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Hypnosis to Rekindle and Awaken a High Libido and Playfulness · The Hypnotist

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  Welcome to The Hypnotist, the show that gives you inside
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  access to cutting edge hypnosis with real clients facing genuine
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  issues. Brought to you by the
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  hypnotherapist, demanded by celebrities, CEOs and even
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  royalty. Adam Cox.
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  These recordings took place live from Adam's clinic in London's
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  world famous Harley Street. This podcast features powerful
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  hypnosis, so do not listen while driving or operating machinery.
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  This recording is not suitable for those with epilepsy or
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  severe mental health issues, so get yourself comfortable and
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  enjoy today's episode of The Hypnotist.
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  Hi, it's Adam here. And in this episode of The
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  Hypnotist, you could be listening to a hypnosis session
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  created for a male client that wanted to increase their
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  physical connection with their partner.
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  They wanted a higher libido and just more playfulness in their
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  personal relationship. And they had that at the
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  beginning of the relationship and the client could recall that
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  in a different period of their life, but they wanted more of
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  that in their current existing relationship.
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  And what you're going to hear in this particular hypnosis session
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  is an element of regression, is an an element of trading in
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  expectation for appreciation. But also this element of sitting
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  in wait for the right time or for their partner to initiate is
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  kind of replaced with this idea of, well, let's not worry about
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  the rejection. If you are immune to rejection
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  and they had been in different times of their life, then
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  actually every initiation or affection or even just the gift
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  of some kind of connection with their partner doesn't come with
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  the strings of attached of saying, well, I'm doing this to
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  have sex. It's more just being done to
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  create the connection. And if sex follows, great.
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  And if it doesn't, will so be it?
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  And that was important because they didn't even want to
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  initiate sex with their partner because if they did, they're
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  going to feel like they would be rejected if they don't
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  reciprocate. So that kind of helps diffuse
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  that element of potential rejection.
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  There's a little bit going on in there.
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  So obviously it was aimed at a male client with a female
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  partner. So bear that in mind because
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  some gender is used in this hypnosis session.
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  But at the same time, if you look at it as an overall
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  hypnosis session to increase playfulness, increase
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  connection, and reactivate, let's say libido or the desire
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  for intimacy or sex, then you'll get some value from this.
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  If you want something more customized, there will be a link
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  in the show notes where you can schedule that free consultation
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  call to explore working with me. For now though, find a quiet,
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  comfortable place where you won't be disturbed.
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  Relax and enjoy the session. Take a deep breath in, and as
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  you breathe in, breathe in a slow, long, relaxing breath.
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  And as you exhale, just allow yourself to feel that you're
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  releasing tension now. And on the next inward breath,
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  breathe in even more of that resourceful relaxation.
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  And as you exhale, just allow your eyes, if they're not
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  already closed, to feel so relaxed and close them now.
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  As you breathe in and breathe out, scan your body for any
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  clues of tension and allow that tension to melt away and feel
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  like you're releasing it. Feel it.
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  Leave your body, particularly in that outward breath.
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  The deeper you breathe, the more relaxed you become, and the more
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  relaxed you become, the deeper you breathe.
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  And I want you to think back to a particular park, maybe a park
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  that you can recall from maybe the place where you grew up in.
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  But I want you to imagine what it would be like to go back to
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  the park as it was then, but as you are now.
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  Imagine yourself stepping into that beautiful park, but
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  something's different. No one is there but you.
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  Imagine a sunny day, warm but not hot blue skies, just the
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  occasional fluffy white cloud. I want you to imagine, perhaps,
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  that you're barefoot in this park, and the grasp Neath your
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  feet feels cool and soft, and the air around you is clean and
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  fresh. And maybe you could imagine
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  Willow trees swaying gently, almost like their branches are
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  creating a sanctuary of calm and privacy, and use the power of
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  your imagination to see a lake. But for some reason, this lake,
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  even on a warm day with no wind, seems to be turbulent, choppy,
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  and just acknowledge that it's there.
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  This park is completely yours. No one else is here.
