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Is “Diversity Is Our Strength” Actually Working? | Episode 17 · Sincerely American

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  They've been getting like Candace Ellen's on that.
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  Like I keep seeing clips of her pronouncing stuff wrong.
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  I'm like. Yeah.
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  Well they should watch this, they have a lot of content to
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  cut. But why is that like something I
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  can comprehend? Like I'm like, oh, OK, I know
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  what she meant by that. You know what I mean?
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  I was like, she's she's out here doing her best.
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  Yeah, I get it. Hi, Sincerely sisters, and
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  welcome back to Sincerely American.
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  I'm so excited for this episode today.
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  I think we're going to hit like some fun politics and culture,
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  but we're also because it's going to be Valentine's Day this
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  weekend. I'm so happy Valentine's Day is
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  finally falling on a weekend. I'm definitely going to be
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  celebrating. So we're going to have some kind
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  of relationship Valentine's Day at the topics that we're going
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  to get into as well. So we'll wrap it all into about
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  as usual on the show. I feel like we cover everything,
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  very serious things, and then we love to get into the fashion in
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  the dating, the culture. So anyway, just stay tuned
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  throughout the whole episode that we'll be covering a lot.
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  The duality of sincerely American.
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  Exactly. OK, so I know that this is going
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  to be a little bit late because obviously we film a few days
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  ahead, but I, I just had to cover this the Bad Bunny
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  halftime show. I, I just, it's been like 24
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  hours now and let's just roll these clips.
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  Bad Bunny song. I already got one.
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  Sorry about that. I don't know who that is.
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  I've never heard of Bad Bunny. I don't know who that is.
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  Are you performing your halftime?
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  Yeah, I don't. I don't know it is.
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  Oh, no, no. Bad Bunny song.
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  Do you think they made a mistake?
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  I believe so. I ain't never heard of Bro till
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  now. I don't have one.
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  I don't listen to him. I don't know any song.
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  I don't really listen back but I can't I.
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  Really do not know any. Songs I don't even I don't know
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  any to keep it GI just tuned into Bad Body this morning
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  because it is a DTMFD TM2. First of all, we posted this on
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  the Conservator. This was, I thought this was so
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  funny. This was the actual football
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  players, Cameron, not a single one of them even knew who Bad
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  Bunny was except for like one guy named like one song and then
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  another person's like I hear she's great and Bad Bunny of
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  course is a man. So I I thought that was so
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  funny. I feel like everybody knows, but
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  for those of you guys that don't know, Bad Bunny was 1/2 time
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  singer. He went up and just did his goal
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  show in Spanish, like 100% in Spanish.
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  And I stand by this. Like I think that there is some
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  good Latin music. I don't listen to Latin music.
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  I don't speak any Spanish, so I can't really like name any Latin
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  artist. But like I've heard like, you
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  know, like Pitbull and Shakira, they kind of get into the Latin
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  vibes. Of course, this is not even good
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  music. He was like screaming into a
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  microphone, just random, like Spanish blabbering the entire
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  time. Here was the crowd.
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  Echo like literally everyone is just like a bunch of white
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  people just standing there like looking around.
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  This reminds me of when we were at Live in Miami and some of the
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  DJ was like, if you speak Spanish in the house, like
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  scream. I was like me on the camera.
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  No, it's so true. I was so lost this entire
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  halftime show. Jamie, I watched this one just
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  because Pat had on the Super Bowl and he was just kind of
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  chilling on the couch watching it.
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  So like in the background I would see it because obviously
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  like my family is visiting me this week.
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  So I haven't had like a ton of downtime.
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  But when I watched it, I'm like, well, one, I don't understand
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  any of the lyrics. I knew who Bad Bunny was.
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  Of course, I I love seeing like Jessica Alba.
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  That was cool seeing Alex Earl like that.
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  That was nice. But then on the other side of
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  the coin, you had like all of these people like, dry humping
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  each other and like grinding on stage.
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  It was just like complete and total degeneracy.
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  And I even tweeted, I said this makes America look so ghetto in
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  my opinion. I know I I tweeted out too, I
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  was like, no, I did not enjoy the halftime show.
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  That was 100% in a foreign language by an artist that I've
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  never heard of and songs that I've never listened to my entire
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  life. Of course, like a lot of these
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  liberals are like, like, it was the most amazing halftime show
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  ever. And then you have a bunch of
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  conservatives that were very mad and tuned into the Turning Point
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  USA show. They did really well with
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  streaming numbers. I have to give them that.
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  That was a big swing and they hit a home run on that for sure.
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  Then you have kind of the people that are like, why is everyone
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  making a big deal about a halftime show?
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  I am. For reference, I grew up in a
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  family where we watched the NFL every weekend of the season.
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  That's a Sunday ritual. And I just felt like it was so
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  offensive because it was just a slap in the face to like the
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  average NFL viewer. And I feel like the average NFL
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  viewer is lean, a little more conservative, lean traditional.
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  They're very pro American. They're kind of like that
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  working class guy, right? That's like worked a long hard
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  week and he sits down with his beer and he wants to drink and
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  watch the game. And these people have just been
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  kicked out of every element of our culture.
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  Like all the movies have gone woke, every brand is woke.
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  All these singers are woke nowadays.
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  So it feels like that we've just been like disenfranchised and
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  excluded from all the culture. And it's like, can we just have
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  one thing which is like NFL? That's like literally all we
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  want. And we don't even, I'm not even
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  asking for a conservative singer.
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  Obviously there's not many conservative singers.
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  But can we at least have the performance in English?
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  Like the bar is so low. Like, can we have it in English
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  so we understand the bar is on the ground and somehow they went
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  low. And like, I know Kendrick
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  Lamar's performance last year, I didn't love, if I'm being
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  honest, but like, at least it was in English.
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  I'm not even asking for a country music.
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  I'm just asking for some bangers that we can all sing along to
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  that we can all love anyone who's saying that they love this
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  Bad Bunny who's not like obviously speaks Spanish and
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  maybe like actually listens to Bad Bunny like a lot of people
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  from different countries. I understand that he's popular
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  in a lot of other countries, just not really, I think, as
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  popular with the NFL crowd and the average American here that
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  doesn't speak Spanish. But I love this.
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  This is a meme that people tweet.
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  This is Jacob Fry, the Minneapolis mayor.
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  And for people who are not chronically online, he was
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  saying, like, how much he loves Somali food.
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  And he was like trying to eat it, but you could see his face
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  the entire time that he actually hated it.
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  And it was not good food at all. These are the liberals that were
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  like, oh, my gosh, Bad Bunny was so amazing.
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  I was getting down to Bad Bunny. I'm like, can you name one lyric
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  from Bad Bunny? Yeah.
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  I want to hear your lyric from Bad Bunny.
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  Oh, my gosh, I know. And then I thought, I thought
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  for a second I was like, OK, well, maybe maybe this is going
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  to be a good show because at the end he goes, God Bless America.
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  And then right after God Bless America, he goes and God bless
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  Cuba, Nicaragua, like going, I'm like, can we just acknowledge
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  America? Like these are American football
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  teams. This is America's like, I don't
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  know, like the backbone of our nation right now is riding on
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  this game. And it's like, you used to have
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  these performances. I remember being a kid and not
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  even really understanding football, right?
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  But I would be there. My family would be watching it
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  in the living room. There would be all of our
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  friends coming over, feasting, bringing food, like kind of like
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  a potluck. And I would just be so excited
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  for this halftime performance because you felt the patriotism,
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  the love of country, the celebratory aspect of it, right?
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  Like everybody wanted, you know, just a nice celebration with
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  their friends and family and and their loved ones watching
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  something fun. And this just wasn't fun because
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  one, I didn't understand it too. I just, I don't know.
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  And then people, here's my thing with this too, just to wrap this
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  all up. And people are like, well, he's
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  Puerto Rican, like an American territory.
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  People in America predominantly speak English.
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  Honestly, that should be a requirement when you take a
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  citizenship test. That is like something I
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  strongly advocate for is that you should be able to speak
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  English. I don't know why people come
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  into this country and do not know how to speak English.
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  A lot of other countries see that as like very disrespectful
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  if you don't know their language.
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  You can actually vouch for that, Jay, since you went to France
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  when you had to speak French when you studied.
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  The French want you to speak French.
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  Exactly. It's what most countries
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  require. Most countries would never have,
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  like, their main cultural event, and that is the Super Bowl. the
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  Super Bowl is a huge cultural event in our country.
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  They would never take time to, like, make it all about another
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  country. It just made no sense
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  whatsoever. And like you said, they came in
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  with all the flags because they were trying.
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  Basically his message was we are all America saying like, yeah.
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  But we're not all America, OK? We are not.
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  In Canada. And then they threw in all these
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  Latin American countries being like, we're all one American,
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  like, no, we're not. No, we're not.
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  Not all we are the greatest country of all time.
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  Yeah, this is the United States. We are not, do not associate
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  with that. And they're like, well, there's
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  40 million people here that speak Spanish.
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  I'm like, OK, well, the other 310 million don't.
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  Yeah, and probably half those people came in illegally anyway,
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  so it's. Like, and that's a new thing
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  that they've brought in just and like you said, if I have my
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  parents immigrated to the US, to the US and they came here, I
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  always say this, my parents, they're not Canadian anymore.
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  They're American. They waved the American flag.
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  They're all about America now. And that's how every immigrant
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  that comes here needs to be, in my opinion.
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  That's not to say you can't be like proud of your culture and
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  history. And Bad Bunny has every right,
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  like I'm a free speech advocate. He has every right to do and
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  sing whatever he wants and fly his flag.
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  OK, if he wants to do that. But I just felt like that was
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  such a it was just an F you, like I said to NFL viewers, and
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  it was on purpose. I had to deal with an F you to
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  Trump as well. Everything that's going on with
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  ICE and deportations. And it's just really sad to me
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  at the end of the day that we have an event, like you said,
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  that's supposed to bring in everybody, unite Americans all
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  together. We all have a good time,
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  everyone tunes in. And it just became like a huge
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  political thing. And it's that's just such a
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  thing for the left. They do this in every aspect of
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  culture where they just inject their toxic politics into it.
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  And then they get mad that we pointed out and they're like,
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  why are you mad at this? I'm like, I don't know.
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  Because we can't have a normal Super Bowl because of you people
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  anymore. That's why I'm mad.
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  I just want a fun Super Bowl. I know, you know, what was one
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  interesting point that I actually came across today was
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  Caroline had said that it was the only only show that showcase
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  the institution of of marriage because I guess somebody got
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  married during the halftime show.
