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Chan-Tell Us Anything: BBW & LAMH Recap · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
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  Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
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  Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
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  Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the
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  Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
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  Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
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  Speaker 1: scripted as well. I want to start off by saying this,
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  Speaker 1: it is a privilege to be in this seat to
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  Speaker 1: where I have created a safe space for In the beginning,
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  Speaker 1: it was just reality stars, but courtesy of the.
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  Speaker 2: Platform being huge, thanks to each and every one.
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  Speaker 1: Of you who are on this live all the rain
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  Speaker 1: drops for leaving and sharing it. And so a woman
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  Speaker 1: who works for me, her hairdresser this morning, was talking
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  Speaker 1: about the Chantell Christy interview. So I don't take any
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  Speaker 1: of this for granted. It is a privilege to be
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  Speaker 1: in this position, and it's such a privilege, more so
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  Speaker 1: when you have reality stars and celebrities reached out to
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  Speaker 1: you to say I would like to give you thank you,
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  Speaker 1: I would like to give you my interview I want
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  Speaker 1: to give it to you, and I want to give
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  Speaker 1: it to you because you're able to have a conversation
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  Speaker 1: without attacking somebody, and that means the world to me. Right,
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  Speaker 1: And I thank all of you guys for supporting Reality
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  Speaker 1: but the King, for supporting my channel, and for supporting
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  Speaker 1: the interview, the interview. Excuse me by even watching it,
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  Speaker 1: whether or not you walked away from the interview disliking
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  Speaker 1: chantell More or understanding her more, What Maden is to
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  Speaker 1: me is that you guys spent.
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  Speaker 2: Time to check it out.
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  Speaker 1: And what maddens to me is the fact that you
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  Speaker 1: guys had time to leave a comment. We have ten
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  Speaker 1: thousand comments in an interview that dropped four days ago.
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  Speaker 1: We have close to three hundred thousand views in four days,
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  Speaker 1: which is like Nini leaks, Lisa Ray McCoy level numbers
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  Speaker 1: that has happened in that magnitude. So I thank all
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  Speaker 1: of you for checking it out, for checking it out
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  Speaker 1: because you did not have to.
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  Speaker 2: What I would like to address is this.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of you guys have had a lot of
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  Speaker 1: comments saying, well, Carlos, we don't feel like you held
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  Speaker 1: Chantel Christy accountable. I hear you I see you, and
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  Speaker 1: I want to start the live talking about this.
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  Speaker 2: Let's bring on Claudia in Toxtin.
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  Speaker 3: So Carlos. Then people wanted to hear them. People wanted
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  Speaker 3: to hear Shantel Christie say I should not have touched
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  Speaker 3: my mother, I should not have talked to my mama
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  Speaker 3: like that and I was wrong, and they did not
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  Speaker 3: hear her say that, and that's where the disconnect was. Now,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say she's supposed to say that. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not gonna say she was not supposed to say that.
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  Speaker 3: I just think that's where the disconnect was for a
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  Speaker 3: lot of people. But I think it's something really likable
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  Speaker 3: about her personality. And I really hate that a lot
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  Speaker 3: of our introduction to her was her cussing her mama
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  Speaker 3: out and physically, you know, pushing on her mama. I
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  Speaker 3: hate that that's how we met her, but that's what happened.
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  Speaker 3: But shout out to her for being brave enough she
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  Speaker 3: took this. She was a good sport, I think, and
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  Speaker 3: she's taking it he will. And I thought she gave
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  Speaker 3: a great interview, So it was good to see that.
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  Speaker 3: But that's about it for me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, what was so.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to get to you, to say, Claudia, but
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  Speaker 1: Dustin the best part to me was this, and this
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  Speaker 1: is the reason why I love what we do.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly.
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  Speaker 1: I love the fact that Chantelle reached out to me
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  Speaker 1: after watching Me and Dustin recap that episode. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: it did not steer her in a direction of they
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  Speaker 1: don't fucking me. It was the fact that she watched
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  Speaker 1: me and Dustin. Me and Dustin had two different views
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  Speaker 1: on the actual moment, and it was nice that she
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  Speaker 1: still said I.
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  Speaker 2: Saw you when you watched it. She gave us a
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  Speaker 2: shot off through time. She said. I know Dustin said
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  Speaker 2: I disrespect the black Hold, but to me, it's this.
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  Speaker 1: I want to bring that up to say that what
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  Speaker 1: I love about this platform is the fact that all
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  Speaker 1: three of us can be.
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  Speaker 2: Honest with our feelings.
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  Speaker 1: And it may not be the most popular take, but
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  Speaker 1: it's more so about the people that I can say,
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  Speaker 1: although I disagree with him, I appreciate and understand his take.
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  Speaker 1: So I want to give Dustin props too, because Chantelle,
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  Speaker 1: if you watch an interview, Dustin gave his out of
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  Speaker 1: to god Troup and even Chantelle said, I actually see
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  Speaker 1: Dustin's point of view.
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  Speaker 2: And that's all we can do.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I wasn't trying to disrespect her. You know what
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying. That's a very sensitive, very personal matter between
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  Speaker 3: a mama and a daughter, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: So even as a person offering commentary, there's a line there,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying that you just don't cross.
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to disrespect her. I was just offering
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  Speaker 3: commentary on what we saw, you know what I'm saying
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  Speaker 3: on the screen. So I'm glad she was able to
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  Speaker 3: receive it well, and it feel good to see her
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  Speaker 3: have her say I think you are a perfect sounding
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  Speaker 3: board for her. So fuck with them. People had to say, Carlos, No,
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  Speaker 3: I'm good, I have.
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  Speaker 4: A new mike.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know if people said someone said my side
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  Speaker 5: saying I'm gonna tend can let me know if this
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  Speaker 5: mic is better or worse, and I will one day
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  Speaker 5: get it right after twenty years in the business.
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  Speaker 4: Okay. So I did see a lot of people.
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  Speaker 5: Saying, you know, holds her. I know I've given Jenckie.
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  Speaker 5: Carlos didn't hold her accountable. They wanted more accountability more.
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  Speaker 5: I did take notes as a journalists Okay, I did
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  Speaker 5: take notes.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't see what she did say.
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  Speaker 5: I think in her way she gave her accountability, but
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  Speaker 5: it's not what the masses want. And I think a
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  Speaker 5: lot of times with reality television, and you know it
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  Speaker 5: was commentary, it's almost like the movie Gladiators, like we
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  Speaker 5: want to see blood, we want to see them gravel,
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  Speaker 5: we want to see them crying, snotty nose.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, and everyone's not wired like that.
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  Speaker 5: For some people, it's like they struggled with saying I
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  Speaker 5: was wrong, and I didn't see in her notes that
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  Speaker 5: she did say that she was wrong, and she said,
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  Speaker 5: I don't want to blame it on my post part
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  Speaker 5: of I was nine months out.
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  Speaker 4: It's still no excuse for my behavior.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like because she didn't spend the majority of
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  Speaker 5: the interview, like people want to see blood.
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  Speaker 4: When we're mad at someone, we don't just like giving
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  Speaker 4: them a.
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  Speaker 5: Pass, Like we don't just like, well, she said sorry,
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  Speaker 5: we'd be like no if that. We want to see
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  Speaker 5: her breakdown. We want to see her apologize the way
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  Speaker 5: we want to see her apologize.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, we want to see her taking now could she
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  Speaker 4: have taken more? Of course?
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  Speaker 5: Could she have taken less, of course, and could Carlos
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  Speaker 5: have been hard on her, of course, but definitely want
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  Speaker 5: to have a safe space for other guests to come forward. Yes,
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  Speaker 5: And it's a very tricky game and a dance we
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  Speaker 5: have to play in these types of shows when we
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  Speaker 5: are intubate people and we want more people to come
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  Speaker 5: to our platforms.
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  Speaker 4: It's not like the days of Howard.
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  Speaker 5: Stern when you went in there knowing you go into
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  Speaker 5: the lions, then they about to writ me a new
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  Speaker 5: one that's not even.
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  Speaker 4: Carlo says vibe.
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  Speaker 5: Carlos is not that type of interview or he is
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  Speaker 5: the one that lots of people What do they mostly
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  Speaker 5: say about Carlos King's interviews. I didn't like this person,
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  Speaker 5: but I came away from this interview liking the person more.
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  Speaker 5: You'll never get those kind of interviews. If he just
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  Speaker 5: goes to the drug that there's other people that can
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  Speaker 5: do that. And if that's too want, then that's not
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  Speaker 5: calls this platform. You should go somewhere else. I think
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  Speaker 5: you need a faith where you know his job is
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  Speaker 5: to be objective, and he does give his opinion several times,
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  Speaker 5: but like I just feel like people want blood. Sometimes
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  Speaker 5: I get and I'm not. That does not mean she's right.
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  Speaker 5: But his job is to provide a place to be
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  Speaker 5: interviewed to us, for us to view into what she's thinking,
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  Speaker 5: not for us to put on her what we think.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, you know, so that's yeah, I'm sorry, go Claudia.
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  Speaker 5: Oh I'm saying that's just what an interview was. And
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, I just feel like I get what
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  Speaker 5: you're doing.
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  Speaker 4: I get it.
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  Speaker 6: Well.
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  Speaker 1: Well, the beauty of you, Claudia is you're the I
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  Speaker 1: figure the only person I interview twice on my podcast,
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  Speaker 1: and everything you said is true because of your experience
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  Speaker 1: stepping into my college, after your experience on TGIF, and
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  Speaker 1: I was the first person to interview you. Claudia has
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  Speaker 1: other people. She's gonna talk it to us well, I
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  Speaker 1: mean spocking to us well. But I also think this
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  Speaker 1: it's one of those things.
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  Speaker 2: Where it's the beauty of journalism.
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  Speaker 1: And I know a lot of people have been grown
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  Speaker 1: up in the days like we all have where you
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  Speaker 1: had either have Oprah, you have Warbara Walters, or you
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  Speaker 1: had Dying Sawyer and these were three very different style
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  Speaker 1: of interviews. And that's the reason why I sat at
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  Speaker 1: the top. I appreciate anybody who says yes and listen,
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  Speaker 1: no shade. There are people who say no to me.
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  Speaker 1: There are people who's like, Okay, I did not think
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna bring this up.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring it up, but whatever, I'll keep it cute.
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  Speaker 2: What y'all don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Is somebody I was supposed to interview.
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  Speaker 2: Who said yes, said no after what after.
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  Speaker 1: Much thought and consideration, no, no, no no no no no
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  Speaker 1: no no. The feedback was this, when you do a
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  Speaker 1: Carlos King interview, you're you're naked meeting.
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  Speaker 2: I have to I have to answer you.
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  Speaker 1: Like they said, you have a way of getting the
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  Speaker 1: truth out of people. And although I'm ready to do that,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not ready to be naked right now.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not ready for it.
