Latest / Women's Wednesday with Susan Tran / Women’s Wednesday: Let's Talk About Perimenopause
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- 0:03Hi, everyone. Susan Tran here from DC News Now.
- 0:06We're going to start a new segment. It's Women's
- 0:09Wednesdays, where we're going to talk about things
- 0:11that our girlfriends and all of us like to kind
- 0:14of tackle together so we don't kind of feel alone
- 0:17in some of the experiences that we're having.
- 0:20And once a month, we have the pleasure and the
- 0:23honor of having a gynecologist with us to talk
- 0:26about perimenopause and menopause. And joining
- 0:29me now is Dr. Nadine Hamoud. Hi, Nadine. Hi,
- 0:33Susan. and thank you for having me. This is so
- 0:36exciting that you are so generous to give us
- 0:39your time to talk about this really important
- 0:42subject. I guess we have to really start and
- 0:46figure out what is perimenopause and what is
- 0:50menopause and how are they different? Well, Susan,
- 0:54first I truly want to applaud you for just actually
- 0:56taking the initiative to reach out because this
- 0:59is such an important topic in our 21st century.
- 1:02So really good job that you are initiating this
- 1:05great segment. So yes, let's talk about perimenopause.
- 1:09Perimenopause, I'm joking, this is like the buzzword
- 1:12of the century, along with like HRT, right? Everyone
- 1:15wants to talk about perimenopause and HRT, and
- 1:18yes, we do need to talk about it. So let's first
- 1:20start with what is perimenopause? So think of
- 1:23perimenopause like the transitional phase years
- 1:26that precedes menopause. the follow -up question,
- 1:29then, what is menopause? So menopause is the
- 1:33official 12 months of no period, so meaning no
- 1:37menstrual cycles for 12 months. Then all the
- 1:40years that precede that 12 months are called
- 1:43perimenopause. So think of it like transitional
- 1:46years leading up to that 12 months. I usually
- 1:50jokingly say that it's a reverse puberty. So
- 1:53think of in puberty, we have a sudden rush of
- 1:57hormones. ovaries are producing a flood of hormones
- 2:01to our body, and it can affect us from head to
- 2:03toes. So think of perimenopause as the reverse
- 2:06of puberty, but hopefully with better life choices
- 2:09and better costumes, too. The ovaries start to
- 2:13produce less and less hormones, mainly estrogen
- 2:16and progesterone, and it can affect us the same
- 2:19way, head to toes, inside out. So that's really
- 2:23the basic... really basic crash course about
- 2:26perimenopause, but it can cause a lot of symptoms,
- 2:30physical symptoms, psychological symptoms, and
- 2:33then we'll definitely talk more about these in
- 2:35a second. Well, let's talk a little bit about
- 2:38the idea that there are just so many symptoms.
- 2:42We were having our conversation on the phone
- 2:45maybe a few months back. And you said something
- 2:49that just made me laugh. You're like, everything
- 2:51could point back to perimenopause or menopause.
- 2:54So if you think about it, Susan, we have hormone
- 2:58receptors from head to toes. And that's really
- 3:01what have been such a misunderstanding among
- 3:03patients or even doctors and specialist providers.
- 3:08we have hormone receptor from head to toes, meaning
- 3:10if you're having hair loss or if your big toe
- 3:13is hurting, you can blame it on perimenopause.
- 3:16But I'm still going to say, please go see your
- 3:18podiatrist for that big toe that's hurting. But
- 3:21medically speaking, biologically speaking, yes,
- 3:24we do have hormonal receptors everywhere in the
- 3:28body and our organs. So if you think about it,
- 3:31once those hormonal shifts, and again, those
- 3:33overs are producing less hormones, those organs
- 3:36will get affected because they're not getting
- 3:38the, think of hormones like the supplements to
- 3:41the body. So once we start getting less of those
- 3:44hormones, then all the body and its physiology
- 3:47is going to change. And I can name at least 20,
- 3:5150 symptoms. So I usually try to categorize them
- 3:56into physical symptoms, physiological symptoms,
- 4:00and emotional or psychological symptoms. So really
- 4:03if I just want to scan the body from head to
- 4:05toe. So you can have hair loss. You can have
- 4:08dry skin. You can have itchy eyes, dry eyes,
- 4:12itchy ears, believe it or not. Some patients
- 4:14might have tinnitus or ringing in the ear. TMJ
- 4:20gets worse. We can have palpitations. Digestive
- 4:24issues or digestive changes. Going down the body,
- 4:29obviously cycle changes, period changes. you
- 4:32know, sexual desire gets less, vaginal dryness,
- 4:37joint pain, you know, more frozen shoulder. We're
- 4:39seeing a lot of frozen shoulders in pregnant,
- 4:41I'm sorry, in perimenopause. So think of it that
- 4:44those hormonal shifts are on a roller coaster.
- 4:48I always tell patient that, and please, you are
- 4:50not crazy, you are not losing it. It is real.
- 4:54It's just like think of it, the hormones are
- 4:56all over the place. You can't tell if you're
- 4:58waking up with a big smile, today's going to
- 5:01be a good day. Or like, I hate the world and
- 5:03I want to stay in my bed. So yes, I hear you.
