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EP29 -The Triangle Debates – Part 1 · The Bull Brotherhood

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go. Welcome to another informative, and I do
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mean informative, Bull Brotherhood podcast. And
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this one is very, very special tonight because
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I truly have all my brothers from the Bull Brotherhood
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with me tonight. Of course, my partner in crime,
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my nephew, Socrates. But also I have from the
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Keaton Actions podcast, Michael C. Say what's
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up, Mike? What's going on, everybody? Happy to
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be here. And my other brother, my little brother,
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my little big brother from the Old Faces podcast.
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You know him as Mr. Mocha, a .k .a. Dr. Gable.
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What's up, big bro? A .k .a. Devo. That's right,
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a .k .a. Devo, Mr. Olympia. Don't add up. Why
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I got to be Devo? I ain't even done nothing yet.
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I ain't even done nothing yet. exactly exactly
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and of course yours truly you know the Sigma
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male himself Mr. Brian Morgan but I'm taking
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a different approach tonight a different role
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ladies and gentlemen I'm actually the model the
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moderator for this podcast for this segment tonight
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and the segment is one that we all are like really
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have great conversations about and I really want
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to hear these three brothers here go at it tonight.
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This is going to be raw, uncensored, unfiltered.
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Okay? This is like the roles and responsibilities
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of, and I'm going to make it the three way, the
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roles and responsibilities of not only the hot
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wife couple, but the hot wife, the cuckold husband,
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as well as the bull. Okay? This is stemming from
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a conversation that took place about, what, a
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week ago, y 'all? Last week? Mm -hmm. After a
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wonderful utopia weekend in Palm Springs, California,
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okay? So on that note, I'm going to turn it over
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to my nephew, Socrates, and he's going to bring
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you up to speed on what that conversation started
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and what it's all about. Go ahead. Yes, sir.
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Yeah, so... To me, it was a continuation of a
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debate that Mr. Mocha and Michael C are having
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as far as that is concerned. And we were in hot
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tub, just kind of like going over the weekend,
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you know, talking about how successful it was.
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And the subject came up about responsibilities
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of the bull versus the cuckold and the challenges
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that they face. And listening to Mr. Mocha and
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Michael, I thought that Mr. Mocha was saying
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something and Michael was saying another, but
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I got a little bit more clarity on what Michael
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was saying, and I wasn't feeling it. I was like,
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I didn't think you thought that way, brother.
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So that's what we got. So I would rather have
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Michael state his position, and then I state
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mine. I don't know what you guys think about
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that. And then I don't know if you guys want
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me and him to debate that, or then Mr. Mocha
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can step in. Why don't you speak on where you
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went off track or where our opinions diverge
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so that the people kind of know what the starting
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point is. Yeah, yeah, that's a better idea. Because
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you know Mike is going to start throwing rocks
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in a minute. So you better go ahead and start
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throwing your rocks first. I get first pitch.
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I get first pitch. You better take that pitch
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and you might want to throw a fastball. Yeah,
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I was going to say, y 'all put me on the spot.
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When he counters, brother, it's over, okay? So
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go ahead. These two brothers have been doing
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this for a minute, so they already know I'm the
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amateur coming in. Okay. You didn't jump in today.
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Here we go. So, yeah. So it actually sparked
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because me and Brian and my wife, Siren, we were.
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We're going to have an episode called Circles,
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Triangles, and Squares. And my thesis, my perspective
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in the Cutco lifestyle, that's a triangle, meaning
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equal challenge, equal opportunity, equal responsibilities,
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divergent, like unique situations, right? Everybody
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has their unique things that they have to deal
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with. When somebody will, I think what we diverge
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is when somebody presented as if Michael was
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saying, look, man, a little bit, you got some
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of these bulls out here and they on some bullshit.
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Right. And these couples come together and they
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get there. Not everybody, not every couple. I
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know Mike's not saying that. Not every couple
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is on some bullshit, but some of these couples
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will come together and they'll get their shit
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together and they'll try to come correct. and
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you have to kind of deal with a whole bunch of
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bulls that, one, half of them or a lot of them
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call themselves a bull, but they ain't. You know,
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I know that's his position, which we agree on.