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  This is your retreat, your sanctuary.
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  But imagine taking a few steps closer to the lake, noticing how
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  green everything is, and see the waters, the choppy waters on the
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  surface of the lake. And maybe these choppy waters
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  represent something unsettled, an energy dynamic that isn't
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  quite in equilibrium. I want you to get a sense as you
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  get closer to the lake, that you're staring at this choppy
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  lake on a calm day, and it doesn't make sense.
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  The lake should be still and yet it isn't.
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  So breathe in and breathe out and stare into the lake.
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  And very soon I will count downwards from 12:50 and with
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  each descending number you will feel your whole body getting
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  deeper and deeper, relaxed. But interestingly, as you become
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  more relaxed, the surface on the lake will become calmer until it
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  is completely still. So breathe in and breathe out,
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  staring at the choppy waters of the lake and tend.
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  Just release any tension around your jaw, your mouth.
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  Just feel it leave your body. 9 Just release any tension in your
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  forehead, around your temple, maybe feeling a desire to yawn
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  but not quite yawning. 8 Notice any tension around your neck and
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  shoulders and just allow it to be released and to let it go.
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  And then seven, focus on your arms.
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  Allow your arms to get so limp and loose and heavy they feel
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  like the limbs of a puppet with no strings.
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  And then six, as you breathe in, allow all of your internal
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  organs to relax, your heart, your lungs, your stomach.
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  And then five, take that feeling into your gut.
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  Any anxiety, any fears of pressure expectations, any
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  niggling feelings there in your gut, just allow it to be
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  released, melted away. And notice how the choppy waters
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  of the lake are now just ripples for focusing on your legs,
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  allowing your legs to be like your arms.
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  Limp, loose, heavy. 3 down into your calf muscles, down all the
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  way, 2 into your feet and one feel.
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  A ripple from the tips of your toes to the top of your head and
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  back down to your fingertips. A ripple of relaxation enabling
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  you to feel completely relaxed. And as you feel that relaxation,
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  stare into the lake and now see what was a choppy lake looking
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  still transparent waters. The surface is so calm that it
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  now reflects the sky above like a perfect mirror.
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  So imagine staring at the very edge of this still lake, the
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  water crystal clear, and as you gaze into its depths, you
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  realise that there's no end to how deeply you can see.
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  The deeper you look, the calmer you feel, the more you realize
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  that you too can go deeper into this state of relaxation, this
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  state of peace. And just imagine that that calm
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  Clearwater is flowing through you now, carrying away anything
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  that no longer serves you, taking away resentment like
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  branches on a stream, leaves being taken away by a current.
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  Any stress, any tension, any doubts, allow it to flow out of
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  you, leaving only calmness, clarity and strength.
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  That as you breathe deeply, feel yourself becoming grounded,
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  centred and strong, just like the Willow trees that surround
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  you, rooted yet flexible and resilient.
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  And as you stand in this serene park, feeling the stillness of
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  the lake and the strength of the trees, I want you to let your
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  mind drift back to a moment. A particular moment when you
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  felt your most playful, confident, masculine, and a
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  sense of vitality and virility. You were alive.
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  A time when your energy was vibrant.
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  Your connection with your masculinity was undeniable, and
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  you felt completely comfortable, valuable in your own skin.
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  And as you think about that moment, see yourself as you
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  were, and then step into that moment now, and maybe you can
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  see what you saw, hear what you heard, but more importantly,
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  feel what you felt in that powerful, confident moment.
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  And maybe you notice how your body felt, perhaps relaxed,
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  strong and energized. Notice the ease with which you
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  carried yourself, the natural way that you expressed your
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  playful yet dynamic energy, and the effortless confidence that
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  radiated from you and feel like you're reawakening this moment
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  and this energy within you. Breathe it in deeply, allowing
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  every cell in your body to remember what it feels like to
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  be this version of you. Playful, bold, and free.
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  This version of you has always been here, and it is ready to be
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  awakened and brought forward into the present.
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  Feel that version of you is still there while you're staring
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  into the lake, but now imagine a golden light rising from the
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  lake like the phoenix from the flames.