- 5:06There is treatment for that. And we definitely
- 5:09need to acknowledge that probably your hormones
- 5:12are playing musical chairs on you. So it's not
- 5:14in your head, I promise. Oh my goodness. OK,
- 5:17so A, you're just validating all of these symptoms
- 5:21that I feel like my girlfriends and I, all we
- 5:24talk about is I don't know. My hair is thinning.
- 5:27I feel awful. Sometimes I'm just crabby. I'm
- 5:31hungry. I'm so tired. And we just don't realize
- 5:37it. And at one point, I always tell my friends
- 5:40because I was really anxious about all of these
- 5:42things and I made sure to talk to my doctor.
- 5:45And I turned to my other girlfriend, and I was
- 5:47like, you need to talk to your doctor. Like,
- 5:49it's not enough to just have conversations. It's
- 5:51not enough just to read about it. You have to
- 5:54speak to a professional. Thank you. Thank you.
- 5:56This is 100 % true. Perimenopause doesn't, again,
- 6:01only affect physical symptoms, like I just mentioned,
- 6:04because it affects the woman, most importantly,
- 6:07and some of the emotional or psychological symptoms
- 6:10that can honestly, also get affected in perimenopause
- 6:14that also get dismissed. For example, brain fog,
- 6:18and it's like the famous, I walked into the kitchen,
- 6:20but I don't know why I'm here. The worsening
- 6:23depression, worsening anxiety, you know, panic
- 6:26attacks, crying spells, all of that can also
- 6:30be affected by perimenopause. Perimenopause affects
- 6:34the woman, obviously most importantly, our patients.
- 6:37But also, it's a dominant effect. It can affect
- 6:39her relationship and a partnership. At work,
- 6:44I often hear patients telling me, like, my boss
- 6:47took me on the side and was like, you're very
- 6:49irritable. You're snapping at everyone. Like,
- 6:51what's going on? And she didn't even realize
- 6:53that. Another patient was like, my husband asked
- 6:57me, like, am I getting the, let's say, happy
- 6:59Susan today? Or am I getting, like, don't talk
- 7:02to me today? So, it's a domino effect. It can
- 7:05affect a lot of things, mainly the patient. So,
- 7:09yes, please have your girlfriends and the audience
- 7:12out there, please talk to us. Talk to your doctor.
- 7:15And if they're not specialized in perimenopause
- 7:17and menopause, there are a lot of specialists
- 7:20out there. You can find them on the NAMS website
- 7:23or the Menopause Society website. You can just,
- 7:26like, put in the zip code and you can just find
- 7:28all the providers, specialists, doctors that
- 7:30are certified in treating perimenopause. Because
- 7:33I think what a lot of women maybe experience
- 7:37now or had experienced, sometimes it's kind of
- 7:42brushed off. It's like, well, you know, you're
- 7:45going through a lot of stress. You have a child
- 7:47maybe going to start school or you are starting
- 7:51a new job. And these are all the reasons that
- 7:53it could be. And so you kind of feel like, OK,
- 7:56maybe I am. Maybe I am losing it. Maybe I'm becoming
- 8:00forgetful because I have too much on my plate.
- 8:03Or maybe my hair is thinning because I'm stressed.
- 8:06Or maybe my back hurts because my posture is
- 8:10horrible at this point. But at what point do
- 8:13we have to just acknowledge that it could be
- 8:16something like perimenopause and that we should
- 8:18talk to a professional? Yeah, very good question,
- 8:20Susan. Thank you. Obviously, always talk to your
- 8:23doctor about it. Start, obviously, with your
- 8:25primary care provider, because I say that perimenopause
- 8:30is a great mimicker, and I wish that can go,
- 8:33again, on the headlines, the great mimicker of
- 8:36disease. Like, again, you can literally blame
- 8:38everything on perimenopause, but at the same
- 8:40time, yes, please, if your ears are ringing,
- 8:42go see the ENT. If your back is hurting, you
- 8:45know, see a dermatologist. But how can someone
- 8:48tell that they might be experiencing perimenopausal
- 8:51symptoms or this is related to perimenopause?
- 8:54The hallmark of it is change, right? So let's
- 8:57start with change in the cycles, right? Change
- 9:00in the mood, change in the sleep, like you are
- 9:02doing so well and then all of a sudden you're
- 9:05having those night sweats, those hormonal changes,
- 9:09the worsening PMS, all of a sudden I'm fatigued
- 9:12more. A lot of those symptoms can be confounded
- 9:15with other medical conditions, so we always have
- 9:17to rule out other medical conditions, you know,
- 9:19obviously pregnancy or thyroid disorder. Or if
- 9:23someone does have rheumatoid arthritis that is
- 9:25undiagnosed. So again, the perimenopausal symptoms
- 9:28mimic a lot of other medical conditions, so we
- 9:31don't want to dismiss those. But at the same
- 9:34time, also do your gynecological well -women.
- 9:37The GYN exam should be on a yearly basis. You
- 9:42know, the fault is on us sometimes. Unfortunately,
- 9:45doctors and a lot of specialists and providers,
- 9:47they might not ask about these because they do
- 9:49not know that this can be connected. But if you
- 9:52ruled all of the things with your primary care,
- 9:54this is where, like, we have to talk about perimenopause,
- 9:57and this can be related to perimenopause. So
- 10:00please have open discussions with your specialists,
- 10:03with your doctors, and then ask to get tested.
