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- 0:00Welcome welcome to my lovely I HP community.
- 0:04We have a 5D Mystics Inspiring the Infinite Higher Human
- 0:08Consciousness Potential Experience story episode.
- 0:14A little tidbit on what it's like to be in these 5D Mystic
- 0:19Realms. Layers, anybody who's like, what
- 0:23is it? What is it?
- 0:25It's about being a functional, adult, integrated, mind
- 0:28restorative, embodied self. It's the optimized version of
- 0:31you, the human version of you. And it's a journey of the heart
- 0:36and the mind because it's you learning how to navigate your
- 0:40brain, your embodied brain. If you choose to move in this
- 0:43sphere, of course your left and right mode and you don't have to
- 0:47do yoga and you don't have to have clears, but you are tuning
- 0:51into 5 domestics and how we inspire.
- 0:53So let me share. We inspire with different
- 0:56subject matters that we will have in our back pocket.
- 1:01Like me and mine are humanities, social sciences, the
- 1:06psychoeducational stuff plus the metaphysics as a terrorism.
- 1:09Because I have that in my experience with being a Chandler
- 1:13and a terror reader, Patrick Record reader, energy worker as
- 1:17a Reiki practitioners and a Reiki master.
- 1:20And these are beautiful tools that we use, those of us who are
- 1:25mistakes to consult and support people who are doing their self
- 1:30journey, not the ones who are in 40 land.
- 1:32They they don't look for consultation that the child has
- 1:37already answered. So when they actually engage
- 1:39with us, it's more because they're like we're all mistakes.
- 1:42We should all engage together or oh, we're all about the the
- 1:47topic of this. We all should hang out together.
- 1:50So they don't actually differentiate and link, they
- 1:52just want to merge and be 1 little big ball all together.
- 1:56And so we noticed the difference between the 5D Mystics and the
- 2:014D. And so that comes in time, where
- 2:04they're using each other's time in a way to create, We're a
- 2:08special group. And we're like, no, no, all
- 2:10people are special. No, we're a special group.
- 2:12No, everyone's special. No, we're OK, go be special
- 2:16somewhere else, please, Then no, we actually don't do that.
- 2:21Usually they get the floor because children always know how
- 2:24to make sure we get to hear them and we will make sure that they
- 2:28get heard so that we can have a better idea of what pain points
- 2:32their inner child still holds on to.
- 2:35So while some people, they use words from the psychoeducation
- 2:40that they get on their own or as coaches, consultants, or even
- 2:43some are therapists, they're not the optimal ones, by the way.
- 2:46They're still adaptive children because they're not empowering
- 2:49you with it. And so they're flexible,
- 2:51adaptive, coherent, energized, stable, telling you don't use
- 2:55these words to create little boxes.
- 2:57Every person that still has safety behaviors slash
- 3:01maladaptive responses. It means they have unresolved
- 3:04trauma. So if you still have unresolved
- 3:05trauma and you are all upset, don't go with the modulated,
- 3:10embodied version of you and meet another modulated embodied
- 3:13person. Leave them alone.
- 3:14You go and calm yourself. Do yoga, Do something so people
- 3:19can learn to be out of each other's way as they are actually
- 3:22learning to potentially optimize their human experience.
- 3:25In fact, the 5D Mystic will just try to ensure those who are
- 3:30wanting to be their best version, which is, again, a
- 3:33person who's unconsciously loving, purush up your
- 3:36consciousness. You're aware of yourself, you
- 3:38know your person, you know you have an embodied brain.
- 3:41You know that consciousness in the field of energy.
- 3:44OK, so here's metaphysics as a terrorism, but it's also
- 3:47physics. I just don't have enough of the
- 3:49words from the physics community, but I will, and I
- 3:52have names for you all. Before we forget, though, I
- 3:55wanted to also review this lovely psycho educator.
- 3:58He's really great at what he shares, and he focuses on that
- 4:02inner child a lot. And so he's the one who shared
- 4:05with us how adaptive children they project their inner child's
- 4:08abuser or their victim or their rescuer.
- 4:13So they will project that which they want idealize or don't want
- 4:20dislike. So here's where karma comes into
- 4:22the mix. Like I said, Gurus said karma is
- 4:24not a bad or good thing. It's your action, but it's done
- 4:27without you being consciously aware.
- 4:30When you're consciously aware, you're in equanimity.
- 4:32So that means you don't do, oh, you have to do it my way.
- 4:36Oh, you're an asshole. No, we do, you know, these kinds
- 4:40of things. They're really interesting.
- 4:42And sometimes you might be like, fuck you, you're an asshole.
