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- 0:01Speaker 1: Wake, Wake, Wait, thats up on the program you Alarm
- 0:04Speaker 1: the power one oh five point he one on iHeartRadio.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Good morning Usa.
- 0:09Speaker 3: Yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:11Speaker 3: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:12Speaker 3: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo Yo.
- 0:15Speaker 4: Yes is down here, Yes Charlamagne Nakahan, Peace to the
- 0:17Speaker 4: planet is Thursday.
- 0:20Speaker 1: How y'all feel out there? I feel blessed, Black and
- 0:22Speaker 1: Holly Favorite. Happy to be here another day to serve
- 0:25Speaker 1: our beautiful listeners. Good morning, Good morning. How you feeling, man?
- 0:28Speaker 1: I feel fantastic. I feel great. God woke me up
- 0:30Speaker 1: this morning. I had an amazing dream like that. I
- 0:32Speaker 1: had an amazing couple of dream yesterday because you know,
- 0:34Speaker 1: I'm old. Was I had to take a nap because
- 0:35Speaker 1: I had things to do yesterday afternoon.
- 0:37Speaker 2: So was that any of them?
- 0:38Speaker 5: No, you weren't. Actually none of these. But I did
- 0:41Speaker 5: have a couple of dreams.
- 0:42Speaker 1: I had a dream that I had a h what
- 0:47Speaker 1: an Asian extraterrestrial interior designer?
- 0:51Speaker 2: Okay, what was he designing?
- 0:53Speaker 5: It was a young lady Okay.
- 0:54Speaker 1: She had on a black wool cap and like a
- 0:58Speaker 1: black baggy black sweatshirt, baggy black sweatpants, and she was
- 1:01Speaker 1: talking like, uh, you've seen the Incredibles before. Remember the
- 1:05Speaker 1: woman that was making the costumes in the Incredibles the suits?
- 1:08Speaker 1: What was her name, edd the molde ed the mod
- 1:10Speaker 1: I think her name was. She was talking like her. Okay, yes,
- 1:13Speaker 1: I don't know what that meant. And then I had
- 1:15Speaker 1: another dream that a good friend of mine found God.
- 1:18Speaker 1: So I woke up this morning and text.
- 1:20Speaker 2: Her that, okay, yes, right, good on it. I went
- 1:23Speaker 2: to a tie restaurant. You have an a tie food?
- 1:25Speaker 2: You like ta food? I went to a tie restaurant.
- 1:29Speaker 1: What's wrong with you man? Trying to make everything so
- 1:31Speaker 1: stupid all the time? Okay, yes, you had to eye food.
- 1:33Speaker 1: I liked to, let me tell you. So I went
- 1:35Speaker 1: to this place.
- 1:36Speaker 4: Well, actually, when Madison was young, we used to go
- 1:38Speaker 4: to this this tire restaurant in Jersey, and then it
- 1:40Speaker 4: closed down. And I found out that the owner used
- 1:43Speaker 4: to work at all these restaurants. He had all these restaurants,
- 1:45Speaker 4: and he was Barack Obama chef. He retired and his
- 1:49Speaker 4: daughter got married to a Dominican and they reopened another stop.
- 1:54Speaker 4: So now it's called Ti Chef Junior. So he gave
- 1:56Speaker 4: all the recipes to his son in law.
- 1:58Speaker 5: I thought Obama Chef died or something like that, but he.
- 2:01Speaker 4: Was one of the chefs that cooked for Barack Obama.
- 2:03Speaker 4: So yeah, so I went to his new restaurant. It's
- 2:05Speaker 4: called Ti Chef Junior Elton Jersey, and.
- 2:07Speaker 5: The Obama never takes that man food whatever in life.
- 2:10Speaker 2: They got pictures of everything with each other. So I
- 2:12Speaker 2: don't know. You hate tie, I hate tie tie? All right,
- 2:15Speaker 2: ty was good?
- 2:16Speaker 1: Okay, congratulations, thank you man, thank you, you know, but
- 2:19Speaker 1: nothing congratulations.
- 2:21Speaker 2: I ain't had tied in a minute, all.
- 2:22Speaker 4: Right, anyway, See, you would make everything funny. Anyway, I'm
- 2:26Speaker 4: thinking what we do, what happened?
- 2:28Speaker 1: I can't even have a conversation about time food, about
- 2:30Speaker 1: this guy.
- 2:30Speaker 5: This guy is something else, no me, that's you Jesus Christ.
- 2:34Speaker 4: But we got a special guest joining us this morning,
- 2:36Speaker 4: doctor Joel a Tudman.
- 2:37Speaker 2: He was joining us. He has a new book.
- 2:39Speaker 1: Yes, he has a pastor and the other a new
- 2:40Speaker 1: book called The Fight to find Yourself, Moving from uncertain
- 2:43Speaker 1: the Unstoppable. If you ever tune in the Potter's House,
- 2:46Speaker 1: you remember doctor Joe used to appreciate Potter's house, right, yes,
- 2:51Speaker 1: so we'll talk to him in a little He's fantastic.
- 2:54Speaker 4: Jess is gonna be fixing somebody's mess. And of course
- 2:55Speaker 4: we got front page news with Mimi. So don't go anywhere.
- 2:58Speaker 4: Wake your glass up.
- 2:59Speaker 2: I had a fish an Instagram shopper too.
- 3:01Speaker 6: You hit me.
- 3:02Speaker 1: My wife's trying to tell me about instagram shopping. For
- 3:05Speaker 1: so long, I'll be buying all types of stuff off
- 3:07Speaker 1: Timu and Havy coof andy and sweats, all them comfortable,
- 3:11Speaker 1: affordable fits.
- 3:12Speaker 4: I tried to buy one one time, and one pocket
- 3:14Speaker 4: was hided in the other pocket.
- 3:16Speaker 2: It was hiding. You got see.
- 3:18Speaker 1: I know you ain't never grew up off coffee shows,
- 3:20Speaker 1: so you just appreciate that, embrace the treaty like a
- 3:21Speaker 1: Gordon Guard trail.
- 3:22Speaker 2: I don't want to know what matter like all of that.
- 3:24Speaker 5: It don't matter, like has gotta be symmetry.
- 3:26Speaker 2: I don't a sleeve long than the other way, and I.
- 3:28Speaker 5: Had a pocket on my ankle yesterday. I don't care.
- 3:32Speaker 5: It feels comfortable and it's affordable. I don't care.
- 3:34Speaker 2: All right, Well, good morning everybody. We are the breakfast club.
- 3:37Speaker 4: Let's get in some front page news now on Thursday
- 3:40Speaker 4: Nights football. The Buffalo Bills play the Texas tonight at
- 3:44Speaker 4: eight point fifteen.
- 3:45Speaker 2: Right, what's up to me?
- 3:47Speaker 7: Good morning in Big Good Morning's Charlaagne, How y'all doing?
- 3:50Speaker 5: Bless Black and Holly Favorite? How are you good?
- 3:52Speaker 8: I'm good? Thank you?
- 3:54Speaker 9: All Right?
- 3:54Speaker 7: Well, we started this morning in Washington, where President Trump
- 3:57Speaker 7: has now signed the Epstein Files Transparency Act into law,
- 4:01Speaker 7: officially ordering the Justice Department to release all unclassified records
- 4:05Speaker 7: connected to Jeffrey Epstein. It's a stunning reversal from the President,
- 4:08Speaker 7: who just days ago opposed releasing the files. Now, Congress
- 4:12Speaker 7: they passed the bill with overwhelming bipartisan support four hundred
- 4:16Speaker 7: and twenty seven to one in the House and unanimously
- 4:19Speaker 7: in the Senate before sending it to the White House
- 4:21Speaker 7: on Tuesday night. Now, under the new law, Attorney General
- 4:24Speaker 7: Pambondi has thirty days to publish all unclassified DLJ and
- 4:29Speaker 7: FBI documents, internal communications, and investigative materials related to Epstein,
- 4:34Speaker 7: but it's unclear how much of that information will actually
- 4:37Speaker 7: become public. The law includes several carve outs that allow
- 4:41Speaker 7: the Justice Department to redact or withhold information that could
- 4:45Speaker 7: reveal victim's identities, exposed, personal or medical information, contain child
- 4:49Speaker 7: sexual abuse material, or interfere with an active investigation, and
- 4:54Speaker 7: that active investigation clause may now be a major factor.
- 4:58Speaker 7: Just days before signing the bill, President Trump announced on
- 5:00Speaker 7: true Social that he was ordering Bondi to launch a
- 5:03Speaker 7: new federal investigation into Epstein's relations with several high profile
- 5:07Speaker 7: figures including Bill Clinton, Larry Summers, Reed Hoffman, JP, Morgan Chase,
- 5:12Speaker 7: among many others, and other institutions. Now hours later, Bondi
- 5:16Speaker 7: confirmed that she would open that investigation. This morning, Republican
- 5:20Speaker 7: Congressman Tom Massey sounding the alarm, saying he fears the
- 5:24Speaker 7: President could use this new investigation delay to avoid releasing
- 5:28Speaker 7: the files altogether.
- 5:30Speaker 8: Let's listen to what he had to say.
- 5:32Speaker 10: I'm further going to try and use a provision of
- 5:34Speaker 10: the law that allows you not to release these materials.
- 5:38Speaker 2: If they're subject of an ongoing investigation. Did these files implicate.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Billionaires and friends of hand of his and political donors
- 5:51Speaker 1: that he's trying to protect?
- 5:52Speaker 9: And Epstein also had close ties.
- 5:54Speaker 7: To our own intelligence agencies and his Ruse intelligence agency.
- 5:58Speaker 2: That's why there's so much effort in trying to stop this.
- 6:04Speaker 7: Yes, And at a press conference yesterday, Bondi was asked
- 6:07Speaker 7: directly whether this investigation would block or slow down the
- 6:10Speaker 7: release of those files.
- 6:12Speaker 8: Let's listen to that exchange as.
- 6:14Speaker 7: An an investigation by the Southern District of New York
- 6:17Speaker 7: US Attorney prevent the Department from releasing all of the
- 6:20Speaker 7: remaining files.
- 6:21Speaker 11: So we have released thirty three thousand, over thirty three
- 6:24Speaker 11: thousand Epstein documents to the Hill, and we'll continue to
- 6:29Speaker 11: follow the law and to have maximum transparency. Also, we
- 6:34Speaker 11: will always encourage all victims to come forward.
- 6:37Speaker 12: Do you mean that you will provide all the files
- 6:40Speaker 12: by thirty days?
- 6:42Speaker 9: We will follow the law.
- 6:43Speaker 11: The law passed both chambers, but we will continue to
- 6:47Speaker 11: follow the law again while protecting victims but also providing
- 6:52Speaker 11: maximum transparency.
- 6:54Speaker 1: It was going to be released as probably a big
- 6:56Speaker 1: redacted nothing burger that that will only show Trump's op
- 7:00Speaker 1: like Clinton and Hoffman and some is all the people
- 7:02Speaker 1: he already named it they done for. But it's not
- 7:05Speaker 1: going to point the finger at Trump or any of
- 7:06Speaker 1: his allies. But I will say for any Republicans, any
- 7:09Speaker 1: traditional conservatives that want to take that party back, now
- 7:11Speaker 1: is your time to shine because y'all would know the truth.
- 7:13Speaker 2: So if there's something you can use.
- 7:14Speaker 1: In these files to take your party back from MAGA,
- 7:17Speaker 1: now is your time.
- 7:18Speaker 4: But anything under that investigation can't be shown. So if
- 7:22Speaker 4: he just said he's investigating those individuals, you can't see
- 7:25Speaker 4: none of those files. So it's like, what are you opening?
- 7:27Speaker 4: It's nothing like it's nothing open but envy.
- 7:30Speaker 8: To your point.
- 7:31Speaker 7: So, under the law, if the DLJ withholds any information
- 7:35Speaker 7: because of the investigation, they have to they must publicly
- 7:39Speaker 7: explain why within fifteen days. So I mean they can
- 7:42Speaker 7: give any explanation, but within fifteen days, if they're going
- 7:44Speaker 7: to withhold anything, they have to give a public statement
- 7:47Speaker 7: or explanation as to why they are withholding those in
- 7:51Speaker 7: fat information. So we'll see if that helps out with
- 7:55Speaker 7: us finding out anything. But even though that bill is
- 7:58Speaker 7: signed in the thirty day countdown has begun, what the public,
- 8:00Speaker 7: as you guys were saying, will actually see and how
- 8:03Speaker 7: much could be hidden under the banner of active investigation
- 8:05Speaker 7: remains to be seen.
- 8:06Speaker 1: And also, since when does this administration follow the law?
- 8:09Speaker 1: Does this administration do whatever they say, they're told, whatever
- 8:15Speaker 1: they're told to do, they don't do that?
- 8:16Speaker 2: They don't follow the rules. My point exactly.
- 8:19Speaker 7: Yeah, So we'll see and an investigation development that can
- 8:24Speaker 7: completely unravel the government's case against James Comy and the
- 8:27Speaker 7: Justice Department admitting in court yesterday that the indictment against
- 8:31Speaker 7: federal against former FBI director James Komy it was never
- 8:35Speaker 7: presented to a full grand jury, which is a basic
- 8:37Speaker 7: requirement under the law, instead interim US Attorney General or
- 8:41Speaker 7: US Attorney Lindsay Halligan, who had no prosecutorial experience. You
- 8:45Speaker 7: guys will remember that before taking this role, had only
- 8:48Speaker 7: the grand jury four person assigned the indictment that Comee's
- 8:51Speaker 7: lawyers say that mistake alone could should wipe out the
- 8:55Speaker 7: case because without a proper grand jury vote, the vote
- 8:58Speaker 7: the case is not bound and the legal deadline to
- 9:01Speaker 7: charge him has already passed. And this isn't the only
- 9:04Speaker 7: Trump administration case targeting a political rival that is raising questions.
- 9:08Speaker 7: In a separate filing, Fanny May's own fraud investigators say
- 9:12Speaker 7: that they found no clear evidence that New York Attorney
- 9:14Speaker 7: General Letitia James committed mortgage fraud, even though she's now
- 9:18Speaker 7: facing charges.
- 9:19Speaker 8: Her attorneys say this case.
- 9:20Speaker 7: Only move forward because of a Trump ally he pushed
- 9:23Speaker 7: for it, and after Attorney General Pambondi put Halligan in
- 9:26Speaker 7: charge of the original after the original prosecutor refused to
- 9:29Speaker 7: bring the case. So we'll continue to watch what happens
- 9:32Speaker 7: in both of those cases.
- 9:33Speaker 2: All right, well that is front page news.
- 9:35Speaker 9: Thank you, Mimi, of course.
- 9:37Speaker 4: Now everybody else, get it off your chest. Eight hundred
- 9:40Speaker 4: five eight five one oh five one. If you need
- 9:42Speaker 4: to vent, phone lines wide open again. Eight hundred five
- 9:45Speaker 4: eight five one oh five one. Call us up right now.
- 9:48Speaker 4: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, dog.
- 9:51Speaker 2: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 9:53Speaker 6: She call it eight hundred five eight five one five
- 9:55Speaker 6: to one. We want to hear from you on the
- 9:57Speaker 6: breakfast glove.
- 10:00Speaker 11: On.
- 10:00Speaker 2: Who's this?
- 10:01Speaker 10: What's up?
- 10:01Speaker 1: Man?
- 10:01Speaker 10: My name is Robo from North Carolina.
- 10:03Speaker 2: Bro, what's up Romeo? How you doing? My brother?
- 10:06Speaker 12: I'm right man, I want to speak my mind this wanting.
- 10:08Speaker 10: Then I got fired for no reason because, oh, I
- 10:12Speaker 10: guess my boss decided to take a younger guy's advice
- 10:15Speaker 10: and he lied on me and said I was in
- 10:17Speaker 10: the bathroom of the apartment store smoking a box of cigarette.
- 10:21Speaker 2: A whole box. How you smoke a whole box? Of cigarette.
- 10:25Speaker 10: I don't even smoke, though, Charley, I.
- 10:27Speaker 2: Believe you because smoking is nasty.
- 10:29Speaker 10: I don't.
- 10:29Speaker 2: Smoking is disgusted. Have you smoking some weed or something?
- 10:32Speaker 2: That's a different story, but just a cigarette. I'm with you.
- 10:35Speaker 10: That's right, man. They didn't check the cameras another man.
- 10:38Speaker 10: They just let me go. Man, and I got two kids.
- 10:40Speaker 4: Bro, ain't you I might have to go to human
- 10:42Speaker 4: resources if they got a human resource department, and you
- 10:44Speaker 4: might have to go see an attorney.
- 10:45Speaker 2: Brother.
- 10:46Speaker 10: Okay, it's in the rocking plug in my cash up.
- 10:49Speaker 2: But you just got fired. Your times ain't that hard?
- 10:52Speaker 1: Now?
- 10:52Speaker 2: You just got fired win about two weeks ago?
- 10:55Speaker 5: Oh okay, all right, we'll go ahead. Your cash that
- 10:57Speaker 5: boat all my cash up, dollar time.
- 10:59Speaker 10: G u A see oh f l y.
- 11:01Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna tell you something.
- 11:02Speaker 1: Though, people usually put money in cash aff for very
- 11:06Speaker 1: compelling stories. I just got firing story for you know,
- 11:09Speaker 1: because you smoking cigarettes. That's not compelling in no way,
- 11:11Speaker 1: shape or form. It's a lot of people that just
- 11:13Speaker 1: lost their job, brother, over the last couple of weeks.
- 11:15Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm sorry to here, but don't you got another
- 11:16Speaker 9: check coming?
- 11:17Speaker 10: Still?
- 11:17Speaker 2: They came already two weeks is up.
- 11:19Speaker 6: Probably just got it.
- 11:21Speaker 1: Well, enjoy the holiday the best you can, my brother,
- 11:23Speaker 1: sorry brother, better man.
- 11:25Speaker 5: Much love, Yes, sir, get it off your chest.
- 11:27Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
- 11:29Speaker 2: you need the vin, call us up right now. It's
- 11:31Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Ray right ray yo, Charlae
- 11:35Speaker 2: mag yafy what up are we lost? This is your
- 11:37Speaker 2: time to get it off your chest.
- 11:39Speaker 10: I got an indoor pool.
- 11:41Speaker 2: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
- 11:43Speaker 2: Get on the.
- 11:43Speaker 10: Phone right now here, tell you what it is.
- 11:45Speaker 6: We lie. Hello, who's this?
- 11:48Speaker 10: Yeah?
- 11:48Speaker 2: This is Trevor, Trevor, Trevor. Off your chest, Trevor.
- 11:53Speaker 12: Oh yeah, like my thing is. You know, I want
- 11:55Speaker 12: to put it out there, mag of, mag of.
- 11:57Speaker 10: We don't have no fracture. It's a maga. It's no fracture.
- 12:01Speaker 10: That's a false narrative.
- 12:02Speaker 2: Oh maga, yes, sar okay all day.
- 12:06Speaker 12: Yeah, so it's no fraction in the Maga party. And
- 12:10Speaker 12: also I want to state this because you know, I
- 12:12Speaker 12: sit back and listen and I heard this this, this,
- 12:15Speaker 12: this thing about Trump, this.
- 12:17Speaker 10: Trump that, But I want to say, like this, try
- 12:19Speaker 10: the man.
- 12:20Speaker 2: I don't care, bro, you know, no.
- 12:23Speaker 12: No, I want to say that. Remember when Joe Baden
- 12:27Speaker 12: told you at the end of that podcast, if you
- 12:30Speaker 12: don't vote for.
- 12:30Speaker 10: Him, you ain't black.