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  It was actually a real a real ceremony.
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  I don't, I don't know how. I mean, he was like singing over
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  it. I don't know how they were going
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  to do that, but I was like, that's an interesting point.
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  Like I kind of liked how they showcase that.
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  But everything else that they showcase again, was just like
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  not something I wanted to be thrown in my face, not something
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  I wanted my 14 year old sister behind me to be watching.
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  They're like literally throwing their butt cheeks on these men
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  and it's like, I, I just, the dancing was terrible.
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  Let's just get that out there right now.
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  It was like absolutely terrible. I feel like I contracted AIDS
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  through the screen. And then on top of that, I
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  couldn't even understand what he was saying.
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  So I'm going to leave it there. I wish that I should have put on
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  subtitles or something to, to translate it into English, but
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  I, I don't even feel like we need to do that for the
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  American, like for America's NF or yeah, NFL, like I don't feel
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  like we need to do that. I am thankful they didn't have
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  subtitles Cameron because Oh my gosh, his lyrics are disgusting
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  here. I'll put him up right now.
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  I think I wouldn't know cuz once again, I don't speak Spanish
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  like the other 310 million Americans, but I think that he
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  changed maybe some lyrics for the Super Bowl to make it a
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  little more family friendly. I don't know.
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  But these are the lyrics to the songs that one of the songs that
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  he's saying and it's incredibly raunchy.
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  It's not family friendly, It's gross.
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  And the last point I'll say to all these, like, feminists are
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  the first to defend Bad Bunny or any of these rap music artists.
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  Meanwhile, their lyrics are the most degrading lyrics that I
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  have ever seen towards women. Like, it's like the most
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  disgusting, degrading things possibly you could say about a
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  woman are in so many of these songs.
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  And like, I'm not like one of those like Puritans that's like,
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  Oh my gosh, like you can't swear or say anything.
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  But I'm like this goes a little far and I'm like.
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  Yeah, they're like, oh, we're about female empowerment.
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  And it's like calling women whores and biz and like only
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  using them for their bodies. And like, let's just like swipe
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  it like a credit card and let them use it.
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  And then exactly. And they're the ones propping up
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  this this nonsense. I know it's ridiculous.
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  It's ridiculous. And it didn't end there, you
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  guys. The the theme, I guess, of the
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  beginning of this gap is how things that we used to be able
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  to all enjoy, have fun, unite have become divisive.
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  So moving on to the next sporting event that's been going
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  on this last week are the Olympics.
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  And I used to and I still am like I I'm watching the medal
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  count. I love that America dominates
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  every Olympics. We kill it out up there.
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  And I do love something that I just love about the Olympics is
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  that these people train their entire lives and you can just
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  see the excitement and the tears and the joy that goes into when
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  they win. And it's just, it's a wow
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  moment. I just, that's what I've always
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  loved about any sporting event, but particularly the Olympics.
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  You really see it like getting that gold medal.
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  I love the skater from DC. He like did like a backflip and
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  got the gold. And I just think it's amazing.
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  But unfortunately, these athletes, and we'll roll this
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  clip, this is Hunter Hess. I don't know why, but these
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  athletes are being asked about politics.
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  It brings up mixed emotions to represent the US right now.
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  I think it's a little hard. There's obviously a lot going on
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  that I'm not the biggest fan of, and I think a lot of people
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  aren't. If it aligns with my moral
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  values, I feel like I'm representing it.
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  Just because I'm wearing the flag doesn't mean I represent
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  everything that's going on in the US.
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  So, yeah, I just kind of want to do it for my friends and my
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  family and the people that support me getting here.
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  Cameron, it's just like one, why are they being asked anything to
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  do with politics? These people are here to compete
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  around sports. And that's what they should say.
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  They should just. And once again, this goes into
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  the politics version. I'm not asking you to be
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  conservative. I'm just I'm just asking you,
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  like, can you not crap on our country in front of the entire
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  world? It's in such poor taste.
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  This was so disappointing to see from Hunter Hess.
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  And he went most viral, but there was a few other athletes
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  as well that had to criticize Trump, had to criticize this.
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  And it's like, focus on your sports and you're representing
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  America. We don't, we don't want to hear
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  your politics. And it's just embarrassing, to
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  be quite frank. And it's very sad.
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  And it, I, I want to cheer for these Americans.
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  And it makes me feel like I can't cheer for you now.
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  I know. And then it's like, why would
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  you even want to represent the United States if these are your
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  true sentiments behind closed doors, that you're obviously
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  like vocal enough to to say out loud in front of millions of
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  people that you don't agree with what's going on in our country
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  right now? Well, then why don't you move to
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  a different country and compete for them?
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  It's really not that hard. You're obviously like a very
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  talented athlete. You've made it this far.
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  I hate this so much, especially because I actually, I know one
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  of my friends, Danya, she's an Olympic shooter from Tampa.
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  I have my my aunt actually represented Sweden.
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  She's Swedish. She did the high jump and some
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  of the previous Olympics as well.
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  And I know two of them for a fact.
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  Very, very proud to represent their country, very proud to to
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  even make it that far, no matter the placement.
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  Obviously very too talent, talented athletes that did place
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  in the Olympics. But this is just so atrocious to
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  see. And honestly, Jamie, This is why
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  I got into politics. I remember being a a collegiate
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  athlete. I was AD one cheerleader at the
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  University of Louisville and guys at the University of
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  Louisville. Like right now, I mean, I'm
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  thinking back when I cheered like Lamar Jackson won the
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  Heisman. We had like Donovan Mitchell on
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  our basketball team, like all of our sports.
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  I think one of our baseball players actually was the first
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  overall draft pick for for that season.
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  It was insane. So we were like at peak like
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  athleticism, right? And then you have all this Colin
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  Kaepernick stuff come out, people start kneeling for the
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  anthem. I was like, what is going on?
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  I have law enforcement in my family.
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  I just saw it as like such an injustice.
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  So, so disrespectful, completely disavow and demonize our law
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  enforcement officers like that, people who serve in our military
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  like that to take a knee for our anthem.
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  And so to see this on full display, I'm not even being
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  proud to represent your own country in which you've made it
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  that far. You put your life like your
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  lifelong efforts into this sport, Obviously blood, sweat
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  and tears. And this is how you get up in
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  front of a podium. FU.
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  That's literally how I feel. You should not be competing for
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  for us in my opinion. This makes me so sour and so
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  disheartened to Jamie because imagine how many other athletes
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  who would love to be in his position and say something
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  completely different at that podium.
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  Be so excited to be there, be so thankful and blessed.
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  Give give all the their glory to God and their family and this is
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  what he says. It's disgusting.
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  It's in such poor taste. It reminds me of like example,
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  if I'm in a fight with like my brother or my mom, you keep that
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  in the family. I would never, never publicly go
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  against my family and to be to be 100% transparent, there's no
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  fights going on, but pretend if there was within my family, you
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  keep that in the family. That's how I feel with when you
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  go across the world. You should never when you were
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  speaking about your country to the world stage, you should
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  never go against that. And that's fine.
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  If you have political disagreements and you can make
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  your voice heard back at home and we can have discussions here
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  and debates, that is not the place.
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  What is so crazy to me is only the American athletes are being
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  asked about politics in their own country.
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  What I would like to know is why aren't we asking Elaine Goo or
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  Eileen Goo I think is her name. Who this story gets me for those
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  this has not gotten enough press in my opinion.
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  This woman is a skier. She's from San Francisco.
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  She went to Stanford University and I think because of money she
• 17:45
  decided to trade from from representing the United States
• 17:49
  to representing China. I mean, it's disgusting.
• 17:52
  Who trades on their own country? Yet people aren't asking her,
• 17:55
  hi, what do you think of the CCP?
• 17:57
  What about the weaker Muslims that the Chinese government is
• 18:01
  killing systematically? What about the suppression of
• 18:03
  free speech and suppression of rights of.
• 18:05
  Chinese tribe sense? What about child labour?
• 18:08
  Yeah, What about Tiananmen Square?
• 18:09
  Can you comment on that, Eileen? No, they don't ask her a single
• 18:13
  question. And said she traded and and
• 18:16
  actually came out today against President Trump.
• 18:19
  Of course, that's the only people she's criticizing.
• 18:21
  To be fair, she's not allowed to criticize China because then,
• 18:23
  you know, I don't think you can do that.
• 18:26
  But it's like, so no one's asking her.
• 18:28
  And said American athletes get asked all day about their
• 18:31
  politics and even there's hundreds of countries around the
• 18:34
  globe that have incredibly corrupt governments, terrible
• 18:37
  governments. Are they asking in the Mexican
• 18:39
  athletes, hi, how do you feel that your government's corrupted
• 18:41
  by the cartel? No, they only save these
• 18:44
  questions for Americans. It is so ridiculous and
• 18:47
  outrageous on every level. If I was an athlete, I would be
• 18:50
  like, screw you. I'm not.
• 18:52
  I love America. People have different political
• 18:54
  beliefs. We have elections in our
• 18:56
  country. We're a proud democracy.
• 18:58
  We have freedom. And I'm free to be an American.
• 19:00
  And I'm thankful to be here for the people who have fought for
• 19:03
  my right to be able to represent this country.
• 19:05
  And a lot of these athletes make millions of dollars.
• 19:07
  I mean, it is the most annoying story, but I'm telling you that
• 19:10
  Eileen Goo, I think Eileen or Eileen, I don't know exactly how
• 19:13
  to pronounce her name, but that is the worst story.
• 19:16
  Total trader from from the Bay Area where I grew up.
• 19:19
  Well, now I want to know who these journalists are who are
• 19:21
  asking these questions because you can always follow the trail
• 19:23
  to see, you know, who's owning these corporations and things
• 19:26
  like that of like, why are they asking these questions?
• 19:29
  Are they a liberal news network that's wanting to serve more
• 19:31
  conflict? Is it somebody from like an
• 19:34
  adversarial nation who's trying to stir up conflict in the
• 19:36
  United States? Like who are these people asking
• 19:39
  these questions? Also, it's a just a complete
• 19:41
  double standard. Like you said, why aren't we
• 19:43
  asking any other nation's athletes these types of
• 19:47
  questions? Because they're just not as
• 19:49
  interesting. Do you understand that every
• 19:51
  single other nation, like is covering Trump 24/7?
• 19:55
  People are so interested. It's like we are the main
• 19:57
  character though on the global stage.
• 19:59
  Like people kind of forgot about us when like Joe Biden was like
• 20:02
  our president. We kind of fell off like nobody
• 20:05
  respected us on a global stage. They were just like recording.
