Latest / Motivational Podcast / ON THE INSIDE – Master Your Inner World for Outer Success
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Failure is created within the person. It is always an
- 0:06Speaker 1: inside job. We cannot determine what will come our way.
- 0:16Speaker 1: We can't control the hands were dealt, only how we
- 0:19Speaker 1: play the cards. A man is not defeated by his opponents,
- 0:23Speaker 1: but by himself. The greatest battle you wage against failure
- 0:29Speaker 1: occurs on the inside, not the outside. True contentment comes
- 0:40Speaker 1: from having a positive attitude. It means expecting the best
- 0:46Speaker 1: in everything, not the worst, remaining upbeat even when you
- 0:51Speaker 1: get beat up, seeing solutions in every problem, not problems
- 0:57Speaker 1: in every solution, believing in yourself even when others don't,
- 1:03Speaker 1: and holding on to hope even when others say it's hopeless,
- 1:09Speaker 1: no matter what happens to you. A positive attitude comes
- 1:12Speaker 1: from within. Your circumstances and your contentment are unrelated. Failure
- 1:26Speaker 1: is an inside job, and so is success. If you
- 1:31Speaker 1: want to achieve, you have to win the war in
- 1:33Speaker 1: your own thinking first. You can't let failure outside of
- 1:39Speaker 1: you get inside of you. You certainly can't control the
- 1:45Speaker 1: length of your life, but you can control its width
- 1:47Speaker 1: and debt. You can't control the contour of your face,
- 1:52Speaker 1: but you can control its expression. You can't control the weather,
- 1:58Speaker 1: but you can control the atmosphere of your mind. Why
- 2:03Speaker 1: worry about things you can't control when you can keep
- 2:06Speaker 1: yourself busy controlling the things that depend on you. There's
- 2:11Speaker 1: really only one solution to the gridlock you find on
- 2:13Speaker 1: the failure freeway, and that's to wake up and find
- 2:17Speaker 1: the exit. Every failure you experience is a fork in
- 2:21Speaker 1: the road. It's an opportunity to take the right action,
- 2:24Speaker 1: learn from your mistakes, and begin again. But no matter
- 2:31Speaker 1: what you've experienced, remember this, there are people who had
- 2:35Speaker 1: it better than you but who have done worse. And
- 2:40Speaker 1: there are people who have had it worse than you,
- 2:43Speaker 1: but who've done better. The circumstances really have nothing to
- 2:47Speaker 1: do with getting over your personal history. Pastors can make
- 2:53Speaker 1: you bitter or better. The choice is yours. You choose
- 5:45Speaker 1: which track you will head down toward breakdown or breakthrough.
- 5:49Speaker 1: It is a turning point, but you determine which way
- 5:52Speaker 1: you will turn. If you hear people continually talk about
- 5:58Speaker 1: how much harder they've had it than anyone else, chances
- 6:01Speaker 1: are they are allowing themselves to be held hostage by
- 6:04Speaker 1: their past. Excuses, no matter how strong, never lead to achievement.
- 6:21Speaker 1: No matter how much I know or think, I know
- 6:24Speaker 1: I can learn from this situation. The only way to
- 6:31Speaker 1: become better is to take steps forward, even shaky ones
- 6:35Speaker 1: they cause you to fall down. Little progress is better
- 6:38Speaker 1: than no progress at all. Success comes in taking many
- 6:42Speaker 1: small steps. You don't have to be great to start,
- 6:57Speaker 1: but you have to start to be great. It may
- 8:31Speaker 1: sound like I'm making light of what happened to you
- 8:33Speaker 1: in the past. I'm not. I know that people suffer
- 8:36Speaker 1: genuine tragedies in this imperfect world. They lose children, spouses,
- 8:41Speaker 1: parents and friends, sometimes under horrible circumstances. People contract cancer,
- 8:47Speaker 1: multiple sclerosis, AIDS, and other debilitating diseases. They suffer unspeakable
- 8:53Speaker 1: abuses at the hands of others. All of those things
- 8:56Speaker 1: are true, but tragedies don't have to stop the person
- 9:00Speaker 1: from possessing a positive outlook, being productive, and living life
- 9:05Speaker 1: to the fullest. One of the greatest hindrances to living
- 9:09Speaker 1: life in the present is regret. It SAPs a person's
- 9:13Speaker 1: energy and leaves little that enables him or her to
- 9:16Speaker 1: do anything positive. Anyone who doesn't get past the problem
- 9:20Speaker 1: or the pain of the past eventually becomes bitter. It
- 9:24Speaker 1: is the inevitable consequence of not processing through old injuries
- 9:28Speaker 1: and tragedies. Nothing can motivate a person like adversity. If
- 9:37Speaker 1: you can step back from the negative circumstances you face
- 9:40Speaker 1: in life, you'll be able to discover that there are
- 9:43Speaker 1: almost always positive benefits to your negative experiences. You simply
- 9:48Speaker 1: have to be willing to look for them. In the
- 9:53Speaker 1: game of life, it's a good idea to have a
- 9:55Speaker 1: few early losses, which relieves you of the prasure of
- 9:58Speaker 1: trying to maintain an un defeated season. Always measure an
- 10:02Speaker 1: obstacle next to the size of the dream that you're pursuing.
- 10:07Speaker 1: It's all in how you look at it. Try and
- 10:10Speaker 1: you can find the good in every bad experience. Today
- 10:15Speaker 1: may be your day to turn the hurts of your
- 10:18Speaker 1: past into a breakthrough for the future. Don't allow anything
- 10:22Speaker 1: from your personal history to keep holding you hostage. Most
- 10:31Speaker 1: of us do not like to look inside ourselves for
- 10:33Speaker 1: the same reason we don't like to open a letter
- 10:36Speaker 1: that has bad news. Most people see all the bad
- 10:39Speaker 1: and deny the good, or they see all the good
- 10:41Speaker 1: and deny the bad. To reach your potential, you must
- 10:45Speaker 1: see both. Remember to change your world, you must first
- 10:49Speaker 1: change yourself. Change yourself and your world changes, find the
- 10:59Speaker 1: benefit every bad experience. Life is either a daring adventure
- 11:09Speaker 1: or nothing. If you are succeeding in everything you do,
- 11:13Speaker 1: then you're probably not pushing yourself hard enough, and that
- 11:19Speaker 1: means you're not taking enough risks. If at first you
- 11:23Speaker 1: do succeed, try something harder, make failure your best friend.
- 11:34Speaker 1: Failure is either your friend or your enemy, and you
- 11:37Speaker 1: are the one who chooses which. Ironically, the more you
- 11:43Speaker 1: risk failure and actually fail, the greater your chances of success.
- 11:50Speaker 1: What kind of man would live where there is no daring.
- 11:53Speaker 1: I don't believe in taking foolish chances, but nothing can
- 11:56Speaker 1: be accomplished if we don't take any chances at all.
- 12:06Speaker 1: If there is no wind row as you prepare to
- 12:10Speaker 1: take a risk, don't expect to get a favorable wind.
- 12:13Speaker 1: Begin with a mindset that you have to row. Then
- 12:16Speaker 1: if you get some help, it will be a pleasant surprise.