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Pike and Amanda give Intern Gracie dating tips · Podcast - Big 98.7

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This woman is obviously desperate for love O. Her name's in turn Gracie.
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I'm just kidding, I'm kidding. I mean, if the shoe fits,
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we're gonna have to dive into this too. She needs a little love life
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help, but we'll do that at a different Well, you got a long
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way to go before you're this woman who's thirty five years old and is now
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offering a five thousand dollars finders fee. I'll get out of here if you
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find her a husband five grand. Do we have any guidelines or anything?
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She does a couple of sipulations. So one, you don't get the money
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until the marriage certificate is officially signed. Oh geez. Yeah, yeah,
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But she also wants somebody who's not been married before. Got to be their
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first go around. Okay, also a man. Well that's kind of a
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fifty fifty shot these days, but okay, just you know, you got
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to clarify. Yeah, so she wants somebody who's bounced for somebody who quote
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meets her needs and is ready for a real relationship other than that pretty wide
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open field. Have you ever hooked somebody up? Isn't that like the most
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satisfying thing I don't know. For me, it was anyway, like when
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you set some people up and it actually works out, it works out,
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I feel like you're just like them, just cupid. It's so funny because
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Nick's best friend Angie, she hooked us up, and we always laugh because
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I mean, whenever it's our anniversary or there's any miles so and she's always
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like, yeah, yeah, exactly. It's always you're welcome, good job,
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guys. But I did this us pretty cool. I'm trying to think
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of I think I did. I had hooked two people up. They dated
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for a long time, and I was feeling really really good, but then
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they broke up, and I'm like, oh, that's my bad. I'm
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trying to think if I've ever hooked anybody up. I think I'm not good
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at that. Yeah, well jeez, like so many people I know,
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I mean, there's very few that you feel really good about setting somebody up
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with you. You might love them like they're your friend and everything, but
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you know, you know, every bad sometimes it's too much like yeah,
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maybe not yeah seven one two, eight, ninety eight seventy Ever hook somebody
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up ever work out? I don't know, into grace you I feel we
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gotta Yeah, anybody have any guys you want to hook me up with?
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Well, you're so young, is the problem. All my friends are old
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men. Well, although you do hang around that slow pitch, soft kind
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of exciting in the morning, big nut eight point seven. All right,
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So Fargo, if you're waking up stressed out this morning, you got to
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realize that you might be the only one because the list is in of the
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most and least stressed out cities in America. Okay, and all the way
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number one for whatever reason, Cleveland, Ohio just living in stress. I
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haven't really, there's not all those cities where it's like, I'm sure it's
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fine, I'm sure it's a city, but I just don't think I'll ever
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be here. It doesn't feel like a big destination. Fargo, all the
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way down to to hundred and seventy eight out of a hundred and eighty two
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ranked cities. Does it say like the biggest stressors or anything like that,
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Well, it does say this list was based on four different things, like
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work stress, so that's like job security, job satisfaction, also commute stress,
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which it's just it's a minimal it's minimal. Actually, when you talk
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about those stressful things and fargo things that stress you out. One of mine
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is roundabouts. Like we've got to cut out some of these roundabouts. It's
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like we're going in the opposite direction on me. Absolutely. Yeah. It's
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like every time there's road construction, you're like, let me guess you're working
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on a roundabout. This is great. People don't get it. And the
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one there's the one I take every day. It's downtown right when you're crossing
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over the bridge into Morehead on Main Avenue, and so there's like two lanes
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and so I don't know which I don't even know. I'm admitting I don't
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know which lane I'm supposed to be in. If I need to be taken
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a right you know, you get in the left lane and then it's all
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of a sudden, I've circled around three times. Get dizzy. The only
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way to get to our place is a roundabout, and it is the most
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uncomfortable one because it's like are you going because you don't have a blinker,
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it's like, oh, you're going around, You're turn in here, and
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it feels like it's a really small one. So you're just playing like poo,
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do I go boom, what do I do? Also, the other
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stress factors were family stress, including divorce rates. Cost of childcare. Would
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you say is pretty cheap? Oh? Yeah, gosh yeah, just you
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were thinking about having another kid just because it's so cheap. No, you
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don't get a bye to get one free package of the daycare. Yeah,
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you do get a slight discount. But I honestly feel bad for parents right
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now who are starting in a family or going through that because childcare is nearly
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impossible to find, especially for an infant. Yeah, so it's already you're
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excited you're going to have a baby, and then you're like, what am
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I going to do with this kid? If? I mean, do I
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have to quit my job? Do I have parents who are going to be
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able to help you out? It's crazy, that's the day. I mean,
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what is the threshold? What amount of money would you have to make
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where it'd be like it would make sense to just not work. You know,
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we've had the conversation. Yeah, I mean, because it is so
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incredibly ridiculous. But otherwise, Fargo doing pretty good. What are the stressful
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things about living here other than roundabouts? Roundabouts? Childcare? I would definitely
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put that as put that in the top three. Yeah, I mean that's
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everywhere. But I will say, have you moved here from Florida. Amount
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of time he's spend in traffic and amount of stress you have just on a
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daily basis is insane. I come here, it's like smooth sale. Even
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what you would consider traffic here, it's nothing, you know. No,
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there's so many times where I had to call Lauren and it'd be like,
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hey, I'm just like simply not going to be home for that thing we
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planned, So just go ahead, you know, just figure it out.
