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- 0:08Speaker 1: Fantastic you made it and welcome to a refurbished studio too,
- 0:15Speaker 1: so we've given you a comfy seat this time very much.
- 0:19Speaker 1: It's a pleasure audience are with us. So I've got
- 0:25Speaker 1: Kim Isherwood with me in the studio. Kim's come down
- 0:28Speaker 1: with two ladies from Public Child Protection Whales and you've
- 0:33Speaker 1: driven what about one hundred and sixty miles from South
- 0:37Speaker 1: Wales down to Plymouth especially to come into the studio
- 0:42Speaker 1: to have a talk about your work with child Public
- 0:45Speaker 1: Child Protection Whales and an update including I think a
- 0:51Speaker 1: very exciting announcement. But we've just been upstairs with the
- 0:57Speaker 1: rest of the UK column team with a cup tea.
- 1:00Speaker 1: You've been unwinding from the trip and we've had a
- 1:04Speaker 1: fascinating little discussion. So if it's okay with you, Kim,
- 1:08Speaker 1: I'm going to pick up on some of those points
- 1:10Speaker 1: that were discussed upstairs. Well let's begin at the beginning.
- 1:17Speaker 1: Good place to start, because what a couple of months
- 1:21Speaker 1: ago you sent me an email saying that you had
- 1:25Speaker 1: an event organized. There was an event and also you
- 1:29Speaker 1: were going to have a team going up to London
- 1:32Speaker 1: in order to make a statement in London itself. So
- 1:38Speaker 1: tell us about those two events, what's coming up and
- 1:41Speaker 1: when is it.
- 1:42Speaker 2: So the last time I was here, we discussed we
- 1:46Speaker 2: would go into Washington, DC to launch well to join
- 1:49Speaker 2: an international team, an international task force for child protection,
- 1:54Speaker 2: all fighting the same thing as what we are. Team
- 1:57Speaker 2: from Canada, New Zealand, Australia, Southern Ireland, England and Wales
- 2:03Speaker 2: were there. We launched a piece of legislation, a bill
- 2:08Speaker 2: out there. We handed it into Congressman in Washington DC
- 2:11Speaker 2: to fight against the Kinsey the work of doctor Alfred Kinsey.
- 2:15Speaker 2: So what this bill actually does is it investigates everything
- 2:19Speaker 2: coming into the classrooms and through the universities and anything
- 2:23Speaker 2: that's related to the work of Alfred Kinsey.
- 2:25Speaker 3: It removes it.
- 2:27Speaker 2: So what we've done since then, we have decided to
- 2:32Speaker 2: fly the teams over to the UK.
- 2:34Speaker 3: So this is the UK part of the trip.
- 2:36Speaker 2: We are going to do exactly the same here as
- 2:38Speaker 2: what they've done out in America. Our bill is slightly
- 2:41Speaker 2: diffront because it needs to be tailored to the UK.
- 2:45Speaker 2: We've changed it slightly as well, So our bill is
- 2:47Speaker 2: not just Alfred Kinsey. Our bill is going to protect
- 2:51Speaker 2: children under the gender ideology, queer theory and.
- 2:54Speaker 3: The sexual from birth theory.
- 2:57Speaker 2: Our bill is called the Child Protection and Search Ethics Bill,
- 3:01Speaker 2: and that is part of the reason why we're going
- 3:04Speaker 2: all around the world, so we go in country to county.
- 3:06Speaker 2: This is an international project, so we have our conference
- 3:10Speaker 2: on the eighteenth of April in South Wales near Newport,
- 3:14Speaker 2: literally just a couple of miles from Newport railway station.
- 3:17Speaker 2: The teams are flying across the world, which so far
- 3:20Speaker 2: we have Texas confirmed, Indiana, can confirmed, au straight As
- 3:26Speaker 2: Australia sorry they couldn't make it New Zealand, and we've
- 3:29Speaker 2: got a team from Southern Ireland all fly into South Wales.
- 3:34Speaker 2: We are having our conference on the eighteenth of April,
- 3:36Speaker 2: so we've got a roundtable event for that. We've got
- 3:39Speaker 2: a whole day of filming and up in the Brackens
- 3:42Speaker 2: the Welsh Mountains, the international team come together filming, podcasting
- 3:48Speaker 2: and then on a Monday we leave very early Monday
- 3:51Speaker 2: the twentieth we travel to London. We have a meeting
- 3:55Speaker 2: in Portcallis House with an MP where we deliver our
- 3:59Speaker 2: version and of the bill, the Child Protection Research Ethics Bill.
- 4:03Speaker 2: From our meeting we will come out and we'll have
- 4:05Speaker 2: a demonstration on Parliament Square. This will be the second
- 4:09Speaker 2: opportunity then for the public to meet the international team,
- 4:12Speaker 2: come and discuss things, find out what's going on and
- 4:17Speaker 2: work together really to fight back against this agenda. We
- 4:22Speaker 2: have a fill things planned you know, we have a
- 4:24Speaker 2: fill things lined up. So this is one event which
- 4:27Speaker 2: will lead on to another event. As you know, some
- 4:31Speaker 2: of us are fully accredited r S teacher trainers. We've
- 4:35Speaker 2: had ladies from New Zealand do the same accreditation as US,
- 4:39Speaker 2: So this now gives us the power to produce safe
- 4:43Speaker 2: resources for our children and apply them universally across the
- 4:48Speaker 2: world on the international stage. So even though this conference
- 4:51Speaker 2: is massive by itself, launching the bill is massive, is
- 4:55Speaker 2: still only a step in stone onto what we're going
- 4:58Speaker 2: to do. So we've gone from local nationale we really
- 5:01Speaker 2: are feeling now on the international stage. That's pretty much
- 5:05Speaker 2: what we've got coming next.
- 5:07Speaker 1: Kim, this is fantastic and all of the public Child
- 5:11Speaker 1: Protection team has done such huge amount of work to
- 5:16Speaker 1: bring the grooming of children through sexual education in schools,
- 5:21Speaker 1: to bring that in front of the public, and you
- 5:26Speaker 1: were able to get that onto an international footing with
- 5:30Speaker 1: that that conference in the States, and now you're saying
- 5:35Speaker 1: that that was successful enough to bring people to UK
- 5:39Speaker 1: in order to talk about it. So that is really brilliant.
- 5:43Speaker 1: Just tell me a little bit more about the bill.
- 5:46Speaker 1: Who has actually put the bill together? Have you all
- 5:49Speaker 1: done that yourselves or have you had somebody who's come
- 5:53Speaker 1: in sort of from the political sphere to help sponsor it.
- 5:58Speaker 1: How have you put that together?
- 6:00Speaker 3: So this is the original bill from America. HR.
- 6:04Speaker 2: Two seven nine was originally developed by doctor Judith Weissman,
- 6:09Speaker 2: and this is from the nineteen nineties. It was kicked
- 6:12Speaker 2: into the long grass. So it's a revival of that
- 6:14Speaker 2: bill and we all we've done is it's pretty much
- 6:19Speaker 2: a copy and paste job, but we've tailored it to
- 6:21Speaker 2: the UK. So we've taken it ourselves. This I don't
- 6:26Speaker 2: think there has been a time in a history that
- 6:29Speaker 2: I know whether public has produced their own child protection bill.
- 6:33Speaker 2: We haven't written in ourselves from scratch. We have literally
- 6:37Speaker 2: taken a replica of what they are doing in America,
- 6:40Speaker 2: tailored it to here in the UK. The same is
- 6:43Speaker 2: going to happen for every country around the world. You
- 6:46Speaker 2: know what we've produced right now, we're not saying this
- 6:49Speaker 2: is exactly what we want. What we would like to
- 6:52Speaker 2: do is a proper public consultation. We at this moment
- 6:56Speaker 2: in time we collecting signatures for people to follow this bill,
- 7:01Speaker 2: the development of the bill, and we want to prop
- 7:03Speaker 2: up public consultation. We're not leaving in the hands of
- 7:06Speaker 2: politicians anymore and they're fake consultations. We want a thorough
- 7:12Speaker 2: public consultation. We want to hear from the people. If
- 7:16Speaker 2: there's something about this bill people do not like, we
- 7:18Speaker 2: come together, we discuss it. We really want to make
- 7:21Speaker 2: this happen. We want to make it work. So we
- 7:24Speaker 2: essentially want to do the job of what the government
- 7:27Speaker 2: is supposed to be doing, you know.
- 7:29Speaker 3: So we want to tick all the.
- 7:30Speaker 2: Boxes outside here and hopefully get this UK wide campaign
- 7:35Speaker 2: everyone behind this bill, try and push it through parliament.
- 7:39Speaker 1: Okay, so how do you actually how do you actually
- 7:45Speaker 1: get the bill through parliament? You've got a document, you've
- 7:48Speaker 1: got the bill. What has to happen next in order?
- 7:52Speaker 2: So we have a meeting on the twentieth. We will
- 7:55Speaker 2: be going up a lot earlier than the coaches leaving
- 7:59Speaker 2: South Wales. We actually have a meeting with an MP
- 8:02Speaker 2: who is interested in looking at it and that's another
- 8:06Speaker 2: reason why we've had to edit it again. We can't
- 8:10Speaker 2: put our eggs into one basket. We also know this
- 8:13Speaker 2: is a controversial topic. We know from experience when a
- 8:16Speaker 2: politician does support any of our concerns, they tend not
- 8:21Speaker 2: to have their seat the following term. So we've had
- 8:24Speaker 2: the kind of tore it down so it's less controversial,
- 8:28Speaker 2: but it's also given a bit of a wider scope
- 8:30Speaker 2: as well, so we, like I said, we know put
- 8:32Speaker 2: all our eggs in one basket. For us, the most
- 8:34Speaker 2: important thing is the people, the people getting behind it.
- 8:38Speaker 2: You know, I think it's important that people understand their power.
- 8:42Speaker 2: We're all too busy waiting for politicians to do stuff,
- 8:45Speaker 2: waiting for the charismatic speeches. But waiting doesn't safeguard our children.
- 8:50Speaker 2: So we are taking it to this MP and he
- 8:53Speaker 2: hopefully will be forming a cross party group on that front.
- 8:58Speaker 2: Like I said, you know, we can't products in one basket.
- 9:01Speaker 2: We can't have one hundred percent faith in individuals.
- 9:05Speaker 3: For whatever reason.
- 9:07Speaker 2: You know, the people don't get found on this topic
- 9:09Speaker 2: by especially in public office. You know, this is why
- 9:12Speaker 2: we need a public behind us. We need the hype
- 9:14Speaker 2: behind us, and we want everyone to write to their
- 9:17Speaker 2: own MPs to support this as well. It's not a
- 9:21Speaker 2: controversial bill. It is child protection and research ethics. All
- 9:25Speaker 2: it does is insure everything which comes into our classrooms
- 9:29Speaker 2: is based off ethical work, ethical data sets, ethical studies.
- 9:35Speaker 2: As we know, sexual from birth is unethical. It's based
- 9:39Speaker 2: on the sexual assaultant rape of children as young as
- 9:41Speaker 2: two months old. The gender ideology completely unethical, based off
- 9:46Speaker 2: the work of David Drayma and the mutilation of him.
