Latest / Wellness, Actually with Emily Oster & Perry Wilson, MD / Every Kid is a Math Kid: Debunking the myths around learning math
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- 0:01Speaker 1: This is parent data. I'm Emily Oster. When I was
- 0:05Speaker 1: a kid in elementary school, I thought I was pretty
- 0:08Speaker 1: good at math. My high point came in the fifth grade,
- 0:13Speaker 1: when I had mister Celine, who did a bunch of
- 0:16Speaker 1: things that really played to my strengths. There was a
- 0:19Speaker 1: timed math test in which Matthew Milakowski and I traded
- 0:22Speaker 1: off one two in multiplication tables. And the other day
- 0:27Speaker 1: I came across in my parents' storage bin a worksheet
- 0:32Speaker 1: in which I had used combinatorics to take the numbers one, two, three,
- 0:36Speaker 1: and four and combine them to make all of the
- 0:39Speaker 1: numbers up to one. You know, like one plus two,
- 0:41Speaker 1: bliss three plus four, but summation of four is also ten.
- 0:45Speaker 1: Multiply it by three to get thirty. The sheet was long.
- 0:50Speaker 1: When I got to high school, I still thought of
- 0:53Speaker 1: myself as a math kid, but by the end of
- 0:56Speaker 1: high school I didn't. There came a point at which
- 1:00Speaker 1: I decided I wasn't that good at math. I hit
- 1:04Speaker 1: something that I found really hard, and I didn't have
- 1:08Speaker 1: the mentorship, the advice, the stick touitiveness to push through that.
- 1:14Speaker 1: And now, if you asked me, are you good at math?
- 1:17Speaker 1: I would say, not really, and I realized how that sounds.
- 1:21Speaker 1: I have a PhD in economics, I do data for
- 1:24Speaker 1: a living, but I don't think of myself as someone
- 1:28Speaker 1: who's very good at math. And I think that is
- 1:32Speaker 1: a position widely shared by almost everyone. Whether it was
- 1:36Speaker 1: the end of high school, sometime in college, sometime in
- 1:39Speaker 1: elementary school, I think most of us at some point
- 1:42Speaker 1: decided I'm not really a math kid. We got to
- 1:46Speaker 1: a point where mastery was hard, where the thing we
- 1:49Speaker 1: were doing was so difficult that we kind of stopped.
- 1:57Speaker 1: We don't really do that. In English, you learned to read,
- 2:00Speaker 1: and you never decide, well, I'm not a reading kid.
- 2:02Speaker 1: I'm not good at reading. We all read. We do
- 2:05Speaker 1: often decide we're not a math kin, and my guest
- 2:08Speaker 1: today would like to push back on that. Shaliny Sharma
- 2:12Speaker 1: is the founder of zern An online math platform. She
- 2:16Speaker 1: has a new book out called Mathmind, The Simple Path
- 2:20Speaker 1: to Loving Math, and her core claim in this book
- 2:24Speaker 1: is that every kid is a mathkid, and in order
- 2:27Speaker 1: to do math education better, in order to serve our
- 2:31Speaker 1: kids better, we need to have that core belief about
- 2:34Speaker 1: our kids and probably also about ourselves. Every kid is
- 2:39Speaker 1: a mathkin. In this conversation, we get into a little
- 2:44Speaker 1: more detail about math learning. We talk about the question
- 2:47Speaker 1: of memorization versus deeper learning. We talk about creativity and
- 2:50Speaker 1: problem solving. We get into the question of why our
- 2:54Speaker 1: kids are doing something called the new math and why
- 2:57Speaker 1: it terrifies us and looks ridiculous and ever less still
- 3:00Speaker 1: might be a good idea. And we talk about how
- 3:03Speaker 1: to get kids excited about the tools of math and
- 3:07Speaker 1: how they can unlock the secrets of the universe and
- 3:10Speaker 1: be really, really fun. After the break, Shalony Sharma, Shaleiny Sharma,
- 3:31Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining.
- 3:32Speaker 2: Me, Hi Emily, so nice to join you, so excited
- 3:36Speaker 2: to be here.
- 3:36Speaker 1: So I'd love to start by having you just tell
- 3:39Speaker 1: people who you are and what you do.
- 3:42Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 3:43Speaker 1: So.
- 3:43Speaker 2: My name is Shaliny Sharma, and I am the CEO
- 3:47Speaker 2: and co founder of Zern, which is a nonprofit math
- 3:50Speaker 2: learning platform used by one and four elementary school students
- 3:53Speaker 2: and a million middle school kids. And I recently wrote
- 3:58Speaker 2: a book which I'm so excited to talk talk about.
- 4:00Speaker 2: And I hope the idea that your listeners consider, especially
- 4:04Speaker 2: as parents, is that their kids can succeed in math
- 4:07Speaker 2: and can love math.
- 4:09Speaker 1: You love math, You love math teaching as much as
- 4:13Speaker 1: anyone I've ever encountered. And we met during the pandemic,
- 4:16Speaker 1: and there are few people in life that one meets
- 4:20Speaker 1: who are so deeply passionate about math and or about
- 4:25Speaker 1: anything that they do. So it's really a delight to
- 4:27Speaker 1: read the book which is all about math and math kids.
- 4:30Speaker 1: And we're going to talk about your ideas, but can
- 4:34Speaker 1: you tell us a little bit more about how you
- 4:36Speaker 1: got Why do you like math so much? A lot
- 4:39Speaker 1: of people don't like math? What's the deal?
- 4:43Speaker 2: Yeah, well I can say what I love about math
- 4:47Speaker 2: teaching is a little different than what I personally love
- 4:49Speaker 2: about math. But there is an expression on a child's
- 4:54Speaker 2: face when it all clicks, and you can see their
- 4:58Speaker 2: face actually light up, their eyes will light up, their
- 5:00Speaker 2: eyebrows will arch there, they'll have a deep smile. And
- 5:05Speaker 2: when I see that, I feel like just incredible joy
- 5:10Speaker 2: in my heart. So I love seeing when everything clicks
- 5:13Speaker 2: for kids. And unfortunately we don't always share that version
- 5:19Speaker 2: of math with kids. We share this like sort of
- 5:21Speaker 2: silly math with where you memorize your way through it
- 5:24Speaker 2: and forget it. But when we show kids that understanding.
- 5:29Speaker 2: To me, they are learning the secrets of the universe,
- 5:33Speaker 2: They're learning how the world actually works, and that joy
- 5:36Speaker 2: in their heart puts so much joy in my heart.
- 5:39Speaker 1: Did you start as a teacher?
- 5:41Speaker 2: No?
- 5:42Speaker 1: Really? No?
- 5:43Speaker 2: Yeah, so I am. I'm the arms and legs of ZERN.
