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- 0:11Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
- 0:17Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:22Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
- 0:25Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:27Nicole Laino: And today we are going deep into a topic that I can't escape from.
- 0:33Nicole Laino: Whenever we're aware of something, it's like the white car thing.
- 0:37Nicole Laino: When you're aware of something, when it's in your awareness, when it's in your experience, you start to see it everywhere.
- 0:43Nicole Laino: And this is a theme that I just see everywhere.
- 0:45Nicole Laino: And I'm seeing it everywhere for lots of reasons.
- 0:47Nicole Laino: If you listened to the January and February episodes that I did on this show for the Transits with Christina Luna, we talked about elements of this thing.
- 0:56Nicole Laino: If you listened to a lot of the episodes that I did in the month of January, mentioned this theme, and the reason for that is it's present now, and it's something that we have had theme that is going away in 2027.
- 1:12Nicole Laino: So what we're talking about today on the show, we're Talking about the 2027 change going from the cross of planning to the cross of the sleeping phoenix.
- 1:21Nicole Laino: Now, I did do an episode on this a couple years ago.
- 1:25Nicole Laino: It's been a while, which is why I'm revisiting it.
- 1:27Nicole Laino: Because I have a very different relationship.
- 1:30Nicole Laino: I'm seeing different things about it.
- 1:31Nicole Laino: I understand it so much more deeply than I did before.
- 1:35Nicole Laino: And I'm sure as this year goes on, I'm going to understand it even more and more deeply because I'm contemplating these things.
- 1:42Nicole Laino: I am.
- 1:43Nicole Laino: And this is just to clue you guys in on how you work with human design and how you work with a lot of this stuff.
- 1:48Nicole Laino: Some people think about it as a hard study.
- 1:51Nicole Laino: There's only so much information available on this stuff.
- 1:54Nicole Laino: So it's about allowing it to percolate, allowing it to marinate, allowing it to let this information and your awareness tune you to these themes out in the world and start to see what comes up for you.
- 2:12Nicole Laino: That's what this process is about.
- 2:15Nicole Laino: Contemplating is not about, like, hardcore studying and forcing answers out of something, which is how a lot of people approach human design.
- 2:23Nicole Laino: And I understand that because I did, too, in the beginning.
- 2:26Nicole Laino: But it's this gentle, kind of playful way of being in relationship to the information that you're in relationship with it.
- 2:34Nicole Laino: So it's like you're gently thinking about it.
- 2:36Nicole Laino: You're.
- 2:36Nicole Laino: It's in the back of your mind, but you're walking about your day, you're going about your life and then you see something that gives you a clue to something that you weren't even aware of a couple of years ago.
- 2:48Nicole Laino: That's how this works.
- 2:50Nicole Laino: So what I wanted to do, and that's what I mean about this, that I.
- 2:55Nicole Laino: When I did that episode in 2023, I think it was, it's episode 2 16.
- 2:58Nicole Laino: So if you want to go back and listen to it's still all relevant, it's all factually correct.
- 3:03Nicole Laino: I just feel like I am able to connect the dots in such a more meaningful way.
- 3:09Nicole Laino: And the depth of my knowledge of human design has obviously changed in the last two plus years.
- 3:15Nicole Laino: That where I am now versus where I was then.
- 3:18Nicole Laino: I'm a different person with a whole different host of experiences and lessons that I've learned.
- 3:24Nicole Laino: So that's why I wanted to do this.
- 3:26Nicole Laino: I feel like I'm bringing something really new to this conversation that we didn't cover in 2:16.
- 3:32Nicole Laino: But if you aren't familiar with these changes and you want to go deeper into like the foundations of what it means, the ABCs of it all, go back and listen to episode 216.
- 3:41Nicole Laino: We'll link it up in the show notes for you so you can go deeper into that.
- 3:44Nicole Laino: Okay.
- 3:44Nicole Laino: But today what we're gonna be focusing on, cause this shift is coming February 14th of 2027.
- 3:50Nicole Laino: We will officially end the cross of planning and enter into the cross of the Sleeping Phoenix.
- 3:56Nicole Laino: It's almost one year away.
- 3:58Nicole Laino: It's almost exactly one year away if you're listening to this at the time that the episode drops.
- 4:04Nicole Laino: So in this episode, what I wanna do, it's building on what we talked about in episode 216.
- 4:09Nicole Laino: We're going to go some different places with it, tying things together with what we're seeing right now.
- 4:15Nicole Laino: But really what I want to do is I want to share themes around the shift and what they will be.
- 4:19Nicole Laino: What are the differences between these two things?
- 4:21Nicole Laino: I am going touch on some of the foundations so you don't have to worry if you didn't listen to that last episode.
- 4:26Nicole Laino: You don't need to stop this and not listen to it.
- 4:30Nicole Laino: You can follow along with us.
- 4:32Nicole Laino: But if you want to go deeper, go back and listen to that one.
- 4:35Nicole Laino: I want to talk about how we're seeing this transition play out in real time.
- 4:39Nicole Laino: In front of us right now.
- 4:40Nicole Laino: How are we already seeing these different competing themes show up?
- 4:46Nicole Laino: How are we already seeing the battle between the Planner and the Phoenix?
- 4:54Nicole Laino: And what's the difference between these two creatures?
- 4:56Nicole Laino: Right.
- 4:57Nicole Laino: We're going to talk a little bit about what the role of human design is in all of this and how you can use it to help lead you through this change.
