2: phone tracking data and the timeline established by the prosecutors,
- 19:34Speaker 2: at roughly 7.30 in the morning, Colleen Harris leaves her
- 19:38Speaker 2: house in Plasterville, gets in her car, and embarks on
- 19:41Speaker 2: a 200-mile drive to San Francisco, heading to her son's house.
- 19:45Speaker 1: Let's just sit with that for a second. Leaving your
- 19:47Speaker 1: murdered husband in the bed you shared, you wake up,
- 19:50Speaker 1: the sun rises, and you don't call an ambulance. You
- 19:52Speaker 1: don't call a neighbor. Instead, you start packing the car.
- 19:55Speaker 2: And the items she chooses to pack are incredibly telling.
- 19:58Speaker 2: Prosecutors call this the dash and stash.
- 20:01Speaker 1: The dash and stash. She didn't just grab a purse
- 20:03Speaker 1: and flee in a panic. She loaded two heavy storage
- 20:06Speaker 1: bins filled with Bob's extensive and valuable coin collection. She
- 20:10Speaker 1: took Bob's gun, and perhaps most chillingly, she took Bob's
- 20:14Speaker 1: cell phone.
- 20:15Speaker 2: If we analyze those three specific items, they completely dismantle
- 20:19Speaker 2: the idea of a woman lost in a fog. Each
- 20:22Speaker 2: item serves a highly distinct, rational, and strategic purpose for
- 20:26Speaker 2: a guilty mind looking toward the future.
- 20:29Speaker 1: Taking the cell phone is brilliant in the most malicious
- 20:31Speaker 1: way possible. Think about it. If she leaves the phone
- 20:34Speaker 1: in the house, it's going to ring. Bob's son Andy
- 20:36Speaker 1: might call to check in. The girlfriend in Mongolia might call.
- 20:40Speaker 1: And if he doesn't answer, people get suspicious. Someone might
- 20:43Speaker 1: drive over to the house and discover the body before
- 20:45Speaker 1: Colleen has her cover story ready. By taking the cell
- 20:48Speaker 1: phone with her on a 200-mile road trip, she's controlling
- 20:52Speaker 1: the flow of information. She is ensuring that Bob appears
- 20:55Speaker 1: temporarily unreachable rather than dead.
- 20:57Speaker 2: It is a highly calculated move to buy herself time.
- 21:00Speaker 2: Information control is a hallmark of premeditation and awareness.
- 21:04Speaker 1: And then you look at the two bins of the
- 21:06Speaker 1: coin collection. Coins are heavy.
- 21:08Speaker 2: Extremely cumbersome. Moving them requires physical effort and intent. Securing
- 21:13Speaker 2: those assets indicates a mind that is actively planning for
- 21:16Speaker 2: a financial future without her husband. That is not the
- 21:19Speaker 2: behavior of someone trapped in suicidal ideation or disassociative shock.
- 21:23Speaker 1: It's a financial contingency plan.
- 21:24Speaker 2: Exactly. She drives all the way to San Francisco and
- 21:27Speaker 2: hides these items in her son's garage and Effectively removing
- 21:31Speaker 2: crucial evidence and high-value assets from what she knows will
- 21:34Speaker 2: soon become a heavily scrutinized primary crime scene.
- 21:38Speaker 1: But here is where the story takes a turn into
- 21:40Speaker 1: the absurd. Her entire defense, this carefully constructed narrative of
- 21:45Speaker 1: being a confused, fragile old woman lost in a fog,
- 21:48Speaker 1: isn't undone by a brilliant detective finding a fingerprint. It
- 21:52Speaker 1: is undone by a mundane inconvenience on the drive back
- 21:54Speaker 1: from San Francisco.
- 21:55Speaker 2: The ultimate twist of irony.
- 21:57Speaker 1: Her car breaks down off Highway 80. So what does
- 21:59Speaker 1: the sweet, confused grandma do when her car dies? She
- 22:02Speaker 1: does what any rational, functioning adult would do. She calls
- 22:05Speaker 1: AAA for a tow truck. Not once, but twice.
- 22:08Speaker 2: And this is where modern infrastructure becomes the prosecution's greatest asset.
- 22:13Speaker 2: Calls to dispatch centers like AAA or insurance providers are
- 22:17Speaker 2: standardly recorded for quality assurance.
- 22:20Speaker 1: And when the prosecution subpoenaed those records, they struck absolute gold.