- 9:49Speaker 2: And then we've got a queer theory that's just a
- 9:51Speaker 2: load of nonsense anyway. You know, there's no scientific evidence,
- 9:56Speaker 2: there's no facts to back any of this stuff up.
- 9:58Speaker 3: And that's what we are going in Far Bryan.
- 10:01Speaker 2: We want to ensure we know see if gardens should
- 10:05Speaker 2: be black and white, doesn't matter what can duel event.
- 10:08Speaker 2: All children are the same, so if something doesn't work
- 10:11Speaker 2: in one county, then it's not going to work in
- 10:13Speaker 2: another country. Things need to be the same across the board,
- 10:16Speaker 2: and that's what we are going far. We want a
- 10:19Speaker 2: black and white system to see if garden anything is
- 10:22Speaker 2: a red flag or anything as a gray area simply
- 10:25Speaker 2: has to go.
- 10:27Speaker 1: It's an incredible situation we've got ourselves into that. Essentially,
- 10:32Speaker 1: policy created, policy at government level or outside government is
- 10:39Speaker 1: creating this agenda where very young children in schools are
- 10:42Speaker 1: being taught what is clearly very perverted information about sex
- 10:52Speaker 1: and relationships. And you've taken up the cudgel with that,
- 10:56Speaker 1: You've taken up the bat and the batter and in
- 10:59Speaker 1: order to do something about it. But what you're actually
- 11:02Speaker 1: challenging it isn't things that the government doesn't know about.
- 11:08Speaker 1: You were actually challenging the government's own educational policy which
- 11:13Speaker 1: has permitted this stuff to come into schools. So I
- 11:17Speaker 1: can imagine, you know, the average person thinking well, how
- 11:21Speaker 1: is this possible? How is it that stuff which is
- 11:24Speaker 1: dangerous for children has actually come into being through the
- 11:29Speaker 1: education system itself. This is a pretty incredible situation, isn't it.
- 11:34Speaker 2: It all boils down to the academics. You know, everything
- 11:37Speaker 2: was back to the academics. The university is not just
- 11:40Speaker 2: in the UK, worldwide, and that's what I remember being
- 11:44Speaker 2: in a meeting with some ladies once and I asked
- 11:47Speaker 2: them when are we going to go after the academics
- 11:50Speaker 2: and they looked at me like I had six heads.
- 11:53Speaker 2: And then I think it was A couple of months later,
- 11:55Speaker 2: we were up in North Wales and an eighty two
- 11:57Speaker 2: year old lady come on to me and she said,
- 11:59Speaker 2: you've got to start legislating against them. They are legislating
- 12:03Speaker 2: against you. You've got to legislate against them. And then
- 12:06Speaker 2: when we met the ladies then on the international stage,
- 12:09Speaker 2: this all just seems to make sense to me. Now,
- 12:11Speaker 2: you know, we have to the tools that they use
- 12:15Speaker 2: and against us to remove our our opportunities to protect
- 12:19Speaker 2: our children. We've got no control over our children anymore, Brian.
- 12:23Speaker 2: As you know, the government has proven in the High
- 12:26Speaker 2: Court the parents' rights over education do not exist, so
- 12:30Speaker 2: we do not have the opportunity to probably safeguard our children.
- 12:34Speaker 3: And because the teachers, because this stuff is.
- 12:36Speaker 2: Coming down from university level, everyone's just looking up it. Well,
- 12:40Speaker 2: it must be right, this must be right, and people
- 12:43Speaker 2: are not questioning it. And it comes from the academics,
- 12:46Speaker 2: and people are blinded by academia. They are blinded by academia.
- 12:51Speaker 2: I think if most of the nation understood you only
- 12:53Speaker 2: needed forty percent to get a degree, I don't think
- 12:56Speaker 2: they would be looking at these people and such in
- 13:00Speaker 2: the way they do, you know.
- 13:03Speaker 1: And then we've got hand in glove with that. We've
- 13:06Speaker 1: got agencies, sometimes charities, sometimes non government organizations that are
- 13:14Speaker 1: sponsoring universities in particular ways in order that their particular
- 13:20Speaker 1: agenda can come into the university itself. So there's lots
- 13:24Speaker 1: of angles for the If you have a professor that's
- 13:29Speaker 1: pushing this policy through a university, you don't even know
- 13:33Speaker 1: that they're just doing it off their own back, or
- 13:36Speaker 1: whether they are being funded in some way or sponsored
- 13:40Speaker 1: in some way by some other organization that wants this
- 13:44Speaker 1: agenda to come through. It's a very opaque gray area,
- 13:49Speaker 1: isn't it when you start to talk about where it
- 13:51Speaker 1: comes from.
- 13:52Speaker 2: Yeah, so you've got the academics producing their papers, and
- 13:55Speaker 2: then you've got a lot of activists and forming their
- 13:58Speaker 2: RSE groups completely and regulated. I think their only qualification
- 14:03Speaker 2: is their sexuality. Again, you know, they don't even need
- 14:07Speaker 2: to be DBS checked to be producing this stuff because
- 14:10Speaker 2: they're not actually in a room with vulnerable people or children.
- 14:13Speaker 2: So there's there's a huge gaping hole here, and this
- 14:17Speaker 2: is how this stuff is getting in. We know sixty
- 14:19Speaker 2: eight percent of teachers do not like teaching topics of
- 14:22Speaker 2: this type, so they get outsourceent to these organizations and
- 14:26Speaker 2: you know we are sat, youre angry and annoyed that
- 14:30Speaker 2: this is allowed to happen. Well, actually, if there's this
- 14:34Speaker 2: massive gap that these bad people can come in, why
- 14:38Speaker 2: can't us good people use our massive gap as well.
- 14:41Speaker 2: So what we've done, like, as you know, we did
- 14:43Speaker 2: want to prevent this from happening, but now we're at
- 14:46Speaker 2: the stage of damage limitation. We know this has been
- 14:49Speaker 2: legislated for in different parts of the UK. We know
- 14:52Speaker 2: the rest of the UK is going to have the legislation,
- 14:55Speaker 2: so as well as fighting it, we are now developing
- 14:58Speaker 2: things to counteracting. So we've gone out of our way
- 15:02Speaker 2: to become accredited our se teachers and license holders. So
- 15:07Speaker 2: that's something that a lot of the other sex education
- 15:10Speaker 2: organizations do not have. So we have equipped ourselves and
- 15:14Speaker 2: armed ourselves with more qualifications that we can now become competition.
- 15:20Speaker 2: And by proving that our resources are safer resources, not
- 15:24Speaker 2: only are we battling them in the battlefield, we are
- 15:27Speaker 2: slipping these safer resources into the hands of teachers who
- 15:31Speaker 2: a lot of really want this stuff. Brian, you know,
- 15:34Speaker 2: once it's explained to them how damaging these other packages
- 15:38Speaker 2: are and showing them our criminological approach to things. They
- 15:43Speaker 2: are biting our hands off. You know, that's the angle
- 15:46Speaker 2: we are taking now. Is completely unregulated. We are not
- 15:50Speaker 2: going in unregulated. We're ensuring that we've got licenses, registrations, insurances,
- 15:57Speaker 2: so we are making shoe work. Even though it's a
- 15:59Speaker 2: red we are still putting ourselves up there at the
- 16:03Speaker 2: highest point possible.
- 16:04Speaker 1: You know, right, just come in on that point when
- 16:08Speaker 1: you say it's unregulated, what is unregulated?
- 16:13Speaker 3: Organizations?
- 16:15Speaker 1: The r organizations that are bringing the policy into the schools.
- 16:20Speaker 2: Yeah, so the schools are purchasing licenses and packages from
- 16:25Speaker 2: the organizations, so from the outsourced organizations, and that's how
- 16:29Speaker 2: the stuff is coming in through the schools. Nobody's regulating that.
- 16:33Speaker 1: Okay, this is this is very interesting. I did not
- 16:35Speaker 1: know this. So the policy itself, what's the best way
- 16:40Speaker 1: to describe it, has been outsourced from the Department of Education.
- 16:45Speaker 2: So the Department of Education have said the schools have
- 16:48Speaker 2: to teach this stuff. Teachers don't like teaching it. They've
- 16:52Speaker 2: got a very limited budget as well. The easiest thing
- 16:55Speaker 2: for them to do is buy a license from these
- 16:57Speaker 2: organizations and use their resources. They don't ask any questions.
- 17:01Speaker 2: You know, these resources are coming in. The teachers are
- 17:04Speaker 2: just delivering it. If they are delivering themselves, they're taken
- 17:08Speaker 2: from the resources, or they will get somebody else to
- 17:11Speaker 2: come in and use those resources.
- 17:13Speaker 1: And you are saying that the regulate that the organizations
- 17:17Speaker 1: that are doing this, providing these services for schools are
- 17:22Speaker 1: themselves not under any formal regulation.
- 17:26Speaker 3: None whatsoever, None whatsoever.
- 17:30Speaker 1: As a pause here, because I'm just thinking, Wow, this
- 17:34Speaker 1: is something I did not know, and this is truly incredible,
- 17:37Speaker 1: because I'd at least imagine that this unpleasant policy, what
- 17:44Speaker 1: was being taught had at least come into schools via
- 17:48Speaker 1: the Department of Education. So if you wanted to go
- 17:50Speaker 1: and look at somebody ultimately responsible, it would be the
- 17:55Speaker 1: Department of Education. That may still be true, But now
- 17:59Speaker 1: we've got another layer. So we've got these unregulated organizations
- 18:04Speaker 1: that provide the teaching material to the schools. And you
- 18:09Speaker 1: mentioned a little bit earlier before we sat down here
- 18:15Speaker 1: a particular organization. You don't have to name it if
- 18:18Speaker 1: you don't want to, but where you said that if children,
- 18:22Speaker 1: after their lesson were to go and do a little
- 18:24Speaker 1: bit of searching for the organization. They were going to
- 18:28Speaker 1: discover something you were able to tell us about that.
- 18:31Speaker 3: Kathleen was speaking about that.
- 18:32Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was the Claire Page case, and I
- 18:34Speaker 2: think it was the School of Sexuality. The guy I
- 18:38Speaker 2: think you might have been the CEO of that, he
- 18:40Speaker 2: actually runs a business full of sex ties. So when
- 18:44Speaker 2: you've got this organization headed by this, I'll say, gentlemen
- 18:48Speaker 2: for the take of it, delivering these lessons to children,
- 18:53Speaker 2: they then go and search who this person is and
- 18:55Speaker 2: they find his business sex ties, you know, adult sex ties.
- 19:00Speaker 2: And we're seeing the same as well with the drug story.
- 19:03Speaker 2: Why you know, these are adult workers who are now
- 19:06Speaker 2: in charge of delivering things for our children, tools for
- 19:09Speaker 2: our children, and it's unquestionable.
- 19:12Speaker 3: Nobody's questioning it.
- 19:14Speaker 2: There's also a misuse of copyright laws as well. So
- 19:17Speaker 2: they are producing these resources, selling the licenses to the schools,
- 19:21Speaker 2: and the schools and the strict instructions not to share
- 19:24Speaker 2: those resources or parents, and the copyright laws, well, copyright
- 19:28Speaker 2: laws simply mean you're taking somebody else and passing off
- 19:32Speaker 2: as your own. It doesn't mean you can't show people's stuff.