- 5:47Speaker 2: My co founders are the fabulous, amazing math teachers who
- 5:51Speaker 2: did the hard work of showing what's possible by working
- 5:55Speaker 2: in schools where students typically don't succeed in math, low incomes,
- 6:00Speaker 2: schools that serve a lot of black and brown students,
- 6:03Speaker 2: and most of my co founders got to results where
- 6:07Speaker 2: they led the state. Their classrooms were just showing what
- 6:10Speaker 2: was possible. And when the idea of Zern came about,
- 6:13Speaker 2: which was their idea. The idea that they brought forward
- 6:16Speaker 2: is what if we put the best math teaching and
- 6:19Speaker 2: learning up online for free for everyone, could we change
- 6:23Speaker 2: the world. And my background I had worked at Bating
- 6:26Speaker 2: Company and had done a lot of tech and digital transformation,
- 6:29Speaker 2: and I thought I could be useful to you. That's
- 6:33Speaker 2: a great idea. I could help with that. And it's
- 6:35Speaker 2: actually in working with them that I've fallen in love
- 6:38Speaker 2: with teaching and teaching and learning, But my main contribution
- 6:43Speaker 2: is still actually the arms and legs of the digital
- 6:45Speaker 2: transformation of CERN.
- 6:47Speaker 1: Can you say just a bit more about what zeren
- 6:51Speaker 1: is and how kids are using it.
- 6:52Speaker 2: Yeah, So zern is a math learning platform the kids
- 6:57Speaker 2: use teachers administrators across the country for a bunch of
- 7:02Speaker 2: different purposes, but the primary purpose is to help kids
- 7:07Speaker 2: every day feel like they understand and get to practice
- 7:12Speaker 2: enough math. The way I would describe it is a
- 7:16Speaker 2: there's a very famous math researcher who describes our problems
- 7:20Speaker 2: in America of middle school math, which is that everyday
- 7:23Speaker 2: kids are ten to twenty minutes behind where they need
- 7:27Speaker 2: to be. And if you accumulate that ten to twenty
- 7:31Speaker 2: minutes behind halfway through let's say seventh grade, you have
- 7:35Speaker 2: no idea what is happening. Your confidence is shot. You
- 7:39Speaker 2: hate math. It doesn't make sense. And so Zern provides
- 7:43Speaker 2: that compliment, that support to teachers and to families of
- 7:47Speaker 2: that tend to twenty minutes every day where it's practice,
- 7:52Speaker 2: but it's also learning and understanding.
- 7:55Speaker 1: You know.
- 7:55Speaker 2: One of the issues with just going about doing mathematics
- 7:59Speaker 2: and practice is if you don't understand anything, what would
- 8:04Speaker 2: be the point of practicing. You know, you need to
- 8:07Speaker 2: understand and practice, and that's really important. And what we
- 8:11Speaker 2: offer insert.
- 8:14Speaker 1: This. So your new book is called Mathmind, The Simple
- 8:16Speaker 1: Path to Loving Math. And I would say the pitch
- 8:19Speaker 1: of the book is is some version of we're not
- 8:21Speaker 1: doing it right and there's a better way, and I
- 8:24Speaker 1: want to talk about what that better way is. And
- 8:26Speaker 1: I actually want to be super concrete. So maybe we
- 8:31Speaker 1: can start with a particular thing that kids learn, like multiplication.
- 8:36Speaker 1: How are we teaching multiplication wrong? And how should we
- 8:39Speaker 1: do it better?
- 8:40Speaker 2: Yep, Okay, let's do multiplication. The first thing I would
- 8:43Speaker 2: say is memorizing is really important. I'm not in the
- 8:47Speaker 2: camp of we shouldn't memorize facts. That's that's vital. But
- 8:53Speaker 2: imagine if you took our reading test and the reading
- 8:56Speaker 2: test was right before the test, you memorized two hundred
- 8:59Speaker 2: WORDSDS and then you took the reading test the next
- 9:03Speaker 2: day and you read the passage, but two weeks later
- 9:08Speaker 2: you couldn't read those words anymore. That's super weird, right,
- 9:12Speaker 2: You would be illiterate through the course of even if
- 9:15Speaker 2: you got an A on that reading test. It's a metaphor,
- 9:18Speaker 2: but it's intentionally, very intentionally provided, which is in math,
- 9:22Speaker 2: we prize memorization over understanding, and we should just do both.
- 9:28Speaker 2: You know, if you get into these silly math wars,
- 9:30Speaker 2: people are like, well should you memorize or should you understand?
- 9:33Speaker 2: And it's like, well, just how about both? How much
- 9:35Speaker 2: is both? So let's take that with multiplication. This is
- 9:39Speaker 2: one of my favorite problems. Tell me the proof to
- 9:42Speaker 2: why end time zero equals zero? You know, when I
- 9:46Speaker 2: ask most folks the answer to that question, they don't
- 9:48Speaker 2: know the answer. The okay, like, prove it, prove it
- 9:53Speaker 2: to me.
- 9:53Speaker 1: I feel like in my family when we go on
- 9:55Speaker 1: hikes sometimes if there's a bridge, my husband stands on
- 9:58Speaker 1: the other side of the bridge and you can only
- 10:00Speaker 1: cross if you've answered a math fact. And the kids'
- 10:02Speaker 1: math facts are always like student to what they're doing,
- 10:04Speaker 1: and mine are always just like problems that he thinks
- 10:07Speaker 1: that I should know because I have a PhD in economics,
- 10:09Speaker 1: but I never know, and they're always this is like that.
- 10:11Speaker 1: He's always like, what's the proof of the cancavity? And
- 10:14Speaker 1: I'm like, can you just please like nine times seven?
- 10:16Speaker 1: Like the last person had? Thank you? What's the proof
- 10:19Speaker 1: of end times. So when you talk about multiplication, it's
- 10:24Speaker 1: the n and the number of times, so it's it's
- 10:29Speaker 1: it's n but it's zero times, so then there's zero
- 10:32Speaker 1: of it. That's right, nice, I'm across the bridge. You
- 10:35Speaker 1: can cross.
- 10:36Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it was only because you're a PhD and
- 10:38Speaker 2: economic psychologie.
- 10:39Speaker 1: That was Actually that's like day one, that's the first
- 10:41Speaker 1: thing you do.
- 10:42Speaker 2: But you know, we have no expectations as a country
- 10:46Speaker 2: collectively that eight year olds can learn that proof, But
- 10:50Speaker 2: on zoo they do. And you know, not only can
- 10:52Speaker 2: they learn that proof, they love learning it. It makes
- 10:56Speaker 2: them really happy, they feel empowered. They feel so like,
- 11:01Speaker 2: how do we present the proof? All right, so you
- 11:04Speaker 2: have three plates of cookies. On each plate, there are
- 11:08Speaker 2: two cookies. How many cookies do we have all together?
