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Yoreh De’ah 228:1-228:6. Hataras Nedarim. Who is Permitted To Undo Vows · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  Good morning. We are in some rich Kafkaes
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  starting rich Kafkaes. Then we have tourists and dorm
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  Alice me Shenodar Beniskari, someone who made another and he
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  regrets making another Karata Yezhakano de Karata.
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  You can mount here another the guy he can't you know, he really
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  you know, he said, you know, he makes another not eat ice cream
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  and it's hot day. You know when he realizes the
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  whole summary that can't be over there.
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  It's it's you know, I was in the winter.
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  You know what was I thinking niche Takania.
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  They heard the I feel another bit like case.
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  Well, even if he was neither the case.
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  Well, like it says in the in the high Amela, the Russian of the
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  the other reaches, you know, it reaches deep.
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  Shiroshi was OK. It's OK.
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  It's a gasa. How does that work?
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  What do you do? Yeah, it's a Hong Kong mum.
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  How does a terrorist are it work?
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  So you go to a Hong Kong mum. The government was sovere that
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  he, you know, he's a Rob whatever he learned and he and
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  and and he understands what he's learning as there's no, there's
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  no like one big. You go to three regular people,
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  The Who, however, The Who the Gamiri Lou, it's very there has
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  to be. They're not a robe.
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  They are a mumta, but upon him. But they, they learned like
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  they, they, they, they, they know of it.
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  You know, they, they learned, they learned Gamara and and and
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  Swara and not, you know, learning, you know, learning,
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  you know, yeah, superficial, superficially, just like, you
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  know, very fast Piquilla. That's not, you know, it's all
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  he learned that all that's that would be considered learning
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  someone who who's sad and he knows how to, you know, he knows
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  how to, how to, you know, learn a Gemara and understand it.
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  Begam yodi lifta lopesa and also we'll see in a minute.
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  Is that well, we'll see you later on.
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  There's two types of Hataras. Two types of 1 is Karata that he
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  he he regrets ever making this nether.
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  And the second one is a pesa where where they go ahead and
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  they say, well, had you done that, this would have this would
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  have happened, you know, would you have made the nether?
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  We'll get into the prophet later.
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  Would you may have made this nether and that that requires
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  that requires tomorrow. That requires a bit of the
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  thinking and sometimes be, you know, be creative.
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  So that's you know, that's why they need to, you know, need to
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  be someone's Gomer to solve there be Atira and then they can
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  be matured in Baidah a mum Kashi.
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  Hey, Roy lahat here be your kid. There's no mumtha about to be
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  your kid in any time in any time.
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  You know they that the they even arrived needs to be not here.
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  But that way he sits. He has to sit down with with
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  three with with three people who know who know a little bit.
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  You know that that it doesn't have to be there.
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  You know the the biggest 1 Don name.
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  You know it has to be that they that they know how to think.
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  Well, that's the Shah, the Shah. That's what the the Shah says
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  that if even if there isn't nowadays, if it wasn't, it's not
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  3, then it doesn't work. And some as far as he doesn't
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  also, they don't understand, you know, they're completely they're
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  complete unarats. You know they they work, you
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  know they don't. They they know, they know which
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  way you know the you can say either they learn superficially
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  or they or they don't even know which way they open them.
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  Are that doesn't that's not going to help yeah no.
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  So the so The thing is nowaday right it is true.
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  It's better. It's more more older to do a
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  three is you know you have one person there who knows who know
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  who knows who knows something there is a there is an end to
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  it, but they say since they're not that could because they're
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  not a fight to many. We're not a fight the nether
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  it's more it's more keel it's more it's more they're more
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  right. It need to be the traffic
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  success. So they have to know.
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  They know they have to, you know, be able to think a bit a
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  guy you know. I don't know if you the question
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  is if you I don't know if you have a lawyer guy, you know the
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  guy doesn't never learned, but he's a lawyer and you tell him
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  you tell him the basic either the guidelines.
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  Would that be good enough? I'm not sure because it's
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  slavery, but I don't know if it's a gummy.
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  They do think. I mean, I guess if she taught
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  him what what is taught him and he understands that it could be
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  that's good enough. I don't know, but yeah, it
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  doesn't work. They right.
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  If they have they have one and two guys who you know, you have
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  simple people, simple people, They just you know, you know, so
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  then or they're just, you know, they never never learned
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  anything. You know, that's and that would
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  be that would be an issue. No, it's a bit of an but
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  whatever. Anyway, base if base in the
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  other Mahathir, the Kahila Malcolm rabble, a person should
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  not. If he's if he's, let's say he's
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  in the show, let's say he's he's in yeshiva and his his rebbies
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  there, he should. And then you know, a couple.