- 22:25Speaker 1: Let's look at the transcripts of those audio recordings from
- 22:27Speaker 1: the source material, because they are devastating to her defense.
- 22:30Speaker 2: Completely devastating.
- 22:31Speaker 1: The AAA operator asks standard questions. Are you in a
- 22:35Speaker 1: safe location? What happened to the vehicle? And Colleen responds
- 22:39Speaker 1: with absolute clarity. She tells the operator, I just started
- 22:42Speaker 1: swerving on the freeway, and then all of a sudden
- 22:44Speaker 1: I kind of did a complete flip, and the car
- 22:46Speaker 1: won't start now.
- 22:47Speaker 2: Very specific details.
- 22:48Speaker 1: Yeah, and then she effortlessly pinpoints her exact geographical coordinates.
- 22:52Speaker 1: She says, I'm off of Highway 80. I can see
- 22:55Speaker 1: a sign ahead of me. It says UC Davis, Sacramento.
- 22:58Speaker 1: I live in Plasterville, so I have no way to
- 23:00Speaker 1: get home.
- 23:00Speaker 2: As an analyst looking at cognitive awareness, that recording is
- 23:04Speaker 2: a benchmark of lucidity. Listen to the processing power required
- 23:07Speaker 2: to have that conversation.
- 23:09Speaker 1: She's totally present.
- 23:10Speaker 2: Fully oriented to time and space. She articulates the specific
- 23:14Speaker 2: mechanical failure of the vehicle, the swerving and the flick.
- 23:17Speaker 2: She visually scans her environment. reads a highway sign, and
- 23:21Speaker 2: contextualizes her physical location relative to both the nearest landmark,
- 23:26Speaker 2: UC Davis, and her ultimate destination, Plasterville.
- 23:29Speaker 1: And then identifies her logistical need for a tow truck.
- 23:33Speaker 1: It's incredible. Audio recordings of totally mundane tasks, ordering a pizza,
- 23:37Speaker 1: calling a plumber, or in this case, calling a tow truck,
- 23:40Speaker 1: are the silver bullets for prosecutors dealing with an amnesia defense.
- 23:43Speaker 2: Because you can't fake it.
- 23:44Speaker 1: Right. You can sit in a police interrogation room and
- 23:47Speaker 1: fake tears. You can pretend you don't understand the detective's questions. Yeah.
- 23:50Speaker 1: You cannot fake the functional, practical lucidity required to navigate
- 23:54Speaker 1: a roadside breakdown with an insurance operator. As the prosecutor
- 23:58Speaker 1: pointed out during the trial, her voice on that tape
- 24:00Speaker 1: was crystal clear. She wasn't slurring. She wasn't rambling. She
- 24:03Speaker 1: was executing a task.
- 24:04Speaker 2: It completely eviscerates the narrative she tried to construct. It
- 24:08Speaker 2: provides empirical, objective proof that during that critical nine-hour window
- 24:13Speaker 2: that Her brain was functioning normally, rationally, and defensively. The
- 24:17Speaker 2: fog was a total fabrication.
- 24:19Speaker 1: So, AAA helps her out, she gets the car situation sorted,
- 24:23Speaker 1: and she finally returns home to Plasterville. She pulls into
- 24:26Speaker 1: the driveway of the house where her husband is still
- 24:28Speaker 1: lying exactly where she left him.
- 24:30Speaker 2: The clock has run out.
- 24:31Speaker 1: Exactly. You would think that upon returning, she would realize
- 24:34Speaker 1: the nine hours are up. It's time to initiate the
- 24:37Speaker 1: distraught widow routine. The logical next step for someone trying
- 24:41Speaker 1: to play innocent is to run inside, scream, and immediately
- 24:45Speaker 1: dial 911.
- 24:47Speaker 2: That would be the standard playbook for establishing an alibi
- 24:49Speaker 2: of sudden discovery. But she defies expectations yet again. Upon
- 24:54Speaker 2: returning to the active murder scene, her very first phone
- 24:57Speaker 2: call isn't to 911. It isn't to paramedics.
- 25:00Speaker 1: Her first call is to her criminal defense attorney, a
- 25:02Speaker 1: man named David Weiner. And it's not just a quick
- 25:05Speaker 1: consultation over the phone. Weiner actually drives out to the
- 25:08Speaker 1: house in Plasterville.
- 25:09Speaker 2: To an active crime scene.
