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Ignore the Haters: See Beyond Fear & Live Your Dreams with Unstoppable Courage · Motivation Mindset Podcast

• 0:01
  Speaker 1: Don't ever let somebody tell you you.
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  Speaker 2: Can't do something, not even me.
• 0:09
  Speaker 3: You got a dream, you got to protect it.
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  Speaker 4: People can't do something themselves, they want to tell you
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  Speaker 4: you can't do You want something, go get it.
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  Speaker 3: Period.
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  Speaker 5: I have heard the word impossible my entire life. I
• 0:32
  Speaker 5: never ever listened to the naysayas I eliminated the words
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  Speaker 5: impossible for my vocabulary. So when people say that it
• 0:39
  Speaker 5: can't be done, I did it because I can tell
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  Speaker 5: you the bottom line is that all of you should
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  Speaker 5: take the word no and that's impossible and can't be
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  Speaker 5: done out of your vocabulary.
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  Speaker 6: You know, there are American heroes who don't like this idea,
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  Speaker 6: and I wonder what you think of that.
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  Speaker 1: I was very sad to see that because those guys
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  Speaker 1: are Yeah, you know that those guys he hears of mine.
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  Speaker 7: So it's really tough, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I wish they would come and visit and.
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  Speaker 8: See the hard way they woul drink, and I think
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  Speaker 8: that would.
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  Speaker 3: Change that mind.
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  Speaker 8: Did you think I need to pack this sent them?
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  Speaker 7: Why not?
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  Speaker 8: I don't ever give up.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I'd have to be dead or completely incapacitated.
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  Speaker 3: Never ever take no more answer, as I've never taken
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  Speaker 3: no more answer any. A lot of I had to
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  Speaker 3: do with me being gay, because you know, I've been everybody,
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  Speaker 3: just like I think when you think of me being
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  Speaker 3: someone who said that I was a force of nature,
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  Speaker 3: how do you get movies made? And how do you
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  Speaker 3: just their impossibilities? And that was because I was told
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  Speaker 3: that you know, I wasn't and that I would be anything.
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  Speaker 9: So I have none to lose, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: So I think that taking no for an answer is
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  Speaker 3: absolutely God acceptable.
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  Speaker 4: Ever, I'm at a high school teacher who one day
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  Speaker 4: changed my life. I was waiting on another student and
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  Speaker 4: when he came in, he said to me, young man,
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  Speaker 4: go to the board and write what I'm about to
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  Speaker 4: tell you. And I said, I can't do that, sir,
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  Speaker 4: And he said why not. I said, I'm not one
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  Speaker 4: of your students. He said, it doesn't matter. Follow my
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  Speaker 4: directions now. He said, I can't do that, sir. He
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  Speaker 4: said why not? I said, because I'm educable mentally retarded.
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  Speaker 4: And he came from behind his desk and he looked
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  Speaker 4: at me. He said, don't ever say that again. Someone's
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  Speaker 4: opinion of you does not have to become your reality.
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  Speaker 2: I refuse to take note for an answer. So if
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  Speaker 2: I'm told no, you know, and asked, Lord, you can't
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  Speaker 2: have a baby or you'll never be able to do that,
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  Speaker 2: I don't let that in, which I find very useful.
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  Speaker 2: I do let it in criticism, but anything's useful, and
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  Speaker 2: so I say, that's probably my best attitude. I just
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  Speaker 2: won't take me for an answer.
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  Speaker 10: When people shut on you and doubt you. I am
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  Speaker 10: tired of people not starting and living their life on
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  Speaker 10: one very simple thing, which is they're worried about what
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  Speaker 10: other people think, whether that's their mom, their friends, and
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  Speaker 10: worst of all, comments in social media. I mean, this
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  Speaker 10: is some sixth grade lunch room shit. Are you really
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  Speaker 10: really really not gonna live your life based on somebody's
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  Speaker 10: anonymous and icon feedback that you suck? They finking suck,
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  Speaker 10: They're three trash. That's why I found a dumpster. It's enough.