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A lot of them come in correct, which we agree
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on, and that kind of makes it kind of tilt the
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scale. That's what I understood, and that's where
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I feel like we disagree. It's like it kind of
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tilts the scale in the fact that the couple,
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the cuckold couple is kind of dealing with something
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a little bit. more or more challenging than the
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bull is. Okay. I think if I recall correctly,
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when I was talking about the ups and downs and
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just the trials that the couple has to go through,
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you were trying to equate that to basically the
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stuff that the bulls have to deal with. And what
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I'm saying is, Oh, go ahead. Well, no, what I
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was saying is, I guess as a, as a, as a bull,
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this is the way that I look at it. You can kind
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of determine what level of involvement you want.
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You know what I'm saying? Like it can be as,
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as, as, as basic as you want it to be, or it
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can be as involved as you want it to be. Obviously,
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it depends on what the couple is looking for.
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One of the things that I hang my hat on personally
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is adaptability. Whatever you're looking for,
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I probably got that in my tool bag. The question
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is, do I want to give it to you? I'm not here
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to force what I want on anybody. I really don't
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get down like that. I guess you have two different
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approaches. I know boys out there who they kind
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of have a script and they want couples to adhere
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to that script. I'm not here to say what is better,
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what is right or wrong. I just know that that
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particular approach doesn't appeal to me personally
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because what winds up happening is all of my
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encounters wind up looking like each other. You
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know what I'm saying? So I personally like to
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adapt. to what a couple is looking for because
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that ensures that there's that variety. You know
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what I'm saying? Because each couple has different
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needs. So, you know, from a bull's perspective,
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I think not that our path is easy, just easier
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because let's be honest, it's a lot easier for
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us to find what we're looking for than it is
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for them to find what they're looking for. But
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I'll just leave it at that for now and let brothers
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expound on that and kick it around and do whatever
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with it. Yeah, so Mr. Mocha, did you want to
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chime in or you want me to keep going on? No,
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keep going. I'm not jumping in until I can start
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throwing rocks. Oh, you're just sitting on the
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side waiting for whoever. At the moment, y 'all
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both being real politically correct. So I'm going
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to wait till the politically correctness falls
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off. And then I'm going to jump in because otherwise
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I'll be the asshole as usual. And I'm going to
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wait till y 'all start being an asshole. So please
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continue, brother. So basically he waited for
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the first fade to get played. Yes, I am. I am
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not here to take the high road. Okay. Yeah. So
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my thing is, well, once again, Well, I'll tell
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the audience, I consider myself the lowest guy
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on the totem pole to junior guy. I'm learning
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from these cats. So what I will say is, not from
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my experiences, not from the bulls that I've
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talked to, it's hard enough for me to find couples
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that I want to rock with, that I jog with, that
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ain't on some bullshit, or that has good communication,
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or they have things worked out between themselves.
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So I don't think it's easier. That's because
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you live in East Jablip. Maybe, okay. But look,
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I've heard from the same thing from cats that
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were at Utopia, that were sharing their concerns
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and their struggles, and they live on your side
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of the town. You know what I'm saying? So I know
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cats that live in Atlanta that I've talked to.
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He's not part of the splash thing, but he lives
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in the same area as my family do. And he's saying.
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It's a problem. I got to go to E -Town to get
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what I need. I got to come to the West Coast.
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I'm going to put it like this. Let me chime in
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right quick. Go ahead, Mike. Go ahead. I was
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going to say what this reminds me of is it reminds
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me of the same thing I hear about guys, you know,
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in the lifestyle, quote, unquote, dominant guys
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who say that, you know, they can't find a submissive.
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You know what I'm saying? And my thing is. You
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know, you can blindfold me, spin me in a circle
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10 times, and let me throw a rock, and I'm going
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to hit a sub in the head. You know what I'm saying?
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Like, they're everywhere. So my thing is, if
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you're having trouble finding them when they're
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hiding in plain sight, and I've said this to
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many dudes, you're not ready to have one because
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they are there. I mean, and I'm not an extra
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clairvoyant dude. I mean, it's not like I got
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special powers. It's just having a conversation.
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I mean, knowing how to get the information that
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you're looking for through conversation and through
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talking to them. But I can't subscribe to the
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notion that they're not around, especially if
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you live in a heavily populated area. You know
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what I'm saying? So maybe I'm misunderstanding
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what you guys are talking about now. See, I'm
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a little slow. What is the question? Are we discussing
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it's hard for couples to find the guy and it's
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just as hard for guys to find the couple? Is
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that what we're discussing? Well, the premise
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is it's a principle. The principle, and I call
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it the triangle, is because take out the little
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small intricacies of finding versus the good
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people. Because I was more about finding good
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couples. I would say the same thing about a bull.