- 12:32Speaker 2: Yes, I do. That's some of the.
- 12:33Speaker 12: Most disrespectful stuff that you want to talk about white
- 12:37Speaker 12: people racist. That's one of the most racist things that
- 12:40Speaker 12: an old white man can tell a black man. If
- 12:43Speaker 12: you don't vote for me, you ain't black.
- 12:47Speaker 10: Trump.
- 12:48Speaker 12: Trump is one of the best presidents outside of Abraham
- 12:51Speaker 12: Lincoln that's.
- 12:52Speaker 2: In that chair.
- 12:53Speaker 10: You know, I mean this false. I'm not this false narrative.
- 12:56Speaker 2: I'm not about to.
- 13:00Speaker 12: But but like you, remember when Joe Biden told you.
- 13:02Speaker 2: That, right I was sitting there.
- 13:03Speaker 12: He said to me, yes, he said nothing negative, but
- 13:08Speaker 12: he said nothing negative about.
- 13:10Speaker 2: That about who about Joe Biden.
- 13:12Speaker 12: Yeah, the most disrespectful stuff. And he told you that
- 13:15Speaker 12: to your face on your podcast, if you don't vote him.
- 13:17Speaker 12: So basically he's.
- 13:18Speaker 2: Saying, but that's that's not true.
- 13:20Speaker 12: You know where you're supposed to stand as a black man.
- 13:23Speaker 1: That what he told you, Yes and yes, And as
- 13:26Speaker 1: I told him in that moment, you know, it's not
- 13:28Speaker 1: about me being black. It's about me wanting something from
- 13:30Speaker 1: my people. So I mean that was that was the comment.
- 13:34Speaker 12: But had Trump but but had Trump said something like that,
- 13:37Speaker 12: it would have exploded. But that but outside but outside
- 13:43Speaker 12: of that, I would have said to that news lady,
- 13:47Speaker 12: I want to get to that news report the Yeah,
- 13:51Speaker 12: she got to report the real storage like like she
- 13:56Speaker 12: got a narrative, like like she reported and she got
- 13:59Speaker 12: that little narrative, that negative narrative about the King, about
- 14:04Speaker 12: the don you know my brother my brother.
- 14:08Speaker 1: No, no, no, don't hang up on it. This is a
- 14:09Speaker 1: good conversation. There is no way that you could I've.
- 14:13Speaker 12: Been knowing about Trump. I've been knowing about Trump since
- 14:15Speaker 12: the eighties. Man, I come up in the inner city
- 14:18Speaker 12: all my life. I've been knowing about Trump since the
- 14:20Speaker 12: eighties from Richmond.
- 14:21Speaker 1: If you knew about Trump since the eighties, you'd have
- 14:23Speaker 1: a whole anyway, I'm not even have a conversation.
- 14:25Speaker 2: This is what I will say.
- 14:26Speaker 1: It's impossible for you to be objective about Donald Trump
- 14:29Speaker 1: because you just called that man King.
- 14:31Speaker 2: And don like I don't know why we were like
- 14:33Speaker 2: why do so anything that you hear.
- 14:36Speaker 12: Because like I know it's gonna trigger, Because I know
- 14:38Speaker 12: it's gonna trigger.
- 14:39Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying And.
- 14:40Speaker 2: Don't trigger me. I just don't know.
- 14:43Speaker 1: I just know I can't have an objective conversation with
- 14:45Speaker 1: you about.
- 14:46Speaker 12: Them, but you have to go Also, I just want
- 14:48Speaker 12: to say this though, if y'all can go back and
- 14:50Speaker 12: look at it, look at the interview with Oprah.
- 14:52Speaker 10: Winford back in the mid eighties when Oprah, when Oprahader
- 14:56Speaker 10: stores Chicrgo, she used to have Donald Trump on.
- 14:59Speaker 12: This Swater's time.
- 15:00Speaker 10: She always used to ask Trump about runners for president.
- 15:03Speaker 10: You know, Jesse Jackson, you looked out for Jackson, Jackson,
- 15:07Speaker 10: Paul girl from the like we did that movie with
- 15:11Speaker 10: Beyonce on what's her name? Like, the singer the black
- 15:14Speaker 10: girl who family.
- 15:15Speaker 12: Yeah, Jennifer Hudson.
- 15:16Speaker 10: Bump took her in after that incident happened with her
- 15:20Speaker 10: family with Michael Jackson.
- 15:21Speaker 1: I never heard that, Michael, you never heard of that. No,
- 15:25Speaker 1: but listen, bro, you gotta get off your knees.
- 15:26Speaker 6: Man.
- 15:27Speaker 1: You call that white man the king this morning the
- 15:30Speaker 1: ladies is crazy. The Krispy Kreme around your lips right
- 15:32Speaker 1: now is ridiculous. And I'm not if that's your opinion,
- 15:35Speaker 1: that's your opinion, but god damn, you can't even be
- 15:37Speaker 1: objective and have an objective conversation with somebody like that.
- 15:40Speaker 1: If you refer to your president as a king act,
- 15:44Speaker 1: that's ridiculous. That is, you should never refer to no
- 15:46Speaker 1: elected official as a king.
- 15:47Speaker 2: Bro all right, well, we got the ladiest of Laura
- 15:50Speaker 2: coming up. What we're talking about?
- 15:51Speaker 13: We talking about Cardi b because she got the people
- 15:53Speaker 13: going again. There are rumors that she may be engaged,
- 15:56Speaker 13: and I got some answers.
- 15:57Speaker 2: All right, we'll get to that. It's the breakfast in
- 15:59Speaker 2: the morning.
- 16:00Speaker 1: I will never ever say anything about people who buy
- 16:03Speaker 1: from Sheen Fashion.
- 16:05Speaker 5: Over ever again.
- 16:06Speaker 1: Okay, I just bought one two th I just bought
- 16:08Speaker 1: four outfits for three hundred dollars. One is a three
- 16:12Speaker 1: piece matching set. Three three piece matching set.
- 16:17Speaker 2: What do you mean?
- 16:18Speaker 1: It's a turtleneck like a peak coat and the pants.
- 16:22Speaker 9: Okay, where are you going to speak at?
- 16:23Speaker 6: That?
- 16:23Speaker 9: Sounds like it sounds like you write a book.
- 16:28Speaker 5: What's your name? Coof Andy?
- 16:31Speaker 2: When he watched that one time, It's gonna fall about? Yeah,
- 16:34Speaker 2: what matter? One time Charlamagne came in with these cargoes.
- 16:37Speaker 2: I was like, where do you get them? Cargoes? I said,
- 16:39Speaker 2: I gonna order up here eight dollars. One leg was
- 16:42Speaker 2: longer than the other.
- 16:43Speaker 4: There was one pocket on one one pick wore. There
- 16:46Speaker 4: was no symmetry to the Guard trail.
- 16:48Speaker 13: Bro I told him is that some of the Instagram
- 16:50Speaker 13: stores is not for tall people.
- 16:52Speaker 9: It worked for him because he little.
- 16:54Speaker 2: They went with short. I could see my socks and
- 16:56Speaker 2: my ankles.
- 16:56Speaker 1: Rest in peace, Malcolm Jamal water Man Lisa boenat Gordon
- 16:59Speaker 1: Guard Trail. Y'all y'all too good to wear Gordon Guard trout.
- 17:02Speaker 1: Wait till I come in here with this effortless luxury
- 17:04Speaker 1: three piece matching set.
- 17:07Speaker 2: Christ let's get to the ladies with Lord Lorne coming
- 17:11Speaker 2: straight back. She gets them somebody that knows somebody detail.
- 17:17Speaker 9: I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything.
- 17:20Speaker 2: She'd be having the latest on the things, the latest
- 17:24Speaker 2: with Laura la Rosa.
- 17:25Speaker 5: Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
- 17:27Speaker 2: Sometimes you have a little bit of everything. So it's
- 17:29Speaker 2: the latest on the breakfast club.
- 17:32Speaker 4: Oh and Lauren, you know what you know the strings
- 17:34Speaker 4: that hang from the cargo pants. You stringing all the
- 17:37Speaker 4: way down to my ankle.
- 17:37Speaker 2: That's how we want talking on my ankle yesterday. It
- 17:41Speaker 2: don't matter. It's one hundred dollars.
- 17:43Speaker 9: Okay, we three piece.
- 17:45Speaker 5: I'm so effortless luxury matching.
- 17:47Speaker 9: Try furniture from Timo, just try it.
- 17:51Speaker 2: Huh.
- 17:52Speaker 9: All right, let's keep going, all right. So Cardi B.
- 17:55Speaker 13: Cardi B yesterday posted some photos because we know we
- 17:59Speaker 13: did the story here that she welcomed her baby a
- 18:01Speaker 13: few weeks ago, so she posted some photos with her
- 18:03Speaker 13: new baby boy, her and sefon Dick's baby.
- 18:05Speaker 9: The baby is wrapped in a Patriots blanket with a
- 18:09Speaker 9: matching hat.
- 18:10Speaker 13: There are also some photos of them in the hospital
- 18:13Speaker 13: when the baby was first born. Now, the caption says
- 18:16Speaker 13: the date November fourth, which is what we now know
- 18:18Speaker 13: was the day that their son was born. But in
- 18:21Speaker 13: one of the photos, when you swipe through, the baby's
- 18:23Speaker 13: laying all swaddled in the blanket and Cardi B's hand,
- 18:26Speaker 13: her left hand is in the photo and there's a
- 18:29Speaker 13: ring on her left hand. So the fans went wild,
- 18:32Speaker 13: thinking that this was an engagement ring. So I spoke
- 18:36Speaker 13: to Cardi Beach wrapped yesterday, who tells me that that
- 18:38Speaker 13: is not an engagement ring. There's nothing to see here.
- 18:41Speaker 13: But people have been sending congratulations to Cardi on the baby,
- 18:45Speaker 13: including the NFL now the NFFL Okay, So the NFL
- 18:51Speaker 13: posted the same photos I just told you all about
- 18:53Speaker 13: in the midst of all of the potentially engaged conversation,
- 18:58Speaker 13: and people were in the common upset. People were trying
- 19:02Speaker 13: to figure out why the NFL were posting the photos
- 19:04Speaker 13: the safe congratulations to me, I think.
- 19:07Speaker 2: We know baby.
- 19:08Speaker 13: Yeah, it's for the baby. And of course Stephan is
- 19:10Speaker 13: in the NFL. But the point that people are trying
- 19:12Speaker 13: to make is we saw it Taylor Swift, and I
- 19:15Speaker 13: think people get upset anytime the NFL does anything but
- 19:17Speaker 13: just talk about numbers in sports. They're like, why are
- 19:20Speaker 13: you guys leaning into this just because this is trending
- 19:22Speaker 13: right now? We don't care about his personal life, Like,
- 19:24Speaker 13: why is the NFL posting this.
- 19:26Speaker 1: First of all the same reason that y'all lean into
- 19:28Speaker 1: all of these celebrities lives. Like everybody wants to be
- 19:30Speaker 1: a part of the algorithm. They want to be a
- 19:32Speaker 1: part of whatever pop culture story is going on. So
- 19:34Speaker 1: if the NFL is.
- 19:35Speaker 5: Doing that, I don't I don't have an issue with it.
- 19:38Speaker 4: Yeah, it's Stephan things. He plays for the NFL. He's
- 19:40Speaker 4: congratulating one of the the NFL not to do what y'all.
- 19:46Speaker 12: Like.
- 19:46Speaker 5: You don't want the NFL to do exactly what y'all doing.
- 19:48Speaker 2: Makes no sense.
- 19:49Speaker 13: I mean, people got upset when they were doing the
- 19:51Speaker 13: whole thing with Teller Swift too, like making sure she
- 19:52Speaker 13: was on the camera acting the players about her being
- 19:55Speaker 13: there like.
- 19:55Speaker 9: People were upset about that as well. I can understand that,
- 19:57Speaker 9: why could she white?
- 19:59Speaker 1: No, I just I don't like Taylor Swift.
- 20:02Speaker 13: I did want to mention too, when Cardi B had
- 20:06Speaker 13: posted these photos, there was a cute exchange between her
- 20:08Speaker 13: and Stefan Diggs in the comments, so he commented and said,
- 20:11Speaker 13: proud of you, boo, but love you, and she said,
- 20:13Speaker 13: I love you more, thank you for my handsome son.
- 20:15Speaker 9: Love y'all much. I will congratulations to them.
- 20:17Speaker 5: I don't dis like Taylor Swift.
- 20:18Speaker 1: I don't know her to dislike her, but I will
- 20:20Speaker 1: say that I just felt like it was too much
- 20:22Speaker 1: for a girlfriend. Now that she's engaged, Okay, I can
- 20:25Speaker 1: understand it a little bit more. But you know, I
- 20:27Speaker 1: think that all that camera time should actually be reserved
- 20:29Speaker 1: for watch.
- 20:30Speaker 4: Okay, yes, well, there's no famous wife like Taylor Swift.
- 20:35Speaker 2: That's not my problem.
- 20:36Speaker 4: Well, they wanted to Swift and the fact that people
- 20:38Speaker 4: are watching because of Taylor Swift, They're gonna dive right
- 20:40Speaker 4: into it.
- 20:41Speaker 9: You're definitely tuning in because of.
- 20:43Speaker 1: They're engaged now, so I can I can see a
- 20:45Speaker 1: little bit more of the camera commitment.
- 20:47Speaker 2: This guy.
- 20:48Speaker 9: She just don't like her. Helman said, it's not true.
- 20:50Speaker 13: Well, in other news, speaking of just you know, I'm
- 20:55Speaker 13: just not even speaking of in other news, Megda Stallion.
- 20:57Speaker 13: So you guys know, Megda Stallion is in court right now.
- 21:00Speaker 13: He a defamation lawsuit that she has against a blogger,
- 21:03Speaker 13: and yesterday in court it came out because Meg y'all know,
- 21:07Speaker 13: Meg go's online, and she talks about how a lot
- 21:10Speaker 13: of the online hate she receives following the shooting that
- 21:13Speaker 13: happened in twenty twenty, what it.
- 21:15Speaker 9: Does to her.
- 21:16Speaker 13: Like we've heard her vocally talk about this, and I
- 21:17Speaker 13: think people don't really grasp what that means and a
- 21:20Speaker 13: lot of people don't believe her when she says it.
- 21:22Speaker 13: So yesterday a former manager of Megda Sallians, got on
- 21:26Speaker 13: the stand and they were talking about just kind of
- 21:28Speaker 13: what some of the damage that has been done to
- 21:30Speaker 13: her because of online things that have been spreading. They
- 21:32Speaker 13: are alleging that this blogger spread things such as like
- 21:36Speaker 13: deep fake or alleged deep fake porn and stuff like
- 21:38Speaker 13: that which ultimately hurt Meghan. He mentioned that Megda Sallions
- 21:43Speaker 13: spent two hundred and forty thousand dollars attending a four
- 21:46Speaker 13: week therapy session to deal with the emotional distress that
- 21:50Speaker 13: Megan claimed she felt after this blogger made a string
- 21:54Speaker 13: of posts, one of which included that deep fake porn
- 21:57Speaker 13: video that I'll mentioned to you guys, which a lot
- 21:59Speaker 13: of people at the time thought was.
- 22:00Speaker 9: Real online, but it turned out not to be real.
- 22:03Speaker 13: So the manager detailed in court about how Megan came
- 22:06Speaker 13: to him in tears and apologized to him even for
- 22:09Speaker 13: having to witness the video, which sparked Meghan's decision to
- 22:12Speaker 13: undergo therapy at that point because she kept breaking down
- 22:14Speaker 13: from it. Now, the manager says and recalls that he
- 22:18Speaker 13: rushed He rushed to Megan's side at the hospital after
- 22:21Speaker 13: he received a call back in July twenty twenty about
- 22:23Speaker 13: the shooting with Tory Lanez, which was eventually you know,
- 22:26Speaker 13: Tory was eventually found guilty, which led to.
- 22:28Speaker 9: Where they are now.
- 22:29Speaker 13: So he's been going through this with Megan since the
- 22:32Speaker 13: very beginning, and he took the sin yesterday.
- 22:34Speaker 9: So when this came.
- 22:34Speaker 13: Out, I saw a lot of people still reacting to this, like,
- 22:38Speaker 13: oh my god, here she goes again. I'm like two
- 22:40Speaker 13: hundred and forty thousand dollars on just to have a
- 22:42Speaker 13: peace of mind, Like it's never going to be enough
- 22:45Speaker 13: for people.
- 22:46Speaker 9: But here she is having.
- 22:47Speaker 13: To get on the stand and she meg the stallion
- 22:49Speaker 13: will be taking a stand today. She's supposed to anyway,
- 22:51Speaker 13: to speak on her own, behalf listen.
- 22:53Speaker 5: Why wouldn't that impact her?
- 22:54Speaker 1: Like I can completely see how that could impact somebody's
- 22:57Speaker 1: mental and emotional well being.
- 22:59Speaker 5: And I bet you if you and honmously spoke to a.
- 23:01Speaker 1: Bunch of therapists and psychiatrists, they would tell you how
- 23:04Speaker 1: often people come to them to discuss being attacked and
- 23:07Speaker 1: slandered online, not just you know people that are celebrities,
- 23:10Speaker 1: just everyday people.
- 23:11Speaker 5: I'm sure that's the thing. I bet you counselors get
- 23:13Speaker 5: that so much in school from kids.
- 23:15Speaker 2: I must have missed it. What is she what is
- 23:16Speaker 2: she gonna try for that way? What is she gonna
- 23:18Speaker 2: stand for?
- 23:19Speaker 13: This is the lawsuit where she alleges that Tory Lanees
- 23:22Speaker 13: she's paying for defamation.
- 23:24Speaker 2: So she's a legend toy for defamation.
- 23:26Speaker 13: No, there's a blogger in question, and she's saying that
- 23:29Speaker 13: Tory Lanez paid this blogger to allegend that Tory Lanes
- 23:32Speaker 13: paid this blocker to spread negative things about hard Laan.
- 23:34Speaker 2: Gotcha. So she's suing the blogger, Yeah.
- 23:36Speaker 9: She's she's coming for the blogger.
- 23:37Speaker 2: This. This is gonna be an interesting case.
- 23:38Speaker 4: And the reason I say that is because there's so
- 23:40Speaker 4: many people online that spew things that are not real,
- 23:44Speaker 4: fake ish, right, and they make up stories. Now, if
- 23:47Speaker 4: if somebody can say that this affects me, because it
- 23:49Speaker 4: affects all of everybody, like Charlamagne says, can you sue
- 23:52Speaker 4: that person for for defamation and for you know, emotional distress.
- 23:56Speaker 1: And people that have done that already in one it's
- 23:58Speaker 1: President for that already come to be said President for that.
- 24:03Speaker 2: Promotional distress.
- 24:04Speaker 9: I know, for that was the thing with the with
- 24:07Speaker 9: the other blogger.
- 24:08Speaker 1: I love this my homegirl, Bonang and South Africa said President, Well,
- 24:11Speaker 1: that's South Africa.
- 24:12Speaker 4: But I love that because maybe that'll make people stop
- 24:16Speaker 4: reporting fake news and stop reporting lies they keep getting
- 24:19Speaker 4: sued because you can't afford it.
- 24:20Speaker 13: Then I think I think the issue is that you
- 24:22Speaker 13: got to figure out what people determine it's fake and
- 24:24Speaker 13: not fake.
- 24:25Speaker 9: And a lot of people can't.
- 24:26Speaker 2: Say somebody get a sex tape and it didn't have
- 24:28Speaker 2: no sex tape.
