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Erotic Blueprints With Lauren Goyette · Skirts Up!

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Hey,
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you.
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You're
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tuned
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in
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to
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the
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Skirts
0:03
up
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show
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with
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Samantha
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and
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Melissa.
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Join
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our
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mission
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to
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normalize
0:07
failure,
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but
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still
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uncover
0:09
the
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positives
0:09
at
0:09
every
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twist
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and
0:10
turn.
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Skirts
0:11
up,
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but
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keep
0:13
your
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panties
0:13
on.
0:18
What's
0:18
up,
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Skirts
0:19
up
0:19
squad?
0:19
It
0:19
is
0:19
Samantha
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and
0:20
Melissa
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and
0:21
Happy
0:22
Late
0:22
Ballers
0:23
Day.
0:24
I
0:24
guess
0:24
that's
0:24
right.
0:26
Wait,
0:26
what?
0:27
I
0:27
said
0:27
I
0:27
guess.
0:29
I
0:29
thought
0:29
you
0:29
said
0:29
yuck.
0:30
And
0:30
I
0:30
was
0:30
like,
0:31
fathers.
0:33
I
0:33
knew.
0:34
I
0:34
don't
0:35
know
0:35
if
0:35
you
0:35
guys
0:35
saw,
0:36
but
0:36
I
0:36
posted
0:37
a
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reel.
0:38
So
0:39
we.
0:39
I.
0:40
I
0:40
was
0:40
planning
0:40
on
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making
0:41
a
0:41
Father's
0:42
Day
0:42
dinner
0:42
for
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Simon
0:43
and
0:43
Andrew,
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and
0:44
we're
0:44
gonna
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have
0:44
dinner
0:45
together.
0:46
And
0:46
I,
0:47
you
0:48
know,
0:48
I
0:48
don't
0:48
cook.
0:49
I'm
0:49
not
0:49
good
0:49
at
0:49
it.
0:50
And
0:52
I
0:52
was
0:52
like,
0:52
the
0:52
only
0:52
thing
0:53
that
0:53
I'm
0:53
good
0:53
at
0:53
making
0:53
and
0:54
know
0:54
that,
0:54
like,
0:54
it
0:54
won't
0:55
be
0:55
ruined
0:55
is
0:55
things
0:55
in
0:55
a
0:56
crock
0:56
pot.
0:56
But
0:56
our
0:57
crock
0:57
pot
0:57
is
0:58
so
0:58
small
0:58
that,
0:59
like,
0:59
it
0:59
hardly
0:59
feeds,
1:00
like,
1:00
our
1:00
family
1:00
of
1:00
five.
1:01
So
1:01
how
1:01
am
1:01
I
1:01
supposed
1:02
to
1:02
feed,
1:02
like,
1:03
three
1:04
non
1:04
stop
1:04
eating
1:05
males
1:05
and,
1:06
you
1:06
know,
1:06
just
1:07
all
1:07
this
1:07
food?
1:07
And
1:08
so
1:08
I
1:08
go,
1:08
hey,
1:08
Simon,
1:10
you
1:10
know
1:10
what
1:10
we
1:10
really
1:11
need
1:11
for
1:11
Father's
1:11
Day?
1:12
A
1:13
bigger
1:13
crock
1:13
pot.
1:16
So
1:16
for
1:16
Father's
1:17
Day,
1:17
I
1:17
got
1:18
a
1:18
family
1:19
big
1:19
size
1:20
crock
1:20
pot.
1:21
I
1:21
did
1:21
see
1:22
that.
1:22
That's
1:22
awesome.
1:23
Oh,
1:24
you
1:24
know
1:24
what's
1:24
really
1:24
funny,
1:25
though?
1:25
After
1:26
I
1:26
posted
1:26
that
1:26
video,
1:27
within
1:27
five
1:28
minutes,
1:28
Simon
1:29
sends
1:29
me
1:30
a
1:30
reel
1:30
over
1:30
Facebook
1:31
and
1:31
he
1:31
goes,
1:32
oh,
1:32
my
1:32
God,
1:32
someone
1:33
else
1:33
did
1:33
that
1:33
too.
1:35
Is
1:35
it
1:35
yours?
1:35
It
1:36
was
1:36
our
1:36
reel.
1:38
I
1:38
was
1:39
like.
1:39
So
1:40
I,
1:41
I
1:41
look.
1:44
I,
1:44
like,
1:44
looked.
1:45
Up
1:45
and
1:45
I
1:45
was
1:45
like,
1:46
oh,
1:47
is
1:47
he
1:47
joking?
1:47
I
1:48
was
1:48
like,
1:48
did
1:48
I
1:48
spell
1:49
something
1:49
wrong
1:49
or.
1:50
Why'd
1:50
you
1:50
send
1:50
me
1:50
my
1:50
reel?
1:51
And
1:51
he
1:51
goes,
1:51
what?
1:52
Real?
1:53
And
1:53
I
1:53
go,
1:54
you.
1:54
You
1:54
just
1:54
sent
1:55
me
1:55
my
1:55
reel.
1:57
He
1:58
was
1:58
like,
1:58
oh,
1:58
I
1:59
didn't
1:59
realize
1:59
that
1:59
was
1:59
you.
2:00
Like,
2:01
that
2:01
is
2:01
hilarious.
2:03
I'm
2:03
actually
2:03
gonna.
2:04
I'm
2:04
actually
2:05
gonna
2:05
change
2:05
my
2:05
fail.
2:06
Okay,
2:07
okay,
2:07
this
2:07
is,
2:07
this
2:07
is
2:07
a
2:08
spur
2:08
of
2:08
the
2:08
moment.
2:08
It's
2:09
not.
2:09
Well,
2:09
no,
2:10
it's
2:10
not
2:10
a
2:10
fail.
2:10
I
2:11
don't
2:11
know,
2:11
maybe
2:11
I
2:11
shouldn't.
2:11
Okay,
2:12
whatever.
2:13
A
2:13
funny
2:13
story,
2:13
okay?
2:14
Because
2:14
you
2:15
just
2:15
reminded
2:15
me
2:15
of
2:16
it.
2:16
So
2:16
you
2:17
guys
2:17
know
2:17
that
2:17
Sam
2:18
and
2:18
I
2:18
went
2:18
to
2:18
goat
2:18
yoga
2:19
the
2:19
other
2:19
night
2:19
and
2:19
they
2:20
were
2:20
awesome.
2:20
They,
2:21
like,
2:21
let
2:21
us
2:21
stand
2:22
up
2:22
and,
2:23
like,
2:23
do
2:23
a
2:23
little
2:23
spiel
2:24
at
2:24
the.
2:24
End
2:24
of
2:24
the
2:24
thing.
2:25
And
2:25
we
2:25
handed
2:26
out
2:26
because
2:26
Sam
2:27
was
2:27
awesome
2:27
and
2:28
brought
2:28
little
2:28
goodie
2:29
bags
2:29
for
2:29
everybody
2:30
that
2:30
was
2:30
there
2:31
all
2:32
branded.
2:32
And
2:33
it
2:33
was
2:33
a
2:33
big
2:33
head.
2:33
That's.
2:34
They
2:34
were
2:34
branded
2:35
and
2:35
they
2:36
had
2:36
our
2:36
faces
2:36
on
2:37
the
2:37
front,
2:37
but
2:38
it
2:38
was,
2:38
like
2:38
kind
2:38
of
2:39
not
2:39
glamour
2:39
shots.
2:39
But
2:40
it
2:40
was
2:40
like,
2:40
cute
2:41
shots
2:41
of
2:41
us.
2:42
And
2:42
it
2:43
was
2:43
so
2:43
funny
2:44
because
2:44
later
2:44
that
2:45
night,
2:45
one
2:46
of
2:46
my
2:46
friends
2:46
who
2:46
got
2:47
a
2:47
bag
2:47
was
2:47
like,
2:48
you
2:48
know
2:48
what
2:48
you
2:48
guys
2:49
should
2:49
have
2:49
done?
2:50
And
2:50
I
2:50
was
2:50
like,
2:50
what?
2:51
And
2:51
he
2:51
said,
2:52
you
2:52
guys
2:52
should
2:52
have
2:53
put
2:53
your.
2:53
A
2:54
picture
2:54
of
2:54
your
2:54
own
2:54
faces
2:55
on
2:55
the
2:55
bags.
2:56
I
2:56
was
2:56
like,
2:56
wait,
2:57
what?
2:58
And
2:58
my
2:58
other
2:59
friend
2:59
jumps
2:59
in
2:59
and
2:59
goes,
3:00
like,
3:00
wait,
3:00
what
3:00
are
3:00
you
3:00
talking
3:01
about?
3:02
And
3:02
he
3:02
goes,
3:03
you
3:03
know,
3:04
instead
3:04
of
3:04
those
3:04
pictures
3:05
of
3:05
those
3:05
other
3:05
girls.
3:09
I
3:09
want
3:09
to
3:10
ask
3:10
who,
3:10
but
3:11
I
3:11
know
3:11
you
3:11
don't.
3:12
I
3:12
will.
3:13
I'm
3:13
not
3:13
gonna
3:13
say
3:13
who,
3:13
but
3:14
I
3:14
will.
3:14
I
3:14
can
3:14
tell
3:14
you
3:14
later.
3:15
But
3:15
it
3:16
was.
3:17
He
3:17
goes,
3:18
I
3:18
was
3:18
like,
3:19
you
3:19
mean.
3:19
These
3:20
girls
3:20
right
3:21
here?
3:21
And
3:21
I
3:21
held
3:21
it
3:22
up
3:22
next
3:22
to
3:22
me,
3:23
and
3:23
I
3:23
was
3:23
like,
3:23
because
3:24
this
3:24
is
3:24
me.
3:25
And
3:25
he's
3:25
like,
3:27
oh.
3:27
Oh,
3:28
my
3:28
God,
3:28
it's
3:29
you
3:29
guys.
3:29
I
3:30
didn't.
3:30
I
3:30
was
3:30
like,
3:30
well,
3:30
to
3:30
be
3:31
fair,
3:31
they're
3:31
like,
3:31
super
3:31
cute
3:32
pictures
3:32
of
3:32
us.
3:35
Oh,
3:35
my
3:35
God,
3:36
that
3:36
was
3:37
so
3:37
funny.
3:38
That
3:38
is
3:39
hilarious.
3:39
Yeah,
3:39
that's
3:40
not
3:40
a
3:40
fail
3:41
on
3:42
us.
3:43
No.
3:43
I
3:44
thought
3:44
I
3:44
could
3:44
look
3:44
like
3:45
that.
3:45
Every
3:45
day,
3:46
maybe,
3:46
but
3:46
that's
3:46
not
3:47
a
3:47
fail.
3:47
That
3:47
was
3:47
one
3:47
of
3:48
my
3:48
arguments
3:49
to
3:50
David
3:51
was,
3:51
yes,
3:52
you
3:52
know,
3:52
yes,
3:52
it
3:52
makes
3:53
us
3:53
feel
3:53
good,
3:53
but
3:54
it's
3:54
not
3:54
like
3:54
anyone's
3:55
following
3:55
us
3:55
around
3:55
with
3:56
this
3:56
glam
3:56
makeup
3:56
and
3:57
shit
3:57
to
3:57
make
3:57
us
3:57
feel
3:57
like
3:58
this
3:58
every
3:58
day.
3:58
So
3:59
it's
3:59
kind
3:59
of
3:59
hard
4:00
to
4:00
look
4:00
at
4:00
this
4:00
photo
4:01
and
4:01
be
4:01
like,
4:01
yeah,
4:01
that's
4:02
me.
4:02
That's
4:03
why
4:03
I
4:03
know
4:03
I'm
4:03
unrecognizable.
4:08
Just
4:08
kidding.
4:08
It
4:08
was
4:09
hilarious.
4:09
I
4:10
about
4:10
died.
4:10
But
4:11
anyway.
4:11
All
4:12
right,
4:12
do
4:12
you
4:12
want
4:12
to
4:12
share
4:12
fails
4:13
or
4:13
what
4:13
are
4:13
you
4:13
getting?
4:13
What
4:13
were
4:14
we
4:14
thinking?
4:15
Yeah,
4:15
I
4:15
was
4:15
just
4:15
thinking.
4:16
I
4:16
don't
4:17
know.
4:17
The
4:17
feel
4:17
that
4:17
came
4:17
to
4:18
mind
4:18
when.
4:18
When
4:19
we
4:19
started
4:19
recording
4:20
was.
4:21
I
4:21
don't.
4:21
Some
4:21
of
4:21
you
4:22
might
4:22
have
4:22
saw
4:22
on
4:22
our
4:23
Facebook
4:23
page
4:23
that
4:24
I
4:24
went
4:25
to
4:25
go
4:25
do
4:25
the
4:26
beginning
4:26
stages,
4:27
the
4:27
first
4:27
recording
4:28
part
4:28
of
4:29
the
4:29
documentary
4:29
that
4:29
I'm
4:30
working
4:30
on
4:30
called
4:30
Keeping
4:31
the
4:31
Birds
4:31
Warm.
4:32
I
4:33
do
4:34
need
4:34
to
4:35
keep
4:35
all
4:36
names
4:36
and
4:37
really
4:37
a
4:38
lot
4:38
of
4:38
it
4:38
private
4:39
until
4:39
it
4:39
goes
4:40
through
4:40
trial.
4:40
So
4:41
not
4:41
sharing
4:41
that.
4:42
But
4:43
I
4:44
will
4:44
say
4:45
that
4:45
the
4:45
recordings
4:46
and
4:46
a
4:46
lot
4:46
of
4:46
what
4:47
is
4:47
happening
4:48
takes
4:48
place
4:48
in
4:49
Cobb
4:49
County.
4:50
So
4:50
a
4:50
very
4:51
high
4:51
traffic
4:52
area
4:52
where
4:53
you
4:53
have
4:53
to
4:53
get
4:53
on
4:54
all
4:54
these
4:54
freaking
4:55
highways.
4:56
And
4:57
I
4:57
am
4:57
not
4:58
highway
4:58
savvy.
5:00
And
5:00
I
5:01
literally,
5:02
like,
5:03
I
5:03
was
5:03
on
5:03
the
5:03
phone
5:04
with
5:04
my
5:04
cousin
5:04
and
5:04
literally
5:05
three
5:06
times
5:07
back
5:07
to
5:07
back
5:08
to
5:08
back.
5:09
I
5:10
like
5:10
it
5:10
splits
5:11
where
5:11
it's
5:11
like,
5:11
oh,
5:12
go
5:12
this
5:12
way,
5:12
and
5:12
you're
5:13
on
5:13
Highway
5:14
85.
5:15
But
5:15
then
5:15
you
5:15
split
5:16
this
5:16
way
5:16
and
5:16
you're
5:16
on
5:16
Highway
5:18
75
5:18
or
5:19
something.
5:19
And
5:20
every
5:20
time
5:20
I
5:20
take
5:21
the
5:21
wrong
5:21
fucking
5:21
split.
5:22
And
5:23
so
5:23
three
5:24
times
5:24
I
5:25
have
5:25
to.
5:25
And
5:25
it
5:25
adds
5:26
30
5:26
minutes
5:26
every
5:27
time.
5:27
You
5:27
do
5:27
this
5:28
every
5:28
time?
5:29
Yeah,
5:30
it's
5:31
a
5:31
whole
5:31
thing
5:31
having
5:32
to
5:32
turn
5:32
around,
5:32
like,
5:33
go
5:33
to
5:33
the
5:33
next
5:34
exit,
5:34
get
5:34
off.
5:37
So
5:37
it's,
5:38
like,
5:38
not
5:38
okay.
5:39
And
5:39
so,
5:40
yeah,
5:40
Atlanta's
5:41
height
5:41
is
5:42
a
5:42
lot
5:42
of
5:42
people.
5:43
Yeah.
5:44
So
5:44
I'm,
5:44
like,
5:45
in
5:46
tears
5:46
and
5:46
shaking
5:47
by
5:47
time
5:47
I
5:47
get
5:47
to
5:47
the
5:47
freaking
5:48
courthouse,
5:48
which,
5:49
of
5:49
course,
5:49
I'm
5:50
already
5:50
nervous
5:50
about
5:50
that
5:51
because
5:51
I
5:51
don't
5:51
know
5:51
what
5:52
to
5:52
expect
5:52
when
5:53
we
5:53
get
5:53
to
5:53
the
5:53
courthouse.
5:54
And
5:54
you
5:54
know,
5:54
what
5:55
exactly
5:55
is
5:55
going
5:56
to
5:56
come
5:56
out
5:56
of
5:56
recording.
5:57
And
5:57
so
5:57
I'm
5:57
already
5:57
super
5:58
nervous
5:58
about
5:58
that.
5:58
But
5:59
now
5:59
I'm,
5:59
like,
5:59
really
6:00
shaking
6:00
and
6:01
really
6:01
worked
6:01
up
6:02
because
6:02
driving
6:02
was
6:02
such
6:03
a
6:03
fucking
6:03
pain
6:03
in
6:03
the
6:03
ass.
6:04
And
6:05
that
6:05
was
6:06
just
6:06
a
6:06
fail.
6:06
Who
6:07
takes
6:07
the
6:07
wrong
6:08
exit
6:08
three
6:09
times
6:09
in
6:10
a
6:10
row?
6:11
The
6:11
same
6:11
exit.
6:11
I've
6:12
done
6:12
it.
6:12
I've
6:13
done
6:13
it.
6:14
Okay.
6:14
For
6:14
real.
6:15
Okay.
6:16
Well,
6:16
at
6:16
least
6:16
it's
6:17
not
6:17
just
6:17
me,
6:17
but
6:17
that
6:18
sure.
6:20
Is
6:20
stressful.
6:21
Felt
6:21
dumb.
6:22
Uh,
6:23
and
6:23
I
6:23
was,
6:25
like
6:25
an
6:25
hour
6:25
and
6:25
a
6:26
half
6:26
late.
6:27
Maybe
6:27
two
6:27
hours.
6:28
Let's
6:28
see.
6:28
No,
6:28
it
6:28
was
6:29
an
6:29
hour
6:29
and
6:29
a
6:29
half
6:29
late
6:30
to
6:30
when
6:30
I
6:31
said
6:31
I
6:31
was
6:31
gonna
6:31
meet
6:31
them
6:32
and
6:32
start,
6:33
you
6:33
know,
6:33
prepping
6:34
everyone
6:34
for
6:34
recording
6:35
sessions
6:35
and
6:35
stuff,
6:36
but
6:36
ended
6:37
up
6:37
working
6:37
out
6:37
anyways.
6:38
So
6:38
I
6:38
will
6:39
say
6:39
I
6:39
was
6:39
very
6:39
stressed.
6:40
But
6:40
it
6:40
worked
6:40
out
6:40
anyways
6:41
because
6:41
I
6:41
got
6:42
there
6:42
and
6:42
still
6:43
there
6:43
was
6:43
so
6:43
much
6:44
time
6:44
left
6:44
before,
6:45
like,
6:45
the
6:45
big
6:45
thing.
6:46
So
6:46
good.
6:47
It
6:47
worked
6:47
out,
6:48
but
6:48
it
6:48
was
6:48
stressful
6:49
and
6:49
I
6:49
took
6:49
the
6:49
wrong
6:50
turn
6:50
a
6:50
gazillion
6:50
times.
6:52
Yeah.
6:53
Do
6:53
you
6:53
think
6:54
you
6:54
took
6:55
the
6:55
second
6:56
and
6:56
third
6:56
wrong
6:57
turns
6:57
because
6:57
you
6:57
were
6:58
already
6:58
stressed
6:58
about
6:58
the
6:58
first
6:59
one?
6:59
Oh,
6:59
it's
7:00
very
7:00
possible,
7:00
but
7:01
honestly,
7:01
I
7:02
just.
7:03
I
7:03
don't
7:04
understand
7:04
the
7:05
splits.
7:05
Like,
7:05
there's
7:06
one
7:06
part
7:06
in
7:06
Atlanta
7:07
where
7:07
it,
7:08
like,
7:08
it's
7:09
three
7:09
different
7:09
highways
7:10
and,
7:10
like,
7:10
one's
7:11
going
7:11
this
7:11
way,
7:11
one's
7:12
going
7:12
straight,
7:12
one's
7:12
going
7:13
this
7:13
way.
7:13
But
7:13
then
7:13
I
7:13
feel
7:14
like
7:14
it's
7:14
not
7:14
very
7:14
clear
7:15
on
7:15
which
7:15
highway
7:16
is
7:16
which
7:16
direction.
7:17
And
7:17
I
7:17
just
7:18
don't
7:18
think
7:18
that
7:18
that
7:18
is
7:18
my
7:19
fault.
7:19
I
7:19
think
7:19
that
7:19
whoever
7:20
designed
7:20
these
7:20
highways
7:20
are
7:21
a
7:21
idiot.
7:22
There
7:22
it
7:22
is.
7:26
You
7:26
know,
7:26
not
7:27
taking
7:27
blame
7:27
is
7:28
what
7:28
I'm
7:28
going
7:28
to
7:28
do.
7:28
I'm
7:28
going
7:29
to
7:29
not
7:29
take
7:29
blame
7:29
for
7:31
dumb
7:31
highways.
7:34
Oh,
7:34
dear.
7:35
Yeah,
7:36
no,
7:36
it's.
7:37
It's
7:37
definitely
7:37
a
7:38
lot
7:38
going
7:38
on
7:38
down
7:38
there.
7:39
Yeah.
7:40
I'm
7:40
glad
7:41
I
7:41
don't
7:41
live
7:41
out
7:41
there,
7:41
but
7:42
yay,
7:42
me.
7:42
I
7:43
get
7:43
to
7:43
do
7:43
a
7:43
lot
7:43
of
7:44
recording
7:44
down
7:45
there.
7:48
Do
7:48
you
7:48
think
7:48
that
7:48
they'll
7:48
ever
7:48
come
7:49
up
7:49
and
7:49
Record
7:49
with
7:49
you,
7:50
or
7:50
is
7:50
it
7:50
because
7:50
you're
7:50
doing
7:51
people,
7:51
like,
7:51
interviewing
7:52
people
7:52
that
7:52
work
7:52
at
7:52
the
7:52
court,
7:53
in.
7:53
The
7:53
court
7:53
system,
7:55
when
7:55
it's
7:56
things
7:56
like
7:57
bail
7:57
and
7:58
trial
7:58
and
7:59
things
7:59
like.
7:59
Of
7:59
course
7:59
I'll
8:00
be
8:00
recording.
8:00
Yeah.
8:01
In
8:01
court,
8:02
but.
8:03
Yeah,
8:03
that
8:03
makes
8:04
sense.
8:04
Yeah.
8:05
Oh,
8:05
my
8:05
goodness.
8:06
This
8:06
is
8:06
going
8:06
to
8:06
be
8:06
so
8:07
interesting.
8:07
I
8:08
know.
8:08
It's
8:08
definitely
8:09
going
8:09
to
8:09
be
8:09
a
8:09
long
8:09
haul,
8:10
though,
8:10
so
8:10
don't
8:11
hold
8:11
your
8:11
breath.
8:12
It
8:12
could
8:12
be
8:13
five
8:14
years
8:14
before
8:14
everything
8:15
is
8:15
said
8:15
and
8:15
done
8:16
and,
8:17
you
8:17
know,
8:17
before
8:18
everything
8:18
can
8:18
start
8:18
getting
8:19
pasted.
8:19
So.
8:20
Yeah,
8:20
that's
8:21
okay.
8:21
That's
8:21
okay.
8:22
Be
8:22
a
8:22
fun
8:22
surprise.
8:23
You're
8:23
in
8:24
it
8:24
for
8:24
the
8:24
long.
8:25
Yep,
8:26
I
8:26
like
8:27
it.
8:27
What?
8:28
Failed.
8:28
All
8:28
right.
8:29
Or
8:30
was
8:30
gonna
8:30
say,
8:30
you
8:31
know
8:31
who
8:31
else
8:31
is
8:31
in
8:31
it
8:32
for
8:32
the
8:32
long
8:32
haul?
8:35
That's
8:35
what
8:35
she
8:35
said.
8:36
No,
8:36
just
8:36
kidding.
8:38
I
8:38
was
8:38
trying
8:39
to
8:39
transfer
8:39
it
8:40
to
8:40
our
8:40
episode,
8:42
so.
8:42
Hon,
8:43
I
8:44
have
8:44
to
8:44
do
8:44
something.
8:44
Okay.
8:45
I
8:45
feel
8:45
like.
8:45
Okay.
8:46
I
8:46
gotta
8:46
tell
8:46
you
8:46
just
8:46
real
8:47
quick.
8:47
So
8:47
Emilia,
8:48
she
8:48
created
8:49
this
8:49
joke,
8:50
like,
8:50
a
8:50
few
8:50
months
8:50
ago,
8:51
and
8:51
she
8:51
goes,
8:52
you
8:53
know
8:53
what?
8:53
Someone
8:53
can
8:54
never
8:54
name
8:54
their
8:54
kid
8:55
Ben
8:56
Dover
8:57
because
8:58
Ben
8:58
over.
9:01
Okay.
9:01
And
9:02
then
9:02
Simon
9:02
calls
9:02
me
9:03
today.
9:03
He
9:03
goes,
9:05
I
9:06
cannot
9:06
take
9:06
this
9:07
person
9:07
seriously.
9:08
His
9:08
name
9:08
has
9:08
been
9:09
Dover.
9:10
And
9:11
I
9:11
was
9:11
like,
9:11
no,
9:11
shut
9:12
up.
9:12
And
9:13
he
9:13
was
9:13
like.
9:13
And
9:14
I'm
9:14
dead
9:14
serious.
9:15
The
9:15
guy's
9:16
name
9:16
is
9:16
Benjamin
9:16
Dover.
9:17
He
9:17
goes
9:17
by
9:17
Ben
9:18
Dover.
9:19
And
9:19
I
9:19
was
9:19
like,
9:19
that
9:20
is
9:20
hilarious.
9:21
That's
9:21
a
9:21
joke
9:21
that
9:22
my
9:22
dad
9:22
used
9:22
to
9:22
say
9:23
all
9:23
the
9:23
time.
9:23
Are
9:23
you
9:24
serious?
9:24
Yep.
9:25
I
9:25
thought
9:25
Amelia
9:26
made
9:26
it
9:26
up.
9:26
And
9:26
I
9:27
was
9:27
like,
9:27
who
9:27
comes
9:27
up
9:28
with
9:28
this?
9:28
And
9:29
then,
9:29
sure
9:29
enough,
9:29
there's
9:30
somewhere
9:30
named
9:30
Ben
9:31
Dover.
9:32
That's
9:32
surprising.
9:33
I've
9:33
actually
9:33
never
9:34
met
9:34
one.
9:34
I've
9:34
only
9:35
heard
9:35
my
9:35
dad,
9:35
like,
9:35
joke.
9:36
About
9:36
it,
9:38
so
9:38
that
9:38
happened.
9:39
But
9:39
anyways.
9:39
Well,
9:39
my
9:40
brother's
9:40
name
9:40
is.
9:40
One
9:41
of.
9:41
My
9:41
brother's
9:41
name
9:41
is
9:41
Ben.
9:42
Yes.
9:42
Long
9:43
haul.
9:44
The
9:45
bent
9:45
over
9:45
long
9:46
haul.
9:50
Now
9:50
we're
9:50
getting
9:50
into
9:50
the
9:51
episode,
9:52
and
9:52
we
9:53
want
9:53
to.
9:53
Because
9:53
she's
9:54
awesome.
9:54
She's
9:55
amazing.
9:56
She's
9:56
so
9:56
funny.
9:57
She's
9:57
fun
9:57
to
9:58
talk
9:58
to.
9:59
She's
9:59
easy
9:59
to
9:59
talk
10:00
to,
10:00
too.
10:01
Yeah,
10:01
it's
10:01
great.
10:02
Yeah.
10:03
Because
10:03
for
10:03
me,
10:03
sex
10:04
talk
10:04
has
10:04
always
10:04
been
10:05
so
10:05
uncomfortable
10:06
and,
10:07
like,
10:08
embarrassing.
10:08
And
10:09
just,
10:09
like,
10:10
we
10:10
started
10:10
talking
10:10
to
10:10
her,
10:11
like,
10:11
shit
10:11
just
10:11
started
10:11
coming
10:12
out.
10:12
And
10:12
I
10:12
was
10:12
like,
10:12
oh,
10:13
okay.
10:14
I
10:14
guess
10:14
she
10:14
made
10:15
it
10:15
fun,
10:15
but
10:16
she
10:16
also
10:16
made
10:16
it,
10:17
like,
10:17
it's
10:17
not.
10:17
You
10:18
don't
10:18
you
10:18
know
10:18
how
10:19
sometimes
10:19
we
10:19
talk
10:19
about
10:19
sex
10:20
and
10:20
we
10:20
all
10:20
start
10:20
giggling
10:21
for,
10:21
like,
10:21
children?
10:22
But
10:22
it
10:22
wasn't
10:22
like
10:23
that.
10:23
She
10:23
made
10:23
it,
10:23
like,
10:24
totally
10:24
normal,
10:25
and
10:25
I
10:25
love
10:25
that.
10:26
Yeah.
