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Dirty Little Secret: I Told Him No…And My Wife Doesn't Know! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your yost to comments, you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret. The chance to go
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  Speaker 2: all right, Dirty Little Secret eight three three seven eighty
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  Speaker 2: seven one oh two nine?
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  Speaker 3: What is your secret? It's time you confess? Go ahead,
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  Speaker 3: how are you I?
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  Speaker 4: I'm good. I've got a secret that I haven't even
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  Speaker 4: told my wife yet because I'm not sure how she's
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  Speaker 4: gonna feel about it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, that makes me nervous if wife he
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  Speaker 2: doesn't even know when we're gonna know.
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  Speaker 3: So what's your secret?
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  Speaker 4: Well, my youngest daughter is twenty one and her boyfriend
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  Speaker 4: who's twenty five. It came to me the other day,
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  Speaker 4: a man, the man, and he ask for my permission
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  Speaker 4: to marry her, and yeah, my secret is I told
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  Speaker 4: him no. Oh, I know that's harsh, you know, but
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  Speaker 4: trust me, I know as a father, I just couldn't
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  Speaker 4: say yes.
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  Speaker 3: Right, what's going on with him? You don't like him?
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  Speaker 4: No? I like him? You know, he's he's a good kid,
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  Speaker 4: you know. I mean, the guy works part time as
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  Speaker 4: a bartender, and yeah, maybe he makes decent money. But
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  Speaker 4: in my opinion, that's not stability, that's not a plan,
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  Speaker 4: and that's not a husband material for my daughter right now.
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  Speaker 4: So I just told him if he wants to marry
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  Speaker 4: somebody's daughter, especially mine, he needs to figure out his
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  Speaker 4: career path and honestly grow up a little first.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Do you so you think that it's just he's not
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  Speaker 2: he's not ready with his career path that he's in.
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  Speaker 3: So it's just not I mean reasonable.
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  Speaker 2: I know people who are bartenders for years that make
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  Speaker 2: good money and that's just what they do. And I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, I mean but anyway, so she wouldn't be
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  Speaker 2: too happy about this.
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  Speaker 3: But but you like them, yeah, I.
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  Speaker 4: Do, you know, honestly, I do, And maybe part of
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  Speaker 4: this comes from me watching my oldest daughter make this
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  Speaker 4: exact mistake. She got married young after only being with
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  Speaker 4: the guy for a couple of years, and now she's
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  Speaker 4: divorced with a toddler, trying to hold everything together by herself. Man,
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  Speaker 4: you know, you know watching watching one of your kids
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  Speaker 4: go through that, you know that changes you so But
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  Speaker 4: the crazy part is, you know, my youngest would say
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  Speaker 4: yes immediately if you ask her. You know she's in
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  Speaker 4: love with him. But they fight all the time, and
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  Speaker 4: I just don't think they understand what marriage actually is. Yet.
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  Speaker 4: That's where that's where I am. And you know, I
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  Speaker 4: just figured I'm going to stop it before it even happened.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if you did the wrong thing.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not who like, there's people out there
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  Speaker 1: who would probably be like, I wish my dad would
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  Speaker 1: have said that. I wish someone would have told me I.
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  Speaker 3: Was just about to say the same thing. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: how many understand honestly something He's right now? So I
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  Speaker 3: don't know if it's because people are rushing a lot
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  Speaker 3: of factors.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot of factors, but people, there's so
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  Speaker 2: many people I know who go even not me back
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  Speaker 2: in the day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I was just too young. I didn't
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  Speaker 3: know what was going on. I thought I did.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't motionally mature, you know, for any relationship, much
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  Speaker 2: less a marriage.
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  Speaker 3: So you stopped it.
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  Speaker 1: What did he do?
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  Speaker 4: Well? Honestly, he handled it way better than I expected.
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  Speaker 4: You know, what he said, he understood and he respected
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  Speaker 4: what I said. And maybe in a few months we
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  Speaker 4: could talk again if things changed. And I respect him
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  Speaker 4: for that, I really do. Yeah, but I still haven't
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  Speaker 4: told my daughter or my wife because I know they're
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  Speaker 4: both gonna think I'm being overprotective, and maybe I am.
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  Speaker 4: You know. I can just see this train wreck coming
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  Speaker 4: from a mile away, guys, you know, And if I
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  Speaker 4: can protect her from making a life changing mistake too early,
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  Speaker 4: I gotta do it. Yeah, I just feel like I
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  Speaker 4: have to do this.
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  Speaker 2: This is why I'm thankful I don't have a little girl,
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  Speaker 2: because if I had a girl, I would be doing
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  Speaker 2: the same thing.
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  Speaker 3: I don't care how to do. I'd be like, Nope,
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  Speaker 3: not yet, bro.
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  Speaker 1: And being married at twenty one, you steel like you're grown,
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  Speaker 1: and yeah, you can do some certain things you couldn't
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  Speaker 1: do before. But like you're still not even't lived enough
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  Speaker 1: to me, I know.
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  Speaker 2: But people back in the day would get married when
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  Speaker 2: they were twenty and be together still.
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  Speaker 3: Other than that, like I see they would get married
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  Speaker 3: at like eight.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's what is going on, but it was different times,
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  Speaker 2: and it almost makes me respect this kid more.
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  Speaker 3: That he was like.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, first of all, do people even do that? A
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  Speaker 2: lot of people don't even ask for the dad's.
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  Speaker 3: Permission as more old school stuff. I don't think it's old.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think that should be old school.
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't either.
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  Speaker 3: I love it. Yeah, right, so I would tell my
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  Speaker 3: son before you do it.
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  Speaker 2: You're going to ask the father, Yeah, get his blessing,
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  Speaker 2: but you never really think what if he's has No,
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  Speaker 2: it's not like.
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  Speaker 1: You said never.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't say not yet.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just saying not now.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, just pump your brakes a little and it probably
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  Speaker 2: honestly made you like this kid even more when he
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  Speaker 2: handled it.
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  Speaker 4: Well, well, yeah, I have more respect for him now
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  Speaker 4: than what we did coming into the conversation for sure.
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  Speaker 1: Well, then you tell your wife and your daughter that,
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  Speaker 1: and I think they'll respect you.
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't tell daughter. Yeah, Well, I tell wife I
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  Speaker 3: wouldn't tell the daughter gonna rush out and let's let's
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  Speaker 3: go a lower.
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  Speaker 2: Because then she's going to know too that it's coming.
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  Speaker 2: So you can't. You can't blow that. Ye can tell them.
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  Speaker 1: I would tell knew that no secrets that place in
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  Speaker 1: their relationship.
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  Speaker 3: She finds out, she can be mad.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, wife got to know.
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  Speaker 3: She just wants to be in the loop.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let us know what happens.
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  Speaker 2: And yeah, I'm going to ask people to see what
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  Speaker 2: they think about this because it's it's an interesting secret.
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  Speaker 3: Good luck with everything, and let us know what happens.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, thanks, guys, I appreciate you.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing wrong with being a bartender, But I did you
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  Speaker 2: know part time bartender. Yeah, like you're was listening and
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  Speaker 2: said part time barton, it might be a little bit different. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: for sure, And that's true. Part time anything. If you're
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  Speaker 2: trying to get married, yep, I don't know about that.