- 24:28Speaker 13: But I think it goes back to how people are
- 24:30Speaker 13: taught what you can and can't do, like you know
- 24:33Speaker 13: what I mean. Like and also too, I think it
- 24:34Speaker 13: is it gets a point where some people don't care
- 24:36Speaker 13: and we don't know what the situation is yet in
- 24:38Speaker 13: this case because it hasn't finished in court, so we
- 24:41Speaker 13: don't know who's guilty of what in the courtroom, but
- 24:44Speaker 13: you know, in other circumstances, I think it just depends
- 24:46Speaker 13: on the person and what they know and what they
- 24:47Speaker 13: care to act like.
- 24:48Speaker 2: They don't know, but that's why you should.
- 24:52Speaker 4: Because everybody could who somebody because I'm sure there's there's
- 24:54Speaker 4: somebody lies about somebody online every day. Be but it
- 24:56Speaker 4: gets to the point where that's what happens to that
- 24:58Speaker 4: person and if you want garnish all they wages.
- 25:01Speaker 5: Don't feel bad about that, right, take their assets.
- 25:04Speaker 2: Don't feel bad about that?
- 25:05Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, don't feel bad about making somebody homeless.
- 25:09Speaker 13: We're gonna talk about homelessness too, because Kevin Spacey had
- 25:11Speaker 13: a real interesting conversation with outlet. We're gonna talk about
- 25:14Speaker 13: that in the next hours as we wrap up.
- 25:16Speaker 2: All right, everybody else, I thank you. That's the latest
- 25:18Speaker 2: with Lauren.
- 25:19Speaker 4: Now when we come back, we got front page news,
- 25:21Speaker 4: and then after that, doctor Joel A. Tudman will be
- 25:24Speaker 4: joining us. He has a new book out. We're gonna
- 25:26Speaker 4: talk to him about his new book, and he's gonna
- 25:27Speaker 4: help Lauren with her life.
- 25:29Speaker 2: This book is really good.
- 25:30Speaker 1: It's called The Fight to find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain
- 25:32Speaker 1: to Unstoppable.
- 25:34Speaker 2: All right, we'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast
- 25:35Speaker 2: Clocal Morning. You're checking out the Breakfast Club Morning.
- 25:39Speaker 4: Everybody's dj NV, just Hilarius, Charlamagne and the guy we
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- 25:45Speaker 4: news now with Thursday Night football, the Buffalo Bill's take
- 25:49Speaker 4: on the Houston Texans, all right, and slut Shadoor saying this.
- 25:53Speaker 4: He's gonna make his first NFL start this Sunday versus
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- 25:57Speaker 2: What's up to me?
- 25:58Speaker 7: Good morning, Envy, Charlomagne, Lauren how y'all doing this morning?
- 26:01Speaker 9: Maybe been great?
- 26:02Speaker 8: Good morning?
- 26:03Speaker 9: All right?
- 26:03Speaker 7: So we start this hour with two troubling stories going
- 26:06Speaker 7: viral of two black women in two different states, both
- 26:09Speaker 7: in obvious pain, both begging for help, and both turned
- 26:12Speaker 7: away from hospitals just minutes before giving birth. Now, the
- 26:15Speaker 7: first story is in Indiana. A young mother, Mercedes Well,
- 26:19Speaker 7: says she gave birth in the backseat of a car,
- 26:21Speaker 7: just eight minutes after a hospital told her to go home.
- 26:25Speaker 7: Her family posting video of her being willed out of
- 26:27Speaker 7: a hospital doubled over in pain after staff told her
- 26:31Speaker 7: she wasn't far enough along because she was only three
- 26:34Speaker 7: centimeters dilated. Twen minutes later, Mercedes told her husband she
- 26:38Speaker 7: had to push. He was driving with one hand and
- 26:40Speaker 7: found himself delivering the baby with the other. Let's listen
- 26:44Speaker 7: to mom and death.
- 26:45Speaker 9: I was in excruciating pain. She's seen me in pain.
- 26:47Speaker 14: And agony, and I guess she still perceived me from
- 26:52Speaker 14: not being labor.
- 26:53Speaker 6: It's totally God's grace.
- 26:56Speaker 10: I was scared.
- 26:57Speaker 6: I didn't know what to do. I don't have it
- 26:59Speaker 6: to medical license.
- 27:01Speaker 10: He don't people to deliver a.
- 27:02Speaker 7: Bailion that well nine one one guided them to a
- 27:04Speaker 7: second hospital where several doctors and nurses were waiting outside
- 27:07Speaker 7: to help. Mercedes is recovering now, be says she feels
- 27:10Speaker 7: violated and dismissed, and Franciscan Health they called the video
- 27:15Speaker 7: deeply troubling and says it does not reflect their values.
- 27:18Speaker 7: They've launched a full investigation and say they'll take action
- 27:21Speaker 7: based on what they find. And now to Texas, where
- 27:24Speaker 7: a similar story is also taking shape and Dallas. Carrie
- 27:27Speaker 7: Jones is shown in a viral video doubled over in
- 27:30Speaker 7: a wheelchair, screaming in pain while nurses. While a nurse
- 27:34Speaker 7: calmly continues intake questions. Her mother says that the hospital
- 27:38Speaker 7: made her wait more than thirty minutes after she gave
- 27:40Speaker 7: and then she gave birth twelve minutes later. Her mother
- 27:43Speaker 7: said she had called the hospital ahead to warn that
- 27:45Speaker 7: they were coming, but when they arrived, the nurses refused
- 27:48Speaker 7: to take her to a delivery room until paperwork was finished,
- 27:52Speaker 7: even though she could barely sit up Dallas Regional Medical Center.
- 27:55Speaker 7: They haven't commented on specifics, but say they are reviewing
- 27:59Speaker 7: the incident and that the safety, dignity and well being
- 28:02Speaker 7: of every patient is their top priority and these cases,
- 28:05Speaker 7: they're drawing attention because.
- 28:06Speaker 8: They highlight a broader reality.
- 28:09Speaker 7: In the United States, a black women experience the highest
- 28:12Speaker 7: maternal mortality rate in the country, roughly fifty deaths per
- 28:16Speaker 7: one hundred thousand births. That's more than twice the national average.
- 28:20Speaker 1: Yeah, man, And this is why when black and brown
- 28:22Speaker 1: women have babies we celebrate the way we do because
- 28:24Speaker 1: exactly what you just said, me, the black maternal deathorade
- 28:27Speaker 1: is high. And this is why dulas are also important,
- 28:29Speaker 1: because you need somebody advocating for you in those hospitals,
- 28:32Speaker 1: because the damn sure can't be your husband, because ain't
- 28:34Speaker 1: no way in hell I knock over all this stuff, y'all.
- 28:36Speaker 5: Don't hurry up and get through my wife.
- 28:37Speaker 2: You know. The crazy thing is when we delivered our
- 28:40Speaker 2: last baby, Peyton, he went.
- 28:41Speaker 4: To the hospital and the hospital said, no, you're not
- 28:43Speaker 4: ready yet, go home, and it was like, no, I'm
- 28:45Speaker 4: not going home.
- 28:46Speaker 2: I had five other kids, exactly, I know what my
- 28:49Speaker 2: body is.
- 28:49Speaker 4: You call my guy to collogists, I'm not leaving and
- 28:52Speaker 4: forced them to put her in the room and we
- 28:53Speaker 4: had the baby a couple hours later.
- 28:54Speaker 1: That's why duels are important, because you need somebody advocating
- 28:57Speaker 1: for you in the hospital like that, because you know,
- 28:59Speaker 1: as men, some of us can be cool, calm and collected.
- 29:03Speaker 1: But when you see your wife in that type of pain,
- 29:05Speaker 1: when she's about to give birth and everybody just dragging
- 29:07Speaker 1: their feet.
- 29:08Speaker 2: Now, do you.
- 29:09Speaker 13: Suggest a doula from the hospitals have like a doula
- 29:13Speaker 13: like departments that like you. They'll sign doulas to you,
- 29:15Speaker 13: but then you can bring your you get your own.
- 29:18Speaker 13: You suggest one from inside the hospital, I don't know.
- 29:20Speaker 1: I never knew about the hospital when we always had
- 29:22Speaker 1: our own. Sluthor lay from Thomas Glow Maven. You know
- 29:24Speaker 1: she helped my wife deliver our third and for a child.
- 29:28Speaker 4: Yeah, no, we I mean I would say somebody that
- 29:30Speaker 4: you're comfortable with, Like my wife's going to college, has
- 29:32Speaker 4: been with us for four kids, for delivery, so she
- 29:34Speaker 4: knows Giz, she knows me, she knows the kids, and
- 29:37Speaker 4: she knows what Giar says.
- 29:38Speaker 2: She ready to pop.
- 29:40Speaker 5: I don't know I got to do it.
- 29:41Speaker 4: She got in colleges, but you know she delivered. She
- 29:43Speaker 4: either she knows.
- 29:46Speaker 9: Oh I saw that video. I sent it to me.
- 29:48Speaker 6: Me.
- 29:48Speaker 9: I'm like, can we talk about this because this is scary.
- 29:50Speaker 9: I saw them. I don't understand how that happens.
- 29:53Speaker 1: I don't understand how another woman can and just hype
- 29:56Speaker 1: all slow while she's watching this woman all this pain, Like,
- 30:00Speaker 1: shouldn't it be a sense of urgency from even another
- 30:03Speaker 1: one robotic?
- 30:05Speaker 2: It's probably okay, here's another pregnant and used to it.
- 30:08Speaker 2: That's what that's probably you, you like.
- 30:10Speaker 13: I saw the woman's face and I felt so bad.
- 30:13Speaker 13: I sent it to me me like is there something
- 30:14Speaker 13: we can do? Like I just felt bad for her,
- 30:16Speaker 13: like in that moment, and I'm watching it on my timeline.
- 30:19Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 30:19Speaker 7: And that one that the one that you're talking about, Lauren,
- 30:21Speaker 7: happened after the one in Dallas happened, because the one
- 30:25Speaker 7: in Dallas have been circulating on social media and people
- 30:27Speaker 7: have been sending me that in my inbox, like, you know,
- 30:29Speaker 7: can we talk about this because clearly it is it
- 30:32Speaker 7: people feel like this is happening.
- 30:34Speaker 8: Those are just two stories that we know of. What
- 30:36Speaker 8: about the stories that we don't know us?
- 30:37Speaker 9: Right?
- 30:38Speaker 2: That's right?
- 30:39Speaker 10: So cool?
- 30:40Speaker 7: And new information this morning, as we move on, new
- 30:43Speaker 7: information on the Chicago mother at the center of that
- 30:46Speaker 7: viral attack that has stunned people across the country for
- 30:49Speaker 7: Shonda hat Or, the mom seen on video being beaten
- 30:52Speaker 7: while trying to shield her children. She is now warning
- 30:56Speaker 7: of the public of fake go fundme pages using her name.
- 31:00Speaker 7: She says several unauthorized fundraisers started circulating within hours of
- 31:04Speaker 7: that video going viral. Some have reportedly collected more than
- 31:07Speaker 7: two hundred thousand dollars without her permission, and a Facebook
- 31:11Speaker 7: post she is pleading with supporters should be careful, writing,
- 31:13Speaker 7: please go get your funds back. All those go fundmes
- 31:16Speaker 7: are fake and please report them.
- 31:18Speaker 9: She says she has.
- 31:19Speaker 7: One legitimate fundraisers fundraiser, and she is.
- 31:21Speaker 8: Urging people to double check before they donate.
- 31:24Speaker 7: I looked this morning and her legitimate fundraiser has about
- 31:28Speaker 7: seven thousand dollars so far.
- 31:30Speaker 2: Now.
- 31:30Speaker 7: Hatter says the violen scene on camera that we all
- 31:34Speaker 7: saw it wasn't all of a sudden. It was months
- 31:36Speaker 7: after harassment, bullying, vandalism, and even attempts at setting fires
- 31:41Speaker 7: near her home by neighborhood youth. She says she's been
- 31:43Speaker 7: asking for help for a while now. After Monday's attack,
- 31:46Speaker 7: the community stepped in quickly. I know you guys spoke
- 31:48Speaker 7: about this yesterday where local leaders they helped. They secured
- 31:52Speaker 7: a new place for her to live. Clothing holiday donations
- 31:55Speaker 7: are coming in. The housing authority is also assisting with
- 31:58Speaker 7: a new place to live. Relatives say that she is
- 32:01Speaker 7: expected to move into a new place today. But along
- 32:04Speaker 7: with that support, two very different reactions from parents connected
- 32:07Speaker 7: to the kids in those videos are circulating, and one
- 32:11Speaker 7: clip a parent of a student can believe to be
- 32:13Speaker 7: involved is her saying to her child, the whole city
- 32:16Speaker 7: of Chicago is looking for you. And a different parent
- 32:19Speaker 7: posting a long series of comments defending her daughter, downplaying
- 32:23Speaker 7: the attack, calling her child a good kid, and saying
- 32:26Speaker 7: she was peer pressured. Her tone frustrated many online, who
- 32:30Speaker 7: says it shows a lack of accountability. Let's listen to
- 32:33Speaker 7: some of the community reactions.
- 32:35Speaker 13: What actually needs to be taken is the parents needs
- 32:37Speaker 13: to be held accountable.
- 32:38Speaker 14: Child should be pressed, childges should be pressed, and these
- 32:41Speaker 14: kids should be at spell for school.
- 32:43Speaker 9: We need more help out help.
- 32:44Speaker 15: Trump's saying troops to stop out here for that comestan
- 32:47Speaker 15: trupsy held for these kids.
- 32:48Speaker 9: We need these kids, open up more programs for our kids.
- 32:51Speaker 1: No, she's right, they need do we need to have
- 32:53Speaker 1: more programs for the kids, but don't say things like Trump,
- 32:56Speaker 1: send the troops for our kids, okay, because Trump will
- 32:58Speaker 1: be like, say, let's right. I saw a lot of
- 33:02Speaker 1: people meet me saying that it starts in the home,
- 33:04Speaker 1: and that would be a good discussion for the radio,
- 33:06Speaker 1: because I think when people say things like that, you know,
- 33:08Speaker 1: they discount the environment these kids live in, like pid
- 33:12Speaker 1: pressure is a real thing, and like sometimes the screets
- 33:15Speaker 1: have more influence and impact than what's going on at.
- 33:18Speaker 9: Cross the house.
- 33:20Speaker 8: Of course, Chicago police say no rests have been made.
- 33:23Speaker 7: Detectives, they are reviewing multiple videos, interviewing witnesses, and the
- 33:27Speaker 7: Chicago Public School the district.
- 33:29Speaker 8: They release a statement.
- 33:30Speaker 7: It reads, in part, they are committed to building a
- 33:32Speaker 7: physically and emotionally safe a teaching and learning environment in
- 33:35Speaker 7: every school. It went on to say that they are
- 33:37Speaker 7: horrified by the attack on this family and they are
- 33:39Speaker 7: working with the city departments and agencies to provide support
- 33:43Speaker 7: for the victims.
- 33:43Speaker 2: How have they not been no arrests.
- 33:44Speaker 1: There's a whole video in a bunch of kids school
- 33:48Speaker 1: that's crazy.
- 33:49Speaker 7: Yeah, no, we're rest yet, But how do you handle it?
- 33:52Speaker 7: A lot of these kids are. I know one of
- 33:54Speaker 7: them were in eighth grade, you know, so that's that's
- 33:57Speaker 7: you know, thirteen fourteen years old. I don't know, you know,
- 34:00Speaker 7: what that looks like what they're going to do, but
- 34:02Speaker 7: that one parent said that the kids should be expelled
- 34:04Speaker 7: because it happened on school grounds, and so that is
- 34:07Speaker 7: one action that the district can definitely take.
- 34:09Speaker 6: You know.
- 34:10Speaker 7: All right, y'all, well, that is your front page news.
- 34:12Speaker 7: I'm Mimi Brown. Follow me at Mimi Brown TV. For
- 34:15Speaker 7: more stories all the Black Information Network, download the free
- 34:18Speaker 7: iHeartRadio app and visit binnews dot com.
- 34:21Speaker 6: Thank you, thank you.
- 34:22Speaker 4: Mem Now when we come back, we have doctor Joel Tudman.
- 34:25Speaker 4: He has a new book out called The Fight to
- 34:27Speaker 4: find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain to Unstoppable.
- 34:31Speaker 2: And we're going to dive into Lauren Larose's life a
- 34:33Speaker 2: little bit.
- 34:34Speaker 9: I Fight to find Myself.
- 34:35Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we'll get into that. NeXT's to the
- 34:36Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Good morning. We got a special guest in
- 34:38Speaker 2: the building. We told you you were going to have
- 34:40Speaker 2: him back. That's right, doctor Joel to welcome back here.
- 34:42Speaker 6: Man. Thank you for having us back. I didn't get
- 34:44Speaker 6: to talk to you last time.
- 34:45Speaker 2: I wasn't here. I was out of town. How you doing, Reade?
- 34:47Speaker 6: It's an honor. It's honor to nut your building.
- 34:49Speaker 1: New book, The Fight to find Yourself moving from uncertain
- 34:52Speaker 1: to unstoppable, is out now.
- 34:55Speaker 5: I want to ask you, doctor Joe.
- 34:56Speaker 1: What was the What was the moment, like that real
- 34:59Speaker 1: breaking point that you realize you weren't living as your
- 35:02Speaker 1: authentic self?
- 35:03Speaker 6: Several moments. I don't think I can categorize it to one.
- 35:06Speaker 6: I think it was a breakdown for me, a chain
- 35:08Speaker 6: of events, a lot of success, and the success couldn't
- 35:12Speaker 6: solve the pain. And so once all the breakdowns started
- 35:18Speaker 6: to accumulate, I started realizing this stuff is just a
- 35:23Speaker 6: band aid. Every accolade, every award, every stage, every opportunity
- 35:29Speaker 6: could not solve the inner pain. And so having a
- 35:34Speaker 6: good community of course, j of course, other brothers and
- 35:40Speaker 6: other ministers that knew that I was hurting started looking
- 35:45Speaker 6: into the insights and hey, man, pull yourself back. We
- 35:48Speaker 6: need to talk to you. My mentor who became a pastor,
- 35:52Speaker 6: he began to talking to me. He told me to
- 35:54Speaker 6: stop speaking. So for I think nine months to a year,
- 35:58Speaker 6: I didn't travel. I didn't go anywhere. He made me
- 36:00Speaker 6: stay home and minister at the house so he could
- 36:03Speaker 6: watch over me and check over me. But the pain
- 36:05Speaker 6: had gotten pretty bad, pretty bad. I think I put
- 36:08Speaker 6: a gun to my head twice during that process, trying
- 36:12Speaker 6: to figure out how to maneuver through. But then once
- 36:16Speaker 6: I found a pretty good therapist, things start changing, and
- 36:20Speaker 6: I started journal and started documenting and seeing things change
- 36:23Speaker 6: for myself.
- 36:25Speaker 13: You talk about in the opening of the book going
- 36:27Speaker 13: through the motions of things and how they just feels
- 36:29Speaker 13: so empty. Yeah, but you also have such a big
- 36:33Speaker 13: platform and you're speaking places you can fall back into
- 36:37Speaker 13: the motions easily, even at certain points in like, how
- 36:40Speaker 13: do you kind of stop yourself from falling back into
- 36:42Speaker 13: the motion of things because you know you're entertaining at
- 36:45Speaker 13: the same time too.
- 36:47Speaker 6: It's a great question. Let's do it like this. When
- 36:49Speaker 6: the annoyinging comes on you to speak, it comes on
- 36:52Speaker 6: you for the task for the moment. So the annoying
- 36:56Speaker 6: comes on you to do what you need to do.