• 20:08
  And like falling asleep at like the G7 or is it the G7 or G6
• 20:12
  Summit G7? I don't know.
• 20:13
  G12G7. There's a lot.
• 20:18
  Of GG, yeah, no, falling asleep at the summits, not being able
• 20:21
  to complete a thought or a sentence.
• 20:24
  And so we were, you know, kind of fell off.
• 20:26
  And now that we have President Trump, like, every new cycle,
• 20:30
  there's something new every single day to cover.
• 20:32
  I, like, seriously, can't even keep up.
• 20:34
  And that's probably why they're doing this, because they know
• 20:36
  it's going to get the most attention and it's going to
• 20:38
  catch the most headway. The the titles are going to be
• 20:41
  captivating, it's going to get the most engagement, the more
• 20:44
  clicks. So that's probably why they're
• 20:46
  doing it. I'm just trying to keep
• 20:47
  positive, focus on the athletes that are great and representing
• 20:50
  our country well, and we'll live to fight another day.
• 20:54
  Speaking of living to fight another day, I wanted to do for
• 20:57
  our last topic on the YAP, a Wellness check on anyone who's
• 21:01
  living in the eastern part of the United States right now.
• 21:04
  It has been so brutal. I I we need.
• 21:08
  There's been so many funny tik toks about it.
• 21:09
  So this is in New York but it's the same situation in DCI.
• 21:13
  Don't know why but OK. To be fair, I've lived in DC
• 21:17
  since 2020. We have never gotten snow like
• 21:19
  this. And even when we do get snow it
• 21:21
  melts like the next day. It really doesn't stick.
• 21:23
  This has been brutal. We just have a massive it's now
• 21:25
  just ice everywhere. Like to get here today I came
• 21:29
  out of my condo and had to hike over an entire hill almost like
• 21:33
  slipped because it's pure ice block.
• 21:35
  There's no like clear pathways to then get into the Uber.
• 21:39
  And I know this is first world problems, but you would have
• 21:42
  thought we would have better like snow services in order And
• 21:46
  on top of it, Cameron, I'm just like, Oh my God, I don't know
• 21:49
  how much longer I can do it. Like genuinely, it is been three
• 21:52
  straight weeks where it has like not gotten above freezing
• 21:54
  temperatures. The parks are closed.
• 21:57
  I feel bad for anybody with kids, including myself.
• 21:59
  I'm like running out of activities to do a Vivian.
• 22:02
  We are flying back to California for a little bit because I'm
• 22:05
  just like, I can't do it any longer.
• 22:07
  No, I know. And do it any longer.
• 22:08
  My mom and my sister and my sister's friend completely
• 22:12
  escaped it. They've been out of school for
• 22:14
  like 2 weeks now in a row. They just caught off school
• 22:16
  again this week because people, people can't even like leave
• 22:21
  their neighborhoods. The neighborhoods really haven't
• 22:23
  been shoveled that well. I think like some of the main
• 22:25
  roads have cleared up, but like you said, it's just black ice
• 22:28
  everywhere. You can't drive, you can't walk.
• 22:31
  Like it's, it's very hard to leave your house.
• 22:34
  I mean, I don't remember anything that bad.
• 22:36
  I'm in California now girls, if you're listening to this like on
• 22:39
  audio format, but I'm on like on California time, we've got like
• 22:44
  75° weather. I just went to Malibu 2 days
• 22:47
  ago. It was like 80° there.
• 22:49
  But my mom, like we were worried that she was going to get
• 22:52
  delayed or like her flight from Chicago to LA was going to get
• 22:57
  like, I don't know, cancelled or something was going to happen.
• 23:00
  So we were planning for that. And I haven't even seen anything
• 23:03
  this bad since. I know if you're from the East
• 23:06
  Coast, you remember the snowstorm of O8 where all the
• 23:09
  power was out. Nobody could get to school for
• 23:11
  like a month. We were all snowed into our
• 23:13
  house. It was like 15 inches of snow.
• 23:15
  That was back when, like, everybody would go, like,
• 23:18
  sledding and. And like, people would.
• 23:20
  This is so redneck. I can't even believe I'm saying
• 23:23
  this. But we would get these.
• 23:25
  We would get these trucks. No, I swear, we would have,
• 23:28
  like, our dad's trucks. And then they would tie a rope
• 23:31
  from the back and we would literally, like, sled us if we
• 23:35
  were, like, at the lake. But we would like that.
• 23:37
  Yeah, but we would like, stand on the sled or we would get like
• 23:39
  a mattress and tie it. And I remember that's like all
• 23:43
  we were able to do because nobody could leave.
• 23:45
  There was, and this was the era of like, no DoorDash, no Uber
• 23:49
  Eats. We were like having to stuff up
• 23:51
  like COVID, like where we would have like canned soup, like
• 23:55
  Spaghettios for like a month and like PB and J frozen PB and J
• 23:58
  that your parents like stuffed in the freezer.
• 24:01
  Yeah. Or uncrustables.
• 24:02
  That's what I'm thinking of. But yeah, I, I mean, it looks
• 24:04
  brutal. I don't even want my mom to go
• 24:06
  back honestly because when I don't want her flying into that
• 24:08
  weather neither with my sister. And how do you even get in and
• 24:12
  out as DCA canceling flights? I don't even know.
• 24:15
  I'm like so out of it. I haven't been traveling,
• 24:17
  unfortunately, I've been stuck in DC.
• 24:19
  But I will say yesterday it was like 40 mile per hour winds and
• 24:24
  it was like 22. It was 18°F and I was like, I
• 24:27
  like walked outside and I was like, no, I'm like I tried to go
• 24:30
  down to like the farmers market. No, I'm just like OK, another
• 24:34
  day inside. I'm like Vivian needs vitamin
• 24:37
  DI, do as. Seasonal depression is real
• 24:39
  because when you when it gets that cold, you actually like
• 24:43
  can't be as social. You can't go outside.
• 24:46
  Like it's hard, like it's very hard on your body.
• 24:49
  Like I know a lot of people have like you have joint issues,
• 24:51
  especially when it's colder, it's raining like.
• 24:54
  So skin gets bad. Yeah.
• 24:56
  Like eczema starts to flare up or like dry skin patches.
• 24:59
  It's just like it's. Seasonal depression is real.
• 25:02
  Like your body's really not in the best state.
• 25:05
  And I completely under. Yeah, Wellness check for all the
• 25:08
  you girlies. Blink twice.
• 25:09
  If you need help, we'll come save you.
• 25:12
  We hope you're doing your best. We're praying.
• 25:14
  We're praying for sunnier and warmer days.
• 25:17
  And I will say like, yes, I'm from California, but my family
• 25:20
  is Canadian. I am not weak, but like it's
• 25:23
  getting to me. And I used to tell people all
• 25:25
  the time, like from the West Coast because I feel like people
• 25:27
  in California are so dramatic about the East Coast, like, Oh
• 25:29
  my God, I could never do the weather.
• 25:30
  And I'd be like, the weather is really not that bad.
• 25:32
  It like it's pretty humid during the summer.
• 25:34
  That was more annoying. But I'm like, the winters in DC
• 25:36
  are like, totally fine. Not this year, I will tell you
• 25:40
  that. Not this year.
• 25:41
  Just make sure to invest in a red light therapy mask, that'll
• 25:45
  help with the. And a lot of moisturizer and
• 25:48
  collagen face mask. I've been doing that like every
• 25:50
  night. Yes.
• 25:51
  All right, girls, I'm really excited to announce that I'm
• 25:54
  going to be speaking at the Virginia Convention that's put
• 25:57
  on by the Virginia Council on February 27th.
• 26:00
  I would love to see some of your girls there.
• 26:02
  So I'm going to put the link in my bio where you guys can go
• 26:05
  through, click, buy some tickets for the event and give me Adm if
• 26:09
  you guys are planning on coming because I would love to meet you
• 26:11
  and chat All things sincerely, American, the conservator.
• 26:14
  I'm really excited about the speech that I'm doing because
• 26:16
  I'm going to be talking all about Gen.
• 26:17
  Z issues, how we're going to win back young people, the divide
• 26:20
  between men and women, all the issues that we discuss on this
• 26:23
  podcast. We're going to get planning and
• 26:25
  we're going to figure out how we're going to do well in these
• 26:27
  midterms in the years to come. So it'll be a great way to
• 26:30
  combine culture and politics. My favorite issues to talk about
• 26:34
  talking faith, motherhood, marriage, family, fashion, all
• 26:39
  of the best topics. So I want to see you girls
• 26:41
  there. Make sure you join.
• 26:43
  I'll be in Richmond, VA on February 27th.
• 26:45
  OK, we're heading into I have no words where we always have a lot
• 26:49
  of words. OK, Cameron, this was like
• 26:55
  literally made for this segment, this news story.
• 26:57
  I just like I sent it to camera the second I saw of like, it's
• 27:00
  been rough out here for white woman.
• 27:02
  Like truly white women have not been giving us a great name as a
• 27:06
  free sent. We're trying to hold the line
• 27:07
  with sincerely American like really hard right now.
• 27:10
  And we're trying to be like, some of us are normal as all our
• 27:13
  sincerely sisters are. But these women, just like I
• 27:17
  said, they're out here. They're they're doing their
• 27:19
  thing. So I can't even keep a straight
• 27:21
  face reading this. So a mob of angry.
• 27:27
  I'm sorry this is the title for like this tweet that was just
• 27:31
  making me laugh. A mob of angry, extremely
• 27:34
  emotional woman. Great core power yoga staffers
• 27:41
  for being complicit with ice rains.
• 27:44
  So. Core power yoga instructor?
• 27:47
  So it's because they didn't mention anything during their
• 27:49
  class or something? Yeah, So Long story short, these
• 27:53
  women wanted their instructor at the mini out, this is in
• 27:57
  Minneapolis, to speak out against the ICE raids.
• 28:00
  But Core Power apparently was silencing their instructors from
• 28:05
  speaking out on the issues. And so these women formed a mob
• 28:10
  and went to the Core Power and started berating.
• 28:13
  Like probably like a minimum wage employee working them for
• 28:16
  front. Desk he's like or he or she is
• 28:20
  like okay now hit the downward dog pose and then these liberal
• 28:23
  women are like how about you speak out about the ice rights
• 28:27
  that are happening in this city? What the hell do you?
• 28:30
  Want from these people? No, there was.
• 28:34
  There's like some men in the back, like holding their ball be
• 28:36
  like, yeah, yeah. Like I'm like, oh, these are the
• 28:39
  most pathetic group of people ever.