10:26
But
10:27
she.
10:27
Yeah,
10:27
she's
10:28
pretty
10:28
cool.
10:29
So
10:29
much
10:30
so
10:30
if
10:30
you
10:30
guys
10:31
saw
10:31
on
10:31
Facebook
10:32
or
10:32
Instagram,
10:33
we
10:33
have
10:34
a
10:34
Athena
10:35
sex
10:35
toy
10:35
party
10:36
with
10:36
Lauren
10:36
that
10:37
you're
10:37
about
10:37
to
10:37
meet
10:37
on
10:38
July
10:39
13th.
10:40
We
10:40
will
10:40
be
10:40
doing
10:41
it
10:41
live
10:41
and
10:42
in
10:42
person
10:42
for
10:42
anyone
10:43
who
10:43
wants
10:43
to
10:43
come
10:43
join
10:44
us
10:44
at
10:44
One
10:44
Soul
10:45
Studio.
10:46
So
10:46
that's
10:46
a
10:46
perfect
10:47
chance
10:47
for
10:47
you
10:47
to
10:47
come
10:47
and
10:48
tour
10:48
the
10:48
studio
10:49
if
10:49
you're
10:49
nearby
10:49
and
10:50
would
10:50
like
10:50
to
10:50
check
10:50
out
10:50
our
10:51
friends
10:51
at
10:51
One
10:51
Soul.
10:52
But
10:52
then
10:52
also
10:52
join
10:53
us
10:53
live
10:53
for
10:53
the
10:53
sex
10:54
toy
10:54
party.
10:55
But
10:55
if
10:55
you
10:55
can't
10:55
make
10:56
it
10:56
to
10:56
Kennesaw
10:57
and
10:57
join
10:57
us
10:57
in
10:57
the
10:58
studio,
10:58
then
10:59
you
10:59
can
11:00
join
11:00
virtually
11:01
and
11:01
it
11:01
will
11:01
be
11:01
just
11:01
as
11:02
funny.
11:02
Lauren's
11:03
great.
11:03
So,
11:03
yes,
11:04
join
11:04
us
11:04
for
11:04
the
11:05
sex
11:05
party.
11:07
Yes.
11:08
It
11:08
starts
11:08
at.
11:09
Let
11:09
me.
11:10
Let's
11:10
see.
11:10
It
11:10
starts.
11:11
We
11:11
will
11:11
be
11:12
there
11:12
doing
11:12
behind
11:12
the
11:13
scenes
11:13
starting
11:13
at
11:13
7pm
11:14
but
11:15
you
11:15
guys
11:15
can
11:15
join
11:15
us
11:16
live
11:16
with
11:16
Lauren
11:17
starting
11:17
at
11:18
8pm
11:19
so
11:19
get
11:19
the
11:19
kids
11:20
to
11:20
bed,
11:20
get
11:21
your
11:21
choice
11:21
of
11:22
alcohol
11:22
or
11:23
non
11:23
alcohol
11:24
coffee,
11:25
whatever.
11:26
And
11:26
let's
11:27
be
11:27
silly
11:27
and
11:28
talk
11:28
about
11:28
dildos.
11:33
Or
11:33
not.
11:34
I'm
11:34
actually
11:34
really
11:35
excited.
11:35
Like,
11:36
I
11:36
need
11:36
some
11:36
good
11:36
toys
11:36
in
11:37
my
11:37
life.
11:37
Me
11:37
too.
11:39
Yeah.
11:39
All
11:40
right.
11:40
Do
11:40
we
11:41
want
11:41
them
11:41
to
11:41
meet
11:41
Lauren?
11:42
Of
11:42
course
11:43
we
11:43
do.
11:43
Lauren,
11:44
take
11:44
it
11:44
away.
11:49
All
11:50
right,
11:50
skirts
11:50
up,
11:51
squad.
11:51
We
11:51
are
11:51
so
11:51
excited
11:52
because
11:52
today
11:52
we
11:52
have
11:53
with
11:53
us
11:53
Lauren
11:54
Goyet.
11:55
She
11:56
is
11:56
a.
11:57
She
11:57
sells
11:58
sex
11:58
toys
11:58
for
11:59
the
11:59
Athena's
12:00
Home
12:01
novelty
12:02
company.
12:03
And
12:03
I
12:03
hope
12:04
I
12:04
got
12:04
that
12:04
right.
12:04
But
12:05
she
12:05
doesn't
12:05
just
12:05
sell
12:06
sex
12:06
toys.
12:06
No,
12:07
she's
12:07
apparently
12:07
like
12:07
the
12:08
top
12:08
in
12:08
the
12:08
nation
12:09
for
12:09
the
12:09
company,
12:09
which
12:09
is
12:10
really
12:10
exciting.
12:10
But
12:10
not
12:10
even
12:11
that
12:11
she's
12:11
a
12:11
sex
12:12
therapist.
12:13
Well,
12:14
she's
12:14
apparently
12:15
since
12:15
2013,
12:16
she's
12:16
had.
12:16
She's
12:17
been
12:17
working
12:17
in
12:17
the
12:17
field
12:18
of
12:18
sexual
12:18
education,
12:19
empowerment,
12:20
and
12:20
now
12:20
she
12:20
is
12:20
on
12:21
her
12:21
way
12:21
to
12:21
becoming
12:21
a
12:22
sex
12:22
therapist
12:22
while
12:22
working
12:23
on
12:23
your
12:23
master's.
12:24
Is
12:24
that
12:24
correct?
12:25
All
12:25
right.
12:26
It
12:26
was
12:26
a
12:26
long
12:26
road.
12:26
We
12:27
got
12:27
there.
12:27
Sounds
12:28
fancy.
12:30
Let's
12:30
get
12:30
dirty.
12:31
Yes.
12:32
We're
12:33
skirting
12:33
on
12:34
in.
12:35
So
12:35
we're
12:35
going
12:35
to
12:36
talk
12:36
about
12:36
a
12:36
few
12:36
things
12:36
today,
12:37
and
12:37
I'm
12:37
really
12:37
excited.
12:38
So
12:38
do
12:38
you
12:39
want
12:39
to
12:39
kind
12:39
of.
12:39
Just
12:39
give
12:39
us
12:40
like
12:40
a
12:40
little
12:41
introduction.
12:41
Introduction
12:42
history
12:42
about
12:42
yourself?
12:44
What
12:44
got
12:44
you
12:44
started?
12:45
All
12:45
the
12:45
things.
12:46
So
12:46
the
12:46
things
12:46
that
12:47
got
12:47
me
12:47
started
12:48
to
12:48
become
12:49
a
12:49
certified
12:49
sex
12:50
relationship
12:50
coach
12:51
was,
12:51
okay,
12:51
I'm
12:52
selling
12:52
the
12:52
tools,
12:53
right?
12:53
The
12:53
physical
12:53
tool,
12:54
the
12:54
vibrators,
12:55
the
12:55
butt
12:55
plugs,
12:56
the
12:56
rope,
12:56
the
12:56
blindfolds,
12:58
all
12:58
the
12:58
things
12:58
to
12:59
enhance
12:59
the
12:59
romance.
13:00
But
13:00
yet
13:01
I
13:01
noticed
13:01
that
13:02
that's
13:02
not
13:02
gonna
13:02
fix
13:02
everything,
13:03
right?
13:03
Sometimes
13:04
there's
13:04
trust
13:04
issues.
13:05
Sometimes
13:05
there's
13:05
a
13:06
really
13:06
hard
13:06
time
13:07
communicating,
13:08
and
13:08
sometimes
13:09
what
13:10
you
13:10
don't
13:10
know
13:10
you
13:11
don't
13:11
know.
13:11
So
13:11
you're
13:11
like,
13:11
oh,
13:12
I
13:12
don't
13:12
know.
13:12
Why
13:12
am
13:12
I
13:13
not
13:13
good
13:13
enough
13:14
if
13:14
you
13:14
wanna
13:14
bring
13:14
a
13:14
toy
13:15
into
13:15
the
13:15
bedroom?
13:16
And
13:17
then
13:17
I
13:18
obviously,
13:19
I
13:19
love
13:20
education.
13:20
I
13:21
love
13:21
sex
13:21
theories
13:22
and.
13:22
Oh,
13:23
I
13:23
have
13:23
all
13:23
the
13:23
books
13:24
of
13:24
all
13:24
the
13:24
famous
13:25
sexologists.
13:26
And
13:27
it's
13:27
absolutely
13:28
interesting.
13:28
There's
13:28
so
13:29
much
13:29
to
13:29
always
13:29
mo.
13:30
Like,
13:30
know
13:30
more,
13:31
can
13:31
always
13:31
learn
13:32
more,
13:32
and
13:32
then
13:32
you
13:33
can
13:33
implement
13:33
what
13:33
you
13:34
learn.
13:34
And
13:34
sex
13:35
gets
13:35
so
13:35
much
13:36
more
13:36
interesting
13:37
and
13:37
beautiful.
13:38
It's
13:38
like,
13:39
you
13:39
know,
13:39
kind
13:40
of
13:40
priming
13:40
your
13:40
palette
13:41
in
13:41
a
13:41
way.
13:42
Yeah.
13:43
Oh,
13:44
wow.
13:44
I
13:45
can
13:45
relate
13:48
to.
13:48
But
13:48
it's
13:48
not
13:48
about
13:49
me
13:49
today.
13:49
Well,
13:50
that's
13:50
hilarious
13:50
because
13:51
I
13:51
can
13:51
relate
13:51
to
13:51
the
13:51
other
13:52
side
13:52
where
13:52
it's
13:52
like
13:53
there.
13:54
So
13:54
I
13:54
grew
13:54
up
13:54
in
13:54
a
13:55
very,
13:55
you
13:55
know,
13:56
sheltered
13:56
environment
13:57
and
13:57
there
13:57
were
13:57
things
13:58
that
13:58
I
13:58
didn't
13:58
know
13:59
existed
14:00
until
14:00
my
14:00
late
14:01
20s,
14:01
if
14:02
that.
14:02
And
14:02
I
14:03
remember
14:03
feeling
14:03
really
14:04
stupid
14:04
sometimes
14:04
and
14:05
not
14:05
wanting
14:05
to
14:05
ask.
14:06
But
14:07
I
14:07
think
14:07
that
14:07
that's
14:08
when.
14:08
Why
14:08
we
14:08
have
14:09
you
14:09
today
14:09
because.
14:09
Okay,
14:10
I
14:10
do
14:10
have
14:10
a
14:10
funny.
14:10
Oh,
14:11
tell
14:11
me
14:11
you're
14:11
funny.
14:12
Okay,
14:13
so
14:14
I'm
14:15
giving
14:15
birth
14:16
to,
14:16
like,
14:17
baby
14:17
number
14:17
three.
14:19
And
14:19
so
14:19
they're
14:20
looking
14:20
at,
14:20
you
14:20
know,
14:21
the
14:21
area.
14:22
And
14:24
I
14:24
thought
14:24
that
14:25
the.
14:25
That
14:26
the.
14:26
The
14:26
tube
14:27
thing,
14:28
the
14:28
catheter.
14:29
I
14:29
thought
14:30
that
14:30
where
14:30
that
14:30
goes
14:31
and
14:31
I
14:31
thought
14:32
that
14:32
where
14:32
you
14:32
pee
14:32
out
14:33
of
14:33
was
14:33
the
14:34
clitorius.
14:35
I
14:35
thought
14:35
that
14:35
that
14:35
was
14:36
the
14:36
urethra.
14:36
Oh,
14:37
really?
14:38
Interesting.
14:40
Yeah.
14:40
So
14:41
the
14:41
truth
14:41
comes
14:41
out.
14:42
I
14:42
did
14:42
not
14:42
learn
14:44
the
14:44
anatomy.
14:47
Anatomy
14:47
until
14:48
baby
14:48
number
14:48
three.
14:49
And
14:49
that's
14:49
fair.
14:50
Actually,
14:50
that's
14:50
a
14:50
really
14:51
good.
14:51
I
14:52
wonder
14:52
if
14:52
that's
14:52
normal.
14:52
Is
14:52
that
14:53
common?
14:53
That
14:53
is
14:53
very
14:53
common.
14:54
I
14:54
do
14:54
believe
14:54
so.
14:55
Really
14:56
Thing
14:56
that
14:56
I
14:56
actually
14:57
love
14:57
people
14:58
to.
14:59
I
14:59
do
14:59
an
14:59
exercise.
15:00
Here's
15:00
the
15:00
thing.
15:00
Have
15:01
you
15:01
ever
15:01
held
15:02
a
15:02
mirror
15:02
down
15:03
there
15:03
to
15:03
look
15:03
at
15:03
your
15:04
vagina
15:05
when
15:05
I.
15:06
When.
15:06
When
15:06
my
15:06
uterus
15:07
was
15:07
falling
15:07
out?
15:08
Oh,
15:08
yeah,
15:09
I
15:09
did
15:10
because
15:11
someone
15:11
online
15:12
told
15:12
me
15:12
I
15:12
should.
15:15
It's
15:15
like
15:16
gorgeous.
15:17
It's
15:17
just
15:18
incredible.
15:19
And
15:19
it's
15:19
even
15:19
better
15:20
because
15:20
it
15:20
will
15:20
change
15:21
colors
15:21
the
15:21
more
15:21
that
15:22
you're
15:22
turned
15:22
on
15:22
because
15:23
the
15:23
blood
15:23
rushes
15:24
down
15:24
there
15:24
goes.
15:25
Really?
15:26
No,
15:26
I
15:26
didn't
15:26
do
15:27
that.
15:27
Yes.
15:27
Oh,
15:28
so
15:28
we
15:28
need
15:28
to,
15:28
like,
15:28
watch
15:29
the
15:29
whole
15:29
thing.
15:29
Yes.
15:30
If
15:30
you
15:30
can
15:31
little
15:31
Bring
15:31
the
15:31
mirror
15:31
by
15:32
the
15:32
bedside.
15:32
Right.
15:32
Or
15:33
the
15:33
couch,
15:33
wherever
15:33
you
15:33
are.
15:34
I
15:34
just.
15:35
The
15:35
thing
15:35
is
15:36
this
15:36
education
15:36
wasn't
15:37
t
15:37
also
15:39
in
15:39
a
15:39
penis.
15:40
The
15:40
urethra
15:41
and
15:41
the
15:42
ejaculatory
15:42
canal
15:43
are
15:43
the
15:43
same
15:43
exact
15:43
thing.
15:44
It's
15:44
the
15:44
same
15:44
tube.
15:45
So
15:45
it's
15:45
understandably
15:46
maybe
15:46
something
15:47
that
15:47
made
15:47
sense,
15:48
you
15:48
know,
15:49
you
15:49
would
15:49
think.
15:49
Yeah.
15:49
Clitoris
15:50
is
15:50
right
15:50
above
15:51
the
15:51
Urethral
15:53
tube.
15:53
That
15:53
little
15:54
bump.
15:54
That
15:54
little
15:55
bump.
15:55
That
15:55
happy
15:56
bump.
16:00
All
16:00
right,
16:01
well,
16:02
now
16:02
that
16:02
we
16:02
got
16:03
my
16:03
awkward.
16:04
Didn't
16:04
know
16:05
what
16:05
a
16:05
clitorius
16:06
was.
16:08
That
16:08
is
16:08
okay.
16:11
And
16:11
we
16:11
all
16:11
need
16:12
somebody
16:12
to
16:12
talk
16:13
to.
16:13
And
16:13
that's
16:13
the
16:14
thing.
16:14
If
16:14
you
16:14
don't
16:14
have
16:14
anybody
16:15
to
16:16
ask
16:16
these
16:16
questions
16:17
to
16:18
know
16:18
that
16:18
I
16:18
can
16:19
be
16:19
that
16:19
for
16:19
you.
16:19
I'm
16:19
completely
16:20
non
16:20
judgmental
16:21
and
16:21
I
16:21
have
16:21
been
16:22
that
16:22
person
16:22
for
16:22
people
16:23
for
16:23
more
16:23
than
16:23
15
16:24
years.
16:24
So
16:25
please.
16:25
That's.
16:26
That's
16:26
really.
16:28
Are
16:28
you
16:28
in.
16:28
Are
16:29
you
16:29
in
16:29
a
16:29
relationship?
16:30
I
16:30
am.
16:31
I'm
16:31
actually
16:31
getting
16:32
married
16:32
in
16:33
October.
16:35
Congratulations.
16:37
Thank
16:37
you.
16:38
Thanks.
16:38
How
16:39
does
16:39
the
16:39
partner
16:40
feel
16:40
about
16:41
what
16:42
you
16:42
do?
16:42
He
16:43
loves
16:43
it.
16:44
He.
16:44
He's
16:44
proud
16:45
of
16:45
me
16:45
and
16:45
the
16:45
fact
16:46
that
16:46
he
16:46
gets
16:46
free
16:46
toys
16:47
to
16:47
test
16:47
because
16:48
I
16:48
need
16:48
reviews.
16:48
Right.
16:48
I
16:49
don't
16:49
own
16:49
a
16:49
penis.
16:49
If
16:50
I
16:50
did,
16:50
I
16:50
would
16:50
never
16:50
leave
16:51
the
16:51
house.
16:51
But
16:52
that's
16:52
what
16:53
I
16:53
said.
16:54
I
16:54
wish.
16:54
Right?
16:55
Like
16:55
triathlons
16:56
are
16:56
fine.
16:56
You
16:56
get
16:56
like
16:56
a
16:57
little
16:57
bit
16:57
of
16:57
that
16:58
penis
16:58
owning
16:58
vibe,
16:59
but
16:59
not
16:59
really.
17:00
But
17:00
you
17:00
can't
17:00
really
17:00
feel.
17:03
He.
17:04
He's
17:04
really
17:04
proud
17:04
of
17:04
me
17:05
and
17:05
I
17:05
get
17:05
to
17:05
show
17:06
him
17:06
all
17:06
these
17:06
things
17:06
I
17:07
learned
17:07
and
17:07
we
17:07
get
17:07
to
17:08
deepen
17:08
our
17:08
relationship
17:09
as
17:09
well.
17:10
The
17:10
new
17:10
things
17:10
that
17:10
I
17:11
continue
17:11
to
17:11
learn.
17:12
And
17:13
yeah,
17:14
it's
17:14
pretty
17:14
cool.
17:15
We
17:15
always
17:15
get
17:15
to
17:16
activate
17:16
new
17:16
heights
17:17
of
17:17
pleasure
17:17
together.
17:17
So
17:18
it's
17:18
really
17:18
nice.
17:19
That's
17:20
really.
17:20
That's
17:21
really
17:21
cool.
17:21
I
17:21
wanted
17:22
to
17:22
ask
17:22
her
17:22
about.
17:23
You
17:23
had
17:24
mentioned
17:24
earlier
17:25
erotic
17:25
energy.
17:27
And
17:27
I
17:27
was
17:27
wondering.
17:28
I'm
17:28
just
17:28
going
17:28
to
17:29
put
17:29
out
17:29
my
17:30
question.
17:31
Are
17:31
you
17:31
saying
17:32
that
17:32
all
17:32
of
17:32
us
17:33
have
17:33
a
17:33
different
17:33
type
17:33
of
17:34
energy
17:34
and
17:34
we're
17:34
trying
17:35
to
17:35
like
17:35
tap
17:36
in
17:36
and
17:36
figure
17:36
out
17:36
what
17:36
ours
17:37
is
17:37
or
17:38
what
17:38
are
17:39
you
17:39
saying
17:39
when
17:39
you're
17:39
talking
17:39
about
17:40
erotic
17:40
energy
17:40
and
17:41
why
17:41
is
17:41
it
17:41
important?
17:42
We
17:42
are
17:43
all
17:43
made
17:43
of
17:43
energy,
17:44
right?
17:45
Sexual
17:45
energy
17:46
is
17:46
the
17:47
most
17:47
powerful.
17:47
It's
17:48
the
17:48
most
17:48
creative.
17:49
It's
17:49
what
17:49
makes
17:49
life.
17:50
Right.
17:51
So
17:51
you
17:52
can
17:52
actually
17:52
use
17:52
sexual
17:53
energy
17:53
to
17:54
manifest.
17:54
It's
17:55
called
17:55
sex
17:55
magic.
17:57
Very
17:57
cool.
17:57
I
17:58
have.
17:58
I
17:59
am
17:59
probably
17:59
going
17:59
to
17:59
release
18:00
a
18:00
video
18:00
on
18:00
like
18:00
a
18:01
step
18:01
by
18:01
step
18:01
on
18:01
how
18:02
to
18:02
do
18:02
that.
18:03
You're
18:03
basically
18:04
circulating
18:04
the
18:05
sexual
18:05
energy
18:05
through
18:06
all
18:06
of
18:06
the
18:06
chakras
18:07
at
18:07
the
18:07
top
18:08
of
18:08
your
18:08
head
18:09
and
18:09
manifesting
18:10
your
18:10
dreams
18:12
plus
18:12
having
18:12
really
18:12
good
18:12
orgasms
18:13
at
18:13
the
18:13
same
18:13
time.
18:14
So
18:16
there's
18:17
actually.
18:17
When
18:17
it
18:17
comes
18:17
to
18:18
energy,
18:18
it
18:19
Energetic
18:20
is
18:20
actually
18:20
one
18:21
of
18:21
five
18:22
erotic
18:23
blueprints.
18:24
So
18:24
while
18:24
all
18:25
of
18:25
you
18:25
have
18:26
energy
18:26
and
18:26
there's
18:26
a
18:27
way
18:27
to
18:27
exchange
18:28
energy
18:28
and
18:29
be
18:29
more
18:29
conscious
18:30
about
18:30
it
18:30
during
18:31
sex,
18:32
not
18:32
everybody
18:33
knows
18:33
how
18:33
to
18:33
tap
18:34
into
18:34
it.
18:35
But
18:35
if
18:35
you're
18:35
an
18:35
energetic
18:36
erotic
18:37
blueprint
18:38
Then
18:38
you
18:38
definitely
18:39
know
18:40
you
18:40
like
18:40
the
18:41
look
18:41
across
18:41
the
18:42
room,
18:42
the
18:42
teeth
18:42
to,
18:43
like,
18:43
bring
18:43
up
18:43
the
18:43
energy.
18:44
You
18:44
like,
18:45
like
18:45
the
18:45
really
18:45
nice
18:46
gazes.
18:46
The
18:46
almost
18:47
touched.
18:49
You
18:49
want
18:49
me
18:50
to.
18:50
Yeah,
18:50
the
18:50
almost
18:51
touch,
18:51
Right.
18:51
Like
18:52
the
18:52
lip
18:52
over
18:52
the
18:53
lip.
18:53
But
18:53
you
18:53
don't.
18:53
For
18:54
real?
18:56
Yeah.
18:58
Do
18:58
you
18:58
want
18:58
me
18:58
to
18:58
cover
18:59
the
18:59
five
18:59
erotic
18:59
blueprint?
19:00
I
19:00
actually
19:01
do.
19:01
I
19:02
am
19:02
really
19:02
curious.
19:03
Like.
19:03
Like.
19:04
Yeah,
19:04
tell
19:04
us,
19:04
because
19:05
there's
19:05
going
19:05
to
19:05
be
19:05
all
19:06
kinds
19:06
of
19:06
different
19:06
women
19:07
out
19:07
here
19:07
and
19:07
men
19:08
listening
19:09
to
19:09
the
19:09
episode
19:10
and.
19:11
Yeah,
19:12
let's
19:12
hear.
19:12
All
19:13
right,
19:13
so.
19:14
So
19:14
the
19:14
blueprint.
19:15
The
19:15
five
19:15
erotic
19:16
blueprint
19:17
was
19:18
designed
19:19
and
19:19
created
19:19
by
19:19
Jaya.
19:20
She
19:20
is
19:20
a
19:21
sexologist
19:22
and
19:22
author.
19:23
There's
19:23
a
19:23
fantastic
19:24
book.
19:24
It's
19:25
finding
19:25
your
19:25
erotic
19:26
blueprint.
19:26
So
19:26
there's
19:27
five.
19:28
Usually
19:29
you'll
19:29
have
19:29
a
19:30
primary
19:30
and
19:30
a
19:31
secondary.
19:31
You
19:32
may
19:32
be
19:32
two
19:32
out
19:32
of
19:32
five
19:33
in
19:33
that
19:33
pool.
19:34
So
19:34
the
19:34
first
19:34
one
19:35
would
19:35
be
19:36
sexual.
19:37
This
19:37
is
19:38
very
19:38
genital
19:39
focus,
19:40
Right.
19:41
Whether
19:42
it's
19:42
just
19:42
really
19:42
appreciative
19:43
of
19:44
the
19:44
naked
19:45
genitalia.
19:47
Straight
19:48
to
19:48
the
19:48
point,
19:48
Right?
19:49
Okay.
19:50
Booty,
19:50
cheek,
19:51
balls,
19:52
anything.
19:52
You
19:52
just.
19:52
You
19:53
love
19:53
the
19:53
way
19:54
the
19:54
sexual
19:55
organs
19:55
look.
19:56
You
19:56
love
19:56
sex.
19:56
You
19:57
like
19:57
to
19:57
watch
19:57
the
19:58
in
19:58
and
19:58
out.
19:59
Very
19:59
visually
20:00
and
20:01
sexual.
20:01
Right?
20:02
Okay.
20:03
Then
20:03
we
20:04
have
20:04
sensual.
20:05
Sensual,
20:06
you
20:06
think
20:06
would
20:07
be,
20:07
you
20:07
know,
20:07
a
20:07
little
20:08
bit
20:08
slower,
20:08
a
20:08
little
20:08
bit
20:09
softer.
20:09
But
20:09
I
20:10
want
20:10
you
20:10
to
20:10
think
20:10
of
20:10
the
20:10
five
20:11
senses.
20:12
So
20:13
you
20:13
may
20:13
want
20:13
to
20:13
light
20:13
a
20:14
candle.
20:14
You
20:14
have
20:14
that
20:14
sense.
20:15
You
20:15
may
20:15
want
20:16
to
20:16
hear
20:16
dirty
20:16
talk
20:17
or
20:17
you
20:17
may
20:18
want
20:18
to
20:18
put
20:18
earplugs
20:19
in
20:19
so
20:20
everything
20:20
else
20:20
feels
20:20
more
20:21
heightened.
20:22
You
20:22
may
20:22
want
20:22
to
20:23
see
20:23
certain
20:23
things,
20:23
like
20:24
a
20:24
nice
20:24
fuzzy
20:25
pillow.
20:25
You
20:25
may
20:25
want
20:26
to
20:26
be
20:26
in,
20:26
like,
20:26
a
20:26
silky
20:27
robe.
20:28
You
20:28
may
20:28
want
20:29
warm,
20:30
warm
20:30
massage
20:31
oil,
20:31
like
20:31
the
20:31
soy
20:32
candles
20:32
that
20:32
melt
20:33
on
20:33
the
20:33
body.
20:35
You
20:35
want
20:35
to
20:35
play
20:35
with
20:35
ice.
20:36
You
20:36
know,
20:37
you
20:37
have
20:37
a
20:37
couple
20:38
things
20:38
with
20:38
that,
20:38
and
20:38
it's
20:39
more
20:39
of
20:39
like
20:39
a
20:40
soft,
20:41
gentle
20:41
touch
20:42
versus
20:43
like
20:43
a
20:43
bang
20:44
on
20:44
the
20:44
ass.
20:45
Okay.
20:46
Okay.
20:47
Then
20:47
we
20:48
have
20:48
the
20:48
energetic.
20:49
And
20:50
this
20:50
is
20:50
all
20:51
about
20:52
feeling
20:53
more
20:54
than
20:54
actual
20:54
penetration.
20:55
You
20:55
can
20:55
actually
20:56
have
20:56
an
20:56
energetic
20:57
orgasm
20:58
without
20:59
penetration,
20:59
without
21:00
touching.
21:01
And
21:01
with
21:01
your
21:01
clothes
21:02
on,
21:02
you
21:03
can
21:03
tap
21:03
into
21:03
all
21:04
of
21:04
the
21:04
energy.
21:04
It's
21:05
incredible.
21:05
Tell
21:05
me.
21:06
But
21:06
I
21:06
have
21:07
a
21:07
question.
21:07
Are
21:08
you
21:08
saying
21:09
that
21:09
everybody
21:10
has
21:10
access
21:10
to
21:11
be
21:11
able
21:11
to
21:11
understand
21:12
each
21:12
of
21:12
these
21:12
five
21:13
blueprints?
21:13
Or
21:14
are
21:14
you
21:14
saying
21:15
some
21:15
people
21:16
may
21:17
just
21:17
kind
21:17
of
21:17
relate
21:18
to
21:18
one?
21:19
Some
21:20
people
21:20
may
21:20
relate
21:20
to
21:21
one.
21:22
And
21:22
some
21:23
people
21:23
actually
21:23
may
21:24
be
21:24
the
21:24
fifth
21:25
one,
21:26
which
21:26
was
21:26
shape
21:26
shifter.
