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Why Inconsiderate People Hit Such a Nerve
Why do other people feel so exhausting sometimes? This episode uses Buddhist psychology to break down the aversive temperament: the part of the mind that sees flaws quickly, gets irritated by disorder, and can confuse clear perception with contempt. Using examples from beach crowds, Walmart, airports, AA, and public life, Brian explores why some people experience inconsiderate behavior as almost physically intolerable.
The episode also looks at why “that’s my alcoholism” can become too small of an explanation after years of sobriety. The deeper work involves understanding temperament…
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