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  Speaker 7: So that's honest.
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  Speaker 1: So what the world doesn't know is this that happened.
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  Speaker 1: This is a true story that happened the day before
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  Speaker 1: Chantelle reached out to me.
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  Speaker 4: Are you at somebody?
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  Speaker 5: Yes?
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  Speaker 4: Who was it?
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  Speaker 2: Anyways?
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  Speaker 4: So, as a former journalist's supposed to.
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  Speaker 2: My point is this.
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  Speaker 1: When I got the DGM from Chantelle, y'all know I'm spiritual.
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  Speaker 2: So Claudia, wake up.
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  Speaker 8: When I got the dream from Chantel, I said to myself,
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  Speaker 8: here's somebody who doesn't know me, star being enough to
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  Speaker 8: have its tense conversation. It still said I only want to.
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  Speaker 2: Talk to you. So I sell that to say, it's
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  Speaker 2: what you. Claudia does it and I do.
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  Speaker 1: All we can do is be ourselves and and hope
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  Speaker 1: that people walk away even understanding us. More So, Listen,
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate the fact that she reached out, and I
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  Speaker 1: appreciate that for everybody who does say yes, because listen,
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  Speaker 1: this is a tough business. There's a lot of podcasts,
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot of people who do interviews, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: never I don't take for granted where someone says yes,
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  Speaker 1: because it's not always guaranteed.
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  Speaker 5: I keep saying the seeing the accountability thing in the comments,
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  Speaker 5: like they I would like to know, Like what more
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  Speaker 5: did did did you?
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  Speaker 2: Did you think? I think I get it?
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  Speaker 1: Listen, Claudia, the reason why I was happy with the
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  Speaker 1: way you eloquently spoke about it is I think people
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  Speaker 1: want to blood.
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  Speaker 2: Let's have a real conversation. Guess what, I get it.
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  Speaker 1: We have never we have never in the history of
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  Speaker 1: reality TV seeing a black mother and daughter have a
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  Speaker 1: physical altercation. We've never seen it. We were all triggered
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  Speaker 1: by it. We were all upset. We all were upset
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  Speaker 1: about it, and I am we watch my recap of Dustin,
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  Speaker 1: I said to Dustin, I said us.
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  Speaker 2: When I watched it, I got emotional.
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  Speaker 1: And I text Jackie because I know her, and I said,
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  Speaker 1: I'm praying for y'all like this. I could not imagine
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  Speaker 1: being a producer watching that on the phone.
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  Speaker 7: I just couldn't.
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  Speaker 2: A mother and a daughter.
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  Speaker 1: I understand, Claudia, that people are angry. I understand that
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  Speaker 1: people want to blood. I understand that people.
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  Speaker 2: Claudia, you hit it.
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  Speaker 1: I think people wanted her to constantly say it and
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  Speaker 1: say it and say it. And I appreciate those who
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  Speaker 1: watched the full two hours.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: For those Hey, Dustin, No, a lot of people were
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  Speaker 1: leaving negative comments after thirty.
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  Speaker 2: Minutes, so listen. I appreciate those. I love y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Like and Dustin hit it. Dustin said, she said it.
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  Speaker 1: She said, I'm sorry, she said. I'm not making no excuses.
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  Speaker 1: I did what I did, I said what I said.
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  Speaker 2: But here is.
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  Speaker 1: What was my experience leading up to it. And I
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  Speaker 1: also want to say this, and and this is not
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  Speaker 1: what no Ona's talking about. That I can because I'm producer,
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  Speaker 1: and that Qualitia can because she is a reality star,
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  Speaker 1: and that dust can stand because Dustin is a historian
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  Speaker 1: of unscripted television. When you have somebody that has been
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  Speaker 1: on TV, that's okay. When you have somebody that's been
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  Speaker 1: on TV for more than ten seasons, we all know
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  Speaker 1: that there's certain people that got their faith. Their fans
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  Speaker 1: love them, and they can do nothing wrong.
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  Speaker 2: There is this fan base. And this is what somebody
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  Speaker 2: said to me over the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: They said, baby Jackie got fans, And I said, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I think what you and I talk about. And Clauda,
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  Speaker 1: you said this about Juice Dora. There's certain fans that
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  Speaker 1: like the Vets or the Ogs. A new bee coming in.
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  Speaker 1: Clauda experienced this. When a newbie comes in, you kind
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  Speaker 1: of side more with the Ogs. And I think when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to this interview, I think at the end
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  Speaker 1: of the day, we're all triggered by seeing what we saw.
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  Speaker 2: We've never seen it before, and we didn't grow up
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  Speaker 2: that way.
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  Speaker 1: We grew up with don't talk back to your parents,
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  Speaker 1: and I grew up that way too. I think that's
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  Speaker 1: one side. I think the other side of the look,
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  Speaker 1: Jackie is a legend. She's look, she's one of the
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  Speaker 1: greatest reality he starts of all time. Justin eloquently saying
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  Speaker 1: our recap, he said, yeah, this is the first time
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  Speaker 1: about Jackie's side, and he's a fan of the show,
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  Speaker 1: so I think a lot of that went into it too. Well, look,
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  Speaker 1: it's okay, nobody my thing is this the people of
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  Speaker 1: the comments. None of y'all are wrong. It's y'all opinion,
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  Speaker 1: just like Claudia, myself and Dustin aren't wrong when we
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  Speaker 1: recap shows.
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  Speaker 3: No, but schan Tail was wrong for cussing her mama
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  Speaker 3: out and for pushing there. I think people just wanted
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  Speaker 3: to hear her say that more plainly than she said
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  Speaker 3: it in the interview. The only takeaway, and we didn't
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  Speaker 3: talk enough about this shit right on. The only takeaway
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  Speaker 3: I have for the interview that I wish she would
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  Speaker 3: have answered differently is when you asked her about the
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  Speaker 3: connect or she started speaking about, because I don't really
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  Speaker 3: even think it was a question. But when she started
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  Speaker 3: talking about her relationship with Denee and Brittany and she
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  Speaker 3: started offering I guess what she thought was going to
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  Speaker 3: substantiate their relationship. Well, we all got kids the same
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  Speaker 3: as she used to date. This basketball it was just
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  Speaker 3: the thinnest you know what I'm saying thread to connect
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  Speaker 3: them at all, and it did not help her case.
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  Speaker 3: That is one area where I was like, Okay, come on, Chantale, Damn,
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  Speaker 3: come on, Banna.
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  Speaker 7: Ain't there with Jackie.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, Dustin, please say daughter.
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  Speaker 3: Let me say my daughter. Okay, my daughter, me and
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  Speaker 3: my daughter. Remember when they rolled up Andrea and Orlando
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  Speaker 3: that time. You want to talk about my daughter?
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  Speaker 7: D O T T E R. That's Jackie. Now my daughter.
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  Speaker 7: I'm gonna talk what about your daughter? They said she's
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  Speaker 7: a beauty. Remember what she thought?
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  Speaker 4: It was gonna be hard?
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  Speaker 5: Like being objective here because I have not been watching
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  Speaker 5: basketball wives, I'm going to start.
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  Speaker 4: Actually, when you have a relationship the daughter family, it's
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  Speaker 4: so complex.
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  Speaker 5: It's not as limited to what we have seen in
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  Speaker 5: a season or two or five or even ten like.
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  Speaker 5: There's usually deep seated issues that are from ten years ago,
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  Speaker 5: twenty years ago, thirty years ago.
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  Speaker 4: That are just unresolved things.
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  Speaker 5: And a lot of times you go on reality to
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  Speaker 5: me without squashing those things, and they're gonna come out eventually,
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  Speaker 5: So we could be mad and be like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 5: I can't believe she disrespected her mom or whatever, But
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  Speaker 5: then we don't know what other things she's still harping
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  Speaker 5: on from years ago, not to say right, And this
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  Speaker 5: is this hypothetical y'all before y'all say I'm taking her
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  Speaker 5: side over Jackie, I'll let me some Jackie, okay, and
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  Speaker 5: vice versa. Jackie may have some unresolved things with her daughter,
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  Speaker 5: and a lot of times, unfortunately, reality brings out the
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  Speaker 5: worst parts of it. You know, if it's not squashed
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: before you go on, it's gonna come out on necklace
• 17:46
  Speaker 5: for a romantic relationships, friendships, you think you can go
• 17:50
  Speaker 5: on there and outs out produce yourselves, you won't. It's
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: gonna come out. And you know, I'm sure there's like many, many,
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: many incidents both of them can name where they were
• 18:00
  Speaker 5: hurt by each other, and it's gonna come out. And
• 18:02
  Speaker 5: when we'd be like, heyn, why did go left like that? Well,
• 18:04
  Speaker 5: that wasn't just about that day or that week or
• 18:06
  Speaker 5: that month or that year. That was a lifetime of saints.
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, And then Jackie is also very good.
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: At reality, she knows what to do, which that would
• 18:17
  Speaker 5: It's very difficult when you're in a scene with someone
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: that knows what they're doing and you're not. You're gonna
• 18:22
  Speaker 5: look crazy no matter what. But at the end of
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: the day, also, fighting your mother on camera is the
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: net and your mom's y'all swinging, Like swinging on your
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: mom on camera or real life is nuts.
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: I wanted Precious to fight her mama though. That's one
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: instance where I wanted to to fight them. I want
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: to po Mary Ass in that movie so bad as Precious.
• 18:46
  Speaker 7: I want to get her man. That's what.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: Popeye's chicken at all. But all all just the side.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: Thank y'all for watching it.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: I love you guys. I love the comments, all ten
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: thousand of them.
• 19:05
  Speaker 6: Child.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: And if you haven't watched.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: A Chantel Christy interview, it is still up on my
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: YouTube channel, so make sure you watch it. Leave a comment.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: I want to see what you got to say about it.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: But all all jokes aside, thank y'all. And look, I'm
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: still praying for the healing of the Christies, like it's
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: I hope they can find some sort of resolve. This
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King, Let's
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: get back into the show.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: It looks like there would not be a resolve when
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: it comes to Ken, Trisia, and Marquez.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: So let's get into the most recent episode of Love
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: and Marriage Huntsville. So, as you all know, we are
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: back celebrating season ten of Love and Marriage Huntsville, where
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: we are three episodes in and it's already started off
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: a little easy because of the dynamic between Ken, Tricia,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: and Marquez. So, for those who don't know, Ken and
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: Tricia are the newest cast members to Love in Mats Huntsville.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: They're in a relationship. They live together. They're not married
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: because technically Tricia is still married to her high school
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: sweetheart Marquez.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: Until this let me be careful so not give things away.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: At the time of the episodes airing, they're still married. Okay,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: they have two kids. Ken and Tricia live together with
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: her kids. Marquess is in and out of Marquess lives
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: in Atlanta. By the way, I saw Marquess over the weekend.
