Latest / The SmallBizChat with Melinda Emerson / Could Franchising Be For You with Mary Kennedy Thompson
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- 0:58Hi, everybody.
- 0:59Welcome to the Small Biz Chat podcast.
- 1:01I'm Melinda Emerson, small biz lady, America's number one small business expert, and I am so
- 1:06thrilled to be with you today.
- 1:08We are sitting down with one of Franchise's most respected leaders.
- 1:14Her name is Mary Kennedy Thompson.
- 1:17She is CEO of the BNI Franchise Group, but let me tell you about her.
- 1:22She is a trailblazer.
- 1:24She is a former US Marine.
- 1:26She is a licensed plumber, she is a powerhouse who, you know, led and grew a major franchise
- 1:34brand like Neighborly, now she is the CEO of BNI.
- 1:38I know some of you guys know about BNI groups out there, so we're gonna to their fearless
- 1:42leader.
- 1:43She's living proof that leadership grounded in service, discipline and vision can change
- 1:49entire industries.
- 1:50We're gonna talk with her about her journey, how she got into franchises in the first place,
- 1:56and the impact that franchise ownership has had on the American economy and what it truly means
- 2:03to lead people with purpose.
- 2:06So without further ado, me to bring Mary Thompson to the stage, Mary Kennedy Thompson to
- 2:16the stage to talk to us about her journey.
- 2:20Mary, welcome to the Small Bitch Chat podcast.
- 2:22Thank you, Melinda, for such a kind and lovely introduction.
- 2:27I am blessed that for the last thirty years I've done the things that my heart has wanted
- 2:32to do and gotten to work with some really remarkable human beings throughout the process.
- 2:39I love it, I love it.
- 2:40So I want you to take us back.
- 2:43Take us back to, I know that you and your husband were both in the military, right?
- 2:49Then
- 2:50We were.
- 2:51Somehow when you decided to stop doing that, you got led to franchises.
- 2:56So tell me the origin story.
- 2:58Both my husband and I grew up as children of people that were in the military.
- 3:03Both of our fathers were in the Army.
- 3:05And so I never knew anything else.
- 3:07How I looked at it was I always thought from probably the time I was five years on that I
- 3:13was going to be in the military.
- 3:14And I wanted to, I joined the Marine Corps because I really believed and I still do that
- 3:19they were the best of the best.
- 3:21I always tell people I'd rather be the worst person on the best team than the best person on
- 3:24the worst team.
- 3:26And I knew it would grow me considerably and it did.
- 3:29And it would be hard and I like doing hard things.
- 3:32I heard a surfer once say, I don't need it to be easy.
- 3:36I just need it to be possible.
- 3:39I really I I ascribe to that.
- 3:42I just need it to be possible.
- 3:43I enjoy the challenge.
- 3:44And the Marine Corps certainly provided these challenges to me both physically and mentally.
- 3:49But it made me a stronger, better leader in the long run.
- 3:52I love it, I love it.
- 3:54So, when you got out of the, now how long were you in the military?
- 3:58Eight years, you know, not real long, long enough to, I've heard someone say once you can
- 4:04take the girl out of the Marine Corps, you can't take the Marine Corps out of the girl.
- 4:08Long enough that it definitely affected me and imprinted on me.
- 4:14Sure.
- 4:15So now how did you go from becoming a veteran to franchising?
- 4:22When we decided to get out, we really started thinking about what was important to us and
- 4:31what we wanted to do.
- 4:32Wanted to settle down in the community so that our children would have a great place to be
- 4:38raised.
- 4:39And so I took a sales job with a company called Baxter Scientific Products and we always said
- 4:44whoever got the first job opportunity would get out first, that was me.
- 4:47And then my husband joined shortly thereafter.
- 4:50But I, I was a sales rep for a few years and doing well, but I missed I was an individual
- 4:56contributor and I missed being part of a bigger team and I really missed leading a team and
- 5:01serving a team.