- 25:11Speaker 1: He crosses the threshold of an active, unreported murder scene.
- 25:14Speaker 1: And he spends an hour and a half alone with
- 25:17Speaker 1: Colleen inside that house before law enforcement is ever notified.
- 25:21Speaker 1: 90 minutes. Just the defense attorney, the shooter, and the victim.
- 25:26Speaker 2: This raises an important question, not just about her mindset,
- 25:29Speaker 2: but about legal ethics, boundaries, and the potential staging of
- 25:32Speaker 2: a crime scene. When the police eventually did arrive, the
- 25:36Speaker 2: cover story provided to authorities was that she called him
- 25:39Speaker 2: because she was completely distraught allegedly on the verge of suicide,
- 25:43Speaker 2: and she needed him to come counsel her.
- 25:45Speaker 1: Okay, I have to stop you there because I am
- 25:47Speaker 1: not a lawyer. But that excuse falls apart under five
- 25:49Speaker 1: seconds of basic logical scrutiny. If an attorney truly believes
- 25:54Speaker 1: his client is actively suicidal, leaving them alone at a
- 25:58Speaker 1: crime scene with a functioning firearm, which we know was
- 26:00Speaker 1: still in the house, is completely unthinkable.
- 26:03Speaker 2: It's a massive liability.
- 26:04Speaker 1: You don't act as a crisis counselor for 90 minutes,
- 26:06Speaker 1: decide she's fine now, and then just step outside to
- 26:09Speaker 1: let her call the cops while she sits next to
- 26:10Speaker 1: a 12-gauge shotgun.
- 26:11Speaker 2: No, it is a professional impossibility. An attorney is an
- 26:15Speaker 2: officer of the court, not a psychiatric first responder. If
- 26:20Speaker 2: a client is actively suicidal and a body is present,
- 26:24Speaker 2: the ethical and legal mandate is to involve emergency services immediately.
- 26:29Speaker 1: So what were they actually doing?
- 26:30Speaker 2: The far more likely, albeit highly speculative, scenario is that
- 26:35Speaker 2: those 90 unrecorded minutes were utilized for strategic choreography.
- 26:39Speaker 1: Strategic choreography. I like that. You mean getting the story straight?
- 26:42Speaker 2: Precisely. What do we say to the police when they arrive?
- 26:45Speaker 2: What is the official narrative regarding the timeline? How do
- 26:48Speaker 2: we explain the trip to San Francisco? When a defense
- 26:51Speaker 2: attorney is present at a fresh, unreported crime scene, it
- 26:55Speaker 2: creates a massive, nearly impenetrable gray area.
- 26:58Speaker 1: Because of privilege.
- 26:59Speaker 2: Everything discussed between them inside that house is protected by
- 27:02Speaker 2: attorney-client privilege. Law enforcement can never compel them to reveal
- 27:06Speaker 2: what was said. But the physical reality remains, they had
- 27:09Speaker 2: an hour and a half to align their narrative before
- 27:11Speaker 2: the first detective ever stepped foot in the door.
- 27:14Speaker 1: It just makes you wonder about the sheer logistics of
- 27:16Speaker 1: that decision. Why call this specific attorney? Plasterville is a
- 27:20Speaker 1: small town. Why David Weiner? Was he just a family friend?
- 27:24Speaker 1: Did she frantically flip through the yellow pages at a
- 27:26Speaker 1: gas station on the drive back from San Francisco?
- 27:28Speaker 2: It Definitely wasn't random.
- 27:30Speaker 1: No. Because at the top of the show, I promised
- 27:33Speaker 1: you a bombshell about a 30-year-old secret. And here it is.
- 27:37Speaker 1: The jaw-dropping reason Colleen Harris had David Weiner on speed dial.
- 27:42Speaker 1: This wasn't a recommendation from a neighbor. This was history
- 27:45Speaker 1: repeating itself in the most terrifying, literal way imaginable.
- 27:49Speaker 2: It is the twist that elevates this case from a tragic,
- 27:52Speaker 2: isolated domestic homicide into a glaring structural failure of the
- 27:56Speaker 2: criminal justice system.
- 27:58Speaker 1: According to the source material, in 1985, exactly 30 years
- 28:01Speaker 1: prior to the morning, Bob Harris was found dead. Colleen
- 28:05Speaker 1: Harris was accused of murdering her previous husband. His name
- 28:08Speaker 1: was Jim Batten.