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Yeah. One other thing that came to my mind, especially with housing,
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and I had no idea this was a thing specials. Oh yeah, when
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you were buying a home, I'm like, oh, okay, this is
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a great price. And then all of a sudden, it's like an you
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have forty thousand dollars and specials. We don't really know what that's all for.
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It's just like your development and all these things. It was like,
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that's so insane to me. I had no idea what it was. And
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we haven't never purchased a home here, but now I'm looking into it and
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it's like, dear God, yeah, like what and then you starting to
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find out we live on a pond and it's supposed to have one of those
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what is it like a fountain? Oh yeah, and that was a part
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of those specials. I'm like, I've lived or two years. There is
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no fountain, Like come on morning, morning, Hike and Amanda in the
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morning. Oh well, it's time for friend zone. Our job to get
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somebody out of that just dreaded friend zone situation. This one is very uncomfortable
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to me because I can't imagine not really knowing something. Well, it's a
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unique one because, like you said, they've never actually met in person from
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what I understand. So there's that. Her name is Laura. She's the
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one trying to get out of the friend zone, and she's on the phone
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right now. Good morning, Laura. Hey, how's it going? Hopefully
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a whole lot better when we get you out of the friend zone? Girl?
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Yeah, I know, thank you. I need the help. That's
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the goal. That is what we're trying to do here. So Laura tell
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us about what's going on with I think his name was Derek. Yeah,
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yeah, So I know this is like, you know, random and everything
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that I met this suy Derek um through my best friend, like ages ago
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through snapchat actually, um, and we talk like all the time. We
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talk every day pretty much all day literally, but I've never you know,
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for the amount of time we've actually been talking, I've never actually met him
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in person. Hold up, pulled up, hold up, So you can
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meet people just through snapchat and then yet I feel so that's a little confusing.
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So I mean, how do you meet him through snapped? Like she
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was snapchat friends with them and you're like, hey, I want to be
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friends with him too, or what. Yeah, it's like my best friends,
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like it's a mutual friend and she kind of like introduced us. So
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I was like, okay, cool, we started to chatting or whatever.
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He's really funny, you know. We hit it off talking and we sent
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each other like video snaps and like talk and everything. Okay, so you've
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seen him, right, You've seen a video in a photo, like,
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we know this is not a this is not a catfish situation. I mean,
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no, I don't think so. But I've never met him, So
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that's concerning to me. And I really want to meet him, and I
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don't understand why he doesn't want to meet and I want to find out what's
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going on? I mean, has it been very friendly or have you guys
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crossed a line more of like a risque conversation? Ever? What are you
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guys chatting about? Just day to day activities or um, I've just got
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a little hot a couple of times. But yeah, I don't know where
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we stand. I guess that's what I'm trying to figure out too. Okay,
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well, that's why we're here. We have Derek's phone number and we're
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gonna call him. You be quiet. We don't want him to know that
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you're on the phone. So we want to see if we can get as
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much information as possible from him, see where he's at on all this,
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and then we'll bring you in and we'll do a little joint thing. Okay,
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okay, all right, here we go dial him up. Hello,
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Hey, good morning. Is this Derek by chance? Yes? Well,
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my name is Pike and we do a morning radio show on Big nine year
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point seven. You might if we chat with you for a second. Uh,
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some kind of joke, I think. What's going on? Not a
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not a joke, I would say it's something pretty interesting though, something you
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probably want to hear about. So, Derek, there's somebody who has a
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crush on you? Oh okay, what are these kind of jokes? Right?
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Okay? Cool? Not a joke again, not a joke. But
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we do want to inform you that there is somebody that has a crush on
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you. When we say that, who comes to mind somebody out there?
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You might think, oh, yeah, they definitely have a crush on me.
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I don't know, I don't anybody. Well, first of all,
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are you single? Yeah? I'm single? Okay? Nice? Nice okay?
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And uh, have you talked to anybody recently that's maybe gotten your attention
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at all? I mean, like, like, who who are you talking
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about? Like, I'll try to lead you there a little bit. It's
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somebody you've not met in person? Uh yeah, not following, So I
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don't know. Well, you've known this person for a couple of years,
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so you'd think you'd know her pretty well. Snapchat Ye wha wait are you
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are you talking about? Are you talking about Laura thing? Yes, we
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are talking about Laura. Funny. So Laura is your Snapchat friend? Right?