- 11:12Speaker 2: Three plates times two cookies is six. And so we
- 11:16Speaker 2: present the meaning of multiplication as the first number is
- 11:20Speaker 2: the number of groups and the second number is the
- 11:23Speaker 2: number inside each group. So if you take that forward
- 11:26Speaker 2: and you say, well, we have three plates and each
- 11:29Speaker 2: plate has zero cookies, well, if you imagine that in
- 11:34Speaker 2: your mind, three times zero is zero. Now if you
- 11:36Speaker 2: have eight plates and they have zero cookies. Now, if
- 11:39Speaker 2: you have one hundred plates and they have zero cookies,
- 11:41Speaker 2: well then n time zero is always zero. And an
- 11:45Speaker 2: eight year old can grasp this and enjoys grasping this.
- 11:49Speaker 2: And again I'm not saying that we shouldn't memorize, but
- 11:53Speaker 2: if math is viewed by children and by adults as
- 11:58Speaker 2: memorizing facts, first of all, that's the empty calories of learning.
- 12:03Speaker 2: But second of all, like there is no way to
- 12:05Speaker 2: build on that, there's no way to build understanding. And
- 12:08Speaker 2: really the parallel is memorize four hundred words, memorize one
- 12:12Speaker 2: hundred more, and at the end you will be illiterate.
- 12:16Speaker 1: The memorization of words is an interesting parallel because there's
- 12:19Speaker 1: so much discussion about science of reading, which is all
- 12:22Speaker 1: about this idea of building blocks of phonics being the
- 12:26Speaker 1: building blocks to reading and memorization not working. And you know,
- 12:30Speaker 1: I see it a very clear parallel to Okay, you
- 12:34Speaker 1: understand that and reading, but why in math you still
- 12:36Speaker 1: think we should be just memorizing these facts without context.
- 12:40Speaker 1: So one of the things there are for a lot
- 12:43Speaker 1: of parents, I think what is daunting about this is
- 12:47Speaker 1: this idea of the new math. So give you an
- 12:50Speaker 1: example where I myself have struggled with what is this,
- 12:56Speaker 1: which is when you're adding together three digit numbers two
- 13:00Speaker 1: digit numbers, and I when I was in school, we
- 13:04Speaker 1: pretty quickly got to the stacking mechanism, the stacking and carrying.
- 13:08Speaker 1: I'm like, an excellent stacking and carrying looks so good
- 13:11Speaker 1: that I stack and carry in my head. So if
- 13:13Speaker 1: you told me add these three digit numbers together, I
- 13:15Speaker 1: would imagine them in my head stacked, and I would
- 13:18Speaker 1: do the stacking and the carrying, and then I would
- 13:21Speaker 1: give you. I would give you the number. The way
- 13:23Speaker 1: my kids seem to have learned this, They eventually did
- 13:25Speaker 1: get to some kind of stacking and carrying, but the
- 13:28Speaker 1: first thing and the way that they default to is
- 13:30Speaker 1: this like we're breaking it up into the pieces and
- 13:33Speaker 1: we're adding the hut. Like there's a I'm not even
- 13:36Speaker 1: sure I could really replicate it, but it definitely involves
- 13:38Speaker 1: like breaking things down and combining them. Can you explain
- 13:43Speaker 1: to me why that's a good idea instead of the stacking.
- 13:47Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think this is back to the unfortunate
- 13:53Speaker 2: sort of either or way that we approach math. You know,
- 13:56Speaker 2: the reading parallel would be can you read the word concept.
- 14:01Speaker 2: Can you read the word procedure? Do you understand what
- 14:04Speaker 2: it means? Right? Both? You need both. And so what
- 14:06Speaker 2: I would say is algorithms, which is the stacking. They
- 14:10Speaker 2: are beautiful, they always work. They're like magnificent, right, a
- 14:15Speaker 2: great human invention. So you are welcome to keep stacking
- 14:19Speaker 2: in your head.
- 14:20Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm forty four years old, so I think it's over.
- 14:23Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not the way we have. Yeah, it's not over, Emily.
- 14:26Speaker 2: Anything is possible, but it's beautiful that you can stack
- 14:29Speaker 2: in your head and you love it, and that's awesome.
- 14:31Speaker 2: And there are lots of children. You know, there are
- 14:33Speaker 2: eight billion people on earth, and so there are lots
- 14:35Speaker 2: of children who are going to prefer that way as well.
- 14:38Speaker 2: But everyone doesn't prefer that way. And so here's the
- 14:42Speaker 2: part about math that we have to tell kids, and
- 14:46Speaker 2: we have to tell adults, especially women, when we think
- 14:49Speaker 2: about how leaky the STEM pipeline is that math is
- 14:53Speaker 2: creative and there is only one right answer. So if
- 14:57Speaker 2: we're going to add let's say thirty seven and thirteen,
- 15:02Speaker 2: the answer can only be fifty.
- 15:04Speaker 1: That's it.
- 15:05Speaker 2: There's no other option. But Emily, you're welcome to stack
- 15:08Speaker 2: in your head, but I'm going to say thirty plus
- 15:11Speaker 2: ten plus seven plus three. That's just how I want
- 15:14Speaker 2: to do it. And I know seven and three are
- 15:16Speaker 2: automatically a ten, so I'm really just gonna add thirty
- 15:19Speaker 2: plus ten plus ten. And so what that tells me
- 15:23Speaker 2: is I get to do it my way, and you
- 15:25Speaker 2: can do it your way. And what it allows for
- 15:29Speaker 2: is creativity and problem solving and then the meta learning
- 15:32Speaker 2: like why that really matters in real life, particularly if
- 15:36Speaker 2: you think about your work and how creative your work
- 15:38Speaker 2: has been. We need STEM workers and we need workers
- 15:42Speaker 2: in general to think about problems creatively and think about
- 15:46Speaker 2: many ways to solve them. And so when we teach
- 15:49Speaker 2: mathematics in a way where children have many ways at
- 15:52Speaker 2: the problem, there many ways are accepted. The answer is
- 15:56Speaker 2: still fifty, there's no other option, but there's many ways
- 16:01Speaker 2: at it. Now. I'm not saying that new math is
- 16:04Speaker 2: always presented with that big picture lesson that it's about creativity,
- 16:09Speaker 2: trying a different way, feeling empowered in mathematics, but it
- 16:13Speaker 2: absolutely needs to be. And if you think about the
- 16:15Speaker 2: children who feel most successful in mathematics and then are
- 16:19Speaker 2: in a position to go on to do a STEM degree,
- 16:23Speaker 2: they have that lesson in their own head.
