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- 1:19Lisa Nichols: I'm thrilled to have Susan Flippen on the show today.
- 1:21Lisa Nichols: Susan is the CEO at the Flippen Group.
- 1:25Lisa Nichols: Susan Flippin, welcome to the something extra podcast.
- 1:28Lisa Nichols: I am so delighted, sister, that you were able to join me today for
- 1:31Lisa Nichols: the show.
- 1:32Susan Flippen: Oh, thank you, Lisa.
- 1:33Susan Flippen: I'm always excited to be with you.
- 1:36Lisa Nichols: I love you and Flip.
- 1:38Lisa Nichols: I love what you've created.
- 1:40Lisa Nichols: I especially love how you lead your life, and I really
- 1:44Lisa Nichols: can't wait to share all about that.
- 1:46Lisa Nichols: You guys are just incredible, remarkable people, and I can't
- 1:50Lisa Nichols: wait for our listeners to learn more about you.
- 1:53Lisa Nichols: But, you know, Susan, I always love to go back and tell our listeners
- 1:56Lisa Nichols: how do these connections come about.
- 1:59Lisa Nichols: And I believe I mean, you and I really are fortunate to know each
- 2:03Lisa Nichols: other through CEO forum.
- 2:04Susan Flippen: Yes.
- 2:05Lisa Nichols: It's how we originally had met, and, this is an organization
- 2:10Lisa Nichols: that's near and dear to both of us.
- 2:11Lisa Nichols: And I know it's been impactful in our life, and I know it has
- 2:15Lisa Nichols: been for you and Flip as well.
- 2:16Lisa Nichols: But and then several years ago through Pat Combs, which I know you know
- 2:21Lisa Nichols: Oh, man.
- 2:22Lisa Nichols: He's like, Lisa, I'm working for the flipping group now, and, I
- 2:26Lisa Nichols: really I wanna take you through our personalized assessment
- 2:30Lisa Nichols: to assess, like, blind spots and constraints and things like
- 2:34Lisa Nichols: that.
- 2:35Lisa Nichols: And I wanna talk about that more, and I will tell you, you know,
- 2:38Lisa Nichols: I'm a big believer in strength finders and this sort of thing.
- 2:41Lisa Nichols: That was a different kind of assessment for me, and I learned some things
- 2:45Lisa Nichols: about myself, Susan.
- 2:47Lisa Nichols: One of the things that I'll just tell you, because I remember having a
- 2:51Lisa Nichols: conversation with Flip.
- 2:52Lisa Nichols: You know, it really came kind of down, and it boiled down to, like,
- 2:56Lisa Nichols: I'm a really intuitive leader.
- 2:58Lisa Nichols: I'm more intuitive.
- 3:00Lisa Nichols: And Greg, my husband, that cofounded Technology Partners, and I know you
- 3:04Lisa Nichols: and Flip, work together in the flipping group.
- 3:07Lisa Nichols: So that's that's a whole another conversation.
- 3:09Lisa Nichols: Maybe we'll touch on that.
- 3:11Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 3:12Lisa Nichols: But, Greg is an analytical leader, and he's in
- 3:16Lisa Nichols: he wants to see the data, and he's always like, the data doesn't lie.
- 3:20Lisa Nichols: And I really never
- 3:23Lisa Nichols: quite understood that.
- 3:25Lisa Nichols: But, you know, now that we've gone through thirty one years of business,
- 3:29Lisa Nichols: I see how sometimes my intuition is not always correct.
- 3:33Lisa Nichols: And you need both sides.
- 3:34Susan Flippen: Yes.
- 3:35Susan Flippen: Absolutely.
- 3:36Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 3:36Lisa Nichols: You need both sides of the coins to make the best decisions.
- 3:40Lisa Nichols: And I am so much more appreciative now of having the
- 3:44Lisa Nichols: data to back up decisions and not just going for your gut because
- 3:48Lisa Nichols: there have been many times I've gone for my gut, and it wasn't the
- 3:51Lisa Nichols: right decision.
- 3:52Lisa Nichols: So, yeah, it was just really, really eye
- 3:56Lisa Nichols: opening for me.
- 3:58Lisa Nichols: The other thing I wanna just tell our listeners, you are truly and I'm
- 4:02Lisa Nichols: just I'm not just saying this, and we're gonna get into more of this.
- 4:05Lisa Nichols: You are probably one of the most gracious, generous people I know too,
- 4:09Lisa Nichols: Susan.
- 4:10Lisa Nichols: Our girls recently Ally and Paige recently launched,
- 4:15Lisa Nichols: onto their own little entrepreneurial journey and founded Kindred Spirits Designs.
- 4:19Lisa Nichols: And you truly were one of the first people to lean in
- 4:23Lisa Nichols: and just give all sorts of ideas where you could do this and you
- 4:26Lisa Nichols: could do that.
- 4:27Lisa Nichols: And, you know, we were just so grateful to you because you commissioned the
- 4:31Lisa Nichols: girls to build or to design this beautiful bracelet for Aero Academy,
- 4:36Lisa Nichols: which is a charter school that you and Flip were I think you've
- 4:40Lisa Nichols: I think you've been part of four or five different
- 4:44Lisa Nichols: charter schools and starting them, but, that was just such an
- 4:48Lisa Nichols: encouragement to my girls.
- 4:50Lisa Nichols: And so I just wanna publicly thank you again, for
- 4:54Lisa Nichols: that, Susan.
- 4:54Lisa Nichols: And just like I said, that's one of the things I admire about you
- 4:58Lisa Nichols: and flip is just how you live your life.
- 5:01Susan Flippen: Well, I'm just smiling thinking about your girls making the bracelets and being young
- 5:05Susan Flippen: entrepreneurs.
- 5:06Susan Flippen: And the kids at Aero Academy, we're thrilled to have them.
- 5:09Susan Flippen: It's a school where, I volunteer with another
- 5:14Susan Flippen: group of parents and just love on our community, and that
- 5:18Susan Flippen: was a fun way to get to do that.
- 5:20Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 5:21Lisa Nichols: For sure.
- 5:22Lisa Nichols: Well, before we jump in, I mean, we've got so much to talk about,
- 5:26Lisa Nichols: and I wanna try to get as much in as we can, Susan, because
- 5:30Lisa Nichols: I just I just know that you're gonna help our listeners.
- 5:32Lisa Nichols: But take me back to your childhood.
- 5:35Lisa Nichols: What did ten year old Susan dream of becoming, and,
- 5:39Lisa Nichols: how does your life today compared with that vision when
- 5:43Lisa Nichols: you
- 5:44Susan Flippen: were ten years old?
- 5:45Susan Flippen: Well, what's really amazing as a child, I
- 5:49Susan Flippen: loved, and I mean loved going to school.
- 5:52Susan Flippen: I loved the teachers and, you know, I was just
- 5:57Susan Flippen: enthralled with what they knew and what they were gonna share and with how
- 6:00Susan Flippen: they loved us truthfully.
- 6:03Susan Flippen: And so I never I had thought about being a teacher and
- 6:07Susan Flippen: I said that to some teachers in my life and and they were they
- 6:11Susan Flippen: were like, oh, you might not do that, you won't be able to support
- 6:14Susan Flippen: yourself, it's really really long hours and really really low pay, and
- 6:19Susan Flippen: so instead, I, studied computer science and
- 6:23Susan Flippen: accounting, which fascinating, interesting, useful stuff,
- 6:27Susan Flippen: but I can't say that it captured my heart fully And
- 6:31Susan Flippen: Right.
- 6:32Susan Flippen: What's so amazing without me trying,
- 6:36Susan Flippen: I now in the flipping group, we have a lot of different,
- 6:41Susan Flippen: brands that serve different vertical industries.
- 6:45Susan Flippen: One of the ones that, we have a very large presence in is
- 6:49Susan Flippen: public education.
- 6:50Susan Flippen: And so I found myself in a spot where every day I get to
- 6:54Susan Flippen: wake up and think how to improve life for
- 6:58Susan Flippen: educators, how to make them more impactful with the children they get to serve.
- 7:02Susan Flippen: And I'm like, that's pretty amazing.
- 7:04Susan Flippen: I didn't I didn't get to be a teacher, but I get to serve
- 7:07Susan Flippen: them all day long.
- 7:09Lisa Nichols: Isn't that amazing?