- 36:57Speaker 6: You study yourself, how you prepare, you do what you
- 37:00Speaker 6: need to do. You pray that's God doing his thing
- 37:03Speaker 6: through you. When that's over, it's over, and you can
- 37:09Speaker 6: walk off the stage and feel like you're absolutely failed,
- 37:12Speaker 6: even though people were absolutely blessed. You can walk off
- 37:15Speaker 6: the stage, get a phone call that just rips everything away.
- 37:18Speaker 6: After all those people have given their lives to Christ.
- 37:21Speaker 6: And that's what I'm talking about, that moment. You're knowing
- 37:26Speaker 6: it for that moment, and then when you come off,
- 37:28Speaker 6: you don't have the badge to live. And that's what
- 37:31Speaker 6: I was experiencing. So it was a massive fall off
- 37:34Speaker 6: and I got tired of that, real tired of it.
- 37:37Speaker 2: What changed? What gave you the feeling of wanting to
- 37:41Speaker 2: live again?
- 37:43Speaker 6: I lost my father and my son back to back.
- 37:46Speaker 6: Both of those relationships were difficult to have. My son
- 37:49Speaker 6: when I was sixteen years old. He came to live
- 37:51Speaker 6: with me his sophomore year. And then my father. We
- 37:56Speaker 6: had a good relationship, but it wasn't like what you
- 37:59Speaker 6: want to father and son to have. I respected him
- 38:02Speaker 6: very much so, and he wasn't an absentee. We just
- 38:05Speaker 6: didn't have a relationship, and so that thing grew grew
- 38:09Speaker 6: and grew. So in the process I built all these
- 38:12Speaker 6: walls that protected me emotionally, and the last two weeks
- 38:19Speaker 6: of my dad's life I spent with him in the hospital.
- 38:23Speaker 6: And I got to know him like I never knew
- 38:27Speaker 6: him before. I held his hand, washed him, shaved him,
- 38:31Speaker 6: fed him, scratched his back. It was a different feeling
- 38:35Speaker 6: for me that unleashed this avalanche of emotions that I
- 38:41Speaker 6: had never felt before, and I needed to figure out
- 38:44Speaker 6: how to deal with him. For a little bit, I
- 38:46Speaker 6: felt like it was great, And then for a second
- 38:51Speaker 6: I was like, God, how could you do this? How
- 38:54Speaker 6: could you wait till the end? And I'm this old
- 38:58Speaker 6: to give me the feeling of being a son. I'm
- 39:02Speaker 6: already a man, and I've already mastered the way I
- 39:05Speaker 6: do life, you know, And so it may not be perfect,
- 39:08Speaker 6: but it's mine. And when that happened, those two deaths
- 39:12Speaker 6: broke down everything I knew. It broke down my own
- 39:15Speaker 6: blueprint and had to come up with a new one.
- 39:17Speaker 2: So you lost yourself because of what you lost.
- 39:23Speaker 4: When you're at your lowest and you're feeling like taking
- 39:27Speaker 4: your life, most people will say that is the devil working,
- 39:30Speaker 4: and it's it's not anything but the devil trying to
- 39:33Speaker 4: get you to take your life.
- 39:35Speaker 2: Do you agree with that?
- 39:36Speaker 6: I don't know if I agree with it or not.
- 39:38Speaker 6: I'm gonna be honest with you. I know that Satan
- 39:40Speaker 6: comes to kill, still and destroy. I don't think God
- 39:43Speaker 6: does that. But what I will say is that there
- 39:47Speaker 6: are some things that happened to us internally chemically that
- 39:51Speaker 6: we are born with or born without that only scientists
- 39:55Speaker 6: can answer. I don't think the scientist is God not
- 39:58Speaker 6: saying that. But I don't think that's a question that
- 40:00Speaker 6: you could just easily answer from a five or six
- 40:05Speaker 6: minute conversation. I think it involves a lot of study,
- 40:08Speaker 6: a lot of interpretation, and the opportunity to really converse
- 40:12Speaker 6: with people that have the problem, not people are just
- 40:15Speaker 6: sitting around the table discussing that.
- 40:17Speaker 4: Because when most people feel like they want to take
- 40:19Speaker 4: their life, it's a lot of times they feel worthless, right,
- 40:22Speaker 4: they feel like that they don't have an answer, they'd
- 40:25Speaker 4: rather they feel like life would be better without.
- 40:27Speaker 2: Them than with them in it. And it's learning that
- 40:32Speaker 2: that complete opposite. Did you have that feel?
- 40:37Speaker 6: I felt it, but because I had understood the word
- 40:40Speaker 6: of God and had enough left in the tank, I
- 40:44Speaker 6: had enough to kind of come back and forth and
- 40:47Speaker 6: talk to myself. When I was younger, I didn't I
- 40:50Speaker 6: just took the pills, but I didn't die when I
- 40:53Speaker 6: got older and I pulled that trigger, I pulled that
- 40:56Speaker 6: triggers to die, but it didn't. I felt that way.
- 41:02Speaker 6: But I will say I was going back and forth
- 41:04Speaker 6: dialogueing in my head. Now, this is something I want
- 41:08Speaker 6: to say straight up. Most pastors, most people in church
- 41:14Speaker 6: are going straight up to you know you're going to hell?
- 41:16Speaker 6: You know, and that is the devil's work. Again, I
- 41:21Speaker 6: think it's unprofessional and it's a lack of empathy and
- 41:26Speaker 6: compassion to have a conversation with the person to find
- 41:31Speaker 6: out why they felt that way. Why do you feel
- 41:34Speaker 6: that way? I think that's a part of the conversation.
- 41:37Speaker 6: I understand the eternal security and eternal damnation. We got that.
- 41:41Speaker 6: The religious perspective of the walk with God or somebody
- 41:45Speaker 6: still needs to get in your walk, get in your
- 41:48Speaker 6: shoes with the word of God and help you walk
- 41:51Speaker 6: through Why you feel that way? I think that's the
- 41:54Speaker 6: missing ingredient. Great question, great debate, but the missing piece
- 41:58Speaker 6: of the question and the conversation is the person. Why
- 42:02Speaker 6: do you feel that way?
- 42:03Speaker 4: Because I've been there before and I write it in
- 42:06Speaker 4: my book of being me being feeling worthless, right, me
- 42:10Speaker 4: doing things, making me feel like an embarrassment to my
- 42:13Speaker 4: family one dred and me feeling like not being here
- 42:16Speaker 4: would be better for my family. Tak a lot of praying,
- 42:19Speaker 4: a lot of talking, a lot of discussion. Well, when
- 42:22Speaker 4: somebody ever tells me that they're thinking about it, I
- 42:24Speaker 4: jumped to it immediately, right. And the reason I jumped
- 42:26Speaker 4: to it and jump to have a conversation. I have
- 42:27Speaker 4: conversation with so many people online. But the reason I
- 42:30Speaker 4: jump to it is because another thing that also gives
- 42:33Speaker 4: me great fear is sometimes people feel like I got
- 42:37Speaker 4: to show you I would do it, you know what
- 42:40Speaker 4: I mean, Like I'm thinking about it.
- 42:41Speaker 2: And a lot of times we write that person off,
- 42:43Speaker 2: like just.
- 42:44Speaker 4: Go sleep, yo, just go take a shot, just just
- 42:48Speaker 4: go talk to somebody. And I feel like the worst
- 42:50Speaker 4: thing you can do to somebody in that position is
- 42:53Speaker 4: kind of sign them off. The almost feel like I
- 42:56Speaker 4: have to show you I was going to do it,
- 42:57Speaker 4: and I have once I show you, there is no oop,
- 43:00Speaker 4: there is no to fix that can't fix that.
- 43:03Speaker 6: That's why I said the person, the person matters. I
- 43:07Speaker 6: love the theological conversation, the church conversation. It's great to
- 43:12Speaker 6: have put the collar down and talk to the person
- 43:16Speaker 6: and then we'll navigate there. Why do you feel that way?
- 43:20Speaker 6: What caused you to get that way? That's more important
- 43:22Speaker 6: right now, you know, And I love what you said
- 43:24Speaker 6: about it, because some people say, I'm just going to
- 43:26Speaker 6: do it, and if you and if they do it,
- 43:30Speaker 6: we don't get an opportunity to come back.
- 43:32Speaker 13: You also talk about too in the book, just how
- 43:35Speaker 13: your wife has coached you through so many different moments
- 43:38Speaker 13: in your fight for the partners out there who are
- 43:41Speaker 13: like everybody's finding themselves. But I think when I hear
- 43:46Speaker 13: how you speak about her, there are certain parts and
- 43:48Speaker 13: certain things you couldn't have done without her. Oh God,
- 43:50Speaker 13: But it has to be heavy on her as well.
- 43:52Speaker 13: How is she balancing her own fight with helping you
- 43:55Speaker 13: do your fight?
- 43:56Speaker 6: It's sometimes it's unfair. It's unfair because she had to
- 44:00Speaker 6: stop fighting for herself to help me fight. But I
- 44:04Speaker 6: think that's the power of love. And I think we
- 44:06Speaker 6: evolve in time. I think I don't think that marriage
- 44:10Speaker 6: is a fifty to fifty. Sometimes it's gonna be eighty twenty.
- 44:13Speaker 6: Sometimes it's gonna be ten one hundred, sometimes it's gonna
- 44:17Speaker 6: be seventy thirty. I think love is love, and whatever
- 44:21Speaker 6: number adds up, that's based off of the try, the
- 44:25Speaker 6: push between the two people, and there's always gonna be
- 44:29Speaker 6: one this week, and there's always gonna be one that's strong.
- 44:32Speaker 6: And so to each couple, I would say that the
- 44:36Speaker 6: journey to becoming who you are together will be based
- 44:40Speaker 6: off of the two of you remaining honest and open.
- 44:44Speaker 6: And I can carry you today. I may not be
- 44:46Speaker 6: able to carry you tomorrow. I carry you today.
- 44:48Speaker 4: People don't talk about a lot about how important a
- 44:52Speaker 4: good partner is, right, Yeah, because when I've been at
- 44:56Speaker 4: my lowest many times, if it wasn't for my partner,
- 44:59Speaker 4: I don't think I would be able to come out
- 45:01Speaker 4: of it the way that I did.
- 45:03Speaker 6: Happy to be there for you.
- 45:07Speaker 2: Guy's crazy. This guy's crazy. You know what? You know
- 45:13Speaker 2: what's so crazy? I see him yesterday in the street, right,
- 45:17Speaker 2: just happened to see him in the street. I'm with
- 45:19Speaker 2: my wife and my daughter. He's with his wife. He
- 45:22Speaker 2: walks up to me. He's stuck blowing kisses at me.
- 45:26Speaker 6: How your wife handled that?
- 45:27Speaker 2: My wife didn't see his wife see that, And his
- 45:30Speaker 2: wife's like.
- 45:31Speaker 4: Really, like like what's wrong with you? Just blow kidding
- 45:37Speaker 4: him what she said, but talk about the importance of
- 45:42Speaker 4: his wife, goes, somebody just blow kidding.
- 45:46Speaker 5: He goes, that was Charloae man.
- 45:50Speaker 6: I think that's beautiful that your spouses can laugh at that.
- 45:52Speaker 2: They can't. I don't know how long it took me
- 45:54Speaker 2: laugh at first. I don't think they thought it was
- 45:56Speaker 2: that funny.
- 45:58Speaker 4: Talk about the importance of of a good part and
- 46:00Speaker 4: a good spouse when you're going through those things, because
- 46:02Speaker 4: you know, Charlamagne and myself talk about when you're really
- 46:05Speaker 4: faithful in your marriage and life, it opens up a
- 46:08Speaker 4: whole another life, another category, another.
- 46:12Speaker 6: A whole nother round of favor. Absolutely, it comes upon
- 46:15Speaker 6: your life, Yes, a whole nother round of favor, because
- 46:18Speaker 6: sometimes you feel like yours are worth nothing and we're
- 46:21Speaker 6: living off the other. Having a good spouse is the
- 46:24Speaker 6: opposite of having a bad one, Okay, And I think
- 46:28Speaker 6: a lot of the world is experiencing bad relationships. But
- 46:33Speaker 6: you hear so much about what it takes to being
- 46:35Speaker 6: a good one. To being a good one means you
- 46:38Speaker 6: survive a lot of bad things. I don't know anybody
- 46:40Speaker 6: that's been in a great relationship that doesn't have stories
- 46:44Speaker 6: of wounds and cuts, and memories where things have gone bad.
- 46:51Speaker 6: That's what makes it good. That you can go through
- 46:54Speaker 6: the storms and go through the rain and still remain.
- 46:58Speaker 6: And there'll be times where you feel like walking away.
- 47:01Speaker 6: There'll be times when you feel like departing. You take
- 47:03Speaker 6: your take mind, or you just take it all in
- 47:05Speaker 6: out bounce. But the love, the commitment, the responsibility to
- 47:11Speaker 6: become the one that you want to be drives everything.
- 47:17Speaker 6: My wife, her name is Latasha. She's been with me.
- 47:22Speaker 6: I didn't have anything, but that's not true. I did
- 47:25Speaker 6: have something. My credit was bad. That's what was bad. Yeah,
- 47:29Speaker 6: I had things, but my credit was bad and I
- 47:31Speaker 6: was able to get things without the credit. But she
- 47:35Speaker 6: looked at the credit and said, yo, your credit is terrible.
- 47:38Speaker 6: I can fix it for you. I said what she said,
- 47:40Speaker 6: I can fix it for you. So she fixed my credit.
- 47:43Speaker 6: Credit went up and she's like, yo, I can handle
- 47:46Speaker 6: the money. And that was different from me because I
- 47:49Speaker 6: don't know. I've never been socialized into manhood where the
- 47:52Speaker 6: woman handled the money.
- 47:54Speaker 2: But she could handle the money.
- 47:56Speaker 6: So I let our relationship be our relationship. First. I
- 48:00Speaker 6: was a little bit embarrassed. I had this myth of
- 48:02Speaker 6: manhood that if she's doing this, and she's doing this,
- 48:04Speaker 6: it's gonna make me look stupid. But I realize my
- 48:07Speaker 6: marriage is my marriage. It's not yours, and it is
- 48:11Speaker 6: not yours, And it's not until i'm a tour as
- 48:12Speaker 6: a man that I understand that what goes on in
- 48:14Speaker 6: my house is my house. I don't care what's happening
- 48:16Speaker 6: in your house. So your spouse has to have the
- 48:20Speaker 6: ability to endo it with the worst of you and
- 48:23Speaker 6: the best of you and likewise, and just make sure
- 48:25Speaker 6: that you guys are on the same page with raising children,
- 48:28Speaker 6: all right, make sure you're on the same page with
- 48:30Speaker 6: raising children so that you can recreate something beautiful and
- 48:34Speaker 6: not create something that's going to be a monster.
- 48:37Speaker 13: But the steps of that for people, like if you
- 48:40Speaker 13: both don't have children, or even if one person does
- 48:43Speaker 13: have children, sometimes you don't know how a person is
- 48:45Speaker 13: until they're in a situation, even if you have conversations
- 48:47Speaker 13: prior to like, what are the real steps to know?
- 48:49Speaker 6: I don't think that there is a a cookie cutter
- 48:53Speaker 6: step because we're all different. I think when we spend
- 48:57Speaker 6: time with each other, what are you actually doing If
- 49:01Speaker 6: you're just having sex, smoking and drinking and they're not
- 49:04Speaker 6: having a real conversation about who you are, where you
- 49:07Speaker 6: come from, what do you like, what don't you like?
- 49:11Speaker 6: I think all those things need to be talked about first.
- 49:14Speaker 6: What makes you happy? What makes you sad? When you
- 49:17Speaker 6: get angry? Do you throw things? Do you cuss? Do
- 49:20Speaker 6: you go off? Do you belittle me? Can you encourage
- 49:24Speaker 6: me when you don't like me? Can you still show
- 49:26Speaker 6: up for me when you want to leave me if
- 49:29Speaker 6: we have to go to a function, will you embarrass
- 49:32Speaker 6: me even though you're upset with me? How do you
- 49:34Speaker 6: want to be appreciated? How do you want me to
- 49:37Speaker 6: leave you alone? How do we argue? What are our
- 49:39Speaker 6: parameters for arguing? Ours was listen? If you leave, you
- 49:44Speaker 6: come back, don't stay gone, and don't go to nobody
- 49:47Speaker 6: else's house to spend the night. If you don't want
- 49:50Speaker 6: to talk to me, go in the other room. But
- 49:53Speaker 6: at some point in time that must be a resolution.
- 49:56Speaker 6: I think all those things matter because then we have
- 49:59Speaker 6: people that get married because the sex is great. We
- 50:02Speaker 6: get married because we got money and the kids are
- 50:04Speaker 6: going to be pretty because we both look good. But
- 50:07Speaker 6: we've done none of the other work to discover what
- 50:10Speaker 6: we like. If you're Catholic and I'm Protestant. If you're Catholic,
- 50:15Speaker 6: do you want the kids to be all of that
- 50:16Speaker 6: little bitty stuff that we avoid because we're attracted. Those
- 50:20Speaker 6: things need to be discussed. Then let's go to counselmen,
- 50:24Speaker 6: let's go to counseling and see what happens. If we're Christian,
- 50:28Speaker 6: let's also go visit the Christian counselors. It doesn't have
- 50:31Speaker 6: to be the pastor What is it that they're saying
- 50:33Speaker 6: about our relationship? And I walk with God because I
- 50:36Speaker 6: don't want to get in our in our marriage and
- 50:38Speaker 6: find out you you don't believe the way I believe?
- 50:41Speaker 6: Why am I just not finding that out? All of
- 50:44Speaker 6: those little things need to be discussed before we ever
- 50:46Speaker 6: even talk about kids. Then we start talking about it,
- 50:51Speaker 6: how are we going to raise our children? How many
- 50:53Speaker 6: children do you want? What kind of school do you
- 50:55Speaker 6: want them to go to? Do you believe in corporate punishment?
- 50:58Speaker 6: I think that's the right word of beating your kids
- 51:01Speaker 6: or soft parented, whatever the correct words are. I think
- 51:04Speaker 6: all those things matter before we do it. But we're backwards.
- 51:07Speaker 6: We have sex first, We like the feeling first, and
- 51:10Speaker 6: we get together and we stay together and either end
- 51:14Speaker 6: up with coming law marriage or we go ahead and
- 51:16Speaker 6: get married because we're already pregnant, and then we wrestle
- 51:19Speaker 6: with all the other stuff later. Just flip the script.
- 51:21Speaker 6: We know what to do. Just reverse the order to
- 51:24Speaker 6: flip the script for No, we.
- 51:27Speaker 13: Are very intentional about a lot of the things. This
- 51:31Speaker 13: is probably the first time ever. I mean, I'm thirty three,
- 51:33Speaker 13: so I'm pretty young, but this is the first time
- 51:36Speaker 13: that I feel like my intention is actually like matched.
- 51:39Speaker 13: And even when it's not the best thing, like I'm
- 51:41Speaker 13: not the best person and vice versa, it's still like
- 51:44Speaker 13: a no, we're gonna we sit down, We're about to
- 51:46Speaker 13: talk about this. And I've never in certain conversations I've
- 51:48Speaker 13: never had Like we had a financial conversation the other
- 51:51Speaker 13: day and I was like, no one has ever.
- 51:52Speaker 6: It's the first time you had it ever.
- 51:54Speaker 9: Yeah, it was.