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  This light represents vitality, passion and playful energy, and
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  watch it as it flows from the relaxing calm lake into you,
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  starting at your feet and moving upwards, filling you with warmth
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  and strength. And as this glowing light
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  spreads through your body, feel it awakening a deep well of
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  masculine energy and vitality within you.
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  And this energy is playful, courageous and magnetic.
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  It flows effortlessly, reminding you that you are free to express
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  yourself fully without fear or hesitation, and in this place
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  feel that you are immune to rejection because you understand
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  now that any lack of interest is not about you.
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  And maybe it's a reflection of timing or circumstances.
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  And you can remain centred and confident, knowing your worth
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  and embracing your playful energy without expectation.
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  And allow this glowing light to now focus in your heart as you
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  start to rethink doubts or fears about performance.
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  These doubts are simply signs of how much you care, how much
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  pride you take in your connection, and how deeply you
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  wish to please your partner. So allow these doubts now to
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  transform into confidence and consideration, knowing that you
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  are free to be present and authentic.
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  And now turn your attention to the Willow trees.
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  Just imagine that each tree represents a part of your
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  masculine energy, your confidence, your vitality.
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  And over time, some branches may have grown heavy or still.
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  But now, as this glowing light flows through you, imagine those
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  branches becoming lighter, more flexible, and alive with
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  movement. See the trees sway in perfect
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  harmony with the breeze, their branches growing fuller and
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  stronger. This is your energy awakening,
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  flowing freely, naturally, effortlessly, just like the
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  trees dancing with the wind. And as the trees thrive, so do
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  you. Your libido, your confidence,
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  and your playful energy are stronger than ever.
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  Always accessible, always flowing.
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  And I wonder if you can take this energy with you as you
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  start to imagine your future, knowing that your future is 10
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  minutes from now, tomorrow, a week from now, a year from now.
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  Picture yourself in your relationship feeling free,
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  playful and confident. See yourself initiating moments
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  of affection and intimacy, not with any expectation, but simply
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  out of selfless love, generosity and connection.
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  And maybe you can imagine yourself enjoying these moments
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  with your partner, laughing, smiling, and feeling deeply
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  connected. And notice how this energy
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  strengthens your bond, deepens your relationship, and creates a
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  space of safety and joy for both of you.
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  Maybe you could imagine yourself initiating a hug, a kiss, or a
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  touch, not because you need anything in return, but because
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  it feels good to give. Imagine how freeing it is to
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  express your affection and playfulness without hesitation,
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  without fear, and especially without expectation.
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  This is rekindling the real you, playful, confident and alive.
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  Sometimes you try and it takes you where you'd like things to
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  go, and sometimes it doesn't. But all of this is just a
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  playful energy. No strings attached, no
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  expectations, no obligations. Just a flow of energy.
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  And this energy is yours to keep, and it will guide you in
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  every interaction, every moment, every connection.
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  So now let all of these images, sensations, and feelings
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  integrate deeply into every part of your being.
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  No longer concerned about rejection and feeling that
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  whatever you would most like to receive, you feel an insatiable
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  urge to give your version of that thing.
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  Feel abundance of energy, of choices, and anything that
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  doesn't go to plan is no big deal.
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  So as you stand there once again at the edge of that still lake,
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  feel it's stillness settling into you in this moment,
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  grounding you in your strength, your confidence and your
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  vibrant, playful energy. You have a sense then things
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  will improve energy levels, but also opportunities.
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  Opportunities to give affection, to notice things, to feel that
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  you are creating desire and benefiting in return.
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  It's time to return to the present, the here and now,
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  taking all of these changes with you.
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  So take a deep breath in through your nose and out through your
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  nose. Just wiggle your fingers, wiggle
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  your toes. Start to calibrate into the here
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  and now as I now count from 1:00 to 10:00 to fully awaken you.
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  Starting to count 123 waking up 456 more alert 7-8.
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  Open your eyes. Open your eyes 910.
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  Wide awake, wide awake, wide awake.
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