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Throw a rock and you can find a bull anywhere.
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We can't find good quality bulls. That's what
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they're complaining. That's why it's harder for
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them. I'd say it was the same thing. Go online,
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find any dude that's calling himself a bull,
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but the problem is you're going to run into some
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problems when you find out he's not really a
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dominant, he's not really a bull. He don't really
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know what he's talking about. I'm saying I ran
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into the same problem. I get a couple and they
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know all the way what they're talking about.
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And then next thing you know, you're taking it
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to the woman like you're supposed to, and they
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argue. That ain't no good experience for me.
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You're making it weird. You know what I'm saying?
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So I'm saying whatever challenges that you will
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put on a couple, it might not be the exact same
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particular challenge, but it's in the same bucket.
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In other words, I got challenges too. It ain't
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easier for you. You got two people. So I sat
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there and watched couples support each other.
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I've watched them lift each other up. You know,
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you're the cuckiest cuck I've ever seen. Well,
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you're the hottiest hot wiper. You know, and
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them build each other up. And the arguments and
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all the things that make them allow them to develop
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their skills. Well, I had you, bro, and I didn't
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even know you. The only thing I had is I wish
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this nigga would stop fooling around with his
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drink. That's the only thing I can say. This
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nigga was always with a drink in his hand. You
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know, but I had you. I'm just messing with you,
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but that's my point. I'm over here by myself.
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After I got divorced, I was by myself and I had
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to figure this out by myself. And I had to listen
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to some podcasts and figure some things out.
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And I wasn't smart enough to email you. I should
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have probably just emailed you and asked you
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a question, but I didn't. So it's like, yeah,
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that's cool. They do have problems, but it ain't
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more than me. Like you got, if you balance it
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all out is equal in my mind. That's what I'm
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saying. I mean, I guess you can make anything
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more difficult than it has to be. I think for
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us, especially, you know, we use the term quality
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bull a lot. When you're in that position, personally,
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I think we're operating from a position of abundance.
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You know what I'm saying? Like when you know
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your worth and if somebody's bringing it to you
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and you feel like they're not appreciating what
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you bring to the table, then. You know, you keep
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it moving and you keep it pushing. But when you
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know that you have what they're looking for,
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I mean, when you know that you check those boxes,
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I mean, I don't know, maybe I'm alone in that.
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I'll ask Brian and Mr. Mocha, do you guys feel
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like it's a scarcity for you to find what you're
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looking for? I think, and this is just speaking
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for me, it's an experience thing for me. When
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I first started, when I first started, I was
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just swinging. So, I mean, I guess I fell into
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the, what, the BBC Bull category. You know, I
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wasn't really looking for the, let's say, I guess
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the quality couple. You know, all I saw was a
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couple. You know, he may be a little submissive,
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and hell, I really didn't care if he was submissive
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or not. And, you know, I just wanted the wife.
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And then as I got older, I started to understand,
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you know, the cuckold world more. And so here
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again, I evolved. You know, I was looking for
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certain types of couples that, like you said,
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might check those boxes. And now at my age, you
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know, I'm definitely looking at certain types
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of couples. So I'm thinking on the experience
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level. You know, you're evolving as you stay
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in this life for a long time. Like, Mike, you've
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been in this life, what, 30 years? Close to it.
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Close to 30 years. You know, I've done it for
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a very, very long time. D, you've done it for
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a very, very long time, correct? Mm -hmm. Very
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long. So, I mean, you know what I'm saying? I'm
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looking at it in those terms. Maybe I am. Maybe
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y 'all can elaborate more, D or Mike. You know
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what I'm saying? But that's how I look at it.
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Can I say something real quick? Go ahead. Go
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ahead, D. All right, so. Oh, no. Yeah, go ahead.
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So, to answer Mike's question. Like if we're
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talking about. I don't I don't think I don't
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think as as a as a single male, I've ever had
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as much access to couples as couple as couples
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have had to me. So I'm sitting here literally
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right now looking at my single SDC profile and
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my couple's SDC profile. And here's the difference.
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Over the last year. I've probably been reached
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out to 15 times. Okay. On our couples profile,
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we probably get reached out to 15 times a week.
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I think couples tend to be in a position where
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they have so many options and so much to filter
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through. They're trying to determine, OK, which
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which guy do I choose? Which profile do I choose?