- 10:07There's no single test. Susan, about perimenopause.
- 10:10So it's not like diabetes. Diabetes is very easy.
- 10:13Where A1C is in this level, that's it. You're
- 10:15marked as diabetic. In perimenopause, yes, we
- 10:18can get some hormonal check. But unfortunately,
- 10:21the hormones fluctuate by the hour, by the minutes.
- 10:23And again, just think about it being on a roller
- 10:26coaster. So depending where we catch the patient,
- 10:29they might not be as accurate. But it's still
- 10:31important just in special situation to get them
- 10:34checked. So perimenopause is more diagnosed based
- 10:37on history, symptoms. We do actually have a perimenopausal
- 10:41risk score, if that makes sense. So I encourage
- 10:45the audience to go online and just look up menopausal
- 10:48score risk. And it has over 20 of the symptoms
- 10:52that I just described. And then they might actually
- 10:55relate to that score. Take it to your doctors
- 10:58and say, I'm experiencing this. Can you help
- 11:00me with that? Definitely rule out other more
- 11:04concerning medical conditions, but at the same
- 11:07time, please keep in the back of your mind that
- 11:09it could be perimenopause. And it can start as
- 11:13late 30s, so this is why I agree a lot of patients
- 11:16get dismissed, like, oh, you're too young to
- 11:18have this. Well, actually, you can start perimenopause
- 11:22late 30s, early 40s, and some patients might
- 11:26start at early 50s. So going back, think of it
- 11:28like a reverse puberty. Some patients might start
- 11:32puberty at age 9, and some patients might not
- 11:34have their first period till age 17. Such a wide
- 11:37range. Same principle. Those hormonal changes
- 11:40can happen at any time. Like perimenopause doesn't
- 11:44check your calendar. It's inconvenient for me
- 11:48right now. It doesn't, unfortunately. I wish,
- 11:51I wish. But yes, talk to a specialist that is
- 11:55specialized in perimenopause that listens to
- 11:57you. that won't, you know, dismiss your symptoms
- 12:00and then, you know, get that perimenopausal or
- 12:04the menopausal risk score. You might find it
- 12:07eye -opening and you might feel like, oh my God,
- 12:09I'm having all those symptoms. And finally, you
- 12:12know, patients often go to many doctors, many
- 12:14specialists, and they say like, no one's figuring
- 12:17out what's going on with me. So yes, please have
- 12:20open conversations and talk to your doctors about
- 12:23it. Can you just talk a little bit more about
- 12:25this age range? I think one of the things that
- 12:29people are just shocked by is that it can start
- 12:31in your late 30s. Because when I was telling
- 12:35folks about my real desire here to talk about
- 12:39perimenopause and menopause, it was kind of like,
- 12:42oh, that's such an old lady thing to discuss.
- 12:45And it's not really impacting kind of like our
- 12:48age group or the people that are my friends or
- 12:52my peer group. It is way earlier than we talked
- 12:57about or we even knew about. Is this a new thing
- 12:59or is this just something that we're realizing
- 13:02and it's coming to the forefront at this point?
- 13:05I agree. It's actually we're realizing now that
- 13:08it actually can start much earlier, but probably
- 13:11you're right. Like it got dismissed. Like you're
- 13:14too young. It cannot be perimenopause. I feel
- 13:18like unfortunately we don't talk much about perimenopause.
- 13:21Many, many reasons I can think of. A, we women,
- 13:26again, we think that perimenopause is like me
- 13:29getting older, and we want to always stay young.
- 13:33So they don't talk about it. They don't want
- 13:34to share that I'm having hot flashes, I'm having
- 13:37night sweats, I'm having cycle dysregulation.
- 13:41So they feel ashamed, but at the same time, maybe
- 13:44I shouldn't be talking about it. It's so personal.
- 13:48The other reason is taboo in the society. I feel,
- 13:51unfortunately, everything related to women's
- 13:53health has always been a taboo. We don't talk
- 13:56about periods. We don't talk about what's normal,
- 13:59what's heavy. Believe it or not, I have patients
- 14:02in their 60s. I have posters around my office
- 14:05showing anatomy. And some patients don't even
- 14:08know, oh, so this is where my ovary is. This
- 14:10is where my tube is. We don't talk about sexual
- 14:14health. you know obviously if it was for men
- 14:16then like you know it will be online everywhere
- 14:19and we would be inventing a lot of medication
- 14:21for it like you know centuries ago but unfortunately
- 14:23because we women were are always like on the
- 14:26side so we don't we didn't talk much about because
- 14:29it's a taboo and lastly I would say we as doctors
- 14:34and even like a lot of providers and specialists
- 14:36we don't get enough training which is the ugly
- 14:39truth but I'm going to say it and put it out
- 14:42there, we do not get enough training about perimenopause
- 14:45and menopausal treatment, which is changing now.
- 14:49There are a lot of studies recently and surveys.