- 16:25Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I think this is this aspect of
- 16:29Speaker 1: the way math is taught. I think is part of
- 16:32Speaker 1: what makes it hard for people. For parents, is it
- 16:36Speaker 1: almost feels like I learned one algorithm and now you're
- 16:40Speaker 1: teaching my kids a different algorithm, and it's not presented
- 16:44Speaker 1: like there are a lot of ways and we're going
- 16:46Speaker 1: to do. I mean, I'm sure many in some cases
- 16:48Speaker 1: it is, but for many kids it's not presented like
- 16:52Speaker 1: this is a super interesting creative set of problems, like
- 16:54Speaker 1: how can we get to fifty? We know it's fifty,
- 16:56Speaker 1: What are the forty seven interesting ways to get to fifty?
- 16:59Speaker 1: It's just like here, my algorithm was stacking, and your
- 17:02Speaker 1: algorithm is this particular aspect of chunking, and you better
- 17:05Speaker 1: show me the right chunks because that's what you expect.
- 17:08Speaker 1: And so that almost feels to me like the point
- 17:12Speaker 1: of your book. You can correct me if this is
- 17:14Speaker 1: not right. Is this big picture creativity, the idea of
- 17:19Speaker 1: many ways into the problem.
- 17:21Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean the way I title that chapter rather
- 17:25Speaker 2: than saying, you know, there are three algorithms, you should
- 17:28Speaker 2: learn them all, which is silly and kind of missing
- 17:32Speaker 2: the point is Instead, what I want people to remember
- 17:37Speaker 2: and what I want kids to know, is that you
- 17:42Speaker 2: are empowered to make tough problems easier. So you have
- 17:47Speaker 2: the interest, skill, preference, working memory to stack the numbers.
- 17:52Speaker 2: Others do not, and that's okay, but then they can
- 17:57Speaker 2: make it easier for themselves and easier. You know, I
- 18:00Speaker 2: say in the book, easier is in the eye of
- 18:02Speaker 2: the beholder, And when children are taught that that part explicitly,
- 18:07Speaker 2: so they're not taught to like sort of pair it
- 18:09Speaker 2: back some new algorithm or some different way, but when
- 18:12Speaker 2: they're taught explicitly easier is in the eye of the beholder.
- 18:16Speaker 2: There's lots of cool ways we can solve this problem.
- 18:19Speaker 2: That's the big picture lesson that allows for both success
- 18:23Speaker 2: and enjoyment. In mathematics, you know, if math is that
- 18:28Speaker 2: I kind of have no clue what's going on, but
- 18:31Speaker 2: I'm exactly imitating what the teacher did on the board.
- 18:35Speaker 2: You know, that's on a class. It's like where your
- 18:37Speaker 2: curiosity is burning and being stoked. But instead if we
- 18:42Speaker 2: present it as look, there's a bunch ways to solve
- 18:44Speaker 2: this problem. What do you find interesting? Which way do
- 18:47Speaker 2: you like to do it, and also the chance to
- 18:50Speaker 2: share that with your peers. That's also very empowering, and
- 18:54Speaker 2: so I agree with you that we don't always present
- 18:56Speaker 2: it that way in math teaching and learning today.
- 19:00Speaker 1: If you had a magic wand and you could fix
- 19:03Speaker 1: some aspect of our current math education, what's the one
- 19:07Speaker 1: thing that you would do?
- 19:09Speaker 2: Can I have two things with my magic?
- 19:10Speaker 1: I guess so, yes, it's magic, So I guess we'll
- 19:13Speaker 1: be flexible.
- 19:15Speaker 2: Okay, Well, if I only have one thing, I'll start
- 19:18Speaker 2: with belief it is completely It would be scandalous, unacceptable
- 19:26Speaker 2: child abuse to think that children walk into an elementary school,
- 19:31Speaker 2: we sort out the reading kids and we're completely content
- 19:36Speaker 2: with the rest leaving elementary school illiterate. I mean, it
- 19:40Speaker 2: would be front page of the New York Times. You know,
- 19:42Speaker 2: if we found the memo, it would be you know,
- 19:44Speaker 2: there'd be a whistleblower. I mean, it would just be absurd.
- 19:48Speaker 1: You know.
- 19:48Speaker 2: The way I'd say it simply is that when children
- 19:50Speaker 2: can't read at a population level, we get very angry
- 19:55Speaker 2: at the adults. In contrast, the idea that kids could
- 20:00Speaker 2: go to kindergarten through eighth grade and come out the
- 20:05Speaker 2: vast majority of them failing any math test you give them,
- 20:08Speaker 2: you know, including the NAPE or you know, these well
- 20:11Speaker 2: regarded math tests. So thus they're enumerate is completely acceptable.
- 20:18Speaker 2: And instead of kind of blaming the adults, where we
- 20:20Speaker 2: sort of you know, we say, like, let's not be
- 20:23Speaker 2: mean to the kids because they're not math kids. It's okay,
- 20:26Speaker 2: Like they love ballet and soccer. You know, what does
- 20:31Speaker 2: that have to How is that related to what we're
- 20:33Speaker 2: talking about, you know? And so I think the first
- 20:36Speaker 2: is just belief, and we just don't have it collectively.
- 20:39Speaker 2: Parents don't believe yet enough in their kids. Teachers don't
- 20:43Speaker 2: yet believe enough in their students, like we you know,
- 20:46Speaker 2: governors don't believe enough in their in this cod like,
- 20:49Speaker 2: we just don't have enough belief. So the first is
- 20:51Speaker 2: just let's believe. If you give me a second one,
- 20:55Speaker 2: I would say that it's what I talked about earlier,
- 20:58Speaker 2: which is we have to pair understanding with memorizing. And
- 21:03Speaker 2: the best way to understand really anything, but especially math,
- 21:08Speaker 2: is simple pictures concrete contexts just make it make it
- 21:14Speaker 2: feel real, not abstract and theoretical. So what's a negative number, Well,
- 21:20Speaker 2: think about sea level is zero and then you dive
- 21:23Speaker 2: into the ocean. That's a negative number. And then you
- 21:26Speaker 2: climb a mountain, Well, that's a positive number. Okay, you
- 21:30Speaker 2: know I'm not I'm not talking about things that are
- 21:32Speaker 2: extremely elaborate, but bringing pictures real contexts. You know, as
- 21:39Speaker 2: you get to like to your level of mathematics, Emily,
- 21:42Speaker 2: you would start using graphs a lot to explain. So
- 21:46Speaker 2: we just we just need pictures to be a part
- 21:48Speaker 2: of mathematics. And right now, what happens is we have
- 21:52Speaker 2: abstract symbols that are shorthand for pictures, and that shorthand
- 21:58Speaker 2: for pictures we need, right, you can't like draw a
- 22:01Speaker 2: picture at the SAT right, So if you're taking the SAT,
- 22:04Speaker 2: you need to be doing more abstract mathematics. So I'm
- 22:09Speaker 2: not against in high stakes context abstract mathematics, but you
- 22:13Speaker 2: have to pair that with understanding, and the simplest path
- 22:16Speaker 2: to understanding are pictures.