- 4:45But I don't mean it that way. I'm just right now very angry.
- 4:47I'm so sorry. I just cursed at you, for
- 4:49example. Or that is after the fact.
- 4:51So consistency is key here when people actually have an
- 4:56emotional trigger and they're upset whether they have been in
- 5:00the habit of. So here's where let me read
- 5:03Patrick a minute before we keep moving.
- 5:05He explains how, Juan, if you have had a childhood that you
- 5:10would not want your own children to experience.
- 5:13So let's say you're a parent or you're just a person who looks
- 5:16back to childhood and you say that exact childhood that I had,
- 5:20I don't want any human child to have it at all.
- 5:24Like, no, not even close. Then he says it's OK to, you
- 5:27know, call it trauma, because if people use the word trauma a
- 5:30lot. However, let me also share
- 5:34trauma memory is something that lives within your doesn't live
- 5:39within. But we all have charged states,
- 5:42and charged states would be those child parts, and some have
- 5:48the I FS model. So that's why the therapy
- 5:50community there's a lot of different amazing ways you can
- 5:53understand yourself. You don't need it, but it's
- 5:56great to know it. So these charge states, we all
- 5:59have them. Trauma memory though is where
- 6:01it's too much, too soon, too fast.
- 6:03So your body, which would be the brain though didn't have time to
- 6:07process it. So it's trauma memory, which
- 6:09means that your brain is going to want to eventually process
- 6:13it. And it actually does.
- 6:14Our charge states get processed in time naturally, which is why
- 6:18that kundalini awakening, and I'm most certain that there are
- 6:22a lot of people that have it even without twin flames.
- 6:25None of that it's your natural process, the body moving itself
- 6:29towards restorative embodied self, which is our homeostasis.
- 6:32And then your mind moving trauma memory trying to allocate it and
- 6:37put it into normal memory. So that's why during REM sleep
- 6:40it's important because our brain is actually getting all of that
- 6:43which needs to be cleared and putting it So.
- 6:45Dreams for example, are why we look at them with therapists.
- 6:50This doesn't mean you don't have astral travel or that you need
- 6:53to treat your mystical stuff and any less important way.
- 6:57But it is important to note that when you're waking up from your
- 7:02dreams, if you don't move forward towards your journey as
- 7:07a person. So I see many 40 Mystics not
- 7:10growing their level of energy, they're not expanding their
- 7:13window of welcome. They don't have more people
- 7:16around them and they in fact don't want to be with all
- 7:18people. They just want to be with their
- 7:20special group of anointed human beings and they only want to do
- 7:25talk about very specific low vibe.
- 7:29There are energy vampires, there is evil, there is blockages,
- 7:33there's the, the, the. So they're in that lower 3D4D
- 7:36vibration and they have no idea that they're not using their
- 7:41opportunity when they wake up from a dream to mature their
- 7:45emotional plane, which means expand their window of
- 7:47tolerance. How do you do that?
- 7:48You drink water, you eat, You allow yourself to just leave the
- 7:53emotion to do its course because it's an emotion that will run
- 7:56away and meaning run through. You get through it, it's
- 7:59processed. You don't think about it
- 8:01necessarily. I've done sometimes where I've
- 8:03lit candles because some of us, we also pick up on things that
- 8:07are taking place in other people from our over souls, the
- 8:12oversole. Every person has an oversole,
- 8:14basic oversole and you'll know who are parts of your oversole.
- 8:18So for those of us who are 5D Mystics and that enlightenment,
- 8:22so a true bunch, you know this. We have all of our immediate
- 8:26oversole where we pick up when things go down that are major.
- 8:31And so depending on what's going down and what's taking place, we
- 8:34might be brought to light some candles, have some prayers, or
- 8:40if it's not prayers, it's intentions.
- 8:42So wishing them, love, clearing that energy.
- 8:45And so with the power of our hearts, our minds, as always,
- 8:49people do have this power. The ones of us who know this, we
- 8:52don't need external support because we understand that it's
- 8:56a big ball of energy. And so with that big ball of
- 8:59energy, you, with the mind of you, are able to expand your
- 9:03window of tolerance. And in fact, it goes from
- 9:06selflessness, timelessness, effortlessness to richness.
- 9:10So every day as you move into more of your light bodies and
- 9:14then eventually you get to the rainbow body and then you
- 9:17continue to expand more of your energy body.
- 9:20And this is I can attest to, I had at least 1233 or four light
- 9:25bodies and then I picked up when it was my rainbow body.
