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Sgt. Rick Yarosh- Sweethearts & Heroes · Aired Out

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Speaker 2: and Heroes Day. Superhero and featured guest rick Yarish in
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Speaker 2: just a few minutes here, But good morning to you.
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Speaker 2: Deb with us from the World, Deb, good morning. How
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Speaker 2: in your hand, you can do that right there. Barry
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Speaker 2: Farmfest is one of the big events that's happening in
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Speaker 2: our community. Of course, that is this Saturday. Hard to
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Speaker 2: believe it's already here the Nodes Family Benefit fundraiser from
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Speaker 2: two pm to eight thirty on Lower Usley Road in Barry.
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Speaker 2: Food trucks, beer garden presented by the Cornerstone Raffles, silent
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Speaker 2: is going to be incredible as we help the Nodes
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Speaker 2: family rebuild and get their lives back together after that
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Speaker 2: devastating fire of their entire barn and livestock that they
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Speaker 2: lost this past April. It is going to be tremendous. Hey,
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Speaker 2: Happy birthday today to Linda Binoit, Amanda Smith, Brenda Bartlett,
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Speaker 2: Joyce Spooner, Susan Oopman. On the list today Jordan Kissner,
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Speaker 2: Caroland Batchelder, what a great lady, Rick Como and Patrick Poohling,
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Speaker 2: all celebrating birthdays. We're looking at a cloudy start to
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Speaker 2: the day today, a stray, much needed shower a little
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Speaker 2: bit later on sixty four only for the daytime high
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Speaker 2: clouds tonight forty eight Tomorrow cloudy starts sunny by the
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Speaker 2: afternoon though seventy eight degrees tomorrow night at thunder Row,
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Speaker 2: perfect clear skies and fifty sunshine. On Friday eighty one,
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Speaker 2: and looking all the way ahead to Saturday, partly sunny,
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Speaker 2: lower eighties, rain in seventies for Sunday. Well, here we
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Speaker 2: go a new day, a Wednesday, and with me is
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Speaker 2: Rick Yarish who is and has become a good friend.
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Speaker 2: And I am so honored to have Rick with me
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Speaker 2: on the air returning and you're you're remote this time, Rick,
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Speaker 2: can you hear me, buddy?
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Speaker 3: I hear you now. I didn't hear your response. I
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Speaker 3: didn't hear if you said anything.
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Speaker 2: I said good morning to you. I'm so glad for
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Speaker 2: friend's brother first and foremost, and I'm so glad to
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Speaker 2: connect with you. You're you're remote this morning. Where the
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Speaker 2: hell are you?
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Speaker 1: I am?
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Speaker 5: This is vacation, the vacation edition, So I'm on vacation
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Speaker 5: in the Poconot in Pennsylvania.
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Speaker 2: Are you serious? You're you're doing this while you're on vacation, Buddy.
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Speaker 5: Listen, this might be more of a vacation than the vacation.
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Speaker 5: I don't hear any background noise right now.
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Speaker 3: It's beautiful, man.
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Speaker 2: Listen. I always look forward to having you in the studio.
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Speaker 2: You've been in several times, and I look forward to
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Speaker 2: having you back in here, buddy, and giving you just
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Speaker 2: a giant bear hug.
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Speaker 3: I might miss the couch more than I miss you,
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Speaker 3: j D. I love that.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, isn't it? Isn't that couch amazing.
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Speaker 3: It's amazing. I miss it. That's what I wish I
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Speaker 3: was sitting right now.
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Speaker 2: Dude. I'm so you know. When I got the email
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Speaker 2: from Leon that you were going to be my guest
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Speaker 2: this morning, I was so excited, Buddy, I'm so happy.
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Speaker 2: I just I already know what to what to say
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Speaker 2: with you, buddy. I mean, it's like I don't even
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Speaker 2: need any any prep notes. By the way, did you
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Speaker 2: catch Heather last week or the week before?
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Speaker 3: I did not. I did not.
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Speaker 2: She What an amazing lady. Oh my god.
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Speaker 3: I didn't need to watch to know that.
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Speaker 2: That's yeah, teacher athletes positivity with a capital P, that lady.
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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Man, you and your team, and there's
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Speaker 2: so many of you and I haven't had I don't
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Speaker 2: think i've had all of you on the air yet.
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Speaker 2: You guys are just amazing. You are just crushing it.
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Speaker 5: Brother, Well, I appreciate it. I think we have to
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Speaker 5: get Abby on the show. Yes, Abby says, absolutely not.
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Speaker 5: But Abby is my goal to get on the show.
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Speaker 2: Tell us about Abby. I mean, she brings almost pretty
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Speaker 2: much everything that you guys do in schools, she brings
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Speaker 2: it to the viewing audience. On social media.
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Speaker 3: That's right, And she has been doing this for a
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Speaker 3: very long time with us.
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Speaker 5: I don't know how old she was when she started
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Speaker 5: with but she used to travel with us every single day.
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Speaker 5: She was in the hotels with us and and at
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Speaker 5: the schools with us. I think maybe it was it
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Speaker 5: might have been when she was fifteen or sixteen years old.
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Speaker 5: So Abby's like a little sister of mine, and I
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Speaker 5: just you know, she does so much for the group,
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Speaker 5: and she just wants to be quiet off to the side.
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Speaker 5: She doesn't want to be on.
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Speaker 3: The podcast, right. She's putting out all the social media stuff,
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Speaker 3: all the videos that are made really amazing, amazing stuff.
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Speaker 2: But here's the thing, and y'all know this, especially Tom,
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Speaker 2: but it's one thing to have such an incredible impact
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Speaker 2: in schools and bring your message and see and experience
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Speaker 2: the results of what you're having with children. But it's
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Speaker 2: another thing to take all of that and to put
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Speaker 2: it to spread it on the internet and show people
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Speaker 2: not just that we're there at that school what's happening,
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Speaker 2: but people everywhere. And that's how you guys have spread
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Speaker 2: And without Abby, there would be a limit here big time.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, we'd have a small cluster in New York or
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Speaker 5: maybe a small cluster in Vermont as well. But because
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Speaker 5: of all the social media stuff that's gone out, all
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Speaker 5: the videos that haven't put together, all the promotional videos
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Speaker 5: that we've made with the Chevy dealers and some other
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Speaker 5: people along the way that have been big helpers in
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Speaker 5: the Suers and Heroes world, Like, she put all that together,
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Speaker 5: and if it didn't happen, we wouldn't be I mean,
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Speaker 5: we say two million students around that we've spoke to,
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Speaker 5: it wouldn't that number wouldn't be two.
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Speaker 3: Million, that's for sure.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely. I want to talk about your your book of course,
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Speaker 2: a bridge named Amos, but I want our listeners to
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Speaker 2: learn a little bit about you, who they may not
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Speaker 2: be familiar with rick Yarish, And I think there's a
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Speaker 2: little bit of maybe some competition between you and Tom
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Speaker 2: who's known, who's known more? Who's known who's known better?
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Speaker 1: You?
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Speaker 2: Or or Tom Murphy.
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Speaker 3: Who's known better about what? Everything?
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Speaker 2: Just who's more famous?
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Speaker 3: Oh, who's more famous? Who's known more? I got you, Yeah,
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Speaker 3: I was like Who's I thought you were saying who
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Speaker 3: knows more?
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Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, we already know that's you.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, there you go, there you go. I wasn't even
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Speaker 3: gonna say that because Tom is the most.
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Speaker 5: Like well read person I've ever met, truly, but you know,
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Speaker 5: if we're going there, you know, it's kind of crazy too,
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Speaker 5: because Tom had the USC career and all that stuff.
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Speaker 5: But this is not a face you forget.
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Speaker 3: Sometimes it's in your nightmares, but hopefully it's in your dreams.
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Speaker 5: But this is not a face that's forgotten when you
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Speaker 5: you know people I don't run independent people and they're like,
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Speaker 5: I think I've seen you before, Like, oh, yeah, I
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Speaker 5: know you.
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Speaker 3: I've seen you before. Not some then that's like, oh wow,
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Speaker 3: I don't know if I've seen you. Maybe there was
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Speaker 3: somebody that looks like you.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you were you were burned alive, and we I
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Speaker 2: want to push the word alive because you're so very
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Speaker 2: much alive, and I don't want to put words in
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Speaker 2: your mouth, but it almost seems like in some ways
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Speaker 2: part of your message is that you're more alive now
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Speaker 2: than you may have been before this, this incident, which
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Speaker 2: was a roadside bomb when you were overseas fighting in
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Speaker 2: the in the army for the United States.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, it's I think it's well said, really,
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Speaker 5: you know, more alive today than I was before. And
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Speaker 5: you know, you know you've heard it before. I've said,
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Speaker 5: it's the best thing that it's ever happened to me.
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Speaker 5: I certainly didn't want it to happen, but it did.