• 20:52
  Speaker 7: M what y'all talk about?
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: Where'd just them?
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I saw him out and about in Atlanta.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: No, you know what, you know what dust it, I'll
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: have Marquess tell y'all. Marquess will tell y'all what we
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: talked about. But what I will say is I was
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: happy to see him.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: And what I will say is this it's a very
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: complicated situation. What we saw in the premiere episode was
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Marquess dropping off his daughter. He got into a verbal
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: altercation or spat rather with Tricia's friend Sharon.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, go ahead, I mean, I just I didn't mean
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: it interject, but it just came in my head because
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: that was crazy. First of all, and I'm by no
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: means taking sides before anybody starts with that ship.
• 21:47
  Speaker 7: I'm just talking about what we saw in the television. Right.
• 21:50
  Speaker 7: That lady was completely out of line.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: Okay, you only been friends with Tricia for four years,
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: that means you a new friend.
• 21:57
  Speaker 7: Okay.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: Second of all, you don't have nothing to do with
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: none of this. So all that questioning and what does
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: she say when he walked in? She said something. She
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: started off by.
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: Saying he came in with and it's like, well, did.
• 22:10
  Speaker 7: You hear some Caudi or something like that? She said,
• 22:14
  Speaker 7: I'm like, you.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: Ain't even in this, you know what I'm saying, Like,
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: she needs to shut up. That's what she needs to do,
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: and she needs to stay out of it because it
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: don't have nothing to do with her. And she really
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: lit a flame, you know, pour gasoline on a flame.
• 22:29
  Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: In that situation that's already tense, already completely fucked up,
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: needs so much work, needs so much help. And here
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: she come with a Cassie haircut talking about some uh
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: she was sure hair was shaved on the side, talking
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: about some uh uh, just having an opinion, you know
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying, on some shit that she didn't have
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: no place speaking on.
• 22:51
  Speaker 7: I did not like that.
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: And Marquiz is a troll, Okay, a straight up troll,
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: and that triggered him in that way. And did hear
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: come the mess they could have gotten somewhere without her
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: ass And I just didn't understand why she was inserting
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: herself in that conversation.
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: It's yes, because of the TV show and because people
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: trying to make their marks early on, because I feel
• 23:13
  Speaker 5: like in real life.
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: No one would ever really do that.
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: In real life, I think people have batteries in that back,
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: especially New reality folks, but people do definitely want to
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: show off liver. But like you, feel like you have
• 23:23
  Speaker 5: to make something happen instead of just letting the scene
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: letting might happen.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: I feel like she was like, well, let me just
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: be a little messy for the scene. That's one thing.
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: Like she could just chills and let him pop off
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: first and then jump in. And I didn't think if
• 23:37
  Speaker 5: you've been friends zone before years, I mean, that's not
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: like you just became friends, that's enough time.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: To happen to you.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: But nobody asked her.
• 23:44
  Speaker 5: Like you made it where your friend now has to
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: decide and she wants to have her homegirls back or
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: her exes back, and it's on camera, so everything's times ten.
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: Now he hows cameras they're let me match energy, so
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: I can't go out, and I like, no punk right,
• 23:59
  Speaker 5: So you got this and that's what happens because people
• 24:02
  Speaker 5: want to show off for the cameras.
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: That's what I kind of feel. I feel like it
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: was elevated because people will watch it.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I think you think it was elevated from marquas perspective
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: or Sharon's perspective or both.
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: Sharon first and then Mark has responding to her both
• 24:18
  Speaker 5: like you know, I am about to look like she's
• 24:20
  Speaker 5: punking me walking into the housepital my you know my
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: kids are?
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: I feel like she started it?
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: She did.
• 24:25
  Speaker 5: It wasn't major, but it was enough to like an
• 24:28
  Speaker 5: already tense situation, or don't take that much of gasoline
• 24:31
  Speaker 5: to make that flame go of higher?
• 24:32
  Speaker 7: True, she started it?
• 24:35
  Speaker 6: I did.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: So then?
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Could you know what was so interesting about it is?
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Prior to that scene, you did see Ken and Marquaz
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: meet up one on one too.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, go ahead, Dustin, that was crazy.
• 24:51
  Speaker 7: Stop trying.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: You got to stop trying with motherfuckers sometimes. You know
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying. This has been going on for years.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: This is what we what do we call it in
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: our line of work at multi year pregnant shit right
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: that this has been going on between Tricia and Marcus.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like, you know how he is, Ken,
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: You know how he is too. Stop trying to build
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: a bridge and make an inroads where there isn't one.
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: Focus everything on them kids. They have beautiful children together,
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: by the way. Focus everything on them children, you know
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying, And just eliminate any unnecessary communication. You
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: can't make him change and be a different person. He's
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: exactly who he is and they know that by now,
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: so Ken banging his head against the wall trying to
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: figure out how to put a what do they take
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: a square peg? And whatever the fucking saying is stop
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: just stop. That was crazy to me that he went
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: and met up. I understand that it gave us something
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: interesting to look at. But again, this is the difference
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: between a television showing what would likely happen in real life.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: Because I wish I be Damn you think I would
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: have set up there talking if I was Ken talking
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: to my kids about what you know what I'm saying, No,
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: we don't have nothing to talk about but this.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: But this was so interesting, Dustin, so in real life.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: So obviously after.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: We take the reunion, we have like a couple of
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: months of hiatus before we.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Resume with this with with the with the next season.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: So after that reunion, Dustin, what's interesting is they I
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: think Ken, if I got this mistake in Ken, let
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: me know, I believe Ken made the effort after the
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: reunion where they did get into it too, offered an
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: olive branch too to Marquez. And what was so interesting
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: is when we got back in production, he was like,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: me and Marquez are working on being better because I think,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: and that's the beauty of TV. You see your behavior
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: or you see your actions and you're like, you know
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: what I could have done better?
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: And I think that's the reason why Ken felt so upset.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: When Sharon my sharing when Tricia told him how Marquez
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: did walk up in the house.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: And just just so y'all know, Marquez was.
• 26:59
  Speaker 6: Not my.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: Production we had. He was not miked.
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: Boom and the boom sound real good.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Yes he was we had so so for the audience too.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: That wasn't a fake scene production. We had no idea
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: that Marquess was about to walk in. That scene was
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: strictly supposed to be about Tricia and Sharon discussing their
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: situation when they saw when they saw Marquess pull up
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: and with his daughter, they of course followed my rule,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: which is you.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: Follow the reality.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: And he walked a been there and that's why you
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: saw Tricia like, I know, this did not just walking
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: in my house.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: So it wasn't it wasn't fake. He wasn't Mike. He
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: was not Mike.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: And that's why that day.
• 27:56
  Speaker 5: Just like like I would have reacted, I'd be like
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: more like stunning and someone came up in my house
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: than when I was filming.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: Like like, baby, I would have been on my feet
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: so fast with my finger pointed, get the fuck out
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: of here. Outd have been so fast going off immediately
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: walking in my house.
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: I think it'd be a lot less issues. And again
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: I'm new to this show. If they gotta get that
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: divorce and too many weird stool attachments, like that's just
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: so weird, Like get that divorce done. You know you
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: got a new man there raising he says it, those
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: are my kids, he goes, but this is my family now.
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, I can see why marks
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: will be you know, triggered by that, Like that's gotta
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: be a gut punch like ough, Like I'm not the
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: house with the kids, but that dig that and that's
• 28:41
  Speaker 5: not your fel that's my family. So you got some
• 28:44
  Speaker 5: boundaries like divorce, get that, get that squared away.
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: I don't know who's holds who's holding up the divorce?
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: What's what's the hold up?
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Dustin? Would you like to answer that?
• 28:54
  Speaker 7: So here's what I heard.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: So, according to Marquez, Tricia and Ken inappropriately or issues
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: some paperwork that did not list one of their children.
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: Because I think one of the children is a minor, right,
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: and the other one is above eighteen. And the paperwork,
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: according to Ken, according to Marquez, did not have that
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: on there. But as we've seen this week, when they
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: was putting that paper in his face like this, that
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: paper had the child's name on it, and Ken was
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: about to push his finger through that paper.
• 29:29
  Speaker 7: He was so goddamn mad when he was it's right there,
• 29:31
  Speaker 7: it's right there. You don't see it. That's when he
• 29:34
  Speaker 7: was doing that.
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: He was there.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: Because Marquez is a troll, and I don't know see
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: me personally, I'd have been like, so what are you saying?
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: Because I don't want to be married to you anymore, Marquez,
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: So please don't misunderstand.
• 29:48
  Speaker 7: Any of this.
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: I'm not omitting names in an attempt to stay married
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: to you. I don't want to be married to you.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: That's what needs to be said. But Tricia has this
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: thing where she just gets in and she goes into
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: a back and forth and just plays off of whatever
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: the last thing the person that she's arguing with says. So, like, Claudia,
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: if you and Tricia have a back and forth verbally
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: and you tell her, well, I didn't like what you did.
• 30:12
  Speaker 7: She'll say, well, I didn't like what you did, you
• 30:14
  Speaker 7: know what I mean? She does that.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: Instead of getting to the root of the issue, and
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: she's talking about shit. So that's what happened. So the
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: last time we checked, that's why they were still married.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: Marquez is a little bit of a high head, A
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: little bit what you say.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: I think Marquez has a he's a troll. He don't
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: mind stirring the pot if he knows it's going to
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: get on your fucking nerves, and he has an issue
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: with you.
• 30:37
  Speaker 7: So I think that's the kind of person he is.
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't say a hot head, because Ken was hot
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: in that scene. Carlos, why didn't we see the damn
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: fight too? That's what I'm tired of. Show the damn fight.
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: You can't drink. You can't drink us that damn close.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying to it? We want to
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: see it. Can we please get a bonus cut, a
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: director's cut or something. Stop blacking the screen out, Carlos, Damn,
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: we walked, I get I get blamed.
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: This just putting the tip in and I'll give us
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: the whole shafting.
• 31:08
  Speaker 7: That's what I'm saying, man, we're trying to welcome.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: To my twenties. That's what my twenties was like. So look,
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: what I will say is this.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Every look, it's not my decision.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: It's not I'll just leave that that.
• 31:30
  Speaker 7: It's not my decision. It's not my good.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: But but but but but but I do want to
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: ask all something about this based on what you two
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: have seen in that scene. These are the questions that
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: were position on social media over the weekend. Do y'all
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: think that Tricia and Marquaz are still in love with
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: each other and that's evident based on what you guys seen,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: and that can should move away from this relationship.
• 32:04
  Speaker 7: Claudia, what you think?
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: I don't know if I know enough say she they're
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: in love, but there's definitely still some feelings there, but
• 32:10
  Speaker 5: there should be had two kids with this person.
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: I don't know if there's still love.