- 19:35Speaker 2: So we're in a situation where they are misusing those
- 19:38Speaker 2: laws and the courts asiding with.
- 19:40Speaker 1: Them, and they're misusing those laws presumably to stop you
- 19:46Speaker 1: or and or other parents exposing what they're doing. So
- 19:50Speaker 1: the school sort of says, oh, well, we can't we
- 19:53Speaker 1: can't tell you or we can't show you exactly what's
- 19:56Speaker 1: being taught because of commercial copyright.
- 20:00Speaker 4: Wow, it's pretty serious, isn't it.
- 20:03Speaker 1: It is serious because the materials perverted, and then you've
- 20:07Speaker 1: got a perversion of the whole regulatory safeguarding system around
- 20:12Speaker 1: the children. It seems that everybody who is there to
- 20:16Speaker 1: protect the children is actually being pushed away from the children,
- 20:19Speaker 1: and everybody who's who's trying to corrupt them is being
- 20:24Speaker 1: brought closer to the children and is protected.
- 20:27Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, we are fortunate. You know, like I said,
- 20:31Speaker 2: we've made sure whether we've got different skills, we've done.
- 20:34Speaker 2: We've rock Pool facilitators for positive and adverse childhood experiences,
- 20:38Speaker 2: trauma informed on the international front. One of the ladies
- 20:42Speaker 2: in the group is actually a classify as she is
- 20:46Speaker 2: a video games and film classifier, so she puts age
- 20:50Speaker 2: ratings on things, and she started a campaign against the
- 20:54Speaker 2: books in schools because when she's done the classification on
- 20:57Speaker 2: the children's books is shocking, Brya.
- 21:00Speaker 3: You know, so we are not chess.
- 21:02Speaker 1: I'm sorry to butt in there, but she she puts
- 21:08Speaker 1: classification on because she's doing this in a professional sense
- 21:11Speaker 1: in regard to films. Yes, so she uses her knowledge
- 21:16Speaker 1: and experience and then looks at this children's stuff and
- 21:22Speaker 1: the fact she classifies it at all is pretty extraordinary.
- 21:25Speaker 1: But she's coming in and giving it equivalent ratings.
- 21:30Speaker 4: To some of the Yeah, well horror.
- 21:33Speaker 1: Films or sex films.
- 21:35Speaker 4: Whatever, Angela ro Yes.
- 21:37Speaker 2: So she's in Southern Australia and she's recently taken some
- 21:41Speaker 2: stuff to the police.
- 21:42Speaker 3: It is that bad. I don't think the police said.
- 21:45Speaker 2: Well, last I heard, the police do not want to
- 21:48Speaker 2: inform her on the progress of the investigation because some
- 21:52Speaker 2: stuff has gone to the media. She's actually gone to
- 21:55Speaker 2: the place with it, Brian. As we know, we've had
- 21:58Speaker 2: people up in Scotland going to the place stuff as well.
- 22:01Speaker 2: I don't know if she's going to get the same
- 22:02Speaker 2: result that we get here. The police cannot get involved
- 22:05Speaker 2: in education, health and politics.
- 22:07Speaker 3: I don't know why.
- 22:10Speaker 2: I'd like to know why, and I'd like to see
- 22:11Speaker 2: the piece of legislation that says so as well. But
- 22:14Speaker 2: this is you know, so we've made sure that our
- 22:17Speaker 2: group we do have it all covered. We're not messing about,
- 22:20Speaker 2: you know, we do between us all we have it
- 22:23Speaker 2: all covered and we are heads and shoulders above any
- 22:26Speaker 2: organization that's in the UK right now.
- 22:29Speaker 3: And this is why we're not going anywhere.
- 22:31Speaker 4: You know.
- 22:32Speaker 1: I'll come back to that, Kim. But just that little
- 22:34Speaker 1: bit you dropped in there about the police. The police
- 22:37Speaker 1: are saying that they can't investigate matters concerning.
- 22:42Speaker 2: Health, politics and education, and who's actually said that the police.
- 22:49Speaker 2: I don't know where it's come from. I don't know
- 22:51Speaker 2: where this piece of I don't know. I've tried looking.
- 22:54Speaker 2: I don't know where they're getting this from. You know,
- 22:57Speaker 2: it seems to be something we keep coming up against.
- 23:00Speaker 2: So Scotland, for instance, there's a taxi driver called to
- 23:03Speaker 2: Glasgow Cabby, quite a big following on social media. He
- 23:07Speaker 2: teamed up with Richard Lucas from a Scottish family party.
- 23:10Speaker 2: There was a big crowd of people outside the police station.
- 23:13Speaker 2: They took this stuff into the police station to report
- 23:16Speaker 2: it and nothing happens every single time. They cannot get
- 23:20Speaker 2: involved in education, educational resources.
- 23:23Speaker 1: Yeah, this is in one way it's incredible and another
- 23:27Speaker 1: way it isn't. Because over the last couple of weeks,
- 23:30Speaker 1: I've been spending a lot of time actually having a
- 23:33Speaker 1: look at Police Scotland's performance around child protection. I won't
- 23:40Speaker 1: get into that because it takes us a little bit
- 23:42Speaker 1: away from where you're talking about. But the more I
- 23:45Speaker 1: delved into Police Scotland and the more I found on
- 23:50Speaker 1: their websites they talk about protecting children, the more it
- 23:55Speaker 1: became apparent they are not protecting children. They're doing the
- 23:58Speaker 1: exact opposite words.
- 24:00Speaker 2: You know, yes, I'm really concerned as well. I don't
- 24:03Speaker 2: want to go too much off track, but you know,
- 24:05Speaker 2: Scotland they were leading the way on this education. They
- 24:08Speaker 2: published one hundred lesson plans online. That's where we become
- 24:12Speaker 2: most for information from to take into court. People were
- 24:15Speaker 2: saying that Scotland stuff, but then we went on the
- 24:18Speaker 2: UNESCO website under the Welsh government documents, they were telling
- 24:22Speaker 2: us to use Scotland's resources and you know, they've published
- 24:26Speaker 2: one hundred lesson plans online.
- 24:30Speaker 1: And when you looked at those, you were saying that
- 24:33Speaker 1: it's pretty disgusting material.
- 24:34Speaker 2: So the actual I urge people to go look at themselves,
- 24:39Speaker 2: r shp Dot Scott so on.
- 24:42Speaker 4: There.
- 24:42Speaker 2: There's absolutely everything. These PowerPoint slides. They're all black and white,
- 24:47Speaker 2: just black and white images. There's very very boring. The
- 24:52Speaker 2: devil's in the detail. When you click on the YouTube
- 24:55Speaker 2: videos and they have linked that's when you get all
- 24:58Speaker 2: the fun. The it's colorful and they talk about pawn.
- 25:01Speaker 2: There's different types of pawn and it's music in the background,
- 25:05Speaker 2: really exciting, really upbeat stuff. So I urge all parents
- 25:09Speaker 2: to look on there. You know, they've got them there
- 25:11Speaker 2: in different languages as well.
- 25:13Speaker 3: It's a free for all everyone can access it.
- 25:15Speaker 2: You can see from the three year olds right way
- 25:17Speaker 2: up to the seventeen year olds what they've got. That
- 25:20Speaker 2: what I found interesting were their slides on pawn, the
- 25:23Speaker 2: introduction of pawn. They were just again black and white slides,
- 25:27Speaker 2: saying it's illegal if you're under eighteen, it's fine in moderation.
- 25:32Speaker 2: Nothing at all about the damage the brain, however, rewires
- 25:36Speaker 2: your brain, nothing at all about being addictive. And then
- 25:39Speaker 2: the teachers are clicking on the powerpint links that are
- 25:42Speaker 2: in these slides and it's taking them to a YouTube
- 25:45Speaker 2: video and you've got all of this stuff going on,
- 25:48Speaker 2: you know, swallowing anal Sex three SAMs and they're using
- 25:53Speaker 2: images like so for bondage. They tying up a chicken
- 25:57Speaker 2: for the three sums. They've got a hot dog band
- 25:59Speaker 2: with the two sauce coming in. And I do know
- 26:02Speaker 2: that Richard Lucas tried to get it. Oh they dipped
- 26:04Speaker 2: in banana in Natela for anal Sex and Richard Lucas said,
- 26:08Speaker 2: tried to get this in the Scottish son and I
- 26:12Speaker 2: think they had it all ready to go but in
- 26:14Speaker 2: the last minute they wouldn't publish it. Now over ninety
- 26:17Speaker 2: percent of people's surveyed said that they thought that was inappropriate.
- 26:21Speaker 2: But it's being widely used. This stuff was advertised on
- 26:25Speaker 2: the UNESCO website as well for the Welsh government to
- 26:28Speaker 2: use these resources, and Wales is very much mirroring themselves
- 26:32Speaker 2: on Scotland with the way they're bringing the children's rights.
- 26:36Speaker 2: I used to be a supporter of children's rights. Now
- 26:39Speaker 2: we're empowering children beyond capacity. With rights come responsibility. Nobody's
- 26:44Speaker 2: taking responsibility, you know. So Scotland is quite an interesting
- 26:48Speaker 2: country as well.
- 26:50Speaker 1: Yes, and of course, and I think the last time
- 26:53Speaker 1: we spoke, I mentioned it well, so we remind the
- 26:56Speaker 1: audience people watching listening in scott and tried to introduce
- 27:01Speaker 1: the named persons skill and what was the significance of that. Well,
- 27:07Speaker 1: in order to protect children, the Scottish state said every
- 27:10Speaker 1: child from before birth will have a named person who's
- 27:15Speaker 1: going to look after them and protect them. And then
- 27:18Speaker 1: when a number of parents became concerned about what they
- 27:23Speaker 1: saw as the increasing power of the state, there was
- 27:26Speaker 1: a public meeting at which a lady member of the
- 27:30Speaker 1: Scottish Parliament said, in front of the camera to the
- 27:35Speaker 1: parents the assembled parents, don't worry. Parents will also have
- 27:40Speaker 1: a role in bringing up their children. So the inference
- 27:42Speaker 1: was that the state was going to take that was
- 27:46Speaker 1: the lead role in bringing up the children. Kim, you've
- 27:52Speaker 1: looked at this stuff for a long time for people,
- 27:57Speaker 1: and you've talked about some pretty disturbing stuff there. I
- 28:00Speaker 1: can imagine there's some people watching this and they're thinking,
- 28:03Speaker 1: my goodness, is this real. You've seen all the documentation.
- 28:08Speaker 1: They're seeing what are they trying to do with the children.