- 14:53A lot of doctors did not feel comfortable. Even
- 14:55talking about doctors that might actually graduated
- 14:58obstetric and gynecology residency, they said
- 15:00they were not very comfortable, and that's why
- 15:03we do have to get this extra certification to
- 15:05get this. This, though, has been changing. which
- 15:08is good. So a lot of the medical schools have
- 15:10been incorporating perimenopausal HRT treatment
- 15:14in their programs. You know, this school obviously
- 15:17system is changing, so hopefully this will improve
- 15:20with time. So I would think about all those factors,
- 15:24Susan, when I talk about why don't we talk about
- 15:27it, right? What are the reasons? And this is
- 15:29why maybe patients would think that, oh, maybe
- 15:31it's too early, but it is not too early. It's
- 15:35just like once the ovaries decide that I don't
- 15:38want to produce, I don't want to work anymore,
- 15:40I'm taking a break. And then it might wake up
- 15:44again and say, you know what, I'm done from my
- 15:46hibernation. I will start working again. So we
- 15:50can switch on and off. Correct. It ebbs and flows.
- 15:52Oh, goodness. I'm sorry. A lot of patients would
- 15:57feel like some months I feel just fine. And then
- 16:00other months I feel like, you know, I'm having
- 16:03all those symptoms. Again, going back to this
- 16:05roller -coaster ride, your hormones are really
- 16:08just like playing music chairs on you. But other
- 16:11factors can influence, obviously, when someone
- 16:14can go into perimenopause earlier. It can be,
- 16:18let's say, smoking can obviously harm the eggs.
- 16:21So the ovaries will produce less egg. The quality
- 16:24and the quantity of the egg will get worse. Someone
- 16:27who had unfortunately experienced cancer and
- 16:29needed chemotherapy or radiation to the pelvic
- 16:31area that can unfortunately also decrease ovarian
- 16:35volume and obviously ovarian function. Some medical
- 16:39conditions can also affect the ovaries like autoimmune
- 16:42disease. So this is why please have your regular
- 16:45checkups every year with the primary care and
- 16:48with the gynecologist to talk about those hormonal
- 16:51symptoms and issues. Okay, so just so we're talking
- 16:54about perimenopause can start, it can stop, but
- 16:58to get into menopause, you would need to be in
- 17:01a full 12 months of perimenopause? You have to
- 17:06be, so menopause is 12 months of no period. Menopause,
- 17:10full menopause. Correct, so everything before
- 17:12those 12 months, the years. that are called perimenopause
- 17:16and again it can start late 30s till you get
- 17:18this 12 months of no periods which could be up
- 17:21to age 55 okay and so then these symptoms all
- 17:27of them the mirrored symptoms so many symptoms
- 17:30they can last through perimenopause into menopause
- 17:35correct yes so even after you get those 12 months
- 17:39of no periods it's not a switch on and off so
- 17:42A lot of patients might still get hot flashes
- 17:45even after they get those 12 months of no period.
- 17:48So I hate to say this, but when you get those
- 17:5112 months of no period, it doesn't mean that
- 17:53I'm done. You still can get those symptoms of
- 17:57hormonal deficiency. Again, the ovaries stop
- 18:00producing the estrogen and progesterone, and
- 18:04it can affect the body in the same way. So you
- 18:07might still have the brain fogging as you can
- 18:09still have the hot flashes, night sweats, sleep
- 18:12issues, the low sexual desire, the vaginal dryness.
- 18:17So it's unfortunately those lower level of hormones
- 18:20and going back that the organs have hormone receptors
- 18:24all over. So just think of it when you have iron
- 18:27deficiency, right? So if you have iron deficiency
- 18:30and you are having symptoms of low iron, what
- 18:34do you do? You need to supplement yourself with
- 18:36iron, right? And hopefully your symptoms improve.
- 18:39So it's the same principle. When the body doesn't
- 18:42have enough of those hormones, then you will
- 18:45manifest those symptoms. OK, and so we have,
- 18:49it could be a couple of years of perimenopausal
- 18:53symptoms, right? Or it could be 10 years or 15
- 18:56years. OK, that's what I was going to ask. Because
- 18:58then we're in menopause, and then we could have
- 19:02a couple of years of symptoms there as well?
- 19:04Correct. So this whole period could be be into
- 19:08the 10 -year span? Correct. Yes. So I always
- 19:12tell the audience or my patients that let's first
- 19:16start with the definition of menopause. Let's
- 19:18say menopause is this 12 months of no period.
- 19:21The years before that is perimenopause, and the
- 19:23year after this 12 months is postmenopausal period.
- 19:27And yes, those symptoms can last through the
- 19:29postmenopausal years as well. Not necessarily
- 19:32like everyone will have it. Again, going back
- 19:35to just puberty, You know, you can't stop getting
- 19:38acne by your 20s, or you might have acne all
- 19:42your life, right? Same thing. In post -menopausal
- 19:46years, some patients might tell me, oh, I had
- 19:49one hot flash, and that was my menopause. And
- 19:53I was like, I want to be you when I grow up.
- 19:55I'm so envious. Did someone really say that?