• 32:15
  Speaker 5: I think Mark Kuz is showing that he's still a
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: little bit like he don't feel like he's replaced Mebuh.
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: That can't feel good.
• 32:23
  Speaker 5: Listen, you out the chicken coop and a new roal
• 32:25
  Speaker 5: cities in the chicken coop with your eggs. Old Lady
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: laying your eggs showing his cop You know what I'm saying.
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. That can't worm.
• 32:41
  Speaker 7: No, Patricia said it was a hot dog.
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: Remember in the in the in the episode, she said,
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: he came out here this out.
• 32:48
  Speaker 9: Remember the way something box people in the nothing Are
• 32:58
  Speaker 9: we going to listen?
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: That'ster's on tour if you're in Atlanta August sixteenth. He
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: has a second show that's been added because the first
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: one sold out.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Yes, are you going to like this impersonation?
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: You know I'm an old school I am inspired by
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: the old school grades of comedy. I come from the
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: school of death comedy, jam and comic View and Eddie
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: Murphy Ross so hell yeah, and lots of impressions, lots
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: of physical comedy, lots of ship talking.
• 33:24
  Speaker 7: Yes, there will be impressions.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, Claudia know she's Claudia has seen it yet.
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: The Negro's next. That's no left and right. Oh myth
• 33:36
  Speaker 5: They need to make a movie about him. Twenty Ways,
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: Bubble of Bag, mar Marquis Marquette, whatever, Homeboy and old Girl.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: When guys, when you break up with your hand right
• 33:49
  Speaker 4: appreciates are so bad?
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: It's most likely the man's gonna find other woman before
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: the woman finds another man.
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: Especially when you have kids.
• 33:56
  Speaker 10: A lot of times, guys like you ain't never gonna
• 33:58
  Speaker 10: find another one with another and you got two kids,
• 34:00
  Speaker 10: fools that I'll watch you guys be liked when that
• 34:03
  Speaker 10: girl move on with some and someone else comes in
• 34:05
  Speaker 10: and let alone, another man comes in and wants to
• 34:07
  Speaker 10: take care of those kids too, or want to be
• 34:09
  Speaker 10: there for that's gotta be like that, does't you know
• 34:12
  Speaker 10: that's got to be pissed them off?
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: Well, didn't do your job and be more present and
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: so that he can be her man and you can
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: be their father. To me, I don't know, y'all know
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: how I have very rigid views when it comes to
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: like the way men show up in relationships.
• 34:27
  Speaker 7: I just you know what I'm shout out to Mika Smith.
• 34:30
  Speaker 7: I love y'all too. I love it. D I'm gonna come.
• 34:32
  Speaker 7: We just I'm coming. But anyway, he needs to step up.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: See what you do is if you're a person who's
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: affected by things in that way, you eliminate the risk.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: And the way that he could eliminate the risk is
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: by showing up and being present, paying for everything for
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: his damn children. Stop offering other people's food and drinks
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: to guests. You know what I'm saying, Stop doing that
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: coming up in their house talking about do you want
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: something to drink to this lady? Where'd you gonna get
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: it from? That's Kin's refrigerator. You know what I'm saying,
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: Like you can't. Markis got it. That's why I say
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: he trolls because I know he's aware when he does
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: those things. But if he's a man that's affected by
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: that and made to feel inadequate, which I think is
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: a lot of what we see, I think he feels inadequate,
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: and it's a literal physical comparison, you know what I'm saying.
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: Ken is bigger and stronger than him, and he's showing
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: up handling your responsibilities.
• 35:23
  Speaker 7: I think Markuiz feels minimized in that way.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, and also think this too. I think
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: a lot of it goes to show that.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: Look, when you have an a tense situation based on
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: the former well I can't even say former because they're
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: still married technically, right, And then you have Ken, who
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: obviously is in love with Trish, He's in love with
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: the kids, he's taking care of his mainly responsibilities.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Why do you guys think though?
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Before we move on to Marceau and Maurice, why do
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: you guys feel though that?
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: But the audience is strictly blaming Tricia.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: They felt like this is Tricia's fault and a lot
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: of them want Can to leave her and they don't
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: feel like can.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, they don't feel like Tricia's good enough for Can.
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: They always be blaming the black the black woman.
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: It's always her. It's our fault for every single thing.
• 36:20
  Speaker 5: When it's men acting up, Oh what did you do
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: to make him do that? When you get raped? What
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: was you wearing when you get beat up?
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 36:26
  Speaker 5: What did you say that pissed him off? It's annoying
• 36:29
  Speaker 5: as hell, and I'm sick of it. I mean, I
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: haven't seen anything. Again, I'm new to the show. I
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: haven't seen the blatant anything, blatantly wrong that she did.
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: But I think that's just like kind of what.
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: Our society does. And it's not just other men, it's
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: other women too. And I don't know, I don't know.
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: I think there's two factors too here that do come
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: into play. We were introduced to Tricia. She was surrounded
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: by a lot of questions. Remember we were met When
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: we met her, she lied about knowing Martel, and so
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: a lot of people feel like Tricia is a liar.
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: They don't believe anything that she says, and so that
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: kind of places her in their scope when it comes
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: to playing the blame game, right. And another thing, Tricia
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: do look like she always sneaking, you know what I'm saying,
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: Like when she be in these scenes, tell her, you know,
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: she always looks sneaking, like she's sneaking doing something. And
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: I think that's what makes people feel like that, you
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying when it comes to her.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: So, so does she look sneaky or do you think
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: she is sneaky?
• 37:25
  Speaker 7: I think she looks sneaky, but so.
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: You could look sneaky even not be sneaky, right, I think.
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: She looks sneaky and I think she lied about how
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: she knows Martell when she came onto the show, And
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: I think that's a toxic combination when it comes to
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: people believe in what you have to say.
• 37:41
  Speaker 5: And then on reality TV there is no forgiveness. Like
• 37:43
  Speaker 5: we talked about her beginning, you mess up the one
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: one time, that's it. You know you are always going
• 37:49
  Speaker 5: to be looked through through that lens.
• 37:50
  Speaker 7: But Lot, that's why King friends want him to leave
• 37:53
  Speaker 7: her Kiv's friends.
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: He was like, you zoom out and look at the
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: whole puzzle, Like you got to look at the whole puzzle,
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: Like why are you doing this? Basically that's what he
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: was asking Ken, like why are you staying in this
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: damn relationship?
• 38:05
  Speaker 7: Yeah, And Chris Flincher sat up there not when he
• 38:08
  Speaker 7: was saying it. Chris Flincher was.
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, so I do want to I do want
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: to talk to you guys about this. Listen. The beauty
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: of Monday.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Night Live is the fact that this is live, this
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: is not take and you never know who's gonna pop in.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: So Dustin and Claudia, look, look, there's a lot that
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: happened on this episode of Love and Matche hunts Bill.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: So it would be remiss of me not to bring
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: on somebody to have a real conversation. Ladies jumped to men,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: gaze and bathe and all the rain drops around the world.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Give it up for the man, the myth, the chocolate
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: in the bottle.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Marcel, Marcel, what's having this? Marceau all horizontally.
• 39:05
  Speaker 5: Okay, work and you are too far, like if you
• 39:07
  Speaker 5: can bring in a little closely there you go.
• 39:13
  Speaker 11: Like I'm sitting all the way now see you look
• 39:16
  Speaker 11: when Carlos says jump, I jump.
• 39:18
  Speaker 6: I'm just getting off the plane.
• 39:20
  Speaker 11: I'm at the the lounge and I'm like, yes, you
• 39:24
  Speaker 11: know so this Carlos when we say asked me to
• 39:28
  Speaker 11: do someone, I say, yes.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Marcel. Marcell was just so so first
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: of all, Marcel me Claudia Jordan.
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: I think he did my show.
• 39:41
  Speaker 5: He did, Yeah, you did my show before out Loud
• 39:45
  Speaker 5: and I came to the lounge one time.
• 39:47
  Speaker 6: And himself, Oh you can't.
• 39:49
  Speaker 4: You went to black Yep with Fundy Neva. Right, it
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: was years ago, Okay, now it was.
• 39:57
  Speaker 6: It wasn't need but it was with some other people.
• 39:59
  Speaker 6: It was, oh god, what was that one? It was
• 40:03
  Speaker 6: out for play.
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought he was there. He was there. Oh,
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: I'm old.
• 40:07
  Speaker 5: My memory is trash. I'm I've been crying all day
• 40:09
  Speaker 5: with my cat, so I don't know what's happening.
• 40:10
  Speaker 6: Sorry, oh you got a cat cry.
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: I had to take it. Dans had to put her down. Today.
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: She live, but it's it's I'm going it anyway, I'm
• 40:22
  Speaker 5: sorry's out the whole nother time.
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: It's about you right now. But anyways, hello, welcome.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: To the show.
• 40:29
  Speaker 6: Hey not how are you? Hey?
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: Guys, and you and you know I'm Dustin already, So
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: what's Marshall?
• 40:36
  Speaker 7: I know I know that Dustin, You're good, chilling brother, chilling.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: So Marceau, thank you for stepping into the lounge and
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: onto the show. So while I have you, and before
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: we get into you and your brother having an argument
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: over the Golden Child, I do want.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: To ask you this question.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: First though, you saw what happened between Ken, Trisha and
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: Marquez last season. We saw you talk to Marquez about
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: how you felt his behavior was and and you know,
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: not being there at the.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Time he should have been all those things.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: When you watch the altercation that happened between Ken and
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Marquez in front of Trician Sharon, what are your thoughts
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: and all of that that went down.
• 41:26
  Speaker 6: My thoughts are is that you know, when you get
• 41:30
  Speaker 6: people together, like you get one.
• 41:32
  Speaker 11: Side, you can get the truth, but you're always getting
• 41:36
  Speaker 11: different perspectives. And so what I understand about relationships is
• 41:40
  Speaker 11: that you know, when I'm talking to Trish, she's telling
• 41:43
  Speaker 11: me everything from.
• 41:45
  Speaker 6: Her perspective and what Marquez did.
• 41:48
  Speaker 11: And when I'm talking to Marquis, he's telling me everything
• 41:50
  Speaker 11: what Tris did, but no one's taking accountability for it.
• 41:53
  Speaker 11: And so I know we're missing a lot of the
• 41:54
  Speaker 11: story as far as what the did, what they felt,
• 41:57
  Speaker 11: what's really going on in the situation.
• 42:00
  Speaker 6: And so that's why to me, it's a little hard
• 42:02
  Speaker 6: to understand when.
• 42:05
  Speaker 12: You know, then this unfinished business there is For me,
• 42:09
  Speaker 12: I can see through the line of this unfinished business
• 42:11
  Speaker 12: when it jumps to Marquez and Trish, and I think
• 42:14
  Speaker 12: that's what we're getting the residue of.
