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- 0:00Speaker 1: We got a question for our American mamas. Dear mamas,
- 0:02Speaker 1: do you trust AI to make up your wedding vows?
- 0:04Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our American mamas.
- 0:08Speaker 3: Mama, Mama.
- 0:20Speaker 1: And joining us now our American mama's turn Utville and
- 0:22Speaker 1: Kimberlee Burlison. There is there's a new thing where you
- 0:28Speaker 1: can go and ask Ai to write your wedding vows
- 0:32Speaker 1: for you. You can put in some details about your relationship,
- 0:35Speaker 1: how the two of you met, or what y'all like doing,
- 0:37Speaker 1: and then AI will spit out these vows like I
- 0:40Speaker 1: promise I will never cheat at Huno. It's something along
- 0:44Speaker 1: those lines. So would y'all ever have AI write your
- 0:51Speaker 1: wedding vows? I mean, obviously you're not. I mean you're
- 0:54Speaker 1: happily married, not getting you're married again, But if you did.
- 0:56Speaker 3: I use Ai nail all the time, all the time,
- 0:59Speaker 3: all the time, And I think of AI when I
- 1:01Speaker 3: was thinking about the vowels, because I know it's it's
- 1:03Speaker 3: a growing trend, like more and more couples were doing it,
- 1:06Speaker 3: and I really think of it as a starting point,
- 1:09Speaker 3: like it's just to get your thoughts organized and kind
- 1:11Speaker 3: of figure out where you're going to go because a
- 1:13Speaker 3: lot of times I think you read it and you
- 1:15Speaker 3: think it doesn't quite sound like me. But it's a
- 1:18Speaker 3: good I can I can use something from this, Okay,
- 1:21Speaker 3: So I really think that's really what they're doing. But
- 1:24Speaker 3: to me, it kind of takes away the uh, the connection,
- 1:28Speaker 3: the authenticity. But it depends on how you use it, Okay.
- 1:33Speaker 3: So I think it's just you can use it as.
- 1:35Speaker 1: A good tool, as a starting point.
- 1:37Speaker 3: Maybe as a starting point.
- 1:38Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I don't. I don't know. I mean, I
- 1:42Speaker 2: get it.
- 1:42Speaker 3: You don't use AI, I don't.
- 1:44Speaker 2: I mean I do. I do, but not for writing things,
- 1:46Speaker 2: because that's kind of my outlet, its writer. So I like,
- 1:51Speaker 2: I like critical thinking. I like to think about my
- 1:54Speaker 2: spin on things or how I want to word things.
- 1:56Speaker 2: And but I don't despage anybody for using it, because
- 1:59Speaker 2: I'm sure that gives you confidence to go in there
- 2:02Speaker 2: and you're gonna say these vowels in front of all
- 2:03Speaker 2: of your friends and family. But this was so interesting.
- 2:07Speaker 2: So a friend of mine showed me a poem that
- 2:09Speaker 2: her husband that her boyfriend wrote for her. She's about
- 2:12Speaker 2: my age, and I read the poem and I said,
- 2:16Speaker 2: oh my god, this is amazing. This is this is beautiful,
- 2:21Speaker 2: like this, this is something you would find in a poem,
- 2:24Speaker 2: a book of poems. She said, Oh my gosh. All
- 2:27Speaker 2: he did is he put down some of those qualities
- 2:29Speaker 2: in me that he loves and some of the things
- 2:31Speaker 2: that we've done together, and he stuck it in Ai.
- 2:35Speaker 2: And Ai wrote the poem and he said, it's exactly
- 2:38Speaker 2: what he wanted to say. Like Ai wrote the poem,
- 2:41Speaker 2: I was like what I was like, So it was beautiful.
- 2:44Speaker 2: I was It's almost like those songs that we're hearing now, Ai,
- 2:49Speaker 2: songs that are generated, and it might be like, play
- 2:54Speaker 2: a country version of Michael Jackson's beat It song, right,
- 2:57Speaker 2: you hear the song, you hear the person, and you're like,
- 3:00Speaker 2: that would be a hit, that is amazing, And you
- 3:02Speaker 2: find out that person doesn't exist. It's a yeah, it's
- 3:05Speaker 2: all a you don't know what's real. And I worry
- 3:08Speaker 2: about that because I think about our college kids going
- 3:11Speaker 2: through college and will they understand the importance of critical thinking?