• 28:40
  Then this white boomer woman. Oh, my God.
• 28:44
  She released this video going into detail.
• 28:49
  Let's go give us. No, give us answers.
• 28:51
  Let's go say I'm out loud and for the camera, for all my
• 28:53
  viewers. Let's hear it.
• 28:55
  Why are you being silent? Let's let's hear it, Delaney.
• 28:59
  Loud and proud, baby. You want to say it?
• 29:00
  Let's fucking say it. Why no OK, let's go.
• 29:08
  Let's I'm in a well you should have well rehearsed corporate
• 29:11
  action and words ready to go. Our community I've I I I spent
• 29:16
  10 I sent out $10,000 for people for rent yesterday that people
• 29:19
  gave on to my Venmo that I'm going to pay taxes on Delaney.
• 29:22
  Let's hear a God. No, don't take a pause.
• 29:33
  Come on. You came here to silence
• 29:35
  teachers to make sure everything was gone.
• 29:37
  I've never seen your face in 10 years of practicing and paying
• 29:40
  my money at the studio. Don't take a pause.
• 29:42
  Be loud with core power corporate answers.
• 29:44
  Let's fucking go. What do you got to say?
• 29:48
  Louder, Delaney, for thus in the back.
• 29:50
  Let's go. What is it?
• 29:51
  Why? Why are you having one of our
• 29:53
  best teachers quit? Because you can't stand behind
• 29:56
  her answer. That person with the glasses you
• 30:00
  have good answer. Delaney can't seem to cough it
• 30:02
  out. I mean, we're being berated
• 30:05
  right now. And so you're not being berated.
• 30:07
  You're being asked hard questions that you should have
• 30:08
  done been answered. This is not berating.
• 30:11
  Trust me, Cameron, I just, I literally, I mean, it's almost
• 30:17
  like a Babylon Bee headline. Like it's like, how is this real
• 30:21
  life? This one's just so absurd.
• 30:22
  But this is a trend that, you know, I kind of really felt like
• 30:26
  the started during BLM, but it's like you must speak up on these
• 30:30
  issues, blah, blah, blah. And it's like these liberal,
• 30:33
  particularly liberal women that try to force all of these
• 30:36
  companies, these influencers online.
• 30:39
  Anyone who quote, UN quote has a platform that they have to be
• 30:41
  speaking on the issues or they're like betraying everybody
• 30:45
  involved. And it's just such an arrogance
• 30:48
  that you won. It's actually very for all these
• 30:51
  people calling us like fascists all the time, that is very
• 30:54
  fascists that you're coming and forcing people to speak on
• 30:56
  issues and forcing people to go along and toe the line for
• 30:59
  whatever political agenda you have.
• 31:00
  They don't realize President Trump won the popular vote.
• 31:03
  More than half the country disagrees with you on a lot of
• 31:06
  issues in different ways, but they always have this arrogance
• 31:09
  like everybody must agree with me and like the and if you're
• 31:12
  not, you're betraying like America.
• 31:14
  It's just, it's so arrogant, again, it's so out of touch and
• 31:18
  I'm just sick of it. Like, I don't think your core
• 31:20
  power yoga instructor needs to be commenting on politics.
• 31:24
  I don't think a lot of these brands, I don't think the Super
• 31:27
  Bowl, I think can we just keep like some stuff completely out
• 31:29
  of politics. It's exhausting.
• 31:31
  Yeah, I think it's also just an emotional manipulation tactic
• 31:35
  too. When I hear how all these
• 31:37
  people, like will call on influencers to speak out about
• 31:40
  certain topics. And it's just like, you don't
• 31:42
  even really want them speaking out.
• 31:44
  You just want somebody validating your feelings all the
• 31:47
  time. And that's the thing for me too,
• 31:50
  especially with these core power yoga instructors.
• 31:53
  Think about how many hours it took for them to get the
• 31:56
  certificate. They probably had to spend
• 31:58
  thousands of dollars to become an instructor.
• 32:01
  And imagine dedicating your life to like health and Wellness.
• 32:04
  And then somebody's like, yeah, I need you to speak with
• 32:06
  authority on politics. It's like, why are you asking
• 32:09
  this of them? Can you just leave them be?
• 32:11
  And to have you like get you skinny and then like in a better
• 32:14
  mindset, when you leave a class, why do you need them speaking
• 32:17
  about like international relations and, and, and domestic
• 32:21
  issues and, and, and political campaigns and, and what's going
• 32:25
  on in the news cycle? It's like, what if they just
• 32:26
  don't know? What if they're so invested in
• 32:29
  actually how they teach your class that they aren't even
• 32:32
  focused on that speaking up to even influencers like think
• 32:36
  about all the fashion influencers that are like called
• 32:39
  out to speak on particular issues.
• 32:40
  Like I know, like I've seen all of the I don't want to say drama
• 32:45
  because there's not really any drama, but they'll they'll show
• 32:47
  like how Paige the Wrens will, I guess, react to something like
• 32:52
  with dairy boy versus how like that Morgan Riddle with the
• 32:55
  tennis girlfriend wives thing will like speak out because
• 32:58
  Morgan's obviously very, very liberal.
• 33:00
  We don't know if Paige as liberal or conservative.
• 33:03
  Obviously she she's very patriotic.
• 33:05
  She loves, you know, her designs kind of show that with the
• 33:08
  American flags and and with Cape Cod and the camel, like really
• 33:11
  embracing like American tradition.
• 33:13
  It's just like, but why do they, why do either of them need to
• 33:15
  speak on this? Because they don't they, I
• 33:17
  literally follow them for their outfits and I follow them for
• 33:21
  their lifestyle content. I do not follow you to know if
• 33:24
  you voted for Kamala or for President Trump for that matter.
• 33:27
  I want to know how to coordinate my outfits better.
• 33:31
  Like it's like why are we? Why are we doing this to these
• 33:33
  people? It does not make sense to me.
• 33:36
  And it's just like you said, it's so ignorant of them to only
• 33:39
  be thinking about themselves. You need to be validating my
• 33:42
  feelings 24/7 and you need to be speaking.
• 33:45
  They don't even care if that's the thing.
• 33:48
  They don't care about the substance or the principle of
• 33:51
  you speaking out. They only care.
• 33:53
  Does does this person agree with me?
• 33:55
  Right. And if you don't control, it's a
• 33:58
  control tactic. It's literally emotional
• 34:00
  manipulation. They're just bat down and agree
• 34:03
  with me and you better do it or I'm going to form a mob with
• 34:06
  pitchforks and we're going to come and we're going to come
• 34:09
  with you around in a way. Our yoga balls and we're going
• 34:11
  to throw them at you. We're going to cancel all of our
• 34:14
  classes and our $250 a month membership.
• 34:17
  It's like these people, this is such first world problems.
• 34:20
  Like, truly. And it's such a privileged
• 34:22
  person problem because you're so right, like people who are just
• 34:26
  grinding, like a lot of people working minimum wage jobs, like
• 34:28
  this woman was working at the front desk.
• 34:29
  They're not paying her crazy amount of money.
• 34:31
  We know that. And people who are just
• 34:33
  literally trying to put food on the table for their families,
• 34:35
  like they don't have time to be like up to date for the most
• 34:38
  part. Like maybe some people do, but a
• 34:40
  lot of people like don't even even people who are not grinding
• 34:44
  out there, like some people just don't want to be like toxically
• 34:47
  like in politics 24/7. And so all of these people that
• 34:50
  are like demanding that you must comment on stuff, they come from
• 34:53
  such a privileged place that they sit at home and scroll on
• 34:56
  their phone all day about how they're going to be outraged
• 34:58
  about this. And it's almost coming from like
• 35:00
  an insecurity because I don't know, like for myself, like I
• 35:04
  grew up in Northern California, I went to Cal, I just grew up
• 35:06
  around people who really disagreed with me on everything.
• 35:09
  And so I feel like I'm just like used to it and it doesn't bother
• 35:12
  me like truly someone else's. Like in terms of voting, like I
• 35:16
  want to, you know, the whole point of like the podcast and,
• 35:19
  and getting people involved and hopefully changing parts and
• 35:21
  minds. But like on an individual basis,
• 35:23
  if someone disagrees with me, I just like, I don't really care
• 35:26
  that much. It doesn't affect me.
• 35:27
  Like I'm confident enough in my own beliefs that like I don't
• 35:30
  need to feel validated by of yours, but I think it's
• 35:32
  completely a control tactic. It was the same thing during
• 35:35
  COVID. That how they love to tell you,
• 35:36
  you have to wear your mask, you have to get this vaccine.
• 35:39
  They just love to like control everything you do.
• 35:41
  It gives them like this power trip and I just think you can.
• 35:47
  Signal the most you know. It is an arrogance that you
• 35:50
  believe that you are 100% right and everyone must agree with you
• 35:54
  or you are a bad person. And I think for us that come
• 35:56
  from the conservative side, I mean this, I can disagree with
• 35:59
  someone and can understand where they're coming from.
• 36:01
  Like I don't think because you're liberal, you are a bad
• 36:04
  person. I never believe that actually.
• 36:05
  I think that you have good intent and you are going about
• 36:08
  things a different way and you see things a different way and
• 36:10
  you have a different perspective.
• 36:11
  But I think it's important always to humble yourself and
• 36:14
  know maybe I'm not 100% correct or this is my perspective and
• 36:17
  why I believe I'm correct on this.
• 36:19
  But I've just, I don't believe in forcing your opinions on the
• 36:21
  others. I just, it's not everyone has a
• 36:23
  different perspective. They grow up with different
• 36:25
  values, they grow up with different ways, they have a
• 36:26
  different mindset. And like, that's what's great
• 36:28
  about America. You can have a difference of
• 36:30
  opinion and you shouldn't be mob and pitch.
• 36:33
  Forget the yoga studio if you are.
• 36:36
  And it wasn't even they were MAGA.
• 36:37
  It's just like, no, we're not going to involve politics in the
• 36:39
  core power class. And it's like.
• 36:41
  I know it's like, again, you said it like comes from such a
• 36:44
  privileged place. It reminds me of like Ellen
• 36:48
  DeGeneres recently. She called to boycott ICE while
• 36:52
  look like, and then like 2 hours later, she was looking for a new
• 36:55
  mansion. And it's like, obviously you're
• 36:57
  going to yeah, you're going to call to abolish ICE because
• 36:59
  you're living in a gated community in a, in a very big
• 37:02
  house that probably has like a lot of lockdown features,
• 37:05
  probably has, you know, private security at the front as well as
• 37:08
  the gate. Like, you're perfectly protected
• 37:10
  rules for the not for me, right? It's like, OK, but we, you know,
• 37:14
  when we actually want the government to help out, secure
• 37:17
  our borders, make sure that the people in this country are safe,
• 37:21
  you're going to completely disavow that.