- 28:11Speaker 2: They're trying to sexualize our children. They want them to
- 28:14Speaker 2: consent to things. They want out children to be willing
- 28:17Speaker 2: equal partners, and I will just quote they want the
- 28:20Speaker 2: children to be consenting if it's voluntary and consensual. So
- 28:28Speaker 2: if you go to the World Health Organization documents from birth,
- 28:31Speaker 2: they're talking about early childhood masturbation. The general public couldn't
- 28:36Speaker 2: understand how they're going to teach children masturbation. If you
- 28:39Speaker 2: just go to Google and you put in two hundred
- 28:42Speaker 2: and forty two schools England self stimulation, you'll see how
- 28:46Speaker 2: they are introducing that to small children, encouraging them to
- 28:49Speaker 2: touch themselves from from the age of four. They'll tell
- 28:53Speaker 2: you that's some Warwickshire council. Not is from the United Nations,
- 28:56Speaker 2: it's in fifty two countries. They are teaching children as
- 28:59Speaker 2: well well the body parts for the correct body parts vagina, vulva,
- 29:05Speaker 2: screw dum and they're being told of that safeguard's children
- 29:10Speaker 2: screwing children. Any predator will tell you that when a
- 29:13Speaker 2: child can confidently engage in conversation about that genitalia, that
- 29:18Speaker 2: is seen as consent. And when I try to explain
- 29:21Speaker 2: this to some parents, they go white because they've taught
- 29:24Speaker 2: that children are correct terminology. The problem is not necessary
- 29:28Speaker 2: in teaching on the correct terminology. The problem lies in
- 29:30Speaker 2: teaching on the same thing because you're then given the
- 29:33Speaker 2: predators a password. Also, if you do want to use
- 29:36Speaker 2: the correct terminology, you've got to be aware of the
- 29:39Speaker 2: fact that children will take this to the internet and
- 29:42Speaker 2: more are children going to see when they typing these
- 29:44Speaker 2: words into the internet.
- 29:45Speaker 3: The further down you scroll, the more you're.
- 29:47Speaker 2: Going to get into it, you know, So personally I'm
- 29:51Speaker 2: deed against that, you know. And there's been used as
- 29:54Speaker 2: a safeguard in tool. How is it a safeguard in
- 29:57Speaker 2: tool if you're teaching all children to confidentally discuss that
- 30:00Speaker 2: genitalia that is given the predators passwords. That's building the
- 30:05Speaker 2: children up so they can become fair game because they
- 30:08Speaker 2: can sent and in the predator's eyes, then we've got
- 30:10Speaker 2: a good touch bad touch Again, that's being sold a safeguarden. Well,
- 30:15Speaker 2: when your genitals are being touched by and is sensitive
- 30:19Speaker 2: and that actually feels good. So if you're asking a
- 30:22Speaker 2: child is that good touch and is that bad touch?
- 30:24Speaker 2: A child is only going off what they feel. And
- 30:27Speaker 2: that's how predators get away with things. Predators don't just
- 30:30Speaker 2: go straight in there and really harm a child. They
- 30:34Speaker 2: will be gentle. They want to get away with it.
- 30:36Speaker 2: You know, they will try and cause pleasure for the child,
- 30:40Speaker 2: for the child to say yes, that feels good, and
- 30:43Speaker 2: pleasure again. This is something that they're teaching in schools,
- 30:46Speaker 2: pleasure in sex. As the children get older, we go
- 30:50Speaker 2: into the puberty talk, which is supposed to be about puberty.
- 30:54Speaker 2: Eight year old girls are being told that vagina's going
- 30:57Speaker 2: to bleed. It's a prety discharge. No eight there all
- 31:00Speaker 2: needs to be told. Every china is going to bleed.
- 31:02Speaker 2: Is scaring and to death. Now all of a sudden,
- 31:05Speaker 2: they want to be boys. As they go into the
- 31:07Speaker 2: comp they're being taught about oral sex, anal sex. Anal
- 31:11Speaker 2: sex is being promoted as a contraception as a way
- 31:15Speaker 2: of not getting pregnant.
- 31:17Speaker 3: Then we move on to how to choke.
- 31:19Speaker 2: Your partner safely during sex, bondage, threesomes, and gargain.
- 31:25Speaker 3: This stuff is real. This is not fake. This stuff
- 31:28Speaker 3: is real. I've seen this stuff in my own eyes.
- 31:30Speaker 4: Now.
- 31:31Speaker 2: We've also we've also bought licenses with organizations out there
- 31:34Speaker 2: anyway now, so we've been able to access this stuff
- 31:37Speaker 2: without them knowing. Even though we've got our own licenses
- 31:40Speaker 2: and we can access stuff. We never disclose what our
- 31:43Speaker 2: license is though, because we are building a good relationship
- 31:46Speaker 2: with the organization we did our accreditation with and we
- 31:49Speaker 2: believe that we were in the hearts and minds of individuals,
- 31:52Speaker 2: you know. So there's a lot going on. Back when
- 31:56Speaker 2: when I was leaving school, I don't think that we
- 31:59Speaker 2: were using condoms in the classroom. I think it was
- 32:02Speaker 2: a few years later. You're putting condoms onto coup and
- 32:05Speaker 2: buts and things like that. Now we have schools where
- 32:09Speaker 2: the teachers bring out a box full of adult sized dildos.
- 32:14Speaker 3: They tend to be black for some reason. As well.
- 32:16Speaker 2: They're massive, So you know, how is our teaching a child?
- 32:21Speaker 2: A child is not our size for a start.
- 32:24Speaker 1: Now, I can't see the audience because of course the
- 32:26Speaker 1: audience is the other side of a camera. But I
- 32:30Speaker 1: have seen the reaction to a live audience when you've
- 32:34Speaker 1: joined us as you did in Bristol, the Bristol conference,
- 32:39Speaker 1: and you saw the reaction of adults in the room
- 32:42Speaker 1: to what you were talking about, and they were it
- 32:46Speaker 1: was a mixture of horror and astonishment. I've done it,
- 32:50Speaker 1: and sorry, just just to put you know, force this
- 32:54Speaker 1: point that basically because most people are basically in ice
- 33:00Speaker 1: and therefore they cannot get their head around the fact
- 33:04Speaker 1: that somebody would be malicious enough to do this. But
- 33:08Speaker 1: the reality is, this is not This is not a
- 33:11Speaker 1: grooming gang doing this. This is not dirty old men
- 33:15Speaker 1: in raincoats doing this, will say, smooth suited men and
- 33:20Speaker 1: women who are promoting this through the political system, through
- 33:25Speaker 1: the educational system into schools, and you've demonstrated today and
- 33:31Speaker 1: then using unregulated companies, many of them that have got
- 33:36Speaker 1: a dubious pedigree themselves because they're involved in the sex industry.
- 33:42Speaker 1: Those companies are being allowed access to teach children about sexuality.
- 33:49Speaker 1: It's not only criminal, it's evil, isn't it.
- 33:51Speaker 3: It's evil. Yes.
- 33:53Speaker 2: So one of the ladies on our international team, Audrey Now,
- 33:58Speaker 2: she's worked with Jodith Raceman, and she started out as
- 34:01Speaker 2: a sex educator and an STD nurse. This is where
- 34:05Speaker 2: the comprehensive sexuality education come from. It wasn't long before
- 34:09Speaker 2: she realized it was wrong. It's the same with Sharon
- 34:11Speaker 2: Slater as well, from the Family Watch International. She began
- 34:16Speaker 2: as a sex educator and then she started realizing things
- 34:20Speaker 2: were wrong. But this is film far between the ladies
- 34:24Speaker 2: who are who are introducing this stuff. You know, it's
- 34:29Speaker 2: just a handful of people just realizing what's going on.
- 34:32Speaker 2: So for Sharon Slater, it was a case of she
- 34:35Speaker 2: was delivering a lesson on oral sex on a teenager
- 34:39Speaker 2: put her round up and she asked for advice on
- 34:41Speaker 2: how not a gag on a penis and and Sharon's explained,
- 34:46Speaker 2: you don't need to be doing that. Well, I have
- 34:48Speaker 2: to do it, don't know, she said, I have to
- 34:50Speaker 2: do it. This teenage girl believed that she should be
- 34:53Speaker 2: given oral sex and she struggled given oral sex with
- 34:56Speaker 2: a gagain. And it was at that moment and later
- 35:00Speaker 2: realized what she was doing, you know. So not everybody
- 35:03Speaker 2: understands what's going on here. Like fortunately for us, we
- 35:08Speaker 2: do our this team now and we have ladies with
- 35:10Speaker 2: over thirty years experience, so it's not a case of
- 35:14Speaker 2: people can call us nuts anymore. Brian, you know, we've
- 35:17Speaker 2: we've got it all and we're delivering it all. This
- 35:19Speaker 2: stuff is very, very real, but because it's such a
- 35:23Speaker 2: taboo subject, people don't understand. They are blinded as well
- 35:27Speaker 2: by the establishment. They believe that everybody who has ADBs
- 35:31Speaker 2: is completely vetted. That's not the way, you know, I
- 35:35Speaker 2: just want to I want to raise bring attention to
- 35:37Speaker 2: something else as well. We have footage of a young
- 35:40Speaker 2: girl come out of school after getting detention because they
- 35:44Speaker 2: want to introduce a less non anal sex to them.
- 35:48Speaker 2: She refused this less on anal sex. She told us
- 35:51Speaker 2: what this package was. This package was sweet st We
- 35:57Speaker 2: did manage to get hold of sweet anal sex wasn't
- 36:01Speaker 2: in there, Brian final sex was not in there. So
- 36:04Speaker 2: what we had was a teacher delivering a lesson on
- 36:07Speaker 2: something from a package that part of that wasn't in there.
- 36:12Speaker 2: So this teacher brought us in themselves.
- 36:14Speaker 1: Right now, my initial reaction to that, I say, if true,
- 36:18Speaker 1: and I believe what you're saying to me, is that
- 36:21Speaker 1: if that was the case, that must surely be a
- 36:24Speaker 1: criminal offense.
- 36:25Speaker 2: It's absolutely yeah. That teacher has been moved to different school.
- 36:29Speaker 2: Now we've taken this stuff to Natasha Askar as well
- 36:32Speaker 2: as should Do Education Secretary. We've taken a we had
- 36:36Speaker 2: a twelve year old girl and we had evidenced as
- 36:39Speaker 2: she was given detention for preaching other children's right to
- 36:43Speaker 2: an education because she wouldn't watch pawn at age twelve,
- 36:46Speaker 2: she would not win a lesson on porn. She's a Christian.
- 36:49Speaker 2: Her words were they teaching me how to sin. So
- 36:53Speaker 2: they did remove her from those lessons for a couple
- 36:55Speaker 2: of weeks. The school continued to apply pressure to this
- 36:58Speaker 2: girl that by the time she reach fourteen she had
- 37:01Speaker 2: to leave school simply because of r S and her
- 37:04Speaker 2: words in Tashlaska were they're teaching me how to sin.
- 37:07Speaker 1: And she was correct, it's correct, that's correct, and we.
- 37:10Speaker 3: Had the evidence.
- 37:11Speaker 2: You know, she was given detention for preventing others a
- 37:14Speaker 2: right to an education.
- 37:18Speaker 3: Twelve year olds. We're talking about twelve year olds.
- 37:22Speaker 1: You are working with other people, women and men as well,
- 37:27Speaker 1: from other countries. So when you come together as a
- 37:31Speaker 1: group from different countries and you're all talking about the
- 37:34Speaker 1: same policy, this must be a very strong indicator that
- 37:39Speaker 1: the policy is being created outside and above national government level.