- 5:03Nicole Laino: And then I want to talk about what you can be doing now.
- 5:06Nicole Laino: How do you use this year to prepare yourself for what's coming?
- 5:10Nicole Laino: Because make no mistake, this is going to be a completely different way for humanity to operate.
- 5:18Nicole Laino: And what we're seeing now is the chaos that is coming from people not knowing what to do in this interregnum period, in this time between times.
- 5:30Nicole Laino: And how can you be an observer of this and not get caught up in all of it?
- 5:37Nicole Laino: That is one of the things.
- 5:38Nicole Laino: Like I think in 2023 when I did this, I had knowledge of this change, but I really didn't fully grasp energetically what was going.
- 5:48Nicole Laino: I understood logically what would happen.
- 5:51Nicole Laino: But now what I'm able to see is these things play out and from a place of almost neutrality.
- 5:58Nicole Laino: I'm not completely out of it, but that's what human design can help you with, is to pull you out of the fray so you're not caught up in the vortex of this energy that you're actually able to be an observer of this, to be able to see what is happening, to be an observer of this program.
- 6:15Nicole Laino: Cuz that is ultimately what we're talking about.
- 6:17Nicole Laino: We're talking about.
- 6:19Nicole Laino: We are programmed right now and have been since the year 1615.
- 6:23Nicole Laino: We have been programmed by the Cross of Planning and now we are going to be programmed by the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix starting in February of 2027.
- 6:33Nicole Laino: These are very different themes, okay.
- 6:35Nicole Laino: Very different programs.
- 6:36Nicole Laino: I do want to say, if you are interested in this topic, I'm actually going to be teaching a workshop on this.
- 6:41Nicole Laino: So this will go worlds different, deeper than these two episodes ever could.
- 6:48Nicole Laino: I'm really going to be teaching about what this change is.
- 6:50Nicole Laino: I'm going to be showing you the details of it.
- 6:52Nicole Laino: There are actually.
- 6:53Nicole Laino: There's actually two other Crosses that are part of this.
- 6:56Nicole Laino: It's not just planning and the Phoenix.
- 6:58Nicole Laino: There are actually two other crosses at play in this whole greater program.
- 7:04Nicole Laino: There's one that's associated with the Cross of Planning and one that's associated with the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix.
- 7:08Nicole Laino: They very often don't get talked about.
- 7:10Nicole Laino: We're going to go into that, I'm really going to show you how these themes are shifting from one to the other.
- 7:15Nicole Laino: We're going to break it down in great detail and we're going to talk about the changes that you can be a part of.
- 7:22Nicole Laino: If you are a spiritual worker, if you're a human design coach.
- 7:26Nicole Laino: A lot of certifications do not teach about this and they don't teach about it to the level that I'm going to be teaching about it in this workshop.
- 7:32Nicole Laino: But if you are an energetics person, a service provider or something where you guide people, I personally think that this workshop is required reading or required participation.
- 7:43Nicole Laino: This information in this class is really going to prepare you to be a leader.
- 7:49Nicole Laino: In fact, that's what we're calling it, is how to lead through the change and starts with leading yourself.
- 7:55Nicole Laino: And then it's going to be about how you lead others.
- 7:57Nicole Laino: How can you be a force of steadiness and calm in the eye of the storm for the people who are really caught up in it.
- 8:06Nicole Laino: There's great opportunity here, both for your business, but also just as a human being.
- 8:12Nicole Laino: You can be a steward throughout this, helping people make their way through this transition and understand it.
- 8:20Nicole Laino: So if you want in on that, this is a paid workshop because we are going deep.
- 8:23Nicole Laino: I am teaching, teaching in this.
- 8:25Nicole Laino: So we are going beyond just like themes.
- 8:27Nicole Laino: Like if you think this episode is great, forget about what you're going to see, what we're teaching in this.
- 8:31Nicole Laino: We're going to take you really deep into this.
- 8:33Nicole Laino: So if you want to get in on that workshop, all you have to do is DM me the word Phoenix on Instagram, I'm icolenofficial or go to nicolelaino.com phoenix and you can get it there.
- 8:44Nicole Laino: You can register and buy the workshop there.
- 8:46Nicole Laino: If you are a member of the Human Design Authority Lab or any of my other aligned brand builder or business by design.
- 8:53Nicole Laino: If you're part of my ecosystem of memberships and programs.
- 8:58Nicole Laino: You get this already.
- 8:59Nicole Laino: So don't buy it please, because you already get it.
- 9:01Nicole Laino: It comes with your membership.
- 9:03Nicole Laino: Okay, excellent.
- 9:04Nicole Laino: Let's dive in, shall we?
- 9:07Nicole Laino: Let's cover a little bit about cross of planning.
- 9:09Nicole Laino: The cross of planning is made up of four gates.
- 9:11Nicole Laino: The gates are gate 40, gate 37, gate 16, gate 9.
- 9:17Nicole Laino: Those four gates make up the cross of planning.
- 9:19Nicole Laino: Perhaps you are a cross of planning person you were built for this time it is.
- 9:25Nicole Laino: It's not a personal cross though.
- 9:27Nicole Laino: While it can be for you as an individual, what we're talking about here.
- 9:32Nicole Laino: Is we get a collective program that we are always under the influence of.
- 9:39Nicole Laino: And it tells us the greater themes for humanity.
- 9:43Nicole Laino: So themes for humanity were very much under and driven by themes of the cross of planning.
- 9:49Nicole Laino: The cross of planning was really about systems for systems.