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Yeah, it's awesome and you've known it awesome. So what's the hang
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up here? I'm so confused? Yoh yeah, Derek, I guess what
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we're wondering because we've been filled in on the situation a little bit. How
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is it possible that you've been talking to her for this long only on Snapchat,
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but not once have you tried to connect in person? Like, Yeah,
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it's nutty. I mean she lives in a different state. I mean,
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I'm not planning on going to Fargo. Like I'm sorry, Yeah,
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what state are you in? I'm in Texas? And she doesn't know you're
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in Texas. I mean she does. Like it's like, I don't I
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don't know. I don't know that. That's I'm confused now, Like,
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I guess that makes three of us, so no party. You was like,
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all right, I need to see her in person. Let's fly up
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to far Go, North Dakota. Ollegion has great flights by the very very
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affordable direct flights. I guess I really just never really considered it. I
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guess I gotta be honest with you. We have Laura on the phone.
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In fact, he's been listening this whole time, So Laura, you got
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some explaining to do here. You forgot like the whole chunk of him living
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in a different state. Hi, Um, well, I don't look at
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it as a big deal. I mean, people meet online all the time.
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So for me, just since you know, I guess I never really
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thought it was like something a huge deal. I guess. I mean,
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I can intentionally leave it out. You gotta admit it's it's probably a big
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part of the reason that you guys aren't, you know, hanging out on
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a regular basis. It's only yeah, but like you said, like a
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flight, no big deal, right, I'm guessing your whole thought is,
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hey, let's get a radio station to pressure him to fly to far Golf.
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I mean, we've got it's more than just the movie. If you
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have any further questions, It's beautiful this time of year. I'd highly recommended
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if you are willing to pull the trigger, maybe you guys go Halsey's on
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a ticket. I'm just judge up to me and snap, get on the
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radio. Well, we appreciate you doing that, we do, I mean
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word for all of us at this point, Dereka, I gotta ask you
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though, man, I mean, just man to man here, as a
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warm blooded male, there's not a single party that's like, all right,
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it's time to get up there and do some in person. Hanging out.
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Hey, I mean this kind changes things up. I didn't realize this was
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a story. Are we going to get together? Did we do our job
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today? Or is this going to stay a snapchat? Hi? How are
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you? How was your day? Sort of relationship? Shoot, I don't
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mind coming up. Okayyay, awesome, We're definitely have about the suchat this
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is so bizarre. All right, guys getting up? I guess I want
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home. Thank you. Guys like Amanda in the morning, diny point seven,
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Who do you think sleeps more? Men or women? Who do you
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think sleeps more on average per night? Men one hundred percent, And they
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act like they don't and then they're just snoring, and then the kids want
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mama in the middle of the night. Sorry, this is a little second.
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Sounds personal? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I was up all night.
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Oh really, because I was up all night with the kids and they're
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laying in bed with us because they decided they wanted mommy and daddy and it
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was more mommy. That sounds exhausting. I have a hard enough time without
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the kids. Jumping a bit, but there's a new study on an average
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two thousand adults found that women sleep in average of eight hours per night.
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That's an entire hour more than men slept eight hour. I mean, are
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you are you ever getting eight hours asleep? I mean barely, especially with
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our lifestyle on vacation though, and I think I was breaking about this the
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other day. Yeah, we have not. Our kids always are up between
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like five thirty and six, like that's just the lifestyle. We go to
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bed pretty early, by like eight o'clock is usually, so they wake up
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early. When we were on vacation, yes, we were going to bed
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later, but my daughter was sleeping until ten am. I slept until nine.
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Some of these days, I'm like, what is this light? Wow?
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Yeah, good, what a good little sleeper sit is? I've been
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not been sleeping. I've been made made it very known that I've just not
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been sleeping at all, and just continuing to get Lauren passes out right away.
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My wife, she'll we'll go to bed at the same time, which
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is very early for her. It'd be like eight nine o'clock. She'll fall
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asleep, and then you wake up at an ungodly hour to go to work
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and she's still sleeping, and she'll get to sleep for hours more. So
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it's got it. She got a sleep in an average of like five more
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hours an ax. You get a little envious, like just a little bit
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of aspiser. Yeah, I just sitting there all cozied up in bed.
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I must be you know what I was thinking though? It help me sleep
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better. Do you when you go to bed? Do you have your phone
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with you, like, you know, the charger? Does it reach your
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mattress? Yeah? Yeah? And do you sit there and scroll? Yep,
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it's so bad for you, but yes, well it's all I do.
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But then I convinced myself. I'm like, well, it's comforting because
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I know I can't sleep, so at least I have something. But then
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it's like, well, what came first, the chicken or the egg?
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You know? Can I not sleep because I got my phone on my phone
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because I can't sleep? Yeah, And they say that like the screen and
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all of that like kind of triggers you keep sure the old blue light.