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: Do you think that Ken and.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: Do you think Ken and Tricia will last while this
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: divorce is still not finalized, or do you think they're
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: going to work through it?
• 42:39
  Speaker 11: So I personally think that they have their biggest issue
• 42:43
  Speaker 11: right now is now they have a crowd watching, and
• 42:48
  Speaker 11: so now they have they have they got a little
• 42:51
  Speaker 11: bit more at stake right now. It's easy to walk
• 42:53
  Speaker 11: a line, but when you put it ten thousand feet
• 42:55
  Speaker 11: in the air and change the dynamics of it, and
• 42:57
  Speaker 11: so now I think that it's hard to do this
• 43:01
  Speaker 11: when you're being called stupid, it's hard to do this
• 43:04
  Speaker 11: when you've got a lot of opinions, when you got
• 43:06
  Speaker 11: a lot more dms, when you got a lot more
• 43:09
  Speaker 11: people coming to you saying, hey, you know the you know.
• 43:14
  Speaker 6: The you should leave thems?
• 43:15
  Speaker 11: You know the you should leave them are present, They're
• 43:17
  Speaker 11: gonna be here, And I think it's hard to walk
• 43:19
  Speaker 11: that line right there and then it's hard to do
• 43:22
  Speaker 11: this sometimes feeling stupid but then being called stupid over
• 43:27
  Speaker 11: and over and over. I think powerful Ken, I think
• 43:29
  Speaker 11: it's hard for uh, you know, that's a hard dynamic,
• 43:32
  Speaker 11: especially in love.
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: Does it also make you fight harder sometimes, like to
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: prove than they say is wrong? Does that also help
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: you sometimes in these shows?
• 43:43
  Speaker 11: Yeah, when you're running while you're tired, you get that
• 43:47
  Speaker 11: burst of energy that lasts about less than one hundred
• 43:50
  Speaker 11: meters and then you're back to being dog ass tired.
• 43:54
  Speaker 11: And so I think that while you're doing it, you
• 43:56
  Speaker 11: want to say, hey, babe, back against the wall, me
• 43:58
  Speaker 11: and you versus the world. And he takes a couple
• 44:02
  Speaker 11: more episodes, come more being called stupids, a couple more
• 44:05
  Speaker 11: bullshit than you're like, hey man, what am I really
• 44:08
  Speaker 11: doing here?
• 44:10
  Speaker 7: You've seen a lot of people calling Ken stupid myself.
• 44:15
  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, broyh yeah yeah yeah yeah.
• 44:18
  Speaker 11: And because it's not because Ken's stupid, it's because Ken
• 44:22
  Speaker 11: is so short of himself with the answers. You know
• 44:24
  Speaker 11: what I'm saying, Oh no, no, no, no no. Remember
• 44:27
  Speaker 11: a hanging over with Oh Boy. It was like, oh, oh,
• 44:30
  Speaker 11: my wife doesn't do that. She doesn't like semen. And
• 44:33
  Speaker 11: he's like, okay, buddy, don't be that guy.
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: What do you think about him? What do you think
• 44:43
  Speaker 4: about Ken? What do you think about Ken?
• 44:46
  Speaker 11: I think Ken's a I think Ken's a good guy.
• 44:49
  Speaker 11: I think Ken, Ken is a good guy. Ken has
• 44:52
  Speaker 11: this Ken is going to meet he uh, that's my guy.
• 44:59
  Speaker 11: But he goes through the same stuff that that handsome
• 45:02
  Speaker 11: men go through later on in life, and medium attractive
• 45:06
  Speaker 11: guys go through earlier life.
• 45:07
  Speaker 6: You know, like I learned this lesson?
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: What do you mean that?
• 45:15
  Speaker 6: What is that?
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: Break that down?
• 45:16
  Speaker 6: Please? Okay? And I'm not saying this about that situation.
• 45:24
  Speaker 11: All right, I'm not saying this, but sometimes you can
• 45:28
  Speaker 11: be a great guy and just not her first choice
• 45:31
  Speaker 11: or she's not into you, or whatever.
• 45:34
  Speaker 6: Situation may be. You might have all of this stuff
• 45:36
  Speaker 6: stacked up right here, but it just doesn't.
• 45:38
  Speaker 11: Line up, and you don't understand why, because you thought
• 45:41
  Speaker 11: that the relationships were on you. You thought that if
• 45:45
  Speaker 11: I just be a good guy, then it'll all fall
• 45:47
  Speaker 11: in place. And you learn later on in life that
• 45:52
  Speaker 11: sometimes it's just you know, bad timing. Bro, You don't
• 45:56
  Speaker 11: think that right now. I think it's a tough situation
• 45:59
  Speaker 11: because you two people that like each other, but the
• 46:02
  Speaker 11: idea of that next step is tough.
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: Do you think she's settling for him? Like, like you
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: kind of give that analogy, Like you know later she's not.
• 46:13
  Speaker 4: He's not her first choice. Like you know, when we
• 46:15
  Speaker 4: get older, we're like, all right, we might as well.
• 46:17
  Speaker 4: I might as well get with him. He's a nice guy.
• 46:19
  Speaker 4: Is it kind of like that?
• 46:25
  Speaker 11: You know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna fully agree
• 46:29
  Speaker 11: with trick Daddy, but I will say that settling ain't
• 46:32
  Speaker 11: a bad thing. You might want to make your decisions
• 46:34
  Speaker 11: while you're in your prime, and after you get into
• 46:36
  Speaker 11: your prime, you might want to start thinking about settling.
• 46:40
  Speaker 6: Mm. Well, of it. It's not a bad thing. It's
• 46:52
  Speaker 6: not a bad thing. Because no, I don't think she's settling.
• 46:56
  Speaker 6: I think that she's just not in the place right
• 46:58
  Speaker 6: now where.
• 47:00
  Speaker 11: I think she wants to have fun and the idea
• 47:03
  Speaker 11: of getting off this long marriage and this crazy roller
• 47:08
  Speaker 11: coaster and then jumping right onto another one is dang,
• 47:13
  Speaker 11: can you let me get a drink first, Let me
• 47:15
  Speaker 11: take a break first, let.
• 47:16
  Speaker 6: Me wind down. So I'm like, that's what that might
• 47:21
  Speaker 6: be some of that, But again.
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: Marcel, I don't know. I think that no, no, no, no,
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: I think the beauty listen Marcel. Always.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: One of the meaning reasons I love Marcel is because
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: Marcel has a lot of wisdom and insight when it
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: comes to things, because he's able to see things obviously
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: from his perspective. And I think it's I think it's
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: an interesting dialogue because there is a big topic of
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: conversation about settling and when you do reach a certain age,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: are you just happy to be with somebody that checks
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: the boxes of what works for you in the during
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: the life that you're living right now versus what you said,
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: like walking.
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: Or running while you're tired?
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Am I am I going to risk losing something that
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: seems right on paper to go after something that forces
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: me to just continue to be on this roller coaster ride.
• 48:26
  Speaker 7: Do y'all think Ken is settling too, and.
• 48:30
  Speaker 6: And turloughs real talk like there's not a lot of
• 48:34
  Speaker 6: guys out there like Ken. There's not. There's not a
• 48:37
  Speaker 6: lot of guys out there like Ken.
• 48:39
  Speaker 11: So Ken's value is going Oh, I'm not saying Trici's
• 48:42
  Speaker 11: value is going down, but Ken is going up.
• 48:45
  Speaker 6: Ships drink.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: Well, listen. I just discovered Ken on TikTok.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: My algorithm found Ken and does to Claudia and marcel
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: I spent. I was traveling today and I'm reading all
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: of the comments of Kn's TikTok posts, and what I
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: will say is unfortunately, because Ken's in a relationship, and
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: I figure ladies are Jezebels for doing this, but our names.
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of women, Claudia in the comments telling
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Ken to lead, Tricia telling Ken you're too good of
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: a woman, telling Ken dip this chocolate in my strawberry shake.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of there's a lot of women who
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: is encouraging Can to leave his situation. And what I
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: do want to talk to and I want to move
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: on to you and Marion while I have you, mar So,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: but I do want to raise this question. We hear
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: lots of times about how marriages on reality television oftentimes
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: in a divorce.
• 49:48
  Speaker 7: Right.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: So we're not gonna talk about that right now.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: But what we don't spend a lot of time talking
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: about is that reality TV glow. Right, What happens when
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: you the world knows you're in a relationship and you
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: happen to be a handsome individual and there's a lot
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: of women who want you based on them thinking the
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: woman you have does not deserve you. Did that happen
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: to you, Marcel once the show started popping and your
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: medium ugly status grew into being a handsome fellow like
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: your brother Maurice.
• 50:28
  Speaker 11: Well, Carlos, I will say this that I'm not I mean,
• 50:31
  Speaker 11: I'm gonna get beat up for this, but I'll pledged
• 50:35
  Speaker 11: Q the HBCU, all right, I've been popping. So this
• 50:40
  Speaker 11: this this this new world walk of fame, and righteously
• 50:44
  Speaker 11: I'm so happy that in college I was on that
• 50:47
  Speaker 11: same level.
• 50:48
  Speaker 6: So this doesn't this ain't new. But yeah, you get that,
• 50:53
  Speaker 6: you get a lot of d ms, and I wouldn't.
• 50:56
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't. I wouldn't.
• 50:57
  Speaker 11: I wouldn't like bro simmer down now because all of
• 51:02
  Speaker 11: that stuff that you think that you wouldn't do.
• 51:04
  Speaker 6: First of all, you know they would do. And and
• 51:10
  Speaker 6: it's not even it's not cuse worth it. But them
• 51:13
  Speaker 6: d ms do be dumping.
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: Really okay, I'm looking at some of my DM are trash.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: They are.
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: They do not reflect I feel like my success level.
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: I'm a little bit offended on my dms.
• 51:31
  Speaker 5: I feel like Instagram is mess with my algorithm and
• 51:33
  Speaker 5: they put me in a weird space.
• 51:34
  Speaker 4: You should see my DM. I would share them.
• 51:36
  Speaker 5: It is very like, I don't know, it's messing my
• 51:41
  Speaker 5: self esteem. I'm like, I deserve better DM than this.
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: I a lot of mentally ill on my dms.
• 51:46
  Speaker 6: And of ill Claudia, Claudia not going back to trick daddy.
• 51:52
  Speaker 6: But but what I'm saying, I'm it's just it's.
• 52:01
  Speaker 4: You're saying I hit the walls. M h, you got
• 52:09
  Speaker 4: a back connection.
• 52:10
  Speaker 6: I think upgrade that.
• 52:16
  Speaker 4: I think Black needs to upgrade their WiFi. I can't
• 52:18
  Speaker 4: hate you right now.
• 52:21
  Speaker 6: This ain't Black, this is this is a Centurion lounge.