- 9:52Nicole Laino: Let's build a system to take care of this.
- 9:55Nicole Laino: Ooh, we have this problem.
- 9:56Nicole Laino: Let's build a system to take care of that.
- 9:58Nicole Laino: This is how we ended up with schools.
- 10:01Nicole Laino: Schools are a cross of planning thing, okay?
- 10:04Nicole Laino: We have kids that need to be educated.
- 10:06Nicole Laino: Everybody should be educated.
- 10:07Nicole Laino: We should have a way of doing that uniformly so that kids are being educated on the right things.
- 10:14Nicole Laino: Here's how we're going to do it.
- 10:16Nicole Laino: We're going to develop a school system, right?
- 10:19Nicole Laino: How are we going to take care of people?
- 10:21Nicole Laino: They get sick, what are we going to do?
- 10:23Nicole Laino: A health care system.
- 10:25Nicole Laino: All of that is cross of planning stuff.
- 10:27Nicole Laino: CrossFit planning taught us to make deals.
- 10:30Nicole Laino: Okay?
- 10:31Nicole Laino: You have that skill, gate of skill 16, you've got that skill.
- 10:36Nicole Laino: Great.
- 10:36Nicole Laino: Here's what we want to do.
- 10:37Nicole Laino: Let's plan this out.
- 10:38Nicole Laino: Let's really get focused on it.
- 10:40Nicole Laino: And what is really needed here.
- 10:42Nicole Laino: Gates 40 and 37, the channel of community.
- 10:44Nicole Laino: What do we really need?
- 10:45Nicole Laino: How can we put those skills to use to build a system that will take care of everybody?
- 10:49Nicole Laino: That's going to help us build and grow and prosper, right?
- 10:53Nicole Laino: How do we grow the population?
- 10:55Nicole Laino: How do we take care of more people?
- 10:57Nicole Laino: The industrial revolution, very much a cross of planning thing, right?
- 11:03Nicole Laino: Growth and building and a bit of excess.
- 11:05Nicole Laino: And just like that, foundations of creating this world that we all live in.
- 11:12Nicole Laino: These systems, these hierarchies, the gate 40 and gate 30, these are very hierarchical gates and energies.
- 11:22Nicole Laino: So we have that, and then we have the cross of the sleeping phoenix.
- 11:25Nicole Laino: Now, cross of planning, I should also say, is ruled by this channel of the community, which is the channel of the bargain, which is the 40th gate and the 37th gate, connecting the ego center of support with the emotional, the solar plexus, the center of emotions.
- 11:41Nicole Laino: I take care of you take care of me.
- 11:43Nicole Laino: This is the bargain.
- 11:44Nicole Laino: This is the contract that we have between us.
- 11:47Nicole Laino: We have contracts as married couples.
- 11:49Nicole Laino: We have unspoken contracts between friends.
- 11:52Nicole Laino: We have contracts with our government.
- 11:55Nicole Laino: I pay my taxes, I get these things in return.
- 11:57Nicole Laino: Those are my rights.
- 11:59Nicole Laino: Those are the things that I am entitled to.
- 12:02Nicole Laino: Cross of planning stuff.
- 12:04Nicole Laino: All of this.
- 12:06Nicole Laino: Now, this is governed by that 40, 37 channel.
- 12:09Nicole Laino: That's what the leading energy is of it.
- 12:13Nicole Laino: And what we have is we have the 40th gate and the 37th gate are both ego tribal gates.
- 12:20Nicole Laino: These are part of the ego circuit.
- 12:22Nicole Laino: They are part of the tribal circuitry.
- 12:24Nicole Laino: And then Gate 16 and Gate 9 are part of the logic circuit in the collective circuit.
- 12:32Nicole Laino: So these are both logical collective gates.
- 12:35Nicole Laino: So we have two logical collective.
- 12:37Nicole Laino: But we get this tribal connection over on the other side.
- 12:40Nicole Laino: There's more energies in this, but we're simplifying this for the episode.
- 12:44Nicole Laino: We will get into more details of that second cross I was telling you about in the workshop.
- 12:49Nicole Laino: So if you want information on that, join the workshop.
- 12:52Nicole Laino: But we get a lot of tribal energy in the cross of planning.
- 12:56Nicole Laino: That is what governs it.
- 12:58Nicole Laino: Anytime in a cross, we have a channel.
- 13:00Nicole Laino: Whenever we have a channel being made in an incarnation cross, that channel takes the lead, no matter what.
- 13:06Nicole Laino: So we have all this tribal energy.
- 13:08Nicole Laino: It's about us, right?
- 13:10Nicole Laino: It's about our tribe, our people.
- 13:12Nicole Laino: And the cross of the Sleeping Phoenix is governed by the 3420 channel, which is a very different channel.
- 13:18Nicole Laino: It's the channel of charisma.
- 13:19Nicole Laino: This is individual energy, personal power, readiness.
- 13:24Nicole Laino: Let's go.
- 13:25Nicole Laino: I wanna do it.
- 13:26Nicole Laino: Let's go.
- 13:27Nicole Laino: It is an expression of personal power, right?
- 13:32Nicole Laino: So the cross of the sleeping Phoenix is four very different gates.
- 13:35Nicole Laino: It's the 34th gate, the 20th gate, the 55th gate, the Gate of Abundance, and the 59th gate, which is the gate of intimacy.
- 13:44Nicole Laino: So now we have this personal power and spiritual abundance and intimacy.