- 7:11Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 7:11Lisa Nichols: Talk about you and I spoke before the, before the podcast started
- 7:15Lisa Nichols: about connecting dots.
- 7:17Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 7:17Lisa Nichols: And I said, sometimes you just go from one dot to the other and
- 7:21Lisa Nichols: you have no idea what this picture is gonna look like,
- 7:25Lisa Nichols: but, it is so painful.
- 7:27Susan Flippen: Yeah.
- 7:28Susan Flippen: When you said that, it it made me think of, as a high school
- 7:32Susan Flippen: student, I was very fortunate to be giving
- 7:36Susan Flippen: given several scholarships.
- 7:38Susan Flippen: I had graduated from a really sweet small school.
- 7:41Susan Flippen: I didn't even know people went and visited schools or that you applied for
- 7:45Susan Flippen: scholarships.
- 7:46Susan Flippen: Fortunately, my school counselor did that for me.
- 7:49Susan Flippen: I didn't even know she was doing it.
- 7:51Susan Flippen: And I wound up getting several nice scholarships.
- 7:54Susan Flippen: And the way that I made my college decision, having
- 7:58Susan Flippen: visited zero colleges, was my cousin went to Texas
- 8:02Susan Flippen: a and m University, and he said, well, you should come
- 8:06Susan Flippen: there because that's where I am.
- 8:07Susan Flippen: And I said, okay.
- 8:09Susan Flippen: And and then he decided to not finish there, so I was there
- 8:14Susan Flippen: and not didn't know anyone on the planet.
- 8:17Susan Flippen: And decades later, I still live in College Station, Texas,
- 8:21Susan Flippen: and we love it, Lisa.
- 8:23Susan Flippen: There are, I don't know, over seventy thousand
- 8:27Susan Flippen: students at Texas a and m.
- 8:28Susan Flippen: So I'm in a town of over seventy thousand twenty year olds, and we
- 8:32Susan Flippen: love it because they're about to start life.
- 8:34Susan Flippen: They're excited about life.
- 8:36Susan Flippen: I didn't plan to stay there.
- 8:37Susan Flippen: I didn't even really give a lot of thought to how I wound up
- 8:41Susan Flippen: there in the first place.
- 8:41Susan Flippen: And the other thing I love about our community is we can touch
- 8:46Susan Flippen: the world from College Station.
- 8:48Susan Flippen: There are students from more than a hundred and ten countries that come to
- 8:52Susan Flippen: school there.
- 8:53Susan Flippen: And because it's not a really big town, those are my friends and neighbors
- 8:57Susan Flippen: everywhere I go.
- 8:58Susan Flippen: And so it's like you get to experience the world.
- 9:02Susan Flippen: And, anyway, we love it.
- 9:04Lisa Nichols: That's amazing.
- 9:06Lisa Nichols: Well, I've met a lot of Aggies in my day.
- 9:10Lisa Nichols: And, they're just always amazing people, you know?
- 9:14Lisa Nichols: So I I'm gonna come visit you in person.
- 9:17Lisa Nichols: Susan, I'm gonna make that up.
- 9:19Lisa Nichols: I'm gonna put that on my bucket list.
- 9:20Susan Flippen: Ready.
- 9:21Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 9:22Lisa Nichols: Absolutely.
- 9:23Lisa Nichols: Well, I know that you grew up too as one of four girls.
- 9:27Lisa Nichols: How did that shape you, Susan?
- 9:29Susan Flippen: Well, you know, part part of my story is,
- 9:35Susan Flippen: I, through a series of circumstances, wound up in foster care.
- 9:40Susan Flippen: So, you know,
- 9:43Susan Flippen: no parent sets out for that to happen to their
- 9:47Susan Flippen: children, but there were just circumstances
- 9:51Susan Flippen: that led to that and,
- 9:55Susan Flippen: our family wound up being broken apart in different
- 9:59Susan Flippen: one of my sisters was in a different foster care home, but all of
- 10:03Susan Flippen: that talk about connecting the dots.
- 10:06Susan Flippen: I feel like it prepared my heart to,
- 10:10Susan Flippen: it's like I got a front row education to needs and heartaches
- 10:15Susan Flippen: and then connecting the dots again that as an adult,
- 10:19Susan Flippen: I one of the things I spend a lot of time in it on
- 10:23Susan Flippen: is our education companies and we're helping teachers connect
- 10:27Susan Flippen: with their kids and fill in the gap just like my teachers did.
- 10:32Susan Flippen: Yes.
- 10:32Susan Flippen: And it you know, so thankful to get to do it.
- 10:35Susan Flippen: And so thankful,
- 10:37Susan Flippen: I would have never signed up for that, but I'm thankful what I
- 10:41Susan Flippen: for what I learned on that journey.
- 10:43Lisa Nichols: Oh, well, I mean, goodness gracious, Susan.
- 10:48Lisa Nichols: And we we had never sometimes life does
- 10:52Lisa Nichols: throw us curve balls and and things, and we would never sign
- 10:56Lisa Nichols: up for the adversity.
- 10:57Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 10:57Lisa Nichols: But the things that we learn
- 10:59Susan Flippen: Mhmm.
- 10:59Lisa Nichols: Through the experience, if we're willing to, right, if we allow those
- 11:04Lisa Nichols: things to to help shape us, they certainly do, and sometimes more.
- 11:08Lisa Nichols: The valleys sometimes shape us more even than the summits, I think, you know,
- 11:13Lisa Nichols: of life.
- 11:14Lisa Nichols: That's right.
- 11:14Lisa Nichols: But, yeah, I know that you're you lived with your aunt
- 11:18Lisa Nichols: and uncle during high school, and I think they were a big part of
- 11:22Lisa Nichols: your story too.
- 11:23Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 11:23Susan Flippen: Oh, yes.
- 11:24Susan Flippen: I,
- 11:26Susan Flippen: when I was in a foster home situation that wasn't very good, there
- 11:30Susan Flippen: were some that were good, but this one was was not.
- 11:33Susan Flippen: And I I just thought I haven't seen this aunt and uncle since
- 11:37Susan Flippen: I was eight.
- 11:37Susan Flippen: They didn't know where we were.
- 11:39Susan Flippen: And I I told my sister, let's call them.
- 11:42Susan Flippen: Remember how sweet they were and how much we loved their the
- 11:47Susan Flippen: little town they lived in in Texas.
- 11:49Susan Flippen: It's a little town called Hue Springs.
- 11:52Susan Flippen: I, I refer to it lovingly as Mayberry because
- 11:56Susan Flippen: the whole town just rooted for each other and knew each other and it's
- 11:59Susan Flippen: just this pretty picturesque little place and I got to live with
- 12:03Susan Flippen: them and, experience a loving family
- 12:07Susan Flippen: environment, and it it prepared me for a lot
- 12:12Susan Flippen: of things.
- 12:13Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's so awesome.
- 12:15Lisa Nichols: Well, I I know, like you said, you you majored in computer
- 12:19Lisa Nichols: science, accounting.
- 12:20Lisa Nichols: I'm sure those things have come into bear with what Flip
- 12:24Lisa Nichols: are doing today.
- 12:25Lisa Nichols: And, again, I never connecting the dot.
- 12:28Lisa Nichols: But you and Flip launched the Flipping Group back in nineteen ninety.
- 12:32Lisa Nichols: What, what was that spark,
- 12:36Lisa Nichols: Susan, that ignited the flipping group?
- 12:38Susan Flippen: Well, at the time I was working in corporate America and, you know, learning
- 12:42Susan Flippen: a lot is wonderful education and the role I was in and,
- 12:46Susan Flippen: Flip was seeing patients all day.
- 12:48Susan Flippen: He's a psychotherapist by formal training and really good at it.
- 12:52Susan Flippen: I mean, he just loves people well and helps them get unstuck
- 12:56Susan Flippen: and very skilled at it.
- 12:58Susan Flippen: And I remember him saying to me, I am going to
- 13:03Susan Flippen: help
- 13:04Susan Flippen: change the headlines about our nation's youth, and I'm gonna write a
- 13:09Susan Flippen: curriculum to help kids live on purpose.
- 13:12Susan Flippen: And I was like when he said he was gonna change the headlines about
- 13:16Susan Flippen: our nation's youth, I was like, you are?
- 13:18Susan Flippen: You know, I knew he was great with kids, but it was hard to
- 13:22Susan Flippen: imagine the scale.