21:27
So
21:27
it
21:27
can
21:28
be
21:28
all
21:28
of
21:28
them
21:29
to
21:29
suit
21:29
the
21:29
partner's
21:30
need,
21:30
their,
21:30
you
21:30
know,
21:31
sexual
21:31
partner's
21:31
needs,
21:32
so
21:32
they
21:32
can
21:33
fit
21:33
into
21:33
all
21:33
of
21:33
it
21:34
and
21:34
tap
21:34
in.
21:35
Okay,
21:36
sorry
21:36
I
21:37
interrupted
21:37
You.
21:37
Because
21:38
you
21:38
were
21:38
about
21:38
to
21:38
tell
21:38
us
21:38
about
21:38
energetic.
21:39
And
21:39
I'm
21:39
really
21:39
excited
21:40
about
21:40
this
21:40
one.
21:40
No
21:40
worries
21:41
at
21:41
all.
21:41
So
21:42
energetic.
21:43
We
21:43
like
21:44
the
21:45
build
21:45
of
21:45
anticipation,
21:46
the
21:47
tease
21:47
across
21:47
the
21:48
room.
21:48
You
21:48
can
21:48
have
21:49
mutual
21:49
masturbation
21:50
where
21:50
you're
21:50
not
21:50
even
21:50
touching
21:51
each
21:51
other.
21:51
You're
21:51
just
21:51
watching
21:52
each
21:52
other
21:53
with
21:53
the
21:54
energy,
21:54
too.
21:54
It's
21:55
like
21:55
you
21:56
can
21:56
feel
21:57
more
21:58
energy
21:58
than
21:59
some
21:59
of
21:59
the
21:59
other
21:59
blueprint.
22:01
I've
22:01
always
22:01
been
22:01
an
22:02
energetic
22:02
person.
22:02
You
22:02
can
22:03
feel
22:03
the
22:03
energy
22:03
shift
22:03
when
22:04
you
22:04
walk
22:04
into
22:04
a
22:04
room.
22:05
If
22:05
you're
22:05
one
22:05
of
22:06
those
22:06
people,
22:06
you're
22:07
most
22:07
likely
22:07
energetic.
22:08
There's
22:09
a
22:09
lot
22:09
of
22:10
cheesing
22:11
that
22:11
you
22:12
can
22:12
utilize
22:13
with
22:13
this
22:13
energy.
22:13
I
22:14
have
22:14
quartz
22:15
on
22:15
all
22:15
of
22:15
it
22:15
as
22:15
well.
22:17
Try
22:18
out
22:18
and
22:18
see
22:18
which
22:18
one
22:18
may
22:19
be
22:19
for
22:19
you.
22:19
The
22:20
fourth
22:20
one
22:20
is
22:21
chinky.
22:24
So,
22:24
my
22:25
friends,
22:25
I'm
22:25
going
22:25
to
22:25
ask
22:25
you
22:26
both
22:27
to
22:27
cross
22:28
your
22:28
leg.
22:29
Oh,
22:30
my
22:30
leg
22:30
is
22:30
crossed.
22:30
They
22:31
are
22:31
crossed.
22:31
All
22:31
right,
22:32
now
22:32
I'm
22:33
going
22:33
to
22:33
have
22:33
you
22:33
listen
22:33
to
22:34
me,
22:34
and
22:34
I
22:34
just
22:34
want
22:35
everybody
22:35
to
22:35
go
22:35
ahead
22:36
and
22:36
focus
22:36
on
22:36
each
22:36
of
22:37
their
22:37
faces
22:37
and
22:37
the.
22:37
Reactions
22:38
that
22:38
will
22:38
happen
22:38
after
22:39
this
22:40
on
22:40
our
22:40
faces.
22:41
Okay?
22:43
Go
22:43
ahead
22:43
and
22:43
put
22:43
your
22:44
both
22:44
feet
22:44
on
22:44
the
22:44
floor
22:45
like
22:45
a
22:45
good
22:45
girl.
22:47
Ah.
22:48
Okay.
22:48
So
22:49
you
22:49
may
22:50
be
22:50
kinky
22:50
if
22:50
you
22:51
liked
22:51
that
22:52
being.
22:53
Well,
22:54
that.
22:55
Okay,
22:56
she's
22:56
good.
22:56
Kate.
22:56
Yes,
22:57
Simon
22:58
does
22:58
call
22:58
me
22:58
a
22:58
good
22:58
girl,
22:59
and
22:59
it
22:59
does
22:59
get
22:59
me
23:00
revved.
23:01
You've
23:01
already
23:01
got
23:02
it.
23:05
See,
23:05
I.
23:05
I
23:06
am.
23:06
I
23:06
am
23:07
energetic
23:07
and
23:07
kinky.
23:08
All
23:08
right.
23:08
I'm
23:09
also.
23:09
I
23:09
can
23:10
be
23:10
a
23:10
little
23:10
bit
23:10
of
23:10
everything.
23:11
So
23:11
I'm
23:11
pretty
23:11
sure
23:11
I'm
23:12
a
23:12
shape
23:12
shifter,
23:12
as
23:12
I've
23:13
had
23:13
many
23:13
partners
23:14
and
23:14
they're
23:14
all
23:14
into
23:14
different
23:15
things
23:15
and
23:15
it's
23:15
always
23:16
really
23:16
good.
23:17
So.
23:17
And
23:18
the
23:18
fact
23:18
that
23:18
you
23:19
love
23:19
that
23:20
good
23:20
girl,
23:20
that's
23:20
that
23:21
psychologically
23:22
kinky
23:22
part.
23:23
Then
23:24
you
23:24
have
23:25
the
23:25
word
23:26
and
23:26
like
23:26
that.
23:27
You
23:27
know,
23:27
the
23:27
little
23:27
dominant.
23:28
Yeah,
23:29
right.
23:29
That's
23:30
the
23:30
fun
23:30
stuff.
23:31
Then
23:31
you
23:31
have
23:31
physically
23:32
kinky
23:33
with
23:33
props,
23:34
such
23:34
as,
23:34
okay,
23:35
whips
23:36
and
23:36
stuff
23:36
like
23:36
that.
23:37
You
23:37
want
23:37
to
23:37
get
23:37
hit
23:37
by
23:37
a
23:37
newspaper
23:38
on
23:38
a
23:38
leash.
23:39
So
23:39
those
23:39
are
23:39
two
23:39
different.
23:40
The
23:41
kinky
23:42
is
23:42
broken
23:43
into
23:43
two
23:43
pieces.
23:43
Psychologically
23:44
kinky
23:45
with
23:45
the
23:45
good
23:46
girl
23:46
and
23:47
stuff
23:47
like
23:47
that.
23:48
And
23:48
then
23:49
physical
23:50
item
23:51
prop.
23:51
Okay.
23:52
Yeah.
23:53
Okay.
23:53
Okay.
23:54
And
23:54
your
23:54
last.
23:54
So,
23:56
yeah,
23:57
Yeah,
23:58
I
23:58
think.
23:58
I
23:58
think
23:59
that's
23:59
really
23:59
funny.
24:00
So
24:02
Simon
24:02
and
24:03
I
24:03
kind
24:03
of
24:03
laugh.
24:03
And
24:03
so
24:04
this
24:04
is.
24:05
All
24:05
right,
24:05
listeners.
24:05
You're
24:06
going
24:06
to
24:06
get
24:06
really
24:07
deep
24:07
into
24:08
our
24:08
sex
24:09
life.
24:09
Just
24:10
a
24:10
little
24:10
bit.
24:10
I'll
24:10
try
24:11
and
24:11
keep
24:11
it
24:11
a
24:11
little
24:11
tame.
24:12
Mom,
24:13
tune
24:13
out.
24:15
So
24:17
we
24:17
laugh
24:18
because
24:19
we
24:20
keep
24:20
finding
24:20
new
24:20
ways
24:21
to
24:21
get
24:22
me
24:22
off.
24:22
And
24:23
sometimes
24:23
they
24:23
are
24:24
not
24:24
even
24:26
we
24:26
could
24:26
be
24:26
kissing,
24:27
and
24:27
all
24:27
of
24:27
a
24:27
sudden,
24:28
oh,
24:28
there
24:28
she
24:28
goes.
24:29
And
24:31
I
24:31
could
24:31
be
24:31
sucking
24:31
a
24:32
dick,
24:32
and
24:32
then
24:32
all
24:32
of
24:32
a
24:32
sudden,
24:33
oh,
24:33
there
24:33
she
24:33
goes.
24:33
And
24:34
it's
24:34
like,
24:34
that's
24:35
not
24:35
normal.
24:37
Like,
24:37
when
24:37
you
24:37
look
24:37
at
24:37
the
24:38
statistics,
24:39
you
24:39
see
24:40
that,
24:40
like,
24:40
they
24:41
all
24:41
say
24:41
that
24:41
most
24:42
women
24:43
need
24:43
an
24:43
only
24:44
orgasm
24:45
from,
24:45
like,
24:45
clitorial
24:46
stimulation.
24:47
And
24:47
so
24:47
I'm
24:48
like,
24:48
oh,
24:48
I'm
24:48
the
24:48
oddball
24:49
over
24:49
here.
24:49
Just
24:49
squirting
24:50
away.
24:50
Like,
24:50
just,
24:51
we
24:51
need
24:51
water
24:51
sheets.
24:52
Like
24:52
it's.
24:52
It's
24:52
a
24:52
whole
24:53
thing.
24:53
And
24:54
that's
24:54
another
24:54
controversial
24:55
thing.
24:55
That's
24:55
a
24:56
question
24:56
I
24:56
have.
24:56
Then
24:56
you
24:57
raise
24:57
a
24:57
really
24:57
important
24:58
question.
24:58
Like,
24:58
is
24:59
that
24:59
really
24:59
a
24:59
statistic
25:00
or
25:00
is
25:00
that
25:01
more
25:01
of
25:01
a.
25:02
Are
25:02
a
25:03
misnomer
25:04
with
25:05
the
25:06
being
25:06
able
25:06
to
25:07
have
25:07
an
25:07
orgasm
25:08
without
25:08
being
25:08
touched
25:09
by
25:09
the
25:09
clitoris?
25:10
The
25:11
opposite.
25:11
Like,
25:11
she
25:12
was
25:12
saying
25:12
that
25:13
most
25:13
people
25:14
need
25:14
to
25:14
have
25:15
that
25:15
clitoral
25:15
stimulation.
25:16
If
25:16
you
25:16
Google
25:17
it,
25:17
that's
25:17
what
25:17
you
25:17
see.
25:18
But
25:18
I
25:18
feel
25:19
like
25:19
that
25:19
could
25:20
be
25:20
kind
25:20
of
25:21
a
25:21
stereotype
25:22
almost,
25:22
because
25:23
I'm.
25:23
I
25:23
don't
25:23
fit
25:24
with
25:24
that.
25:24
I
25:24
don't.
25:25
Yeah.
25:26
And
25:26
I'm
25:26
wondering
25:26
how
25:26
many
25:27
more
25:27
people
25:27
don't
25:27
exactly.
25:28
Probably
25:28
about
25:29
20
25:29
to
25:29
30%
25:31
of
25:31
vulva
25:32
owners
25:32
don't
25:33
need
25:33
to
25:34
be
25:34
touched.
25:34
So
25:35
70
25:35
to
25:35
80%.
25:36
These
25:36
have
25:37
been
25:37
studies
25:37
over
25:37
the
25:38
years.
25:38
70
25:39
to
25:39
80%
25:40
of
25:41
vulva
25:42
owners
25:42
need
25:42
direct
25:43
clitoral
25:43
stimulation.
25:44
The
25:45
clitoral
25:46
10,000
25:46
nerve
25:46
ending
25:47
is
25:47
there
25:47
for
25:48
no
25:48
other
25:48
purpose
25:48
except
25:49
pleasure.
25:50
So
25:50
please,
25:50
everybody,
25:52
DJ
25:52
click.
25:53
Okay?
25:53
Please
25:53
touch.
25:55
It's
25:56
only
25:56
different.
25:56
That
25:56
goes
25:57
back
25:57
into
25:57
my
25:57
wooka
25:57
wooka.
25:58
Yeah,
25:58
like,
25:58
perfect,
25:59
right?
26:00
It's
26:00
always
26:00
popping
26:01
10am
26:01
I'm
26:02
just
26:02
sitting
26:02
on
26:02
the
26:02
bathroom.
26:02
Right?
26:04
So
26:05
you
26:05
just
26:05
fall
26:06
into
26:06
the
26:06
20
26:06
to
26:07
30%
26:07
that
26:09
are
26:09
able
26:10
to
26:10
have
26:10
a
26:11
different
26:11
type
26:11
of
26:11
orgasm,
26:12
which
26:12
is
26:12
in
26:12
those
26:13
nine
26:13
types
26:13
of
26:13
orgasms.
26:15
Okay,
26:16
So
26:16
I
26:16
feel
26:17
like
26:17
with
26:17
that
26:17
being
26:18
said,
26:19
that
26:20
that
26:20
would
26:20
mean
26:20
that
26:21
the
26:21
majority
26:21
of
26:22
our
26:22
listeners
26:22
could
26:22
be
26:23
like,
26:23
you.
26:24
Like,
26:24
what
26:25
about
26:25
me?
26:27
They
26:27
could,
26:28
but
26:29
I.
26:30
They
26:30
probably
26:30
won't.
26:31
They're
26:31
not.
26:31
That
26:31
mean
26:32
we
26:32
have
26:32
nice
26:32
listeners.
26:33
I'm
26:34
sorry,
26:34
have
26:34
you
26:34
had
26:34
an
26:34
orgasm?
26:35
Because,
26:35
like,
26:37
I
26:37
knew
26:37
that
26:38
other
26:38
people
26:38
were
26:38
having
26:39
orgasms,
26:40
and
26:40
I'm
26:40
just
26:40
sitting
26:40
here
26:40
like,
26:41
what
26:41
is
26:41
this?
26:42
Like,
26:42
I'd
26:42
be
26:43
pissed.
26:43
Like,
26:43
I
26:44
want
26:44
what
26:44
you
26:44
have.
26:46
It
26:46
is
26:46
really
26:47
uncertain
26:48
why
26:49
some
26:49
people
26:49
are
26:49
able
26:50
to
26:50
have
26:50
an
26:50
orgasm
26:51
with
26:51
kissing,
26:52
an
26:52
orgasm
26:53
with
26:53
just
26:53
nipple
26:54
stimulation,
26:54
an
26:55
orgasm
26:55
by
26:55
just
26:56
giving
26:56
oral
26:56
to
26:57
somebody.
26:57
And
26:57
you're
26:57
not
26:58
even
26:58
being
26:58
touched.
26:59
You
27:00
are
27:00
just
27:00
in
27:00
a
27:01
different
27:02
wavelength
27:03
of
27:03
sexual
27:04
energy
27:04
through
27:04
your
27:04
body.
27:05
So
27:05
maybe
27:05
you
27:06
already
27:06
have
27:06
more
27:07
sexual
27:07
energy
27:07
flowing
27:08
at
27:08
the
27:09
will
27:09
for
27:09
you
27:09
to
27:09
Grab
27:09
and
27:10
have
27:10
an
27:10
orgasm.
27:11
Also,
27:11
you
27:11
could
27:12
have
27:12
the
27:12
more
27:13
really
27:13
in
27:13
tune
27:14
feel
27:14
with
27:14
your
27:14
partner.
27:15
You
27:15
can
27:15
be
27:15
super
27:15
turned
27:16
on.
27:17
Not
27:17
every,
27:17
you
27:17
know,
27:18
as
27:18
long
27:18
as
27:18
we,
27:19
you
27:19
know,
27:20
can
27:20
feel
27:20
pleasure,
27:21
that.
27:21
That's
27:21
pretty
27:21
important.
27:22
However
27:22
you
27:22
get
27:23
there,
27:23
the
27:24
journey
27:24
is
27:24
going
27:24
to
27:24
be
27:24
different
27:25
for
27:25
everybody.
27:26
Right,
27:26
so
27:27
what
27:27
is
27:27
the
27:27
importance
27:28
of
27:28
these
27:29
blueprints?
27:30
The
27:30
importance
27:30
of
27:31
the
27:31
blueprints
27:31
is
27:31
to
27:32
tap
27:32
into
27:32
higher
27:32
pleasure.
27:33
All
27:33
right,
27:34
so
27:34
there's
27:35
pros
27:35
and
27:35
cons
27:35
of
27:36
each.
27:37
But
27:37
if
27:37
you
27:37
are,
27:37
for
27:37
example,
27:39
a
27:39
sexual
27:40
blueprint,
27:40
right.
27:41
You
27:41
love
27:41
to
27:42
just
27:42
see
27:43
sex.
27:44
You
27:44
can,
27:44
you
27:45
know,
27:45
implement
27:45
new
27:46
types
27:46
of
27:46
porn,
27:46
right.
27:47
Get
27:47
a
27:47
giant
27:48
tv,
27:48
do
27:49
it
27:49
up
27:49
right.
27:50
You
27:50
could
27:50
go
27:50
to
27:51
sex
27:51
clubs
27:51
and
27:52
watch
27:52
others.
27:53
You
27:54
could
27:55
have
27:55
your
27:55
partner
27:56
tape
27:56
it,
27:56
videotape
27:57
it.
27:57
That
27:58
way
27:58
you
27:58
can
27:58
watch
27:58
it
27:59
later.
28:00
You
28:01
could
28:01
get
28:02
into
28:02
new
28:02
positions
28:03
where
28:03
you're
28:03
able
28:03
to
28:03
view
28:04
it
28:04
better.
28:04
Maybe
28:04
get
28:05
a
28:05
mirror.
28:06
You
28:06
know,
28:06
so
28:06
there's
28:06
new
28:07
ways
28:07
to
28:07
just
28:07
like
28:07
make
28:08
it
28:08
even
28:08
better.
28:10
Right.
28:10
Essential
28:11
where
28:12
you're
28:12
adding
28:12
in
28:13
utilizing
28:13
the
28:14
five
28:14
senses.
28:14
There's
28:15
a
28:15
lot
28:15
of
28:15
new
28:16
things
28:16
you
28:16
can
28:16
feel.
28:17
There's
28:17
also
28:18
items
28:18
that
28:19
actually.
28:19
It's
28:19
an
28:19
electromagnetic
28:20
wand.
28:22
We
28:22
have
28:22
one
28:23
of
28:23
those.
28:23
Yeah.
28:24
Yes.
28:25
I
28:25
don't
28:25
like
28:26
it
28:26
personally,
28:26
but
28:27
Simon
28:27
loves
28:27
it.
28:27
And
28:27
it
28:28
goes
28:29
all
28:29
over.
28:30
Like.
28:30
What
28:31
is
28:31
it,
28:31
like
28:31
an
28:32
electro
28:32
wand?
28:32
Yep.
28:33
I
28:33
don't
28:33
know
28:33
what
28:33
that
28:34
is.
28:35
It's
28:36
it
28:36
like
28:37
it
28:37
like
28:38
electrocutes
28:38
you.
28:40
Yeah,
28:40
yeah.
28:40
Like
28:40
you
28:40
stick
28:40
your
28:41
finger
28:41
in
28:41
a
28:41
socket.
28:41
Yeah.
28:42
Like
28:42
lightly.
28:42
So
28:43
if
28:43
you
28:43
were
28:43
somebody
28:44
who
28:44
like
28:44
to
28:44
stick
28:45
your
28:45
tongue
28:45
on
28:45
the
28:46
battery,
28:46
like
28:46
the
28:47
D
28:47
battery.
28:47
Right?
28:48
A
28:48
little
28:48
square
28:48
battery.
28:50
If
28:51
you're
28:51
somebody.
28:51
Okay,
28:52
got
28:52
you.
28:52
Yeah.
28:52
You
28:53
like
28:53
to
28:53
play
28:53
that
28:53
game
28:53
where
28:53
you
28:54
put
28:54
your
28:54
finger
28:54
into
28:55
like
28:55
this
28:55
little.
28:56
Actually
28:56
have
28:57
it
28:57
somewhere
28:57
about
28:57
over
28:57
here.
28:58
You
28:58
put
28:58
your
28:58
fingers
28:59
into
28:59
these
29:00
little
29:00
electrodes
29:01
machine.
29:01
You
29:01
hit
29:01
the
29:02
button
29:02
and
29:02
it
29:02
will
29:02
go
29:02
around.
29:03
So
29:03
it'll
29:04
shock
29:04
who's
29:04
ever
29:04
with
29:04
you.
29:05
But
29:05
it
29:05
just
29:05
doesn't
29:06
want
29:06
like
29:07
nine
29:07
of
29:07
them.
29:07
Right.
29:08
And
29:09
okay.
29:09
But
29:09
when
29:10
it
29:10
does,
29:10
you.
29:11
And
29:11
sometimes
29:11
you
29:12
can
29:12
have
29:12
an
29:12
orgasm.
29:12
So
29:12
I
29:12
had
29:13
an
29:13
orgasm
29:14
while
29:14
playing
29:15
this
29:15
game
29:15
with
29:15
our
29:15
hands
29:16
stuck
29:16
in
29:16
their
29:16
little
29:17
fingers.
29:17
That
29:18
is
29:18
so
29:18
cool.
29:20
Oh,
29:20
my
29:20
God.
29:20
Different
29:21
frequency
29:21
of
29:22
turn
29:22
on.
29:22
So
29:22
there's
29:23
new
29:23
way,
29:24
new
29:24
things
29:24
to
29:24
bring
29:25
in.
29:25
Like
29:26
you
29:26
don't
29:26
have
29:27
to
29:27
go
29:27
out
29:27
and
29:27
buy
29:27
like
29:28
a
29:28
shit
29:28
ton
29:28
of
29:28
batteries
29:29
so
29:29
you
29:29
can
29:29
lick
29:29
them
29:29
all
29:30
at
29:30
the
29:30
same
29:30
time.
29:32
But
29:32
there's
29:33
ways
29:33
to
29:33
enhance
29:35
your
29:35
experience
29:35
with
29:36
each
29:36
of
29:36
these
29:37
blueprints,
29:37
which
29:37
is
29:38
so
29:38
beautiful
29:38
because
29:39
some
29:39
people
29:39
are
29:40
untouched.
29:41
Like
29:41
they've
29:41
never
29:41
had
29:41
an
29:42
energetic
29:42
orgasm
29:43
before.
29:43
They
29:43
didn't
29:43
know
29:44
what
29:44
it
29:44
was.
29:44
They
29:45
Thought
29:45
they
29:45
were
29:45
just
29:45
one.
29:46
But
29:46
realize
29:46
that
29:47
there's
29:47
a
29:47
whole
29:48
buffet
29:48
of
29:48
new
29:49
things
29:49
to
29:49
try
29:50
that
29:50
they
29:50
didn't
29:50
know
29:51
would
29:51
turn
29:51
them
29:51
on.
29:52
But
29:52
that
29:52
will
29:52
because
29:53
it
29:53
falls
29:53
under
29:53
the
29:54
different
29:54
types
29:54
of
29:54
play.
29:56
So
29:56
does
29:56
the
29:56
blueprint
29:57
come
29:57
in
29:58
when
29:58
you're
29:59
in
29:59
a
30:00
pretty
30:00
happy,
30:00
satisfied
30:01
relationship
30:02
but
30:02
you
30:02
just
30:02
want
30:02
to
30:02
try
30:03
something
30:03
new
30:03
and
30:04
take
30:04
it
30:04
to
30:04
a
30:04
next
30:04
level?
30:05
Or
30:05
is
30:05
this
30:05
like,
30:05
hey,
30:06
we're
30:06
not
30:06
enjoying
30:06
sex.
30:07
Maybe
30:07
we
30:07
should
30:07
focus
30:08
more
30:08
on
30:09
the
30:10
blueprint
30:10
styles
30:11
and
30:11
see
30:11
where
30:11
we
30:11
fall.
30:12
Ooh.
30:13
And
30:13
what
30:13
about
30:13
those
30:13
who
30:14
aren't
30:14
in
30:14
a
30:14
relationship?
30:15
Can
30:15
they
30:15
still
30:15
utilize
30:16
it?
30:16
Absolutely.
30:17
So,
30:18
for
30:18
example,
30:18
with
30:19
the
30:19
sexual.
30:19
The
30:20
need
30:20
to.
30:20
You
30:21
love
30:21
to
30:21
see
30:21
genitals.
30:22
Those
30:23
who
30:23
masturbate
30:23
in
30:23
front
30:24
of
30:24
a
30:24
mirror.
30:26
Very
30:26
fun.
30:27
Okay.
30:27
Very
30:28
fun.
30:28
Okay.
30:29
You
30:29
can,
30:29
like,
30:30
try
30:30
to
30:30
make
30:30
sure
30:30
your
30:30
neighbors
30:31
watch.
30:31
And
30:31
I
30:32
get
30:32
real
30:32
weird.
30:34
I'm
30:34
just
30:34
kidding.
30:35
I.
30:36
I
30:37
mean,
30:37
put
30:37
me
30:37
against
30:38
a
30:38
window.
30:38
A
30:38
skyscraper.
30:39
Like,
30:40
let's
30:40
go.
30:40
I
30:41
believe
30:41
that.
30:43
So
30:44
in
30:44
a
30:44
way,
30:44
it
30:45
is
30:45
there
30:45
to
30:46
enhance
30:46
a
30:46
relationship
30:47
that
30:47
you're
30:47
already
30:47
having
30:48
sex
30:48
and
30:48
that
30:48
you
30:48
may
30:49
not
30:49
be
30:49
satisfied
30:49
with.
30:50
But
30:50
it's
30:51
okay
30:51
there
30:51
to
30:52
enhance
30:52
your
30:53
relationship
30:53
by
30:53
yourself.
30:55
Especially
30:55
if,
30:56
you
30:56
know,
30:56
you're
30:56
in
30:56
a
30:56
celibacy
30:57
period
30:57
and
30:57
you're
30:58
just
30:58
trying
30:59
to
30:59
figure
30:59
out
30:59
what
30:59
really
31:00
feels
31:00
sexually
31:01
authentic
31:01
to
31:01
you
31:03
which
31:03
is
31:03
a
31:03
lifetime
31:04
journey
31:04
sometimes
31:05
too.
31:05
There's
31:05
always
31:05
more
31:05
to
31:06
learn
31:06
and
31:06
more
31:06
to
31:06
experience.
31:08
So
31:08
it
31:09
is
31:09
for
31:09
those
31:09
who
31:09
are
31:10
completely
31:11
unsatisfied
31:11
with
31:12
their
31:12
sex
31:12
lives
31:13
and
31:13
for
31:13
those
31:13
who
31:14
want
31:14
to
31:15
enhance
31:15
it.
31:15
So
31:16
you
31:16
find
31:16
out
31:16
which
31:16
blueprint
31:17
they
31:17
are.
31:18
They
31:18
try
31:18
different
31:18
things
31:19
to
31:19
figure
31:19
it
31:19
out.
31:19
And
31:20
then
31:20
you
31:20
add
31:20
onto
31:21
it.
31:21
You
31:21
layer
31:21
it
31:21
up
31:22
with
31:22
all
31:22
the
31:22
juiciness
31:23
for
31:23
those
31:24
blueprint
31:24
styles
31:25
and
31:25
they
31:25
can
31:26
kind
31:26
of,
31:26
like,
31:26
draw
31:26
down
31:26
what
31:27
they
31:27
like.
31:27
Yeah.
31:29
Yeah.
31:29
All
31:30
right.
31:30
Yeah.
31:30
Are
31:31
you
31:31
a
31:31
friends
31:31
fan?
31:33
What
31:33
do
31:33
you
31:33
mean?
31:34
Oh,
31:34
like
31:35
the
31:35
show?
31:36
Yeah,
31:36
like
31:36
Phoebe.
31:37
Phoebe's
31:37
my
31:37
favorite.
31:38
Yeah.
31:38
Yeah.
31:41
She'S
31:41
great.
31:42
So
31:42
this
31:42
is
31:43
our.
31:43
When
31:43
we
31:43
came
31:44
into
31:44
this
31:44
conversation,
31:45
I
31:45
was
31:45
cracking
31:45
up
31:45
because
31:46
one
31:46
of
31:46
the
31:46
episodes
31:47
where
31:48
Monica
31:49
is
31:49
teaching
31:49
Chandler
31:50
about
31:50
the
31:50
arachnidones.
31:51
And
31:51
then
31:51
she's
31:52
like,
31:52
seven.
31:53
Seven,
31:54
seven.
31:56
Okay,
31:57
very
31:57
well.
31:57
Yeah,
31:58
I'm
31:59
sure
31:59
you
31:59
do.
32:00
How
32:00
many
32:01
zones
32:02
are
32:02
there?
32:03
And
32:05
then
32:06
answer
32:06
that
32:06
first
32:08
erosion
32:09
of.
32:09
Zones
32:10
are
32:11
going
32:11
to
32:11
vary
32:11
from
32:12
person
32:12
to
32:12
person.
32:13
Oh,
32:13
so
32:14
not
32:14
everyone
32:14
has
32:14
the
32:14
same
32:14
amount?
32:15
No,
32:15
no.
32:16
Oh.
32:17
What
32:17
could
32:18
be
32:18
sexy
32:19
for
32:19
one
32:19
person?
32:20
Like,
32:20
okay,
32:21
you
32:21
know,
32:22
lick
32:22
my
32:23
middle
32:23
toe,
32:24
Right?