- 22:19Speaker 1: So do you think we should be teaching kids algebra
- 22:22Speaker 1: with pictures when they're like seven?
- 22:25Speaker 2: I would love to teach so we can hide algebra
- 22:28Speaker 2: and present it to children. You know, Let's say algebra
- 22:31Speaker 2: is often taught in ninth grade or eighth grade, sometimes
- 22:36Speaker 2: seventh sometimes tenth and it can be in a very
- 22:39Speaker 2: abrupt change in the brain, right, kind of like this
- 22:42Speaker 2: whole idea that we're presenting of solving for X. So
- 22:47Speaker 2: we can smooth that out for kids and hide algebra
- 22:50Speaker 2: all through elementary school and middle school by presenting it
- 22:53Speaker 2: with pictures and make it engaging, make it fun. And
- 22:57Speaker 2: so yes, we should be doing that.
- 23:00Speaker 1: So when kids learn to read, there's this benefit for them.
- 23:05Speaker 1: And I remember teaching my daughter to read and when
- 23:08Speaker 1: she got frustrated, just being like, just wait because at
- 23:12Speaker 1: the end of this I promise like, it's going to
- 23:14Speaker 1: be so fun. And I was right about that. And
- 23:17Speaker 1: now reading is recreational. What is the equivalent for math?
- 23:22Speaker 1: How are we telling kids, like, at the end of this,
- 23:26Speaker 1: what are you getting? It's not the Twilight series, you know,
- 23:29Speaker 1: it's not the crowd of Thorn and Roses or whatever
- 23:31Speaker 1: is like the thing you like to read? What am
- 23:35Speaker 1: I getting?
- 23:36Speaker 2: Yeah? I think it depends what age kids are. I
- 23:40Speaker 2: have thirteen year old twins. And there's a great article
- 23:43Speaker 2: in Science about one of the ways to motivate adolescents
- 23:47Speaker 2: is to remind them that the adult world is trying
- 23:49Speaker 2: to rip them off and that you're on their side.
- 23:52Speaker 2: So this is a This is a schema that I
- 23:55Speaker 2: use at home to engage with my kids. But even
- 23:58Speaker 2: when they were an elementary school, I would present to
- 24:02Speaker 2: them the truth, which is that if you're numerate, you
- 24:06Speaker 2: can navigate the world. Right. I remember, we'd go to
- 24:08Speaker 2: the farmer's market. I give them each ten bucks and
- 24:10Speaker 2: I'd say, go buy some fruits and vegetables. But by
- 24:12Speaker 2: the way, you're a little kid, and people think you
- 24:16Speaker 2: can't calculate the change, So calculate the change before you
- 24:20Speaker 2: hand over the money to make sure you get the
- 24:22Speaker 2: right amount of money back. The version of that that
- 24:26Speaker 2: goes through the entirety of life of at the minimum,
- 24:29Speaker 2: numerocy is how you navigate the world around you, and
- 24:33Speaker 2: those who are numerate are going to take advantage of you.
- 24:37Speaker 2: So that's one of the one of the benefits that
- 24:39Speaker 2: I definitely bring home, which is like, don't be the fool.
- 24:44Speaker 2: I think the other benefits that are that are in
- 24:46Speaker 2: the realm of fun sit often in the space of science.
- 24:51Speaker 2: So if you think of also economics, you know just
- 24:54Speaker 2: all these fabulous applications of mathematics that are so interesting
- 24:59Speaker 2: to the world around you. And I think that with reading.
- 25:04Speaker 2: We think the Twilight Series is reading, but if reading
- 25:07Speaker 2: is learning phonics, learning what words mean, being able to
- 25:11Speaker 2: read with fluency, and then you get to read science fiction,
- 25:16Speaker 2: you know. To me, I think that the parallel would
- 25:19Speaker 2: be you can actually understand and Economics podcast and have
- 25:23Speaker 2: a lot of fun reading it. You can actually read
- 25:26Speaker 2: the New York Times coverage on inflation and actually understand it.
- 25:30Speaker 2: So it's basically the access point to understand the world
- 25:32Speaker 2: around you.
- 25:49Speaker 1: More parent data, including advice for parents for how to
- 25:53Speaker 1: get your kids pumped for math, the benefits of a
- 25:55Speaker 1: family game night, and my own regrettable decision to pull
- 25:59Speaker 1: myself out of the Mathew after the break. So you
- 26:23Speaker 1: have some advice in the book for parents about how
- 26:28Speaker 1: to engage their kids. What is that?
- 26:32Speaker 2: Yeah? So I think I think the first thing that
- 26:35Speaker 2: I would say to parents is believe in your own kid. Period.
- 26:41Speaker 2: Just believe in your own kid. Have the expectations that
- 26:44Speaker 2: your child can succeed in mathematics.
- 26:47Speaker 1: You know.
- 26:47Speaker 2: I had an interesting experience myself where one of my
- 26:50Speaker 2: kids was really interested in piano and musical instruments, and
- 26:55Speaker 2: at one point he was playing multiple musical instruments, and
- 26:58Speaker 2: I had this definition of him in my own head
- 27:01Speaker 2: where I was like, but he's not that musical, and
- 27:04Speaker 2: yet he was there like pushing forward and you know,
- 27:06Speaker 2: and I was like, you know, our family is not
- 27:08Speaker 2: that musical. This crazy, this craziness going on in my head,
- 27:13Speaker 2: and I just have this moment where I was like,
- 27:15Speaker 2: I am terrible. I'm thinking these thoughts. I'm if I'm
- 27:18Speaker 2: not saying directly you're not musical, I'm implying it. And
- 27:23Speaker 2: so that version whatever's going on in your head, well,
- 27:26Speaker 2: we're not. Our family's not math people. My kid's not
- 27:28Speaker 2: you know, a genius for math. Just stop, stop the
- 27:32Speaker 2: internal monologue and just believe in your kid. I think
- 27:35Speaker 2: the second thing is just don't panic, like math is
- 27:39Speaker 2: all around you. And the simplest thing I would say
- 27:41Speaker 2: is play board games or card games. There is not
- 27:46Speaker 2: a board game or a card game out there that
- 27:49Speaker 2: doesn't have a dimension of mathematics. And they're very fun
- 27:54Speaker 2: and they're already sitting there. You know, the kind of
- 27:56Speaker 2: public health messaging of read to your kid for twenty
- 27:59Speaker 2: minutes a night something they love, have board game night,
- 28:02Speaker 2: playboard games and card games with your family all the time.