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Yes, yeah, yeah, there's a lot of things there, and then
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your mind gets going because you're scrolling through who knows what, and you're not
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really shutting down. Yeah, I'm gonna try to do the thing where you
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put it on like the other side of the room or something. See that's
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my alarm clock though, so I keep it right there. Well, that's
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another good thing to have the alarm clock across the room. Then you can't
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snooze. You gotta get your rear out of bed. Speaking of rears,
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you know what they say, according to the study, helps you sleep.
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Yeah, they said a weird way to say that. I'm like, I
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am really not sure where you're going here, but you know what, you
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say a thing and then you immediately go, why did I say that that's
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where right now? But relaxes, they say, yes, seventy six percent
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of men and women reporting a sash helped him sleep. So so this right
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at first, ye gotta get the kids out of the bat and ada in
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the morning. Seven all right, time to enter the judgment zone. Sorry,
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it's okay to get a little judge, please do In fact seven one
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two eight ninety eight seven, this Dan wants to know if it's okay that
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he has cut his oldest daughter off financially now she is out of college.
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Now his deal with his kids, He said, he has multiple kids.
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Mom's not in the picture, but he agreed to pay for all of their
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college and fund them for a year afterward. Financially, however, is what
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stipulation was that they take up a degree that he believes will fund their lifestyle.
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Oh cool, So he doesn't want them go in for you know,
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underwater bats weaving. I remember when I was going to school in my first
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year, first semestery, it was feeder, which is great with a miner
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in dance. Yeah, and my dad sat me down and thankfully he paid
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for He paid for my college. I was one of the things he did
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and he's like, hey, girl, what's she gonna do here. I'm
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one of the lucky ones that actually did mass communications minor in public relations and
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landed on the radio one in a million, like that was just like a
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shot in the dark. Yeah, but yeah, odds of becoming a movie
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star. I thought I thought I was lending in New York City. I
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just can't believe it hasn't happened. Well, this dad said basically he was
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unhappy with his oldest daughter's decision to go to school for what she did.
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And now a year after college, after he's paid for the whole thing,
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they're going on a family vacation to Mexico, the whole family. Now,
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Dad, so you hear about I mean, I'm just picking up the pieces
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here that he's probably got a lot of money if he's funding this many you
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know, colleges. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I'm sure he could
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pay, but he's choosing not to because all of the things I just said.
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So he wants to know if he's in the wrong for cutting her off
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and making her pay her own way on this family vacation. Will he pays
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for the rest of the siblings they're younger, No, if he told her
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in an advance or was it like, Hey, we're going on a family
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vacation. This is the date, Da da da, And she's like sweet
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and then all of a sudden, gop it up, honey, twelve hund
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and she's going to time out dad. I don't think he's surprised her at
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the airport, like, so, where's your ticket? Where? Where's your
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tickets? What hotel are you staying at? Seven? One two eight one
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ninety eight seven? Feel free to chime in, or you also can on
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Facebook. I am with a couple of moms on here. Um, we've
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got Jessica and we also have I believe it's a Lisa on here, and
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or shall i'd pay for my kid? That's just me. I think I
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would because it is a family vacation and it yeah, and it's so easy.
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I mean, listen, I know how like dads and their daughters,
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especially your oldest daughter. I mean, that's your baby, and uh,
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obviously he's got money. It would be easy. Sure, I'm sure he
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can pay for her. But I applaud him for, you know, putting
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his foot down, because what's that going to do for her going forward?
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Is an adult right now, I'm getting everything paid for, getting the teaching
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of the lesson and doing all of that. Trust me, at some point
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you have to cut the cord. You need to get a job, you
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need to figure it out. We don't know all of the circumstances of what's
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really going on. Does she have money? Is she working? But ultimate
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sounds like she went to school for she's probably a doctor. But I just
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feel if you're going on a family vacation and you're paying for the sibliance,
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just toss her in there. She's an adulton. I was once told that
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if you can't afford the vacation, you don't go on the vacation. So
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that's told you can always make more money always. Amanda in the morning.
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If you've ever had the feeling of you just want to be in love and
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it's just not working for you, Well, we know someone who can place
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intergrazy. Yes, her lovely intern who comes in here every single morning.
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He's joll just a just a light, just a bright light here in the
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studio. Amanda and I come in, we're on and she's just lovely.
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But obviously we have not connected on a relationship in the time I've known you.
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Right, So you had a crush, Yeah, I a couple of
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crushes, would you say, Amanda, Yeah, very interesting situations, which
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are totally fine. Are you gonna go through that? You're gonna have a
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lot of just swings and missus in relationships. But you're on dating apps right
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Yeah? Okay, I know that to be true because I'm holding your phone
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right now and I have your Tinder profile. Polo. Oh, so that's
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kind of one of my big questions because Tinder I have been out of the
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game. Are you on Mumble too? Is Mumble a thing anymore? No?
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Not really? Tinders like the big one. Amanda was buzzing all over
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the day. It was like a beehive for like a week. Gross.