32:25
That
32:25
could
32:26
be
32:26
erogenous
32:26
zone
32:26
for
32:27
somebody.
32:27
It's
32:27
not
32:27
for
32:27
myself.
32:29
It
32:29
could
32:30
be,
32:31
you
32:31
know,
32:31
lick
32:31
my
32:32
ear.
32:32
I
32:32
will
32:33
actually
32:33
want
32:33
to
32:33
hit
32:33
somebody.
32:34
Don't
32:34
come
32:34
near
32:34
my
32:34
ears.
32:35
Don't
32:35
blow
32:35
air
32:35
in
32:36
my
32:36
ears.
32:37
But
32:37
then
32:37
some
32:37
people
32:38
will
32:38
like
32:38
to
32:38
have
32:38
their
32:39
ear
32:39
licked
32:40
and,
32:40
like,
32:41
nibbled
32:41
like
32:41
a
32:42
little
32:42
kitty.
32:43
That's
32:43
my
32:43
partner.
32:43
It's
32:44
weird,
32:44
but
32:44
I
32:44
think
32:44
it's
32:45
hilarious.
32:45
So
32:45
he's
32:46
like.
32:47
It's
32:47
wicked
32:47
cute.
32:49
Some
32:49
people
32:49
have
32:51
the
32:51
small.
32:51
The
32:52
back.
32:52
Some
32:53
people
32:53
love
32:53
like
32:53
a,
32:53
you
32:54
know,
32:54
a
32:54
nice
32:54
tongue
32:55
right
32:55
up
32:55
the
32:55
spine.
32:56
So
32:57
isn't
32:57
this
32:57
just
32:57
like
32:57
a
32:57
kink?
32:58
Like
32:59
it.
33:00
Erogenous
33:01
zones?
33:02
It
33:02
could
33:02
be
33:02
kinky.
33:03
It
33:03
could
33:03
be
33:03
based
33:03
on
33:04
kink,
33:04
too.
33:04
Like,
33:04
what
33:05
you're
33:05
into.
33:06
Absolutely.
33:07
I'm
33:08
gonna
33:08
actually
33:08
do
33:09
some
33:09
serious
33:09
research
33:10
after
33:10
this
33:10
to
33:10
see
33:11
if
33:11
there's,
33:11
like,
33:11
an
33:11
amount
33:12
that
33:13
everybody
33:13
may
33:13
have.
33:14
I'm
33:15
interesting
33:16
that.
33:17
Okay,
33:17
so
33:17
I
33:17
asked
33:18
a
33:18
question
33:18
that
33:18
we
33:19
will
33:20
later
33:20
learn
33:20
an
33:20
answer
33:21
to.
33:21
Look
33:21
at
33:21
me.
33:22
Boom.
33:22
Pretty
33:23
cool.
33:23
We
33:23
all
33:23
learning.
33:25
Yeah.
33:25
Tell
33:25
me
33:25
one
33:26
of
33:26
your
33:26
erogenous
33:26
sounds.
33:27
Would
33:27
you
33:27
like
33:27
to
33:27
share?
33:30
I.
33:30
I
33:31
mean,
33:31
I
33:31
guess.
33:31
Okay,
33:32
so
33:32
you're.
33:33
What
33:33
I
33:33
am
33:33
hearing
33:34
is
33:34
that
33:34
basically.
33:36
How
33:36
do
33:36
I
33:36
want
33:37
to
33:37
word
33:37
this?
33:38
Okay.
33:38
In
33:39
the
33:39
sexual
33:39
experiences
33:40
that
33:40
Simon
33:41
and
33:41
I
33:41
have
33:41
been
33:41
dabbling
33:41
in,
33:42
what
33:42
I'm
33:42
learning
33:43
is
33:43
that
33:43
anything
33:44
can
33:44
be
33:44
a
33:44
kink.
33:45
What
33:45
you're
33:46
describing
33:46
is
33:46
kind
33:47
of
33:47
what
33:47
I'm.
33:48
It's
33:48
kind
33:49
of
33:49
just
33:49
what
33:49
it
33:49
sounds
33:49
like
33:49
to
33:50
me.
33:50
Like.
33:51
Like
33:51
one
33:52
person
33:52
that
33:53
we
33:53
talk
33:53
to
33:54
has
33:55
this
33:56
kink
33:57
is
33:57
what
33:57
I.
33:58
I
33:58
feel
33:58
like
33:58
it's
33:58
called
33:59
where
34:00
it's
34:00
called,
34:01
like,
34:01
a
34:01
nursing
34:01
kink.
34:02
But
34:02
that
34:02
sounds
34:03
like
34:03
that
34:03
just
34:03
means
34:04
they
34:04
might
34:04
have,
34:04
like,
34:04
an
34:05
oral
34:06
fixation.
34:07
Fixation,
34:08
which
34:08
would
34:08
be
34:08
an
34:09
irregnance.
34:11
How
34:12
do
34:12
you
34:12
say
34:12
it?
34:12
Erogenous
34:13
zone.
34:14
Yeah.
34:15
Is
34:15
it.
34:16
That
34:16
would
34:16
definitely
34:17
fall
34:17
into
34:18
kinky.
34:19
Yeah.
34:20
Erogenous
34:22
zones
34:23
are
34:23
usually,
34:24
from
34:24
what
34:25
I
34:25
know.
34:25
So
34:26
I
34:26
was
34:26
usually
34:26
like,
34:26
okay,
34:27
I
34:27
love
34:27
it
34:27
when
34:27
they
34:28
kiss
34:29
my
34:29
neck.
34:29
Right.
34:30
Or
34:30
kiss
34:30
that
34:32
around
34:32
my
34:32
collarbone
34:33
or
34:34
the,
34:34
you
34:35
know,
34:35
nipples.
34:36
Could
34:36
be
34:36
one.
34:36
The
34:37
inner
34:37
arm.
34:38
Could
34:38
be
34:38
one.
34:39
The
34:39
back
34:39
of
34:39
the
34:40
leg.
34:40
The
34:40
inner
34:40
thighs
34:41
right
34:42
above
34:42
the
34:42
waistline
34:43
of
34:43
your
34:43
pants.
34:44
Everybody
34:44
has
34:45
different
34:45
zones,
34:46
but
34:46
when
34:46
we
34:47
talk
34:47
about
34:47
oral,
34:48
that
34:48
is
34:49
a
34:49
kink.
34:49
That
34:50
is.
34:50
Gotcha.
34:51
What?
34:51
That
34:51
is
34:51
sexually
34:52
something
34:52
that
34:53
you
34:53
like
34:53
in
34:53
your.
34:54
On
34:54
your
34:54
sex
34:54
menu.
34:55
And
34:55
oral,
34:56
you
34:56
know,
34:56
is
34:57
probably
34:57
a
34:57
sure
34:57
way
34:57
to
34:57
turn
34:58
you
34:58
on.
34:58
So
34:58
they
34:58
go
34:58
for
34:59
that
34:59
so
34:59
that
34:59
maybe,
35:00
you
35:01
know,
35:01
that
35:01
they.
35:01
Okay.
35:02
I
35:02
like.
35:03
Now
35:04
we're
35:04
learning
35:05
all
35:05
the
35:05
things,
35:07
and
35:07
I
35:07
love
35:07
it.
35:10
One.
35:10
Okay.
35:11
So
35:11
I
35:11
guess
35:12
that
35:12
makes
35:13
me
35:13
think
35:13
of
35:14
body
35:14
mapping.
35:15
And
35:15
so
35:15
maybe
35:15
that's
35:16
just
35:16
something
35:16
that
35:16
we
35:16
should
35:17
all
35:17
do
35:17
with
35:17
our
35:17
partner
35:17
or
35:18
ourself
35:18
is
35:18
to
35:19
learn
35:19
those
35:19
zones
35:20
by
35:20
a
35:20
body
35:20
mapping.
35:22
I
35:22
actually
35:22
just
35:23
Released
35:24
a
35:24
podcast
35:24
episode
35:25
on
35:25
my
35:26
podcast,
35:26
Desire
35:27
Dialogues
35:27
about
35:27
pleasure
35:28
mapping
35:29
yesterday.
35:30
So
35:30
look
35:30
how
35:30
that
35:31
worked.
35:31
That
35:32
worked
35:32
out.
35:32
Wow.
35:33
All
35:34
right,
35:34
I'll
35:34
link
35:34
that.
35:35
Perfect.
35:35
We
35:36
will
35:36
link
35:36
that.
35:36
It's
35:37
really.
35:37
Yeah,
35:38
yeah.
35:38
To
35:38
know
35:39
what
35:39
you
35:40
and
35:40
what
35:40
your
35:40
partner,
35:41
you
35:41
know,
35:42
like
35:42
right
35:42
now.
35:42
Because
35:43
it
35:43
could
35:43
change
35:43
from
35:43
seven
35:44
years
35:44
ago.
35:45
I
35:45
think
35:45
our
35:46
sexual
35:46
tastes
35:47
change
35:47
with
35:47
every
35:48
seven
35:48
years.
35:48
Just
35:49
like
35:49
your
35:49
taste
35:49
buds
35:49
change.
35:51
Yeah,
35:51
I'd
35:51
agree
35:52
with
35:52
that.
35:53
Does
35:53
so
35:54
body
35:54
mapping.
35:55
Like,
35:55
is
35:55
there
35:55
like
35:55
any
35:56
kind
35:56
of
35:56
like
35:56
a.
35:57
A
35:57
handbook
35:58
to
35:58
it?
35:58
I
35:59
think
35:59
that's
35:59
what
35:59
she's
36:00
released.
36:00
Right.
36:01
It's
36:02
a
36:02
walked
36:02
through,
36:03
talked
36:03
through
36:04
guide.
36:04
And
36:05
I
36:05
can
36:05
absolutely
36:07
make
36:07
a
36:07
workbook
36:07
that
36:08
we
36:08
can
36:08
link
36:08
right
36:08
to
36:09
it
36:09
just
36:09
for
36:09
your
36:09
list.
36:10
Very
36:11
cool.
36:11
Do
36:12
you
36:12
talk
36:12
in
36:12
a
36:12
seductive
36:13
voice
36:13
as
36:13
you're
36:14
like,
36:14
walking
36:14
through
36:14
the
36:14
map?
36:15
I
36:15
talk
36:15
just
36:15
like
36:15
this.
36:16
So,
36:17
yeah,
36:17
she's
36:18
seductive.
36:18
She
36:18
is
36:19
seductive.
36:19
I
36:19
don't
36:19
mean.
36:20
Yeah,
36:21
I
36:21
know.
36:21
I'm
36:21
just
36:22
teasing
36:22
you.
36:22
20
36:22
years
36:23
of
36:23
smoking.
36:23
Newport.
36:24
So
36:24
this
36:25
is
36:25
where
36:25
we
36:25
sound
36:26
now,
36:26
and
36:26
it
36:27
works
36:27
for
36:27
me.
36:28
I
36:28
think
36:29
the
36:30
smoking
36:30
voice
36:30
is
36:31
the
36:31
end
36:31
game.
36:32
Hey,
36:32
if
36:32
you
36:32
can
36:32
get
36:32
something
36:33
from
36:33
it,
36:33
do
36:33
it.
36:36
One
36:36
of
36:36
the
36:36
things
36:37
that
36:37
you
36:37
kind
36:37
of
36:37
blew
36:37
my
36:38
mind
36:38
about,
36:38
because
36:39
I
36:39
just
36:39
can't.
36:41
I
36:41
can't
36:42
figure
36:42
it
36:42
out
36:43
on
36:43
my
36:43
own.
36:43
So
36:44
I
36:44
need
36:44
you
36:44
to
36:44
help
36:45
help
36:45
us
36:45
out.
36:47
Nine
36:47
types
36:47
of
36:48
orgasms.
36:48
Yes.
36:49
Like,
36:49
what
36:50
is
36:50
that?
36:51
Who?
36:52
I
36:52
can
36:52
think
36:52
of
36:52
like,
36:52
maybe
36:53
three.
36:53
Okay.
36:53
Which
36:54
ones
36:54
do
36:54
you
36:54
have
36:54
in
36:54
mind?
36:56
Okay,
36:56
well,
36:56
obviously
36:57
there's
36:57
the
36:57
clitorial.
36:59
There's
37:00
the
37:00
G.
37:04
And
37:05
I
37:05
mean,
37:05
I
37:05
know
37:05
people
37:05
can
37:06
like
37:06
nipple.
37:07
Yeah,
37:07
I
37:08
can't,
37:08
but
37:09
so
37:09
then
37:09
I
37:09
guess
37:09
that's
37:10
really
37:10
the
37:10
only
37:10
thing
37:10
I
37:10
can
37:10
kind
37:11
of
37:11
think
37:11
of.
37:12
I
37:12
don't
37:12
really
37:12
know.
37:13
All
37:13
right,
37:14
so
37:14
you
37:14
have
37:14
three
37:14
of
37:15
nine.
37:15
I
37:15
just
37:15
checked
37:16
them
37:16
off.
37:17
Let's
37:17
go
37:18
through
37:18
them.
37:18
All
37:19
right.
37:19
Okay.
37:20
A
37:20
nipple
37:20
orgasm
37:21
is
37:22
not
37:22
going
37:22
to
37:23
be
37:24
dedicated
37:25
to
37:25
one
37:25
gender
37:25
or
37:25
the
37:26
other.
37:26
Each
37:27
nipple
37:27
and
37:27
areola
37:28
just
37:28
one
37:29
has
37:29
800
37:30
nerve
37:31
endings.
37:31
No
37:31
matter.
37:32
Oh,
37:32
wow.
37:33
Right?
37:33
I
37:33
don't
37:33
think
37:34
I
37:34
have
37:34
any.
37:34
Okay.
37:35
Is
37:35
that
37:35
normal?
37:36
No,
37:36
it
37:36
is,
37:36
actually
37:37
for
37:37
those
37:38
who
37:38
have
37:38
had
37:38
nipple
37:39
piercing
37:40
or
37:40
who
37:40
have
37:41
breastfed,
37:42
sometimes
37:42
the
37:42
sensation
37:43
can
37:43
be
37:43
decreased
37:44
after
37:44
that.
37:45
Ah,
37:46
okay.
37:46
So
37:46
you're
37:47
okay.
37:47
It's
37:47
okay.
37:48
It's
37:48
normal.
37:49
It
37:49
definitely
37:50
happens.
37:50
Right.
37:52
And
37:52
then
37:52
we
37:52
have
37:53
the
37:53
clitoral
37:54
orgasm.
37:54
Right.
37:55
70
37:55
to
37:55
80%
37:56
of
37:56
vulva
37:56
owners
37:57
require
37:57
direct
37:57
stimulation.
37:58
So
37:59
definitely
37:59
bring
37:59
in
38:00
a
38:00
handy
38:00
dandy
38:01
little
38:01
vibe
38:02
to
38:02
make
38:02
this
38:03
year.
38:03
So
38:03
you
38:03
have
38:04
more
38:04
hands
38:04
for
38:04
other
38:05
things.
38:06
Right?
38:07
Yeah.
38:07
I'm
38:08
so
38:08
glad
38:08
that
38:08
you
38:08
brought
38:08
that
38:09
up,
38:09
because
38:09
that's
38:09
one
38:10
of
38:10
the
38:10
toys
38:10
that
38:10
you
38:10
see,
38:11
like,
38:11
in
38:11
all
38:11
the
38:11
stores
38:12
and
38:12
stuff.
38:12
And
38:12
I
38:12
always
38:13
stare
38:13
at
38:13
it.
38:13
I'm
38:13
like,
38:13
what
38:13
the
38:14
does
38:14
that
38:14
do?
38:14
Does
38:14
that
38:15
go
38:15
inside
38:15
of
38:15
you?
38:15
Like,
38:15
what
38:16
are
38:16
you
38:16
supposed
38:16
to
38:16
do
38:16
with
38:16
it?
38:16
Isaac
38:17
do?
38:17
No.
38:17
I
38:17
love
38:17
great
38:18
questions.
38:19
This
38:19
is
38:19
going
38:19
to
38:19
be
38:19
just
38:20
a
38:20
little
38:20
vibe
38:21
that
38:22
will
38:22
have
38:23
11
38:24
different
38:25
functions,
38:26
which
38:26
is
38:26
going
38:26
to
38:27
be
38:27
like,
38:27
low,
38:27
medium,
38:28
high.
38:28
Holy.
38:29
Here,
38:29
kitty,
38:30
kitty,
38:30
kitty,
38:30
kitty.
38:31
We're
38:31
here.
38:31
Just
38:31
kidding.
38:35
And
38:36
that's
38:36
like
38:36
Michael
38:36
Buble,
38:37
all
38:37
different
38:38
one.
38:38
But
38:39
this
38:39
is
38:40
easily.
38:40
You
38:40
know,
38:41
you
38:41
can
38:41
utilize
38:42
this
38:42
in
38:42
doggy
38:43
style.
38:43
You
38:43
can
38:43
utilize
38:44
this
38:44
missionary.
38:45
You
38:46
can
38:46
utilize
38:46
this,
38:46
actually.
38:47
You
38:47
ready
38:47
to
38:47
have
38:48
your
38:48
mind
38:48
blown?
38:50
Anything
38:50
that
38:50
goes
38:51
underneath
38:51
your
38:51
chin,
38:52
on
38:52
your
38:53
cheek
38:54
or
38:54
onto
38:54
your
38:54
throat.
38:55
Let
38:55
me
38:55
turn
38:55
it
38:56
on
38:56
so
38:56
you
38:56
can
38:56
hear
38:56
my
38:56
voice
38:57
change.
38:57
Okay.
38:58
Onto
38:58
your
38:58
throat.
38:59
Now
38:59
turns
39:00
your
39:00
mouth
39:00
into
39:00
a
39:01
human
39:01
vibrator.
39:02
All
39:02
right,
39:06
so
39:06
now
39:06
my
39:06
tongue
39:06
vibrator.
39:07
That's
39:07
pretty
39:07
cool.
39:08
When
39:08
it's
39:08
under
39:08
my
39:08
chin,
39:09
my
39:09
tongue
39:09
can
39:09
vibrate.
39:11
And
39:11
if
39:11
you
39:11
want
39:12
your
39:12
partner
39:12
to,
39:12
like,
39:12
absolutely.
39:13
Just
39:13
pound
39:13
your
39:13
cheek,
39:14
for
39:14
some
39:14
reason,
39:14
my
39:14
partner
39:15
looks
39:15
like
39:15
put
39:15
his
39:16
dick
39:16
between
39:16
my
39:16
teeth
39:17
and
39:17
my
39:17
cheek,
39:17
and
39:17
I
39:17
have
39:17
no
39:18
idea
39:18
why.
39:18
I'm
39:18
like,
39:18
dude,
39:18
you
39:18
don't
39:19
even
39:19
have
39:19
much
39:19
room.
39:19
So
39:19
I
39:19
shipped
39:20
this
39:20
here,
39:20
and
39:20
you're
39:20
like,
39:21
oh,
39:21
I'm
39:21
done.
39:21
I'm
39:22
like,
39:22
nice,
39:23
Nice.
39:27
So
39:28
this
39:28
is
39:28
called
39:28
come
39:28
a
39:28
little
39:29
closer.
39:29
And
39:30
you
39:30
can
39:30
utilize
39:31
any
39:31
type
39:32
of
39:32
play.
39:32
You
39:33
can
39:33
enhance
39:33
oral
39:34
for
39:34
whatever
39:35
sex
39:35
is
39:35
going
39:35
on.
39:36
You
39:36
can
39:36
go
39:36
ahead
39:36
and
39:36
put
39:36
this
39:37
right
39:37
behind
39:38
the
39:38
testicles
39:39
and
39:39
the
39:39
anus.
39:39
It's.
39:40
I
39:40
call
39:40
it
39:40
the
39:41
nacho.
39:41
So
39:41
it's
39:41
not
39:41
your
39:42
balls,
39:42
not
39:42
your
39:42
asshole.
39:42
Right.
39:43
The
39:44
ABC
39:44
asphalt
39:45
connector.
39:45
And
39:45
you
39:46
can
39:46
stimulate
39:46
the
39:46
prostate
39:47
gland
39:47
externally
39:48
on
39:48
that
39:48
stretch
39:48
of
39:48
skin
39:49
called
39:49
the
39:49
perineum.
39:50
So
39:50
this
39:50
isn't
39:51
just
39:51
a
39:51
female.
39:52
Oh,
39:52
no.
39:52
Vibration
39:53
feels
39:53
good
39:53
for
39:54
everybody.
39:54
Right?
39:55
So
39:56
just,
39:56
like,
39:56
the
39:56
nipples
39:57
have
39:57
the
39:57
same
39:57
amount.
39:57
You
39:58
can
39:58
absolutely
39:59
maybe
39:59
bring
39:59
in
40:00
a
40:00
vibrator
40:00
to
40:01
see
40:01
if
40:01
you
40:01
can
40:01
get
40:01
some
40:01
more
40:02
stimulation
40:02
to
40:02
the
40:02
nipple.
40:04
Love
40:04
it.
40:05
Okay,
40:06
clitoris
40:07
is
40:08
two.
40:08
You're
40:09
going
40:09
to
40:09
have
40:10
a
40:11
G
40:11
area,
40:11
G
40:12
spot
40:12
area
40:12
like
40:12
we
40:13
spoke
40:13
about.
40:13
Now,
40:14
the
40:14
G
40:14
spot
40:14
area
40:15
is
40:15
about
40:17
1
40:17
to
40:18
3
40:18
inches
40:19
inside
40:19
on
40:19
the
40:20
front
40:20
anterior,
40:21
which
40:21
is
40:21
the
40:21
front
40:21
wall.
40:22
Right
40:22
on
40:22
the
40:23
other
40:23
side
40:23
of
40:23
the
40:23
clitoris.
40:23
Actually,
40:24
it's
40:25
on
40:25
the
40:25
front
40:25
wall
40:25
of
40:25
the
40:26
vagina.
40:26
All
40:26
right.
40:27
The
40:27
way
40:27
to
40:27
activate
40:28
this
40:28
is
40:28
with
40:29
a
40:29
toy
40:29
that
40:30
actually
40:30
will
40:30
have
40:30
the
40:31
curve
40:31
in
40:31
it
40:31
already.
40:32
Okay.
40:33
A
40:33
lot
40:33
of
40:33
the
40:33
internal
40:34
toys,
40:34
you're
40:34
going
40:35
to
40:35
have
40:35
this
40:36
curve
40:36
because
40:36
it's
40:36
more
40:37
of
40:37
like
40:37
a,
40:37
you
40:37
know,
40:37
like,
40:38
pirate
40:38
hook
40:38
that.
40:39
Right.
40:40
So
40:40
a
40:40
lot
40:40
of
40:41
times
40:41
Penetration
40:41
doesn't
40:42
get
40:42
that
40:42
unless
40:43
you
40:43
have
40:43
certain
40:44
positions.
40:44
I
40:44
have
40:45
a
40:45
position
40:45
playbook
40:45
episode
40:46
as
40:46
well
40:46
too,
40:47
Bridges.
40:47
Oh,
40:48
fine.
40:49
But
40:49
it's
40:49
really
40:49
about
40:49
those
40:50
fingers,
40:50
like
40:50
the
40:50
come
40:51
hither
40:51
motion.
40:52
So
40:52
for
40:52
anybody
40:53
who
40:53
has
40:53
not
40:53
experienced
40:54
the
40:54
G
40:54
spot
40:54
orgasm,
40:55
you
40:55
are
40:56
not
40:56
broken.
40:56
Please
40:57
don't
40:57
do
40:57
that.
40:58
The
40:58
thing
40:58
is,
40:58
the
40:59
G
40:59
spot
40:59
actually
41:00
needs
41:00
about
41:01
20
41:01
to
41:01
30
41:02
minutes
41:02
to
41:02
actually
41:02
have
41:03
the
41:03
blood
41:03
rush
41:04
to
41:04
this
41:04
area
41:05
for
41:06
it
41:06
to
41:06
be
41:06
enlarged.
41:07
So
41:07
it's
41:07
like,
41:07
it
41:07
gets
41:08
bigger.
41:08
It's
41:08
like,
41:08
bitch,
41:08
don't
41:09
miss
41:09
me.
41:09
Right?
41:10
But
41:10
it
41:10
also
41:11
is
41:11
gonna
41:12
quick
41:12
little
41:12
trick
41:13
that
41:13
you
41:13
can
41:13
figure
41:14
out
41:14
what
41:14
it
41:14
feels
41:14
like.
41:15
It
41:15
may
41:15
feel
41:16
like
41:16
the
41:16
top
41:16
of
41:16
your
41:16
mouth
41:17
and
41:17
it
41:17
has
41:17
a
41:17
bunch
41:17
of
41:18
ridges
41:19
and
41:19
the
41:19
rest
41:19
of
41:20
the
41:20
vaginal
41:20
tissue
41:20
is
41:21
gonna
41:21
feel
41:21
like
41:21
the
41:21
inside
41:21
of
41:21
your
41:21
cheek.
41:23
All
41:23
right?
41:23
So
41:23
it's
41:24
gonna
41:24
feel
41:24
like
41:24
the
41:24
external
41:25
piece
41:25
of
41:25
like
41:25
a
41:25
walnut.
41:26
Put
41:26
pressure
41:27
on
41:27
that
41:27
bad
41:27
boy.
41:28
Okay.
41:29
Back
41:29
and
41:29
forth
41:29
really
41:30
fast
41:30
or
41:30
in
41:30
and
41:30
out
41:31
really
41:31
fast.
41:31
Okay.
41:32
Like
41:32
a
41:32
really
41:32
fast
41:32
come
41:33
hither.
41:33
And
41:34
a
41:34
G
41:34
spot
41:35
area
41:35
orgasm
41:36
can
41:37
sometimes
41:37
feel
41:37
like
41:37
an
41:38
orgasm.
41:38
And
41:38
it
41:39
can
41:39
sometimes
41:39
feel
41:39
like
41:40
just
41:40
a
41:40
relief.
41:41
Okay.
41:42
And
41:42
it
41:42
can
41:43
and
41:43
cannot
41:43
be
41:45
paired
41:45
with
41:46
squirting,
41:47
AKA
41:47
female
41:48
ejaculation,
41:49
which
41:49
is
41:50
where
41:50
those
41:50
amazing
41:51
absorbent
41:52
blankets
41:53
come
41:53
into
41:53
play.
41:53
We
41:54
sell
41:54
them.
41:54
They're
41:55
called
41:55
a
41:55
sex
41:55
you
41:55
throw
41:56
blanket.
41:56
Very
41:56
fun.
41:57
Beautiful.
41:57
I'll
41:58
never
41:58
laugh
41:58
out
41:59
because
41:59
we
41:59
keep
41:59
going
41:59
through
42:00
these
42:00
damn
42:00
sheets.
42:00
Oh,
42:01
what
42:01
is
42:01
that?
42:02
It
42:02
is
42:02
an
42:02
absorbent
42:03
plush
42:04
throw
42:05
blanket.
42:06
Okay.
42:07
Ours.
42:07
Mine
42:07
has
42:08
lasted
42:08
me
42:08
five
42:08
years.
42:09
It
42:09
is
42:09
machine
42:10
washable.
42:10
They
42:10
say
42:11
not
42:11
to
42:11
dry
42:11
it,
42:11
but
42:12
I
42:12
do
42:12
anyways
42:13
because
42:13
I'm
42:13
like
42:13
a
42:13
broken
42:14
sprinkler
42:14
system.
42:14
Right.
42:15
And
42:15
if
42:15
you're
42:16
worried
42:16
about
42:16
that,
42:17
you
42:17
may
42:17
get
42:18
the.
42:18
Oh,
42:18
I
42:18
feel
42:19
like
42:19
I
42:19
gotta
42:19
pee.
42:20
What
42:20
happens
42:20
is
42:20
you
42:21
go
42:21
to
42:21
the
42:21
bathroom,
42:21
you
42:21
go
42:21
to
42:22
try
42:22
to
42:22
pee,
42:22
and
42:22
nothing's
42:22
happening.
42:23
You
42:23
just
42:23
chipped
42:23
yourself
42:23
out.
42:24
Of
42:24
a
42:24
G
42:24
spot
42:24
orgasm,
42:25
it's
42:26
really
42:26
mind
42:26
over
42:27
matter.
42:27
Once
42:27
you
42:28
have
42:28
your
42:28
first,
42:29
it's
42:29
going
42:29
to
42:30
be
42:30
so
42:30
much
42:30
easier.
42:31
It
42:31
doesn't
42:31
stop.
42:32
It
42:32
doesn't
42:32
stop.
42:32
Yeah.
42:33
The
42:33
neural
42:33
pathways
42:34
know
42:34
that
42:34
it's
42:35
possible
42:35
and
42:35
you
42:35
know
42:35
exactly
42:36
what
42:36
to
42:36
do
42:36
to
42:36
get
42:36
there.
42:37
And
42:38
with
42:38
the
42:38
blanket,
42:39
you
42:39
have
42:39
that
42:40
worry
42:40
gone
42:41
about,
42:41
oh,
42:41
my
42:41
gosh,
42:42
I
42:42
have
42:42
to
42:42
change
42:42
the
42:42
sheets.