- 37:45Speaker 2: Absolutely, we were led to believe that education is devolved
- 37:50Speaker 2: in the UK. It's a flat out lie. It is
- 37:53Speaker 2: not evolved in the UK. This idea of devolution is
- 37:57Speaker 2: just to confuse us, to make us think what's happening
- 38:00Speaker 2: in England is not going to happen in Wales. What's
- 38:02Speaker 2: happening in Wies is not going to happen in Scotland.
- 38:04Speaker 2: It's happened to us all. They adopted this in March
- 38:07Speaker 2: twenty seventeen with the viill for legislative changes. We're all
- 38:11Speaker 2: in the same storm. We're just on a different boat,
- 38:14Speaker 2: that is it. This is not coming from local government,
- 38:17Speaker 2: This is not coming from national government. This is coming
- 38:20Speaker 2: from international and elected non government organizations.
- 38:27Speaker 1: You know, of which the United Nations has got.
- 38:30Speaker 2: To be a United Nations, the World Health Organization, and
- 38:33Speaker 2: you know, people say, how do you know this stuff?
- 38:36Speaker 3: How do you know they together?
- 38:37Speaker 2: Well, if you open the document and look at the
- 38:39Speaker 2: front page, it tells you we are working with the
- 38:42Speaker 2: World Health Organization, United Nations. This is part of Agenda
- 38:45Speaker 2: twenty thirty. Seek us is right now. It tells you
- 38:50Speaker 2: you don't have to go a million miles away, you
- 38:52Speaker 2: don't have to dig. You can pick up one document
- 38:55Speaker 2: and they brag about this stuff. All you've got to
- 38:58Speaker 2: do is be bothered to look up a document and
- 39:00Speaker 2: it's all less.
- 39:01Speaker 4: You know, you can't.
- 39:02Speaker 1: Hidden in plain sight is the key thing. So just
- 39:08Speaker 1: to force that point, so the international group, when you're
- 39:12Speaker 1: together and you obviously discuss lots of things, but there's
- 39:16Speaker 1: there's now a try not to put words in your mouth.
- 39:19Speaker 1: It's a consensus that everybody says, yeah, we know where
- 39:24Speaker 1: this this is coming from, and it's coming from these
- 39:27Speaker 1: higher level bodies.
- 39:28Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 39:28Speaker 2: So when I'm speaking to something in the UK, I
- 39:30Speaker 2: will say our se or p sh. Here, when I'm
- 39:34Speaker 2: talking to the international team, we're talking comprehensive sexuality education.
- 39:38Speaker 2: You know, it's called something different in each country, so
- 39:42Speaker 2: G one, two three, and different things in each country.
- 39:45Speaker 2: But when we are all discussing things, we are calling
- 39:48Speaker 2: it what it is. It's comprehensive sexuality education. You know,
- 39:52Speaker 2: we're speaking exactly the same language. We are strangers to
- 39:55Speaker 2: each other, we live thousands of miles away.
- 39:58Speaker 3: From each other. This is a little bit more than coincidence.
- 40:01Speaker 1: Yes, I wanted to talk to you a little bit
- 40:05Speaker 1: more about how you've done things, because you are talking
- 40:10Speaker 1: very clearly about how successful you've actually been as a
- 40:15Speaker 1: of course, I could say a campaigning organization, but an
- 40:17Speaker 1: activist organization. I'll come back to that, because what popped
- 40:21Speaker 1: into my head was we're here discussing this and we
- 40:26Speaker 1: are saying it's pretty clear that when you look at it,
- 40:29Speaker 1: this is an attack on the minds of children. So
- 40:33Speaker 1: they are being groomed, and that grooming is taking them
- 40:37Speaker 1: towards a complete abandonment of morality in their sexual relationships.
- 40:44Speaker 1: But you're also seeing the key thing that it's actually
- 40:48Speaker 1: taking the age of children, that they're being sexualized lower
- 40:53Speaker 1: and lower. And this then takes the whole thing into
- 40:56Speaker 1: the fact that the children are seemingly being groomed to
- 41:02Speaker 1: accept and enjoy in inverted comers relations sexual relationships with children.
- 41:10Speaker 1: So this is this is making the children more accessible
- 41:14Speaker 1: to pedophiles.
- 41:15Speaker 3: Absolutely.
- 41:16Speaker 2: So if you look at the queer theorists, they believe
- 41:19Speaker 2: the children are equal to our adult in every which way.
- 41:22Speaker 2: Every single way they believe children are equal to adults
- 41:25Speaker 2: and not includes sexual relations. I you know, a few
- 41:30Speaker 2: years back when I was doing my I was doing
- 41:32Speaker 2: a degree in social policy, and I remember one of
- 41:36Speaker 2: my tutors mentioning that we're going to be well, we
- 41:39Speaker 2: got the child and adult systems set, but that eventually
- 41:43Speaker 2: wills is going to be all under one system, or
- 41:45Speaker 2: the adults and children are going to share the same system.
- 41:48Speaker 2: I remember thinking, then, how are they going to do that.
- 41:51Speaker 2: That's sound was interesting. Now fast forward these few years
- 41:55Speaker 2: and I'm like, gosh, I'm absolutely petrified at the thought.
- 41:58Speaker 2: You know, they believe our children are equal to us
- 42:01Speaker 2: in every way. If you look at the words of
- 42:04Speaker 2: pie p deful Information Exchange, they refer to children as partners.
- 42:09Speaker 2: You know what, this is what we're dealing with you.
- 42:12Speaker 2: This is not equipping children for a change in world,
- 42:15Speaker 2: like they say, This is not keeping them healthy. You're
- 42:18Speaker 2: certainly not keeping them happy. If this was a relationships education,
- 42:23Speaker 2: why are we not discussing the chemical exchange of oxytocin
- 42:27Speaker 2: doing sex. Why are we not discussing the fact that
- 42:30Speaker 2: all of this promisquest behavior leads broken down relationships when
- 42:34Speaker 2: you're older, it leads to single families. It's not doing
- 42:38Speaker 2: what it says in the ten.
- 42:39Speaker 4: Yeah, well, we are going to.
- 42:41Speaker 2: Be doing what it says in the ten because we
- 42:43Speaker 2: are going to be dosing our S S E. Resources
- 42:47Speaker 2: relationship and safe sex education. And it's going to be
- 42:51Speaker 2: all from a criminological perspective, all biological.
- 42:54Speaker 3: It's going to be the truth.
- 42:56Speaker 1: Okay, I was going to take us on a slightly
- 42:58Speaker 1: different direction. Let's come back on no, No, you're the
- 43:03Speaker 1: guest and you've got the important things to say. So
- 43:06Speaker 1: this is having a look at what you're doing to
- 43:10Speaker 1: be active. And I find this very interesting because so
- 43:13Speaker 1: many people, increasingly people say to the UK column, you know,
- 43:17Speaker 1: you're telling us about all these nasty things happening, and
- 43:22Speaker 1: we can see it, what do we do about it?
- 43:25Speaker 1: And a reaction of a lot of people is that
- 43:27Speaker 1: they are going to go on the streets with a
- 43:30Speaker 1: banner and they're going to do a lot of shouting,
- 43:34Speaker 1: and for some it's easy that they they then drift
- 43:38Speaker 1: across into being angry and maybe a bit aggressive, and
- 43:42Speaker 1: of course that plays into the hands of the steak,
- 43:44Speaker 1: because the steak can then shut you down. But I
- 43:49Speaker 1: think you've all learned over your journey from the passion
- 43:53Speaker 1: of the early days. But what you're describing to me
- 43:56Speaker 1: is that you've taken the whole process of challenging the
- 44:01Speaker 1: state into a much more professional place where you've said, Okay,
- 44:07Speaker 1: if we're going to challenge them, we've got to start
- 44:10Speaker 1: using their own standards and their own rules against them.
- 44:14Speaker 1: Will that be right?
- 44:15Speaker 2: The term I use is we need to go into
- 44:17Speaker 2: their playground and turn it into our playground. That's the
- 44:20Speaker 2: term I use and that's the way I'm thinking. That's
- 44:23Speaker 2: what that's what we're trying to achieve.
- 44:25Speaker 1: So when you've made the big effort to become accredited,
- 44:32Speaker 1: even with weaknesses in that credit accreditation system, that means
- 44:37Speaker 1: that you can then step forward and challenge Department of
- 44:42Speaker 1: Educational Schools saying well, we're qualified to make these challenges
- 44:48Speaker 1: and to give the audience a bit of good news.
- 44:50Speaker 1: You talk You have talked about a number of teachers
- 44:54Speaker 1: that when your team were able to provide the right
- 45:00Speaker 1: informative information to them about what the reality of the
- 45:04Speaker 1: sex education was, that it was grooming under the government's
- 45:09Speaker 1: own guidelines, what grooming was, some of those teachers saw
- 45:13Speaker 1: the light and change.
- 45:16Speaker 3: We've say've got entire year groups.
- 45:18Speaker 2: There are some scripts, there are some packages out there
- 45:21Speaker 2: as well, and I'll just say what it is is
- 45:22Speaker 2: Jigsaw and what they do is they.
- 45:25Speaker 3: Introduce a lesson to children.
- 45:26Speaker 2: If the children shriek, they then have the children sacked,
- 45:30Speaker 2: clear their minds. They read a calm in script and
- 45:33Speaker 2: they use a chime. And we've got it from good sources.
- 45:36Speaker 2: A clinical hypnotherapist. That's a form of hypnotherapy prayer.
- 45:40Speaker 1: Absolutely it is. I recognize that at the moment you
- 45:43Speaker 1: said it.
- 45:43Speaker 4: Now.
- 45:43Speaker 2: So when we actually mentioned this the first school that
- 45:47Speaker 2: we mentioned this too, they were a little bit defensive
- 45:50Speaker 2: and I said, well, you have permission off for parents
- 45:52Speaker 2: hypnotize their children. We're not hypnotize that. You actually are.
- 45:57Speaker 2: If a clinical hypnotherapist is telling me that's a form
- 46:00Speaker 2: of hypnosis and you were using it in schools, you
- 46:03Speaker 2: are illegally hypnotizing children. They've scrapped it. They've scrapped it.
- 46:08Speaker 2: You know, that's just one school. This is why people
- 46:11Speaker 2: don't see us a lot on social media. We're in schools.
- 46:14Speaker 2: We didn't try brune As, we didn't family proceedings. We
- 46:18Speaker 2: are on the ground working with the parents that are
- 46:21Speaker 2: brave enough to fight, you know, and this is giving
- 46:24Speaker 2: us the opportunity to going to schools. We do a
- 46:26Speaker 2: lot of advocas here. A lot of them don't like us.
- 46:31Speaker 2: They just don't like us anyway because the statement's the
- 46:33Speaker 2: government put out. But on those odd occasions that we
- 46:36Speaker 2: get in and they don't know who we are until
- 46:38Speaker 2: the end of the meeting, we actually do work well.