- 5:02So one day my husband came home from a chamber mixer and I had a little brochure from a
- 5:07company called Cookies by Design.
- 5:08And I remember looking at it going, man, those are so cool.
- 5:11I could sell those I think, but I don't know how to make them.
- 5:14I've never had my own business.
- 5:15We were we were military brats, so we didn't know any better.
- 5:19And in the back, there were three magical words that said for franchising information.
- 5:23So I sent away.
- 5:24It was back before the Internet.
- 5:26I call called the number, and they mailed me a packet, and I never looked back.
- 5:32So you ran the cookie business for how long?
- 5:37Because you've had a storied career in Richmond.
- 5:40Tell me, how did you get from the cookie business?
- 5:43What did you do?
- 5:44And then how did you get into helping franchise organizations grow?
- 5:50I'm grateful.
- 5:51I don't know if franchising found me or I found franchising, I'm not sure which, but I'm
- 5:56grateful either way that it happened.
- 5:58We I was in Cookies by Design for right about twelve years and we had we were multi unit
- 6:04franchise owners.
- 6:05We had about three we didn't have about at exactly three locations, doing about 4,000,000
- 6:10a year in revenue.
- 6:12And I was known as the cookie lady and I loved it, but what I found was I wasn't experiencing
- 6:16any new challenges.
- 6:17So I started thinking about, you know, my husband and I, we always look ten years out and
- 6:21if you have a ten year plan, you never end up exactly on your ten year plan, but you end up
- 6:25in a really good place.
- 6:26And so it's important to think about and do.
- 6:28And we decided there was probably time to sell our shops and think about what was next.
- 6:33And when we went to put, they sold quickly, much to our surprise.
- 6:37And I remember going to the franchisor and saying, you know, I love being part of this
- 6:40brand, but I'm ready for some new opportunities.
- 6:43We figured we'd take that money, create a nest egg for the future, which is exactly what we
- 6:47did.
- 6:48And so, you know, we can let our money work for itself for a while.
- 6:52And the franchisor said, Why don't you come work for us?
- 6:55And I joke about this, but it's the truth.
- 6:57I said, I don't think I can go work for the dark side.
- 7:00And she laughed and she said, I mailed you a ticket.
- 7:03You have to come visit me.
- 7:04Come visit me and let's talk about it.
- 7:07And so I started off, they let me create my own title of shop facilitator.
- 7:11I wanted to just help.
- 7:13And so I built the field program, I built the supplier program, I built the marketing
- 7:18program, and then the founder asked me to come lead the company.
- 7:21And, I was doing that.
- 7:22And I I you know, the bug kinda caught me when I was a franchisee.
- 7:27I loved running my own business.
- 7:28The best thing about being a franchisee is you control your own destiny, and you're in
- 7:33business for yourself, but not by yourself.
- 7:34You have this this network of people to help you that wanna see you grow and, and you get
- 7:40the support.
- 7:41I I tell people, they taught me how to make cookies.
- 7:44They taught me how to sell cookies, and they taught me how to make money selling cookies.
- 7:48And that was really important.
- 7:49I needed that.
- 7:50I, you know, no one in my family had ever been an entrepreneur.
- 7:53So when I went on the franchisor side, I remember after about six months, I I told the
- 7:57then CEO, I'm like, I'd like to go get my stores back and do this again because I've
- 8:03learned so much.
- 8:04And I love sharing best practices and building systems.
- 8:08And Simon Sinek's book, Start With Why, you know, he says, you can do anything as long as
- 8:14you understand your why.
- 8:15My why is, it took me a number of years to discover my why, but my why is very clear to me
- 8:20to inspire business leaders to reach their hopes, wishes, dreams, and goals beyond their
- 8:24wealth and imagination.
- 8:26And that's what I get to do in franchising every day and I never look back.
- 8:29So how did you get from that to I mean, you go and buy more cookie stores or did you move to
- 8:37another franchisor?