42:42
I
42:42
don't
42:43
want
42:43
to
42:43
make
42:43
a
42:43
mess.
42:43
Right.
42:44
I
42:44
don't
42:44
want
42:44
to
42:44
sleep
42:44
in
42:44
this.
42:46
The
42:46
mattress
42:47
is
42:47
ruined.
42:47
Yeah.
42:48
I
42:48
usually
42:49
will
42:49
lay
42:50
down
42:50
a
42:50
towel
42:50
or
42:50
something.
42:51
Yeah.
42:51
Because
42:52
I
42:52
don't
42:52
want
42:52
to.
42:53
I
42:53
want
42:53
to
42:54
go
42:54
to
42:54
bed
42:54
after
42:54
when
42:55
I'm
42:55
done.
42:56
Absolutely.
42:57
And
42:58
the
42:58
thing
42:58
clean,
42:58
then
42:58
dirty.
42:59
And
42:59
if
42:59
you've
42:59
Been
42:59
going
43:00
through
43:00
them
43:01
fast.
43:01
Let's
43:01
just.
43:02
We'll
43:02
talk
43:02
about
43:02
after,
43:03
about
43:03
the
43:03
quality.
43:03
And
43:04
I
43:04
can
43:04
send
43:04
you
43:04
a
43:04
link
43:05
and
43:05
give
43:05
you
43:05
my
43:05
discount.
43:06
We'll
43:06
get
43:06
you
43:06
one
43:06
that
43:06
you
43:07
feel
43:07
really
43:07
good
43:07
about.
43:08
Never
43:08
go.
43:09
We're
43:09
going
43:09
to
43:09
be
43:09
bff.
43:10
I
43:10
got
43:10
you.
43:11
I
43:11
got
43:11
you.
43:12
Like,
43:12
let's
43:12
make
43:12
life
43:13
so
43:13
much
43:13
more
43:13
comfortable.
43:14
Life
43:14
and
43:14
sex
43:15
is
43:15
so
43:15
messy.
43:16
Let's
43:16
have
43:17
things
43:17
to
43:17
make
43:17
it
43:18
even
43:18
more
43:18
enjoyable.
43:18
You
43:19
don't
43:19
have
43:19
to
43:19
worry
43:19
about
43:19
one
43:19
more
43:20
thing.
43:20
Right?
43:22
All
43:22
right.
43:22
Awesome.
43:23
There's
43:23
your
43:23
juice
43:23
bar.
43:23
So
43:24
we
43:24
good?
43:24
All
43:24
right.
43:25
Okay.
43:25
Then
43:25
we
43:26
have
43:26
a.
43:28
A
43:28
vaginal
43:28
orgasm,
43:29
which
43:30
is
43:30
actually
43:30
the
43:30
first
43:31
third
43:32
of
43:32
the
43:32
vagina.
43:33
Okay.
43:34
If
43:34
you've
43:34
ever
43:35
had
43:35
sex
43:35
with
43:35
a
43:36
penis
43:36
owner
43:36
and
43:36
they
43:36
like
43:37
to
43:37
do
43:37
this
43:37
weird
43:37
helicopter
43:38
move.
43:38
I
43:38
don't
43:39
know,
43:39
I'm
43:39
like,
43:39
where
43:39
are
43:39
we
43:39
going?
43:40
Can
43:41
you
43:41
just,
43:41
like,
43:41
hover
43:41
right
43:42
there?
43:42
Actually,
43:42
this
43:42
is
43:43
really
43:43
cool.
43:44
The
43:44
first
43:44
third
43:44
of
43:44
the
43:45
vagina
43:45
is
43:45
covered
43:45
in
43:45
the
43:45
most
43:46
nerve
43:46
ending.
43:46
All
43:47
right.
43:48
So
43:48
the.
43:48
Also,
43:49
that's
43:49
the
43:49
fun
43:49
thing
43:50
too,
43:50
with
43:50
the
43:50
clitoris.
43:51
Think
43:51
of
43:51
the
43:52
clitoris
43:52
like
43:52
a
43:52
wishbone,
43:53
right?
43:53
You
43:53
have
43:53
the
43:54
critters
43:54
here.
43:54
You
43:54
like
43:54
a
43:55
little.
43:55
What
43:55
you
43:55
can
43:56
see
43:56
outside.
43:56
Like
43:57
the
43:57
little
43:57
pee.
43:57
Yeah.
43:58
Sometimes
43:58
it's
43:58
like
43:59
a
43:59
green
43:59
pea
44:00
size.
44:00
Sometimes
44:00
it's
44:01
bigger.
44:02
And
44:02
the
44:03
clitoris
44:03
runs
44:03
down
44:03
both
44:04
sides
44:04
on
44:04
the
44:04
inside.
44:05
Okay.
44:06
Okay.
44:06
You
44:07
don't
44:07
see
44:07
it.
44:07
So
44:08
it's
44:08
running
44:08
down
44:08
the
44:09
vaginal
44:09
lips.
44:10
All
44:10
right.
44:10
And
44:11
it's
44:11
running
44:11
down
44:11
the
44:11
inside
44:12
of
44:12
the
44:12
legs.
44:12
That's
44:13
when
44:13
you
44:13
have
44:13
a
44:13
clitoral
44:14
orgasm.
44:14
Sometimes
44:14
your
44:15
leg
44:15
will
44:15
twitch
44:15
a
44:15
little
44:15
bit.
44:16
Like
44:17
a
44:17
dog.
44:17
They
44:17
donated
44:18
it.
44:18
Right.
44:19
So
44:19
the
44:19
clitoris
44:20
wraps
44:20
around
44:20
both
44:21
sides
44:21
of
44:21
the
44:21
vaginal
44:21
canal.
44:23
Okay,
44:24
I
44:24
didn't
44:24
realize
44:25
that.
44:25
So
44:26
that's
44:26
like
44:26
when,
44:26
like
44:27
they're
44:27
just
44:27
like
44:27
kind
44:27
of
44:27
slapping
44:28
you
44:28
with
44:28
it.
44:28
And
44:29
they're
44:29
like.
44:29
That's
44:30
like
44:30
what
44:30
that
44:30
is.
44:30
It
44:31
can
44:31
be
44:31
a
44:31
slap
44:31
because
44:31
you
44:31
got
44:32
the
44:32
clitoris
44:32
on
44:32
the
44:32
vulva,
44:33
which
44:33
is
44:33
your
44:33
external
44:34
lips
44:34
and
44:34
stuff.
44:34
Right.
44:37
And
44:37
then
44:38
just
44:38
the
44:38
first,
44:38
like,
44:39
just
44:39
the
44:39
tip,
44:39
right?
44:40
Yeah,
44:40
that's
44:40
the
44:41
part.
44:42
Yeah,
44:42
it
44:42
hits
44:42
the
44:43
sides
44:43
of
44:43
the
44:43
clitoris.
44:43
The
44:44
clitoris
44:44
lick.
44:44
That's
44:44
where
44:45
I
44:45
was
44:45
thinking,
44:45
okay,
44:46
I'm
44:46
excited.
44:47
So
44:47
this
44:47
means
44:47
I'm
44:47
checking
44:47
all
44:48
the
44:48
boxes
44:48
so
44:48
far.
44:48
Mine
44:49
is
44:49
nipple.
44:50
Yeah,
44:50
you
44:50
are.
44:50
Excuse
44:51
the
44:51
language.
44:51
Sorry.
44:52
No,
44:53
I
44:53
like
44:53
it.
44:53
All
44:54
right.
44:54
Someone
44:54
is
44:54
as
44:54
dirty
44:55
as
44:55
me.
44:55
We
44:55
got
44:56
this.
44:56
We
44:56
got
44:56
this.
44:57
All
44:57
right,
44:57
so
44:57
we
44:57
covered
44:58
you
44:58
thought.
44:58
All
44:59
right,
44:59
now,
44:59
oral
45:00
orgasm.
45:01
All
45:01
right.
45:02
This
45:02
means
45:02
you
45:02
can
45:03
have
45:03
an
45:04
orgasm
45:04
just
45:05
from
45:05
someone
45:05
performing
45:06
oral
45:06
or
45:07
have
45:07
an
45:07
orgasm
45:08
just
45:08
from
45:08
performing
45:09
oral.
45:09
So,
45:10
like
45:10
you
45:11
said
45:11
before.
45:12
Okay,
45:13
got
45:14
you.
45:14
Okay.
45:16
Keep
45:16
it
45:16
ongoing.
45:17
Now
45:17
let's
45:17
talk
45:18
about
45:18
cervical.
45:20
So
45:20
cervical,
45:21
I
45:22
know
45:22
when
45:22
you
45:22
think
45:22
of
45:22
pap
45:23
smears
45:23
and
45:23
stuff,
45:23
right?
45:24
Yeah.
45:25
So
45:25
the
45:26
cervix
45:26
is
45:27
most,
45:29
most
45:29
easily
45:31
found
45:32
obviously
45:33
deeper
45:33
in.
45:34
Right.
45:35
But
45:35
the
45:36
cervical
45:36
orgasm
45:37
was
45:37
more
45:37
easily
45:38
attained
45:38
after
45:39
you
45:39
already
45:39
have
45:40
a
45:40
clitoral
45:40
orgasm
45:42
or
45:42
a
45:42
G
45:42
spot
45:42
area
45:43
orgasm
45:43
or
45:43
a
45:44
vaginal
45:44
orgasm
45:45
because
45:45
more
45:46
blood
45:46
rush
45:47
down
45:47
to
45:47
that
45:47
area.
45:48
Kind
45:49
of
45:49
need
45:49
to
45:49
prime
45:49
the
45:49
pump.
45:50
Yeah,
45:50
you
45:50
prime
45:51
up.
45:51
You
45:51
prime
45:52
up.
45:52
So
45:53
cervical
45:53
orgasm
45:54
is
45:54
absolutely
45:55
one
45:55
of
45:55
those.
45:56
Okay.
45:57
And
45:58
then
45:59
run
45:59
away
46:00
anal.
46:01
All
46:01
right.
46:02
My
46:02
listeners
46:02
whose
46:03
booty
46:03
hole
46:03
just
46:03
clenched
46:04
up,
46:04
you're
46:04
like,
46:04
oh
46:04
my
46:05
gosh.
46:05
No,
46:07
here's
46:07
the
46:07
deal,
46:08
friend.
46:09
14,000
46:10
nerve
46:10
endings
46:10
in
46:10
the
46:10
anus.
46:11
Okay?
46:12
Wow.
46:13
And
46:13
this
46:13
is
46:13
not
46:14
something
46:14
that
46:15
you're
46:15
like,
46:15
okay,
46:16
no
46:16
prep,
46:17
get
46:17
it
46:17
in,
46:18
let's
46:18
go.
46:18
Like,
46:19
woo.
46:19
You
46:19
know
46:19
it
46:20
doesn't
46:20
work
46:20
that
46:20
way,
46:21
Right?
46:21
Right.
46:25
That's
46:25
a
46:25
nice
46:26
ass
46:26
right
46:26
there.
46:28
So
46:28
little
46:29
by
46:29
little,
46:29
right?
46:30
This
46:30
is
46:30
an
46:31
area
46:31
that
46:32
wants
46:32
to
46:32
be
46:32
cheesed.
46:33
Anybody
46:34
heard
46:34
of
46:34
rimming?
46:36
Yeah.
46:36
Okay.
46:37
So
46:38
an
46:38
anal
46:38
orgasm
46:39
can
46:39
be
46:39
achieved
46:40
from
46:40
rimming.
46:41
Just
46:41
rimming.
46:42
Definitely
46:42
get
46:42
a,
46:43
like
46:43
a
46:43
nice
46:43
tongue
46:44
with
46:44
some
46:44
flavor
46:45
lube
46:45
or
46:45
a
46:46
vibrating
46:46
play.
46:47
Okay.
46:47
And
46:48
then
46:48
once
46:49
it
46:49
will
46:49
actually
46:50
wing.
46:50
That's
46:51
not
46:51
a
46:51
myth.
46:51
It
46:51
will
46:51
actually
46:52
wink
46:52
when
46:52
it's
46:52
ready.
46:53
Because
46:53
this
46:54
is
46:54
going
46:55
to
46:55
now
46:55
be
46:55
more
46:55
relaxed.
46:56
Okay.
46:57
The
46:57
lube.
46:57
Do
46:58
not
46:58
use
46:58
water
46:58
based
46:58
lube.
46:59
It's
46:59
not
46:59
going
46:59
to
46:59
work.
46:59
It's
47:00
not
47:00
going
47:00
to
47:00
stay.
47:00
You
47:01
need
47:01
a
47:01
silicone
47:02
based
47:02
lube.
47:03
Either
47:03
a
47:03
hybrid
47:04
lube
47:04
or
47:05
just
47:05
a
47:05
silicone.
47:06
Because
47:06
this
47:06
is
47:07
a
47:07
different
47:07
type
47:07
of
47:07
muscle
47:08
tissue
47:08
and
47:08
mucous
47:09
membranes.
47:10
So
47:11
in.
47:12
And
47:12
it
47:12
holds
47:13
at
47:13
the
47:13
neck.
47:14
All
47:14
right.
47:14
It
47:15
gives
47:15
you
47:15
this
47:15
fulfilled
47:16
feeling.
47:17
So
47:17
you
47:18
can
47:18
achieve
47:18
anal
47:19
with
47:19
just
47:19
rimming.
47:20
Just
47:20
a
47:21
pinky.
47:21
Just
47:22
a
47:22
finger
47:23
with
47:23
a
47:23
toy
47:24
or
47:24
with
47:25
a
47:25
penis
47:25
or
47:25
a
47:26
dildo.
47:26
All
47:27
right.
47:27
And
47:27
it
47:27
is
47:28
process
47:29
the
47:29
two
47:29
things
47:30
I
47:30
hear
47:30
people
47:30
say,
47:31
I
47:31
am
47:32
worried
47:32
it's
47:32
going
47:32
to
47:32
hurt.
47:33
But
47:33
really
47:34
you're
47:34
actually
47:34
worried
47:35
that
47:35
you're
47:35
going
47:35
to
47:35
poop
47:36
on
47:36
a
47:36
dick.
47:36
And
47:36
it's
47:36
not
47:37
going
47:37
to
47:37
really
47:37
happen
47:38
unless
47:38
you
47:38
add
47:38
Taco
47:39
Bell
47:39
or
47:39
Chipotle.
47:40
Okay.
47:42
So
47:43
we
47:43
won't
47:43
go
47:44
too
47:44
much
47:44
farther
47:44
into
47:45
that,
47:45
but
47:45
that
47:45
is
47:45
anal.
47:46
And
47:46
if
47:46
you've
47:46
never
47:47
tried
47:47
anything,
47:47
I
47:47
highly
47:48
recommend
47:49
you
47:49
get
47:49
a
47:49
small
47:49
vibrating
47:50
butt
47:50
plug
47:50
and
47:50
you
47:51
explore
47:51
on
47:51
your
47:51
own.
47:52
That
47:52
way
47:52
you
47:52
can
47:53
feel
47:53
more
47:53
confident
47:54
to
47:54
share
47:54
what
47:54
you
47:54
want.
47:55
Yeah.
47:55
It's
47:55
time
47:55
for
47:56
a
47:56
partner
47:56
partner
47:57
play.
47:57
Right?
47:59
I
47:59
can
48:00
sort
48:00
from
48:00
that
48:00
too.
48:00
Yes,
48:01
many
48:01
can.
48:02
Good
48:02
for
48:02
you.
48:02
Kudos.
48:03
High
48:03
five.
48:05
Love
48:05
It.
48:05
Because
48:06
here's
48:06
the
48:06
thing,
48:07
you
48:07
can
48:07
reach
48:08
the
48:08
G
48:08
spot
48:08
on
48:09
the
48:09
other
48:09
side
48:09
when
48:10
you're
48:10
having
48:10
anal.
48:12
There's
48:12
nine
48:13
sheets
48:13
of
48:13
paper
48:14
of
48:14
a
48:14
width
48:14
between
48:15
the
48:15
anal
48:15
and
48:16
the
48:16
vaginal
48:16
canal.
48:17
Nine
48:17
sheets
48:18
of
48:18
paper.
48:18
So
48:19
if
48:19
you
48:19
get
48:19
that
48:19
right
48:19
angle,
48:20
that's
48:20
like
48:20
nothing.
48:21
It's
48:21
nothing.
48:22
No.
48:22
So
48:23
when
48:23
you
48:23
have
48:23
a
48:23
vibrating
48:24
booty
48:24
plug
48:25
and
48:25
then
48:25
you
48:25
have
48:26
a
48:26
penis
48:26
inside
48:27
the
48:27
vagina,
48:27
they
48:28
can
48:28
feel
48:28
the
48:28
vibration.
48:29
It's
48:29
incredible.
48:29
Oh,
48:30
wow.
48:31
The
48:31
penis
48:32
that
48:32
has
48:32
refreshed
48:32
you.
48:33
I
48:33
just
48:33
broke
48:33
your
48:33
pen
48:33
and
48:33
line.
48:34
Right
48:34
up
48:34
on
48:34
that.
48:34
Oh,
48:35
yeah,
48:35
he's
48:36
getting.
48:36
I'm
48:37
sitting
48:37
here
48:37
twitching
48:38
like,
48:38
tell
48:38
me
48:39
more.
48:39
I
48:40
got
48:40
you.
48:40
I
48:41
got
48:41
you.
48:41
Absolutely.
48:42
All
48:43
right.
48:43
And
48:43
then
48:43
we
48:43
have,
48:45
we
48:45
have
48:46
nine
48:46
is.
48:47
No,
48:47
well,
48:47
hold
48:47
on.
48:48
Number
48:48
five.
48:49
I'll
48:49
touch
48:49
on.
48:50
Five
48:50
is
48:51
blended.
48:52
So
48:52
this
48:52
is
48:52
when
48:52
you
48:53
have
48:53
one
48:53
or
48:54
more
48:54
at
48:54
the
48:54
same
48:55
time.
48:56
So
48:56
when
48:56
you're
48:56
having
48:56
an
48:56
anal
48:57
orgasm
48:57
and
48:57
a
48:57
few
48:58
spot
48:58
orgasm
48:58
and
48:59
a
48:59
clitoral
48:59
orgasm,
49:00
you
49:00
are
49:00
good.
49:01
You're
49:02
in
49:02
bliss.
49:02
And
49:02
someone
49:03
just
49:03
needs
49:03
to
49:03
bring
49:03
you
49:03
a
49:03
sandwich,
49:04
right?
49:05
Yeah.
49:06
We
49:06
need
49:06
a
49:06
nap.
49:08
All
49:08
right,
49:09
my
49:09
go
49:09
to
49:09
is
49:09
chocolate.
49:10
Yes.
49:11
After
49:11
that,
49:12
like
49:12
intense.
49:12
Intense.
49:12
I'm
49:13
like,
49:13
all
49:13
right,
49:13
don't
49:13
touch
49:13
me.
49:13
Just
49:14
put
49:14
chocolate
49:14
over
49:15
chocolate.
49:17
The
49:17
last
49:17
but
49:17
not
49:18
least
49:18
is
49:19
the
49:19
energy
49:19
orgasm.
49:20
And
49:21
here's
49:21
the
49:21
deal.
49:21
The
49:22
way
49:22
that
49:22
you
49:22
said
49:22
that
49:23
you're
49:23
able
49:23
to
49:24
have
49:24
an
49:24
orgasm
49:24
just
49:25
from
49:25
kissing,
49:26
okay.
49:27
There
49:27
is
49:28
like
49:28
a
49:28
list
49:28
of
49:28
24
49:29
different
49:29
types.
49:29
Okay.
49:30
But
49:30
these
49:30
are
49:30
the
49:30
main
49:31
nine
49:31
that
49:31
I've
49:32
seen
49:32
and
49:32
I
49:33
talk
49:33
about
49:33
on
49:33
the
49:33
daily.
49:34
Oh,
49:34
wow.
49:35
There's
49:35
more
49:35
than
49:35
the
49:35
nine.
49:36
There
49:36
is.
49:36
People
49:36
can
49:37
get
49:37
really
49:37
like
49:37
creative.
49:38
So
49:38
it
49:38
depends
49:39
on
49:39
what
49:39
source
49:39
and
49:40
references
49:40
that
49:41
are
49:41
listed
49:41
there.
49:43
But
49:43
energetic
49:44
is
49:44
one
49:44
of
49:44
them.
49:45
So
49:45
when
49:45
the
49:45
energy
49:46
is
49:46
high
49:46
and
49:46
you're
49:47
just
49:47
kissing
49:47
and
49:47
you're
49:48
so
49:48
turned
49:48
on,
49:49
that's
49:49
an
49:49
energy
49:50
orgasm,
49:50
right?
49:51
You
49:51
don't
49:51
even
49:52
have
49:52
to
49:52
be
49:52
penetrated.
49:53
That's
49:53
an
49:53
energy
49:54
orgasm.
49:55
I
49:55
love
49:55
this.
49:56
Kissing
49:56
and
49:56
touching
49:57
outside
49:57
the
49:57
clothes,
49:58
not
49:58
even
49:58
on
49:58
the
49:58
genitals.
49:59
That's
49:59
an
50:00
energy
50:00
orgasm.
50:01
If
50:01
you're
50:01
just
50:02
giving
50:02
fellatio
50:03
s
50:03
and
50:03
the
50:03
D,
50:05
that's
50:06
an
50:06
energy
50:06
orgasm.
50:07
Right.
50:07
So
50:07
you're
50:08
not
50:08
even
50:08
being
50:08
taught
50:08
in
50:09
the
50:09
genitals.
50:10
It
50:10
is
50:11
a
50:11
full
50:11
blown,
50:12
like
50:12
imagination.
50:12
The
50:13
sex
50:13
energy
50:13
is
50:14
just
50:14
all
50:14
throughout
50:15
your
50:15
body.
50:15
You're
50:16
just
50:16
so
50:16
turned
50:16
on
50:17
it.
50:17
You
50:17
don't
50:17
even
50:17
have
50:17
to
50:17
be
50:17
touched.
50:18
That's
50:18
energetic.
50:19
Okay.
50:21
Love
50:21
this.
50:21
Yeah.
50:22
So
50:22
those
50:22
are
50:22
your
50:22
nine,
50:23
my
50:23
friend.
50:23
Let
50:23
me
50:23
recap
50:24
real
50:24
quick.
50:25
Nipple,
50:26
anal,
50:27
cervical,
50:27
clitoral,
50:28
blended,
50:29
vaginal,
50:30
G
50:31
spot,
50:31
oral
50:33
and
50:33
energy.
50:35
Okay,
50:36
seven,
50:37
seven.
50:39
On
50:40
my
50:40
list.
50:40
Is
50:40
G
50:41
spot.
50:41
So,
50:41
Monica.
50:45
So
50:46
Melissa
50:46
came
50:47
to
50:47
me
50:48
a
50:48
couple
50:50
more
50:50
than
50:50
a
50:50
couple
50:51
weeks
50:51
ago
50:51
at
50:51
this
50:51
point,
50:52
and
50:52
she
50:52
had
50:53
someone
50:53
come
50:53
to
50:54
her
50:54
with
50:54
a
50:54
specific
50:55
sexual
50:56
question
50:57
and
50:57
said,
50:57
we
50:58
need
50:58
to
50:58
get
50:58
an
50:58
expert
50:59
on
50:59
to
51:00
answer
51:00
this
51:00
for
51:00
us.
51:01
You
51:01
sure
51:01
did.
51:01
Fuck.
51:02
What
51:02
was
51:02
it?
51:03
So
51:03
we
51:04
have.
51:04
This
51:05
is
51:05
not
51:05
uncommon.
51:06
So
51:07
it's
51:07
actually
51:07
not
51:07
even
51:07
that
51:08
crazy.
51:08
But
51:08
we
51:08
have
51:08
a
51:09
lady
51:09
that's
51:10
older
51:10
than
51:11
60.
51:11
Yeah.
51:13
And
51:13
she
51:13
wants
51:13
to
51:13
know.
51:15
Yeah.
51:15
She
51:15
wants
51:16
to
51:16
know
51:17
how
51:17
can
51:17
someone
51:19
later
51:19
in
51:19
age
51:20
still
51:20
enjoy
51:20
sex?
51:21
Well,
51:22
actually,
51:22
she
51:23
wanted
51:23
us
51:23
to
51:23
do
51:23
a
51:23
whole
51:24
episode
51:24
on.
51:25
She
51:25
is
51:25
awesome.
51:26
She
51:26
shared
51:27
with
51:27
me,
51:27
like
51:28
a
51:28
website
51:28
where
51:29
she
51:29
gets
51:29
her
51:29
toys
51:29
and
51:30
all
51:30
that.
51:30
And
51:30
she's
51:30
like,
51:31
I
51:31
want
51:31
people
51:31
to
51:31
know
51:31
that
51:32
you're
51:32
not
51:32
dead
51:32
after
51:32
70.
51:34
Yeah.
51:34
Oh,
51:34
70.
51:35
Okay.
51:36
Okay.
51:37
So
51:37
she
51:37
did
51:38
want
51:38
to
51:38
hear
51:38
a
51:38
little
51:38
bit,
51:38
like,
51:39
what
51:39
do
51:39
you
51:39
say?
51:39
Like,
51:40
sex
51:40
after
51:40
70,
51:41
is
51:41
it
51:41
that
51:42
different?
51:42
It's
51:42
not.
51:43
You
51:43
just
51:44
get
51:44
more
51:44
creative
51:44
about
51:45
how
51:45
to
51:45
make
51:45
it
51:45
more
51:45
comfortable
51:46
for
51:46
you.
51:47
This
51:47
is
51:47
where
51:47
sex
51:47
things,
51:48
sex
51:48
swings
51:48
come
51:49
into
51:49
play.
51:51
Tension
51:51
on
51:52
the
51:52
joints.
51:52
This
51:53
is
51:53
where
51:53
an
51:53
elevation
51:54
pillow
51:54
comes
51:55
into
51:55
play.
51:55
Sell
51:55
both
51:56
of
51:56
them.
51:56
My
51:56
parents
51:57
have
51:57
both
51:57
of
51:57
them.
51:59
They've
51:59
been
51:59
together.
52:00
Oh,
52:00
my
52:00
gosh.
52:01
They've
52:01
been
52:01
together
52:01
for
52:01
like
52:02
38
52:02
years.
52:03
And
52:03
I,
52:04
when
52:04
I
52:04
moved
52:04
out,
52:05
I
52:05
took
52:05
my
52:05
boxing
52:05
bag
52:06
down.
52:06
I
52:06
said,
52:06
guys,
52:07
you
52:07
get
52:07
this
52:07
nice
52:07
eye.
52:08
Look
52:08
here.
52:08
You
52:08
can
52:08
put
52:08
a
52:09
sex
52:09
swing.
52:09
They're
52:09
like,
52:10
do
52:10
you
52:10
get
52:10
us
52:10
one?
52:11
I'm
52:11
like,
52:11
I
52:11
can.
52:12
It's
52:12
easier
52:13
on
52:13
the
52:13
joints.
52:14
So
52:14
they.
52:15
I
52:15
didn't
52:15
know
52:15
that.
52:16
Yes.
52:17
Yeah,
52:17
I
52:17
guess
52:18
I
52:18
wouldn't
52:18
have
52:18
thought
52:18
about
52:18
that.
52:19
For
52:19
older
52:19
sex,
52:20
I.
52:20
Not
52:20
older
52:21
sex,
52:21
but
52:22
geriatric
52:22
sex.
52:23
No,
52:25
wait.
52:25
What's
52:25
more
52:25
appropriate?
52:26
So
52:26
the
52:26
thing
52:27
is
52:27
too,
52:28
it's
52:28
a
52:28
matter
52:29
of
52:29
what's
52:29
going
52:29
to
52:29
make
52:29
it
52:30
better
52:30
for
52:30
you
52:31
as
52:31
you
52:31
get
52:32
older.
52:32
The
52:33
vaginal
52:33
tissue
52:34
is
52:34
going
52:34
to
52:34
change.
52:35
So
52:35
whether
52:35
people
52:36
choose
52:36
to
52:36
do
52:37
an
52:37
estrogen
52:37
replacement
52:38
therapy,
52:39
just
52:39
an
52:39
estrogen
52:40
cream,
52:40
I
52:40
highly
52:41
recommend
52:41
it
52:41
for
52:41
anybody.
52:44
Incredible
52:44
research
52:45
on
52:45
it.
52:46
That
52:46
is
52:46
very
52:46
beneficial.
52:47
All
52:47
you're
52:47
doing
52:47
is
52:48
replacing
52:49
what
52:49
your
52:49
body's
52:50
already
52:50
made
52:50
all
52:51
the
52:51
way
52:51
up
52:51
until
52:51
then
52:51
when
52:52
it
52:52
stops.
52:52
Okay.
52:53
So
52:54
when
52:54
it
52:54
comes
52:54
to
52:55
okay,
52:56
perimenopause,
52:57
menopause
52:57
and
52:57
post
52:57
menopause,
52:58
the
52:58
vaginal
52:59
tissue
52:59
is
52:59
actually
53:00
changing.