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Speaker 5: There's nothing I can do about that, and I've gotten
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Speaker 5: a lot of rewards out of it. But yeah, I
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Speaker 5: am more alive. I'm prouder of who I am today.
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Speaker 5: I'm just you know, so I get thank you for
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Speaker 5: your service all the time just because of my service
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Speaker 5: to the country, and I appreciate that. You know, I
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Speaker 5: would never tell anybody, Hey, don't say that, you know,
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Speaker 5: I appreciate it. But it's even more important when people
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Speaker 5: recognize the service that I'm doing today, and that should
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Speaker 5: be everybody. You know, past service is amazing and great,
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Speaker 5: but you can't live your life on past services.
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Speaker 3: So it's like, what are we doing today? What are
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Speaker 3: we doing today to serve?
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Speaker 5: And because of what happened to me, it's given me
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Speaker 5: just an amazing opportunity to continue serving in this world.
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Speaker 2: And what you're doing and how you're serving with sweethearts
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Speaker 2: and heroes, and how you met Tom and how you've
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Speaker 2: connected in with this organization and what you're doing and
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Speaker 2: the message you're bringing to children, schools and so many others.
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Speaker 2: And we're going to talk about what you've you've recently
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Speaker 2: recently done, of course this morning. But man, it's like
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Speaker 2: when I see you and I chat with you, one
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Speaker 2: of the things that crosses my mind is how many
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Speaker 2: veterans are walking around who don't have the the exterior
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Speaker 2: obvious damage that you have, the very obvious scar scars,
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Speaker 2: But internally they're not living like you are right now.
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Speaker 2: They're not walking around with an immense amount of positivity
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Speaker 2: and hope. They're walking around with discouragement with a big,
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Speaker 2: beautiful or handsome smile on their face.
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Speaker 3: I have a good, good.
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Speaker 5: Buddy of mine from Ohio, and he he doesn't look injured,
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Speaker 5: but he certainly was. He HASH, He has PTSD, he
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Speaker 5: has a traumatic brain injury, and he also has about
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Speaker 5: three hundred pieces of shrapnel that you can't see because
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Speaker 5: they're covered by his clothes.
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Speaker 3: But he's dealing with a lot in life.
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Speaker 5: And I would say that he and anyone else who
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Speaker 5: is dealing with post traumatic stress is dealing with a
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Speaker 5: lot more than I am. But when you know him
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Speaker 5: and I are together and we're standing there and we're
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Speaker 5: having a conversation and somebody will come up to me
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Speaker 5: and always say, hey, man, thank you so much for
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Speaker 5: your service and your sacrifice. And they don't even look
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Speaker 5: at my friend Paul. They don't even look at him. Wow,
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Speaker 5: they yeah.
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Speaker 3: And it's frustrating, you know, And I know he's feeling it.
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Speaker 3: I know he doesn't really say it.
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Speaker 5: He won't come out with that, but I know he's
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Speaker 5: feeling it, and I you know him and I can
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Speaker 5: joke about it later on and I say, I always
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Speaker 5: want to put a shirt on. This says he was
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Speaker 5: injured too, and then they have an arrow pointing at
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Speaker 5: him because like I don't know, Like I certainly do
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Speaker 5: appreciate when people do come up and say those things,
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Speaker 5: so he would as well.
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Speaker 3: But yeah, he didn't have any visible wounds that you
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Speaker 3: can see when you first walk up to him.
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Speaker 5: So in my mind, him and so many other people
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Speaker 5: who are dealing with post traumatic stress are just dealing
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Speaker 5: with so much more than I am. I say that
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Speaker 5: when I look in the mirror, like I'm looking at
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Speaker 5: myself right now, and I know exactly who I am,
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Speaker 5: and somebody with post traumatic stress you know, they can
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Speaker 5: look in the mirror and they see a person and
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Speaker 5: it's like they don't recognize who they are.
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Speaker 3: I don't know what their purpose is in life. They
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Speaker 3: don't know all those things. And that's crazy to me.
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Speaker 3: And I'm just I'm not that. I'm super blessed that
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Speaker 3: I do not have to deal with that. So many
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Speaker 3: people do you.
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Speaker 2: You know, you say that that something happened to you,
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Speaker 2: and of course it did, and the story about what
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Speaker 2: happened is incredibly graphic. You were covered in diesel fuel,
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Speaker 2: you were burning alive, you you tried to get out
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Speaker 2: of the the Bradley vehicle that you were in. Essentially, Ah,
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Speaker 2: what is that vehicle anyway?
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Speaker 5: Well, you know, I say it's a small tank, but
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Speaker 5: in the military a tanker. I actually said it in
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Speaker 5: front of a tanker the other day and afterwards they're like,
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Speaker 5: that is not a tank I said, I know, but
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Speaker 5: the majority of the people I'm talking to aren't tankers,
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Speaker 5: So I can call it whatever I want.
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Speaker 3: That's what it looks like. But as an a PC,
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Speaker 3: it's called an armored personnel carrier.
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Speaker 2: It's big. And you had a close friend of yours,
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Speaker 2: a fellow soldier who was next to you, who didn't
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Speaker 2: make it. You tried to get out of this the
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Speaker 2: top of this vehicle while you were on fire and
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Speaker 2: fell badly, broke your your leg and then rolled down
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Speaker 2: in embankment, still burning into like.
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Speaker 5: Roadside swamp sewage basically, I mean really, it's like it's
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Speaker 5: like swamp sewage. You know, they don't have where we
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Speaker 5: were actually anyways, in Iraq, they didn't have plumbing like
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Speaker 5: everybody else.
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Speaker 3: And you know when they went to the.
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Speaker 5: Bathroom in their house or outside of their house, you know,
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Speaker 5: they would dig a hole and use the bathroom out
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Speaker 5: there or they had a hole in there. But it
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Speaker 5: didn't run to a sewage treatment plant. It ran into
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Speaker 5: the local canals. I mean, that was just how it works.
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Speaker 5: So you know, all that runoff from all that stuff
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Speaker 5: that's coming into that canal that where I.
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Speaker 2: Was, it was not good. It's now going right into
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Speaker 2: your your body. It's making a horrific situation, which frankly
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Speaker 2: is just alone, deadly, deadly, and now you're you're you're
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Speaker 2: receiving all of this infectious material into your body.
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Speaker 3: I mean you can say the word it's infectious, you know, yeah, yeah, literally, yeah,
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Speaker 3: literally how how it's all insult to injury.
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Speaker 2: Really, yeah, go ahead.
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Speaker 5: I so I was on fire, but then my the
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Speaker 5: reason I have a prosthetic leg is because I jump off.
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Speaker 5: I had to jump off of the vehicle and I
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Speaker 5: broke my leg. Like the fire wasn't enough. Then I
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Speaker 5: break my leg and then I roll into a canal,
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Speaker 5: which saves my life. So obviously I would, you know,
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Speaker 5: we talk about that. I would do it again. But
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Speaker 5: it also almost killed me because of all the disgusting
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Speaker 5: stuff in that canal. I had so many things in
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Speaker 5: the hospital happened too, Like I was on dialysis at
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Speaker 5: one point because my kidneys stopped working and they brought
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Speaker 5: the dialysis machine in and that the dialysis machine stopped working,
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Speaker 5: so then.
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Speaker 3: They had to get another one, and it was like
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Speaker 3: the time to get it. It was not good, and
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Speaker 3: I was this is early on. I was a mess.
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Speaker 5: And then my kidney started working on their own again.
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Speaker 5: I don't know how my eyes weren't more affected than
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Speaker 5: they are. You know, I lost a little bit of
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Speaker 5: vision in my right eye. But you know, I just
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Speaker 5: like all of these things that had happened, you know,
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Speaker 5: the whole everything happens for a reason saying, I don't
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Speaker 5: know how much I buy that. I've told that before,
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Speaker 5: but man, the fact that I can still see, the
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Speaker 5: fact that I can still talk, the fact that you know,
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Speaker 5: I don't have ears, but I can still hear, the
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Speaker 5: fact that I don't have a nose, I can still smell,
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Speaker 5: you know, my hands they lost the feeling in them,
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Speaker 5: but I can still use them.
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Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm just super super blessed.
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Speaker 2: Isn't that something else? Did you ever wish that you
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Speaker 2: had passed?
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Speaker 3: I think in the hospital, for sure.
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Speaker 5: I think there were days that it was like this
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Speaker 5: is too much, you know, thinking back, like they when
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Speaker 5: I go through I tell my story and I tell,
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Speaker 5: you know, hey, I was injured in Iraq and I
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Speaker 5: jumped off the vehicle and I broke my leg and
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Speaker 5: I rolled into a canal, and like that's just that's
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Speaker 5: the part of the story. But if I really break
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Speaker 5: it down to every single day in the hospital, and
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Speaker 5: there's five or six stories for every single day. I
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Speaker 5: was in the hospital for six months, so you know,
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Speaker 5: there's thousands of stories just and when I really break
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Speaker 5: it down and I think about all of those little
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Speaker 5: incidents in the hospital and the hopelessness that I.