- 8:39So, well, after I sold my cookie stores, I worked for the Cookies by Design franchisor and
- 8:43while I and I by the time I was the president of that company, this company called Ben Duar
- 8:49Group, now Neighborly, the then COO approached me and said, we have our largest brand, Mr.
- 8:55Rooter Plumbing, and we've been looking for president for a while and we think it's you.
- 8:59And I said, oh, I don't think so.
- 9:01I didn't know anything about plumbing.
- 9:03And his name is Mike Bidwell.
- 9:06For eighteen years, he was a close mentor, guide, sponsor, leader, and friend of mine.
- 9:13And he said, you know Mary, he said, you know business.
- 9:18You know how to grow businesses, you know franchising, and you know how to take people to
- 9:24the next level.
- 9:25He said, that's what you need to know.
- 9:26You can come run this company.
- 9:27So I did.
- 9:28And I led Mr.
- 9:31River for nine years.
- 9:33I loved every moment of it.
- 9:34Plumbers are amazing human beings and fix all kinds of problems.
- 9:38There's a good book called Flushed about the history of plumbing.
- 9:41There was an emperor once whose son got really sick from dysentery and the plumber came in and
- 9:47fixed everything and his son got well and he said, if I could not be an emperor, I would be
- 9:51a plumber.
- 9:52Plumbers protect the health and safety of a nation.
- 9:56And so I earned my plumbing license while I led that company because I felt it was really
- 10:01important to understand the basics of the people that I was serving.
- 10:08And I think it's just a very important thing to do.
- 10:11So I believe last time I checked, only about 1.5% of all licensed plumbers in The United
- 10:17States are women.
- 10:18It might have changed, but it's a very small group.
- 10:21Okay, so wait a minute.
- 10:22You gotta walk me through, I mean, you became a journeyman?
- 10:27Is that what it's called when you're born?
- 10:28I did, I became a journeyman.
- 10:30It's a long process and it was very hard.
- 10:33And I remember when I went to go sit for the test, I was scared.
- 10:36I told all my franchisees I was taking the test.
- 10:38They had all helped me study and I thought I'm gonna have to tell them I failed this test.
- 10:42You have to get a 70 to pass.
- 10:44And the night before I went to the training center, the testing center and I said, know, I
- 10:49just wanna make sure I'm at the right location.
- 10:51And the woman behind the counter said, yeah, just bring your guys here.
- 10:54And I said, I don't have any guys, it's me.
- 10:56And she said, you're the first woman to ever take a test at this center.
- 10:59And I was like, well great.
- 11:00I said, I'm really nervous because it it it, you know, it gave me a new found respect for
- 11:07the Ms.
- 11:07Rooter service professionals, our plumbers, how hard they work.
- 11:11This takes four years to earn a plumbing license.
- 11:14It's really there's a lot of work behind it.
- 11:17And I passed by this much.
- 11:22It was a very hard test.
- 11:24But I think it's very important you respect your frontline workers, that you understand
- 11:30what they're doing and how they're experiencing it.
- 11:32And that helped me quite a bit.
- 11:34So tell me about how you, so you ran one of the businesses into Neighborly and then how did you
- 11:42become part of the senior leadership of the Neighborly Corporation?
- 11:46Great question, Pasquer.
- 11:49So, Neighborly has 30 brands and about 14 within verticals.
- 11:55Labrily is the largest home services provider in the world.
- 11:58And so if you think about anything repair, maintain or enhance your home or property,
- 12:04Neighborly probably has something that does it, Whether it was Mr.
- 12:07Rooter for plumbing, Mr.
- 12:09Electric for electrical work, Shelf Genie for glide outs in your kitchen, Molly Maid for
- 12:13cleaning a house, I could go on and on.
- 12:15And so when I first got there, there were only six brands and I led Mr.
- 12:23Rooter for those nine years and then the we were just starting, you know, Neighborhood has
- 12:28been owned by private equity for more than twenty years now.