- 19:58You had a patient. I know. So fortunate. I really
- 20:02want to be you when I grow up. You're my new
- 20:04role model. And I have patients who literally
- 20:07like you know late 30s and like they're sweating
- 20:10and drenched in front of me So that's the ugly
- 20:14truth, but we can talk about the treatment next
- 20:18so you don't have to suffer We do have treatment
- 20:21for that. So don't feel bad Okay, that's one
- 20:24of the things that I had talked to one of my
- 20:26girlfriends about is she was Having all of these
- 20:30symptoms and I was thinking I think this is perimenopause.
- 20:34I think this is really awful that you're experiencing
- 20:39all of these symptoms and you don't have to suffer.
- 20:43And she was so hesitant to see a doctor because
- 20:46no one else can help you. I mean, you can read
- 20:48all the facts and everything, but the truth is
- 20:50to get some of the treatments that can really
- 20:53help, you do need to see a physician. You need
- 20:57to see a specialist. Talk about some of the hormone
- 21:01therapies that are available and why so many
- 21:04people are so resistant. So I usually say to
- 21:09patients that perimenopause, menopause, the symptoms
- 21:11that you're going through is a natural phase.
- 21:14So it's not a disease that needs to be treated.
- 21:18But at the same time, the symptoms can be, like
- 21:21we talked about, bothersome enough that can affect
- 21:23the quality of life. Not only the quality of
- 21:26life, like just for You know, the relationships
- 21:30we talked about, but also, like, physiologically,
- 21:33it obviously can affect you. So it's a natural
- 21:36phase. You don't have to suffer, and you don't
- 21:39have, again, to suck it up. But what I tell patients,
- 21:42like, I will empower you, and you should thrive
- 21:44through it. There are many treatments of perimenopause,
- 21:48whether, you know, just starting with lifestyle
- 21:50changes, right? And the best lifestyle changes,
- 21:53healthy diets, balanced diets, exercises. Even
- 21:57just like walking every day, to be honest, for
- 21:59like 10, 20 minutes, definitely brings up your
- 22:03happy hormones and everything's connected. And
- 22:06that's doable. Correct. Yeah, hopefully. Head
- 22:09to toes, we're connected, right? So when we have
- 22:11increase in the happy hormones, the endorphins,
- 22:14then definitely it will affect in a positive
- 22:17way our hormones. Weight bearing exercises, please
- 22:21start weight bearing exercises. And then stress
- 22:24management, I cannot stress enough how important,
- 22:27I know it's easier said than done to tell people
- 22:29don't be stressed, but mindfulness, meditation,
- 22:35just take at least every day for yourself 10,
- 22:3815 minutes. I can assure you that this is definitely
- 22:41doable. So this is like the lifestyle changes
- 22:43that can definitely help yoga, obviously acupuncture.
- 22:47So this is what I usually tell patients, like
- 22:49non -prescription ways, but lifestyle change
- 22:52that can benefit you forever. But that's one
- 22:55percentage of what you need to do, right? I would
- 22:59definitely say a little bit more. I have a few
- 23:01patients, they cut down on sugar and alcohol,
- 23:04and they were like, my night sweats got better,
- 23:07my hot flashes got better. Like the menopausal
- 23:10belly fat that we have, especially in the lower
- 23:12abdomen. Because that's fun. Oh my god. That's
- 23:15a whole other story. Yeah. We women are lucky,
- 23:18aren't we, Susan? Like, really seriously? Like,
- 23:20is there something else that can happen to us?
- 23:22Yeah, you want my hair to thin, you want my libido
- 23:25low, and you want my belly fat. Like, what are
- 23:28you doing to me? I'm dry, I'm hot, I'm sweaty.
- 23:33I promise we've been good. Like, why is this
- 23:34happening to us? Right. But to answer your question
- 23:38about hormonal therapy, yes, hormonal therapy
- 23:42are the mainstay of treating perimenopausal symptoms.
- 23:46Again, I try to make it simple to my patient.
- 23:48The example I gave about low iron store, and
- 23:52you just need to supplement yourself with iron,
- 23:54think of it almost the same. It's not like such
- 23:57a simple equation, but almost the same. Your
- 24:01body is not producing enough hormones. What do
- 24:04you do? You supplement. Hormone therapy is the
- 24:07main state of treatment for the right candidate.
- 24:11Let me add that. Obviously, unfortunately, not
- 24:13all patients are good candidates. You know, patients
- 24:16who are breast cancer survivors, especially that
- 24:20had ERPR, meaning estrogen receptor, and person
- 24:24receptor positive, they might not be the best
- 24:27candidate. And we have a whole list of contraindications
- 24:30to hormones. But for the most part, with an HRT
- 24:34or hormonal patient therapy or nowadays menopausal
- 24:37hormonal therapy is safe. Actually, I would say
- 24:39it's safer than we used to think. Decades ago,
- 24:44doctors and patients were always told HRT is
- 24:48bad. It can give breast cancer, uterine cancer.