- 13:53Nicole Laino: Closeness, real intimacy.
- 13:56Nicole Laino: Like vulnerability, like not performative.
- 14:00Nicole Laino: Contractual.
- 14:01Nicole Laino: The 4037 can be a very contractual, transactional kind of relationship.
- 14:06Nicole Laino: I've got you've got me.
- 14:08Nicole Laino: The minute you break that bargain, I'm out.
- 14:12Nicole Laino: The moment I sense that there is an imbalance in this bargain, I might opt out of it and break the contract.
- 14:19Nicole Laino: Because you broke it first.
- 14:20Nicole Laino: That's how 4037 can operate.
- 14:23Nicole Laino: We've been under that in our world.
- 14:26Nicole Laino: Now we're going to something else which is not as interested in the tribe.
- 14:31Nicole Laino: In fact, it's not interested in it at all.
- 14:34Nicole Laino: These are all individual gates except the 59th gate, which is tribal defense, which is a little bit different than the eco circuit.
- 14:40Nicole Laino: We're splitting hairs here, but still we lean in the individual.
- 14:45Nicole Laino: We are heavily in the individual with this one.
- 14:48Nicole Laino: And then we have that second cross as well that we'll discuss in the workshop, which is also heavily individual.
- 14:55Nicole Laino: So now we have these two things where we're going from.
- 14:58Nicole Laino: Let's build stuff for all of us.
- 15:01Nicole Laino: Let's build what.
- 15:02Nicole Laino: What do we all need, like that whole systems thing to.
- 15:05Nicole Laino: I'm not really interested in systems.
- 15:07Nicole Laino: I'm interested in me and my journey and what I want and my expansion.
- 15:16Nicole Laino: Gate 55 is the gate of abundance.
- 15:19Nicole Laino: So these themes, we're already seeing these themes play out in real time for us.
- 15:25Nicole Laino: So how have we seen this?
- 15:27Nicole Laino: We're seeing systems, maybe we're seeing how we're not really trusting the systems that exist anymore.
- 15:33Nicole Laino: We're starting to question things that we never questioned before.
- 15:36Nicole Laino: So when you look at things like in the 1950s, where we had.
- 15:42Nicole Laino: And I'm speaking about in America, it's.
- 15:45Nicole Laino: It was largely the rest of the world that did this as well.
- 15:47Nicole Laino: But I'm American, so this is my experience.
- 15:50Nicole Laino: But if we look at, like American values, traditional American values, we have the 1950s family that as they called the nuclear family.
- 15:59Nicole Laino: This mom, dad, two kids, suburban house, dad works, mom stays home.
- 16:04Nicole Laino: This like traditional family values thing.
- 16:06Nicole Laino: We have seen it go away.
- 16:08Nicole Laino: And some people say it's like the erosion of values, of people meaning anything to each other.
- 16:13Nicole Laino: We have seen.
- 16:15Nicole Laino: Some people say it's because God isn't in our world as much anymore.
- 16:20Nicole Laino: Once we took God out, then we stopped caring about each other.
- 16:24Nicole Laino: What human design has taught me and astrology has taught me is that the weather, the cosmic weather, the energies that we can't see, that we don't know are happening, that are programming us, that the question becomes, is this really a thing that's playing out here?
- 16:43Nicole Laino: Or are we just seeing themes change?
- 16:47Nicole Laino: Are we just seeing the natural evolution as we end certain cycles and begin new ones?
- 16:56Nicole Laino: Because the ending of the cycle of the cross of planning would say that we're going to rethink what marriage looks like.
- 17:05Nicole Laino: We're going to rethink what family looks like.
- 17:09Nicole Laino: We're going to rethink what government looks like.
- 17:13Nicole Laino: And the cross of the sleeping phoenix says, I'm interested in me and my journey.
- 17:19Nicole Laino: So we're seeing this, aren't we?
- 17:21Nicole Laino: We are seeing even the.
- 17:23Nicole Laino: And I could make a million examples.
- 17:25Nicole Laino: I'll give you a few we can look at the shift from.
- 17:30Nicole Laino: I remember my grandfather was.
- 17:32Nicole Laino: He worked for General Electric.
- 17:34Nicole Laino: He loved that company.
- 17:35Nicole Laino: He worked there his entire career until he retired.
- 17:38Nicole Laino: He had a little stint where he stopped working there.
- 17:41Nicole Laino: He was still working there, but he went to war to support his country.
- 17:45Nicole Laino: So he took a leave from work, but then went right back to work there.
- 17:48Nicole Laino: They gave him leave and allowed him to do that, which was like a thing I still have.
- 17:52Nicole Laino: I have the letter of him requesting to.
- 17:54Nicole Laino: To take a leave to go to war, which I think is so sweet and interesting.
- 17:59Nicole Laino: That was something that he did.
- 18:01Nicole Laino: And then he remained loyal to that company forever.
- 18:05Nicole Laino: And that company gave him stock options, and those stock options supported my grandmother till the day she died.
- 18:13Nicole Laino: That doesn't really exist anymore.
- 18:16Nicole Laino: We don't see that so much.
- 18:17Nicole Laino: I'm not going to say it doesn't happen.
- 18:19Nicole Laino: It does.
- 18:19Nicole Laino: But we don't have that same bargain with the corporations, do we?
- 18:24Nicole Laino: We don't see that as much.
- 18:26Nicole Laino: We're seeing that erosion of the bargain between the employee and the employer.