- 9:29And then the year after that I had an expansion of my energy
- 9:33body. And ever since then, I've had at
- 9:36least two more. One I remember for sure again.
- 9:39And then this last year, I think it was a lot more easy going,
- 9:43but it still was very present. And so it's just that once
- 9:46you're really in unison with this space around you, it feels
- 9:53just normal. And that's the best way I can
- 9:55describe it. So this is where I'm most
- 9:59certain that the lovely neuroscience community.
- 10:02I have not been able to get in touch with Patrick McNamara,
- 10:04unfortunately, but I'm pretty sure the neuroscience and
- 10:08consciousness community that are doing research have a lot of
- 10:11answers that I just don't know about because I'm not in that
- 10:14field. My subject matter is supporting
- 10:17individuals, so I have a certain amount of time and my courses
- 10:20right now are what take presidents besides my online
- 10:23marketing content and clients and work on that end.
- 10:27So as a content creator and entrepreneur, Busy, busy, busy
- 10:31and with all good stuff. But what I'm saying is, I'm sure
- 10:34without a shadow doubt, that our physicists and our
- 10:37neuroscientists can't explain 5D mysticism and enlightenment.
- 10:41So age group with words that are a little bit boring to people
- 10:44who want to be special, but we're all special, which is why
- 10:47it's beautiful to be a person who knows that, which is where
- 10:51our 5D Mystics are at. So we don't use words against
- 10:54each other, we use words to talk to each other.
- 10:57That's why we also don't usually use words such as toxic.
- 11:00Even if we have people who gas like ghosts or manipulate,
- 11:02they're not being toxic. Those of us who are mature
- 11:06emotionally know that an adaptive child doesn't know how
- 11:10to be an adult and they have it in a childhood.
- 11:12So their unresolved trauma is not for us to tend to.
- 11:15It's their actual trauma, their uncomfortable emotions,
- 11:20sensations is coming up from them.
- 11:23It's their objectification, it's their transference.
- 11:26It's all their quote UN quote nastiness.
- 11:28But it's a very sad aspect. It's not something you look at
- 11:33and say, oh, how wonderful, I have a person in front of me
- 11:35who's suffering. No, so that they could use
- 11:38different manners. This is where only if they
- 11:40become aware would that be the case.
- 11:43They obviously are not intrigued by their manners.
- 11:46I've met many that actually consistently think that it's OK
- 11:51to have certain types of tones because they will ridicule, if
- 11:56you will, the whole mysticism and intuitiveness stuff.
- 11:59Even my dreams, I've had people who in the past have have made
- 12:03comments which I inside laugh, and that's because it's like,
- 12:07wow, you really do think you know everything and you don't
- 12:10have this experience and so you can't actually know this.
- 12:13And I'm happy to share proof, but I won't really be doing
- 12:17that. I usually only share information
- 12:20like Patrick McNamara with the people who I know are having
- 12:23nightmares so that they may be if they choose to take care of
- 12:26themselves, they go get help. Because I actually care that
- 12:30they get help so that maybe they will take care of their brain
- 12:34and their body instead of think that somebody curse them.
- 12:37And although I got it, because again, you know there are many
- 12:41who will grow up and continue to believe in cursing, that's not
- 12:45actually how you learn in Magic Land.
- 12:48You all will have heard how you cannot be hurt by anything that
- 12:52is in the plane of imagination, in the spiritual plane, in the
- 12:56theory, in the energy plane. Unless you give it permission
- 12:59somehow, people don't actually work with that data point.
- 13:04I work with the separation of duality and say no, no, but evil
- 13:08and the devil and the monsters and the demons and this.
- 13:12So they don't actually hone in on the word energy and say, wait
- 13:16a minute, I heard of the word energy, I heard of the word
- 13:19consciousness. I've heard of the words that we
- 13:21are all pretty much this energy thing.
- 13:25Let me normalize and reduce this, this thing, this divide
- 13:29that I'm doing based on the ancients of the medieval times
- 13:33and let me take steps back. So it's actually a very
- 13:38intricate and interesting conversation that the 5D Mystic
- 13:42can bring. That's where we bring these two
- 13:45people, by staying grounded and saying, you know, you know, of
- 13:49course you're not gonna believe that Reiki works from afar, but
- 13:52it does. But hey, again, you don't have
- 13:55to believe it. So when somebody laughs in your
- 13:56face, you don't be like, how dare they do this thing.
- 14:00You continue conversing like a normal person, You create
- 14:03conversation and that's it. That's all.
- 14:06That's how we create new social culture.