- 13:23Susan Flippen: You know, this is decades ago.
- 13:25Susan Flippen: And then the very next thing he said to me, and and this company
- 13:28Susan Flippen: cannot be built on me.
- 13:31Susan Flippen: You know, we called ourselves the flipping group back in the day because we
- 13:35Susan Flippen: you know, there wasn't a marketing department.
- 13:37Susan Flippen: You just went with something, but we have brands in different verticals that are
- 13:42Susan Flippen: better known under those brands.
- 13:43Susan Flippen: But, yeah, that's how that's how it started, and I was able
- 13:48Susan Flippen: to, again, connect the dots and use the experiences I was gaining in different
- 13:52Susan Flippen: places because all companies need computer science and accounting.
- 13:56Susan Flippen: Right?
- 13:56Susan Flippen: So Absolutely.
- 13:57Susan Flippen: And those things are wonderful.
- 13:58Susan Flippen: It's just not my greatest heartbeat.
- 14:00Susan Flippen: I noticed even when I was in school in computer science, the people who
- 14:03Susan Flippen: were amazing at it were the people who they wanted to do that
- 14:07Susan Flippen: on the weekend also because it was that fun for them.
- 14:10Lisa Nichols: Discretionary time.
- 14:12Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 14:12Lisa Nichols: They're not about it.
- 14:14Susan Flippen: I'm never gonna be as great as them at that because it's their passion.
- 14:17Susan Flippen: So my passion is helping people live
- 14:21Susan Flippen: fully what what they were made to do.
- 14:24Susan Flippen: And so it's great.
- 14:25Lisa Nichols: I love that.
- 14:27Lisa Nichols: Well, tell us more about the flipping group.
- 14:30Lisa Nichols: Tell our listeners about the flipping group.
- 14:32Lisa Nichols: Tell us more about the mission and the vision and, you know, how how
- 14:36Lisa Nichols: they can engage with you guys, and then I've got lots of other questions.
- 14:39Susan Flippen: Well, thank you, Lisa.
- 14:41Susan Flippen: Yes.
- 14:41Susan Flippen: So our our main focus is bringing out the best
- 14:45Susan Flippen: in people.
- 14:46Susan Flippen: And so in corporate America, we work with mainly large,
- 14:51Susan Flippen: midsize, and large corporations in the people development space,
- 14:56Susan Flippen: helping with organizational development and team dynamics, individual
- 15:00Susan Flippen: coaching, helping an organization realize their potential when
- 15:04Susan Flippen: the team is all pulling in the same direction and We love it.
- 15:08Susan Flippen: We get to work with clients all over the world the team does and,
- 15:13Susan Flippen: very rewarding and, lots of great results.
- 15:16Susan Flippen: I mean core corporations need to they need to feel it, but they
- 15:20Susan Flippen: they need to see it talk about the data, right?
- 15:22Susan Flippen: They need to see a return on investment and it happens all the
- 15:26Susan Flippen: time because when we pull together, we're more we're more together.
- 15:30Susan Flippen: Right?
- 15:31Susan Flippen: So how do you get unstuck
- 15:34Susan Flippen: and, leverage that better?
- 15:36Susan Flippen: And then in schools, our biggest brand is known as Capturing Kids' Hearts,
- 15:41Susan Flippen: and it's all about helping schools build a culture
- 15:45Susan Flippen: and climate that teachers wanna be in every day, that kids
- 15:49Susan Flippen: wanna come to, that parents are eager to bring their kids into, and
- 15:53Susan Flippen: we help teachers.
- 15:56Susan Flippen: We've all had amazing teachers, right, that you're like, oh, I wish I was
- 16:00Susan Flippen: with them all day.
- 16:01Susan Flippen: How how do you take what they're doing that's so captivating to kids
- 16:06Susan Flippen: and teach more people who don't do that naturally to do that better.
- 16:10Susan Flippen: Mhmm.
- 16:11Susan Flippen: And how do you raise the expectations in kids where
- 16:15Susan Flippen: they wanna hold themselves to a higher standard as a team.
- 16:19Susan Flippen: Mhmm.
- 16:19Susan Flippen: And when when we do that, when you build emotional safety and trust
- 16:24Susan Flippen: in the classroom and the kids are agreeing to a higher standard and they
- 16:28Susan Flippen: wanna hold each other to the higher standard, amazing results happen.
- 16:32Susan Flippen: So,
- 16:34Susan Flippen: I love the work that we get to do in any vertical.
- 16:36Susan Flippen: Teamalytics also works in pro sports, collegiate sports with
- 16:40Susan Flippen: teams or individual athletes.
- 16:43Susan Flippen: They also work with in the government sector.
- 16:46Susan Flippen: So, you know, lots of, different types of organizations, but
- 16:50Susan Flippen: the biggest asset and biggest liability on every balance sheet
- 16:55Susan Flippen: are the people.
- 16:56Susan Flippen: Right?
- 16:56Susan Flippen: It you can have all the buildings in the world, all the inventory in
- 17:00Susan Flippen: the world, all the IP in the world, but if you don't have people
- 17:04Susan Flippen: pulling together for mission, it you know, you're never gonna
- 17:08Susan Flippen: have the return you you could have.
- 17:10Susan Flippen: An impact in dollars, whatever it is you're measuring.
- 17:14Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 17:15Lisa Nichols: Oh, for sure.
- 17:16Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 17:16Lisa Nichols: For sure.
- 17:17Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 17:17Lisa Nichols: I was thinking as you were talking, Susan, I'm thinking the common denominator in
- 17:20Lisa Nichols: all of this is people.
- 17:22Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 17:23Lisa Nichols: That's the common denominator.
- 17:25Lisa Nichols: So I love that you guys what you are doing.
- 17:27Lisa Nichols: Well, I know that you have a super strong culture, Susan.
- 17:30Lisa Nichols: You guys have been voted best workplaces, best companies to work for in Texas.
- 17:35Lisa Nichols: You know, how have you intentionally designed that culture?
- 17:39Lisa Nichols: And that's Mark Miller, you know, from the you probably know Mark.
- 17:43Lisa Nichols: He was the vice president of high performance leadership for Chick fil A for
- 17:46Lisa Nichols: forty years.
- 17:47Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 17:48Lisa Nichols: And he and he always says, you know, cultures, they
- 17:52Lisa Nichols: they're they can happen by accident, but they should not happen
- 17:56Lisa Nichols: by accident.
- 17:57Lisa Nichols: They should happen by design.
- 17:58Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 17:59Lisa Nichols: And so I know you guys have been intentional.
- 18:01Lisa Nichols: So what are some of the things that you guys have done to build
- 18:04Lisa Nichols: the amazing culture you have?
- 18:06Susan Flippen: So we we have a social contract within our organization
- 18:10Susan Flippen: where we have all agreed to standards of behavior.
- 18:13Susan Flippen: I'm gonna bring my best with joy.
- 18:18Susan Flippen: So we're gonna help each other be our best and we also
- 18:22Susan Flippen: provide space that when there's conflict We're committed
- 18:26Susan Flippen: to working it out.
- 18:27Susan Flippen: Not oh well now I can't trust that person.
- 18:30Susan Flippen: No, we're gonna dig in and and, restore that and
- 18:34Susan Flippen: build trust.
- 18:35Susan Flippen: And it's been so neat to see that when you really do that,
- 18:39Susan Flippen: relationships, if you're willing to be brave enough to do it and love somebody
- 18:43Susan Flippen: enough to say, hey, we're stuck.
- 18:45Susan Flippen: Can we really talk it through for real?
- 18:48Susan Flippen: It's amazing how much stronger you become when
- 18:52Susan Flippen: you're able to do that.
- 18:54Susan Flippen: And then when you have a whole army of people doing it, like,
- 18:58Susan Flippen: this sounds odd to say, but COVID in many ways was
- 19:03Susan Flippen: fun.
- 19:04Susan Flippen: I would never sign up for it again, but it was fun to pull
- 19:08Susan Flippen: together because the team had so much relational capacity
- 19:12Susan Flippen: that, we were able to pull together and we huddled our team
- 19:17Susan Flippen: every single day.
- 19:18Susan Flippen: One, just to help people deal with how life was
- 19:22Susan Flippen: changing right before our eyes and and in our business, you know, everything just
- 19:26Susan Flippen: came to a screeching halt.