- 51:56Speaker 13: It's very new, but so it's been some months, but
- 51:59Speaker 13: we been dating for longer than that.
- 52:01Speaker 9: But we've been dating for about a year.
- 52:04Speaker 13: But officially, yes, it is, Yes.
- 52:08Speaker 2: It is is not new.
- 52:13Speaker 6: I wish I had a computers, like do you like
- 52:14Speaker 6: you doing?
- 52:16Speaker 5: The only reason we knew is because she had to.
- 52:19Speaker 5: First of all, she just thought, so one of them
- 52:22Speaker 5: fell off.
- 52:24Speaker 13: No that's not true. No that's not He's framing this
- 52:28Speaker 13: completely wrong. Okay. So the only reason why I say
- 52:32Speaker 13: it's new is because I think I've had to learn.
- 52:39Speaker 13: You've had to learn how to be very different in
- 52:43Speaker 13: this stage in my life, not even relationship, just because
- 52:46Speaker 13: of like career and a lot of things. So I
- 52:48Speaker 13: took a lot more time with certain things this time
- 52:51Speaker 13: around sexual sex.
- 52:56Speaker 6: Would you do different?
- 52:57Speaker 13: We just it took some more time before it happened,
- 53:00Speaker 13: which is very different from me. We also we also
- 53:05Speaker 13: public like being in public with each other. I took
- 53:07Speaker 13: time before I did that.
- 53:08Speaker 5: It's still in public sneaky.
- 53:11Speaker 13: Videos, we're still taking. Just got one year we've been
- 53:23Speaker 13: datd for you. That's a long time.
- 53:25Speaker 9: That's still very new.
- 53:26Speaker 10: Though.
- 53:27Speaker 6: Have you slept with him within three and sixty five days? Okay?
- 53:32Speaker 2: You have?
- 53:32Speaker 6: You have had sex with this man multiple times?
- 53:35Speaker 9: Uh huh.
- 53:36Speaker 6: Look at your smile. What I'm saying is this exactly
- 53:39Speaker 6: what you just said. You've slept with this man. You
- 53:41Speaker 6: have a smile on your face. You are you're enjoying
- 53:44Speaker 6: that you have slept with this man multiple times you
- 53:47Speaker 6: should be that enthusiastic about everything else.
- 53:50Speaker 13: But I'm saying this is the first time that I am.
- 53:53Speaker 13: Like in other situations, there have been things that I do.
- 53:55Speaker 6: When did you find out about his credit?
- 53:57Speaker 9: First month?
- 53:58Speaker 13: First month of us being in a relationship, not the
- 54:00Speaker 13: first month of his dating.
- 54:01Speaker 6: So what's the difference? Tell me?
- 54:03Speaker 13: Because when we were dating, it was casual stuff. So
- 54:05Speaker 13: it was like dinner, it was phone conversations.
- 54:07Speaker 6: It wasn't you know, did y'all talk about your faith?
- 54:11Speaker 9: Yes?
- 54:12Speaker 13: When that was probably like one of our first in
- 54:15Speaker 13: person conversations.
- 54:17Speaker 6: So how long did it take from phone to in person?
- 54:21Speaker 6: What do you mean you did phone first.
- 54:23Speaker 9: Then you did in person first?
- 54:25Speaker 13: Because this is someone that I already knew, Like we
- 54:28Speaker 13: went to college together for a bit, so we did
- 54:30Speaker 13: in person first and then the phone kind of guys
- 54:32Speaker 13: were friends, Yeah, we were cool before.
- 54:35Speaker 6: Did y'all sleep together when y'all was cool?
- 54:37Speaker 13: No? No desire, No, there was desire, But it did happen.
- 54:42Speaker 9: And that's what I'm saying. I took the conversation, yeah,
- 54:46Speaker 9: like there was definitely desire.
- 54:48Speaker 6: Yeah, so you wanted this guy already? Did he want
- 54:51Speaker 6: you already?
- 54:52Speaker 9: I don't think so.
- 54:53Speaker 2: What made you?
- 54:54Speaker 6: Did he ask you out? Did you ask him out?
- 54:55Speaker 13: We got together as friends just he was like, you
- 54:58Speaker 13: know you're in Jersey, would love to take you out
- 55:00Speaker 13: that the happy hour celebrate everything got going on. It
- 55:02Speaker 13: wasn't who initiated the term me. I initiated the term.
- 55:07Speaker 5: Aggressive, especially on that cast ago.
- 55:13Speaker 6: It was at being lefty.
- 55:15Speaker 13: It wasn't even about no, It wasn't me being aggressive
- 55:17Speaker 13: on costamigos. It was when we said our first time
- 55:20Speaker 13: in person, that happy Hour conversation. I was sitting there
- 55:24Speaker 13: and I'm like, man, this man is amazing, Like I
- 55:26Speaker 13: would love to get to know more about him, not just.
- 55:28Speaker 2: As my fear.
- 55:29Speaker 6: Now, let me ask you this. When you said that,
- 55:31Speaker 6: where were you psychologically emotionally? Did you know yourself before
- 55:35Speaker 6: you made that decision?
- 55:36Speaker 9: No, I don't think I fully know myself.
- 55:38Speaker 6: Now how much of yourself do you know? What do
- 55:40Speaker 6: you know about yourself?
- 55:42Speaker 13: I know a lot about myself, but I don't think
- 55:44Speaker 13: that I'm fully through like my fight, like.
- 55:47Speaker 6: So you're still fighting one hundred.
- 55:49Speaker 13: I didn't even begin the fight honestly, probably until this year,
- 55:51Speaker 13: because I didn't know that it was a fight to
- 55:53Speaker 13: be had.
- 55:53Speaker 9: I just figured.
- 55:54Speaker 6: That's so powerful because I just told him that that
- 55:57Speaker 6: sometimes when you were in a relationship, this is now
- 56:00Speaker 6: your relationship. I think sometimes when you're in a relationship,
- 56:04Speaker 6: when you get healed, when you actually find you, it
- 56:09Speaker 6: opens up your eyes so much that you start looking
- 56:12Speaker 6: at all of your choices and all of your decisions,
- 56:15Speaker 6: and you can see the unhealthy picks, the unhealthy partners,
- 56:19Speaker 6: the unhealthy conversations now, and it's hard to speak to
- 56:25Speaker 6: sick people. And I'm not pointing at anybody specific. It's
- 56:29Speaker 6: hard to have a conversation with sick people because you
- 56:33Speaker 6: yourself didn't know you were sick, and now you realize that, hey,
- 56:36Speaker 6: I'm better, but I created this sickness or I played
- 56:40Speaker 6: a part in the sickness. That becomes difficult, which is
- 56:44Speaker 6: what I know we'll probably talk about with the holidays.
- 56:47Speaker 6: When you're going into the holidays. Should I be trying
- 56:49Speaker 6: to discover myself right now? And it's twofold. Its juxtaposition.
- 56:55Speaker 6: If you have a safe place, yes, if it's not safe,
- 57:01Speaker 6: because those conversations will turn into wars and it'll create
- 57:06Speaker 6: a horrible holiday experience. But if you have a safe
- 57:12Speaker 6: place and there is enough health in the room, mom, uncle, sister, therapist, somewhere.
- 57:20Speaker 6: There has to be some safety for you to retreat
- 57:23Speaker 6: and then not necessarily isolation, but some alone time for
- 57:27Speaker 6: you to actually process and come out and talk. You
- 57:32Speaker 6: can move methodically through it. But if you are healed
- 57:38Speaker 6: your hold and you are connected to someone that is sick,
- 57:43Speaker 6: it's going to be a difficult path. How then, my
- 57:47Speaker 6: question to you, how do you have a healthy conversation
- 57:51Speaker 6: with an unhealthy person?
- 57:54Speaker 9: Right now? I just be doing it.
- 57:57Speaker 6: You just be doing it.
- 57:58Speaker 13: I think a lot of I'm thinking about people in
- 58:00Speaker 13: my life that I love that I know they're not having.
- 58:04Speaker 9: They don't even they're not I don't know. Lord, No,
- 58:07Speaker 9: I'm telling the truth.
- 58:08Speaker 13: Like I'm literally every day I'm engaging with people that
- 58:11Speaker 13: I know are not in the best spaces, like in
- 58:14Speaker 13: their fight, you know. But I don't have a choice
- 58:17Speaker 13: because these are people I love, Like it's my mother,
- 58:20Speaker 13: it's my you know.
- 58:21Speaker 9: Like, so you literally just get through it.
- 58:22Speaker 13: You set boundaries for certain conversations, but you I'm literally
- 58:26Speaker 13: just doing it some days because I don't have a choice.
- 58:28Speaker 9: Like what do you do in a situation like that?
- 58:30Speaker 6: It's very difficult. It's going to be a war, and
- 58:34Speaker 6: you have to be prepared. And this is what I'm
- 58:36Speaker 6: saying to you. Once you go through your journey, and
- 58:38Speaker 6: you're going through your journey right now, I've gone through mine.
- 58:42Speaker 6: Now I'm evolving, all right, because, like you said, you
- 58:45Speaker 6: don't just get there and stop. Not the same man
- 58:47Speaker 6: you are thirty five or forty five, fifty five. You're
- 58:49Speaker 6: gonna change, You're gonna evrow. But coming into self, coming
- 58:53Speaker 6: into knowledge of self, knowing who I am, knowing that
- 58:57Speaker 6: I know why I get upset about certain things. I
- 58:59Speaker 6: know why certain things trigger me. I know when I
- 59:02Speaker 6: need to remove myself. I know when I need to
- 59:04Speaker 6: go in stronger because I'm aware of me. Now. Because
- 59:08Speaker 6: I'm aware of me, it helps I help myself in
- 59:11Speaker 6: the unhealthy conversation. I don't make it more unhealthy. I
- 59:14Speaker 6: don't make it more toxic. Because at one point I
- 59:17Speaker 6: was I would keep pushing and keep pushing and keep
- 59:20Speaker 6: pushing because I'm trying to get you to understand what
- 59:22Speaker 6: I'm saying. But I realized you're never going to understand.
- 59:25Speaker 6: You don't have the capacity. So what I've learned now
- 59:28Speaker 6: is that now that I faultifind me, there's no need
- 59:30Speaker 6: for me to fight you because you don't know you.
- 59:33Speaker 6: I need to retreat and let you be you and
- 59:36Speaker 6: come back on another time to have a conversation.
- 59:39Speaker 13: Do you do that differently in different situations, because like,
- 59:41Speaker 13: for instance, with my dad, I do that all the time,
- 59:44Speaker 13: but with other people I go all the way like
- 59:46Speaker 13: that's not happening. Like, so, do you feel like you're
- 59:49Speaker 13: more in your fight you further along with certain people
- 59:52Speaker 13: certain situations?
- 59:53Speaker 9: Okay, so different, Yeah.
- 59:54Speaker 6: Because the're different people, different relationships, different levels of covenant. Yeah, definitely, definitely,
- 1:00:00Speaker 6: that's what we Father. We thank you for this amazing
- 1:00:02Speaker 6: opportunity to be with my brothers and my sister. We
- 1:00:04Speaker 6: asked you bless her as she continues to fight to
- 1:00:07Speaker 6: find herself and move in this industry, that she is
- 1:00:10Speaker 6: more than enough and she's capable of taking it to
- 1:00:12Speaker 6: the next dimension. We thank you for both of my brothers,
- 1:00:15Speaker 6: who have been staples in this industry for a long time,
- 1:00:18Speaker 6: continue to allow their minds to evolve. Bless their families,
- 1:00:22Speaker 6: Bless their children. Everyone is to connect it to them
- 1:00:25Speaker 6: God as they continue to soar in their fields. Father,
- 1:00:27Speaker 6: we thank you for the day. We thank you for
- 1:00:29Speaker 6: another opportunity to praise your name. We asked you seal it.
- 1:00:33Speaker 6: We thank you for your glory and your divine grace
- 1:00:35Speaker 6: in Jesus name. Amen, Amen, thank you all. You got
- 1:00:39Speaker 6: to do it one more time.
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: The Breakfast.
- 1:00:43Speaker 5: You good Lord, I'm great.
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: Tell them that call.
- 1:00:48Speaker 10: Come.
- 1:00:48Speaker 9: I've already had conversation.
- 1:00:50Speaker 13: I've never let anything that happens on air happen on
- 1:00:52Speaker 13: air first before anybody important in my life.
- 1:00:54Speaker 9: Here is it except for my dad. I love my dad,
- 1:00:59Speaker 9: but it's just like we don't talk any other time,
- 1:01:01Speaker 9: So why would I call you now?
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's get to the latest with Lauren.
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: Lauren becoming a.
- 1:01:06Speaker 4: Straight fast she gets somebody that knows somebody detail.
- 1:01:12Speaker 9: I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything,
- 1:01:14Speaker 9: and she'd.
- 1:01:15Speaker 2: Be having the latest on the Latest with Laurena la Rosa.
- 1:01:20Speaker 5: Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
- 1:01:22Speaker 2: Sometimes you have a little bit of everything on the
- 1:01:25Speaker 2: Breakfast Club.
- 1:01:27Speaker 13: All right, guys, So before we get to the Kevin
- 1:01:29Speaker 13: Spacey story that I know I teased last hour, let's
- 1:01:31Speaker 13: talk a little bit about Portia Williams again. Now I
- 1:01:34Speaker 13: told you, guys that yesterday I received the statement, and
- 1:01:37Speaker 13: the statement laid out the fact that Portia was alleging
- 1:01:41Speaker 13: that someone had you know, was coming for her, and
- 1:01:43Speaker 13: that's how this whole thing started.
- 1:01:44Speaker 9: We now know that this whole thing was about cell
- 1:01:46Speaker 9: phone volume.
- 1:01:47Speaker 13: So there is body cam that was released by the
- 1:01:49Speaker 13: Atlanta Police Department, and you have Porschia Williams explaining her
- 1:01:53Speaker 13: side of why there was an incident on a flight
- 1:01:55Speaker 13: where the FBI now has her on the radar, and
- 1:01:58Speaker 13: then you have the woman she got into the incident
- 1:02:00Speaker 13: went explaining as well. Let's say, listen to Poortie explaining.
- 1:02:03Speaker 15: The lady who was sitting next to me.
- 1:02:06Speaker 16: I was on my phone and the.
- 1:02:08Speaker 15: Volume was up on the phone and she turned to
- 1:02:11Speaker 15: me out of nowhere, and she said, so you're gonna
- 1:02:13Speaker 15: make me listen to that the whole play? And I said,
- 1:02:16Speaker 15: well do you want to?
- 1:02:17Speaker 9: She said no.
- 1:02:18Speaker 14: So who guys went in Losabe was one of Yeah,
- 1:02:21Speaker 14: the plane was on the wall, yes, And so what
- 1:02:23Speaker 14: was a.
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: Nice way to say that? She said?
- 1:02:27Speaker 9: From that point and she said, who do you think
- 1:02:29Speaker 9: you are?
- 1:02:30Speaker 15: And so I said, I said, oh, no, no, no, I
- 1:02:32Speaker 15: said that y'all need to get her out of here.
- 1:02:33Speaker 7: Please get her away from me.
- 1:02:34Speaker 15: She tried to take her phone before, and then she
- 1:02:36Speaker 15: drops her phone on the floor.
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: She's like, you hate me.
- 1:02:38Speaker 9: Oh my god, you hate me. You just hit me
- 1:02:40Speaker 9: in my face.
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: Oh my god.
- 1:02:42Speaker 9: I'm pressing charges.
- 1:02:43Speaker 15: I want you to be in jail alone. So the
- 1:02:45Speaker 15: so then the steward comes over, and then the steward
- 1:02:48Speaker 15: says to her, says to me, because I say, you know,
- 1:02:52Speaker 15: get your ugly.
- 1:02:52Speaker 8: Eyes out of her, cause then I'm afect.
- 1:02:54Speaker 15: And they ended up making her move to the next
- 1:02:56Speaker 15: chair with the guy. But she was I right, so
- 1:02:59Speaker 15: they were trying to hold her.
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: So you're saying, you're telling me that I was nothing physical, it.
- 1:03:03Speaker 10: Was just verbal. Yeah.
- 1:03:05Speaker 13: Now the police officer from Lena p D is asking
- 1:03:07Speaker 13: Porsche if there was nothing physical but only verbal because
- 1:03:10Speaker 13: the woman who Portia Williams got into it is alleging
- 1:03:13Speaker 13: that Portia hit her. Now, let's take a listen to
- 1:03:17Speaker 13: this woman who says she is fearing for her life.
- 1:03:19Speaker 9: Now, so I heard about the incident that happened, but
- 1:03:22Speaker 9: I haven't heard the side of the story.
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: What we hear my side of the story?
- 1:03:26Speaker 10: First?
- 1:03:26Speaker 16: Sure, well, I had another officer, Oh, Okay, well spoke.
- 1:03:30Speaker 6: To you, but I just want to hear it.
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: That's someone read it, didn't see that happened.
- 1:03:34Speaker 6: I was sitting in my seat in Delta Airline sheeat
- 1:03:38Speaker 6: number three A B.
- 1:03:39Speaker 8: I believe this happened in Las Vegas.
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: Yes, while depend who was still bought in? No Dean
- 1:03:46Speaker 2: Wasn't they be sure I say anything.
- 1:03:48Speaker 15: I want to know.
- 1:03:49Speaker 8: Is my information going to be given to the.
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: Woman who assaulted me?
- 1:03:53Speaker 8: Because I'm afraid from my life?
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: No, no, it's not capital h.
- 1:04:00Speaker 5: He ain't touched that woman. Cut it out.
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: But I will say this, we all need headphones on
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: the plane. Okay, that's my wife's pet peeve. She cannot
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: stand when somebody got their phone listening to watching the
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: video or watching someone on their laptop. Like she does
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: not like that. And she's absolutely right, by the way,
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: I have a tendency to do that too. But sometimes
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: I be watching something on the plane and it's like
- 1:04:19Speaker 1: with no headphones.
- 1:04:20Speaker 5: We all need headphones on the.
- 1:04:23Speaker 2: But sometimes is the way you talk to people?
- 1:04:26Speaker 6: Right?
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: They excuse me? Can you can turned it down a
- 1:04:29Speaker 2: little bit?
- 1:04:29Speaker 4: I'm trying to sleep, Okay, no problem, but when you
- 1:04:31Speaker 4: start talking to me like you my mother, but I'm
- 1:04:34Speaker 4: your child.
- 1:04:34Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna get disrespectful too.
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: I think the plane should actually announce that, like you
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: know how the plane announces all the things that you,
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: I guess can't do on the flight.
- 1:04:41Speaker 2: They should say that.
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: They should be like, hey, make you see you got
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: your headphones, don't play your phones loud.
- 1:04:45Speaker 9: They should do that. They depend on where you're your
- 1:04:48Speaker 9: person should say that.
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: Yeah, they definitely do that.
- 1:04:50Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 1:04:50Speaker 13: So I did ask the FBI if now this takes
- 1:04:53Speaker 13: this off of their radar, like you know where we
- 1:04:55Speaker 13: are right now basically because people are waiting to see
- 1:04:58Speaker 13: if will there be chargeable then, like, what's going to
- 1:05:00Speaker 13: happen that be? I said, they can't confirm anything to me,
- 1:05:02Speaker 13: but I do know that there's supposed to be some
- 1:05:04Speaker 13: new news in this situation today, So we'll be back
- 1:05:06Speaker 13: with that. But it just seems like it was just
- 1:05:08Speaker 13: an argument back and forth. Both of them were able
- 1:05:10Speaker 13: to get to where they were going and now there's
- 1:05:13Speaker 13: claims on both sides. So we'll see what happens in
- 1:05:16Speaker 13: other news. So, Kevin Spacey, Kevin Spacey did an interview
- 1:05:20Speaker 13: with the Telegraph, and in this interview, he is in
- 1:05:24Speaker 13: Cyprus and he is doing a live show. It's like
- 1:05:28Speaker 13: a one night only type of show where he's like
- 1:05:30Speaker 13: singing and telling stories. And you guys, remember back in
- 1:05:34Speaker 13: twenty twenty two, there were back.