- 14:09It is actually adults being able to laugh in each other's faces,
- 14:13not take offense when somebody is an optimistic and know that
- 14:16it's not special to be a Mystic. We just have that word for now
- 14:20because our neuroscience and psychoeducational community is
- 14:23still coming up with the data so that they can whatever slap in
- 14:27an empirical way all of it. And I can't wait for that day
- 14:30where they're they're not infinite higher human
- 14:32consciousness potential. They're already doing it, by the
- 14:34way. They're already spelling out how
- 14:37supernatural. No, there's consciousness and
- 14:40the optimization of your human brain.
- 14:41And that's why we can channel. So it's totally cool.
- 14:45You know, it doesn't feel less beautiful to be able and know
- 14:48that everybody can do it. I actually love that.
- 14:51I can know that everyone can actually touch base with each
- 14:54other if they want. They just need to try.
- 14:57But before they can try that, they need to get into a
- 14:59relationship with their sensations.
- 15:01That means their body and the nervous system and a lot of
- 15:04other things. So back to why you want to be
- 15:06compassionate and a 5D Mystic is that's what we are.
- 15:10We're Zen masters, and that's only if you're unconsciously
- 15:14loving with all people with their flaws and imperfections.
- 15:17So whether they're compulsive thieves or compulsive liars,
- 15:21compulsive manipulate, compulsive, whatever, you're not
- 15:24reacting. You're in a ventral, vagal
- 15:26state. They have no weapon in their
- 15:27hand. They are life and a person who
- 15:30has safety behaviors, safety responses due to unresolved
- 15:34trauma. They have some situations going
- 15:37down and they need a good somatic sensor mode and trauma
- 15:39expert maybe because if they don't think that they need to do
- 15:42anything, even with the expert, they won't get out of the hell
- 15:46that their body is. There's no need for any 40
- 15:50people to go talking about how they know they can get vengeance
- 15:54on you. And what do you think?
- 15:56I'm a fool and I've seen this. I think I did it half, half
- 16:01once. I don't know how old I was, if I
- 16:03ever even did it. It felt quite ridiculous if I
- 16:05did do it because it was like, what are you doing?
- 16:08This is somebody you know, like, what's the what's the deal,
- 16:11what's going on? So we get very humored by our
- 16:14emotions. We meaning the people who are in
- 16:17a possession of their embodied brain.
- 16:19So a person who's like, what is going on?
- 16:21Calm it down already, shall we? And you just start laughing.
- 16:25Here's creation, Avila. So our ventral bagel state is
- 16:27always engaged. That's the nervous system of our
- 16:29mammalian heritage. All of us have it.
- 16:31Apparently some don't get to use it.
- 16:33Yoga can help you to use it because it's a portfolio of
- 16:36ventral bagel nervous system exercises.
- 16:39And it also teaches you how to sit silently in your mind.
- 16:42So mindfulness and learning how to work with your cortex and
- 16:45then maybe as you develop that you'll learn how to get out of
- 16:48the monkey mindset or the doll mindset or the butterfly mindset
- 16:52or the one siphon focus mindset or the I'm falling in love with
- 16:56my own self and I'm a light and everybody else is not and that
- 16:59kind of mindset. So hopefully with the right
- 17:02guru, you will figure it out as they tell you how to get out of
- 17:07that. And hopefully they actually have
- 17:09a way of spelling it out to you so you realize you're still in
- 17:12Maya land even though you've been doing your sadhana.
- 17:15You need to understand what it means to get out of my land.
- 17:18Everybody's equal. Everybody's love.
- 17:21You don't not love people. So sorry.
- 17:24You thought it would be about living in the mountains.
- 17:26No, no, that's that's just you getting comfortable with your
- 17:30ventral vegal nervous system and the silence in your brain and
- 17:33getting in touch with the elements.
- 17:34And I mean, some people, they do choose that.
- 17:37That's because they're not really wanting to be around
- 17:39people. That means they're not
- 17:41activating their social engagement, mammalian heritage,
- 17:45which means they're not actually getting better.
- 17:47They're not expanding their window of tolerance.
- 17:50That means they're not getting better because the optimized
- 17:53version of a human being is when you're being social, not when
- 17:56you're being isolated on purpose or not.
- 17:59It's your body is suffering from that.
- 18:02So on that note, when people do stereotypes and say I want to be
- 18:06all alone, they don't realize that that's an indication to
- 18:09somebody who is healthy that they're not actually doing
- 18:12great. And you will try and say, you
- 18:13know, we're supposed to as normal people, all normal people
- 18:18want to be around. And when you don't, it means
- 18:20we're uncomfortable, which means we're upset inside our body,
- 18:23which means that you are not feeling safe with people, which
- 18:25means you're not in your ventral vagal nervous system, which
- 18:28means you're not actually in 5D anywhere near shape or form.
