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Type 1 and Type 2 Fun · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for our American mamas. Your mama's
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  Speaker 1: have you heard about the difference between type one and
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  Speaker 1: type two kinds of fun? Well, let's ask our American mamas.
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  Speaker 2: Mama, mama, she said.
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  Speaker 1: And joining us now our American mama is Terry Nediville
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  Speaker 1: and Kimberly Burlison. I have not, but I have jokes,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna let them go. We're just going
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  Speaker 1: to get into the session Type one and type two
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  Speaker 1: kinds of fun.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: I saw this podcaster they're talking about this, and I
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  Speaker 3: was like, ah, I get it. So they're saying type
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  Speaker 3: one fun, yes, is like roller coaster, roller coaster or
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  Speaker 3: an arcade game. But as soon as you're done with that, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you're done. You don't think about it any other time.
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  Speaker 3: Type two fun is impactful fun. It could even suck
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  Speaker 3: in the meantime. So it could be like you go
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  Speaker 3: on a journey hiking, it's sleeping as you're miserable, you
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  Speaker 3: hate it, but it's impactful that you never forget it,
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  Speaker 3: and it you look at it as like this incredible fun.
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  Speaker 3: And I realized listening to them that our childhood is
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  Speaker 3: type two front because we were Terry said today we
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  Speaker 3: were feral kids.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 3: We were on the bayou throwing rocks at the alligators,
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  Speaker 3: you know, without a thought of this could kill us.
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  Speaker 3: We were running behind the mosquito fog machines, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like basking in it as we were. You know, we
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  Speaker 3: were like feral kids.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't run behind them. What I did throw
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  Speaker 1: I did try fishing for an alligator I had, absolutely
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  Speaker 1: and then I eventually just decided I was going to
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  Speaker 1: try and hit it with the five pound weight.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Steven and I did, uh, And.
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  Speaker 1: Then I went that was a big gator.
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  Speaker 4: I probably should I did not run behind mosquito.
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  Speaker 2: Fog mason like you're in a fog show coming out
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  Speaker 2: of a day.
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  Speaker 4: I did not do that.
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  Speaker 1: Now, I went hiking off of my own through the
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  Speaker 1: woods and through the creek and a lacrosse and my
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  Speaker 1: parents had no idea where I was.
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  Speaker 3: What I'm talking about, your fer that's a feral kid.
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  Speaker 3: That's type two kids where you are just out there exploring,
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  Speaker 3: and that when you think of your childhood, you go
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  Speaker 3: back to those moments of exploration.
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  Speaker 1: Pine cone wars, Pine cone wars.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And I'm so sad because I feel like
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  Speaker 3: our children are not our grandchildren because we're older are
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  Speaker 3: experiencing that, because we're so scared of them going out
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  Speaker 3: and experiencing that, they're going to have to wait till
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  Speaker 3: they're older to go experience. You know, they're doing type
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  Speaker 3: one fun, you know, the momentary kind of fun.
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  Speaker 2: Well, the idea of them going off by themselves until
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  Speaker 2: the night lights come on is like foreign now because
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  Speaker 2: you know too much, We see too much.
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  Speaker 4: We know that there's you know, pedophiles that live among us.
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  Speaker 1: I just couldn't give my kids to go outside.
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  Speaker 4: Really. It's like I'll be like, go outside.
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  Speaker 1: They're like, what do we do wrong. I'm like, you're
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  Speaker 1: in the house, go outside.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well ours just forced us to.
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  Speaker 2: And our my children lived outside, were outside people for sure,
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  Speaker 2: But this day.
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  Speaker 4: And age, it's it's so it does.
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  Speaker 2: It feels like there's a lot of fear about what's
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  Speaker 2: out there?
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  Speaker 4: Where are you? And they can you know, watch it
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  Speaker 4: on the phone, which you.
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  Speaker 1: Can track your kids so much easier now than My
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  Speaker 1: parents had no idea where I was for hours on
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  Speaker 1: it every day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they did not have twenty four hour dateline shows.
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  Speaker 4: That's right, Yeah, that's what I had. Milk we had,
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  Speaker 4: That's right, I.
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  Speaker 1: Mean, I mean, that's that's enough with your breakfast reading
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  Speaker 1: the milk cartons.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, I think our kids, I think this
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  Speaker 2: generation of children, little ones, are missing out on that
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  Speaker 2: that faroh.
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  Speaker 1: Play, I'll tell you talk about type two type of play.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's basically the type two type of fund. Basically
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  Speaker 1: you have to put something into it to get something
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  Speaker 1: out of it. I think of my my time playing
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  Speaker 1: sports like that. So soccer practice, it was awful. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm having to work, and but it's such an integral
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  Speaker 1: part of my memories and my joy that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I still dream about playing soccer, you know, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean. So I take sports to be a
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  Speaker 1: part of that type two rather than a type one,
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  Speaker 1: because there's a lot of effort that you have to
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  Speaker 1: put into it to get something out.
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  Speaker 4: Of it, and that shapes you.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, that kind of joy and if fun shapes you.
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  Speaker 2: And even the harder parts of it become funny. Like
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  Speaker 2: my kids will talk about the things that they did
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  Speaker 2: that you know. They One time Slade was on his
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  Speaker 2: little dirt bike and went over this cliff down to
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  Speaker 2: where the railroad tracks are and came back.
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  Speaker 4: He's all bloodied.
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  Speaker 2: And you know that's they were fairal and that sense
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  Speaker 2: they were on our little on our land.
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  Speaker 4: But they look at those.
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  Speaker 2: Times as like, I don't know, like a badge of honor,
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  Speaker 2: like you know, we got to do this. And still
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  Speaker 2: I found out when my children were adults that Still
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  Speaker 2: did a wheelie with the four wheeler in summer fell
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  Speaker 2: off and he was like, listen, if you tell on me,
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  Speaker 2: we'll never get to do.
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  Speaker 1: This every Yeah, Bailey had the same situation.
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  Speaker 2: It's not the grace of God that there is, okay,
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  Speaker 2: but there's something to it.
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  Speaker 1: So I guess the key is that type one type
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  Speaker 1: of fun you don't have to put anything into it
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  Speaker 1: to get anything out of it, but type kind of
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  Speaker 1: fun you have to put something into it to get something.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Is that like the type one is like I take
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  Speaker 2: a poster, I take them to the museum or support.
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  Speaker 4: Is that what im?
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  Speaker 3: It's like a thrill. It's a thrill.
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  Speaker 2: It's thrill, okay, remember, and it's great, but it's not
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  Speaker 2: their own.
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  Speaker 4: Little shaping you. Yeah, just a moment of fun.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I guess the roller coaster doesn't really shape
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  Speaker 1: because you know before you get on.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I.
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  Speaker 1: Mean, unless the roller coaster gets stuck and then that might.
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  Speaker 3: Shake Type too fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, although you'd never gone to another roller coaster.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah or type one. If you like to ask, mom
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  Speaker 1: Thank you,