- 19:29Susan Flippen: But we were able to innovate during that time and use that time
- 19:33Susan Flippen: to educate our team.
- 19:35Susan Flippen: We were able to keep the whole team, which was amazing, but a lot
- 19:38Susan Flippen: of that was because we pulled together and we would innovate so quickly,
- 19:43Susan Flippen: and and I know a lot of companies learn this.
- 19:45Susan Flippen: We're like, wow.
- 19:46Susan Flippen: We we actually had the ability to move faster than we were moving all
- 19:49Susan Flippen: along.
- 19:50Susan Flippen: Right?
- 19:50Susan Flippen: It's COVID just put that on steroids.
- 19:53Susan Flippen: Sure.
- 19:53Susan Flippen: So one of the things we also intentionally do is we revisit
- 19:58Susan Flippen: the culture.
- 19:58Susan Flippen: It's not like, well, once a year we talked about it.
- 20:00Susan Flippen: It's it's an ongoing thing.
- 20:02Susan Flippen: We we we make sure that we start meetings with good things because
- 20:07Susan Flippen: that just changes the atmosphere.
- 20:08Susan Flippen: You know, tell us something good and, you know, we spend a little bit
- 20:12Susan Flippen: of time celebrating before we dive right into problem solving.
- 20:16Susan Flippen: I love solving problems.
- 20:18Susan Flippen: So do my teammates, but we don't wanna miss the the joy
- 20:22Susan Flippen: in celebrating.
- 20:23Susan Flippen: Hey, look what look what we've been able to do, and then it just
- 20:27Susan Flippen: energizes you to to solve even better.
- 20:31Lisa Nichols: That's all good.
- 20:33Lisa Nichols: That's practical.
- 20:34Lisa Nichols: That's just a practical thing that we can that we can all implement.
- 20:38Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 20:39Lisa Nichols: Before we start a meeting.
- 20:40Lisa Nichols: Let's talk about something good.
- 20:42Lisa Nichols: You know, what good has happened this week.
- 20:44Lisa Nichols: Let's celebrate that.
- 20:45Susan Flippen: We also hold ourselves accountable.
- 20:47Susan Flippen: Our social contract isn't just words on a wall.
- 20:51Susan Flippen: We, you know, when we gather team in different sub teams,
- 20:56Susan Flippen: part of our structure is everyone is on some sort of huddle so that
- 21:00Susan Flippen: everybody's part of a sub team, because you can't get everyone in the nation
- 21:04Susan Flippen: together every day.
- 21:05Susan Flippen: Right?
- 21:06Susan Flippen: And but we make sure that we revisit, aspects of the
- 21:10Susan Flippen: social contract so that we can reflect on
- 21:15Susan Flippen: I can grade myself.
- 21:16Susan Flippen: How am I doing?
- 21:17Susan Flippen: You know, and it just it brings it to awareness that relationships matter,
- 21:21Susan Flippen: and when they're healthy and whole, you can do more.
- 21:24Susan Flippen: Yeah.
- 21:24Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 21:25Lisa Nichols: That's so good.
- 21:26Lisa Nichols: So good, Susan.
- 21:29Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 21:30Lisa Nichols: Would you because we I already said, like, you know, the proprietary
- 21:35Lisa Nichols: assessment that you guys do, you know, really does identify blind spots,
- 21:39Lisa Nichols: constraints.
- 21:40Lisa Nichols: You know, it's it's very scientific Yes.
- 21:43Lisa Nichols: How you guys, you know, go about that.
- 21:46Lisa Nichols: But what do you believe?
- 21:47Lisa Nichols: And I know you work with a lot of leaders, Susan.
- 21:50Lisa Nichols: What do you believe are some of those biggest bite blind spots that you
- 21:53Lisa Nichols: see with leaders?
- 21:56Susan Flippen: Well, I think one of the blind spots for leaders is
- 22:00Susan Flippen: it's hard for leaders to get authentic feedback, right?
- 22:04Susan Flippen: Because if you're the CEO, Lisa, they don't want to disappoint you or
- 22:08Susan Flippen: they don't want to expose their weak spot and and to get real
- 22:13Susan Flippen: feedback isn't easy and
- 22:16Susan Flippen: so encouraging leaders to find
- 22:20Susan Flippen: truth tellers in their lives that maybe it's some people at work,
- 22:25Susan Flippen: but maybe it's an executive coach maybe it's somebody
- 22:29Susan Flippen: on the outside, a peer group like you and I are both in the
- 22:31Susan Flippen: CEO forum, so taking time to actually stop
- 22:36Susan Flippen: and ask questions of others that that might not be
- 22:40Susan Flippen: as intimidated to give you feedback, because of the role relationship.
- 22:45Lisa Nichols: Sure.
- 22:46Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 22:47Lisa Nichols: No.
- 22:47Lisa Nichols: That's a big one.
- 22:48Lisa Nichols: That's a big one.
- 22:49Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 22:51Lisa Nichols: When they identify and let's just take maybe you can just
- 22:55Lisa Nichols: do an anecdotal, like one blind spot.
- 22:57Lisa Nichols: What are some practical, tactical things,
- 23:02Lisa Nichols: that a leader can do, Susan, to help move that
- 23:06Lisa Nichols: blind spot in the right direction Mhmm.
- 23:08Lisa Nichols: To get on the other side of the ledger, using our accounting,
- 23:13Lisa Nichols: background that we both have.
- 23:14Susan Flippen: Oh, that's funny.
- 23:17Susan Flippen: Well, I think
- 23:19Susan Flippen: you mentioned data.
- 23:20Susan Flippen: So Teamalytics, our our company that works, with
- 23:24Susan Flippen: corporations, pro sports, etcetera, they use a lot of data
- 23:29Susan Flippen: because in a corporate setting, that's that's there's an expectation.
- 23:32Susan Flippen: What does the data tell us?
- 23:34Susan Flippen: So people always say to you, Lisa, play to your strengths, play to your
- 23:37Susan Flippen: strengths, and I love strength finders.
- 23:39Susan Flippen: I like knowing and celebrating what people are good at, and it's great to
- 23:43Susan Flippen: know that.
- 23:44Susan Flippen: And the instrument we use does highlight that, and we affirm
- 23:48Susan Flippen: that in people, but it's designed to help you know it's not
- 23:52Susan Flippen: your strengths that are holding you back.
- 23:55Susan Flippen: It's the blind spot, or it's the thing that you kinda know it's there,
- 23:58Susan Flippen: but you don't know what to do about it.
- 24:01Susan Flippen: And so, our our instrument is designed to help
- 24:05Susan Flippen: people be aware of
- 24:08Susan Flippen: those the potential spot for growth that's gonna give you more
- 24:12Susan Flippen: breakthrough, something that's holding you back.
- 24:14Susan Flippen: Like, maybe you're overly confident.
- 24:16Susan Flippen: Maybe you're not confident enough, and it as a leader, it'll identify
- 24:20Susan Flippen: one or two key things that will give you breakthrough, and then
- 24:24Susan Flippen: we help that leader,
- 24:28Susan Flippen: develop a plan and it's of changing behavior.
- 24:31Susan Flippen: You know, like, what are the small things you can do that will
- 24:36Susan Flippen: start shifting?
- 24:37Susan Flippen: Sometimes it's a big thing, and then how and then following
- 24:41Susan Flippen: back up to give people that encouragement to do it.
- 24:44Susan Flippen: Right?
- 24:44Susan Flippen: It's hard to change.
- 24:45Susan Flippen: Yes.
- 24:46Susan Flippen: It is.
- 24:47Susan Flippen: We we know what we know, and it got us to where we are,
- 24:49Susan Flippen: but, what got you to this level isn't gonna get you to the next
- 24:53Susan Flippen: level.
- 24:53Susan Flippen: Right?
- 24:54Susan Flippen: So we're looking for breakthrough.
- 24:56Susan Flippen: Yeah.
- 24:56Susan Flippen: And once people experience breakthrough,
- 25:00Susan Flippen: they they want more of it.
- 25:02Susan Flippen: And
- 25:02Lisa Nichols: I'm gonna say they want more.
- 25:04Susan Flippen: Yeah.
- 25:04Susan Flippen: Flip is like trying a new book.
- 25:06Susan Flippen: And one of the things he always says is no organization can rise above
- 25:11Susan Flippen: the constraints of its leadership.