- 18:32And even if you're Mystic, you're really not in a window of
- 18:34welcome right now. Which means your adaptive child
- 18:37is leading the way. Which means that you're going to
- 18:39be shaming, blaming, faulting or revenging someone with an inner
- 18:42child that has just projected their abuser, victim or rescue
- 18:46or whatever story he's got you going on in your brain to
- 18:49another human being or situation.
- 18:51Which is everything's unfair. I can't, they can't.
- 18:54And there's that adaptive child that's trying to prove they're
- 18:58right and doesn't hear anyone and isn't really in a space of
- 19:01clarity because they're reactive.
- 19:03That's color, Ma, not not Dharma.
- 19:05They don't even know what they're doing, even though
- 19:08they'll know. But that's structural, actually
- 19:09dissociation as well. But that's, again, the
- 19:13sensations are not being handled by the adult.
- 19:16They're taken over and the adult is just using them and saying
- 19:19no, no, but this is me because they don't know that no, that's
- 19:22you, but it's your child version and you can start to calm it
- 19:26down and become equanimous. It's called rhythmic breathing
- 19:29and choosing to treat another person with a different tone as
- 19:33you speak to them or engage in a circumstance.
- 19:36So this is our interactions with people we love interacting with
- 19:39the five do Mystic, all people. And when we get some people that
- 19:43actually really they, they do the gaslighting, the
- 19:48manipulation, the lying, the cheating, the all of that.
- 19:51It's a fascinating journey. Since I was a teenager, I would
- 19:54say that I've been fascinating by the amount of lack of ability
- 19:58for people to talk, like, really talk.
- 20:00I think that I don't know. Have I met people who can talk?
- 20:04I have met people who are able to move into more of their
- 20:08awareness, yes, of their traits and to be able and share when
- 20:12they're about to get into but talk, talk.
- 20:16Have fun? Maybe it depends.
- 20:19Depends what topics we're talking about.
- 20:21I'm thinking about humanity and how beautiful.
- 20:24So that's where I'm thinking how many can talk about our flaws
- 20:27and imperfections and have fun about knowing that we are all
- 20:31not perfect and it's okay. So differentiated selves and
- 20:35linking independent people. That's my 5D Mystics right here.
- 20:39So we don't bring our adaptive child into the picture of any
- 20:42type of relationship. We have an adult and then if our
- 20:44adaptive child comes its way, we don't use dinner child.
- 20:47Cuz that zero year old is tended to us already.
- 20:52It's tended by us, excuse me. So we're like it's okay, you
- 20:55know, Don't worry ego. They're just words, that's all.
- 21:00Don't need to get all fussy about it.
- 21:02It's another human being. They're presenting their
- 21:04opinion. It's okay.
- 21:05We don't live in the era where we need to slap anyone with a
- 21:07glove and duel them. Don't worry about it.
- 21:11Like cows. Oh, betrayal.
- 21:12When people basically do something that they know is
- 21:17actually. So let's say I promise that I'll
- 21:20call you or I'll tell you I call you to talk about something
- 21:23important, but I don't. And then we randomly have a chat
- 21:27later on. And you mentioned nothing about
- 21:29that one time that we were supposed to talk.
- 21:31That's called casual betrayal. I learned it from Patrick DT
- 21:35Han. It's a way people, what is it
- 21:38they avoid to actually address areas.
- 21:43We know what that is. It's called when people don't
- 21:46know that you are emotionally and mentally a human being and
- 21:51that what they did do was something that is important.
- 21:54And so you learned that it isn't important that you're an
- 21:57emotionally and mentally present human being.
- 21:59And that's all you learned, that they're going to have casual be
- 22:03betrayals more than just once. I mean, it's actually a, yeah,
- 22:08casual, CASUAL betrayal. Go look it up.
- 22:12It's a very interesting, short one minute.
- 22:14And he explains it. And I was like, wow, there's so
- 22:17many people that have done this. This is so fascinating.
- 22:20I love that. Let me move back to other
- 22:25aspects that he was sharing. A gaslet child will become an
- 22:28adult who does not trust their own compass.
- 22:30So when people get stuck not trusting their built in compass,
- 22:35their inner child is run on self doubt and codependency.
- 22:40And he gives some examples. For example, you're dating
- 22:44someone and you don't want to be mean or alone or judgy.