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I can't even Amanda, you found some tips because we feel like maybe if
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we just freshen up your Tinder profile, it might go a long ways for
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you. Okay, I think we might. Okay, So Amanda, you
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found some tips on how to make the perfect Tender profile? I did.
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Here are the top five Tinder tips. Number five is make sure you're smiling?
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Is there some smile? I'm looking at her photos and smiles are front
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and center. I love it. You've got it. You've got a good
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variety of face shots, full body shots, you're dress stop, you're at
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a concert in one. Does she you have filtered photos? Because number four
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says have good quality photos? Yeah? To me, these don't look overly
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filtered at all. So you're killing it. You see the photos that you
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go that's her yea, Because don't you feel that's one of the biggest things
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are dating. It's like, yeah, is this what you really are gonna
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look like? Or like I've noticed a lot of people have group pictures.
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It's like, then who are you? Which one are? Yeah? And
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I know people say like, well it shouldn't matter. It's like, well,
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unfortunately it does. It does. Yeah, all right, so you
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have a good smile. You don't have too many group photos. You have
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good quality photos. Number two on the list to show your personality through your
22:15
pictures. So does she have pictures of her screaming with Taylor Swift? I
22:18
don't see Taylor Swift. I probably should add Taylor Swift. I mean,
22:22
but look, you're on vacation, you're at in Nashville. You're here standing
22:25
in front of the Viking Stadium because you like that terrible team. Oh nice,
22:27
yeah, I mean it really tells me what I need to know about
22:30
you. Maybe I should add a picture of me and my Max Kepler gear
22:33
too, because you know that's also a part. There you go. I
22:37
think a few guys would be like, oh, take me out to the
22:38
ball game, Gracie. All right. And the number one Tinder tip is
22:44
use a simple bio. A few words are fine words that display who you
22:48
really are, Sam Dying, I gotta know what the bio. Well,
22:51
the bio is simple, for sure. I have some questions it says about
22:55
me, honestly, not sure. Whatever happens happens. It's just like that
23:03
feels a little juicy, like whatever I mean, because I feel like nowadays
23:07
people just want to meet and they want to hook up. You know,
23:10
I mean I don't want to do that, but if you want to be
23:11
friends whatever, if you want to say when you say, whatever happens,
23:18
we got to change that. We gotta we gotta help me, guys.
23:19
Yeah, like I am looking for and then you're biding used to be like
23:23
somebody fun, upbeat loves concerts. Yeah, because there's a man. I
23:27
read that and I go, oh anything goes It sounds like, okay,
23:30
well let's help me. Guys. How about it is baseball season and don't
23:33
you feel like you should freshen up your bio all the time? Like right
23:37
now? Uh god, this is why I'm not in dating. Like what
23:40
if you did say, looking for somebody that take me to a ball game?
23:45
No? Looking first, you shouldn't have I mean you're a lady.
23:48
You should really shouldn't take much. I mean I know, guys, you
23:52
could just probably just ask somebody, Well, yeah, do you slide into
23:56
guys? DMS? You magic? No? No? Okay, okay,
24:00
well maybe try that. I mean, listen, you're looking for I saw
24:03
it on there. But you're looking for a long term relationship. Yeah,
24:07
you want to be in love? You you love the idea of being having
24:10
a person waking up and texting them good morning, yes, and saying what
24:14
do you want to do for dinner? Do all of it? And that's
24:17
really what happens every day in a relationship. Really, it's a lot to
24:21
look forward to, what's for dinner, Good morning, how did you sleep,
24:26
what's your plans for the day? Hear about their job, you don't
24:30
really care about day of being a jerk, or you just at twenty two,
24:36
take take a breather, don't feel like you need to be in love.
24:37
Wait till after like thirty, and then you hunker down all right in
24:45
the morning. Well, this story just breaks my heart. You know.
24:51
You hear about kids being bullied and it's just some time, yes, and
24:53
then you think back to when you were a kid and you might have,
24:56
you know, participated in some bullying because kids are stupid, they just don't
25:00
well, and we've all been a victim of being a bully, but then
25:03
also being bullied. Oh yeah, you know what I mean. And it's
25:06
one of those things where you've been bullied and you're like, oh, you
25:07
know how bad it is, But when you're on the other side, it's
25:11
like, oh, good it's not me getting bullied, and that's just the
25:14
worst feeling. Yeah. Well, there's a kid down in Texas who is
25:17
eleven years old and he needs friends. Now, this is sort of adorable.