• 37:22
  But you guys still, especially those at the Grammys as well,
• 37:26
  you know, they wanted the whole venue secure, but God forbid we
• 37:29
  secure our border the same way they secure that venue by
• 37:32
  checking ID's and making sure that they had security at the
• 37:34
  front. And then all the sudden
• 37:36
  President Trump's a bad guy. It's like you guys do the same
• 37:38
  thing in a different font and they just don't get it.
• 37:41
  Hypocrisy. It's exhausting.
• 37:44
  All right, you girls, we're headed into our our next
• 37:47
  section, non-toxic Advice, where we're answering all of your
• 37:49
  questions. As always, it's so hard to
• 37:52
  choose which questions to answer because you guys write and we
• 37:54
  love our Sincerely sisters. We love hearing from you.
• 37:57
  If you have not written a question yet or you want to
• 37:59
  write another one, make sure you go to
• 38:01
  sincerelyamerican.com/askaquestion. OK?
• 38:09
  For our first question, it's coming from Gigi from Los
• 38:13
  Angeles. Hi girlies, I love your show.
• 38:15
  I first heard about it when you're featured on Link Lawrence
• 38:18
  podcast. We love Link and I'm happy I
• 38:21
  came across it. Like Cameron said on one of the
• 38:23
  year episodes, I used to love Call Her Daddy, but as I've
• 38:25
  gotten older and became conservative, I hate the message
• 38:28
  it puts across. I also do not have a lot of
• 38:31
  conservative young friends being in a deep blue California, so
• 38:33
  it's refreshing to hear young voices talk about politics and
• 38:36
  pop culture. My question for you is about
• 38:38
  birth control. I know you said that you don't
• 38:41
  like to use it. I do plan on starting a family
• 38:43
  in a year or two with my partner, but what alternative do
• 38:46
  you use if you're not looking to get pregnant right now?
• 38:48
  This is a great question. This was going off of our last
• 38:51
  episode because we went into birth control and the bad
• 38:53
  effects. So, Cameron, do you want to go
• 38:55
  first? Yeah, well, she says partner.
• 38:57
  I don't know if they're married. I don't know.
• 38:59
  I'm going to just assume that you're married and that you're
• 39:02
  like. It sounds like it from it.
• 39:05
  Yeah. So I think in that situation,
• 39:08
  honestly, I believe that things happen on God's timing.
• 39:11
  I don't think it's always going to be on your timing.
• 39:13
  Nothing's going to be perfect. I think Jamie can really vouch
• 39:16
  for this. I mean, like you, you had your
• 39:18
  daughter very young. A lot of people want to like
• 39:20
  have everything all at once before, before they do this.
• 39:23
  And sometimes it's like the beauty of like growing with each
• 39:26
  other and, and going through those different life stages.
• 39:29
  And so I don't think that you're going to be able like as an
• 39:32
  adult to control everything that happens in your life down to
• 39:35
  like the actual timeline of it. I say when it happens, it
• 39:38
  happens. I know you know, some people
• 39:40
  with I'd like to wait and I know you know, I think she said you
• 39:44
  said two years. I forget what she said that two
• 39:47
  year span. I mean, I think that honestly,
• 39:53
  just like take the leap and have the children.
• 39:56
  I, I don't think, like, I think children are such a blessing.
• 39:59
  I know that it's going to probably motivate you to want to
• 40:03
  work harder, to want to be a better person and be in the best
• 40:06
  physical, spiritual, emotional state that you could possibly be
• 40:09
  in for yourself and your children.
• 40:11
  And so I don't think the problem there's a problem in.
• 40:15
  I don't want to say being a little bit reckless, but like
• 40:17
  just taking the leap and like see where it goes and see like
• 40:20
  what God's timing truly is. Because if it's, if it's not or
• 40:24
  sorry, if it's meant for you, it's never going to pass you up.
• 40:27
  It's always going to come to you.
• 40:28
  And so I would just pray about it and see like, what's what's
• 40:32
  the best option for you and your spouse?
• 40:34
  I do think like going off of what you said, I do think it
• 40:37
  loses magic when you over plan things.
• 40:39
  But that being said, as someone who had a baby very young and
• 40:42
  like right at the beginning of our marriage and everything
• 40:44
  there, there is kind of that season as we talk about season
• 40:46
  of life. Or maybe you do want to like
• 40:48
  have that time where you're just married and have it be the two
• 40:50
  of you. So I understand that we were
• 40:53
  talking about in the last episode about all the drawbacks
• 40:56
  of birth control. And something that really
• 40:57
  bothers me about birth control is that you are suppressing your
• 41:00
  natural cycle. And once you get off of birth
• 41:03
  control, a lot of women do a lot of cycle tracking.
• 41:05
  I know like natural cycles and there's a lot of companies that
• 41:07
  you can look at where you can take your temperature and you
• 41:11
  can. Yeah, exactly.
• 41:12
  And you can track your cycle. And that's not 100% foolproof, I
• 41:15
  will say, like coming out and saying this, do not count on
• 41:19
  that the same way that, you know, a birth control pill
• 41:22
  would. But it's a great way, you know,
• 41:24
  a lot of people like tracking your ovulation and these
• 41:27
  different cycles that you go through can actually just help
• 41:29
  you in life in general. Like I always know, like, oh,
• 41:31
  I'm in, you know, my moodial phase that I'm in a bad mood.
• 41:34
  I feel like a little bit bloated.
• 41:35
  And I think it's like really great as a woman to know about
• 41:38
  your cycles. And that's just helpful in
• 41:39
  general in life. But a lot of people can do that,
• 41:43
  that cycle tracking and that works very well for most people.
• 41:45
  So I would definitely recommend looking into that and doing it
• 41:48
  the natural way. And I think that's how God
• 41:51
  intended it. Like I, I just, that's why I
• 41:52
  don't like birth control. I just think it's like
• 41:54
  suppressing like your cycle and your normal physio, your
• 41:58
  Physiology. And I, I just would recommend
• 42:01
  going the natural route if you can.
• 42:03
  And that's why, you know, I also said in the last episode, it's
• 42:05
  important to wait for the right person because, you know, if you
• 42:08
  are going the natural route, there is a higher percentage
• 42:10
  chance for it that you might be pregnant.
• 42:12
  So you want to make sure that's with the person that you know,
• 42:14
  if that does happen, that you'll be with the person that you're
• 42:17
  meant to be with. And so it's very important.
• 42:18
  That's why sex is a very people treat it like it's, you know, a
• 42:24
  casual exchange and it's not it, it can bear life and a lot of
• 42:28
  times it will. So I'll be very careful about
• 42:30
  who you're engaging with and make sure it's the right person.
• 42:33
  But I would check out the natural cycles.
• 42:35
  OK, next question. We're doing like Valentine's Day
• 42:39
  questions because it's Valentine's Day.
• 42:41
  So I did all relationship questions for these Cam.
• 42:45
  So Lola from Utah is asking my boyfriend and I've been together
• 42:50
  for four years and know we want to get married.
• 42:52
  I am ready to get married because this covenant under God
• 42:55
  is important to me. But he says he wants to wait
• 42:57
  until he can buy a house and have the money to provide for a
• 43:00
  family. We currently live with his
• 43:02
  parents while we save. Is this a valid reason to wait?
• 43:05
  He doesn't. Another man will I.
• 43:07
  Will just put it simply that way because I've had boyfriends who
• 43:10
  I've I knew for four years, I dated for two, yadda yadda yadda
• 43:15
  and they weren't ready. And guess what?
• 43:17
  Like another man was and the love of my life and God, when
• 43:22
  you are just asking for one flower, God is going to send you
• 43:25
  a bouquet. So honestly, I don't want to
• 43:27
  devalue the relationship that you're in right now because I
• 43:30
  don't know much about you or your partner.
• 43:33
  But here's what I will say. He needs to lock it down if
• 43:36
  you're ready. I would 100% vocalize that to
• 43:39
  him. I agree.
• 43:40
  I think communication is really important.
• 43:41
  I also. Think men tend to move on a
• 43:43
  slower timeline because we talked about this, there is a
• 43:46
  biological clock on women. We want to, you know, have kids
• 43:49
  as early as we can for the most part.
• 43:51
  And so I do think that men don't sometimes have that same urgency
• 43:55
  that women do. And I think, you know, you're, I
• 43:58
  think what you said, Cameron, is very true.
• 44:00
  Men do have that provider mindset and want to feel like
• 44:02
  they are stable and ready to take on that role.
• 44:05
  But at the same time, that's something that you guys can do
• 44:07
  and grow together. And every statistic says that
• 44:10
  you make more money when you're married.
• 44:11
  So I would just have that communication.
• 44:14
  And, you know, I think also like a lot of young couples will like
• 44:16
  live with their parents at the beginning.
• 44:18
  I personally, and like I said, this is just my opinion.
• 44:21
  Everything works for other people, but I think it's
• 44:23
  important for you guys to get married and branch and get out
• 44:26
  of, you know, your parents house and get your own place together
• 44:29
  and, you know, branch out, take those wings, fly from the nest.
• 44:34
  I think that's an important step in life and you should have
• 44:36
  communication. And if he's not willing to do
• 44:39
  that, then I do think, you know, it needs to be, well, I'm going
• 44:42
  to, I'm going to move on to someone who will because that
• 44:46
  this is a common story of a lot of young women.
• 44:48
  They spend years and years of a guy, oh, we're going to get
• 44:50
  married. We're going to get married.
• 44:52
  And he never locks it down. So he gets comfortable.
• 44:55
  Yeah. I would be careful.
• 44:56
  I don't know your age in particular, but I don't think in
• 44:58
  my opinion, once you get past maybe the age of 2526, you
• 45:02
  shouldn't be in relationships that are going 3 plus years
• 45:05
  where there's no ring on your finger because that time is
• 45:08
  precious. And there's a lot of fish in the
• 45:10
  sea. And there's a lot of people who
• 45:12
  would love to lock it down with you.
• 45:14
  OK, last question, Eliza from Texas.
• 45:17
  I am struggling with my past and my past sexual sin.
• 45:21
  I strayed off the path in college and engaged in hookup
• 45:24
  culture. I have deep regrets about it.
• 45:26
  After college, I turned my life around, committed to celibacy
• 45:29
  and converted to Catholicism. I am currently in spiritual
• 45:32
  direction with a trusted Catholic priest.