- 24:51We have newer studies, and we have a lot of older
- 24:55studies. And we found that they're safer than
- 24:58their use, we used to think. Not that, again,
- 25:01we shouldn't individualize. And again, we still
- 25:03have patients that are in this gray area. We
- 25:07do have patients who are in the green zone. Yes,
- 25:09you're a very good candidate. Please do not hesitate
- 25:12to take them. and you have patients that are
- 25:15in the red zone where like really it's contraindicated
- 25:17and you have the patients in between and actually
- 25:19most patients are in this gray area and this
- 25:22is where it's not one size fits all. We have
- 25:25many different types of protocols for HRT and
- 25:29then we just have to individualize care. It's
- 25:32not like you know I wish I can be like Oprah
- 25:35like you get HRT and you get HRT and you get
- 25:37HRT like obviously you have to individualize
- 25:40but For the most part, HRT are safer for the
- 25:46right candidate and also with the right specialist
- 25:49that is treating that. Right. And again, it's
- 25:52important to stipulate. You should go see your
- 25:54doctor to see if you have any of the risk factors
- 25:58that would put you on the red zone or if you're...
- 26:00Probably like the majority, you're in the gray
- 26:03or the green zone, right? Correct. And just so
- 26:06people can understand, hormone replacement therapy,
- 26:11it's not a shot, right? It's usually a patch
- 26:13these days? Correct. So we have many protocols
- 26:16for, well, let's first start HRT again, hormone
- 26:20replacement therapy or menopausal hormonal therapy.
- 26:23Mainly, they're estrogen and progesterone, and
- 26:26then plus hormonal testosterone, which we can
- 26:28definitely talk about at a later segment. But
- 26:32the main, like at least FDA approved, are the
- 26:35estrogen and the progesterone. The safest way
- 26:39to give estrogen, like the non -oral route, and
- 26:43so the transdermal right, your right, Susan,
- 26:46would be probably the preferred method to start,
- 26:49again, for the right candidate. So it's just
- 26:51like an adhesive tiny sticky patch that you know
- 26:54patients can put on their skin Usually it's replaced
- 26:57twice a week and then the progesterone could
- 27:00be delivered with any other method whether the
- 27:04pill or a cream or An IUD the Mirena or the lilata
- 27:08IUD So many many nice protocols the estrogen
- 27:12can also be delivered by a ring or a gel or a
- 27:16cream We do also have additionally Vaginal estrogen,
- 27:20which is so important for many, many patients
- 27:24who suffer from vaginal dryness, painful intercourse,
- 27:27and it actually can help with urinary incontinence,
- 27:30by the way, so this is also an added benefit
- 27:33that many patients do not know it exists. So
- 27:37many protocols. We live, luckily, in 2025 where
- 27:41we have... a lot of options, a lot of formulations,
- 27:45and then we can tweak it depending on the patient's
- 27:48symptoms, follow -up labs. Like I said, I usually
- 27:52tell patients it's a journey. Again, I like to
- 27:56give example just for the patients, because a
- 27:58lot of people don't really, cannot understand
- 28:00hormones and why we do what we do, so at least
- 28:03for me, I try to explain to the patient in analogy
- 28:06form. So just like diabetes, we're going to monitor
- 28:10your symptoms, Check your sugar, see how it works
- 28:14for you or not. Get the side effects. Are you
- 28:16tolerating it well or not? It's going to be the
- 28:19same with HRT. It's going to be a journey, and
- 28:23your body will tell us, I like this protocol,
- 28:26I don't like this protocol, I'm having the side
- 28:28effect, or I feel like a day and night change,
- 28:31which I hear all the time. And I usually, Susan,
- 28:33love those follow -ups where patients say...
- 28:36Oh my god, I wish I was on this way, way before.
- 28:40Why didn't I ask about this earlier? Is that
- 28:43really just the main protocol is HRT? Are there
- 28:48supplements? Are there other things that... I
- 28:52actually did start seeing commercials for things
- 28:55that help with hot flashes specifically. So outside
- 28:59of HRT, are there supplements or other medications
- 29:02to help? So for patients who are not a candidate
- 29:05for hormones, or they prefer not to enter that
- 29:09route, we do have non -hormonal prescriptions.
- 29:13So the SSRIs, SNRIs, like Paxil and Gabapentoclonidine,
- 29:19all of that can be non -hormonal prescription.
- 29:23What are they? So the SSRIs or SNRIs, so we do
- 29:28have Paxil, we do have Wolbutrin, Clonidine,
- 29:31Gabapentin. So these are non -hormonal prescriptions
- 29:35that can also be given to patients who either
- 29:39cannot take HRT for contraindication, or they
- 29:43prefer not to, right? So some patients, maybe
- 29:45they have a strong family history of breast cancer,
- 29:48and they tell me, Dr. Hamoud, I really do not
- 29:50wanna. Go that route. Obviously, I respect that.
- 29:53But I still want to offer them other options.
- 29:55Vevosa is also another medication that is strictly
- 29:58for hot flashes. So we do have other alternatives,
- 30:02so non -hormonal prescriptions. And then we talked
- 30:05about lifestyle changes. And then the supplements,
- 30:09yes, I agree. Like now they're listening on our
- 30:12phones, like TikTok. And probably Facebook is
- 30:14going to give us a lot. Oh my goodness, you're
- 30:17right. So yes, nowadays if you open Google, you'll
- 30:22find a million and one supplement. Supplements
- 30:27definitely have a role in perimenopausal hormonal
- 30:30treatment, but at the same time I tell patients
- 30:33like we have to be careful because nothing that
- 30:35is natural all the time is safe. Like, you know,
- 30:39poison ivy is natural, but it's not really good.