- 12:31They were looking to see how do we platform this company and they took the then COO, Mike
- 12:37Bidwell and myself and said, we're gonna take you to CEO COO.
- 12:40At the same time, we're gonna have you work together, which is what we did.
- 12:43I didn't wanna give up mister Ritter.
- 12:45I I kinda told him, I'm not giving this up because I I love leading.
- 12:48I, you know, I really love leading the brand.
- 12:51But I said, for us to get to the next level, need that you two are like one plus one is
- 12:56three.
- 12:56And there were many on our executive team that were just amazing leaders.
- 13:01And when we stepped into that role, we were just putting the Neighborly name together that
- 13:07Nabally as a company was doing about $425,000,000 in revenue.
- 13:12And on the day I left, we were doing $4,300,000,000 We did that in just under nine
- 13:19years.
- 13:19So it was some really important and great growth.
- 13:24Half of it was organic, which I think is very important.
- 13:27You know, you have to make sure you're growing the people you you have.
- 13:31And I think what I'm most proud of is not necessarily that we grew the company, which of
- 13:36course is critical to keeping a company strong, but we grew the culture and the values as much
- 13:41as we grew the company.
- 13:42Was they believe it's already always been a culture driven company like BNI, which is why I
- 13:47love, serving this organization.
- 13:50And, and we grew the culture and the values alongside the growth of the company because
- 13:56sometimes if you're not careful, you can lose your heart.
- 13:59And for me, bringing your heart to business is a big part of what keeps me inspired with what
- 14:07I do.
- 14:08You know, every time I talk to you, you say something profound to me and you just said, if
- 14:16you're not careful, you could lose your heart.
- 14:19And I mean, that is a powerful statement because I think a lot of times in business, we
- 14:25evaluate success by revenue, right?
- 14:28That's like revenue is how we keep score.
- 14:31I don't think they're mutually exclusive.
- 14:33I think that when, you know, I I everyone's heard the saying that culture eats strategy for
- 14:39breakfast.
- 14:40You know, people know that, but they don't always live it and practice it.
- 14:44I believe the reason that I've been I've been able to help grow companies as much as I have
- 14:51is because the focus has been on the culture.
- 14:54And you know at BNI, our top value is givers gain.
- 14:59We believe that you give first before you ever ask for anything.
- 15:03And that if you do that, it brings everything in the business.
- 15:06And it resonates deeply with me.
- 15:09I don't wanna lose my heart.
- 15:11Think I can create strong growth, strong revenue, strong profit in a company where I
- 15:18also have a strong focus on the the culture and the values and that you're very clear about it.
- 15:24When you have a set of values, you can recruit a very diverse group of people.
- 15:31People from and I love diversity.
- 15:33Diversity in backgrounds, diversity in education, diversity in experience, diversity.
- 15:39I just with a capital d.
- 15:42It makes you very strong and when you have a set of values, everybody ascribes to these
- 15:46values.
- 15:47They say, you know what?
- 15:48I do wanna be part of this company because I agree with that.
- 15:52And so it keeps you very it's like a set of rules on how you say you're going to do
- 15:56business.
- 15:57And so I was proud of that and our CEO, he very much felt the same way.
- 16:05So it was fun running alongside him.
- 16:08I learned a lot from him.
- 16:09He was an introverted leader and I've read a lot over the years that says introverted
- 16:15leaders are some of the best leaders out there.
- 16:17He had a quiet strength that led that organization remarkably well.
- 16:22I love that because I do think those of us that are extroverted, we discount introverted people
- 16:27sometimes because we're like, he's not saying nothing, what does he think?
- 16:31We just adopt them.
- 16:32That's how introverted people make friends.
- 16:33We just extroverts adopt them.
- 16:36Absolutely, absolutely.
- 16:37So now tell me, okay, so you guys grew Neighborly to 4,300,000,000.