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: You talk to them, Oh them too.
• 52:28
  Speaker 6: No, but no, I'm not saying that you hit your wall.
• 52:31
  Speaker 6: Absolutely not. I'm saying that.
• 52:35
  Speaker 11: And the the more rare you get and the more.
• 52:38
  Speaker 11: Everybody ain't shopping for Ferraris. So if you are a
• 52:42
  Speaker 11: nice Ferrari or a bit ley or being.
• 52:44
  Speaker 6: You're gonna sit on the shlf a little longer.
• 52:47
  Speaker 5: Okay, I'm seeing a lot of comments from the rain
• 52:53
  Speaker 5: drops saying that on Ken's TikTok, he's liking a lot
• 52:59
  Speaker 5: of a comment.
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: We're they're saying he's single.
• 53:05
  Speaker 7: That's a Carlos question.
• 53:06
  Speaker 4: What do tail Carlos?
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: All I would say is we are currently shooting Love
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: and matrig Huntsville, and one thing that we do is
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: follow the reality. But but, but I do want to
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: ask you one more question, Marcel before we move on
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: to Maurice and you, what advice would you give Claudia.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: Claudia is a beautiful woman, she is educated. Because Claudia
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: Cadia has well call you tell your own story child
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: to Marcel. Marceau has a lot of wisdom. Marcell has
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: been married fifteen years? Is it Marceau fifteen going on fifteen?
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry start this month.
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: So Marcel is going on nineteen years of marriage and
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: Marceau has a lot of wisdom. So I would love
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: for you, as a heterosexual black man and to give
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: the beautiful Claudia Jordan.
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: Any advice you think she may need. Uh, Claudia is single, Claudia,
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: I am single.
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: Choice.
• 54:11
  Speaker 5: I see my friends going through it on social media
• 54:13
  Speaker 5: and all y'all in the reality shows.
• 54:15
  Speaker 4: I have a lot of peace in my house. No
• 54:17
  Speaker 4: one is leaving the cap off.
• 54:19
  Speaker 5: The toothpaste, and the toilet seat is down, and my
• 54:22
  Speaker 5: house is spotless.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: I'm good, it is, Carlos.
• 54:28
  Speaker 6: Okay, So no, I want to know.
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: Oh, go ahead, I'm sorry, I'm gonna let I'm gonna
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: let Marce Claudia talk.
• 54:35
  Speaker 5: I do say that they do say you have a
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: lot of wisdom to comments, and they say you have
• 54:38
  Speaker 5: very strong views on women and all that, let's hear it.
• 54:43
  Speaker 11: But I would say this, I would say, and I
• 54:47
  Speaker 11: just know from the outside looking in, and so it
• 54:49
  Speaker 11: has to be a general perspective. But of course I
• 54:53
  Speaker 11: think that there are so many different attributes that you know,
• 54:57
  Speaker 11: a woman like yourself would have. I would say, don't
• 55:01
  Speaker 11: be afraid to open yourself up to the guy that
• 55:04
  Speaker 11: you wouldn't normally talk to, right, because he's kid it real,
• 55:11
  Speaker 11: all right, Men of a certain status, they're gonna put
• 55:15
  Speaker 11: up with a certain stuff. You know, and if you
• 55:20
  Speaker 11: want to, if you want to talk to a guy
• 55:21
  Speaker 11: that's a boss, a guy that's the leader, a guy
• 55:25
  Speaker 11: that's over his own thing and has achieved a certain
• 55:27
  Speaker 11: amount of success.
• 55:29
  Speaker 6: I continue this right now. He's normally used to saying
• 55:34
  Speaker 6: something and people replying yes, sir.
• 55:36
  Speaker 11: Right on top of that, rose okay. He's normally used
• 55:39
  Speaker 11: to his words achieving things. He's not a stupid guy.
• 55:43
  Speaker 11: He's not a guy that lacks ambition. But he's a
• 55:46
  Speaker 11: guy that gets what he wants because he goes after it,
• 55:48
  Speaker 11: because he's willing to make the sacrifice, because he's gonna
• 55:52
  Speaker 11: He's generally intelligent.
• 55:53
  Speaker 6: So that's the kind of guy you want. Well, that
• 55:55
  Speaker 6: means that you being of a you know, a great
• 56:00
  Speaker 6: and strung I.
• 56:01
  Speaker 11: Mean you have to fall in line with that, you know,
• 56:04
  Speaker 11: he that guy is not used to struggling with things
• 56:08
  Speaker 11: that he wants that he's you know, to.
• 56:10
  Speaker 6: Be successful poor. Does that make sense? No, it doesn't.
• 56:19
  Speaker 4: Saying if a man got something going on, shut the
• 56:22
  Speaker 4: fuck up, don't talk back. He is he said, not
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: nobody pushing back, and you be quiet.
• 56:26
  Speaker 5: You know your role, you know your place, and you
• 56:28
  Speaker 5: us if you want a man of a certain status
• 56:31
  Speaker 5: kind of right in that shell.
• 56:32
  Speaker 11: I'm saying a portion of that is, but I say,
• 56:36
  Speaker 11: exercise your femininity and that is the uh that that
• 56:42
  Speaker 11: that's what breaks down masculinity, the femininity, not paid up
• 56:47
  Speaker 11: masculinity from a woman. So one a woman that's alpha
• 56:52
  Speaker 11: with what they think is an awful woman that just
• 56:55
  Speaker 11: really's mouth that right there.
• 56:58
  Speaker 6: That's just like a guy, a guy of major status
• 57:00
  Speaker 6: talking to.
• 57:03
  Speaker 11: A weaker man versus the femininity is what actually breaks
• 57:08
  Speaker 11: that doubt in the guy. So that's what the guy's
• 57:11
  Speaker 11: looking for to a guy of that of the god
• 57:13
  Speaker 11: that you're looking for once.
• 57:15
  Speaker 5: The woman needs Oh, I totally understand that. I definitely
• 57:18
  Speaker 5: live in my femininity in the household. I will say
• 57:22
  Speaker 5: I will speak for a lot of women with this.
• 57:25
  Speaker 5: Most women, when they actually come in contact with actual
• 57:30
  Speaker 5: masculinity and not just loud mouth Boston, it's just because
• 57:33
  Speaker 5: they have a penis, would love to fall in place
• 57:37
  Speaker 5: or fall into the femininity and love to let a
• 57:39
  Speaker 5: man lead. I think a lot of times when women
• 57:42
  Speaker 5: don't is when they're not really respecting that man because
• 57:44
  Speaker 5: he may have shown some weakness or some bitch assness
• 57:48
  Speaker 5: or some lack of leadership and then they're like, I
• 57:52
  Speaker 5: don't trust you, you know, and I think you have
• 57:55
  Speaker 5: to like, you know, when that master man sees is
• 57:58
  Speaker 5: in his masculinity, a woman is gonna she's going to
• 58:01
  Speaker 5: be a support, a nurture.
• 58:02
  Speaker 4: When she doesn't have respective and see it, she's gonna
• 58:05
  Speaker 4: pop off.
• 58:05
  Speaker 5: Or that woman could also have some issues herself. Well,
• 58:08
  Speaker 5: I'm not going to say all women are sitting here
• 58:10
  Speaker 5: being perfect, because they're not. You know, there's plenty of
• 58:12
  Speaker 5: people that that you know, we'll see a good thing coming.
• 58:15
  Speaker 4: And mess it up.
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: In line, Claudia, do you how do from a woman's perspective, right,
• 58:31
  Speaker 3: how do you all wh if you see a guy
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: that is or if you start talking to a man
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: right and he has views on let's say gender roles
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: right that are really traditional and he's basically beating his
• 58:44
  Speaker 3: chest in an effort to say, you know, like my house,
• 58:47
  Speaker 3: my rules type shit.
• 58:48
  Speaker 7: What do women like you think about men like that?
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: Do you view that as them posturing or positioning themselves
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: to mask some insecurity or like what how does that
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: land on a woman like you who's successful right in
• 59:02
  Speaker 3: your own right?
• 59:03
  Speaker 7: You have all the boxes checked, you know, you have
• 59:05
  Speaker 7: your own home, you have options. You know what I mean?
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: How do you view men that show up that way
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: in relationship and immediately try to establish like a hierarchy?
• 59:18
  Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying? How does that make you feel?
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: I always thought that men that actually have it, like, like, really,
• 59:26
  Speaker 4: whose house phone is that? It's easy? My house bowing?
• 59:29
  Speaker 4: We got a help phones.
• 59:31
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: I'm not alone. You've got housephones?
• 59:34
  Speaker 7: No, that's my intercom?
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, oh you got Oh somebody have company?
• 59:40
  Speaker 4: Well let me make this that oh we lost them.
• 59:42
  Speaker 4: I will say this.
• 59:43
  Speaker 5: I think men that really actually have those qualities that
• 59:46
  Speaker 5: are that are actual leaders don't have to tell you.
• 59:49
  Speaker 4: I think real power is quiet.
• 59:50
  Speaker 5: You don't have to tell me because guess what, I'm
• 59:53
  Speaker 5: peeping you, I'm looking at you, and I will recognize, oh,
• 59:57
  Speaker 5: he got to go on.
• 59:57
  Speaker 4: This is a man, This is a man. I think
• 59:59
  Speaker 4: the men that are like I'm the man, I'm the man,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 4: really not just like you.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 5: Know people that are out here saying I'll make moves
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 5: in silence. You're not making moves in silence. You're announcing it.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 5: Like I feel like, you know, we're all smart enough
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 5: and perceptive enough to notice it. I love a strong,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 5: silent man where I can just pick it up myself
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 5: and see it. You have me in check without having
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 5: to tell me you're about to put me there or
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 5: you go all listen at me. I'm gonna want you
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 5: because I admire you, i admire strength, i admire masculinity.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 5: I'm attracted to that. I'm gonna be like, yo, you
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 5: gotta going on. I don't have to question him.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: A lot of times we pop off like we don't like,
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 4: we're seeing you be irresponsible, not doing what you have
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: that you said you're gonna do, not being a man
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 4: of integrity and all that, So then we lose respect
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 4: for you, and then we pop off. And then these
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: men be like, she don't want to listen to us,
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 4: she doesn't choose not with her feminine. You're masculine, because.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: Someone's got to be the man, and if it's not you,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 5: fortunately we have to step up. We would prefer to
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 5: not have to be the man. No masculine woman got
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 5: there because she wanted to be. It was from a
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 5: lack of.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: You coming there on your man.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 5: Shit, you're gonna get a feminine woman, She's gonna fall
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 5: back unless she's mentally ill and they're awesome out there.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 4: Listen, all the women.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 5: Ain't perfect, but for the most part, I mean, I'll
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 5: fall back when I see you you handle things, you know,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 5: you fix things about me telling you I don't have to, Like,
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 5: I don't know one wants the nag that ain't cute.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 3: I just think the notion of like people feeling like
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 3: a woman has to fall back quote unquote, and that
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 3: that's just crazy to me, because I mean, what are
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 3: we like, what are we saying here? Like when you
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: find a partner that works, In order for a relationship
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: between a man and a woman to sustain, the woman
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 3: has to shrink herself in some way and allow him
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: to be you know, I just don't don't.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 7: I don't know. But I'm a gag nigga, So what
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 7: do I know? You know what my story a lot?
