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OFF THE RECORD: You're never too old to sort your shit out! · Flava Breakfast

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  Speaker 1: It's the Flavor Podcast Network. You're listening to Staci Zura
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  Speaker 1: and Charlie's Off the Record.
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  Speaker 2: What's your record?
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Off the Record with Stace and Azoi.
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  Speaker 2: This morning. We bring things here that didn't go on here.
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  Speaker 1: So you know how we've talked in the past, Stace
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  Speaker 1: about dreams, and we've talked about them on here because
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's actually really interesting and you have a
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  Speaker 1: weird gift for like analyzing a dream. Because I gona
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  Speaker 1: be honest, I'm a as you've probably learned by now
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  Speaker 1: if you've listened to the show and or Off the Record,
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  Speaker 1: I have some pretty weird dreams.
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  Speaker 2: And everyone has weird dreams, but I can see the
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  Speaker 2: theme often like you're going through it. It's been, it's been.
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  Speaker 3: It's probably a time of growth or you're figuring things out. Also,
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  Speaker 3: you know, when you get to a stage that you
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  Speaker 3: have some comfort in your life, then you can look
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  Speaker 3: at old and deep stuff sort of underlying your issues
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  Speaker 3: and that they've got time to come up and get
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  Speaker 3: some air so that you can work through them.
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  Speaker 1: You're so right about that, you know, my my psychologists
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  Speaker 1: she actually said that to me. I don't see her anymore.
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  Speaker 1: But I just couldn't understand why my anxiety was so
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  Speaker 1: fricking intense in my twenties when I didn't struggle with
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  Speaker 1: it when I was younger. And so she actually explained
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  Speaker 1: to me, you know, you've been used to chaos and
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  Speaker 1: now life is boring, and because it's boring, you finally
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  Speaker 1: have to either address the things that recreated. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you don't will do something you do that
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  Speaker 3: you don't recreate it. And I know I admire that
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  Speaker 3: about you. It's a choice, Yeah, you are.
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  Speaker 1: I also believe that, and I know that that can
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  Speaker 1: sound kind of harsh, but as someone who has personally
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  Speaker 1: lived that, I really just think that there's no excuses for.
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  Speaker 2: Not like you.
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  Speaker 1: I think what I believe, and it's kind of deep
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  Speaker 1: for and off the record, but you you truly do
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  Speaker 1: have the choice to be whoever you want to be
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  Speaker 1: and change whatever you need to change. And it's going
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  Speaker 1: to be hard, Like it's not going to be easy.
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  Speaker 3: But what I'd say is you've done the work because
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  Speaker 3: you know a lot of that's locked in your subconscious
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  Speaker 3: You go, I just am acting like this, I just
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  Speaker 3: am I'm like sort of program. But if you don't
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  Speaker 3: go Okay, I can choose to be a person who
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  Speaker 3: doesn't live in this way, even though that's the only
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  Speaker 3: way I've ever known or been shown.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it takes a lot of mental strength. And
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  Speaker 1: I mean everyone's always just working through something, like I think,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Thankfully for me, I have a very open
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  Speaker 1: relationship with my dad, and he from a very early
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  Speaker 1: age like sort of taught me that adults don't have
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  Speaker 1: it sorted out. Yeah. I used to think thirty year
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  Speaker 1: olds were like they had that shit downpacked.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what I am not.
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  Speaker 1: I've not got it downpacked. And I'm content.
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  Speaker 2: I'm content and I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Happy and I feel peaceful. But I don't have anything
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  Speaker 1: worked out as how it feels. I feel like people
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  Speaker 1: are doing better than me. I feel like I could
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  Speaker 1: be doing more. This is a constant world thoughts and feelings.
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  Speaker 3: Also, the thing is, if you put the precire on
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  Speaker 3: yourself to go thirty, I need to be onto it.
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  Speaker 2: Just don't worry.
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  Speaker 3: It was never what you thought it was going to be,
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  Speaker 3: and your vision of it's fine.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, and now this is so we're just
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  Speaker 1: be really deep.
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  Speaker 2: Wait till you hear this so.
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  Speaker 1: I strangely, for the last i'd say week, I've been
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  Speaker 1: having very sexual dreams and I don't know what it
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  Speaker 1: means because it's so strange to me, Like I don't
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  Speaker 1: and this is I'm talking deep sleep, like I'm waking
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  Speaker 1: up from it, going that's really weird.
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  Speaker 2: That's really weird.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not waking up like I'm waking up like what.
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  Speaker 3: The people you don't actually want to No, No.
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  Speaker 1: The thing is in the dream, I'm all about it.
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  Speaker 2: But the people are the people you know?
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  Speaker 1: No, last night, last night's one no, absolutely complete stranger.
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  Speaker 1: Two strangers. But anyway, that's not the point. But like,
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  Speaker 1: and then all one person was someone that we know.
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  Speaker 1: It's actually someone that works out in the office. I know,
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  Speaker 1: I know, And that was a real weird one for me.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm like, it's reoccurring, this me being intimate with
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  Speaker 1: people in my dreams only the last week. But again,
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  Speaker 1: I have pretty stuffed up dreams usually, so I'm like, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: what does that mean?
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  Speaker 3: I reckon, it's like you say, you just called it intimate,
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  Speaker 3: So it's about another level of intimacy, probably in your
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  Speaker 3: actual relationship, you know, So you're considering what intimacy really is.
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  Speaker 3: And if you're choosing one person like monogamy with that
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  Speaker 3: person going ahead, then you're just sort of checking your brain, go,
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  Speaker 3: sifting through go and do or do I want to
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  Speaker 3: check out these options? You know, not the guy in
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  Speaker 3: the office literally, But but yeah, you're going, Okay, I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Committing and I'm leaving this realm.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm heading into dream world. Oh god, freaky. Well,
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  Speaker 1: have to let you know if I carry on having those.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: Who was in the office, Can you just like mouth
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  Speaker 2: that and we won't say it? Wow? Why I know,
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  Speaker 2: I know, I know.
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  Speaker 1: It's so man, I think that over there and it's oh,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Also like it's giving cougar,
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  Speaker 1: it's giving cougar. But I mean it is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot look him in the eyes. And a heaven
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  Speaker 1: float three days.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have Thanks for listening to Stace, Azora and
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  Speaker 2: Charlie's Off the record.
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