- 28:07Speaker 2: And then the last thing I'd say is that utilize
- 28:11Speaker 2: resources when your kid falls behind. You know the biggest
- 28:14Speaker 2: difference between kids who feel so I don't know, Emily,
- 28:18Speaker 2: if you've had this experience. I did through the course
- 28:20Speaker 2: of high school. In college, I felt successful in mathematics,
- 28:23Speaker 2: but in middle school I fell really far behind, and
- 28:27Speaker 2: I just got super lucky. My teacher tried to help me,
- 28:31Speaker 2: and my dad jumped in as my tutor, and I
- 28:34Speaker 2: caught up. And one of the things we see in
- 28:38Speaker 2: the Zerin data is that kids can catch up when
- 28:41Speaker 2: they're behind. But I think one of the structures in
- 28:44Speaker 2: our society is that we believe that when kids fall behind,
- 28:47Speaker 2: they're revealing their math ability, so there's no point in
- 28:51Speaker 2: catching them up. Well, that is absurd and nonsense. We
- 28:56Speaker 2: know kids can catch up. We have a really cool
- 28:59Speaker 2: fixed effect model analysis of six hundred thousand students that
- 29:03Speaker 2: show that kids can catch up. So I'm telling you
- 29:06Speaker 2: what a population level, kids can catch up, and the
- 29:08Speaker 2: difference between the kids who catch up and the kids
- 29:10Speaker 2: who don't is an adult intervenes and gives them the
- 29:14Speaker 2: resources and support, and so as a parent, intervene and
- 29:19Speaker 2: help your kid access those resources and support, and if
- 29:21Speaker 2: you don't have them, ask your teacher for help. You're
- 29:25Speaker 2: welcome to go to zern dot org. It's free. There
- 29:28Speaker 2: are other wonderful free resources online, but don't give up,
- 29:32Speaker 2: ask for help.
- 29:34Speaker 1: It's interesting. I did not have this experience in middle school.
- 29:38Speaker 1: I had this experience in high school. So I was
- 29:40Speaker 1: very far ahead in math and at the end of
- 29:43Speaker 1: so I had finished BC calculus by the end of
- 29:46Speaker 1: my sophomore year in high school, and I thought that
- 29:48Speaker 1: I was really great at math. And then I ended
- 29:51Speaker 1: up in a class with two other students and my
- 29:56Speaker 1: high school had made this like special class we were
- 29:58Speaker 1: going to learn multivariable calculus. And one of those other students,
- 30:03Speaker 1: David Spire, is actually a tenured math professor at the
- 30:06Speaker 1: University of Michigan now, so he was like really really excellent.
- 30:12Speaker 1: I mean, it's very hard to be a tenured math professor.
- 30:14Speaker 1: He was really really excellent at math, Like and I
- 30:18Speaker 1: was very good at math, but not anywhere near as
- 30:20Speaker 1: good as David Spire, And I basically at that point decided,
- 30:25Speaker 1: you know what, like calculus was like kind of the
- 30:28Speaker 1: end for me. And I never really seriously thought about
- 30:32Speaker 1: being good at math. Again, I took statistics. I end
- 30:35Speaker 1: up mean it's not like it worked out fine. But
- 30:38Speaker 1: now if you said, like, are you especially good at math?
- 30:41Speaker 1: I would say you're not not particularly And it's not
- 30:44Speaker 1: exactly and I think it's David Spier's fault. But I
- 30:46Speaker 1: do feel at that point there would have been some
- 30:49Speaker 1: value to somebody being like, hey, like you actually are
- 30:53Speaker 1: quite good at math. Maybe you're not as good as
- 30:55Speaker 1: David Spire, but you're really it's like, you're really quite good,
- 30:59Speaker 1: which is just to say that. I think this value
- 31:02Speaker 1: of realizing that this could happen to your kid at
- 31:05Speaker 1: various points and the intervention could matter.
- 31:10Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think this comparison is really vital. Right,
- 31:13Speaker 2: So you're an amazing writer, you're a New York Times
- 31:18Speaker 2: bestselling author. Imagine if instead of David Spire, the person
- 31:23Speaker 2: you were in class with had won multiple Pilitzer Prizes
- 31:26Speaker 2: would go on to win multiple Pilitz Surprizes. You might think, well,
- 31:29Speaker 2: maybe I shouldn't write because that's what it takes to write,
- 31:33Speaker 2: and that's just silly. But math is full of that
- 31:37Speaker 2: because in the metamath narrative, and this is one of
- 31:40Speaker 2: the points that I really want people to understand. Even
- 31:44Speaker 2: amongst the highest performing math students, a student who took
- 31:48Speaker 2: BC calculus her sophomore year and went on to be
- 31:53Speaker 2: an economics professor, she still is looking to select herself
- 31:57Speaker 2: out right, because it's like this sorting that there's the
- 32:00Speaker 2: math genius. And so up until that point, you're in
- 32:03Speaker 2: the game. And then you meet David Spier and you're like,
- 32:05Speaker 2: I'm out, I'm out of the gate.
- 32:07Speaker 1: Done.
- 32:08Speaker 2: It's oh well, yeah, other disciplines don't have this narrative.
- 32:15Speaker 2: And this narrative holds back children, it holds back our
- 32:18Speaker 2: whole country, It holds back the world from creativity, innovation.
- 32:24Speaker 2: Like it's just not good. And so that's that's why
- 32:27Speaker 2: I would say, when you only gave me two options,
- 32:28Speaker 2: I picked the first, which was believe.
- 32:32Speaker 1: Yeah, so, how do you want people to use the book?
- 32:35Speaker 1: And who who should be using I mean, of course,
- 32:37Speaker 1: when one writes a book, the answer to who should
- 32:39Speaker 1: buy it is all, so it should be all people.
- 32:42Speaker 1: But specifically, how do you imagine all those people using
- 32:45Speaker 1: this book?
- 32:46Speaker 2: Yeah? So one thing that's fun, and I'll come back
- 32:49Speaker 2: to this is friends with advanced copies have been sharing
- 32:54Speaker 2: that they've been giving the book to their middle schoolers,
- 32:57Speaker 2: and I hadn't considered that, so so I want to
- 32:59Speaker 2: come back to that.
- 33:01Speaker 1: But what I was.
- 33:02Speaker 2: Hoping is that adults who you know, are in charge
- 33:06Speaker 2: of and love kids, would read the book and kind
- 33:09Speaker 2: of go through three steps. The first step is to
- 33:13Speaker 2: sort of really confront all these myths in math learning,
- 33:18Speaker 2: because if you don't confront the myths, then it's yeah,
- 33:22Speaker 2: math sucks, it's really painful. You're going to freaking do
- 33:26Speaker 2: it right, That's which that's the takeaway, and that's just terrible.
- 33:30Speaker 2: That's not the takeaway. You know, math is beautiful and
- 33:34Speaker 2: fun and full of dopamine hits of problem solving. So
- 33:38Speaker 2: so the first thing that I want you to do
- 33:40Speaker 2: in the first section of the book is like, let's
- 33:42Speaker 2: excavate a lot of those math myths and bin them.