53:00
It's
53:00
thinning
53:01
and
53:01
it's
53:01
drying.
53:01
So
53:02
lube
53:02
is
53:02
everything.
53:03
All
53:03
right.
53:03
Lube
53:03
is
53:04
always
53:04
everything.
53:04
But
53:05
the
53:05
type
53:05
of
53:05
lube
53:06
is
53:06
going
53:06
to
53:06
change
53:06
with
53:06
your
53:06
body
53:07
as
53:07
you
53:07
go.
53:08
And
53:08
that's
53:09
really
53:09
important.
53:09
Please
53:09
tell.
53:10
We
53:10
have
53:11
a
53:11
water
53:11
based
53:12
lube.
53:12
If
53:13
you
53:13
have
53:13
a
53:13
water
53:13
based
53:14
lube,
53:14
you
53:15
need
53:15
Water
53:16
to
53:17
actually
53:17
activate
53:18
it.
53:18
Okay.
53:19
It
53:19
actually
53:19
dries
53:19
up
53:19
if
53:20
there's
53:20
no
53:20
water.
53:20
That's
53:21
why
53:21
water
53:21
based
53:21
in
53:21
the
53:22
anus
53:22
doesn't
53:22
work.
53:23
It
53:23
just
53:24
goes
53:25
away.
53:25
Interesting.
53:26
I
53:26
did
53:26
not.
53:27
You
53:27
would
53:27
never
53:27
think
53:27
that
53:28
they
53:28
say.
53:28
That
53:28
like
53:29
your
53:29
toys
53:29
have
53:30
to
53:30
be
53:30
compatible
53:31
with
53:31
your
53:31
lube
53:32
and
53:32
then
53:33
y.
53:34
All
53:34
right,
53:34
I
53:34
got
53:35
you.
53:35
Great
53:35
question
53:36
too.
53:36
Because
53:36
you
53:36
cannot
53:37
use
53:38
a
53:38
hundred
53:38
percent
53:39
silicone
53:39
lube
53:40
with
53:41
silicone
53:42
toys.
53:43
It
53:43
will
53:43
really.
53:44
They
53:44
melt
53:44
into
53:44
each
53:45
other
53:45
first
53:46
off.
53:47
And
53:47
when
53:47
they
53:47
touch
53:48
each
53:48
other,
53:48
they
53:49
melt.
53:49
We
53:49
learn
53:50
the
53:50
hard
53:50
way
53:50
over
53:50
and
53:50
over
53:51
and
53:51
over
53:51
again.
53:52
So
53:52
I
53:52
definitely.
53:53
So
53:53
did
53:54
you
53:54
learn
53:54
the
53:54
first
53:54
10
53:55
times?
53:55
Just
53:55
kidding.
53:56
No.
53:56
Maybe
53:56
on
53:57
the
53:57
11th.
53:57
Right.
53:58
Did
53:58
you
53:58
have
53:58
fun?
53:58
Did
53:59
you
53:59
have
53:59
fun?
54:00
That's
54:00
all
54:00
that
54:00
matters.
54:01
Now
54:01
put
54:02
your
54:02
toys
54:02
to
54:02
bed
54:03
separately.
54:04
Right.
54:04
They
54:04
don't
54:04
sleep
54:05
well
54:05
together.
54:05
Put
54:06
your
54:06
toys
54:06
to
54:06
bed
54:06
properly.
54:07
Tube
54:08
sock,
54:08
Ziploc
54:09
bag
54:09
or
54:10
our
54:10
storage
54:10
free
54:11
velvet.
54:12
Our
54:12
storage
54:12
velvet
54:13
bag.
54:13
So
54:14
it's
54:14
lint
54:14
free.
54:14
You
54:16
can
54:16
put
54:16
your
54:16
cords
54:16
in
54:17
there
54:17
because
54:17
they're
54:17
all
54:17
us
54:17
rechargeable
54:18
now.
54:19
So
54:19
you
54:19
can
54:19
just
54:20
keep
54:20
them
54:20
separate.
54:20
Do
54:21
the
54:21
best
54:21
you
54:21
can.
54:22
Things
54:22
happen.
54:23
But
54:23
the
54:23
lube
54:23
is
54:24
everything.
54:24
So
54:25
100
54:25
silicone
54:26
lube
54:26
is
54:26
for
54:27
anal
54:27
intercourse
54:27
only.
54:28
Don't
54:29
use
54:29
it
54:29
with
54:29
your
54:29
toys.
54:29
Don't
54:30
use
54:30
it
54:30
for
54:30
anything
54:30
like
54:30
that.
54:32
I
54:33
personally
54:33
don't
54:34
sell
54:34
the
54:35
100%
54:35
silicone
54:36
lube.
54:36
I
54:37
don't
54:37
like
54:37
it.
54:37
There's
54:38
alternatives.
54:39
We
54:39
have
54:39
a
54:39
very
54:39
light
54:40
grade
54:41
silicone.
54:42
Okay.
54:42
That
54:43
actually
54:43
made
54:43
in
54:44
Norway,
54:44
which
54:44
is
54:44
fantastic.
54:45
It's
54:45
called
54:45
Natural
54:46
Earth
54:47
Incredible
54:47
organic
54:48
vegan
54:48
lube.
54:49
It's
54:49
made
54:49
with
54:49
shiitake
54:50
mushrooms.
54:51
So
54:51
this
54:51
lube.
54:52
Yeah,
54:52
this
54:53
lube
54:53
can
54:53
actually.
54:53
It's.
54:54
It's
54:54
given
54:54
out
54:55
to
54:56
cancer
54:56
patients
54:57
undergoing
54:57
chemotherapy
54:58
that
54:58
experience
54:59
extreme
54:59
vaginal
55:00
dryness
55:00
now
55:00
because
55:01
there's
55:01
vitamin
55:01
E
55:01
in
55:02
it
55:02
too.
55:03
So
55:03
this
55:04
is
55:04
great
55:04
for
55:04
menopausal.
55:05
This
55:06
is
55:06
also
55:06
great
55:07
for
55:07
anal
55:08
as
55:08
well
55:08
because
55:08
it
55:09
has
55:09
enough
55:09
of
55:09
that
55:09
silicone
55:10
for
55:10
a
55:10
long
55:10
lasting
55:10
feel.
55:11
It
55:11
feels
55:11
like
55:11
velvet.
55:12
It's
55:12
wild.
55:13
Then
55:13
we
55:14
have
55:14
for
55:14
those
55:15
who
55:15
are
55:15
a
55:16
little
55:16
bit
55:16
older
55:16
and
55:17
your
55:17
vagina
55:17
isn't
55:18
making
55:18
the
55:18
natural
55:19
lubrication
55:20
or
55:20
if
55:20
you're
55:21
on
55:21
SSRI
55:22
like
55:22
a
55:23
lot
55:23
of
55:23
America.
55:24
Right.
55:25
But
55:25
yeah,
55:26
or
55:26
depression,
55:27
anxiety.
55:28
Yeah,
55:28
depression,
55:29
anxiety.
55:30
Also
55:30
any
55:31
sort
55:31
of
55:31
mucous
55:32
membrane,
55:32
like
55:33
allergy
55:33
medication,
55:34
it
55:34
doesn't
55:35
just
55:35
dry
55:35
out.
55:35
This
55:36
orifice
55:36
is
55:36
going
55:37
to
55:37
dry
55:37
all
55:37
that.
55:37
Orifice.
55:38
Okay.
55:39
Oh,
55:39
interesting
55:41
membrane.
55:42
So
55:43
you
55:43
can
55:43
utilize
55:44
a
55:44
hybrid
55:44
lubrication
55:45
in
55:45
these
55:45
cases.
55:46
All
55:46
right.
55:46
It's
55:47
like
55:47
3
55:47
to
55:48
5%
55:49
silicone
55:49
and
55:50
the
55:50
rest
55:50
is
55:50
water
55:50
based.
55:51
Safe
55:52
daily
55:52
for
55:52
vaginal
55:53
Use
55:53
and
55:53
it's
55:54
going
55:54
to
55:54
be
55:54
thick
55:54
enough
55:54
for
55:54
anal
55:55
use.
55:55
Right.
55:56
And
55:56
safe
55:57
for
55:57
your
55:57
toys.
55:57
All
55:58
right.
55:58
No.
55:59
Silicone
55:59
with
55:59
the
56:00
toys
56:00
is
56:00
100%
56:01
silicone.
56:01
Loop
56:02
is
56:02
a
56:02
no
56:02
go
56:03
for
56:03
your
56:03
silicone
56:03
toys.
56:04
That's
56:04
it.
56:04
If
56:05
you
56:05
have
56:05
a
56:06
small
56:06
amount
56:07
of
56:07
silicone,
56:08
you're
56:08
good
56:08
to
56:08
go.
56:09
So
56:10
I
56:10
have
56:10
an
56:11
incredible
56:11
hybrid
56:11
lubricant
56:12
that
56:12
I
56:12
love.
56:12
It's
56:12
called
56:13
Pussy
56:13
Willow,
56:13
and
56:14
it's
56:14
made
56:14
from
56:14
that
56:14
same
56:15
company.
56:15
That's
56:16
such
56:16
a
56:16
sweet
56:16
name.
56:17
So
56:17
our
56:18
water
56:18
base
56:18
from
56:19
that
56:19
company
56:19
is
56:20
made
56:20
with
56:20
plant
56:21
cellulose,
56:22
and
56:22
the
56:22
silicone
56:23
is
56:23
made
56:23
with
56:23
shiitake
56:24
mushrooms.
56:24
So
56:24
they're
56:25
all
56:25
incredible
56:25
ingredients.
56:27
These
56:27
kind
56:27
of
56:27
sound
56:28
edible.
56:28
Yeah.
56:29
They
56:29
don't
56:29
taste
56:29
like
56:29
anything.
56:30
They
56:30
don't
56:31
smell
56:31
like
56:31
anything.
56:32
And
56:32
it's
56:32
okay
56:33
if
56:33
your
56:33
dog
56:33
gets
56:34
in
56:34
it
56:34
and
56:34
drinks
56:34
a
56:34
whole
56:35
bottle
56:35
of
56:35
lube?
56:36
Yeah,
56:36
they're
56:36
fine.
56:36
Okay.
56:37
Shit
56:38
happens.
56:38
It's
56:39
bad,
56:39
but
56:39
it
56:39
happens.
56:40
Shiitake
56:40
happens.
56:43
Happen.
56:44
Lube
56:45
is
56:45
everything.
56:46
And
56:46
I.
56:46
I
56:47
hope
56:47
that
56:48
if
56:48
anybody
56:48
has
56:48
any
56:49
lube
56:49
questions,
56:49
I'm
56:50
here
56:50
for
56:50
it.
56:50
We'll
56:50
find
56:51
the
56:51
right
56:51
lube
56:51
for
56:52
your
56:52
body.
56:52
That's
56:53
the
56:53
thing.
56:53
Because
56:53
the
56:54
body
56:54
can
56:54
change
56:54
with
56:54
whatever's
56:55
going
56:55
on.
56:56
Medical
56:56
conditions,
56:57
medications,
56:58
and
56:58
the
56:58
stage
56:59
your
56:59
body
56:59
is
56:59
in.
57:00
So
57:01
that's
57:01
amazing.
57:02
I
57:02
really
57:02
didn't
57:03
ever
57:03
think
57:03
of
57:03
it.
57:03
I
57:03
went
57:04
about
57:04
medications
57:05
and
57:05
stuff.
57:06
I
57:06
just
57:06
wouldn't
57:06
have
57:06
really
57:07
even
57:07
thought
57:07
that
57:07
different
57:08
bodies
57:08
need
57:08
different
57:08
lubes,
57:09
in
57:09
all
57:09
honesty.
57:10
Yeah.
57:11
I
57:11
just
57:11
kind
57:11
of
57:11
thought,
57:11
oh,
57:12
grease.
57:12
Her
57:12
up
57:12
and
57:13
find
57:13
whichever
57:13
one
57:13
you
57:14
like.
57:14
Play.
57:15
I
57:16
didn't
57:16
know,
57:17
but
57:17
I
57:17
was
57:18
wondering.
57:18
So
57:18
before.
57:19
Because
57:20
I'm
57:21
not
57:21
trying
57:21
to
57:21
change
57:21
the
57:21
subject
57:22
at
57:22
all.
57:22
No.
57:22
But
57:23
I
57:23
do
57:23
want
57:23
to
57:24
know
57:25
why
57:25
is
57:25
it
57:25
so
57:26
important
57:26
for
57:27
us
57:27
to
57:27
be
57:27
in
57:27
tune
57:28
with
57:28
our
57:28
bodies
57:28
and
57:28
for
57:29
us
57:29
to
57:29
be
57:29
able
57:30
to
57:30
experience
57:31
pleasure?
57:33
If
57:33
I
57:33
understand
57:33
correctly,
57:34
you
57:34
probably
57:35
have
57:35
some
57:35
cool
57:35
statistics,
57:36
but
57:36
it's
57:37
better
57:37
for
57:37
your
57:38
life
57:38
and
57:38
your
57:38
longevity
57:40
and
57:40
your
57:40
emotional.
57:41
There's
57:41
like
57:41
health.
57:42
Yeah.
57:43
There's
57:43
actual
57:43
health
57:43
benefits,
57:44
Correct?
57:44
Very.
57:45
So
57:46
the
57:46
way
57:47
that
57:47
we
57:47
get
57:47
in
57:47
tune
57:47
with
57:48
our
57:48
body,
57:48
we're
57:48
in
57:48
a
57:48
world
57:49
where
57:49
we
57:49
are
57:50
so
57:51
technology
57:52
focused,
57:53
you
57:54
know,
57:54
it's
57:54
hard
57:54
to
57:54
kind
57:55
of
57:55
focus
57:55
on
57:55
what's
57:55
going
57:56
on
57:56
with
57:56
your
57:56
body
57:56
if
57:57
you
57:57
are
57:57
looking
57:57
at
57:57
a
57:58
screen.
57:59
Yeah.
57:59
Work
58:00
that
58:00
way.
58:01
So
58:01
what.
58:01
What
58:02
I
58:02
found
58:03
is
58:03
instead
58:04
of
58:04
people
58:04
being
58:05
in
58:05
tune
58:05
with
58:06
their
58:06
body
58:06
and
58:07
sexually
58:07
aware
58:08
and
58:08
pleasure
58:09
aware,
58:10
we're
58:10
tuned
58:10
out.
58:11
So
58:12
there's
58:12
something
58:13
that
58:13
I
58:13
do
58:13
with
58:14
my
58:14
clients.
58:14
There's
58:14
a
58:14
bunch
58:15
of
58:15
things,
58:15
but
58:15
this
58:15
is
58:15
the
58:16
main
58:16
thing
58:16
I
58:16
see.
58:17
People
58:17
with
58:17
low
58:17
libido
58:18
are
58:18
not
58:18
in
58:18
touch
58:19
with
58:19
Their
58:19
body.
58:20
So
58:21
I
58:21
do
58:21
daily
58:22
prompts
58:22
as
58:22
well
58:23
as
58:23
coaching
58:23
sessions
58:23
where
58:24
you're.
58:24
You
58:25
got
58:25
to
58:25
figure
58:25
out
58:25
where
58:25
you
58:26
are
58:26
baseline.
58:27
Okay.
58:27
Are
58:27
you
58:28
overstimulated?
58:29
Are
58:29
you
58:30
needing
58:30
time
58:31
to
58:31
decompress?
58:32
Right.
58:32
There's
58:32
a
58:32
matter
58:33
of,
58:33
like,
58:34
de.
58:34
Armoring
58:35
yourself
58:36
before
58:36
you're
58:36
in
58:36
bed.
58:37
You
58:37
know,
58:37
just
58:37
chilling.
58:38
I
58:38
could
58:38
be
58:38
open
58:39
to
58:39
sex,
58:39
but
58:39
I'm
58:40
not
58:40
needing
58:40
it.
58:40
Right.
58:41
And
58:41
then
58:41
you
58:41
get
58:42
over
58:42
to
58:42
now
58:43
I'm
58:43
being
58:43
introduced
58:43
to
58:44
sex,
58:44
initiated,
58:45
and
58:45
I'm
58:45
open
58:45
to
58:46
it.
58:46
People
58:47
just
58:47
think
58:47
you're
58:47
gonna,
58:48
you
58:48
know,
58:48
someone's
58:49
gonna
58:49
initiate
58:49
and
58:49
you're
58:50
ready,
58:50
but
58:50
you
58:50
actually
58:51
have
58:51
to
58:51
be
58:51
a
58:52
little
58:52
bit
58:52
more
58:52
inside
58:52
your
58:53
body.
58:53
So
58:53
if
58:53
you
58:54
need
58:54
to
58:55
get
58:55
more
58:55
into
58:55
your
58:55
body
58:55
with
58:56
a
58:56
meditation,
58:57
with
58:57
a
58:57
pleasure,
58:58
practice
58:58
with
58:59
a
58:59
shower,
58:59
with
59:00
a
59:00
bath,
59:01
you
59:01
have
59:01
to
59:01
literally
59:02
strip
59:02
the
59:02
fucking
59:03
day
59:03
off.
59:04
And,
59:04
yeah,
59:05
a
59:05
quick
59:05
tip
59:06
too.
59:07
Just
59:07
simple
59:07
stuff
59:08
throughout
59:08
the
59:08
day.
59:09
I
59:09
want
59:09
you
59:09
to
59:09
think
59:10
of
59:10
three
59:10
daily
59:11
things
59:11
that
59:11
you
59:12
do
59:12
that
59:13
you
59:13
can
59:13
link
59:13
with
59:14
pleasure.
59:14
For
59:14
example,
59:15
you
59:15
take
59:15
your
59:16
first
59:16
sip
59:16
of
59:16
coffee
59:17
in
59:17
the
59:17
morning.
59:18
I
59:18
want
59:18
you
59:18
to
59:18
do
59:18
Kegel
59:19
exercise.
59:21
Oh,
59:22
when
59:23
you
59:23
are.
59:25
When
59:25
you're
59:25
having,
59:26
you
59:26
know,
59:27
a
59:27
nice
59:27
strawberry
59:28
or
59:28
your
59:28
breakfast,
59:29
do
59:29
a
59:29
Kegel
59:29
exercise.
59:30
When
59:31
you're
59:31
reading
59:31
a
59:31
book
59:31
and
59:32
you
59:32
like
59:32
a
59:32
chapter,
59:33
you
59:33
like
59:33
the
59:33
title,
59:34
do
59:34
a
59:34
Kegel
59:34
exercise.
59:35
It's
59:35
linking
59:36
your
59:36
body
59:36
with
59:37
pleasure
59:37
pathways.
59:38
All
59:38
right?
59:38
You're
59:39
literally
59:40
like
59:40
Pavlov.
59:41
Yeah,
59:41
yeah,
59:42
yeah.
59:42
Oh,
59:43
interesting.
59:43
Yeah,
59:44
It's
59:44
a
59:44
strategy
59:45
I
59:45
teach.
59:46
Just
59:46
call
59:46
them
59:47
pleasure
59:47
layering.
59:48
So
59:48
it's
59:49
pleasure
59:49
stacking.
59:50
So
59:50
do
59:51
you
59:51
help
59:52
men
59:52
and
59:52
women
59:53
that
59:53
struggle
59:53
with
59:54
their
59:54
libido?
59:55
I
59:55
do.
59:56
It's
59:56
actually
59:57
like
59:57
90%
59:58
of
59:58
those
59:58
in
59:59
heterosexual
59:59
relationships
1:00:00
as
1:00:01
well
1:00:01
as
1:00:01
homosexual
1:00:01
relationship,
1:00:03
both
1:00:03
experience
1:00:03
mismatched
1:00:04
libidos.
1:00:05
It
1:00:05
is
1:00:05
so
1:00:06
common.
1:00:06
I
1:00:07
work
1:00:07
with
1:00:07
couples
1:00:08
or
1:00:08
I
1:00:08
work
1:00:08
with
1:00:08
women.
1:00:09
I
1:00:09
do
1:00:09
not
1:00:09
work
1:00:09
with
1:00:10
men
1:00:10
alone
1:00:10
unless
1:00:10
they
1:00:11
are
1:00:11
referred
1:00:11
to
1:00:11
me
1:00:11
and
1:00:12
I
1:00:12
know
1:00:12
them.
1:00:14
Libido
1:00:15
is
1:00:15
a
1:00:15
big
1:00:15
deal.
1:00:15
There's
1:00:16
two
1:00:16
types
1:00:16
of
1:00:16
desire
1:00:17
that
1:00:17
we
1:00:17
don't
1:00:17
all
1:00:17
really
1:00:18
understand.
1:00:19
Spontaneous,
1:00:20
like,
1:00:20
it
1:00:20
just
1:00:20
happens,
1:00:21
right?
1:00:21
You're
1:00:21
like,
1:00:21
I'm
1:00:22
ready.
1:00:22
Let's
1:00:22
do
1:00:22
it.
1:00:23
And
1:00:23
then
1:00:23
there
1:00:23
is.
1:00:25
Then
1:00:25
there
1:00:25
is
1:00:26
responsive.
1:00:26
You're
1:00:27
responding
1:00:28
to
1:00:28
what
1:00:28
is
1:00:29
being
1:00:29
presented
1:00:29
to
1:00:29
you.
1:00:30
But
1:00:30
also
1:00:31
when
1:00:31
you're
1:00:31
responsive,
1:00:32
you're
1:00:32
also
1:00:32
responding
1:00:33
to
1:00:33
everything
1:00:33
in
1:00:34
your
1:00:34
daily
1:00:34
life
1:00:35
that
1:00:36
you
1:00:36
have
1:00:36
to
1:00:36
get
1:00:36
rid
1:00:36
of
1:00:37
to
1:00:37
be
1:00:37
available
1:00:38
per
1:00:38
sec
1:00:38
and
1:00:39
in.
1:00:39
I'm
1:00:39
glad
1:00:40
you're
1:00:40
saying
1:00:40
that
1:00:41
because
1:00:41
it's
1:00:41
really
1:00:42
easy
1:00:42
to
1:00:42
forget
1:00:43
because
1:00:43
that
1:00:44
your
1:00:44
partner
1:00:44
doesn't
1:00:45
always
1:00:45
respond
1:00:46
to
1:00:46
things
1:00:46
the
1:00:47
same
1:00:47
way
1:00:47
you
1:00:47
do.
1:00:47
Like,
1:00:49
you
1:00:50
could
1:00:50
literally,
1:00:50
like
1:00:50
you
1:00:50
said,
1:00:51
initiate.
1:00:52
Initiating
1:00:53
is
1:00:53
enough
1:00:53
for
1:00:53
me.
1:00:55
But
1:00:55
it's
1:00:55
not
1:00:56
always
1:00:56
for
1:00:56
everyone.
1:00:57
And
1:00:58
you
1:00:58
kind
1:00:58
of
1:00:58
have
1:00:58
to.
1:00:58
Might
1:00:59
have
1:00:59
to
1:00:59
do
1:00:59
something
1:00:59
to
1:01:00
get
1:01:00
yourself
1:01:00
in
1:01:00
that
1:01:01
mind
1:01:01
space.
1:01:02
It
1:01:02
is
1:01:03
because
1:01:03
it's
1:01:03
more
1:01:03
than
1:01:03
just
1:01:03
a.
1:01:04
Well,
1:01:04
this
1:01:05
goes
1:01:05
into
1:01:05
communication.
1:01:06
So,
1:01:07
you
1:01:08
know,
1:01:08
because
1:01:08
I
1:01:09
think,
1:01:09
like
1:01:09
Lauren
1:01:10
mentioned
1:01:11
earlier,
1:01:11
that
1:01:13
what
1:01:14
does
1:01:14
it
1:01:14
for
1:01:15
you
1:01:15
now
1:01:15
may
1:01:16
not
1:01:16
do
1:01:16
it
1:01:16
for
1:01:16
you
1:01:17
another
1:01:17
time.
1:01:17
And
1:01:18
I
1:01:18
feel
1:01:18
like
1:01:19
it
1:01:19
could
1:01:19
be
1:01:19
the
1:01:19
same
1:01:19
way.
1:01:20
Well,
1:01:20
not
1:01:21
could.
1:01:21
It
1:01:21
is
1:01:21
for
1:01:22
me
1:01:22
at
1:01:22
least,
1:01:23
depending
1:01:23
I
1:01:24
could
1:01:24
be
1:01:24
like,
1:01:24
oh,
1:01:25
you
1:01:25
just
1:01:25
winked
1:01:25
at
1:01:26
me.
1:01:26
Let's
1:01:26
go.
1:01:27
And
1:01:27
right
1:01:27
now.
1:01:28
But
1:01:28
then
1:01:28
there's
1:01:28
sometimes
1:01:29
where
1:01:29
I'm
1:01:29
like,
1:01:30
nope,
1:01:30
you're
1:01:30
going
1:01:30
to
1:01:30
have
1:01:31
to
1:01:31
do
1:01:31
a
1:01:31
little
1:01:31
kiss
1:01:31
and
1:01:31
kiss.
1:01:32
And
1:01:32
like,
1:01:32
we're
1:01:32
going
1:01:32
to
1:01:32
have
1:01:32
to
1:01:33
lean
1:01:33
into
1:01:33
this
1:01:34
and
1:01:34
I
1:01:34
have
1:01:34
to
1:01:34
be
1:01:34
able
1:01:35
to
1:01:35
say,
1:01:35
like,
1:01:35
you're
1:01:36
not
1:01:36
touching
1:01:36
me
1:01:37
until
1:01:38
xyz.
1:01:39
Right.
1:01:40
So
1:01:40
what's
1:01:41
on
1:01:41
the
1:01:41
appetizer
1:01:42
list?
1:01:42
What
1:01:42
you
1:01:42
need?
1:01:43
And
1:01:43
it's
1:01:43
going
1:01:43
to.
1:01:44
Yeah.
1:01:44
Throughout
1:01:44
the
1:01:45
month.
1:01:45
Because
1:01:45
we
1:01:46
have
1:01:46
four
1:01:46
different
1:01:46
cycles,
1:01:47
not
1:01:47
just
1:01:47
the
1:01:48
men.
1:01:49
We
1:01:49
can
1:01:49
do
1:01:49
that
1:01:49
all
1:01:50
different
1:01:50
thing.
1:01:50
Don't
1:01:50
worry.
1:01:50
Don't
1:01:51
worry.
1:01:51
Right.
1:01:52
Oh,
1:01:52
interesting.
1:01:53
Oh,
1:01:53
my
1:01:53
God.
1:01:53
We.
1:01:54
We
1:01:54
have
1:01:54
to
1:01:54
have
1:01:55
her
1:01:55
back.
1:01:55
Oh,
1:01:55
yeah.
1:01:55
There's
1:01:56
so
1:01:56
many
1:01:56
things
1:01:56
that
1:01:56
we
1:01:56
can
1:01:57
go
1:01:57
into.
1:01:58
How.
1:01:58
When,
1:01:59
when
1:01:59
you
1:01:59
have
1:02:00
a
1:02:00
couple
1:02:00
that.
1:02:02
Let's
1:02:02
just
1:02:02
see.
1:02:02
Okay.
1:02:03
I
1:02:03
feel
1:02:03
like
1:02:03
our
1:02:03
listeners
1:02:04
love
1:02:04
when
1:02:04
we
1:02:05
have
1:02:05
tangible
1:02:06
examples.
1:02:07
Yeah.
1:02:08
So
1:02:08
let's
1:02:08
just
1:02:08
go
1:02:09
with
1:02:10
a
1:02:10
personal
1:02:11
example
1:02:12
of
1:02:13
your,
1:02:14
you
1:02:14
know,
1:02:14
a
1:02:14
couple
1:02:15
years
1:02:15
into
1:02:15
marriage,
1:02:17
you're,
1:02:17
you
1:02:17
know,
1:02:17
you're
1:02:18
satisfied
1:02:18
with
1:02:20
your
1:02:20
sexual
1:02:20
life,
1:02:21
but
1:02:22
one
1:02:22
is
1:02:23
more
1:02:23
interested
1:02:24
in
1:02:24
exploring
1:02:25
all
1:02:25
the
1:02:25
options
1:02:25
and
1:02:25
all
1:02:26
the
1:02:26
things,
1:02:26
and
1:02:26
one
1:02:27
is
1:02:27
very
1:02:28
uncomfortable
1:02:28
with
1:02:28
it
1:02:29
or
1:02:29
you're
1:02:29
unsure
1:02:30
how
1:02:30
they're
1:02:30
going
1:02:30
to
1:02:30
respond.
1:02:31
If
1:02:31
you
1:02:32
bring
1:02:32
it
1:02:32
up,
1:02:33
how
1:02:34
do
1:02:34
you
1:02:34
coach
1:02:35
couples
1:02:35
through
1:02:36
this?
1:02:36
Or
1:02:36
how
1:02:36
do
1:02:37
you
1:02:37
suggest
1:02:37
someone
1:02:38
brings
1:02:38
it
1:02:38
to
1:02:39
their
1:02:40
partner's
1:02:40
attention?
1:02:41
Yeah.
1:02:42
Okay,
1:02:43
example,
1:02:44
we'll
1:02:44
have
1:02:45
Sarah
1:02:45
and
1:02:46
John
1:02:47
or
1:02:47
Sarah
1:02:48
and
1:02:48
Sally.