25:22
He walked up to a neighbor's house. Cute guy wearing a Jaws t
25:26
shirt, blah blah blah, and this is what he had to say to
25:27
the neighbors. Um, I just wanted to see if you if you knew
25:33
any kids where I'm like eleven or twelve maybe because I need I need,
25:37
I need two friends. Like Um, so the house to your right,
25:41
there's two kids that live there. Well, um, they're not my friends
25:45
anymore because, um, they're bullies to me. Oh, I'm sorry about
25:49
that. Man, he just breaks your heart, right, It is so
25:55
sad. And so this kid, you know, he's just looking for anybody
25:57
to hang out with. So what did the couple do who lived in the
26:00
house that he was knocking on the door, Because obviously they didn't have much
26:03
help for him. They you know, they don't know who's eleven, who's
26:04
twelve, So they go online they start to go fund me, of course,
26:07
because they want to help the kid out. They want to be able
26:10
to, you know, get him some new clothes for school, tickets to
26:12
an amusement park, cool stuff, a gaming set. And so they set
26:15
a goal for seven thousand dollars, and as the internet does, they far
26:19
exceeded that. Forty thousand dollars has been raised a serious young boys. So,
26:26
I mean, while obviously I think he would probably prefer just a good
26:29
friend forty grand to make this kid's life a little better, it's going to
26:33
be pretty cool. You know. I feel like, like we said earlier,
26:36
growing up definitely not you know, innocent when it came to bullying.
26:38
Like you said, it's just easier to not say anything. It's easier just
26:41
to feel better because it's not you. And there was this kid. We
26:45
were downtown last week and it was seven oh one day and this kid walked
26:48
by a kid grow an adult, yeah my age, but he goes,
26:51
oh hey, and I was like, oh, well, I've not seen
26:53
this kid in twenty years, literally grew up going to elementary school with them.
26:57
And then you just started talking and h I just remembered being so mean
27:02
to him, like everybody was super mean to this job. Oh God.
27:04
And so he was telling me like his life update and things aren't going great
27:07
for him, and I was just like, you know what, I think
27:10
I was probably a pretty big jerk back in the day, so sorry about
27:14
that. And he was like, oh, yeah, we were kids.
27:15
I'm like, okay, well, but he might have just said that to
27:18
you, but it probably meant so much at that moment to be like,
27:22
yeah, you know what, you were a real jerk. Ad it in
27:26
the morning. Big points relationship deal breakers, things that make you say what
27:37
comes to mind, because people online were sharing things that you know, you
27:40
start dating, somebody starts seeing them, you think things are going well,
27:42
you got a good vibe, and then they do this or you see them
27:45
say this, and it makes you just go, I can't do it.
27:48
That's too much for me to get past. I always feel like if the
27:52
guy that you're with goes and meet your family or really close friend and it's
27:56
just not a vibe, that's a deal breaker from me. Like you don't
28:00
along really with my family and friends and it's just they know something, you
28:03
know what I mean, there's a reason for it. If something feels a
28:07
little off, that's a deal breaker from me. If you do not get
28:08
along with my thing, got along with everybody though, Oh yeah, yeah,
28:11
I'm pretty sure they all like him more than me. Yeah, I
28:15
agree, couldn't agree. Me'm horsing around Van stop it. It's something as
28:19
people said, were like, if you go out to eat early on and
28:22
they make the restaurant staff sing you happy birthday, would that turn you off?
28:29
That's also hilarious. I know, would make me be like, it's
28:30
not my birthday. But that's funny. Yeah, I mean, I don't
28:33
know. That's like the most awkward thing in the world. It isn't really
28:36
awkward, but it is funny, like knew who's enjoying it, because I
28:37
even if I'm just like there at the party, I hate it. You
28:41
can tell that people sing it absolutely hate It's like existence see the best part.
28:45
It's uncomfortable for everybody. So that wouldn't Benna laugh at. But I
28:49
would go the opposite. If you're going out to a restaurant with a guy
28:52
or a gal and they're either like rude to the staff or just can't say
28:57
please. I just people, or and they just they cannot say please.
29:02
I hate it when you go out and you're just at a bar and it's
29:03
give me a bud light just say I'll do a bud light please or so
29:07
whatever, or how they address the staff to kind of like hey girl or
29:12
just oh yeah she for okay, boss, give me anything. It's just
29:18
all you know, it's an or being kept a secret by not meeting friends
29:22
and families, so just you know, not even what you describe, but
29:26
just avoiding them at all. I feel like now, especially in twenty twenty
29:30
three, which would be a deal breaker for me, is if you don't
29:33
have some sort of social media oh, just don't have it while or if
29:37
you have it and it's just kind of like or multiple accounts, if you
29:41
have multiple Facebook accounts out there, just that tells me everything I need to
29:45
know, or somebody who's been hacked, muggling, you know what I mean?
29:47
Like if no, it's not even the juggling, it's just that you're
29:49
probably I hate to say that, but you might be an idiot. You've
29:55
been playing Farmville one too many times? Yeah, fall in for a scammer?