• 45:35
  My main worry is that I won't be able to find a decent Catholic
• 45:38
  man to marry with my past. I have a lot of insecurity,
• 45:41
  especially when seeing treadmill content on social media on this
• 45:44
  topic. Do you think it's still possible
• 45:46
  to pursue marriage? Or could it be more worthwhile
• 45:49
  and virtuous to pursue another Catholic vocation like
• 45:52
  consecrated single life or becoming a religious sister?
• 45:55
  Parts of me so badly want to be a wife and a mother.
• 45:58
  Wow this is a great question. I'm really happy we're hitting
• 46:01
  on this. Yeah, this is.
• 46:02
  There's so much. Substance and so much to unpack
• 46:05
  here and I, I really want you to go over the the Catholicism
• 46:08
  aspect of that Jamie, because I know that you're Catholic, but I
• 46:11
  think just to just to touch on the beginning of, you know, what
• 46:16
  she was saying about kind of being insecure.
• 46:18
  I just like sense a lot of shame.
• 46:20
  I sense a lot of guilt and I want to make it known to Eliza,
• 46:24
  you are going to have those thoughts.
• 46:27
  A lot of people mess up early in their lives.
• 46:30
  You're going to feel shame. You're going to feel guilt
• 46:32
  because that just shows that God is working in you.
• 46:34
  And those are intrusive thoughts from the enemy.
• 46:37
  I kid you not. The enemy is going to try to get
• 46:40
  into your mind, have all these intrusive thoughts.
• 46:42
  It's the same with anxiety. I get like flight anxiety all
• 46:45
  the time, different forms of anxiety and it's constantly
• 46:48
  these intrusive thoughts of like, you're never going to be
• 46:51
  enough you, you're not that good on TV, whatever it may be.
• 46:54
  I, I have the same thing. A lot of people go through this,
• 46:57
  especially flight anxiety. I'll get on a plane and think
• 46:59
  the plane is going to like fall out of the sky and it's just
• 47:01
  simply not the case. You are obviously solutions
• 47:05
  oriented and you are working towards righteousness.
• 47:07
  You are working towards being the best version of yourself.
• 47:10
  And there is a guy out there who is going to appreciate that and
• 47:14
  love you for it. And so I don't want you to ever
• 47:17
  feel discouraged thinking that marriage is not in the cards for
• 47:21
  you just because simply because you made mistakes in life.
• 47:24
  Honestly, Eliza, I think that's you're almost better for it that
• 47:28
  you made those mistakes because then now, you know, think about
• 47:31
  if you want to be a mother someday, if you're an older
• 47:34
  sibling, if you have cousins, you're able to advocate against
• 47:38
  that type of behavior. You can be a voice against doing
• 47:41
  the things that you did and the experiences that you had and and
• 47:44
  show them the consequence of that.
• 47:46
  I think that actually gives you more wisdom to instill in people
• 47:49
  and obviously gives you a bigger testimony to tell.
• 47:53
  So I don't think this is anything to feel ashamed about,
• 47:56
  especially the fact that you're even owning up to it on a show
• 47:59
  with two conservative women with a with a very large audience.
• 48:02
  Just goes to show that you are accountable for your actions,
• 48:05
  that you want to fix the type of lifestyle that you may have had
• 48:09
  in the past. And so honestly, there are a lot
• 48:11
  of people out there that hide that version of themselves or
• 48:14
  still try to take a moral high ground.
• 48:16
  You're doing way better than the average individual, in my
• 48:18
  opinion. So we love you.
• 48:20
  We thank you for this question. I want to toss it over to Jamie
• 48:23
  to to kind of answer the last part of that too.
• 48:26
  I agree with everything you said, Cameron.
• 48:29
  I think that you are not alone. I think a lot of women have
• 48:33
  engaged in this. You are really not alone and
• 48:34
  you're not alone in general, just in life.
• 48:36
  Like there is not a single person, Cameron and I can speak
• 48:40
  on this, that we haven't done stuff we regret.
• 48:42
  Do you think we sit here, Oh my gosh, we've lived this perfect
• 48:45
  life? Absolutely not.
• 48:46
  We are all sinners at the end of the day, every single Christian.
• 48:50
  And that's what it's about. It's about owning up to your
• 48:53
  sin. I love that you're in
• 48:54
  conversation with a priest. That's the perfect way to go
• 48:56
  about this. You need religious counsel
• 48:58
  through this time. And I know that you spoke about
• 49:01
  going in particularly into the church and maybe becoming a nun.
• 49:04
  I think that's amazing if you want to do that.
• 49:06
  But it does sound like from your post to us that you are, you
• 49:09
  know, you really want to be a wife and a mother and you will
• 49:12
  be. I I know that you will be.
• 49:14
  And I think there's a lot of we're seeing right now on the
• 49:17
  right that there's been, you know, kind of more of this far
• 49:20
  right manosphere content that's definitely coming out that I
• 49:23
  think is in response to how left everything's been for so long.
• 49:27
  And those men have every right to speak about the type of woman
• 49:30
  that they want to have. And maybe you're not the right
• 49:32
  woman for them. And that's fine.
• 49:34
  I, I don't, I don't think that these people speak on every
• 49:36
  single man. I think that there will be, like
• 49:39
  Cameron said, a lot of men that appreciate your devotion and
• 49:43
  your honesty. And I cannot tell you how many
• 49:46
  people, I think so many, the reason why we're seeing so many
• 49:49
  women double down on abortion, on this feminist lifestyle is
• 49:53
  because they have had maybe an abortion or they've committed
• 49:57
  sexual sin where they've slept around and engaged in hookup
• 49:58
  culture. And instead of actually
• 50:00
  admitting that this isn't the correct pathway to be on, they
• 50:03
  doubled down and they continue to dig in deeper and deeper
• 50:06
  because that is the hardest thing to admit that you've done
• 50:08
  something wrong and that you're owning up to it.
• 50:11
  And I can't say this enough. Like I never, ever, ever want
• 50:15
  this podcast to ever feel like we're judgy.
• 50:17
  We're holier than now that Cameron and I have lived perfect
• 50:19
  lives. We're we almost just do this as
• 50:21
  a big sister. We've seen things, we've met
• 50:24
  people, we've, you know, we've been through a life and like,
• 50:26
  we, I think like we have a great vision for a conservative
• 50:29
  Christian life, but that doesn't mean that we're perfect.
• 50:31
  And I always want people to feel welcome here.
• 50:33
  And I, I really believe that people who have made mistakes
• 50:36
  have become the, have the best testimonies and become the best
• 50:40
  advocates against those mistakes, whether that be the
• 50:43
  abortion or the hookup culture. And so you're welcome here,
• 50:47
  anyone who's in the same situation, I want you to feel
• 50:49
  loved and welcome. And I think you're on an amazing
• 50:52
  path, and I'm so excited for you.
• 50:54
  And I think you have an amazing future and you're going to meet
• 50:56
  the best guy that's just going to love what you're doing with
• 50:58
  the church. And I think you're incredible.
• 51:01
  OK, going into Hot or Not, also Valentine's Day edition.
• 51:04
  So this is all kind of like dating trends, Cameron.
• 51:14
  OK hot or not meeting. A guy on a dating app.
• 51:19
  I mean hot in the sense of what? Like.
• 51:20
  Is this girl just wanting a date?
• 51:22
  Like, give me a hypothetical. I mean, I think for me, I would
• 51:26
  go not because yeah, I would go not as well.
• 51:28
  I think just. Organically, it's more fun.
• 51:31
  To meet somebody out in like a real setting.
• 51:33
  I mean, that's How I Met my husband.
• 51:35
  That's how you met your husband. And so I think there's just
• 51:38
  something more organic about that.
• 51:40
  Just it's just true authentic human connection in my opinion.
• 51:44
  So, but I mean, if you're just I do want to honestly acknowledge
• 51:49
  knowledge that modern day dating is very hard.
• 51:52
  Like I, I know some people who are just going through it right
• 51:56
  now and we always say Jamie, like we got on the lash choppers
• 52:01
  out of Nam when we got married. Like we understand it's tough
• 52:04
  out there. So I don't want to completely
• 52:06
  like disavow. If you just like want to go on a
• 52:09
  date, see how it goes. At least you're putting yourself
• 52:11
  out there. There are some people who just
• 52:12
  sit on their couch and think that that Mister right is going
• 52:15
  to come to them. And so I do understand, but
• 52:17
  everything in moderation and understand, ladies, that a lot
• 52:21
  of men that are on those apps aren't looking for long term
• 52:24
  relationships. And so just be prepared for
• 52:26
  that. You're going to get what you
• 52:28
  give and put into it. And so if you're putting in that
• 52:31
  same energy and wondering why, you know, you're not meeting
• 52:34
  your husband, that's, that's probably it.
• 52:36
  So I'm going to go not, I'm going to go not as well.
• 52:40
  And I think. People that do meet on dating
• 52:42
  apps and have successful marriages are the exception, not
• 52:45
  the rule. That's at least my opinion and
• 52:47
  my experience. Like I said there, there's
• 52:48
  definitely exceptions out there, but I think a lot of people will
• 52:51
  get on dating apps and then like expect that they're going to
• 52:53
  meet their husband on there. And I think it's way more
• 52:55
  important to get out there, join a church, join social functions,
• 52:59
  meet someone at work. I think is a better way to meet
• 53:01
  people. But like I said, not for me.
• 53:05
  But there's people that that will me.
• 53:08
  I'm just not a huge dating app person.
• 53:09
  I just I don't know, not my thing.
• 53:11
  OK, situation ships, hot or not? No, I'm going to go.
• 53:17
  I am just such like. A you know.
• 53:19
  Me, I don't like games. I actually find it way more hot
• 53:23
  to just be completely upfront with me.
• 53:25
  Like I I probably value transparency and loyalty over
• 53:30
  everything. Like if it's so situation ships
• 53:34
  where there's these games being played, you don't know where
• 53:38
  like the lines are drawn in the sand, you don't know where you
• 53:40
  stand with somebody. It's a waste of time in my
• 53:43
  opinion. I'm gonna go hot.
• 53:45
  Not for too long. I actually love a game.
• 53:48
  Like honestly. OK, it depends where you're at.
• 53:51
  In your early 20s, it's fun. I could see you though, like if
• 53:54
  you're in your 30s, you're like, hey, I'm looking to get married.
• 53:56
  Like I'm not up for these games. I could see how that could be
• 53:58
  very annoying. But in your early 20s, I think
• 54:01
  it's like kind of fun to play games.