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: In yes, don't worry about it after that question yea
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: to the story.
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:05:43Speaker 4: So basically, I know the guys can't say that you
- 1:05:48Speaker 4: cannot suck the no, that you cannot say that you
- 1:05:50Speaker 4: can't put the two together on air, Like, yeah, people
- 1:05:54Speaker 4: do that.
- 1:05:55Speaker 2: He did it.
- 1:05:56Speaker 9: I said, you.
- 1:05:57Speaker 5: Don't say you can't do it because I heard you
- 1:05:59Speaker 5: a perfessional.
- 1:06:00Speaker 2: What are you talking about. Yeah.
- 1:06:04Speaker 13: So, at the time of all the allegations, Kevin Spacey
- 1:06:07Speaker 13: was a starring A House of Cards that was like a.
- 1:06:10Speaker 9: Huge deal for him.
- 1:06:11Speaker 13: He was reportedly making I think like five hundred thousand
- 1:06:13Speaker 13: dollars in an episode at the time, and then all
- 1:06:16Speaker 13: these allegations hit and.
- 1:06:19Speaker 9: He lost everything. He was taking off everything.
- 1:06:21Speaker 13: A lot of people say that he was one of
- 1:06:22Speaker 13: the people that canceled culture actually worked on. So in
- 1:06:26Speaker 13: this interview, he's having a conversation about where he is
- 1:06:28Speaker 13: now and he's there, he's doing this one night only
- 1:06:31Speaker 13: show and people and he's saying he knows people are
- 1:06:33Speaker 13: going to look at this like, is this his fight
- 1:06:35Speaker 13: to try and return again, And he says, you know,
- 1:06:39Speaker 13: he hasn't been in the best space financially. He says,
- 1:06:42Speaker 13: he's living in hotels, living in airbing b's, and he's
- 1:06:45Speaker 13: just going where the work is currently. They act him,
- 1:06:49Speaker 13: you know, at one point, because he did lose all
- 1:06:50Speaker 13: of his homes. Also, they asked him if he's considered bankruptcy,
- 1:06:55Speaker 13: and he says it was discussed, but it never got
- 1:06:57Speaker 13: to that point. And again, he was a quick it
- 1:07:00Speaker 13: on all charges of sexual assault, but you know that
- 1:07:03Speaker 13: didn't stop everything from being.
- 1:07:05Speaker 16: Taken from under five hundred thousand dollars an episode at one.
- 1:07:08Speaker 13: Point reportedly yeah for House of Cards, yep. And he
- 1:07:12Speaker 13: says that all of his stuff to right now is
- 1:07:14Speaker 13: still in storage because he's just kind of gonna.
- 1:07:17Speaker 9: Have anywhere to put it.
- 1:07:19Speaker 4: Yeah, he's what he spent his money on lawyer's attorneys
- 1:07:22Speaker 4: and all that other stuff, because that's a that's a
- 1:07:24Speaker 4: lot of money. He's Kevin Spacey. He did a lot
- 1:07:26Speaker 4: of movement, that's yeah, I mean.
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: And also, what's the problem with him trying to make
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: a comeback If he was trying if he was a
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: quitted on.
- 1:07:33Speaker 9: All charges, I don't think that there's a problem.
- 1:07:35Speaker 13: I think he was more so having trying to get
- 1:07:37Speaker 13: ahead of people saying he has no money and this
- 1:07:40Speaker 13: is why he's over here during this random one night
- 1:07:43Speaker 13: only show.
- 1:07:43Speaker 9: And he's like, it's not even that.
- 1:07:45Speaker 13: I'm just in the space where he says that he's
- 1:07:48Speaker 13: leaning back into things that he actually likes to do,
- 1:07:51Speaker 13: which is singing and being able to tell stories.
- 1:07:55Speaker 9: Yeah, but he did also too thin.
- 1:07:57Speaker 13: In this article, he reflects a lot on even though
- 1:07:59Speaker 13: he was a it are certain things he said that
- 1:08:02Speaker 13: he had to do a lot of self reflection about
- 1:08:04Speaker 13: why he was so easily able to fit into the
- 1:08:07Speaker 13: narrative of the bad guy. He said that it made
- 1:08:09Speaker 13: him really sit down and have a conversation about some
- 1:08:11Speaker 13: of the decisions he made and not speaking out sooner
- 1:08:13Speaker 13: for himself.
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: Story about him getting behind a tree. Maybe I'm making
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: this up. I just feel like I've read that before.
- 1:08:21Speaker 9: I don't know.
- 1:08:21Speaker 2: I don't know, but that's how I'll find out. That's sad.
- 1:08:25Speaker 4: If he was found not guilty acquitted of all charges,
- 1:08:28Speaker 4: he had to spend all that money. He still canceled
- 1:08:30Speaker 4: he still can't do movies. He still can't do like
- 1:08:32Speaker 4: that is crazy. That the fact that he's dead ass
- 1:08:35Speaker 4: broke and he was found not guilty and he's done
- 1:08:38Speaker 4: some crazy like he's done like House of Car's Usual Suspects.
- 1:08:41Speaker 2: L A Confidential. Yeah, they were like wold. But if
- 1:08:48Speaker 2: he's found not guilty, he was acquitted of all.
- 1:08:50Speaker 5: Of them, right, Yeah, but they were still wild.
- 1:08:53Speaker 13: And I think I think a lot of it too,
- 1:08:55Speaker 13: was because he was so big at that time. I
- 1:08:56Speaker 13: know we got a right because he was so big
- 1:08:58Speaker 13: at that time and the show was so big. A
- 1:09:00Speaker 13: lot we see this all the time sometimes corporations, movies, studios,
- 1:09:04Speaker 13: they just want to back.
- 1:09:04Speaker 2: And it was the height of cancel culture.
- 1:09:06Speaker 4: Like he might have been like the first Yeah, sacrifice,
- 1:09:09Speaker 4: he's like a post like sacrifice.
- 1:09:12Speaker 5: This means w people had to back away. They didn't
- 1:09:13Speaker 5: know what the hell was going on.
- 1:09:14Speaker 4: And I don't think anybody's laughing at him, right because
- 1:09:17Speaker 4: if he did something stupid like rob a bank or
- 1:09:19Speaker 4: did something stupid to getting money, we'd be like.
- 1:09:20Speaker 6: Oh, he's stupid.
- 1:09:21Speaker 4: But the fact that he's on broad where he's doing
- 1:09:23Speaker 4: one night staying whatever he's doing, the fact that whatever
- 1:09:26Speaker 4: you call it.
- 1:09:27Speaker 9: One one, one night only come. You gotta see.
- 1:09:30Speaker 13: He was supposed to do a bunch of different nights
- 1:09:32Speaker 13: in other places, but they ended up getting cance story
- 1:09:34Speaker 13: about the saggregations.
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: Somebody tree tree what I don't I don't know if
- 1:09:40Speaker 1: he had sex with the tree or he was sucking
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: on the tree or something with the tree.
- 1:09:43Speaker 9: The tree, how do you go to jail sucking on
- 1:09:45Speaker 9: the tree?
- 1:09:46Speaker 2: Make sure I don't remember.
- 1:09:47Speaker 1: I just I'm just maybe I'm just conflating all of
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: the different things. I just remember that was so long ago.
- 1:09:52Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't know about that.
- 1:09:53Speaker 13: I know he had made like some advances towards somebody
- 1:09:55Speaker 13: during like a party, like there were things like that.
- 1:09:57Speaker 13: But I do know that some of the stuff they
- 1:09:59Speaker 13: get wild, and he was. It was earlier on in
- 1:10:01Speaker 13: all the canceled conversations. God bless the treat you.
- 1:10:04Speaker 5: Out there putting your mouth on random branches.
- 1:10:07Speaker 2: That is the legend.
- 1:10:08Speaker 5: Jesus Christ racking people snap that you don't know.
- 1:10:11Speaker 4: Crazy Now, I don't forget Jess's head. Just fix my
- 1:10:14Speaker 4: messes coming up in a little bit. You can get
- 1:10:15Speaker 4: on the phone lines right now. Eight hundred and five
- 1:10:18Speaker 4: eight five one oh five one for just to fix
- 1:10:19Speaker 4: your mess now, Charloane Donkey, Day's up next.
- 1:10:21Speaker 5: Yes man, speaking of sexual deviance.
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: We need this woman, Angel Lynn Carl from Florida to
- 1:10:26Speaker 1: come to the front of the congregation. I really just
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: don't know what's going on in the world anymore, but
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: y'all need Jesus.
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: All right, we'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 1:10:33Speaker 5: Good morning.
- 1:10:33Speaker 2: Make sure to watch off of Florida Mia.
- 1:10:38Speaker 1: The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: all of Florida.
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: Yes, or a.
- 1:10:44Speaker 3: Donkey the Florida man a tapped an ATM for a.
- 1:10:47Speaker 9: Very strange reason. It gave him too much money.
- 1:10:50Speaker 4: Florida man is arrested after define say he rigged the
- 1:10:52Speaker 4: door to his home in an attempt to electric hid
- 1:10:54Speaker 4: his pregnant rights.
- 1:10:55Speaker 9: Police arrested in Orlando man.
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: We're talking a Famada the Breakfast Club, bitch you Donkey
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: of the day with shallam hey the guy.
- 1:11:02Speaker 2: I don't know why y'all keeping letting him get y'all
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: like this.
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: It's not me little dubal Okay, it's Florida Donkey of
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: Today for Thursday, November twentieth goes to a clear Water,
- 1:11:09Speaker 1: Florida woman named Angel Lynn Curl. What does your uncle
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: Shall always say to you about the great state of Florida?
- 1:11:15Speaker 5: Say it with me.
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: all of Florida, and today is no exception. And I
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: must say, boy, Florida got the Bronx beat by a
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: long shot. Okay, I'm starting to realize the Bronx is
- 1:11:27Speaker 1: just pretty violent, all right. Folks in Florida are legitimately crazy,
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: and it's the difference between being violent and crazy. And
- 1:11:33Speaker 1: people in Florida are nuttier than a yellow bag of Eminem's. Okay,
- 1:11:37Speaker 1: you don't believe me, look no further than Angel Curl. Okay,
- 1:11:39Speaker 1: I'm going to say a word right now, and that
- 1:11:41Speaker 1: word will cause a visceral reaction to many out there.
- 1:11:45Speaker 1: And the word it's three to them. Some people like
- 1:11:50Speaker 1: to invite others into their bedroom. Okay, personally, I'm too
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: in decisive for it.
- 1:11:53Speaker 5: Threeesome.
- 1:11:53Speaker 3: I learned that a long, long, long, long, long, long,
- 1:11:55Speaker 3: long long long long time ago, Okay, early twenties, when
- 1:12:00Speaker 3: we was in these streets while and' on drugs drinking,
- 1:12:02Speaker 3: I realized that things like threesomes are way too overstimulating
- 1:12:05Speaker 3: for me.
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: All Right, some things you try once and you know
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: you cool on. And I couldn't even imagine that my
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: big grown age partaking in such things. But I'm not
- 1:12:12Speaker 1: knocking anyone who lives that lifestyle, do you boo? But
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: just know I've seen TWA I and TWA two. I
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: have no reason to want to open Pandora's box. One
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: box is enough for me, but some folks have to
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: learn that the hard way. That leads me to the
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: story of Angel Lynn Curl.
- 1:12:28Speaker 5: Now.
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: According to police reports, Angel Lynn Curl and her boyfriend
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: both forty seven years old my age. Okay, they were
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: bought in nineteen hundred and seventy eight, like me. They
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: invited a female friend over to their apartment in clear Water,
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: and according to reports on the smoking gun, they intended
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: to engage in hot, steamy, sweaty sexual activity, hunching and
- 1:12:53Speaker 1: that floor to humidity. Yep, that's what they intended to do.
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: They wanted to be grown. But for some strange reason,
- 1:12:59Speaker 1: the threesome did happen. Police don't mention a reason. Okay,
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: they didn't. They don't mention a reason. For the night
- 1:13:04Speaker 1: taking a turn. But the police did say that at
- 1:13:07Speaker 1: some point all parties decline participating in sexual activity. Let
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: the record show this is the adult version of scheduling
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: a play date and then happen the play date not happen. Okay,
- 1:13:16Speaker 1: But it's not that all parties decline to participate and
- 1:13:19Speaker 1: in sexual activity.
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: I mean, it's not that all the parties.
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: It's not just that all the parties declined to participate
- 1:13:24Speaker 1: in sexual activity. It's what happened after all the parties
- 1:13:28Speaker 1: declined to participate in sexual activity. See, Angel must have
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: been very horny, and Angel, you're not yourself in you're
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: horny because Angel turned into a devil all right. The
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: disappointment of not being able to pull back some meat
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: curtains must have been too much for the Angel to handle.
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: I mean, Angel must have been feeding the feast on
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: a fur burger, because, according to police and the witness
- 1:13:48Speaker 1: who happened to be the other woman, Angel started punching
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: her boyfriend in the face one fifteen on a Sunday morning.
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: All of y'all should have had y'all asses in the
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: bed getting some sleep so you could prepare to be
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: in somebody's church in the morning. But no, y'all up
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: ready to have a meat and too badge combo meal.
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: That meat and too badge combo meal didn't happen. So
- 1:14:09Speaker 1: now Angel like, hell no, if we're not beating up
- 1:14:12Speaker 1: no fish lips, something getting beaten in this house tonight,
- 1:14:14Speaker 1: and it's gonna be you. So she started beating on
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: her boyfriend and she was placed under arrest for domestic battery.
- 1:14:20Speaker 1: Fellas toxic femininity doesn't get discussed enough. Okay, this is
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: why so many men are choosing to bear over women.
- 1:14:29Speaker 1: I mean, just think about this. Clearly based off what
- 1:14:31Speaker 1: we now know, all right, this threesome was Angel's idea.
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: So her boyfriend decides he doesn't want to do it, Okay,
- 1:14:39Speaker 1: the other woman decides she doesn't.
- 1:14:40Speaker 5: Want to do it, and then Angel beats up the boyfriend.
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: Based off recent events of the last two years, Angel
- 1:14:46Speaker 1: should be charged with a RICO.
- 1:14:48Speaker 5: Okay, you organize the freak.
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: Off and then when I don't want to participate, I
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: get beat on all because I didn't want to put
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: a deposit in somebody else's meat wallet. Listen, I'm all
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: forced sexual liberation the women. I think women should be
- 1:15:02Speaker 1: able to make whatever sexual decision they want. But if
- 1:15:04Speaker 1: I change my mind as a man about whatever we
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: have planned to do sexually, then respect my decision, ma'am. Okay,
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: that should not lead to me getting beat on just
- 1:15:12Speaker 1: because I don't want to plant my seed in another
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: woman's lady garden. What if all I wanted was one
- 1:15:18Speaker 1: penis glove? Better yet, what if all I needed was
- 1:15:21Speaker 1: one penis glove? And I realized that in that moment,
- 1:15:24Speaker 1: the energy wasn't right. I wasn't feeling it. I don't
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: have to give a reason. No means no, ma'am. And
- 1:15:29Speaker 1: if the penis glove don't fit, then another woman can't
- 1:15:32Speaker 1: suck my thoes?
- 1:15:34Speaker 5: Stop it?
- 1:15:35Speaker 2: Are you going? You know what you're about to say?
- 1:15:38Speaker 2: What do you mean?
- 1:15:39Speaker 10: Right?
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: Please give Angel Lynn Curl the sweet sounds and the Hamiltons.
- 1:15:43Speaker 2: Oh no, you are the dog gee.
- 1:15:47Speaker 10: Of the day, the dog gee all the day.
- 1:15:56Speaker 1: Yee, and Angel, let me tell you another thing. You
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: got arrested at one fifteen in the morning. The eyewitness
- 1:16:07Speaker 1: was the other woman that y'all called over. You know
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: what they was doing while y'all was in jail?
- 1:16:11Speaker 5: Oh wow, while he was in jail.
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: You know what they was doing.
- 1:16:16Speaker 5: Okay, that was a plan to get your stupid ass
- 1:16:18Speaker 5: up out of there.
- 1:16:20Speaker 2: Okay, But why why did they turn down the three someome?
- 1:16:22Speaker 10: Was it?
- 1:16:23Speaker 2: Maybe the girl didn't look I had no idea. Maybe
- 1:16:25Speaker 2: there was a smell.
- 1:16:27Speaker 5: I don't know. I have no idea. I don't want
- 1:16:29Speaker 5: to be the judge of that.
- 1:16:30Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.
- 1:16:31Speaker 9: All right, it sounded like a TV movie.
- 1:16:36Speaker 5: Called Alvin Gray.
- 1:16:40Speaker 9: That sounded like something I've watched before.
- 1:16:42Speaker 4: All right, Well that is donkey today, Thank you, sir.
- 1:16:45Speaker 4: Up next, Jess, fix my mess. Eight hundred five eight
- 1:16:49Speaker 4: five one oh five one. Jess is here, and she's
- 1:16:51Speaker 4: fixing your mess. If you got a problem something going
- 1:16:53Speaker 4: on your relationship, maybe your three some didn't work out,
- 1:16:57Speaker 4: whatever it maybe eight hundred five eight five one oh five.
- 1:16:59Speaker 2: One, just fixed our mess. Is the breakfast Club. Good morning, Burdon.
- 1:17:04Speaker 7: We'll tell you help me.
- 1:17:07Speaker 9: Oh I'm all up in your mess.
- 1:17:08Speaker 16: I'm gonna fix itix it, fix it, Just gonna fix
- 1:17:13Speaker 16: your mess, because my advice is real morning.
- 1:17:16Speaker 2: Everybody is the j Envy, just hilarious, Charlamagne the guy.
- 1:17:19Speaker 2: We are the breakfast Club.
- 1:17:21Speaker 4: Now it's time for just fix my mess, and we
- 1:17:24Speaker 4: have the coal on the line, the cold.
- 1:17:25Speaker 14: Good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning.
- 1:17:28Speaker 2: What's something to col what you call it from?
- 1:17:29Speaker 14: I'm called all right, Charlomade.
- 1:17:31Speaker 4: I'm from the Bronx from Oh boy, all right, take
- 1:17:34Speaker 4: me through there, take me through there.
- 1:17:36Speaker 2: What's your question?
- 1:17:37Speaker 14: Okay, we're all from the Bronx, and the one that
- 1:17:41Speaker 14: I'm talking about is from the upper class Bronx, Mount Vernon.
- 1:17:44Speaker 4: Okay, I thought Westchester was the upper class Bronx, butkad,
- 1:17:46Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
- 1:17:48Speaker 14: Here's Westchester County, Mount Vernon.
- 1:17:49Speaker 9: All right, he's just trying to check. Okay, what's going on?
- 1:17:53Speaker 10: Bag?
- 1:17:53Speaker 9: What's trunk?
- 1:17:54Speaker 14: What happened is okay? First of all, the person I'm
- 1:17:57Speaker 14: talking about is like Kim from horse Swadlanta, same color
- 1:18:02Speaker 14: on the.
- 1:18:02Speaker 9: Front of the hand, in the back of the hand. Anyway, Okay,
- 1:18:05Speaker 9: I got all the rest.
