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- 0:05Gospel over growth.
- 0:06If we have to abandon the gospel in order to grow, then stop.
- 0:10If we have to abandon the gospel in order to avoid confrontation, then pray for boldness and wisdom in confrontation.
- 0:17If we have to abandon the gospel in pursuit of our own provision, then study the word and the promises of the Lord to be the provider and once again proclaim the gospel.
- 0:27Growing the numbers of the kingdom is far greater than growing the numbers of your business.
- 0:32Gospel over growth.
- 0:34What is up, faithful agents?
- 0:35Welcome back to another Tuesday short episode.
- 0:38I actually just read something that I posted about a week ago on the Facebook page.
- 0:43It's just something that's been on my heart as I something that I personally wrestle with as well.
- 0:48I think one of the the truth is it's really easy if you're on the podcast or you're up on a stage or whatever for people to hear you share your thoughts and ideas and whatever and assume that you don't struggle with these things or that you've got it all figured out and that is.
- 1:03the furthest thing from the truth is something that I wrestle with constantly, just like you do.
- 1:08And so just know when I share these thoughts, either on the Facebook page and if you're not on the Facebook group, you need to go join it, just search the faithful agent.
- 1:16When I share, excuse me, in this podcast, it's just things that I'm personally wrestling with, not stuff that I've figured out and mastered, but it's stuff that I hope that we will learn and grow.
- 1:28together in.
- 1:29So once again, thanks for coming back to another Tuesday short episode, a few quick housekeeping items.
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- 2:35Would love for you guys to be a part of that as well.
- 2:38But today we're gonna talk about gospel over growth.
- 2:40And it's exactly what I read earlier, but as always before we do Andy Wirt, this one is for you, my friend.
- 2:46It's for you because you talked about it in our coaching call today.
- 2:49Not that I've read it, but let's read the Christian, the chat GPT Christian story.
- 2:56Let's see what it has to say.
- 3:24Pastor John decided to use this unexpected error to his advantage.
- 3:28With a big grin, he said, well, it looks like we're not just cleaning up the church grounds this summer, we're also doing a clean sin up.
- 3:34If you have any sins you've been holding onto, now's the time to get rid of them.
- 3:38And remember, we don't just take small sins, we accept all sizes, shapes, and varieties.
- 3:42The congregation burst into laughter.
- 3:44And from that day on, the annual summer cleanup was affectionately known as the clean sin up, reminding everyone that the church is a place for forgiveness and new beginnings.
- 3:54That's just not funny.
- 3:55That's...
- 3:56Did I put in a bad prompt?
- 3:58I just did the...
- 3:59I said a funny Christian story.
- 4:01All right.
- 4:01Well, sorry you guys had to listen to that.
- 4:04I'm sorry I had to read it.
- 4:05It just is like, womp womp.
- 4:07That's not funny at all.
- 4:08All right.
- 4:09How do I recover from that?
- 4:10Okay.
- 4:10So, that was terrible.
- 4:14Gospel over growth.
- 4:15Gospel over growth.
- 4:17If we have to abandon the gospel in order to grow, then stop.
- 4:21Growing the numbers of the kingdom is far greater than growing the numbers of your business.
- 4:26Again, this is something that is hard.
- 4:29I rustle with this myself, not in the sense of I want to have been in the gospel, that's not true at all, but in the sense of it's really easy to think and look and say, well, if I just take that shortcut here, or maybe if I just don't treat the person right over here, I just kind of do a little white lie that maybe it'd make my business a little bit better, maybe we could grow a little bit quicker, or...
- 4:49If I just add a bunch of agents to my team and without a heart to really serve them and not care about what they're trying to do, then the easiest thing for me would be to just grow and add a bunch of people and make a bunch of false promises, right?
- 5:01Like at the end of the day, we've got to understand that the most important thing we can do in this industry, the most important thing we can do in our business is be gospel witnesses.
- 5:09That's the key to why we're even in real estate is because you get to reach people.
- 5:14that I don't get to reach.
- 5:15You get to reach people that you weren't reaching when you were in whatever career field you were in before.
- 5:20These are gospel opportunities for you and it is really easy because the industry, because the world measures success, right, by how many deals, how much money, all of those things.
- 5:31You get the nice car, you go on a nice vacation, all those things.
- 5:34It's really easy for us to abandon the gospel in search of growth.
- 5:38And it's not quite that clear.
- 5:41Right?
- 5:42No one's going to say, well, I've been to the gospel and forget the Lord because I just want to grow.
- 5:45It comes in subtle ways.
- 5:47It comes in the danger of the self -help society.
- 5:50Right?
- 5:50It comes in the danger of the books that just say, you're enough and you can do whatever you want if you just put your mind to it.
- 5:57Right?
- 5:57Like it comes in the danger of those things when we start to believe that everything that we need and is good is within us already.
- 6:05And we say, well, if I can just...