- 30:41Fair. And, you know, God knows where those supplements
- 30:44are being made. You know, obviously, we don't
- 30:47have the FDA approval. And they're not regulated,
- 30:50correct? Thank you. Exactly. But in general,
- 30:52like, you know, for the sake of the discussion,
- 30:54like, we do know that black cohosh can help,
- 30:56ashwagandha, adaptogens can help. But again,
- 30:59like, please check with your doctor first, because
- 31:01these can still cause liver dysfunction. They
- 31:04can cause other side effects. So I don't want
- 31:08to fix one thing. but unfortunately damage other
- 31:11organs in the body. What are those supplements
- 31:14for? So adaptogens can help regulate our hormones
- 31:18indirectly. You know, fish oil can help, ashwagandha
- 31:22can help, magnesium can help, also like for the
- 31:26brain fog and it's for the sleep. So we do, I
- 31:28do recommend actually magnesium glycinate for
- 31:30sleep, especially at bedtime, to be taken at
- 31:33bedtime. But at calcium vitamin D, vitamin D,
- 31:37I would never say no to vitamin D for anything.
- 31:40But again, check your levels first so you don't
- 31:42over or increase excess of vitamins in your body.
- 31:46Because anything that is in excess is as bad
- 31:48as being too low. And when you were talking about
- 31:52the other treatments that were not HRT, what
- 31:55are they treating? Are they treating just symptoms?
- 31:58So we do have few options. Like Vevosa is good
- 32:01for hot flashes. OK. The SSRIs or SNRIs, some
- 32:06of them can help also with hot flashes. It can
- 32:08help with the worsening anxiety and mood that
- 32:11we talked about in perimenopause, some of the
- 32:14panic attacks that can happen, the crying spells.
- 32:18And if you think about it, Susan, it's a domino
- 32:19effect. So if you're sleeping better, if you're
- 32:22not as anxious, all this nervous system that
- 32:25is like it's extra excited and the body will
- 32:29calm down and the domino effects happen. Like
- 32:31you'll sleep better, your energy is better, you
- 32:33will wake up feeling better, you might go for
- 32:36a walk that day. So I would say they might indirectly
- 32:39help, let's say HRT works on the estrogen receptors,
- 32:43the other medication might work directly on the
- 32:46brain receptors, right? Because these are medications
- 32:48that are usually given for anxiety, depression,
- 32:51PTSD, OCD, other types of trauma. So if we're
- 32:57not able to address the hormones, then we can
- 32:58address the aftermath of the hormone which is
- 33:01on the brain, let's say. So it might affect the
- 33:03brain receptors, and this is how it can help
- 33:05with the symptoms. So it just calms down our
- 33:08excited mind at the end of the night. I can't
- 33:11believe that one of the symptoms is panic and
- 33:15anxiety and crying. It spans the gamut. 100%.
- 33:23And this is where I am a big believer in coordination
- 33:26of care with other specialists, right? So I can
- 33:29help with the hormonal factors, right? But if
- 33:32someone has, you know, maybe undiagnosed ADHD,
- 33:35which actually can get worse in petty menopause,
- 33:39and we do have collaboration with some of the
- 33:42psychiatrists. A lot of times, some of the psychiatrists
- 33:45would refer their patients like, this patient
- 33:46has been doing well on her medication, whether
- 33:49for ADHD, whether for depression or anxiety,
- 33:52and now The last few years, which around where
- 33:55the patient starts having other symptoms of perimenopause,
- 33:58the medications are not working. So this is where
- 34:01we have to address the hormonal aspect. But I
- 34:05still would want the patient, please stay with
- 34:07your psychiatrist, please see a therapist, because
- 34:10it's, again, a holistic approach, right? And
- 34:13this is what I try to tell my patients and my
- 34:15other colleagues, doctors, and specialists. Please
- 34:18look at the patient in a holistic way, head to
- 34:20toes, inside out. Let's not have a tunnel vision
- 34:24when we treat patients, because we have to think
- 34:26of everything. We have to think about how the
- 34:29past trauma affected her current anxiety, her
- 34:33depression. And now we're adding another layer,
- 34:36unfortunately, which is perimenopause. It can
- 34:38also make our anxiety and depression and the
- 34:41PMS worse. So let's look at everything together
- 34:45and not just like, oh, this is just your anxiety,
- 34:47or like you said in a bit, Susan, like, you're
- 34:50just going through a lot, you have three kids.