- 16:43At that point, you had plenty of money, right?
- 16:45You're like, how in the world did you get recruited to run yet another franchise
- 16:50organization at BNI?
- 16:52Well, know, said earlier, I always have a ten year plan.
- 16:57I'm always looking, what does the future look like?
- 16:59And by the way, my ten year plan never ends up looking exactly how I planned it because you
- 17:05also have to have the flexibility and be willing to flex when opportunity shows up or
- 17:10when you have changed or grown.
- 17:12So, I actually thought I was gonna retire.
- 17:15And I had already told, our CEO that I was trying, you know, he was gonna be there for a
- 17:19while longer.
- 17:20I had been there going on seventeen years.
- 17:23I just, I had, philanthropic and I like to do a lot of other things.
- 17:28I just figured it was time.
- 17:30And then unfortunately, our CEO, Mike, he passed away unexpectedly.
- 17:36It really just caught all of us, me included.
- 17:42And the board asked that I would stay to help hold the company together while they look for
- 17:47the right leader.
- 17:48And I'm a big believer of the right leader at the right time.
- 17:51And so I said, of course, I love this company.
- 17:54So I stayed while they were doing the search.
- 18:00And, you know, I learned a lot going through that.
- 18:05I learned, you know, it's a reminder about what's important.
- 18:08He affected in a very good way so many people.
- 18:11I heard stories I'd never heard before.
- 18:13And I just put together a presentation I'm gonna do at our global convention called Beyond
- 18:20the Spotlight, the shadow we cast as leaders.
- 18:23I think as leaders when the spotlight's on you, you don't it's not just what you do, it's who
- 18:27you are.
- 18:28People watch everything.
- 18:29And being present in who you are, I learned that watching him.
- 18:34And so, it was really hard time holding the CFO and I and all of the senior leaders, we just
- 18:41held on tight and kept things going.
- 18:43And it took a while because when you're looking for when you're looking for the right leader at
- 18:47the right time, you want to move quickly but not hurry.
- 18:50And so, we were just at the end of that when Bea and I reached out to me, and it's funny
- 18:56because I've I've not ever really interviewed for a job ever.
- 19:01It's been, somebody, you know, reaching out to me.
- 19:04Anyways, they said we've been looking for a CEO for a while.
- 19:07We think it's you.
- 19:08And I said, no.
- 19:08No.
- 19:09No.
- 19:09I'm I'm gonna retire.
- 19:11And they said, well, would you just hear us out?
- 19:13And I said, yes, I'd love to I had been a BNI member.
- 19:16Back in 1994 when I was a franchisee, I became a member and it brought me great business.
- 19:21I actually got a very big referral from a little company called Dell Computers who had
- 19:27just moved into their first big building.
- 19:29I didn't even realize what a great referral it was until I started doing the work for it.
- 19:33And so I knew I knew the impact of BNI, but I didn't realize what an amazing company it was
- 19:39because I had, you know, once I sold my businesses, I hadn't been involved.
- 19:42And so, I started looking and read, you know, reading about the people and reading about the
- 19:47members and I had a friend tell me, it's time for you to move from success to significance
- 19:54And it hit me hard and I realized that I wasn't done yet.
- 19:58That I was I had all all the things I had done up to that moment had led me to this place to
- 20:04go serve BNI.
- 20:06And BNI is the world's largest business referral networking organization.
- 20:09It's an amazing organization, very values driven.
- 20:12We have seven very clear values, everything from givers gain, to building relationships, to
- 20:17positive attitude, to lifelong learning, accountability.
- 20:20I I I just love our values.
- 20:23And I realized I could help grow.
- 20:25This company has grown every year and we haven't even touched the surface, scratched the
- 20:29surface.
- 20:29There's so much that we can do.
- 20:32And I'm fifteen months in the role.
- 20:35I have learned a lot.
- 20:36I feel ten years younger than I did two years ago because I'm learning so much.
