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Mama vs. Dating Sites · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mamas. Dear mamas, are
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  Speaker 1: mama's still better than dating sites at matchmaking in the
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  Speaker 1: twenty first century?
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  Speaker 2: Well, let's ask our American mama's.
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  Speaker 3: Ahm mama, she said, and joining us now are American
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  Speaker 3: mama Terry Netterville.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So you I'm assuming you and Kevin did not
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  Speaker 1: meet over a dating site, right right?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: Was was your mom involved in helping the.
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  Speaker 2: Matchmak She was not, But I will say I am.
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  Speaker 2: I am the best dating site for not just my children,
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  Speaker 2: but others because I when I set people up, I
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  Speaker 2: don't just set them up because they're single. I look
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  Speaker 2: and see what qualities. Three have gotten married and oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and one is one of my own. Okay, so you
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  Speaker 2: know we were talking about Taylor Swift. Yes, and I
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  Speaker 2: did not know this, but her mother Andrea. Yes, she
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  Speaker 2: got wind of Travis Kelcey.
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  Speaker 1: Because Taylor had a pattern. So she would meet a guy.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think she was on dating sites, but she
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  Speaker 1: would meet a guy, they'd go out, it wouldn't go well.
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  Speaker 1: She would write an album that would make her.
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  Speaker 2: A toll guy.
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  Speaker 1: She'd meet another guy, they would go out, it wouldn't go, well,
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  Speaker 1: she'd write an album and then that would make her
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  Speaker 1: a ton of money. And then, I mean, financially, it
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  Speaker 1: was a great thing. But she, I mean, she wasn't
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  Speaker 1: finding happiness well.
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  Speaker 2: And then when she found out about this guy, Travis
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  Speaker 2: Kelcey that went to one of her concerts and had
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  Speaker 2: and left a friendship bracelet with his number. She didn't
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  Speaker 2: know anything about him or the Kansas City Chiefs. Her
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  Speaker 2: cousin Robin did. So she called Robin, who's a huge fan,
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  Speaker 2: and said, hey, tell me about this Travis Kelcey guy.
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  Speaker 2: And Robin said, oh my god, he's like the nicest guy,
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  Speaker 2: and he loves his mother. He's good to his mother.
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  Speaker 2: And Andrea said, ding ding ding, ding ding, this might
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  Speaker 2: be the one. So it worked out well. We know
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  Speaker 2: our children. So when Steel, my oldest, brought Tristan home,
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  Speaker 2: they were sixteen years old. She was wise, beyond her years, beautiful,
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  Speaker 2: she's still just beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I remember after a couple of months, maybe even more,
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  Speaker 2: I said, Steele, do not ruin this for us. We
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  Speaker 2: love her. I knew that not only would she be
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  Speaker 2: so good to my son, but I knew that she
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  Speaker 2: would fit in with us. Okay, so then let's fast
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  Speaker 2: forward a couple of years, well few years, because they
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  Speaker 2: dated for nine years and then got married. Yeah, while
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  Speaker 2: Steele was playing for Louisiana Tech baseball, in comes this
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  Speaker 2: guy right behind in the year after named Philip Matula. Right,
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  Speaker 2: So as the years progressed, you know that both of
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  Speaker 2: them did great baseball. Yeah, Steel was and still their
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  Speaker 2: their team. They were friends with everybody. They were great friends.
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  Speaker 1: And this is the team that was the national championship. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well in the in the conference turn not national.
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  Speaker 2: And so Steele was captain and then when he graduated,
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  Speaker 2: Philip became the captain. But a couple of years before that,
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  Speaker 2: I said to Summer, Summer, one of the guys that
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  Speaker 2: I have met on the team is amazing because she
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  Speaker 2: went to Louisiana Tech as well. And she said, Mom,
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  Speaker 2: and I said, no, listen to me. I know things.
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  Speaker 2: This guy when we're when we moms are up there
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  Speaker 2: putting together travel bags, he comes up there and he
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  Speaker 2: thanks us. He is so good to the fans. His
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  Speaker 2: line the kids to get autographed. You know, he had
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  Speaker 2: the longest line of kids. And he was captain that year.
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  Speaker 2: And I said, I said, Summer, I really think y'all
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  Speaker 2: would be great together. He's got all these qualities. And
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  Speaker 2: she said, Mom, I am not going to date anybody
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  Speaker 2: that is playing with my brothers because Slade, you know,
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  Speaker 2: became a team Membreakfast. I'm not going to do that
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  Speaker 2: because let's say we date and then things go awry
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  Speaker 2: and we break up, well, that makes things weird for
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  Speaker 2: him and Steal. That'll change the dynamics on the field.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to be responsible for that. I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: all right. So then she graduates the next year and
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  Speaker 2: it was I remember I was selling tickets in the
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  Speaker 2: lobby and down comes Philip and another guy, his best
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  Speaker 2: friend ad down the stairs, and Summer had already graduated,
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  Speaker 2: was gone. She was a nurse in Texas. And I said,
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  Speaker 2: Philip Matulia, I thought for sure that you and my
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  Speaker 2: daughter would date one day. And he came up and
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  Speaker 2: he gave me hugg He said, it's not too late,
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  Speaker 2: miss Terry. So they they started talking. They dated for
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  Speaker 2: a year, got engaged, got married the very next year,
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  Speaker 2: and then the very next year, coming up October fifteenth,
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  Speaker 2: they will have their first baby.
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  Speaker 1: So when Wendy and I were dating in high school
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  Speaker 1: at the end of sophomore year, we broke up and
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  Speaker 1: my mom chewed me out. Yep, and Wendy's mom.
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  Speaker 2: Chews up because we know we know it. Now, I
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  Speaker 2: will say this, I did try to set slight up
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  Speaker 2: with somebody. That's my youngest, all right. He thought she
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  Speaker 2: was great, but it just wasn't his thing. So now
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  Speaker 2: he doesn't let me even suggest anybody. And he's very
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  Speaker 2: very private of the three when it comes to his
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  Speaker 2: dating his dating life. If I meet her, if he
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  Speaker 2: brings her to the house, then they've been dating for
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  Speaker 2: two or three months. And I'm like, okay, yeah, this
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  Speaker 2: is something.
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  Speaker 1: Well, it worked for Taylor Swift, so maybe maybe mom
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  Speaker 1: should be more involved than dating apps.
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  Speaker 2: I'm exactly I like it.
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  Speaker 1: click on the ask the Mama's button. Terry Nutteville, thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you,