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Speaker 3: Felt on certain days, Like it's crazy.
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Speaker 5: To me to think that, yeah, I'm still here, but
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Speaker 5: it also makes me remember how rough it really was
23:07
Speaker 5: at that time. Like I say, I would go through
23:09
Speaker 5: it again to get back to this point in my life.
23:11
Speaker 5: But when I break it down to the seconds of
23:15
Speaker 5: being in that hospital, man, it's so hard to really
23:19
Speaker 5: think that because it was brutal.
23:22
Speaker 2: It was brutal for years, and you know, I just
23:28
Speaker 2: it's it's like, you know, something horrible happened to you,
23:33
Speaker 2: and it didn't just go away the next day. I mean,
23:37
Speaker 2: this horrible thing was was weighing down on top of you,
23:42
Speaker 2: trying to pull every ounce of life and hope and everything, yeah,
23:50
Speaker 2: outside of your soul, and.
23:52
Speaker 5: Knowing, you know, if I am going to survive this,
23:56
Speaker 5: knowing if I'm going to survive this, I'm going to
23:58
Speaker 5: have to live with it the rest of my life
23:59
Speaker 5: and some capacity.
24:01
Speaker 3: So I think that was a part of it too.
24:02
Speaker 2: So this happened to you, Rick, but something else happened.
24:08
Speaker 2: And it's like usually when something like this happens, it
24:14
Speaker 2: just the residual is not great. But there was something
24:21
Speaker 2: else that happened to you, and I don't know what
24:23
Speaker 2: the hell it was. I don't know if it was
24:28
Speaker 2: in awakening. I don't know if it was spiritual. I
24:31
Speaker 2: don't know what happened. But at some point, I'm guessing
24:36
Speaker 2: you had to you had an epiphany. You had something
24:40
Speaker 2: much much bigger than an epiphany where you had to
24:43
Speaker 2: make a decision that, man, I'm either going to take
24:47
Speaker 2: a hard left or a hard right here, and I'm
24:51
Speaker 2: going to go one hundred miles an hour in whichever
24:56
Speaker 2: direction I go in.
24:58
Speaker 5: I think once I fig out that I could share
25:02
Speaker 5: my story is when the you know, I think this
25:06
Speaker 5: might be the first time I've ever said.
25:07
Speaker 3: This, because I alway started trying to point it to
25:08
Speaker 3: a point in that recovery where it all changed for me.
25:12
Speaker 5: And I tell you know, I told the little girl's
25:14
Speaker 5: story that many people have heard, and like, that's a moment.
25:17
Speaker 5: And a book I read by Randy Posh called The
25:19
Speaker 5: Last Lecture. There's a point in that book that things changed.
25:23
Speaker 3: But I don't know.
25:24
Speaker 5: I think when I started to speak and started to
25:27
Speaker 5: share my story is when I truly changed my mindset,
25:33
Speaker 5: because that's when I realized that, you know, I can
25:35
Speaker 5: help people, and in the end, what I really got,
25:37
Speaker 5: and you know, this is something we talk about all
25:39
Speaker 5: the time, is I got purpose. You know, I found
25:41
Speaker 5: who I was again and it was a different me,
25:43
Speaker 5: but it was still my purpose and it's my purpose.
25:46
Speaker 3: One of my purposes today. I have many, and you
25:49
Speaker 3: know we should all have many, not just one.
25:51
Speaker 5: Because if something happens to that one purpose and you
25:54
Speaker 5: don't have another, that's a tough situation to be in.
25:57
Speaker 2: You're a father, your a husband, and you're also maybe
26:04
Speaker 2: even your own best friend.
26:06
Speaker 3: You have to.
26:09
Speaker 2: You have to look to yourself at the end of
26:11
Speaker 2: the day and cherish what you have, but also be
26:18
Speaker 2: true to yourself in that you know that if something,
26:23
Speaker 2: if the ship hits the fan again for you in
26:28
Speaker 2: any capacity, that you're going to be able to not
26:34
Speaker 2: only survive it, but also flourish beyond it for sure.
26:39
Speaker 5: I mean, and I'm going to get this so wrong
26:43
Speaker 5: because I'm terrible at quoting things, but you know in
26:46
Speaker 5: the Bible it says that, you know, like difficult things,
26:52
Speaker 5: we're supposed to rejoice over those things, and when you
26:56
Speaker 5: do it, it creates h It's not longevity, but it's
27:01
Speaker 5: like that, and that's.
27:02
Speaker 3: Where I'm at today.
27:03
Speaker 5: Like I know that if I deal with something difficult again,
27:07
Speaker 5: I'm going to be okay.
27:09
Speaker 3: And that's the longevity, that's the endurance. Endurance is the word.
27:12
Speaker 5: That's the endurance that I have now because I went
27:15
Speaker 5: through something extremely difficult. You know, I always say, if
27:19
Speaker 5: I was lit on fire again tomorrow, my pray to
27:21
Speaker 5: God that doesn't happen. But if I did, then I
27:23
Speaker 5: survived it, I would be okay, and I would be
27:26
Speaker 5: okay a lot sooner than I was last time I was.
27:29
Speaker 5: You know, it took years for me to be okay
27:33
Speaker 5: when this happened, but this time it won't because I
27:36
Speaker 5: recognize that there will be good things.
27:38
Speaker 3: Sure, the struggle is going to be really really hard,
27:41
Speaker 3: but that's what struggle is. But in the end, it's
27:44
Speaker 3: going to be totally fine and even better than totally fine.
27:47
Speaker 2: Really, And look how blessed you are. You have a
27:50
Speaker 2: beautiful wife, you have beautiful children, and you're connected in
27:54
Speaker 2: with a family of friends before anything else through sweethearts
28:03
Speaker 2: and heroes. They're colleagues, but they're they're friends more than anything.
28:07
Speaker 2: I mean, these these people that love you and surround
28:09
Speaker 2: you uh and are part of your team, are tremendous.
28:14
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're they're.
28:15
Speaker 5: Family, I mean, and JD, you're a part of that
28:17
Speaker 5: family too, honestly, Like, I'm not afraid to lean on people.
28:21
Speaker 4: I am not.
28:22
Speaker 5: I'm not going to put too much on people like
28:25
Speaker 5: I try not to do that, but I'm not afraid
28:28
Speaker 5: if I'm struggling man to lean on people because I
28:30
Speaker 5: I know that I didn't get to where I am
28:32
Speaker 5: today on my own. That just didn't happen like happened
28:36
Speaker 5: because there were so many people that helped me get
28:39
Speaker 5: through it. Now, sure, you all, you have to have
28:41
Speaker 5: strength yourself, you have to have the desire to get better.
28:44
Speaker 5: But you know, we need people in our lives to
28:46
Speaker 5: help us get through things. And that's what the Sweetheart's
28:48
Speaker 5: message is. That's the hope that the Sweethearts give. Sure,
28:52
Speaker 5: but yeah, I have this amazing family and and JD,
28:55
Speaker 5: like I said, you're one of them. Like, if if
28:56
Speaker 5: I'm struggling, I'm not, I'm not going to be afraid
28:59
Speaker 5: to lean on you a little bit.
29:00
Speaker 3: And I hope you feel the same way.
29:02
Speaker 2: Yeah I do.
29:04
Speaker 1: I do.
29:04
Speaker 2: You know, we don't we don't have to go through
29:11
Speaker 2: an event like this that you went through to have
29:17
Speaker 2: very bad days. So many of us are going through
29:24
Speaker 2: some form of hardship, even though we're not scarred on
29:29
Speaker 2: the outside, we're we've got a nice house, a nice
29:35
Speaker 2: roof over our head, we've got a good job, maybe,
29:38
Speaker 2: but there's something that's dying inside of us, something that's
29:42
Speaker 2: disconnected inside of us, and we're walking around with a
29:48
Speaker 2: lack of hope. Do you ever taking your your your
29:54
Speaker 2: story of your incident out of it. Do you ever
29:59
Speaker 2: have moment and like that that have nothing to do
30:02
Speaker 2: with with what happened to you, where you're just having
30:05
Speaker 2: a really bad time in life.
30:08
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna say, it's not it's not even
30:10
Speaker 3: really bad days.
30:10
Speaker 5: Sometimes it's really bad long moments of days and weeks
30:15
Speaker 5: and months.
30:15
Speaker 3: And you know, I was just about to say that
30:17
Speaker 3: I knew, I knew where you were gonna go with that,
30:19
Speaker 3: because that's real, you know.
30:22
Speaker 5: I I share a really good story, and I share
30:25
Speaker 5: this message of hope, and I do all that. But man,
30:30
Speaker 5: even when I'm on that stage given that message, there
30:33
Speaker 5: are times where I'm like, can I even deliver that message?