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How do I know which guy is the right guy for
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me? For me personally, out of the probably 15
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people who've reached out to me this year, I'd
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say only three or four of those caught my interest.
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And out of the three or four of those that caught
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my interest, I responded back to those three
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or four and they respond back. Very randomly
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or spotty. They send me a message. I respond.
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And then two months later, they respond with,
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hey. Now, to say that it's easier for a single
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guy to find couples, bull, whatever it may be,
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I think that's total bullshit. Because every
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couple, you know. Excuse me, I'm not going to
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say every 99 .9 percent of couples, you know,
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who have a profile with a real a decent pick
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of the couple on there. Always complain about
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being inundated with messages or being inundated
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with options. So whether they think the guy's
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a dumb fuck or not, they have that. Now, you
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take a single guy's profile. Most of us do not
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get inundated with options. So when we start
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talking about who has the most options, couples
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are usually frustrated trying to file through
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the guys. Now, if they make a shitty choice,
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that's on them. And of all the couples I've reached
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out to over the last year on my profile, it's
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very rare that I'm going to get a response back.
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Podcast them on anything like that, because I
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want it to be from my standpoint. I want it to
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be fair. I don't want you to say, oh, that's
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Mr. Mocha. I want you to see me as any other
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dude. And so I'm definitely not going to be on
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team Mike when it comes to I can throw a rock
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and find it anything, because even as far as
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subs are concerned. We get chosen. As the guy,
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we don't get to choose the couple or the female.
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Now, once you choose me, I can then steer the
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ship. But I'm waiting to be chosen to steer the
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ship. Couples got a thousand motherfuckers standing
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in line to be the one to steer the ship, as do
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subs and females. So that's my take on it. Yeah,
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so Mike, I don't know if you want to reply to
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that because I have something I want to say.
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I mean, if you, this is a question I have for
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Mr. Mocha. So you feel like you're never, you're
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not in the position to choose. I want to make
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sure I'm understanding you correctly. No, no,
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no. I said we're talking about numbers and options.
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Couples. Most couples, and I'm sure you can hang
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up and call 10 couples you know, and I guarantee
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if they go to their profiles over the last 12
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months, I guarantee they've had well over 100
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people reach out to them. Oh, absolutely. Okay.
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So now we're talking about they have more access
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and more options and they have more to choose
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from than your average single male. Or your average
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bull. And on top of that, because most people,
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when they look at a profile. They have so many
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options to choose from. They're going to step
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over most of the good guys anyways, because they
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have too many fucking options. Me, I can send
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out as many messages I want, but there is nothing
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about. Me texting, that's going to make me different.
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Now, if we go to an event and we're approaching
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people in person and someone gets to see you,
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talk to you, feel your vibe, that's a whole different
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thing. But when we're talking about, realistically
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speaking, that most of our interactions are going
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to be in an online setting. Couples got... They
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don't have to be. No, no, no, no, no. You skipped
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two things I said. Number one, I said realistically.
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Realistically, because we all have lives and
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jobs, and we know that right now, technology,
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social media... Hold on, hold on. Hold on, hold
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on. Splash don't happen once a week. So if you're
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the type of dude that's only picking up people
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during Splash, then okay, you are once again...
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by narrowing your opportunities because you're
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only trying to meet couples a couple times a
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year. That's not realistic. Okay, so we're talking,
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we're also keeping in mind the Splash universe
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is something that only a small percentage of
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people and our listeners out there know about.
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Everyone don't even know about Splash yet. So
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we're talking about the masses. And we're talking
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about people all over the world. So we're talking
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about cucks or cuckold couples, hot wife couples,
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and bulls. Realistically, the main medium is
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online. Now, if we're going to start throwing
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in, you know, the what ifs or the possibilities
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or the small likelihoods, then we're going to
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get real sideways real fast. But we're going
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to go for the vast majority. Of ways people contact.
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And we know that's going to be online. And couples
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got. Single dudes beat. Hand down. The only person
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that's going to get more messages. Than couples
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is going to be a unicorn. So that means. They
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have the most options to choose from. And that
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makes a big difference. If I got a hundred couples.
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Reaching out to me a week. I guarantee. I'd be
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able to choose something. I have a better pool,
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a larger pool to choose from and be able to make
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better decisions. Because on our couple's profile,
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Mrs. Mocha has dick flying at her every day.
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So she can go through there and pick through
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that motherfucker like it's a buffet. Oh, you
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know, his eyebrows. Fuck that guy. I don't have
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that option. I mean, I'm like, oh, she only got
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lazy. I am cool with lazy. You know what I'm
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saying? I only got three options. Very well put.