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  Speaker 10: You've lived your whole life this way. It doesn't matter
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  Speaker 10: what they think. When you're freaking ninety two and you're
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  Speaker 10: sitting there, you're not gonna give a about what punk
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  Speaker 10: Man ninety six had to say, or even what your
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  Speaker 10: aunt had to say, who's miserable because she never got hers,
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  Speaker 10: So she's trying to keep you down. So very simply,
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  Speaker 10: please take the passion that is pouring out of my
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  Speaker 10: fucking face right now and run with it and go
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  Speaker 10: do something. If you need a little burst here it is,
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  Speaker 10: go do something, because the only thing that's holding you
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  Speaker 10: back is you're worried about what other people have to say.
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  Speaker 10: You give up on that ship and you're clean and
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  Speaker 10: you can go and all of a sudden, it's not
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  Speaker 10: how much money you have or how much time you have.
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  Speaker 10: You just see that you can do it. Money ain't
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  Speaker 10: time aint of holding you back compared to your worry
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  Speaker 10: about other people's opinions. Leave that in high school. It's
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  Speaker 10: time to come.
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  Speaker 9: What success in life comes more haters. Don't make him
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  Speaker 9: horsh your feelings. Use it for fuel, use it for
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  Speaker 9: energy in times of need, put them on the to
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  Speaker 9: roll the decks in your mind, and when you don't
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  Speaker 9: want to do.
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  Speaker 6: Roll through your brain.
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  Speaker 9: Pull up that motherfucker that you need, that person who
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  Speaker 9: said you couldn't do something, weren't fast enough, good enough,
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  Speaker 9: smart enough, where then you may be use it for
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  Speaker 9: energy instead of children with kindness, torture, and success in life.
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  Speaker 7: We have to continue pushing.
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  Speaker 9: Past the odds, lose everything this ward has to give
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  Speaker 9: you for fuel.
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  Speaker 10: It gets me gone, and it's well, it's what Mother
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  Speaker 10: avates me.
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  Speaker 4: They an't tell me they are trying to.
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  Speaker 8: Laugh and everything.
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  Speaker 4: They're trying to mock me.
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  Speaker 10: It's been over there, so it's just something Mother amaze
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  Speaker 10: me to keep going.
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  Speaker 4: I'm conquering the uncomfortable shaw that the only.
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  Speaker 7: Thing is possible. Actually had twenty introductions to investors throughout
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  Speaker 7: Silicon Valley. Ten of those people replied to their email.
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  Speaker 7: Five of them met us for coffee. Zero invested in
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  Speaker 7: Airbnb and talk about a tough time. You've got some
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  Speaker 7: of the smartest people in the world. You know, they've
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  Speaker 7: picked some of the most well known companies that we
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  Speaker 7: all love in use today, from Googles and paypals and youtubes,
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  Speaker 7: and here there are telling us that our idea is crazy,
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  Speaker 7: that it's not going to scale, that people aren't going
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  Speaker 7: to stay in people's homes around the world kind of
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  Speaker 7: the world. I thought we were crazy for any entrepreneur
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  Speaker 7: out there, like you can't take no for an answer.
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  Speaker 7: I know we had really smart, credible people telling us.
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  Speaker 1: Who know.
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  Speaker 8: Well, the biggest struggle man was just getting around other
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  Speaker 8: people that that that would say I could do it.
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  Speaker 8: I mean, that's the biggest struggle. Just you get around
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  Speaker 8: one guy says yeah, you can do it, and then
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  Speaker 8: you talk to him tomorrow and he's like.
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  Speaker 11: No, dude, you can't do this.
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  Speaker 8: You know, there's so few people telling you to do it.