- 25:12Susan Flippen: So if you and I both sit in a CEO position, we
- 25:16Susan Flippen: are a lid on the organization.
- 25:18Susan Flippen: Whatever my constraint is affects the team that that I want to serve
- 25:22Susan Flippen: and the clients I want to serve.
- 25:24Susan Flippen: And when someone helps me, because I I it's hard for
- 25:28Susan Flippen: me to self assess.
- 25:29Susan Flippen: When somebody helps me get breakthrough, even if I know what it is, if
- 25:33Susan Flippen: they help me to know what to do, if I knew what to do,
- 25:35Susan Flippen: I'd be doing it.
- 25:36Susan Flippen: Right?
- 25:36Susan Flippen: If they help me to know what tweaks to work on,
- 25:40Susan Flippen: then the next thing that that does when my breakthrough comes, the
- 25:44Susan Flippen: the next layer of staff next to me, all of a sudden there's
- 25:49Susan Flippen: constraints are highlighted.
- 25:50Susan Flippen: And so you wanna help them get more breakthrough as well.
- 25:53Susan Flippen: And it is just fun to watch teams do that because people want
- 25:57Susan Flippen: they wanna serve powerfully, whether you're a school teacher or in a boardroom
- 26:02Susan Flippen: of the biggest company on the planet.
- 26:04Susan Flippen: You wanna be impactful.
- 26:05Susan Flippen: You want your life to count.
- 26:07Susan Flippen: Right.
- 26:08Lisa Nichols: You know, Susan, as you're talking, I'm just thinking what you guys are doing
- 26:12Lisa Nichols: and how you go about it, it's it truly is real
- 26:16Lisa Nichols: transformation.
- 26:18Lisa Nichols: It's transforming the individual.
- 26:21Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 26:21Lisa Nichols: If they're willing.
- 26:22Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 26:23Lisa Nichols: It's hard work, but they have to be willing.
- 26:25Lisa Nichols: You have to have a willing party.
- 26:28Lisa Nichols: And but as individuals transform, the
- 26:32Lisa Nichols: organization just naturally transforms too.
- 26:35Susan Flippen: Yes.
- 26:36Susan Flippen: Absolutely.
- 26:37Lisa Nichols: That's just really beautiful.
- 26:39Lisa Nichols: Well, I'm gonna ask you one more question, then we need to take a
- 26:41Lisa Nichols: quick break.
- 26:42Lisa Nichols: But we kinda talked about this.
- 26:44Lisa Nichols: What is it like co leading the organization with Flip,
- 26:48Lisa Nichols: and how have you guys made it work?
- 26:50Lisa Nichols: Because I know that is a question I get all the time from people.
- 26:54Lisa Nichols: They're like, how in the world do do you work with
- 26:58Lisa Nichols: your spouse?
- 26:58Lisa Nichols: How have you and Greg made it work?
- 27:00Lisa Nichols: And and I always laughingly say, and it's the truth, Susan, I'm like, we've
- 27:04Lisa Nichols: not always done it right.
- 27:06Lisa Nichols: In fact, there are some years where where I just didn't know, you know,
- 27:10Lisa Nichols: if we were gonna be able to make it.
- 27:12Lisa Nichols: But, I mean, we we've learned some things over the the course
- 27:16Lisa Nichols: of thirty one years of working with one another, and, I'd love
- 27:20Lisa Nichols: to hear kind of your perspective on that with working with Flip.
- 27:24Susan Flippen: Well, I think you talked about it earlier how, Greg is wired
- 27:29Susan Flippen: very differently from you, and then there's some complimentary wiring.
- 27:32Susan Flippen: Like, you're both, you know, wanna make a difference.
- 27:36Susan Flippen: So you have that
- 27:37Lisa Nichols: in common.
- 27:38Susan Flippen: Same with Flip and I.
- 27:39Susan Flippen: We have very different wirings, and we have learned over time
- 27:43Susan Flippen: how to yet how to let that be a complement to one another.
- 27:47Susan Flippen: Like if we lean in and listen to the other, there's a better answer
- 27:50Susan Flippen: in there.
- 27:51Susan Flippen: The collective intelligence, there's just there's more to it.
- 27:55Susan Flippen: And so we've learned how to do that together.
- 27:57Susan Flippen: And for me, it's not for everyone, but my personal choice when
- 28:01Susan Flippen: I was in a a big corporate role, it pulled me in a different
- 28:05Susan Flippen: direction than him.
- 28:07Susan Flippen: And I I like me on his team, you know, us on a
- 28:11Susan Flippen: team together and I love our mission.
- 28:14Susan Flippen: It's like bringing out the best in people.
- 28:16Susan Flippen: Who wouldn't wanna be on that mission?
- 28:18Susan Flippen: Right?
- 28:18Susan Flippen: It's
- 28:19Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 28:19Lisa Nichols: It's Compelling.
- 28:21Susan Flippen: I love the teammates that we have and we've just learned over
- 28:25Susan Flippen: time to, work together.
- 28:27Susan Flippen: It helps in our organization that what we do is
- 28:31Susan Flippen: help raise performance in individuals and organizations.
- 28:35Susan Flippen: So we are our team are professionals that do
- 28:39Susan Flippen: this all over the world, and so we're able to leverage
- 28:43Susan Flippen: that.
- 28:44Susan Flippen: We have mentors in the company that help us and Right.
- 28:48Susan Flippen: We're all able to help each other because
- 28:52Susan Flippen: our our team talks a lot about our culture and how how much we
- 28:56Susan Flippen: love it.
- 28:56Susan Flippen: And I always remind them, yes, we experience this
- 29:00Susan Flippen: so that we're equipped to pour it out because a lot of people are
- 29:04Susan Flippen: in tough work situations, tougher than it has to be.
- 29:08Susan Flippen: Right?
- 29:09Susan Flippen: And when you've experienced something that's,
- 29:13Susan Flippen: truly a high performing team, you you want everyone to have it.
- 29:17Susan Flippen: And we're experiencing it so that we can, share it.
- 29:21Susan Flippen: And the same the same with Flip and I, we've learned, like, we were
- 29:25Susan Flippen: talking this morning about, we get a lot of phone calls from just
- 29:29Susan Flippen: people looking for advice.
- 29:31Susan Flippen: You know, just friends we've made along the way, and they've realized
- 29:35Susan Flippen: that our skill set complements each other.
- 29:38Susan Flippen: And so we can both be helpful in different ways to whatever challenge
- 29:42Susan Flippen: it is that they're facing.
- 29:44Lisa Nichols: Sure.
- 29:46Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's so good.
- 29:47Lisa Nichols: I had a really good point.
- 29:49Lisa Nichols: Now I just forgot what I was gonna say, but I just
- 29:53Lisa Nichols: but I'm just, you know, I just concur.
- 29:56Lisa Nichols: I mean, really leaning into one another and in other
- 30:00Lisa Nichols: each other's strength.
- 30:01Lisa Nichols: Oh, I know what I was gonna say.
- 30:02Lisa Nichols: I think here it is, Susan, as you're talking, I'm thinking, here's the
- 30:06Lisa Nichols: here's the common denominator with you all.
- 30:09Lisa Nichols: Your mission is the same.
- 30:11Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 30:12Lisa Nichols: Your purpose is the same.
- 30:14Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 30:14Lisa Nichols: And you're both passionate about that purpose.
- 30:17Lisa Nichols: So anything that comes up, I mean, still, you can go
- 30:21Lisa Nichols: back to that common purpose in life.
- 30:25Lisa Nichols: And that is to help help people and to see them live their best
- 30:29Lisa Nichols: life.
- 30:29Lisa Nichols: And, you know, that's as you were talking, I mean, that's the key right
- 30:33Lisa Nichols: there.
- 30:34Lisa Nichols: So if you've got different purposes, if you've got different missions,
- 30:39Lisa Nichols: that's gonna be hard.
- 30:40Lisa Nichols: That's gonna be hard.
- 30:42Lisa Nichols: But, yeah, you definitely are on the same page there.
- 30:45Lisa Nichols: Well, I've got so much more I wanna talk about, but we do need
- 30:48Lisa Nichols: to take a quick break, and we'll be right back with Susan Flippen on
- 30:51Lisa Nichols: the Something Extra podcast.