30:38
Speaker 5: I would tell you that's also the time that I
30:40
Speaker 5: should be delivering that message, and it's the most important
30:43
Speaker 5: to me because it you know, and that, and at
30:45
Speaker 5: that point it's me helping myself, like these are your words,
30:48
Speaker 5: rick Man, live by them.
30:50
Speaker 3: It's going to be okay.
30:52
Speaker 5: It truly is like something that I said that I've
30:55
Speaker 5: been saying a lot recently is you know, life is hard,
30:58
Speaker 5: but it's good.
31:00
Speaker 3: It's good even when it's really really difficult. It's good
31:03
Speaker 3: and it is going to be okay.
31:05
Speaker 5: And okay doesn't always look like what we think is
31:08
Speaker 5: going to look like or we want it to look like,
31:11
Speaker 5: but it's going to be okay.
31:13
Speaker 3: If you believe it's going to be okay, it will
31:15
Speaker 3: be okay.
31:20
Speaker 2: There's so many of us that are like, hold on
31:23
Speaker 2: a second. You're asking me to get up on stage
31:27
Speaker 2: in front of hundreds or even thousands of people and
31:31
Speaker 2: speak be serious. That that brings me massive, massive anxiety.
31:40
Speaker 2: You have to, you don't have to, but you do
31:44
Speaker 2: this knowing that when you walk into a school, or
31:48
Speaker 2: you walk into an auditorium or any kind of theater
31:53
Speaker 2: or anywhere where you and sweethearts and heroes are bringing
31:57
Speaker 2: your message that when you walk onto stay age, when
32:01
Speaker 2: you're in front of so many eyes looking back at
32:05
Speaker 2: you that there's a woe factor. I mean when people
32:12
Speaker 2: see Tom and you know how handsome he is and
32:14
Speaker 2: his big muscles and all that stuff, there's a woe
32:18
Speaker 2: factor there too. But when people see you, you know,
32:23
Speaker 2: what's what's in their their mind? You know what they're thinking,
32:27
Speaker 2: Holy shit, what's going on here?
32:31
Speaker 3: Yeah? You know it's uh.
32:34
Speaker 1: You know.
32:34
Speaker 5: Tom has always been into the entertainment of it, like
32:38
Speaker 5: we know, we have to entertain people, and uh, I
32:41
Speaker 5: have a hard time with that.
32:42
Speaker 3: Like I'm just I am very simple. I just really am.
32:45
Speaker 3: Like I want to go in.
32:47
Speaker 5: I want to be standing on stage when they introduce
32:50
Speaker 5: me and hey, here's Rick here.
32:52
Speaker 3: But you know, Tom, he's got.
32:54
Speaker 5: His video in the beginning, which I love, and then
32:57
Speaker 5: he comes out, he runs out at the end of
32:58
Speaker 5: the video, and then halfway through the presentation another video
33:02
Speaker 5: plays and I'm backstage.
33:03
Speaker 3: And then I come out. I didn't ever want to
33:06
Speaker 3: do that because like, it's just I don't know, it's
33:10
Speaker 3: just silly to me. Now it's not. I understand the
33:12
Speaker 3: importance of it. So I, you know, present on my
33:16
Speaker 3: own sometimes.
33:17
Speaker 5: And I used to just be on stage, like I said,
33:20
Speaker 5: I want to it's a easier that way. And then
33:23
Speaker 5: I was like, you know what, this is not the
33:25
Speaker 5: way it's supposed to be done. There has to be
33:27
Speaker 5: some kind of grab. And I'm enough of a grab,
33:30
Speaker 5: like being on stage anyways, because they the way I look.
33:33
Speaker 5: But when I do my presentation on my own, there's
33:36
Speaker 5: a picture of me on the screen and it says
33:38
Speaker 5: retired Army Sergeant Rick Yerish and it's an old picture
33:42
Speaker 5: of me before my injury in my army uniform.
33:44
Speaker 3: My BDUs or my acus.
33:46
Speaker 2: And then the.
33:49
Speaker 5: Introduction happens, I'm not up on stage, so people just say, Okay,
33:53
Speaker 5: it's going to be this army guy who.
33:54
Speaker 3: Was in the military and he's going to tell us
33:57
Speaker 3: a good story.
33:58
Speaker 5: And then the video plays of me walking for the
34:01
Speaker 5: first time of an explosion in the beginning of the vehicle,
34:05
Speaker 5: so they're surprised by that. And then at the end
34:07
Speaker 5: of the video, I actually get up on the stage,
34:10
Speaker 5: so they think that this military guy is gonna come
34:13
Speaker 5: and just talk, and then they see me and they're
34:14
Speaker 5: like whoa. And then I stand on stage for thirty
34:19
Speaker 5: seconds and I just stare into the crowd and I
34:21
Speaker 5: don't say anything at all, and it is so uncomfortable
34:26
Speaker 5: and it is so awesome, and I can just.
34:29
Speaker 3: They don't know anything about me. They don't know if
34:31
Speaker 3: I can talk, they don't know if something's wrong. They
34:34
Speaker 3: just don't.
34:35
Speaker 5: I'm afraid they have no clue what's going on. But
34:39
Speaker 5: I create this really uncomfortable situation. And the importance of
34:44
Speaker 5: it is is you know what is thirty seconds? You
34:46
Speaker 5: know you ask that question and thirty seconds is thirty seconds?
34:48
Speaker 5: But does it always feel that way? It certainly doesn't.
34:51
Speaker 5: So thirty seconds can go really fast if you're having fun,
34:54
Speaker 5: or thirty seconds can feel like a lifetime if you're
34:56
Speaker 5: in a really uncomfortable situation. So I created this thirty
34:59
Speaker 5: secon and some uncomfortability and just to show how long
35:03
Speaker 5: thirty seconds can be. And then I say, the reason
35:07
Speaker 5: I'm really talking about thirty seconds is because that's how long.
35:10
Speaker 3: I was on fire.
35:12
Speaker 5: So that's how long I was burning alive before the
35:14
Speaker 5: fire was extinguished by that water. So it gives people
35:18
Speaker 5: an understanding of how long thirty seconds can really be
35:21
Speaker 5: and really feel.
35:23
Speaker 2: What are the first words out of your mouth?
35:25
Speaker 3: Ah, are you uncomfortable yet?
35:28
Speaker 5: That's the first words, And everybody kind of chuckles are
35:31
Speaker 5: you uncomfortable yet, And I said, that's my job in
35:33
Speaker 5: this world is to make people uncomfortable because in the end,
35:36
Speaker 5: that's the only way to become comfortable.
35:38
Speaker 3: Got to be uncomfortable first to be comfortable.
35:41
Speaker 5: So I'm going to get that out of the way
35:43
Speaker 5: and then I go into the talk about what thirty
35:46
Speaker 5: seconds really is.
35:47
Speaker 3: But yeah, my first thing is are you uncomfortable yet?
35:51
Speaker 2: It's one thing to step out on stage in front
35:56
Speaker 2: of wow, adult school staff, administration, easy. Yeah, it's a
36:08
Speaker 2: whole nother bag. I'm guessing to present yourself in front
36:14
Speaker 2: of young children.
36:17
Speaker 3: Yeah, and middle schoolers and middle.
36:19
Speaker 2: Schoolers there they the way they react, the way the
36:24
Speaker 2: way they feel. This is something that's really profound and
36:31
Speaker 2: what is that.
36:33
Speaker 5: That's a It's an amazing feeling, honestly now, But in
36:37
Speaker 5: the beginning it wasn't. You know, like those kids when
36:40
Speaker 5: they first see me. I mean, I can see the
36:43
Speaker 5: little ones especially, you see the fear in some of
36:45
Speaker 5: their eyes. Some of it's just wonder, which is amazing
36:49
Speaker 5: because that's what kids are full of.
36:50
Speaker 3: They're full of wonder.
36:52
Speaker 5: But there's fear in some of the kid's eyes too.
36:54
Speaker 5: And when I see a kid in a little kid
36:57
Speaker 5: in the room that is fearful. My job is them,
37:01
Speaker 5: and I'm going to focus on them and I'm going
37:03
Speaker 5: to get them out of that zone that I'm comfortable zone.
37:06
Speaker 5: And usually very quickly it changes and I can see
37:11
Speaker 5: the change, and you know, my mission is accomplished for
37:14
Speaker 5: that one kid that I can concentrate on the.
37:17
Speaker 3: Rest of the room.
37:18
Speaker 5: But in the middle schoolers, you know, they're just surprised,
37:21
Speaker 5: like WHOA. First of all, they're surprised that I'm even there,
37:24
Speaker 5: because when Tom introduces, they don't know I'm there. They
37:28
Speaker 5: just see a video and then all of a sudden,
37:30
Speaker 5: there I am on stage and they're like, oh my gosh,
37:32
Speaker 5: he's actually here.
37:33
Speaker 3: So uh, I don't know.
37:35
Speaker 2: I just love it.