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  Speaker 8: You know what, there is a lot of save your money,
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  Speaker 8: protect yourself, conserve, don't spend, don't take risk. Taking risk
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  Speaker 8: is the new way to be risk adverse. The biggest
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  Speaker 8: struggle for me was my family. Man, the people closest
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  Speaker 8: to me was the biggest struggle. Every time I went
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  Speaker 8: out to do another deal, everybody told me, you don't
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  Speaker 8: need to do that.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 8: The only person that was encouraging me was my twin
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  Speaker 8: brother because I would see how he was doing it. Dude,
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  Speaker 8: he was making his swings. And so every time I'd
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  Speaker 8: get around other people. So I'll tell you a little
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  Speaker 8: trick I did. On weekends. I would always go see
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  Speaker 8: homes I couldn't afford. That has always inspired me. I
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  Speaker 8: would go look, I would go drive neighborhoods. Literally, I've
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  Speaker 8: done this my entire life until I finally got to
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  Speaker 8: the point where they wouldn't even let me in the neighborhood.
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  Speaker 8: There's neighborhoods in Miami. Do you can't even go see
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  Speaker 8: you can? They won't even let you in the gates.
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 12: I started a band, and the world laughed at me,
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  Speaker 12: literally laughed at me, kicked us around, talked about us
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  Speaker 12: in the press for years and still do you know,
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  Speaker 12: But we hunkered down, we worked and we worked and
• 8:01
  Speaker 12: we worked with play arenas all over the world. We
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  Speaker 12: have the most amazing, brilliant, beautiful fans one could ever
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  Speaker 12: ask for, and we've had an incredible life as a result.
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  Speaker 12: So if I had listened to the choir, to the
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  Speaker 12: chorus of everyone, I would have stopped, because that's what
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  Speaker 12: people want you to do. For some reason, some people
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  Speaker 12: would rather kill your dream than see you succeed. I
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  Speaker 12: don't know what that is, you know. I think it's
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  Speaker 12: important to be stubborn and to follow your dreams no
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  Speaker 12: matter what.
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  Speaker 11: And the people who are like offended by it, it
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  Speaker 11: doesn't matter you, you know, like, because it's about motivating
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  Speaker 11: the doers in anyone that wants to sit around and talk,
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  Speaker 11: they're doing too much time. It takes too much time
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  Speaker 11: talking bit about it instead of getting up off their
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  Speaker 11: ass and following their dreams, because I'm here to follow
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  Speaker 11: my dreams, you know, and help other people follow their
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  Speaker 11: dreams and inspire people who are dreamers. It's crazy that
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  Speaker 11: we live in a world that if you're super positive
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  Speaker 11: and super.
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  Speaker 5: Creative, then it's scary.
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  Speaker 11: So what does that tell you about the mentality of
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  Speaker 11: most people if you're scared of like positivity and creativity.
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  Speaker 6: I want to do something I've never done before, and
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  Speaker 6: I don't know how, but I can imagine it. I
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  Speaker 6: want to engage in the unknown. I truthfully want to
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  Speaker 6: pursue the unknown, and in the pursuit of the unknown,
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  Speaker 6: something comes to realization and I'm never prepared for it.
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  Speaker 6: So when I set out to do what I set
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  Speaker 6: out to do, I set out to do the abuzz.
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  Speaker 6: Everybody told me you're nuts. You can't do that. You
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  Speaker 6: can't do that, And that's also consistent with all entrepreneurs.
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  Speaker 6: There's always a legion of people who will tell them
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  Speaker 6: you can't do that. And even if you could, why
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  Speaker 6: there's so many better things to do other than that,
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  Speaker 6: that you can make so much more money from it.
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  Speaker 6: But money was really a very very narrow part of
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  Speaker 6: what I was really setting out to do.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you're always affected by opinion, But there are
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  Speaker 1: more opinions there are of me.
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  Speaker 10: The more.
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  Speaker 1: The less I look at them, because I just can't
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  Speaker 1: live my life based upon what other people think about me.
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  Speaker 1: So I can't concern myself too much with what other
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  Speaker 1: people think. You know, it's just not healthy. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think I could continue to do what I do if
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  Speaker 1: I was constantly worrying about what somebody thought about it.