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- 31:23Lisa Nichols: Welcome back, everyone, to the Something Extra podcast with
- 31:27Lisa Nichols: my dear friend, Susan Flippen.
- 31:29Lisa Nichols: Susan, it's been so much fun.
- 31:30Lisa Nichols: We've just talked about so many things, but I wanna get more, like, into
- 31:34Lisa Nichols: family and legacy now.
- 31:37Lisa Nichols: And I just I gotta understand more about this, and I want our listeners
- 31:40Lisa Nichols: too.
- 31:40Lisa Nichols: You and Flip collectively have raised twenty kids
- 31:45Lisa Nichols: and twenty seven grandkids.
- 31:49Lisa Nichols: How did this all evolve?
- 31:52Susan Flippen: Well, I think it starts with Flip and I both, long before
- 31:56Susan Flippen: we knew each other, have had a heart for kids, you know,
- 32:00Susan Flippen: like a lot of people.
- 32:02Susan Flippen: And for me, the foster care experience
- 32:05Susan Flippen: going through that, I would I would think I would make
- 32:10Susan Flippen: a really good kid for somebody, you know, but I just didn't
- 32:14Susan Flippen: know how to connect to with.
- 32:16Susan Flippen: They didn't know me.
- 32:17Susan Flippen: Right?
- 32:17Susan Flippen: And in that time, I just always thought when I'm older,
- 32:22Susan Flippen: I'm gonna do something about it.
- 32:23Susan Flippen: And so I'm getting to do that through our work in public education.
- 32:28Susan Flippen: I'm getting to do it schools where I volunteer, and we've
- 32:32Susan Flippen: gotten to do it in our home.
- 32:34Susan Flippen: And then my husband is a psychotherapist and years ago started
- 32:39Susan Flippen: a a boys ranch.
- 32:40Susan Flippen: They're they're now a separate property for girls as well.
- 32:43Susan Flippen: We're just now volunteers.
- 32:45Susan Flippen: We don't I mean, donors, volunteers, that kind of thing.
- 32:48Susan Flippen: We're not intimately involved, but he had the same
- 32:52Susan Flippen: heart because when he was counseling,
- 32:56Susan Flippen: he had a significant counseling practice and, you know, would see
- 33:00Susan Flippen: executives and leaders in the community, but the courts would also send kids that
- 33:04Susan Flippen: were struggling,
- 33:06Susan Flippen: from all kinds of families.
- 33:07Susan Flippen: But they would send those kids to Flip because he just had a
- 33:11Susan Flippen: way to connect with them.
- 33:13Susan Flippen: And through that, he wound up starting, the Boys
- 33:17Susan Flippen: Ranch, and we've actually adopted two boys from there.
- 33:21Susan Flippen: So that's been a very, very sweet part of our life.
- 33:24Susan Flippen: But different kids came into our life in different ways, and we
- 33:29Susan Flippen: just both decided that one of the ways that God
- 33:33Susan Flippen: could use us in our life is to
- 33:38Susan Flippen: open our home.
- 33:40Susan Flippen: And you meet kids along the way who they just need somebody to
- 33:44Susan Flippen: step in and say that they matter and to see them, and we've just
- 33:48Susan Flippen: had the privilege of doing that through a series of different
- 33:52Susan Flippen: circumstances.
- 33:54Lisa Nichols: Twenty seven grandkids.
- 33:56Susan Flippen: Well, when you when you have a lot of kids that are part of
- 33:59Susan Flippen: your family, and a lot of those kids have a lot of kids, so
- 34:02Susan Flippen: we, yes, they are they are fun
- 34:06Susan Flippen: and a big part of our lives.
- 34:08Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 34:09Lisa Nichols: That's so cool.
- 34:10Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 34:11Lisa Nichols: Is there a tradition or a ritual
- 34:15Lisa Nichols: that you guys have established in your family, Susan, that's been really
- 34:19Lisa Nichols: special or significant?
- 34:21Susan Flippen: One of the things we do at Christmas time, we gather for
- 34:26Susan Flippen: about three days.
- 34:27Susan Flippen: If if we travel somewhere, maybe we'll make it longer, but sometimes
- 34:31Susan Flippen: it's just at our home.
- 34:33Susan Flippen: And,
- 34:35Susan Flippen: those who can come, come and it's it's you, you know, it's not hard
- 34:38Susan Flippen: for us to have a big group.
- 34:40Susan Flippen: So, we will just celebrate life together,
- 34:44Susan Flippen: have fun together, find ways to serve together,
- 34:48Susan Flippen: like that's a big a big thing in our life we're working
- 34:52Susan Flippen: with our grandkids on now is helping grandkids learn a
- 34:56Susan Flippen: work ethic,
- 34:58Susan Flippen: an ethic towards savings and also generosity.
- 35:02Susan Flippen: So one of the things that, that we do, we love to
- 35:07Susan Flippen: look for serving opportunities as a family, like one year at Christmas,
- 35:11Susan Flippen: we our present is our gathering together, so there aren't
- 35:16Susan Flippen: gifts under the tree, it's just our present is our time together, and we'll
- 35:19Susan Flippen: go do some fun activities together, But, like, one year we gave
- 35:23Susan Flippen: every, family a stipend in, like, a month leading
- 35:27Susan Flippen: up to Christmas, and then we told them at a particular part of
- 35:31Susan Flippen: flipping family Christmas, each family was going to share
- 35:35Susan Flippen: how they bless somebody else with that money, and it was
- 35:40Susan Flippen: amazing.
- 35:41Susan Flippen: It just is the stories that came from that.
- 35:43Susan Flippen: It was just beautiful and just to see the kids heart and excitement
- 35:48Susan Flippen: about getting to do that versus unwrap something else.
- 35:51Susan Flippen: Not that there's anything wrong with having presents.
- 35:54Susan Flippen: That's fun too.
- 35:55Susan Flippen: But Nice.
- 35:56Susan Flippen: And then one of the things Flip and I have done is we've formed
- 35:58Susan Flippen: a committee of the grandkids.
- 36:00Susan Flippen: It's, so all the cousins come together.
- 36:04Susan Flippen: The those who want to, and it's most of them.
- 36:06Susan Flippen: And we we encourage them to,
- 36:11Susan Flippen: get a job, and we pay them a stipend on
- 36:15Susan Flippen: what they earn because we're trying to encourage a work ethic.
- 36:18Susan Flippen: And then we match what they save, so we're trying to
- 36:22Susan Flippen: encourage stewardship.
- 36:23Susan Flippen: And it really has made them think.
- 36:25Susan Flippen: Like, they'll they'll they'll think, well, that money's gonna get matched at the end
- 36:29Susan Flippen: of the year.
- 36:29Susan Flippen: I'm not buying that hamburger.
- 36:30Susan Flippen: I mean, they really think it through because everything, in essence, is costing
- 36:35Susan Flippen: twice as much.
- 36:36Susan Flippen: And then, we also have, will match
- 36:40Susan Flippen: ten to one on giving because we're just trying even
- 36:44Susan Flippen: at a young age trying to we have thirteen year olds and upper in
- 36:47Susan Flippen: this, and then Mhmm.
- 36:50Susan Flippen: We we keep them on, like, a year after college, but, it's just
- 36:54Susan Flippen: neat to see them developing in all of those ways and
- 36:59Susan Flippen: wanting to develop more.
- 37:00Susan Flippen: And the the questions that they ask, it's it's really, special
- 37:05Susan Flippen: to see.
- 37:06Lisa Nichols: That is so cool.
- 37:07Lisa Nichols: Well, I was gonna ask you, but really and truly, you just answered it
- 37:11Lisa Nichols: for me, Susan.
- 37:13Lisa Nichols: The legacy that you and Flip are hoping that your
- 37:18Lisa Nichols: children and your grandchildren, the legacy that you're leaving for them, and that's exactly
- 37:22Lisa Nichols: you just you answered it because that is the legacy.
- 37:25Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 37:27Lisa Nichols: Generosity,
- 37:29Lisa Nichols: making sure that they're good stewards,
- 37:31Lisa Nichols: having the good work ethic.
- 37:33Lisa Nichols: So that is that is awesome.
- 37:36Lisa Nichols: I just love it.
- 37:37Lisa Nichols: Well, we've already talked about capturing kids' hearts,
- 37:41Lisa Nichols: and the effectiveness of this kind of approach to
- 37:45Lisa Nichols: the public education.