37:36
Speaker 5: I just love it and now and then I get
37:37
Speaker 5: to connect with them. That is That's truly my job
37:40
Speaker 5: in this world is just connecting with people. And you know,
37:45
Speaker 5: looking the way I look, I just you know, I'm
37:48
Speaker 5: really good at it now, and it's hard. I think
37:51
Speaker 5: people have a hard time understanding that I would be
37:54
Speaker 5: good at connecting with people.
37:56
Speaker 3: But I've made it up my job. I think it's
37:59
Speaker 3: extreme important in my life. If I can't connect with people.
38:02
Speaker 3: Then how do I get a message.
38:04
Speaker 2: Across what's the story of that little girl?
38:07
Speaker 5: Yeah, so in a restaurant, gosh, probably eight months after
38:11
Speaker 5: my injury, about two months after I got out of
38:14
Speaker 5: the hospital. You know, still very new to me going
38:17
Speaker 5: out in public, but it was very obvious to me
38:20
Speaker 5: that children were terrified of me. Like, I mean, I
38:24
Speaker 5: wish I had a picture of me right now, of
38:25
Speaker 5: what I look like right after I got out of
38:27
Speaker 5: the hospital.
38:27
Speaker 3: It wasn't like this. My skin wasn't smooth and shiny.
38:31
Speaker 3: It was open and red, and uh, you know, it
38:35
Speaker 3: looked it looked awful. It really did.
38:37
Speaker 5: It was scary even to adults. It was scary in
38:40
Speaker 5: a certain way. You like, you imagine what a monster
38:45
Speaker 5: is and you could, you know, maybe take me. And
38:48
Speaker 5: that's what it looked like. So kids were afraid of me.
38:51
Speaker 5: It was obvious, Like I'd go out in public, made
38:53
Speaker 5: runway hide behind their parents. And this little girl in
38:57
Speaker 5: the restaurant saw me sitting with her. She was sitting
39:00
Speaker 5: with her grandfather, and she was staring at me, and
39:03
Speaker 5: I could see that she was afraid of me. But
39:06
Speaker 5: her grandfather saw the same thing, and he actually asked
39:10
Speaker 5: her quietly. Now at this point, I mean I was
39:13
Speaker 5: listening and seeing everything. Two months after the hospital, like
39:18
Speaker 5: I'm still in kind of a little bit in Iraq mode,
39:21
Speaker 5: like war mode, you're still aware of everything. But also
39:24
Speaker 5: I was aware because of the way I looked, and
39:27
Speaker 5: I was bummed that people thought the way they did.
39:30
Speaker 5: Her kids thought the way they did, so I was
39:31
Speaker 5: really in tune with him. So this is grandfather whispered
39:34
Speaker 5: to her very quietly, but I heard him, and he said,
39:36
Speaker 5: go say hi to him. Now, she didn't want to
39:39
Speaker 5: come over, and I totally understood that. I didn't want
39:40
Speaker 5: to really to come over either, because I knew how
39:42
Speaker 5: it would end.
39:43
Speaker 3: She's afraid.
39:44
Speaker 5: But he did it again, and he said go say
39:46
Speaker 5: hi to him, and this time she did start to
39:48
Speaker 5: come over, but when she got halfway over, I didn't.
39:51
Speaker 5: I didn't want her to come all the way over.
39:52
Speaker 5: She was too uncomfortable. So when she got halfway over,
39:55
Speaker 5: I said, hey, how you doing. But when I said
39:57
Speaker 5: that is what happened was what I s she stopped
40:00
Speaker 5: at in her tracks, turned around and ran back to
40:03
Speaker 5: her grandpa. And you know, at that moment, it's just
40:06
Speaker 5: like Rick, this is life, man, Just deal with it.
40:08
Speaker 5: This is the way it's going to be. You're always
40:10
Speaker 5: going to look really different. Kids are always going to
40:12
Speaker 5: be afraid of you.
40:13
Speaker 3: Just deal with it.
40:15
Speaker 5: So she ran away and she got back to her
40:17
Speaker 5: grandpa and she looked at him and she said, Grandpa,
40:20
Speaker 5: he's really nice.
40:21
Speaker 3: And she changed a lot for me, changed a lot
40:25
Speaker 3: for me.
40:26
Speaker 2: But you overheard that.
40:28
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was, like I said, I was paying attention
40:30
Speaker 5: to everything, and the grandfather had a huge part in that.
40:34
Speaker 3: I never really have given him the credit, but yeah,
40:37
Speaker 3: he deserves a lot of that credit.
40:38
Speaker 5: He you know, forced his granddaughter into an uncomfortable situation,
40:42
Speaker 5: which in the end made her comfortable, which was kind
40:44
Speaker 5: of crazy. But yeah, she said, he's really nice. And
40:49
Speaker 5: as soon as I heard that, it was like, and
40:51
Speaker 5: this is something that I've always thought about, but I've.
40:53
Speaker 3: Never really said.
40:54
Speaker 5: Tom and I have been talking about this, but it
40:55
Speaker 5: wasn't you know, because we say, you know, I lacked
40:59
Speaker 5: acceptance in the world at that point.
41:00
Speaker 3: It was the acceptance of children. When that happened. I
41:04
Speaker 3: wasn't all of a sudden accepted by every kid in
41:06
Speaker 3: the world. That's not happened.
41:08
Speaker 5: I was accepted by one. But what did happen was
41:11
Speaker 5: I accepted myself. And that's the biggest thing. Once we
41:14
Speaker 5: can accept ourselves except who we are, and that's when
41:19
Speaker 5: things really change. If we're waiting for the acceptance of
41:22
Speaker 5: everyone else in this world, man, you're gonna be waiting
41:25
Speaker 5: till the day you die because it ain't happening.
41:27
Speaker 3: It's not gonna happen. So that's when I accepted myself though,
41:31
Speaker 3: and I was like, you know, I think I can
41:33
Speaker 3: get through.
41:33
Speaker 1: This.
41:34
Speaker 3: Certainly wasn't the answer to the rest of my life,
41:37
Speaker 3: but it was a part of it.
41:39
Speaker 2: I have a question for you. Yeah, maybe you've been
41:44
Speaker 2: and I want to know if you've been asked this before.
41:49
Speaker 2: Do you have tear ducks? Can you cry? Have you
41:53
Speaker 2: been asked that before?
41:56
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if I've been asked if I
41:58
Speaker 3: can cry.
42:00
Speaker 5: I've been asked a lot about my eyes and a
42:02
Speaker 5: lot about the tears.
42:05
Speaker 3: I don't know if I've asked if I been asked
42:07
Speaker 3: if I can cry. So yes, I can.
42:10
Speaker 5: And when I cry, it's very obvious because like there
42:15
Speaker 5: are no drainage, so all the tears are going down
42:19
Speaker 5: my face. And it's the same with you know, even
42:21
Speaker 5: when I present, my eyes are very My eyes get
42:24
Speaker 5: very dry because I can't close.
42:26
Speaker 3: Like I mean, if you can see really close, this
42:28
Speaker 3: is me blinking.
42:30
Speaker 5: My eyes are not shutting. That's me blinking. Now I
42:34
Speaker 5: can blink, But what's gonna happen is you can see
42:36
Speaker 5: it on my shirt. Watch I'll close my eyes.
42:38
Speaker 3: This is me blinking. What just happened?
42:41
Speaker 5: The tears come down my face and they go down
42:44
Speaker 5: onto my shirt. So that's what happens when I blink,
42:49
Speaker 5: truly truly blink. So I create tears, but they don't
42:53
Speaker 5: have anywhere to go because the drainage is just does
42:56
Speaker 5: not work. So the tears sit in my eyes and
42:58
Speaker 5: my Like I said, my eyes are really dry. I
43:00
Speaker 5: partially because I can't close them all the way. So
43:02
Speaker 5: when I sleep, yes, if I squeeze my eyes shut,
43:05
Speaker 5: they're closed, but nobody does that. When they're sleeping, it's
43:08
Speaker 5: very light, so my eyes are a little bit open
43:11
Speaker 5: and they do dry out. So then throughout the day,
43:14
Speaker 5: some mornings, you know, like people have bad hair days.
43:16
Speaker 5: I have a bad hair day every day, unfortunately, but
43:19
Speaker 5: I have bad eye days. So some mornings my eyes
43:22
Speaker 5: are just not working the way they should things are
43:25
Speaker 5: really blurry because of dry and maybe a fana was
43:27
Speaker 5: on or something like that in the night. But yeah,
43:29
Speaker 5: so the tears if I squeeze my eyes shut will
43:33
Speaker 5: just come down my face. And sometimes I have no
43:36
Speaker 5: choice but to do that in a presentation because like
43:39
Speaker 5: it's all just sitting there and now I'm starting to
43:41
Speaker 5: go crosside trying to like not have these tears go
43:44
Speaker 5: down in my dry eyes are drying out, So I
43:47
Speaker 5: try to time it really perfectly, though, So when I
43:49
Speaker 5: squeeze my eyes shut, it's a really sad part of
43:52
Speaker 5: the story.