• 54:03
  Like, I will not lie, I think Drake got me because he acted
• 54:07
  like he wasn't interested in me at all.
• 54:08
  And I'm like, how I know you like me.
• 54:10
  Like I was like, I know you like me and I don't know, I just like
• 54:12
  a little game. That's right you and so
• 54:15
  different because if. If Pat were to ever pretend he
• 54:17
  didn't like me or didn't text me, I would immediately get
• 54:20
  bored, be ADD and look for like on to the next What is it?
• 54:23
  Thank you next and just it annoyed me.
• 54:26
  It got into my head. I.
• 54:27
  Was like, what is going on here? I mean like he was smart time,
• 54:30
  you know? He was smart because the ground
• 54:33
  that I. Walk on.
• 54:34
  But not for too long, like if. If you have a guy that's like
• 54:37
  doing a situation like 3 months and it's time to move on, yeah,
• 54:41
  it's fun to have that kind of back and forth at the beginning.
• 54:44
  Does he like me? Where do we stand?
• 54:46
  But if it goes on too long or if you know it's a game or if you
• 54:50
  guys. Are like kind of both on the
• 54:51
  same page of like, OK, we're not trying to pursue, you know,
• 54:56
  marriage here. I, I want to go on some dates.
• 54:58
  I want to have like, have some fun, you know, I, I don't know,
• 55:02
  just like, I get it if you define those terms, but if
• 55:05
  you're just like waiting to see if that guy likes you or not,
• 55:07
  that's like actually helped her. It's almost a turn off for me if
• 55:10
  you're too. Forward at the beginning.
• 55:12
  I don't know how to explain it. No, I would be hard to get
• 55:15
  bombing. No, I love, love, love bombing.
• 55:18
  I feel like I deserve it. Like if you were going to offer
• 55:20
  me a Chanel bag on the first day, I'd be like, I'd get me
• 55:23
  that too. Like, I get it.
• 55:25
  You know that meme. I don't, I get it.
• 55:27
  You're like, of course. I'm being loved bombed.
• 55:29
  Yeah, of course I'm being love bomb like I would love bomb.
• 55:31
  Myself, I was actually going to do love bombing.
• 55:36
  Next. So you're hot with love bombing?
• 55:38
  Yeah, I'd go hot for. Sure.
• 55:41
  You know me, Jamie. You know I like that yeah, I
• 55:45
  know somebody is going to 100% shower me and like love,
• 55:49
  affection, gift giving, acts of service like filling every
• 55:53
  single bucket at the very beginning like give it here,
• 55:56
  bring it to me like I am obviously I like when you're
• 56:00
  hard to get at the. Beginning I don't know how to
• 56:02
  explain that not like into a relationship time for me.
• 56:05
  I don't know. I think that like I I just want
• 56:08
  that I know what you mean. We just have different
• 56:10
  personalities. That way, yeah, OK, letting.
• 56:14
  The guy text first, that is hot for me.
• 56:16
  I'm not going to text him first like letting the oh oh like.
• 56:21
  You're not responding until he texts you, like he has to
• 56:25
  instigate the text. Messages like I remember, like
• 56:28
  when Drake and I were dating, like I would never text him
• 56:31
  first. Like he had to like, text me,
• 56:35
  you know, like when you're texting and then like, the
• 56:37
  conversation ends and then it's like, I love when you're in like
• 56:42
  these situation ships at the beginning.
• 56:43
  You have like an ongoing, like, texting thing where you like
• 56:46
  with excuses to text each other. You know what I'm talking about.
• 56:49
  It's like fun, the games. But then too, yeah.
• 56:53
  Yeah, he did. That I remember, but.
• 56:56
  Then I feel like. Like I said, I would always be
• 56:58
  like, oh, he has to text me first.
• 57:00
  Like, well, I that's a guy's mindset.
• 57:01
  And then I never texted. Pat, I remember this like little
• 57:05
  monk stent, and then he thought I just like, wasn't interested,
• 57:08
  which I know guys don't get that.
• 57:10
  Yeah. No, but one I'm a, you know, I.
• 57:13
  Am the worst texter on the planet like I actually somebody
• 57:17
  you guys I have I will show you guys I let me read how many
• 57:21
  texts I don't have open Let's see who wins OK how?
• 57:25
  Many do you have not open mine, let me take it off do not
• 57:28
  deserve. 468, I beat you. I have 570.
• 57:32
  And then I have 296. Calls 127 or 128,000 emails
• 57:40
  unopened. I have 959 missed.
• 57:42
  Calls and then I have 40,000 missed emails like what?
• 57:46
  And then everybody like. But don't take it as a personal
• 57:49
  offense. Like I don't text anyone back
• 57:52
  like truly, unless it's like a meme or it's like a Booker, I
• 57:56
  have to text back right away. I just really don't do it.
• 57:59
  But yeah, so I don't know. I bet texting him first.
• 58:04
  I mean, sometimes I would get a little tipsy and text Pat or
• 58:08
  text, you know, before I was married, be a texter.
• 58:11
  I don't know. I don't really care if he texts
• 58:13
  first. I kind of like, I feel like I
• 58:15
  instigate a lot of like interesting behavior.
• 58:18
  So like I text hot like randomly.
• 58:22
  So I don't know, I'm going to go what was the hot or not him
• 58:26
  texting first or yeah, or not texting first.
• 58:29
  Yeah. Yeah, which one is guy text?
• 58:32
  First let is guy text. 1st. OK, I'm either or I'm either or
• 58:36
  like I don't care. Last one soft launching your
• 58:40
  boyfriend on IG. That's like when you'll like
• 58:43
  post like his hand. You already know.
• 58:47
  You already know. My answer, I don't think you
• 58:49
  should post a boyfriend. Like, I truly don't think hard
• 58:53
  launch it when he puts a ring on that finger.
• 58:55
  Like truly, I don't. I have posted boyfriends in the
• 58:59
  past and immediately regretted it because, one, everybody was
• 59:02
  up in my business wanting to know why we broke up, and two,
• 59:05
  he wasn't even my husband. So why was I even sharing, like,
• 59:09
  my profile, my brand? That's a hard one.
• 59:11
  Yeah, you're right. I don't really.
• 59:12
  Have a great advice on that? Like why would you suck?
• 59:16
  What? Why would you?
• 59:17
  Soft launch a boy what has he done for you Like truly he asked
• 59:21
  you to be his girlfriend. He didn't ask to spend the rest
• 59:23
  of your life with them. So no, don't launch that.
• 59:26
  I'm going to go also like your Instagram is for work for the.
• 59:29
  Most part. So that's different, yeah.
• 59:30
  But even a personal Instagram. Do you really?
• 59:33
  Want all your friends and family when you guys break.
• 59:35
  If you guys break up to be asking you why you broke up like
• 59:39
  that. Just dating for a year I feel
• 59:40
  like. That's normal to post your
• 59:42
  boyfriend if you've been dating for a while.
• 59:44
  I wouldn't post your boyfriend like if you've only been dating
• 59:46
  like a few months, but like if you've been dating like a year
• 59:49
  or so, you know, this is the one.
• 59:51
  Like I think like if you have like a personal Instagram, I
• 59:54
  think it's cute when you're in. College like cuz there's college
• 59:57
  formals there's like if you're dating an athlete, like if
• 1:00:00
  you're at like an athletic game, like it's kind of a part of the
• 1:00:03
  entire aesthetic, right? Like I totally get it there.
• 1:00:06
  But once you're like out of college, and maybe this doesn't
• 1:00:09
  apply to the people in college who are serious about getting
• 1:00:12
  married. I'm talking about like when
• 1:00:14
  you're out of college or you get.
• 1:00:16
  You get relationships a little bit after and you're like at a
• 1:00:20
  more serious age, maybe you want to settle down.
• 1:00:22
  I'm just going to go. Not like, not for that, you
• 1:00:25
  know? Yeah, I could see that.
• 1:00:27
  I could see that I'm. Going to go, I'm actually going
• 1:00:30
  to be opposite. I'm going to go hot.
• 1:00:31
  I think it's like, I don't know, I think like if you're not doing
• 1:00:35
  an Instagram for work, like I said, if you've been dating a
• 1:00:38
  little while, then soft launch them, get them on your
• 1:00:40
  Instagram. You have to be pretty serious
• 1:00:41
  though. I think it's funny when people
• 1:00:43
  break up and they go and delete their old photo.
• 1:00:44
  I feel like that's like a normal thing though.
• 1:00:46
  I don't think it's the end of the world.
• 1:00:47
  Been there, been there. When the block.
• 1:00:53
  Happens and then the OR the unfollowed blocks.
• 1:00:56
  Oh my gosh, every. Time I got a block.
• 1:00:59
  Sincerely sisters. Jamie got the block too.
• 1:01:02
  It was like we bestied so hard they wouldn't block Jamie.
• 1:01:08
  The best was like when someone blocked like the conservator as
• 1:01:12
  well. Yeah, you know your best friends
• 1:01:18
  when you are also getting the block.
• 1:01:20
  Yes 100% I love. That though, Oh my God, I think
• 1:01:24
  that's hilarious, OK. Headed into the last section, I
• 1:01:27
  feel like we've gone long in this episode.
• 1:01:28
  If you're still here with us propaganda that we're not
• 1:01:31
  falling for, propagate. I'm not falling for like kind
• 1:01:37
  of. On the trend of talking about
• 1:01:38
  Bad Bunny, the halftime show like embracing American
• 1:01:41
  tradition is divert the saying diversity is our strength.
• 1:01:46
  I honestly think that like assimilation is our strength.
• 1:01:50
  Having people come into this country who want to be here, who
• 1:01:53
  who share like minded values, who want to embrace American
• 1:01:58
  traditionalism, I think that that is what makes America
• 1:02:02
  great. And people who want to
• 1:02:04
  contribute to our economy be hard working individuals in
• 1:02:08
  society. Not this.
• 1:02:10
  These people who sit come here and don't even want to be here,
• 1:02:13
  who trash on our values, who don't want to speak our
• 1:02:16
  language, that is propaganda that I'm sincerely not falling
• 1:02:19
  for. Kind of on topic of the Bad
• 1:02:22
  Bunny halftime show, well, I think you bring up a good point
• 1:02:25
  because I. Don't know a single
• 1:02:27
  organization, country, group of people where you benefit if no
• 1:02:31
  one has anything in common, right.
• 1:02:33
  And I think like you said, I think I actually think it's a
• 1:02:36
  weakness if you have if you don't have anything in common,
• 1:02:38
  it's better if you're a united and you have a lot in common.