- 46:41Speaker 2: You know, teachers don't like teaching this stuff anyway, and
- 46:45Speaker 2: if there is, and if there is a way, like
- 46:47Speaker 2: this is why we produce our own resources. You know,
- 46:49Speaker 2: it's legislated. And when parents say to me, this is
- 46:52Speaker 2: not happening in my school, I say, well, the are
- 46:54Speaker 2: school's breaking the law.
- 46:55Speaker 3: Then the school's breaking the law. You're not teaching it.
- 46:59Speaker 1: Kim, do you actually, without giving away all your trade secrets,
- 47:03Speaker 1: how do you get into schools? Because I could easily
- 47:08Speaker 1: believe that the moment you make can approach, there's some
- 47:13Speaker 1: sort of check or research going to be done on
- 47:17Speaker 1: the group, and then well, we don't want those people.
- 47:20Speaker 1: How do you get through the door.
- 47:22Speaker 3: So we don't go in as a group.
- 47:24Speaker 2: We are individuals advocating with parents, and because we do
- 47:29Speaker 2: a lot of work with the parents of additional needs children,
- 47:32Speaker 2: there are regular meetings, and when you have those regular
- 47:35Speaker 2: meetings one by one, you actually get The last is
- 47:40Speaker 2: every parent's entitled to an advocate. Anyone can be an advocate,
- 47:43Speaker 2: and I don't even need qualifications. But for twenty years
- 47:46Speaker 2: I've done a lot of I've done advocacy in mentor
- 47:49Speaker 2: and armed family proceedings and additional needs anyway, so I've
- 47:53Speaker 2: got our relationship with parents. So we get into schools
- 47:56Speaker 2: through individual parents. We are and that's where we are building,
- 48:01Speaker 2: building these relationships. And we've got one school and I
- 48:06Speaker 2: don't want to give up my training yet because it
- 48:08Speaker 2: hasn't been accredited, which is piloted it. It's one school
- 48:11Speaker 2: is constantly on my case. And it's not just the school,
- 48:14Speaker 2: it's the head teacher and the head of local authority.
- 48:17Speaker 2: Now I would never publicly need.
- 48:19Speaker 1: Sorry when you say on your case, they're challenging you
- 48:21Speaker 1: or what with you?
- 48:23Speaker 3: They want they want our training. She wants our training.
- 48:26Speaker 2: You know, I've showed her the booklet once and they
- 48:29Speaker 2: really want our training. We don't want to go in
- 48:31Speaker 2: all guns plays. And yet we're trying to get it accredited.
- 48:35Speaker 2: And like I said, we're license holders with a different
- 48:39Speaker 2: organization in the UK. They actually have a good reputation
- 48:43Speaker 2: in the eyes of the government. They actually like us.
- 48:46Speaker 2: You know, there were some people in the team that
- 48:48Speaker 2: didn't like us. There was clashes. Those of those people
- 48:51Speaker 2: have gone now, so we are building. We're building bridges
- 48:55Speaker 2: behind the scene, were making relationships and on the odd
- 48:59Speaker 2: occasion that we have to of public hYP protection withs
- 49:01Speaker 2: logo we do. So we've got public help protection with
- 49:05Speaker 2: covering some stuff or just kimberly issu would covering something
- 49:08Speaker 2: else or just coffin wak. This is how we do
- 49:10Speaker 2: a brain we jumping from rolls.
- 49:12Speaker 1: So this is this is playing clever, isn't it is?
- 49:15Speaker 1: You know what the target is that in order to
- 49:20Speaker 1: be able to make a positive change, you've got to
- 49:22Speaker 1: get in schools to be able to talk to the
- 49:25Speaker 1: teachers and hopefully head teachers. And then you've thought through
- 49:31Speaker 1: and what are your tactics to get into the school.
- 49:35Speaker 1: We can't go in under a uniting banner because that's
- 49:39Speaker 1: a bit obvious. So you're going in so you're being
- 49:42Speaker 1: you're really using your brains as to how to actually Yeah,
- 49:46Speaker 1: but this is this is actually this is such a
- 49:49Speaker 1: good precedence, isn't it for other people? Because there are
- 49:52Speaker 1: a lot of people that they look at whatever subject
- 49:57Speaker 1: they're interested in, maybe maybe it's food, healthy food, and
- 50:02Speaker 1: then well, how can we make a difference on this?
- 50:05Speaker 1: And you're showing that by bringing a group of people
- 50:10Speaker 1: together who can work together and then deciding how best
- 50:13Speaker 1: to do it, you are having a visible effect in
- 50:17Speaker 1: a very difficult area.
- 50:19Speaker 2: Yeah, and this is this is I mean, this means
- 50:22Speaker 2: our social media presence isn't really great with a tiny team.
- 50:26Speaker 2: But when we are quiet, it's because we rain weetins,
- 50:29Speaker 2: it's because we're with parents, education, tribunals. We're trying our
- 50:32Speaker 2: best just get as many tools as possible. And you
- 50:37Speaker 2: know the fact that we live in with I think
- 50:38Speaker 2: is wonderful because we've only got twenty two local authorities
- 50:42Speaker 2: and we've only got fifteen hundred schools, so we've got
- 50:45Speaker 2: twenty two WhatsApp groups. Now if we can crack one
- 50:49Speaker 2: school in each local authority as one hundred percent of
- 50:52Speaker 2: the country in my eyes, you know. And once we
- 50:54Speaker 2: crack one local authority, we see the next one while
- 50:57Speaker 2: they are using this there, you know. So this is
- 50:59Speaker 2: how we trying to which we're trying to get in
- 51:02Speaker 2: on all levels, you know. And like you said earlier
- 51:04Speaker 2: about going up with barners and things like, ah, yes,
- 51:06Speaker 2: we do do demonstrations strictly no weekends.
- 51:10Speaker 3: We're not going to go and do the demonstration outside
- 51:12Speaker 3: an empty building.
- 51:13Speaker 2: We will go when first minus has questions or when
- 51:16Speaker 2: there's a particular debate, you know, So we do things
- 51:19Speaker 2: like that. We still continue to do those things. But
- 51:22Speaker 2: we are trying our best now to give the teachers
- 51:25Speaker 2: the tools to safeguard our children.
- 51:27Speaker 3: Because it's all well and good. We can battle teachers
- 51:30Speaker 3: all day long.
- 51:30Speaker 2: They think they've got the best safeguard training ever until
- 51:33Speaker 2: they come to our wives. They think they know it
- 51:36Speaker 2: all until we sit there and we give them the
- 51:38Speaker 2: tools and they understand things, you know. So sometimes there's
- 51:42Speaker 2: a very friction there. But on other occasions when we
- 51:44Speaker 2: do get the opportunity to sit down, and I think
- 51:47Speaker 2: avin r SE accreditation has worked a lot there, you know,
- 51:50Speaker 2: because they're like, I'm a teacher, what do you know, Well,
- 51:53Speaker 2: I'm actually teacher trainer, you know, And that kind of
- 51:55Speaker 2: gives you a little bit more cloud than when you
- 51:58Speaker 2: got the difficult ones. But now times at a time, Bryan,
- 52:02Speaker 2: the teachers are just doing what they've been told and
- 52:06Speaker 2: they are using all us available, and when all us
- 52:09Speaker 2: available is wealth, they can only use wealth.
- 52:13Speaker 3: They are legislated to deliver this.
- 52:15Speaker 1: And the other thing that this does, and it's it's
- 52:17Speaker 1: a really positive thing, is there's always a tendency when
- 52:22Speaker 1: bad stuff's going on that you think everybody in the
- 52:25Speaker 1: organization is involved in it. You know, it's like looking
- 52:28Speaker 1: at the police and saying they're all bad, which is
- 52:31Speaker 1: clearly not the case, or all the teachers are bad.
- 52:34Speaker 1: But you're demonstrating here that when when you can actually
- 52:37Speaker 1: have a proper adult conversation with teachers, many of them
- 52:43Speaker 1: are expressing similar concerns about what they're trying to do.
- 52:48Speaker 2: So looked, we've looked at the problems. We know they've
- 52:50Speaker 2: got a teacher by law. We also know they've got
- 52:53Speaker 2: a limited budget, so we know we've got to produce
- 52:57Speaker 2: something that's really safe. We've got to produce something as
- 53:00Speaker 2: costly a cost effective for them that they can afford.
- 53:03Speaker 2: But we've also got to change things. So we would
- 53:06Speaker 2: never produce a resource and tell a teacher are going
- 53:08Speaker 2: to deliver that. No teacher is detaching our resources unless
- 53:12Speaker 2: they have properly trained on a criminological front. How can
- 53:15Speaker 2: they spot grooming unless they trained for it. Now, So
- 53:18Speaker 2: we are training to all the complaints that we have
- 53:21Speaker 2: the lack of training. There's no institutional about training in
- 53:24Speaker 2: the UK. All the complaints that we have weding. You know,
- 53:29Speaker 2: we are producing and it's a slong, it's a low
- 53:32Speaker 2: slow process. We've got no money we've got no funding,
- 53:35Speaker 2: we're not liked by government officials.
- 53:38Speaker 3: That's not going to stop us. Praying. That is not
- 53:40Speaker 3: going to stop us. We've got the skills, right.
- 53:43Speaker 1: I know. Money is always a problem because anybody that's
- 53:46Speaker 1: trying to do something ultimately ultimately needs money to fight,
- 53:55Speaker 1: just to give some positive vibes back you. When when
- 53:58Speaker 1: you've put out please for money, a lot of the
- 54:03Speaker 1: public have stepped forward. I think we should recognize those
- 54:06Speaker 1: people that have done that. But I know what you're
- 54:09Speaker 1: saying to me, because the longer you go on doing
- 54:12Speaker 1: the work, you need a constant flow of money coming in.
- 54:15Speaker 1: But I just thought we'd be able to say to people, actually,
- 54:19Speaker 1: there's been a lot of people that have come forward.
- 54:21Speaker 3: To Yeah, we've with the people.
- 54:24Speaker 2: We've been able to pay over one hundred thousand pounds
- 54:27Speaker 2: legal fees when the government was threatenings of our assets.
- 54:30Speaker 2: We've been able to buy equipment, produce training. We've port
- 54:34Speaker 2: training on free for people and been able to provide
- 54:36Speaker 2: their food. We've also flown a team out of Washington
- 54:40Speaker 2: and we are now hosting the international team here. So
- 54:43Speaker 2: we haven't paid their flights, but we have fundraised to
- 54:46Speaker 2: pay for their accommodation and that's all been because of
- 54:49Speaker 2: the public. It's all been because of the public.
- 54:52Speaker 1: You know this It's a fantastic magnifying effect, isn't it
- 54:55Speaker 1: because you go from being yourself and a couple of
- 55:00Speaker 1: ladies in South Wales and then there's a little group
- 55:03Speaker 1: and then it's become international. Yeah, and that has all
- 55:07Speaker 1: been possible because people have actually come in and supported you.
- 55:12Speaker 4: This is this is it.