43:52
Speaker 3: And then it looks like I'm crying and just adds
43:55
Speaker 3: to everything.
43:57
Speaker 2: Do you do you do you cry? I have you
44:01
Speaker 2: cried leaving a situation where a child has just impacted
44:12
Speaker 2: you in a certain way and you just need some
44:16
Speaker 2: time to be alone.
44:19
Speaker 3: Uh, not so much kids anymore.
44:22
Speaker 5: I've had a lot of those moments with adults when
44:26
Speaker 5: you know, I was when even when I'm speaking to kids,
44:29
Speaker 5: you know, in high schools and middle schools and camps
44:33
Speaker 5: and stuff, and you know, there's always adults in the room,
44:35
Speaker 5: and you know, I'll get a lot of feedback from
44:37
Speaker 5: the adults, and the adults come up to me and
44:39
Speaker 5: tell me that they're having really difficult situations in their life,
44:45
Speaker 5: and you know, and I say that not kids, But
44:47
Speaker 5: when I said that I met I was thinking more
44:49
Speaker 5: like little little kids, but yes, like high schoolers. I
44:54
Speaker 5: did a camp in Pennsylvania this summer and it was awesome.
44:57
Speaker 5: They're just the best kids to talk to. I've done
45:00
Speaker 5: for ten years in a row, and two weeks in
45:02
Speaker 5: a row I've had at the very end of the thing.
45:05
Speaker 5: You know, I speak from six forty five to eight,
45:08
Speaker 5: so an hour and fifteen minutes. I don't leave there
45:11
Speaker 5: until eleven PM because there's so many kids lined up
45:14
Speaker 5: to talk to me, have questions, get pictures. But two
45:18
Speaker 5: weeks in a row, there was a different girl, because
45:21
Speaker 5: it's different kids each week, but there was a girl
45:23
Speaker 5: who waited until the very end, so ten forty five pm.
45:27
Speaker 5: She just sat in the auditorium. Two different weeks in
45:30
Speaker 5: a row, different girl, and they both came up to
45:33
Speaker 5: me and talked to me, and they were crying because
45:37
Speaker 5: of their situation. But they got me going as well,
45:41
Speaker 5: because I was in a situation that really pertained to
45:47
Speaker 5: their message that they had for me, Like I don't
45:50
Speaker 5: you know, I know you waited around until ten forty
45:52
Speaker 5: five to talk to me so that I could help you.
45:55
Speaker 3: But they helped me, Like, and it was just.
45:58
Speaker 5: Crazy that two weeks in a row, these girls waited
46:06
Speaker 5: that whole time to talk to me, and it was
46:08
Speaker 5: something about something that they were dealing with, but also
46:11
Speaker 5: something that I was dealing with as well, Like, so
46:15
Speaker 5: crazy to me how that all works out, And it
46:18
Speaker 5: was just me and not that I'm in the room
46:20
Speaker 5: at the time, and it was just amazing, amazing.
46:24
Speaker 2: I would guess Rick that there are many and you
46:31
Speaker 2: I wanted to what you have to say about this?
46:34
Speaker 2: Who would see you, hear you and then say or
46:40
Speaker 2: think or feel Man, I can't. I can't complain to
46:46
Speaker 2: that guy about anything that's going on in my life.
46:51
Speaker 2: Nothing that I've gone through or that I'm going through
46:56
Speaker 2: could compare to what he has. So I'm not going
47:02
Speaker 2: to I'm not even going to say anything to him.
47:07
Speaker 2: Do you think that that is true? And that that
47:10
Speaker 2: may create some barriers at times where people just like man,
47:15
Speaker 2: I can't even like I can't. I would feel like
47:18
Speaker 2: crap if I complained to him that I was going
47:23
Speaker 2: through a tragedy because I got into a car accident
47:26
Speaker 2: and broke my leg, and you know, nothing can compare
47:31
Speaker 2: to what he's gone through.
47:33
Speaker 3: Well I don't. I don't compare my what happened to
47:36
Speaker 3: me to anything else.
47:37
Speaker 5: And that's because, like that would be silly, like when
47:43
Speaker 5: an adult is like, what I'm dealing with in my
47:44
Speaker 5: life right now, I'm not going to get into it
47:46
Speaker 5: right now.
47:47
Speaker 3: But it's a lot.
47:48
Speaker 5: This is harder than what I went through. And it
47:50
Speaker 5: has to do with my kids. You know, my oldest
47:53
Speaker 5: daughter thirteen. This is harder than what I went through, Wow,
47:58
Speaker 5: almost nineteen years ago. And this isn't like anything that's profound,
48:03
Speaker 5: Like people are dealing with this stuff. Yeah, you know
48:06
Speaker 5: when I meet parents and they're dealing with their kids
48:09
Speaker 5: in certain situations in their life, and it's a lot.
48:13
Speaker 5: So I would say that what they're dealing with is
48:16
Speaker 5: worse than what I dealt with.
48:17
Speaker 3: Wow, So I don't. That's why I don't.
48:19
Speaker 5: I don't compare because I can't when a thirteen year old,
48:24
Speaker 5: you know, I says something so awful that they've been
48:28
Speaker 5: through in middle school and and I'll be like, well,
48:32
Speaker 5: you know, well I was on fire and I almost died,
48:34
Speaker 5: like come on that, I can't compare it to their situation.
48:37
Speaker 3: In my mind, what they went through was way more
48:39
Speaker 3: difficult than what I went through when I was twenty
48:41
Speaker 3: four years old.
48:42
Speaker 5: Sure, so I try to make that obvious to people
48:47
Speaker 5: so that they can share that. I'm not telling you
48:51
Speaker 5: that what I went through was harder than what you
48:53
Speaker 5: went through. Definitely, absolutely not, because that's not true.
48:57
Speaker 3: What you're dealing with might be a lot more in
49:00
Speaker 3: It depends on who the person is that's dealing with it. Yeah,
49:02
Speaker 3: that's always you know, how we deal with things, who
49:05
Speaker 3: we are.
49:05
Speaker 2: It's it's amazing. I'm sitting here listening to you, and
49:09
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking, just because you have had what happened
49:16
Speaker 2: to you, you're just not immune to any other hardship
49:24
Speaker 2: or any other situation that can come your way.
49:28
Speaker 5: No, there is no immunity to that. You know, we're
49:31
Speaker 5: all up for grabs with that one. I'm thinking about that. Yeah,
49:37
Speaker 5: there is zero immunity to that.
49:39
Speaker 3: It's coming. It's happening. Like you know, life, I said,
49:42
Speaker 3: life is good, but it's not easy. It is not easy.
49:45
Speaker 5: There are times where it feels easy, but there are
49:48
Speaker 5: gonna be times where it doesn't yeah, we're not immune
49:52
Speaker 5: even if we've been through it before. But knowing that,
49:55
Speaker 5: like what I said earlier, it's going to be okay, and.
49:58
Speaker 3: That's what I ride on.
50:00
Speaker 5: I know, and I'm not just saying it to make
50:03
Speaker 5: myself feel better.
50:05
Speaker 3: I truly do believe that.
50:07
Speaker 5: But when you're in the midst of it, and you're
50:10
Speaker 5: in the middle of it and you're like, I don't
50:12
Speaker 5: know how much longer it's going to be before it's okay.
50:15
Speaker 3: It's hard.
50:16
Speaker 5: Yeah, it is hard for everyone, but I do believe
50:21
Speaker 5: that it will be okay that situation. And then when
50:24
Speaker 5: that situation is okay, guess what, They're probably gonna be
50:27
Speaker 5: another one coming.
50:28
Speaker 3: But at least he got through that one. And that's
50:31
Speaker 3: just life. That's just life.
50:33
Speaker 2: Tom Murphy, CEO and founder of Sweethearts and Heroes with
50:40
Speaker 2: you the guy is He's unstoppable. He's unstoppable with his uh,
50:50
Speaker 2: his thinking process. He is never stagnant and comfortable where
50:58
Speaker 2: he is. He is all always wanting to sharpen his edge,
51:04
Speaker 2: do more, be better, bring a different message, as if
51:10
Speaker 2: bringing your message to the thousands of schools that Sweethearts
51:16
Speaker 2: and Heroes has Tom says, we need to bring this
51:23
Speaker 2: message to the National Electrical Contractors Association, and rick Yarish
51:28
Speaker 2: is thinking what.
51:31
Speaker 5: I'm thinking, how do we fit into that world? But
51:36
Speaker 5: how do we fit into elementary schools? So I mean,
51:40
Speaker 5: really the message is hope and in the end, you know,
51:43
Speaker 5: I truly at this point, I believe that we belong everywhere.
51:47
Speaker 5: Everyone is, you know, struggling with hope at some point
51:50
Speaker 5: in their life. And but yeah, I didn't understand it.