- 20:41And, you know, when you're learning, you know, the key to I don't wanna say youth because I
- 20:48don't I don't seek to be young.
- 20:49I I seek to be vibrant.
- 20:52The key to vibrancy and enjoying life is learning new things and knowing that you can
- 20:58make a difference and doing the actions that do that.
- 21:01So I'm just loving being part of this organization.
- 21:05Well, you have just said so much, but I do wanna stop and pause and I want you to hear
- 21:11something that I heard you say.
- 21:13The shadow we cast as leaders would be an amazing title of the book.
- 21:21I'm just gonna leave that out there, sweetie.
- 21:24Well, how do I find time for that?
- 21:26I want you to think about it.
- 21:27There's all kind of ghost writers out here that can help you write that book, miss Mary.
- 21:31So, I just, you know, that's a sidebar conversation we will have.
- 21:34But I love how you said that you seek to be vibrant but not young.
- 21:39Also think that was so very powerful.
- 21:42But tell me about how you've become a leader in the International Franchise Association, which
- 21:49is how I met you.
- 21:50There's a lot of people that work in businesses that are women, but the leadership and people,
- 21:58franchisors is a small group of female franchisors and a small group of female
- 22:04leaders, but you somehow lead all of us.
- 22:07So talk about, your work with IFA and just the franchising industry as a whole.
- 22:13One of the things I love about franchising is they don't care what gender you are or your
- 22:19background.
- 22:19They care that you can grow a business and take good care of people and build relationships.
- 22:23And I love that about franchising.
- 22:25No one ever even asked me, are you a woman or what are you?
- 22:29They just let me go be and do.
- 22:31And one time when I stepped into the role of mister Reuter, someone asked me, what's it like
- 22:34to be a woman leader?
- 22:35I'm like, I don't know.
- 22:36What's it like to be a man leader?
- 22:38I don't think leadership qualities are gender specific.
- 22:41I think it's about taking care of people and growing them and knowing when you need to
- 22:46change them and knowing when you need to change them.
- 22:48And creating an environment that's safe enough that they can ask the important questions, but
- 22:53also not so comfortable that they don't grow.
- 22:55And so, that goes across the board.
- 22:58And I've been part of the International Franchise Association since the year, since
- 23:012000 when I sold my franchise and came over to the franchisor side.
- 23:08And I found it to be a place where I could learn, know, where I'm amazed at how giving
- 23:15franchisors and franchisees are to sit down in a room and say, this is what I'm struggling
- 23:20with or this is what I've done that has created, you know, great growth for my our
- 23:25franchise owners or our business and shared across the board.
- 23:28So, I've learned a lot and, you know, the International Franchise Association, the the
- 23:34purpose is to protect, enhance, and promote franchising.
- 23:36And franchising has been such a big part of my life and it has created, you know, great
- 23:42opportunity for my family, for this girl who, you know, a girl in the Marine Corps who who
- 23:48waited tables and bartended her way through college.
- 23:51It created great opportunity.
- 23:53I wanted to be able to create great opportunity for everybody else.
- 23:56And so I've served in various roles at the IFA and they asked me to serve as their chair,
- 24:02which I started last February.
- 24:03Yeah, it's February to February, so I'm more done than not in serving as the chair.
- 24:09And I think each chair brings something special that they have.
- 24:13And I decided that what I did best was create simplicity out a lot.
- 24:22So sometimes there's these big giant ideas and everything's rumbling around.
- 24:26I want to get it to the simplest form of way to communicate it to get it out to people that we
- 24:32could be very focused on how we promote enhance and protect franchising.
- 24:36So, it's been my honor to to serve in that role and I'm you know, I've I've learned a lot in in
- 24:42the last year.
- 24:43I really I would say, my brain has been stretched more in the last few years than
- 24:48probably the last ten years.
- 24:50It's really been amazing.
- 24:52Well, I know that our time is coming short, but what do you think are the biggest growth areas
- 24:59in franchising in the next five years?