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Very well put. Mike, what you got? Okay, so as
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far as the dearth of options that they have,
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because remember, I have a couple's profile too,
27:09
so I see it. And the difference is the options
27:15
that couples have. I don't know if you ever went
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to like the basement of a department store, right?
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Like a Macy's or something or Stern's or whatever
27:24
department stores in your area back in the day
27:26
when your mom would go. And in the basement,
27:29
it looks like World War III, right? Like it's
27:33
just bins of clothes, like all over the place.
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That's kind of what couples face. Like there's
27:39
a lot there, but they got to do a lot of digging
27:42
to find what they looking for. Like just because
27:44
a hundred guys are sending the messages. doesn't
27:47
mean that it's 100 quality guys sending the message.
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And it don't mean that it ain't 99. Hold on,
27:53
hold on. You know, let me speak. So when we look,
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no problem. I love you. When we look, it's a
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little bit different. I love it. I love it. We
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don't have to filter through as much because
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we can pinpoint and go after exactly what we're
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looking for. So for us, it's almost like shopping
28:16
in a thrift store. You know what I'm saying?
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Like I'm going to find exactly what I want. Where
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are the blazers at? I'm looking for a black blazer.
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Okay, you don't have no black blazers here? Okay,
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let me go to the next store. We don't have to
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go through, like everything is organized in there.
28:31
So you can go exactly to what you're looking
28:33
for as opposed to what the couples face on a
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lifestyle site, which is, everything being thrown
28:39
in a pile because no matter if a guy is quality
28:42
or not, you still have to open the email. You
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know what I'm saying? Like they still have to
28:48
open it. There's no way to see who was a quality
28:51
person based off of just whatever their introduction
28:57
is. And yeah, you can kind of discount the guys
28:59
that send you those, you know, the haze, the
29:02
what's up, the she's hot, you know, the guys
29:05
who don't even know enough to put, you know,
29:08
a little something in their tagline, in their
29:10
intro. Your busters. Your busters. Yeah. Your
29:16
busters. They still have to go through all of
29:19
those messages. Now, when I brought up Splash,
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I was just using Splash as an example. Anything
29:23
can be a Splash. I'm just talking about putting
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yourself in a situation where you're actually
29:28
getting out and meeting real people. That can
29:31
be a munch. That can be a meet and greet. That
29:33
can be a party. You know, like... When I hear
29:37
you say what you say about the guys online and
29:43
not having opportunities and things like that,
29:45
what it reminds me of, and I'm not saying that
29:47
they're similar, but what it reminds me of is
29:49
when I hear dudes complain about not being able
29:52
to find a job. Like they're expecting a job to
29:55
just come and knock on their door. Like, knock,
29:58
knock, knock. Who is it? Job. Like, nah, motherfucker,
30:01
you got to get out there. You got to get it.
30:04
You got to get out there. And if you're not putting
30:07
the effort in, it's hard for me to feel sorry
30:10
for you. Because I'm going to ask you, okay,
30:12
what kind of effort you're putting it in? One
30:15
of the things that me and Mr. Mocha connected
30:18
on right away was music. I mean, he was familiar
30:22
with a friend of mine that... had a really, really
30:26
small music career. And one of the things we
30:28
would always laugh about, me and my buddy, was
30:31
whenever a dude would bump into somebody that
30:36
they know is in the music business, and they'd
30:39
be talking to them real quick, and they'd be
30:40
like, okay, you got your demo on you? If the
30:43
person said no, they would just count him immediately.
30:47
Like, how are you not prepared? How do you not
30:50
have a demo on you if this is what you're really
30:53
trying to do? If this is what you're really trying
30:56
to do, at the very least, your demo needs to
31:00
be out in the parking lot in your car. You know
31:02
what I'm saying? You need to always have your
31:04
music on you. You need to always be ready. What
31:07
do they say about luck? Luck is where preparation
31:09
and opportunity intersect. So if you're not out
31:13
there trying to make it happen, making mistakes,
31:16
learning from those mistakes, I'm sorry, it's
31:20
hard for me to have any kind of... Sympathy for
31:23
you. I'll pause you right there and just for
31:26
a quick second. So now you said where luck and
31:31
opportunity meets. No, no, no. I said luck is
31:36
where preparation and opportunity meets. I'm
31:38
sorry. Preparation. All right. And opportunity.
