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Lessons - Discover Your Life's True Mission | Melissa Ambrosini - Best-selling Author & Mentor · Success Story with Scott Clary

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  In this lessons episode, discover the key to finding your purpose and unlocking a life of fulfillment.
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  Learn how tuning into your intuition can guide you toward your true calling. Why stillness
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  and self-awareness are essential for clarity and how taking full responsibility for your life
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  empowers you to rewrite your own story. How do you find that purpose? Because I know I don't
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  have a secret for it because I still do things that are are a lot of high effort things that I feel
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  like I could be doing something differently or something that's more in line with what I should
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  be doing because that gives me energy. So how do you find your purpose? How did you find your
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  purpose coming out of the hospital? Because I want to unpack that I want to teach people what to
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  look for so that they can find theirs in their life. I love this and I teach this and my audible
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  original book is called purposeful and I get asked this question a lot and one thing that I'm
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  very passionate about helping people do is find their purpose and live it and share it with the
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  world because I believe that we're all here meant and we're all meant to do that to share that
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  with the world because we all have gifts. Everyone has a gift and our role is to share that with
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  others and that doesn't mean we have to become a best-selling author or a podcast or speak on
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  stages. That could literally be in your community that could be the you know being the best mama
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  or the best father or you know teaching the local community how to sow or play the piano whatever
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  it is. We just need to let go of the ideals of what we think it should look like and just come
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  back into our heart. So for me how you find your purpose is well okay let me just start by saying
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  one other thing first how I live my life and run my business now it's all built on intuition
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  so everything that I do it has to be a full-body hell yeah so if an opportunity comes to me
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  and it's not a full-body hell yeah it's a no thank you or not right now and I find that
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  opportunities come to us and they get presented to us and we might take it because our mind is
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  saying this is a really good opportunity this could be your purpose or what about this or what about
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  this but if we just took a moment to close our eyes and tune in with our souls and our intuition and
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  said is this actually true for me your body your whole essence your whole soul will tell you
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  whether this is right for you you'll feel it in your body you'll go yes your body will say yes
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  I don't know if you've ever had an experience and I'm sure you have where you've just done
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  something and then someone says well why did you book that trip to Hawaii you're like I don't know
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  I just did like I just booked the trip and I just went like something was just telling me I have to
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  go and I've had that experience many times in my life I have to but I feel like people don't have
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  I feel like people need help with the self-awareness to understand what that feeling is 100 percent
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  so how we tune into that feeling more is we have to get quiet we have to this is why a regular
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  meditation practice is so powerful because if we sit and close our eyes and get really quiet
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  and still for 20 minutes a day what you do is you allow that intuition to rise to the surface
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  and the downloads to happen but if we are just go go go achieve achieve achieve run from one
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  thing to the next there's no quiet time there's no time to hear that intuition so this is what
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  most people do is they just go go go they are constantly moving from one thing to the next and
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  any gap that they get we feel it with social media and our phones and the dinging and the
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  pinging so there's no gaps throughout our day for stillness and quiet so this is why I'm such a
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  huge advocate for a regular meditation practice 20 minutes twice a day is what I do first thing
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  in the morning and then in the afternoon and in those moments that's when I really can hear my
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  intuition and what's bubbling up and what's on my mind and what's maybe causing me a little bit
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  of stress and what's flowing really great in my life so this piece comes before the purpose piece
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  because if we can't hear our intuition how are we meant to know what the next step is
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  so I want to encourage everyone listening to to sit and to get still and quiet and that might
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  just be 10 minutes it doesn't matter you know five minutes first thing in the morning 10 minutes
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  first thing in the morning if you can do twice a day awesome but just start there because you will
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  then be able to hear your intuition and feel your intuition so much more that is the first piece
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  and then people say okay I'll do that right but then what's the next step how do I find my purpose in
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  life I have I have 10 steps that you can do in the book another thing that you can really do is
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  in those meditations at the end of your meditation ask yourself the question what really
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  lights you up and what would you do for free for the rest of your life and if you get really
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  honest and ask yourself those questions some amazing things will come up I know school teachers who
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  did this exercise and she realized that she didn't want to be a school teacher she wanted to
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  teach piano you know when she asked herself what would I do if I wasn't getting paid and something
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  that I could do for the rest of my life that would really light me up she was like I want to
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  teach piano that's what I want to do and so she did she quit her job and started teaching piano
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  so when you have that space the stillness and you can ask those questions things drop in really
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  quickly but like I said so many people don't even give themselves that opportunity to sit so that
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  is one of the first things you can do create that stillness that space ask yourself those questions
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  what would I do if I wasn't getting paid and I would and I could do this forever what is the
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  answer that comes to you and if you're still stumped and you have nothing flowing to you you can
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  go back to your childhood and I talk about this in purposeful go back to your childhood what did you
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  love to do as a child was it singing was it dancing was it painting was it making things your
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  childhood leaves clues so go back to your childhood and maybe ask your parents as well what did I
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  love to do as a child because there's going to be clues there as well so that's just some things
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  that you can do if you are wanting to find your purpose and then you know you can check out
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  purposeful I've got 10 other steps that also support that but they're a great place to start
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  one thing that I noticed that you you reinforced a few times on on on the works you put out it's
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  responsibility so it speaks me about responsibility why it's so important why you speak about it so
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  often how it's impacted your life why it's even a point that you think you have to mention it to
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  people what's what's the what's the reason or the rationale behind responsibility and how does
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  it impact you okay so the reason why responsibility is so important is because let me first tell you
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  a story when I back in October 2010 from there I went on such an inward journey I started
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  meditating I started doing yoga I changed my entire diet I studied energy work which is at
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  acu energetics I went fully headfirst into the spiritual and personal development world I attended
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  every seminar that I could I read every self-help book that I could I got mentors and coaches and
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  I did kinesiology and all of these things I became obsessed healthy obsessed and what I realized was
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  my relationship with money was not true to me it was it was my relationship my relationship with
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  money was not actually my story it was my dad said I was holding onto my relationship with
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  people partners they were just stories that my parents had passed on so I wasn't actually living a
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  life that was true to myself and I started blaming my parents I am like this because of you I have
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  these limiting money beliefs because of you I have these relationship beliefs because of you I have
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  these health beliefs and I have these health issues because of you and that that is literally
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  what he said and it was a really challenging time like it was very hard and I realized that you know
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  my parents would say to me we did the best that we could we did the best that we could we did the
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  best that we could with the knowledge and the understanding that we had at that time and absolutely
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  they did so who am I to blame them and that kept me in victim mentality when you blame other people
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  outside of yourself it keeps you in victim but every time you point the finger at someone else
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  there's three fingers pointing right back at you and what I realized was I needed to take
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  responsibility for how my life was unfolding and when you take responsibility it's quite
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  empowering because then you can make the shifts you can make the changes that are in alignment
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  with who you truly are and so I took responsibility I rewrote my money story I re-created my money
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  story I re-created my relationship story I rewrote my health story and I took responsibility I got
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  healthy I started it having abundance in my life and I started experiencing relationships beyond
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  my wildest dreams when I took responsibility and so there's no amount of pointing the finger at
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  anyone else and blaming anyone else that is going to get you where you want to be so just remember
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  that every time you point the finger at someone else there's three pointing right back at you
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  and when you take responsibility you get out of victim mentality and you take ownership of your life
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  and then that is when things can change that is when you can live in alignment with who
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  you truly are and have the life that you truly desire thanks for tuning in if you found this
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