- 55:13Speaker 2: Like the only thing I'm really disappointed at is the
- 55:16Speaker 2: fact that we don't have anyone to help us with
- 55:18Speaker 2: the footage and the media side of things, because I
- 55:21Speaker 2: really want to take everyone on a journey with us,
- 55:23Speaker 2: you know, and I think if people actually saw what
- 55:26Speaker 2: we do on a daily basis, I think they would
- 55:30Speaker 2: one they would be shocked, but two I think it
- 55:32Speaker 2: would be inspirational for them as well. You know, there's
- 55:35Speaker 2: anything really relack and with regards to public support, every
- 55:39Speaker 2: single time we ask them for help, we are helped.
- 55:43Speaker 2: And if we did sit down and taught up exactly
- 55:46Speaker 2: how much the public has given us, We're in a
- 55:49Speaker 2: there's a lot of money brand, you know. They it's
- 55:52Speaker 2: the public that fund the airbnbs for us to get
- 55:55Speaker 2: around the country. It's the public that feed us, that
- 55:58Speaker 2: keep us.
- 55:58Speaker 3: On the road.
- 55:58Speaker 2: You know, it is the public to keep this stuff going.
- 56:01Speaker 2: If I need to produce box for training because I
- 56:03Speaker 2: run in low, I'll give a shout out on Facebook
- 56:06Speaker 2: and somebody will always message me always. So this the
- 56:10Speaker 2: financial side of things has been one hundred percent the public.
- 56:14Speaker 2: One hundred percent of public. And the only thing I'm
- 56:17Speaker 2: disappointed at is I would love to be able to
- 56:19Speaker 2: take them on the journey more with us, which is
- 56:23Speaker 2: exhausted and we haven't got the skills.
- 56:25Speaker 1: Well, you've thrown a bit of a challenge down because
- 56:27Speaker 1: you're sat here in UK Column studio, Kim. So I'm
- 56:32Speaker 1: thinking as you're saying that, and I know what you mean.
- 56:35Speaker 1: You're out doing things, but how do you show that? Yeah,
- 56:38Speaker 1: I'll say we'd like to help, all right, So how
- 56:41Speaker 1: about that. We've done that in front of the camera.
- 56:44Speaker 1: But I think this is a really good point. This
- 56:49Speaker 1: year's twenty twentieth anniversary for the UK Column, we want
- 56:53Speaker 1: to have a special event and we are going to
- 56:55Speaker 1: have a special event in September, and as part of
- 57:00Speaker 1: of doing that, we started to, you know, think to ourselves,
- 57:06Speaker 1: how do we actually demonstrate in a better way what
- 57:09Speaker 1: we're doing to the audience. And so Feel from Oracle
- 57:15Speaker 1: Films has been doing some little clips just showing what
- 57:18Speaker 1: we do here. It's it's it's a bit of a
- 57:21Speaker 1: unique experience when it happens because you're just doing why
- 57:25Speaker 1: I'm sad, or Mike sat or rest of the team
- 57:28Speaker 1: are doing normal things and somebody's putting a camera in
- 57:32Speaker 1: your face. But it is fascinating how when those clips
- 57:36Speaker 1: come together. Yes, other people can see what you're doing
- 57:40Speaker 1: in a way that they can't see if they're just
- 57:43Speaker 1: watching this discussion for instance. So there you are. You've
- 57:48Speaker 1: put the challenge down. Now say we'll we'll talk about
- 57:51Speaker 1: that separately and see see what we can do. But
- 57:55Speaker 1: this is all positive stuff, isn't it, Because you you've
- 58:00Speaker 1: taken it from nothing to international and now you're back
- 58:04Speaker 1: knocking on the door of the of Westminster saying you
- 58:08Speaker 1: haven't got this right, So that that's got to be fantastic.
- 58:11Speaker 1: Now I've come back to my little sideways movement. We've
- 58:17Speaker 1: just discussed how the excuse me, the attack is on children,
- 58:22Speaker 1: and I believe that the agenda is to actually make
- 58:27Speaker 1: it so that in a child's mind, anything goes, anything
- 58:31Speaker 1: is acceptable, and that includes relationships between children, very young children,
- 58:37Speaker 1: and adults. So we're going to normalize pedophilia, is what
- 58:41Speaker 1: they're going to do. But the other thing we touched
- 58:44Speaker 1: on when we last spoke was relationships between men and women.
- 58:48Speaker 1: And I didn't sort of reveal all of my hand,
- 58:52Speaker 1: but I had been watching some of it a bit
- 58:57Speaker 1: a bit iffy, but social media where people in the
- 59:00Speaker 1: States were talking about relationships between men and women, how
- 59:05Speaker 1: women were being attacked largely through the feminist movement and
- 59:10Speaker 1: the woke agenda, but also pointing a finger at men
- 59:14Speaker 1: and saying men are not behaving as they should do.
- 59:18Speaker 1: And what's a classic example, young men or maybe young
- 59:24Speaker 1: married men spending a huge amount of time on video games.
- 59:28Speaker 1: And I eventually got the opportunity to talk to a
- 59:32Speaker 1: lady in America, America called Erin and her channel is
- 59:36Speaker 1: called Far from Eden, and she is a woman talking
- 59:40Speaker 1: about the attack on other women, and I was able
- 59:43Speaker 1: to have fascinating discussion with her. And we'll do some more.
- 59:49Speaker 1: But where I'm coming to is that we've now got
- 59:52Speaker 1: men and women who were saying whoa well, it isn't
- 59:56Speaker 1: only the children that they're going for. They're actually going
- 59:58Speaker 1: for what your real identity is, what your identity is
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: as a woman, what your identity is a man, and
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: that is being broken down absolutely to such an extent
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: that adult men and women can't form relationships. And who
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: suffers in that, well they both do. But of course
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: if there's any children involved in the partnership or the marriage,
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: the children, the children are hurt even more so this
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: attack isn't just on the children, it's it's also on adults.
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: Is this something that you recognize or come across.
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: The assault is on the family unit. That is nothing
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: stronger than a family unit. When there's that, all right,
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: and I do get you know, okay, some families have
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: problems for the further back in time you go, the
- 1:00:52Speaker 2: less those problems existed as well, you know, but a
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: family unit is under attack brand because you don't get
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: anything stronger than that. And if you can dismant the family,
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: you've got a weak nation, you know. And if you
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: look at predators, but let's let's go back to pediphiles
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: that you know they will pick children from broken homes. Well,
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: so does the government pick on people from broken homes.
- 1:01:13Speaker 2: They know that when you haven't got that solid foundation
- 1:01:17Speaker 2: within your own environment, you are easy to attack. And
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: I think we're also living in a society now where
- 1:01:23Speaker 2: it's easy, come, easy go. You know, we're not fixing
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: things that we'd ben't broken anymore, we're just discarding them.
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: I think everybody's just out for gratification. We all want
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: something faster and now. And there's the family unit. The
- 1:01:38Speaker 2: family unit is under attack. And again, you know, going
- 1:01:42Speaker 2: back to the education resources, part of that is showing
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: the different types of family. Let's look at these different
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: types of family. Then let's have a look at the
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: outcomes for the children. Because I'm a single parent and
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: I have been all my children's lives, I should be
- 1:01:56Speaker 2: waving the flag you're for independent women. You know, I've
- 1:02:00Speaker 2: degrees and all sorts, raise my children on my own,
- 1:02:02Speaker 2: one with additional needs, and I should really be chumping
- 1:02:05Speaker 2: and for independent women.
- 1:02:07Speaker 3: But I'm the first one to admit.
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: That I needed a man as my voice got to
- 1:02:11Speaker 2: a certain age. You know, didn't realize at the time,
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: but when you look back, you need that environment for children.
- 1:02:18Speaker 2: And when you look at outcomes for children in single
- 1:02:21Speaker 2: parent families, same sex families, and things like that, children
- 1:02:26Speaker 2: come out far better in a nuclear family. There's no
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: denying art, you know, in the Roman father environment. And
- 1:02:34Speaker 2: I know this is going to upset a lot of people,
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: but if you care about children, you've got to look
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: for statistics. I'm not looking at individual cases you're now,
- 1:02:40Speaker 2: I'm looking at in general. As a single parent, it
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: was a tough pill to swallow the fact that single
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: fathers their children have better outcomes than single mothers. There's
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: not many women that's gonna like that. It's the truth, Priyan,
- 1:02:56Speaker 2: And that's when we've got to look at you. It
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: is the truth. You know, these new ideas now that
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: they bring it into schools, the different families, Our families
- 1:03:05Speaker 2: look different starmage and the children. Yes, you know people
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: say love is love as long as a child is loved.
- 1:03:12Speaker 2: Love isn't the be all and end all, Bryan, No,
- 1:03:15Speaker 2: Love comes in.
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: Many different stability, and it's it's also dance, go at,
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: proper guidance, and it's proper discipline. It is probably a
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: whole number of things. And of course many parents, maybe
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: all parents, would say, you don't get taught how to
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: be a parent, because it's always a unique experience. But
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: you do your best, but you're always trying to cover
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: those all of those elements. You don't just focus on
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: one area and say, well, you know, if I love
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: the child enough, they grow up normally, because there comes
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: a time when you have to lay the rules down
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: to them otherwise.
- 1:03:53Speaker 2: I've always been pretty liberal in my views, you know.
- 1:03:56Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, the facts speak themselves,
- 1:03:58Speaker 2: you know. And if and if we are a nation
- 1:04:01Speaker 2: who actually want the best for children, we should be
- 1:04:04Speaker 2: a nation that promotes what's best for children, not ideas,
- 1:04:09Speaker 2: not minority ideas, not unusual ideas. We need to start
- 1:04:14Speaker 2: promoting were actually, statistically and factually is right for children,
- 1:04:20Speaker 2: you know. And if there are problems in families, why
- 1:04:23Speaker 2: are there problems in families?
- 1:04:25Speaker 3: You know, I don't want to go down now.
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: Well, we just say very briefly that it's becoming ever
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: more it's more obvious what's going wrong in families because
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: either the family doesn't exist in the first place, that's
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: one of the key things. Or else there is problems
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: between the men and man and the woman who are
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: trying to say, run the family. They're trying to lead
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: the family unit, and there's problems between them. And this
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: is why I've found it so interesting now to be
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: able to talk to people. Okay, Erin was in America.
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: Was my first time that I could speak to a
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: woman who was talking about this. But I'm going to
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: try very hard to get on to some of the others.
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: And there are plenty of men talking about it that
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: they recognize that they're under attack.
- 1:05:25Speaker 3: And don't know.
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: You can go back to Alfred Kinsey's work, you know,
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: because he also done a book The Human Behavior of
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: a Sexual Female, and he made out that women were
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: suppressed because they weren't doing sexual certain sexual acts and
- 1:05:38Speaker 2: things like that, and it was never suppression, you know.
- 1:05:41Speaker 3: What I mean.
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: At the end of the day, the way women are now,
- 1:05:45Speaker 2: we are hyper sexualized. We just have the need to
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: be desired and I see it all time, Bryan, And
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: then all of a sudden we just think, oh, we're
- 1:05:54Speaker 2: unlucky in love.
- 1:05:55Speaker 3: We're not unlucky in love.
- 1:05:56Speaker 2: We're left empty because we've had too many sexual partners,
- 1:06:00Speaker 2: an exchange of oxytocin, you know, and people say it's okay,
- 1:06:04Speaker 2: it's okay, not to be okay.