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 4: I think you know a lot.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 5: And I think that that is a problem, like that
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 5: caveman shoot is for the birds, But that was a
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 5: system that was kind of set up like keep you uneducated,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 5: just pregnant, just being there to be a thing of
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: pleasure for men and not really have a say. And
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 5: some men may confuse a woman having an opinion with
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: not being feminine, like you should just not push back
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 5: at all or not have an opinion. And I think
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 5: that's crazy. I do think that people need to check
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 5: how they speak to each other. Man to women and
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 5: women to man is not a one way street. You know,
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 5: if you love someone, you care about someone, you should
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: care about their opinions and want them to contribute to this.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know what. So Marcel's Internet service was
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 3: messing up? Yeah, so lifted Marcel.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 4: To masculine Marcel. Not so fast, a woman, shut your mouth.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 4: He is back.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: So Martha, I don't like to are you going myself?
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 2: You can hear us.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 6: I hope we're better now, Yeah.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: Much better, much better, just in times.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 6: So let's sten my burning I heard I felt claudy
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 6: and customed me out.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 4: No, not at all.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 4: I don't think you're a problematic man.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 7: I really know.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 5: You've always been cool to me, and we've I've interviewed
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 5: you before. You you're cool to me. I like these
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 5: kind of conversations. I think like we should have one
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 5: of these conversations to each other, not just you and
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 5: your homeboys and me and my homegorls.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 6: Wrong, you think I'm a big on gender roles.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 4: Let's ask the chat chat. Is he what do you
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 4: think about Marise and gender roles? Is he a chauveness?
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 4: He listening right now?
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 6: Y'all think I'm not choven this. I'm not choven this
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 6: at all. I don't. I don't. I believe in gender roles,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 6: but I don't believe in I don't believe one roll
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 6: is above the other.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 11: Perfect you know, I believe in both are necessary and
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 11: two of the same roles. And you know, would you
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 11: rather have a car within two steering wheels and no hingine?
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 11: No anything has a role.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 8: And if she plays part exactly erectly, well, let's talk
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 8: about the part you played in your brother's relationship with
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 8: his step son Jalen.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: That caused a big stir of social media. Marcel, for
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: the record, I.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: Did do it.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 6: Call over the weekend, let me do something, Let me
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 6: change my wife podcast. Y'all are breaking up on the side.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 4: I see you that drink back up?
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: I see okay?
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 4: Are he ready for people in the like? Can we
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 4: move on? Claudia is not the topic tonight, Hey.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: Claudia, she's on the topic. She's Claudia is the only female. Hey,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: pro Now.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 7: She's always the damn topic.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was a topic. She's a topic.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 4: I've had a rough day today. Okay, no, but no.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: A lot of people were asked you they could see Shelley.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: So you dig a lot of people who would like
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: to see Shelley before we move on, because definitely has
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: compand I want to make sure he has enough time to.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 2: By the way, justin, I enjoyed your interview with Michael Marquaz.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: Good job, thank you, thank you very much. I love
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 3: Michael a lot. It's one of my dear friends.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 7: So thank you. Yes, yes we will, won't we?
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 13: Yeah?
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 7: Hey, Shelley, what's up, Shelley?
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: Hi, Shelley.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 4: Shelly's not doing well today.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 5: As I took it to the bed, I thought I
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 5: had to put it asleep. She's only four point six pounds.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 5: She her teeth are messed up. I think she has
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 5: a kidney problem. She's limping, and I have to give
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 5: her a steroid. I had to give her antibiotics and
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 5: I have to give her this something to make her
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 5: appetite come back.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 4: I'm in the vet and that like basically.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 5: Saying, what are you gonna do? And I'm like crying.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 5: I had to call my ex to come down and
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 5: like help me with this decision, and I'm like, well,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 5: I just feel like I owed it to her to
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 5: just try whatever little remedies I had that were available,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 5: and if she's not better.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 4: By the end of the week, I'll probably have to
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 4: put it asleep.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: Out of one. I'm sorry, Claudia.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 7: I love you.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: She's love. Yes, we love you, and we're gonna pray
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 2: for you.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 5: People on housewives, and I tell you, ever since this
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 5: cat was on TV, I found she started feeling herself
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 5: like a little bit, like a little bit er.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 4: She's back.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 5: She's had a great life in Shelley. I will keep
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 5: you guys updated. But thank you for everyone that's asked.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 5: I know this is not the Claudia Jordan show tonight,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 5: but I just sorry.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 4: My energy's a little down.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 6: I've been.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 4: I was in tears all day today because you know,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 4: she's like my kid. I've had her.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 6: She's better.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah five, So yeah, no.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: We love you, baby, keep us updated for real. Well, okay,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: that's okay.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: I think Marcel is back. So I do wanna if
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: Marcel is back, like, okay, you good Marceau and the.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 6: Wi Fi sounds so much better now.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 7: So there we go.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 6: There we go.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 2: No perfect timing because.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: The biggest topic of this episode had a lot to
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: do with the conversation between Maurice and Jalen, Jalen saying
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: that although Maurice is his stepdad, that you, Marceau, were
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: more of a father figure to him.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: When you heard that, did it make you feel good?
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: But did it also make you feel bad for your brother?
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 6: Yeah? It did.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 11: I mean that's a it's great for you know, someone
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 11: like Jalen, who I love my nephew.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 6: To think of me like that.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 11: But of course I'm thinking about Maurice in that moment too,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 11: and it's like, dang, you know, because I know Reese.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 6: You know that that's that know that that's that's tough blow.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 6: That's a tough blow when you come in and your
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 6: your goal is to come in and be the best
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 6: father you can be.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 6: I think that people don't quite understand the step dad role.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 6: And you know it's you know, my son m J.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 6: I get stuff wrong with him all the time. Man,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 6: It's like, but.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 4: He gets he gets his WiFi wrong.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: To I think his phone's ringing.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 7: Restaurant called black and so is the screen.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: That the what what do you think about that you've
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: been watching themself since season one? Were you surprised by
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: that too?
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 6: People they want to call you now and call you years.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 14: But but.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 6: It's tough being to dad. You know this, this is
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 6: my first crack at it.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 11: And so thinking about Maurice coming in a situation where
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 11: you had to step up and he's gotta you know,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 11: be a dan to a twelve year old who doesn't
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 11: know him, and he's figuring out his way to enter
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 11: in and figuring out discipline. And you know, that's a
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 11: self situation. I don't know if too many people that
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 11: walk in there and get that right.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 5: Jalen feels that way with you because like you're not
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 5: the disciplinarian, so it's you know, you're not really in
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 5: the house like that.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 4: So it's like it's easy, like it's easy to like
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 4: feel like a closer relationship with you. Like you know,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 4: I've been not a step mom, but the girlfriend.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 5: Right if someone has kids and then the daughter may
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 5: I may find the daughter like telling me that she
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 5: hasn't told her mom, right, because it's like, you know,
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 5: it was a little bit not as close to the
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 5: situations easier to talk to in bond with like a
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 5: cool like the cool adult that I don't have to
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 5: worry about getting in trouble with you.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 4: Perhaps you know.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 6: It's it's it's much easier.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 11: It's easier to buy ice cream with you, and you
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 11: gotta buy milk, you know, and you can you can
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 11: come in to be the one that's always there for
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 11: the relief. You're not the one talking about filmwork every night,
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 11: and and and so. But also we have you know,
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 11: that's one part. But then recent I have different approaches
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 11: like my oldest son, but oldest son, my only son, MJ.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 11: He's he reminds me a lot of Jalen and and
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 11: you know, and we have more of the same personality,
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 11: meaning that it's easier to I'm a guy that is
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 11: rationalize with people.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna talk to you. I'm not gonna say get
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 6: up and do it now. I'm gonna let you know.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 11: And even though you're gonna look at me and it
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 11: seem like you're ignoring me, You're gonna get up and
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 11: do it, you know, And I don't. I don't need
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 11: to assert my authority on you right then and there,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 11: you know, Hey, man, that's what it is. And you know,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 11: so it's I think I think it's a combination of
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 11: two things. One is that I'm an uncle, and two
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 11: is I have a different approach.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: It seemed like Maurice was really offended by the conversation
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 3: when you guys were sitting at the table, you and
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 3: Letitia and Keimmy and Maurice were discussing it, and Maurice
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: initially like got defensive, like right off rip when you
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 3: guys started talking about it, so much so that it
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 3: became like a back and forth between the two of you.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 7: Where you think that energy came from.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 3: Do you think it's just because it's such a sensitive topic,
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 3: like and you know, like you expressed earlier, he wants
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: to be a good father and a great father to Jalen.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 3: Where you think that defensive nature came from? Because it
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 3: seemed like that kind of made it hard to get
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 3: to the root of the matter.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 11: You know, I saw a couple of comments about this
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 11: Dustin and people were like, oh my god, now they're
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 11: talking about sibling rivalry and they gonna turn the family
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 11: against each other.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 6: Let me tell you something. There's not a human alive
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 6: that ever argued fuss and fought with more than Maurice Scott. Right,
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 6: let's just make that clear. There's not a human alive.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 5: And so.
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 13: That's not that argument comes from Marie ree world like, like,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 13: you know, Maurice, I'm okay with it.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 6: But here's the thing.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 11: He doesn't do stuff that he doesn't think is right.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 11: It is not going to intentionally do something he thinks
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 11: is wrong. And so when you come to him telling
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 11: them that it's wrong, he automatically disagrees with you because
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 11: he thought it was right. He wouldn't have done it
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 11: if he wasn't trying to get it right. So when
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 11: you come in and tell him that I think that
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 11: in his voice, you can see that the whole sarcast sy.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 6: Well, he seems just a dad.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 4: He seems just a.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 6: Dad, you know, and that that that's hurt.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I thought so too.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 6: That's just hurt. And don't I don't want to be
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 6: like that.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 11: But the challenge is it's like when you have to
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 11: tell them, hey, his hurt is Valley and you played
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 11: a part in that hurt, and he doesn't think he
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 11: played a part in that hurt.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 3: I text Carlos after I watched the episode and I
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 3: told him. I wish Maurice would have told Jalen in
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 3: that scene, like, man, I love you and I'm glad
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 3: you my son. Sometimes you just got to say it
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 3: playing and Maurice was trying to offer examples and going
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 3: kind of around the world with it. He should have
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 3: hugged Jalen in that scene and just told him how
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 3: much he loved him, because that's what it seemed like
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 3: Jalen needs to hear at the time. But like you said,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 3: because of Marie's intentions, right, and he thought that he
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 3: was trying to do the best he could do. That's
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 3: probably what caused him to be kind of taking a
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 3: back in that moment and started defending himself instead.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 6: That's the one thing Reese is learning now.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 11: I'm saying now, I'm saying probably in his last six
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 11: seven months, right, he was a quarterback in college and
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 11: he thinks that if he throws the ball right, it
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 11: should be a completion. And I keep telling them that
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 11: communication takes place in the mind of the receiver and
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 11: it don't matter what you say. If they don't hear it,
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 11: then it's not a complete pass. And that goes on
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 11: your that if they don't hear it. If they don't
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 11: get what you're trying to say, it don't matter, you
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 11: know what I'm saying. And his argument may be I've
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 11: said it word, you know, Brook, it don't matter. He
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 11: was a perfect English when they speak Spanish and see
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 11: where they get you right?