- 37:46Lisa Nichols: But, you know, you had mentioned that Flip said he wanted to
- 37:50Lisa Nichols: change the headlines of how youth are perceived.
- 37:55Lisa Nichols: Think you know, if you could, like, break it down, like, if there's a
- 37:59Lisa Nichols: listener out there and they said, well, I wanna help I wanna help be
- 38:03Lisa Nichols: a part of that mission of changing the headlines.
- 38:06Lisa Nichols: What are what can just the normal person you
- 38:10Lisa Nichols: know, what what's one or two?
- 38:11Susan Flippen: It's so good.
- 38:12Susan Flippen: Okay.
- 38:12Susan Flippen: One of the things that we try to encourage people to do is,
- 38:17Susan Flippen: you know, there are fifty million children in public school and our
- 38:21Susan Flippen: nation has talked about vouchers and, you know, different,
- 38:25Susan Flippen: choice options.
- 38:28Susan Flippen: The challenge is there isn't any, private
- 38:32Susan Flippen: school system that could move fast enough to have a place
- 38:36Susan Flippen: to accommodate fifty million children.
- 38:38Susan Flippen: I mean, I want all kids to have the best opportunity and
- 38:42Susan Flippen: to be in a loving school where they're held to a high standard and
- 38:45Susan Flippen: they're really learning.
- 38:47Susan Flippen: But I think one of the ways that citizens can help right here right
- 38:51Susan Flippen: now is there's a public school in every neighborhood.
- 38:55Susan Flippen: Maybe you've chosen to not put your child in that school because there are
- 38:59Susan Flippen: challenges in that school, but maybe there's something you can do
- 39:03Susan Flippen: for that school.
- 39:04Susan Flippen: I mean, minimally pray for them as you drive by the school or
- 39:08Susan Flippen: Mhmm.
- 39:08Susan Flippen: Maybe volunteer
- 39:10Susan Flippen: or, you know, I think teachers
- 39:14Susan Flippen: have, and school leaders have too much regulatory
- 39:18Susan Flippen: burden.
- 39:19Susan Flippen: There's a negative perception in the press,
- 39:23Susan Flippen: and they're not paid very well.
- 39:25Susan Flippen: The the teacher level, especially.
- 39:28Susan Flippen: So just,
- 39:30Susan Flippen: maybe instead of going along with the headlines, just know that people
- 39:34Susan Flippen: teachers are doing a really hard job, and I think a lot of parents
- 39:37Susan Flippen: know that.
- 39:38Susan Flippen: They see you've got twenty five kids coming into your classroom
- 39:42Susan Flippen: with all kinds of needs and all kinds of backgrounds, and we just need
- 39:45Susan Flippen: to love on the educators and encourage them.
- 39:49Susan Flippen: That's something everybody can do.
- 39:50Susan Flippen: Like, we could all like, if everybody in America today would go, I'm gonna
- 39:54Susan Flippen: encourage someone who's in education today, whether they're at a private or public school,
- 39:59Susan Flippen: that would shift the atmosphere.
- 40:00Susan Flippen: What if you did that every day?
- 40:02Lisa Nichols: It Yeah.
- 40:03Susan Flippen: It's just they've been asked to do a really, really big job.
- 40:07Susan Flippen: They need encouragement.
- 40:08Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 40:09Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's so good.
- 40:10Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 40:10Lisa Nichols: It is a really it is a big job and, unfortunately,
- 40:15Lisa Nichols: sometimes an underappreciated job.
- 40:17Lisa Nichols: But, boy, they should be celebrated.
- 40:19Lisa Nichols: They are heroes.
- 40:20Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 40:20Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 40:21Lisa Nichols: They truly are.
- 40:21Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 40:24Lisa Nichols: This is one of the quotes that you're known for, Susan.
- 40:27Lisa Nichols: Graciousness is never out of style.
- 40:30Lisa Nichols: What does this look like in the everyday life of a
- 40:34Lisa Nichols: CEO?
- 40:35Lisa Nichols: Graciousness is never out of style.
- 40:38Susan Flippen: I think,
- 40:40Susan Flippen: showing appreciation for teammates, family,
- 40:45Susan Flippen: customers, just showing people that you value them in the way
- 40:49Susan Flippen: that you speak to them in the way that you spend your time in
- 40:53Susan Flippen: the way that you prioritize them.
- 40:56Susan Flippen: I also think it means not holding grudges.
- 40:59Susan Flippen: Like, we all fall short.
- 41:01Susan Flippen: Right?
- 41:02Susan Flippen: And so the biggest gift any of us can give anyone is forgive
- 41:06Susan Flippen: people.
- 41:07Susan Flippen: It it doesn't mean you never talk about the thing that happened.
- 41:11Susan Flippen: Right.
- 41:12Susan Flippen: But to talk about it in a constructive loving way, not
- 41:16Susan Flippen: you hurt me and I want you to hurt back.
- 41:18Susan Flippen: You know, just showing grace and and encouraging
- 41:23Susan Flippen: people in that.
- 41:25Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 41:26Lisa Nichols: We we see that a lot.
- 41:27Lisa Nichols: I mean, anytime that there are people,
- 41:31Lisa Nichols: I say, anytime there are human beings together, there is going to be
- 41:35Lisa Nichols: conflict.
- 41:35Lisa Nichols: There is going there are gonna be times when somebody hurt your feelings or
- 41:40Lisa Nichols: they talk over you in a meeting or they undermine
- 41:44Lisa Nichols: an idea that you have or whatnot.
- 41:47Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 41:47Lisa Nichols: And the opportunity to get hurt feelings and that, I mean,
- 41:51Lisa Nichols: it's it's just invariably gonna happen.
- 41:55Lisa Nichols: But, to your point, just realizing that we're all fallible.
- 41:58Lisa Nichols: We're we're just human beings trying to do the best that we can and
- 42:02Lisa Nichols: having that grace and having that forgiveness for each other.
- 42:06Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 42:06Lisa Nichols: It's just so important.
- 42:08Lisa Nichols: Not always easy to do.
- 42:09Lisa Nichols: I'm not saying it's an easy thing.
- 42:11Susan Flippen: I had a friend once who told me that
- 42:15Susan Flippen: his goal is to have an unoffendable heart, and I thought,
- 42:20Susan Flippen: oh, I'm adopting that.
- 42:21Susan Flippen: I that is my goal.
- 42:23Susan Flippen: I fall short some days, but at least I can recognize it and not
- 42:26Susan Flippen: and think, hey.
- 42:27Susan Flippen: There's room for grace right now.
- 42:28Susan Flippen: It doesn't mean you don't deal with issues.
- 42:30Susan Flippen: You still deal with them, but it's the the heart and attitude
- 42:34Susan Flippen: and mindset with which you approach problem solving in relationships.
- 42:39Lisa Nichols: It's so good.
- 42:40Lisa Nichols: So good.
- 42:41Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this because to do everything that you and Flip
- 42:45Lisa Nichols: do and to affect and and help transform the people that
- 42:49Lisa Nichols: you do, Susan, you guys are involved in a lot.
- 42:52Lisa Nichols: You have your hands in a lot.
- 42:53Lisa Nichols: How do you personally how do you personally stay energized
- 42:58Lisa Nichols: and motivated?
- 42:59Lisa Nichols: Because I I talk a lot about this.
- 43:01Lisa Nichols: We all have limited time.
- 43:04Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 43:04Lisa Nichols: What is it?
- 43:05Lisa Nichols: A hundred and sixty eight hours in the week?
- 43:07Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 43:08Lisa Nichols: But I'm like, we also have limited energy.
- 43:13Lisa Nichols: So how do you personally stay energized and motivated
- 43:17Lisa Nichols: to do what God's called you to do?
- 43:20Susan Flippen: For me, it's,
- 43:22Susan Flippen: really being anchored in God's promises.
- 43:26Susan Flippen: His promises are true.
- 43:29Susan Flippen: He he said that love never fails.
- 43:32Susan Flippen: So I can get up every morning no matter what's going on.
- 43:36Susan Flippen: I don't choose to cancel.
- 43:37Susan Flippen: I choose to love.
- 43:38Susan Flippen: I choose to understand what how somebody could be in such
- 43:42Susan Flippen: a hurt posture that they would wanna cancel.
- 43:45Susan Flippen: You know, I wanna I wanna build bridges with people,
- 43:49Susan Flippen: encourage people.