- 28:09Speaker 2: And the circumstances?
- 28:11Speaker 1: The circumstances of that 1985 murder are almost a carbon copy.
- 28:16Speaker 1: How did Jim Batten die? She shot him with a shotgun.
- 28:19Speaker 1: Where was he? He was lying in bed. And the
- 28:22Speaker 1: location of the crime? A house right around the corner
- 28:25Speaker 1: in the exact same sleepy little town of Plasterville.
- 28:28Speaker 2: It is the definition of lightning striking twice in the
- 28:31Speaker 2: exact same spot under the exact same meteorological conditions.
- 28:35Speaker 1: But it gets worse. Because her defense attorney back in 1985,
- 28:39Speaker 1: the man who represented her for the murder of Jim Batten,
- 28:42Speaker 1: was none other than David Weiner.
- 28:44Speaker 2: The same lawyer.
- 28:45Speaker 1: And her defense strategy three decades ago. You guessed it.
- 28:49Speaker 1: Complete and total amnesia regarding the killings. coupled with a
- 28:52Speaker 1: claim of self-defense, alleging her husband was violently sexually assaulting her.
- 28:56Speaker 2: It is the exact same playbook, dusted off 30 years later.
- 28:59Speaker 2: The identical weapon, the identical vulnerability of the victim in bed,
- 29:02Speaker 2: the identical small town, the identical lawyer, and the identical
- 29:05Speaker 2: psychological defense of amnesia.
- 29:07Speaker 1: So what does this all mean? I want you to
- 29:09Speaker 1: absorb how insanely rare this is. We consume a lot
- 29:12Speaker 1: of true crime. We hear about serial killers who have
- 29:15Speaker 1: a specific modus operandi. But for a Black Widow-style killer...
- 29:19Speaker 1: to repeat the exact same highly specific, deeply messy, loud
- 29:23Speaker 1: domestic crime down to the exact legal defense and the
- 29:28Speaker 1: exact same lawyer three decades later in the same zip code.
- 29:32Speaker 2: It implies a staggering level of confidence and hubris.
- 29:36Speaker 1: I am struggling to understand how a jury buys the
- 29:39Speaker 1: I forgot I shot him defense. twice. More importantly, how
- 29:42Speaker 1: on earth was she walking the streets as a free
- 29:45Speaker 1: woman able to marry Bob Harris in the first place?
- 29:48Speaker 1: Walk me through the 1985 trial. How did you get
- 29:50Speaker 1: away with it?
- 29:50Speaker 2: To understand how she was free to marry Bob, we
- 29:53Speaker 2: have to examine the legal failure of the 1985 trial.
- 29:56Speaker 2: The source explains that the prosecution back then made what
- 29:58Speaker 2: is legally known as a fatal strategic error in their
- 30:01Speaker 2: charging documents. They went for a strategy commonly referred to
- 30:04Speaker 2: as first-degree murder or bust.
- 30:06Speaker 1: Explain the mechanics of that. Why is that a mistake?
- 30:08Speaker 1: Don't prosecutors always want the highest possible charge?
- 30:11Speaker 2: They do, but it involves immense risk. When a criminal
- 30:14Speaker 2: case concludes and goes to a jury for deliberation, the
- 30:17Speaker 2: judge provides them with specific instructions and options. In many
- 30:21Speaker 2: murder trials, a jury can convict on the primary highest charge,
- 30:25Speaker 2: like first degree premeditated murder. Right. However, if the prosecution
- 30:30Speaker 2: offers it, the jury can also choose to convict on
- 30:33Speaker 2: a lesser included offense, such as second degree murder or
- 30:36Speaker 2: voluntary manslaughter.
- 30:37Speaker 1: Sort of a fallback option.
- 30:39Speaker 2: Exactly. It acts as a safety valve. If the jury
- 30:41Speaker 2: believes the defendant is guilty of killing the person, but
- 30:44Speaker 2: they aren't 100 percent convinced it was meticulously planned out
- 30:47Speaker 2: in advance, They can still hold the defendant accountable with
- 30:51Speaker 2: a lesser charge.
- 30:51Speaker 1: Big kid compromise.
- 30:53Speaker 2: Right. But in the 1985 trial for the murder of
- 30:55Speaker 2: Jim Batten, the prosecution arrogantly provided the jury with no
- 30:59Speaker 2: safety valve. They gave them a binary choice. They essentially said,
- 31:02Speaker 2: you either find her guilty of first-degree, highly premeditated murder,
- 31:06Speaker 2: or you must let her walk free entirely. There was
- 31:09Speaker 2: no option for manslaughter conviction.