- 33:46Speaker 2: Let's put those in the trash. And I think we
- 33:48Speaker 2: can continuously do that. And the second is the methods
- 33:52Speaker 2: that make math fun and to really like explore those methods.
- 33:56Speaker 2: And so those are things like making an easier problem,
- 34:00Speaker 2: you know, understanding what's going on, not memorizing right. So actually,
- 34:05Speaker 2: the enjoyment of mathematics sits in the way in which
- 34:10Speaker 2: we understand it. It's basically a language, and it's a
- 34:14Speaker 2: really fun and interesting and universal language. And then the
- 34:17Speaker 2: last section of the book is like.
- 34:19Speaker 1: What you should do?
- 34:20Speaker 2: What are you going to do about it? And really,
- 34:22Speaker 2: here I'm kind of thinking most about parents and educators
- 34:25Speaker 2: and thinking about what they can do to support kids.
- 34:28Speaker 2: And if there's one action I really want parents, educators,
- 34:33Speaker 2: you know, and everyone to really think about, is all
- 34:35Speaker 2: kids fall behind at some point in math. All of them.
- 34:39Speaker 2: The ones who continue in the world of mathematics and
- 34:43Speaker 2: enjoy it, got some additional boost, some support that could
- 34:47Speaker 2: have been an emotional support, that could have been someone
- 34:50Speaker 2: who just you know, helped them think about what slope
- 34:54Speaker 2: really means. Whatever it was, it wasn't massive, but they
- 34:59Speaker 2: got some addition support, they caught up, and then they
- 35:02Speaker 2: kept going. And so when kids struggle in math, it
- 35:04Speaker 2: doesn't mean that it's the moment now we sort them
- 35:06Speaker 2: out of the math pipeline, and it doesn't represent their
- 35:10Speaker 2: fundamental ability. It's just part of learning. In every other
- 35:14Speaker 2: discipline of learning, we allow kids to catch up when
- 35:17Speaker 2: they fall behind. In this discipline, we don't. And my
- 35:21Speaker 2: concluding chapter is talking about from sorting to teaching. What
- 35:26Speaker 2: if we took the billions of dollars and the millions
- 35:30Speaker 2: of hours of effort we're putting behind math teaching and learning,
- 35:33Speaker 2: and we didn't orient it to sorting out the math kids,
- 35:37Speaker 2: but we just oriented it to teaching every single kid math.
- 35:40Speaker 1: What might happen do they Part of the issue, and
- 35:44Speaker 1: maybe this is a reframe, is that when we teach math,
- 35:49Speaker 1: it is you learn this and you move to the
- 35:51Speaker 1: next thing. You learn this, you move to the next thing.
- 35:53Speaker 1: And that's to some extent true in English language arts,
- 35:56Speaker 1: but in a much less direct way. You learn to read,
- 35:59Speaker 1: and then you know how to read, then you're reading
- 36:02Speaker 1: more interesting things. But it's somehow the most fundamental piece
- 36:07Speaker 1: is there, and it's easier to say everyone's doing that,
- 36:10Speaker 1: and then maybe you're better or worse at engaging with
- 36:13Speaker 1: James Joyce. But that's a little bit subjective. Whereas in math,
- 36:18Speaker 1: you're moving up the ladder. You add, you subtract, you multiply,
- 36:20Speaker 1: you divide, you do fractions, so it feels like you
- 36:24Speaker 1: have to either keep going or you fall off the ladder.
- 36:27Speaker 1: There's no like tree branching, right like reading is a
- 36:30Speaker 1: tree where we're kind of we can all get up
- 36:33Speaker 1: to the limbs and then we walk our way out
- 36:36Speaker 1: and maybe where some of us are going a bit higher,
- 36:38Speaker 1: but we're all kind of there. Math is like it's
- 36:40Speaker 1: a ladder and when you're done, we just throw you
- 36:43Speaker 1: off into the pit of despair.
- 36:46Speaker 2: Maybe you know, I think there's there. There is a
- 36:49Speaker 2: nature of math that is cumulative. So if you're struggling
- 36:53Speaker 2: with addition, it would be pretty silly to present calculus,
- 36:57Speaker 2: so there is no question of that cumulative nature. I
- 37:00Speaker 2: don't know, like if you're struggling to sound out words,
- 37:04Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm bringing you Shakespeareans on it,
- 37:06Speaker 2: So I don't know that they're that different. But I'm
- 37:09Speaker 2: not a reading expert. So but here here's what i'd say,
- 37:12Speaker 2: which is the idea of maths a lot of discrete
- 37:15Speaker 2: skills is a very dangerous myth. So let me give
- 37:19Speaker 2: you an example. In seventh grade, we find particularly post pandemic.
- 37:23Speaker 2: A lot of seventh graders in the app are struggling
- 37:26Speaker 2: with decimal division.
- 37:29Speaker 1: Okay, okay, like dividing a like point two divided by two.
- 37:33Speaker 2: Yeah, perfect, And in seventh grade we are not teaching
- 37:36Speaker 2: decimal division that those ideas are taught in fourth fifth,
- 37:40Speaker 2: you know that's sort of when you're supposed to master
- 37:42Speaker 2: all that. But like, for example, I talked about negative
- 37:44Speaker 2: numbers earlier. Negative numbers is one of the things that
- 37:47Speaker 2: we really want to master in seventh grade, and so
- 37:49Speaker 2: when kids are sitting and learning negative numbers, but they're
- 37:52Speaker 2: struggling with decimal division, that interferes with the new learning. So, like,
- 37:57Speaker 2: I'll give you a simple problem that this is actually
- 38:00Speaker 2: the zert app One point four divided by two can
- 38:04Speaker 2: present struggle for students. So now what do we not
- 38:08Speaker 2: present negative numbers because you have to memory, you have
- 38:11Speaker 2: to learn all of this decimal division. Well, here's what's shocking.
- 38:15Speaker 2: Shocking finding of how fast kids can often catch up
- 38:20Speaker 2: fourteen divided by two. What's the answer to that question?
- 38:24Speaker 1: Are you asking me seven? It's seven?
- 38:28Speaker 2: And then we put one point four divided by two
- 38:30Speaker 2: back in front of them again on screen, the vast
- 38:33Speaker 2: majority of children to answer zero point seven. Boom, you're
- 38:37Speaker 2: back into negative numbers. So it is the case that
- 38:40Speaker 2: kids do have gaps, they fall behind, they have misunderstandings.
- 38:47Speaker 2: That's completely true, but it's not the case that that
- 38:52Speaker 2: becomes a roadblock to the learning in front of you.
- 38:56Speaker 2: It just isn't, and we show that over and over.