1:02:48
It
1:02:48
doesn't
1:02:49
matter.
1:02:49
Right.
1:02:49
We're
1:02:49
all
1:02:49
going
1:02:50
to
1:02:50
talk
1:02:50
the
1:02:50
same
1:02:50
way.
1:02:53
Hey,
1:02:53
Sally,
1:02:54
I
1:02:55
have
1:02:55
been
1:02:55
thinking
1:02:55
lately
1:02:56
that
1:02:56
I'm
1:02:56
really
1:02:57
interested
1:02:57
to
1:02:58
try
1:02:59
anal
1:03:01
or
1:03:01
try
1:03:01
sex
1:03:01
in
1:03:02
public.
1:03:03
And
1:03:03
I,
1:03:04
I
1:03:04
would
1:03:04
like
1:03:05
to
1:03:05
explore
1:03:05
that
1:03:06
with
1:03:06
you.
1:03:06
Like,
1:03:06
I
1:03:06
love
1:03:06
the
1:03:07
sex
1:03:07
we're
1:03:07
already
1:03:07
having,
1:03:08
but
1:03:09
I
1:03:09
would
1:03:09
like
1:03:10
to
1:03:10
find
1:03:10
new
1:03:11
ways
1:03:11
to
1:03:11
enhance
1:03:11
what
1:03:12
we're
1:03:12
already
1:03:12
doing
1:03:12
and
1:03:13
make
1:03:13
it
1:03:13
better.
1:03:13
Would
1:03:13
that
1:03:14
be
1:03:14
something
1:03:14
you'd
1:03:14
be
1:03:14
open
1:03:15
to
1:03:15
talking
1:03:15
about?
1:03:18
Okay,
1:03:19
let's
1:03:19
go
1:03:19
to
1:03:19
a
1:03:19
different
1:03:20
example.
1:03:21
I'm.
1:03:21
Well,
1:03:22
really
1:03:22
quick.
1:03:22
I'm
1:03:22
already
1:03:23
seeing
1:03:25
that.
1:03:25
I,
1:03:26
I'm
1:03:26
seeing
1:03:26
in
1:03:27
my
1:03:27
own
1:03:27
life
1:03:27
where
1:03:28
I've
1:03:28
broached
1:03:29
the
1:03:29
subject
1:03:29
wrong
1:03:30
because
1:03:30
I'll
1:03:30
have
1:03:31
said,
1:03:31
like,
1:03:32
hey,
1:03:32
would
1:03:32
you
1:03:33
want
1:03:33
to
1:03:34
blah,
1:03:34
blah.
1:03:34
And
1:03:34
I
1:03:34
Feel
1:03:34
like
1:03:35
maybe
1:03:35
that's
1:03:35
too
1:03:35
much
1:03:35
pressure.
1:03:36
But
1:03:36
you
1:03:36
didn't
1:03:36
do
1:03:36
that.
1:03:37
You
1:03:37
said,
1:03:37
I,
1:03:38
I,
1:03:38
I
1:03:39
want
1:03:39
to
1:03:39
do
1:03:39
this.
1:03:40
But
1:03:40
also
1:03:41
with
1:03:41
the
1:03:41
example
1:03:42
that
1:03:42
you
1:03:42
just
1:03:42
did
1:03:42
in
1:03:42
my
1:03:43
head,
1:03:43
I'm
1:03:43
like,
1:03:43
oh,
1:03:44
that
1:03:44
would
1:03:44
throw
1:03:45
me
1:03:45
for
1:03:45
a
1:03:45
loop.
1:03:46
If
1:03:46
you
1:03:46
just
1:03:46
walked
1:03:47
up
1:03:47
to
1:03:47
me
1:03:47
and
1:03:47
said,
1:03:47
hey,
1:03:48
I,
1:03:48
I
1:03:48
would
1:03:48
like
1:03:49
to
1:03:49
have
1:03:49
a
1:03:49
conversation
1:03:49
about
1:03:50
exploring
1:03:50
anal.
1:03:50
I'd
1:03:51
be
1:03:51
like,
1:03:52
what?
1:03:53
Like,
1:03:54
I
1:03:54
need
1:03:54
kind
1:03:54
of
1:03:54
like
1:03:55
a
1:03:55
build
1:03:55
up
1:03:55
to
1:03:55
like,
1:03:56
hey,
1:03:56
I
1:03:57
love
1:03:57
our
1:03:57
sex
1:03:57
life.
1:03:57
And
1:03:59
I
1:03:59
actually
1:03:59
was
1:03:59
reading
1:04:00
like
1:04:00
an
1:04:00
article
1:04:00
about,
1:04:01
you
1:04:02
know,
1:04:02
the
1:04:02
sensories
1:04:03
and
1:04:03
the
1:04:04
anus
1:04:04
and,
1:04:05
you
1:04:05
know,
1:04:06
a
1:04:06
lead
1:04:07
in,
1:04:07
like
1:04:07
that.
1:04:08
Otherwise
1:04:08
I'm
1:04:08
gonna
1:04:09
be
1:04:09
like,
1:04:09
completely
1:04:09
thrown
1:04:10
off.
1:04:10
Like,
1:04:10
we
1:04:10
can't
1:04:10
talk
1:04:11
about
1:04:11
this
1:04:11
right
1:04:11
now.
1:04:11
Like,
1:04:11
why
1:04:11
are
1:04:12
you
1:04:12
just
1:04:12
throwing
1:04:12
this
1:04:12
at
1:04:12
my
1:04:12
gut?
1:04:13
You.
1:04:13
And
1:04:13
this
1:04:13
is,
1:04:13
it's
1:04:13
called
1:04:14
like
1:04:14
a
1:04:14
positive
1:04:15
of
1:04:15
like
1:04:15
a
1:04:16
positive
1:04:16
sandwich.
1:04:16
So
1:04:16
there's
1:04:17
steps,
1:04:17
right?
1:04:17
So
1:04:18
the
1:04:18
positive,
1:04:18
right?
1:04:19
I
1:04:19
love
1:04:20
the
1:04:20
sex
1:04:20
that
1:04:21
we're
1:04:21
having.
1:04:22
We,
1:04:22
I
1:04:22
love
1:04:23
when
1:04:23
you
1:04:23
do
1:04:23
this,
1:04:23
this
1:04:23
and
1:04:24
that,
1:04:24
right?
1:04:25
Then
1:04:25
you
1:04:25
come
1:04:25
with
1:04:25
the
1:04:26
intention.
1:04:28
I
1:04:28
read,
1:04:29
I
1:04:29
was
1:04:29
reading
1:04:30
something
1:04:30
in
1:04:30
this
1:04:30
book
1:04:31
and
1:04:32
I'm
1:04:32
actually
1:04:33
really
1:04:33
interested
1:04:33
in,
1:04:34
in
1:04:34
trying
1:04:35
a
1:04:35
threesome.
1:04:36
And,
1:04:36
you
1:04:36
know,
1:04:37
whatever
1:04:37
it
1:04:37
may
1:04:37
be,
1:04:37
right?
1:04:38
And
1:04:38
then
1:04:39
it's
1:04:39
the
1:04:39
invitation.
1:04:41
I
1:04:42
would
1:04:43
like
1:04:43
to
1:04:43
know
1:04:43
if
1:04:43
you're,
1:04:44
you
1:04:44
know,
1:04:44
curious
1:04:45
about
1:04:45
this,
1:04:45
then
1:04:45
we
1:04:45
can
1:04:46
set
1:04:46
up
1:04:46
a
1:04:46
time
1:04:46
to
1:04:46
have
1:04:46
a
1:04:47
conversation
1:04:47
around
1:04:47
it
1:04:48
so
1:04:48
we
1:04:48
can
1:04:48
experience
1:04:48
more
1:04:49
pleasure
1:04:49
together.
1:04:50
Would
1:04:50
you
1:04:50
be
1:04:50
okay?
1:04:51
I
1:04:51
like
1:04:51
how
1:04:51
you
1:04:51
said,
1:04:51
schedule
1:04:52
a
1:04:52
time
1:04:52
to
1:04:52
talk
1:04:53
about
1:04:53
it.
1:04:54
People
1:04:54
need
1:04:54
time
1:04:54
to
1:04:54
process.
1:04:55
They
1:04:55
do.
1:04:55
And
1:04:56
everybody's
1:04:56
different.
1:04:57
Some
1:04:57
people
1:04:57
are
1:04:57
ready
1:04:57
to
1:04:57
go
1:04:57
right
1:04:58
then
1:04:58
and
1:04:58
there.
1:04:58
Any
1:04:59
conversation
1:05:00
ever
1:05:01
about
1:05:01
sex,
1:05:02
please
1:05:02
have
1:05:03
at
1:05:03
the
1:05:03
kitchen
1:05:03
table.
1:05:04
Go
1:05:04
do
1:05:05
it
1:05:05
out
1:05:05
at
1:05:05
a
1:05:05
coffee
1:05:06
shop.
1:05:06
Right?
1:05:06
Not
1:05:07
in
1:05:07
the
1:05:07
mood,
1:05:08
not
1:05:08
in
1:05:08
the
1:05:08
moment.
1:05:09
It
1:05:09
is
1:05:09
really
1:05:09
depending
1:05:10
on
1:05:10
turf.
1:05:11
Okay.
1:05:11
And.
1:05:13
Timing.
1:05:14
Yeah.
1:05:14
So
1:05:15
now
1:05:15
I
1:05:15
love
1:05:16
that
1:05:16
you
1:05:16
said
1:05:16
that.
1:05:16
I've
1:05:16
had
1:05:17
to
1:05:17
train
1:05:17
Simon
1:05:18
of
1:05:18
like,
1:05:18
okay,
1:05:18
you
1:05:18
can't
1:05:19
ask
1:05:19
me
1:05:19
in
1:05:19
the
1:05:19
moment.
1:05:20
First
1:05:20
off,
1:05:20
it
1:05:20
stresses
1:05:20
me
1:05:21
out,
1:05:21
and
1:05:21
now
1:05:21
I'm
1:05:21
not
1:05:21
in
1:05:21
the
1:05:22
mood.
1:05:22
Second
1:05:23
of
1:05:23
all,
1:05:23
you
1:05:23
can't
1:05:23
ask
1:05:24
me
1:05:24
just
1:05:24
after
1:05:24
we
1:05:25
try
1:05:25
something
1:05:25
new
1:05:25
if
1:05:26
I
1:05:26
liked
1:05:26
it
1:05:26
or
1:05:26
not.
1:05:26
Like,
1:05:27
my
1:05:27
brain
1:05:27
for
1:05:27
some
1:05:27
reason
1:05:28
has
1:05:28
to
1:05:28
go
1:05:28
through
1:05:29
everything
1:05:30
that
1:05:30
was
1:05:31
felt
1:05:31
and
1:05:31
how
1:05:31
it
1:05:31
went
1:05:32
into
1:05:32
it
1:05:32
and,
1:05:33
and
1:05:33
all
1:05:33
the
1:05:33
things.
1:05:33
And
1:05:34
I
1:05:34
have
1:05:34
to
1:05:35
sit
1:05:35
there
1:05:35
and
1:05:35
be
1:05:35
like,
1:05:35
did
1:05:35
I
1:05:35
like
1:05:36
it?
1:05:36
Did
1:05:36
I
1:05:36
not?
1:05:37
I
1:05:37
don't
1:05:37
know,
1:05:37
do
1:05:38
I
1:05:38
need
1:05:38
to
1:05:38
try
1:05:38
it
1:05:38
again?
1:05:39
And
1:05:39
the
1:05:39
thing
1:05:39
is
1:05:39
too,
1:05:40
after
1:05:41
we
1:05:41
have
1:05:41
orgasms,
1:05:42
our
1:05:42
bodies
1:05:42
are
1:05:42
rushed
1:05:43
with
1:05:43
all
1:05:43
these
1:05:44
chemicals.
1:05:44
Okay?
1:05:45
So,
1:05:45
for
1:05:45
example,
1:05:46
Biologically,
1:05:47
you
1:05:47
need
1:05:48
30
1:05:48
minutes
1:05:49
for
1:05:49
your
1:05:49
adrenaline
1:05:50
level
1:05:50
to
1:05:50
go
1:05:50
back
1:05:51
down
1:05:51
to
1:05:51
baseline
1:05:52
to
1:05:52
actually
1:05:52
know.
1:05:53
So
1:05:54
digesting.
1:05:55
So
1:05:55
when
1:05:55
you
1:05:55
broach
1:05:56
that
1:05:56
conversation,
1:05:57
they
1:05:57
may
1:05:58
be
1:05:58
like,
1:05:58
whoa,
1:05:59
yeah,
1:06:00
let's
1:06:00
like
1:06:00
at
1:06:00
least
1:06:01
and
1:06:01
a
1:06:01
half
1:06:01
hour
1:06:01
or
1:06:02
tomorrow
1:06:02
when
1:06:03
the
1:06:03
drop
1:06:04
off
1:06:05
you
1:06:05
guys
1:06:05
get,
1:06:05
you
1:06:06
know,
1:06:06
it's
1:06:06
an
1:06:06
invitation,
1:06:07
you
1:06:07
know,
1:06:08
yeah,
1:06:08
you're
1:06:08
interested
1:06:09
in,
1:06:09
but
1:06:09
it's
1:06:09
an
1:06:09
invitation.
1:06:10
But
1:06:10
assuring
1:06:11
them
1:06:11
in
1:06:11
the
1:06:11
beginning
1:06:11
with
1:06:12
that
1:06:12
positive
1:06:12
start,
1:06:13
that
1:06:13
everything's
1:06:14
great,
1:06:14
but
1:06:14
I
1:06:15
want
1:06:15
to
1:06:15
enjoy
1:06:15
my
1:06:16
pleasure
1:06:16
with
1:06:16
you.
1:06:16
Would
1:06:17
you
1:06:17
be
1:06:17
open
1:06:17
to
1:06:17
it?
1:06:18
Right?
1:06:19
Yeah.
1:06:20
That's
1:06:20
a
1:06:20
perfect
1:06:21
sandwich.
1:06:22
Yeah,
1:06:22
absolutely.
1:06:23
That
1:06:23
is
1:06:24
beautiful.
1:06:25
So
1:06:25
you're
1:06:25
in
1:06:26
school
1:06:26
to,
1:06:28
you're
1:06:28
in.
1:06:28
School
1:06:29
on
1:06:29
your
1:06:29
way
1:06:30
to
1:06:30
your
1:06:30
masters.
1:06:30
Right,
1:06:32
to
1:06:32
be
1:06:32
a
1:06:33
sex
1:06:33
therapist
1:06:34
for
1:06:34
couples.
1:06:35
Correct.
1:06:37
How
1:06:37
so?
1:06:38
Have
1:06:38
you
1:06:38
gotten
1:06:38
to
1:06:39
practice
1:06:39
yet
1:06:40
on
1:06:41
couples
1:06:42
that
1:06:42
come
1:06:42
together
1:06:43
where
1:06:43
one,
1:06:44
usually
1:06:45
the
1:06:45
female
1:06:45
has
1:06:46
had
1:06:46
some
1:06:46
sexual
1:06:47
trauma
1:06:48
and
1:06:48
it's
1:06:48
like
1:06:48
a
1:06:49
process
1:06:49
to
1:06:49
get
1:06:50
into
1:06:50
that
1:06:50
comfortable
1:06:50
space
1:06:51
with
1:06:51
their
1:06:51
partner?
1:06:51
Yes,
1:06:52
absolutely.
1:06:54
So
1:06:55
the
1:06:55
reason
1:06:55
why
1:06:56
I
1:06:56
am
1:06:56
going
1:06:57
to
1:06:57
school
1:06:57
for
1:06:58
sexual
1:06:58
therapy
1:06:59
is
1:06:59
to
1:06:59
be
1:06:59
able
1:06:59
to
1:06:59
take
1:07:00
insurance
1:07:00
so
1:07:00
I
1:07:00
can
1:07:01
help
1:07:01
more
1:07:01
people.
1:07:02
You
1:07:02
know,
1:07:03
sexual
1:07:04
trauma
1:07:05
affects
1:07:05
more
1:07:06
people
1:07:06
than
1:07:06
many
1:07:06
think
1:07:07
and
1:07:08
sexual
1:07:08
trauma
1:07:09
varies
1:07:10
and
1:07:10
that's
1:07:11
why
1:07:11
the
1:07:12
digestion,
1:07:13
as
1:07:13
you
1:07:13
will,
1:07:13
like
1:07:14
you
1:07:14
said,
1:07:14
is
1:07:14
different.
1:07:15
The
1:07:16
invitation
1:07:17
is
1:07:17
going
1:07:17
to
1:07:17
be
1:07:17
different.
1:07:18
It's
1:07:18
going
1:07:18
to
1:07:18
be
1:07:18
personal.
1:07:19
Oh,
1:07:19
so
1:07:19
maybe
1:07:19
that's
1:07:20
why
1:07:20
I'm
1:07:20
more
1:07:20
like
1:07:20
I
1:07:20
need
1:07:21
more.
1:07:21
Yeah,
1:07:21
you
1:07:21
need
1:07:22
a
1:07:22
little
1:07:22
bit
1:07:22
more.
1:07:23
Sometimes
1:07:23
I
1:07:23
need
1:07:23
it
1:07:23
to
1:07:24
be
1:07:24
a,
1:07:24
you
1:07:24
know,
1:07:24
broad,
1:07:25
you
1:07:25
know,
1:07:26
for
1:07:26
example,
1:07:26
like
1:07:27
when
1:07:28
it
1:07:28
comes
1:07:28
to
1:07:28
desire.
1:07:29
Right.
1:07:29
If
1:07:30
you're
1:07:30
going
1:07:30
to
1:07:30
be
1:07:30
responsive.
1:07:31
Desire.
1:07:31
Right.
1:07:32
You
1:07:32
may
1:07:32
not
1:07:33
be
1:07:33
hungry
1:07:33
for
1:07:34
spaghetti
1:07:34
until
1:07:35
spaghetti
1:07:35
is
1:07:35
on
1:07:35
the
1:07:36
table.
1:07:37
But
1:07:37
it's.
1:07:38
That's
1:07:38
why
1:07:38
everybody's
1:07:39
a
1:07:39
little
1:07:39
different.
1:07:39
But
1:07:40
also
1:07:40
the
1:07:40
way
1:07:41
it's
1:07:41
being
1:07:41
presented.
1:07:42
Cool.
1:07:43
But
1:07:43
how
1:07:43
are
1:07:43
you
1:07:45
with
1:07:45
yourself?
1:07:45
Were
1:07:46
you
1:07:46
connected
1:07:46
to
1:07:46
yourself?
1:07:47
Were
1:07:47
you
1:07:47
stressed
1:07:47
out?
1:07:48
Did
1:07:48
you
1:07:48
feel
1:07:49
safe?
1:07:49
Did
1:07:49
something
1:07:49
happen
1:07:50
earlier
1:07:50
in
1:07:50
the
1:07:50
day?
1:07:50
Were
1:07:50
you
1:07:51
just
1:07:51
like
1:07:52
sometimes
1:07:53
you're
1:07:53
going
1:07:53
to
1:07:53
need
1:07:53
to
1:07:54
have
1:07:54
a
1:07:54
pre
1:07:54
sex
1:07:55
ritual
1:07:56
where
1:07:56
you
1:07:57
find
1:07:57
a
1:07:57
way
1:07:57
to
1:07:57
connect
1:07:58
back
1:07:58
to
1:07:58
your
1:07:58
body.
1:07:59
You
1:07:59
shed
1:08:00
off
1:08:00
the
1:08:00
layers
1:08:00
as
1:08:01
a
1:08:01
de
1:08:01
armoring
1:08:02
process.
1:08:04
Feel
1:08:04
more
1:08:04
safe
1:08:04
with
1:08:05
your
1:08:05
partner.
1:08:05
Do
1:08:05
you
1:08:06
need
1:08:06
to
1:08:06
take
1:08:06
a
1:08:06
bath
1:08:06
with
1:08:07
them?
1:08:07
Do
1:08:07
you
1:08:07
need
1:08:08
to
1:08:08
feel
1:08:08
emotionally
1:08:08
connected
1:08:09
to
1:08:09
them
1:08:09
first?
1:08:10
Do
1:08:10
you
1:08:10
need
1:08:10
to
1:08:11
read
1:08:11
erotica
1:08:12
and
1:08:12
use
1:08:12
a
1:08:12
little
1:08:12
toy
1:08:13
to
1:08:13
get
1:08:13
you
1:08:13
just
1:08:13
started?
1:08:14
What
1:08:14
do
1:08:14
you
1:08:15
need?
1:08:15
Do
1:08:16
you
1:08:16
need
1:08:16
words
1:08:16
of
1:08:16
affirmation?
1:08:17
Do
1:08:18
you
1:08:18
need
1:08:18
a
1:08:18
long
1:08:19
30
1:08:19
minute
1:08:19
cuddle
1:08:20
session?
1:08:20
What
1:08:21
do
1:08:21
you
1:08:22
need?
1:08:22
And
1:08:23
your.
1:08:23
So
1:08:24
like
1:08:24
you
1:08:24
would
1:08:24
talk
1:08:24
to
1:08:24
this
1:08:25
couple
1:08:25
and
1:08:25
say,
1:08:26
hey,
1:08:26
your
1:08:27
wife
1:08:27
has
1:08:27
had
1:08:27
a
1:08:27
traumatic
1:08:28
experience.
1:08:28
It's
1:08:29
kind
1:08:29
of
1:08:29
hard
1:08:29
to
1:08:30
understand
1:08:30
that.
1:08:30
What
1:08:31
do
1:08:31
you
1:08:31
need?
1:08:31
I
1:08:32
need
1:08:32
to
1:08:32
snuggle
1:08:32
for
1:08:32
a
1:08:33
moment,
1:08:33
hear
1:08:33
that
1:08:33
you
1:08:33
love
1:08:34
me
1:08:34
and
1:08:35
then
1:08:35
blah,
1:08:35
blah,
1:08:35
blah.
1:08:36
And
1:08:36
so
1:08:36
that's
1:08:37
kind
1:08:37
of
1:08:37
how
1:08:37
you
1:08:37
teach
1:08:38
them
1:08:38
to
1:08:38
kind
1:08:38
of
1:08:38
connect.
1:08:39
Yes.
1:08:39
And
1:08:40
it's
1:08:40
going
1:08:40
to
1:08:40
be
1:08:40
different
1:08:40
for
1:08:40
everybody.
1:08:41
Everybody
1:08:42
feels
1:08:42
safe
1:08:42
with
1:08:42
different
1:08:43
things.
1:08:43
Right.
1:08:44
So
1:08:44
instead
1:08:44
of
1:08:45
just
1:08:45
the
1:08:45
aftercare
1:08:46
routine
1:08:47
that
1:08:47
some
1:08:47
people
1:08:47
need,
1:08:48
mostly
1:08:48
in
1:08:48
BDSM
1:08:49
situations,
1:08:50
but
1:08:50
an
1:08:50
aftercare
1:08:51
for
1:08:52
those
1:08:52
who've
1:08:52
experienced
1:08:53
trauma
1:08:53
is
1:08:53
going
1:08:54
to
1:08:54
look
1:08:54
different
1:08:54
from
1:08:54
others.
1:08:55
Some
1:08:55
may
1:08:55
need
1:08:56
to
1:08:56
be
1:08:56
brought
1:08:56
a
1:08:56
sandwich.
1:08:57
Some
1:08:57
may
1:08:57
need
1:08:58
their
1:08:58
hair
1:08:59
rubbed.
1:09:00
Some
1:09:00
may
1:09:00
need
1:09:00
a
1:09:01
bunch
1:09:01
of
1:09:01
forehead
1:09:01
kisses.
1:09:03
Some
1:09:03
may
1:09:03
need
1:09:03
to
1:09:04
hear
1:09:04
things,
1:09:05
you
1:09:05
know,
1:09:06
and
1:09:06
that
1:09:06
goes
1:09:07
with
1:09:07
the
1:09:07
pre
1:09:07
care.
1:09:08
So
1:09:08
not
1:09:08
aftercare,
1:09:09
but
1:09:09
pre
1:09:09
care
1:09:09
too.
1:09:10
And
1:09:10
it's
1:09:10
gonna
1:09:11
look
1:09:11
different.
1:09:11
We
1:09:12
literally
1:09:12
create
1:09:12
a
1:09:13
playbook
1:09:13
and
1:09:13
a
1:09:14
user
1:09:14
manual
1:09:15
for
1:09:15
all
1:09:15
of
1:09:16
these
1:09:16
clients.
1:09:17
And
1:09:17
then
1:09:17
when
1:09:17
it
1:09:18
comes
1:09:18
to.
1:09:18
In
1:09:18
the
1:09:18
middle
1:09:19
of
1:09:19
sex,
1:09:20
there's
1:09:20
safe
1:09:20
gestures,
1:09:21
there's
1:09:21
safe
1:09:22
words,
1:09:22
there's
1:09:23
ways
1:09:23
to
1:09:23
stop
1:09:24
it,
1:09:24
there's
1:09:24
ways
1:09:25
to
1:09:25
take
1:09:25
a
1:09:25
pause,
1:09:26
and
1:09:26
there's
1:09:26
ways
1:09:27
to,
1:09:27
you
1:09:27
know,
1:09:28
go
1:09:28
slower,
1:09:28
go
1:09:28
faster.
1:09:29
You
1:09:29
know,
1:09:29
we
1:09:30
create
1:09:30
these
1:09:30
signals
1:09:31
more
1:09:32
fluid
1:09:33
because
1:09:33
each
1:09:33
sexual
1:09:34
experience
1:09:34
is
1:09:34
going
1:09:34
to
1:09:34
be
1:09:34
different.
1:09:35
Even
1:09:35
if
1:09:36
you
1:09:36
have
1:09:36
trauma,
1:09:36
it
1:09:37
can
1:09:37
be
1:09:37
different.
1:09:37
The
1:09:37
position,
1:09:38
the
1:09:38
words
1:09:38
you
1:09:39
don't
1:09:39
know.
1:09:40
But
1:09:40
knowing
1:09:41
what
1:09:41
to
1:09:41
do
1:09:42
when
1:09:43
your
1:09:43
partner
1:09:44
is
1:09:44
triggered
1:09:44
is
1:09:44
big.
1:09:45
And
1:09:45
they'll
1:09:45
tell
1:09:45
you
1:09:45
what
1:09:46
that
1:09:46
is.
1:09:46
And
1:09:46
they
1:09:47
don't
1:09:47
have
1:09:47
to
1:09:47
say
1:09:47
it
1:09:47
in
1:09:47
the
1:09:48
moment.
1:09:48
They
1:09:48
can
1:09:48
just
1:09:48
say
1:09:48
the
1:09:49
word
1:09:49
or
1:09:49
they
1:09:49
can
1:09:50
do
1:09:50
the
1:09:50
snap,
1:09:50
which
1:09:51
is
1:09:51
a
1:09:51
gesture.
1:09:52
Yeah,
1:09:53
we
1:09:53
have
1:09:53
like
1:09:53
a.
1:09:54
We
1:09:54
have
1:09:54
like
1:09:54
a.
1:09:55
A
1:09:55
touch.
1:09:56
If
1:09:56
I
1:09:56
touch
1:09:56
like
1:09:57
this,
1:09:57
that
1:09:57
means,
1:09:57
oh,
1:09:58
okay.
1:09:58
Today
1:09:58
it's
1:09:58
just
1:09:59
not
1:09:59
okay,
1:10:00
perfect.
1:10:00
Yeah.
1:10:01
I
1:10:01
feel
1:10:01
like
1:10:02
listening
1:10:02
to
1:10:02
you
1:10:02
talk
1:10:03
is
1:10:03
kind
1:10:03
of
1:10:04
making
1:10:04
me
1:10:04
go
1:10:04
back
1:10:04
and
1:10:04
taking
1:10:05
almost
1:10:05
full
1:10:06
circle
1:10:07
because
1:10:07
I'm
1:10:08
thinking,
1:10:08
you
1:10:08
know,
1:10:08
a
1:10:08
lot
1:10:09
of
1:10:09
people
1:10:09
sometimes
1:10:09
don't
1:10:10
even
1:10:10
know
1:10:10
what.
1:10:11
What
1:10:11
it
1:10:11
is
1:10:11
that
1:10:11
they're
1:10:12
going
1:10:12
to
1:10:12
need.
1:10:12
And
1:10:13
so
1:10:13
that
1:10:13
takes
1:10:14
us
1:10:14
back
1:10:14
to.
1:10:15
That's
1:10:15
why
1:10:15
it's
1:10:15
important
1:10:16
to
1:10:16
do
1:10:16
your
1:10:16
body
1:10:16
mapping
1:10:17
and
1:10:17
to
1:10:17
know
1:10:17
your
1:10:18
own.
1:10:18
Your
1:10:19
own
1:10:19
self
1:10:19
emotionally
1:10:20
as
1:10:20
well
1:10:20
as
1:10:22
sexually.
1:10:22
Right?
1:10:23
I
1:10:23
guess.