- 18:32Nicole Laino: And what are people doing?
- 18:34Nicole Laino: A lot of people are opting out of that relationship altogether.
- 18:39Nicole Laino: We have AI coming in now.
- 18:41Nicole Laino: AI We've got Amazon saying in a leaked email from their top brass saying how they want to fire everybody, 500,000 jobs.
- 18:50Nicole Laino: They want to get rid of them and replace them with robots.
- 18:52Nicole Laino: Now, how close they are to being able to actually implement that, I don't know.
- 18:58Nicole Laino: Probably not very close, but probably closer than we logically think.
- 19:02Nicole Laino: Right?
- 19:03Nicole Laino: Innovation can move fast when there is an appetite to make it happen.
- 19:10Nicole Laino: They want to get rid of the people.
- 19:11Nicole Laino: And I'm not saying this to scare you, I'm saying that.
- 19:14Nicole Laino: And we can look at these people as evil and we can.
- 19:17Nicole Laino: We can have our thoughts about that, or we can shift things and change things so that we just say that's innovation.
- 19:24Nicole Laino: And we shift the way that we operate in the world.
- 19:28Nicole Laino: We shift our leaders, we shift the way that we depend on these companies and corporations.
- 19:35Nicole Laino: We see a lot of people, they're opting for entrepreneurship, the gig economy.
- 19:39Nicole Laino: All of these things, I think, are signs and signals about what's happening in the world.
- 19:43Nicole Laino: People intuitively understanding that things are changing.
- 19:48Nicole Laino: What was safe before is no longer safe.
- 19:50Nicole Laino: We can't count on these things before they're feeling the change, they're feeling that shift, and they're saying, you know what?
- 19:57Nicole Laino: Maybe I want to make my own way.
- 19:59Nicole Laino: That's some 3420 stuff.
- 20:01Nicole Laino: And even though we're not there yet, even though we're not in that energy yet, we can feel it coming.
- 20:07Nicole Laino: People ask me this all the time, if I'm, can I feel a transit coming, if I'm going to have this activated in transit, or can I feel it coming?
- 20:16Nicole Laino: Of course you can.
- 20:17Nicole Laino: This is where in astrology we have the orbs, right?
- 20:20Nicole Laino: How many degrees out are we from this being an exact matchup?
- 20:26Nicole Laino: There's always.
- 20:26Nicole Laino: And that's Just degrees of when you will feel it.
- 20:29Nicole Laino: You'll feel it strongest when it's exact.
- 20:32Nicole Laino: When it's right on top of each other or right opposite each other.
- 20:35Nicole Laino: We.
- 20:36Nicole Laino: The degrees tell us.
- 20:38Nicole Laino: So we are in degrees of this happening.
- 20:41Nicole Laino: Okay.
- 20:42Nicole Laino: People ask me that all the time about the nodes.
- 20:44Nicole Laino: How will I notice the South Node and the North Node change?
- 20:48Nicole Laino: Is it gonna be like on the day that it happens that I shift over into this North Node theme, or will I feel it happening?
- 20:55Nicole Laino: It's been my experience coaching hundreds of people now through this and also going through that shift.
- 21:01Nicole Laino: My Uranus opposition of the South Node to the North Node gate, I certainly felt that shift.
- 21:07Nicole Laino: And I absolutely felt how different it was when I was right on top of it and when I crossed over it.
- 21:15Nicole Laino: So I felt it coming.
- 21:17Nicole Laino: And at the time, I think I thought that I was experiencing it.
- 21:22Nicole Laino: But it wasn't until I got to the other side of it that I was like, oh, no.
- 21:25Nicole Laino: It was nothing like what it is now.
- 21:28Nicole Laino: It felt like it was, but it was just from my frame of reference how I was experiencing it.
- 21:33Nicole Laino: I hope that makes sense.
- 21:34Nicole Laino: Like, we feel it coming and we think, ooh, I think I'm there already when someone explains it to you.
- 21:39Nicole Laino: But you don't realize until you get to the point.
- 21:42Nicole Laino: It's like you.
- 21:43Nicole Laino: You don't know until.
- 21:44Nicole Laino: And it wasn't until I got to that point and I shifted over into 46 gate territory and I shift over into this North Node territory.
- 21:52Nicole Laino: Then I go, oh, yeah, now this is what it feels like on the other side of the fence.
- 21:57Nicole Laino: I didn't really get it.
- 21:58Nicole Laino: I could see what was there, but I wasn't feeling it the way that I thought I was.
- 22:04Nicole Laino: And so I think it's the same thing.
- 22:06Nicole Laino: I think it's the same thing here.
- 22:07Nicole Laino: I think we are seeing these things.
- 22:08Nicole Laino: We are seeing systems be tested.
- 22:11Nicole Laino: We are seeing leadership be tested.
- 22:15Nicole Laino: We are starting to ask different questions.
- 22:17Nicole Laino: The 37th gate, I talked about this in my Human Design New Year episode, and I talked about this in the Transit episode I did with Christina.
- 22:25Nicole Laino: I Talked about the 40 37, and I talked about the 37th gate showing up a couple of times in the New Year report.
- 22:32Nicole Laino: And the 37th gate questions leadership.
- 22:37Nicole Laino: It's in the fifth line in one of its placements.
- 22:40Nicole Laino: And the 37th gate in the fifth line says, Only the exemplary leader shall be trusted.
- 22:48Nicole Laino: The 40th gate rewards people for being true.