- 6:07learn enough, if I can just take enough action, if I can just do X, Y, and Z, then I'm going to get where I want to go.
- 6:13The reality is that that is a dangerous concept because we are in essence abandoning the gospel in hopes of growth.
- 6:21We're saying, Lord, whatever it is that you want, that you can put that on hold, I'm going to go just become whoever I want to be, and I'm going to grow, and I'm going to make more deals, and I'm going to make more money, and I'm going to grow, grow, grow, grow, grow.
- 6:32And at the end of the day, As believers, we've got to approach our business, and this is hard, and this is really, really hard for me.
- 6:38We've got to approach our business and say, Lord, I want to become excellent in what I do.
- 6:42I absolutely want to become an excellent in what I do.
- 6:44But as your word says, there is nothing good in me.
- 6:48My heart is wicked and deceitful above all things.
- 6:52There's nothing good in me apart from Christ.
- 6:56So no, I can't buy into this lie that, Garrett, if you just believe in yourself deep enough, if you just work hard enough, you all the good stuff is already in, already inside you, you can become whatever you want to be.
- 7:11That's just not true.
- 7:13That is not true.
- 7:15So the reality is for us, we don't want to abandon the gospel.
- 7:18We want to embrace the gospel because the numbers of the kingdom matter way more than the numbers of your business.
- 7:23And when we think long term and we have the appropriate ability to think long term and we recognize, man, what matters most?
- 7:30in the opportunity of this deal or in the opportunity to serve this client.
- 7:36And I'll even give an example of working with an agent, but in these opportunities, what matters more is not getting the deal done.
- 7:41What matters most is how do I be a gospel witness?
- 7:45We're having a conversation in the local group I'm part of, right?
- 7:48Go be part of a local group for the faithful agent.
- 7:51We're having a recent conversation.
- 7:52I was sharing an example of how in this industry, especially right now, we're in a really tough season.
- 7:57A lot of agents are scared or fearful.
- 7:59And and quite honestly doing shady things or, you know, saying rude things and that's just agents in general, but doing things that just aren't appropriate or are not in the, with their client's best heart and mind, but just because they're trying to get a deal done or they're trying to make money, whatever it is, it's okay.
- 8:17And this is my encouragement and this is my encouragement to you.
- 8:19This is my encouragement to me.
- 8:20When you're working with an agent who is acting all kinds of crazy and they're struggling, they're struggling through whatever is going on.
- 8:27The reality is for you to pause and say, hey, can we put the deal aside?
- 8:32This is my encouragement to y 'all.
- 8:33Can we put the deal aside?
- 8:35How are you doing?
- 8:36There's a hard market out there, right?
- 8:38But actually speak to the heart of the agent.
- 8:41And who knows what the responsibility of maybe the agent will say, you know, it's been a really tough season.
- 8:47It's been a lot of ups and downs and I'm worried about blah, blah, blah, and blah, blah, blah, whatever it is, right?
- 8:52That was a terrible phrasing.
- 8:54We're here about blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, but.
- 8:56Whatever it is that they're worried about, you can say, hey, that's really tough.
- 8:59You know, I've had some of those own worries myself, and I'm really grateful that my hope is secure in Christ.
- 9:06And they're like, what does that mean?
- 9:09Well, let me tell you about it.
- 9:10Right.
- 9:11I'd love to share that with you.
- 9:12Reality is we're in this really difficult place in the industry.
- 9:16The reality is because we want to grow so bad, the reality is because we allow everyone else to determine what success looks like for us.
- 9:24We very often.
- 9:26take action, we very often think things, we very often seek things that are all about growth and not about the gospel.
- 9:35And again, they're subtle things, and most of us aren't going out and doing crazy, crazy things.
- 9:40It's subtle things where we begin to rely on our own strength when we begin to think that all we need is within us already, when we begin to think that if we just had more people or more deals or more whatever, then we would finally be secure, and none of those things are true because it's the gospel.
- 9:55That is true.
- 9:56It's the fact that the Lord is our security.
- 9:58It's the fact that our comfort comes from knowing Christ, that our future is secure in Him.
- 10:04It is the reality that it's not about growth.
- 10:07It's not about getting more people to join your team or selling more deals or, you know, winning over against another agent and negotiating them until they lose.
- 10:16The reality is you're getting in conversations with people who desperately need the gospel, and it's our responsibility to share it with them.
- 10:23And...
- 10:23Brothers and sisters, that's really hard.
- 10:26But if we think gospel over growth, if we show up to every day of work, which we're never going to do that, let's be real, but if we can encourage one another to show up and say gospel over growth, the Lord is going to use us in mighty, mighty ways.
- 10:40And I pray that that's the kind of community that we will be.
- 10:43I pray that's the kind of agent that I will be.
- 10:45I pray that's the kind of agent you will be.
- 10:47Gospel over growth.
- 10:49I love you, brothers and sisters.
- 10:50We'll see you on Thursday.