- 22:48So you're not going to say anything about them always being
- 22:52late and you're going to be more like, you know, I'm probably
- 22:54wrong about them being late all the time.
- 22:56I'm not going to say anything or about addressing some type of
- 23:00conflict. So, well, what if I'm wrong?
- 23:02Maybe I'm just being the pain in the ass and it's probably not
- 23:05that big of a deal. I'm just making a big deal out
- 23:07of it all the time. That's just me or not getting
- 23:11out of situations that no longer serve.
- 23:13So people who do this, there's self doubt and codependency with
- 23:18this inner child. OK, so here's where they're
- 23:22probably right. You know what?
- 23:23I cannot do better than them. They're the only people that I
- 23:27can have. And this is what it is, you
- 23:29know, So the part also when people say that it's your fault
- 23:34that they're feeling a certain way, Yeah, that's called shame
- 23:36and blame. And yeah, a person who's an
- 23:38adult will be like, no, you feel your way, and I'm mine.
- 23:43And if you don't really like how we can interact, then we don't
- 23:46have to interact. The other one is how people will
- 23:51say, well, we love you so, so much, but you are just so
- 23:54difficult to be around. OK, Then you don't have to be
- 23:57around. That's OK.
- 23:58So here's where we don't need to use words that label people We
- 24:02can just speak our mouths, the adults of us, and say, yeah, I
- 24:05don't think so. That's not really how this is
- 24:07going to go. So the people who instead don't
- 24:09trust their own compass, this just means they don't allow
- 24:12themselves to speak from their mouth and have communication.
- 24:16But some people, they don't actually tap into their higher
- 24:20consciousness, so they're never really the adult version of
- 24:23themselves. They just do what others do.
- 24:25And Coswell betrayal is all people.
- 24:28They don't even need to have a childhood that they had specific
- 24:31level of important. I was going to say situations go
- 24:36down. Now I've seen people with very,
- 24:39very secure attachment type style families do this thing so
- 24:44wounded and her child will refuse to give up on a bad
- 24:47relationships potential. This one's interesting because
- 24:51I'd say that the potential of any relationship is always open.
- 24:56But the people, that's the part of acknowledging if they're
- 25:00working together as adults and sharing love.
- 25:03So safe haven, secure base or not.
- 25:06And so here's where, if I asked, you know, are you available to
- 25:09talk? Or if I say something like I am
- 25:12so sorry, I didn't mean to upset you.
- 25:15You know, people who want to grow together, they will keep on
- 25:18saying you're not upsetting me and they'll say we can talk or
- 25:23they'll pick up phones and call each other, OK.
- 25:26So while the inner child will present itself for different
- 25:29people in different ways, because that's also part of a
- 25:33person trying to respect other people's boundaries.
- 25:38And so as we grow up, we learn to use words such as, I'm sorry
- 25:42to bother you, excuse me, that's what it really means for some.
- 25:46And we don't want to do the can we talk?
- 25:49So some are very direct, others are not direct.
- 25:52And in all cases, what is most important is that you can have a
- 25:58way to achieve communication because of, again, trying to be
- 26:04present, attune, and then the resonance is what allows you to
- 26:08get more comfortable with each other when there's resonance.
- 26:11This is where if you've said the one time I'm so sorry, I know
- 26:15I'm bugging you and they say no you're not, and you have a good
- 26:18conversation, the next time you're going to keep talking and
- 26:21you're not going to be told you're bothering them.
- 26:24Or this is where the consistency of communication expanding
- 26:28between each other and then becoming more and more direct.
- 26:31So people give each other inputs on how they can work out those
- 26:37relationships. And compassion in fact, is
- 26:39always all inclusive. So remember these things because
- 26:43the direct communication is not where everybody is going to come
- 26:49at you with it. I know I don't do always direct
- 26:54communication. Some people, they easily will
- 26:57notice it, say something about it, others they don't.
- 27:00And it's actually because the reality is they are not direct
- 27:04and aware and soft spoken is a little bit better if you will.
- 27:10So it's a fascinating experience to have different relationships
- 27:14because you treat each person as they are not all the same.
- 27:18And so while some people can do the direct communication other
- 27:25people expect, it's very funny because obviously you can't read
- 27:29people's minds, but you do learn patterns of behavior.
- 27:32This is through communicating. And in the functional adult love
- 27:36language, we talked about that, which is where people who want
- 27:40direct, they'll notice it and then they'll ask you about it.
- 27:43And if you're comfortable, you do provide it and you grow the
- 27:48relationship more. If you're not comfortable, then
- 27:51you as a 5D Mystic will respect your own compass independently
- 27:56from the other people because you trust yourself.