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: How did you feel when when I'm sorry, Goku?
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 5: I saw comments about people saying, you know, some people
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 5: want to just be right and not really like be listening.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like, you know, do you
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 4: want to be right? You want to be happy?
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 5: And it seemed like he it is like he was
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 5: in a coming from a bad place, but does seem
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 5: like he wanted to be right, and you know, his
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 5: his point of view be heard, you know what I mean,
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 5: and like in his mind, like you said, if you
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 5: wouldn't do it, if he didn't think he was doing
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 5: the right thing already.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 6: You know, I think Reese has lost in intentions versus.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 11: I get I sometimes get lost there too, but get
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 11: lost in intentions versus is a results And the thought
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 11: that my heart was in a good place.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 6: I wasn't trying to do that. I was trying to
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 6: make a man out of him. I was trying to
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 6: do this right here. I was trying.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 11: I was doing the own RECEA. Ain't got no other
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 11: thirteen year old boys, you know at the time.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 6: So it's like he is he does he doesn't know.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 6: This is a guy that's taking a.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 11: By the time a kid that grows up with you
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 11: is thirteen, you've been with him for thirteen years, and
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 11: so you know what you do on day thirteen.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 6: You're given a thirteen. You're given the test.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 11: There were level thirteen, right, You're giving that test right
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 11: then and there it says how you do and everything
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 11: you just is gonna be just on that. So it's like,
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 11: you know, it's like hats off to the guy that
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 11: can get there right.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 4: Hey, where I'm sorry? Where's Dalen's father, his real father,
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 4: his biological father? Is he not in the picture?
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 11: I think he's in the picture, but like they're kind
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 11: of striking up some I don't know, like he's in
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 11: the picture but not in the the job.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 6: I've never met him, but he Jaalen.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 11: Talked to him and they've had some somewhat of a relationship.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 11: I think that, you know, as he gets older, he's
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 11: you know, her as some stuff you got stay tuned.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 4: For he likes you the best though either what he
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 4: likes you the most, I.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 6: Think we're more.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 11: I think if we lived under the same roof, I
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 11: think he I think that that might change a little bit.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 2: Well, one thing that that Tsha Tsiha did say this
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: on My.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: Reality with the King Show and own that you know,
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: despite what people may think about you on television, mars
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: So they said, when it comes to the kids, you
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: are everyone's favorite when it comes to like.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: The cousins, the nephews and all of those things.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: Why do you think that it was hard for Maurice
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: to hear your point of view, to even hear Kimmy's
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: point of view, because I do think what people's missing
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: is Kimmy is his wife.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 2: Kimmy is the mother of Jayalen. Kimmy is saying the
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 2: same thing, and.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: The audience does feel like Maurice isn't listening to be
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: to to hear them, He's listening to respond. Growing that's
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: your brother and you two are the closest out of
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: your siblings, so growing up, obviously, Maurice has always been smart.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: Do you think that what is disconnecting that the audience
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: or you or Kimmy may see for Maurice, is that
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: is Maurice just too smart for his own good and
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: he listens to respond like a lawyer does.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 11: Reese, Yeah, yeah, I think that you have to the
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 11: he had. He can't see it, and he can't see it,
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 11: so he.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 6: Doesn't he doesn't believe it exists.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 11: I think Maurice, like I said, for the first last
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 11: six months of totally, I said, this is a new Maurice.
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 11: And I've known him for forty five years, so this
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 11: is not a thing, right. He has the inability to
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 11: see different He had the inability to see different perspectives
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 11: or even know that different perspectives could exist.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 6: He said stuff like I wouldn't do that because that's stupid.
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 11: But yeah, the inability to be stupid, you know what
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 11: I'm saying, Like I wouldn't say that because.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 6: That doesn't make sense, you know. So I think that,
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 6: you know. Again, the challenge is like I call it
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 6: a Reese.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 11: World at a lot of times, and Kimmy finally saw
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 11: it and other people are five he seeing it and
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 11: Reese righteously now is that it's funny that he's just
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 11: he's just now in the area that he's even I've
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 11: seen some changes, but it's like I can notice change
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 11: from the tone of his voice when he says something,
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 11: even allowing someone else to have a different perspective. But again,
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 11: this is going back town kind of the the Counacs
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 11: and I have with Claudia, and to me, it just
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 11: reminds me of just like in order to be successful
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 11: as a black man in this world, you have to
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 11: be steadfast, You have to be stubborn, you have.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 6: To be you know, you hear knows so much and
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 6: you have to prove so many people wrong that that
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 6: becomes a way of life.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 11: And then all of a sudden, when it's time to listen,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 11: when you practice not listening, when you practice tuning people out,
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 11: and now it's time to listen and take advice, it's like,
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 11: you know, that becomes more of a chure.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, there you have it. But my last question,
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 2: my last question for you is this. The episode ends
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 2: with Marie's calling you a liar and that's what you do.
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 2: Did that hurt your feelings hearing that.
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 11: Carlos, Yeah, it did it did. Because here here's the thing.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 11: The one reason why I don't lie is because it
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 11: makes me feel like a coward, like who are you
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 11: that I have to lie to?
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 7: Right?
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 6: And so I said this in the comments and different things.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 6: I said, Okay, do me a favor point out the lie.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 6: If I've lie, I'm a liar and I'm always liing.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 11: This name one lie that you've ever heard, Like Watissa said,
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 11: to give me no, I've never caught him in a lie.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 6: And she's like, what, you've never got to your husband
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 6: in a lie in twenty years? Never ever? And people
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 6: and they say, well, and some people aren't liars. That's
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 6: just not my thing, all right, because it makes me
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 6: feel like it makes me feel like a like a whimp,
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 6: like like we to have.
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 11: To sit here and tell you something that it's not true.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 11: It makes me feel like I'm not good enough. So yeah,
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 11: I don't I don't like that.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 6: And he said, you lie about everything. We stopped.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 11: You know, I don't lie right like Stopy and you
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 11: get but but now, of course when re sais you
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 11: lie about everything. Now everyone's in the in the world
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 11: is like, okay, reason's bothers filled the things.
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: You come up with this ship, bro, all right, Mark,
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: So if I'll let you go, there's one question that
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: we get from our super chants This one is directed
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: towards you, and I'm a life for you to answer it.
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 1: This is from DJ Lesia, who said the huspital streets
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 1: are saying that black is the headquarters for the cheating husbands.
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: But I love Marcel, he's a dub guy.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: It's black the headquarters for husbands who are cheating, otherwise
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: to go to and have fun.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 6: Carlos, I don't, I don't know.
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 11: I think that blackness a great place to come in
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 11: here and smoke cigars and fellowship and hang around.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 6: I mean, I don't, I don't know those the headquarters
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 6: for cheating husbands. That that's.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 4: Husbands hang out day like that.
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 15: You know, ship cheated, the husbands unite, They're gonna form
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 15: boat tron over here.
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 6: They're gonna buy crying or something like like what do
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 6: they do damn head quarters from cheaping husband.
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 4: I mean, that's most of the guard bars of that.
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 2: But ladies, if your husbands say he's going to the
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 2: d R, that's fine. But if your husband's saying that
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: a boys are black, watch out now.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 11: Watch out, watch out now, Carlos. I appreciate you having
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 11: me on man, We just I do want to do
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 11: the same as plugging about me being a terrible You know,
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 11: I've been a terrible dad for since season one, right.
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 2: I know, I know, rolland Martin even called you out
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 2: season one.
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 6: He's a terrible day. It's because you know, my son
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 6: had allergies. But now we me and him. I just
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 6: taking him for a trip to uh to see the
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 6: Kensler Lamar in Rome.
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 7: So dope. That's dope as hell, Mark.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 6: So yeah, we got a chance to go there.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 11: He of course he wanted to see the Pantheon, and
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 11: we've got a chance to go up to Paderba to
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 11: see the original boundary of talking to the bottle.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 6: We talked and everything. So it's been a really, really,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 6: really good trip.
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 6: We went to Greece too, No no, no, no, Pantheon,
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 6: not the Parthenon.
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 4: Okay, gotcha.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 15: I had to google at it too, because I was like,
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 15: I thought we were going to the Parthonon and I
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 15: was like, bro, it's it's it's seventeen hours away, and
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 15: it's like, okay, now it's the Pantheon, but it's it's
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 15: it's just amazing.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 6: It was a dope trip, man, So I feel real
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 6: good about that. Coming back in and so.
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 7: You go see where they make the wine. You go
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 7: see what they make the wine.
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 6: I I think I know where they make that.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 14: Okay, you are really a story and he really is.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 14: I'd be like, oh gosh, that's the Qualitia. That's Martel
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 14: holds wine that.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 2: Oh gotcha, that's what that was. That's what that was.
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: But no, but Marcel, listen, thanks for taking time out.
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: Marcel just got back from Italy. He took his son
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: on a father son trip. As he just said, so listen,
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: you are a great man. You are a great father,
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: and you are a great reality star. And listen, your
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: great husband too. So I appreciate you, Marcel, and I
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: will see you soon. Thanks for coming, Marshall, taking Marcel.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 4: He clicked off. Fancy make sure we and the Wi
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 4: Fi the glass was more full.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 6: See that.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 4: I'm not mad at I need something for today's shoot.
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  Speaker 7: Yo.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: No, but listen, thanks for calling. You'll know you're going
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 1: through a lot this week. Thanks for even showing up.
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 2: Thanks to do this. Now listen, I hope we were
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 2: able to distract you at least for.
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: Ninety minutes and put us smile on your face and
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 1: keep us updating all things Shelley.
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 4: Yes, I will thank you a pleasure.
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: As always, Reality with the King is executive produced by
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: me Carlos King, produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 1: with the Lack Effect Network. You can also find us
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 1: on my YouTube channel at the Carlos King Underscore