- 3:15Speaker 2: Will they be able to let's say this all goes
- 3:18Speaker 2: to pot I don't know how it could or would,
- 3:20Speaker 2: but what are you left with?
- 3:22Speaker 1: Right? And and I think this gets back to one
- 3:25Speaker 1: of those that my concerns about AI is that it's polished.
- 3:33Speaker 1: It's really good, it's it's gosh, look at that. That's amazing.
- 3:36Speaker 1: But there's no soul in it, you know what I mean,
- 3:39Speaker 1: there's no there's no actual heart in it. And I
- 3:43Speaker 1: get back to the you know, why not go with
- 3:47Speaker 1: the original vows to having to hold yes to honor
- 3:50Speaker 1: and cherish so in good times and in bad right,
- 3:54Speaker 1: for for for wealth, yeah, with sickness and health and
- 3:59Speaker 1: in good times and a bad poverty, wealth whatever, all
- 4:03Speaker 1: these things. Why not why not stick with those original
- 4:06Speaker 1: ones because it kind of covers what you're actually promising, right.
- 4:09Speaker 2: Yeah, I think the majority do those valves. I don't
- 4:12Speaker 2: think that the majority write their own vowels.
- 4:14Speaker 3: Well, I think the trend is to write your own
- 4:16Speaker 3: vowels and you say it privately to each other, and
- 4:18Speaker 3: then in front of everybody you'll do traditional vowels, which
- 4:21Speaker 3: is what my kids did.
- 4:22Speaker 1: Okay.
- 4:23Speaker 3: My take is right from the heart. Just write something
- 4:25Speaker 3: from the heart, your promises, all your feelings, and then
- 4:29Speaker 3: put it in chat GIBT and let them polish it
- 4:31Speaker 3: if you want to.
- 4:32Speaker 1: So you would use chat GBT to polish rather than
- 4:35Speaker 1: the original writing. Yeah, that's an interesting way of going
- 4:39Speaker 1: about doing it. I'm with you, Terry. As a writer,
- 4:42Speaker 1: I don't I don't like using chat gibt to write
- 4:45Speaker 1: for me. I want to write for myself.
- 4:47Speaker 3: But this is your gift and talent. And this is
- 4:49Speaker 3: your gift and talent.
- 4:50Speaker 1: But I understand not everybody.
- 4:52Speaker 2: Yeah, I can totally see where people would like, let
- 4:55Speaker 2: me put down everything that means is important to me
- 4:57Speaker 2: and let somebody polish it up. I totally understand that
- 5:00Speaker 2: it's just for me. I just I think differently, and
- 5:03Speaker 2: when I write, I write differently, and I don't think
- 5:06Speaker 2: a I could and I don't know, maybe it could.
- 5:08Speaker 2: Maybe it could look at all my other past writings
- 5:10Speaker 2: and word things the way I like it to be worded.
- 5:12Speaker 2: But I completely see why people use it.
- 5:15Speaker 1: And to the whole country music. You know, Michael Jackson's
- 5:17Speaker 1: a country music song. I would much rather hear an
- 5:19Speaker 1: actual person to try and do.
- 5:22Speaker 2: And you want to go to these concerts and these
- 5:23Speaker 2: people don't even.
- 5:24Speaker 1: Exist, Yeah, and that that kind of is a little
- 5:27Speaker 1: yeah said.
- 5:28Speaker 2: So yeah, I wonder if that'll be a category one day,
- 5:33Speaker 2: you know, at the Grammys.
- 5:35Speaker 1: Like yeah, stay I song. Well, you can't copyright an
- 5:38Speaker 1: AI piece of work, so I don't know if.
- 5:41Speaker 3: It will, can't make any money off of it, can make.
- 5:42Speaker 1: Any money off of it. That's what the Supreme Court said.
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- 5:50Speaker 1: turn ed. If Kimberly Brothers and thank you so much.
- 5:52Speaker 2: Thank you,