- 34:54No, it's not that. I mean, you've always had
- 34:56the three kids, but what happened now? What changed
- 34:59now? The stress is always going to be there,
- 35:02but why am I not handling that stress or this
- 35:05extra burden like I used to do that before? So
- 35:10yes, please talk to all the specialists. And
- 35:12I try to include my PCP in the game, the psychiatrist,
- 35:18the therapist, because we are all going to be
- 35:20there to get better care to the patient. We work
- 35:24all together. It's not just me or the gynecologist
- 35:28or just the therapist or the psychiatrist. And
- 35:31really quickly, because this conversation, I'm
- 35:34so glad we're going to meet monthly because we
- 35:38had like three questions and we have like 16
- 35:41others on our list. But is there an upside to
- 35:46perimenopause and menopause because it sounds
- 35:48like a lot of overwhelming details and life changes
- 35:53and at least in adolescence, you get to grow
- 35:58up and be an adult and do all these things. What's
- 36:02the upside here? You're very right, Susan, because
- 36:07I hope we didn't depress the audience here. But
- 36:12yes, perimenopause, please don't think of it
- 36:15like, oh my god, I am going to start taking estrogen
- 36:19now because I never want to go into perimenopause.
- 36:22So think of perimenopause like a new chapter
- 36:24in your life. Let's not think of it as the end
- 36:29of our like menstruation or things are going
- 36:33downhill after the impediment of pause. So let's
- 36:38think of it as a new chapter. And these days,
- 36:42women are so empowered, you can write your own
- 36:44chapters. So let's not just go through it and
- 36:49we're depressed, we're not happy. Go through
- 36:52it, ask questions, have those open conversations,
- 36:56start early. prevention is better than cure,
- 36:59right? And just write your own perimenopause.
- 37:03It can be actually one of the best years of your
- 37:06life because if anything A lot of time, I tell
- 37:09patients, have it be like a wake -up call that
- 37:11I want to take control over my health, and I
- 37:15want to empower my body and my health. So if
- 37:18anything, a lot of patients start taking the
- 37:21right supplement at that time, start exercising,
- 37:24seeing their specialists and their doctors. So
- 37:27if anything, don't think of it as, oh my god,
- 37:30I am never going to age in my life. It's OK.
- 37:34It's a natural phase. Everyone will go through
- 37:36it. But you can get to choose how to go through
- 37:40it. If anything, now with those conversations
- 37:42that we're having, and luckily we have a lot
- 37:45of social media out there that are actually talking
- 37:49about it, and even like resources for patients,
- 37:51books for patients, right? That can help patients
- 37:54understand what is perimenopause. So it's not
- 37:57as bad as what we think it is. Right, and you
- 38:02can talk to your doctors, you can get some help,
- 38:05and it exists, and we're gonna have to go through
- 38:08with it. I think the upside, I just kept thinking,
- 38:11well, I'm not gonna have a monthly period. That's
- 38:13great, right? I don't have to go to the grocery
- 38:16store and always stock up on tampons and pads,
- 38:20and sounds like a positive to me. I love it,
- 38:24Susan. Yes, we always have to think positive.
- 38:26Right, because it can be a long duration and
- 38:29we're all going to have to go through it. And
- 38:32I think one of the things that I found really
- 38:34helpful is being able to talk about it. Right?
- 38:38Like, just saying, these are the things. It's
- 38:40weird, and it shouldn't be weird, and we should
- 38:43openly discuss it with, you know, our doctors,
- 38:46our friends, our family members, and our loved
- 38:48ones. I feel like everyone's ready for puberty,
- 38:52because we do talk about it in the girls' locker
- 38:54rooms, but no one wants to talk about perimenopause.
- 38:57Like, no, please, let's talk about it. Do not
- 38:59be afraid. If anything, a lot of patients are
- 39:02so happy that they get to see me, because they're
- 39:06friends told them like oh my god I started this
- 39:08and like this is the best thing ever that happened
- 39:10for the last few months because I've been suffering
- 39:13and it's a domino effect right so this is how
- 39:15patients can like talk to each other it's okay
- 39:18now obviously there's a lot of misinformation
- 39:20there so I just want to put that out there so
- 39:23please talk to specials that are certified in
- 39:26perimenopause it's good to talk to your girlfriends
- 39:29about it obviously but also there are some specialists
- 39:33or some providers that might not be as specialized,
- 39:38so just be careful. So please pick your doctors
- 39:41wisely, so you can get the right treatments.
- 39:45Well, right, as you were saying, you have to
- 39:46have specialty training to have this field of
- 39:51expertise, because the medical schools are not
- 39:53teaching it as much as what you were saying,
- 39:55right? Unfortunately, yes. Right, okay. So, I
- 39:57mean... Start with your primary care physician
- 40:00and then kind of move on and find specialists
- 40:02and if your girlfriends are talking about it
- 40:05Maybe they can refer you to someone or or you
- 40:07know reach out and and do all that. All right
- 40:10Dr. Nadine Hamoud, what an amazing conversation.
- 40:13Thank you so much for taking the time to talk
- 40:16to us about it helping us stay informed and I
- 40:19look forward to our next conversation we're gonna
- 40:22have to Focus in on like a specific topic because
- 40:25it's so It is it is an Olympic sized pool that
- 40:30we're gonna have to navigate But we will do it
- 40:33and I'm so happy to be here. Thank you again,
- 40:36Susan And you know, I hope the audience thought
- 40:39that this was helpful again, please talk to your
- 40:42doctors You don't have to suffer in silence You
- 40:45don't have to suck it up and hey, it will just
- 40:47be a phase and it will go away Talk to your friends
- 40:51talk to your doctors about it and don't be ashamed
- 40:54of it. All right. Well, thank you so much