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  If you bakram come over and you know the guy is like you know,
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  all the you know, all the buffer and you know he knows a lot
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  whatever, but if he's ready, he's there.
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  He should not be a dua Tara unless he's ready, because he's
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  obviously we love him. If he's in the show of he's you
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  know, and and there's and the Rob's there, then he should then
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  there. He shouldn't go ahead and
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  demount there and knock him the Rove, unless the Rove says I
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  don't have time or whatever, and also means in the city.
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  It means if he's in the show, all the guy people come to you
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  and they say, listen, we got him not together now.
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  It doesn't mean though, you know, well, you have to go on
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  the roads available. If it's urgent, then the hard
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  enough to you know, if it has to be if he's right there.
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  If he's right there, it's not cover the tire.
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  I'll go. Oh, Martyrian Shnein and Gil and
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  darn Biaja. You can even do two or three in
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  the darn Biaja Ligar lane Muther, if you master them all.
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  OK, Martyran the shne you can do two or three people Biaja
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  vehicle Omar and they can say Muther Lahem.
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  So it seems to be about Hatara Sidora.
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  If you know, I guess if things are are running late, you could
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  have a you know, you could have a few people stand up and say
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  the say the and say the but together we have, you know, in
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  front of three people if needed. No, we have one and then three.
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  I'm saying it's can you have three people standing in front?
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  You've seen it done. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Because people are Russian people there.
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  So yeah. You know, quesadilla, Tara, what
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  what is the, what is the, the Hatara, you know, the actual
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  mice of Hatara, as you say. As you say.
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  Mutila, Mutila, mutila. Oh Shari la oh, Mahala or Mukhal
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  would also work as a Mukhala Shashiyama because the Muttalah
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  is is a romance is Aramaic. So Sharia law, Sharia is a but
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  if you say in if it's also fun, you know, you know, or he said
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  they say, you know, they take the arts for all and say it's OK
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  we you're permitted you, you know, it's also fun.
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  The film Omad, even even if they're all standing the Krovi
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  Nuva Lila by by Diana by by a bed din by by by by by by a
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  dentur denim Mamas. These three things are are are
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  ruster. So The thing is, the tarasadam
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  is not a din. You do not need a Diane.
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  You do not need any of these things could be done at night.
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  The Dentura shouldn't be done at night with Aquila.
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  Now there's different, but Alco Panem shouldn't certainly be
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  done at night with tequila. And even by craving that Ricky
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  Veger that number 1, he says it shouldn't be.
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  He says tequila shouldn't be a woman.
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  So the Alicia Lowe he says in a woman not with tequila, a woman
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  can't do with Tara Tsarim and he brings the other and he brings
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  the other Mach Miriam that since it's Dinder Isa.
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  So there was by Kaliza where the question you be summoned on a
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  mitzvah boy 'cause up with the rubber.
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  A guy termed bar Mitzvah yesterday.
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  Can you go ahead with we're summit comes up with the rubber.
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  We assume he has stay Cyrus. Yeah, he has Simone by Khalid.
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  So we're not summit on it because it's a dinder ISO.
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  So we're not Sonic on this on this Khazaka.
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  So here your rings. He himself paskins that you
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  therefore by Taurus the Darwin as well, you should not be Sonic
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  on on some on some on this Khazaka.
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  So, you know, therefore it's, you know, therefore you should
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  you shouldn't get a kid who's 13 even as one of the three
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  obviously by a Tarsus or an economy.
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  It's a hitter. You know, not to do it by, you
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  know, not to do it with teenagers, You know, until they
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  you see that they have they have that they're growing their
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  beard, things like that. Yeah, there is the Shukla since
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  Pastor Shukla is not, you know, starting with her could be
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  wouldn't be back with on it part.
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  You know, the Shakhar says nothing says it says not.
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  So therefore again, a tarsadarian and therefore shine
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  is only a mint is is more of a mimic and it's more cow, so it's
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  not as big of a deal. But if you're doing proper a
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  proper her tarsadarian, let's say they're all you know,
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  they're all sitting there. You can't just pull over a
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  pervitable. You should be 3 actual adults to
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  the Matthew, the computer over Shabbos.
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  It could be done on Chavez as well if you'll aim higher.
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  Even if MO, even if he could have asked, he had plenty of
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  time to ask here. Shabbos.
