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Why Things Fall Apart When You’re Trying to Improve Your Life · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi. It's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio, and
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  Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation, metaphysical
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  Speaker 1: wisdom and personal development. Why things fall apart when you
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  Speaker 1: are trying to improve your life. I've talked about this
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  Speaker 1: in many different forms where they thought, let's give it
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  Speaker 1: another shot. Have you decided that you're ready to improve
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  Speaker 1: something in your life. Maybe you want to heal a
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  Speaker 1: chronic health issue, Maybe you want to really get your
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  Speaker 1: finances in order. Maybe you're looking for a better job.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you want to take your business in another direction,
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  Speaker 1: improve your relationship, make a major change, and you approach
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  Speaker 1: the situation with the best intentions. It's the way many
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  Speaker 1: people start the year right. You want to do the
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  Speaker 1: right thing. You're putting energy towards creating something better, and
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  Speaker 1: then instead of things improving, they start to fall apart.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes the exact area you're trying to fix seems to
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  Speaker 1: get worse. This can feel like a sign that you're
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  Speaker 1: doing something wrong. You might wonder, why is this happening.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to create a better life. What's going on? God?
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  Speaker 1: Why are there more challenges instead of wins? But from
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  Speaker 1: an energetic and spiritual perspective, there's another way to look
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  Speaker 1: at this situation. So imagine that you own a house
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  Speaker 1: and you decide you are going to renovate the dining room.
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  Speaker 1: You got a free weekend. Your cousin gave you a
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  Speaker 1: home Depot gift card a couple of Christmases ago. You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna go get some paint and you are gonna hook
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  Speaker 1: up this room. You might even change out the light fixture.
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  Speaker 1: You're good helmet from across the streets, like, oh, I
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  Speaker 1: did some dry wall a couple of summers ago with
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  Speaker 1: Habitat for Humanity, and I can help you remove that
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  Speaker 1: half wall and we're just gonna open this space up.
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  Speaker 1: And all it takes is this weekend. It's gonna be amazing.
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  Speaker 1: And you're like, yeah, that sounds awesome. It's not gonna
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  Speaker 1: cost that much money, and I'm gonna have this, like
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be like this new home practically right, all right.
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  Speaker 1: So you head out to the home Depot, you buy everything,
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  Speaker 1: and you get home, you start working on stuff, you
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  Speaker 1: start knocking out that half wall, and then all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden you fall through the floor. Not dramatically, so
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  Speaker 1: maybe your foot just kind of creates a little hole
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  Speaker 1: and you look at the situation and you're like, what
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  Speaker 1: the fuck. Right, let's be honest, we're human beings, super
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  Speaker 1: spiritual human beings. But yeah, we're like, oh, that is
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  Speaker 1: not in alignment with what I set out to do. Right,
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  Speaker 1: the renovation did not create the foundational problem that you discover.
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  Speaker 1: Their innovation revealed to you the foundational problem. And that's
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  Speaker 1: often what happens when we begin making major life changes,
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  Speaker 1: and it almost makes us not want to make them,
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  Speaker 1: but we know we have to and we know we're
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  Speaker 1: being called to make them. So when and you know, right,
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  Speaker 1: like a part of you kind of know is that,
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  Speaker 1: like it's not just that surface thing that's what there's
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  Speaker 1: more underneath. But in that our mind can decide what
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  Speaker 1: the best strategy is without leaving room for Okay, there
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  Speaker 1: might be something that I uncover in this process that
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  Speaker 1: led to all of this, and I have to be
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  Speaker 1: okay with moving through that. When we decide we want
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  Speaker 1: something new, a new result, a new experience around something,
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  Speaker 1: the process can reveal the parts of our current structure
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  Speaker 1: that has not been strong enough to support that next level.
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  Speaker 1: So essentially, whatever that problem is, it's just you know,
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  Speaker 1: a symptom of something underneath that actually I have to
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  Speaker 1: deal with, and I understand that that's not fun and
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  Speaker 1: it makes us not wanted change. I get that, but
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  Speaker 1: it can reveal to you the beliefs that are limiting you,
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  Speaker 1: stuff that's no longer serving you, where you might need
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  Speaker 1: more support, more healing, stronger foundation, the challenges that we
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  Speaker 1: often think, you know, we're just changing me outside, but
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  Speaker 1: sometimes and oftentimes, let's be real, deeper work is needed. First.
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  Speaker 1: You know, many people have come to me and say
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  Speaker 1: they're going to start a business and then they wind
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  Speaker 1: up changing their whole life, moving across country, some divorce,
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  Speaker 1: Like I mean, people have come to me for romantic
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  Speaker 1: relationships and then they realize like, oh, I've got to
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  Speaker 1: change my whole career structure like and yet to just
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  Speaker 1: be okay with it. That's that's what this show is saying,
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  Speaker 1: to just go with it. So, if you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: create more abundance, but your relationship with receiving or worthiness
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  Speaker 1: or money is unstable and that foundation needs more attention,
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  Speaker 1: something's going to show up to show that it needs
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  Speaker 1: more attention. It doesn't mean, you know, we're not amateur.