- 25:02But you know, one thing I've seen from franchising owners that I'm very pleased to see
- 25:06is there's more focus and more conversation on franchise owner, franchisee profitability, unit
- 25:11level economics.
- 25:12I think that's very important.
- 25:14When I got into it, one of my sisters asked me, what happens if you fail?
- 25:18I'm like failure is not an option.
- 25:20Everything we own, we put in that business.
- 25:22We sold our house to have enough money to start the business.
- 25:25So everything we own.
- 25:26So I really enjoy and appreciate and have been a lot of conversations about what is good
- 25:33franchising.
- 25:34And franchisors that focus on the unit level economics for their franchisees really take
- 25:40their take it to a whole new level.
- 25:44I'm seeing more collaboration between franchisee and franchisor, which I also think
- 25:48is a good thing.
- 25:50And, you know, right now, we have the American Franchise Act that we are, has been introduced,
- 25:57you know, to our legislators.
- 25:59And it's all about helping franchisees and franchisors having clarity on what joint
- 26:06employer means so that we can do business and grow faster.
- 26:10And I'm very excited about about that.
- 26:13I think it's something that will help everybody in franchising and create more jobs, which is
- 26:18something I think, it's a great thing that small business and franchising does.
- 26:23Alright, Mary.
- 26:24What is the best business advice that you have ever been given?
- 26:33Goodness.
- 26:33I've been given a lot of great business advice.
- 26:35I think probably the best advice I ever got, I got from my old mentor and CEO, Mike Bidwell.
- 26:41I'm a reformed control freak.
- 26:43I wanna con I for I've just always wanted to control everything and remember we had a big
- 26:48meeting coming up for my franchise advisory council.
- 26:51I had little name cards and I was placing them all around the room and he came in and I said,
- 26:54yes, I want I don't want this person to sit next to this person and I don't want I I wanna
- 26:58control everything about the meeting.
- 27:00And he had a he got a smile across his face.
- 27:02He's like, Mary, have you ever considered how much more you could get done if you didn't
- 27:08think you had to control everything?
- 27:10If you let others and trusted others to move the room in a way that that could be moved.
- 27:18And so I put all the name cards down.
- 27:20I let people choose where they were gonna sit.
- 27:21I was very uncomfortable.
- 27:22You know, comfort is the enemy of growth.
- 27:24It grew me a lot and I learned that my job was to multiply.
- 27:30You can't multiply when you're trying to control everything.
- 27:34I love it.
- 27:35I love it.
- 27:36Well, listen, I appreciate your time so much being a guest on the Small Biz Chat podcast.
- 27:42And I am so excited that you're gonna be a keynote for us at the next CEO Summit this
- 27:49January, 01/22/2324.
- 27:53We are going to teach people how to provide businesses and franchises.
- 27:59And you're going to hear from the lady herself at the Next Tech CEO Summit.
- 28:03So Mary, I just thank you so much for being here with me.
- 28:07Well, you asked the best questions.
- 28:09Thank you for just fabulous conversation.
- 28:11I so appreciate who you are Melinda and you really are the small biz lady.
- 28:17Well, I just thank you so much for your generosity of spirit.
- 28:22Now, thank you all for joining me on this episode of the Small Biz Chat podcast.
- 28:27For more information on what we do, head over to smallbizladyuniversity.com.
- 28:32We help people start, grow, and scale businesses, and if you're interested in the
- 28:37next ACT CEO Summit, all the information for you to register is right there at Small Biz
- 28:43Lady University.
- 28:45Now I will leave you with this, you never lose in business, either you win or you learn.
- 28:50God bless everybody.
- 28:56Thanks for listening to the Small Biz Chat podcast with Melinda Emerson.
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- 29:09You can find more sources and small business success strategies by visiting Melinda's
- 29:14website, succeedasyourownboss.com.
- 29:17Thanks again for listening, and we'll see you next week.