- 1:06:06Speaker 3: Why are people not okay?
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: And it boils down to the sexual revolution, and that's
- 1:06:12Speaker 2: what it boils down to, if we're completely honest here.
- 1:06:14Speaker 3: But people don't want to see that.
- 1:06:16Speaker 2: And like I said, I should be waving the flag
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: for independent strong women, I'm not waving a flag for
- 1:06:21Speaker 2: independent strong women. I'm waving a flag for family units.
- 1:06:24Speaker 2: That's what I'm waving the flag.
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: For because that ensures the future for the children.
- 1:06:29Speaker 3: Absolutely, absolutely, Kim.
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: Just we're coming up to the top of the hour
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: is the expression. But you you've thrown in that little
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: word oxytocin a couple of times. Tell us about that.
- 1:06:41Speaker 1: What is that?
- 1:06:43Speaker 2: Oxytocin is a spot now, So it's a chemical that
- 1:06:48Speaker 2: we produce.
- 1:06:49Speaker 3: It's the love chemical. It's the bonding chemical.
- 1:06:53Speaker 2: You produce oxytocin when you're just stroking your dog, when
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: you're stalking your pads. It's it's a bonding chemical. And
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: you can get it when you're having sex, but you
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: can get it just with your family members anyway, you know,
- 1:07:05Speaker 2: through through intimacy, no sexual intimacy, but also for sexual
- 1:07:09Speaker 2: intimacy as well. And it's our chemical makeup of our body.
- 1:07:13Speaker 2: And when you're messing with that, that's what's causing the problems.
- 1:07:17Speaker 2: That's what's causing the depression, the emptiness, the loneliness, the
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: detachment issue.
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: And this is something which is affected by the number
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: of partners.
- 1:07:26Speaker 2: Yes, so when you're having sex with somebody, there is
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: a chemical exchange. You cannot deny that. It is never
- 1:07:33Speaker 2: just sex. People think it's no strings attached. Guys, that's
- 1:07:37Speaker 2: a myth. That's a myth. It is never just sex.
- 1:07:40Speaker 2: You are exchanging this chemical whether it's just sex for
- 1:07:44Speaker 2: our person or not, there is an attachment development. There's
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: our bond development. That's our chemical makeup that we cannot control.
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: We can pretend it doesn't exist, we can ignore it,
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: we cannot acknowledge it because we don't know about it.
- 1:07:58Speaker 2: But it's still being trigged and it's still affecting our behaviors,
- 1:08:02Speaker 2: it's affecting our emotions and most important in voice, affecting
- 1:08:05Speaker 2: our relationships.
- 1:08:08Speaker 1: And I'd just throw this one in because part of
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: what I've been seeing on this subject and is that
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: the liberalization of society has produced a situation where the
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: women can attract a male partner. So for most women,
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: if they want sex, is easy, relatively easy to find
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: a man for the man it's more with a woman.
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: So if a man wants a woman, it's more difficult
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: for the man because the woman will be saying yes
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: or no, so there's rejection comes into it. But for
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: the woman, if the woman is highly sexualized and is
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: after partners, you can now see because young girls are
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: prepared to say on camera how many partners they've had,
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: the body count is. And I've got to say, when
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: I started to see some of this stuff, which was
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: about six nine months ago, I was astonished at what
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: these twenty three, twenty four to twenty five year old
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: girls were saying about the number of partners they had,
- 1:09:16Speaker 1: because many of them were quite happy to look at
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: the camera and say, well, you know, since since I
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: was eighteen, maybe two hundred, maybe.
- 1:09:27Speaker 3: It's being glamorized. You know.
- 1:09:28Speaker 2: They don't they have no idea the damage they've done
- 1:09:31Speaker 2: to themselves. Until this campaign, I knew a lot of
- 1:09:35Speaker 2: a comprehensive sexuality education. I did not know a lot
- 1:09:39Speaker 2: about the chemical exchange. I didn't nobody impact upon. So
- 1:09:44Speaker 2: I've added change. My views have changed based on evidence,
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: understanding my own behaviors, the way I used to view
- 1:09:52Speaker 2: the world myself, how my own life could have been different,
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: you know. So it's not a case of I'm sature
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: on my high horse, my pedestal. You know, this is
- 1:10:02Speaker 2: me a woman who's learned changed and I want to
- 1:10:07Speaker 2: influence the rest of the world with our change because
- 1:10:09Speaker 2: our children, even we we didn't have this rs he,
- 1:10:13Speaker 2: we didn't have pawn on online, but even the magazines
- 1:10:17Speaker 2: under parents' beds that did rewire our bright rain, that
- 1:10:22Speaker 2: did desensitize us. So you know, it's not just the
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: children now. It happened to us then as well. And
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: I remember, you know, thinking, oh, yeah, I never I
- 1:10:32Speaker 2: have never had an image of my head of being
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: married with children. I just had an image of my
- 1:10:36Speaker 2: head of being a single mother with children. That's not right,
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: that's not right.
- 1:10:40Speaker 3: You know. I look back and I think, wow, did
- 1:10:42Speaker 3: I really think?
- 1:10:43Speaker 4: You know?
- 1:10:44Speaker 3: It was always drummed into my head. I don't need
- 1:10:46Speaker 3: a man, I don't. Yes, we do, Yes, we do.
- 1:10:50Speaker 3: Men and women they complement each other.
- 1:10:52Speaker 1: Now that's the key thing, isn't it. The complimentary Well we.
- 1:10:55Speaker 2: Did it with the like you said, all these youngsters,
- 1:10:56Speaker 2: if I had like two hundred partners, they're already for
- 1:10:59Speaker 2: partners now they're already for a partner.
- 1:11:02Speaker 3: How can you build a relationship off a back of that.
- 1:11:04Speaker 2: You're damaged, You're internally damaged, you know, with your chemical makeup.
- 1:11:09Speaker 2: So you need time out. You've got to learn this stuff.
- 1:11:12Speaker 2: But people they go in for that quick hit, that
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: gratification making themselves feel good. When they're feeling depressed, they'll
- 1:11:18Speaker 2: go and get a pill of the doctor. It's down
- 1:11:20Speaker 2: to our behaviors because sex has been glamorized, sex sells weaponized, Yeah,
- 1:11:26Speaker 2: weaponize as well, glamorize on weaponized. Now you know, we're
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: seeing pedophiles things, you know, and people are surprised that
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: they've got pediphiles things on their doorsteps with their children, well,
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: with their sons are dead sons.
- 1:11:40Speaker 3: It can happen to anyone. It can happen to anyone.
- 1:11:43Speaker 2: That person down the street wasn't born that way, that
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: person was rewired that way. And you can't look down
- 1:11:51Speaker 2: on that person. You got to expect the door yourself,
- 1:11:55Speaker 2: knock the door yourself. Nobody is a moon from this,
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: you know, nobody is a moon. And that's that's the
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: mindset I want to bring into people. I want to
- 1:12:03Speaker 2: change people's mindset on that nobody is a moon. Marvin,
- 1:12:07Speaker 2: the Pedophilander's on your door, you know, because we all have.
- 1:12:11Speaker 3: Access to on lane.
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: Everyone's brains are being rewired, desensitized.
- 1:12:15Speaker 1: So the problems increasing because.
- 1:12:17Speaker 3: It increasing, Yes, and.
- 1:12:20Speaker 1: I think there's no question that it's it's deliberate. Judith
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: Riiseman wrote the book Sexual Sabotage of America. Unfortunately she's
- 1:12:30Speaker 1: no longer with us, but that is a fantastic book.
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: And she was so far ahead of her time in
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: understanding what the attack was and what it looked like.
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: So it encourage people. I think you can still buy
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: copies of that, I think, so I encourage people to
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: have a look at that.
- 1:12:49Speaker 3: Well, we've got the next best thing at our conference.
- 1:12:51Speaker 2: Obviously, as you know, Judith has passed away, but we
- 1:12:53Speaker 2: have the next best thing. We have Audie Werner, we
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: have Roondo Miller. This is the clauses. So you're going
- 1:12:58Speaker 2: to get from the original I'll fight. You know this
- 1:13:01Speaker 2: lady started to fight four decades ago. Is she paved
- 1:13:05Speaker 2: the way is up to us now to put down
- 1:13:07Speaker 2: the tarmark?
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: Okay, Kim, where do people go to find detail of
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: public child protection? Whales and your event?
- 1:13:17Speaker 3: So Public Child Protection. Wills dot Org is our website.
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: Our event is on event bright, but you could also
- 1:13:24Speaker 2: find it on our website as well. If you want
- 1:13:26Speaker 2: to subscribe to the website and get in touch, I
- 1:13:28Speaker 2: can give you the details straight away.
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: Just give us the date again for the It's the.
- 1:13:33Speaker 3: Eighteenth of April.
- 1:13:35Speaker 2: It's very very close to Newport, the M four corridor.
- 1:13:39Speaker 2: I can't give the venue away right now, Brian, because
- 1:13:42Speaker 2: people later cause pro runs. But it's so close to
- 1:13:45Speaker 2: Newport train station, it's close to World Transport Links. Eighteenth
- 1:13:49Speaker 2: of April is seventeen pound fifty admissions twenty five pounds
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: with a fantastic meal. Anyone inside our buffets will know
- 1:13:57Speaker 2: it's all homemade, grass fed meat, garlic, roast, potatoes, fantastic spread,
- 1:14:03Speaker 2: well worth the exos M fifty.
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: Okay, brilliant. And last thing is your message to the audience.
- 1:14:12Speaker 1: What would you like to see people doing.
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: I want to see people standing up speaking about this stuff.
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: Get behind this guy, support this support this bill. You
- 1:14:22Speaker 2: know it can only be as powerful as we make it.
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: I want to see people using their power. I want
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: people to understand how much power they have. Most important
- 1:14:31Speaker 2: of all, get educated. You don't have to know it all.
- 1:14:34Speaker 2: You just need to know a little bit more than
- 1:14:36Speaker 2: the next person, or just know enough. You don't have
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: to know every single topic. Just learn one thing. You know,
- 1:14:43Speaker 2: learn one thing, stick with it. Let's all join forces.
- 1:14:46Speaker 2: Let's get on board. Our children need us. Like yesterday.
- 1:14:53Speaker 2: We can't wait for politicians. They're charismatic speeches. We can't
- 1:14:57Speaker 2: wait for them to promise when they get empowered. They
- 1:14:59Speaker 2: look after children, our children, our children. We are responsible
- 1:15:02Speaker 2: for them. We need to take care of them, and
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: we're going to do it together. So let's get let's
- 1:15:07Speaker 2: get it.
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: On and the children are our future.
- 1:15:10Speaker 2: Our future, Brian, you know, the future is not us.
- 1:15:14Speaker 2: The future is then and we it's our duty to
- 1:15:17Speaker 2: leave behind the better world and what we inherit it
- 1:15:20Speaker 2: And we're not doing now right now.
- 1:15:22Speaker 4: Are we?
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: No?
- 1:15:23Speaker 4: But we will do We will do it, Yes, we will.
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: Brilliant Kim, Thank you very much, it's been excellent.
- 1:15:29Speaker 3: Thank you very much for having Bran