1:10:24
So,
1:10:24
like,
1:10:24
in
1:10:24
our
1:10:25
marriage,
1:10:26
when
1:10:26
we,
1:10:26
like,
1:10:26
literally,
1:10:27
I
1:10:27
think
1:10:27
our
1:10:27
first
1:10:28
two
1:10:28
years,
1:10:28
like,
1:10:29
it
1:10:29
was
1:10:29
very
1:10:29
vanilla,
1:10:30
very
1:10:30
basic,
1:10:30
because
1:10:31
there's
1:10:32
me
1:10:33
trying
1:10:33
to
1:10:33
decide
1:10:34
how
1:10:34
do
1:10:34
I
1:10:34
feel
1:10:34
safe
1:10:35
and
1:10:35
how
1:10:36
are
1:10:36
we,
1:10:37
you
1:10:37
know.
1:10:37
Right.
1:10:38
How
1:10:38
am
1:10:38
I
1:10:38
going
1:10:38
to
1:10:38
get
1:10:38
comfortable
1:10:39
with
1:10:39
this
1:10:40
now
1:10:40
that
1:10:41
I
1:10:41
am
1:10:41
very
1:10:42
comfortable
1:10:42
and
1:10:42
I
1:10:42
am
1:10:43
very
1:10:43
safe
1:10:43
in
1:10:43
my
1:10:43
relationship,
1:10:44
and
1:10:44
we
1:10:44
are
1:10:44
trying
1:10:44
all
1:10:45
the
1:10:45
things
1:10:45
and
1:10:45
getting
1:10:46
into
1:10:46
all
1:10:46
the
1:10:46
fun
1:10:47
things.
1:10:47
It's
1:10:48
like,
1:10:48
I
1:10:48
wonder,
1:10:49
like,
1:10:49
would
1:10:49
there
1:10:49
have
1:10:50
been,
1:10:50
like,
1:10:50
a
1:10:50
faster
1:10:51
way?
1:10:51
Like.
1:10:52
Like
1:10:52
what?
1:10:53
Someone
1:10:53
who
1:10:54
is
1:10:54
in
1:10:54
that
1:10:54
relationship,
1:10:55
like,
1:10:55
where
1:10:55
they're
1:10:56
just
1:10:56
are
1:10:56
struggling,
1:10:57
trying
1:10:57
to
1:10:57
get
1:10:57
comfortable
1:10:58
with
1:10:58
the
1:10:59
sexual
1:10:59
experiences,
1:11:00
like,
1:11:00
is
1:11:00
there
1:11:00
a
1:11:01
faster
1:11:01
way?
1:11:01
Or,
1:11:01
like,
1:11:02
do
1:11:02
you
1:11:02
have
1:11:02
to
1:11:02
spend
1:11:02
two
1:11:03
Years
1:11:03
of,
1:11:03
like,
1:11:04
trying
1:11:04
to
1:11:04
be
1:11:04
like,
1:11:05
I
1:11:05
don't
1:11:05
know
1:11:05
if
1:11:05
I
1:11:06
feel
1:11:06
safe,
1:11:06
I
1:11:06
don't
1:11:06
know
1:11:07
what
1:11:07
I'm
1:11:07
doing.
1:11:07
You
1:11:07
do.
1:11:07
That's
1:11:08
the
1:11:08
thing.
1:11:08
It's
1:11:08
going
1:11:09
to
1:11:09
be
1:11:09
different
1:11:09
for
1:11:09
everybody.
1:11:10
And
1:11:10
the
1:11:10
fact
1:11:11
that
1:11:11
it
1:11:11
took
1:11:11
you
1:11:11
two
1:11:12
years,
1:11:12
that's
1:11:12
going
1:11:13
to
1:11:13
depend
1:11:13
on
1:11:14
how
1:11:14
long
1:11:15
it
1:11:15
makes
1:11:15
you
1:11:15
feel
1:11:15
safe,
1:11:16
how
1:11:16
long
1:11:16
it
1:11:16
takes
1:11:16
to
1:11:16
make
1:11:16
you
1:11:17
feel
1:11:17
safe.
1:11:17
The
1:11:18
way
1:11:18
to
1:11:18
shorten
1:11:18
that
1:11:19
is
1:11:19
to
1:11:19
figure
1:11:20
out
1:11:20
the
1:11:20
things
1:11:20
that
1:11:20
make
1:11:21
you
1:11:21
feel
1:11:21
safe
1:11:22
and
1:11:22
what
1:11:22
your
1:11:22
partner
1:11:23
can
1:11:23
do
1:11:23
and
1:11:23
consistency.
1:11:25
I
1:11:26
feel
1:11:26
like
1:11:26
that
1:11:26
would
1:11:26
have
1:11:26
helped,
1:11:27
like,
1:11:27
not
1:11:28
knowing
1:11:28
that
1:11:28
there's
1:11:28
something
1:11:29
to
1:11:29
figure
1:11:29
out.
1:11:29
Like
1:11:29
there's
1:11:30
something
1:11:30
you
1:11:30
probably.
1:11:31
Yeah.
1:11:31
I
1:11:31
feel
1:11:31
like
1:11:31
you
1:11:31
sounds
1:11:32
like
1:11:32
you
1:11:32
were
1:11:32
floundering,
1:11:33
even.
1:11:33
Not
1:11:33
even
1:11:33
realizing
1:11:34
that
1:11:34
you
1:11:34
had
1:11:34
that
1:11:35
you
1:11:35
were
1:11:35
looking
1:11:35
for
1:11:35
what
1:11:36
it
1:11:36
is.
1:11:36
That
1:11:36
makes
1:11:36
you
1:11:36
safe.
1:11:37
Yeah.
1:11:39
And
1:11:39
sometimes
1:11:39
we
1:11:39
don't
1:11:40
have
1:11:40
to
1:11:40
know
1:11:40
exactly
1:11:41
what
1:11:41
it
1:11:41
is.
1:11:42
We
1:11:42
can
1:11:42
know,
1:11:43
like,
1:11:43
what
1:11:43
the
1:11:43
root
1:11:44
cause
1:11:44
is.
1:11:44
We
1:11:44
don't
1:11:44
have
1:11:45
to
1:11:45
do
1:11:45
that,
1:11:45
but
1:11:46
we
1:11:46
can
1:11:46
know
1:11:46
the
1:11:46
things
1:11:47
that
1:11:47
kind
1:11:47
of
1:11:47
irk
1:11:48
us.
1:11:48
Right.
1:11:48
Whatever
1:11:49
that
1:11:49
is.
1:11:50
Yeah.
1:11:50
And
1:11:50
just
1:11:51
when
1:11:51
it
1:11:51
comes
1:11:52
to
1:11:52
sexual
1:11:52
trauma,
1:11:53
it's
1:11:53
a,
1:11:54
you
1:11:54
know,
1:11:54
if
1:11:54
you're
1:11:54
with
1:11:55
two
1:11:55
people,
1:11:55
it's
1:11:56
a.
1:11:56
It's
1:11:56
a
1:11:56
within
1:11:57
that
1:11:57
partnership
1:11:59
issue.
1:12:00
That's
1:12:00
it.
1:12:00
It's
1:12:00
not
1:12:01
a
1:12:01
personal
1:12:01
issue.
1:12:02
You
1:12:02
get
1:12:02
to
1:12:02
tackle
1:12:03
it
1:12:03
together.
1:12:03
That
1:12:04
builds
1:12:04
that
1:12:04
safety
1:12:05
net
1:12:05
as
1:12:05
well.
1:12:06
Yeah,
1:12:06
but
1:12:07
we
1:12:07
just.
1:12:07
As
1:12:08
people
1:12:08
who
1:12:08
have
1:12:08
trauma,
1:12:10
the
1:12:10
way
1:12:10
that
1:12:10
you
1:12:11
heal
1:12:12
is
1:12:12
different.
1:12:13
But
1:12:13
it's
1:12:13
a
1:12:13
lot
1:12:14
easier
1:12:14
with
1:12:14
a
1:12:14
coach.
1:12:15
It's
1:12:15
a
1:12:16
lot
1:12:16
easier
1:12:16
with
1:12:16
a
1:12:17
coach.
1:12:17
You
1:12:17
don't
1:12:17
have
1:12:17
to
1:12:17
explore
1:12:18
it
1:12:18
on
1:12:18
your
1:12:18
own.
1:12:19
You
1:12:19
only
1:12:19
go
1:12:19
as
1:12:20
deep
1:12:20
as
1:12:20
you
1:12:20
want.
1:12:21
But
1:12:21
the
1:12:21
thing
1:12:21
is,
1:12:22
we
1:12:22
get
1:12:22
to
1:12:22
figure
1:12:22
out
1:12:23
what
1:12:23
are
1:12:23
the
1:12:23
pillows
1:12:24
surrounding
1:12:24
your
1:12:24
body
1:12:24
to
1:12:24
make
1:12:25
you
1:12:25
feel
1:12:25
safer?
1:12:26
What
1:12:26
are
1:12:26
the
1:12:26
words?
1:12:27
What
1:12:27
are
1:12:27
the
1:12:28
things
1:12:28
that
1:12:28
feel
1:12:29
good?
1:12:29
We
1:12:30
put
1:12:30
more
1:12:30
of
1:12:30
that
1:12:30
there.
1:12:31
And
1:12:32
what
1:12:32
do
1:12:32
you
1:12:32
need
1:12:33
to
1:12:33
feel
1:12:33
safe
1:12:33
going
1:12:33
up
1:12:34
and
1:12:34
safe
1:12:35
after?
1:12:36
And
1:12:36
that's
1:12:36
it.
1:12:36
It's.
1:12:37
It's
1:12:37
all
1:12:37
about,
1:12:37
you
1:12:38
know,
1:12:38
if
1:12:38
you're
1:12:38
in
1:12:38
the
1:12:38
car,
1:12:38
how
1:12:38
fast
1:12:39
you
1:12:39
want
1:12:39
to
1:12:39
go,
1:12:40
when
1:12:40
do
1:12:40
you
1:12:40
need
1:12:40
to
1:12:40
hit
1:12:41
the
1:12:41
brakes?
1:12:41
When
1:12:42
can
1:12:42
you
1:12:42
hit
1:12:42
the
1:12:42
gas?
1:12:42
And
1:12:43
how
1:12:43
can
1:12:43
you
1:12:43
say
1:12:43
that?
1:12:44
Right.
1:12:44
Gesture
1:12:45
or
1:12:45
something
1:12:46
to
1:12:46
your
1:12:46
partner
1:12:46
as
1:12:46
you
1:12:47
go
1:12:47
without.
1:12:47
Yeah.
1:12:49
Yeah.
1:12:50
All
1:12:50
right.
1:12:50
You
1:12:50
just
1:12:51
brought
1:12:51
up
1:12:51
sex
1:12:51
coach.
1:12:52
So
1:12:52
is
1:12:52
this
1:12:53
something
1:12:54
that
1:12:56
one
1:12:56
on
1:12:57
one
1:12:57
and
1:12:58
you
1:12:58
are
1:12:59
literally
1:12:59
on
1:13:00
video
1:13:00
coaching
1:13:01
them
1:13:01
how
1:13:01
to
1:13:02
touch
1:13:02
themselves,
1:13:02
or
1:13:03
is
1:13:03
this,
1:13:03
like,
1:13:04
just
1:13:04
a
1:13:05
conversation
1:13:05
of,
1:13:05
okay,
1:13:06
next
1:13:06
time
1:13:06
you're
1:13:06
having
1:13:06
alone
1:13:07
time,
1:13:07
try
1:13:07
this.
1:13:08
Like,
1:13:08
what
1:13:09
is
1:13:09
it?
1:13:09
Next
1:13:09
time
1:13:09
you're
1:13:09
having
1:13:10
alone
1:13:10
time,
1:13:10
try
1:13:10
this?
1:13:11
So
1:13:11
as
1:13:11
a
1:13:11
sex
1:13:11
coach,
1:13:12
I
1:13:12
never
1:13:12
watch
1:13:13
anybody
1:13:13
be
1:13:13
naked.
1:13:14
If
1:13:15
I
1:13:15
do
1:13:15
any
1:13:15
sort
1:13:16
of
1:13:16
guides
1:13:17
for
1:13:17
how
1:13:17
to
1:13:18
touch
1:13:18
yourself,
1:13:18
It'll
1:13:18
be
1:13:18
an
1:13:19
audio
1:13:19
that
1:13:20
they'll
1:13:20
listen
1:13:20
to
1:13:20
later
1:13:21
as
1:13:21
during
1:13:21
their
1:13:22
self
1:13:22
practice.
1:13:24
A
1:13:24
sexual
1:13:24
self
1:13:25
care
1:13:25
routine
1:13:25
is
1:13:26
something
1:13:26
I
1:13:26
highly
1:13:26
recommend.
1:13:27
I
1:13:27
help
1:13:27
my
1:13:27
clients
1:13:28
do
1:13:28
a
1:13:28
user
1:13:28
manual
1:13:29
where
1:13:29
they
1:13:30
figure
1:13:30
out
1:13:30
the
1:13:30
things
1:13:31
that
1:13:31
turn
1:13:31
them
1:13:31
on,
1:13:31
turn
1:13:32
them
1:13:32
off,
1:13:33
their
1:13:33
initiation
1:13:34
styles,
1:13:34
their
1:13:34
erotic
1:13:35
blueprint
1:13:35
styles,
1:13:36
their
1:13:37
sex
1:13:37
language
1:13:38
as
1:13:38
well
1:13:38
as
1:13:38
their
1:13:39
love
1:13:39
language
1:13:39
and
1:13:39
what
1:13:40
desire
1:13:40
type
1:13:40
they
1:13:41
are.
1:13:42
A
1:13:42
lot
1:13:42
goes
1:13:43
into
1:13:43
this.
1:13:44
Never
1:13:44
mind.
1:13:45
You
1:13:46
know,
1:13:47
trauma
1:13:47
always
1:13:48
can
1:13:48
play
1:13:48
a
1:13:49
big
1:13:49
part
1:13:49
into
1:13:49
all
1:13:49
of
1:13:50
those.
1:13:50
And
1:13:51
yeah,
1:13:51
knowing
1:13:52
these
1:13:52
things
1:13:52
in
1:13:53
a
1:13:53
way
1:13:53
that
1:13:53
you're
1:13:53
able
1:13:53
to
1:13:54
find
1:13:54
like,
1:13:54
oh,
1:13:54
wow,
1:13:54
that
1:13:55
makes
1:13:55
sense.
1:13:55
Then
1:13:56
communicate
1:13:56
it
1:13:56
to
1:13:56
your
1:13:57
partner.
1:13:58
Game
1:13:58
changer.
1:13:59
Everyone's
1:13:59
on
1:13:59
the
1:13:59
same
1:14:00
table
1:14:00
with
1:14:01
the
1:14:01
right
1:14:01
information
1:14:03
and
1:14:03
then
1:14:03
it's
1:14:04
just
1:14:04
opens
1:14:05
up
1:14:05
room
1:14:05
for
1:14:06
so
1:14:06
much
1:14:06
more.
1:14:08
Yeah,
1:14:08
I'm
1:14:09
glad
1:14:09
that
1:14:09
we
1:14:10
answered
1:14:11
what
1:14:11
a
1:14:11
sex
1:14:11
coach
1:14:11
is
1:14:12
because
1:14:12
what
1:14:12
I
1:14:12
see
1:14:12
in
1:14:13
my
1:14:13
brain
1:14:13
is
1:14:13
meet
1:14:14
the
1:14:14
Fockers
1:14:14
and
1:14:14
she's
1:14:15
sitting
1:14:15
there
1:14:15
like
1:14:15
putting
1:14:16
people
1:14:16
together.
1:14:20
About
1:14:20
that.
1:14:22
So
1:14:22
unfortunately,
1:14:23
no,
1:14:23
I
1:14:24
do
1:14:24
not
1:14:24
do
1:14:24
that.
1:14:25
If
1:14:25
I
1:14:25
ever
1:14:25
do
1:14:25
a
1:14:26
workshop,
1:14:26
it'll
1:14:26
be
1:14:27
like,
1:14:27
like
1:14:27
fully
1:14:28
clothed,
1:14:28
you
1:14:29
know,
1:14:29
a
1:14:29
little.
1:14:30
A
1:14:30
little
1:14:30
tantra
1:14:31
if
1:14:31
you
1:14:32
will.
1:14:33
Couple.
1:14:33
Is
1:14:34
that
1:14:34
a
1:14:34
skill
1:14:34
you
1:14:34
have
1:14:34
as
1:14:35
well?
1:14:35
Teaching
1:14:36
Tantra
1:14:37
tantrum.
1:14:37
Yeah.
1:14:39
And
1:14:39
there's
1:14:39
a
1:14:39
lot
1:14:39
of,
1:14:40
you
1:14:40
know,
1:14:40
beginner
1:14:41
all
1:14:41
the
1:14:41
way
1:14:41
up
1:14:41
to,
1:14:42
you
1:14:42
know,
1:14:42
this.
1:14:42
It's
1:14:43
a
1:14:43
beautiful
1:14:43
modality,
1:14:44
it's
1:14:44
a
1:14:44
beautiful
1:14:45
practice
1:14:45
and
1:14:46
that
1:14:46
is
1:14:46
really
1:14:47
getting
1:14:47
touched
1:14:47
with.
1:14:48
With
1:14:48
yourself.
1:14:48
Very
1:14:48
much
1:14:49
so.
1:14:49
In
1:14:50
your
1:14:50
own
1:14:50
body.
1:14:50
Man,
1:14:51
there's
1:14:51
so
1:14:51
much.
1:14:52
I
1:14:52
feel
1:14:52
like
1:14:52
there's
1:14:52
so
1:14:52
much
1:14:53
we
1:14:53
didn't
1:14:53
even
1:14:54
cover.
1:14:55
I
1:14:55
voted
1:14:56
and
1:14:56
like,
1:14:56
like
1:14:56
let's.
1:14:56
We
1:14:57
can
1:14:57
break
1:14:57
them
1:14:57
up
1:14:57
all
1:14:57
into
1:14:58
little
1:14:58
episodes,
1:14:58
bites.
1:14:59
That
1:14:59
I
1:15:00
would
1:15:00
love
1:15:00
that
1:15:00
I
1:15:01
would
1:15:01
love
1:15:01
it
1:15:01
if
1:15:01
we
1:15:01
could
1:15:01
get
1:15:01
you
1:15:02
back
1:15:02
and
1:15:02
talk
1:15:02
about
1:15:03
the
1:15:03
like
1:15:04
initiation.
1:15:05
I.
1:15:05
That
1:15:05
was
1:15:05
something
1:15:06
you
1:15:06
said
1:15:06
and
1:15:06
I
1:15:06
was
1:15:06
like,
1:15:06
wait,
1:15:07
what?
1:15:09
That
1:15:09
will
1:15:09
change
1:15:10
depending
1:15:10
on
1:15:10
the
1:15:11
cycle
1:15:11
you're
1:15:11
in.
1:15:11
If
1:15:11
you
1:15:12
are.
1:15:12
Okay.
1:15:13
That
1:15:13
I
1:15:14
really
1:15:14
do
1:15:14
want
1:15:14
to
1:15:14
talk.
1:15:14
About
1:15:14
women
1:15:15
Cycle
1:15:15
as
1:15:15
in
1:15:16
like
1:15:16
we
1:15:17
are
1:15:17
talking
1:15:17
about
1:15:17
like
1:15:18
menstrual
1:15:18
cycle.
1:15:21
Ovulation,
1:15:23
luteal.
1:15:24
I
1:15:24
get
1:15:24
the
1:15:24
cycles.
1:15:25
We
1:15:25
can
1:15:25
go
1:15:25
through
1:15:25
that
1:15:25
for
1:15:26
sure.
1:15:26
It's
1:15:26
really
1:15:26
cool
1:15:26
to
1:15:26
know
1:15:27
when
1:15:27
you're
1:15:27
most
1:15:27
creative
1:15:28
too,
1:15:28
as
1:15:28
a
1:15:28
business
1:15:29
owner
1:15:29
or
1:15:29
when
1:15:30
you're
1:15:30
most
1:15:30
open
1:15:31
or
1:15:31
when
1:15:32
you
1:15:32
need
1:15:32
more
1:15:32
rest
1:15:33
in
1:15:33
a
1:15:33
book
1:15:33
and
1:15:34
chocolate.
1:15:34
Like
1:15:34
it's
1:15:35
just
1:15:35
there's
1:15:36
so
1:15:36
many
1:15:36
things.
1:15:37
But
1:15:37
your
1:15:37
psycho
1:15:38
controls.
1:15:38
When
1:15:38
you're
1:15:38
more
1:15:39
creative
1:15:39
than
1:15:40
other.
1:15:40
What?
1:15:41
Yeah,
1:15:42
so
1:15:42
much.
1:15:42
When
1:15:42
you're
1:15:43
more
1:15:43
open
1:15:43
to
1:15:43
different
1:15:44
types
1:15:44
of
1:15:44
initiation
1:15:45
by
1:15:45
your
1:15:45
partner,
1:15:46
when
1:15:46
you
1:15:46
actually
1:15:47
need
1:15:47
more
1:15:48
physical
1:15:48
attention
1:15:49
or
1:15:50
soft
1:15:51
touch
1:15:52
or
1:15:53
if
1:15:53
you
1:15:53
want
1:15:53
to
1:15:53
be
1:15:53
thanked.
1:15:54
Like
1:15:54
it's
1:15:54
all
1:15:55
depending
1:15:55
on
1:15:55
that
1:15:55
cycle.
1:15:56
We
1:15:56
have
1:15:56
four
1:15:56
cycles.
1:15:59
Yeah.
1:16:01
So
1:16:01
many
1:16:01
things.
1:16:02
Lauren,
1:16:02
thank
1:16:02
you.
1:16:03
Yes,
1:16:04
thank
1:16:04
you,
1:16:04
my
1:16:04
friend.
1:16:05
This
1:16:05
has
1:16:05
been.
1:16:06
My
1:16:06
mind
1:16:06
is
1:16:06
blown.
1:16:07
Yeah,
1:16:07
I
1:16:08
feel.
1:16:08
Thank
1:16:08
you
1:16:09
so
1:16:09
much.
1:16:09
It
1:16:09
has.
1:16:10
It
1:16:10
has
1:16:10
been
1:16:11
great.
1:16:12
So
1:16:12
we'll
1:16:12
have
1:16:13
you
1:16:13
on
1:16:13
again.
1:16:14
So,
1:16:14
listeners,
1:16:16
make
1:16:16
sure
1:16:16
that
1:16:16
you
1:16:16
are
1:16:17
letting
1:16:17
us
1:16:17
know
1:16:18
which
1:16:19
aspect
1:16:19
do
1:16:20
you
1:16:20
want
1:16:20
to
1:16:20
dive
1:16:21
into
1:16:21
deeper
1:16:22
and
1:16:23
have
1:16:23
Lauren
1:16:24
help
1:16:24
us
1:16:24
explore.
1:16:25
I
1:16:25
mean,
1:16:25
there's
1:16:26
so
1:16:26
many
1:16:26
sex
1:16:26
toys,
1:16:27
apparently
1:16:27
cycles.
1:16:28
Women's
1:16:29
like.
1:16:29
Yeah.
1:16:29
Women's
1:16:30
health.
1:16:31
Yeah,
1:16:31
all
1:16:32
of
1:16:32
it.
1:16:32
It's
1:16:32
so
1:16:33
fun.
1:16:33
I'll
1:16:33
have
1:16:33
to
1:16:34
re.
1:16:34
Listen
1:16:34
to
1:16:34
this
1:16:34
episode
1:16:35
too,
1:16:35
because
1:16:35
I'll.
1:16:35
Throughout
1:16:36
listening,
1:16:36
I'll.
1:16:37
I
1:16:37
know.
1:16:37
I'll
1:16:37
be
1:16:37
like,
1:16:37
oh,
1:16:37
yeah,
1:16:38
that
1:16:38
she
1:16:38
said
1:16:38
that.
1:16:38
I.
1:16:39
Yeah,
1:16:39
I
1:16:39
already
1:16:40
got
1:16:40
questions.
1:16:40
I'm
1:16:41
already
1:16:41
going
1:16:41
to
1:16:41
be
1:16:42
in
1:16:42
your
1:16:42
DMs
1:16:43
once
1:16:43
we
1:16:43
stop
1:16:43
recording,
1:16:44
please.
1:16:44
I
1:16:45
appreciate
1:16:45
you
1:16:46
guys
1:16:46
for
1:16:46
making
1:16:46
this
1:16:47
platform
1:16:47
available,
1:16:49
covering
1:16:50
so
1:16:50
many
1:16:50
beautiful
1:16:50
topics,
1:16:51
and
1:16:51
we
1:16:51
thank
1:16:52
you.
1:16:52
We
1:16:52
had
1:16:52
a
1:16:53
great
1:16:53
time.
1:16:53
You
1:16:53
guys
1:16:53
are
1:16:53
very
1:16:54
easy
1:16:54
to
1:16:54
talk
1:16:54
to.
1:16:54
And
1:16:55
I
1:16:55
am
1:16:55
here
1:16:56
for
1:16:56
you.
1:16:56
I'm
1:16:57
here
1:16:57
for
1:16:57
your
1:16:57
listeners.
1:16:58
If
1:16:58
you
1:16:58
do
1:16:58
somebody
1:16:59
to
1:16:59
talk
1:16:59
about
1:16:59
these
1:16:59
questions,
1:17:00
you
1:17:00
don't
1:17:00
know
1:17:00
who
1:17:00
else
1:17:00
to
1:17:01
ask.
1:17:01
I'd
1:17:02
be
1:17:02
honored
1:17:02
to
1:17:02
be
1:17:02
that
1:17:02
person
1:17:03
for
1:17:03
you,
1:17:03
man.
1:17:03
I
1:17:03
got
1:17:04
you.
1:17:04
Thank
1:17:05
you.
1:17:05
Got
1:17:05
it.
1:17:05
Thank
1:17:06
you.
1:17:06
Thanks
1:17:07
so
1:17:07
much.
1:17:07
Well,
1:17:07
you
1:17:08
heard
1:17:08
it
1:17:08
here,
1:17:08
guys.
1:17:09
Skirts
1:17:09
out.
1:17:10
I
1:17:10
guess
1:17:12
we'll
1:17:12
go
1:17:12
with
1:17:13
that.
1:17:13
Oh,
1:17:13
I
1:17:14
just
1:17:14
wanted,
1:17:14
like,
1:17:14
before
1:17:14
I
1:17:15
stop
1:17:15
recording,
1:17:16
can
1:17:16
we
1:17:17
start
1:17:17
singing
1:17:17
our
1:17:17
song
1:17:18
again?
1:17:18
Again?
1:17:19
Yeah,
1:17:19
because
1:17:19
now
1:17:20
it
1:17:20
will
1:17:20
be
1:17:20
on
1:17:20
recording.
1:17:21
Oh,
1:17:21
I
1:17:21
thought
1:17:21
we
1:17:22
had.
1:17:22
It
1:17:22
wasn't
1:17:23
recording.
1:17:24
All
1:17:24
right,
1:17:24
Lauren,
1:17:25
can
1:17:25
we
1:17:25
end
1:17:25
by
1:17:25
serenading
1:17:26
you
1:17:26
again?
1:17:27
We
1:17:27
thought
1:17:27
that
1:17:28
you
1:17:28
would
1:17:28
like
1:17:28
this.
1:17:29
So
1:17:30
just
1:17:30
to
1:17:30
set
1:17:31
the
1:17:31
stage.
1:17:33
The.
1:17:34
Air
1:17:34
came
1:17:34
on
1:17:35
and
1:17:35
it
1:17:35
sounded
1:17:35
like.
1:17:35
We
1:17:35
were
1:17:37
under
1:17:37
the
1:17:37
sea.
1:17:39
Under
1:17:39
the
1:17:39
sea.
1:17:41
Wait,
1:17:41
darling,
1:17:42
it's
1:17:42
better
1:17:43
down
1:17:43
where
1:17:43
it's
1:17:44
wetter.
1:17:44
Take
1:17:45
it
1:17:45
from
1:17:45
me.
1:17:47
All
1:17:47
right.
1:17:47
And
1:17:47
see
1:17:48
what
1:17:48
we
1:17:48
did
1:17:48
there.
1:17:48
Wetter
1:17:49
on
1:17:49
there.
1:17:49
And
1:17:50
she's
1:17:50
doing
1:17:50
all
1:17:50
the
1:17:50
wiggle,
1:17:51
wiggle,
1:17:51
wiggle.
1:17:51
Yeah.
1:17:53
Okay,
1:17:54
guys,
1:17:54
we'll
1:17:54
stop
1:17:54
being
1:17:55
dirty.
1:17:58
Did
1:17:59
you
1:17:59
like
1:17:59
the
1:17:59
episode
1:18:00
that
1:18:00
you
1:18:00
heard
1:18:00
today?
1:18:01
Great.
1:18:02
Share
1:18:02
it
1:18:02
with
1:18:02
a
1:18:02
friend
1:18:03
and
1:18:03
don't
1:18:03
forget
1:18:04
to
1:18:04
rate
1:18:04
and
1:18:05
review.