51:54
Speaker 5: Why are they even reaching out to us? And then
51:56
Speaker 5: you know, come to find out the suicide raign the
52:00
Speaker 5: electrical contract world is incredibly.
52:02
Speaker 3: High and they they need hope.
52:06
Speaker 5: This is you know, We've done a lot over the
52:08
Speaker 5: past couple of months with them and it's been extremely rewarding,
52:13
Speaker 5: difficult because we still hear stories of you know, people
52:16
Speaker 5: taking their own life in that world. I don't think
52:19
Speaker 5: anyone that we've spoken to yet, but that's how big
52:22
Speaker 5: that world is. There's a ton of these contractors. We
52:25
Speaker 5: need to be there. We need to be there, and
52:27
Speaker 5: we're not leaving the kids. We're not giving up on
52:29
Speaker 5: the kids. That's not who we are and we're going
52:31
Speaker 5: to continue to do that. We're just entering another realm
52:34
Speaker 5: as well.
52:35
Speaker 2: It's amazing. I want you to and you guys had
52:41
Speaker 2: such a profound impact and still are on those electrical contractors.
52:48
Speaker 2: What you brought to that convention was amazing. Just to
52:53
Speaker 2: see and hear a little bit of it. I wish
52:56
Speaker 2: that I could have been there. But I want to
52:58
Speaker 2: shift gears and h talk about your book. Yeah, tell
53:04
Speaker 2: us about a bridge named Amos.
53:08
Speaker 3: The easiest book I will ever write. Just a book
53:13
Speaker 3: about my dog. I mean that's literally what it is.
53:16
Speaker 5: It's a book about my dog, Amos, and super easy
53:20
Speaker 5: to write because it's all true. I mean there's always
53:23
Speaker 5: there's one part in the book where kids were like,
53:25
Speaker 5: did he really do that? And of course that's the
53:27
Speaker 5: only part in the book that wasn't even true, because
53:30
Speaker 5: I said that he made me go outside where the
53:32
Speaker 5: kids were to get me closer to the kids so
53:35
Speaker 5: that I could interact with them. But of course that's
53:37
Speaker 5: the only part they asked that's true. They don't ask
53:39
Speaker 5: if like him tugging my sock off is true?
53:43
Speaker 3: No, that is true. The only part that's not is
53:45
Speaker 3: the part that they asked about.
53:46
Speaker 2: I want to read that. It's just one day when
53:49
Speaker 2: we were at school talking to older kids. I saw
53:52
Speaker 2: little kids on the playground. I knew that I needed
53:56
Speaker 2: to get Rick outside, so I pretended that I had
53:59
Speaker 2: to go pot Rick saw all of the little kids
54:02
Speaker 2: on the playground and tried to go outside a different way,
54:05
Speaker 2: but I wouldn't let him.
54:08
Speaker 5: Of course, they ask every time, is that part true? Well,
54:11
Speaker 5: you got to remember he's a dog, so but yeah,
54:15
Speaker 5: it's all from his perspective. How I wrote the book
54:19
Speaker 5: so many times from my perspective, and then you know,
54:22
Speaker 5: I'm not good at like throwing something away that I've
54:25
Speaker 5: done because I put a lot of time into it
54:27
Speaker 5: and I don't want to do it again. But I
54:28
Speaker 5: was like, this just isn't right. So then I threw
54:31
Speaker 5: away and wrote it from his perspective. But yeah, he
54:34
Speaker 5: was just the best dog, the best.
54:36
Speaker 2: The bridge, and so many of us can relate to this,
54:41
Speaker 2: that an animal can be a bridge to so many things.
54:48
Speaker 2: It can be a bridge to others, but it can
54:52
Speaker 2: also be a bridge back to ourselves self rediscovery. This
55:02
Speaker 2: dog was Amos was both maybe.
55:05
Speaker 3: No, he was he was He made me comfortable with me.
55:08
Speaker 3: I mean that's what the bridge is.
55:10
Speaker 5: In the end, you know, they they are the tool
55:13
Speaker 5: that you need to cross, but once you're across, unless
55:15
Speaker 5: you need to go back, you don't need the bridge anymore.
55:18
Speaker 5: And I always needed Amos in some capacity, but he
55:23
Speaker 5: made me cross the bridge, and once I got over
55:25
Speaker 5: the bridge, I didn't need him for that reason anymore.
55:28
Speaker 3: So yeah, he made me accept my situation.
55:32
Speaker 5: He made me understand my situation, and he was he
55:36
Speaker 5: just truly was just one of the best dogs ever.
55:38
Speaker 5: Terrible service dog, but one of the best dogs ever.
55:43
Speaker 2: Amos came into your life after this horrific accident in Iraq, yep.
55:52
Speaker 3: Four years after my injuries when I got on my
55:55
Speaker 3: so actually I think it was about five years. So
55:58
Speaker 3: he uh, he came into my life and it was
56:00
Speaker 3: a point where I wanted a dog so bad.
56:03
Speaker 5: I lived on my own, there was nobody else in
56:06
Speaker 5: my house, and I couldn't just get a dog because
56:10
Speaker 5: I traveled so much. So I couldn't get a dog
56:12
Speaker 5: that would just stay home all the time. That wouldn't work,
56:14
Speaker 5: and a regular dog couldn't travel with me. So a
56:18
Speaker 5: service dog was the answer, and he was the best
56:22
Speaker 5: service dog when I got him. I say, he's a
56:24
Speaker 5: terrible service dog, but that was because of me.
56:26
Speaker 3: And I ruined him. I let every single kid in
56:30
Speaker 3: the world that wanted to pet him pat him. I
56:33
Speaker 3: never said no.
56:34
Speaker 5: I can't say no. My whole job was to connect
56:36
Speaker 5: with these kids. And then right after they come up,
56:39
Speaker 5: hey can I pet your dog?
56:41
Speaker 3: No?
56:41
Speaker 5: If I said that, I've just ruined everything. So yeah,
56:46
Speaker 5: Amos is he's the best. And yeah, he passed away
56:49
Speaker 5: almost a year ago. Now, it's hard to believe that
56:51
Speaker 5: it was almost a year ago. It was October of
56:54
Speaker 5: last year.
56:55
Speaker 3: But he was almost fourteen years old and he did
56:58
Speaker 3: his job, and he did his job.
57:00
Speaker 2: Well, how are you coping with that? Is that something?
57:05
Speaker 1: That?
57:07
Speaker 2: Man? It was two thousand and twelve when I lost
57:12
Speaker 2: my sixteen year old black lab mix and was and
57:23
Speaker 2: still is. But it's still every now and then, Well,
57:28
Speaker 2: smack me out of the blue. Kind that was so
57:32
Speaker 2: long ago and at times kind of take my breath away.
57:37
Speaker 2: How are you coping?
57:39
Speaker 3: I'm okay, Yeah, I'm okay.
57:41
Speaker 5: You know, sadly, long before he passed away, I kind
57:47
Speaker 5: of prepared myself, like.
57:48
Speaker 3: I know he's not going to be around forever, and
57:51
Speaker 3: you know, how am I going to get through that?
57:52
Speaker 3: I think, just you know, preparing myself.
57:54
Speaker 5: A little bit for that, knowing that it was going
57:57
Speaker 5: to come eventually, just because it does to everything that
58:01
Speaker 5: I was gonna be okay. And uh, the worst part
58:06
Speaker 5: is is, you know, we do this to ourselves.
58:09
Speaker 3: You know, we had to. We put him down at
58:11
Speaker 3: the hospital. We went to the Cornell Hospital for the animals,
58:16
Speaker 3: and I take myself back to that moment way too often.
58:21
Speaker 5: That's the like, I don't know why I do that,
58:23
Speaker 5: because you know, I have a memory, many memories of
58:27
Speaker 5: every single day he was alive, But for some reason,
58:29
Speaker 5: I go back to that one single day where you know,
58:32
Speaker 5: we took him away.
58:35
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know why I do that.
58:36
Speaker 5: So that part is really hard, Like, you know, it
58:39
Speaker 5: makes me want to cry right now, just like laying
58:42
Speaker 5: there with him on the floor and patting him and
58:44
Speaker 5: give him giving him his last treats. Yeah, super super
58:49
Speaker 5: freaking hard to think about that. But you know, again,
58:52
Speaker 5: he served his purpose, and he was tired and he
58:55
Speaker 5: was hurt and he was having a hard time walking,
58:57
Speaker 5: and you know, in the end, the right decision was made.
59:02
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys have here we are. School is starting
59:10
Speaker 2: up for so many kids everywhere across their nation, and
59:15
Speaker 2: you guys have a schedule and a calendar that is
59:20
Speaker 2: borderlining ridiculous, especially.
59:24
Speaker 3: Now we're entering this new world and the electrical contractors.