- 1:18:06Speaker 14: Of us is us anyway?
- 1:18:10Speaker 9: Okay?
- 1:18:10Speaker 14: Yes, she but she Italian? So wait, white and everybody
- 1:18:17Speaker 14: that knows us gonna know that it's me and I
- 1:18:19Speaker 14: don't give up.
- 1:18:20Speaker 9: Okay, Okay, all right.
- 1:18:22Speaker 14: Okay, sorry for terna say they say it's more in
- 1:18:24Speaker 14: the show's sorry, But anyway, what happened is just decides
- 1:18:29Speaker 14: to conjure up a text message dialect, saying that it
- 1:18:33Speaker 14: was from me to her, and decides to send it
- 1:18:37Speaker 14: to him and his other baby mother. I don't know
- 1:18:42Speaker 14: where I swear. I wish I could show you how
- 1:18:44Speaker 14: to text message this success. Decides to say that I am,
- 1:18:50Speaker 14: I guess just functional and feeling myself and I'm gonna
- 1:18:55Speaker 14: kill myself because he's in love with the other baby
- 1:18:58Speaker 14: mother first of all, or something like like on some
- 1:19:03Speaker 14: side of bullying type sh like acting like I'm like,
- 1:19:08Speaker 14: but the whole thing in the nutshell, she the dialect
- 1:19:10Speaker 14: that she put up, She stuff and put what I
- 1:19:13Speaker 14: was supposed to say on her side.
- 1:19:16Speaker 2: Dummy.
- 1:19:17Speaker 16: Oh okay, so she was lying. She is fabricated anyway,
- 1:19:20Speaker 16: and she ain't do it right.
- 1:19:21Speaker 14: So yeah, she stuff and dumped herself out. You take
- 1:19:25Speaker 14: yourself out of.
- 1:19:26Speaker 9: The running, dummy, Okay, okay.
- 1:19:28Speaker 14: Anyway, so she does and does that and make it
- 1:19:31Speaker 14: seem as though I'm trying to kill myself and I'm
- 1:19:36Speaker 14: in love with him and he's in love with somebody else.
- 1:19:39Speaker 14: None of this is happening.
- 1:19:40Speaker 16: It's like you're going crazy. It seems like you're going
- 1:19:42Speaker 16: crazy because you can't have it.
- 1:19:46Speaker 14: And now the other day your mother pulled and me like,
- 1:19:49Speaker 14: oh my god, are you okay, I'm like, what he's
- 1:19:51Speaker 14: talking about the day before my birthday?
- 1:19:55Speaker 10: Oh wow?
- 1:19:56Speaker 9: Okay, okay, right, so.
- 1:19:58Speaker 14: I'm like the fact that she is white, I'm like,
- 1:20:01Speaker 14: I need to hit you where you like to be
- 1:20:03Speaker 14: to be hit at.
- 1:20:05Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, gotta do that.
- 1:20:07Speaker 14: That's just straight up so that it's a fiction.
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: Ass stop cursing.
- 1:20:15Speaker 14: I'm sorry. It's a family show.
- 1:20:17Speaker 9: Keep boy saying it's a family show.
- 1:20:19Speaker 14: My dad, my dad.
- 1:20:21Speaker 6: All right.
- 1:20:21Speaker 9: So look, let me get this straight.
- 1:20:22Speaker 6: All right.
- 1:20:23Speaker 16: So the person that you're talking about is your baby father,
- 1:20:26Speaker 16: no me.
- 1:20:26Speaker 14: Or him, Me and him in a relationship.
- 1:20:28Speaker 10: All right.
- 1:20:29Speaker 9: So this don't mean your baby.
- 1:20:30Speaker 16: This is somebody that you deal with and his baby mother,
- 1:20:35Speaker 16: and his baby mother.
- 1:20:36Speaker 9: Is a clown.
- 1:20:37Speaker 14: Basically everybody's done now right now, this is dumb, Okay, midnight, all.
- 1:20:46Speaker 9: Right, No, I got you.
- 1:20:47Speaker 2: All right.
- 1:20:48Speaker 16: So the guy that you're dealing with, his baby mother
- 1:20:51Speaker 16: is making up stuff about you, fabricating stories, basically telling
- 1:20:55Speaker 16: them that like trying to make you look crazy. She
- 1:20:58Speaker 16: orchestrated some some message that she didn't even edit right
- 1:21:02Speaker 16: to make you look bad. It just makes her look stupid.
- 1:21:04Speaker 16: And what is the guy saying? Is the guy falling
- 1:21:06Speaker 16: for the crap?
- 1:21:07Speaker 9: Like, what's happening? Okay? This is this house right right?
- 1:21:14Speaker 14: Not even about him. I don't care how he feel
- 1:21:16Speaker 14: about it, we feel about I don't care about that.
- 1:21:19Speaker 11: Who will think you are?
- 1:21:21Speaker 9: Yeah, that's either this. I want to beat you up, right, and.
- 1:21:25Speaker 16: I don't want you to go to jails, so because
- 1:21:27Speaker 16: you don't deserve that at all. So don't even beat
- 1:21:30Speaker 16: her uposed?
- 1:21:32Speaker 9: Yeah? Leave, yeah, just leave.
- 1:21:34Speaker 14: You did this to me.
- 1:21:36Speaker 9: You running doing this probably everywhere everywhere. I believe that.
- 1:21:41Speaker 14: You know what, how is she needs to be exposed?
- 1:21:43Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 1:21:44Speaker 9: How long y'all been dealing with each other? How long
- 1:21:46Speaker 9: you been dealing with this guy?
- 1:21:47Speaker 14: I've been dealing with this guy for the last eight years,
- 1:21:49Speaker 14: but I've know he's my first I was like.
- 1:21:51Speaker 16: Fourteen, oh god, and then all of all right, so
- 1:21:54Speaker 16: y'all got history. Y'all, So you're a threat to this
- 1:21:57Speaker 16: girl basically because you was dealing with him before you
- 1:21:59Speaker 16: even got a baby, My.
- 1:22:00Speaker 14: Love, I'm a threat to the world, period.
- 1:22:02Speaker 9: All right, period?
- 1:22:04Speaker 16: Okay, all right, well, look, don't go to jail. Lead
- 1:22:07Speaker 16: this guy alone.
- 1:22:08Speaker 14: That's what I'm saying.
- 1:22:10Speaker 16: This baby mother is gonna make you do some things
- 1:22:12Speaker 16: that you don't have no business doing. And you gotta
- 1:22:16Speaker 16: man like you gotta realize, you gotta count that jail
- 1:22:18Speaker 16: says like Charlomagne always say, you gotta count. You gotta
- 1:22:21Speaker 16: do do your math, do your jail math, because you
- 1:22:23Speaker 16: can't be in jail behind this nigga.
- 1:22:25Speaker 14: Oh, I definitely can't do a day. I'm cute for that.
- 1:22:27Speaker 14: I'm just saying, and.
- 1:22:32Speaker 16: All right, well look do it that way go se
- 1:22:35Speaker 16: I asked you can leave you alone.
- 1:22:37Speaker 9: You probably get a nice payday or whatever.
- 1:22:39Speaker 12: Or next to me anywhere.
- 1:22:43Speaker 14: She can't see that table.
- 1:22:44Speaker 16: I'm at crazy that what she gonna have her ass
- 1:22:46Speaker 16: in court if you go there.
- 1:22:48Speaker 9: So that's that's that's the best place for y'all to
- 1:22:50Speaker 9: handle this.
- 1:22:51Speaker 4: All right, by party mouth, by Jesus, the craziest people
- 1:22:55Speaker 4: from the Bronx.
- 1:22:56Speaker 2: Look, these are your people, They're not my people. They
- 1:22:59Speaker 2: are in New York. He who's this good morning?
- 1:23:02Speaker 10: Good morning? Remain of not this morning only because okay
- 1:23:05Speaker 10: this is the radio.
- 1:23:06Speaker 9: Okay, that's what's up. What's going on?
- 1:23:08Speaker 10: So good morning death to one of the DMV shot right, God,
- 1:23:11Speaker 10: morning the morning. So I'm a dating look woman. She's
- 1:23:15Speaker 10: about thirty nine, and everything is going with for the
- 1:23:18Speaker 10: first like eight months. I guess you've seeing each other.
- 1:23:22Speaker 10: I was always making the effort, you know, trying to
- 1:23:25Speaker 10: get her out. Then things took a turn, and it's
- 1:23:28Speaker 10: like she lets her mama and her thirteen year old
- 1:23:31Speaker 10: daughter basically dictated control her life and her relationship. And
- 1:23:35Speaker 10: I keep trying to tell her life, you're gonna you're
- 1:23:37Speaker 10: gonna separate us by doing that. So next evening lately
- 1:23:41Speaker 10: she comes to.
- 1:23:41Speaker 2: See me like once a month.
- 1:23:42Speaker 10: Mind, you only live fifteen minutes apart, and you worth
- 1:23:45Speaker 10: five minutes from my house.
- 1:23:46Speaker 9: She sees you once a month once the more.
- 1:23:49Speaker 2: Okay, I can tell you that there is nobody else.
- 1:23:52Speaker 2: I know.
- 1:23:52Speaker 10: She's a faithful woman, Okay, but she's letting her family
- 1:23:56Speaker 10: run all over her and not be in a relationship. Really,
- 1:24:00Speaker 10: they don't want to see her.
- 1:24:00Speaker 16: Happy, so they dictate her life pretty much basically.
- 1:24:04Speaker 10: Yeah, like as soon as they tell her to do
- 1:24:06Speaker 10: some shut the dinner. Oh, we'll have to see if
- 1:24:10Speaker 10: I have time, which would you got to hunt?
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: Right?
- 1:24:12Speaker 9: Right?
- 1:24:12Speaker 16: But they don't want to see her happy because they
- 1:24:14Speaker 16: got that far. Yeah, they'll lose access to her, so
- 1:24:17Speaker 16: they don't want her to be happy in love exactly.
- 1:24:20Speaker 10: And then her daughter on top of there, she's like, yeah,
- 1:24:23Speaker 10: you don't like him. He's in vaiting in my in
- 1:24:25Speaker 10: my territory, which, like you know, your mama hasn't been
- 1:24:28Speaker 10: with anybody's now there's somebody there. You feel like they're invading.
- 1:24:32Speaker 10: But you're a child.
- 1:24:34Speaker 9: She's a child.
- 1:24:35Speaker 16: How old is she you say? You said she's thirteen?
- 1:24:37Speaker 10: Yeah, okay, I have a thirteen year old daughter too, Okay,
- 1:24:41Speaker 10: like that, I'm a single.
- 1:24:42Speaker 16: Parent, right right, right, And and the daughter's father is
- 1:24:46Speaker 16: in her life.
- 1:24:47Speaker 9: No, all right, So you want to know what to do.
- 1:24:50Speaker 9: How long y'all been dating?
- 1:24:51Speaker 10: Yeah, because like it's been a year and six months now,
- 1:24:55Speaker 10: and it's like it's really getting strained training now because
- 1:24:59Speaker 10: it's like you ever have time unless, like you know,
- 1:25:01Speaker 10: I do win a lot of tickets, think y'all. By
- 1:25:04Speaker 10: the way, I do win a lot of tickets on
- 1:25:05Speaker 10: the radio, and that seems to be the only time
- 1:25:09Speaker 10: she can make time. Oh, you got tickets out there,
- 1:25:11Speaker 10: I'll go to concert with you. But you can't make
- 1:25:14Speaker 10: time out of the week or the weekend and hale
- 1:25:16Speaker 10: time go to dinner.
- 1:25:18Speaker 16: Okay, all right, Well have you talked to her about this?
- 1:25:21Speaker 16: Like have you set her down? Like, look, what are
- 1:25:24Speaker 16: we doing?
- 1:25:24Speaker 5: Okay?
- 1:25:24Speaker 9: What comes of it? What are her responses?
- 1:25:27Speaker 16: Like?
- 1:25:27Speaker 9: Does she seem to care.
- 1:25:28Speaker 10: Or the same thing every time? Oh, I'm gonna try
- 1:25:30Speaker 10: and do better. You know, I haven't been spending time,
- 1:25:34Speaker 10: but it's like I tell you, just everything lately, I've
- 1:25:36Speaker 10: been dropping a lot of like shade, if you know
- 1:25:38Speaker 10: what I mean.
- 1:25:38Speaker 9: Yeah, I got yours.
- 1:25:40Speaker 10: Her cousin is dating my best friend. She goes to
- 1:25:43Speaker 10: see him and he lives next door to me. Her
- 1:25:45Speaker 10: cousin makes time to see this every day, right, and
- 1:25:48Speaker 10: if I tell him, like, it must be nice when
- 1:25:50Speaker 10: somebody you don't see somebody every day. Yeah, I gotta
- 1:25:53Speaker 10: wait force of months.
- 1:25:54Speaker 16: Yeah, well you know what it sounds. Yeah, no, it's
- 1:25:58Speaker 16: all good. What I think. It sounds like she doesn't
- 1:26:02Speaker 16: have time for a relationship, and neither does she want.
- 1:26:06Speaker 9: To prioritize her relationship.
- 1:26:08Speaker 16: You know, if her family is dictating, like you know,
- 1:26:11Speaker 16: her mom, her mom and her daughter.
- 1:26:12Speaker 9: If they're able to dictate her life.
- 1:26:14Speaker 16: It's about what she will it won't tolerate, you know
- 1:26:19Speaker 16: what I mean from them. But if this is our
- 1:26:21Speaker 16: way of living and this man brother, run for the hills,
- 1:26:25Speaker 16: because it's going to take a lot. It just seems like,
- 1:26:28Speaker 16: you know, a year, a year and six months, that's
- 1:26:31Speaker 16: eighteen months. That's that's not a lot a lot of time,
- 1:26:34Speaker 16: but that's much time invested to be on the same
- 1:26:37Speaker 16: page about this right now.
- 1:26:39Speaker 10: And know the worst thing is is your glad. She'll
- 1:26:42Speaker 10: be like, oh, well, you know, whenever we live together,
- 1:26:45Speaker 10: then you'll get time. Why do I not wait that long?
- 1:26:48Speaker 16: You're not even really giving me anything to make me
- 1:26:52Speaker 16: like even desire that.
- 1:26:53Speaker 9: I don't even know what that.
- 1:26:54Speaker 5: Would be like.
- 1:26:54Speaker 10: Yeah, and love to believe it, I said, and I
- 1:26:57Speaker 10: felt I said the word sound good, but the actually there.
- 1:27:00Speaker 16: Yeah, and that and that's just what it is. Yeah,
- 1:27:02Speaker 16: you gotta you gotta leave her, and then see.
- 1:27:07Speaker 10: My problem is because that's my struggle.
- 1:27:10Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, because you like.
- 1:27:12Speaker 10: We're gonna eight year relationship and it was hard for
- 1:27:14Speaker 10: me to leave and you know that was years ago.
- 1:27:17Speaker 10: So it's always hard to the walkway even though I
- 1:27:20Speaker 10: need to. And I think it's more I don't want
- 1:27:22Speaker 10: to hurt nobody feelings, But at the end of the day, yeah,
- 1:27:24Speaker 10: I get it's about yourself too.
- 1:27:25Speaker 2: That's crazy.
- 1:27:26Speaker 16: You don't want to hurt nobody feelings, but you are
- 1:27:28Speaker 16: deprived in your own relationship right now, like you could.
- 1:27:31Speaker 16: You could easily go cheat. I'm not telling you to
- 1:27:33Speaker 16: do that because I think that'll be some bs. Well
- 1:27:35Speaker 16: you can just leave her, But I'm just saying, like
- 1:27:37Speaker 16: there are brothers that will go Gee, you see your
- 1:27:40Speaker 16: girl once a month, like what the hell?
- 1:27:41Speaker 2: What are we doing?
- 1:27:42Speaker 9: Like, and you live fifteen minutes away from it, like you.
- 1:27:45Speaker 16: She live overseas on another state or in another another city.
- 1:27:51Speaker 10: You can make fifteen minutes or come to the house
- 1:27:53Speaker 10: once a week, you know, once a week just to
- 1:27:56Speaker 10: hang out for three minutes.
- 1:27:57Speaker 5: Or a few hours.
- 1:27:58Speaker 9: Yeah, I think I think what.
- 1:27:59Speaker 10: She did you used to come over, she only came
- 1:28:01Speaker 10: over for like three hours. You come over at Genifo
- 1:28:04Speaker 10: state conswel go.
- 1:28:05Speaker 16: Yeah, I think I think what you should do is
- 1:28:07Speaker 16: choose yourself for once.
- 1:28:10Speaker 9: Just choose yourself, you know what I mean.
- 1:28:13Speaker 16: Obviously you haven't chosen yourself or put yourself first. You
- 1:28:17Speaker 16: said you were in an eight year toxic relationship because
- 1:28:20Speaker 16: you couldn't leave. Nobody toxic is ever gonna leave you.
- 1:28:24Speaker 16: You gotta leave it, you know what I'm saying. So
- 1:28:27Speaker 16: you're she's only comfortable doing this because you allowed it,
- 1:28:31Speaker 16: you know what I mean?
- 1:28:32Speaker 9: Like it is what it is.
- 1:28:33Speaker 16: You gotta leave her, you know, and if and if
- 1:28:35Speaker 16: it's meant to be, she'll get herself together, you feel me,
- 1:28:38Speaker 16: She'll realize what she got and she'll put things into perspective,
- 1:28:41Speaker 16: like damn, nah, I really just let a good man go.
- 1:28:44Speaker 16: You know, it's perfect. My daughter's thirteen, His child is thirteen, Like,
- 1:28:48Speaker 16: we have so much incoming.
- 1:28:49Speaker 2: You got.
- 1:28:49Speaker 16: Sometimes you gotta remind somebody of what they have, and
- 1:28:52Speaker 16: the only way of doing that is leaving that situation.
- 1:28:55Speaker 2: You gotta do it.
- 1:28:55Speaker 9: You gotta be strong enough to do it. That's just
- 1:28:58Speaker 9: what it is, bro, Like you have to.
- 1:29:01Speaker 16: I'll appreciate that, No problem, No problem, update me, call back,
- 1:29:05Speaker 16: call uh, you know, call back next week.
- 1:29:07Speaker 9: But had that conversation with.
- 1:29:08Speaker 16: It, be like I'm not happy and I'm sorry, Like
- 1:29:10Speaker 16: I gotta choose me, Like for the first time in
- 1:29:13Speaker 16: my love life, I have to choose me because this
- 1:29:15Speaker 16: this hurts me.
- 1:29:15Speaker 9: I'm not happy and I can't keep faking it. So
- 1:29:18Speaker 9: we can. We gotta, we gotta separate. And that's it,
- 1:29:22Speaker 9: all right.
- 1:29:23Speaker 10: I'm having a talk order this weekend and I'll get
- 1:29:25Speaker 10: back after next week.
- 1:29:26Speaker 9: All right, next Thursday. I need to hear from you.
- 1:29:28Speaker 2: Good love, bro. I got to just fix my mess.
- 1:29:31Speaker 2: Eight hundred and five eighty five one five one. When
- 1:29:34Speaker 2: we come back. We got the latest with Lauren. It's
- 1:29:35Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, coming straight back, man. She
- 1:29:40Speaker 2: gets the from somebody that knows. Somebody gets to detail.
- 1:29:43Speaker 9: I'm a long girl. That was a little bit about everything.
- 1:29:46Speaker 2: She'd be having the latest on this The latest with
- 1:29:50Speaker 2: Lauren La Rosa.
- 1:29:51Speaker 5: Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details.