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  He showed love. He thought, well, it's just
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  easier to catch, you know, to catch the Rav on, on Chavez
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  Lavacchi and let's talk of Chavez.
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  But there has to be something which is sort of Chavez
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  otherwise, like a dinner, whatever has to be that
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  something with Chavez. You should not show the level he
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  made and then not to eat all the Vaseline on the Chavez or he
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  said I'm not the you know, I don't want to have any you know,
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  you know, I don't like eating the I don't want to have any any
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  beans. And he realized that that
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  there's beans in the trunk. I don't know whatever.
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  But Carmay Seabor never go the hotter alphabeti in on this or
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  Shabbos. But if ever the Seabor, the no
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  egg to be mopped here, even even on Chavez.
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  So what's Harami from no Haramin?
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  If it made a Heron, they put someone a Heron.
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  The the team puts on a hair and now he comes to them and you
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  know, once again in Aaliyah. So he comes from the Chavez
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  morning. He says listen, I'm sorry,
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  whatever he works everything out so they can amount to him on
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  Chavez right, right. It is into the Taos brings the
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  truth truth Suraj that he can't be He says he can't be Macron
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  Chavez, though it's also to do give a fear on Chavez.
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  But even the truth Suraj is that he made a care on Chavez against
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  the the the Joshua Provancia. She asked to believe it cost me
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  a telephone. You may have that they sat and
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  they learned that it was philosophy or you know, I don't
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  know. They didn't learn.
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  They didn't learn anything. And he wanted the rash brother
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  who fought against fought against us very much so he made
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  a big fair and ensure if it's it's our call that you could do
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  that. Dalid Mahmud, 11, is a motor for
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  them to stand you know is when they're doing of carrata.
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  But Lopez about me, Shayna Miskhari, someone who doesn't
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  have karata MI Caro. Yeah, I thought Karata that he,
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  that he made the nether originally.
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  It's our klinta lo pesos, right, 'cause he has to find, you have
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  to find a pesos or something that that occurred.
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  Now then certainly Siyasha Vidarbha needs thinking, right?
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  Things have to, you have to be thought about.
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  It's our young goggle, you know. And and really, like I said,
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  people, they have to be creative Masha in a Miskar me kar I
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  invasion Hayalo Tawelas Beneda. The reason he's not Miskar, the
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  reason he doesn't regret it because he actually had, you
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  know, Tawela. You know, he had a good tawelas
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  from you know, from the from it, you know, he he let's say he
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  makes another from face white from white flower.
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  It's healthy. It's good.
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  He had he he lost some weight. He feels good, right, But then
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  he realized at some point he realized that, you know, he
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  can't have his mother's you know, he can't have his his his
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  wife, his wife Biggie's. It's just not the same.
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  Whatever. So then he's not miscarried,
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  just he doesn't want to continue with it or Rosin Laviro, you
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  know, or the he has you know, his his friends are pushing to,
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  you know, the you know, to eat to eat with that.
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  They're they're they're putting a lot of pressure.
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  You know, she'll call him out and she asked me, but no Vito.
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  They made us some sort of another and his friends are are
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  putting a lot of pressure on him to to you know, to to to do it.
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  The feed day. Tom.
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  He hates it is there, but she will another Nimlat man, though
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  her writes to another. You know he wants he's he's you
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  know he's pushing him off because of the Nether.
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  It's not that he never wanted to make a nether, but you know, but
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  he doesn't want to. The pressure is too much.
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  He doesn't want to continue. He'll cut Sir Linto Lopezak
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  Sheila haya yodeya Sheila udeka. Had you thought about it in the
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  originally that you would have come to go ahead and you would
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  it would have come to this, this the degree of discomfort or
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  whatever. I and I'm a leader.
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  You would have thought twice about making another Abu Bisha
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  Hayat Zarakul Shmoya Lako Ayevov lava or dietary that even if you
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  even and even if you he was trying to make another so he
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  wouldn't get sucked in by his friends whatever and you know,
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  and even if you would have, you know, been over whatever.
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  So the point is a Pesach is we'll see that if you went into
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  something good to skier also we'll get the the idea of of in
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  in place came Venayla. We'll talk in a second.
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  Even with Shakira, I I realized it's a little bit it's a little
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  bit unclear. I thought we should I had
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  started to smile a call of of a lava or Aldaito that even though
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  it's part of the peso, she you know, you're there.
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  She obviously they come. Had you know that it would have
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  been pressuring you to let's say you made it there.
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  He's not going to the hospital. So I don't know.