- 22:53Nicole Laino: So I think that we're starting to get.
- 22:55Nicole Laino: That's the interesting thing about this is that in the time we are in right now.
- 22:59Nicole Laino: I think that's why this feels so big, is because this is energy that we are saying goodbye to.
- 23:05Nicole Laino: But the universe also gave us.
- 23:07Nicole Laino: I think it's till May we're in the 4037 for our nodes here that it gave us our way of seeing so we could look out through 4037 eyes one last time while we're under this cross of planning and start asking the questions about what we want to keep.
- 23:27Nicole Laino: What do we want to change before we change over?
- 23:30Nicole Laino: And I don't want to say that it's too late because it's not.
- 23:33Nicole Laino: Because we're going to talk about what you can do this year to be on top of this.
- 23:39Nicole Laino: But it isn't just an individual thing.
- 23:41Nicole Laino: There's some things that need to be shored up so that we're positioned to be able to lead through this.
- 23:49Nicole Laino: If they take away your freedom, if they take away your rights, if they use the system to break the system, after they have excluded millions and millions of people from it, after they have rigged the rules in their favor and in the favor of the unsavory leaders, if they have burned the alliances and broken trust everywhere else where we don't have friends anymore, if we allow these things to happen over this next year, I think we have a very good chance of going into the not so fun side of what the cross of the Sleeping Phoenix could look like.
- 24:29Nicole Laino: We still have time to make something happen and shift things both on a personal level and on a tribal level and on a collective level.
- 24:39Nicole Laino: For us to change who we have in charge, how we empower our leaders, what we support, and how we are going to govern ourselves because we are going to.
- 24:51Nicole Laino: Self leadership is going to be so much more important in 2027 and beyond.
- 24:57Nicole Laino: But we have to be able to have self leadership.
- 24:59Nicole Laino: We can't have our rights stripped away where we no longer have the freedom to be leaders of ourselves.
- 25:06Nicole Laino: We need the freedom in order to have this cross of the Sleeping Phoenix actually be something that any of us wants to be a part.
- 25:13Nicole Laino: Otherwise it can be a very dark time.
- 25:16Nicole Laino: I'm not a believer in that it has to be dark.
- 25:19Nicole Laino: There are some people that do believe that.
- 25:22Nicole Laino: I think we have a choice.
- 25:24Nicole Laino: I think that we have a choice right now about how we want this to be.
- 25:29Nicole Laino: And this might be one last hurrah for everybody to get together and make a movement about changing something for the good.
- 25:38Nicole Laino: So the role human design has in this, and this is one of the things that kind of goes around and around in my head.
- 25:44Nicole Laino: So Ra always said that come time, the time of the cross of the sleeping Phoenix, come 2027, you're really going to need human design, so you're making decisions correctly as yourself.
- 25:58Nicole Laino: And I heard that.
- 25:59Nicole Laino: And I remember the first time I heard it, I was like, yeah, that's somebody trying to sell me his system.
- 26:03Nicole Laino: And I know he believes in it and all of that, but I'm a bit of a cynic when it comes to some of this stuff.
- 26:08Nicole Laino: I don't just blindly accept things.
- 26:10Nicole Laino: They have to.
- 26:11Nicole Laino: I have to sit with them for a while and.
- 26:13Nicole Laino: But I understand what more of what he meant now.
- 26:15Nicole Laino: And I evolved too.
- 26:17Nicole Laino: Like, I didn't think he was full of it for very long.
- 26:19Nicole Laino: It was.
- 26:20Nicole Laino: I just had a questioning period, which is healthy, I think.
- 26:23Nicole Laino: But where I'm at now, I'm like, oh, I get it.
- 26:27Nicole Laino: Once we go into the Sleeping Phoenix, where our systems change, where we are maybe asked to elect new leadership, there's a whole other concept that I can't really get into in this episode because it's like its own episode.
- 26:43Nicole Laino: But there are these concepts in human design that are about group energy dynamics.
- 26:48Nicole Laino: They're called the penta and the wa.
- 26:51Nicole Laino: Penta is small groups, wa big groups talking about the wa here.
- 26:57Nicole Laino: So the wah, big groups.
- 26:58Nicole Laino: It's like group think.
- 27:00Nicole Laino: It is the mob mentality and what very high level.
- 27:05Nicole Laino: I hadn't even planned on talking about this, so we're going a little bit off script here, but.
- 27:08Nicole Laino: And I'll try to make it quick, but the wa dynamics, really what they are, is when we have group energy dynamics, what happens is certain energies get magnified, certain energies get muted.
- 27:20Nicole Laino: So if you have some of these, what we call master channels of these, the penta or the wah, what we get is people who stand out very much in those type of situations.
- 27:31Nicole Laino: So when you have a group of 16 or more people, you get this wah thing.
- 27:34Nicole Laino: You get a crowd, Right?
- 27:37Nicole Laino: So how do we move a crowd?
- 27:38Nicole Laino: A crowd, we move with very specific types of energy.
- 27:44Nicole Laino: And what Rao, I think was saying was that when we go into 2027, when we make these shift, when the systems and the structures aren't as strong as they were in the early 1900s and the middle 1900s, and even back in the early 2000s, we had a much more structured sound set of systems.
- 28:07Nicole Laino: And now we're questioning them, and now some of them may fall or change very drastically, that you have to be making decisions as yourself.
- 28:16Nicole Laino: What that really means is you can't be getting swept up in the energetics of group think.