- 31:11Speaker 1: And because she had that claim of sexual assault attached
- 31:14Speaker 1: to the amnesia, that money's the waters, right? Even if
- 31:17Speaker 1: a juror looked at the evidence and thought, she definitely
- 31:20Speaker 1: killed him, she's lying about the fog. If they had
- 31:23Speaker 1: even a shadow of a doubt about whether she planned
- 31:25Speaker 1: it days in advance, they legally couldn't vote for first-degree murder.
- 31:29Speaker 2: Precisely. Overcharging a case is a massive gamble fueled by
- 31:34Speaker 2: prosecutorial hubris. The prosecution assumes the jury will be so
- 31:38Speaker 2: repulsed by the physical reality of the crime that they
- 31:41Speaker 2: will convict on the top charge regardless of the nuances.
- 31:44Speaker 1: But the defense just needs a sliver of doubt.
- 31:47Speaker 2: And David Weiner injected just enough reasonable doubt regarding the
- 31:50Speaker 2: specific element of intent. The jury is legally bound by
- 31:53Speaker 2: their instructions to acquit. The jury in 1985 may very
- 31:57Speaker 2: well have believed she was responsible for Jim Batten's death.
- 32:00Speaker 2: But because they weren't convinced of the first degree premeditation
- 32:03Speaker 2: and because they had no lesser option, they were forced
- 32:06Speaker 2: to render a not guilty verdict.
- 32:08Speaker 1: And she walked out of the courtroom a free woman.
- 32:11Speaker 1: We really need to unpack the psychological effect of that
- 32:15Speaker 1: 1985 acquittal on Colleen. Because she didn't just beat a
- 32:18Speaker 1: murder rap.
- 32:19Speaker 2: No, she validated her entire methodology.
- 32:21Speaker 1: She essentially learned that her specific amnesia and a shotgun
- 32:25Speaker 1: playbook was legally foolproof. The justice system taught her that
- 32:30Speaker 1: she was smarter than the police, smarter than the prosecution,
- 32:34Speaker 1: and that David Weiner was the ultimate shield.
- 32:36Speaker 2: It emboldened her in the most dangerous way possible. A
- 32:39Speaker 2: lack of consequences is the greatest fertilizer for future violence.
- 32:44Speaker 2: When an individual successfully manipulates a high-stakes system like a
- 32:47Speaker 2: murder trial and avoids prison, the lesson they internalize is
- 32:52Speaker 2: one of profound invincibility.
- 32:54Speaker 1: Like she had hacked the system.
- 32:56Speaker 2: She believed she possessed a get-out-of-jail-free card printed in 1985.
- 33:00Speaker 2: And she kept it in her back pocket for 30 years,
- 33:03Speaker 2: ready to deploy it the moment she felt her control
- 33:06Speaker 2: slipping again.
- 33:06Speaker 1: Which makes the tragedy of Bob Harris's death so much heavier.
- 33:10Speaker 1: Because this wasn't a secret kept completely in the dark.
- 33:13Speaker 1: Bob didn't go into this marriage entirely blind. The source
- 33:16Speaker 1: material reveals a heartbreaking conversation between Bob and his son, Andy.
- 33:20Speaker 2: Andy had heard the rumors. Yeah.
- 33:22Speaker 1: He had heard the rumors in town about the 1985 shooting.
- 33:25Speaker 1: He knew about Jim Batten. He knew his father was
- 33:27Speaker 1: dating a woman who had killed her previous husband. And
- 33:30Speaker 1: Andy explicitly confronted his dad, asking him, how are you
- 33:33Speaker 1: dealing with that?
- 33:34Speaker 2: And Bob's response to his son is the absolute crux
- 33:37Speaker 2: of the tragedy. It perfectly encapsulates the danger of the
- 33:40Speaker 2: halo effect we discussed earlier.
- 33:42Speaker 1: Bob dismissed his son's concerns completely. He told Andy, well,
- 33:46Speaker 1: you know she had a hard life and it was
- 33:48Speaker 1: self-defense and I love her and I'm not going to
- 33:51Speaker 1: let that stop me from marrying her.