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  So the pressure and the pressure him to come to the hostel,
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  pressuring him. Haya Nimnam Elidor Ababi, Shahed
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  Sarkly, Shima, you, you would have not been made a nether even
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  though, even though you would the even though the nether is
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  keeping you safe. Meaning they're, they're
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  pressuring this. I mean, nether, I'm sorry, I
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  can't come to the hospitals and they're pressuring, pressuring,
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  pressuring if you want to make the Nethering or not, not to
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  listen. Right, Right.
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  Yeah, Yeah. So that that's called a PESA.
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  Leave him a shock. However, if he's Yeah, yeah,
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  your person has to be real over here.
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  And if he's and and the PESA has to be a real PESA.
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  So I can't just be. And he's just like you're
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  playing games. And if he's lying, ants are also
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  close. He's been over on the nether,
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  you know, which is very, very calm or very severe.
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  The human should start, he should die.
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  So actually a mutual. And since sometimes these
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  things, you know, they need to think these things through, then
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  they, they, they need to be sitting.
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  The meaning, the, the meaning nowadays is that the, the part
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  we bring the meaning nowadays is that the, the one, the mother,
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  the one who made the nether stands and the, and the three
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  other sit. That's, that's a minute.
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  That's what we do by, you know, even though the Shahral said
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  they should say, but the shock is you shall make whatever it
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  says. The meaning is for the person to
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  stand, not to say. Now there's the yes, the show
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  that good. It doesn't have put it this way,
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  He doesn't have to he he's allowed he he he he he he
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  doesn't have to stand right. He could he could be sitting.
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  It's a good idea for him to be sitting, but the shaft says the
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  meaning is that he stands. I'll put on him the the the the
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  Shyla and the Gemara about the Mahogan's of blazer Mishnah is a
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  Mahogan's rabbana and the rabblazer aim and aim in
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  preschkin banaya. If something that that that
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  whether you do a pass up or something which you know,
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  suddenly happened. William, we'll get into these
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  things a bit more. I know what Nola is, but uncle
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  Pun in the base, the simple case of a Pesach is something which
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  is which is which is Shreya, which is which is common, which
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  is common, which is something he should have thought about or
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  something like that. It's not a we'll get into the
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  protein a bit later on. Just you know, it's not it's not
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  just you know, you can't just be anything in the in the world.
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  We'll see what the different a little bit later.
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  Hey, also I'll ask my hanias Bini Ayer if he asked himself
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  Hana from Bini Ayer or from the shul or whatever.
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  Also Lahashi on this right? Then it's if he made a netter
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  against the shul, right or from the ear.
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  He can't go to the rub of the shul and and and ask him for her
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  Tara, because he's Noguea Vedava that if he went ahead and you
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  know, he's he's no gayer that he was, he's not giving enough.
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  So they are here. He's not donating to the show,
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  right. So, so the rub of the show, you
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  know, he's like, Oh, he know how to feel bad.
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  If he wants, if he wants to be mad to the rub gets a salary or
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  or they're all shots for him. Whatever it is, anyone from the
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  show, they can't, they can't go ahead and be and and and be mad
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  to the nether question is what about?
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  So the the the question is, do you need?
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  Can you? Do you need all three from
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  outside the city? Or to as to as to enough bit of
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  a hocus in the didn't we just say it's forbidden for one
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  person to do it right? No, he has three people.
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  But out of the three, if you if the if the rub of the shore
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  brings two people from out, let's say it's out from out to a
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  different shore. Is that is that good enough?
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  Or do you need the OR do you need all three not to be from
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  the from the shore? Yeah, as I said, nowadays you'll
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  be no, you'll be no gear to a Kihilo.
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  If there's a Kihilo, the Kihilo means people part of the show
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  that maybe now if you made another from everyone and
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  everyone in the in the in the city NB champions and I guess
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  the night the you know, the the rebutting NB champions wouldn't
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  be able to go ahead and to and to be lottery.
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  Also the issue is the right the Nogea saving.
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  But the the the scenes of the the shock seems to bring the
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  Rami panel so that the need that they have to be from outside.
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  All three have to be from outside.
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  Uncle Panam as Duvov Nisba Shaloh yeah Gabi on them on May
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  I hear an initial he says he's not going to be the Gabba, you
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  know yeah, let's say he's not going to join and he's not going
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  to you know, work for the Erie work for the municipality here
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  in this kind of or or be, you know, the board or or work for
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  anything in the show Gabba in the show then the the ear.
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  I'll say the Rav can't matter because again, it's it's no gay.
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  It'd be no gay. He'd be no gay of a Dover in
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  this in this instance.