- 38:59Speaker 2: They're billion into math problems completed on the app, and
- 39:01Speaker 2: we just keep showing that over and over. Now, that
- 39:04Speaker 2: doesn't mean that when a child is struggling with decimals,
- 39:07Speaker 2: we're just like, move on, it's fine. But it means
- 39:10Speaker 2: the solution to helping that child struggling is often a
- 39:13Speaker 2: thirty second solve, a five minutes solve. Right back to
- 39:18Speaker 2: the mathematician I was citing, where kids are ten to
- 39:20Speaker 2: twenty minutes behind. It's pretty tight, these solutions. And that's
- 39:25Speaker 2: because while it's additions to traction fractions, you know, while
- 39:30Speaker 2: it moves like that, it's just all base ten. It's
- 39:33Speaker 2: actually just one thing happening.
- 39:35Speaker 1: Yes, I want to end by asking you that's something
- 39:39Speaker 1: that you say in the introduction, so you talk a
- 39:43Speaker 1: little the very first part of the book about transferring
- 39:45Speaker 1: schools in sixth grade and being put in the honors
- 39:47Speaker 1: math class and feeling quite lost. And I'm just going
- 39:51Speaker 1: to read it. After our first test, mister Snyder said,
- 39:54Speaker 1: you did well. If you try your very best, you
- 39:57Speaker 1: could be just as good as the boys, and you
- 39:59Speaker 1: write about this as like the moment of inspiration of
- 40:03Speaker 1: thinking like I can. I mean, you also note that
- 40:07Speaker 1: that isn't perhaps how you would want someone to talk
- 40:09Speaker 1: to your own child in today's world. But there's this
- 40:14Speaker 1: piece of it that I found very striking because it,
- 40:16Speaker 1: in its own weird way expresses a kind of you
- 40:22Speaker 1: can get there, but you're not there yet, which feels
- 40:25Speaker 1: so important and I think actually quite hard to communicate
- 40:30Speaker 1: to our kids that you know you can get there.
- 40:33Speaker 1: It's going to take work, you know, but I believe
- 40:36Speaker 1: that you can do the work different than I believe
- 40:38Speaker 1: you've already done the work. And that's just I think
- 40:42Speaker 1: for parents, for teachers, that message is hard because you're
- 40:45Speaker 1: trying to tell someone you believe in them while also
- 40:48Speaker 1: telling them they haven't quite they got to put more
- 40:51Speaker 1: in to get there.
- 40:53Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think our sort of present culture somehow
- 40:58Speaker 2: is making this harder. This is a silly story, but
- 41:03Speaker 2: blew my mind. So we last week with my thirteen
- 41:06Speaker 2: year old twin boys, we went to our first rock concert.
- 41:09Speaker 2: A lot of their friends had gone to see Taylor
- 41:10Speaker 2: Swift and they're not Swifties, so we saw Maroon five
- 41:14Speaker 2: and Adam Levine.
- 41:16Speaker 1: Who's the least add to the two thousands?
- 41:19Speaker 2: Okay, totally totally cool, exactly like I wanted to enjoy
- 41:23Speaker 2: the music as well. And so Adam Levine at the end,
- 41:26Speaker 2: who's you know, a bit older than you, Emily. He
- 41:30Speaker 2: ends the concert and he's like, for all the young
- 41:32Speaker 2: people out there, I just want to tell you that
- 41:35Speaker 2: one path to success in life is to work as
- 41:39Speaker 2: hard as you possibly can. And then he added some
- 41:41Speaker 2: expletives to that, and I just was like, I hope
- 41:45Speaker 2: my kids are listening, but you know, so scary to
- 41:49Speaker 2: think that if we can't present to children that the
- 41:54Speaker 2: input of greatness is hard work, then the only other
- 41:58Speaker 2: possible input of greatness is genetic ability.
- 42:02Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 42:02Speaker 2: So I agree that I wouldn't want my kids math
- 42:05Speaker 2: teacher to, you know, say some gender insensitive things to them.
- 42:10Speaker 2: But being told in that class where I was, in
- 42:13Speaker 2: my view, in last place, that I could be in
- 42:17Speaker 2: first place if I worked hard, you know, I just
- 42:20Speaker 2: thought I would just be in second to last place.
- 42:22Speaker 2: You know, I wasn't. I just didn't have those kinds
- 42:25Speaker 2: of expectations for myself. But that the only difference between
- 42:28Speaker 2: where I was and where I could be it was
- 42:30Speaker 2: hard work. It really blew my mind, and I do
- 42:34Speaker 2: hope that that adults are sharing that lesson with kids.
- 42:38Speaker 1: Yeah, when I was in high school, my physics teacher
- 42:41Speaker 1: told me that girls didn't usually do well in the
- 42:45Speaker 1: honors business class. It was not like a common about me.
- 42:47Speaker 1: It was like it was like one of his opening
- 42:48Speaker 1: seats to the class. It was like, girls don't usually
- 42:51Speaker 1: do well in this class. And I remember going to
- 42:53Speaker 1: the female chemistry teacher and complaining about this and saying
- 42:56Speaker 1: he said this, and she was just like, well, I
- 42:58Speaker 1: guess they'll have to do the best. Then, like, why
- 43:00Speaker 1: don't you work hard and do the best. It was
- 43:02Speaker 1: like totally just like I'm sure that you can achieve that,
- 43:05Speaker 1: and like, but it was so different from how I
- 43:07Speaker 1: think that would be presented now. But and for probably
- 43:11Speaker 1: good reason. But this idea of if you put in
- 43:16Speaker 1: the time and you work hard, that is a huge
- 43:19Speaker 1: part of what you can achieve in some ways feels
- 43:22Speaker 1: like the belief part of this conversation just stated in
- 43:25Speaker 1: a slightly different way that like, I believe in you.
- 43:27Speaker 1: It's not that I believe you can do it. Just
- 43:30Speaker 1: sitting on your button ever trying, but I believe that
- 43:32Speaker 1: you can put in the time and that you can
- 43:34Speaker 1: get there.
- 43:35Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean one of the chapters in the book
- 43:38Speaker 2: is practice with Purpose, and it's one of the key messages,
- 43:42Speaker 2: which is like, Okay, yes we can present mathematics differently
- 43:46Speaker 2: so that it's interesting, creative, makes sense, it's our learning
- 43:51Speaker 2: is durable, Like we can do all that. But then
- 43:53Speaker 2: at the end, you got to practice.
- 43:56Speaker 1: You gotta do it.
- 43:56Speaker 2: You just got to do it. You have to build
- 43:58Speaker 2: those neural pathways. You have to build a math mind.
- 44:02Speaker 2: And there's nothing, there's no shortcuts. You've got to practice.
- 44:11Speaker 1: Shlinnie, thank you so much for being here. Congratulations on
- 44:14Speaker 1: the book. The book is called math Mind, The Simple
- 44:17Speaker 1: Path to Loving Math, and everyone should go by it immediately.
- 44:21Speaker 2: Thank you, Emily, it's been a pleasure.
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