30:00
Two, I haven't chiming in talking about poor communication. Yes, Oh
30:04
it's grazy. Really that spoke to you triggered what's up? Well, we
30:10
know about your one little crush and the lack of communication from the one side
30:14
irritates me, Like, yeah, you mean the fact that he doesn't talk
30:18
at all? Well, yes, but like I like, I like to
30:21
talk. You guys know that, Yeah, you do. You know what
30:23
else bothers me isn't guys like text and they like don't have no like what's
30:30
the word for You've said like seventeen time, yeah, grammar, but they
30:33
don't have correct grammar. It's it's so irritating. I'm trying to make sense
30:37
of what you're saying. I think, yeah, like no punctuation or anything.
30:41
But if they can't goof off, that's a big one. If you
30:45
can't goof off, it's a problem. You gotta be able to goof You
30:47
gotta have some fun. Yeah, it's gonna be damn this silly goose yourself
30:52
up in the morning. Now here's what you need to know. I am
31:06
gonna make you hungry. The Great Minnesota Get Together the Minnesota State Fair has
31:10
added thirty four new foods and seven new food vendors to their lineup this year.
31:14
A couple that caught my eye. They have a bee sting Sunday and
31:18
I honestly want to try this. What about it is a bee sting.
31:22
So it is vanilla ice cream topped with hot honey, spicy nuts, and
31:26
a little bit of whip cream in a cherry. I love that sweet,
31:29
salty, but spicy combo. Doesn't that sound delicious? It sounds fantastic.
31:33
I'm so hungry. They also have a kind of a big dill and it
31:37
is a pickle lemonade. I don't know if the salty in this sounds disgusting,
31:41
but I trust, I trust somebody sampled it. Somebody will give it
31:45
a rooral. But this is something Wally fritter pops. What's a fritter so
31:52
like I think of an apple fritter. I don't even think I can tell
31:55
you that it's like a fluff and now I'm getting funnel cake. It's not
32:00
right fritters like kind of the same though, Okay, well, Walley's really
32:04
good. Yeah, and I just I imagine it being like a Walley cake
32:07
pop. Really but an you're gonna go to the Minnis. It's down in
32:10
Minneapolis, right or something? Only gone to the state fair once. This
32:15
was so long ago. I wish I could rotate. I mean, it's
32:17
a big state. Can't they do it in I don't know, Dilworth one.
32:22
Would that be awesome? And more than twenty thousand people have already purchased
32:27
tickets to see both Barbie and Openheimer. This is going to be opening on
32:30
July twenty seconds, so you can do the pre sale tickets only with AMC
32:34
theaters. Just going to show how big of a box office weekend this is
32:37
supposed to be. The phenomenon is being dubbed as the Barbonheimer and I'll be
32:43
real honest, I'm not going to see either of them. What at least
32:45
somebody is. I think the movie theater industry could probably use it. I
32:49
also thought I feel so out of touch sometimes I thought Barbie was already out,
32:53
Like we've been talking about this movie for five hundred years. Well,
32:57
remember the first photo from the set came out of Margot Robbie and Ryan Gosling.
33:01
Is that the Ryan? And Yeah? That was like two years ago.
33:05
I feel like, and they weren't even they were just starting the movie.
33:07
It just seems so cheesy to me, everything about it. Watch Party
33:12
you meet Popcorn. I don't know, I don't think. I don't think
33:20
I'm down with that. Why do you think that this would be like me
33:22
making you go on a Hallmark Channel cruise in November twenty twenty four. And
33:28
you know how much I love my Hallmark movie is they are my favorite.
33:30
They're doing their first ever Christmas cruise, So you're gonna go from Miami to
33:34
the Bahamas and on it. It's gonna be like you're in a Hallmark movie.
33:37
You get to partake in everything from Christmas cookie decorating to ugly sweater contests,
33:44
Hallmark Channel wine tasting, a little Carol Loki. Now the highlight is
33:49
supposed to be because some of the favorite stars from the Homework Channer are going
33:52
to be on the cruise and you're gonna be able to do a tree lighting
33:54
ceremony with a premiere of a new Hallmark Channel countdown to Christmas movie on board?
34:00
Is the man going to be there? Who is the man? Oh?
34:04
Please? A man? Santa Claus. Mister Claus, I would assumes
34:10
would be a board as well, out on the boat, chugging White Claws
34:14
with old Santa Claus. Yeah, I, as much as I love Hallmark
34:20
movies, not gonna do this isn't for me. No, you know they're
34:23
gonna fill it up. Of course they're going out. My stepmom kinds out
34:30
there. There's enough of my stepmom out There's a Hallmark channel year round.
34:37
Are you ready ready? That's he is typing hot today, No stills the
34:44
sea. Let's see. I don't know what to thank you. Guys.