• 1:02:41
  You have a similar goal, I think in any type of thing when you're
• 1:02:45
  gathering people together, whether it's as big as a country
• 1:02:48
  or an organization like I don't I agree with that Military too,
• 1:02:53
  where it's. Like, you know, they lowered the
• 1:02:55
  fitness qualifications under the Biden administration and we
• 1:02:58
  raised those with Pete Eggseth. It's like, no, diversity is
• 1:03:01
  actually not our strength. That makes us a less lethal
• 1:03:04
  force, less people contributing to our economy.
• 1:03:06
  And people aren't being as productive as they could be.
• 1:03:10
  They're not speaking our language.
• 1:03:11
  We're having language barriers, you know, and it just like you
• 1:03:16
  said, it's not a cohesive society.
• 1:03:17
  We need people who are willing to assimilate and embrace our
• 1:03:21
  values here. Yeah, OK, so mine.
• 1:03:24
  Is on similar vein propaganda I'm not falling for because it
• 1:03:26
  goes off of the halftime show. God we were like really
• 1:03:29
  triggered by the halftime. But like, it just follows themes
• 1:03:34
  that we're seeing, which is if you guys saw like projected on
• 1:03:38
  the screen, it was the only thing more powerful than hate is
• 1:03:42
  love. And it's just such a cliche.
• 1:03:45
  And I will kind of get into it. One, it's a cliche.
• 1:03:47
  Two, it it's actually like a very like toxic pointed message
• 1:03:51
  because the whole point is like, if you don't get on board of
• 1:03:54
  mass immigration and bringing in people from all around the world
• 1:03:56
  that have, we have not vetted and could be criminals and harm
• 1:03:59
  our own people. If you don't get on board with
• 1:04:01
  that, if you don't get on board of trans and children, like then
• 1:04:03
  you hate people and, and we love people Like I, I don't, it's
• 1:04:07
  just like it's such a, it's supposed to be like a knife and
• 1:04:10
  people that just disagree with you politically and like we
• 1:04:14
  don't even need to defend ourselves.
• 1:04:15
  I don't hate anybody. I just, I'm like, no, I want law
• 1:04:18
  and order. I want to have a closed border.
• 1:04:20
  I want to have safety and security for our citizens.
• 1:04:22
  It makes common sense. And no, I don't believe in like
• 1:04:25
  trans and children and a lot of your far left stuff.
• 1:04:28
  I'm against it. Sorry.
• 1:04:29
  That doesn't make me a hateful person.
• 1:04:31
  I just disagree with you politically.
• 1:04:33
  And then the second part, the people who always, we see these
• 1:04:36
  cliches all the time, like love one another.
• 1:04:40
  All these liberals say, I'm like, you guys celebrated
• 1:04:42
  Charlie Kirk's death. And you guys are the people in
• 1:04:45
  Minneapolis riding every day going into our churches and
• 1:04:48
  screaming at people, going into the core power and screaming at
• 1:04:51
  people. I'm sorry.
• 1:04:52
  I'm just going to be honest. Like I don't like putting
• 1:04:54
  everybody in a basket. But in general, the leftist,
• 1:04:57
  most intolerant and hateful group of people I've ever met in
• 1:04:59
  my entire life. They call people Nazis,
• 1:05:02
  fascists. If you disagree with them,
• 1:05:04
  they're coming after you online and like, very toxic.
• 1:05:08
  So I think you need to be saying that to yourself because truly,
• 1:05:12
  if you live by that message that you are for loving everyone,
• 1:05:15
  then you would be probably more of an apolitical person.
• 1:05:19
  That's like, Oh yeah, I do. I love people despite their
• 1:05:22
  political beliefs, despite their backgrounds, despite this, I'm
• 1:05:24
  going to choose to love everybody.
• 1:05:26
  And I do think actually more conservatives live by that
• 1:05:29
  because I don't, I think like, at least the conservatives I
• 1:05:32
  hang out with, like, we wouldn't, you know, be toxic and
• 1:05:35
  cut someone out of our lives because they disagree with us
• 1:05:37
  politically. And I think we're understanding
• 1:05:39
  of other people's differences of belief way more.
• 1:05:42
  And so I actually think in general, conservatives and
• 1:05:44
  Christians tend to live by that. And they always equate
• 1:05:47
  disagreeing with something with hate.
• 1:05:49
  Like I said, it's like, just because I don't agree with your
• 1:05:52
  policies doesn't mean I hate people.
• 1:05:55
  I just find that message like it's supposed to be toxic.
• 1:05:58
  The whole, like I said, this whole halftime show was supposed
• 1:06:00
  to be just like an F you to conservative leaning people.
• 1:06:04
  And it's like, Congrats, like what did you contribute just
• 1:06:09
  more toxicity while you were preaching your fake love Like
• 1:06:12
  and it's just like it's like the when like the NFL did like the
• 1:06:15
  end racism. What racism is ended by right?
• 1:06:18
  Like what person's like, oh, I'm racist.
• 1:06:20
  I've read this on the back of the helmet.
• 1:06:21
  Nevermind. Like it's just so dumb.
• 1:06:24
  Like how you bring people together is not by doing toxic
• 1:06:28
  hyper political messaging. It's instead of bringing people
• 1:06:31
  into the fold and saying, hey, we might disagree on these
• 1:06:34
  issues and we can have a civil debate, but we're not going to
• 1:06:36
  shoot people. We're not going to attack you
• 1:06:39
  violently. We're not going to harass you
• 1:06:40
  online. It's understanding each other's
• 1:06:42
  differences and then trying to maybe find something in the
• 1:06:44
  middle and a compromise or not even find that compromise.
• 1:06:47
  But being like, I can love you as my neighbor, even though you
• 1:06:50
  might disagree with me politically.
• 1:06:51
  That is true love. I agree.
• 1:06:54
  I think you just. Might drop your.
• 1:06:56
  You said it all. OK?
• 1:06:58
  What propaganda? Are you falling for Cameron?
• 1:07:01
  This is on a whole other topic. Yeah, mine is 2.
• 1:07:04
  So stupid for. Saying this after we.
• 1:07:06
  Just went on a political rant, but propaganda I'm not or
• 1:07:10
  propaganda that I am falling for is pink chores versus blue
• 1:07:15
  chores. And I know that's like so random
• 1:07:17
  but I truly believe in this. This is the way God intended it
• 1:07:20
  for it to be. When I tell you I have not taken
• 1:07:23
  the trash out, I feel like my entire marriage.
• 1:07:26
  I actually did it for the first time the other day.
• 1:07:28
  I threw away this fugly beanbag that Pat bought off of Amazon
• 1:07:33
  and I had to get rid of it because I had to put in this
• 1:07:36
  inflatable like air mattress for my sister and her friend to like
• 1:07:40
  sleeping in the in the den. But we had a bean bag there.
• 1:07:44
  But honestly, like I and I think that laundry is like a pink
• 1:07:47
  chore. I think like separating the
• 1:07:49
  colors to the whites, like men wouldn't remember how to do
• 1:07:53
  that. I feel like I just feel like
• 1:07:54
  that's a pink chore. There are just different things
• 1:07:57
  where I feel like women, obviously the caretakers, more
• 1:08:00
  nurturing, like whenever, like anybody's sick in the household,
• 1:08:03
  I feel like I'm the one like getting the medicine ready, like
• 1:08:06
  making the teas, making soup, like making sure that we're
• 1:08:10
  like, I, I don't know, I, and then there are things that my
• 1:08:13
  husband does, like fixing the cable and like making sure like
• 1:08:17
  everything's connected with our Wi-Fi and like things that I
• 1:08:20
  wouldn't necessarily be as in tune with.
• 1:08:23
  So that's some propaganda I am falling for.
• 1:08:25
  I will 100% bow down when it comes to not doing.
• 1:08:30
  I do not want to do a blue chore ever ever.
• 1:08:33
  I completely agree. So.
• 1:08:35
  I completely agree with. All of that.
• 1:08:37
  Mine is similar mine is not serious.
• 1:08:39
  Now I'm going Maha mom the propaganda that I am falling for
• 1:08:43
  recently I am loving. I've been doing like for our
• 1:08:45
  family, like low carb meals and they're just, and this is coming
• 1:08:50
  from someone who loves bread. I am big into carbs, but
• 1:08:53
  especially for dinner, I just feel like if you're doing like
• 1:08:56
  more of a protein and vegetable heavy dinner, it just makes you
• 1:08:59
  feel way better. So recently I've been doing
• 1:09:01
  these ground beef bowls. Oh my gosh.
• 1:09:03
  And sisters, you guys need to try this recipe.
• 1:09:04
  It's ground beef with like paprika and onion powder
• 1:09:07
  seasoning and chili powder. And then you do the same
• 1:09:10
  seasoning and you put sweet potato and broccoli in the oven
• 1:09:14
  and you roast that. And then also you chop up an
• 1:09:17
  onion for your ground beef. So you cook that separately, you
• 1:09:19
  put it onto a bowl and you put some avocado in there.
• 1:09:21
  Oh my gosh, it is so good. High protein, no carbs, all
• 1:09:25
  clean. It gets your veggies in.
• 1:09:27
  Sweet potato is something I've actually come to love.
• 1:09:29
  Like it's a really good vegetable and it's so good for
• 1:09:31
  you and my daughter loves it. And so it's great for kids as
• 1:09:35
  well. I call it like my power bowl.
• 1:09:36
  And then another thing that I've been loving recently is
• 1:09:38
  spaghetti squash, which was like a huge thing when I was in high
• 1:09:41
  school, but I am bringing that back.
• 1:09:43
  I did like spaghetti Bolognese and I did with the spaghetti
• 1:09:45
  squash where you go in with the fork and obviously it doesn't
• 1:09:48
  taste exactly like spaghetti, but it tastes so good.
• 1:09:50
  So you guys should try that. We want to get the sincerely
• 1:09:53
  sisters all healthy and living their best lives.
• 1:09:56
  All right, girls, that is this was a long episode today.
• 1:10:00
  If you've hung in there, thank you for watching the whole
• 1:10:03
  thing. We always love to hear from you
• 1:10:05
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• 1:10:07
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• 1:10:09
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• 1:10:12
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• 1:10:15
  area, make sure that you register for my event on
• 1:10:17
  February 27th with the Virginia Council.
• 1:10:19
  I'm super excited for that. And anything else.
• 1:10:22
  Cam. Nope, that's it.
• 1:10:24
  We hope to see you. To support Jamie and thank you
• 1:10:27
  for watching. Thank you girls.
• 1:10:29
  Bye.