- 27:59And that's the part where we don't have self doubt.
- 28:02It doesn't matter if we are right, we're not right or wrong.
- 28:05That's the whole point. When we decide what
- 28:08relationships to cultivate, it's based on what we decide, not on
- 28:12what is. How can I say?
- 28:17Every person has their personality traits.
- 28:19And so if some people are direct communicators, that's great.
- 28:22If they're not, that's great. We don't have to have them be
- 28:27some type of effective communicator.
- 28:30It's the relationship that you build with people that you care
- 28:35about, not that they perform in a way or that they are a way
- 28:40that you are. So again, some people like
- 28:42direct communication, some people don't.
- 28:44Some people like to be hugged, some people don't.
- 28:47If you're building an adult relationship, this means you
- 28:50respect each other's differentiated ways and you
- 28:53link. And so you build a relationship
- 28:55with people 1:00 to 1:00, not a group example.
- 28:59I love hugging. Not all people do.
- 29:02The ones who don't, I ask them for permission every time.
- 29:05And we're great, great, great friends, but I still will ask
- 29:08for permission. Sometimes they'll say yes,
- 29:11sometimes they'll say no. So to me it does not diminish
- 29:15the bond that we have. It's that they are in a certain
- 29:18way and wants intimacy as friends in a certain way and
- 29:21others. So okay, what's my preference?
- 29:25Of course, my preference as a Neapolitan, American at time,
- 29:28but Neapolitan is my heart. I want to hug all people all the
- 29:31time, squeeze them to death. That's that's not to death.
- 29:34But my I love hugging. So when I have to be asking, it
- 29:40actually has not expressed the fullness of who I the person
- 29:45here at. But that's not what matters.
- 29:47In the relationship that you build.
- 29:49There's two people always. That's the point of
- 29:52differentiation and linkage. And so you are always present.
- 29:57You do not create assumptions. You allow people to be
- 30:00themselves. You're present.
- 30:01We attune to each other. That means we get to know each
- 30:04other's minds in a way of the aspects that we're comfortable
- 30:09with. Not in reading each other's
- 30:10minds. No, that's for communication to
- 30:13happen. So we do not.
- 30:14Do. Let me assume presence means
- 30:16you're here and the now. You don't assume things.
- 30:19You attune and then you resonate.
- 30:22Are you off? Is it good?
- 30:23Can I hug you? OK, Yeah.
- 30:25OK, there you go. And trust.
- 30:26So that's how we build our relationships.
- 30:29And a 5D Mystic, even with intuitiveness, that's actually
- 30:32something that helps us to support more the relationship
- 30:39for those individuals who are not surrounded by higher
- 30:47consciousness, potential people. And so when we have those people
- 30:52in our oversole that are not lucky and they don't have people
- 30:58who support them, we are able to be that extra heart there that
- 31:05they can use in an effort to make sure they choose their
- 31:10self. And then if they want, move into
- 31:13more of the optimized version of their human left right brain
- 31:18mode and then their nervous system moving into ventral vagal
- 31:22nervous system mode. And so when you have a person
- 31:25who is their own secure attachment, so you're a safe
- 31:29haven, secure base. This is my 5 domestics.
- 31:33These are my enlightenment. So age repeats all of you who
- 31:36love humanity to death and yourself and everything.
- 31:39And we know that the world has a lot of different subject
- 31:41matters. Right now we're talking about
- 31:43people and personal development and you as a self that is
- 31:46empowered and you building your relationships.
- 31:49OK, so you're over soul, it's the entire plane, but it's your
- 31:52median and your extended. OK, so we allow for our own
- 31:59lovely over soul and they allow us to consistently navigate this
- 32:06playground, a relationship building in this lovely Lions
- 32:11Gate portal as it approaches and the Leo season is here.
- 32:15It's always very, very fiery. Unfortunately, the adoptive
- 32:20children, they're all roaring in an unnecessarily harsh way.
- 32:25And da da da da da. So that's always remember that
- 32:28they definitely are not moving in a playground of heart to
- 32:32heart, but the ones who take the opportunity, they're the ones
- 32:38who right now are being given a light that leads them to some
- 32:46place that all by themselves they would not have been able to
- 32:50do. Because without having one
- 32:52person, you need one at least one relationship that's mindful
- 32:56in your life. This is the therapist that talk
- 32:59about this that I learned from. You need one human being.
- 33:02You have to have the relationship to unresolve, to
- 33:06move beyond the trauma because you have to put it into
- 33:09practice. You have to put into practice
- 33:11when you are pure consciousness, pure self, meaning yourself,
- 33:17need somebody to grow up with the right way.