- 28:24Nicole Laino: You can't get swept up in the energetics of you being part of a tribe.
- 28:33Nicole Laino: And by tribe, I don't mean the collective.
- 28:36Nicole Laino: Good.
- 28:36Nicole Laino: I just want to finish this thought.
- 28:38Nicole Laino: So you.
- 28:38Nicole Laino: I'm not leaving you hanging with what the hell is she talking about?
- 28:41Nicole Laino: So if you go to a concert and I'm a big U2 fan, if you listen to this show, you probably know that I'm a huge U2 fan.
- 28:50Nicole Laino: It is my happy place.
- 28:51Nicole Laino: Why?
- 28:52Nicole Laino: Because when I go there and I'm in that wa, I am in this group of 16 or more people and there's a leader on stage, Bono, they're singing songs they are hyping us up with.
- 29:05Nicole Laino: And one of the things I love about them is that I feel like it's very high frequency music.
- 29:09Nicole Laino: There's always hope.
- 29:10Nicole Laino: Even when there's despair.
- 29:11Nicole Laino: There is always this no, but there's always hope.
- 29:14Nicole Laino: We can always do better.
- 29:15Nicole Laino: We can always better.
- 29:17Nicole Laino: And that makes everybody emotional.
- 29:18Nicole Laino: It's a very emotional thing and we all get charged up by it.
- 29:21Nicole Laino: And I feel like I can fly.
- 29:22Nicole Laino: I am.
- 29:23Nicole Laino: I am hopped up on that.
- 29:26Nicole Laino: When I was a kid, I donated to Amnesty International with my allowance money because Bono told me to.
- 29:36Nicole Laino: So I'm not saying that's right.
- 29:37Nicole Laino: I'm not saying.
- 29:38Nicole Laino: But he made me care about something and I then took action from that place.
- 29:44Nicole Laino: Now, did I do it because it was the right thing to do?
- 29:47Nicole Laino: Did I do it or did it.
- 29:48Nicole Laino: I was.
- 29:48Nicole Laino: I influenced.
- 29:49Nicole Laino: And that's really what we're talking about.
- 29:50Nicole Laino: The ability to be influenced by groups.
- 29:53Nicole Laino: Now you can take another set where you can say that there are.
- 29:57Nicole Laino: We can talk about political rallies.
- 30:00Nicole Laino: We could talk about the Nazis.
- 30:01Nicole Laino: That was a wa.
- 30:03Nicole Laino: We can talk about the political rallies that are going on now.
- 30:06Nicole Laino: We can talk about January 6th.
- 30:09Nicole Laino: Wah, wah.
- 30:10Nicole Laino: So if you are in that crowd, you're not thinking as yourself.
- 30:13Nicole Laino: You're thinking as part of this energetic mechanism that's happening.
- 30:20Nicole Laino: So when RA talked about needing to make decisions as yourself, the role that human design has in this whole thing is pulling you out of the program.
- 30:30Nicole Laino: When you.
- 30:31Nicole Laino: Pulling you out of the cross of the sleeping Phoenix, pulling you out of the cross of planning, pulling you out of the wa.
- 30:37Nicole Laino: All of these energetic dynamics that are unconscious to us, they don't matter if you are coming back to your truth, your authority, and you have to be aware of that.
- 30:50Nicole Laino: It has to be a process that you are committed to sticking with.
- 30:55Nicole Laino: So when someone comes along and feeds you a line of bullshit and you're caught up in the group, that isn't your thinking that you're going to.
- 31:04Nicole Laino: Because your mind can help you rationalize anything.
- 31:08Nicole Laino: And if the leader of that energetic movement of that wa is telling you to believe something, you just might.
- 31:14Nicole Laino: But if you come back to your authority, what is true for you, and you are not conditioned and hopped up on the emotions of that crowd and hopped up on the ego of that leader, if you are able to be yourself and be clear, you will make whatever decision is correct for you.
- 31:34Nicole Laino: It's not that you are making the correct choice that I think it's the correct choice for you.
- 31:39Nicole Laino: And that's all that matters.
- 31:41Nicole Laino: And that's your contribution, not just to yourself, but to the whole.
- 31:45Nicole Laino: Because clean consciousness, that is something.
- 31:47Nicole Laino: This is very much a cross of a sleeping Phoenix theme.
- 31:50Nicole Laino: We are going into an age of intuition.
- 31:53Nicole Laino: We are going into an age of energetic integrity.
- 31:59Nicole Laino: Or not.
- 31:59Nicole Laino: Remember, everything is going to be about.
- 32:01Nicole Laino: We are either going to have these things or we are going to be in the shadow of them.
- 32:06Nicole Laino: So the work that we can do in this year leading up to it, and it starts with coming to that workshop and really understanding the depths of what is happening here.
- 32:14Nicole Laino: We're going to break this down gate by gate, and I'm going to walk you through how we lead ourselves through this.
- 32:20Nicole Laino: But this change that we're going through, this shift, how we use this year, is to understand what that looks like.
- 32:28Nicole Laino: It's to decondition ourselves.
- 32:30Nicole Laino: It's to feel your feelings.
- 32:33Nicole Laino: It is to understand some of these fundamental things.
- 32:36Nicole Laino: Go back and listen to the.
- 32:38Nicole Laino: The Human Design New Year episode that I did in January.
- 32:42Nicole Laino: Go listen to the January and February transit episodes I did with Christina because we talked about this.
- 32:47Nicole Laino: I have been Talking about the 25th gate, the gate of Innocence, the Gate of Universal Love.