- 43:50Susan Flippen: I wanna be encouraged.
- 43:52Susan Flippen: I wanna be challenged in love.
- 43:54Susan Flippen: I don't wanna be challenged just out of meanness.
- 43:56Susan Flippen: But, just knowing that God's promises
- 44:00Susan Flippen: are are true and when there is a difficult situation,
- 44:05Susan Flippen: let let's say I'm I'm helping with, a ministry
- 44:09Susan Flippen: that serves the poor like like I do in some countries.
- 44:13Susan Flippen: And some of these are dire situations where, you know, people aren't gonna
- 44:17Susan Flippen: get food if we don't raise enough support, to help.
- 44:22Susan Flippen: And I've just always know that we can solve it when we
- 44:26Susan Flippen: come together because
- 44:29Susan Flippen: I know God has promised that he cares about those people.
- 44:33Susan Flippen: So I know we can rely on that truth.
- 44:36Susan Flippen: And so that's that's how I go about it.
- 44:38Susan Flippen: I know there's I know there's a way to solve things, and
- 44:42Susan Flippen: I know that when people work in unity,
- 44:46Susan Flippen: that's another promise that when people work in unity, there's going
- 44:50Susan Flippen: to be blessing from that.
- 44:52Susan Flippen: And so pulling together and understanding where we're apart
- 44:56Susan Flippen: and bridging on the things that we can agree on.
- 44:59Susan Flippen: Like, I love knowing that
- 45:03Susan Flippen: our United States government in the past
- 45:07Susan Flippen: not so many years has the right and the left have
- 45:11Susan Flippen: unanimously passed four hundred and something
- 45:15Susan Flippen: pieces of legislation
- 45:17Susan Flippen: to fight trafficking.
- 45:19Susan Flippen: And I'm like, okay.
- 45:20Susan Flippen: That's who America is.
- 45:22Susan Flippen: We do have things we can stand on that are right and
- 45:26Susan Flippen: good, and we can agree we don't want people harmed in those
- 45:30Susan Flippen: ways, and I love it when there's unity like that.
- 45:33Susan Flippen: I long for there to be more places.
- 45:36Susan Flippen: That's one of the things that I just keep hoping there's healing
- 45:40Susan Flippen: in this land so that we can pull together and,
- 45:44Susan Flippen: everyone suffers when we're not united, but children especially suffer.
- 45:48Susan Flippen: It's confusing to
- 45:49Lisa Nichols: them.
- 45:50Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 45:51Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 45:51Lisa Nichols: No.
- 45:52Lisa Nichols: I totally agree with that, Susan.
- 45:54Lisa Nichols: Well, are you working on something right now that you're really excited about?
- 45:58Lisa Nichols: I mean, you mentioned Flip, but when's his book coming out?
- 46:01Lisa Nichols: He's working on it right now?
- 46:02Lisa Nichols: He's working on a new book.
- 46:04Susan Flippen: We haven't, about,
- 46:07Susan Flippen: no organization can rise above the constraints of its leadership.
- 46:10Susan Flippen: That's obviously not gonna be the title because that's long.
- 46:13Susan Flippen: Right.
- 46:14Susan Flippen: I don't know, yet the release date.
- 46:17Susan Flippen: It's in twenty twenty six.
- 46:20Susan Flippen: We're also excited.
- 46:22Susan Flippen: Our work has taken us all over, which has just been a is a
- 46:26Susan Flippen: privilege.
- 46:26Susan Flippen: We love it, and our we've got an amazing team,
- 46:31Susan Flippen: spread out out everywhere and, but but Flip and I
- 46:35Susan Flippen: both graduated from Texas a and m, and recently, about a year ago,
- 46:39Susan Flippen: the university, came to us because they're wanting to start a leadership
- 46:44Susan Flippen: institute.
- 46:45Susan Flippen: The president and some of the deans were like, we shouldn't be graduating
- 46:49Susan Flippen: anyone
- 46:51Susan Flippen: who isn't really prepared.
- 46:53Susan Flippen: Like, how do you solve ethical dilemmas?
- 46:56Susan Flippen: They're gonna face you in life.
- 46:58Susan Flippen: There it's
- 46:59Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 46:59Susan Flippen: There's no avoiding it.
- 47:00Susan Flippen: Right?
- 47:01Susan Flippen: So how do you know what you stand for and how you're gonna deal
- 47:04Susan Flippen: with those challenges when they come?
- 47:06Susan Flippen: How do you lead well?
- 47:07Susan Flippen: You might get promoted because you're good at physics, but what about
- 47:12Susan Flippen: your teammates?
- 47:12Susan Flippen: Have you ever learned that part of life.
- 47:16Susan Flippen: Right?
- 47:16Susan Flippen: And so, they asked us if we would partner with them in
- 47:21Susan Flippen: developing
- 47:22Susan Flippen: a leadership institute at Texas a and m.
- 47:25Susan Flippen: So we're getting to work with that, with at the university, and it's fun
- 47:29Susan Flippen: because it's in our backyard.
- 47:30Susan Flippen: And I already mentioned, we love the twenty year olds that live there,
- 47:35Susan Flippen: seventy something thousand of them.
- 47:36Susan Flippen: And to know that they're gonna be even more equipped to go into the
- 47:40Susan Flippen: workplace and and into life,
- 47:44Susan Flippen: We're super excited about that.
- 47:46Lisa Nichols: That's awesome.
- 47:47Lisa Nichols: That is gonna be wonderful.
- 47:49Lisa Nichols: Well, tell me, tell me when that's up and running and how I can
- 47:53Lisa Nichols: sign up, Susan.
- 47:55Susan Flippen: Well, thank you.
- 47:56Susan Flippen: Yeah.
- 47:56Susan Flippen: It's, I know it'll be up and running in twenty six.
- 47:59Susan Flippen: I think, I think it's been officially announced now by the
- 48:03Susan Flippen: university, and they've hired a leader and that person starts July
- 48:08Susan Flippen: one.
- 48:08Susan Flippen: So it's starting to happen, and I just it's yeah.
- 48:11Susan Flippen: Very exciting.
- 48:12Susan Flippen: I I see see young people, they wanna live on purpose.
- 48:15Susan Flippen: Right?
- 48:15Susan Flippen: And this is an opportunity for them to discover even more of
- 48:20Susan Flippen: how to do that well.
- 48:21Lisa Nichols: Love it.
- 48:22Lisa Nichols: I love it.
- 48:23Lisa Nichols: I love it.
- 48:23Lisa Nichols: I love it.
- 48:24Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 48:26Lisa Nichols: This is called something extra.
- 48:28Lisa Nichols: Will you believe, Susan, is this something extra that every leader
- 48:33Lisa Nichols: needs?
- 48:34Susan Flippen: To know, the truth that you stand on so that when there
- 48:38Susan Flippen: are hard times, you can go back and say, I
- 48:43Susan Flippen: know beyond know beyond knowing that I can
- 48:47Susan Flippen: stand on that, that it is right to forgive people.
- 48:50Susan Flippen: It is right to love big.
- 48:53Susan Flippen: It is right to,
- 48:56Susan Flippen: don't spend money you don't have.
- 48:57Susan Flippen: I mean, there are a lot of things that you know you can stand
- 49:00Susan Flippen: on.
- 49:01Susan Flippen: And then in the good times, it just lets you move exponentially.
- 49:06Susan Flippen: And in the hard times, it helps you get through those times.
- 49:09Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 49:10Lisa Nichols: That's good.
- 49:11Lisa Nichols: That is so good.
- 49:12Lisa Nichols: Know the truth that you stand on.
- 49:15Lisa Nichols: Well, Susan, I am so grateful to you
- 49:19Lisa Nichols: for making the time.
- 49:20Lisa Nichols: I know how busy you are.
- 49:21Lisa Nichols: We've already talked about how many things you have here good things you have
- 49:25Lisa Nichols: your hands in, and, I'm just so honored that you're taking
- 49:29Lisa Nichols: a little bit of time out of your day to spend with me on
- 49:32Lisa Nichols: the something extra podcast.
- 49:34Lisa Nichols: And I also know that this episode is going to tremendously help
- 49:38Lisa Nichols: our listeners.
- 49:39Lisa Nichols: So thank you so much for making the time.
- 49:42Susan Flippen: Thank you, Lisa, for spreading hope and joy.
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