- 33:20And so if you don't have a grown up and you don't have one human
- 33:25being who sees you and they see you without assuming, no, no,
- 33:29they see you for who you are, however it is you made the best
- 33:32you could from that household, Those safety behaviors, they are
- 33:37maladaptive responses because now you're an adult.
- 33:39But that adaptive child is protecting an inner child, not
- 33:42doing something wrong. The adult just doesn't know
- 33:45about their nervous system. And the 4D Mystics don't say
- 33:48shit about it. They put people against each
- 33:50other every time they talk about karmics and evil and the devil
- 33:53and demons and da da da da da. So we're ceasing that
- 33:57conversation. That's why we have 5D Mystics.
- 34:01We're ceasing the conversation on the karmics and energy
- 34:04vampires. We can talk about it as a
- 34:06subject matter that existed and exists still for those who live,
- 34:09that we are energy and we are people, and people are nervous
- 34:13systems and people who were in situations where they did not
- 34:16learn how to get to their own self.
- 34:18They have self doubt and then they have other stuff going
- 34:21down. So I'm so short.
- 34:22Nobody's an energy vampire. It's a person, it's a human
- 34:26being. If they're dark aura, it's a
- 34:27person, it's a human being. If you feel that awful around
- 34:30them, why don't you advise them to go to a therapist?
- 34:32Maybe they'll punch you potentially in the face, but at
- 34:35least you'll have done something that would maybe help the person
- 34:37to realize that they have human suffering instead of judging a
- 34:41person who doesn't need you to be judging them because you're
- 34:45not their brain or body. So the neural wiring works for
- 34:49every person, and if they're using rumination, they're not
- 34:52helping themselves. When people get at least one
- 34:56adult in their life, that is a safe haven, secure base.
- 35:00It means they see what healthy relationship looks like, and
- 35:04their attachment system and their body will recognize it.
- 35:07Because everyone of our bodies will have known at least one
- 35:10second of restorative embodied self experience, and your mind
- 35:14will know of at least one second of this ability to have
- 35:20expecting, expectant contingent communication, meaning I attune
- 35:25to you in a timely manner. So if you need anything and
- 35:29you're a scared little infant, which is what happens when
- 35:31you're beginning life, and you're crying, crying, crying,
- 35:34and you're not crying because you're spoiled, you're crying
- 35:36because something you need something.
- 35:39And that one second that that body was expecting to have this
- 35:43timely manner of being seen and then being sued, which then
- 35:47allows the nervous system to learn how to regulate and feel
- 35:51soothed and safe. That's your ventrovagal nervous
- 35:54system. And there's your restorative
- 35:55embodied self. There's your hug.
- 35:58Skin to skin is important because if you have a regulated
- 36:01nervous system, not a dysregulated to got an anxious
- 36:04parent, you're not being regulated.
- 36:06I'm sorry, it's going to be anxiety nervous system to
- 36:09nervous system, anxious. So you're going to learn how to
- 36:11regulate in a anxiety way, meaning sympathetic.
- 36:14I'm saying when you get skin to skin, the parent is in the
- 36:18ventral, vagal nervous system. The infant is getting the sooth
- 36:22and the safety. And that means your nervous
- 36:24system just learned how to regulate itself to that rhythm.
- 36:29And this is what a third of the time an infant needs attunement
- 36:33for those first seven months of life and then the repairing of
- 36:36rupture for them to develop a secure attachment system.
- 36:41So Long St. Short 5D Mystics have more than
- 36:45just that, and we get to support, as well as those
- 36:48functional adults, the compassionate beyond the reasons
- 36:51and master people, those people who can and do enjoy making the
- 36:59relationships work of those people who they realize have
- 37:03their inner well-being in the forefront.
- 37:06Their body and mind realizes it, and unconsciously,
- 37:10subconsciously, they're drawn more and more to those
- 37:15individuals and the individuals know.
- 37:18So my Mystics, you know who these lovely people are in your
- 37:22life. I know who they are in my life.
- 37:24And we want to keep building mindful relationships so that
- 37:27people can learn to trust their self for real and to build inner
- 37:33well-being and outer well-being comes as a consequence.
- 37:35And as we become mindful and in mindsight, we get to embark on
- 37:39having bigger conversations. And then all of you grow your
- 37:42energies and your ability to do more and all these beautiful
- 37:46things. And so we come together as
- 37:48always to inspire that infinite higher human consciousness
- 37:51potential experience I hope you enjoyed.
- 37:54Have a wonderful day.