31:41
Excuse me. So let's just say the single guy is
31:46
very prepared and he has five opportunities.
31:49
The couple is very prepared, and they have 500
31:52
opportunities. Who's going to be the luckiest?
31:57
Well, the couple's going to have a lot more work
31:59
because they've got to sort through all those
32:00
opportunities. So now you sound like one of those
32:02
pretty girls. Oh, my God, so many guys want my
32:05
number. Yeah. That's completely different. It's
32:11
not different because they have to filter through
32:15
all the guys, and they're so used to being the
32:18
pretty girl. The unattractive girl over in the
32:21
corner would die to have those problems. Believe
32:23
you me, since I got to filter through all the
32:26
bullshit that comes through for my wife, I would
32:29
love to have that same problem with couples reaching
32:31
out to me. So that's just the way that it is.
32:37
But we can't complain about that. Exactly. So
32:39
that being said, going back to what Socrates
32:43
said and what you were talking about, I think.
32:47
You're seeing couples have it harder because
32:50
they have so much opportunity that it's hard
32:54
for them to choose one. And guys who have less
32:58
opportunity because they get to pinpoint. That
33:02
is very false. There are very, very, very few
33:07
guys because you said it earlier. Based upon
33:09
what you said earlier, I'm going to use your
33:11
own words for you. You have a whole bunch of
33:14
things in your bag to accommodate just about
33:16
any type of couple. That is not pinpointing,
33:19
my friend. That is you having a lot of things
33:21
because you're aware that there's such a variety
33:24
in couples. Fact of the matter is dudes have
33:27
very low criteria. Is she attractive? Yes, I'll
33:31
take it. Couples, you know, like you said, couples
33:34
are going to look at profile. Oh, he only said,
33:36
hey, he only said she's hot. I looked at a profile
33:39
yesterday. This chick had five pictures of her
33:41
ass on there, and she said, I know I got a great
33:46
ass. No need for you to tell me. Well, she put
33:52
that in her profile. So she advertised the cheeks.
33:56
She, you know, so, so you have that many options.
33:59
I've got so many, I'm like, there's no way I'm
34:01
going to put a picture of my dick on there and
34:03
be like, okay, ladies, I know I've got a great
34:04
cock. So many of your economy. No, nobody be
34:08
like, keep, keep sending it in. So I think when
34:11
you see how much opportunity couples have, I
34:14
have to go with Socrates where I say, you can't
34:17
say that. couples have it hard because they have
34:20
so many options damn you got so much money you
34:24
don't know what to do with it you poor people
34:26
got life easy you can only get ramen noodles
34:29
stop complaining Hey, I'm going to jump in here
34:40
because I've been trying to jump in on this.
34:41
Hey, elbow in. Me and Mike was playing on throwing
34:45
rocks at each other. We live for this. So let
34:50
me elbow my ass in this shit. What I'm saying,
34:54
to piggyback on both of y 'all, I think sometimes
34:57
there's a time to compare apples and oranges.
34:59
And this is it. When you're talking about fruit,
35:01
it's okay to compare apples and oranges. And
35:04
my point is this. The struggle is getting to
35:07
options for men. The struggle for the couple
35:10
is to sift through the options. They're both
35:13
a struggle is what I'm saying. They're all equal
35:16
because I got to get to the point where, like
35:18
Mr. Boca said, man, you know how hard it is to
35:22
get three, four of them to, you know, he's talking
35:25
about people to approach him. Cause he is dark
35:27
Gable. Well, I get zero. So I got to approach
35:31
a hundred percent. And plus my profile. I got
35:33
to work on my profile a little better, but I
35:35
got to work real hard to get you. And like you
35:38
said, I'm lucky to get the kind of woman that
35:41
I like. I'm lucky to kind of get the couple that
35:44
I like. Cause I got to work my ass off to get
35:47
there. Once I'm there, it's easier. Yeah. But
35:50
the whole point is you just, you showed up. it
35:54
started raining and now you mad because you ain't
35:56
got a raincoat on i'm like no bro like your struggle
36:00
is at the end my struggle is in the beginning
36:03
it's all this struggle that's my point This brotherhood's
36:21
for men whose stories need to be told. Say it
36:24
loud. Say it loud. This is who we are. Bold,
36:29
confident, seductive. Dominant and classy. We
36:33
stand tall, never fall. Bull brotherhood. Luxury
36:39
untold.