- 33:52Speaker 2: This is one of the most painful recurring themes when
- 33:55Speaker 2: studying domestic homicides involving manipulators. It highlights exactly how they
- 34:00Speaker 2: isolate their victims. A truly skilled manipulator doesn't just hide
- 34:04Speaker 2: their past traumas or their past violence.
- 34:06Speaker 1: They weaponize them.
- 34:07Speaker 2: They actively weaponize them to garner sympathy. Colleen didn't hide
- 34:10Speaker 2: the 1985 shooting from Bob. She repackaged it. She convinced
- 34:14Speaker 2: Bob that she was a victim who had been forced
- 34:16Speaker 2: into a terrible corner. She painted a narrative of a
- 34:19Speaker 2: hard life and justifiable self-defense.
- 34:22Speaker 1: And Bob, being the quintessential good guy, the littly gumpire,
- 34:26Speaker 1: the community protector... Well, his empathy completely blinded him. He
- 34:31Speaker 1: looked at a woman who had demonstrably shot a man
- 34:33Speaker 1: in the head with a shotgun while he slept, and
- 34:35Speaker 1: he didn't see a threat.
- 34:37Speaker 2: He saw someone who needed his protection.
- 34:39Speaker 1: He thought his love and his stability could shield him
- 34:42Speaker 1: from a literal, documented history of lethal violence.
- 34:45Speaker 2: It is the dark side of empathy. Empathy is a vital,
- 34:48Speaker 2: beautiful human trait, but without strict boundaries and objective critical thinking,
- 34:53Speaker 2: it becomes a severe liability.
- 34:55Speaker 1: You have to look at the facts.
- 34:57Speaker 2: Bob allowed his compassion to override established patterns of behavior.
- 35:01Speaker 2: He chose to believe the narrative she was selling over
- 35:03Speaker 2: the glaring, objective red flags of a dead body in
- 35:06Speaker 2: her past. He paid for that empathy with his life.
- 35:10Speaker 1: Fortunately, the justice system did not make the exact same
- 35:13Speaker 1: mistake twice. When it came time for the trial regarding
- 35:16Speaker 1: Bob's murder, the courtroom became a massive legal battleground over
- 35:20Speaker 1: one specific issue. Whether the 1985 case could be mentioned
- 35:23Speaker 1: at all.
- 35:24Speaker 2: Of course. Colleen's defense attorney naturally fought tooth and nail
- 35:28Speaker 2: to keep the jury from hearing about dead husband number
- 35:30Speaker 2: two during the trial for dead husband number three.
- 35:34Speaker 1: Introducing prior bad acts, like a previous unconvicted murder, is
- 35:39Speaker 1: always legally contentious, right?
- 35:41Speaker 2: Very. The standard rule of law is that you cannot
- 35:44Speaker 2: introduce a defendant's past actions simply to prove they have
- 35:47Speaker 2: a bad character. It can unfairly prejudice a jury. However,
- 35:51Speaker 2: there are exceptions.
- 35:53Speaker 1: Like when it's literally the exact same crime.
- 35:55Speaker 2: Exactly. In cases where the modus operandi, the specific method
- 35:59Speaker 2: of operation, is so strikingly identical, a judge can allow
- 36:02Speaker 2: it to be admitted to prove a pattern, to prove intent,
- 36:06Speaker 2: or to prove the absence of an accident or mistake.
- 36:08Speaker 1: Basically saying it wasn't a nosebleed because she did the
- 36:11Speaker 1: exact same thing 30 years ago.
- 36:13Speaker 2: Exactly. The defense of amnesia and confusion is completely dismantled
- 36:17Speaker 2: when you prove she has utilized the exact same defense
- 36:19Speaker 2: for the exact same physical action in the past. It
- 36:22Speaker 2: proves a pattern of calculated behavior rather than a sudden
- 36:25Speaker 2: psychological break.
- 36:26Speaker 1: And the judge agreed. The judge allowed the 1985 case
- 36:30Speaker 1: to be introduced into evidence. The jury got to hear
- 36:33Speaker 1: the whole unvarnished story. They saw right through the brave
- 36:36Speaker 1: fog defense.
- 36:37Speaker 2: They had all the pieces.
- 36:38Speaker 1: They listened to the highly lucid AAA calls where she
- 36:41Speaker 1: identified highway signs and mechanical failures. They learned about the
- 36:46Speaker 1: 1985 acquittal and the sheer audacity of repeating the crime.
- 36:50Speaker 1: And after all of that, They convicted Colleen Harris of
- 36:53Speaker 1: cold-blooded murder.