34:47
We've been talking about this for three days now, and somebody else is chiming
34:52
in on Jonah Hill. Zoey want to one Star Alexa Nicholas. She is
34:57
saying that Jonah Hill slammed her against a door and shoved his tongue down her
35:00
throat when she was sixteen years old. She releases information yesterday, and this
35:04
is after his ex girlfriend Sarah Brady, who was the surfer, accused him
35:07
of emotional abuse. Now he denied the claims via his attorney, calling her
35:12
story a complete fabrication. His ex then decided yesterday that she was going to
35:16
still drop some more tea to everybody on her Instagram stories, talking about how
35:22
they were having some real adult conversations, and she dropped the screenshots. This
35:27
is right before he was getting into this relationship, so he was not with
35:31
his Now almost think I was starting to hand out. It's a little gray
35:35
area of like what point of the relationship they were, but he was so
35:37
open in the screenshot he goes like, Hey, just gotta be honest with
35:40
you. I'm starting to see somebody else in Out of respect for that person,
35:44
I think we should stop talking because I care about you too. And
35:46
I'm trying to look at this as did he do something wrong here? But
35:51
it feels like he was very open and on as like these are my boundaries.
35:55
This is where I'm at. I mean, yeah, I was told
35:58
the line of like, Okay, are they boundaries or are these like crazy
36:00
rules? And even if they are, like, it's still you know,
36:02
she could leave and that is your choice as a human being, one hundred
36:06
percent. But then in all of this, now you got this girl saying
36:08
when she was sixteen? Yeah, I mean right, because how old was
36:12
he? Yeah? I don't know. He did respond to the screenshots yesterday
36:15
as a huge triggering violation and breach of trust and claimed that if he weren't
36:21
a public person, he wouldn't have to face this kind of violations. Have
36:23
you seen him lately, Jonah Hill? All these like the photo that you
36:25
know with all these stories, him in the suit jacket with no shirt underneath
36:30
and greasy slicked back. Who is this guy just getting greasier by the year,
36:36
And we knew there was going to be a paid day for Kevin Costner's
36:39
X. She wanted about two hundred and fifty thousand dollars a month in child
36:44
support. We thought that was completely insane. They have three kids. He
36:47
said, Nah, I'll give you about fifty two thousand dollars. Yeah,
36:52
yeah, which is insane. Judge came in with one hundred and thirty thousand
36:57
dollars a month. Oh wow for them. What are you've learned to do
37:00
with a hundred and thirty thousand dollars a month? He did say, though,
37:05
wasn't her facials and all the things that she was doing with her cosmetics
37:08
about ten thousand dollars a month? Yeah, she was spending a crazy amount
37:13
of money on cosmetics. Just imagine that. Imagine that monthly paycheck for not
37:15
even working, just by having married a guy. You know, you know
37:19
how like you get to the end of the paycheck and it's dwindling little in
37:22
account, but then you get that paiday, it's like boom. All right,
37:24
let's go imagine it being one hundred and thirty thousand dollars I can't nope.
37:29
Oh you can't even wrap my head yea, And it has nothing to
37:36
do with will I Am. Yesterday, Britney Spears announced her highly anticipated tell
37:39
all The Woman in Me, will be released on October twenty fourth. She
37:44
shared the cover art on Instagram. We posted it yesterday, did a little
37:47
poll. It is fifty fifty. There are fifty percent of the people like
37:52
me loving the Britney Spears book, want to get their hands on it,
37:57
hear her story, and then, like you, Pike, there's percent of
38:00
people who are just done, don't care and think she's kind of Yeah,
38:04
I would say more over, they'll feel too much about it. I mean,
38:06
I'll be interested to hear the little tidbits. Like every book, I'm
38:08
not going to read it, but you know, yeah, if there's a
38:10
juicy little paragraph about Kevin Federline or Justin Timberlake, sure yeah, no,
38:15
this is gonna be one. I'm gonna get my hands on. She got
38:17
about fifteen million dollars to share her story. With that being said, yesterday
38:22
on Instagram, she had some some stuff to say. Do you have this?
38:27
I do have you know, let me dig it up quick, because
38:29
I do have that. It is so disturbing because at the very beginning it's
38:32
fine. But at the end, listen to she kind of goes a little
38:37
brittany on us off the rail. But then is that her husband chiming in
38:40
at the end? Listen, Okay, guys, in my book is coming
38:43
out very very soon. I worked my all for this book. I had
38:45
a lot of therapy to get this book done. To you, guys that
38:50
are like it, If you don't like it, that's fine too. Either
38:52
way, I'm going to bermuda, halma, come on pretty mamma. Yeah,
38:59
baby, light on those coach too much? Too much? Is that
39:06
her husband is her husband? I think he's like too much too much?
39:08
Like you're going crazy, You're going crazy? What are you doing? But
39:12
then she posted it it's not the craziest thing she's posted, No, I
39:15
know, guys, Is that him legitimately going like, all right, this
39:20
is starting to not make any sense, lady, That's what I'm wondering.
39:22
These are the details we need to know. It is so bizarre, I
39:28
know, but it sounds like she really had to go suit a lot of
39:30
therapy to cash in on the fifteen million dollar book deal. And I was
39:34
here for it