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  Speaker 1: It's not amateur hour here. It doesn't mean your desire
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  Speaker 1: is wrong, you know, I think that that is. This
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  Speaker 1: is a very spiritually immature perspective. It just means, hey,
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  Speaker 1: that situation was created by something, and now you've got
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  Speaker 1: to find all the pieces that created it, that even
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  Speaker 1: led you to wanting to heal it, fix it, transform it.
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  Speaker 1: And in order to do so, you got to be
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  Speaker 1: all in. And so my work always as an intuitive
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  Speaker 1: coach is to help you make that less messy right
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  Speaker 1: where you don't have to. It doesn't need to turn
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  Speaker 1: into a five year saga when all you needed was
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  Speaker 1: to just spend a week really believing in yourself even
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  Speaker 1: as you were going through the most tender and vulnerable moments.
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  Speaker 1: So if you are in a season like that, when
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  Speaker 1: you feel like you're trying to improve your life but
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  Speaker 1: unexpected challenges are appearing, ask yourself, Hey, it was the
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  Speaker 1: situation showing me it's not a big deal. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: human being. This is not the end of the world.
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  Speaker 1: I got it. What part of my foundation needs my
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  Speaker 1: attention to show up fully and completely. Just because I'm
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  Speaker 1: not freaking out and lose in my mind right now
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  Speaker 1: does not mean I'm not all in to do the work.
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  Speaker 1: What do I need to heal? I'm all in and
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  Speaker 1: I want you to take that attitude. What needs to
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  Speaker 1: whatever needs to be strengthened, you can strengthen it. Whatever
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  Speaker 1: needs to be gut it and repaired, you can do it.
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  Speaker 1: That's I think that's what's beautiful about our internal journey
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  Speaker 1: is that if it's like a foundation on a house,
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  Speaker 1: you probably need to bring in an expert. Right. You
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  Speaker 1: may not know anything about foundations, but when it comes
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  Speaker 1: to yourself, especially if you've been on the path for
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  Speaker 1: some time, you can do it yourself. Right, Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you can hire me to help you along the way,
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  Speaker 1: and I think it makes it a lot faster and
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  Speaker 1: a lot smoother. But essentially there's not anything you can't handle.
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  Speaker 1: So with spirit, right, because I'm talking to spiritually minded people,
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  Speaker 1: I think life can get real, real hard if you're
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  Speaker 1: thinking it's all on, you can get real stressful too.
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  Speaker 1: But what if you really just said fucket, spirit, I'm in.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta do your part. I'm gonna do my part right,
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  Speaker 1: and you always have to take the first step and
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  Speaker 1: then spirit will take ten. So I hope that's helpful.
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  Speaker 1: If you find yourself in that situation. You yeah, just
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  Speaker 1: keep telling yourself you've got it, but not from the
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  Speaker 1: place of like trying to bypass it. You got it
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  Speaker 1: in the sense that you have the tools and resources
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  Speaker 1: to help you heal. You have your intuition, you have
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  Speaker 1: your relationship with spirit, you have your practices that will
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  Speaker 1: probably expand, you have of everything that you need, and
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  Speaker 1: you just have to be willing to be vulnerable enough
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  Speaker 1: to stand in that space so that you can be
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  Speaker 1: receptive to it. Now, here's one little piece I will say.
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  Speaker 1: I often see people get real scared when they have
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  Speaker 1: to do this stuff, and so they'll do ninety two
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  Speaker 1: percent of the hard stuff, and then they will find
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  Speaker 1: themselves right back in this very similar situation. Do all
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  Speaker 1: of it, and do all of it with the highest
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  Speaker 1: level of integrity and love and support for yourself, and
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  Speaker 1: you will find that you won't have to repeat a pattern,
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  Speaker 1: and you won't find yourself right back in the same
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  Speaker 1: set of circumstances or similar circumstances or adjacent circumstances. Another
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  Speaker 1: piece of this, why I would say hire a coach me,
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  Speaker 1: Why hire me? Because if you start listening to the
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  Speaker 1: people around you for some reason, humans don't like to
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  Speaker 1: do hard things, and so we assume that that listening
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  Speaker 1: you're wrong or that's not what's the right for you. No,
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  Speaker 1: to get what we want to be requires some really
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  Speaker 1: hard situations, and that's okay, you know. And so surround
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  Speaker 1: yourself with as many high vibrational people, circumstances, situations as possible,
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  Speaker 1: and it's from that place that you will start to
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  Speaker 1: see your life change. So, if you've been listening to
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