- 36:54Speaker 2: Which brought a mandatory sentence of 50 years to life.
- 36:58Speaker 2: Given that she was 70 years old at the time
- 36:59Speaker 2: of sentencing, that is definitively, undeniably a life sentence. She
- 37:03Speaker 2: will never leave the prison system.
- 37:05Speaker 1: The source material ends by noting the profound relief of
- 37:08Speaker 1: Bob's children, his daughter Pam Sterling, and his son Andy.
- 37:12Speaker 1: Pam stated it gave her great peace knowing that Colleen
- 37:14Speaker 1: will die in prison and can never hurt anyone else again.
- 37:18Speaker 1: It's a somber, heavy victory, but a necessary one.
- 37:21Speaker 2: It is a victory for public safety and a measure
- 37:23Speaker 2: of closure for a family that fought hard for justice.
- 37:26Speaker 2: But the void left by Bob Harris and that community remains.
- 37:29Speaker 1: What an incredible, winding, infuriating journey this deep dive into
- 37:33Speaker 1: the source material has been. We started with a pristine
- 37:36Speaker 1: picture of an umpire and a sweet grandma in the woods.
- 37:39Speaker 1: And we uncovered a reality that spanned from a Mongolian
- 37:42Speaker 1: affair and a four-hour digital brute force attack to a
- 37:46Speaker 1: 200-mile joyride with a trunk full of stolen coins.
- 37:50Speaker 2: We covered a lot of ground.
- 37:51Speaker 1: We broke down the mechanics of the amnesia defense, the
- 37:54Speaker 1: fatal flaw of legal overcharging, and we unearthed a 30-year-old
- 37:58Speaker 1: identical murder right around the corner. It is a staggering
- 38:01Speaker 1: sequence of events.
- 38:02Speaker 2: For you listening, I think the most crucial takeaway from
- 38:05Speaker 2: analyzing this source material isn't just about spotting a murderer.
- 38:08Speaker 2: It's about the absolute necessity of critical thinking in our
- 38:12Speaker 2: own lives, particularly in how we evaluate our personal relationships.
- 38:16Speaker 1: Empathy needs boundaries.
- 38:17Speaker 2: Exactly. This case is an extreme, violent outlier, but the
- 38:21Speaker 2: underlying mechanisms of manipulation are terrifyingly common. We have to
- 38:25Speaker 2: be deeply careful about letting our empathy override objective reality.
- 38:29Speaker 2: When someone's established pattern of behavior contradicts the victim narrative
- 38:33Speaker 2: they are selling you, you must believe the pattern.
- 38:36Speaker 1: Believe the pattern. I love that. Before we wrap up,
- 38:39Speaker 1: I want to leave you with a chilling question to
- 38:40Speaker 1: mull over. Something to explore on your own that builds
- 38:44Speaker 1: on the psychology we've just discussed.
- 38:46Speaker 2: What's the thought?
- 38:47Speaker 1: Think about the timeline. If Bob had never taken that
- 38:50Speaker 1: work trip to Mongolia, you know, if he had never
- 38:52Speaker 1: had the affair that bruised her ego so profoundly, would
- 38:55Speaker 1: Colleen have found another reason to eventually pull the trigger?
- 38:59Speaker 1: Or was she simply a dormant pathology sitting there quietly
- 39:03Speaker 1: for 30 years in the idyllic town of Plasterville, just
- 39:06Speaker 1: waiting for the exact right combination of bruised ego, threatened control,
- 39:11Speaker 1: and physical opportunity to erupt again?
- 39:13Speaker 2: It is the ultimate question of pathology versus circumstance. Was
- 39:16Speaker 2: she a killer actively waiting for an excuse, or a
- 39:19Speaker 2: wife pushed to a break? Given the history, the identical weapon,
- 39:22Speaker 2: and the identical lawyer, the patterns strongly suggest the pathology
- 39:26Speaker 2: was always there, waiting in the dark.
- 39:28Speaker 1: It's a terrifying thought to end on. but that's exactly
- 39:31Speaker 1: why we do these deep dives into the source material.
- 39:34Speaker 1: We want to thank you for joining us on this
- 39:35Speaker 1: exploration of the masks people wear, the lies they tell themselves,
- 39:39Speaker 1: and the truth hidden beneath them. Until next time, keep
- 39:42Speaker 1: questioning what you see.