- 32:54Nicole Laino: This is a gate.
- 32:55Nicole Laino: This is the Neptune in Aries gate that we're getting, which is.
- 32:59Nicole Laino: It says that we're lifting the veil on what universal love really is, on what innocence really is.
- 33:07Nicole Laino: And what it teaches us or what it's asking us and begging us to do is to heal your wounds, because your wound is contributing to the greater wound.
- 33:18Nicole Laino: And I think one of the things that we are seeing right now is collective pain.
- 33:24Nicole Laino: We are seeing so many people feel helpless.
- 33:27Nicole Laino: We are seeing so many people in pain, physical pain, emotional pain.
- 33:31Nicole Laino: And some of us can spiritually bypass this and say, oh, I can't look at that.
- 33:35Nicole Laino: I Can't do that.
- 33:36Nicole Laino: And it's good to have a healthy relationship with this.
- 33:38Nicole Laino: You can't be looking at it all day long because you'll drive yourself crazy and you'll just be frying your nervous system.
- 33:44Nicole Laino: But it is important to look.
- 33:46Nicole Laino: It's important not to look away.
- 33:47Nicole Laino: It's important to really ask yourself what you are feeling right then, not whether you think it's right or wrong.
- 33:56Nicole Laino: What do you feel?
- 33:57Nicole Laino: Does this feel good to you?
- 34:00Nicole Laino: Are you emotional about it?
- 34:01Nicole Laino: And can you deal with those emotions?
- 34:04Nicole Laino: Because what we are experiencing right now is we are experiencing a world that's been full of hurt for a really long time, hasn't felt that hurt.
- 34:13Nicole Laino: And now we are just going around triggering each other, saying, this hurts so bad.
- 34:19Nicole Laino: I can't sit with it here.
- 34:21Nicole Laino: Hurt people, hurt people, right?
- 34:23Nicole Laino: We know that.
- 34:23Nicole Laino: I tell my son that all the time, never make a judgment about where somebody is coming from.
- 34:28Nicole Laino: We don't know why people do the things that they do, but we do know that hurt people.
- 34:32Nicole Laino: That person might be going through something right now.
- 34:34Nicole Laino: So let's give them the benefit of the doubt and protect yourself.
- 34:38Nicole Laino: Can we do the same?
- 34:40Nicole Laino: So I'm gonna lead this one here because this is a really big topic, and I feel like I said everything that I can at this point without going another 45 minutes to go deeper into all of these themes.
- 34:54Nicole Laino: So if you are interested in this, if this.
- 34:57Nicole Laino: If you are interested in leading people through this change, if you.
- 35:00Nicole Laino: Like I said, if you're a coach, a spiritual healer, or anybody who guides people, you really should come to this workshop.
- 35:08Nicole Laino: All you have to do, just DM me the word phoenix on Instagram.
- 35:11Nicole Laino: I'm nicolelainofficial.
- 35:13Nicole Laino: Or go to nicolelaino.com phoenix.
- 35:15Nicole Laino: You can get it right there.
- 35:16Nicole Laino: You can sign up and buy workshop right there.
- 35:19Nicole Laino: This should be required coursework for you.
- 35:21Nicole Laino: This is like part of the core curriculum.
- 35:24Nicole Laino: Because otherwise you're going to get swept up in the waves of what's happening.
- 35:29Nicole Laino: You're not going to be able to remain objective.
- 35:31Nicole Laino: You're not going to be able to remain neutral, and you won't know how to lead yourself, and then you won't be able to lead others.
- 35:38Nicole Laino: There's a real opportunity to be a leader for the future right now.
- 35:42Nicole Laino: And the work starts now.
- 35:45Nicole Laino: So if you want to get in on that, please come to the workshop.
- 35:47Nicole Laino: Please join us.
- 35:49Nicole Laino: We appreciate you with being there.
- 35:50Nicole Laino: It's going to be great.
- 35:51Nicole Laino: And if, like I said, if you are part of the human design authority, Lab.
- 35:55Nicole Laino: Or if you are part of Aligned Brand Builder, which is my next level coaching program.
- 35:59Nicole Laino: Or of course, Business by Design.
- 36:02Nicole Laino: You guys all get this with your memberships, so please don't buy it.
- 36:05Nicole Laino: You don't need to.
- 36:07Nicole Laino: We have you covered.
- 36:08Nicole Laino: You're already invited.
- 36:09Nicole Laino: You already have your pass.
- 36:10Nicole Laino: Okay.
- 36:10Nicole Laino: And if you want to join one of those, instead of just joining the workshop, you can do that too.
- 36:14Nicole Laino: And then you get all the workshops that I do.
- 36:15Nicole Laino: I teach a workshop every single month.
- 36:17Nicole Laino: We're doing that for 2026.
- 36:19Nicole Laino: So you get to be a part of all of them.
- 36:21Nicole Laino: If you join the Human Design Authority Lab, you get all of them.
- 36:23Nicole Laino: Or if you join any of those programs.
- 36:25Nicole Laino: Okay, I'm going to leave it here.
- 36:27Nicole Laino: Thank you so much for being with us.
- 36:29Nicole Laino: Thank you so much for being here with me, giving me your time, your energy and your attention.
- 36:32Nicole Laino: I appreciate you so much.
- 36:33Nicole Laino: And remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
- 36:38Nicole Laino: So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design.
- 36:41Nicole Laino: We will see you next time.
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