- 1:29:53Speaker 2: Sometimes you have a little bit everything. So it's the
- 1:29:55Speaker 2: latest on the Breakfast Cloud. Talk to me ll.
- 1:29:58Speaker 9: Cool Bay, right, guys.
- 1:30:01Speaker 13: So Glorrilla has the people having a conversation about whether
- 1:30:04Speaker 13: we want a Glowrilla R and B album or not.
- 1:30:07Speaker 13: So Glorilla got on her ex account and she tweeted
- 1:30:10Speaker 13: that she will be dropping an R and B album. Now,
- 1:30:13Speaker 13: whether she is serious about this or not, we do
- 1:30:16Speaker 13: not know. But I mean she's leaned into the R
- 1:30:17Speaker 13: and B. You know, she just dropped the type of
- 1:30:19Speaker 13: and she you know, she's a little melodic as well.
- 1:30:21Speaker 13: But people are debating right now what a glowrialer R
- 1:30:24Speaker 13: and B album would sound like she is, But I mean,
- 1:30:31Speaker 13: but she could she I know she was doing performances,
- 1:30:34Speaker 13: like when she would do her stage performances, sometimes she
- 1:30:36Speaker 13: would do some R and B songs and like fake
- 1:30:38Speaker 13: cover like you know, kind of just something in the show.
- 1:30:42Speaker 16: I think it would have to be a lot of samples,
- 1:30:46Speaker 16: but she wouldn't be singing.
- 1:30:48Speaker 9: We don't know what her idea of a glowial R
- 1:30:50Speaker 9: and B album would.
- 1:30:51Speaker 2: Be samples of army music, or she could sing Drake
- 1:30:54Speaker 2: did the R and B album.
- 1:30:56Speaker 16: He got like a little little tune though, like Drakes
- 1:30:59Speaker 16: and like a little little note, a little note.
- 1:31:02Speaker 13: You can't edit that up, pun shut up, can't you?
- 1:31:03Speaker 13: Like if she's singing and she's like.
- 1:31:05Speaker 9: Karmenie performing it, that's the thing. Yeah, that's true.
- 1:31:08Speaker 1: I just want more glorial music, Okay. Type of could
- 1:31:11Speaker 1: be the first single off of whatever her new project is. Yes, whatever,
- 1:31:14Speaker 1: we're not even just RM beat whatever her new her
- 1:31:16Speaker 1: new project is. Because if it wasn't for Kendrick Lamar
- 1:31:19Speaker 1: last year Glorious would have been the best hip hop album.
- 1:31:22Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, I could see that.
- 1:31:26Speaker 10: Well.
- 1:31:26Speaker 13: She got the people start with this one, like people,
- 1:31:28Speaker 13: I don't know why people love to get mad about.
- 1:31:29Speaker 9: Things that shouldn't even like on social.
- 1:31:33Speaker 13: Media, her saying she wants to do an R and
- 1:31:35Speaker 13: B album shouldn't make people be like, like a lot of.
- 1:31:38Speaker 5: People really got nothing else to do.
- 1:31:40Speaker 9: I saw it. I was like, what does that mean?
- 1:31:43Speaker 16: Just trying to figure out how she would come with
- 1:31:45Speaker 16: an R and B album? Mommy, I don't know about
- 1:31:47Speaker 16: getting mad about it, but being curious just to see why,
- 1:31:50Speaker 16: like her, what what?
- 1:31:52Speaker 5: What's so crazy? If she's clearly playing maybe.
- 1:31:56Speaker 9: Not there at the end of the tweet. I mean,
- 1:32:00Speaker 9: we don't know.
- 1:32:03Speaker 5: Is the queen of sarcasm on social media?
- 1:32:05Speaker 13: Yeah, but wouldn't be off if she she dropped today
- 1:32:09Speaker 13: like a like a snoop gospel, if she dropped anything
- 1:32:13Speaker 13: today that she's previewing a song that maybe on this album.
- 1:32:17Speaker 13: I wouldn't be surprised because I think she can she
- 1:32:19Speaker 13: can lean into that and we'd.
- 1:32:20Speaker 9: Be alright with it. And she knows.
- 1:32:22Speaker 16: I mean, she's probably cool with like a lot of
- 1:32:24Speaker 16: the R and B, like the Kailani's, the Givings, the Khaleads,
- 1:32:26Speaker 16: the you know what I mean, she might she might
- 1:32:28Speaker 16: really jump in that bag, the variot of scientists.
- 1:32:31Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying. It might be a feature
- 1:32:33Speaker 9: album with a bunch of RM.
- 1:32:34Speaker 13: Yeah, whatever she wants, ay and stop playing with that girl.
- 1:32:39Speaker 13: She kind of I mean, she's rapping still, but it's
- 1:32:40Speaker 13: a little Yeah.
- 1:32:41Speaker 9: I don't got her singing.
- 1:32:42Speaker 2: I got her R and B making this up.
- 1:32:45Speaker 9: Now up, I got her. I've been trying to.
- 1:32:49Speaker 13: I've been trying to grab the melody of what the
- 1:32:51Speaker 13: album would be like y'all.
- 1:32:52Speaker 9: So I was just trying to I don't got her singing.
- 1:32:54Speaker 16: I gotta just do it like, you know, like collaboration
- 1:32:56Speaker 16: with a bunch of different R and B artists.
- 1:32:57Speaker 13: Well in other music conversations, so juvenile many frus have
- 1:33:00Speaker 13: dropped a podcast. It's called Still four hundred via Breakbeat.
- 1:33:05Speaker 13: Still is from Still Fly four hundred from four hundred degrees.
- 1:33:08Speaker 13: The first guests were the eighty five South Show and
- 1:33:11Speaker 13: they're having a conversation about who is on your South
- 1:33:13Speaker 13: Mount rushmore of artists.
- 1:33:15Speaker 6: Listen, who's on y'all?
- 1:33:16Speaker 9: South, Mount Rushmore, go ahead, talk about.
- 1:33:23Speaker 4: Hard for your Yeah it hold okay, g I number one,
- 1:33:27Speaker 4: I gotta go with it.
- 1:33:28Speaker 2: Out cares give me.
- 1:33:30Speaker 4: Skall faight, I got skall fade and did I gotta
- 1:33:35Speaker 4: go with field.
- 1:33:35Speaker 6: Mall all right, I take I take three steps, take wing.
- 1:33:42Speaker 6: I put ju up there in project Pat myself.
- 1:33:49Speaker 5: Man.
- 1:33:49Speaker 4: I gotta go PIMPSI master p project Pat me personally.
- 1:33:54Speaker 4: I gotta go Gucci all right, yeah, Gucci man.
- 1:33:59Speaker 9: One who's on y'alls?
- 1:34:01Speaker 1: One?
- 1:34:02Speaker 9: Maybe two people? They don't do like five.
- 1:34:05Speaker 5: It's only four from Mount Rushmore.
- 1:34:06Speaker 2: Outcast.
- 1:34:07Speaker 1: I don't like when they say outcast, because that's that's
- 1:34:09Speaker 1: not the way Mount Rushmore works.
- 1:34:11Speaker 2: The group though, because it's I mean, you gotta put
- 1:34:13Speaker 2: them there.
- 1:34:13Speaker 4: They're one group that takes one because they take one
- 1:34:17Speaker 4: spot for the outcast.
- 1:34:19Speaker 5: I don't know.
- 1:34:20Speaker 9: You don't have no y'all don't have who would be?
- 1:34:22Speaker 1: You got to be specific because you have down South
- 1:34:24Speaker 1: pioneers and then you have down South artists like you know,
- 1:34:28Speaker 1: for me, For me, I wouldn't put like if I
- 1:34:31Speaker 1: would do on a pioneer list, I'm putting Matthew p
- 1:34:34Speaker 1: Uncle Luke Jermaine Dupree and probably J Prince on a
- 1:34:37Speaker 1: on a list of pioneers, right because J Prince, But
- 1:34:42Speaker 1: then lyricists is something different from lyricist? Is t I
- 1:34:45Speaker 1: for sure scarface for sure? And I really would have
- 1:34:49Speaker 1: to think hard about the other two on that list
- 1:34:52Speaker 1: because hear the thing about the Mount Rushmore. When I
- 1:34:55Speaker 1: think about Mount Rushmore, I put the person who started that,
- 1:34:58Speaker 1: so t I started that trap music, correct, Therefore I wouldn't.
- 1:35:01Speaker 2: Put g Z on there.
- 1:35:02Speaker 5: I would actually put Little John on that.
- 1:35:04Speaker 2: But then yeah, you gotta put GI scar.
- 1:35:06Speaker 5: Face, Little John and an artist I don't know. I
- 1:35:08Speaker 5: really I would have to think about that.
- 1:35:10Speaker 2: Got to put face on the scar face that.
- 1:35:12Speaker 1: TI scar face definitely when you're talking about artists, TI
- 1:35:15Speaker 1: scar face Little John, and I would really have to
- 1:35:17Speaker 1: think hard about.
- 1:35:18Speaker 2: Who the last not put out cast on it? You
- 1:35:20Speaker 2: know what I mean?
- 1:35:20Speaker 1: I want to put our casts on there, but there
- 1:35:22Speaker 1: group like I want to put them on there. I
- 1:35:24Speaker 1: want to say t I scar face little John in outcast,
- 1:35:27Speaker 1: but it is always confused.
- 1:35:28Speaker 2: And how you don't put Gucci on there because so
- 1:35:31Speaker 2: many artists came from.
- 1:35:36Speaker 9: Andred thousand, Gucci and g Z mm hmm but I
- 1:35:40Speaker 9: know you were going to.
- 1:35:40Speaker 2: Say my personal favor.
- 1:35:42Speaker 1: My personal favorite is t I g Z Killer Mike Scarface.
- 1:35:46Speaker 2: But that's not amount.
- 1:35:47Speaker 1: I wouldn't put that in aster, my Rushmore, My Rushmore,
- 1:35:49Speaker 1: t I Scarface, Little John, and I'll do our cast
- 1:35:53Speaker 1: if y'all do.
- 1:35:53Speaker 5: If y'all going group GK.
- 1:35:55Speaker 2: I mean this tough man, and you can't.
- 1:35:58Speaker 1: And that's why you gotta do a Pioneers because you
- 1:36:00Speaker 1: can't leave off Matthe you can't leave off, cannot leave off,
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: you can't leave off. You can't leave off Prince. You
- 1:36:06Speaker 1: don't get you don't get most of this stuff without them.
- 1:36:09Speaker 9: Yeah, well, I don't have him out Rushmore for the South?
- 1:36:11Speaker 9: Who you like?
- 1:36:12Speaker 5: Everyone?
- 1:36:13Speaker 2: What's your mount Rushmore for Baltimore?
- 1:36:15Speaker 5: You know what, I'm being disrespect Come on, don't disrespect
- 1:36:17Speaker 5: me like that. I got to be objective. I'm being
- 1:36:18Speaker 5: distressed for Baltimore.
- 1:36:21Speaker 1: T I Scarface. You gotta put Wayne up there, Wayne, Wayne,
- 1:36:26Speaker 1: you gotta put.
- 1:36:27Speaker 13: It's because he's resignated so much out of the South,
- 1:36:29Speaker 13: you forget about him.
- 1:36:30Speaker 1: And I can make a case for Julie too. Yes,
- 1:36:33Speaker 1: I'm just saying I don't like this stuff. Yeah, I
- 1:36:37Speaker 1: don't like it.
- 1:36:38Speaker 13: Yeah, we'll make sure you guys go and check out
- 1:36:40Speaker 13: their new That was their first episode. Great conversation so far,
- 1:36:45Speaker 13: and as we rap, I just want to tell y'all,
- 1:36:47Speaker 13: Suki Hannah said after ray J's interview.
- 1:36:49Speaker 9: She is not giving out any more.
- 1:36:50Speaker 5: Kuchi, So Delaware Rappers, Mount Rushmore.
- 1:36:55Speaker 9: I got, yeah, Nay, Bobby Domes Suki Hannah.
- 1:36:59Speaker 4: Suki and so all right, period and how do you
- 1:37:02Speaker 4: not say the birthday boy Future Future.
- 1:37:05Speaker 16: Is Delaware once again, girl more talking a Mount Rushmore.
- 1:37:12Speaker 1: It's a different conversation. Future is one of than ones.
- 1:37:15Speaker 1: But Mount Rushmore means the people who shoulders, that folks
- 1:37:19Speaker 1: stand on. The foundation was laid because of a lot
- 1:37:22Speaker 1: of these newer artists staying on Future show. This is yeah,
- 1:37:25Speaker 1: all right, well Joe Biden, this is birthday.
- 1:37:29Speaker 2: Delaware, Delaware.
- 1:37:30Speaker 9: You just got the birthday, sure.
- 1:37:35Speaker 13: Right, And we got Biden, we got Suki, Bobby Don
- 1:37:39Speaker 13: r B Bobby.
- 1:37:39Speaker 2: Don's bars, all his best bars. You ain't black.
- 1:37:45Speaker 13: Yeah the top with it too, and you ain't saying nothing.
- 1:37:48Speaker 13: You can even you can't even wrap.
- 1:37:49Speaker 5: Back if you're saying that you're not a real journalist.
- 1:37:53Speaker 2: Let's get to the mix of Future Today.
- 1:37:56Speaker 4: They start off with Future's the breakfast slogan morning everybody
- 1:37:59Speaker 4: is the v Jess hilarious, Charlamagne the guy. We are
- 1:38:03Speaker 4: to Breakfast Club now. Salute to doctor Joel A. Tubman
- 1:38:06Speaker 4: for joining us this morning.
- 1:38:07Speaker 2: Man, what a great conversation. Man.
- 1:38:08Speaker 1: Make sure you go pick up his book, The Fight
- 1:38:11Speaker 1: to find Yourself, Moving from Uncertain to Unstoppable.
- 1:38:15Speaker 6: That's right.
- 1:38:15Speaker 1: What did you take from the conversation, Lauren? He had
- 1:38:17Speaker 1: a lot to say to you. I thought that was dope.
- 1:38:19Speaker 9: Yeah, I thought it was great.
- 1:38:21Speaker 13: I took from the conversation that it's a forever like
- 1:38:25Speaker 13: this journey of finding yourself is like a forever thing
- 1:38:27Speaker 13: because where he feels like he is right now, I
- 1:38:29Speaker 13: am so far and I'm not there, and I'm okay
- 1:38:32Speaker 13: with that, and there's a lot of work to do,
- 1:38:34Speaker 13: and I think there will always be a lot of
- 1:38:35Speaker 13: work to do.
- 1:38:35Speaker 9: It is what I took from this.
- 1:38:36Speaker 1: If you're doing life right, you're constantly finding yourself.
- 1:38:39Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:38:39Speaker 13: But I think the biggest thing I learned from it
- 1:38:41Speaker 13: is that I actually know that I'm finding myself and
- 1:38:43Speaker 13: I'm okay with it because at one point I feel
- 1:38:45Speaker 13: like I wasn't okay with I'm finding myself because people
- 1:38:47Speaker 13: think you have it all together when you got.
- 1:38:48Speaker 10: This phone on.
- 1:38:49Speaker 1: And I also believe that you know people you don't.
- 1:38:52Speaker 1: You don't have to know everything, Like it's a constant
- 1:38:54Speaker 1: journey of learning.
- 1:38:54Speaker 2: Every day. Every day you should be learning something.
- 1:38:57Speaker 5: But that's tough to learn.
- 1:38:59Speaker 13: No, not to learn, but to learn that you don't
- 1:39:01Speaker 13: have to know everything, because in certain instances in life,
- 1:39:05Speaker 13: I've been like not even Twitter, I mean just being
- 1:39:09Speaker 13: like even in my household, you've grown.
- 1:39:11Speaker 9: Up only the first giving her actual advice, advice.
- 1:39:16Speaker 13: Or just even accepting like loving, you know, positive things.
- 1:39:22Speaker 13: I think that that's why, look here we go. I
- 1:39:27Speaker 13: think it does stem from that issues. And I also
- 1:39:30Speaker 13: think it stems from having like my mom never really
- 1:39:32Speaker 13: acknowledged like daddy issues because I was just cool.
- 1:39:37Speaker 9: I was taken care of.
- 1:39:37Speaker 13: So I've never known how to allow men to come
- 1:39:41Speaker 13: into my life and even extend the hand because my mom,
- 1:39:44Speaker 13: like she had to figure it out.
- 1:39:45Speaker 9: Love you was straight, I got you. Yeah, But we
- 1:39:48Speaker 9: love you. I love you.
- 1:40:00Speaker 1: You that God damn I love you man?
- 1:40:06Speaker 2: You know, does this bother you?
- 1:40:11Speaker 9: The mocking and going through.
- 1:40:14Speaker 13: And he still finding his identity, and Charlemagne is just
- 1:40:16Speaker 13: still in the closet, so in the.
- 1:40:18Speaker 1: Closet of what you are so homophobic? Gets discussed discussed
- 1:40:26Speaker 1: being home for we can't have on the show.
- 1:40:29Speaker 2: I don't know. I love him, I love all crazy.
- 1:40:33Speaker 2: All right, Okay, it's too much.
- 1:40:35Speaker 6: It's too much.
- 1:40:36Speaker 2: What you say this is too much, is too much.
- 1:40:39Speaker 1: Yesterday rot But I don't know.
- 1:40:44Speaker 5: He's putting no further questions your honor.
- 1:40:48Speaker 2: Question he wrote for no reason. I think he was
- 1:40:51Speaker 2: asking about Shela. I think you wrote that. I don't know.
- 1:40:54Speaker 2: You gotta find it, man.
- 1:40:56Speaker 16: Yo, before we get out of here, first week of
- 1:40:59Speaker 16: the semi heart for Connecticut, I will be back Manchester,
- 1:41:03Speaker 16: connect Connecticut, and that's what it's called or whatever, but
- 1:41:05Speaker 16: Funny Bone Comedy Club, I'll be there. We got to
- 1:41:08Speaker 16: shows on December fifth. That's on the Friday, December sixth,
- 1:41:11Speaker 16: on the Saturday. We got to as well. Get your
- 1:41:12Speaker 16: tickets if you haven't yet. Jess Hilarious official dot com.
- 1:41:16Speaker 2: Yes, indeed, all right, you got a positive note. I do.
- 1:41:19Speaker 2: I want to remind people too.
- 1:41:20Speaker 10: Man.
- 1:41:20Speaker 1: This Saturday, from ten am to twelve pm, I'm having
- 1:41:22Speaker 1: my twelfth annual Thanksgiving giveaway and Monks Corner, South Carolina
- 1:41:27Speaker 1: at the Berkeley High School Student Parking Lot. Man so
- 1:41:29Speaker 1: you know we'll have turkeys and you know all the fixings.
- 1:41:32Speaker 1: You know all the fixings to put together a nice
- 1:41:34Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner. So ten am to twelve pm this Saturday,
- 1:41:37Speaker 1: Berkeley High School Student Parking Lot, Monks Corner, South Carolina,
- 1:41:40Speaker 1: Berkeley County Area pull up.
- 1:41:42Speaker 5: And the positive note today comes from Maya and Angelou. Okay, Maya.
- 1:41:45Speaker 1: Angelou once said, you may encounter many defeats, but you
- 1:41:48Speaker 1: must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary
- 1:41:51Speaker 1: to encounter the defeats so you can know who you are,
- 1:41:54Speaker 1: what you can rise from, and how you can still
- 1:41:57Speaker 1: come out of it.
- 1:41:57Speaker 5: Have a great day, Breakfast club bitches, so you're finish
- 1:42:00Speaker 5: with your dut