59:27
Speaker 2: Yeah, because Rick, I mean because Tom apparently didn't think
59:32
Speaker 2: you guys were busy enough. You're going to be running
59:37
Speaker 2: around going to so many schools. You're going to be
59:42
Speaker 2: empowering children to think differently, to be better versions of themselves,
59:50
Speaker 2: to interact with not only other teachers and maybe their
59:56
Speaker 2: parents and siblings in a different way, but also other
1:00:01
Speaker 2: students and also students who I know you guys, you
1:00:06
Speaker 2: guys really push the whole bullying thing, but students who
1:00:10
Speaker 2: may not reciprocate the same kind of respect and way
1:00:16
Speaker 2: of thinking that someone with good intentions is. You guys
1:00:19
Speaker 2: are are really empowering children of all ages to just
1:00:28
Speaker 2: think differently and respond and react to things in a
1:00:34
Speaker 2: better way. That is so huge for sweethearts and heroes.
1:00:38
Speaker 2: That's so massive for what you guys are.
1:00:40
Speaker 5: Doing kids people, not even just kids. You know, that's
1:00:44
Speaker 5: who are focused, is sure, But kids need help. People
1:00:48
Speaker 5: need help, and you know, like I say, you know, life,
1:00:52
Speaker 5: life is good. It's not always easy. And when it's
1:00:55
Speaker 5: not easy, we need people around us. And you know,
1:00:59
Speaker 5: part of it is, you know, not being afraid to
1:01:01
Speaker 5: share what you're dealing with. That's one thing, you know,
1:01:04
Speaker 5: And that's a crazy world that we're living in with
1:01:06
Speaker 5: the adults. The older kids shows are not the older kids,
1:01:11
Speaker 5: but the adults sharing things that you're dealing with with
1:01:15
Speaker 5: other people.
1:01:16
Speaker 4: I can't do that.
1:01:17
Speaker 3: Well, you have to.
1:01:18
Speaker 5: You have to, especially if it's something really really difficult,
1:01:22
Speaker 5: because I.
1:01:23
Speaker 3: Don't know if you're gonna get through all that stuff
1:01:25
Speaker 3: on your own. You need people in your life.
1:01:27
Speaker 5: So, yeah, these kids are gonna understand what people, what
1:01:31
Speaker 5: other kids are dealing with.
1:01:32
Speaker 3: That's empathy, putting their self in their shoes.
1:01:36
Speaker 5: And once they do that and they can build a
1:01:38
Speaker 5: connection with those other kids, then they can help each
1:01:41
Speaker 5: other and that reward.
1:01:44
Speaker 2: Is awesome, Gonna get you. Yeah, go ahead.
1:01:48
Speaker 5: The world focused on that stuff. Like, man, the reward
1:01:53
Speaker 5: is helping other people, that's I'm telling you right now.
1:01:57
Speaker 5: The feeling is amazing when we do that. But when
1:02:00
Speaker 5: we're self centered and the reward is what we can
1:02:03
Speaker 5: do for ourselves, and there.
1:02:04
Speaker 3: Is some of that in there, Like, yes, you get
1:02:07
Speaker 3: a lot out of it.
1:02:08
Speaker 5: But if it's just that, then what is it like,
1:02:13
Speaker 5: I don't know's there's so much self centeredness in this world.
1:02:16
Speaker 3: And once we start doing stuff for other people, I'm
1:02:21
Speaker 3: telling you, it does something for you too, and it
1:02:24
Speaker 3: feels so good.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's infectious. I'm on your Facebook page right now
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Speaker 2: for Sweethearts and Heroes, and it says your mission is
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Speaker 2: simple to ignite empathy, empower bystanders, and cultivate compassionate leaders.
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Speaker 2: Through our life saving message of hope. We equip individuals
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Speaker 2: with the tools and strategies to jump into action and
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Speaker 2: be the difference that the world needs. That's huge, man.
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Speaker 3: That is huge.
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Speaker 5: There's zero chance on the word that wrote that. There's
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Speaker 5: way too much big stuff in there. People always ask
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Speaker 5: us what do you guys do, And I'm like, oh, man, well,
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Speaker 5: I give hope to people and they give hope to me.
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Speaker 3: I have a hard time describing what we do because
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Speaker 3: there's so much to it.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's simple in the end, because that is what
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Speaker 5: we do, but there's so much more to it than
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Speaker 5: just you know, giving hope.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, my little girl was so excited when she met
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Speaker 2: you and Tom and we should give a shout out
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Speaker 2: to Wells Rivers Chevrolet that has helped bring you guys
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Speaker 2: to so many schools in the Upper Valley, including my
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Speaker 2: daughter's school. And when she came home and was like, Dad,
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Speaker 2: I had the best Because we always say did you
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Speaker 2: have a good day? Yes or no? What was good
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Speaker 2: about it? What wasn't so good about it? How can
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Speaker 2: we do things differently? And how was your day? I
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Speaker 2: had the best day. This guy came out and he
1:04:06
Speaker 2: was feeding us marshmallows and we had to do the
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Speaker 2: alphabet backwards and there was this guy there and he
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Speaker 2: was all burned and it was a great day.
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Speaker 3: And I'm like, what happened?
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Speaker 2: What?
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Speaker 3: What the else going on?
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Speaker 2: You guys just had such an impact.
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Speaker 3: Man. That's what we do.
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Speaker 5: I mean, it's uh, you know the it's entertainment too.
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Speaker 5: We entertain them, we have fun with them that we
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Speaker 5: make them comfortable. I mean, that's a recipe for success
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Speaker 5: right there. And guess what in the middle mix of
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Speaker 5: all of those things, the entertaining and having fun.
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Speaker 3: And connecting, there's a really good lesson in there too.
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Speaker 5: And that's how you get the lesson across is you
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Speaker 5: got to be able to do those other things they're
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Speaker 5: not You can have a great lesson but if you
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Speaker 5: don't know how to deliver it to them, then you know,
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Speaker 5: we need kids to go home and say, this was
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Speaker 5: an amazing day, it was so much fun.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: When it's when that happens, that's when they learn the most.
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Speaker 2: Sure, I say it every time. If your child's school
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Speaker 2: is not yet connected with Sweethearts and Heroes, please don't
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Speaker 2: wait get on Sweetheartsinheroes dot com. Email info at sweetheartsin
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Speaker 2: Heroes dot com. I'm not sure if what's your schedule's like,
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Speaker 2: I know it's crazy, but don't wait on this. If
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Speaker 2: you or someone you know is a teacher, an administrator,
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Speaker 2: or involved in any way, shape or manner with a
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Speaker 2: local school anywhere actually Inframont or beyond, please get in
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Speaker 2: touch with them. Sweetheartsinhroes dot com. Sergeant Rickyarsh guest this morning,
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Speaker 2: and more importantly, my friend, I am so blessed by
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Speaker 2: you guys. And I said to Heather, and I've said
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Speaker 2: to others, my my dream is to have a circle
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Speaker 2: amongst just the Sweethearts and Heroes family and myself and
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Speaker 2: live stream it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be awesome, and don't yeah, it would
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Speaker 3: be something.
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Speaker 5: Don't put yourself in that state, and you said the
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Speaker 5: sweethearts and fake hair, the Sweetheart's and Heroes family, and
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Speaker 5: myself you are a part of that Sweethearts and Heroes family.
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Speaker 5: So don't don't exclude yourself like that. You're a part
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Speaker 5: of this this organization. You're doing just as much as
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Speaker 5: we are by helping us share our message and taking
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Speaker 5: your time.
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Speaker 2: To do this with us.
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Speaker 3: JD.
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Speaker 2: Buddy, thank you ever so much. I can't wait to
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Speaker 2: see you again. I don't know when or where. I'm
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Speaker 2: still hoping that I might get an invite from Tom
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Speaker 2: to attend one of these school functions where I can
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Speaker 2: actually see what I've been in experienced in person, what
1:07:15
Speaker 2: I've been hearing about for so long. Do you think
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Speaker 2: Tom will put me on the invite list one of
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Speaker 2: these days?
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Speaker 3: I think you could probably do that.
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Speaker 5: We'll try to avoid New York, though, so you don't
1:07:26
Speaker 5: have trouble getting over the ferry again.
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Speaker 3: We don't want you to have issues with that, so
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Speaker 3: we'll do something a little closer to.
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Speaker 2: Home for you, buddy. I love you, and I mean
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Speaker 2: that love you man, and I appreciate you so much
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Speaker 2: for coming on this morning again.
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Speaker 3: Absolutely anytime. I love it. You know.
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Speaker 5: They were like, oh, hey, Rick, never mind, you don't
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Speaker 5: have to do it today. You know, we know you're
1:07:52
Speaker 5: on vacation. I said, no, I want to do it,
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Speaker 5: so I look forward to it j D.
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Speaker 3: I really do.
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Speaker 2: Thanks brother, absolutely heavy, wonderful rest of your day. Big
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Speaker 2: hugs to you man you as well
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Speaker 3: Passssssssssss